August 21, 2025 • 26 mins
Welcome to the next segment! For the next 5 weeks, we will be covering "Marriage"! Specifically, this segment will cover the darker side of marriage, the part we don't talk about enough though the brethren are suffering from it everyday: Adultery, and all it entails (forgiveness, moving forward, preventing it, children from the affair, sexuality, etc). This segment will also cover things like smoking and lying. So tune in every Thursday at 1:30pm for the next few weeks to be fed, healed, and delivered through the Word of God and wisdom of the Holy Spirit with Pastor Cyndi.
Today, Pastor Cyndi will be discussing part 2 on Adultery. She gets into how adultery tears families apart and what to do if a child is born from an affair. Take a listen and be back next week for Forgiveness!
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Today, Pastor Cyndi will be discussing part 2 on Adultery. She gets into how adultery tears families apart and what to do if a child is born from an affair. Take a listen and be back next week for Forgiveness!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Praise the name of Jesus. Hallelujah, and welcome back to
have you heard. Yes, I'm Cynthia, and I'm glad you
all have joined me a man, praise the name of Jesus.
So we have been talking about adultery on our last
the last podcast, the last time we worked together, we
had talked about adultery. Yes, it's not it's not good
(00:27):
to God said and to in commandment, spouse shall not
commit adultery. Jesus said in the New Testament Grace that
if you even look at a woman with lust in
your heart, then you committed adultery. So it's a big
thing for God, adultery. And many have been a victim
(00:49):
of that their spouse committed adultery. That mean had a
rel sexual relations with someone other than their spouse. How
unfortunate that is. And some people think, you know, well,
we didn't have sex. They had gotten into an emotional
fear that that's all right, No, that's no, you're thinking
(01:11):
about this person. And Jesus just said think if you
you know, hey, man, come on, we got to listen,
read the word, study the word. So on emotional affairs
off the table as well, because you didn't have sexual relationships,
but you begin bonding with your feelings emotional. You know,
you got into an emotional bond with this person. And
(01:36):
that's not what the will of God for you for
a marriage. You marry, you are with whoever you are
married with. And the thing is marriage is beautiful when
you do it God's way. And maybe that's the problem.
People don't understand marriage from God's perspective. Amen, the way
(02:00):
the will of God for marriages. Hey, you know, AmAm,
But God and his word has clearly laid out the
way he would like marriage to be in His kingdom
here on the earth, so that we can be an
example to the unsaved people praise God to others in general.
(02:21):
Or this is how a marriage goes. And I'm not
talking about you know, people think, you know the women,
the woman should be beat down, drug down, a maid,
a slave. You know, no, no cook and no God
never said. And if you study your Bible, Abraham, and
if they cook, what about east side Jacob Jacob? And
east side should I say Jacob was cooking a ma'am, hallelujah.
(02:46):
Abraham came to see her and asks her praise God.
So you know, the man should be cultivating it. Wise,
if you was busy into your wife and cultivating her,
it would be easy for her to honor and respect
you and you to keep your mind off someone else.
And before we go on into today's podcast, I want
(03:09):
to say right quickly that step that you are brother
and sister, you are God's children. Don't get to work
and talking about your what is that office wife or
your office husband. No no, no, no, no, no no no,
that's not in the kingdom where you're getting this from
because it sounds good, it's funny, or you work really
well with this person, this guy, this woman. Okay, but
(03:34):
you need to take that to God so that we won't,
you know, cross that line. Because once you start, all
is you know, speaking to each other and telling you know,
getting overly involved in their business or their weekend or
their vacation or their children or whatever it is, Praise God.
Then you're creating a strong connection. You're creating a bond.
(03:57):
And that's not what you want to do. Yes, men
and women have to work together today in the workforce,
but that should be it worked together with respect for
each other as individuals, as married people, and even as
single people. It should not be well, I'm gonna go
warm up her cow for her, turn her air on
for her. Or I'm gonna help her take this that
(04:19):
and the dot that down, carry this to the car
for her. Or she don't have that much gas, I'm
gonna give her that gasmin Or she's bringing in food
every day for you. This your favorite, taste my cookies,
taste this spaghetti. And I last night and I brought
brought enough for you. No, because the question is would
you be that open and friendly and talkative if your
(04:41):
spouse was sitting there, if you really had a relationship
with God like you're supposed to, and know that he
is el royal, the god who sees would you do
that act in that behavior with someone other than your spouse? Okay,
then as he sees you and your wedding band, your
(05:02):
wedding ring is there to remind you you are married.
That means something. God honors marriages, not your relationships you
created outside the marriage. No, no, no, no no. And flirting,
we got to stop that to fly. All this leads
into an adulterous relationship, an adulterous affair. That's not what
(05:23):
you want, that's not what certainly isn't what your spouse wants.
