December 4, 2025 • 25 mins
As we progress through this Advent season, we remember that God loves us, and this helps us to forgive others. As Pastor Cyndi reminds us in this podcast, forgiveness causes us to be released from those painful memories!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello everyone.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Praise the name of Jesus Christ. I'm the Lord and
save us. Forgive me my water bottle popping. This is Cynthia. Yeah,
did y'all hear that? That's my dog barking every time
I start, she starts. I think she wanted to do
something here.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
So how's everyone? How is your Advent?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
December the first, am'am? If not, I haven't said it, No,
happy advent, and I pray that you are gay, cheerfully.
December second, on Giving Tuesday. Praise God and man and men, amen,
bless the Lord.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
So this is have you heard? Have you heard?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Mm? Have you heard about a lot of things right,
But we gonna keep it nice and tidy and specific.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
So you know this thing.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
A lot of things can go wrong in life, as
it does, particularly in relationships. You know, when you think
you're the one or you have the one and that's
not the one and you're not the one for him,
for her.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Blah, am'am.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
So you know, it's a lot of disappointment for some.
Some people don't bother. They just move right on along
in life and moving forward, and that's a good thing,
Praise God. But for some, because of that bond, that
emotional bond is not that easy to move on as
they would like. They want to, but they're a little
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slow about it or they feel stuck because of this
thing of rejection. They feel rejected, so they go reject it.
So they go through a lot of you know, that
emotional role coaster and rightfully, so you thought she was
the one, he was the one, you invested.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Whatever.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Some things is just some people are quickly to attached
and it's hard to detach even though they're attached in
a short period of time. Hmm.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Yeah, So you know, they get hurt.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
And not just with that, even with money situations or
at work, you thought you were next in line for
the promotion and for some people you were and you
were passed over for something simple, something you overlooked or
just it's just not fair game and you were passed
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over for the promotion at your job and you're hurt.
Some people are bitter about it, very angry. Again, emotional
roller coaster. And then it's kind of like when you
come into work you're kind of like, you know, you
don't know how to feel, or if you're walking in
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on a wright emotion, you know, things like that but
I want to tell you this God is to lift
her up of our heads. He will lift your head
up in Jesus' sweet name. As you go forth on
to work. You gotta go to work. That's your livelihood,
you know, how you pay your bills, how you keep
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your head above the water, how you live your lifestyle.
So you don't want to just walk off unless you
had already had a plan, you know. And a lot
of people don't have that plan. If I'm passed over
for the promotion, I just go on and take this
next job.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
That I interviewed, whatever, you know.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
But we're talking about the ones who were overlooked and
feel rejected. They feel some type of way. Some feel angry,
some feel you know, that's just not right.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
And some people that just right there, they don't know
how to feel about it, you know. And then there's
that financial thing in the family, in your family or
in buh between, in the marriage. You know, somebody's spending
more money than the other one. Oh my god, we
have to pray about that and get the balance there.
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You know, somebody's spending and not telling, somebody's over spending
and telling later Praise God, somebody's wasteful.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
You know.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
I remember in the Bible, in the Book of Acts,
Anonis and Sophia.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Always get them.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Mixed up with the other couple that was with Paul Priscilla.
The okay, so I got the right couple and and
I thank you Holy Spirit, cause people will not huh.
Anonius and Sophia they lied about how much they sold
their l property for and it didn't have to peter total.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
They didn' have to.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
So you know, we're telling lies about how much we're
spending in our marriage, Praise God.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
And it's not supposed to be like that. You know,
we're one.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
We need to know what each other are doing so
there can be balanced in our marriage in our home
because a house divided against itself cannot stand and lion
will bring division. Not being honest will bring division. You
are in a marriage where there is commitment, loyalty, faithfulness, transparency,
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and honesty because we're one heart.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
We are one. That's how God sees. And I'm not
talking about.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Your friends or anything out in the world. How the
world doth know in the Kingdom of God, where Jesus
is king, because there's a king over every kingdom, and
we are citizens in the Kingdom of God Almighty here
on the earth, a man, a king of God. So
his kingdom. There's a T shirt and you can purchase
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it at Holy nation dot com. Will say, we're supposed
to be different. People look at you cause you're different.
