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Speaker 1 (00:24):
Dedi White my guest for the evening. You know exactly
where you can find her at de d White. Links
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Please make sure you support the creators that come on
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have money further than that, definitely consider buying content. Dede,
(00:45):
thank you so much for coming on with menight. It's
a pleasure to meet you.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
You're welcome.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Let me start with the boring question, the common one
that always comes through. How did you initially decide to
get into the adult entertainment industry? Was it a was
it a coming off a cliff and you were just
fully into it? Did you tiptoe in? What was your
whole entrance into this field?
Speaker 2 (01:07):
I actually was a swinger, okay, seemed to be from
the swinger level first, where you're experiencing sex with a
lot of different people, sharing with your husband, and then
he was videoing me, and then we decided that he
(01:28):
loves watching and posting me, and I've gotten popular with
all the born industries and the swingers of course, and
the fans out there. It took maybe about a year
of doing swinging, which we didn't really We started a
(01:48):
little bit when we were didn't have our children around
for a while. There was a break where we had
no children, came back with previous marriages things like this. Sure,
so we got to have fun. Then we stopped because
we had responsibilities. And then we went from the family
(02:14):
time to us alone and had a lot of fun
and started in the swing. But it was something where
we were doing that for about a year and then
when the videos were going up on a swinger that
you put short clips on the swinger sites and on
Twitter at that time. Now X and I was found
(02:37):
and started to get into the pint industry that way.
That's how it happened. I've met a lot of nice people.
It's a lot of fun and we're just going along
and doing a lot of pings.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
So a lot of the performers I've talked to recently
got into it through swinging through the lifestyle. I always
find it so fascinating. I've been with my wife since
I was nineteen. I'm thirty eight now, I've not only
have I not been in the swinging lifestyle whatsoever, I
haven't even what was the term spread My seed or
done whatever, and I'm okay with it.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
I love my wife, I love our sex life, this
and that. So I come to this completely from a
place of ignorance, not rudeness or malice or anything. Can
I ask when you can, I ask this, And if
any of this is too personal, please let me know
and I'll just you know, we'll cut it out. How
long were you together with your husband before you decided
to get into the lifestyle.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Wow, Well, honestly, when I met him with my second marriage,
I was thirty and I did not know anything even
the word what swinging meant. He was already into that,
and that's how he was dating I apparently was with
other couples. Then we ran into each other at a club,
(03:58):
of course, and we dated, and then he started to
introduce me to his friends, and I discovered the swinging
lifestyle at thirty. Sure, at that time we didn't have
our children. I had two girls, He had two girls,
and our spouses had them at different times, and so
(04:19):
that was a lot of fun at first. It was interesting, though,
when he introduced me to that style, I was like,
maybe he's not happy with me. Maybe I shouldn't be
going on with this relationship, and it was like, well,
I'll go a little bit further and see where it goes.
(04:39):
But it was like off and on. Then we discovered
that there were certain things I liked and he didn't
like when we were meeting people, so we let it
go for a while. We had our children, I'd say
maybe twenty years went by, and when they finally grew
up and they were out of the house, we decided
(05:03):
to go back to the swinging lifestyle. And we did
that because it was exciting. And after a while, when
you're married, you do the same things repeatedly, Okay, the
excitement starts to sway. Even though you love each other,
those things you want to start making exciting again, and
(05:27):
that's when we decided to go back. And at that
time I decided that he liked he liked watching me
with black men, So that was our king where he
liked videoing. It wasn't necessarily him getting involved. He loved
watching me, okay. So that's how we got it back
(05:49):
into the swinging lifestyle and got to do what we
were doing now.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
So it's such an interesting journey you have there because
what I find my first questions, the first question I
have is how much did the lifestyle or how it's
approached or how you look into it change in the
twenty years or so that you were out of it.
I mean, I assume it would be like a one
eighty you'd be going from a horse to a car,
(06:15):
you know.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Yes, yes, Well from finding people and little clubs and
secret areas through the newspaper those type of ways where
now it's a website. It's all these people and they
say where, what area they're at, what they're into. You
(06:38):
don't have to sit there in a bar and talk
to them and find out, well do I like? You
can see what they look like. You can see how
they their sexual desires are, and how they are on
the website before you even meet them. Right, So it's
and you can interact back and forth right website. So
(07:01):
being in a place meeting outside and not comfortable and
saying nope, you're not for me and goodbye, you can
do this on the way. It's a lot easier with
the internet, definitely. And then of course you can see
where the house parties are the certain there's a lot
more clubs out there. If you want to travel to
(07:21):
a different town, they're already advertising where they're at there
and you can even talk to those people before you
even get there.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah, so it's a little more you're able to customize
your experience almost a little bit more here, it's not
And it seems like, I know, everyone gets so scared
of the internet. It seems like there's less risk with
this than just calling the number in the back of
a dirty magazine or a newspaper or whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Right exactly, Yes, sure, yes, sure so, because you don't
know if you're even saying there's there's females out there
that only like to be with couples because they feel
more comfortable with that. Sure, and being a single woman
and trying to experience this on your own, you don't
know what you're walking.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Into, right, Can I ask did you have Okay, so
you came into the quote the swinger lifestyle. I assume
your marriage before that was much more vanilla, I mean
very vanilla or Missouri Okay, all right, So when you
came into this, was there any kind of rules or
boundaries that you established early on with your husband maybe
(08:27):
now your new husband in the lifestyle, and then did
those eventually erode over time where it was a little
bit like I you could go ahead and do yeah,
go ahead and try that?
Speaker 3 (08:37):
Or were there just no rules from the beginning?
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Would we would talk it over beforehand or in the
middle right at the moment. They were always good about
when we went into a club or even meeting people
on the website, that we would discuss it before we
would go any further. The dos and don'ts. Sometimes you
(09:04):
don't know what the don'ts are or theds until you
start to get into it. Sure, so like dot being dominated,
it's kind of interested me, but I didn't know how much.
So he was there and we met somebody and he
was showing us what certain things you do, and so
(09:26):
it was a safe environment and we said yes to this,
no to this, and that's the way. You know how
we did it.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Do you guys currently and if you don't want to
disclose him, that's understandable as well. Do you currently have
rules in place? And are those only applied towards lifestyle
things or is it applied across the board for work
as well, production shooting anything.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
I haven't run across it because a lot of people
we know what we're looking for when we want to
do video shoots. Before we have them come in to
do the shoots, we're already talking to them about the
dues and them don'ts gotcha. So's there's no surprises.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Gotcha, gotcha?
Speaker 1 (10:15):
And that's the best way to have it, right, no surprises,
everyone having fun, good time.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Let's be up front, let's be honest about it, right.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Yes, there was one thing I was surprised that I
would do. And when we would go to clubs, they
always have the girls up there dancing, and that was
something that I always loved dancing. That's how we met
each other in a club dancing. So when I got
up and started to strip on it with a stripper pole,
I was shy, didn't really know what I was, you know,
(10:45):
if I wanted to do it, But once I got
up there, that was something that I experienced. So later
on in years before I got into porn, when we
got back into swinging, I actually told him how would
you feel about actually working as a stripper in the
evening for a while because I always wanted to experience that.
(11:06):
He loved it. Yeah, those are things. We just worked
with each other and we're wild people as it is,
so we are open, very very much open to that one.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Gotcha. Gotcha. A couple more questions about the lifestyle. Here
is your husband. Are you okay with him engaging with
other women throughout the time or is he primarily a
watcher In this scenario.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
He watches. He's told me that. I've told him many
of times, if you see somebody that you really want
to be with, you know, I go for it. I'm
open to it also, but yeah, I know you're always
watching me. And he said no. He says, you're hard
to replace.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
Oh, he's so sweet.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
So I was like, oh, okay, it's so funny because
you understand I'm not in the industry as you are.
