ignorance is an understatement

deon Benson and friends

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
You look.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
To get work to prey by they get.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
So weary.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
You know where I've been.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
I think going a couple.

Speaker 2 (00:19):
Of very like see bass, I still go for it.

Speaker 1 (00:23):
I'll bet being so nice where I cat for.

Speaker 3 (00:26):
Like you know I'm getting it, simps. I've been looking
at the girls so many guys. All I make is
a choice. And the girl I told you I do
make me sell you twice. I know you see the
sprink on my face and I know you like the get.
I still gonna be so fat in the place is
going to go straight. And the types of you and
free you always cheek you right confects and never let

(00:48):
all the ties and tim relations and give mama bust
answers with go get your press and stuff covering with
you by stobjects you like pat ba ba and caravad
nigga show what had this? Snia had to make them play?
Actually a lot of pressure think pulling niggas out, she said,
But shoot nobout. Uh I got what shone when you

(01:13):
finished schools?

Speaker 2 (01:14):
Right?

Speaker 1 (01:14):
Gain we shooting them on? Just get it what chu please?
We about to get it through draw and show let
go to crawl like sho, what up?

Speaker 2 (01:43):
What a whatever? Y'all. We is back man, it's ignat
is an understatement.

Speaker 3 (01:47):
The podcast Man and this your boys beyond Benson Man
back then were about to have a good show man.
We got some special guests today, my co hosts. They
look like they coming in late, but I'm sure they
gonna beat here. Man.

Speaker 1 (01:59):
I'm in the building with one of my.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
Co hosts of Beautiful Me because it's in the building,
will be today. Whatever how you doing today?

Speaker 1 (02:08):
Okay? That what I'm talking about. How your day being today?

Speaker 2 (02:12):
Long?

Speaker 1 (02:12):
It's been a long day to day, long day? Oh no,
come on, no not it's not a lone day.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
Actually, okay, we got we got a.

Speaker 1 (02:20):
Special guest coming in. We don't know if she just
got off the plane.

Speaker 2 (02:24):
She just got dropped off helicopters got here.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
We got some leaders sitting down with us today. How
you doing? Some leaders?

Speaker 3 (02:32):
We sit down stair? What's up there? Everybody speak right
into the to that like right where?

Speaker 2 (02:38):
Okay? What everybody? Everybody help you here? Some leaders say
what's up back? You know?

Speaker 3 (02:44):
So, like I said, we're just not getting here. I
man asking me how day was today? She say her
day being long? You know what I'm saying that I
had it on a long day.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
To hit the me. It's like it seems like it's
been one o'clock at work, literally, only like that at work, Hey,
why is it like that?

Speaker 3 (03:02):
Because when you at home that day ain't hold at all.
You'll be a whole two hours, like, heyde, it'd be
like shit an hour and.

Speaker 2 (03:11):
Then your whole day old even but at work every
minute is another two days, hey, specially the weekend at home,
he'd be like that, I know, catterday and all right.

Speaker 3 (03:26):
Hey, why you're telling the truth say? And then I
got thert to be trying to stay up later as
I can. On Friday, I'll be trying to stretch my
weekend out. I try not to go to sleep.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
I'm be like, you know, come Friday. But then I
retired from.

Speaker 3 (03:38):
The workday early, so come Friday, I'm like, hey, no
matter what I watch on Friday, he turned into a
mini series, it can be the news. I keep up
falling and and rewinding because I'm gonna keep falling to
sleep on it, messing up missing on my h leasure time.

Speaker 2 (03:53):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (03:53):
I feel like we shouldn't even have to be We
shouldn't even we should be rich by that shouldn't be Yeah, I.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
Should shouldn't have to work. What's got off? The four
work be open all day every day. Yeah, they're trying
to make us open. His mandatory mandatory is not doing
anybody at home. But after then I'll be at home.

Speaker 4 (04:14):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (04:16):
Yeah, yeah, I have a funny story for I'm terrified
of fireworks. Right. I don't know why we missed the
way you bring. I watched the phil was passing around dreason.

Speaker 1 (04:33):
It was a slight rush today.

Speaker 3 (04:34):
So you know, if anybody out there listening and you
got a bottle of way, go ahead and bring it
up here. Ain't got nothing right because they ain't just
drinking nothing but nothing. I got my coup, but they
just got nothing but.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
Nothing right there. But I have my day.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
Friday is Friday. It is Friday.

Speaker 3 (04:55):
Were about to tell the fourth of July to it?
Because I know I got my fourths life? You know, everybody, Yeah,
is one of my favorite.

Speaker 1 (05:04):
Hey SERI almost that.

Speaker 2 (05:06):
Oh y'all come up the guy and the.

Speaker 3 (05:07):
Wheel, Hey serry, then almost make it? Hey that is
that is probably the worst situation you can be in.
Know where the fire we're going on when the wheel
chair exactly, you gotta hold somebody else, get you away.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
From you all your going re birth. Damn right up
the motive went out. Yeah, but let me tell y'all
the story. So I'm kidding, and I'm in the car
and they popping fireworkers right and I'm sitting I'm like, oh,
what's the what? My whole side of my herds on fire,

(05:45):
like all the way on fire. I'm grown all the
way on fire head all this all I know is
people came towards me. So I just pat me. Oh
my god, I was so out of like all my
herd was burned on this side. So I mean, sireworks
to fireworks. I look from inside house and I got
on him, came in with some tea. This is terrible, y'all.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
Up?

Speaker 3 (06:13):
What up?

Speaker 1 (06:14):
Man? As mister book book?

Speaker 2 (06:15):
James just got hurt? Man?

Speaker 3 (06:17):
Hey, Chad getting get Jay might need to be turned
over for James.

Speaker 2 (06:22):
I don't know there was farmers. I guess one of
the fire works.

Speaker 4 (06:26):
You up, yo know?

Speaker 1 (06:28):
And what I'm with it, I'm in the building the
book you'll doing these things?

Speaker 2 (06:33):
And on this Friday?

Speaker 4 (06:35):
What up?

Speaker 2 (06:35):
Jay Man?

Speaker 1 (06:36):
Just run of the little ladies? You know what I'm saying.
Oh man, it's all good.

Speaker 3 (06:39):
Ever see i'm him and I'm not here yet. I
see if I'm hurt, it's I heard that you got
the leaders taking thieves fight and they looked much better.

Speaker 2 (06:54):
We're gonna hold it out.

