October 23, 2025 • 31 mins
In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and her husband discuss various aspects of swinging, relationships, and intimacy. They explore the dynamics of swinging relationships, the demographics of swingers, and the importance of communication and comfort in relationships. The conversation also delves into the intersection of food and sensuality, examining how food can enhance intimacy and erotic experiences. The hosts share personal anecdotes and insights, creating a candid and engaging discussion about adult relationships and lifestyle choices.
Takeaways
Takeaways
- The Hot Wife Podcast focuses on relationships and intimacy.
- Swinging is more common than many realize, with a significant portion of the population involved.
- Demographics of swingers tend to be between the ages of 30 and 50.
- Comfort in relationships allows for exploration and new experiences.
- Food can play a role in enhancing intimacy and eroticism.
- The environment in which food is consumed can be more important than the food itself.
- Communication is key in swinging relationships.
- Sharing partners can enhance pleasure for both individuals.
- The hosts emphasize the importance of being comfortable with oneself and one's partner.
- The podcast encourages listeners to explore their desires and communicate openly.
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into
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we want to make it clear that the views expressed
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(00:26):
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permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's
heat things up.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
You'll let them get the scravetime do Rock Live, You
Wild Storms, Pop Why podcast breaking all the nows, open
discussions about the swing fall.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Hello everybody, This is don A Linn and welcome to
a Hot White podcast. Of course, I'm here with my
ever wonderful husband, Vince.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
You almost sound convinced.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Almost. I know I've been working all that.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Okay, a little more practice, I might believe you.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Okay, I'm here with my wonderful husband.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Emphasis on wonderful.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Oh, I'm here with my wonderful Now that's too much, hm,
I'll keep working on it. Don't worry not that you're
concerned about.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
That zero sleep.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
You have no fucks to give. That's it all funked out,
don't you wish?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
It's a fantasy of mine?
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Well, what can I say? What can I say?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
So we are almost at the end of October.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
That's hard to believe.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
I don't remember September. Did that happen? Do we skip
it this year?
Speaker 3 (01:53):
There's a lot of poor yeah that they're thinking, my god,
what the heck happened to the summer?
Speaker 2 (01:58):
You know, I'm not sure where August went.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
No, I'm not sure where August went. But here we
are in October and it's halfway, a little bit more
than a halfway.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Two weeks and we'll be done October.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Oh my god, don't rush it, Please, don't rush it.
We have nice weather, it's still beautiful.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Yeah, nasty, but you know we have JUMBOI that is good.
It's my Sunday cooking and making stuff for the week.
But anyway, so you have some factoids.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Yeah, there's just one. We've talked about these kind of before,
and we've noticed it in our own observation of the
lifestyle surge. And you did some research and it's a
did you know that four to five percent of the
general population has been involved in some kind of a
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swinger relationship in some form or fashion.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
I almost think it's higher than that.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Yeah, you might be right, but we've even said, you know,
there's a lot.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Of people people. You know, when I was younger, we
got drunk.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Yeah, yeah, when I experimented, when I was in college.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
No, experimenting park could be taken a lot of different way.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah, well, it's sometimes it's with women. Sometimes it's drugs,
it's why whatever, men. Sometimes sometimes it is multiple men.
Sometimes it's football teams. All right, we're not judging, but yeah,
we've even founded in our own circle. I mean, just
finding an old schoolmate on the swinger website that's kind
of you know, definitely hot. But I mean, who would
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have thought that people that we went to school with
would be on a swinger website. You've had a buddy
that you ended up finding.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Out I found out I didn't do anything.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
No, you didn't do anything with him, but you found
out he was also a swing when he showed up
the parties.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Find one of the girls that I went to school
with that.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Would be interesting hot ones, Yeah, exactly, they're still hot. Well,
I'm sure they aren't here in their own way, in
their own way, sure, I mean that would be really cool.
I mean finding my buddy from school was it was
very ironic, you know so, but that's.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Cool again, even with that, whenever or however they took
that poll, right, how many people were honest?
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Oh, that's true of a lot of people. Oh, no,
we don't do that.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
I wouldn't do that. Yeah, I'd be interested in knowing.
I have to look it up. What is the percentage
of men who wish their wives would become swingers or
how many women wish their husband would let them swing.
That's to find that out for one of the next shows.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
My prediction would be there are more men would want
their women to be swingers than wives would want their husbands.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
It's gonna be interesting. That would be interesting fact, because
there are some men that are super jealous, and there's
some women that are super jealous.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
So that's not going to work for them at all.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Yeah. Obviously we know people like, it's okay if I swing,
but my.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Partner, Yeah, that's just it's not how it works. No,
it's not how it works at all.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Swing goes back and forth, not just forth exactly.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
That's true, that's very true. So yeah, I mean, yeah,
I did think that the percentage was a little low.
But I mean they have a broaden to swinging at
some point in their lives, so that could be, like
you said, when they were in high school or college
or before kids.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
If swinging was super super mainstream, then Facebook would just
be swinging as popular as Facebook is.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Oh, that's true, you know, that's very true. But I'm
sure that we knew people that use Facebook as a meet.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
And Greek groups or whatever they are swinger based. But
you know, I think that doesn't have necessary the privacy
you get with a swinger site.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
No, I would never do anything on face Book never ever.
That that would be like m as. Just tell your
family and friends. You just call them up and say, yeah,
we're swingers.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Yeah. Again, it's none of their business.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
No, it's none They shouldn't.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Care if you do. It should be what do you care?
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Oh? I agree, I mean absolutely.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
But numerous people we've talked to that we tried to
get on the podcast, and I'm flattered they all think
we're that popular that they're like, oh, we don't want
to get found out. Okay, if I generally think people
who listen to our show. Are either people who are
swingers or people want to be swingers. So you're only
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outing yourself to other swingers potentially.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
I mean, yeah, it's not really outing yourself.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Yes, I don't really think the heads of corporations are listening.
It's like, is that one of my employees?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
I know their voice? It's like, are you are you
kidding me? I don't think anybody really knows my voice.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
You got to stay in your comfort zone. We respect that.