I'm like periphery kind of. But I've spoken to enough
people and interviewed enough people that from the outside perspective,
the vanilla perspective, you might look at it. And again,
I do not feel this way. But some one ignorant
(12:16):
to the industry looks at it and be like, well,
this guy, he's just kind of forcing his wife to
go to swingers clubs and do this and that. And
what they don't understand is those relationships don't last if
you're making the woman do something she doesn't want to do.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
Hopefully she gets out of it quick, right.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
So there's this perception or whatever that especially if it's
like a one way thing like oh, he doesn't hook
up of people he or maybe the other perception is
you you're not happy with him, so you have to go
out and you're forcing him into this. This is entirely mutual.
You both love what you're doing. You only got here
because you loved it.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Is that correct?
Speaker 2 (12:53):
It is? I have to tell you one thing. You
just reminded me out though. Sure, there was a time
between the children growing up that it didn't work out
for a while and I had gangway and he wanted
to go back to that lifestyle when I wasn't ready.
(13:13):
I had to get back and feel good about myself
before I did it again. Even though I wasn't against it,
I wasn't ready for someone to see me overway. Sure,
And so that's another thing too a woman. My guys,
I don't know if you're the same, but when a
woman doesn't feel good about herself, that stops her from
(13:35):
doing it too.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
Gotcha, gotcha?
Speaker 1 (13:38):
So I don't know how to broach Oh, there is
one last question about the lifestyle, and I don't think
it applies to you, unfortunately if your husband is not. Also,
my question is I always find this concept funny. Have
either of you ever had to, quote unquote take one
for the team. So I picture a couple and I
picture looking at another couple and my wife is really
(13:59):
in the guy and I'm looking at the girl, going
this is gonna be a bummer for me. Have you
or him either had to be like, I don't love this,
but I'll do this one for you here.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Yeah, there was a time one I experienced that we
were before we figured out that he really wanted to
just watch me. There was an attractive blonde. My husband
loves blondes, so I said, go for it, even though
(14:34):
the guy the husband was by foot. But we didn't
realize is after we're stripped off and he's on it,
he's doing her. He doesn't have anything. It's like, uh okay.
So we proceeded to try and he tried to please
(14:56):
me another way. I was like the good Yeah, those
situations happened. Yeah, sure, sure, because at that time they
weren't showing people on the website. Clips weren't there. You
were just that the complete communication on the internet wasn't there.
(15:19):
It was just talking to people back and forth, got texting?
Speaker 3 (15:24):
Gotcha?
Speaker 2 (15:25):
All right. Second, I don't understand.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
All right, let me dive into the content. I don't
know how to approach this appropriately. You got into this
industry a little bit older in life, right. I am
thirty eight, and my bones feel like they're breaking every
day when I get out of bed. I feel horrendous
all the time. I'm not healthy. How do you do this?
Speaker 2 (15:50):
I work out all the time, gotcha, you can't slow down.
After we got back into the industry. Thing that I
always took care of myself. I didn't get way overweight.
So now it's you get to the gym because you're joints.
You have to be limber, You've got to take vitamins.
(16:15):
There's just a lot of things you have to do, definitely,
and it's worth it, though, because I'm seventy one and
a lot of people I'm my younger sister, there's a
really bad shape next to me. It's like a lot
of people are ages. They're overweight now. They don't take
(16:37):
care of themselves anymore. And I do the gym, I
go cycling, I else. I love to be outside.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
That's right. It shows up later. In life.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Then I guess like, if I'm lucky enough to make
it to your age, I probably won't be unless I
get start working at it now, and the audience should
know that too.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
Indeed, here's seventy one you sent or seventy.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
I'll be seventy one next in two more weeks.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
Well, congratulations on your birthday. That is a that is
crazy because you look phenomenal. I just say that from
the outside, and your energy and your performances is that
of a thirty year old woman. So congratulations on staying
healthy and staying good. Knock on wood on that one.
If I were to go to any of your personal
channels and sign up, by the way, for people listening
(17:25):
at d D White, make sure you follow the links
in the episode description where you produce your own content,
your own What am I seeing on that? What kind
of content do you and your And is your husband
a part of the filmmaking process, Like is he filming editing?
Speaker 3 (17:41):
He's off, he's that, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
All of it. We recently had to rebrand and thank
god we had the raw footage because we had to
take it all down. Wow, okay, like six different sites
and you're still in the process of doing it all.
Heyry eds and posts, and sometimes I'll let them post
(18:07):
some my area, but I have certain areas where I
like to keep in touch with my fans.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
Gotcha.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
But I'll be honest with you. I heard you say
D D. White. There's a musician called D D. White. Okay,
so I'm d D. White x x x X.
Speaker 1 (18:22):
I apologize d D. White xx. That's on Twitter. But
if we want to find content of you, I think
it's at D D. White right the other places?
Speaker 3 (18:30):
Yes? Correct? Correct? Okay, Yeah, it looks to everything in
the episode.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Please make sure you hit those because we always want
to make sure we're supporting these people.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
So can I Okay.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
The rebrand is interesting to me because I go old
school with my knowledge of porn, Like I know porn
stars from the nineties and this and that. Seka you
were for a while Sacah Black, Right, Seka was a
legendary big name. She was actually even a little bit
outside of my range. But I I'm aware of Sekah.
Why the rebrand out of that name only because I
(19:05):
only ask because there's a lot of porn stars with
the name Brittany. There's a lot of porn stars with
the name whatever. You know, So why the rebrand? Was
this not a legal issue as if you were bring sued,
but maybe an administrative issue or.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
I think it was more of a trademark, even though
I always said Zeka Black, But then since I look
similar to her and back in those days, I guess
fans were getting confused. So I just decided that it
was better if I just rebranded to g D. White.
Speaker 3 (19:40):
Okay, all right, g D Whitely.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
It's fun. It's funny. A lot of my fans though,
they say, we know who you are. It's like they
followed me. It's it's great, that's great. So what kind
of content do you two like to make for yourself?
Obviously if you're shooting for big studios or anything, you
were kind of holding the what they want to do?
What is something that you guys really like to put together?
(20:04):
You get excited for It's Monday and you I can't
believe we're shooting that on Friday. Yeah. I love shooting
with black men. They they just have this different way
about them that I love to shoot with black men.
And my husband loves to do the videoing and editing it.
(20:26):
Since my age, I'm actually doing a lot of steps
son or not Grandma as much. They I haven't gotten
into that. It's more of a milk area, gotcha, or
the naughty neighbor things like that, gotcha. But it's it's nice.
I'm excited right now about going to do a shoot
(20:50):
with I'm going I love being in costume. Oh I'm
going to be a police officer and I'm going to
arrest arrest him because he's shoplifting.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
Sure, we take.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
Of little scenes like that to start, and then we
of course get into the fun where I love the
gang Thans, the DP and then the three esomes, but
it's always everyone. All my fans tell me they love
the wash the beginning, seeing whether I'm seducing them or
they're seducing me. Yeah, it's good.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
Is there is okay working with black guys? Is that
an aura thing? Is it a size thing? I'll tell
you why. I've always loved in a racial porn, which
people are trying to get away from that turn. So
I don't know, whatever you believe is fine. I don't
believe in any kind of racism or anything like that.