So why you know, do it because it's fun, because
you can, because you know you want to look good
to people. For some reason, you feel bad about yourself
or your past or some people have a low self esteemed. Honey,
you take everything to God and prayer amen, because you
(05:47):
are now causing problems for later, because when that affair
gets revealed, and it will, then you got hurt people everywhere,
your spouse, the children, your in laws, your family, the
person you had the adulterous relationship with. So let's not
(06:11):
do that. God is powerful. The Word says all things
are powerful with God. So with God, you cannot commit adultery.
You cannot. You can have help with creating a relationship
by not creating it. Lord, I'm always talking your open doors.
Just think when you met your spouse, how did you
(06:31):
know that person become your spouse. Y'all spent time together,
and y'all talked a lot and talked about everything. Some
couples talked all day every day. And now we have
the texting, the emailing and all this stuff, and that's
what they do all day. You're creating a bond, a
bond that is not necessary. Talk to your spouse, I
(06:52):
can't talk to her. Tell God he can do anything.
He will fix that. He made the marriage prayerfully because
the Bible said, let no man put asund too what
he has joined together some people, God has not joined
together like you think you should be cause you had
this affair. Divorce your spouse to be God then put
that together because you was already with someone. So stop,
(07:15):
praise God. Stop making excuses to be with someone else,
because you are insulting God. For those who marriages. You
prayed for a spouse, and He gave you a spouse
just what you wanted and blessed in that marriage. And
if for some reason you wanna do whatever you wanna
do so you're wild oats. You don't have oats, and
they're not wild. Praise God. You don't have any wild oats,
(07:38):
is what I'm trying to say. Be thankful in prayer
for for your spouse and with your spouse. If you
the man will cultivate his wife, Praise God. That's if
you occupy yourself with doing that, focusing on your wife,
you won't have no you know business talking to whoever
you're talking to an office. Yes, you guys have to
(08:01):
work together, male and female, but you don't have to
get into each other. Hi, how is your weekend? Old?
It's from what did you do? I did this? And
really I never heard tell me about it? Why? Oh?
And what did you do? I didn't do much? And
you know, I wish I'm to deal with you? Did oh?
I do stuff all the time. Blah blah blah blah blah, No, no, no, no, wait,
hold on, And then next weekend it's the same thing.
(08:23):
Then the third weekend, you know what what you gonna do?
Tell me? Maybe we can my wife don't like to
do no, or my spouse and that that, and let's
meet together, let's do this or that? No to see
when all you need is a good morning, ma'am, good
morning sir. Somebody might say, how was your weekend? It
was blessed? Praise the namage. And you go on to
your desk, your cobby, your office and keep it moving.
(08:46):
And when they come back on So I heard you
went yes on the line on the internet. The website
is whatever. You can go there and check it out. Alright,
let me call my wife. That's how you in that
or or you know, wanta let me call my husband.
See if we gonna get together, or if they don't
have nobody. Okay, all right, I pray you get somebody
and close your door. It's not being rude. It's called
(09:09):
keeping yourself from committing adultery. Praise God, because now you're
digging deeper into that person's personal life and you're sending
signals of saying, oh, it's a possibility or I'm interested
in you, and we don't want to do that because
that leads to an adulterous affair. You don't want. That's
(09:32):
why can't you? Hey, how you doing? Yeah? Yeah, check
it out on this whatever, and go on and call
your wife or your spouse and let them know, oh, hey,
how you doing? Nothing was going on? I just told
my cowork about this and that sheet out and dauta
out or heat doun and be done with it because
(09:53):
trust and loyalty and commitment is marriage. Praise God. Hey, ma'am,
so stop that talking about the office wife or office
husband and how you doing? What did you do? When
did you do it? And I'm gonna bring you something. No,
thank you only eat my wife's cooking or tell him no,
(10:13):
you want to go out to lunch? Or can I
get your coffee, No, thank you. If you're going to
get coffee, here's my money to pick up my coffee.
And going about your business. And let's the office the ball,
So everybody chipped in and have coffee or whatever they
have at work or brunch, m m, all of that
going on. Were going out after drinks, you say, what
you're drinking for? What are you drinking about? Stop that
(10:34):
because your inhibition get on, Amaen, so stop you got
These are things you have to watch for so that
you won't commit adult you. You won't open yourself up
for that spirit of adult you to come in. Praise God.
You won't begin to lust for something that is not yours.
