September 30, 2023 • 21 mins
Welcome back to our podcast! This season, Pastor Cyndi will be doing a deep and divine dive into Relationships. From dating, to roles, to the Godly standards of the bedroom. Pastor Cyndi is going to be laying it all out this season, and she continues with it Ep 4: Love!
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(00:02):
Hello, Hello, Hello, andwelcome to have you heard with Pastor Cindy.
Thank you all once and again forjoining me. A great, big,
old God bless you all. Ihope you all have fared well with
you know, for our last topicsand with taking your bedroom concerns to the
(00:26):
Father God Almighty. I hope youwere blessed to know that just cause you
all consent, is that what Godwants for you in your bedroom. Praise
God. Yes, we talked aboutb DSM, b DSM and oral sex.
(00:47):
Yes, before we go on,let us have a word of prayer
so that God can bless us andthat the seed can fall into soil and
it can be watered nurtured. Am'amhave any Father in the name of Jesus.
We come to you to praise you, to thank you for what you've
(01:11):
done for us all week long,what you'll continue to do for us.
Lord, for how you called usout of darkness and to light. Thank
you, Father God. Thank youfor your word that blesses us, helps
us and strengthen us. Father God, thank you for this season Lord,
for us to grow in your word, for us to grow spiritually. Father
(01:36):
God, with the knowledge that youblessed and provided for us. We actually
Lord to bless us in all ourgetting as we listen to the podcast to
get an understanding of this topic.Talking about love and Lord that you bless
(01:57):
us, Father God to treat eacheach other as such with love and kindness.
This are acts in Jesus name aman. So the reason why I
(02:17):
wanted to talk about love after we'vetalked about you know, bedroom on BDSM
and oral sex things like that,is because people are getting married. Some
people are getting married because they wannahave sex. Some people are getting married
because they are having sex premarital sexand they you know, well, we're
(02:38):
gonna do the right thing and getman. Know, the right thing is
to wait until you get married.Sex is for married people, Praise God
a man a man, But somepeople are also getting maritalbouhen we love each
other without even the knowledge of whatlove really is? What is love?
(03:00):
No? I heard people talking aboutthey just really really wanted to get married
in it and I'm like, really, why cause they feel like they're getting
older and they wanna have sex.That shouldn't be your only reason why you
wanna get married. Praise God,well, because I love her, do
(03:20):
you really do you know what loveis? And then some people I love
her, I love him, andyou get married, and then before you
know it, you're getting a divorce, or several years later you're getting a
divorce. And why is that,Praise God, why is that? M
(03:42):
I love her, I love him, but we're getting a divorce because many
don't understand what love truly is.M any Ephesians a familiar scripture. Let
me go to the Ephesians five.I think it's twenty seven or twenty eight.
(04:12):
Five twenty eight. KJV so oughtmen to love their wives as their
own bodies. He that loveth hiswife loveth himself. I like it.
Hold on in the Amplified Bible.Ephesians five twenty eight, Let me find
(04:33):
it. Scroll down to it.It says, husbands, love your wives,
seek the highest good for her,and surround her with a caring,
unselfish love, just as Christ alsoloved the church and gave himself up for
her so that he might sanctify thechurch, having cleansed her by the washing
(04:55):
of the water with the world ofGod. A ma'am, A ma'am.
And in twenty eight it says,even so husband should and are morally obligating.
Now this is the amp to amplify, are morally obligated to love their
own wives as being in a sensetheir own bodies. Who he who loves
his own wife loves himself a man, a man, for no one ever
(05:18):
hated his own body. Praise God. You hate your body? You cut
off this part and you mistreat.No, no, no, no no.