So if you don't like the term, that's your thing,
(21:45):
not you the audience. But whatever I like it because
there's a beautiful contrast of color, you know, and I
can go the other way to a white guy and
black girl.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
I love just it looks like just.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
A beautiful kind of like Plato mashed together of all
these people. What do you like about it? Is it
a size thing? Is it a vibe thing? Is it
a like I said, artistic? Okay, all right, so.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
I have a funny feeling. I'll give you a little
story here. I'm the oldest set of five kids. I
had to take care of three braddy brothers. So oh
I all I can imagine is that maybe because I
(22:30):
had to deal with my brothers that I don't want
anything to do with white and my father back in
our days, my day, we weren't allowed to mix and
it was something that you just didn't do. And it's
like I always hated that as a young kid, that
(22:53):
that was not right. And I don't know if that's
in me. I really don't know.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
When I meet performers who really love again, sorry for
the term in a racial porner shooting anything like that,
I always like to ask, are you running away from
racism in your family? Not in a negative way like
you experienced it? Young and you hated it and you go,
fuck it, I'm gonna not engage with this. Or maybe
(23:19):
you had like a very open hippie family and you
never even saw it as a different thing. You just
kind of engage. But it's normally one of those two
where it's kind of like, okay, you know, get it.
I totally get it.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
And of course me being older and that that's all
you heard back back in that time. Sure, yeah, yeah,
that you couldn't but.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
That the great con The thing with you is, again
we've already discussed your age is clearly just a number
in this scenario, like you were in a much better shape.
But if I were to say I'm gonna put an
older lady here with this young, black, vibrant like dynamo,
that creates this fun contrary where I'm like, oh my,
(24:01):
is she going to make it out of here?
Speaker 3 (24:02):
Okay? What is you know?
Speaker 1 (24:04):
And at the end, you're loving it, you're smiling, you're
covered in calmb whatever this situation is, and everything's good
and we're happy.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
Right.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
Oh yeah. I've had a couple of eighteen year olds
that once they come they want to keep going. It's like,
oh wow, this is great.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
I love it is okay, So then the age thing too,
Let me ask about that. Are you are you as
long as everyone's legal eighteen plus? Are you free working
with anyone? Do you have preferences in the age range
you like to work with?
Speaker 3 (24:36):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (24:36):
No, that's just so they're into me. I'm into that.
It doesn't matter. Most of the time, I don't even
know how old they are. When they're at eighteen, they're
on set, they're usually making a big deal about that age,
so that's how I find out. But normally, no, it's
(24:57):
just whether we're are personalities click sure, which most of
the time they do. So that's what happens, and we
go for it because it's fun.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
Great.
Speaker 1 (25:10):
I won't ask you to identify by name at all,
but I want to get a contrast here, if possible.
Have you been on a good mainstream production and a
bad mainstream production and what separates the two. What can
producers who are listening to this right now do to
make a set a little more friendly, something that fits
(25:32):
what you like. Maybe you've never had a bad experience,
and if so, great, knock on wood, you won't have
any going forward. But if you have had a like
subpar or this was only Okay, what do you want
from a director or a producer to bring to the
set for you?
Speaker 2 (25:46):
It's not really the director or the producers. It's more
they're trying to make it all happen, and talent will
cancel at the last minute, and they have to find
somebody over there on that set, and then everybody's got
to sit around after getting up early in the morning
and getting ready themselves, and we're sitting around. That's happened
(26:11):
a few times, but it's understandable. But as far as
the director, the video guys, and the people that are
getting the costumes and together, it's not really on them.
So it's and then of course they pull the talent
in later on and they've already been at one another shoot.
(26:32):
Then it really gets difficult. Okay, the poor guys, they
shouldn't have volunteered.
Speaker 3 (26:42):
That's true. Yeah, don't sign up for the job if
you can't do it.
Speaker 2 (26:45):
Yeah. So those those types of situations have happened. But
you know, when you got everybody sitting there and you
need to have someone to get the shoot done, you know.
Speaker 1 (26:58):
So professionalism, it sounds like is what might Again, it
sounds like you haven't been on a bad set, but
like a bad bad set, you know, I guess that's
what it would separate it. This is a business. Let's
approach it like a business. It's a real fun business.
This guy over here gets the fuck D D. White today.
It's a great business. Let's just all be on time
and work the way we're supposed to. So, how okay,
(27:23):
all right, I'm gonna do a thing on here. I
like to call stat check. Now, stat check is entirely wrong.
It is based on the Internet Adult film database day track.
Some of your scenes, some of your scenes don't show
up here. This happens that whatever. It's wrong. So these
numbers are gonna be wrong. But I like to use
it as a milestone. So when I interview you a
(27:44):
year from now and you have all these AVN awards
around you, I'm gonna go see where you were before.
The number of scenes I have for you is ninety seven.
The number of guys you have worked with forty nine,
number of girls you have worked with ten one AVN nomination,
zero wins so far?
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Is that correct? From what you know? At least at
the end with the nominations and such.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Well, two nominations, I.
Speaker 3 (28:09):
Will correct that things the.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
Season Performer, niche Performer of the Year, and fan's favorite
milk gotcha?
Speaker 3 (28:18):
Gotcha? Gotcha?
Speaker 1 (28:19):
Any of those wins yet or no, we're still working
on that. I know I got nominated for a podcast one.
There's podcasts that listen that have three million listeners. So look,
I'm middle of the road. I'm going to have to
work my way up to that. But just being nominated
is a good feeling, right.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
WHOA Definitely, Yeah, it was exciting to walk the red carpet.
It's it's a great experience and being in the and
the audience, just watching the awards, it was it was fun.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
Can I ask you? Can I ask you a dumb question?
Did you walk the red carpet with your husband or
a performer.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
With my husband?
Speaker 3 (28:56):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (28:56):
And then when we got up to the photos, stepped
off to the side and then I went up by myself.
Speaker 3 (29:02):
Gotcha. Oh see that's nice.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
And how important is it having a partner who is
one hundred percent all in with you on this?
Speaker 3 (29:10):
It's a requirement, it has to be right.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
Oh, it's definitely. Definitely. If you don't, it's a lot tougher.
I know right now, I've got to. I hired a
new PR guy and it helps a lot. But my husband,
my gosh, he's I guess you could say, my producer.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
Sure, sure.
Speaker 2 (29:33):
Also, yeah, he got to because he's doing the video
and editing and the posting.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
I always ask this question, and you're very lucky to
have a husband that's willing to do this type of stuff.
I always ask it, and it's a snarky question, but
it's when you got into porn, did you realize it
would be ninety five percent administrative work and video editing
and or did you just think you were going to
be having fun fucking young looking guys.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
Well, I didn't think it would be this much work, right,
as far as I want to pull myself away from
the computer and have a lot more fun. So we're
in the process of getting there though. That's why the
PR guy and we're real we're gradually getting to where
we can get some more help here. I have my
daughters are very talented. I have one girl that does
(30:25):
my advertising in my artwork, So we're going to get
more help.
Speaker 3 (30:31):
So again, we kind of touched on this off air.
Speaker 1 (30:34):
You're willing to say whatever you're willing to say, and
I'm totally fine, just accepting that. You said your daughter
also may have tiptoted or worked in the industry as well.
Speaker 2 (30:42):
I I well, between my husband and I we have
five girls, okay, all right, So and they're very talented
because we've had a past business that they've taken over
and this is our retirement, so they I've got one
that does artwork that is very very good. She does
my banners, she does my logos everything, and she's a big,
(31:07):
big help. Now, I'm my younger daughter that's was later
that she was adopted. She's twenty four, and she's into all.
She's got her own kink on only fans and a
couple other places. I don't know what they are because
we don't We don't know, we don't see. We just
interact with Instagram. Got to figure out, you know. She
(31:31):
helps me with my promotion, promoting things, and she gives
me a lot of advice. I don't give her much
advice because that age group they know it all.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
Sure, Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, let me ask this is there.
Did you always just raise a open and whatever fac
Like I think if my mom asked me to help edit,
you know something of her getting you know, banged by
black dudes. I would while I would accepted as her life,
I would also for a second go I'm not going
(32:03):
to do that. I'm not going to cut that together.
I can't do it. So is that the thing or
was there a time of acceptance that need it to be? Like,
I need you to know I love doing this and
I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
They know that I what I do, what my chink is.
