September 28, 2025 • 36 mins
In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince discuss the dynamics of sexual frequency in relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding individual needs. They explore how often couples should engage in sexual activities, the balance between quality and quantity, and alternative forms of intimacy. The conversation highlights the significance of adapting to changes in relationships over time and finding a rhythm that works for both partners.
Takeaways
Takeaways
- The podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18.
- Couples should communicate openly about their sexual needs.
- Frequency of sex can vary greatly depending on individual circumstances.
- Quality of sexual experiences is often more important than quantity.
- As relationships mature, the dynamics of intimacy may change.
- Exploring alternatives to intercourse can enhance intimacy.
- Stress relief and emotional bonding are benefits of regular sexual activity.
- Age and lifestyle factors can impact sexual frequency.
- Finding a rhythm that works for both partners is essential.
- Communication is key to maintaining a healthy sexual relationship.
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into
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we want to make it clear that the views expressed
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(00:27):
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permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's
heat things.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Up, Hill, let them get to SCRAMed. It sounds too
roughly you wild air streams.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
I'm my podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Breaking all the norms, open discussions about the swing a fall.
Hello everybody, This is Donald Linn and welcome to a
Hot White podcast. And of course I'm here with Vince
as usual, as usual as usual. I'm hearing some humming.
(01:11):
What is going on with our system again?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
I don't know, I have to.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I don't hear it until I start watching things.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
I'm going to actually take this mixing board and reset
it on and go back from scratch or things.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
So yeah, I'm just hopefully not too.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Many things, and I don't didn't untoy a couple of things,
I think, But anyway.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Stop playing with the switches. You're like a child. Stop it.
Keep your and keep your hands back.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
I don't masturbate my whatever knobs I can get my
hand on.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I was just gonna say, stop playing with your dick
so much.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
But that's why I can't. I'm having a hard time
seeing them. My mom was right, go blind.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Gold blind. I'm masturbated ways too much.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Memories, memories. Hey, we had an interesting conversation prior to
coming in here.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Yeah, I wish we could have gotten them on like
right now.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Yeah, I wish he was available to show right up. Well,
there's could be hopefully hopefully not guys when the guy
wants a girl. But we uh met via phone call
a gentleman that is in the lifestyle. Is he sent
us pictures his very gorgeous girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
And he's really hot too, very you know, in shape
and fit.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
And I didn't notice that.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Yeah right, I kept saying, look at these arms, look
at these halves. He's like, no, no, no, I don't see anything. Yeah,
you just.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Ignore you're that good looking. Problems. But he is in
the process of making a new swinger site.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Yeah, that could be pretty exciting.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
And his gorgeous girlfriend. Did I mention she was gorgeous?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
No, he didn't. Do you want to mention she's gorgeous.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
She's also a content creator. Yes, so we have a
lot of things to talk about. You know, we're going
to be getting him in here. It's still beta testing
his site, and but he's going to be releasing a
new uh swinger site.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Yeah. One, that's I'm hoping that it works out well
because he's on the right track. When you can, it's
easier for people to meet, there be groups, you can,
you know, it's it's I just feel like.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
It's going to be doing some things that others don't do.
I guess right, right, you know he's wording it. It's
going to be kind of a swinger's Facebook.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Yeah, yeah, so we'll see. He also compared it kind
of the fet life. I mean, I know how to
that combination. Yeah, combination.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
It's exciting. We'll have him in here more. He could
talk about it. I don't want to talk out of
turn because.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
We don't know that much about it yet. So it
sounds exciting though, I mean.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
He's exciting, very passionate about it.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, that's for sure.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
So, and that's wou'd be kind of cool. And he
has a very experienced past in the life in the lifestyle.
So he said he's been seeing our profile for twenty years.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
And I looked at him. I'm like, he doesn't look
like he's much older than twenty, but he is.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
He's forty four forty four. I was like, she looked
at him and goes, you know what, he looks like
one of the next guys I'm going to fuck.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Did I say that out loud?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yeah? Yeah, you don't have any inner monologue.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Oh no, I don't. That's true.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
You know I can see where you want too.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Yeah, and he's really hot. His girlfriend is really hot too.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
It's like, hmmm, I told him cards right, you could
have me.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
I know, she'd have to really play her cards right
then you are very very difficult to.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Take some drama, mean throwing up of it anyway. So
tonight's topic.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Is how frequently should couples have sex.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
This isn't just about couples in the lifestyle. This is
just like couples couples. So even if you're in the lifestyle,
it's we're not talking about how often should you play
with other people? Right, we're talking about just.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
In your relationship, in your relationship, And we are not authorities,
not even a little bit, don't even don't even pretend
to be. We're just going by with what we have
seen in our relationship because a lot of people do
reach out to us. In fact, we just had a
couple reach out that are going through a divorce and
they're like, you guys sound like you're happy. You know,
(05:17):
I don't know if they ask like, what's the put
it on? We do. We're really full of crab here.