Why hold on to something that is not yours. Let
that thought go, Let that person go, and treat them
(10:56):
with the respect of a coworker, not somebody you trying
to get into a relationship with by study, talking talking, talking,
talking every day all day work over. You're gonna call
him or send him a text. I just went past
the place and you told me that that's okay. Tell
your spouse that. Then we're talking about this place at
work and go on. You don't have to share everything
(11:18):
you see or do with your coworker, because it leads
to something else. You want a friend, have a friend
in Jesus, get with your spouse, pray with him. And
the reason why it's good to tell your spouse about
the interaction you had with the opposite sex at work
is because that helps keep you from going back. Because
(11:39):
your spouse, particularly a wife, and said, well, why are
you talking to her? And I might snap? Yeah? Why
am I snap? You? You know? Or your husband's sending baby?
Why you while you always talking to him? And well
am I not good enough? What's going? Is there something
going on? Nothing that whoa? Whoa? Because you might not
have seen it, Praise God. And instead of saying I
(11:59):
can't talk, you tell her because men like to say that.
I've heard it time and time again. You tell your
wife you to talk to her, but she always mad?
Why is she always mad? What did you do to
provoke her to be mad at you all the time?
What have you done? What are you doing? Why aren't
you talking to her? And you say she's mad because
(12:21):
maybe it's everything you attempt to do is against what
you and her agreed to. Maybe you've given her broken
promises and she has an issue with trust with you
and so when you say something, she thinks you're not
telling the truth and she's upset. Am'am ama, you need
to check all this instead of jumping to you know,
(12:44):
your something to be comfortable in the spirit of anger.
That's just the spirit which can cause hindrances and blockages, AmAm.
So you know there's a lot of mechanics going on
and just talking with the opposite sex at work every
day at all day. So we need to check that
(13:05):
all right, So we won't open you won't open yourself
up for the having an affair, an adulterous a relationship,
because that's gonna hurt your spouse when it is revealed,
let alone hurt you. It's not necessary. God can rekindle
that flame. He can reconcile that marriage. You know, well,
(13:27):
whatever the issue is, God can fix it. Trust Jesus.
He is a problem solver. He is a waymaker and
a miracle worker, and he wants you to be happy
in your marriage. He wants you to love your spouse.
He wants your spouse to love you, and he will
bless you when you bring every circumstance and situation to
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him in prayer. That's real simple because you don't want
to have an adulter's relationship. That's not cute, that's not cool,
that's not whatever you think it is, especially when you
said I'm a child of God. That should not be
a spirit that you walk in and man, and there's prayer,
(14:15):
you know, the word of prayer. Prayers are the righteous
of Eleth much to keep you from, you know, going
down that path. That's not a path you want to
go down, because too many people get hurting at So
it's a very selfish act, very selfish because you're just
thinking about you, not your spouse, if you have children,
(14:36):
not your children, you know, not your friends, not your family,
you just because you know you want to do what
you want to do. Jesus did what God called him
to do, and he went away, and he promised. He
fulfilled the promises of God. He said, will I must
go away so that I can send you the comforter.
(14:57):
He sent the comforter who was our Gud. He will
guide you into truth and righteousness. He will help you
and give you the detour to stay out of an
adulterous relationship. So trust your marriage to Jesus. Cover it
in the blood of Jesus. And yield to the Holy
Spirit so that you can stay off that path and
(15:19):
not go near it. Ay ma'am. So today I know
you know avans repeating, but I wanted to be you know,
just should I say, encourage you more on veering away
from an adulterous relationship. Things to look for, to watch
(15:39):
out for, watch as well as pray, and to pray
every day about your marriage, am'am and Jesus' name, slay
it out of the giant of adultery. Keep you from
going there, keep your marriage joyful. Praise God because we
live in the Kingdom of God, where there is hope, peace,
love and joy. Amen. Amen. So today podcast, I'm gonna
(16:05):
and again all right cause this is for today. Welcome back.
I'm Cynthia. Praise God. I want to talk about cause
I was just talking about adultery. A child that's come
from an adulterous act and an adulterous relationship. Wow. Now
(16:31):
we know that it's hard enough when people are divorcing
of had gotten a divorce. The two key elements and
that is child support and what is it? Excuse me,
child's The two key factors for divorce is child support
(16:52):
and of course child custody, Thank you, Holy Spirit. M people.
Just it's it's it's a battle, and it's an uncomfortable battle,
and mainly for the child. That's how I'm like, Oh,
you could commit adultery can lead to separate, legal separation
and divorce. And but what about the children? What about
(17:13):
the children? Praise got to hurt them even not just
little kids but that don't need child support, Praise God.
But even the teenagers and older children just have an
impact and negative impact, a very painful impact. And you
(17:34):
know the child has been with both of the parents.
Now got to you know, bounce back between the north
and south, you know, going here and going here. No,
give them stability, don't let that become their norm. That's
why we don't. God don't want divorces to it's somebody
else more than you, heymam. But some oftentimes divorce leads,
(17:55):
I mean, adultery leads to that. But when adultery, a
child has come from the act of adultery, Oh my God,
what do you do that. You know, enough with divorce,
but a baby from this adulterous affair, a child or twins. Wow. Wow.