They don't see it. That's hobby's job. They just do
the pictures and the artwork of me.
Speaker 3 (32:27):
Got it? Okay, they don't do that.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
They don't do the videos and the edits.
Speaker 1 (32:31):
So everyone's aware. We just stay in our own corners
while doing.
Speaker 3 (32:35):
Things as their own quarter. Okay, all right, totally makes sense.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
Are there any types of shoots or scenes that you've
either maybe when I say this, I always wonder like
if there's a specific tit type or niche or any
like a gangbang, a bukaki of this or that. Is
there anything that you've done in your personal life or
haven't done in your personal life that you want to
incorporate into your porn life as well that you haven't
(33:02):
done it.
Speaker 2 (33:02):
I would like to start to do more videos with
the cuck holing where it's a white guy with the
black guy, but then they are interacting more. But it's
hard where the cuck hold will actually stuck cock on
a black guy. Okay, because you don't. You don't see
too much of that.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
No, I normally turn it off at the end when
the guy starts cleaning with his tongue. That's a personal
preference of mine. I totally understand people enjoy that. Would
you incorporate your husband in that scenario? Or would we
do another performer with another performer? Okay, but it's hard
for us to find people like that. There are a
lot of people that love it, but they won't show
(33:45):
their faces. Interesting, Okay, could you bring it because there's
definitely mainstream people right that do that, Like I think
of cuckold Session a bunch of different websites that end
it with like a cleanup or whatever you'd like to
refer to it as. Uh, so you haven't shot anything
(34:07):
like that yet or you just like shooting the Okay,
all right.
Speaker 2 (34:10):
I started. I did two shoots a couple of years ago.
But that was really lucky to find. Oh no, that's
what it was. They the cuckhold had to wear masks.
So we decided not to do that direction anymore and
put it off. But we're thinking about going back into
(34:30):
it if we can, because there are a lot more
people that are doing it now, and so maybe we will.
We can find talent that will do it. Sure, but
then also we need to have a black guy that
will let them set their cock.
Speaker 3 (34:44):
So you need it.
Speaker 2 (34:45):
It's difficult.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
Yeah, you need to almost guys who were by willing,
by curious whatever.
Speaker 2 (34:51):
Right exactly?
Speaker 1 (34:53):
Yeah, and oh were they maybe they were they not
showing their face because they were embarrassed by that, I guess,
So why be in it? Then, why be in it
at all? Don't do that?
Speaker 3 (35:05):
Just suck cock on the side, you know whatever?
Speaker 2 (35:07):
Right, Well, there's a lot of that in the swinging lifestyle,
so that's why it just will come out.
Speaker 1 (35:15):
Sure, So can I ask again this is this is?
This is more towards your lifestyle type of thing, because
I'm always fascinated by this too. Again, vanilla perspective outside
totally doesn't understand anything other than just a regular relationship.
I hear that and I go, oh, common internet term,
her husband's a cock. That's not always the scenario. Does
(35:37):
he like any of the humiliation in person? Or is
he that's not it He's just a watcher. No, just
a watcher. Yeah, yeah, okay, you know it's a fun
I've interviewed so many women who came from and it's
the same story.
Speaker 3 (35:50):
None of them are.
Speaker 1 (35:50):
I don't think there's any real cucks in the world
from everyone I've interviewed and talked to.
Speaker 2 (35:55):
No, they don't come out.
Speaker 3 (35:57):
Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (35:59):
Have you ever been in a scenario where it got uncomfortable,
like a guy was like, or does it not bother you?
Like you guys like I'm fucking better than your husband?
Where you're like, oh, maybe don't say that. Quiet down,
he don't love that.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
Well, you're saying as far as somebody better than him.
Speaker 1 (36:19):
Well, or somebody or some guy declaring it like maybe
that's his dirty talk. The black guy's like, oh, I'm
better than your and does your husband not give a
shit about that?
Speaker 2 (36:28):
Or no, no he doesn't care. Yes, it has happened.
We've shot things where we've told them to cock to
the camera. The POV. We'll talk to the camera and
tell them that it's it's it doesn't bother him at all.
Speaker 3 (36:43):
Sure, it's just production, right, it's just yeah there you go.
All right? Fair enough?
Speaker 1 (36:48):
Can I asked, have you okay, in your personal life
and on film, what is like the largest gangbang you've
been a part of? Any idea?
Speaker 2 (36:58):
H Well, when I was a swinger, it was eighteen
guys I in a porn and a shoot was just
a house party with the swing swinging lifestyle. And that's
actually the time I decided it's time to go, you know,
move on to porn.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
Really.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
But yeah, it was eighteen eighteen black men and it
was a blast. I had a blast and the gang
thing in the foreign industry. It was eight guys a
black man.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
And what kind of frozen vegetables did you sit on
when you got home?
Speaker 4 (37:41):
None?
Speaker 1 (37:43):
Okay, fair enough? Bags of peas work well from what
I've heard.
Speaker 3 (37:46):
By the way, my dice.
Speaker 2 (37:47):
Were a little sore. That's about it.
Speaker 3 (37:51):
Fair enough.
Speaker 4 (37:51):
And it was you said it was eight in on screen? Yes,
base okay? And that was what was that called? I
don't remember the name of it. It was with the TEAMVP.
Speaker 3 (38:04):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (38:05):
In fact, that was my very first professional shoot.
Speaker 1 (38:09):
Interesting okay, wow, so I mean you again we went
back to like one of the first things I said,
you didn't tiptoe in.
Speaker 3 (38:16):
Huh, you dove off that cliff?
Speaker 2 (38:18):
This jumped? Yes?
Speaker 1 (38:21):
How was that overwhelming at the time, even though you
really liked it? I mean, there's is there a huge
difference I would assume, and I've heard that there is
a huge difference between personal and then on set.
Speaker 2 (38:32):
Oh no, I don't think that it'll be kind of
on them oney. The type of person were was well
on a video on one bangs, that's what's any Yeah,
just read it.
Speaker 3 (38:52):
That's awesome.
Speaker 1 (38:54):
We are okay, let me ask this is my last
question I have for you here. Then I got one
quick social media thing. What are the goals going forward?
Are you living just day to day at this point?
Speaker 3 (39:06):
What scenes?
Speaker 1 (39:06):
Come on?
Speaker 3 (39:07):
Do you have some ultimate I tau you want to
get to Do.
Speaker 1 (39:11):
You want to be doing this till you're ninety Do
you guys want to make ten million dollars and get out?
Speaker 2 (39:15):
Like?
Speaker 3 (39:15):
What is the game plan? Is there any game plan?
Speaker 2 (39:18):
Well, my mom lived till she was ninety one. She
was in good shape. So as far as me quitting
right away here, you have no time. I don't even
think about quitting. Sure, not right now? No, it's my goals.
I would love to since I'm rebuilding my branding now
my name definitely shoot for more big companies. I live
(39:43):
in Florida and I don't want to move to Cali
or Las Vegas, but I plan on traveling a lot
more and hopefully shoot. I shoot a lot independent, but
I'm hoping that I will start to shoot more for
the bigger industries.
Speaker 3 (40:00):
Gotcha, gotcha? All right?
Speaker 1 (40:01):
Well, ladies and gentlemen, if you are currently running a
porn production company that specializes in very large African American
gentlemen and you would like to get in touch, you
can find D D. White at d D White xx
on Twitter, but on all the other sites where we
really want to drive you to, especially if you want
to see her personal content, the stuff she makes with
(40:22):
her husband.
Speaker 3 (40:23):
I met him before this.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
He seemed very nice, So just so everyone knows, you
can check that out at d D White links to
everything in the episode description.
Speaker 3 (40:32):
Didi, thank you so much for coming on with me today.