Oh you know, we have no comfort zone. We're out
and proud. Yeah, just just out there so everyone can
see what we do. Anyway.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Oh, whatever you want to do, do you. I just
want you to be happy. I just be happy. The
other fact to it, I just wanted to bring out
before we start the actual show. And this is one
we've seen too. The demographic seems to be between the
age of thirty and fifty, sure, which makes sense.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Gotta be more. You have to kind of be settled
in your life, be mature, right, there's a guarantee of
the mature part. But you know, yeah, and again it
gets back into I think after a certain age, you're
comfortable in your relationship. You're comfortable with yourself.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
Or you're bored. It's like, God, I've been married to
this person for twenty years. I've got to fuck something else.
There's gotta be another pussy out.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
That's a fili.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
No, of course not. We've been swinging the whole time.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
We were married twenty three years.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Yeah, but we didn't just start swinging. It would been dating.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
Like two months. Yeah, I've had enough of you.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
I need somebody else, I need another group. But I mean,
you know, yeah, either it's sometimes you just need that
spark to get things going again, just that kind of
like that little fire, you know.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Again, the thing that initially got me into swinging with
my first mistake was that a.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
Real second mistake obviously in the case you didn't catch that, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
It was you know, I had some people close to
me die right young ages, and I realized how fragile
life is, and you know, there's so much to enjoy
in life, and sex is obviously one of those things,
right exactly. It doesn't really cost you a lot of money,
if anything. And you know, so that you know, by
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sharing my partner with people she wants to be shared with.
Getting you in this case have.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
That you're talking about me now no, yeah, yeah, but you.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Have additional pleasure that you enjoy which reciprocates back to me,
and then I get to have pleasure with some people.
Sometimes some people don't have bare spray or whatever burns.
But no it you know again, what's a What's one
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of the best things you can have in life? It's
free you can get and receive and orgasm, I mean
quite and simple.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
See, I was thinking, like, you know, a nice dinner
ass Okay, okay, you're right. Everything else is pretty much
has a price attached to it.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
You got to buy something, don't got to buy yet,
only thing to do is pay for a shower to clean.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
Up before before. That's true, that's true.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Yeah, you got to clean up anyway. So hopefully you
know an orgasm and it's something you can give and
receive and everyone's happy.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
Yeah, I say definitely. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Sure was somebody who's not happy after an organism. I'm
not saying it hasn't happened. They might regret it afterwards,
but in general.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Yeah, in general, you're pretty happy.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Hard to be mad at someone after this made you
come real hard.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Yeah, I just that's why I'm tell you.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
That's so I'm gonna tell you how I wrecked the car.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
Yeah, okay, I'm gonna go down check now make sure
that car is still good. Now. I think it is
pretty amazing. And I feel that older people older, being
over the age of forty, let's say, I don't consider
thirty that you know, that's terribly old, if at all,
But it's niceing like older people, you know, stepping outside
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their comfort zone and willing to create new experiences and
new memories. This way. You know, when a lot of people,
if they're fifties and sixties, are like, oh what is me?
My life is over? You know, I'm married to the
same person forever. It's not going to not committing different
you heard me, I did. I did. But there's a
whole there's a whole group of people in that same
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age group that are much younger thinking, and you know,
are are willing to take a chance, and they're not
afraid to step outside their comfort zone and experience things
that might be uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Again, that's part of it. And I think part of
it is people being comfortable with themselves and in their relationship. Yep,
you know that again, Like we talked about, if you
base a relationship on an.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Orgasm even though it is free.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
Well you know it's free. Yeah, but so it's government cheese.
But you know, we're not basing reaceship on government cheese.
But you know that you're you know, you feel comfortable
enough in your relationship, that's okay. She can have an
orgasm with this person, you know whatever, be a man
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or a woman, or my husband could have an orgasm
with this person.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Man or a woman, whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Children, But and then afterwards we're still together because it
was just sex.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
It wasn't love, right exactly. He has a lot of people,
like we've said a thousand times to get that can't
distinguish between sex and love. And there is a huge difference.
So yeah, it's it's a shame that some people just
can't wrap their head around the whole concept. And it's
it's it's sharing is caring. I mean you're you've you're
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giving up your significant other for other people to enjoy.
So I guess it, you know, giving up, you're sharing,
you're sharing them, but you're giving them up. No, that's
probably a bad, bad but yeah, it's like you're sharing them, it's.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
And you're allowing them, you're allowing your partner to explore
other adventures.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
Yeah exactly. Then they might be ones that you're not
really into her I'm not into. So we get to
experience things away from each other then come back and
enjoy each other.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
Saying, oh, my wife can't go out to lunch with
her girlfriend at a restaurant I haven't been to.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Yeah exactly.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Well, you know, our relationships not based on that we
have to eat the same meals at the.
Speaker 3 (13:27):
Same restaurants exactly. So yeah, you might.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
Want to eat at a you know, fish rest at
a hot dog bar. I might only want to eat
the fish restaurant, the fish taco restaurant, something like that. Anyway,
we're going to make that into the topic all of
a sudden here, but yeah, well yeah, yeah, so what
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was the topic.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
It's it's the how erotic food can be.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Okay, we've touched on this a lot of time, but
it's like we actually think what was the most erotic food?
Speaker 3 (14:04):
I think we did a while ago, a while ago.
But this is also like sensory deprivision and tasting food
from another perspective by being blindfolded or having you know,
one of your senses taken away, and there's all kinds
of things that everybody has always done, you know, the
old you know, using cucumbers, bananas. We are the one,
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the one girl that had her own porn por in sight.
And she 's those jumbo huge carrots. They were huge.
This carrots were as big as my arm. I kid
you not. They were huge. And she's like, yeah, you
gonna make some kind of funky stew with it.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Afterwards, she put them, it came out and oh.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
My god, that was like I've always heard of people
doing that. I've done with like little things, you know,
like hurkins. She has a sweet kurkin. I stop it.