(18:25):
So one of the main issues with that is I
give you a moment to get yourself together. They committed
adultery and got twins and some triplets, and some have
gone back and got three, four five kids. They never
stopped committing adultery. That's that's wow. So we know there
was no yielding, no intention of yielding. To the Holy Spirit.
(18:49):
How insulting to him. So if a person spouse commits
adultery and a child comes from that adulterous affair, you
know it would say, well, can I see my child
(19:14):
or children if they're twins, triplets, quadrublitz, praise God and
the other spouse or we're going with the wife. The
wife says no, you know, is that something to be
upset with her about? Well, you know what, why are
(19:38):
you upset? How could you be upset when you were unfaithful.
She trusted you and has been committed to you and
lawyer and faithful. She didn't go on having an adulterous relationship,
but you did. And now on top of that, you
(20:00):
you want to go see the child and be a
part of the child's life. Listen to this because I
know someone you know? And she said she told her
husband no, I said you did? She said yes, And
it's plentiful reasons. Just want I just said I trusted him.
How can I trust him to go and visit the child?
(20:24):
And it be nothing more than that? She said, the child,
you know, because the child was young's baby. I don't think, well,
both of y'all go. She don't know, you know, that
might not be so good. It might be some physical
altercations going on and things like that. Everybody isn't healed.
So she didn't want no parts of it though. She
(20:47):
didn't want her husband to visit the baby to see, well,
has his baby. I know that's what everyone is saying,
until it happens to you, or maybe some of you,
it has happened to you and you chose other options,
but her option, and many more along with her who
have unfortunately had their spouse to she or commit adultery
(21:08):
and get a baby as a product from this adulterous affair.
They don't want no part of the baby or the
baby or the mother, and they don't want their husband
to have any part of the baby. Just pay the
child's support. And you know, some people want as fire
as to move out the same state because they were
hurt and hurting and it's been years, five seven years,
(21:29):
and it's still hurt. Wouldn't be me, Well, maybe it
would not be, but for those who have decided, you know,
I don't want any him to have anything to do
with the baby. Da da da da da. Remember the
Bible where God said to Abraham, listen to your wife, AmAm,
(21:50):
because God promised Abraham and Sarah, or Abraham Abraham and Sarah,
and then he changed their names Abraham and Sarah, that
they would have a son. Praise God, they would have
a child manchilds very soon. And they went and tried
(22:10):
to fix it themselves and got hey, guy, and Sarah's
c counkerbine. And this was the culture of that day
and time. You can use your concerbine to get kids
and have them as your own. So she got hey God,
but hey God, we know, got pregnant and begin to
show off and act up, and Sarah beat her. She
(22:34):
but she had left, praise God. So she came back,
had the baby, and uh, you know, Ishmael, and time
went on and she's Ishmael was showing off, picking at
her her child, at Isaac. She wasn't going for that.
He will not sharing my son's inheritance get rid of
(22:55):
her and her son. I don't want to be bothering him.
I've had an i'm paaraphrase, and I've had enough. I
don't want them around my child period. And Abraham didn't
want to do it because that's his son. So he
went to God. That's why you marry a man in
God's presence who loved God first. And God told him
(23:15):
the righteous way. Listen to your wife and I'm paying friends,
get rid of her and her child. Praise God. And
he did and there was no more Ishmael for years later.
Praise God. And so and with that, I say the
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young lady that decided, no, I don't want you to
see the child, but do pay your child support. What
she wrong after just hearing what happened in the Bible.
H am'am and am'am. And I'm gonna stop right there
(24:01):
that you think on until we meet again. Some people
that's what they want. Some people don't. What about you? God,
bless you all, and thank you for listening to me.
That's my time. I appreciate you, and I pray for
(24:21):
you Father in the name of Jesus. There's so many
who have been impacted by the ugly evil spirit of adultery.
Their hearts have been broken, Father God, but I know
your word. You promise that Jesus has came to heal
the broken hearted. So I ask you to heal their
broken hearts. I ask you to bless them, to forgive
(24:44):
themselves and the one who committed adulter their spouse. And Lord,
I ask you to bless them a yield to the
guidance of the Holy Spirit in all situations. If there's
a child that was born, Father God, your words Abraham,
and I'm paring for as the Lord, listen to your wife.
