November 20, 2025 • 28 mins
As we head into the Advent Season for 2025, we cannot overlook something tragic that is happening. People all over the world are struggling with loneliness, both seasonally and chronically.
God loves us and wants us to be free of this!
Join Pastor Cyndi in this Special Episode where she discusses how we can be free from loneliness in Jesus Mighty Name this Advent Season!
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God loves us and wants us to be free of this!
Join Pastor Cyndi in this Special Episode where she discusses how we can be free from loneliness in Jesus Mighty Name this Advent Season!
If you want to watch the video version of this episode, stop by our youtube channel!
Keep up with the latest from Pastor Cyndi by stopping by her websites or following her on social media!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Praise the name of our Save your Jesus. Halleluyah, Hello
all and welcome to Have you heard? Yes, have you
heard that? I'm Cynthia ay ma'am am'am no. I wanna
asks you about a topic or subject that's kind of
(00:25):
you know, I don't know have the word to explain it,
but it's like a little touchy and it's about loneliness.
Have you heard that? During this time of the year,
there are many, many, many, many people that go through
this period or this emotion of loneliness. Yes, many of
(00:50):
you have heard, just as I have heard, and some
of you have not. Praise scot but that's what we're
gonna chat about. Have you heard about loneliness? Now, there's
times in our lives when you know, grief or trauma
(01:15):
or bru bad breakup, you feel lonely. But some people
have been lonely most of their lives. They're twenty thirty, forty,
fifty years old, sixty, and they've been lonely from childhood
or you know, high school years. They walked through the
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valley of loneliness for many years. And for some it
seems as if cause it's been that long, it has
become a n a norm for them or an acceptable lifestyle.
When you just lonely this time of year or I'm
just lonely, it doesn't have to be like that, feeling
isolated or you know, some people are lonely in the Croado.
(02:00):
People praise God. But you do not have to be lonely,
particularly around holidays. And I know there's a lot of
seniors or elderly that live alone and they feel like
they're lonely because they don't have anyone. They feel isolated
on the holidays. There's no one to come visit them
or no one for them to go visit, so you know,
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they just sit there. Well, I want to be with
people and I'm not, or I can't excuse me either
the people won't accept me, don't accept me, or I
don't know anybody. I don't have any family to be with,
you know, or the people that I'm with they don't
treat me very kindly as if they, you know, welcome
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me or celebrate me. So therefore I still feel isolated
and alone, But you don't. Again, you don't have to
even though you do, or you've been there, Thank God
for you who have been and are not there. Praise God.
And so today we gonna talk about a little bit
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about the wy factor. And you know, come to you
from the scripture, which is we as the believer Christians,
the brotherren that's where we go. We go to the
Word of God for our answers. Amen and Amaen. I'd
spoke to someone, I would asks them about l loneliness
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and they begin to tell me that that's where I
had started, about the high school on through college and
things like that, how lonely they was. It what they
experienced as their loneliness. They were saying that they wanted
to be light, they wanted to fit in with the
end crowd, and they did it. They wanted to be cool,
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they wanted to have fun. And and then when they
weren't accepted by the end crowd quote unquote, they felt
not just rejected, which loneliness comes it's attached to rejected.
They felt rejected and alone because the crowd would be going,
let's just say to launch and all them sitting at
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the table and they laughing and talking and our cheerio
and having so much fun. So they don't looked too
glamorous and fun to them, but they were on the
outside of the circle. And looking at them, and so
they begin to feel lonely whenever, you know, school events
would come up because they know they weren't going to
have anyone or I at least the people they wanted
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to be with. They were not with you. Just thet
what I'm saying, a ma'am. And but here's what I
said to the Christian, to the believer, to the brothren.
This person was raised in a christ family, Christian home.
So there's a T shirt out there, you can go
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to Holy Nation Clothing dot com. And they say, we're
supposed to be different believers. We're supposed to be different.
We are leaders, not followers, and we don't have to
join in with darkness to be accepted or l liked
because we are already accepted in the beloved Amen. So
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they begin to feel this loneliness because they didn't recognize
who they were or whose they were, even though you're
a child, Praise God. And they were getting the training
train up a child in the way they should go
so when they're older they won't depart from it. And
scripture and Bible study and youth groups and things like that.
They were still looking to the world for fun because
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it was more unsaved people together in a group than
it was to save people's like one or two or
one in this lunch period or two in this lunch period.
So they didn't have Christian support or in a Christian
environment in that school. My thing was, you should have
been praying a math. Prayer moves the hand of God. Lord,
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send me a Christian friend to be with, or help
me to focus on you. You are my Jehovah Nissi.
I am to look up to you where the bright
light of Christ shines, a math shine through all my darkness, hallelujah.
Mostly remembering that friends of the world are enemies to God.