We're supposed to. We're children of the Most High God
who lives in the Kingdom of the Most High God
here on the earth, the one and only, true and
righteous living God, who has put his son, our King
and Savior, Jesus Christ, as king with an everlasting, eternal scepture,
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always extended towards us, a man and a man. And
so in his kingdom God sees us husband and wife,
one man, one woman, as one.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Praise God. Amen.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
So all is you know the left hand on, know
what the right hand is doing. And she don't have
to know, and you don't.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Have to tell her.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
That's not scriptural, that's not how God wants it. He said,
love your husband's husbands, love your wives, as Christ loves
the Church. And he gave his life. He shed his
blood for the Church, his bride. Praise God, He's there.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
For her with her.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
He took a brutal beating, persecution and crucifixion for his
bride Amen. He wasn't lying to her High and everything
Jesus said, the Father God promised through the prophets of old,
he fulfilled through an advent, the rival of his son
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and his son's kingdom here on the earth. God fulfilled
it as sold he gave to the prophets of old,
and Jesus Amaen. He endured the cross for us. So
all is separate and division. You are stopped that. I
rebuke you in Jesus' mighty name. It's not gonna be
like that, no more than living like that. You love
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your wife, and wives honor the husband to show him honor.
And then when you don't honor me, you don't treat
her like you love her.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
What are you talking about? Praise God?
Speaker 2 (08:09):
You know you hide stuff from her, You lie to her,
lie about her, lie on her.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
What are you doing?
Speaker 2 (08:17):
You come home mad, go to bed, back, get up,
or I should say angry. That's not Christ likens and
you can't please God in anger? And what are you
so angry about? You can't talk to her. I can't
talk to her. Why you talk to her when you
was trying to date her and get her to be
your wife. You was talking all day and all night.
Asks our heavenly Father to rekindle that flame. He's able
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and he wants to. They gonna do his trusting Believe
and have faith and patience, cultivate the fruit of the spirit,
make it grow in you patience, Amn only you can
do it.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Praise God.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
And so all this is sayings, have you heard about forgiveness?
How all allude to Jesus? Because we get together and
we get pass over for the promotion.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
And we're angry. You know, there's a bad breakup.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
We're angry and we get bitter and resentful, and it
can turn into unforgiveness. You don't want to forgive because
you were hurt, because you felt let down, because you
were rejected, because you caught your spouse in an act
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of adultery, or like I said, you were rejected, and
so you just it's just bad for you. And you're
not the only one. You are not the only one.
But you do need to forgive, because God forgives, and
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he forgives you, and he expects us to forgive in
his kingdom. That's what we do. I know you've been
badly hurt because you were you thought he was one,
you thought she was the one, and you found out otherwise.
But you know, on that with that, you could look
at that and say, well, it's a blessing that I
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didn't invest any further, because what if I'd married this
person and they're not the one. That's why the song says,
take everything to God and pray. Take I don't care
how much you like this person you're dating, how much
you seem like you all have in common, and how
much y'all plan, you take that person to God in prayer.
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You go on your knees, you go to the altar
and lay before God. Is he the one? Is she
the one? Because I'm investing my time, my energy, praise God,
and I'm thinking, I'm really considering sharing my life with
this person. Is this the righteous person for me? Almighty God?
Only you know I don't want to get involved in it.
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Later on, oh my God, why I did not wait?
You know, sometime you get involved and then you say, shoot,
if I the way that another couple of months, a
year later, the right person would have came by, cause
now I'm cheating on my spouse with this person whom
seem like they are the one. They are it so
the avoid that you want to take it to God?
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I don't you just gotta wait till you hear from God.
Don't be anxious for nothing, Praise God. So so so
you get you find out that you know this person
doesn't like you like you thought they do, or does
not no longer want to be in a relationship. So
you're hurt, you're angry, you're resentful, and you're bitter, and
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you want to get them back. And they call you
and say, well, I'm sorry. You know I always say
mister goodbye or I'm sorry, Tusie Roll Praise God, but
I I I don't think it's gonna work out, and
you just are Frenzy and Franny just are messed up.
And so they said they sorry. You don't believe it.
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You're not even considering why. You want to know why,
but you can't understand why. You can't accept it, So
now you can't forgive. It has turned into unforgiveness. I
will never forgive her. I will never forgive him what
they did to me. And I know, I know we
all been there where we've been heard or about something
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or someone, even the loss of a loved one. You're hurt,
and you're hurting and you're blaming someone or something, and
then there's for some reason you can't forgive that someone,
and you just got yourself locked up let job promotion.
