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Speaker 1 (00:23):
Lorraine my guest for the evening. You know exactly where
you can find her at Lady Lorraine l A D
Y L O R R E I g N. Links
to all of our social media in the episode description below.
Please make sure you support content creators that come on
this show, otherwise they don't come on the show anymore. Lorraine,
it's a pleasure to have you on tonight.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Well, thank you for helping me.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
So let me start with the boring question, the one
we always start with and begin with, and it just
you know, sets the stage for where we go from there.
Can I ask you how you decide it to get
into the adult entertainment industry in whatever form it was,
whether it was of first, whether it was camming, whether
you went right into shooting scenes, whether it was stripping.
(01:07):
I have no idea anything where you go. This is
a normal job, and I don't want to do this anymore.
Let's try this now.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
It's kind of interesting because I did have a very wonderful,
solid job for a very long time, twenty one year career,
and we met some financial hardships. I mean, the economy
really impacted my family, my husband, and I don't mind
talking about my husband at all, but it was a
huge impact on us. Our home sustained a huge sustained
(01:41):
a lot of damage in a huge storm, and overall
it was the decision to enter the adult industry really
was financially motivated for us. I say us because it
was a decision between the two of us. I knew
I was taking a chance. I never had any socials,
I didn't have any paid media, I didn't have anything
(02:01):
like that. So I decided to start in mainstream and
it was awesome. I did a couple of videos and
it was pretty interesting. That was in September of twenty
twenty four, and then by November of twenty twenty four,
I ended up in one of the top trending positions
(02:23):
and I was shot. So at that time I realized
that I should probably separate from my regular nine to five,
and I didn't do it in quite enough time before
I was discovered. But it all works out, and I
think for me, I really started backwards. I really did
start in mainstream, and the majority of all of my
(02:45):
work in the adult industry has been mainstream shoots. So
I started a you know, an only fan site at
the end of December, I think, but I didn't really
hit it hard until this year because this whole content crea.
Even now it's it's look at the date, I'm still juggling.
(03:06):
I'm still trying to learn this whole thing. So I
look for any assistance that I can get.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
But I always I always ask when women come into
this industry, I want to know what percentage of it
you thought you thought coming into the industry, no expectator,
You're like, I'm going to go shoot mainstream porn. Now
what percentage did you think was having sex with people
on camera? And what percentage did you think was social media?
And then did that just completely flip on its fucking
(03:33):
head once you once you really got into.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
It, I was like, really good, it's pretty interesting. I
think that it really is up to the creator and
how much focus they want to put it on that
content creation. I think if you're rolling and your your
full steam ahead in the mainstream aspect of it, you
(03:56):
couldn't absolutely continuous that. But it's a page for and
then it's finished. There isn't any type of rezation. For me,
was in order to maintain just getting caught up on
the bills, but then maintaining the bills. I needed some
sort of residual So that's when I reached out to
(04:18):
other creators. I reached out to friends that I had
that I knew who were creators, and I got a
lot of guidance and assistants from them. They've done a
huge support I do.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Oh, you go ahead, I apologize, I'm sorry. I do
a secondary show where I interview new people coming into
the industry, and I've been I've hit a string of
people recently of girls getting in who are kind of like,
not interested in only fans. They're like, I don't want
to do only fans. I know, I don't care about that.
I just want to shoot mainstream stuff. And I'm trying
(04:52):
to explain to them. I get it, I totally do,
but I try and explain to them too. What they
don't realize is the mainstream stuff is a great advertisement
for eurorof right.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Huge promotional opportunities right there. Sure, so absolutely go ahead. Sorry, yeah,
and no, you're good, But you're exactly right, and that
that would be one thing that I would want to
share with everyone that it has been a learning process
for me, for sure. It's hard for me to say
I'm a content creator because I do not measure up
(05:25):
to the effort that all of those talents put into
being successful in that content creation. Not yet. I hope
to get there. I'm learning. I'll keep working hard for it.
But if they can understand that there is that residual
income and there is that that support, I think would
(05:46):
be a good way to say from those, you know,
the only fans that paid site that kind of thing,
it certainly is beneficial. I think, going back to your question,
I think for me, realizing how much time and effort
it takes to put in into these paid sites is
pretty It was pretty monumental for me. It was eye opening.
It has been.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Sure from the ignorant outside perspective. By the way, I
talk with my hands a lot, and I'm not attending either.
So from the outside perspective, you know, the ignorant public,
and that's not these listeners. Obviously they're really smart. The
outside public would be like, oh, Lorraine just you know,
shows up on set, has sex with some guys, goes
(06:27):
home and her job's done. Blah blah blah. It's like
you're a model, you're an actress, you're a social media manager.
You're doing back office work to figure out all the
admin paperwork, blah blah blah blah blah. I would I
almost would rather just go to a nine to five.
I don't know, but you know, so, yeah, let me
(06:49):
dive into something real quick there. You mentioned your husband
early on, and you know I've also hit a string
of interviews recently of people into the lifestyle. Would you
be comfortable me asking a couple questions about that? And
if anything delves too far, tell me you know we're
not going.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
To talk about it, absolutely sure.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
What are the dynamics of your relationship? Lifestyle?
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Is it?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
You can have as much as you want, He can
have as much as he want. Does he prefer to watch?
Does he like the humiliation? I'll run through all of it,
But you tell me, what do you think your dynamics
are in your relationship?
Speaker 2 (07:24):
No, it's quite interesting. I think that we tend to
be a little different than others. We were actually best
friends prior to getting together, so you know, the things
that you may discuss with a potential partner or someone
you're dating. We, I mean, we far surpassed that long
before because we were friends. I mean I told them
things you would never tell a prospective part and vice versa.
(07:48):
You know, if he was seeing a girl, he's like,
you'll never guess what we did last night. You know,
I'm like, god, dang, that's hot. I love that shit.
I think it's awesome, right, And I'm like, good for you, Bud.
So then when it finally evolved and we decided to
take that step to get together, we had already passed
that whole unknown of each other and trying to get
to know each other. We already knew. So we hit
(08:10):
our thirties and neither one of us had ever partied,
never been to the bar its, never been to the clubs,
nothing like that. But in our thirties we're like, you
know what, let's do this together. And we started to
have a lot of fun. We would go to the clubs,
we would do and I'm just talking about vanilla clubs.
And it was fun for him when I would have
(08:32):
gentlemen come up to me and say, hey, you know,
I'll buy you a drink, and I'm like, yeah, you know,
it was fun for him to watch flirting and that
kind of thing. And from there, I mean, we are
totally one hundred percent honest and transparent with each other.
There's no secrets. There's no anything with he and I,
and you know, we both expressed to one another that, hey,
it'd be fun if we go just meet others just
(08:54):
kind of experience things, because neither one of us had
a great deal of experience as our prior partners before
each other. So and that's kind of how that started
with us. So our dynamic, I think, is a little
different than a lot of couples to live in that lifestyle.
We started first watch swingers couples and we were like, oh,
(09:18):
it's fucking amazing, right, And then I just took the
leaf one day and I said, let's do it. I
want to play, and it turned out to be such
a fucking turn on for both of us.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
So let me ask this then, kind of piggybacking off
of that, you guys decided to jump in and you
were friends and this and that. Did you have rules
set up? And then I have a follow up to that.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Yeah, I love that question because he and I were
the ones who probably had the least rules ever for
do you know, I can't think of any rules that
we had. So if he wanted to play, he played,
I played. We played together. He played with me when
I was playing you know, we didn't have a lot
of rules, but we always respected others rules and boundary
(10:02):
you know. But and then what your follow up that.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
My follow up, well, your relationship is too healthy and
clean and everything for me to make this follow up
makes sense. But I was going to ask, do you
have any rules that eventually got brushed aside where it's
maybe your inaction and there's a rule, oh, don't lick
her there and everyone's charged up, and you look at
(10:26):
your husband and he just goes, yep, go ahead, and
then boom, and then everyone loves it and enjoys it.
Were there any things that were kind of let's push
that line and then I, fuck it, let's just cross it.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
For us? In my going back, there really wasn't. We
have not experienced that. We've witnessed that repeatedly. We've witnessed it,
and then that's when we made the decision to back
away from that whole situation or whatever was going on.
But for he and I, there really are nold boundaries
or rules between the two of us. You know, we
(11:00):
have met up with couples who are like, you know,
you can't hold her hand, you can't you can't do
this don't kiss her on the mouth. You can't do
this with him, and we again respect that, but we
just don't have that with us. I mean, if it's
going with the flow and he's enjoying himself, that's what
turns me on, that's what I love, and I think
(11:21):
it's the same for him.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
So okay, all right. Did you ever you or your
husband accidentally break a rule someone else's rule and you
had to apologize, Oh, sorry, I didn't mean to kiss
you on the mouth or I don't mean to. No,
you've never been like chastised and ay thing, Okay, No,
we've been very fortunate. I think we're both very conscient
just about others. And you know, I think for it
(11:43):
to be healthy and to be happy and to remain fun,
you really have to be conscientious of others boundaries. And
you know, how how are you going to proceed with that?