Speaker 2 (40:35):
You're welcome, Thanks for inviting me. We'll see you next week. Okay,
bye bye
Dedi White my guest for the evening. You know exactly
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Please make sure you support the creators that come on
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(00:45):
thank you so much for coming on with menight. It's
a pleasure to meet you.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
You're welcome.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Let me start with the boring question, the common one
that always comes through. How did you initially decide to
get into the adult entertainment industry? Was it a was
it a coming off a cliff and you were just
fully into it? Did you tiptoe in? What was your
whole entrance into this field?
Speaker 2 (01:07):
I actually was a swinger, okay, seemed to be from
the swinger level first, where you're experiencing sex with a
lot of different people, sharing with your husband, and then
he was videoing me, and then we decided that he
(01:28):
loves watching and posting me, and I've gotten popular with
all the born industries and the swingers of course, and
the fans out there. It took maybe about a year
of doing swinging, which we didn't really We started a
(01:48):
little bit when we were didn't have our children around
for a while. There was a break where we had
no children, came back with previous marriages things like this. Sure,
so we got to have fun. Then we stopped because
we had responsibilities. And then we went from the family
(02:14):
time to us alone and had a lot of fun
and started in the swing. But it was something where
we were doing that for about a year and then
when the videos were going up on a swinger that
you put short clips on the swinger sites and on
Twitter at that time. Now X and I was found
(02:37):
and started to get into the pint industry that way.
That's how it happened. I've met a lot of nice people.
It's a lot of fun and we're just going along
and doing a lot of pings.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
So a lot of the performers I've talked to recently
got into it through swinging through the lifestyle. I always
find it so fascinating. I've been with my wife since
I was nineteen. I'm thirty eight now, I've not only
have I not been in the swinging lifestyle whatsoever, I
haven't even what was the term spread My seed or
done whatever, and I'm okay with it.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
I love my wife, I love our sex life, this
and that. So I come to this completely from a
place of ignorance, not rudeness or malice or anything. Can
I ask when you can, I ask this, And if
any of this is too personal, please let me know
and I'll just you know, we'll cut it out. How
long were you together with your husband before you decided
to get into the lifestyle.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Wow, Well, honestly, when I met him with my second marriage,
I was thirty and I did not know anything even
the word what swinging meant. He was already into that,
and that's how he was dating I apparently was with
other couples. Then we ran into each other at a club,
(03:58):
of course, and we dated, and then he started to
introduce me to his friends, and I discovered the swinging
lifestyle at thirty. Sure, at that time we didn't have
our children. I had two girls, He had two girls,
and our spouses had them at different times, and so
(04:19):
that was a lot of fun at first. It was interesting, though,
when he introduced me to that style, I was like,
maybe he's not happy with me. Maybe I shouldn't be
going on with this relationship, and it was like, well,
I'll go a little bit further and see where it goes.
(04:39):
But it was like off and on. Then we discovered
that there were certain things I liked and he didn't
like when we were meeting people, so we let it
go for a while. We had our children, I'd say
maybe twenty years went by, and when they finally grew
up and they were out of the house, we decided
(05:03):
to go back to the swinging lifestyle. And we did
that because it was exciting. And after a while, when
you're married, you do the same things repeatedly, Okay, the
excitement starts to sway. Even though you love each other,
those things you want to start making exciting again, and
(05:27):
that's when we decided to go back. And at that
time I decided that he liked he liked watching me
with black men, So that was our king where he
liked videoing. It wasn't necessarily him getting involved. He loved
watching me, okay. So that's how we got it back
(05:49):
into the swinging lifestyle and got to do what we
were doing now.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
So it's such an interesting journey you have there because
what I find my first questions, the first question I
have is how much did the lifestyle or how it's
approached or how you look into it change in the
twenty years or so that you were out of it.
I mean, I assume it would be like a one
eighty you'd be going from a horse to a car,
(06:15):
you know.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Yes, yes, Well from finding people and little clubs and
secret areas through the newspaper those type of ways where
now it's a website. It's all these people and they
say where, what area they're at, what they're into. You
(06:38):
don't have to sit there in a bar and talk
to them and find out, well do I like? You
can see what they look like. You can see how
they their sexual desires are, and how they are on
the website before you even meet them. Right, So it's
and you can interact back and forth right website. So
(07:01):
being in a place meeting outside and not comfortable and
saying nope, you're not for me and goodbye, you can
do this on the way. It's a lot easier with
the internet, definitely. And then of course you can see
where the house parties are the certain there's a lot
more clubs out there. If you want to travel to
(07:21):
a different town, they're already advertising where they're at there
and you can even talk to those people before you
even get there.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah, so it's a little more you're able to customize
your experience almost a little bit more here, it's not
And it seems like, I know, everyone gets so scared
of the internet. It seems like there's less risk with
this than just calling the number in the back of
a dirty magazine or a newspaper or whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Right exactly, Yes, sure, yes, sure so, because you don't
know if you're even saying there's there's females out there
that only like to be with couples because they feel
more comfortable with that. Sure, and being a single woman
and trying to experience this on your own, you don't
know what you're walking.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Into, right, Can I ask did you have Okay, so
you came into the quote the swinger lifestyle. I assume
your marriage before that was much more vanilla, I mean
very vanilla or Missouri Okay, all right, So when you
came into this, was there any kind of rules or
boundaries that you established early on with your husband maybe
(08:27):
now your new husband in the lifestyle, and then did
those eventually erode over time where it was a little
bit like I you could go ahead and do yeah,
go ahead and try that?
Speaker 3 (08:37):
Or were there just no rules from the beginning?
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Would we would talk it over beforehand or in the
middle right at the moment. They were always good about
when we went into a club or even meeting people
on the website, that we would discuss it before we
would go any further. The dos and don'ts. Sometimes you
(09:04):
don't know what the don'ts are or theds until you
start to get into it. Sure, so like dot being dominated,
it's kind of interested me, but I didn't know how much.
So he was there and we met somebody and he
was showing us what certain things you do, and so
(09:26):
it was a safe environment and we said yes to this,
no to this, and that's the way. You know how
we did it.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Do you guys currently and if you don't want to
disclose him, that's understandable as well. Do you currently have
rules in place? And are those only applied towards lifestyle
things or is it applied across the board for work
as well, production shooting anything.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
I haven't run across it because a lot of people
we know what we're looking for when we want to
do video shoots. Before we have them come in to
do the shoots, we're already talking to them about the
dues and them don'ts gotcha. So's there's no surprises.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Gotcha, gotcha?
Speaker 1 (10:15):
And that's the best way to have it, right, no surprises,
everyone having fun, good time.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Let's be up front, let's be honest about it, right.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Yes, there was one thing I was surprised that I
would do. And when we would go to clubs, they
always have the girls up there dancing, and that was
something that I always loved dancing. That's how we met
each other in a club dancing. So when I got
up and started to strip on it with a stripper pole,
I was shy, didn't really know what I was, you know,
(10:45):
if I wanted to do it, But once I got
up there, that was something that I experienced. So later
on in years before I got into porn, when we
got back into swinging, I actually told him how would
you feel about actually working as a stripper in the
evening for a while because I always wanted to experience that.
(11:06):
He loved it. Yeah, those are things. We just worked
with each other and we're wild people as it is,
so we are open, very very much open to that one.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Gotcha. Gotcha. A couple more questions about the lifestyle. Here
is your husband. Are you okay with him engaging with
other women throughout the time or is he primarily a
watcher In this scenario.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
He watches. He's told me that. I've told him many
of times, if you see somebody that you really want
to be with, you know, I go for it. I'm
open to it also, but yeah, I know you're always
watching me. And he said no. He says, you're hard
to replace.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
Oh, he's so sweet.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
So I was like, oh, okay, it's so funny because
you understand I'm not in the industry as you are.