And in this part when it's talkingabout husbands, the Word of God
talking about husbands, love your wives, Praise God, love it. Just
say just have this oui gulie feelingand looking at it. That's nice too,
(05:40):
but it is that love. PraiseGod. It be the word of
God. Begins to talk about howyou are to treat your wife. How
Christ treat the church. Christ diedfor the church. Hello, somebody Christ
never com should say cheated on thechurch, committed adultery. Praise God with
with some other church from Pluto orMars or somewhere. Christ left his home
(06:05):
to come and show the church,the believers, the way. And he
said, this is how husbands areto love their wives. Am'am. You
don't say I love you and thenyou get a divorce. H Because when
you are saved when you're born again, Praise God. You have the Holy
(06:26):
Spirit, that's the love of Godwithin you. But perhaps the issue may
be is that you have no understandingor no knowledge of marriage love in your
marriage. Praise God. M hallelujah. That means having the elliptical or the
(06:51):
tread mail without instructions, and tryingto put it together without the manual,
without the book of instructions, andall our getting the Word of God tells
us we are to get an understanding. We are to get an understanding how
God sees marriage and how he hasthat for us the believers in the Body
of Christ here in the Kingdom ofGod and the earth. Praise God.
(07:14):
We don't marry and treat each otheras the world. Do you know?
People got this thing open marriage?And you know when we get married,
he have his own set of friendsand I have mine, and he go
have the Christmas or New Year's orThanksgiving with his family. What about your
family? When the Bible say causeyou two are one, The Bible says
(07:36):
that a man are to leave hisfather and his mother and father house and
cleave to his wife. You leavemommy and daddy, Daddy and mommy,
and you go be with your wifeand you guys our family. Now you
are, cause when God looks down, he don't see the wife and the
He see them together as one.So now you on one and that's your
(08:01):
family. Husband, that's your familywife, a man and man and man,
and then you guys have children.That's your family. So it shouldn't
be this big discrepancy about you know, well, why I gotta go with
you? Or why should I go? No? No, no, no
no. That should be something ify'all can't settle the stay home together.
In fact, that's what you oughtto do and invite everybody else and whoever
(08:24):
can make it, whoever has consentedwith each other and settled on. We
gonna go here, praise God,because too many people do we say we
love the Lord. And you knowher friends, she hang out on her
friends and have her girls and nightevery two or three what about you and
him tonight? Y'all should have thattwo or three times a week and keep
the communication open and alive so youguys can stay as one. Because what
(08:48):
is one of the main issues whyI can't talk to her? And I'm
like, well, you talk toher when you allays dating a ma'am.
When you was you know, gottogether and you really liked her, you
chased her. And the issue isyou chased her and called her and settle
down. And now you think that'sit. No, you got to continue,
brothers, to chase your wife.You don't just catch and get her.
(09:11):
That's it. That mean everything youdid to get her, you continue
to do it to keep her.Amen. You buy her those rolls.
As you and her go to theball game, you and her go to
the church, meet, you andher come and pray together, you and
her now as one. Amen,Amen, Praise God. And so that's
(09:37):
what that You know that love isin the Bible when Jesus, the Word
of God said he ought to lovetheir wives as they love their own bodies.
You love your body, you know, and you chasing the female you
like brothers. You keeping your hairdone all and you got all this nice
cologne and shaving cream, and youknow your nice little T shirts fitted te
(10:00):
sure say your muscles can bam bam, you know things like that or not.
Praise God. But you're doing extrato look extra good for her.
And you should continue to do that. And when you get her that you
know, cause you love your body, so you love her, cause now
you two are one, so youhave to love her and keep her hair
up. You don't have to lovehim, keep her skin looking nice.
(10:20):
If she gained weight after dealing withyou for years and years and had two,
three, five seven children and she'snot fat, oh she fat,
and I don't wanna be bothered,and she ain't got so big. Let
me tell you what you have done, and vice versa. Women, you
have married on conditions. So helooked good and he had a good job.
(10:41):
That's a condition in order for youto marry her. And what happens
when he gets older or she getolder and heavier from having children, A
ma'am, Oh, he loses thatgood job. That was the only thing
that kept you to him, causehe had a good job, and you
know he had a nice v shapeand blah blah blah blah blah, and
(11:03):
vice versa. Men, she wassexy, she looked good, and man,
she was so funny. No,no, those are our conditions.