But she was taking on things there's like a holy crap.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
It was almost like eggplants.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
Yeah, they're as they were.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
The biggest, biggest carrots I've ever his.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
Carrots and cucumbers I think I've ever seen.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
It's like roots from a big fucking oak tree.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Yeah, they were. They were gigantic. But you know, I
mean there's always that aspect of using food.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
Well, it's there's the obvious aspects. Yeah, I mean, and again,
whoever hasn't seen nine and a half weeks where again
she's blindfolding strawberries.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Yes, I think you always think about the strawberries, which
is good. I've I've enjoyed that.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
I don't know if I would find strawberries erotic. Well,
the blindfold part is erotic party, Yeah, not knowing what
they're feeding.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
Yeah, that's true. Strawberries are good because they're like a
finger food. You can have a good hold on them.
You can feed them to your partner almost like grapes
still on the vine, so they have something to hold
on to. That kind of work ship feed somebody.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
Blindfolding spoon feeds your kimchi.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
Oh no, that would not even a little bit. Thanks. Yeah,
oh that's just wrong. Oh god, that's that's foul. That's
just terrible.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Okay, But tomato soup, tomatoes soup.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
I want you to drizzle it all over me, then.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
Lick it all, give you a second degree burns.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Nothing would be hotter, literally, nothing would be hot.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
Piece of really hot pizza. So the cheese sticks to
your roof and you don't know it roof of your mouth.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
That's terrible. I think, uh, I think I did something
with an old boyfriend. I think we use honey and
I like drizzle it all over my chest and my belly,
and he kind of like looked it off.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
And it was just that would take too long.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
It does. By time you're done, you're like, I'll.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Go to sleep, wake me up.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
When you're Dutch, I think you're a sticky mess. It's
not you're going to go and have sex because it's
like now it's like all over the bed sheets and
it was terrible that.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Rips the hair out of his chest and puts it
on yours.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I always hear people using chocolate. It's
the same thing.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
Chocolate here wouldn't be as bad.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
Not as bad because it's not as sticky, but it's
still it's still a sticky mess.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
Okay, but now you could do not the honey. That's
just way too sticky. It's a chocolate syrup or one
of the other syrups. You know, you know, you could
actually make it still erotic, cleaning them up with like
a warm wash cloth or something.
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Or my tongue.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
Well, at a point you're gonna go, okay, I've yeah,
enough chocolate syrup, my blood sugar. But now if you're
if the person's laying there, yeah, blindfolded, and now you're
giving a nice kind of like a spongebag, you have
to wipe that up like a nice warm washcloth, and
that might be kind of what I'm saying, that can
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add to it. I can want you do that to me.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
I'm sure you could.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
I'm sure you're not going to. No, No, you're so erotic.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
There's there's this flavored uh it's kind of like the
spunk glue, but they're like flavored lubricants.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
Yeah, that's just like carous syrup.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
It's the one that I found. It was a blueberry.
It was actually pretty good. I think I ended up
like just eating it by itself instead of using it
on somebody else. It was actually tasted pretty good. That
was a long time ago.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Do you think they should try making like a semen
flavored one? Would that be erotic to you? I may
ask you that if I developed a semen flavored lubricant.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
Okay, because you know it would be fake.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Well, sorry, we just can't have a bunch of guys
jerking off to a.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
Vat that helped me terrible. Yeah, I don't think that
would be good.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
I'm just asking. I'm not not something I would buy
for myself.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Obviously, obviously, but.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
No, I'm just wondering would that be something of no.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
For me, the experience of tasting someone's semen has to
be part of that.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
You have to warm it up.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
I guess, I guess. Okay, you put it that way. No, no, no,
it's it's not the taste of the semen is what
I particularly want. It's the whole. Yeah, it's it's the whole,
like sucking on him and you know, fucking him and
licking my juices off of his cock and and then
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you know, getting all that excitement just you know, somebody
just hands me a cupful of cumba.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
Let's pretend in the foreplay of it, you have this
lubricant that is semen flavored. Now you we'll call it spunkloob. Okay,
spunk web is not semen flavored, but no, it has
drizzles some of this on his cock and you it's
four play, so now you're jerking abull getting them hard,
and then you start going down on him and it tastes.
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Now he's hard, and it tastes like he came, and
now you're cleaning up to come after you're would that
be something to be around?
Speaker 3 (20:18):
No, you know it would be really good, though, pre come,
because the pre come is sweet when a guy starts
to use that pre come. It is very very sweet.
It's like a like kind of like a nectar. I mean,
it's it's really it's super sweet. Yeah, I'm sure you will.
So that I find exciting because it also tastes it
really generally tastes good because it is so sweet. But
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like the cum itself, it's it's not the cum that
I'm after, it's the whole experience and having a guy
either come in my face and my mouth or my chest.
That's just one small part of it. I mean there's
all you know, you have to be excited and then
reach that. I'm not going to get excited if somebody
just hands me a cup of comb, you know what
I'm here, Baby's Yeah, I mean there's a whole I
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don't want to say it's a ritual, but there's a
whole activity that.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
Goes into the reward for the work.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
Yes, but I don't want the reward by itself. The
reward by itself is empty, Okay. The reward it is,
you know, giving my partner pleasure and him giving me pleasure,
and then you know, just the orgasm is not for
the taste of com is not my not everything I want.
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I want the whole experience.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
That's not necessarily the end. I'll be all part of it.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
No, no, it really is okay, No, No, it's like
everything else too.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
We'd love to hear what you have to say about
this info at podcast dot com. So's talking about tell
us what flavor you would like and how you would
feel about come flavored. Uh.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
Now gets us back to do foods really make your
cum taste different or your vagile and juices differently? And
we've discussed that. I mean we've tried things like the
mangoes and you know the pineapple, and you know, did
you I didn't really notice any difference.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
I didn't suck any deck. So no, I mean, like
I ate one of those stinky fruits from the Chinese
place to see if you could tell the difference. You
haven't touched me. It's work three years.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Ago that would be Yeah, that would be a good fruit.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
No, that's the fruit is not good for anything.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
When you name her fruit stinky fruit.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Is like, well it's not name that, but that's what it's.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
Yeah, it has another name that on.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
Instagram trying it, he tries food and yeah, he was
just dry. Even that kind of as soon as he
cut it open, he's like, yeah, anyway.
Speaker 3 (22:56):
Yeah, it's food like that, it's going to just kill
your sex dry whatever. Other foods like like the strawberries.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Something makes me horny, makes me hungry. It doesn't make
me horny.