I can't forgive my boss, he promised me. No, that
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is not right, she promised me. I will never forgive them,
you know. And in the marriage she cheated on me,
he committed adultery on me. I will never forgive him
because now our family is divided, the house is dysfunctional
because of what this spouse did with someone else, and
they left me. You know now they wanna come back. No,
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I will never forgive them. Okay, alright, in God's kingdom,
it's good for you to forgive. It's good for you
to let it go and not hold on. You know,
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you're holding on to that, you're dwelling. You abiding in
the past and the pain that was caused. You're reliving
it over and over and over again. And you don't
have to. What you need to do is continually, three four,
five times a day. It's quiet out and tell God
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about it.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
You know, how you get an a new person.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
You're venting. Most of the time, you're on a rebound.
Vent to God, he wants to hear. He has a way.
He come to men the broken hearted, and he will
mend that broken heart. He will heal you of your wounds,
heal you from the stroke of the wounds he wants to.
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But you have to forgive. Forgiveness causes you to release
that person from holding them into the front and center
to cause you pain and frustration daily, continuously. You just
release them from causing you know you ain't gonna do
that no more. I release you and go on because
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I forgive you. You didn't know no any better. That's your loss,
not mine. And I am healed by Jesus stripes from
this pain. He's mending, and he's come to mend my
broken heart.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Praise God.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
He's gonna turn my heart from you to him. But
I'm going to forgive you for hurting me. I'm going
to forgive you for passing me over on that job
promotion when you.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Knew it was mine.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
I'm gonna forgive you for committing adultery. I'm gonna forgive
you for lying on me and spiriting those rumors, causing
me to be bitter and walking resentment towards you. Cause
the Bible says read them from me in Ephesian the
fourth chapter.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Ammen Euphesians four thirty one and thirty two. Let all
bitterness and wrath, and anger, and clamor and evil speaking
be put away from you with all malice, and be
ye kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving one another,
even as God, for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Now this is the Word telling us, giving us instructions,
commanding us what to do.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
And it says, what, Let all bitterness and wrath and.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Bitterness, wrath, you bitter, your wrath, your anger.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
What and clamor and evil speaking.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
And evil speaking, clamor evil speaking.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Be put away from you.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
With all malice be put away, put away only you
can put it away.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Put it away from you.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
What with all malice, and be ye kind to one another.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
Okay, and be.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
Kind, tender hearted forgiving one another.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Oh, whoa, whoa, what forgiving one another?
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Forgiving one another? So he talking to the brethren, and
to forgive one another, cause that's how it's done in
the Kingdom. He's a forgiving one another. Praise God. We
got to learn to forgive one another in the body
of Christ, in the Kingdom of God. We got to
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forgive one another.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Why even if God, for Christ's sake have forgiven.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
You, Because God has forgiven you. God has forgiven you
through His Son, our Savior, and King Jesus. So he
wants you to forgive one another. To follow Jesus, do
as he does. Read in Colossians. Isn't that the next
one a man?
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Yes, Colossians three twelve and thirteen put on therefore as
the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness,
humbleness of mind, meekness, long suffering, forbearing one another and
forgiving one another. If any man have a quarrel against
any even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye?
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Mm, here we go, here we go forgiving? Forgiving? Well, well, Cynthia,
will will disgest the brotherre And what about if they're
not saved?
Speaker 2 (18:08):
God say, he reigns under jest and the unjustice light
shines on both the righteous and the unrighteous.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Forgive.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
It's not about well, you know where I'm not gonna
f Yes, forgive the brotherren. But the spirit of forgiveness
should be in you, because that's loving, kind, meekness, gentleness,
tender hearty. That those are the factors are are the
qualities that we're supposed to show outside of god kingdom
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as well as inside. Praise God, m because what we're
doing we're lights for the Kingdom of God. We are
beacon lights in the dark where we're drawing people to
the kingdom. So if people mistreat us and persecute us,
the Bible tell us to pray for them, praise God
and you forgiven them, especially when an unsaved and come
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up to you and ask you. That's what you do
and move on and Jesus' name. But being hurt by
the brotherren the Bible says, forgive because Christ forgave you,
so you're supposed to let it go. How take that
thing to God and learn how well?