That is not love. Christ neverput a condition on loving us. It's
not biblical. For God so lovedthe world he gave. He didn't say,
well, if you do this nowhe gave for whomsoever, Will that
(11:24):
a god be love, unconditional love. And that's what Christ has for the
church, and that's what that weought to have for each other. That's
what loved me. And when husbandslove your wife unconditional not cause she didn't
have got fat, she didn't gotolder. Every not everybody. Most people
when they get older, or womenwhen they've had children, you know,
hair thin, hair may fall outand some maybe not. Some women older
(11:46):
and look good. They look betternow than they did when they were in
nineteen twenty twenty one. A ma'am. But you have to love that mean
honor and respect, not well condition. No, no, you in the
game weight or you know, Ican't talk to you. What is it
that you can't talk to her aboutthat you talk to her about at first,
(12:09):
that you're going to talk to anotherlady? Why are you talking to
her? That's not scripture. You'rea man of God. You supposed to
be standing in the presence of God. You don't have time for that other
woman. When you wanna be withanother female, you another woman that same
woman you married? Is is thatother woman you be with your wife?
(12:31):
Amen? We have too many excusesin the body of Christ. Or why
we wanna get out of the marriage, Why do we wanna have a committ
adultery or divorce and all that?No, no, no, stop that.
Don't have a stubborn house, saidMoses. Permitted it. God was
never a key on that wor theyjust want He said, Let no man
(12:52):
put a Sunday. But I havejoined together God. You many of you
have prayed for spouses and God broughtthem to you. And her ain't what
I want. No, no,no, So y'all need to go back
to your knees and prayer together asone and cry out to the Father.
He brought it together, he madeit, He know how to maintain it.
Hello, somebody, amen, weneed to get the Book of Instructions,
(13:20):
the Manual, and that's in theworld of God. That's why we
were talking about b DSM and orsex. What do God want for us?
God wants us to communicate. Godwants us to enjoy each other.
He wants us to have joy.He wants us to be in unity.
And we can stay like that ifwe stay in prayer, if we are
transparent with each other. And youknow, people saying, well, he
(13:43):
that's in his family his granddaddy cheated. He that's just they have wondering eyes
and that's it. Some men orthere's a dog to every man and just
men just gonna cheat. That's notscriptural. And I've said it before and
I will continue to say that.As the Holy spirited me. I ask
God about that, cause you know, people come into you the pastor's office
(14:05):
and praise God. And I said, Lord, you know why this that
and the third and that they haveto see ain't want to commit adultery,
you know. And there's people aresaying this, that's just how it is.
You gotta deal with it. Tojust keep on praying. Blah blah.
Listen, God said to me,the Lord, God said, I
(14:26):
did not make talking about this Godhim man that way. God never made
man to commit adultery after he's gottenmarried. That's something they designed because we
have free will. That's something that'sin their spirits. So a man thinketh
in his heart, so he isso that's something. He didn't protect his
irrigates or eyegates from orsh her praiseGod. But I had asked God about
(14:52):
this particular married couple and a man, and and so there this is something
that they're allowing in their spirit andit's dwelling Ama and it's and they are
dwelling on it. God said,abide in me. Praise God, Jesus,
we got saved. The Holy Spiritis in us. Jesus is in
(15:13):
us, is his faith is inus. He is the author and finisher
of our faith. He said,abide in Me, and whatsoever you will
acts and it shall be done.So so so so so, if you're
abiding in Jesus, our Lord,saving his word in us, you're gonna
asks the will of God because that'shis will and his word that's in you.
That's why you feel your spirit.You feel yourself with the word,
(15:35):
because God connects with his word.Amen. Amen, Amen, Praise God.