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And so with that story I understood. You know, of
course I understand very clearly about the elderly. Praise God
that you know, there are many young people that are
lonely because they want to fit in, you know, they
want to be light, they want to be accepted and so,
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you know, or either they've been bullied or they're stretched
out because of their grades and so they can't be
with who they wanna be at the crowd they wanna
be with, So they feel lonely, alone, isolated by themselves, well,
no one to love them, and you know, they just oh,
no one to like them, not at school, not at home,
not at work, praise God. And this is a problem
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for many, and so it goes on into their si
high school senior and then in college, you know, and
as young adults. So they're in this world not thinking
they're not loved or accepted, and so they think, well,
I'm lonely because I'm not with who I wanna be with.
I'm not accepted by the crowd, i wanna be accepted
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by you know, I'm not liked by them. Hm. And
so they begin to feel lonely during again events and
holiday seasons. Even though they're in a joyous at a
joyous event, it's a joyous celebration of the birth of
our Savior at vent or rival of our King, they're
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not looking to God. They're not looking in the world,
and so they're experiencing something they don't have to that
they should not praise God. And this happens time and
time again. Particularly this time, Christians say, I'm lonely. I
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feel alone. There's no one here for me to eat
my Thanksgiving dinner with, or no place for me to
go to share a meal with my family or friends.
So they just feel lonely, which can cause health issues,
bring on stress, heart disease, just a lot of things
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from the severe loneliness. I'm here to tell you people,
you do not have to be lonely. You don't have
to experience it. Listen, you need to tighten up and
know who you are and who you are. You are
a child of the most God, accepted in the Beloved,
in the Kingdom of God here on the earth. Get
to your bibles. Amen, Get in your Bible, Get on
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your face before God. With that being done, you don't
have time to focus on loneliness, because the Bible says,
cast your cares upon me. You go to Jesus, You
go to him in prayer, and you call on him.
You tell him all about it. The Bible says, it's
a thirty and two Psalms thirty and two. Oh, I
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cried unto the Lord and he healed me. Cry unto
the Lord about your loneliness, and he will heal you
from loneliness. Amen, Praise God. We're not utilizing the tools,
the weapons that we have to combat this spirit so
that it won't linger over us, get in us, it
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won't lead us, it won't no, no, no, no, no.
The Bible says in Ephesians six and eleven through twelve,
put on the whole armor of God, praise God, the
breastplate of righteousness, the helmet of salvation. That helmet is
to protect your thinking, so you won't think like this.
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That's why the Romans truvel tell us, renew your mind.
Be not conformed to the world, but be ye transformed
by the renewal of your mind. Renew your mind to
the world of God. Not dead things. Or I'm lonely
and there's no one to be with. God said, whoa.
I will never leave you nor forsake you. He's with you.
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Talk to God. Well, you know there is no one here.
I'm talking to God, but I need a physical body.
I need what the young lady said, a face here
to talk to. All you need is a voice, a
sincere heart that's open to God and obey his word.
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He said, cry unto me. No one wants to do.
We just want to sit the mope around and have
a self paid or the biggest thing we have not
been taught to cry out to God, to cast our
cares to God, to take everything on our knees. In
prayer to the Lord God I Jehovah, because he can
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just speak a word, he can touch you and deliver
you and heal you from this spirit of loneliness, from
this atmosphere, this environment of loneliness. This is something you
don't have to tolerate, you do not have to accept.
Praise God, am'am. When you start doing things God's way,
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reading your word, praying in fact the pastor I did
all that, do it all the more. And then here
it is ask God, what am I not doing or
what should I be doing? What is the hindrance Lord?
And you stay there until He answer you Praise God. Well,
it might take all day. Then you get more into
your word, AmAm, more into fasting and praying, and God
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will reveal Hallelujah, because the devil is a liar. Loneliness
didn't come from God, Praise God. Loneliness happened when people
disobeyed God in the Bible, when they took it upon
themself to do things their way, when they took the
wrong turn, or you know, sometimes situations will come like
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a new relationships. Praise God. There's a breakup and you
used to being with that person four or five years
or so and you know they joked at you, and
so you missed them and you feel lonely, you know,
and some people sooner this four months and you know, Amen,
(12:43):
we need to pray about that. Praise God. You can't
know a person in their ways. Amen, Praise in four months,
you know, tried three four years. Listen, what's his name? Jacob?
Jab up, Abraham Isaac and Jacob work seven years, seven
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years for Rachel and then he still didn't get her
into the end of the week. Praise God. He was jilted,
but God, Praise God. And God rescued him in a
you know, unforeseen marriage. He'll rescue you in that relationship.
Praise God. And besides, you're in a relationship. They gotta remember.
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Now everybody want God to bless and she one, he'd one.
But are you living righteously before God? The Bible tells
us in First Corinthians the sixth chapter. I'm not quite
sure the verse, but the sixth chapter fornication is not
for the body, but the body is for God. So
don't be talking about you love God and you're fornicating,
or you love God and you commit an adultery, or
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you love God and you lying and cheating on your taxes.