So sure, okay makes sense. Last question about lifestyle stuff,
and this one is just purely born from my ind
security in my own self as you have either one
(12:05):
of you ever had to quote unquote take one for
the team, meaning maybe there's a couple they're interested in you.
He's very interested in the girl you not necessarily into
the guy or vice versa. Has anyone ever had to
take me?
Speaker 2 (12:21):
So okay, now that you're saying that, it's not a
rule for us, but it's a recognition for us. So
in the event that we are in a situation, say,
you know, the male partner is into me, and I'm
into everything everyone, So the male partner is into me,
but she may not be into my husband, and that
(12:41):
was for me a deal breaker, you know what I mean.
I want I want him to enjoy as well. I
want them to enjoy. There should never be anybody taking
one for the team, in my opinion, in both of
our opinion. That's kind of how we've progressed through.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Okay, all right, See I always think I would be
the one who would be taken for the team, So
I just go, well, I don't want to be too
offended by that. Like I can imagine my wife and
I going to something and a woman looking at me
and going never mind, oh here.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Yeah, then I don't want anyone to feel that way.
I mean, I have seen it, obviously, we have experience
that where and it's most generally she's like, I don't know,
you know, you can if you want to my husband
and to me, that isn't no, you know, that's not
fun for her. It certainly isn't fun for him. And
then I lose all all fun at that point.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Yeah, I could see myself getting turned off. If some
guy kind of like looked up my wife and was like,
h you can just fuck my wife, I'd be like, now,
how about you eat shit, buddy, get out of here.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
Yeah, there you go, and you guys go on, y'all
have fun and then find somebody that you really like. Yeah,
and that is the most wonderful thing about the lifestyle
that I have that we I'll see I because he's
in here. But that I have experienced is you know,
we have very few poor experiences. And maybe it is
(14:03):
because of the recognition of boundaries or you know, we're
not willing to take one for the team. You know.
It should be a good, awsome, fun time for everybody.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Okay, Yeah, I think that. I mean that it's it's sex.
It's supposed to be like one of the best things
in the world. If someone's bummed out in the middle of.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
It, absolutely, you know it. Yeah, there's no way to
make you can't recover from that.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
No, no, no, no, so let me go ahead. I apologize.
What was it?
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Oh, you're okay. I was going to say that is
one thing about the lifestyle is it is all physical pleasure.
I mean, I'm talking from my perspective, but for me,
there's not a huge emotional tie. I don't need the
emotions involved. And I know people are like, well, I
have to have an emotional connection to have a sexual experience,
but for me, the physical aspect and if there's chemistry
(14:57):
at ten times better. But honestly, it's just fun. It's
physically fun.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Oh, physically fun, physically fund mentally stimulating. I assume where
it's very eternal to watch this stuff even if you're
not involved. But you said emotionally you don't have to
be involved. Is that you're not emotionally involved or is
it that you're able to compartmentalize your emotion where just
in this moment, I'm having a good time. This guy's great, big,
(15:24):
dig nice guy, good looking, Da da da da da.
And then afterwards, almost like actors and actresses who kind
of I'm not saying you have a crush on any
of these guys, but in the moment, A lot of
times when actors and actresses on Hollywood movies, are you know,
playing a couple, They'll start to develop a little bit
of a flirt, a little bit of a you know,
I could see myself with this person and then it's
(15:45):
over at the end of it. Is there any of
that in there? Not?
Speaker 2 (15:50):
For me personally. I think maybe there's a couple of
times when there was really good chemistry with a meal
talent or a partner that I had, and then we'll
just meet up again, you know, and then meet up
again or whatever we choose to do. But for me,
I would never want to change anything about my life
to go be with that person.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
Gotcha.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
And I think that's the difference.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Gotcha. Gotcha? Okay, let me dive into the content a
little bit. Can I guess who was your first shoot with?
Do you remember who? It was?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Absolutely so my first shoot ever mainstream? You mean? Yes,
it was Thailand Nixon. I was working with hot Meils
fucked And I'm telling you, they have it to a
tea to make you feel comfortable and absolutely introduce you
to this industry, if you ask me, that's my opinion.
What they did for me. They put me at ease,
(16:44):
They had gosh, they go through the process because I
was really shocked. I don't know what my preconceived notions
were about the adult industry at the time, but I
get phone to this location and then I show up
and they take your bag in and they're like, hey,
you got hair and makeup waiting, and I'm like, oh,
really that was cool. So then they bring you in, well,
(17:06):
now we need paperwork, we do this, we do this.
We I ensured that you're safe, and I mean it
was just incredible to me. I was like, this is
a business, this is professional, and it truly wasn't their
best interest to ensure that I was well informed. I
was one hundred percent consensual everything, which is huge, right,
and they just did an incredible job. So it was
(17:30):
my first partner with Tyler Nixon, who was very well,
you know, he's very well versed and he works a
lot with new people, and I think it was just
a really good matchup.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
I've never met Tyler, but I have heard that same
thing from a lot of women that he just kind
of makes things comfortable and easy, and especially if you're
just getting into it for the first time, has there
been anything that you didn't know you were into until
you got into porn. I mean, it's tough because because
I assume you in the swinger lifestyle, you had tried
(18:03):
and experienced a whole lot of new things. But is
there anything that maybe you were a little skittish on
or unsure of that when you finally got on set
and then happened, you were like, oh, yeah, that's cool.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
I like that. Yeah, and that's true. So anal, that
whole taboo anal thing, holy shit, and that's the only
thing that everybody wants. I mean, even to this day,
my fans are like, why don't you have more anal?
I'm like, when was the last time you took it?
But I don't say that, but I think for me
the whole I had a fear of it because I
(18:33):
had only had good experiences with my husband. But we
worked through it. It took us time, we understood what
needed to be done for he and I for it
to be comfortable and happy. So it was actually on
two three. It was very early on. I was approached
by another mainstream company. I worked with the score group.
(18:54):
I did four scenes with the score group and they
said we would like to do a boy girl anal
and I was like, oh god, you know, I was
so worried about it. I'm like, holy shit, I don't
know what to do. I don't know how to prep
for it. All they sting. So again I reached out
to resources. They were amazing. Everybody that I have had
contact with in the industry is more than willing to
help you. So they said, well, to prep for something
(19:15):
like this, this is what you do. So I did it,
and I went and I shot the scene. And this
was with Barry mccuchnor. So that would have been my
very first on screen aail scene. And I'm telling you
everybody there our director, and I can tell you everybody's names.
But as I remember, they made such an impression on me.
But it was wonderful. It worked out perfect. I had
(19:37):
no uh oh, and it didn't hurt. It was great.
I was like, holy shit, this might be something new
for me. And from there I have had the ability
to progress all the way up to DP. So but
I can't Yeah, that one's coming. It's my scream.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
Okay, all right, we won't talk about where it is
because it's coming, but maybe a question or two about that. First.
Let me do a thing I like to do called
stat check. So let me start with this and tell
you that these numbers are completely and entirely wrong. They
are from the Internet Adult Film Database, and basically what
it does is it tracks mainstream scenes, It tracks certain
(20:16):
many VID scenes. It does this. I don't know. It's
not great, but it's the best resource we have. So
I'm going to give you your stats where you are now,
and then a year from now when you come back
on the show, you'll be covered in av and awards,
and you know these numbers will seem childish for the
number of scenes I have for you. Know these are
(20:38):
all wrong, because every girl I've ever told this too,
these are all going to be wrong at the end,
they always go those aren't right? I go, no, no, no,
I know, I know. Number of scenes I have for
you is eight. Number of guys you've worked with is six.
Number of girls you've worked with is one. Zero noms
for the AVN Awards and zero wins so far. Is
(20:59):
that accurate? Six guys? You seem like you can still
get into heaven with that?
Speaker 2 (21:02):
So oh dear, I have so much to tell you. No, yeah,
the numbers are not quite right there, Sure, I am
almost at the twenty pro scenes. Okay, Yeah, and quite honestly,
I have not tried to count the number of partners
that I've had on the pro scenes. They are correct.
(21:23):
In the pro shoots, I do only have one female partner,
and that was the Hot Mills. Fuck, it was the
second scene that I did with them. Yeah, second scene
I did with them, and then I did a third
with them, which was anal But I have certainly had
many more than six male partners.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
Well, the Pope's very disappointed by that, but that's okay.