Speaker 3 (06:56):
Well, we were just, uh you know, we're kicking it off.
Babybody telling me we got.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
Fort of July covered up. He was going into a
story about it under fo Yeah.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
She turned into a firework, she was.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
Telling us aboud. I'm like, I don't.

Speaker 3 (07:14):
Yeah, I've seen one year of this girl was lighting
a sparkle a long time. They was playing around with him.
It got kicked out her hands somehow, and then it
stuck to a thigh.

Speaker 2 (07:25):
She had like a long wa like it was. It
was the same. It was like a thigh. The sparkle
on it got burnt.

Speaker 4 (07:34):
It.

Speaker 3 (07:34):
Yeah, it was like burning for like maybe a couple
of seconds. But you could still see the whole mark
on her side.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
And the fireworks and.

Speaker 2 (07:44):
Hey, the fireworks. I just say, dangers.

Speaker 3 (07:46):
Yeah, I'm be watching, uh you know, I try to
watch the YouTube for the danger man. People to try
to light a firecracker the blue off their whole hands
you imagine golowing.

Speaker 2 (07:55):
Off your hand on the fourth and then you handle
it on.

Speaker 1 (07:57):
The stiff and I didn't.

Speaker 3 (08:01):
It's crazy, Hey, I think that the homemade fireworks, you
know what I'm saying. If they won't sit down and
like let me hold the light.

Speaker 2 (08:14):
Right right right, you should know because any times you
gotta light and didn't run off, you gotta run blocks away.
You know where I'm from, man.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
We grew up having firework wars. Though I'm gonna tell
you what the firework war is. You know, when you
really really hood to the next level of the hood,
you have firework walls where you pretty much shoot the
fireworks at each other. We took it up the left,
and so what we used to do where I'm from,
we used to like Roman Campus. We only did it
pretty much with Roman Campus and bottle rocks and bottle

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rocket ship.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
You know that was that was the safe stuff. Safe enough.

Speaker 2 (08:53):
But we used to like the Roman candle and shoot
them at each other. You know what I'm saying, the
wrong candle shoot about out boys at the same time.
So it's like a boo. It's like it's like just
like this size on it's just like a stick, like
this side and the shoot out like a person.

Speaker 3 (09:14):
Yeah, but she's supposed to shooting in the earth, but
while you're having a wall, you shooting at the person.

Speaker 1 (09:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (09:23):
I told you A five participated and they made us particularly.
I would like to I like the little things that
you so on the ground like yeah yeah, yeah, man, I.

Speaker 3 (09:40):
Love I love the forces of July. Ain't nothing better
than the fort of jail. My daughter, she loves. She
been looking really yeah. She's been like them things since.

Speaker 2 (09:49):
She's been like six years old. Love the six years.
But you know, you know, I people take fireworks serious
this that time of the years, like when you like saying,
see a lot of hood.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
Catch a lot of a lot of big black boys.

Speaker 2 (10:02):
Man, they found the half the.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
Tenth, two, three, four or five thousand dollars fireworks eight thousand.

Speaker 2 (10:10):
They have competition streets. Yeah yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
Yeah, like this big boy yeah yeah.

Speaker 2 (10:27):
Yeah. And I think that's it. It'd be cool, you
know what I'm saying. But that big old you know,
and we're gonna put on display because if you're a kid,
it ain't got no fireworks.

Speaker 1 (10:35):
You need to get to sit on the porch like
I'm not doing it. Yeah, you know what I'm saying,
got your street of bper going up.

Speaker 2 (10:41):
Yeah, and it's really good for the kids, not like
when they do do that.

Speaker 3 (10:45):
Because it's some kids that can't go down to the
firth and go see the firm. Just as far as
they going, you know, mama might not have no care.
But at least in the hood and on, like if
you've got a real hood from the real hood that street,
don't light up some fireworks for audience. Audience might even
throw your pack of fire practice my remory.

Speaker 2 (11:01):
As a kids. You know what I'm saying, I have
my little bag and then I run out.

Speaker 1 (11:05):
Yeah, and I'm just looking at everybody.

Speaker 2 (11:09):
That's like hey when you run out and like.

Speaker 4 (11:17):
Right, nice time.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
So you got no world game.

Speaker 3 (11:25):
Bottle rockets?

Speaker 2 (11:26):
Actually that you got something you want to play with
you just a of a valid point.

Speaker 3 (11:29):
Only black people hop fireworks too much before the Yeah
around always popping fire practice. You know what I'm saying, Hey,
you random going off, that's how you know, so Mu's coming.
I had another question for.

Speaker 2 (11:48):
You after we talked about I just want to know
the anybody to see the President debate.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
I didn't see about it.

Speaker 2 (11:55):
I heard about it. I wasn't like it, but I
didn't watch it all. I'm trying to understand. So we
either got the handicapped or potentially right now, we ain't
got many choices. So the question is, I still didn't

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understand when Trump said the black people jobs. I'm thinking
he meant the immigrants are coming. He always send the
black community and getting their job, but he didn't. He
said it as a racist to me, like he said
it as black people's job, Like what is a black

(12:40):
person job? That's all he said? Everybody job exactly because
job right exactly. I was just so confused.

Speaker 1 (12:50):
I never thought about it, like yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (12:51):
But I get what he's saying, like Selena said in
regards to like yet on the beauty of it, they
coming here. But that's just the way he words of
like he just hurt and he don't have no regard
and no regard say he gonna let me just say it,
you don't hurt it. It's like a popularity contest when
they break down, you know what.

Speaker 3 (13:10):
I'm saying, Because really, don't none of them decisions affect me.
You know what I'm saying, What president that you picked,
it don't affect me.

Speaker 2 (13:18):
Don't have the way happens. Okay, So I was trying
to play though, do I need to brust my people
for the rest of my life?

Speaker 1 (13:24):
Cause to.

Speaker 2 (13:26):
Tell you now say relation like and elation is affecting
us tremendously, and I remember you like, I don't say
by now you're going out a buck a little sweete
say because I need that now? Yah, I ain't. I
can't just you know, because it's just everything is so
much cost so much, like it's ridiculous, But I ain't.

Speaker 3 (13:47):
Those decisions based on like what's the other part, like
the board people and all that, and they.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
Based on them. Yeah, it's not people think when you
get the press and if the president makes a decision. No,
that's why I have BOTO a whole exactly. That's why
at first Obama stuff wasn't passed and they was like, oh,
he ain't doing it, so he is, but the House
was our ruling him because the House was like, no,
we don't agree. So they really think the president has
a lot to do with But I do think I'm

(14:17):
not gonna lie. Some people may choke me for saying this,
but some of the ideas that Trump has he's a
good business because that's why it's a business man.