Or you love God and you're not paying your tithes
and offering and so on your seed. You love God
but you don't go to church. You love God, but
you don't reach your way. How do you know what
true love is if you don't read the word. How
do you know what to expect out of relationship? If
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you don't read the word, study the Word and pray
to God to hear from him about the relationship he
wants you in. Praise God, and then he tell me,
I'm lonely. God doesn't want that for you. All good
things come from above. Being lonely is not from God.
So that mean we have to know who we are
and whose we are, and whose kingdom we are. And
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we are in the Kingdom of God here on the
earth where Jesus is again, Praise God. And we have
to live his way. I'm so used to talking to
the microphone. I'm sorry. Amen. We have to live his
way and have relationships his way. So when loneliness try
to creep up upon you, we feel with the Word
because we've been reading and studying the Word. Amen, So
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we can cry out to God and give him his
word back. Lord, your word said just that's what Jesus did.
It was a word of wisdom. He knew the word
praise God, and he said it is written hallelujah. And
that's what we as children of the Most I have
to get in that word. Cause that's when Jesus used
the word to defeat Satan and he went away. So
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you're getting your word to defeat Satan, which is the
spirit of loneliness, and he'll go away. You don't have
to tolerate it. You don't have to accept that. You
don't have to live with the spirit of loneliness or
in loneliness no holiday, no day, no week, no month,
and no year. Hallelujah to Jesus. Amen, praise God, cause
we get caught on that and then we following you
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know where you know where. That's just how it is.
Some people they just you know, this is my no.
I don't know what I know, as all things are
possible with God to those who believe. And when you
pray and believe what you pray, you shall receive what
you pray for in faith. The just shall live by faith. Amen.
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That's what I know. So you have faith in God
to move that spirit from you to keep you from
walking in that, because we're supposed to walk in the spirit,
the Holy Spirit. Praise God, not in the spirit of
the doubt and fear and loneliness and depression. Amen. Those
are spirit that come against us, for we wrestle not
with flesh and blood, but with principalities, powers and rulers
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and darkness that try to come attack us because they
are in Satan from saying that come to kill, steal,
and destroy. Satan is looking for whom he made the
viral going to and fro don't let him catch you.
Praise God. That's why God gave you his armor to
wear and reminded you you wear this army because you're
not wrestling with flesh and blood, but with principalities and
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rulers and darkness. And this will protect you because the
helm and the salvation gonna protect your mind because Jesus
already shed his blood with the thorny crown to wash
away that bad thinking. And this helmet is to protect
the good thinking and keep it in. And the breastplay
of the righteousness and to shield of faith, ma'am, and
the sword of the Spirit and the belt of truth,
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and the shoes the spread of God's spoil, peace, praise God. Hey, ma'am,
that's what we put on every day and keep on
because we are in We said we wrestle, not we
were wrestling that they're trying to get us the enemy,
which is where you said, where you lonely? Why when
I'm a child or the most I got? The Bible
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tells me, and I believe it acci and it shall
be given long as it's in alignment with the water.
Go because y'all all be asking for somebody's spouse and
all the Lord who said a wish y had I
love her? You married and in love with somebody else? No, no, no,
that's not got to ask him to move that unclean
adultery spirit from you. You falling O came and then
tell me, my Lord, give them to it is the
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way you want from stop. And that's why your hearing
is clogged up. That's why you expect some people. Perhaps
I'm not sure it's a possibility of potential of that lifestyle.
Couldn't experience loneliness, ma'am. That's not what God wants for you.
You don't you know? People? Well, you know, here come Thanksgiving,
Here come Christmas. I just dreaded cause I don't want
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to be lonely. And then and I understand that some
people because of tragedy that has happened on that day
or around that week of the holidays, and they just
feel lonely without that loved one, you know, without that friend,
and their heart is hurting. But Jesus came to mend
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the broken heart. That's in the word, and that's what
you meditate. Many of us aren't meditating on the word,
chewing on the word, saying it over and over where
nothing happening. Three days and three months and three years.
You keep on cause you're getting stronger, AmAm, Praise God.
I want to read this. Have this read to you.
Psalms twenty five and sixteen and seventeen and eighteen.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
Okay, Amen, Psalms twenty five, verse sixteen through eighteen, Turn
the untie me and have mercy upon me. For I
am desolate and afflicted. The troubles of my heart are enlarged.
Oh bring thou me out of my distresses. Look upon
my affliction and my pain, and forgive all my sins.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Now go back to sixteen.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
Amen, turn thee unto me and have mercy upon me.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Now this is David asks le Lord Amen, to turn
unto him and have mercy. You turn to God and
ask him to turn to you, to have mercy on you.