(25:05):
She decided that she didn't want her husband to have
any contact, communication, or connection with that sun born out
of wedlock. Lord, have mercy in Jesus's name. Amen and Amen, God,
bless you all have a blessed, wonderful day. And if
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your bodies are sick or not feeling good, or you
have some disease or illness chronic pain, in the name
of Jesus Christ, my Lord and Savior, I praise God
for his healing power. For he healed the woman with
(25:47):
the issue of blood. She touched him and he said
her faith has made her whole. Many need to be
made whole, He opened the eyes of the blind, He
healed the man with leprosy, and he's here to day
to heal you of your disease, or your sickness, or
(26:08):
your plague, of your bodily infirmity, of your chronic disease,
because he has no respective person. With that being said,
according to the authoriting power of the name of Jesus
invested in me, I speak to every sickness, every disease,
in every pain that's trying to come against the hearer's bodies.
(26:29):
And I say, go, I rebuke you in Jesus's name,
and send you to the pit in the mighty name
of Jesus. And I speak to your bodies and say,
be healed, from the crown of your head to the
souls of your feet, because by His stripes you were
healed in Jesus's mighty name. Be healed. Praise the name
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of Jesus. A man and a man
Praise the name of Jesus. Hallelujah, and welcome back to
have you heard. Yes, I'm Cynthia, and I'm glad you
all have joined me a man, praise the name of Jesus.
So we have been talking about adultery on our last
the last podcast, the last time we worked together, we
had talked about adultery. Yes, it's not it's not good
(00:27):
to God said and to in commandment, spouse shall not
commit adultery. Jesus said in the New Testament Grace that
if you even look at a woman with lust in
your heart, then you committed adultery. So it's a big
thing for God, adultery. And many have been a victim
(00:49):
of that their spouse committed adultery. That mean had a
rel sexual relations with someone other than their spouse. How
unfortunate that is. And some people think, you know, well,
we didn't have sex. They had gotten into an emotional
fear that that's all right, No, that's no, you're thinking
(01:11):
about this person. And Jesus just said think if you
you know, hey, man, come on, we got to listen,
read the word, study the word. So on emotional affairs
off the table as well, because you didn't have sexual relationships,
but you begin bonding with your feelings emotional. You know,
you got into an emotional bond with this person. And
(01:36):
that's not what the will of God for you for
a marriage. You marry, you are with whoever you are
married with. And the thing is marriage is beautiful when
you do it God's way. And maybe that's the problem.
People don't understand marriage from God's perspective. Amen, the way
(02:00):
the will of God for marriages. Hey, you know, AmAm,
But God and his word has clearly laid out the
way he would like marriage to be in His kingdom
here on the earth, so that we can be an
example to the unsaved people praise God to others in general.
(02:21):
Or this is how a marriage goes. And I'm not
talking about you know, people think, you know the women,
the woman should be beat down, drug down, a maid,
a slave. You know, no, no cook and no God
never said. And if you study your Bible, Abraham, and
if they cook, what about east side Jacob Jacob? And
east side should I say Jacob was cooking a ma'am, hallelujah.
(02:46):
Abraham came to see her and asks her praise God.
So you know, the man should be cultivating it. Wise,
if you was busy into your wife and cultivating her,
it would be easy for her to honor and respect
you and you to keep your mind off someone else.
And before we go on into today's podcast, I want
(03:09):
to say right quickly that step that you are brother
and sister, you are God's children. Don't get to work
and talking about your what is that office wife or
your office husband. No no, no, no, no, no no no,
that's not in the kingdom where you're getting this from
because it sounds good, it's funny, or you work really
well with this person, this guy, this woman. Okay, but
(03:34):
you need to take that to God so that we won't,
you know, cross that line. Because once you start, all
is you know, speaking to each other and telling you know,
getting overly involved in their business or their weekend or
their vacation or their children or whatever it is, Praise God.
Then you're creating a strong connection. You're creating a bond.
(03:57):
And that's not what you want to do. Yes, men
and women have to work together today in the workforce,
but that should be it worked together with respect for
each other as individuals, as married people, and even as
single people. It should not be well, I'm gonna go
warm up her cow for her, turn her air on
for her. Or I'm gonna help her take this that
(04:19):
and the dot that down, carry this to the car
for her. Or she don't have that much gas, I'm
gonna give her that gasmin Or she's bringing in food
every day for you. This your favorite, taste my cookies,
taste this spaghetti. And I last night and I brought
brought enough for you. No, because the question is would
you be that open and friendly and talkative if your
(04:41):
spouse was sitting there, if you really had a relationship
with God like you're supposed to, and know that he
is el royal, the god who sees would you do
that act in that behavior with someone other than your spouse? Okay,
then as he sees you and your wedding band, your
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wedding ring is there to remind you you are married.
That means something. God honors marriages, not your relationships you
created outside the marriage. No, no, no, no no. And flirting,
we got to stop that to fly. All this leads
into an adulterous relationship, an adulterous affair. That's not what
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you want, that's not what certainly isn't what your spouse wants.