But but yeah, there's there's things in a relationship, and
sex is definitely part of a relationship. I know you
and I have talked about this, you know, at nauseum
really you know. But but sex is just one small facet.
(05:38):
There's so many other things in your life that makes
up that relationship. So tonight's topic is how often should
you know a couple have sex? What's the ideal for them?
What's you know?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
This is just talk.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Oh yeah, we're just brainstorming.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
People are like, well it should be three times a
day everything, you know, and if you have a schedule
and a partner that is all about that, sure, right, right,
you know we're just going to share our thoughts on it.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Sure, absolutely, that's all this is.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
I mean one of the first I think talking points
to that is it all going to hamper on age
and how busy you're schedule it.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Well, that's as you get older, that's true. I mean,
for sure, there's there's so many things in your lifestyle
and you know, and you know, work or kids or
this or that, and aging involved and you know, maybe
physical limitations as you age and all these other fun
things to look forward to. So, I mean when I
was younger, it was, you know, you fuck like a rabbit.
(06:38):
I mean, you know, the wind blew and you're like,
I'm horny and you know what I'm saying. So there's
a there's a whole quality versus quantity type of things.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
So it also depends how new your relationship.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Yeah, when it's new, all the time you were like
masturbating to them and thinking about them, and you know
all that was.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Shut I'm just checking.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Yeah, I mean, you know, when you're it's new, it's
you know, it's.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
There's a heightened passion, excitement, excitement.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
For sure.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
It's not exciting when you've been with him for you know,
it's like the time, I don't dress sex anymore. You
wear baseball hats, grandma's shorts, hypothetical situation, shoulder braces, just things,
throwing things out there, just you know, spitball.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
This just happens, you know, asshole.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
You're wearing trifocals. You know sometimes.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
When you get your glasses, you know, young.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
Stud, I could find my walker, So I mean, now
paratransit gets here. It takes me to the eye doctor.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
I'm true. I know that feeling. I know that feeling. Well,
I think now it's like, uh, I like a quality
fuck rather than just quantity. I want something I can
really enjoy, you know, or that didn't even have to
be fucking necessarily. The orgasm is what I'm going for.
(08:20):
And I want a quality orgasm. Why would I I
don't want a half asked orgasm, no, but some are
definitely bad. Yeah, and I want a high quality one.
Why would I have like, or maybe not even achieve
an orgasm. You go through all this, you know, rigamarole,
and you get nothing.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
So that would and sex be satisfying without an orgasm?
Mmm mmm, different topic, but.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
That's a good question. I. When I was younger, it
was okay to have sex without an orgasm because I
was just so happy just to have a dick inside me.
A dick insider, that hard sider. But yes, I think
now that I'm older, I'm a little more particular. It's like, no,
(09:05):
I just if I can't have a really good orgasm,
I'm not going to bop or just going through the
U the rigmar role of having sex for nothing.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Okay, is it important to have a higher quality orgasm
or just to have an orgasm because you've played with
guys as an example, he said, yeah, I had an orgasms.
They weren't like it weren't too rattling.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
We weren't earth showering. I'd rather have the earth showering dithers,
you know, I mean, come on, I.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Have a you know twenty twenty six uh Ferrari or
you know that you have to have a Honda. You
know I can give you a yeah in nineteen seventy
eight Civic.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
You know, they both get you to where you want
to go, but one gets you there in a lot
better style, a little more exciting as were that way.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
But you know, it's like, no, if.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
I have my ditherers. I'd rather have the you know,
over the top of all that goes. That's kind of obvious.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Yeah, if you just get an orgasm.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
With oh, I'm that's fine, that's nice. You know, that's good.