Read for I am desolate and afflicted, desolate and afflicted, hurting, lonely, afflicted.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
Go ahead, the troubles of my heart are enlarged. Oh
bring thou me out of my distresses. Look upon mine
affliction and my pain, and forgive all my sins.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Bring me. They want to be He want to be delivered,
and he want God to you know, know his heart
is in pain, and to look upon him and to
forgive him. And there you go. Some of us need
to ask God for forgiveness of our sins. Amen. Amen,
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And remember the scripture. Tell it to God, Read it
to him, Say it to him so that he can
heal your heart, heal your mind, and rescue you from
sinking and depression of loneliness. Amen. Amen. God loves you,
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and that's not what he wants for you. No matter
the situation that got you there, he can bring you
out of it. Trust her, you trust everything else. And
all your friends who turn their back on you, who
backstabb you, lied on you, spread rumors about you. You
went right back to the relationship. But no, no, no,
I'm asking you now to trust God who's here to
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deliver you so that you won't be lonely during the
holiday seasons, none of them. So that you won't be
lonely period. He came to mend your broken heart, to
help you through that breakup, that rejection, that spirit of fear,
because he didn't give you the spirit of fear. That's
what he's here for. So it's on you. What your
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solution is. Call out to God and keep calling till
you get your breakthrough, they say. Into the songwriter say
into the battle, your name is breakthrough, and into the
struggle your name is victory. Recognize our heavenly Father as
your break the one who breakthroughs for you and rescue you,
cause he's already defeated the spirit of loneliness. You have
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victory in Christ over that and it's right there at
your mouth, Jesus say, the Kingdom of God is near.
You Just cry out, asks him to forgive you, confess
your sins to him, tell him that you need help
and that you feel lonely, and you stay there, get
on your face. Go the next day and the next
day and the next day, and you fast about it.
And while you're doing all this, you haven't even noticed
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that loneliness has left it divided you, am'am some I'm
saying what the Word says and proverbs. Trust God with
all that in happening. Don't leave. You don't have to
understand well why, Just know that He's a deliverer and
a healer, and that he didn't give you loneliness, nor
the spirit of fear nor doubt, but of love and
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power and of a sound mind. And soundness mean no loneliness. Amen,
what you think about that? Praise God? And before we leave,
Before I leave, I wanna pray for you so that
you won't experience loneliness no more. Ever, because Jesus loves you.
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He paid a hefty price for you to have life
and have it abundantly, and being lonely is not abundant.
Let us go to the throne of our God in
the name of his son and our Savior and King Jesus,
heavenly Father, in the mighty name of your son, our
save of Jesus. We thank you for Jesus and what
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he did for us on cavalry. He came to deliver
us from bondage and to set the captives free. And
right now there are many who are held bondage in loneliness. Father,
that's not anything that you've given them. So since your
son came and paid the price to set them free,
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let them be set free this moment, Lord, from the
spirit of loneliness. In the name of Jesus, I aks,
deliver them. Lord, deliver them from the spirit of fear, loneliness,
and doubt. And Lord, restore joy and peace. And if
they never had it, give them peace that Jesus left
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with them. Enjoy in the name of Jesus I aks.
Give 'em courage to call out to you, Father God,
that they need you and they need help from being lonely. Lord,
and bless them Lord, to do as your words say.
Cast their cares upon you because you care. You are
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a compassionate father, and we thank you for that. We
love you, Father God, and we thank you that your
son you allowed him to pay the price for us,
so that many 'em come to you will receive deliverance
and healing from loneliness. Thank you, Jesus. This I aks
of you Father, to set 'em free from loneliness, to
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lead them to you, to cry out to you so
that they'll be set free from that ugly spirit of loneliness,
and for them to cast their cares upon you because
you care. It's our aks in Jesus' mighty name, and
I f thank you Jesus and praise your name that
you have set him free. I'm buying that spirit of loneliness.
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I break its power on those people who were saying
that they would lonely no more, say that you are
not lonely. I curse the spirit of loneliness roots. I
curse his seeds. I break his chains from offer you
and say you are set free, delivered, stay free in
Jesus Mighty Dame. Amen, Praise God, Amen, and praise God.
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And that is my time. I thank you Jesus for
setting them free from that spirit, setting them free from
being bondiged like you did the woman that was sitting
in the service and Jesus came in and sorrow. Many
of you know, Jesus see you, and he's calling out
to you to rise and shake off that change. It's loneliness.
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Be free cause there's liberty in Christ. Jesus, Oh Lord, Amen,
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Praise the name of our Save your Jesus. Halleluyah, Hello
all and welcome to Have you heard? Yes, have you
heard that? I'm Cynthia ay ma'am am'am no. I wanna
asks you about a topic or subject that's kind of
(00:25):
you know, I don't know have the word to explain it,
but it's like a little touchy and it's about loneliness.
Have you heard that? During this time of the year,
there are many, many, many, many people that go through
this period or this emotion of loneliness. Yes, many of
(00:50):
you have heard, just as I have heard, and some
of you have not. Praise scot but that's what we're
gonna chat about. Have you heard about loneliness? Now, there's
times in our lives when you know, grief or trauma
(01:15):
or bru bad breakup, you feel lonely. But some people
have been lonely most of their lives. They're twenty thirty, forty,
fifty years old, sixty, and they've been lonely from childhood
or you know, high school years. They walked through the
(01:35):
valley of loneliness for many years. And for some it
seems as if cause it's been that long, it has
become a n a norm for them or an acceptable lifestyle.