I'm like periphery kind of. But I've spoken to enough
people and interviewed enough people that from the outside perspective,
the vanilla perspective, you might look at it. And again,
I do not feel this way. But some one ignorant
(12:16):
to the industry looks at it and be like, well,
this guy, he's just kind of forcing his wife to
go to swingers clubs and do this and that. And
what they don't understand is those relationships don't last if
you're making the woman do something she doesn't want to do.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
Hopefully she gets out of it quick, right.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
So there's this perception or whatever that especially if it's
like a one way thing like oh, he doesn't hook
up of people he or maybe the other perception is
you you're not happy with him, so you have to go
out and you're forcing him into this. This is entirely mutual.
You both love what you're doing. You only got here
because you loved it.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Is that correct?
Speaker 2 (12:53):
It is? I have to tell you one thing. You
just reminded me out though. Sure, there was a time
between the children growing up that it didn't work out
for a while and I had gangway and he wanted
to go back to that lifestyle when I wasn't ready.
(13:13):
I had to get back and feel good about myself
before I did it again. Even though I wasn't against it,
I wasn't ready for someone to see me overway. Sure,
And so that's another thing too a woman. My guys,
I don't know if you're the same, but when a
woman doesn't feel good about herself, that stops her from
(13:35):
doing it too.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
Gotcha, gotcha?
Speaker 1 (13:38):
So I don't know how to broach Oh, there is
one last question about the lifestyle, and I don't think
it applies to you, unfortunately if your husband is not. Also,
my question is I always find this concept funny. Have
either of you ever had to, quote unquote take one
for the team. So I picture a couple and I
picture looking at another couple and my wife is really
(13:59):
in the guy and I'm looking at the girl, going
this is gonna be a bummer for me. Have you
or him either had to be like, I don't love this,
but I'll do this one for you here.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
Yeah, there was a time one I experienced that we
were before we figured out that he really wanted to
just watch me. There was an attractive blonde. My husband
loves blondes, so I said, go for it, even though
(14:34):
the guy the husband was by foot. But we didn't
realize is after we're stripped off and he's on it,
he's doing her. He doesn't have anything. It's like, uh okay.
So we proceeded to try and he tried to please
(14:56):
me another way. I was like the good Yeah, those
situations happened. Yeah, sure, sure, because at that time they
weren't showing people on the website. Clips weren't there. You
were just that the complete communication on the internet wasn't there.
(15:19):
It was just talking to people back and forth, got texting?
Speaker 3 (15:24):
Gotcha?
Speaker 2 (15:25):
All right. Second, I don't understand.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
All right, let me dive into the content. I don't
know how to approach this appropriately. You got into this
industry a little bit older in life, right. I am
thirty eight, and my bones feel like they're breaking every
day when I get out of bed. I feel horrendous
all the time. I'm not healthy. How do you do this?
Speaker 2 (15:50):
I work out all the time, gotcha, you can't slow down.
After we got back into the industry. Thing that I
always took care of myself. I didn't get way overweight.
So now it's you get to the gym because you're joints.
You have to be limber, You've got to take vitamins.
(16:15):
There's just a lot of things you have to do, definitely,
and it's worth it, though, because I'm seventy one and
a lot of people I'm my younger sister, there's a
really bad shape next to me. It's like a lot
of people are ages. They're overweight now. They don't take
(16:37):
care of themselves anymore. And I do the gym, I
go cycling, I else. I love to be outside.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
That's right. It shows up later. In life.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Then I guess like, if I'm lucky enough to make
it to your age, I probably won't be unless I
get start working at it now, and the audience should
know that too.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
Indeed, here's seventy one you sent or seventy.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
I'll be seventy one next in two more weeks.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
Well, congratulations on your birthday. That is a that is
crazy because you look phenomenal. I just say that from
the outside, and your energy and your performances is that
of a thirty year old woman. So congratulations on staying
healthy and staying good. Knock on wood on that one.
If I were to go to any of your personal
channels and sign up, by the way, for people listening
(17:25):
at d D White, make sure you follow the links
in the episode description where you produce your own content,
your own What am I seeing on that? What kind
of content do you and your And is your husband
a part of the filmmaking process, Like is he filming editing?
Speaker 3 (17:41):
He's off, he's that, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
All of it. We recently had to rebrand and thank
god we had the raw footage because we had to
take it all down. Wow, okay, like six different sites
and you're still in the process of doing it all.
Heyry eds and posts, and sometimes I'll let them post
(18:07):
some my area, but I have certain areas where I
like to keep in touch with my fans.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
Gotcha.
Speaker 2 (18:13):
But I'll be honest with you. I heard you say
D D. White. There's a musician called D D. White. Okay,
so I'm d D. White x x x X.
Speaker 1 (18:22):
I apologize d D. White xx. That's on Twitter. But
if we want to find content of you, I think
it's at D D. White right the other places?
Speaker 3 (18:30):
Yes? Correct? Correct? Okay, Yeah, it looks to everything in
the episode.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Please make sure you hit those because we always want
to make sure we're supporting these people.
Speaker 3 (18:40):
So can I Okay.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
The rebrand is interesting to me because I go old
school with my knowledge of porn, Like I know porn
stars from the nineties and this and that. Seka you
were for a while Sacah Black, Right, Seka was a
legendary big name. She was actually even a little bit
outside of my range. But I I'm aware of Sekah.
Why the rebrand out of that name only because I
(19:05):
only ask because there's a lot of porn stars with
the name Brittany. There's a lot of porn stars with
the name whatever. You know, So why the rebrand? Was
this not a legal issue as if you were bring sued,
but maybe an administrative issue or.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
I think it was more of a trademark, even though
I always said Zeka Black, But then since I look
similar to her and back in those days, I guess
fans were getting confused. So I just decided that it
was better if I just rebranded to g D. White.
Speaker 3 (19:40):
Okay, all right, g D Whitely.
Speaker 2 (19:42):
It's fun. It's funny. A lot of my fans though,
they say, we know who you are. It's like they
followed me. It's it's great, that's great. So what kind
of content do you two like to make for yourself?
Obviously if you're shooting for big studios or anything, you
were kind of holding the what they want to do?
What is something that you guys really like to put together?
(20:04):
You get excited for It's Monday and you I can't
believe we're shooting that on Friday. Yeah. I love shooting
with black men. They they just have this different way
about them that I love to shoot with black men.
And my husband loves to do the videoing and editing it.
(20:26):
Since my age, I'm actually doing a lot of steps
son or not Grandma as much. They I haven't gotten
into that. It's more of a milk area, gotcha, or
the naughty neighbor things like that, gotcha. But it's it's nice.
I'm excited right now about going to do a shoot
(20:50):
with I'm going I love being in costume. Oh I'm
going to be a police officer and I'm going to
arrest arrest him because he's shoplifting.
Speaker 3 (21:00):
Sure, we take.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
Of little scenes like that to start, and then we
of course get into the fun where I love the
gang Thans, the DP and then the three esomes, but
it's always everyone. All my fans tell me they love
the wash the beginning, seeing whether I'm seducing them or
they're seducing me. Yeah, it's good.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
Is there is okay working with black guys? Is that
an aura thing? Is it a size thing? I'll tell
you why. I've always loved in a racial porn, which
people are trying to get away from that turn. So
I don't know, whatever you believe is fine. I don't
believe in any kind of racism or anything like that.