Speaker 4 (14:27):
For that.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
I like, you know, it's like he has some good
things that I'll be like Cuz I'm not trying to
put down any of the race, but I do feel
like steadily bringing immigrants over here, that's fine, but whose
taxes gotta pay for them? So you gotta vote for
the one that you feel is best for you, you

(14:49):
know what I'm saying, Like, if you run Trump, I
still now, but if you think he can change some
of the things that's affecting you, like in la if
you think he's good for that, then I'll vote with that.

Speaker 3 (14:58):
What do you think?

Speaker 2 (15:00):
Don't go for a man ain't keep falling on the
white like what you say?

Speaker 4 (15:03):
Hey, whatever, I just I mean.

Speaker 2 (15:22):
I don't. I mean, I'm not going to feel like
I can vote for somebody that I know just hate
who I am as a person. That's who I am
because I'm a black woman or I'm black. I don't
think he can't like I don't even think it's a
race thing. I think that man is just I Yeah,
and then that's for all people. You feel what I'm saying, Yeah,

(15:42):
he has that he just don't like women. You know
what I'm saying, I mean, black women, he touching on
you don't kind you know what I'm saying. He just
feel like he's just untouchable, you know what I'm saying.
So that part you have to separate when it comes
to the president, and like you know what I'm saying,
You've got to vote for the person that you feel
like is gonna be best for the issues that you're having.

(16:05):
Like I want to buy a house within a nicture,
I need interest to go down, and he might be
a man for it exact. So I will vote for
the person I feel like will help me in the Europe.
So you're not going to be ask you a question
or being vote school. I'm on Trump a little bit
right now, just.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
In there, just for sure.

Speaker 2 (16:33):
I'm just I'm still doing my research. I'm just now
getting into the debate and everything. I wasn't following it
for a long time, but i just want to see
what I'm gonna get some abortion stuff with Trump. I
feel like women should have control over their own bodies
and control our own decisions. So that part right there
sucked for him. So I'm on the fence. I don't know.

(16:54):
I just keep doing my research. For myself. Yeah, that's just.

Speaker 1 (17:03):
Well.

Speaker 3 (17:04):
My my chick on the whole Trump situation is that
I'm all for the betterment of who's gonna do the
betterment for us. I don't feel like and I feel
like this for a long time that us as black
people went crazy because we received a stimulus chick. We
got that one chick, and we nailed on to that
one chick, and we said it all. It's just like
somebody been beating you all day life and then you

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get an ice cream and all of a sudden, everything's okay.

Speaker 1 (17:28):
No, everything is not okay.

Speaker 2 (17:30):
And so people people, some people.

Speaker 3 (17:32):
Base a full decision. And that's where I got the
problem in when you base your full decision in life
on putting the president in the.

Speaker 2 (17:38):
Office because he gave you a damn stimulus chick.

Speaker 3 (17:41):
If your ants get up and go work, you wouldn't
be sitting up and worried about a damn stimulus check
and you can make a sound decision instead of a
decision that's based upon the fact that somebody gave you
a little money that you had been old anyway, the.

Speaker 2 (17:54):
President, let's say this before when it came Obama was
talking about it Obama got a group together. What's that
cause that he got rid of when he came in
the office. I can't think of the name, but he
got rid of them before they came in office. It's
supposed to be like it was supposed to be, like
our team up people that would have stopped it. They
told him about cold over before. He said it wasn't real.

(18:17):
He came and said, we could have been prepared like
China was. They were prepared, they set up everything. Okay,
we're gonna make everybody stay in the house. We're gonna
make everybody do this. And it wasn't spread the way
it did. It's spread and China, China was like, you
can't come outside. And so he we owe that money
because he knew he messed up. So he trying to
basulated like, oh okay, well here's this money to shed

(18:39):
child up or people ain't paying attention that we would
have never had all these people die if you would
have just paid attention. I call it faith from the beginning.
And we're talking about which president called it faith. Trump, Yeah,
he called it. He said it wasn't unreal.

Speaker 1 (18:56):
A lot of people all day long we was at home.

Speaker 2 (19:01):
That it wasn't real, and he had he said it
still wasn't and he's got he got rid of.

Speaker 1 (19:05):
The COVID team, And you got to think about it.

Speaker 3 (19:10):
You're basing a decision once again on it, not just
only on the stimular check also basing on or you're
perpetuating racism. And that's another problem because we steady preaching
how we're trying to the world needs to get along.
It's fed at this point like the world need to
get along. But we steady pushing, pushing, pushing, He steady
pushing racism. And it's clear you know what I'm saying.

(19:31):
Black Trump supporters getting beat up at his Trump Ratley,
why you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (19:35):
And it's like, I'm all with the business.

Speaker 3 (19:38):
I'm all for somebody making the economy much better, but
I ain't afford to sacrifice being able to anybody because
I feel like with Trump being in office and empower
with certain people that normally wouldn't put the end on.

Speaker 2 (19:52):
The tim to put the rest of the igh g
g A on because he gives you that extra file.

Speaker 3 (19:57):
It's almost like when you when you get drug us off,
You're know what I'm saying, You've got that liquid courage when.

Speaker 1 (20:01):
You could have what I'd like to call that Trump courage,
where it makes.

Speaker 2 (20:04):
You want to say and do anything you want, because hey.

Speaker 3 (20:07):
We're running this and that right there can lead to
another black man being in jail because might react to
what happened to you or what might be said to you.

Speaker 1 (20:16):
Therefore, a boom.

Speaker 3 (20:17):
Now you got another situation, another man in the system,
only one's profit and all the jail owners which just
so happened to be white.

Speaker 2 (20:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (20:24):
True.

Speaker 3 (20:24):
So it's really it's a design built to put us
right back in the box and to keep us where
society want to keep us there, because if you look
at it, everything that's happening is built already to just
keep us down. Trugs are given to keep us down.
Guns are given it to keep us down. You know
what I'm saying, Like, when you think about it, I've

(20:45):
been knowing since we little we didn't have votes, and
that's been a true statement. You could ever imagine you
still getting cocaine over here? How is it getting cocaine? Well,
the government was allowed on it, but they allowed more
in the inner city. So when you allow more than
the city, it destroys the black population.

Speaker 1 (20:58):
Truth.

