Hold My Drink with Charleen and Ellie
Charleen Murphy and Ellie Kelly present Hold My Drink, a GoLoud Original podcast. Think of the girl's bathroom on a night out, or the group chat the next morning. That is the vibe of our podcast. This is our safe space to to spill all the gossip on life, relationships, love, breakups and much more. As well as sharing their own experiences, Charleen and Ellie are also here to answer some of your own dilemmas, whether it be about boys, friends, school, college or work, or anything at all. We always love to hear from you! New episodes of Hold My Drink are released every Wednesday, and our bonus episode, Hold My Drink: Extra Juice, is released every Monday. Contact us by email - holdmydrink@goloudnow.com
Episodes
November 30, 2022 • 72 min
The mornings are darker, the evenings are longer, the weather is colder, which means cuffing season is officially here! If you've never heard of the term before, you'll find out all about what "cuffing" is, what is involves and why it happens. Cuffing can ultimately lead to a winter boyfriend, another concept we chat about this week.
Charleen and Ellie are filling you in on their recent travels to New York. Finally...
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November 28, 2022 • 25 min
Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer some extra dilemmas on this week's bonus episode! How can you make friends as an adult? What to do if your views on life are different to your partners and you keep having the same arguments over again? Do you confront your boyfriend for putting photos of him and his ex back up on Instagram? And should you tell your best friend's brother that you have feelings for him when he's in ...
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November 23, 2022 • 58 min
Charleen and Ellie are going undercover to pull off a big surprise for one of their best friends, Caoimhe, in New York City. They talk about how they are hoping to pull it off and the feelings that come with surprising something.
The girls also talk about surprises that have been done for them in the past, and surprises they would like done for them in the future - babies, dogs, engagements...!
There's another boot disaster...
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November 21, 2022 • 26 min
We love answering your dilemmas, so keep them coming in. On this week's bonus episode, there's some tricky situations that Charleen and Ellie are helping out with. Do you try to get back together with your partner after cheating on them? Would somebody having chlamydia turn you off them? And is being drunk and stupid an excuse for night-out behavior with the lads?
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November 16, 2022 • 68 min
*Trigger warning: There are conversations around abuse in this episode*
1 in 5 young women aged 18-25 have been subjected to abuse by a current or former male partner, and 1 in 3 of them never told anyone about the abuse. Because we know that a huge number of you that listen to Hold My Drink are within this bracket, we want to raise awareness and spread the word about supports that are available, so you don't have to suffer in...
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November 14, 2022 • 29 min
Ever wanted to know what Charleen and Ellie would name their OnlyFans? Well, you'll find out in this episode. You'll also hear some extra dilemmas answered. Should you try to hold onto a fading talking stage? Are you right to consider getting back with an ex that got with your sister since your break-up?
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November 9, 2022 • 88 min
Since it is Hold My Drink Live Show week, we want to give you a listen to our very first live show EVER! Wednesday, 24th August 2022 at Liberty Hall in Dublin. You'll hear all your favourite segments like Wait Til I Tell You, German Word of the Week, Secrets From The Stalls, and Sip or Skip. You'll meet some very special guests like Aoibh and Bla Murphy and Protein Bor King himself, James Doyle. And you'll also have som...
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November 7, 2022 • 22 min
We always ask for your updates when we answer your Secrets From The Stalls, and today, we've got that, as well as a mad dating story! Charleen and Ellie are still answering some more of your dilemmas - is your ex stalking you via his mam's Instagram? And should you go for the guy that's been waiting for you for years, that is promising you all the things your current boyfriend isn't doing for you right now?
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November 2, 2022 • 64 min
Charleen and Ellie are chatting clothes and style in this episode. How would they describe their own styles and how have their styles evolved over the years? The girls give some advice on how to feel confident in your clothes and how to deal with people's comments or opinions about the clothes you wear. There are also some of your dilemmas to be answered. Is it a red flag for the guy your seeing to bring up decisions you made i...