Speaker 3 (23:06):
No, but a lot of times, you know, food and
sex kind of overlap because there is a sensuality to
eating and feeding someone or someone being fed food, So
there is that kind of intimacy. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
I find the eroticism of food being if you're out
to dinner with somebody and let's in my case, I
say a woman and she's dressed very sexy, and the
conversation and everything, so the food is part of it.
I don't know if it's really a trigger for me, No.
Speaker 3 (23:43):
But it gives you an environment of what's that if
she was.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
Naked, okay, what else? She would sit there and go
I'm picking up the bill.
Speaker 3 (23:56):
Oh yeah, dirty, dirty girl.
Speaker 2 (23:59):
In that case, I'll have another double.
Speaker 3 (24:02):
You know what, there's the sensual dining experience has been done,
you know throughout history, you know, just a dark corner
candle li it, you know we talked.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
About and it's been done in movies. Absolutely, the woman
as the centerpiece. Yes, the food draped across her and
you pick it off of us.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
Oh oh the buffet, the human buffet. Yes, we've seen
that done. It was in a movie. Oh yeah, it
was actually pretty cool. I mean they had her like
all saran wrapped up like her body, but she was naked,
and then they had like potato salad here, tuna salad.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
The part that was worrying me was the bottle opener.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
The Yeah, what movie was It was actually pretty erotic.
They had like fruits and stuff on her chest but
had her covered and yeah, she was she had she
was saran, she.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Was she looked nude, but she was covered until you
ate off.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Yeah, to ate off the food. So that that's actually
kind of fun, that would be that would be erotic. Yeah,
I think it was like some kind of erotic like buffet.
Like she was just a buffet. She didn't interact with
anybody from what I remember, and people would just come
by and fill their plates off of her body. You know,
that's actually kind of kind of hot. I think. You know.
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The only bummer is for me if I was that person,
i'd have to pee halfway through.
Speaker 2 (25:30):
Well, you'd be more of a continental breakfast because you're smaller.
Because I'm smaller, you couldn't fit the whole buffet.
Speaker 3 (25:36):
No, I couldn't. Yeah, I'd be like, I'd be like
the doughnuts and the muffins, interesting fruit salad.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
Pretend two buffet tables, Okay, one with a woman with
all the food on her and one with a man
with all the exact same food on them. Okay, which
one empties first?
Speaker 3 (25:53):
The woman?
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Well, I'm sure, but I'm just saying, how much would
that hurt that guy's feelings in her? Like no one
wanted my.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
Uh? Now does he have like sausage or something between
his legs?
Speaker 2 (26:13):
I'm not judging that. If also and he gets excited
and all of a sudden knock screwed off of.
Speaker 3 (26:19):
It, that hysterical, I'd actually pay to see that. That
would be very funny, your scooping stuff off of his
growing and his stick gets hard. I like the way
he used that that spoon.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
French onion dips and his belly button.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
That would be interesting. That would be very interesting with that.
I didn't say it would be hot. I just it
would be interesting.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
But I mean food. I don't know if food is
the ironic part or the environment in which you're doing
with the food. Yeah, I mean if you look at
nine and a half weeks, it's okay, she's blindfolded. That
adds exactly. Okay, And you know the way he was
like teasing her with the food, so it wasn't the
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food his teasing or teasing. So that's the erotic part too,
you know. And they had him sitting in front of
the refrigerator, so it kind of looked I'm going back
to my younger days with stuff like that, you know,
just a spontaneous thing that makes it more erotic or
just happens like that.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
Oh yeah, that is very hot. That's spontaneity again.
Speaker 2 (27:36):
So I question how much of it of the eroticism
is the food is versus how much is the situation exactly.
Speaker 3 (27:46):
Yeah, So you could go back and say, well, you know,
do foods are food's appardisi acts? But again I would
say it's the environment, not necessarily the food that's the
the apodisiac.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
But again everyone's different, don't get me wrong. I mean
I'm not in the feet some people man there. Oh yeah,
they're super turned on my feet. So again we can
only express our opinion. Yeah, and that doesn't mean it's
all beans.
Speaker 3 (28:10):
But but yeah, I mean, I mean, if there was
a food that wasn't afridijiak, what would it be. I mean, oh,
wait for me, roumen cokes.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
It's a drink.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
None f Well, that's the one that did it for me.
So whatever it was, I'm going with it.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
Sure.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
I mean, I've never had any food that actually made
me horny, not that I could think of off the
top of my head. Everybody says, you know, the oysters,
but no, no, no, I don't care so much. No, no,
I don't find oysters.
Speaker 2 (28:46):
I don't. I can't think of anything that, you know,
food wise, it fires me out.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
No, I mean they're always talking about, you know, chocolate
and strawberries or supposed to be afridijacks. You always.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
I wouldn't doubt there might be some foods that have
a something that your body reacts to.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
That could be Yeah, I mean possibly. I mean they
always talk about the herbs that are supposed to make
you horny, like the one it's or in the name
hornygoatweed or something. I don't know if these things have
actually work. But you know, all these things, do they
really make you horny? It's probably that whole placebo effect,
you know. I mean, because you're in the right place
at the right time, your head's in the right place,
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and just because you take something and you have a
really good experience doesn't mean that that something you took,
whether it's a food or you know, an herb or whatever,
is actually doing it. You know, you just don't know,
all right, I think we killed this one. Yeah, we
killed this one for sure.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
You'll forget to check out fifty Shades of Pleasure dot com.
The Freeze Swinger magazine working on the new version coming out,
the new issue which will be out November first. Again,
it's gonna be a little more BDSM based, but I
still have to work on the other magazine. I want
to get out so many hours in the day, and uh,
(30:10):
you know, if you want to reach out to us,
what we've said before, info at hot Wife podcast dot com.
Love and hearing from everybody. I heard that the last
show we posted, my voice was like I was away
from the microphone. I apologize. That was an older show
that we posted because we were having a tough day.
We just weren't able to pull the show together, so
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we just reposted an old show, and hopefully our sounds
are better more recently than that old show. I didn't
I didn't even think to check the quality of that show,
So I apologize. So hopefully this one is coming through clear.
You know, I think there's some people wish that they
couldn't hear me, but I didn't say.
Speaker 3 (30:52):
You, well, you're looking at me, then what are you
look at me for?