That's fine, that's good. But if I have the earth
shadowing on, that's what I'm be talking about for quite
a while. Like the run a mill orgasm was like,
but those ones like where you see colors and you're like,
you know, you extra project your body to the next
(10:27):
waiting for that one. I guess. Oh, there have been
times that your your toes curled. Well, no, you said
you felt it in the toes you were missing. That's
how strong the orgasm was. So that's a pretty strong orgasm.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
And they haven't found that woman yet.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
What did you do to I don't I don't even
remember who that was. I don't even think that was
you think that was me? I don't know. I remember
having a couple. We call them toe curlers.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
But yeah, I'm I mean, okay, so back to a couple.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Okay, the average couple, average.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Couple, Okay, and not you know, not necessarily in the lifestyle. Okay, yeah,
it's you know, I'd like to think it's quality. You're
not going through motions.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Yes, please don't. Just don't take one for the team,
or you know, just put out for me keep you know,
to strutch your husband up, or either pussy just to
shut your wife up. It's you know, I hope, hope
it's more than that. Oh, shut up.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
No, but I mean there are people in relationships that
one of them might not necessarily be into the other
one anymore.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
Oh that's harsh.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
Oh it happens.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
I'm trying to tell me something, honey.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
You know, I have a billboard sign at the bottom
of the drive.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Well, because the other the other talking point for for
this whole thing is communication. So maybe you should communicate
that to me. Honey, you're just don't turn me on. Well,
you were communicating. I guess I wasn't picking it up.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
But no, I mean, you know, that's a whole other issue. Though.
If one of the couple for some reason has lost
sexual interest, either in sex or sex with.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
Their mate, Oh, that's that's that's that's a that's a
long hard road. I don't I don't know.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
If the guy not getting sexy, it will be hard.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Yeah, it would be difficult. Yeah, that's I mean. But again,
to get back to that communication, why are you disinterested?
Is it me? Is it the partner? Is it? You
know that whoever it is is going through life changes
or stress or work or kids or you know, communication,
talk about it, talk about it.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Well some people Okay, yeah, some people I mean do
I'll say, well out of love of sorts. But they
might love them, but they're not.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Passionately in love with them anymore like you were when
you were first met.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
Yeah, but I mean or the aspect of just well.
The one thing that could happen too is one of
the people in the relationship might not be happy with
their appearance. They've gained weight or whatever.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
Yeah, I got it.
Speaker 3 (13:14):
You know, their ass doesn't look like it did when
they first.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Got My ass only slides down half the back of
my thighs. It's not all the way back through. I
don't care what you say.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
You can't run anymore back your knees.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
I do hate you so much.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
No, I mean, but no, but I mean that happens.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
It does happen.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
You know, people get uncomfortable with the way they feel
they appear, even though their mate might sit there and
go I'd love.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
You the way you are, yeah, regardless.
Speaker 3 (13:44):
Of you know, so that's an aspect too.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Yeah. Yeah, until you until you have like a positive
self image, you're not going to care what anybody else says.
So they could, you know, fly, how were you with
all kinds of lavish compliments and you know, throw pedals
at your feet. But if you feel like you're not
deserving or you don't like how you looking, yourself image
(14:11):
is negative. It doesn't matter what people say, because that's external.
My first wife, you know, lovely woman.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
You never met her. That's not my first wife. I'm
trying to be a dragon lady. Okay, but anyway.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
You lost your track the train of thought.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
I have no sex drive now.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
Sorry.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
If I was ever gonna be impotent, it's right now,
right now. But but you know she was uncomfortable, especially
after the kids, right you know, she put on the
baby weight and you know the Danish weight and the cookie.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Baby waited, they the cookie weight, all the weights weight.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
She would not have sex when the sun was up
or during dayly eight hours and there's no light at all.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
You know what she did? You know what she did
all these years she had she had a stunt double
coming and.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Fucking why would you go get another woman as fat
as she was?
Speaker 2 (15:31):
That's well, maybe in the dark you couldn't tell the difference,
but she she was like, quick, jump in, we won't
be a stump up stunt double if they looked totally different.
The stunt double has to kind of look like the actor.
Speaker 3 (15:44):
Right, it's in the dark.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
How would you know she has blindfolded?
Speaker 3 (15:50):
Wow, you're you're quit like an eight inch cop.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
I don't remember this, yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
Honey, I don't remember having walls. Fuck.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Okay, so she didn't do a good job of getting.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
Like a man's chest. Now when did you get hair?
Speaker 2 (16:11):
Okay, she didn't get a very good stunt double.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
She wasn't smart. Okay, but no, and that happens.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Yeah, I got it.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
But you know, well, and there's people that the other
partner might not necessarily make them feel comfortable either.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Well, that's true too. Okay. You have to communicate. If
you're if your significant others, you know, calling you a
lard ass, you might want to say, hey, that's not
very nice. I don't like him. You call me that?
Speaker 3 (16:41):
Will?