Speaker 2 (21:45):
They forget, they forget.
Speaker 3 (21:46):
Right, Yeah, exactly, yes, So let me ask as you
ramp this stuff up, do you have desires to do
you shoot any of.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
Your own content currently for like your only fans? And
what kind of style is it?
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Is it?
Speaker 1 (22:03):
Hey, this is Lorraine at home, This is me just chilling,
this is a good time. Look at me, I'm naked,
I'm this is it like a monthly big production? Where
are we at and where do we plan to go?
Speaker 2 (22:14):
So it's pretty interesting. I've learned a great deal and again,
reading out and meeting the other talent in the industry
has really really helped me understand where to go from there.
So initially I started with a traveling Hot Life series
because it's super easy for me. It's real. Everything that
I have done in the adult industry, I've already experienced
(22:36):
in my personal life, so it's easy. It was an
easy transition. So as far as my content goes, that
is probably my biggest go to is the Traveling Hot
Life It was fun because years ago I would travel
for work and I'm away from my husband. Now I
would meet a fellow or a lady who was interested
in them and I call them and say, hey, I
(22:58):
found that dud. I mean, that's it's real. I mean,
that's really what happened. I'd bring them back and it
depended upon their comfort level. But he would either listen
on the phone or we would video or whatever. And
so I have brought that into my content creation because
it's so natural, it's so easy, and my male talent
(23:18):
has been amazing, like they love the idea. So there
is there is the Traveling Hot Wife series. There are
some that it is just so on. We get there
and we're like boom, it's time to work, and we do.
But it's a good work, right, we all have fun.
I think overall, I'm not very good with solos. I
need to do more solos, but I'm learning that again,
(23:40):
it's all new. I think that's the thing that I'm
most shy about is masturbation. I see, I laugh like
a child when I say it, for God's sake, deep
my ass tonight. But asturbate, I can't say it.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
That's so fun. I was just going to say that.
I was going to say, doing research for this up
some of the most graphic pictures I've ever seen. Beautiful,
by the way, And now she won't she No, Lorene's
on here going I don't like necessarily talking about diddling myself.
I go, oh, well, she's nicely. Uh what is it
about that that's tough for you, because I here's here's
(24:17):
my thing. When I see like JOI videos or whatever,
all the other ones, the talkie ones are I look
at it and I go, if I were in that
girl's shoes or that part whatever shoes, I would I
would have about sixty seconds of dirty talk, and then
I'd be like, I hope you didn't pay for five minutes.
This is all I got. Take a look at the tits.
You know what part of like the solo stuff is
(24:39):
hard for you. Okay, So between you and I and
everyone out there. I did not masturbate until I was God,
I was probably thirty three or thirty four years old,
and it was it was through the encouragement of just
being the comfortable with my husband. Honestly, he's like, you
can do this, just try. I'm like no, And first all,
(25:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
I don't know. It's like a ingrain thing or whatever.
But I never did. I never tried it, and so
I think for me that that process is still new.
You know, it's not been very long, and it wasn't it.
It was not anything that I did frequently because I
mean I have partners to satisfy me or whatever, you know. So, yes,
(25:24):
that's kind of where it got with that.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
Can I why why did it take so long for
you to get into it? I mean I was. I
was in like fourth grade.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
Exactly, and I think most people are and they're like, wait,
what you know? I haven't expressed that a great deal.
My first solo scene on a pro shoot, I was like,
I swear to you, I was so I don't even
know what to call it. I had to have been
so awkward. I'm sure people have seen it. Hopefully it
doesn't look awkward, but to me, I'm like, I don't
(25:53):
even know what to do right now. I'm im wan
to go with this, but yeah, I think it was
just a I never had a level of comfort with
myself to do that. And I know a time, yeah,
you feel horney, but like, okay, either it passes or
you find somebody. Right, that's kind of where I was.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Hot, Okay, interesting. Interesting. As your career progresses and you
get invited or you know, hired for more shoots, eventually
offers will come that you don't like. So I used
to call this show not show. I used to call
this little thing I'm doing here sack, and what that
(26:35):
stands for is shit, animals and kids. I called it
that because I would ask women this question and the
answer I would inevitably get back would be something like,
well I wouldn't do that, like something horrible, and I
would go, no, no, no, I know, I know there's
no dogs involved that, No, we don't want that. What
I'm asking is something that is within the realm of
(26:56):
normal in the adult entertainment industry. What is something you
just have no interest in pursuing. They come to you
and say, here's the offer, Lorraine. It's a big site,
big name, you'll be working with great people, and you're
still just like, ugh, not my thing.
Speaker 2 (27:09):
No, yes, So anything related to degradation and this has happened.
And I think that's one thing they put out there
and let everyone know is if you are not comfortable
with it, you can absolutely say no. And I have
and it was shocking to some of the producers. But
there was a site that contacted me and he said, okay,
(27:32):
so I have six different brands, you know, and I
was intending on working for the one brand and he said,
oh no, you're brand new, so you're going to start
with this brand. And I said, well, I'll look into it,
you know. And so I reviewed the website and it
was absolutely so degrading. And I know this is some
people's thing and that's okay, but it's not for me.
(27:52):
I mean, it got to the point where these girls
were being forced to vomit because of the actions that
were taken and I am not subjecting myself to that,
and I won't, you know. And I told him no,
and he said, well, you can't tell me no, you're
just starting and I said I absolutely can, and he goes, well,
I will blacklist you, and I said, I highly doubt
you have the cloud in this entire industry to blacklist me.
(28:16):
And if you do, then good for you. But I
want people to know that you can say no.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
Yeah, I will, I will. I will ask you when
we're done recording. But is this person non person necessarily?
But is this group of sites kind of known as
a problem now that you've been in it a little
bit longer.
Speaker 2 (28:36):
Yes, And I have found that unfortunately, a lot of
ladies did not feel that they had the opportunity to
say no to this site, and they sucked it up
and they're like, yeah, I got through it and I
got past it. I'm like, well, it's unfortunately you had
to deal with that.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
I'm thinking of one or two. Well we'll talk. I
understand you don't have to, but yeah, So that is
that is a great point, and that I try and
relay that to a lot of the newer girls I interview,
where it's like, hey, you know, this is a job.
At the end of the day, it's fun. It should
be so fun. You show up, you sign paper, like
you just said about your Tyler Nixon. You you show up,
(29:12):
you sign your papers, you get your makeup done, you
have sex, you go home.
Speaker 2 (29:15):
It's great, right, it's wonderful. I've not had one bad
day at work. No, it's not one.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
Oh, I have nothing but bad days at work. It's strange.
But this is fun. This isn't work. This is fun.
I like this. This is good. This is good, don't
get me wrong. So all right, so no degradation. Let
me ask you, how about degradation going the other way?
Have you ever felt yourself as kind of a domb?
You seem too sweet? But maybe I'm wrong.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
Well you so you're probably going to be shocked. But
I have been doing dumb work for the last three years. Wow,
just totally under the radar. Yes, And I think I'm
kind of more of a maybe a soft dom is
what they call it. I really want to get in
tune with what my submissive once because I think that
(30:02):
makes the experience better for both of us. There's a
lot of communication, and I know a lot a lot
of folks in that position. They like the they like
to be submissive, obviously, and the humiliation and degradation. Degradation
is hard for me to even give out. So I work.
I focus more with them on what what would get
(30:24):
them other than you know, I never tell them that's wrong,
because it certainly isn't it is for it is something
that really turns on a lot of people, and that's awesome,
but for me, it's hard to deliver it. So no,
I just I, you know, we'll find a different focus
when it comes to that, okay. And that is another
(30:45):
thing that I've learned in the adult industry is there
there are two separate entities. You have your fetish world,
you have your cakes, and then you have your adult world.
And I mean they are quite different.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
You know, there's a there's a third layer that is
still legal, but not as good. I'm realizing because I
recently clicked on someone's link tree for whatever I had
interviewed them as a newer model, and I looked and
they had this whole thing that was like only fans,
but it was like shit that only fans won't let
you post, and nothing illegal, but as disgusting as you
(31:21):
can get. And I look at it initially and I'm like,
I'm not into that at all. I think it's terrible,
not terrible that they're doing it, just like I don't
want to see that. I'm not interested. And then it
sits on you and you go, someone does this girl
did want to do this thing? Right, Because like you
said about this, I also can't get into the puking
and the you know, you're a dumb whar blah blah
(31:43):
blah blah blah. I'm just not into that stuff. Yeah,
but the girls are into it if they were positive
and not one of the ones like you said, where
they couldn't say no unfortunately, and people do want to
watch that. So who is it on me to say,
you know, it's not good or it's not what ever?
I don't know. There was no point in that question.
I was just ranting because I clicked on something the
(32:04):
other day.