Speaker 1 (19:18):
I don't know how.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
It just hurt. Yes, it hurts, and it probably will
hurt for a while.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
But you do not give up. You presh towards tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
You keep going back asking God, help me to forgive,
help me to forgive, help me to let it go,
and not.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
Forgive and not relieve.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Lord, sprinkle my mind, sprinkle my conscience with the blood
of Jesus, the precious blood of the Lamb.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
The power of the blood will wash it away.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
I believe that, and you come to God with that
every day, because the word of God is quick and
powerful and sharper than any towards.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Will it pierce even the divide and.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
The soul and spirit, joint and marrow, and with and
the intents of the thoughts, Ay, ma'am it pierce.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
So it's gonna go in. So what you do you
get these scriptures Colossians.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
What Colossians three twelve and.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
Thirteen, Colossians three twelve and thirteen in Ephesians four thirty
one through thirty two, Praise God. And you can get
some more forgiveness scriptures. And you learn now, and you
bring 'em before God, because your word says so. I
don't know how, but you do help me to forgive
those who hurt me the most. Help me to forgive
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those who are persecuting me, Father God, and keep my
mind on you. The blood of Jesus has already washed
it all away. And I want that clear conscious so
that I can use my conscious to think like Jesus
to serve you. Praise God, because forgiveness, praise God empowers.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
You, not them. Hallelujah. So I know you been hurt.
Speaker 2 (20:59):
There's no covering up or sweeping it under the rug.
But I'm asking you because of the Word says for
you to do it's forgive, think about it, focus on it.
You don't know how, I asks Jesus. If anyone likes wisdom,
let him ask asks them for wisdom on how to
forgive this person or person's and let it go and
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not dwell on it.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
Not a Bible when it comes to.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
My mind, the Bible say casting down imaginations and every
high thing it started coming, you cast it down. I
don't want to think about this. I'm throwing it out
of my mind and I'm thinking on things.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
That's high, like Jesus shed his blood for me. Jesus
set me free. Jesus has delivered me.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
I'm gonna have a good day because He's given me
powering his name to do so. So I'm not gonna
dwell on who hurt me. Yeah they did, but I
forgive them just like Jesus said. They don't know what
they was doing, and even if they did, I don't care.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
Praise God. Can you do that for Jesus because God
did it for you.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Praise God hallelujah, and see how God will bless you
and how light and lively you will feel when that
burden is lifted. Praise God when that burden is removed,
Hallelujah of you know, hurt and pain and persecution and
frustration and the past all that.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
Let just let it go. Amen.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
September twenty second was the Holy the holy new year
on God's holy calendar. That was the believer's new year,
and now we get to celebrate another one. January First,
don't go into the new year with pain from yesteryear,
you know, hurt, resentment, Forgive, forgive, forgive in the name
of Jesus, because God forgave you. And when you sin
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and mess up, you go to God, please forgive. You
want him to forgive you, so that that'll remove the
hindrance that that was blocking of your flow of blessings.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
And the Bible and I'm closing. The Bible says that
Jesus said.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
To the man that was paralyzed, thy sins are forgiven,
a ma'am. And so then Jesus told them, is it
easier to say pick up thy bed and walk, or
thy sins be forgiven thee But so you know that
the man, the son of God, has power here on
earth to forgive sins. So you see his sickness was
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connected with unforgiveness. Praise God when he got forgiven. Just
like the Word of God says and sums one on three,
It says, one on one, blessed the Lord all my
soul and forgetting not all his benefits. He forgives all
my sins. He heals all my diseases. And that's what
Jesus did. He forgave his sins and healed his disease.
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Perhaps that is when many may be sick, not only
for the mistaken of the communion, but because of unforgiveness.
They haven't confessed their sins, repented and asks for forgiveness.
And that may be because they have not forgiven others.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
Think about that.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Let me pray have any Father, in the name of
Sweet Jesus, Savior and King, I aks you to bless
those who are hurting, to forgive those who caused them
that pain. Will you bless 'em to come to you,
Father God, cause your words say if anyone likes wisdom,
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let 'em acts they don't know how to forgive, bless
'em to come to you and asks that you help them,
that you lead them to forgive others to forgive those
who persecuted them, t who forgive, to forgive those who
lied on them, To forgive that a spouse who has
committed adultery, To forgive those who, like I said, persecuted them,
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who are blaming them for something they didn't do. Help 'em, Lord,
to forgive, to let go, and to know that you
forgave them, so they should.
Speaker 1 (25:02):
Desire your Lord to forgive this.
Speaker 2 (25:05):
I aks of you, Heaveny Father, in Jesus' name, and
I thank you Father, praise the name of Jesus.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
Amen. And I close. I'm Cynthia, and I am out.
Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello everyone.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Praise the name of Jesus Christ. I'm the Lord and
save us. Forgive me my water bottle popping. This is Cynthia. Yeah,
did y'all hear that? That's my dog barking every time
I start, she starts. I think she wanted to do
something here.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
So how's everyone? How is your Advent?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
December the first, am'am? If not, I haven't said it, No,
happy advent, and I pray that you are gay, cheerfully.
December second, on Giving Tuesday. Praise God and man and men, amen,
bless the Lord.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
So this is have you heard? Have you heard?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Mm? Have you heard about a lot of things right,
But we gonna keep it nice and tidy and specific.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
So you know this thing.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
A lot of things can go wrong in life, as
it does, particularly in relationships. You know, when you think
you're the one or you have the one and that's
not the one and you're not the one for him,
for her.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Blah, am'am.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
So you know, it's a lot of disappointment for some.
Some people don't bother. They just move right on along
in life and moving forward, and that's a good thing,
Praise God. But for some, because of that bond, that
emotional bond is not that easy to move on as
they would like. They want to, but they're a little
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slow about it or they feel stuck because of this
thing of rejection. They feel rejected, so they go reject it.
So they go through a lot of you know, that
emotional role coaster and rightfully, so you thought she was
the one, he was the one, you invested.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Whatever.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Some things is just some people are quickly to attached
and it's hard to detach even though they're attached in
a short period of time. Hmm.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Yeah, So you know, they get hurt.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
And not just with that, even with money situations or
at work, you thought you were next in line for
the promotion and for some people you were and you
were passed over for something simple, something you overlooked or
just it's just not fair game and you were passed
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over for the promotion at your job and you're hurt.
Some people are bitter about it, very angry. Again, emotional
roller coaster. And then it's kind of like when you
come into work you're kind of like, you know, you
don't know how to feel, or if you're walking in
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on a wright emotion, you know, things like that but
I want to tell you this God is to lift
her up of our heads. He will lift your head
up in Jesus' sweet name. As you go forth on
to work. You gotta go to work. That's your livelihood,
you know, how you pay your bills, how you keep
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your head above the water, how you live your lifestyle.
So you don't want to just walk off unless you
had already had a plan, you know. And a lot
of people don't have that plan. If I'm passed over
for the promotion, I just go on and take this
next job.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
That I interviewed, whatever, you know.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
But we're talking about the ones who were overlooked and
feel rejected. They feel some type of way. Some feel angry,
some feel you know, that's just not right.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
And some people that just right there, they don't know
how to feel about it, you know. And then there's
that financial thing in the family, in your family or
in buh between, in the marriage. You know, somebody's spending
more money than the other one. Oh my god, we
have to pray about that and get the balance there.
(04:15):
You know, somebody's spending and not telling, somebody's over spending
and telling later Praise God, somebody's wasteful.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
You know.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
I remember in the Bible, in the Book of Acts,
Anonis and Sophia.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Always get them.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Mixed up with the other couple that was with Paul Priscilla.
The okay, so I got the right couple and and
I thank you Holy Spirit, cause people will not huh.
Anonius and Sophia they lied about how much they sold
their l property for and it didn't have to peter total.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
They didn' have to.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
So you know, we're telling lies about how much we're
spending in our marriage, Praise God.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
And it's not supposed to be like that. You know,
we're one.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
We need to know what each other are doing so
there can be balanced in our marriage in our home
because a house divided against itself cannot stand and lion
will bring division. Not being honest will bring division. You
are in a marriage where there is commitment, loyalty, faithfulness, transparency,
(05:35):
and honesty because we're one heart.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
We are one. That's how God sees. And I'm not
talking about.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Your friends or anything out in the world. How the
world doth know in the Kingdom of God, where Jesus
is king, because there's a king over every kingdom, and
we are citizens in the Kingdom of God Almighty here
on the earth, a man, a king of God. So
his kingdom. There's a T shirt and you can purchase
(06:04):
it at Holy nation dot com. Will say, we're supposed
to be different. People look at you cause you're different.