Speaker 3 (20:59):
And not only does that destroyed the black population, and
also if you look around liquor stores on every corner
you go out, and you go out in one of
those predominantly white areas, you're not going to see that, you.

Speaker 1 (21:11):
Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (21:15):
When they're not like on every corner, they are a
little bit more two miles every five miles the highway. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying. Ours is like on every
other corner. Have you ever asked yourself why not? Why
is it a liquor store on every corner? Have you
ever talking about on every corner? They talked about that.

Speaker 1 (21:42):
Think about it a minute for self destruction.

Speaker 2 (21:46):
We got jobs blaming, you know what I'm saying, them
doing all that, pushing drugs in our community and all that.
But now we're warn no better to wake up, get
back to sit together and building ourselves up in ocumunity,
because you know, even by you can be racist. Well,

(22:09):
Biden did say something that I didn't agree with. And
he was talking about like giving money and he was like, well,
I'm giving money to women for daycare because daycare is expensive.
I understand it. For the poort. I don't like that,
he said when a you giving it? Because yeah, yeah
I ain't I got an all right, But I said

(22:30):
he should get it to women like you. But he's
saying like it's women that get it and don't have
a job. It's women that get well heer don't have
a job. It's women that get shake you and they
don't have a job. I feel like it should be
still relations on it. Why are they getting you Dacre?
If you ain't got no job, where you're going where
I'm looking for a job. You need to to me.

(22:52):
You need to show cleanfook income. You need to show Okay.
If I'm getting Dacre, they can pay all the day care, okay,
but this is the amount of money I'll made, so
I need that you have to have some type type
of job to be able to get receive these services
section eight. You gotta have a job to receive it.
Other than that you just making them do nothing. It's like, okay,
why don't you say on section eight, I'm a get

(23:15):
well for I'm going to get food Sam. But I
want to do all that. And you know why they
they they do that for our women is to keep
the black men. That's how I'm gonna say That's how
Section eight Welford came about, was to take the black
men so they can't be there right now. You don't
need this man in your house because I'm giving you

(23:35):
all these food, food stuff and everything. Yeah, so that's
how they.

Speaker 1 (23:41):
They they des all like section foods, taps and everything.

Speaker 2 (23:47):
They get it to. You know, a lot of you know,
white people get you know, sex foods. That's probably more
than we do. But that's what I heard that. You know,
it would it would because what do I mean that
man for? If the government is providing housing for me,
you know what I'm saying, So it makes a woman
easier to just talk to a man crazy, you know

(24:08):
what I'm saying. There was some white people being pool stuff.

Speaker 4 (24:12):
Too.

Speaker 2 (24:13):
Yeah, sure, but it was designed for us to film
and the units. Yeah, they don't like to see us
together because if we together, we were very powerful together.

Speaker 1 (24:22):
But it's like it's like it's like it's gonna never
gonna stop.

Speaker 2 (24:25):
It's like it's gonna be the same the same over.

Speaker 1 (24:30):
It's money.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
You you have four kids by a man, and because
you get session a will for I don't need you
to talk to him crazy.

Speaker 4 (24:40):
You know what I'm saying so he needs for uni.

Speaker 3 (24:43):
Yeah, because im s girls do be talking to you
like they talk like they got whole Bentley's coming and
a whole match.

Speaker 2 (24:50):
Hold on, it's mister him up, I'm him him. Well,
what's going on is I heard her? I didn't think
that her friend was gonna be on.

Speaker 1 (25:04):
I took you about from the clean shirt. I mean like.

Speaker 2 (25:12):
When welcome to the Three Old Man and two d
I want to WelCom Oh y'all hear to day? What's
going up? Right? The three Old Dad?

Speaker 1 (25:26):
Too bad? That right?

Speaker 2 (25:33):
Dah? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (25:35):
Man, we made We were just kind of ready through it. Man.

Speaker 3 (25:37):
We were just talking about, uh, you know, the politics
and uh eight women to get in section eight, you know,
talking about not talking about crazy ship man?

Speaker 2 (25:46):
What about Brodie James?

Speaker 4 (25:47):
Baby?

Speaker 2 (25:47):
What's up talking about William real real ship? We was
waiting for the first Dad and Pops playing Kevin and
feel about that. I don't even I don't even follow,

(26:10):
but I've seen on Facebook they had another young black
boy on the side his twenty this morning. Overall, he
need to get he need to get drafted. Don't about
who at that time?

Speaker 3 (26:25):
You know why he got that change. We all know that,
but he said, all this is Brittany, Okay, when your
when your daddy, when you practice with your daddy, every.

Speaker 2 (26:38):
He's gonna be good.

Speaker 3 (26:39):
Don't want to be great, He's gonna be from the watch.
I've really never seen no games. I've seen like highlights,
but you know they do the highlights.

Speaker 1 (26:49):
They show all of the.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
Anything about how you play.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
Like I heard, he's like an average flip and you like.

Speaker 2 (27:02):
Tachnically he's probably because he may, but I bet you
make the better thing he made.

Speaker 1 (27:07):
That means he was certified, right, he's just dress.

Speaker 2 (27:11):
That mean he don't say.

Speaker 3 (27:16):
Team all store franchise. Excuse me, Lebrons run that team.
He's the CEO, Laser fucking captains, the sift coach.

Speaker 2 (27:26):
He's a so that means and he got his boy
there too as the coach. They read so man, I
thought he just played.

Speaker 1 (27:38):
Ryn like god he was.

Speaker 2 (27:40):
He hired than what Jordan ever thought he could be.
Because I don't watch the other game. Don't like football? Man?
Why that reading watch basketball football? I don't watch you
know what if I had a man like if I was,

(28:02):
why I out? But just going home? And I know
the game. No championships I watch it. I mean, I
ain't gonna lie I watch it because he watched it,
but the whole talk, so I don't get. I don't know.
I'm just watching the bay.

Speaker 3 (28:25):
So hey, we got we got a topic that we
have to definitely touch on. So I told the world
that this is what we're gonna talk about. So we
definitely want to just get into that because I know
it was.

Speaker 2 (28:35):
Case. Hey, you gotta check. I know you just got back.

Speaker 1 (28:43):
You didn't talk like that.

Speaker 2 (28:48):
You had a passion on this on this different already.

Speaker 3 (28:58):
You know it out then, and I know it's I
don't have kids, so really I'm still see because I
definitely have experiences with with knowing certain things. What is
to having people that's involved with the top of the situations? Man,
I think we definitely, you know, we never really get
on a subject, and I think this want to be
the first subject. Don't want to definitely key on man
that I know it's affecting probably.