So why you know, do it because it's fun, because
you can, because you know you want to look good
to people. For some reason, you feel bad about yourself
or your past or some people have a low self esteemed. Honey,
you take everything to God and prayer amen, because you
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are now causing problems for later, because when that affair
gets revealed, and it will, then you got hurt people everywhere,
your spouse, the children, your in laws, your family, the
person you had the adulterous relationship with. So let's not
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do that. God is powerful. The Word says all things
are powerful with God. So with God, you cannot commit adultery.
You cannot. You can have help with creating a relationship
by not creating it. Lord, I'm always talking your open doors.
Just think when you met your spouse, how did you
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know that person become your spouse. Y'all spent time together,
and y'all talked a lot and talked about everything. Some
couples talked all day every day. And now we have
the texting, the emailing and all this stuff, and that's
what they do all day. You're creating a bond, a
bond that is not necessary. Talk to your spouse, I
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can't talk to her. Tell God he can do anything.
He will fix that. He made the marriage prayerfully because
the Bible said, let no man put asund too what
he has joined together some people, God has not joined
together like you think you should be cause you had
this affair. Divorce your spouse to be God then put
that together because you was already with someone. So stop,
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praise God. Stop making excuses to be with someone else,
because you are insulting God. For those who marriages. You
prayed for a spouse, and He gave you a spouse
just what you wanted and blessed in that marriage. And
if for some reason you wanna do whatever you wanna
do so you're wild oats. You don't have oats, and
they're not wild. Praise God. You don't have any wild oats,
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is what I'm trying to say. Be thankful in prayer
for for your spouse and with your spouse. If you
the man will cultivate his wife, Praise God. That's if
you occupy yourself with doing that, focusing on your wife,
you won't have no you know business talking to whoever
you're talking to an office. Yes, you guys have to
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work together, male and female, but you don't have to
get into each other. Hi, how is your weekend? Old?
It's from what did you do? I did this? And
really I never heard tell me about it? Why? Oh?
And what did you do? I didn't do much? And
you know, I wish I'm to deal with you? Did oh?
I do stuff all the time. Blah blah blah blah blah, No, no, no, no, wait,
hold on, And then next weekend it's the same thing.
(08:23):
Then the third weekend, you know what what you gonna do?
Tell me? Maybe we can my wife don't like to
do no, or my spouse and that that, and let's
meet together, let's do this or that? No to see
when all you need is a good morning, ma'am, good
morning sir. Somebody might say, how was your weekend? It
was blessed? Praise the namage. And you go on to
your desk, your cobby, your office and keep it moving.
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And when they come back on So I heard you
went yes on the line on the internet. The website
is whatever. You can go there and check it out. Alright,
let me call my wife. That's how you in that
or or you know, wanta let me call my husband.
See if we gonna get together, or if they don't
have nobody. Okay, all right, I pray you get somebody
and close your door. It's not being rude. It's called
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keeping yourself from committing adultery. Praise God, because now you're
digging deeper into that person's personal life and you're sending
signals of saying, oh, it's a possibility or I'm interested
in you, and we don't want to do that because
that leads to an adulterous affair. You don't want. That's
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why can't you? Hey, how you doing? Yeah? Yeah, check
it out on this whatever, and go on and call
your wife or your spouse and let them know, oh, hey,
how you doing? Nothing was going on? I just told
my cowork about this and that sheet out and dauta
out or heat doun and be done with it because
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trust and loyalty and commitment is marriage. Praise God. Hey, ma'am,
so stop that talking about the office wife or office
husband and how you doing? What did you do? When
did you do it? And I'm gonna bring you something. No,
thank you only eat my wife's cooking or tell him no,
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you want to go out to lunch? Or can I
get your coffee, No, thank you. If you're going to
get coffee, here's my money to pick up my coffee.
And going about your business. And let's the office the ball,
So everybody chipped in and have coffee or whatever they
have at work or brunch, m m, all of that
going on. Were going out after drinks, you say, what
you're drinking for? What are you drinking about? Stop that
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because your inhibition get on, Amaen, so stop you got
These are things you have to watch for so that
you won't commit adult you. You won't open yourself up
for that spirit of adult you to come in. Praise God.
You won't begin to lust for something that is not yours.
Why hold on to something that is not yours. Let
that thought go, Let that person go, and treat them
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with the respect of a coworker, not somebody you trying
to get into a relationship with by study, talking talking, talking,
talking every day all day work over. You're gonna call
him or send him a text. I just went past
the place and you told me that that's okay. Tell
your spouse that. Then we're talking about this place at
work and go on. You don't have to share everything
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you see or do with your coworker, because it leads
to something else. You want a friend, have a friend
in Jesus, get with your spouse, pray with him. And
the reason why it's good to tell your spouse about
the interaction you had with the opposite sex at work
is because that helps keep you from going back. Because
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your spouse, particularly a wife, and said, well, why are
you talking to her? And I might snap? Yeah? Why
am I snap? You? You know? Or your husband's sending baby?