We're supposed to. We're children of the Most High God
who lives in the Kingdom of the Most High God
here on the earth, the one and only, true and
righteous living God, who has put his son, our King
and Savior, Jesus Christ, as king with an everlasting, eternal scepture,
(06:31):
always extended towards us, a man and a man. And
so in his kingdom God sees us husband and wife,
one man, one woman, as one.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Praise God. Amen.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
So all is you know the left hand on, know
what the right hand is doing. And she don't have
to know, and you don't.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Have to tell her.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
That's not scriptural, that's not how God wants it. He said,
love your husband's husbands, love your wives, as Christ loves
the Church. And he gave his life. He shed his
blood for the Church, his bride. Praise God, He's there.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
For her with her.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
He took a brutal beating, persecution and crucifixion for his
bride Amen. He wasn't lying to her High and everything
Jesus said, the Father God promised through the prophets of old,
he fulfilled through an advent, the rival of his son
(07:36):
and his son's kingdom here on the earth. God fulfilled
it as sold he gave to the prophets of old,
and Jesus Amaen. He endured the cross for us. So
all is separate and division. You are stopped that. I
rebuke you in Jesus' mighty name. It's not gonna be
like that, no more than living like that. You love
(07:56):
your wife, and wives honor the husband to show him honor.
And then when you don't honor me, you don't treat
her like you love her.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
What are you talking about? Praise God?
Speaker 2 (08:09):
You know you hide stuff from her, You lie to her,
lie about her, lie on her.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
What are you doing?
Speaker 2 (08:17):
You come home mad, go to bed, back, get up,
or I should say angry. That's not Christ likens and
you can't please God in anger? And what are you
so angry about? You can't talk to her. I can't
talk to her. Why you talk to her when you
was trying to date her and get her to be
your wife. You was talking all day and all night.
Asks our heavenly Father to rekindle that flame. He's able
(08:40):
and he wants to. They gonna do his trusting Believe
and have faith and patience, cultivate the fruit of the spirit,
make it grow in you patience, Amn only you can
do it.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Praise God.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
And so all this is sayings, have you heard about forgiveness?
How all allude to Jesus? Because we get together and
we get pass over for the promotion.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
And we're angry. You know, there's a bad breakup.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
We're angry and we get bitter and resentful, and it
can turn into unforgiveness. You don't want to forgive because
you were hurt, because you felt let down, because you
were rejected, because you caught your spouse in an act
(09:30):
of adultery, or like I said, you were rejected, and
so you just it's just bad for you. And you're
not the only one. You are not the only one.
But you do need to forgive, because God forgives, and
(09:50):
he forgives you, and he expects us to forgive in
his kingdom. That's what we do. I know you've been
badly hurt because you were you thought he was one,
you thought she was the one, and you found out otherwise.
But you know, on that with that, you could look
at that and say, well, it's a blessing that I
(10:11):
didn't invest any further, because what if I'd married this
person and they're not the one. That's why the song says,
take everything to God and pray. Take I don't care
how much you like this person you're dating, how much
you seem like you all have in common, and how
much y'all plan, you take that person to God in prayer.
(10:34):
You go on your knees, you go to the altar
and lay before God. Is he the one? Is she
the one? Because I'm investing my time, my energy, praise God,
and I'm thinking, I'm really considering sharing my life with
this person. Is this the righteous person for me? Almighty God?
Only you know I don't want to get involved in it.
(10:56):
Later on, oh my God, why I did not wait?
You know, sometime you get involved and then you say, shoot,
if I the way that another couple of months, a
year later, the right person would have came by, cause
now I'm cheating on my spouse with this person whom
seem like they are the one. They are it so
the avoid that you want to take it to God?
(11:19):
I don't you just gotta wait till you hear from God.
Don't be anxious for nothing, Praise God. So so so
you get you find out that you know this person
doesn't like you like you thought they do, or does
not no longer want to be in a relationship. So
you're hurt, you're angry, you're resentful, and you're bitter, and
(11:42):
you want to get them back. And they call you
and say, well, I'm sorry. You know I always say
mister goodbye or I'm sorry, Tusie Roll Praise God, but
I I I don't think it's gonna work out, and
you just are Frenzy and Franny just are messed up.
And so they said they sorry. You don't believe it.
(12:07):
You're not even considering why. You want to know why,
but you can't understand why. You can't accept it, So
now you can't forgive. It has turned into unforgiveness. I
will never forgive her. I will never forgive him what
they did to me. And I know, I know we
all been there where we've been heard or about something
(12:28):
or someone, even the loss of a loved one. You're hurt,
and you're hurting and you're blaming someone or something, and
then there's for some reason you can't forgive that someone,
and you just got yourself locked up let job promotion.