Speaker 1 (29:17):
Almost everybody in this table.

Speaker 2 (29:19):
I want to talk about child support. Y'all definitely want
for me. Yeah, you've been through it too. Oh yeah, man,
we want a definitely y'all just getting here for one,
but you too, it all meled out though. Did you
get a chance to claim you?

Speaker 4 (29:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (29:36):
I oh yeah, break Brown, I did. I got the
alternate every other year.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
See I didn't know no matter, Oh yeah I was.

Speaker 4 (29:46):
I didn't know that.

Speaker 2 (29:48):
What do you want to talk about?

Speaker 3 (29:49):
Yeah, we definitely want to get into a child spot
because I want to know a lot about like how
does this because when I see it hinders the black
man is from what I see because when a black
man get on child support, I honestly like his check
might be seven hundred dollars, he's.

Speaker 2 (30:03):
Gonna want to win with three and then how he's
supposed to live with it, And that's what I want
to know. It's the actual polity. But if he is,
I'm not to get Jeff event is a fix and
then I do est. But if he's there actively and
taking you know, he's in the child's life and taking

(30:24):
her the child.

Speaker 3 (30:24):
Financially child support, I agree with and espally both of
y'all working.

Speaker 2 (30:31):
You got your place, he got his place. Why I
gotta pay child? What they say, because he's at the
mother's house majority more of the time. But this is
my you guys who are the primary on the paperwork
that's why. But I'm still saying. I'm saying not in
like your situation, but I'm saying, majority of the time

(30:52):
is like with a woman, It's like, Okay, the woman
have him during the weekend. He may get him every
other weekend, right right, knows me every weekend every week exactly,
I said time. Right, we don't playing town sport. We
know we come from an error. Man wasn't doing that.
It changed changed, right, stopping off the kids and just like, hey,

(31:17):
this is your kid and the phone and living his
life right right, But now it's different, and I feel
like then should not get punched because you don't want
to be with you.

Speaker 3 (31:27):
Yeah, the day one day they wanted to the end,
but all seeing the baby, everything just.

Speaker 2 (31:39):
Exactly. And I didn't know you had to pay child
support from the court. I thought you had to pay
for the kid right where, Okay, you had a kid
and then we I need to pay for the kid's needs. No,
it's not to start paying child before her. They laid
she gives burned. When she gives burn you gotta pay
half the medical bas.

Speaker 1 (31:59):
I brother got to pay damn paid.

Speaker 2 (32:02):
Now he got a other son at school and he
got a paid from that. He got back paid because
he got a pay for when she gave birth.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
They no, no, no, they've been doing it like that.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
The first time I went to court for that my.

Speaker 3 (32:22):
BM, she actually forgave the back payer because he knew
I had been there anyway.

Speaker 2 (32:27):
But I still ended up paying three forty for like
maybe a few years going through court for that ship.
That ship was like damn their sixth.

Speaker 1 (32:36):
Grand the first time.

Speaker 2 (32:38):
So he had to pay three forty months, three forty
a month.

Speaker 3 (32:44):
But one child and then plus we had her, you know,
he had her equal equal. I want to go to
everyone every Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, I had her, but then
we alternated Friday, weekends, holiday, and then I get to.

Speaker 2 (33:03):
Claim her one year.

Speaker 1 (33:04):
She claimed no one year.

Speaker 2 (33:06):
Went back to court the second time, got another.

Speaker 3 (33:09):
Lawyer, went back through, got my ship reduced to like
seventy two dollars a month. So but that ship costs
and then everybody situation ain't the same, you know what
I'm saying, Depending on how much money you make, how

(33:30):
much money she made, all that ship factor in over
people coming and running their mouth not knowing what's going
on to give them in trouble, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (33:48):
Okay, you can't get done. Okay, okay, y'all.

Speaker 1 (33:56):
I tried. That's why I tried to leave.

Speaker 4 (33:57):
She was.

Speaker 2 (34:05):
That ship that I said, you should put yourself off.

Speaker 1 (34:12):
Try to tell me I couldn't do it.

Speaker 2 (34:15):
You can do it that he put his stlf on
top before. That's how he did, and he realized he
was gonna take that much money. But then he put
hisself on chip for But the thing I said, I
had an issue with her and about child boy, just
for me having a brother that's going through it. It's
like if he wanted to live, if he wanted to
live on his own and just gonna get his own place,
because they gonna and they don't hurt. But then you

(34:36):
had a woman at the same time. But you gotta
make this make sense. You want the money and pay it,
then you will call it a dad, be father, but
not getting their kids behind my phones. He gets a kid,
if I ain't got no, they don't sit on the
corner with or if I get a second job of
human body, I don't for who you are, Superman, you
still got to sleep.

Speaker 1 (34:55):
Let me say so I can answer that ship. I
was working job all around. I had maybe three hours
to myself.

Speaker 2 (35:03):
But what about did you get to see your kids?
And I couldn't tell.

Speaker 5 (35:08):
I couldn't tell the mama that I was getting working
another jump because she run your child support. So I
will always be like I'm doing. I was making excuses
because I couldn't tell if her enough jokes. I ain't
want to take the little money on good.

Speaker 2 (35:20):
So you just fit in a day, be five in
a hurry. Her I'm talking about geting certain words. She
would probably the friends. You know, you can't spend as
much time as your door.

Speaker 1 (35:29):
It wasn't wanted to. It wasn't definitely what those did be,
but it could have been more.

Speaker 2 (35:36):
But I'm gonna live. That's when I do get his
child and he takes her to the mama house because
he's at work. Then she tripping off that uh huh,
so he why y'all going over your mama? If I
had my drop off, I had you one thousand dollars, Annie, exactly,
don't worry.

Speaker 4 (35:57):
Don't worry.

Speaker 2 (35:58):
I don't worry about it. Haven't your pictures. But I
thought my person was just money. That was the first
That was the first time that it was on my
mind if I got so I got hits. The space said,

(36:18):
can I ask what you was saying? That's just the
one thing, and then was it double what I said?
I said, a lot of people.

Speaker 1 (36:31):
Damn everything.

Speaker 2 (36:41):
Yeah, she probably I can't lie my brother baby mama,
so pay don't like, but you know I don't. She's
so pay that she went and got some palandof Tylandod
was like tan dout was taking and said I need
have Oh, I said, I you know, the good man

(37:01):
always gets the worse baby get the ship in of
the baby. Baby my my my first baby father. So
I used to have a call and argue for pampas,
like go off to get money for pampas and all
kinds of shit. So yeah, he was on child support.