Why you while you always talking to him? And well
am I not good enough? What's going? Is there something
going on? Nothing that whoa? Whoa? Because you might not
have seen it, Praise God. And instead of saying I
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can't talk, you tell her because men like to say that.
I've heard it time and time again. You tell your
wife you to talk to her, but she always mad?
Why is she always mad? What did you do to
provoke her to be mad at you all the time?
What have you done? What are you doing? Why aren't
you talking to her? And you say she's mad because
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maybe it's everything you attempt to do is against what
you and her agreed to. Maybe you've given her broken
promises and she has an issue with trust with you
and so when you say something, she thinks you're not
telling the truth and she's upset. Am'am ama, you need
to check all this instead of jumping to you know,
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your something to be comfortable in the spirit of anger.
That's just the spirit which can cause hindrances and blockages, AmAm.
So you know there's a lot of mechanics going on
and just talking with the opposite sex at work every
day at all day. So we need to check that
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all right, So we won't open you won't open yourself
up for the having an affair, an adulterous a relationship,
because that's gonna hurt your spouse when it is revealed,
let alone hurt you. It's not necessary. God can rekindle
that flame. He can reconcile that marriage. You know, well,
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whatever the issue is, God can fix it. Trust Jesus.
He is a problem solver. He is a waymaker and
a miracle worker, and he wants you to be happy
in your marriage. He wants you to love your spouse.
He wants your spouse to love you, and he will
bless you when you bring every circumstance and situation to
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him in prayer. That's real simple because you don't want
to have an adulter's relationship. That's not cute, that's not cool,
that's not whatever you think it is, especially when you
said I'm a child of God. That should not be
a spirit that you walk in and man, and there's prayer,
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you know, the word of prayer. Prayers are the righteous
of Eleth much to keep you from, you know, going
down that path. That's not a path you want to
go down, because too many people get hurting at So
it's a very selfish act, very selfish because you're just
thinking about you, not your spouse, if you have children,
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not your children, you know, not your friends, not your family,
you just because you know you want to do what
you want to do. Jesus did what God called him
to do, and he went away, and he promised. He
fulfilled the promises of God. He said, will I must
go away so that I can send you the comforter.
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He sent the comforter who was our Gud. He will
guide you into truth and righteousness. He will help you
and give you the detour to stay out of an
adulterous relationship. So trust your marriage to Jesus. Cover it
in the blood of Jesus. And yield to the Holy
Spirit so that you can stay off that path and
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not go near it. Ay ma'am. So today I know
you know avans repeating, but I wanted to be you know,
just should I say, encourage you more on veering away
from an adulterous relationship. Things to look for, to watch
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out for, watch as well as pray, and to pray
every day about your marriage, am'am and Jesus' name, slay
it out of the giant of adultery. Keep you from
going there, keep your marriage joyful. Praise God because we
live in the Kingdom of God, where there is hope, peace,
love and joy. Amen. Amen. So today podcast, I'm gonna
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and again all right cause this is for today. Welcome back.
I'm Cynthia. Praise God. I want to talk about cause
I was just talking about adultery. A child that's come
from an adulterous act and an adulterous relationship. Wow. Now
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we know that it's hard enough when people are divorcing
of had gotten a divorce. The two key elements and
that is child support and what is it? Excuse me,
child's The two key factors for divorce is child support
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and of course child custody, Thank you, Holy Spirit. M people.
Just it's it's it's a battle, and it's an uncomfortable battle,
and mainly for the child. That's how I'm like, Oh,
you could commit adultery can lead to separate, legal separation
and divorce. And but what about the children? What about
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the children? Praise got to hurt them even not just
little kids but that don't need child support, Praise God.
But even the teenagers and older children just have an
impact and negative impact, a very painful impact. And you
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know the child has been with both of the parents.
Now got to you know, bounce back between the north
and south, you know, going here and going here. No,
give them stability, don't let that become their norm. That's
why we don't. God don't want divorces to it's somebody
else more than you, heymam. But some oftentimes divorce leads,
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I mean, adultery leads to that. But when adultery, a
child has come from the act of adultery, Oh my God,
what do you do that. You know, enough with divorce,
but a baby from this adulterous affair, a child or twins. Wow. Wow.
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So one of the main issues with that is I
give you a moment to get yourself together. They committed
adultery and got twins and some triplets, and some have
gone back and got three, four five kids. They never
stopped committing adultery. That's that's wow. So we know there
was no yielding, no intention of yielding. To the Holy Spirit.
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How insulting to him. So if a person spouse commits
adultery and a child comes from that adulterous affair, you
know it would say, well, can I see my child
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or children if they're twins, triplets, quadrublitz, praise God and
the other spouse or we're going with the wife. The
wife says no, you know, is that something to be
upset with her about? Well, you know what, why are
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you upset? How could you be upset when you were unfaithful.