So so so you're sitting up therelooking at some other female or vice
verses, she's looking at some man. That's not the will or the word
of God that's in you. Hesaid, love and wives, be submissive
unto your husband, and I meanvoluntarily, Amen, which makes it easy
to do if he's treating you andloving you. He didn't say wives loved
(15:58):
the husband like Christ loved the church. Praise God, because love mean true
love mean listen well without coming me. You don't have to do anything for
me. I'll do it all foryou. Praise God. Amen. Amen.
It's a decision you make. It'sa decision when you say I love
(16:19):
you to to dislike Christ love usand he supplied our every need and protects
us and provide for us. It'sa decision you make to commit to supply
that need, to to meet theneed of that person you're talking about.
You love forever for the rest ofyour life to death. Do you all
part a man? And that's thatdecision. That's love. Listen. I
(16:41):
I love my husband and I Iand and it's just because it's not because
in my opinion, he looks good. He's so fine, he's so sexy.
I love my husband the way hebuffed and puff and all of that
stuff. No, no, no, no, cause he gots to get
older him and I both I lovehim. There's no because because when you
(17:02):
set I love him because he lookedgood and he treat me like this,
or he said this, so hesaid, now it's conditional. That's no
condition because what if he stopped sayingthat, What if something happened or whatever
like I was saying earlier, orthat person lose their job or get fat
or hair fall out. Praise God, A ma'am, are you still gonna
love that person? Because that's whatlove is. Love is I'm committed to
(17:26):
you because of who you are andselfish, selfishly, I'm gonna love you
and support you, provide for you, help you, be there with you,
Amen, through thick and thin,sick and cent. That's what love
is. Not well, you knowyou gotta do this, and you gotta
(17:47):
say this, and you can't dothis. You know, no stipulations.
Jesus didn't give us any. Sowhen he says your husband loves your wife
has Christ loved the church, youget them conditions and stipulations off of that
marriage, off of her so youcan love her. And that's my time.
I gotta stop right here and we'llpick it up, am'am on the
next podcast to continue on talking aboutlove and the marriage, cause we gotta
(18:10):
get this. It comes here fromthe pool pit. We gotta get an
understanding of what love really is.We gotta understand it so that when we
do get married, Amen, we'llunderstand what. I'm just marrying her cause
she looked good. I'm marrying himbecause he got money. No, no,
no, no, you married him. It's a reason you marry him
for love. What is love?Is that commitment to him, a ma'am,
(18:33):
something I decided to do. Andwhen the Bible say, husbands,
love your wife, I'm gonna committo loving her and helping her and supporting
her and helping her with her toprovide for her and her needs forever.
That's what that is. And whyis we have a role as well to
play you We're not exempt because thatexplanation of love can go both ways.
(19:02):
Amen and amen. Well, theBible said, d husbands love your wives,
and never said anythink about us lovingus. But what about respect?
You must respect him, respect,respect, respect, And it's easy to
respect him when he's loving you likeChrist love the Church. Yeah, it's
(19:23):
real easy. Now you see howGod did that so it can be harmony
and unity and joy and true love, not just goose bump feelings. Or
when he's meeting a condition that II'm set up for him to meet,
even when he don't, even whenhe does lose his job, I'm there
and I love him not I rememberwhen I wish we know we're gonna pray
(19:45):
this thing through. I'm gonna getin the trenches with you, and I'm
not gonna be bitter about anything orhave any resentment. You are mine forever,
even if you do gain weight,lose weight, lose your hair,
whatever. I love you cause you. I love you when I first met
you, and I'm gonna continue tolove you, truly love you. And
(20:07):
it works both ways. That's howGod wants it for his children and his
kingdom here and the earth. Don'tlook out there, well you know she
is and God fat what she expecther? He wanna look at something nice?