(37:22):
But years later he somehow got into trouble where he
was in and out, so his child support would you know,
build up, So he ended up getting to like an
accident or something before he was gonna get some money from.
So with me being who I am, I'm such a
good person. I have a good heart, you know what

(37:42):
I'm saying, he was like, ain't gonna take on, you know, money,
I'm gonna make sure you do good. If you go
down there and have that E rate or whatever. So
they so they won't take all my money from my settlement,
and I'm gonna take care of you, right. So I'm like,
I'm going back and forth about it, asking my sister
what you think I should do, and she's just like you,
I think you should. You know, that's just money. You know,

(38:02):
he's been tied of sword. I'm like, I took her
something about fourteen years by myself. I'm en titled the
South like myself. Do you hear me? Okay? So me
being who I am, I went out and I did
do y'all know how much money? Don't don't tell me
don't have one hundred your say five hundred. And Mama

(38:26):
had to get it from him to get back to me,
I said. The women who get the fast hundred by
part too good.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
So how much did you forgive?

Speaker 2 (38:36):
Like thirteen thousands?

Speaker 4 (38:37):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (38:38):
Oh god?

Speaker 3 (38:41):
Well, It's like, man, I can see child supporting certain circumstances,
I said, I think that should be a circumstance based
situation because it's a lot of.

Speaker 1 (38:50):
Good dudes out there trying to be hard saying the lifestyle.

Speaker 2 (38:53):
Like I said, I knew he was on the child.
When I watched he had to work like the damn
twelve damn jobs just to try to keep my head.
I had to hide their jobs. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (39:03):
They couldn't say where he's working.

Speaker 2 (39:04):
And then it's like to me, I see what women
use their child for.

Speaker 1 (39:08):
What is leverage on you? It's like if they want
to control your life, to.

Speaker 3 (39:11):
Control what you do, and if you don't do it
the way I want to do it, then this what's
gonna happen to you? Because and it's a cycle for
once again going back to the black man, Because what
do I do if I can't even live by myself
At this point, I can't even go and do that.
I got to stay with my mom, not gotta sell
drugs because I ain't really.

Speaker 1 (39:27):
Got that much money. Ain't color to her.

Speaker 3 (39:30):
I got me and I got it.

Speaker 2 (39:32):
But I'm just saying, chimes board I did. I don't
have any white friends on child for I don't know.
I just got to know my black friends. I just
don't know. M I ain't saying they ain't knowing I
don't have any of them.

Speaker 3 (39:44):
I don't know how many white how many of your
white friends got y'alls, which one.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
Know over.

Speaker 1 (40:06):
Go on, what did you say? The last never when.

Speaker 2 (40:12):
They don't get they get the boys.

Speaker 3 (40:15):
That's when the woman hit the white callow white boys
childs the boys. Oh yeah, yeah, the corporate offer and
getting him the boys.

Speaker 2 (40:24):
They came out because that won't take time, said woman. Yeah,
the people, because I don't tell you when they when
it's a bottom of white couple, did that the white
dude get left with like just.

Speaker 3 (40:35):
A boot, nineteen calls, furniture, three dogs, alimony, alimony.

Speaker 2 (40:45):
And with just a boat. Just see on the yard,
just sitting in his boat at will. Like the relations
killed the man. He'll know he was opposed her within
the year. It's tain't last being a nineteen years.

Speaker 4 (41:02):
Exact, that's not true.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
Figure it out, you know what I'm saying. These things
don't happen right away. So and you figure it out,
you know, between women.

Speaker 3 (41:22):
Or I mean, let's just okay, let's just say every
relationship is not perfect.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
You know what I'm saying, y'all.

Speaker 3 (41:28):
May y'all may have talked about it, you know what
I'm saying, and both have came to some briefing.

Speaker 2 (41:33):
Okay, well, yeah, we together, we're doing this and that,
but I may not be.

Speaker 1 (41:37):
Ready to do it right now, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (41:40):
But if y'all communicated about that, I don't know. I
don't think it's a reason why y'all can do everything.
You know, I'm saying that it's mutual. No, But if
y'all can do everything else, yeah, y'all, y'all buying house
or whatever the case, y'all everything, maybe kids together, marriage, Okay,

(42:10):
you know what I get it. It is supposed to
be like that, and it probably should be like that
now that I'm older and I think about that.

Speaker 3 (42:30):
If I had the chance to do it again, I
probably would have did that first I did anything else.

Speaker 1 (42:36):
But it should be like that.

Speaker 2 (42:37):
Yeah, because you could get we can give everything else.
And because I gave, you know, I ain't you know,
it ain't no, but it be the paper, you know.

Speaker 1 (42:46):
I right, I wouldn't wait. They got damn sixty.

Speaker 3 (42:55):
But it's a lot of women that wait, that burned
through about four hundred dudes and this and all of that.

Speaker 2 (43:00):
Now you want to get married, now, you want a
good want? Do you think you do? You think that
every woman deserves? No? We had I think we had
this conversation everyone, I guess because like, yeah, if she
is right and she ain't doing nothing with it, I'm

(43:22):
like that you sna get this good hopes of man
everybody die that is going on. I don't agree. Just
take every woman deserves to good gone.

Speaker 3 (43:31):
So you know you feel like every woman don't deserve
a good man, and every good man or every man
don't deserve a good woman. I mean if you ain't,
if you a fuck that person, I personally feel that
same way. If you a fuck that person, I don't
think you deserve you know, you don't deserve the bad
and the best that's gonna do for you out here
because you and I mean a constant fuk I mean

(43:51):
like you out here sheating every day doing this, this, this, this, this,
You on a certain level of fucked up?

Speaker 2 (43:56):
Do you really deserve the good woman out thinks? A
good guy that's doing the right thing.

Speaker 1 (44:00):
See deserve to be one.

Speaker 3 (44:01):
I think to do with the works at BURBA team
living this bur being at work on damn town and
I've missed the day for two years.

Speaker 2 (44:07):
The bird a good woman okay working at Burger, Like
here's a pen, all right, man to work there? At
even how to play for working at because you know
you can't say you're a good person. You know good
ain't no that you also have to play down. It

(44:29):
ain't just because he worked at Gozo. Mean he ain't
got no he need be an. That's that's I need say.
But he's the guy, I mean he's not he said
the birth. No, no, no, he's not.