I can't forgive my boss, he promised me. No, that
(12:50):
is not right, she promised me. I will never forgive them,
you know. And in the marriage she cheated on me,
he committed adultery on me. I will never forgive him
because now our family is divided, the house is dysfunctional
because of what this spouse did with someone else, and
they left me. You know now they wanna come back. No,
(13:12):
I will never forgive them. Okay, alright, in God's kingdom,
it's good for you to forgive. It's good for you
to let it go and not hold on. You know,
(13:33):
you're holding on to that, you're dwelling. You abiding in
the past and the pain that was caused. You're reliving
it over and over and over again. And you don't
have to. What you need to do is continually, three four,
five times a day. It's quiet out and tell God
(13:56):
about it.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
You know, how you get an a new person.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
You're venting. Most of the time, you're on a rebound.
Vent to God, he wants to hear. He has a way.
He come to men the broken hearted, and he will
mend that broken heart. He will heal you of your wounds,
heal you from the stroke of the wounds he wants to.
(14:22):
But you have to forgive. Forgiveness causes you to release
that person from holding them into the front and center
to cause you pain and frustration daily, continuously. You just
release them from causing you know you ain't gonna do
that no more. I release you and go on because
(14:43):
I forgive you. You didn't know no any better. That's your loss,
not mine. And I am healed by Jesus stripes from
this pain. He's mending, and he's come to mend my
broken heart.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Praise God.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
He's gonna turn my heart from you to him. But
I'm going to forgive you for hurting me. I'm going
to forgive you for passing me over on that job
promotion when you.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Knew it was mine.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
I'm gonna forgive you for committing adultery. I'm gonna forgive
you for lying on me and spiriting those rumors, causing
me to be bitter and walking resentment towards you. Cause
the Bible says read them from me in Ephesian the
fourth chapter.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Ammen Euphesians four thirty one and thirty two. Let all
bitterness and wrath, and anger, and clamor and evil speaking
be put away from you with all malice, and be
ye kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving one another,
even as God, for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Now this is the Word telling us, giving us instructions,
commanding us what to do.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
And it says, what, Let all bitterness and wrath and.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Bitterness, wrath, you bitter, your wrath, your anger.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
What and clamor and evil speaking.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
And evil speaking, clamor evil speaking.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Be put away from you.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
With all malice be put away, put away only you
can put it away.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Put it away from you.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
What with all malice, and be ye kind to one another.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
Okay, and be.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
Kind, tender hearted forgiving one another.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Oh, whoa, whoa, what forgiving one another?
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Forgiving one another? So he talking to the brethren, and
to forgive one another, cause that's how it's done in
the Kingdom. He's a forgiving one another. Praise God. We
got to learn to forgive one another in the body
of Christ, in the Kingdom of God. We got to
(17:05):
forgive one another.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Why even if God, for Christ's sake have forgiven.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
You, Because God has forgiven you. God has forgiven you
through His Son, our Savior, and King Jesus. So he
wants you to forgive one another. To follow Jesus, do
as he does. Read in Colossians. Isn't that the next
one a man?
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Yes, Colossians three twelve and thirteen put on therefore as
the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness,
humbleness of mind, meekness, long suffering, forbearing one another and
forgiving one another. If any man have a quarrel against
any even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye?
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Mm, here we go, here we go forgiving? Forgiving? Well, well, Cynthia,
will will disgest the brotherre And what about if they're
not saved?
Speaker 2 (18:08):
God say, he reigns under jest and the unjustice light
shines on both the righteous and the unrighteous.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Forgive.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
It's not about well, you know where I'm not gonna
f Yes, forgive the brotherren. But the spirit of forgiveness
should be in you, because that's loving, kind, meekness, gentleness,
tender hearty. That those are the factors are are the
qualities that we're supposed to show outside of god kingdom
(18:40):
as well as inside. Praise God, m because what we're
doing we're lights for the Kingdom of God. We are
beacon lights in the dark where we're drawing people to
the kingdom. So if people mistreat us and persecute us,
the Bible tell us to pray for them, praise God
and you forgiven them, especially when an unsaved and come
(19:00):
up to you and ask you. That's what you do
and move on and Jesus' name. But being hurt by
the brotherren the Bible says, forgive because Christ forgave you,
so you're supposed to let it go. How take that
thing to God and learn how well?