Speaker 2 (16:46):
Is that free? Will?
Speaker 3 (16:47):
He?
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Or I was wondering where you're going with that?
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Slightly obscure, very obscure. But yeah, so I mean again,
the the average they say that a couple should have
sex a week, right, they say, really for healthy raceship
is at least once a week rain.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
That's that's doable for most people, you know, not a month.
Oh yeah, I mean it's not a quarter. Oh not
not every equinox.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
Yeah yeah, on February twenty ninth.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Yeah, I mean that that's a very doable. It's not.
It's not like, oh, you know, three times a day.
It's like, oh my god, if I did that, I
wouldn't get anything done. You know, I'm saying I won't
be able to hold out a job.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
Stay awake.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
So that's kind of like.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
I don't know if I have three orgasms in me
a week?
Speaker 2 (17:51):
Oh you try, Yeah, you can definitely do that.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
Prove me wrong.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
Oh is that what this is? They're baiting me? Okay,
oh no, hanh not.
Speaker 3 (17:59):
You can't do that all grocial kind that's Sunday. You
only got two, so we got to start all because
it's you know, Monday starts a new week.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
No, Sunday starts the new week, depends on county. That's true.
I'm old fashioned. I like the week they start on
Sunday and on Saturday because it is a week and
it makes sense to me.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
But whatever, would Sunday be the week end? It's the
Sunday would be the week beginning?
Speaker 2 (18:26):
Oh God to pay, I asked, Yes, you're right. Technically
Sunday would be the week beginning and Saturday will be
the week.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
The week end is Saturday and Sunday Monday would be all.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
Right, whatever you whatever.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
County could be a whole different podcast anyway, But so.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
What so once a week is what they're saying is
pretty normal.
Speaker 3 (18:50):
Well, it's what you should aim for as a minimum. Yeah,
that's definitely scheduling, and I agree. You know, people have
children and stuff like that, and know it's a busy world,
kids and everything else. We've talked about that where you know,
some men aren't privy to how much a woman does.
(19:11):
You know, she might have a full time job, she
goes home, does a laundry, has to take make meals
for everybody, take care of the kids, help with homework,
you know with the husbands puts his feet up, watch
his TV. You know not they don't.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
They don't all do that.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Hm. You know, dishes have to be done and all this,
you know nobody, but you know, come ten o'clock at night. Yeah,
it's like, okay, I gotta take a shower and then
try to please you. I'm just repeating your words.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
Oh my words, not yours. Is that what you're trying to.
Speaker 3 (19:46):
Say by what you tell me?
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Yeah, that's it. Okay, but.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
No, it's understandable that you know. But you know again,
if you're in a situation like that where you're a
sick significant other, because I can't say which way, it's
not prone to just one.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
One sex or yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
So if your partner is tired all the time, help
them out.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
Yeah. If two people do the dishes, one washes, one drives,
you put them in a dishwasher, whatever your thing is,
if you both do it, you can get done quicker,
like in half the time. I mean realistically speaking, I
mean yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
While someone's doing the dishes, someone helped the kids with
homework whatever.
Speaker 2 (20:32):
Yeah, So divide and conquer and then you can reward
each other, you know, because there are so many benefits
that come from an orgasm, all the emotional benefits.
Speaker 3 (20:44):
I mean, oh, it's stress reliever, stress reliever, It brings
you closer.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
Yes, I agree. I when we have gone through stretches
where we have and had sex. You know, I do
feel like our team approach is kind of way meaning
a little bit like there's some praying in the fabric.
You know, there's some holes in it. Yeah, I know
you have.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
I know, not just about us, but right exactly in
general that you said men are simple creatures. An organism
for a man buys a lot.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
I know. I got you to bring up pellets and
do this and do that'ry to suck your dick.
Speaker 3 (21:25):
It's great, but you didn't do that last night.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
I did so last night. You lineck a ship. I
sucked your dick last night.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
Not to completion. Oh well your arm was hurting.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
Oh made me come though.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
Well OK, but no, I've said before, you know men
kind of in general. I can't say everyone. You know,
when it gets to be a longer spance span span
and longer distance.
Speaker 2 (21:58):
Between worksts, use a different word.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
Let me correct that.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Hey, how do you like that peanut butter stout? Anyway,
I know it's very right. I had one sip. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
The you know, if you're a week out or weeks
out or weeks out and you know, I've said it before.
Your wife goes, honey, can you take the trash out?