Speaker 4 (44:46):
But how about you know.

Speaker 2 (44:49):
About all wow wow.

Speaker 1 (44:53):
For you he's a good dad, but it's not.

Speaker 2 (44:56):
Yeah he's a good bad for another girl. That's for
a dry girl. While he's the birth.

Speaker 4 (45:00):
That's the gas was good man, and you'll be a
taker come up.

Speaker 2 (45:06):
But he was successful Loman and she found her hand.
He was struggling actors and she made who was the
boeing Samarica? Okay, yeah, but I don't know if it
was him? Man, what you say her guy was going?

Speaker 4 (45:28):
He was, but he was.

Speaker 2 (45:30):
He was struggling act He wanted to ask struggling at her.
He was, but he was already who she was. But
I said, I said, are we talking about? I have
the game that has something about we gotta have some
kind of from what MEA said, you can't be rid

(45:53):
And she ain't on bride and you won't rise. Listen
to everybody else, he ain't no fri. You want crash
and you're looking at that nigga through these general you
do not have a chance.

Speaker 3 (46:05):
That's just told you right now.

Speaker 2 (46:08):
I know you look at that like you seen real
like that. I feel like I could be a good
man because that man is on frish to turn into
your millionaire. Let me explain it to y'all. I have
thirty eight years old. Maybe back then, yeah, but am
I gonna back then like the tea, I understand your

(46:30):
girl like what you boys, But right now am I
put up the burrute and the bride guy?

Speaker 1 (46:34):
Kid?

Speaker 3 (46:34):
I get telling, but know but you.

Speaker 2 (46:35):
Can give you a free pride.

Speaker 4 (46:37):
Now if he likes.

Speaker 2 (46:38):
Twenty comes call hey, but I got gonna say whether
just what?

Speaker 3 (46:44):
So?

Speaker 2 (46:44):
What's your burbon king on the place that I him?

Speaker 4 (46:46):
Like?

Speaker 2 (46:46):
Man, you might have an engineering degree, but what if
you can only right now.

Speaker 3 (46:50):
At the exact moment get burbonka?

Speaker 4 (46:53):
What you would have to make that you don't.

Speaker 2 (46:56):
Have to tell? You have to take that ten though?
You know you gotta go on face? Do you when
you first seen he's outside?

Speaker 1 (47:06):
You know what.

Speaker 2 (47:08):
You know what's funny about with what you're saying. And
I don't know exactly what you're about to say.

Speaker 3 (47:12):
But I feel like y'all judge is different because y'all
as to be on fright, and we would take y'all
and treat y'all like the Queen's about life.

Speaker 2 (47:21):
A different y'all, y'all could pull up protect us and.

Speaker 4 (47:34):
You guys me.

Speaker 2 (47:38):
Somebody boksa, we are sought. Okay. You men were built
with muscles and all the y'all won't need women now
to be hod of women on the back. And they
said and got made, guys mean, y'all with these women
are doing manly things now.

Speaker 3 (47:56):
That y'all not doing all.

Speaker 2 (47:57):
He's winning too strong, but he's winning too madly now.
But one thing about the woman grand daddy got to go.

Speaker 4 (48:08):
He wanted to do.

Speaker 2 (48:10):
That's whatever you want.

Speaker 1 (48:12):
To you can't do that today, all right, So y'all.

Speaker 2 (48:17):
Gotta understand the dynamic. It's a different when we see
a man. We looking for a man to protect and provide.
I'm not coming there and trying to do all that.
I want to make your house a home. You know
what I'm saying. I'm gonna raise the kids. I want
to be the nurturer. I want to be feminist. I
don't want to be okay thinking about okay. I gotta
get to work and be hustling all the time.

Speaker 3 (48:37):
I want you to do that.

Speaker 2 (48:38):
I'm a help I'm a helpmate.

Speaker 4 (48:46):
I don't get it.

Speaker 2 (48:49):
But what I'm said is if we see a man
that's forty something years old and sipper fries, he ain't
gonna be able to provide like that five. That's different
because y'all building together and saying, Sime, he might be
able to all the McDonald's. You know what I'm saying
in the years he's saying he building, but meeting somebody

(49:11):
at forty at the age Comt.

Speaker 1 (49:16):
Morgan is thirteen.

Speaker 3 (49:17):
Hundred grocery seven, Honey, what would you contribute you? What
do you feel like it's a good contribution to that relationship?

Speaker 4 (49:25):
I go, I got.

Speaker 3 (49:32):
Right, and what I got if you can.

Speaker 1 (49:40):
Afford thirteen hundred, the landing is your Morman.

Speaker 2 (49:43):
Say, Honeymoon, I don't know. I don't own the home,
but I can't like.

Speaker 1 (49:48):
I just gotta go a little round about.

Speaker 2 (49:50):
But he told me my life, he take think I'll
turn that you I'm right now, I'm doing it all.

Speaker 1 (50:06):
I'm thirty.

Speaker 2 (50:06):
You want I'm blind, bro. Just before I don't guy
my shows, I got the turn off. I don't mind
being a health base because but I don't expect me
to be out here hustling you. It's not and that's
understanding that that looks a problem with you. What what what.

Speaker 1 (50:30):
Said?

Speaker 2 (50:30):
She ain't ship your bro? You don't come home? What
you read your friends and what you're going if you
ain't bringing.

Speaker 3 (50:49):
I like working because you ain't. Women for what happened
is women's going taken on the mask and the roads.

Speaker 2 (51:00):
Y'all go back to, But we would if we had
men that was leading. They're not leaving. They're not leaders.
A definition of a leader can be in different but
sometimes it can be the man paying all the bills,

(51:20):
and sometimes it can be the man where he's like, okay,
that's not true that that could be a man paying
all the bills or the man saying, okay, babe, I'm
leaving this and I pay the reading. You pay the
other bills, like the cab or whatever they But I
just don't feel like you can call yourself. Let me
not say this because I feel like I'm not gonna say, Okay,

(51:45):
I don't feel like you're gonna call yourself head the house.
So I'm not gonna lie. Years and years ago, a
long time ago, I had one relationship. I only lived
with two guys. One relationship. We lived together, and I
swear the bill came. We told these up. We said, okay,
the rent, and it's the cable this amates. Don't tell
me if we didn't divide that bitch and half and
you pay your half and I pay my hand.

Speaker 4 (52:07):
This is a room.