She do look nice? Because ifyou feel that way, you help
her go to the gym. Youhelp her with her dietitian, I mean
with her diet plans her men,you you help her because that's your significant
(20:30):
other, your tool. You.I want what man hateth his own body,
a man and amad All right?By time, I hope you all
enjoy join me again the next podcastso we can pick it up with love
and then move on. Okay,all right, God bless you all so
(20:52):
much to have a blessed rest ofyour day week, and ma'am, and
pray one for another. All right, God, please, you gotta love
you and so do I see yousoon.
Hello, Hello, Hello, andwelcome to have you heard with Pastor Cindy.
Thank you all once and again forjoining me. A great, big,
old God bless you all. Ihope you all have fared well with
you know, for our last topicsand with taking your bedroom concerns to the
(00:26):
Father God Almighty. I hope youwere blessed to know that just cause you
all consent, is that what Godwants for you in your bedroom. Praise
God. Yes, we talked aboutb DSM, b DSM and oral sex.
(00:47):
Yes, before we go on,let us have a word of prayer
so that God can bless us andthat the seed can fall into soil and
it can be watered nurtured. Am'amhave any Father in the name of Jesus.
We come to you to praise you, to thank you for what you've
(01:11):
done for us all week long,what you'll continue to do for us.
Lord, for how you called usout of darkness and to light. Thank
you, Father God. Thank youfor your word that blesses us, helps
us and strengthen us. Father God, thank you for this season Lord,
for us to grow in your word, for us to grow spiritually. Father
(01:36):
God, with the knowledge that youblessed and provided for us. We actually
Lord to bless us in all ourgetting as we listen to the podcast to
get an understanding of this topic.Talking about love and Lord that you bless
(01:57):
us, Father God to treat eacheach other as such with love and kindness.
This are acts in Jesus name aman. So the reason why I
(02:17):
wanted to talk about love after we'vetalked about you know, bedroom on BDSM
and oral sex things like that,is because people are getting married. Some
people are getting married because they wannahave sex. Some people are getting married
because they are having sex premarital sexand they you know, well, we're
(02:38):
gonna do the right thing and getman. Know, the right thing is
to wait until you get married.Sex is for married people, Praise God
a man a man, But somepeople are also getting maritalbouhen we love each
other without even the knowledge of whatlove really is? What is love?
(03:00):
No? I heard people talking aboutthey just really really wanted to get married
in it and I'm like, really, why cause they feel like they're getting
older and they wanna have sex.That shouldn't be your only reason why you
wanna get married. Praise God,well, because I love her, do
(03:20):
you really do you know what loveis? And then some people I love
her, I love him, andyou get married, and then before you
know it, you're getting a divorce, or several years later you're getting a
divorce. And why is that,Praise God, why is that? M
(03:42):
I love her, I love him, but we're getting a divorce because many
don't understand what love truly is.M any Ephesians a familiar scripture. Let
me go to the Ephesians five.I think it's twenty seven or twenty eight.
(04:12):
Five twenty eight. KJV so oughtmen to love their wives as their
own bodies. He that loveth hiswife loveth himself. I like it.
Hold on in the Amplified Bible.Ephesians five twenty eight, Let me find
(04:33):
it. Scroll down to it.It says, husbands, love your wives,
seek the highest good for her,and surround her with a caring,
unselfish love, just as Christ alsoloved the church and gave himself up for
her so that he might sanctify thechurch, having cleansed her by the washing
(04:55):
of the water with the world ofGod. A ma'am, A ma'am.
And in twenty eight it says,even so husband should and are morally obligating.
Now this is the amp to amplify, are morally obligated to love their
own wives as being in a sensetheir own bodies. Who he who loves
his own wife loves himself a man, a man, for no one ever
(05:18):
hated his own body. Praise God. You hate your body? You cut
off this part and you mistreat.No, no, no, no no.