Speaker 2 (32:05):
Yeah, it did to get out there though, because I
think you're exactly right. I certainly am very open minded
for all kinks fetishes anything for anybody out there. Again,
like you said, I have certain boundaries and I think
that we all do so as long as others can
have the ability to respect that, then I think that's
where we're all successful.
Speaker 1 (32:24):
You know, totally makes sense. So your only things do
you do? Okay, because we're not necessarily great at solos?
Do you do custom videos yet? Is that something you're
working up to?
Speaker 2 (32:36):
I do custom videos. I actually do quite quite a
few custom videos. It's died off the last month or so,
but I'll do customs then. At this point, for me,
the the solo stuff is not as uncomfortable as it was.
And with the solo obviously they kind of guide you.
You know, they'll give you the content that they want,
(32:56):
they'll give you the baseline of what they're looking for.
And I also do live video chats, which is one
of the things that I love the most because I
have that interaction with that individual and I can see
that they're being pleased or you know, it's I am
catering to what they want and I am a pleaser.
I enjoyed that.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Okay, all right, let me ask, has anyone been like
a mentor to you or are guiding like any of
the other girls in the industry or guys you said
you knew some content creators when you first started getting
into it or ramping up or making it full time,
who's been like this person's been really great for me.
Speaker 2 (33:33):
I don't know if I should say their names. I
don't know, well will I mean, we're incredible people, for.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Sure, totally totally, but but why wouldn't we want to
not like they're legal names, right, You're not giving me
social Security.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
Numbers, stage names, but they're they're private individuals. Also, well,
I can tell you one of my greatest guides in
the beginning, and we're gonna have to ask him before
we we put it all out there. I'll ask him
and make sure it's okay. But Shane Diesel has been
(34:06):
an excellent guide for me, you know, just from the
beginning at a friend level. He's obviously been in the
industry for quite a long time and he is the
one who guided me to understand the importance of that
residual income from these paid sites and the content creation
because I'm like, I don't ever want to do that.
I was that girl. I'm like, I'm just going to
(34:27):
do shoots all the time. Well they don't always come in.
So he has been a great guide about the emotional health,
mental health, everything. I mean, he is just he's been incredible.
And I would say on I think who has touched
me the most is probably Miss Sienna Ray. We've had
(34:49):
an opportunity to talk a great deal. We were actually
in a content house together. It's how we met and
then we ended up working together, which has been great,
and she's just been an ex resource. She's a great support,
a great guide, and she's my friend as well.
Speaker 1 (35:05):
So that's nice, YEA. From it's crazy because from the outside,
my ignorant misogynism would be like, oh, poor an industry.
All the women are at each other's throats and they're
fighting for this and that. But it doesn't seem like
that at all at all.
Speaker 2 (35:23):
I haven't experience at at all. I haven't, but I
was expecting the same thing, the whole competition. And that's
one thing about me. I had a twenty one year
career in a male led industry, right, I am not
that woman who is going to compete with another woman.
I refuse to. My job is to build them up
and to empower them. I want to empower everyone. I
(35:45):
want them to be as much as they can possibly
everything they want to be, everything they want to do,
and that with my goal in life, and it has
bled over into this industry. So I don't have it
in me to be competitive with other ladies. I don't.
And if there is competition on their side, I'll see it,
I recognize it, and I'll allow that for them. That's
(36:08):
important for them to have that and not feeling in
that competitive nature because that's how they'll succeed. But for me,
I just I don't need it.
Speaker 1 (36:15):
I don't want that, gotcha. Yeah, some of the interviews
I've done have talked to apparently strip clubs are not
as nice as porn star Twitter. I hear a lot
of infighting behind the scenes and this and that, and
I'm wondering if it's just that it's the I was
gonna say target, but target sounds like the absolute worst word.
(36:36):
The guy, the person they're trying to extract money from,
is in there in person. You don't know if another
guy's going to walk through right, You don't know if
another guy's gonna walk through the door today. You don't
know if you're gonna have a chance. So I understand
the desire to let's capitalize on this. This is still
a business. But in the adult entertainment film industry, I mean,
(36:56):
there's a guy who likes every type of body, every
type of look, every type of fetish. There is a
market for it. So when people try and figure their
thing out to I always just say, hey, be yourself
and like someone will find you and love you and
touch their dicks to you.
Speaker 2 (37:14):
Absolutely and that's what we love, right and my goal
to make people happy.
Speaker 1 (37:24):
So let's jump into the future real quick. Where do
we see this going? Is this a career career for
you now? Is this a we'll keep doing this until
it's not fun? Is this we're going to see Lorraine
as an eighty one year old guilfhon of DVD cover?
(37:45):
Probably not a DVD cover, but you know what I mean?
Where are we going with this? And where do you
want to go with this?
Speaker 2 (37:52):
And that's an interesting question that I thought a lot
about lately. Right now, I am having an excellent but
I'm also real in my mind. I'm realistic. I understand
that this will fit. I'm not going to be able
to continue to maintain what folks enjoy as Lady Lorraine
right now. So I'm looking ahead. I want to continue
(38:15):
performing and doing everything in content creation until it gets
to a point where I noticed that it's like, maybe
this guilt is not the it. But fortunately I have
other skills. I would love to move into a mentoring
type of position or you know, guide mentor I wouldn't mind.
(38:37):
I don't know anything about agencies and I don't have
an agent, but if I were to look ahead, I
would probably move into more of an admin talent type
recruiter and help guide the talent males females, it doesn't matter,
on the right path and let them know you do
(38:57):
have the opportunity to say no, because I've heard that
a lot these these ladies and gentlemen as well, they
don't say no no. This is something that you need
to understand that it's your choice. But I have been
a coordinator for events for the last fifteen years, you know,
so setting up events, holding huge events, and just getting
(39:19):
exposure for others. Learning the whole networking aspect of everything.
I think is where I personally would like to lead to.
And will I still perform I mean now and then
absolutely if someone wants me, you know. And yeah, I
don't see myself as the eighty year old gift, but
I have met some recently and they fucking kick ass
(39:42):
and I love them.
Speaker 1 (39:44):
I recently interviewed d D. White, who was formerly Sakah Black.
Oh yeah, you're yo, yo, she is awesome. I kept
I didn't want to say. I implied it on the show,
but I I'm not gonna I don't think I'm gonna
live as long as she is, and she's still out
there throwing it around. Man, She's great.
Speaker 2 (40:05):
Sally D'Angelo. Those ladies, they are so fine. They're just
something sometimes, but they love cock. They love it, and
that's what's important, right, I mean, they're they're enjoying it
every second.
Speaker 1 (40:17):
So well mentioning D. D. White. I only asked this
because I saw you say this on a different interview
and I find it interesting, not that you know, all positive,
all positive, I just find it interesting. Do you prefer
working with black men or.
Speaker 2 (40:33):
Has that been Can let you say that. I'm glad
that you've brought that up, because it's brought up all
the time. So for me, it's not a preference. I
love people, men, women, all racist shapes and sizes, you know.
But in a lot of cases, for the pro shoots,
I'm not choosing my male talent. Sometimes I don't meet
them until an hour before we shoot the then so
(40:55):
and even in the personal content creation, it's just something
that I if I click with the individual or they
contact me and we're able to set it up. But
quite honestly, it's weird. The whole race BBC thing has
never been crossed my mind, but it's.
Speaker 1 (41:11):
Lot sure, Yeah, I mean, I guess you know. I've
I've had discussions with other girls where it's almost like
there are some white performers who are very much like,
get the term inter racial ad of porn, we don't
want it, blah blah blah blah. And I've talked to
black performers who are like, I don't care about race.
Play call me whatever you want. We're shooting a scene,
we're doing a movie. So it's it's always strange how
(41:32):
it's dynamic and changing and does this matter? Does this
not matter? I just asked, because we mentioned D D.
White and D D White, let me know specifically, she's
like black guys only is what I'm only. She was
so funny, it was just it was great. It was great,
all right, Lorraine. I don't have much else for you
(41:54):
here other than, uh, just to really thank you for
coming on, and I hope your career progresses because you
have just such a positive spirit to you. And I'm
sorry if that sounds corny and stupid, but it's like
I can feel the positivity coming off of you, and
I really hope it translates even more success. You know
exactly where you can find Lorraine, at Lady Lorraine l
(42:18):
A D Y L O R R E I g
N links to everything in the episode description and uh yeah, Loraine,
let's check in with you like a year from now,
and you'll still be like, oh, I love this, it's
so great blah blah blah blah blah. But I bet
you'll have like six new things where you're like, I
don't do that shit, I don't like that shit.
Speaker 2 (42:39):
Well, fee, that's so exciting just to get to that point,
to be like, oh, hell no, I'm not doing that.