Speaker 2 (52:09):
We are not a couple in this. This is a
room that we divided that bitch in half. Let me
not have my hand. So if he would have paid
the rent all the rent, you would have been cool
with you. Yeah you don't. You would have just paid
always saying that I would have been cool with it.

Speaker 4 (52:28):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (52:29):
I'm not saying to pay all the bills, but I'm
just saying, in regard to this situation, you can't call
yourself a man when you and the woman living and
y'all put it right down in the have a man,
but you can't call yourself in this house. Yeah, I'm
gonna take that away from a man. He's still a
man because you still working. It about being headhome.

Speaker 3 (53:00):
I want to come in.

Speaker 2 (53:02):
I'm gonna can't take her, take her.

Speaker 4 (53:07):
Not really.

Speaker 2 (53:08):
I don't like. I don't like, but anyway, I don't know.
I can't get you.

Speaker 4 (53:16):
What are you?

Speaker 2 (53:17):
What do you quack on? You look at you mean nursing?
You need to be a by What would you mean
from a woman?

Speaker 1 (53:23):
I don't don't need no nursuring. I don't need maybe
a TV partner together.

Speaker 2 (53:33):
That's about to much about it. You never I never
got it because of the household. And I'm gonna live.

Speaker 1 (53:47):
I'm gonna be the team. So whatever I said, you
got to. So I'm calling myself and kay, I'm gonna
do whatever I want.

Speaker 2 (53:56):
To do when I want to do. You find yourself
the king when a doing the game, bro, he said,
if he was doing that road right? So you So
that's what I'm saying. So what do you mean gonaha by.

Speaker 4 (54:10):
Your meaning to you take her?

Speaker 2 (54:14):
What her you mean you're gonna do? Explaining? You know
that you say you're taking a mad grant day so much.

(54:40):
But that's how it was back in the day, though,
dealing with men and got money and me because you
know what not to bring her up.

Speaker 3 (54:52):
You know what I'm saying, sixty right now is turning
in this situation. You know, sixty Red, you know what
she was.

Speaker 2 (54:57):
Messing with you keep uh huh, and now she end
up messing with uh.

Speaker 3 (55:01):
Kayleb, well he's he's messing with Caleb too, will Caleb?
Like I think she said something like we can all
be a family, and you say, sure, yeah, that's all
three people with money right now, people with money sharing
each other. Oh yeah, this morning.

Speaker 1 (55:20):
You know she's playing on us.

Speaker 2 (55:22):
Yeah, why ain't taking you see she took his mandele,
you know, and this his change.

Speaker 4 (55:28):
But they do you know.

Speaker 2 (55:31):
The picture of it saying oh yeah we can share
them and all of this. It's a height he ain't say,
but that just got an album that just.

Speaker 3 (55:41):
Because right, that's what I'm about. You got little fans
looking at seraing that situation. What I'm saying is to
go back to what we were just talking about, women
or women even try to share a good man at
this point.

Speaker 2 (55:53):
Good man a man with some money that's not a
good man. You know though, it don't matter just because
you got money and he got this.

Speaker 1 (56:03):
Woman and this woman. He provided for you, He provided
for her.

Speaker 2 (56:11):
If you if you you you staying her, you stupid.
But in addition, I think you a good man. A
good man is the one that's gonna beat her for
his woman in every aspect of life. It's not just
always just about money. That is not making him no
good man.

Speaker 3 (56:29):
But some women, all them. Man with money can't be
with you all the time. He ain't gonna be with
her all the time. He's gonna be out getting money.

Speaker 2 (56:39):
But no, after he gets down making money, he comes
home to this woman, and that if you want more
woman than it will, I mean, how should be? That's
the problem. I feel like if he if he's lying
about it, then he's not a good man. But if
he's telling both of y'all that this is what it is.

(57:00):
So yeah, So are y'all okay with this too? Definitely
not got one of the part we got no pop,
we got possible in the one.

Speaker 1 (57:16):
Taker you got.

Speaker 2 (57:19):
So you said a guy wanted you to be in
a relationship like that. He was lying to me about
a situation, so he lied, So yeah it no, he
had somebody on the side. We were in a relationship,
but he had another woman you know, but she knew
about me. I didn't. I knew about her because I
would go through the phone and text message and things

(57:39):
like that. But then we would break up. He would
come back, he would tell me it was over, but
then again I see it again. So yeah, then I
just walked away. I'm like, can't, I can't do it.

Speaker 3 (57:53):
Where the man did say he got no money to
take care of you and the other female, and he
told you about it.

Speaker 1 (57:59):
No, you ain't okay with it?

Speaker 2 (58:01):
No, okay, I'm like to have my own day so
I can deal with a man that goes to work.
Oh so if he came to you from the beginning like, hey,
this is what it is. You know what I'm saying.
I want you in my life, and I got.

Speaker 3 (58:14):
This situation over here, but I take I take that thirteen. Now,
it's gonna have to be more than just that. You're
gonna have to pay.

Speaker 2 (58:23):
Every guy like that. You have to pay every kind
and for her to keep rolling with it and for
her to keep opening up her last you're gonna have
to pay more than thirteen. You got thirteen cordinal insurance
and you're gonna have to buy me a bag here
and there exactly, so we won't. Yeah, you gotta have

(58:46):
that bag, but that kind of just yeah, you dealing
with a man that has money, y'all.

Speaker 3 (58:52):
The way I see like this, the dude got it
like we got You can play as much as you Yeah, yeah, yeah,
but don't do it.

Speaker 1 (59:00):
But as soon as you ain't got no money, you
messed up. Let them go.

Speaker 3 (59:04):
Whatever plans on the guard at two o'clock, two o'clock
in the morning, you lose that relationship with you got money,
you can get at least fifty texts.

Speaker 2 (59:13):
Back then. I don't know I was leaving you alone,
but I would take you back. I'll say that. I
definitely would say. If you get your shi get out,
you move out. We can break up through all that,
but then you would come back and you know, and
it's just like like I want my family wants you back,
but not need just knowing if you still with somebody, Hey, y'all.

Speaker 3 (59:34):
Hate y'all, we gotta wrap it up. It's went way
too fast. Man, understanding the podcast.

Speaker 2 (59:40):
Man to make sure y'all get us back there at
the secondary more Friday. We'll see y'all in the minute.
They stay up.

Speaker 1 (59:47):
Man, we appreciate y'all showing it up to say.

Speaker 2 (59:49):
Man, we'll see y'all in the minute. All right, now
out