You go and do it, but in your head's like,
fuck you bitch, take it out yourself. But you just
had you got fucked or whatever in the last twenty
(22:36):
four to possibly forty eight hours. The wife says, honey,
take tresha. Yes, ma'am. Yeah, I'm gonna keep her happy
because I might get my dick sucked again. She says.
You know, you know, she fucked you really good. And honey,
I need your left arm here, your left arm whatever.
You know me.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
You know, if we'll drag their balls, we get.
Speaker 3 (22:56):
An orgasm, you know what. Men will fucking do anything.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Yeah, pretty much sometimes really, you know.
Speaker 3 (23:06):
And so I mean that's why I like before sex,
you know, it's a man just be kind of being
man to stand around do it. But like after he
gets an organism, that's when he, you know, wants a
cuddle and spoon and it's like you just you just
pulled all the anger out of the tiger.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
Yeah, that's a good way of putting it. Sure, sure,
I just can't. I know, it's impressive, impressive, Yeah, I mean,
there's so many other things to muse all kinds of
chemical things that happened. You're releasing some you know, and endorphins,
and it's a bonding moment. Yeah, it's a bonding moment.
But there's also the chemical things are being released, which
(23:44):
is a great.
Speaker 3 (23:46):
When I give you a good orgasm, how you just
like roll over and go to sleep. It's like, wow,
she loves.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
I've only done that a couple of times because sometimes
it's just a lot. It's just a lot many.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
Times I want to go to sleep after an organism.
Speaker 2 (24:02):
You can. I don't care. You can. I do not
mind at all. Stop. Well that might be, but I.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
Tell everybody that too, so you get me next time.
I make sure my wife gets her organism. How are
you doing today?
Speaker 2 (24:21):
That's why I like to I like it if if
I don't come first, yeah, I like it. If I don't,
sure because it just wipes me out.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
And wipes me out too. But I got it, and
you don't have to if you're after a few nights
of that ship. Each other's a pillow of my head.
Not that's why I cook to make sure you don't
poison my food. Good idea, but you know, I think
(24:51):
you know once a week is if if everything winds up, sure,
if everyone's feeling.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
Well, exactly okay, right, you know, and.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
You know, I mean there's a lot of factors to it.
Sure or again. And the feeling well thing isn't just
like oh I have a cold. No, it's like like
I have got a bad back right now, you're going
through your other shoulder, you know, stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (25:16):
Yeah, if I'm in like a weird position, it'll it'll start.
Speaker 3 (25:19):
But there's days well, yeah, with my back and neck
being all fucked up, you know again, high humid days.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Oh the humidity does my.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
Brain or human heat or whatever, I'm in a lot
of pain. There's been times you've asked me to have
sex and I'm like, I can't.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
And I wrote all them down, I said, on this date.
Speaker 3 (25:41):
Yeah, I see that list. It'd be three.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Times twenty seven seven you denying.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
Sex, and you hold that against me.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
No, I would never.
Speaker 3 (25:52):
I kept a list of all the time. Put me
thicker than the Bible, Old time Testament, Today's Testament, last
year's testent.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Oh my god, thanks you throwing me right under the bus.
Thank you so much. I love you too. Right to
hear that, Okay, that's good. Well, this it's we have
to look at like the stages of relationship. Remember when
we first got together first, or we were twenty years younger. Okay,
we so had that, but the relationship is actually we
(26:26):
were twenty two years younger or more.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
But we're going three years now.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Something like that. Yeah, yeah, I think so something like that.
So I mean I remember, do you remember I was
wearing that that sun dress and we're driving somewhere and
you were like finger me as we were driving. We
stopped at a park and I sat and you like
reached it. I just like saying like Indian stores early
early days, and like you reached across you started finger
(26:53):
me in like this park, and I had this skirt
on so we could tell what was going on. But
you know you're doing me like in.
Speaker 3 (26:58):
Public, remember that exactly whatere you're talking about.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Yeah, you know in the time we're in that office
and you picked me up and put me on that fireplace.
Man to my bussy.
Speaker 3 (27:16):
Now, because of my back, you could I couldn't pick
you up.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
I couldn't have you pick me up because I wouldn't
be able to support myself with my shoulders. So we're
a pair here. You know, it's like.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
Never a time yet took me from my walker and
put me in.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
A Wheelchair's getting to that point. Hey, hey, we can
laugh about it.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
You know, I did shots of jar tog got all crazy.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Hey. If if that's where it takes to have an orgasm,
I will do it. I will do it. I am
not I.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
Am not a shamed you know the important of that
whole scenario if someone is not wanting sex.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
Or not able to have sex. Yeah, communication is huge,
we you know, I think we've said that earlier.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Absolutely it's important. And everyone I talk about all right,
when you're playing with other people and swinging, you know,
you got to communicate. What are our what are our rules?