So if you don't like the term, that's your thing,
(21:45):
not you the audience. But whatever I like it because
there's a beautiful contrast of color, you know, and I
can go the other way to a white guy and
black girl.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
I love just it looks like just.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
A beautiful kind of like Plato mashed together of all
these people. What do you like about it? Is it
a size thing? Is it a vibe thing? Is it
a like I said, artistic? Okay, all right, so.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
I have a funny feeling. I'll give you a little
story here. I'm the oldest set of five kids. I
had to take care of three braddy brothers. So oh
I all I can imagine is that maybe because I
(22:30):
had to deal with my brothers that I don't want
anything to do with white and my father back in
our days, my day, we weren't allowed to mix and
it was something that you just didn't do. And it's
like I always hated that as a young kid, that
(22:53):
that was not right. And I don't know if that's
in me. I really don't know.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
When I meet performers who really love again, sorry for
the term in a racial porner shooting anything like that,
I always like to ask, are you running away from
racism in your family? Not in a negative way like
you experienced it? Young and you hated it and you go,
fuck it, I'm gonna not engage with this. Or maybe
(23:19):
you had like a very open hippie family and you
never even saw it as a different thing. You just
kind of engage. But it's normally one of those two
where it's kind of like, okay, you know, get it.
I totally get it.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
And of course me being older and that that's all
you heard back back in that time. Sure, yeah, yeah,
that you couldn't but.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
That the great con The thing with you is, again
we've already discussed your age is clearly just a number
in this scenario, like you were in a much better shape.
But if I were to say I'm gonna put an
older lady here with this young, black, vibrant like dynamo,
that creates this fun contrary where I'm like, oh my,
(24:01):
is she going to make it out of here?
Speaker 3 (24:02):
Okay? What is you know?
Speaker 1 (24:04):
And at the end, you're loving it, you're smiling, you're
covered in calmb whatever this situation is, and everything's good
and we're happy.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
Right.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
Oh yeah. I've had a couple of eighteen year olds
that once they come they want to keep going. It's like,
oh wow, this is great.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
I love it is okay, So then the age thing too,
Let me ask about that. Are you are you as
long as everyone's legal eighteen plus? Are you free working
with anyone? Do you have preferences in the age range
you like to work with?
Speaker 3 (24:36):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (24:36):
No, that's just so they're into me. I'm into that.
It doesn't matter. Most of the time, I don't even
know how old they are. When they're at eighteen, they're
on set, they're usually making a big deal about that age,
so that's how I find out. But normally, no, it's
(24:57):
just whether we're are personalities click sure, which most of
the time they do. So that's what happens, and we
go for it because it's fun.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
Great.
Speaker 1 (25:10):
I won't ask you to identify by name at all,
but I want to get a contrast here, if possible.
Have you been on a good mainstream production and a
bad mainstream production and what separates the two. What can
producers who are listening to this right now do to
make a set a little more friendly, something that fits
(25:32):
what you like. Maybe you've never had a bad experience,
and if so, great, knock on wood, you won't have
any going forward. But if you have had a like
subpar or this was only Okay, what do you want
from a director or a producer to bring to the
set for you?
Speaker 2 (25:46):
It's not really the director or the producers. It's more
they're trying to make it all happen, and talent will
cancel at the last minute, and they have to find
somebody over there on that set, and then everybody's got
to sit around after getting up early in the morning
and getting ready themselves, and we're sitting around. That's happened
(26:11):
a few times, but it's understandable. But as far as
the director, the video guys, and the people that are
getting the costumes and together, it's not really on them.
So it's and then of course they pull the talent
in later on and they've already been at one another shoot.
(26:32):
Then it really gets difficult. Okay, the poor guys, they
shouldn't have volunteered.
Speaker 3 (26:42):
That's true. Yeah, don't sign up for the job if
you can't do it.
Speaker 2 (26:45):
Yeah. So those those types of situations have happened. But
you know, when you got everybody sitting there and you
need to have someone to get the shoot done, you know.
Speaker 1 (26:58):
So professionalism, it sounds like is what might Again, it
sounds like you haven't been on a bad set, but
like a bad bad set, you know, I guess that's
what it would separate it. This is a business. Let's
approach it like a business. It's a real fun business.
This guy over here gets the fuck D D. White today.
It's a great business. Let's just all be on time
and work the way we're supposed to. So, how okay,
(27:23):
all right, I'm gonna do a thing on here. I
like to call stat check. Now, stat check is entirely wrong.
It is based on the Internet Adult film database day track.
Some of your scenes, some of your scenes don't show
up here. This happens that whatever. It's wrong. So these
numbers are gonna be wrong. But I like to use
it as a milestone. So when I interview you a
(27:44):
year from now and you have all these AVN awards
around you, I'm gonna go see where you were before.
The number of scenes I have for you is ninety seven.
The number of guys you have worked with forty nine,
number of girls you have worked with ten one AVN nomination,
zero wins so far?
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Is that correct? From what you know? At least at
the end with the nominations and such.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Well, two nominations, I.
Speaker 3 (28:09):
Will correct that things the.
Speaker 2 (28:11):
Season Performer, niche Performer of the Year, and fan's favorite
milk gotcha?
Speaker 3 (28:18):
Gotcha? Gotcha?
Speaker 1 (28:19):
Any of those wins yet or no, we're still working
on that. I know I got nominated for a podcast one.
There's podcasts that listen that have three million listeners. So look,
I'm middle of the road. I'm going to have to
work my way up to that. But just being nominated
is a good feeling, right.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
WHOA Definitely, Yeah, it was exciting to walk the red carpet.
It's it's a great experience and being in the and
the audience, just watching the awards, it was it was fun.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
Can I ask you? Can I ask you a dumb question?
Did you walk the red carpet with your husband or
a performer.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
With my husband?
Speaker 3 (28:56):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (28:56):
And then when we got up to the photos, stepped
off to the side and then I went up by myself.
Speaker 3 (29:02):
Gotcha. Oh see that's nice.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
And how important is it having a partner who is
one hundred percent all in with you on this?
Speaker 3 (29:10):
It's a requirement, it has to be right.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
Oh, it's definitely. Definitely. If you don't, it's a lot tougher.
I know right now, I've got to. I hired a
new PR guy and it helps a lot. But my husband,
my gosh, he's I guess you could say, my producer.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
Sure, sure.
Speaker 2 (29:33):
Also, yeah, he got to because he's doing the video
and editing and the posting.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
I always ask this question, and you're very lucky to
have a husband that's willing to do this type of stuff.
I always ask it, and it's a snarky question, but
it's when you got into porn, did you realize it
would be ninety five percent administrative work and video editing
and or did you just think you were going to
be having fun fucking young looking guys.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
Well, I didn't think it would be this much work, right,
as far as I want to pull myself away from
the computer and have a lot more fun. So we're
in the process of getting there though. That's why the
PR guy and we're real we're gradually getting to where
we can get some more help here. I have my
daughters are very talented. I have one girl that does
(30:25):
my advertising in my artwork, So we're going to get
more help.
Speaker 3 (30:31):
So again, we kind of touched on this off air.
Speaker 1 (30:34):
You're willing to say whatever you're willing to say, and
I'm totally fine, just accepting that. You said your daughter
also may have tiptoted or worked in the industry as well.
Speaker 2 (30:42):
I I well, between my husband and I we have
five girls, okay, all right, So and they're very talented
because we've had a past business that they've taken over
and this is our retirement, so they I've got one
that does artwork that is very very good. She does
my banners, she does my logos everything, and she's a big,
(31:07):
big help. Now, I'm my younger daughter that's was later
that she was adopted. She's twenty four, and she's into all.
She's got her own kink on only fans and a
couple other places. I don't know what they are because
we don't We don't know, we don't see. We just
interact with Instagram. Got to figure out, you know. She
(31:31):
helps me with my promotion, promoting things, and she gives
me a lot of advice. I don't give her much
advice because that age group they know it all.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
Sure, Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, let me ask this is there.
Did you always just raise a open and whatever fac
Like I think if my mom asked me to help edit,
you know something of her getting you know, banged by
black dudes. I would while I would accepted as her life,
I would also for a second go I'm not going
(32:03):
to do that. I'm not going to cut that together.
I can't do it. So is that the thing or
was there a time of acceptance that need it to be? Like,
I need you to know I love doing this and
I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
They know that I what I do, what my chink is.