Speaker 1 (42:44):
Oh sure, Loraine. Thank you so much for coming on
with me tonight.
Speaker 2 (42:47):
Oh you're amazing, and thank you so much for having
me
Lorraine my guest for the evening. You know exactly where
you can find her at Lady Lorraine l A D
Y L O R R E I g N. Links
to all of our social media in the episode description below.
Please make sure you support content creators that come on
this show, otherwise they don't come on the show anymore. Lorraine,
it's a pleasure to have you on tonight.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Well, thank you for helping me.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
So let me start with the boring question, the one
we always start with and begin with, and it just
you know, sets the stage for where we go from there.
Can I ask you how you decide it to get
into the adult entertainment industry in whatever form it was,
whether it was of first, whether it was camming, whether
you went right into shooting scenes, whether it was stripping.
(01:07):
I have no idea anything where you go. This is
a normal job, and I don't want to do this anymore.
Let's try this now.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
It's kind of interesting because I did have a very wonderful,
solid job for a very long time, twenty one year career,
and we met some financial hardships. I mean, the economy
really impacted my family, my husband, and I don't mind
talking about my husband at all, but it was a
huge impact on us. Our home sustained a huge sustained
(01:41):
a lot of damage in a huge storm, and overall
it was the decision to enter the adult industry really
was financially motivated for us. I say us because it
was a decision between the two of us. I knew
I was taking a chance. I never had any socials,
I didn't have any paid media, I didn't have anything
(02:01):
like that. So I decided to start in mainstream and
it was awesome. I did a couple of videos and
it was pretty interesting. That was in September of twenty
twenty four, and then by November of twenty twenty four,
I ended up in one of the top trending positions
(02:23):
and I was shot. So at that time I realized
that I should probably separate from my regular nine to five,
and I didn't do it in quite enough time before
I was discovered. But it all works out, and I
think for me, I really started backwards. I really did
start in mainstream, and the majority of all of my
(02:45):
work in the adult industry has been mainstream shoots. So
I started a you know, an only fan site at
the end of December, I think, but I didn't really
hit it hard until this year because this whole content crea.
Even now it's it's look at the date, I'm still juggling.
(03:06):
I'm still trying to learn this whole thing. So I
look for any assistance that I can get.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
But I always I always ask when women come into
this industry, I want to know what percentage of it
you thought you thought coming into the industry, no expectator,
You're like, I'm going to go shoot mainstream porn. Now
what percentage did you think was having sex with people
on camera? And what percentage did you think was social media?
And then did that just completely flip on its fucking
(03:33):
head once you once you really got into.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
It, I was like, really good, it's pretty interesting. I
think that it really is up to the creator and
how much focus they want to put it on that
content creation. I think if you're rolling and your your
full steam ahead in the mainstream aspect of it, you
(03:56):
couldn't absolutely continuous that. But it's a page for and
then it's finished. There isn't any type of rezation. For me,
was in order to maintain just getting caught up on
the bills, but then maintaining the bills. I needed some
sort of residual So that's when I reached out to
(04:18):
other creators. I reached out to friends that I had
that I knew who were creators, and I got a
lot of guidance and assistants from them. They've done a
huge support I do.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Oh, you go ahead, I apologize, I'm sorry. I do
a secondary show where I interview new people coming into
the industry, and I've been I've hit a string of
people recently of girls getting in who are kind of like,
not interested in only fans. They're like, I don't want
to do only fans. I know, I don't care about that.
I just want to shoot mainstream stuff. And I'm trying
(04:52):
to explain to them. I get it, I totally do,
but I try and explain to them too. What they
don't realize is the mainstream stuff is a great advertisement
for eurorof right.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Huge promotional opportunities right there. Sure, so absolutely go ahead. Sorry, yeah,
and no, you're good, But you're exactly right, and that
that would be one thing that I would want to
share with everyone that it has been a learning process
for me, for sure. It's hard for me to say
I'm a content creator because I do not measure up
(05:25):
to the effort that all of those talents put into
being successful in that content creation. Not yet. I hope
to get there. I'm learning. I'll keep working hard for it.
But if they can understand that there is that residual
income and there is that that support, I think would
(05:46):
be a good way to say from those, you know,
the only fans that paid site that kind of thing,
it certainly is beneficial. I think, going back to your question,
I think for me, realizing how much time and effort
it takes to put in into these paid sites is
pretty It was pretty monumental for me. It was eye opening.
It has been.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Sure from the ignorant outside perspective. By the way, I
talk with my hands a lot, and I'm not attending either.
So from the outside perspective, you know, the ignorant public,
and that's not these listeners. Obviously they're really smart. The
outside public would be like, oh, Lorraine just you know,
shows up on set, has sex with some guys, goes
(06:27):
home and her job's done. Blah blah blah. It's like
you're a model, you're an actress, you're a social media manager.
You're doing back office work to figure out all the
admin paperwork, blah blah blah blah blah. I would I
almost would rather just go to a nine to five.
I don't know, but you know, so, yeah, let me
(06:49):
dive into something real quick there. You mentioned your husband
early on, and you know I've also hit a string
of interviews recently of people into the lifestyle. Would you
be comfortable me asking a couple questions about that? And
if anything delves too far, tell me you know we're
not going.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
To talk about it, absolutely sure.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
What are the dynamics of your relationship? Lifestyle?
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Is it?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
You can have as much as you want, He can
have as much as he want. Does he prefer to watch?
Does he like the humiliation? I'll run through all of it,
But you tell me, what do you think your dynamics
are in your relationship?
Speaker 2 (07:24):
No, it's quite interesting. I think that we tend to
be a little different than others. We were actually best
friends prior to getting together, so you know, the things
that you may discuss with a potential partner or someone
you're dating. We, I mean, we far surpassed that long
before because we were friends. I mean I told them
things you would never tell a prospective part and vice versa.
(07:48):
You know, if he was seeing a girl, he's like,
you'll never guess what we did last night. You know,
I'm like, god, dang, that's hot. I love that shit.
I think it's awesome, right, And I'm like, good for you, Bud.
So then when it finally evolved and we decided to
take that step to get together, we had already passed
that whole unknown of each other and trying to get
to know each other. We already knew. So we hit
(08:10):
our thirties and neither one of us had ever partied,
never been to the bar its, never been to the clubs,
nothing like that. But in our thirties we're like, you
know what, let's do this together. And we started to
have a lot of fun. We would go to the clubs,
we would do and I'm just talking about vanilla clubs.
And it was fun for him when I would have
(08:32):
gentlemen come up to me and say, hey, you know,
I'll buy you a drink, and I'm like, yeah, you know,
it was fun for him to watch flirting and that
kind of thing. And from there, I mean, we are
totally one hundred percent honest and transparent with each other.
There's no secrets. There's no anything with he and I,
and you know, we both expressed to one another that, hey,
it'd be fun if we go just meet others just
(08:54):
kind of experience things, because neither one of us had
a great deal of experience as our prior partners before
each other. So and that's kind of how that started
with us. So our dynamic, I think, is a little
different than a lot of couples to live in that lifestyle.
We started first watch swingers couples and we were like, oh,
(09:18):
it's fucking amazing, right, And then I just took the
leaf one day and I said, let's do it. I
want to play, and it turned out to be such
a fucking turn on for both of us.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
So let me ask this then, kind of piggybacking off
of that, you guys decided to jump in and you
were friends and this and that. Did you have rules
set up? And then I have a follow up to that.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
Yeah, I love that question because he and I were
the ones who probably had the least rules ever for
do you know, I can't think of any rules that
we had. So if he wanted to play, he played,
I played. We played together. He played with me when
I was playing you know, we didn't have a lot
of rules, but we always respected others rules and boundary
(10:02):
you know. But and then what your follow up that.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
My follow up, well, your relationship is too healthy and
clean and everything for me to make this follow up
makes sense. But I was going to ask, do you
have any rules that eventually got brushed aside where it's
maybe your inaction and there's a rule, oh, don't lick
her there and everyone's charged up, and you look at
(10:26):
your husband and he just goes, yep, go ahead, and
then boom, and then everyone loves it and enjoys it.
Were there any things that were kind of let's push
that line and then I, fuck it, let's just cross it.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
For us? In my going back, there really wasn't. We
have not experienced that. We've witnessed that repeatedly. We've witnessed it,
and then that's when we made the decision to back
away from that whole situation or whatever was going on.