Speaker 2 (30:57):
Because there's no one else in the room like we
used to. Okay, look at the skull on my day. Yeah, anyway,
and if you want to see who, what where, what
Donna is doing?
Speaker 3 (31:06):
Hotwipe, donald dot com all the platforms I'm on. I've
been posting quite a bit lately, several times a week,
So it's all good.
Speaker 2 (31:16):
It's all good, all right, And with that until next time,
stay horny
Speaker 3 (31:21):
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Speaker 3 (00:59):
Hello everybody, This is don A Linn and welcome to
a Hot White podcast. Of course, I'm here with my
ever wonderful husband, Vince.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
You almost sound convinced.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Almost. I know I've been working all that.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Okay, a little more practice, I might believe you.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Okay, I'm here with my wonderful husband.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Emphasis on wonderful.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Oh, I'm here with my wonderful Now that's too much, hm,
I'll keep working on it. Don't worry not that you're
concerned about.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
That zero sleep.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
You have no fucks to give. That's it all funked out,
don't you wish?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
It's a fantasy of mine?
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Well, what can I say? What can I say?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
So we are almost at the end of October.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
That's hard to believe.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
I don't remember September. Did that happen? Do we skip
it this year?
Speaker 3 (01:53):
There's a lot of poor yeah that they're thinking, my god,
what the heck happened to the summer?
Speaker 2 (01:58):
You know, I'm not sure where August went.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
No, I'm not sure where August went. But here we
are in October and it's halfway, a little bit more
than a halfway.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Two weeks and we'll be done October.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Oh my god, don't rush it, Please, don't rush it.
We have nice weather, it's still beautiful.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Yeah, nasty, but you know we have JUMBOI that is good.
It's my Sunday cooking and making stuff for the week.
But anyway, so you have some factoids.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Yeah, there's just one. We've talked about these kind of before,
and we've noticed it in our own observation of the
lifestyle surge. And you did some research and it's a
did you know that four to five percent of the
general population has been involved in some kind of a
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swinger relationship in some form or fashion.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
I almost think it's higher than that.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Yeah, you might be right, but we've even said, you know,
there's a lot.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Of people people. You know, when I was younger, we
got drunk.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Yeah, yeah, when I experimented, when I was in college.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
No, experimenting park could be taken a lot of different way.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah, well, it's sometimes it's with women. Sometimes it's drugs,
it's why whatever, men. Sometimes sometimes it is multiple men.
Sometimes it's football teams. All right, we're not judging, but yeah,
we've even founded in our own circle. I mean, just
finding an old schoolmate on the swinger website that's kind
of you know, definitely hot. But I mean, who would
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have thought that people that we went to school with
would be on a swinger website. You've had a buddy
that you ended up finding.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Out I found out I didn't do anything.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
No, you didn't do anything with him, but you found
out he was also a swing when he showed up
the parties.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Find one of the girls that I went to school
with that.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Would be interesting hot ones, Yeah, exactly, they're still hot. Well,
I'm sure they aren't here in their own way, in
their own way, sure, I mean that would be really cool.
I mean finding my buddy from school was it was
very ironic, you know so, but that's.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Cool again, even with that, whenever or however they took
that poll, right, how many people were honest?
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Oh, that's true of a lot of people. Oh, no,
we don't do that.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
I wouldn't do that. Yeah, I'd be interested in knowing.
I have to look it up. What is the percentage
of men who wish their wives would become swingers or
how many women wish their husband would let them swing.
That's to find that out for one of the next shows.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
My prediction would be there are more men would want
their women to be swingers than wives would want their husbands.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
It's gonna be interesting. That would be interesting fact, because
there are some men that are super jealous, and there's
some women that are super jealous.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
So that's not going to work for them at all.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Yeah. Obviously we know people like, it's okay if I swing,
but my.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Partner, Yeah, that's just it's not how it works. No,
it's not how it works at all.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Swing goes back and forth, not just forth exactly.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
That's true, that's very true. So yeah, I mean, yeah,
I did think that the percentage was a little low.
But I mean they have a broaden to swinging at
some point in their lives, so that could be, like
you said, when they were in high school or college
or before kids.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
If swinging was super super mainstream, then Facebook would just
be swinging as popular as Facebook is.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Oh, that's true, you know, that's very true. But I'm
sure that we knew people that use Facebook as a meet.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
And Greek groups or whatever they are swinger based. But
you know, I think that doesn't have necessary the privacy
you get with a swinger site.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
No, I would never do anything on face Book never ever.
That that would be like m as. Just tell your
family and friends. You just call them up and say, yeah,
we're swingers.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Yeah. Again, it's none of their business.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
No, it's none They shouldn't.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Care if you do. It should be what do you care?
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Oh? I agree, I mean absolutely.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
But numerous people we've talked to that we tried to
get on the podcast, and I'm flattered they all think
we're that popular that they're like, oh, we don't want
to get found out. Okay, if I generally think people
who listen to our show. Are either people who are
swingers or people want to be swingers. So you're only
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outing yourself to other swingers potentially.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
I mean, yeah, it's not really outing yourself.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Yes, I don't really think the heads of corporations are listening.
It's like, is that one of my employees?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
I know their voice? It's like, are you are you
kidding me? I don't think anybody really knows my voice.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
You got to stay in your comfort zone. We respect that.
Oh you know, we have no comfort zone. We're out
and proud. Yeah, just just out there so everyone can
see what we do. Anyway.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Oh, whatever you want to do, do you. I just
want you to be happy. I just be happy. The
other fact to it, I just wanted to bring out
before we start the actual show. And this is one
we've seen too. The demographic seems to be between the
age of thirty and fifty, sure, which makes sense.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Gotta be more. You have to kind of be settled
in your life, be mature, right, there's a guarantee of
the mature part. But you know, yeah, and again it
gets back into I think after a certain age, you're
comfortable in your relationship. You're comfortable with yourself.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
Or you're bored. It's like, God, I've been married to
this person for twenty years. I've got to fuck something else.