When you just lonely this time of year or I'm
just lonely, it doesn't have to be like that, feeling
isolated or you know, some people are lonely in the Croado.
(02:00):
People praise God. But you do not have to be lonely,
particularly around holidays. And I know there's a lot of
seniors or elderly that live alone and they feel like
they're lonely because they don't have anyone. They feel isolated
on the holidays. There's no one to come visit them
or no one for them to go visit, so you know,
(02:22):
they just sit there. Well, I want to be with
people and I'm not, or I can't excuse me either
the people won't accept me, don't accept me, or I
don't know anybody. I don't have any family to be with,
you know, or the people that I'm with they don't
treat me very kindly as if they, you know, welcome
(02:44):
me or celebrate me. So therefore I still feel isolated
and alone, But you don't. Again, you don't have to
even though you do, or you've been there, Thank God
for you who have been and are not there. Praise God.
And so today we gonna talk about a little bit
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about the wy factor. And you know, come to you
from the scripture, which is we as the believer Christians,
the brotherren that's where we go. We go to the
Word of God for our answers. Amen and Amaen. I'd
spoke to someone, I would asks them about l loneliness
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and they begin to tell me that that's where I
had started, about the high school on through college and
things like that, how lonely they was. It what they
experienced as their loneliness. They were saying that they wanted
to be light, they wanted to fit in with the
end crowd, and they did it. They wanted to be cool,
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they wanted to have fun. And and then when they
weren't accepted by the end crowd quote unquote, they felt
not just rejected, which loneliness comes it's attached to rejected.
They felt rejected and alone because the crowd would be going,
let's just say to launch and all them sitting at
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the table and they laughing and talking and our cheerio
and having so much fun. So they don't looked too
glamorous and fun to them, but they were on the
outside of the circle. And looking at them, and so
they begin to feel lonely whenever, you know, school events
would come up because they know they weren't going to
have anyone or I at least the people they wanted
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to be with. They were not with you. Just thet
what I'm saying, a ma'am. And but here's what I
said to the Christian, to the believer, to the brothren.
This person was raised in a christ family, Christian home.
So there's a T shirt out there, you can go
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to Holy Nation Clothing dot com. And they say, we're
supposed to be different believers. We're supposed to be different.
We are leaders, not followers, and we don't have to
join in with darkness to be accepted or l liked
because we are already accepted in the beloved Amen. So
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they begin to feel this loneliness because they didn't recognize
who they were or whose they were, even though you're
a child, Praise God. And they were getting the training
train up a child in the way they should go
so when they're older they won't depart from it. And
scripture and Bible study and youth groups and things like that.
They were still looking to the world for fun because
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it was more unsaved people together in a group than
it was to save people's like one or two or
one in this lunch period or two in this lunch period.
So they didn't have Christian support or in a Christian
environment in that school. My thing was, you should have
been praying a math. Prayer moves the hand of God. Lord,
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send me a Christian friend to be with, or help
me to focus on you. You are my Jehovah Nissi.
I am to look up to you where the bright
light of Christ shines, a math shine through all my darkness, hallelujah.
Mostly remembering that friends of the world are enemies to God.
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And so with that story I understood. You know, of
course I understand very clearly about the elderly. Praise God
that you know, there are many young people that are
lonely because they want to fit in, you know, they
want to be light, they want to be accepted and so,
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you know, or either they've been bullied or they're stretched
out because of their grades and so they can't be
with who they wanna be at the crowd they wanna
be with, So they feel lonely, alone, isolated by themselves, well,
no one to love them, and you know, they just oh,
no one to like them, not at school, not at home,
not at work, praise God. And this is a problem
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for many, and so it goes on into their si
high school senior and then in college, you know, and
as young adults. So they're in this world not thinking
they're not loved or accepted, and so they think, well,
I'm lonely because I'm not with who I wanna be with.
I'm not accepted by the crowd, i wanna be accepted
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by you know, I'm not liked by them. Hm. And
so they begin to feel lonely during again events and
holiday seasons. Even though they're in a joyous at a
joyous event, it's a joyous celebration of the birth of
our Savior at vent or rival of our King, they're
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not looking to God. They're not looking in the world,
and so they're experiencing something they don't have to that
they should not praise God. And this happens time and
time again. Particularly this time, Christians say, I'm lonely. I
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feel alone. There's no one here for me to eat
my Thanksgiving dinner with, or no place for me to
go to share a meal with my family or friends.