But for he and I, there really are nold boundaries
or rules between the two of us. You know, we
(11:00):
have met up with couples who are like, you know,
you can't hold her hand, you can't you can't do
this don't kiss her on the mouth. You can't do
this with him, and we again respect that, but we
just don't have that with us. I mean, if it's
going with the flow and he's enjoying himself, that's what
turns me on, that's what I love, and I think
(11:21):
it's the same for him.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
So okay, all right. Did you ever you or your
husband accidentally break a rule someone else's rule and you
had to apologize, Oh, sorry, I didn't mean to kiss
you on the mouth or I don't mean to. No,
you've never been like chastised and ay thing, Okay, No,
we've been very fortunate. I think we're both very conscient
just about others. And you know, I think for it
(11:43):
to be healthy and to be happy and to remain fun,
you really have to be conscientious of others boundaries. And
you know, how how are you going to proceed with that?
So sure, okay makes sense. Last question about lifestyle stuff,
and this one is just purely born from my ind
security in my own self as you have either one
(12:05):
of you ever had to quote unquote take one for
the team, meaning maybe there's a couple they're interested in you.
He's very interested in the girl you not necessarily into
the guy or vice versa. Has anyone ever had to
take me?
Speaker 2 (12:21):
So okay, now that you're saying that, it's not a
rule for us, but it's a recognition for us. So
in the event that we are in a situation, say,
you know, the male partner is into me, and I'm
into everything everyone, So the male partner is into me,
but she may not be into my husband, and that
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was for me a deal breaker, you know what I mean.
I want I want him to enjoy as well. I
want them to enjoy. There should never be anybody taking
one for the team, in my opinion, in both of
our opinion. That's kind of how we've progressed through.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Okay, all right, See I always think I would be
the one who would be taken for the team, So
I just go, well, I don't want to be too
offended by that. Like I can imagine my wife and
I going to something and a woman looking at me
and going never mind, oh here.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Yeah, then I don't want anyone to feel that way.
I mean, I have seen it, obviously, we have experience
that where and it's most generally she's like, I don't know,
you know, you can if you want to my husband
and to me, that isn't no, you know, that's not
fun for her. It certainly isn't fun for him. And
then I lose all all fun at that point.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Yeah, I could see myself getting turned off. If some
guy kind of like looked up my wife and was like,
h you can just fuck my wife, I'd be like, now,
how about you eat shit, buddy, get out of here.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
Yeah, there you go, and you guys go on, y'all
have fun and then find somebody that you really like. Yeah,
and that is the most wonderful thing about the lifestyle
that I have that we I'll see I because he's
in here. But that I have experienced is you know,
we have very few poor experiences. And maybe it is
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because of the recognition of boundaries or you know, we're
not willing to take one for the team. You know.
It should be a good, awsome, fun time for everybody.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Okay, Yeah, I think that. I mean that it's it's sex.
It's supposed to be like one of the best things
in the world. If someone's bummed out in the middle of.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
It, absolutely, you know it. Yeah, there's no way to
make you can't recover from that.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
No, no, no, no, so let me go ahead. I apologize.
What was it?
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Oh, you're okay. I was going to say that is
one thing about the lifestyle is it is all physical pleasure.
I mean, I'm talking from my perspective, but for me,
there's not a huge emotional tie. I don't need the
emotions involved. And I know people are like, well, I
have to have an emotional connection to have a sexual experience,
but for me, the physical aspect and if there's chemistry
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at ten times better. But honestly, it's just fun. It's
physically fun.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Oh, physically fun, physically fund mentally stimulating. I assume where
it's very eternal to watch this stuff even if you're
not involved. But you said emotionally you don't have to
be involved. Is that you're not emotionally involved or is
it that you're able to compartmentalize your emotion where just
in this moment, I'm having a good time. This guy's great, big,
(15:24):
dig nice guy, good looking, Da da da da da.
And then afterwards, almost like actors and actresses who kind
of I'm not saying you have a crush on any
of these guys, but in the moment, A lot of
times when actors and actresses on Hollywood movies, are you know,
playing a couple, They'll start to develop a little bit
of a flirt, a little bit of a you know,
I could see myself with this person and then it's
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over at the end of it. Is there any of
that in there? Not?
Speaker 2 (15:50):
For me personally. I think maybe there's a couple of
times when there was really good chemistry with a meal
talent or a partner that I had, and then we'll
just meet up again, you know, and then meet up
again or whatever we choose to do. But for me,
I would never want to change anything about my life
to go be with that person.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
Gotcha.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
And I think that's the difference.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Gotcha. Gotcha? Okay, let me dive into the content a
little bit. Can I guess who was your first shoot with?
Do you remember who? It was?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
Absolutely so my first shoot ever mainstream? You mean? Yes,
it was Thailand Nixon. I was working with hot Meils
fucked And I'm telling you, they have it to a
tea to make you feel comfortable and absolutely introduce you
to this industry, if you ask me, that's my opinion.
What they did for me. They put me at ease,
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They had gosh, they go through the process because I
was really shocked. I don't know what my preconceived notions
were about the adult industry at the time, but I
get phone to this location and then I show up
and they take your bag in and they're like, hey,
you got hair and makeup waiting, and I'm like, oh,
really that was cool. So then they bring you in, well,
(17:06):
now we need paperwork, we do this, we do this.
We I ensured that you're safe, and I mean it
was just incredible to me. I was like, this is
a business, this is professional, and it truly wasn't their
best interest to ensure that I was well informed. I
was one hundred percent consensual everything, which is huge, right,
and they just did an incredible job. So it was
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my first partner with Tyler Nixon, who was very well,
you know, he's very well versed and he works a
lot with new people, and I think it was just
a really good matchup.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
I've never met Tyler, but I have heard that same
thing from a lot of women that he just kind
of makes things comfortable and easy, and especially if you're
just getting into it for the first time, has there
been anything that you didn't know you were into until
you got into porn. I mean, it's tough because because
I assume you in the swinger lifestyle, you had tried
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and experienced a whole lot of new things. But is
there anything that maybe you were a little skittish on
or unsure of that when you finally got on set
and then happened, you were like, oh, yeah, that's cool.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
I like that. Yeah, and that's true. So anal, that
whole taboo anal thing, holy shit, and that's the only
thing that everybody wants. I mean, even to this day,
my fans are like, why don't you have more anal?
I'm like, when was the last time you took it?
But I don't say that, but I think for me
the whole I had a fear of it because I
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had only had good experiences with my husband. But we
worked through it. It took us time, we understood what
needed to be done for he and I for it
to be comfortable and happy. So it was actually on
two three. It was very early on. I was approached
by another mainstream company. I worked with the score group.
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I did four scenes with the score group and they
said we would like to do a boy girl anal
and I was like, oh god, you know, I was
so worried about it. I'm like, holy shit, I don't
know what to do. I don't know how to prep
for it. All they sting. So again I reached out
to resources. They were amazing. Everybody that I have had
contact with in the industry is more than willing to
help you. So they said, well, to prep for something
(19:15):
like this, this is what you do. So I did it,
and I went and I shot the scene. And this
was with Barry mccuchnor. So that would have been my
very first on screen aail scene. And I'm telling you
everybody there our director, and I can tell you everybody's names.
But as I remember, they made such an impression on me.
But it was wonderful. It worked out perfect. I had
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no uh oh, and it didn't hurt. It was great.
I was like, holy shit, this might be something new
for me. And from there I have had the ability
to progress all the way up to DP. So but
I can't Yeah, that one's coming. It's my scream.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
Okay, all right, we won't talk about where it is
because it's coming, but maybe a question or two about that. First.
Let me do a thing I like to do called
stat check. So let me start with this and tell
you that these numbers are completely and entirely wrong. They
are from the Internet Adult Film Database, and basically what
it does is it tracks mainstream scenes, It tracks certain
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many VID scenes. It does this. I don't know. It's
not great, but it's the best resource we have. So
I'm going to give you your stats where you are now,
and then a year from now when you come back
on the show, you'll be covered in av and awards,
and you know these numbers will seem childish for the
number of scenes I have for you. Know these are
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all wrong, because every girl I've ever told this too,
these are all going to be wrong at the end,
they always go those aren't right? I go, no, no, no,
I know, I know. Number of scenes I have for
you is eight. Number of guys you've worked with is six.
Number of girls you've worked with is one. Zero noms
for the AVN Awards and zero wins so far. Is
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that accurate? Six guys? You seem like you can still
get into heaven with that?
Speaker 2 (21:02):
So oh dear, I have so much to tell you. No, yeah,
the numbers are not quite right there, Sure, I am
almost at the twenty pro scenes. Okay, Yeah, and quite honestly,
I have not tried to count the number of partners
that I've had on the pro scenes. They are correct.
(21:23):
In the pro shoots, I do only have one female partner,
and that was the Hot Mills. Fuck, it was the
second scene that I did with them. Yeah, second scene
I did with them, and then I did a third
with them, which was anal But I have certainly had
many more than six male partners.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
Well, the Pope's very disappointed by that, but that's okay.