There's gotta be another pussy out.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
That's a fili.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
No, of course not. We've been swinging the whole time.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
We were married twenty three years.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Yeah, but we didn't just start swinging. It would been dating.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
Like two months. Yeah, I've had enough of you.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
I need somebody else, I need another group. But I mean,
you know, yeah, either it's sometimes you just need that
spark to get things going again, just that kind of
like that little fire, you know.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Again, the thing that initially got me into swinging with
my first mistake was that a.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
Real second mistake obviously in the case you didn't catch that, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
It was you know, I had some people close to
me die right young ages, and I realized how fragile
life is, and you know, there's so much to enjoy
in life, and sex is obviously one of those things,
right exactly. It doesn't really cost you a lot of money,
if anything. And you know, so that you know, by
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sharing my partner with people she wants to be shared with.
Getting you in this case have.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
That you're talking about me now no, yeah, yeah, but you.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Have additional pleasure that you enjoy which reciprocates back to me,
and then I get to have pleasure with some people.
Sometimes some people don't have bare spray or whatever burns.
But no it you know again, what's a What's one
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of the best things you can have in life? It's
free you can get and receive and orgasm, I mean
quite and simple.
Speaker 3 (09:43):
See, I was thinking, like, you know, a nice dinner
ass Okay, okay, you're right. Everything else is pretty much
has a price attached to it.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
You got to buy something, don't got to buy yet,
only thing to do is pay for a shower to clean.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
Up before before. That's true, that's true.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Yeah, you got to clean up anyway. So hopefully you
know an orgasm and it's something you can give and
receive and everyone's happy.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
Yeah, I say definitely. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Sure was somebody who's not happy after an organism. I'm
not saying it hasn't happened. They might regret it afterwards,
but in general.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Yeah, in general, you're pretty happy.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Hard to be mad at someone after this made you
come real hard.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
Yeah, I just that's why I'm tell you.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
That's so I'm gonna tell you how I wrecked the car.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
Yeah, okay, I'm gonna go down check now make sure
that car is still good. Now. I think it is
pretty amazing. And I feel that older people older, being
over the age of forty, let's say, I don't consider
thirty that you know, that's terribly old, if at all,
But it's niceing like older people, you know, stepping outside
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their comfort zone and willing to create new experiences and
new memories. This way. You know, when a lot of people,
if they're fifties and sixties, are like, oh what is me?
My life is over? You know, I'm married to the
same person forever. It's not going to not committing different
you heard me, I did. I did. But there's a
whole there's a whole group of people in that same
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age group that are much younger thinking, and you know,
are are willing to take a chance, and they're not
afraid to step outside their comfort zone and experience things
that might be uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Again, that's part of it. And I think part of
it is people being comfortable with themselves and in their relationship. Yep,
you know that again, Like we talked about, if you
base a relationship on an.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Orgasm even though it is free.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
Well you know it's free. Yeah, but so it's government cheese.
But you know, we're not basing reaceship on government cheese.
But you know that you're you know, you feel comfortable
enough in your relationship, that's okay. She can have an
orgasm with this person, you know whatever, be a man
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or a woman, or my husband could have an orgasm
with this person.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Man or a woman, whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Children, But and then afterwards we're still together because it
was just sex.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
It wasn't love, right exactly. He has a lot of people,
like we've said a thousand times to get that can't
distinguish between sex and love. And there is a huge difference.
So yeah, it's it's a shame that some people just
can't wrap their head around the whole concept. And it's
it's it's sharing is caring. I mean you're you've you're
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giving up your significant other for other people to enjoy.
So I guess it, you know, giving up, you're sharing,
you're sharing them, but you're giving them up. No, that's
probably a bad, bad but yeah, it's like you're sharing them, it's.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
And you're allowing them, you're allowing your partner to explore
other adventures.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
Yeah exactly. Then they might be ones that you're not
really into her I'm not into. So we get to
experience things away from each other then come back and
enjoy each other.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
Saying, oh, my wife can't go out to lunch with
her girlfriend at a restaurant I haven't been to.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Yeah exactly.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Well, you know, our relationships not based on that we
have to eat the same meals at the.
Speaker 3 (13:27):
Same restaurants exactly. So yeah, you might.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
Want to eat at a you know, fish rest at
a hot dog bar. I might only want to eat
the fish restaurant, the fish taco restaurant, something like that. Anyway,
we're going to make that into the topic all of
a sudden here, but yeah, well yeah, yeah, so what
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was the topic.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
It's it's the how erotic food can be.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Okay, we've touched on this a lot of time, but
it's like we actually think what was the most erotic food?
Speaker 3 (14:04):
I think we did a while ago, a while ago.
But this is also like sensory deprivision and tasting food
from another perspective by being blindfolded or having you know,
one of your senses taken away, and there's all kinds
of things that everybody has always done, you know, the
old you know, using cucumbers, bananas. We are the one,
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the one girl that had her own porn por in sight.
And she 's those jumbo huge carrots. They were huge.
This carrots were as big as my arm. I kid
you not. They were huge. And she's like, yeah, you
gonna make some kind of funky stew with it.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Afterwards, she put them, it came out and oh.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
My god, that was like I've always heard of people
doing that. I've done with like little things, you know,
like hurkins. She has a sweet kurkin. I stop it.
But she was taking on things there's like a holy crap.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
It was almost like eggplants.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
Yeah, they're as they were.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
The biggest, biggest carrots I've ever his.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
Carrots and cucumbers I think I've ever seen.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
It's like roots from a big fucking oak tree.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Yeah, they were. They were gigantic. But you know, I
mean there's always that aspect of using food.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
Well, it's there's the obvious aspects. Yeah, I mean, and again,
whoever hasn't seen nine and a half weeks where again
she's blindfolding strawberries.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Yes, I think you always think about the strawberries, which
is good. I've I've enjoyed that.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
I don't know if I would find strawberries erotic. Well,
the blindfold part is erotic party, Yeah, not knowing what
they're feeding.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
Yeah, that's true. Strawberries are good because they're like a
finger food. You can have a good hold on them.