She trusted you and has been committed to you and
lawyer and faithful. She didn't go on having an adulterous relationship,
but you did. And now on top of that, you
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you want to go see the child and be a
part of the child's life. Listen to this because I
know someone you know? And she said she told her
husband no, I said you did? She said yes, And
it's plentiful reasons. Just want I just said I trusted him.
How can I trust him to go and visit the child?
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And it be nothing more than that? She said, the child,
you know, because the child was young's baby. I don't think, well,
both of y'all go. She don't know, you know, that
might not be so good. It might be some physical
altercations going on and things like that. Everybody isn't healed.
So she didn't want no parts of it though. She
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didn't want her husband to visit the baby to see, well,
has his baby. I know that's what everyone is saying,
until it happens to you, or maybe some of you,
it has happened to you and you chose other options,
but her option, and many more along with her who
have unfortunately had their spouse to she or commit adultery
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and get a baby as a product from this adulterous affair.
They don't want no part of the baby or the
baby or the mother, and they don't want their husband
to have any part of the baby. Just pay the
child's support. And you know, some people want as fire
as to move out the same state because they were
hurt and hurting and it's been years, five seven years,
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and it's still hurt. Wouldn't be me, Well, maybe it
would not be, but for those who have decided, you know,
I don't want any him to have anything to do
with the baby. Da da da da da. Remember the
Bible where God said to Abraham, listen to your wife, AmAm,
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because God promised Abraham and Sarah, or Abraham Abraham and Sarah,
and then he changed their names Abraham and Sarah, that
they would have a son. Praise God, they would have
a child manchilds very soon. And they went and tried
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to fix it themselves and got hey, guy, and Sarah's
c counkerbine. And this was the culture of that day
and time. You can use your concerbine to get kids
and have them as your own. So she got hey God,
but hey God, we know, got pregnant and begin to
show off and act up, and Sarah beat her. She
(22:34):
but she had left, praise God. So she came back,
had the baby, and uh, you know, Ishmael, and time
went on and she's Ishmael was showing off, picking at
her her child, at Isaac. She wasn't going for that.
He will not sharing my son's inheritance get rid of
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her and her son. I don't want to be bothering him.
I've had an i'm paaraphrase, and I've had enough. I
don't want them around my child period. And Abraham didn't
want to do it because that's his son. So he
went to God. That's why you marry a man in
God's presence who loved God first. And God told him
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the righteous way. Listen to your wife and I'm paying friends,
get rid of her and her child. Praise God. And
he did and there was no more Ishmael for years later.
Praise God. And so and with that, I say the
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young lady that decided, no, I don't want you to
see the child, but do pay your child support. What
she wrong after just hearing what happened in the Bible.
H am'am and am'am. And I'm gonna stop right there
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that you think on until we meet again. Some people
that's what they want. Some people don't. What about you? God,
bless you all, and thank you for listening to me.
That's my time. I appreciate you, and I pray for
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you Father in the name of Jesus. There's so many
who have been impacted by the ugly evil spirit of adultery.
Their hearts have been broken, Father God, but I know
your word. You promise that Jesus has came to heal
the broken hearted. So I ask you to heal their
broken hearts. I ask you to bless them, to forgive
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themselves and the one who committed adulter their spouse. And Lord,
I ask you to bless them a yield to the
guidance of the Holy Spirit in all situations. If there's
a child that was born, Father God, your words Abraham,
and I'm paring for as the Lord, listen to your wife.
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She decided that she didn't want her husband to have
any contact, communication, or connection with that sun born out
of wedlock. Lord, have mercy in Jesus's name. Amen and Amen, God,
bless you all have a blessed, wonderful day. And if
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your bodies are sick or not feeling good, or you
have some disease or illness chronic pain, in the name
of Jesus Christ, my Lord and Savior, I praise God
for his healing power. For he healed the woman with
(25:47):
the issue of blood. She touched him and he said
her faith has made her whole. Many need to be
made whole, He opened the eyes of the blind, He
healed the man with leprosy, and he's here to day
to heal you of your disease, or your sickness, or
(26:08):
your plague, of your bodily infirmity, of your chronic disease,
because he has no respective person. With that being said,
according to the authoriting power of the name of Jesus
invested in me, I speak to every sickness, every disease,
in every pain that's trying to come against the hearer's bodies.
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And I say, go, I rebuke you in Jesus's name,
and send you to the pit in the mighty name
of Jesus. And I speak to your bodies and say,
be healed, from the crown of your head to the
souls of your feet, because by His stripes you were
healed in Jesus's mighty name. Be healed. Praise the name
(26:49):
of Jesus. A man and a man
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