They don't see it. That's hobby's job. They just do
the pictures and the artwork of me.
Speaker 3 (32:27):
Got it? Okay, they don't do that.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
They don't do the videos and the edits.
Speaker 1 (32:31):
So everyone's aware. We just stay in our own corners
while doing.
Speaker 3 (32:35):
Things as their own quarter. Okay, all right, totally makes sense.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
Are there any types of shoots or scenes that you've
either maybe when I say this, I always wonder like
if there's a specific tit type or niche or any
like a gangbang, a bukaki of this or that. Is
there anything that you've done in your personal life or
haven't done in your personal life that you want to
incorporate into your porn life as well that you haven't
(33:02):
done it.
Speaker 2 (33:02):
I would like to start to do more videos with
the cuck holing where it's a white guy with the
black guy, but then they are interacting more. But it's
hard where the cuck hold will actually stuck cock on
a black guy. Okay, because you don't. You don't see
too much of that.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
No, I normally turn it off at the end when
the guy starts cleaning with his tongue. That's a personal
preference of mine. I totally understand people enjoy that. Would
you incorporate your husband in that scenario? Or would we
do another performer with another performer? Okay, but it's hard
for us to find people like that. There are a
lot of people that love it, but they won't show
(33:45):
their faces. Interesting, Okay, could you bring it because there's
definitely mainstream people right that do that, Like I think
of cuckold Session a bunch of different websites that end
it with like a cleanup or whatever you'd like to
refer to it as. Uh, so you haven't shot anything
(34:07):
like that yet or you just like shooting the Okay,
all right.
Speaker 2 (34:10):
I started. I did two shoots a couple of years ago.
But that was really lucky to find. Oh no, that's
what it was. They the cuckhold had to wear masks.
So we decided not to do that direction anymore and
put it off. But we're thinking about going back into
(34:30):
it if we can, because there are a lot more
people that are doing it now, and so maybe we will.
We can find talent that will do it. Sure, but
then also we need to have a black guy that
will let them set their cock.
Speaker 3 (34:44):
So you need it.
Speaker 2 (34:45):
It's difficult.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
Yeah, you need to almost guys who were by willing,
by curious whatever.
Speaker 2 (34:51):
Right exactly?
Speaker 1 (34:53):
Yeah, and oh were they maybe they were they not
showing their face because they were embarrassed by that, I guess,
So why be in it? Then, why be in it
at all? Don't do that?
Speaker 3 (35:05):
Just suck cock on the side, you know whatever?
Speaker 2 (35:07):
Right, Well, there's a lot of that in the swinging lifestyle,
so that's why it just will come out.
Speaker 1 (35:15):
Sure, So can I ask again this is this is?
This is more towards your lifestyle type of thing, because
I'm always fascinated by this too. Again, vanilla perspective outside
totally doesn't understand anything other than just a regular relationship.
I hear that and I go, oh, common internet term,
her husband's a cock. That's not always the scenario. Does
(35:37):
he like any of the humiliation in person? Or is
he that's not it He's just a watcher. No, just
a watcher. Yeah, yeah, okay, you know it's a fun
I've interviewed so many women who came from and it's
the same story.
Speaker 3 (35:50):
None of them are.
Speaker 1 (35:50):
I don't think there's any real cucks in the world
from everyone I've interviewed and talked to.
Speaker 2 (35:55):
No, they don't come out.
Speaker 3 (35:57):
Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (35:59):
Have you ever been in a scenario where it got uncomfortable,
like a guy was like, or does it not bother you?
Like you guys like I'm fucking better than your husband?
Where you're like, oh, maybe don't say that. Quiet down,
he don't love that.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
Well, you're saying as far as somebody better than him.
Speaker 1 (36:19):
Well, or somebody or some guy declaring it like maybe
that's his dirty talk. The black guy's like, oh, I'm
better than your and does your husband not give a
shit about that?
Speaker 2 (36:28):
Or no, no he doesn't care. Yes, it has happened.
We've shot things where we've told them to cock to
the camera. The POV. We'll talk to the camera and
tell them that it's it's it doesn't bother him at all.
Speaker 3 (36:43):
Sure, it's just production, right, it's just yeah there you go.
All right? Fair enough?
Speaker 1 (36:48):
Can I asked, have you okay, in your personal life
and on film, what is like the largest gangbang you've
been a part of? Any idea?
Speaker 2 (36:58):
H Well, when I was a swinger, it was eighteen
guys I in a porn and a shoot was just
a house party with the swing swinging lifestyle. And that's
actually the time I decided it's time to go, you know,
move on to porn.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
Really.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
But yeah, it was eighteen eighteen black men and it
was a blast. I had a blast and the gang
thing in the foreign industry. It was eight guys a
black man.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
And what kind of frozen vegetables did you sit on
when you got home?
Speaker 4 (37:41):
None?
Speaker 1 (37:43):
Okay, fair enough? Bags of peas work well from what
I've heard.
Speaker 3 (37:46):
By the way, my dice.
Speaker 2 (37:47):
Were a little sore. That's about it.
Speaker 3 (37:51):
Fair enough.
Speaker 4 (37:51):
And it was you said it was eight in on screen? Yes,
base okay? And that was what was that called? I
don't remember the name of it. It was with the TEAMVP.
Speaker 3 (38:04):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (38:05):
In fact, that was my very first professional shoot.
Speaker 1 (38:09):
Interesting okay, wow, so I mean you again we went
back to like one of the first things I said,
you didn't tiptoe in.
Speaker 3 (38:16):
Huh, you dove off that cliff?
Speaker 2 (38:18):
This jumped? Yes?
Speaker 1 (38:21):
How was that overwhelming at the time, even though you
really liked it? I mean, there's is there a huge
difference I would assume, and I've heard that there is
a huge difference between personal and then on set.
Speaker 2 (38:32):
Oh no, I don't think that it'll be kind of
on them oney. The type of person were was well
on a video on one bangs, that's what's any Yeah,
just read it.
Speaker 3 (38:52):
That's awesome.
Speaker 1 (38:54):
We are okay, let me ask this is my last
question I have for you here. Then I got one
quick social media thing. What are the goals going forward?
Are you living just day to day at this point?
Speaker 3 (39:06):
What scenes?
Speaker 1 (39:06):
Come on?
Speaker 3 (39:07):
Do you have some ultimate I tau you want to
get to Do.
Speaker 1 (39:11):
You want to be doing this till you're ninety Do
you guys want to make ten million dollars and get out?
Speaker 2 (39:15):
Like?
Speaker 3 (39:15):
What is the game plan? Is there any game plan?
Speaker 2 (39:18):
Well, my mom lived till she was ninety one. She
was in good shape. So as far as me quitting
right away here, you have no time. I don't even
think about quitting. Sure, not right now? No, it's my goals.
I would love to since I'm rebuilding my branding now
my name definitely shoot for more big companies. I live
(39:43):
in Florida and I don't want to move to Cali
or Las Vegas, but I plan on traveling a lot
more and hopefully shoot. I shoot a lot independent, but
I'm hoping that I will start to shoot more for
the bigger industries.
Speaker 3 (40:00):
Gotcha, gotcha? All right?
Speaker 1 (40:01):
Well, ladies and gentlemen, if you are currently running a
porn production company that specializes in very large African American
gentlemen and you would like to get in touch, you
can find D D. White at d D White xx
on Twitter, but on all the other sites where we
really want to drive you to, especially if you want
to see her personal content, the stuff she makes with
(40:22):
her husband.
Speaker 3 (40:23):
I met him before this.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
He seemed very nice, So just so everyone knows, you
can check that out at d D White links to
everything in the episode description.
Speaker 3 (40:32):
Didi, thank you so much for coming on with me today.
Speaker 2 (40:35):
You're welcome, Thanks for inviting me. We'll see you next week. Okay,
bye bye
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