You can feed them to your partner almost like grapes
still on the vine, so they have something to hold
on to. That kind of work ship feed somebody.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
Blindfolding spoon feeds your kimchi.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
Oh no, that would not even a little bit. Thanks. Yeah,
oh that's just wrong. Oh god, that's that's foul. That's
just terrible.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Okay, But tomato soup, tomatoes soup.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
I want you to drizzle it all over me, then.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
Lick it all, give you a second degree burns.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Nothing would be hotter, literally, nothing would be hot.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
Piece of really hot pizza. So the cheese sticks to
your roof and you don't know it roof of your mouth.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
That's terrible. I think, uh, I think I did something
with an old boyfriend. I think we use honey and
I like drizzle it all over my chest and my belly,
and he kind of like looked it off.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
And it was just that would take too long.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
It does. By time you're done, you're like, I'll.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
Go to sleep, wake me up.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
When you're Dutch, I think you're a sticky mess. It's
not you're going to go and have sex because it's
like now it's like all over the bed sheets and
it was terrible that.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Rips the hair out of his chest and puts it
on yours.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I always hear people using chocolate. It's
the same thing.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
Chocolate here wouldn't be as bad.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
Not as bad because it's not as sticky, but it's
still it's still a sticky mess.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
Okay, but now you could do not the honey. That's
just way too sticky. It's a chocolate syrup or one
of the other syrups. You know, you know, you could
actually make it still erotic, cleaning them up with like
a warm wash cloth or something.
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Or my tongue.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
Well, at a point you're gonna go, okay, I've yeah,
enough chocolate syrup, my blood sugar. But now if you're
if the person's laying there, yeah, blindfolded, and now you're
giving a nice kind of like a spongebag, you have
to wipe that up like a nice warm washcloth, and
that might be kind of what I'm saying, that can
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add to it. I can want you do that to me.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
I'm sure you could.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
I'm sure you're not going to. No, No, you're so erotic.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
There's there's this flavored uh it's kind of like the
spunk glue, but they're like flavored lubricants.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
Yeah, that's just like carous syrup.
Speaker 3 (18:27):
It's the one that I found. It was a blueberry.
It was actually pretty good. I think I ended up
like just eating it by itself instead of using it
on somebody else. It was actually tasted pretty good. That
was a long time ago.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Do you think they should try making like a semen
flavored one? Would that be erotic to you? I may
ask you that if I developed a semen flavored lubricant.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
Okay, because you know it would be fake.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Well, sorry, we just can't have a bunch of guys
jerking off to a.
Speaker 3 (19:00):
Vat that helped me terrible. Yeah, I don't think that
would be good.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
I'm just asking. I'm not not something I would buy
for myself.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
Obviously, obviously, but.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
No, I'm just wondering would that be something of no.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
For me, the experience of tasting someone's semen has to
be part of that.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
You have to warm it up.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
I guess, I guess. Okay, you put it that way. No, no, no,
it's it's not the taste of the semen is what
I particularly want. It's the whole. Yeah, it's it's the whole,
like sucking on him and you know, fucking him and
licking my juices off of his cock and and then
(19:42):
you know, getting all that excitement just you know, somebody
just hands me a cupful of cumba.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
Let's pretend in the foreplay of it, you have this
lubricant that is semen flavored. Now you we'll call it spunkloob. Okay,
spunk web is not semen flavored, but no, it has
drizzles some of this on his cock and you it's
four play, so now you're jerking abull getting them hard,
and then you start going down on him and it tastes.
(20:10):
Now he's hard, and it tastes like he came, and
now you're cleaning up to come after you're would that
be something to be around?
Speaker 3 (20:18):
No, you know it would be really good, though, pre come,
because the pre come is sweet when a guy starts
to use that pre come. It is very very sweet.
It's like a like kind of like a nectar. I mean,
it's it's really it's super sweet. Yeah, I'm sure you will.
So that I find exciting because it also tastes it
really generally tastes good because it is so sweet. But
(20:41):
like the cum itself, it's it's not the cum that
I'm after, it's the whole experience and having a guy
either come in my face and my mouth or my chest.
That's just one small part of it. I mean there's
all you know, you have to be excited and then
reach that. I'm not going to get excited if somebody
just hands me a cup of comb, you know what
I'm here, Baby's Yeah, I mean there's a whole I
(21:07):
don't want to say it's a ritual, but there's a
whole activity that.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
Goes into the reward for the work.
Speaker 3 (21:13):
Yes, but I don't want the reward by itself. The
reward by itself is empty, Okay. The reward it is,
you know, giving my partner pleasure and him giving me pleasure,
and then you know, just the orgasm is not for
the taste of com is not my not everything I want.
(21:35):
I want the whole experience.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
That's not necessarily the end. I'll be all part of it.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
No, no, it really is okay, No, No, it's like
everything else too.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
We'd love to hear what you have to say about
this info at podcast dot com. So's talking about tell
us what flavor you would like and how you would
feel about come flavored. Uh.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
Now gets us back to do foods really make your
cum taste different or your vagile and juices differently? And
we've discussed that. I mean we've tried things like the
mangoes and you know the pineapple, and you know, did
you I didn't really notice any difference.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
I didn't suck any deck. So no, I mean, like
I ate one of those stinky fruits from the Chinese
place to see if you could tell the difference. You
haven't touched me. It's work three years.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Ago that would be Yeah, that would be a good fruit.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
No, that's the fruit is not good for anything.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
When you name her fruit stinky fruit.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Is like, well it's not name that, but that's what it's.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
Yeah, it has another name that on.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
Instagram trying it, he tries food and yeah, he was
just dry. Even that kind of as soon as he
cut it open, he's like, yeah, anyway.
Speaker 3 (22:56):
Yeah, it's food like that, it's going to just kill
your sex dry whatever. Other foods like like the strawberries.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Something makes me horny, makes me hungry. It doesn't make
me horny.
Speaker 3 (23:06):
No, but a lot of times, you know, food and
sex kind of overlap because there is a sensuality to
eating and feeding someone or someone being fed food, So
there is that kind of intimacy. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
I find the eroticism of food being if you're out
to dinner with somebody and let's in my case, I
say a woman and she's dressed very sexy, and the
conversation and everything, so the food is part of it.
I don't know if it's really a trigger for me, No.
Speaker 3 (23:43):
But it gives you an environment of what's that if
she was.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
Naked, okay, what else? She would sit there and go
I'm picking up the bill.
Speaker 3 (23:56):
Oh yeah, dirty, dirty girl.
