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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey there, beautiful souls, welcome back to heal your lonely heart.
Positive mindset boost. This is your girl, Nova Lane, here
to chat about something real, something raw, something we all
experience at some point. Healing from emotional pain ever felt
like your heart has been through the wringer, Like someone
took a giant blender and just went to town. Yeah,
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me too. Emotional pain is a universal language, folks. It
doesn't discriminate based on age, status, or even species. We
all get bruised, sometimes, heartbroken, disappointed, maybe even betrayed, and
that's okay. Feeling these things doesn't mean you're weak. It
means you have the capacity to love deeply. But hey,
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feeling down is one thing, But staying stuck there that's
a whole other story. So let's talk about how to
navigate those murky waters and come out on the other side, stronger, wiser,
and with a heart that's even more resilient than before.
Ready to dive in. Here are five key takeaways to
keep your heart thriving. One, acknowledge it, don't bottle it
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up like a vintage wine. Bad news is meant to
be shared seriously. The first step to healing is acknowledging
your hurting. Pretending everything sunshine and rainbows only prolongs the pain.
Think of it like this. You wouldn't ignore a broken leg,
would you. Same goes for emotional wounds. Allow yourself to
feel the sadness, anger, frustration, whatever comes up. Don't judge
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those feelings, just let them flow through you two talk
it out. Sometimes all you need is a good vent session.
Find someone you trust, a friend, family member, therapist. Shout
out to the amazing therapists out there. Talking about what
hurts can be incredibly cathartic. You don't have to explain
yourself or sugarcoat anything, just let it all out. Remember,
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sharing your burden lightens the load. Three. Self care is
not selfish, people, it's essential. Think of self care as
your armor against emotional pain. What makes you feel good
taking a long bath, listening to your favorite music, going
for a hike in nature. Indulge in those things that
bring you joy and replenish your soul. For practice gratitude
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even when it's hard. This one can be tricky, especially
when you're feeling down, but trust me on this. Focusing
on the good things in your life, big or small,
can shift your perspective and help you feel more positive.
Try a gratitude journal. Write down three things you're grateful
for each day. Five. Remember healing is a journey, not
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a destination. There will be ups and downs. Days when
you feel like a superhero, in days when you feel
like a slug. That's normal. Be patient with yourself, celebrate
your progress, and don't give up on the process. You're
stronger than you think. Now let me tell you about this.
One time I was going through a rough break up.
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It felt like my whole world had come crashing down.
I was drowning in sadness, over analyzing every text message,
replaying every conversation in my head, the whole nine yards.
But then I remembered a friend's advice nova go for
a hike in the mountains. Get out there, breathe some
fresh air, and remind yourself that you're still amazing even
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without him. So I did just that. I laced up
my hiking boots, hit the trail, and let myself feel
the sun on my face, the wind in my hair,
the dirt under my nails. And you know what, it
felt incredible. I realized I was so focused on what
I had lost that I forgot to appreciate everything else
that was still good in my life. That hike reminded
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me of a few things. First, nature has a way
of healing your soul. Second, getting out there and moving
your body can do wonders for your mental health. And third,
sometimes all you need is a change of scenery and
a reminder that you're capable of amazing things even when
life throws you curveballs. So, my beautiful listeners, remember this.
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Healing from emotional pain takes time, patience, and self compassion.
Be kind to yourself throughout the process. Celebrate your victories,
learn from your setbacks, and never forget how strong and
resilient you truly are. Now, let's get social. Share this
episode with a friend who might need some extra love today,
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me on Instagram at novelene Underscore for daily doses of
positivity and inspiration. Until next time, keep shining your light bright.
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