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October 31, 2022 • 20 min
Charleen and Ellie have recruited some additional help for your Secrets From The Stalls this week. It's Emma and Amanda from last week's main episode - you can listen back to that after this! The girls are giving some pretty big advice to you in this episode.
How do you deal with your boyfriend's brother's belittling girlfriend? Should you pursue something with a boy, where you both have a strong connection, but he...
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October 26, 2022 • 78 min
TRIGGER WARNING: In this episode, there are conversations about suicide, death and grief. If you are affected by anything you hear, we would advise you to seek professional help.
Charleen and Ellie are joined by Emma Smyth and Amanda Dunne for an open and honest conversation about Kevin. Kevin lost his life to suicide in June 2021. Emma was Kevin's girlfriend, and Amanda was his sister. They tell us about Kevin - who he was, h...
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October 24, 2022 • 24 min
Got a dilemma? Charleen and Ellie have some advice for you in our bonus episode! Should you keep trying to text the guy you're seeing if he's ghosting you? Do you stick out your well-paid job when you're not clicking with your colleagues? How can you make the move on a stranger? And should you explore 'the one who got away', even though you're in a relationship for the last 6 years?
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October 19, 2022 • 57 min
What are your standards when it comes to relationships? What must you have in a partner, and what can you absolutely not tolerate from your other half? Charleen and Ellie are talking standards this week, including their own from previous relationships, to the standards they have now from life experiences. We asked you to tell us your standards, which the girls discuss. There's also some dilemmas to be answered - do you tell you...
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October 17, 2022 • 21 min
Ready for your extra fix of dilemmas? Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer them! What does a boy need to do to impress girls? How do you approach a conversation with your partner about the importance of sex in your relationship? Should you stay with or leave your boyfriend if he's pushing you away as of recent? And how should you feel if your boyfriend is Snapchatting random girls out of 'boredom'?
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October 12, 2022 • 71 min
Charleen and Ellie reminisce on their childhoods, from school days, to first experiences with social media, and navigating career ideas. Ellie also shares some very exciting news in Wait Til I Tell Ya. The girls are ready to answer some of your dilemmas, as always, such as feeling like a walk over within your friend group, and feelings around your boyfriend still following his ex and her family online.
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October 10, 2022 • 21 min
Ready to hear some more dilemmas? Charleen and Ellie are ready to answer them! How do you put your mind at ease getting back together with your ex after he lied to you? Why can't you shake feelings for a boy you didn't even meet, even though you are both in separate relationships now? And should you date different boys in the same friend group?
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October 5, 2022 • 72 min
We are celebrating one whole year of Hold My Drink this week, and what better way to commemorate the occasion than a good old-fashioned game of Say It or Shot It?! Playing the game alongside Charleen and Ellie is our birthday guest, the one and only Sean Phipps. The girls are also answering your dilemmas, including your boyfriend planning on breaking your relationship off as soon as he goes to college, and is going back to your ex ...
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October 3, 2022 • 24 min
Here's your extra fix of Charleen and Ellie in the week, and the girls are ready to answer your dilemmas! Should you let the boy you've been talking to come visit you abroad when you don't feel ready for a relationship? What to do if a married with kids co-worker is flirting with you? And should you trust your boyfriend after finding out he's been lying to you during your entire relationship?
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September 28, 2022 • 65 min
Charleen and Ellie are talking all things dating on this week's episode - their first dates, their worst dates, and their dream dates. The girls are also trying to figure out some of the "rules" that comes with dating, like how long do you wait to text them afterwards, and can you date multiple people at once? You've also sent in your dilemmas for Charleen and Ellie to help out with, such as struggling with not havi...
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September 26, 2022 • 24 min
We're going deep into your dilemmas on this week's bonus episode. How do you find your place in the world again after the loss of a loved one? Were you right to forgive your boyfriend for sleeping with other people during your 'break' while you dealt with personal issues? And are you a bad girlfriend for feeling attracted to other men?
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