Speaker 2 (23:59):
In that case, I'll have another double.
Speaker 3 (24:02):
You know what, there's the sensual dining experience has been done,
you know throughout history, you know, just a dark corner
candle li it, you know we talked.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
About and it's been done in movies. Absolutely, the woman
as the centerpiece. Yes, the food draped across her and
you pick it off of us.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
Oh oh the buffet, the human buffet. Yes, we've seen
that done. It was in a movie. Oh yeah, it
was actually pretty cool. I mean they had her like
all saran wrapped up like her body, but she was naked,
and then they had like potato salad here, tuna salad.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
The part that was worrying me was the bottle opener.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
The Yeah, what movie was It was actually pretty erotic.
They had like fruits and stuff on her chest but
had her covered and yeah, she was she had she
was saran, she.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Was she looked nude, but she was covered until you
ate off.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Yeah, to ate off the food. So that that's actually
kind of fun, that would be that would be erotic. Yeah,
I think it was like some kind of erotic like buffet.
Like she was just a buffet. She didn't interact with
anybody from what I remember, and people would just come
by and fill their plates off of her body. You know,
that's actually kind of kind of hot. I think. You know.
(25:25):
The only bummer is for me if I was that person,
i'd have to pee halfway through.
Speaker 2 (25:30):
Well, you'd be more of a continental breakfast because you're smaller.
Because I'm smaller, you couldn't fit the whole buffet.
Speaker 3 (25:36):
No, I couldn't. Yeah, I'd be like, I'd be like
the doughnuts and the muffins, interesting fruit salad.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
Pretend two buffet tables, Okay, one with a woman with
all the food on her and one with a man
with all the exact same food on them. Okay, which
one empties first?
Speaker 3 (25:53):
The woman?
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Well, I'm sure, but I'm just saying, how much would
that hurt that guy's feelings in her? Like no one
wanted my.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
Uh? Now does he have like sausage or something between
his legs?
Speaker 2 (26:13):
I'm not judging that. If also and he gets excited
and all of a sudden knock screwed off of.
Speaker 3 (26:19):
It, that hysterical, I'd actually pay to see that. That
would be very funny, your scooping stuff off of his
growing and his stick gets hard. I like the way
he used that that spoon.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
French onion dips and his belly button.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
That would be interesting. That would be very interesting with that.
I didn't say it would be hot. I just it
would be interesting.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
But I mean food. I don't know if food is
the ironic part or the environment in which you're doing
with the food. Yeah, I mean if you look at
nine and a half weeks, it's okay, she's blindfolded. That
adds exactly. Okay, And you know the way he was
like teasing her with the food, so it wasn't the
(27:15):
food his teasing or teasing. So that's the erotic part too,
you know. And they had him sitting in front of
the refrigerator, so it kind of looked I'm going back
to my younger days with stuff like that, you know,
just a spontaneous thing that makes it more erotic or
just happens like that.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
Oh yeah, that is very hot. That's spontaneity again.
Speaker 2 (27:36):
So I question how much of it of the eroticism
is the food is versus how much is the situation exactly.
Speaker 3 (27:46):
Yeah, So you could go back and say, well, you know,
do foods are food's appardisi acts? But again I would
say it's the environment, not necessarily the food that's the
the apodisiac.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
But again everyone's different, don't get me wrong. I mean
I'm not in the feet some people man there. Oh yeah,
they're super turned on my feet. So again we can
only express our opinion. Yeah, and that doesn't mean it's
all beans.
Speaker 3 (28:10):
But but yeah, I mean, I mean, if there was
a food that wasn't afridijiak, what would it be. I mean, oh,
wait for me, roumen cokes.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
It's a drink.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
None f Well, that's the one that did it for me.
So whatever it was, I'm going with it.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
Sure.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
I mean, I've never had any food that actually made
me horny, not that I could think of off the
top of my head. Everybody says, you know, the oysters,
but no, no, no, I don't care so much. No, no,
I don't find oysters.
Speaker 2 (28:46):
I don't. I can't think of anything that, you know,
food wise, it fires me out.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
No, I mean they're always talking about, you know, chocolate
and strawberries or supposed to be afridijacks. You always.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
I wouldn't doubt there might be some foods that have
a something that your body reacts to.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
That could be Yeah, I mean possibly. I mean they
always talk about the herbs that are supposed to make
you horny, like the one it's or in the name
hornygoatweed or something. I don't know if these things have
actually work. But you know, all these things, do they
really make you horny? It's probably that whole placebo effect,
you know. I mean, because you're in the right place
at the right time, your head's in the right place,
(29:27):
and just because you take something and you have a
really good experience doesn't mean that that something you took,
whether it's a food or you know, an herb or whatever,
is actually doing it. You know, you just don't know,
all right, I think we killed this one. Yeah, we
killed this one for sure.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
You'll forget to check out fifty Shades of Pleasure dot com.
The Freeze Swinger magazine working on the new version coming out,
the new issue which will be out November first. Again,
it's gonna be a little more BDSM based, but I
still have to work on the other magazine. I want
to get out so many hours in the day, and uh,
(30:10):
you know, if you want to reach out to us,
what we've said before, info at hot Wife podcast dot com.
Love and hearing from everybody. I heard that the last
show we posted, my voice was like I was away
from the microphone. I apologize. That was an older show
that we posted because we were having a tough day.
We just weren't able to pull the show together, so
(30:32):
we just reposted an old show, and hopefully our sounds
are better more recently than that old show. I didn't
I didn't even think to check the quality of that show,
So I apologize. So hopefully this one is coming through clear.
You know, I think there's some people wish that they
couldn't hear me, but I didn't say.
Speaker 3 (30:52):
You, well, you're looking at me, then what are you
look at me for?
Speaker 2 (30:57):
Because there's no one else in the room like we
used to. Okay, look at the skull on my day. Yeah, anyway,
and if you want to see who, what where, what
Donna is doing?
Speaker 3 (31:06):
Hotwipe, donald dot com all the platforms I'm on. I've
been posting quite a bit lately, several times a week,
So it's all good.
Speaker 2 (31:16):
It's all good, all right, And with that until next time,
stay horny
Speaker 3 (31:21):
Have a great night, everybody,
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