Speaker 2 (21:45):
They forget, they forget.
Speaker 3 (21:46):
Right, Yeah, exactly, yes, So let me ask as you
ramp this stuff up, do you have desires to do
you shoot any of.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
Your own content currently for like your only fans? And
what kind of style is it?
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Is it?
Speaker 1 (22:03):
Hey, this is Lorraine at home, This is me just chilling,
this is a good time. Look at me, I'm naked,
I'm this is it like a monthly big production? Where
are we at and where do we plan to go?
Speaker 2 (22:14):
So it's pretty interesting. I've learned a great deal and again,
reading out and meeting the other talent in the industry
has really really helped me understand where to go from there.
So initially I started with a traveling Hot Life series
because it's super easy for me. It's real. Everything that
I have done in the adult industry, I've already experienced
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in my personal life, so it's easy. It was an
easy transition. So as far as my content goes, that
is probably my biggest go to is the Traveling Hot
Life It was fun because years ago I would travel
for work and I'm away from my husband. Now I
would meet a fellow or a lady who was interested
in them and I call them and say, hey, I
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found that dud. I mean, that's it's real. I mean,
that's really what happened. I'd bring them back and it
depended upon their comfort level. But he would either listen
on the phone or we would video or whatever. And
so I have brought that into my content creation because
it's so natural, it's so easy, and my male talent
(23:18):
has been amazing, like they love the idea. So there
is there is the Traveling Hot Wife series. There are
some that it is just so on. We get there
and we're like boom, it's time to work, and we do.
But it's a good work, right, we all have fun.
I think overall, I'm not very good with solos. I
need to do more solos, but I'm learning that again,
(23:40):
it's all new. I think that's the thing that I'm
most shy about is masturbation. I see, I laugh like
a child when I say it, for God's sake, deep
my ass tonight. But asturbate, I can't say it.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
That's so fun. I was just going to say that.
I was going to say, doing research for this up
some of the most graphic pictures I've ever seen. Beautiful,
by the way, And now she won't she No, Lorene's
on here going I don't like necessarily talking about diddling myself.
I go, oh, well, she's nicely. Uh what is it
about that that's tough for you, because I here's here's
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my thing. When I see like JOI videos or whatever,
all the other ones, the talkie ones are I look
at it and I go, if I were in that
girl's shoes or that part whatever shoes, I would I
would have about sixty seconds of dirty talk, and then
I'd be like, I hope you didn't pay for five minutes.
This is all I got. Take a look at the tits.
You know what part of like the solo stuff is
(24:39):
hard for you. Okay, So between you and I and
everyone out there. I did not masturbate until I was God,
I was probably thirty three or thirty four years old,
and it was it was through the encouragement of just
being the comfortable with my husband. Honestly, he's like, you
can do this, just try. I'm like no, And first all,
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I don't know.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
I don't know. It's like a ingrain thing or whatever.
But I never did. I never tried it, and so
I think for me that that process is still new.
You know, it's not been very long, and it wasn't it.
It was not anything that I did frequently because I
mean I have partners to satisfy me or whatever, you know. So, yes,
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that's kind of where it got with that.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
Can I why why did it take so long for
you to get into it? I mean I was. I
was in like fourth grade.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
Exactly, and I think most people are and they're like, wait,
what you know? I haven't expressed that a great deal.
My first solo scene on a pro shoot, I was like,
I swear to you, I was so I don't even
know what to call it. I had to have been
so awkward. I'm sure people have seen it. Hopefully it
doesn't look awkward, but to me, I'm like, I don't
(25:53):
even know what to do right now. I'm im wan
to go with this, but yeah, I think it was
just a I never had a level of comfort with
myself to do that. And I know a time, yeah,
you feel horney, but like, okay, either it passes or
you find somebody. Right, that's kind of where I was.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Hot, Okay, interesting. Interesting. As your career progresses and you
get invited or you know, hired for more shoots, eventually
offers will come that you don't like. So I used
to call this show not show. I used to call
this little thing I'm doing here sack, and what that
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stands for is shit, animals and kids. I called it
that because I would ask women this question and the
answer I would inevitably get back would be something like,
well I wouldn't do that, like something horrible, and I
would go, no, no, no, I know, I know there's
no dogs involved that, No, we don't want that. What
I'm asking is something that is within the realm of
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normal in the adult entertainment industry. What is something you
just have no interest in pursuing. They come to you
and say, here's the offer, Lorraine. It's a big site,
big name, you'll be working with great people, and you're
still just like, ugh, not my thing.
Speaker 2 (27:09):
No, yes, So anything related to degradation and this has happened.
And I think that's one thing they put out there
and let everyone know is if you are not comfortable
with it, you can absolutely say no. And I have
and it was shocking to some of the producers. But
there was a site that contacted me and he said, okay,
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so I have six different brands, you know, and I
was intending on working for the one brand and he said,
oh no, you're brand new, so you're going to start
with this brand. And I said, well, I'll look into it,
you know. And so I reviewed the website and it
was absolutely so degrading. And I know this is some
people's thing and that's okay, but it's not for me.
(27:52):
I mean, it got to the point where these girls
were being forced to vomit because of the actions that
were taken and I am not subjecting myself to that,
and I won't, you know. And I told him no,
and he said, well, you can't tell me no, you're
just starting and I said I absolutely can, and he goes, well,
I will blacklist you, and I said, I highly doubt
you have the cloud in this entire industry to blacklist me.
(28:16):
And if you do, then good for you. But I
want people to know that you can say no.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
Yeah, I will, I will. I will ask you when
we're done recording. But is this person non person necessarily?
But is this group of sites kind of known as
a problem now that you've been in it a little
bit longer.
Speaker 2 (28:36):
Yes, And I have found that unfortunately, a lot of
ladies did not feel that they had the opportunity to
say no to this site, and they sucked it up
and they're like, yeah, I got through it and I
got past it. I'm like, well, it's unfortunately you had
to deal with that.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
I'm thinking of one or two. Well we'll talk. I
understand you don't have to, but yeah, So that is
that is a great point, and that I try and
relay that to a lot of the newer girls I interview,
where it's like, hey, you know, this is a job.
At the end of the day, it's fun. It should
be so fun. You show up, you sign paper, like
you just said about your Tyler Nixon. You you show up,
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you sign your papers, you get your makeup done, you
have sex, you go home.
Speaker 2 (29:15):
It's great, right, it's wonderful. I've not had one bad
day at work. No, it's not one.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
Oh, I have nothing but bad days at work. It's strange.
But this is fun. This isn't work. This is fun.
I like this. This is good. This is good, don't
get me wrong. So all right, so no degradation. Let
me ask you, how about degradation going the other way?
Have you ever felt yourself as kind of a domb?
You seem too sweet? But maybe I'm wrong.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
Well you so you're probably going to be shocked. But
I have been doing dumb work for the last three years. Wow,
just totally under the radar. Yes, And I think I'm
kind of more of a maybe a soft dom is
what they call it. I really want to get in
tune with what my submissive once because I think that
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makes the experience better for both of us. There's a
lot of communication, and I know a lot a lot
of folks in that position. They like the they like
to be submissive, obviously, and the humiliation and degradation. Degradation
is hard for me to even give out. So I work.
I focus more with them on what what would get
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them other than you know, I never tell them that's wrong,
because it certainly isn't it is for it is something
that really turns on a lot of people, and that's awesome,
but for me, it's hard to deliver it. So no,
I just I, you know, we'll find a different focus
when it comes to that, okay. And that is another
(30:45):
thing that I've learned in the adult industry is there
there are two separate entities. You have your fetish world,
you have your cakes, and then you have your adult world.
And I mean they are quite different.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
You know, there's a there's a third layer that is
still legal, but not as good. I'm realizing because I
recently clicked on someone's link tree for whatever I had
interviewed them as a newer model, and I looked and
they had this whole thing that was like only fans,
but it was like shit that only fans won't let
you post, and nothing illegal, but as disgusting as you
(31:21):
can get. And I look at it initially and I'm like,
I'm not into that at all. I think it's terrible,
not terrible that they're doing it, just like I don't
want to see that. I'm not interested. And then it
sits on you and you go, someone does this girl
did want to do this thing? Right, Because like you
said about this, I also can't get into the puking
and the you know, you're a dumb whar blah blah
(31:43):
blah blah blah. I'm just not into that stuff. Yeah,
but the girls are into it if they were positive
and not one of the ones like you said, where
they couldn't say no unfortunately, and people do want to
watch that. So who is it on me to say,
you know, it's not good or it's not what ever?
I don't know. There was no point in that question.
I was just ranting because I clicked on something the
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other day.