And in this part when it's talkingabout husbands, the Word of God
talking about husbands, love your wives, Praise God, love it. Just
say just have this oui gulie feelingand looking at it. That's nice too,
(05:40):
but it is that love. PraiseGod. It be the word of
God. Begins to talk about howyou are to treat your wife. How
Christ treat the church. Christ diedfor the church. Hello, somebody Christ
never com should say cheated on thechurch, committed adultery. Praise God with
with some other church from Pluto orMars or somewhere. Christ left his home
(06:05):
to come and show the church,the believers, the way. And he
said, this is how husbands areto love their wives. Am'am. You
don't say I love you and thenyou get a divorce. H Because when
you are saved when you're born again, Praise God. You have the Holy
(06:26):
Spirit, that's the love of Godwithin you. But perhaps the issue may
be is that you have no understandingor no knowledge of marriage love in your
marriage. Praise God. M hallelujah. That means having the elliptical or the
(06:51):
tread mail without instructions, and tryingto put it together without the manual,
without the book of instructions, andall our getting the Word of God tells
us we are to get an understanding. We are to get an understanding how
God sees marriage and how he hasthat for us the believers in the Body
of Christ here in the Kingdom ofGod and the earth. Praise God.
(07:14):
We don't marry and treat each otheras the world. Do you know?
People got this thing open marriage?And you know when we get married,
he have his own set of friendsand I have mine, and he go
have the Christmas or New Year's orThanksgiving with his family. What about your
family? When the Bible say causeyou two are one, The Bible says
(07:36):
that a man are to leave hisfather and his mother and father house and
cleave to his wife. You leavemommy and daddy, Daddy and mommy,
and you go be with your wifeand you guys our family. Now you
are, cause when God looks down, he don't see the wife and the
He see them together as one.So now you on one and that's your
(08:01):
family. Husband, that's your familywife, a man and man and man,
and then you guys have children.That's your family. So it shouldn't
be this big discrepancy about you know, well, why I gotta go with
you? Or why should I go? No? No, no, no
no. That should be something ify'all can't settle the stay home together.
In fact, that's what you oughtto do and invite everybody else and whoever
(08:24):
can make it, whoever has consentedwith each other and settled on. We
gonna go here, praise God,because too many people do we say we
love the Lord. And you knowher friends, she hang out on her
friends and have her girls and nightevery two or three what about you and
him tonight? Y'all should have thattwo or three times a week and keep
the communication open and alive so youguys can stay as one. Because what
(08:48):
is one of the main issues whyI can't talk to her? And I'm
like, well, you talk toher when you allays dating a ma'am.
When you was you know, gottogether and you really liked her, you
chased her. And the issue isyou chased her and called her and settle
down. And now you think that'sit. No, you got to continue,
brothers, to chase your wife.You don't just catch and get her.
(09:11):
That's it. That mean everything youdid to get her, you continue
to do it to keep her.Amen. You buy her those rolls.
As you and her go to theball game, you and her go to
the church, meet, you andher come and pray together, you and
her now as one. Amen,Amen, Praise God. And so that's
(09:37):
what that You know that love isin the Bible when Jesus, the Word
of God said he ought to lovetheir wives as they love their own bodies.
You love your body, you know, and you chasing the female you
like brothers. You keeping your hairdone all and you got all this nice
cologne and shaving cream, and youknow your nice little T shirts fitted te
(10:00):
sure say your muscles can bam bam, you know things like that or not.
Praise God. But you're doing extrato look extra good for her.
And you should continue to do that. And when you get her that you
know, cause you love your body, so you love her, cause now
you two are one, so youhave to love her and keep her hair
up. You don't have to lovehim, keep her skin looking nice.
(10:20):
If she gained weight after dealing withyou for years and years and had two,
three, five seven children and she'snot fat, oh she fat,
and I don't wanna be bothered,and she ain't got so big. Let
me tell you what you have done, and vice versa. Women, you
have married on conditions. So helooked good and he had a good job.
(10:41):
That's a condition in order for youto marry her. And what happens
when he gets older or she getolder and heavier from having children, A
ma'am, Oh, he loses thatgood job. That was the only thing
that kept you to him, causehe had a good job, and you
know he had a nice v shapeand blah blah blah blah blah, and
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vice versa. Men, she wassexy, she looked good, and man,
she was so funny. No,no, those are our conditions.