So they just feel lonely, which can cause health issues,
bring on stress, heart disease, just a lot of things
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from the severe loneliness. I'm here to tell you people,
you do not have to be lonely. You don't have
to experience it. Listen, you need to tighten up and
know who you are and who you are. You are
a child of the most God, accepted in the Beloved,
in the Kingdom of God here on the earth. Get
to your bibles. Amen, Get in your Bible, Get on
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your face before God. With that being done, you don't
have time to focus on loneliness, because the Bible says,
cast your cares upon me. You go to Jesus, You
go to him in prayer, and you call on him.
You tell him all about it. The Bible says, it's
a thirty and two Psalms thirty and two. Oh, I
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cried unto the Lord and he healed me. Cry unto
the Lord about your loneliness, and he will heal you
from loneliness. Amen, Praise God. We're not utilizing the tools,
the weapons that we have to combat this spirit so
that it won't linger over us, get in us, it
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won't lead us, it won't no, no, no, no, no.
The Bible says in Ephesians six and eleven through twelve,
put on the whole armor of God, praise God, the
breastplate of righteousness, the helmet of salvation. That helmet is
to protect your thinking, so you won't think like this.
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That's why the Romans truvel tell us, renew your mind.
Be not conformed to the world, but be ye transformed
by the renewal of your mind. Renew your mind to
the world of God. Not dead things. Or I'm lonely
and there's no one to be with. God said, whoa.
I will never leave you nor forsake you. He's with you.
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Talk to God. Well, you know there is no one here.
I'm talking to God, but I need a physical body.
I need what the young lady said, a face here
to talk to. All you need is a voice, a
sincere heart that's open to God and obey his word.
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He said, cry unto me. No one wants to do.
We just want to sit the mope around and have
a self paid or the biggest thing we have not
been taught to cry out to God, to cast our
cares to God, to take everything on our knees. In
prayer to the Lord God I Jehovah, because he can
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just speak a word, he can touch you and deliver
you and heal you from this spirit of loneliness, from
this atmosphere, this environment of loneliness. This is something you
don't have to tolerate, you do not have to accept.
Praise God, am'am. When you start doing things God's way,
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reading your word, praying in fact the pastor I did
all that, do it all the more. And then here
it is ask God, what am I not doing or
what should I be doing? What is the hindrance Lord?
And you stay there until He answer you Praise God. Well,
it might take all day. Then you get more into
your word, AmAm, more into fasting and praying, and God
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will reveal Hallelujah, because the devil is a liar. Loneliness
didn't come from God, Praise God. Loneliness happened when people
disobeyed God in the Bible, when they took it upon
themself to do things their way, when they took the
wrong turn, or you know, sometimes situations will come like
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a new relationships. Praise God. There's a breakup and you
used to being with that person four or five years
or so and you know they joked at you, and
so you missed them and you feel lonely, you know,
and some people sooner this four months and you know, Amen,
(12:43):
we need to pray about that. Praise God. You can't
know a person in their ways. Amen, Praise in four months,
you know, tried three four years. Listen, what's his name? Jacob?
Jab up, Abraham Isaac and Jacob work seven years, seven
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years for Rachel and then he still didn't get her
into the end of the week. Praise God. He was jilted,
but God, Praise God. And God rescued him in a
you know, unforeseen marriage. He'll rescue you in that relationship.
Praise God. And besides, you're in a relationship. They gotta remember.
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Now everybody want God to bless and she one, he'd one.
But are you living righteously before God? The Bible tells
us in First Corinthians the sixth chapter. I'm not quite
sure the verse, but the sixth chapter fornication is not
for the body, but the body is for God. So
don't be talking about you love God and you're fornicating,
or you love God and you commit an adultery, or
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you love God and you lying and cheating on your taxes.
Or you love God and you're not paying your tithes
and offering and so on your seed. You love God
but you don't go to church. You love God, but
you don't reach your way. How do you know what
true love is if you don't read the word. How
do you know what to expect out of relationship? If
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you don't read the word, study the Word and pray
to God to hear from him about the relationship he
wants you in. Praise God, and then he tell me,
I'm lonely. God doesn't want that for you. All good
things come from above. Being lonely is not from God.
So that mean we have to know who we are
and whose we are, and whose kingdom we are. And
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we are in the Kingdom of God here on the
earth where Jesus is again, Praise God. And we have
to live his way. I'm so used to talking to
the microphone. I'm sorry. Amen. We have to live his
way and have relationships his way. So when loneliness try
to creep up upon you, we feel with the Word
because we've been reading and studying the Word. Amen, So
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we can cry out to God and give him his
word back. Lord, your word said just that's what Jesus did.
It was a word of wisdom. He knew the word
praise God, and he said it is written hallelujah. And
that's what we as children of the Most I have
to get in that word. Cause that's when Jesus used
the word to defeat Satan and he went away. So
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you're getting your word to defeat Satan, which is the
spirit of loneliness, and he'll go away. You don't have
to tolerate it. You don't have to accept that. You
don't have to live with the spirit of loneliness or
in loneliness no holiday, no day, no week, no month,
and no year. Hallelujah to Jesus. Amen, praise God, cause
we get caught on that and then we following you
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know where you know where. That's just how it is.