Speaker 1 (19:18):
I don't know how.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
It just hurt. Yes, it hurts, and it probably will
hurt for a while.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
But you do not give up. You presh towards tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
You keep going back asking God, help me to forgive,
help me to forgive, help me to let it go,
and not.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
Forgive and not relieve.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Lord, sprinkle my mind, sprinkle my conscience with the blood
of Jesus, the precious blood of the Lamb.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
The power of the blood will wash it away.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
I believe that, and you come to God with that
every day, because the word of God is quick and
powerful and sharper than any towards.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Will it pierce even the divide and.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
The soul and spirit, joint and marrow, and with and
the intents of the thoughts, Ay, ma'am it pierce.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
So it's gonna go in. So what you do you
get these scriptures Colossians.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
What Colossians three twelve and.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
Thirteen, Colossians three twelve and thirteen in Ephesians four thirty
one through thirty two, Praise God. And you can get
some more forgiveness scriptures. And you learn now, and you
bring 'em before God, because your word says so. I
don't know how, but you do help me to forgive
those who hurt me the most. Help me to forgive
(20:33):
those who are persecuting me, Father God, and keep my
mind on you. The blood of Jesus has already washed
it all away. And I want that clear conscious so
that I can use my conscious to think like Jesus
to serve you. Praise God, because forgiveness, praise God empowers.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
You, not them. Hallelujah. So I know you been hurt.
Speaker 2 (20:59):
There's no covering up or sweeping it under the rug.
But I'm asking you because of the Word says for
you to do it's forgive, think about it, focus on it.
You don't know how, I asks Jesus. If anyone likes wisdom,
let him ask asks them for wisdom on how to
forgive this person or person's and let it go and
(21:20):
not dwell on it.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
Not a Bible when it comes to.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
My mind, the Bible say casting down imaginations and every
high thing it started coming, you cast it down. I
don't want to think about this. I'm throwing it out
of my mind and I'm thinking on things.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
That's high, like Jesus shed his blood for me. Jesus
set me free. Jesus has delivered me.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
I'm gonna have a good day because He's given me
powering his name to do so. So I'm not gonna
dwell on who hurt me. Yeah they did, but I
forgive them just like Jesus said. They don't know what
they was doing, and even if they did, I don't care.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
Praise God. Can you do that for Jesus because God
did it for you.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Praise God hallelujah, and see how God will bless you
and how light and lively you will feel when that
burden is lifted. Praise God when that burden is removed,
Hallelujah of you know, hurt and pain and persecution and
frustration and the past all that.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
Let just let it go. Amen.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
September twenty second was the Holy the holy new year
on God's holy calendar. That was the believer's new year,
and now we get to celebrate another one. January First,
don't go into the new year with pain from yesteryear,
you know, hurt, resentment, Forgive, forgive, forgive in the name
of Jesus, because God forgave you. And when you sin
(22:47):
and mess up, you go to God, please forgive. You
want him to forgive you, so that that'll remove the
hindrance that that was blocking of your flow of blessings.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
And the Bible and I'm closing. The Bible says that
Jesus said.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
To the man that was paralyzed, thy sins are forgiven,
a ma'am. And so then Jesus told them, is it
easier to say pick up thy bed and walk, or
thy sins be forgiven thee But so you know that
the man, the son of God, has power here on
earth to forgive sins. So you see his sickness was
(23:21):
connected with unforgiveness. Praise God when he got forgiven. Just
like the Word of God says and sums one on three,
It says, one on one, blessed the Lord all my
soul and forgetting not all his benefits. He forgives all
my sins. He heals all my diseases. And that's what
Jesus did. He forgave his sins and healed his disease.
(23:42):
Perhaps that is when many may be sick, not only
for the mistaken of the communion, but because of unforgiveness.
They haven't confessed their sins, repented and asks for forgiveness.
And that may be because they have not forgiven others.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
Think about that.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Let me pray have any Father, in the name of
Sweet Jesus, Savior and King, I aks you to bless
those who are hurting, to forgive those who caused them
that pain. Will you bless 'em to come to you,
Father God, cause your words say if anyone likes wisdom,
(24:21):
let 'em acts they don't know how to forgive, bless
'em to come to you and asks that you help them,
that you lead them to forgive others to forgive those
who persecuted them, t who forgive, to forgive those who
lied on them, To forgive that a spouse who has
committed adultery, To forgive those who, like I said, persecuted them,
(24:45):
who are blaming them for something they didn't do. Help 'em, Lord,
to forgive, to let go, and to know that you
forgave them, so they should.
Speaker 1 (25:02):
Desire your Lord to forgive this.
Speaker 2 (25:05):
I aks of you, Heaveny Father, in Jesus' name, and
I thank you Father, praise the name of Jesus.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
Amen. And I close. I'm Cynthia, and I am out.
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