That is not love. Christ neverput a condition on loving us. It's
not biblical. For God so lovedthe world he gave. He didn't say,
well, if you do this nowhe gave for whomsoever, Will that
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a god be love, unconditional love. And that's what Christ has for the
church, and that's what that weought to have for each other. That's
what loved me. And when husbandslove your wife unconditional not cause she didn't
have got fat, she didn't gotolder. Every not everybody. Most people
when they get older, or womenwhen they've had children, you know,
hair thin, hair may fall outand some maybe not. Some women older
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and look good. They look betternow than they did when they were in
nineteen twenty twenty one. A ma'am. But you have to love that mean
honor and respect, not well condition. No, no, you in the
game weight or you know, Ican't talk to you. What is it
that you can't talk to her aboutthat you talk to her about at first,
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that you're going to talk to anotherlady? Why are you talking to
her? That's not scripture. You'rea man of God. You supposed to
be standing in the presence of God. You don't have time for that other
woman. When you wanna be withanother female, you another woman that same
woman you married? Is is thatother woman you be with your wife?
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Amen? We have too many excusesin the body of Christ. Or why
we wanna get out of the marriage, Why do we wanna have a committ
adultery or divorce and all that?No, no, no, stop that.
Don't have a stubborn house, saidMoses. Permitted it. God was
never a key on that wor theyjust want He said, Let no man
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put a Sunday. But I havejoined together God. You many of you
have prayed for spouses and God broughtthem to you. And her ain't what
I want. No, no,no, So y'all need to go back
to your knees and prayer together asone and cry out to the Father.
He brought it together, he madeit, He know how to maintain it.
Hello, somebody, amen, weneed to get the Book of Instructions,
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the Manual, and that's in theworld of God. That's why we
were talking about b DSM and orsex. What do God want for us?
God wants us to communicate. Godwants us to enjoy each other.
He wants us to have joy.He wants us to be in unity.
And we can stay like that ifwe stay in prayer, if we are
transparent with each other. And youknow, people saying, well, he
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that's in his family his granddaddy cheated. He that's just they have wondering eyes
and that's it. Some men orthere's a dog to every man and just
men just gonna cheat. That's notscriptural. And I've said it before and
I will continue to say that.As the Holy spirited me. I ask
God about that, cause you know, people come into you the pastor's office
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and praise God. And I said, Lord, you know why this that
and the third and that they haveto see ain't want to commit adultery,
you know. And there's people aresaying this, that's just how it is.
You gotta deal with it. Tojust keep on praying. Blah blah.
Listen, God said to me,the Lord, God said, I
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did not make talking about this Godhim man that way. God never made
man to commit adultery after he's gottenmarried. That's something they designed because we
have free will. That's something that'sin their spirits. So a man thinketh
in his heart, so he isso that's something. He didn't protect his
irrigates or eyegates from orsh her praiseGod. But I had asked God about
(14:52):
this particular married couple and a man, and and so there this is something
that they're allowing in their spirit andit's dwelling Ama and it's and they are
dwelling on it. God said,abide in me. Praise God, Jesus,
we got saved. The Holy Spiritis in us. Jesus is in
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us, is his faith is inus. He is the author and finisher
of our faith. He said,abide in Me, and whatsoever you will
acts and it shall be done.So so so so so, if you're
abiding in Jesus, our Lord,saving his word in us, you're gonna
asks the will of God because that'shis will and his word that's in you.
That's why you feel your spirit.You feel yourself with the word,
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because God connects with his word.Amen. Amen, Amen, Praise God.