Some people they just you know, this is my no.
I don't know what I know, as all things are
possible with God to those who believe. And when you
pray and believe what you pray, you shall receive what
you pray for in faith. The just shall live by faith. Amen.
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That's what I know. So you have faith in God
to move that spirit from you to keep you from
walking in that, because we're supposed to walk in the spirit,
the Holy Spirit. Praise God, not in the spirit of
the doubt and fear and loneliness and depression. Amen. Those
are spirit that come against us, for we wrestle not
with flesh and blood, but with principalities, powers and rulers
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and darkness that try to come attack us because they
are in Satan from saying that come to kill, steal,
and destroy. Satan is looking for whom he made the
viral going to and fro don't let him catch you.
Praise God. That's why God gave you his armor to
wear and reminded you you wear this army because you're
not wrestling with flesh and blood, but with principalities and
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rulers and darkness. And this will protect you because the
helm and the salvation gonna protect your mind because Jesus
already shed his blood with the thorny crown to wash
away that bad thinking. And this helmet is to protect
the good thinking and keep it in. And the breastplay
of the righteousness and to shield of faith, ma'am, and
the sword of the Spirit and the belt of truth,
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and the shoes the spread of God's spoil, peace, praise God. Hey, ma'am,
that's what we put on every day and keep on
because we are in We said we wrestle, not we
were wrestling that they're trying to get us the enemy,
which is where you said, where you lonely? Why when
I'm a child or the most I got? The Bible
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tells me, and I believe it acci and it shall
be given long as it's in alignment with the water.
Go because y'all all be asking for somebody's spouse and
all the Lord who said a wish y had I
love her? You married and in love with somebody else? No, no, no,
that's not got to ask him to move that unclean
adultery spirit from you. You falling O came and then
tell me, my Lord, give them to it is the
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way you want from stop. And that's why your hearing
is clogged up. That's why you expect some people. Perhaps
I'm not sure it's a possibility of potential of that lifestyle.
Couldn't experience loneliness, ma'am. That's not what God wants for you.
You don't you know? People? Well, you know, here come Thanksgiving,
Here come Christmas. I just dreaded cause I don't want
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to be lonely. And then and I understand that some
people because of tragedy that has happened on that day
or around that week of the holidays, and they just
feel lonely without that loved one, you know, without that friend,
and their heart is hurting. But Jesus came to mend
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the broken heart. That's in the word, and that's what
you meditate. Many of us aren't meditating on the word,
chewing on the word, saying it over and over where
nothing happening. Three days and three months and three years.
You keep on cause you're getting stronger, AmAm, Praise God.
I want to read this. Have this read to you.
Psalms twenty five and sixteen and seventeen and eighteen.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
Okay, Amen, Psalms twenty five, verse sixteen through eighteen, Turn
the untie me and have mercy upon me. For I
am desolate and afflicted. The troubles of my heart are enlarged.
Oh bring thou me out of my distresses. Look upon
my affliction and my pain, and forgive all my sins.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Now go back to sixteen.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
Amen, turn thee unto me and have mercy upon me.
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Now this is David asks le Lord Amen, to turn
unto him and have mercy. You turn to God and
ask him to turn to you, to have mercy on you.
Read for I am desolate and afflicted, desolate and afflicted, hurting, lonely, afflicted.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
Go ahead, the troubles of my heart are enlarged. Oh
bring thou me out of my distresses. Look upon mine
affliction and my pain, and forgive all my sins.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Bring me. They want to be He want to be delivered,
and he want God to you know, know his heart
is in pain, and to look upon him and to
forgive him. And there you go. Some of us need
to ask God for forgiveness of our sins. Amen. Amen,
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And remember the scripture. Tell it to God, Read it
to him, Say it to him so that he can
heal your heart, heal your mind, and rescue you from
sinking and depression of loneliness. Amen. Amen. God loves you,
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and that's not what he wants for you. No matter
the situation that got you there, he can bring you
out of it. Trust her, you trust everything else. And
all your friends who turn their back on you, who
backstabb you, lied on you, spread rumors about you. You
went right back to the relationship. But no, no, no,
I'm asking you now to trust God who's here to
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deliver you so that you won't be lonely during the
holiday seasons, none of them. So that you won't be
lonely period. He came to mend your broken heart, to
help you through that breakup, that rejection, that spirit of fear,
because he didn't give you the spirit of fear. That's
what he's here for. So it's on you. What your
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solution is. Call out to God and keep calling till
you get your breakthrough, they say. Into the songwriter say
into the battle, your name is breakthrough, and into the
struggle your name is victory. Recognize our heavenly Father as
your break the one who breakthroughs for you and rescue you,
cause he's already defeated the spirit of loneliness. You have
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victory in Christ over that and it's right there at
your mouth, Jesus say, the Kingdom of God is near.