Speaker 2 (32:05):
Yeah, it did to get out there though, because I
think you're exactly right. I certainly am very open minded
for all kinks fetishes anything for anybody out there. Again,
like you said, I have certain boundaries and I think
that we all do so as long as others can
have the ability to respect that, then I think that's
where we're all successful.
Speaker 1 (32:24):
You know, totally makes sense. So your only things do
you do? Okay, because we're not necessarily great at solos?
Do you do custom videos yet? Is that something you're
working up to?
Speaker 2 (32:36):
I do custom videos. I actually do quite quite a
few custom videos. It's died off the last month or so,
but I'll do customs then. At this point, for me,
the the solo stuff is not as uncomfortable as it was.
And with the solo obviously they kind of guide you.
You know, they'll give you the content that they want,
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they'll give you the baseline of what they're looking for.
And I also do live video chats, which is one
of the things that I love the most because I
have that interaction with that individual and I can see
that they're being pleased or you know, it's I am
catering to what they want and I am a pleaser.
I enjoyed that.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Okay, all right, let me ask, has anyone been like
a mentor to you or are guiding like any of
the other girls in the industry or guys you said
you knew some content creators when you first started getting
into it or ramping up or making it full time,
who's been like this person's been really great for me.
Speaker 2 (33:33):
I don't know if I should say their names. I
don't know, well will I mean, we're incredible people, for.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Sure, totally totally, but but why wouldn't we want to
not like they're legal names, right, You're not giving me
social Security.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
Numbers, stage names, but they're they're private individuals. Also, well,
I can tell you one of my greatest guides in
the beginning, and we're gonna have to ask him before
we we put it all out there. I'll ask him
and make sure it's okay. But Shane Diesel has been
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an excellent guide for me, you know, just from the
beginning at a friend level. He's obviously been in the
industry for quite a long time and he is the
one who guided me to understand the importance of that
residual income from these paid sites and the content creation
because I'm like, I don't ever want to do that.
I was that girl. I'm like, I'm just going to
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do shoots all the time. Well they don't always come in.
So he has been a great guide about the emotional health,
mental health, everything. I mean, he is just he's been incredible.
And I would say on I think who has touched
me the most is probably Miss Sienna Ray. We've had
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an opportunity to talk a great deal. We were actually
in a content house together. It's how we met and
then we ended up working together, which has been great,
and she's just been an ex resource. She's a great support,
a great guide, and she's my friend as well.
Speaker 1 (35:05):
So that's nice, YEA. From it's crazy because from the outside,
my ignorant misogynism would be like, oh, poor an industry.
All the women are at each other's throats and they're
fighting for this and that. But it doesn't seem like
that at all at all.
Speaker 2 (35:23):
I haven't experience at at all. I haven't, but I
was expecting the same thing, the whole competition. And that's
one thing about me. I had a twenty one year
career in a male led industry, right, I am not
that woman who is going to compete with another woman.
I refuse to. My job is to build them up
and to empower them. I want to empower everyone. I
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want them to be as much as they can possibly
everything they want to be, everything they want to do,
and that with my goal in life, and it has
bled over into this industry. So I don't have it
in me to be competitive with other ladies. I don't.
And if there is competition on their side, I'll see it,
I recognize it, and I'll allow that for them. That's
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important for them to have that and not feeling in
that competitive nature because that's how they'll succeed. But for me,
I just I don't need it.
Speaker 1 (36:15):
I don't want that, gotcha. Yeah, some of the interviews
I've done have talked to apparently strip clubs are not
as nice as porn star Twitter. I hear a lot
of infighting behind the scenes and this and that, and
I'm wondering if it's just that it's the I was
gonna say target, but target sounds like the absolute worst word.
(36:36):
The guy, the person they're trying to extract money from,
is in there in person. You don't know if another
guy's going to walk through right, You don't know if
another guy's gonna walk through the door today. You don't
know if you're gonna have a chance. So I understand
the desire to let's capitalize on this. This is still
a business. But in the adult entertainment film industry, I mean,
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there's a guy who likes every type of body, every
type of look, every type of fetish. There is a
market for it. So when people try and figure their
thing out to I always just say, hey, be yourself
and like someone will find you and love you and
touch their dicks to you.
Speaker 2 (37:14):
Absolutely and that's what we love, right and my goal
to make people happy.
Speaker 1 (37:24):
So let's jump into the future real quick. Where do
we see this going? Is this a career career for
you now? Is this a we'll keep doing this until
it's not fun? Is this we're going to see Lorraine
as an eighty one year old guilfhon of DVD cover?
(37:45):
Probably not a DVD cover, but you know what I mean?
Where are we going with this? And where do you
want to go with this?
Speaker 2 (37:52):
And that's an interesting question that I thought a lot
about lately. Right now, I am having an excellent but
I'm also real in my mind. I'm realistic. I understand
that this will fit. I'm not going to be able
to continue to maintain what folks enjoy as Lady Lorraine
right now. So I'm looking ahead. I want to continue
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performing and doing everything in content creation until it gets
to a point where I noticed that it's like, maybe
this guilt is not the it. But fortunately I have
other skills. I would love to move into a mentoring
type of position or you know, guide mentor I wouldn't mind.
(38:37):
I don't know anything about agencies and I don't have
an agent, but if I were to look ahead, I
would probably move into more of an admin talent type
recruiter and help guide the talent males females, it doesn't matter,
on the right path and let them know you do
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have the opportunity to say no, because I've heard that
a lot these these ladies and gentlemen as well, they
don't say no no. This is something that you need
to understand that it's your choice. But I have been
a coordinator for events for the last fifteen years, you know,
so setting up events, holding huge events, and just getting
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exposure for others. Learning the whole networking aspect of everything.
I think is where I personally would like to lead to.
And will I still perform I mean now and then
absolutely if someone wants me, you know. And yeah, I
don't see myself as the eighty year old gift, but
I have met some recently and they fucking kick ass
(39:42):
and I love them.
Speaker 1 (39:44):
I recently interviewed d D. White, who was formerly Sakah Black.
Oh yeah, you're yo, yo, she is awesome. I kept
I didn't want to say. I implied it on the show,
but I I'm not gonna I don't think I'm gonna
live as long as she is, and she's still out
there throwing it around. Man, She's great.
Speaker 2 (40:05):
Sally D'Angelo. Those ladies, they are so fine. They're just
something sometimes, but they love cock. They love it, and
that's what's important, right, I mean, they're they're enjoying it
every second.
Speaker 1 (40:17):
So well mentioning D. D. White. I only asked this
because I saw you say this on a different interview
and I find it interesting, not that you know, all positive,
all positive, I just find it interesting. Do you prefer
working with black men or.
Speaker 2 (40:33):
Has that been Can let you say that. I'm glad
that you've brought that up, because it's brought up all
the time. So for me, it's not a preference. I
love people, men, women, all racist shapes and sizes, you know.
But in a lot of cases, for the pro shoots,
I'm not choosing my male talent. Sometimes I don't meet
them until an hour before we shoot the then so
(40:55):
and even in the personal content creation, it's just something
that I if I click with the individual or they
contact me and we're able to set it up. But
quite honestly, it's weird. The whole race BBC thing has
never been crossed my mind, but it's.
Speaker 1 (41:11):
Lot sure, Yeah, I mean, I guess you know. I've
I've had discussions with other girls where it's almost like
there are some white performers who are very much like,
get the term inter racial ad of porn, we don't
want it, blah blah blah blah. And I've talked to
black performers who are like, I don't care about race.
Play call me whatever you want. We're shooting a scene,
we're doing a movie. So it's it's always strange how
(41:32):
it's dynamic and changing and does this matter? Does this
not matter? I just asked, because we mentioned D D.
White and D D White, let me know specifically, she's
like black guys only is what I'm only. She was
so funny, it was just it was great. It was great,
all right, Lorraine. I don't have much else for you
(41:54):
here other than, uh, just to really thank you for
coming on, and I hope your career progresses because you
have just such a positive spirit to you. And I'm
sorry if that sounds corny and stupid, but it's like
I can feel the positivity coming off of you, and
I really hope it translates even more success. You know
exactly where you can find Lorraine, at Lady Lorraine l
(42:18):
A D Y L O R R E I g
N links to everything in the episode description and uh yeah, Loraine,
let's check in with you like a year from now,
and you'll still be like, oh, I love this, it's
so great blah blah blah blah blah. But I bet
you'll have like six new things where you're like, I
don't do that shit, I don't like that shit.
Speaker 2 (42:39):
Well, fee, that's so exciting just to get to that point,
to be like, oh, hell no, I'm not doing that.
Speaker 1 (42:44):
Oh sure, Loraine. Thank you so much for coming on
with me tonight.
Speaker 2 (42:47):
Oh you're amazing, and thank you so much for having
me
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