So so so you're sitting up therelooking at some other female or vice
verses, she's looking at some man. That's not the will or the word
of God that's in you. Hesaid, love and wives, be submissive
unto your husband, and I meanvoluntarily, Amen, which makes it easy
to do if he's treating you andloving you. He didn't say wives loved
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the husband like Christ loved the church. Praise God, because love mean true
love mean listen well without coming me. You don't have to do anything for
me. I'll do it all foryou. Praise God. Amen. Amen.
It's a decision you make. It'sa decision when you say I love
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you to to dislike Christ love usand he supplied our every need and protects
us and provide for us. It'sa decision you make to commit to supply
that need, to to meet theneed of that person you're talking about.
You love forever for the rest ofyour life to death. Do you all
part a man? And that's thatdecision. That's love. Listen. I
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I love my husband and I Iand and it's just because it's not because
in my opinion, he looks good. He's so fine, he's so sexy.
I love my husband the way hebuffed and puff and all of that
stuff. No, no, no, no, cause he gots to get
older him and I both I lovehim. There's no because because when you
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set I love him because he lookedgood and he treat me like this,
or he said this, so hesaid, now it's conditional. That's no
condition because what if he stopped sayingthat, What if something happened or whatever
like I was saying earlier, orthat person lose their job or get fat
or hair fall out. Praise God, A ma'am, are you still gonna
love that person? Because that's whatlove is. Love is I'm committed to
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you because of who you are andselfish, selfishly, I'm gonna love you
and support you, provide for you, help you, be there with you,
Amen, through thick and thin,sick and cent. That's what love
is. Not well, you knowyou gotta do this, and you gotta
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say this, and you can't dothis. You know, no stipulations.
Jesus didn't give us any. Sowhen he says your husband loves your wife
has Christ loved the church, youget them conditions and stipulations off of that
marriage, off of her so youcan love her. And that's my time.
I gotta stop right here and we'llpick it up, am'am on the
next podcast to continue on talking aboutlove and the marriage, cause we gotta
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get this. It comes here fromthe pool pit. We gotta get an
understanding of what love really is.We gotta understand it so that when we
do get married, Amen, we'llunderstand what. I'm just marrying her cause
she looked good. I'm marrying himbecause he got money. No, no,
no, no, you married him. It's a reason you marry him
for love. What is love?Is that commitment to him, a ma'am,
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something I decided to do. Andwhen the Bible say, husbands,
love your wife, I'm gonna committo loving her and helping her and supporting
her and helping her with her toprovide for her and her needs forever.
That's what that is. And whyis we have a role as well to
play you We're not exempt because thatexplanation of love can go both ways.
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Amen and amen. Well, theBible said, d husbands love your wives,
and never said anythink about us lovingus. But what about respect?
You must respect him, respect,respect, respect, And it's easy to
respect him when he's loving you likeChrist love the Church. Yeah, it's
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real easy. Now you see howGod did that so it can be harmony
and unity and joy and true love, not just goose bump feelings. Or
when he's meeting a condition that II'm set up for him to meet,
even when he don't, even whenhe does lose his job, I'm there
and I love him not I rememberwhen I wish we know we're gonna pray
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this thing through. I'm gonna getin the trenches with you, and I'm
not gonna be bitter about anything orhave any resentment. You are mine forever,
even if you do gain weight,lose weight, lose your hair,
whatever. I love you cause you. I love you when I first met
you, and I'm gonna continue tolove you, truly love you. And
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it works both ways. That's howGod wants it for his children and his
kingdom here and the earth. Don'tlook out there, well you know she
is and God fat what she expecther? He wanna look at something nice?
She do look nice? Because ifyou feel that way, you help
her go to the gym. Youhelp her with her dietitian, I mean
with her diet plans her men,you you help her because that's your significant
(20:30):
other, your tool. You.I want what man hateth his own body,
a man and amad All right?By time, I hope you all
enjoy join me again the next podcastso we can pick it up with love
and then move on. Okay,all right, God bless you all so
(20:52):
much to have a blessed rest ofyour day week, and ma'am, and
pray one for another. All right, God, please, you gotta love
you and so do I see yousoon.
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