You Just cry out, asks him to forgive you, confess
your sins to him, tell him that you need help
and that you feel lonely, and you stay there, get
on your face. Go the next day and the next
day and the next day, and you fast about it.
And while you're doing all this, you haven't even noticed
(22:08):
that loneliness has left it divided you, am'am some I'm
saying what the Word says and proverbs. Trust God with
all that in happening. Don't leave. You don't have to
understand well why, Just know that He's a deliverer and
a healer, and that he didn't give you loneliness, nor
the spirit of fear nor doubt, but of love and
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power and of a sound mind. And soundness mean no loneliness. Amen,
what you think about that? Praise God? And before we leave,
Before I leave, I wanna pray for you so that
you won't experience loneliness no more. Ever, because Jesus loves you.
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He paid a hefty price for you to have life
and have it abundantly, and being lonely is not abundant.
Let us go to the throne of our God in
the name of his son and our Savior and King Jesus,
heavenly Father, in the mighty name of your son, our
save of Jesus. We thank you for Jesus and what
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he did for us on cavalry. He came to deliver
us from bondage and to set the captives free. And
right now there are many who are held bondage in loneliness. Father,
that's not anything that you've given them. So since your
son came and paid the price to set them free,
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let them be set free this moment, Lord, from the
spirit of loneliness. In the name of Jesus, I aks,
deliver them. Lord, deliver them from the spirit of fear, loneliness,
and doubt. And Lord, restore joy and peace. And if
they never had it, give them peace that Jesus left
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with them. Enjoy in the name of Jesus I aks.
Give 'em courage to call out to you, Father God,
that they need you and they need help from being lonely. Lord,
and bless them Lord, to do as your words say.
Cast their cares upon you because you care. You are
(24:21):
a compassionate father, and we thank you for that. We
love you, Father God, and we thank you that your
son you allowed him to pay the price for us,
so that many 'em come to you will receive deliverance
and healing from loneliness. Thank you, Jesus. This I aks
of you Father, to set 'em free from loneliness, to
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lead them to you, to cry out to you so
that they'll be set free from that ugly spirit of loneliness,
and for them to cast their cares upon you because
you care. It's our aks in Jesus' mighty name, and
I f thank you Jesus and praise your name that
you have set him free. I'm buying that spirit of loneliness.
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I break its power on those people who were saying
that they would lonely no more, say that you are
not lonely. I curse the spirit of loneliness roots. I
curse his seeds. I break his chains from offer you
and say you are set free, delivered, stay free in
Jesus Mighty Dame. Amen, Praise God, Amen, and praise God.
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And that is my time. I thank you Jesus for
setting them free from that spirit, setting them free from
being bondiged like you did the woman that was sitting
in the service and Jesus came in and sorrow. Many
of you know, Jesus see you, and he's calling out
to you to rise and shake off that change. It's loneliness.
(25:52):
Be free cause there's liberty in Christ. Jesus, Oh Lord, Amen,
am all right free. Thank you all for joining me
and watching me on my podcast. Have you heard? Check
me out Cynthia Gearsministries dot org, Facebook, YouTube, Instagram, on
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my TikTok okay and also go to Holy Nation Clothing
dot com and get you some gear. Don't forget the authors,
Oh great read, Great Reads A Man from Godly authors
Abean and Felicity Elaine and Abean. You can go to
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com or a write Teambing dot com and get their books.
May gog is five series May God one two three
four five. It's really good. I'm Keani and I was
surprised about what's his name? Zion. It's real good. It's
kind of like a semi romance during invasion I the
(27:06):
America being invaded closely to end Times PRAISESE got story
the little romance in there. It's really good. The woman
had to give birth, who remember the Lord? Tell me
the woof prayer? I don't have one in the winter
or women pregnant, praise God. So it's really good. And
(27:26):
ID five fourteen it's there with it Rose. What's the
other one, my fellow American? And Crosscatiny, Yeah, across Academy.
Hold on this one of a wolfgang, the wolf Pack,
the wolf packet ooh, mafia romance and a lot of
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stuff going on. But in the middle of it all
there's a message about Christ Jesus because it was somebody
a mafia princess was kidnapped a man and I think
she ended up getting saved, but somebody else was already
saved and they were taking It's just oh my God,
and it's just it's awesome. You should read it. And
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the one I really want you to go to a
writingbeing dot Com, Kindle Unlimited in Amazon. I want you
to get The Bell of the Native because it's a
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to be encouraged in our Christmas stories about our Lord
and Savior, am'am. So you do that for me, and
don't forget to go to Holy Nation Clothing. People go
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to Holy Nation Clothing. Support the Christians businesses and Christian
authors because we're a brother and that's what we do, AmAm.
All right, So thank you all again for joining me
and joining me soon. And don't forget Loneliness have been defeated.
You walk in victory in Jesus Christ amd and a
mad i Am Cynthia, all
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