What do we like, what don't we like?
Speaker 2 (28:14):
I think just in life communication is key, just in
life in general. But I mean as you get older,
you know, it's going to get to the point where
maybe you can't have like actual intercourse. So there's other
things you may have to do, and you have to
think outside the box.
Speaker 3 (28:32):
It's always options.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
Yeah, there's always options, you know, doing oral or toys or.
Speaker 3 (28:36):
Again ran into that young guy who doesn't do or
because out of that Oh my God, well he is
gonna be lonely man.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
Yeah, he's older.
Speaker 3 (28:47):
His saying don't work.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
It's like.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
Because remember in.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
A relationship, he stays, I don't get in a relationship,
you're going to spend more time with somebody outside the
bedroom than you do it. Yeah, we have said that
a millillion times. Yes, that is absolutely true.
Speaker 3 (29:02):
Absolutely, So why you have them in the bedroom, Take
full fucking.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
Advantage, plug every hole whatever.
Speaker 3 (29:09):
It starts to scream, put your dick and no.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
Come on, that's wrong. But I mean you have to
think outside.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
The box, you know, you think about her box.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
Yeah, or you know, bring a toy, you know, do
some kind of massage, you know, bring a buddy in. Sure,
just stunt double, bring.
Speaker 3 (29:29):
All your buddies in, you know. I mean, you know
there's things you could do to mix it up too. Sure,
don't rely on having intercourse every time. Just have oral.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
True you know, leaves you wanting more sometimes.
Speaker 3 (29:50):
Yeah, he made a teaser and then maybe set it
up so maybe the next night, so maybe both you
can get orgasms, have twice in a week or whatever.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
Yeah, that would be kind of cool, because you know,
you're you. I mean, I have a great orgasm orally,
so it's not really quite the issue for me. But yeah,
I mean he leaves you wanting more up. That's what
you use to fire yourself up, you know, and things
like oh, I'm wait till tomorrow. I don't know that
could backfires.
Speaker 3 (30:18):
A really nice date night, get really nice dates. Go
get a hotel room someplace different.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
Yeah. Yeah, it seems like you have sex in the
same place like all the time.
Speaker 3 (30:30):
You know, money is tight. You sit there and now
you're stressing over.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
How much a hotel that's going to ruin it? Okay,
you just grab your blow up mattress and go out
and set up a pup tent. What you know. I
guess we could probably well, we've we've had Yeah, we
could have had sex in this place. We could have
I mean in the studio, it was.
Speaker 3 (30:56):
You've had plenty of sex in here.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
Yeah. I oh my god. We got to do something
about that.
Speaker 3 (31:01):
I'm just told you, like a month ago, we were
in two months ago, we were in the pool.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
Ye.
Speaker 3 (31:06):
And it's like I said, every studio we've had because
you're old, not when other people are there. We had
plenty of time in this you.
Speaker 2 (31:16):
Know, I'm slacking here, folks, I better chick it up
or not.
Speaker 3 (31:21):
I have not had sex down by the pool.
Speaker 2 (31:24):
I did not, I do not. I guess you were
sitting on the side of the pool. Did I not
blow you there? Are you sure? So many dicks a
little time? That is a.
Speaker 3 (31:35):
Problem, Veranda, our decks never had sex?
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Oh my god, I'm really I'm believe.
Speaker 3 (31:41):
Could you tell me the orgasms I give you are
so strong that you just want to go to sleep afterwards.
That's why we don't even have sex in the morning.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
You say, oh, yeah, that that'll be too much. And
I do like lying I have the best orgasms in
our nice comfortable bed, you know, like lying down, just
just being to.
Speaker 3 (31:59):
Wake up in the morning, and you're sure you sit
there that fucking bed. I hate it, but now it's
a comfortable bit.
Speaker 2 (32:04):
I say that way to get out of I'm so
much trouble now there was so much got shitty and
grin on your face. Oh my god, no, I mean, yeah,
I know, I know. It's some of those some of
those places are kind of unusual to have sex. And
I have done it, and it's.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
Done you in the edge of the pool. You didn't
do me.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
I did you. I wouldn't swim.
Speaker 3 (32:31):
I would remember. I'd be like, wow, I actually get
to have sex and places other people that sex with
my wife.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
Okay, I'll have to definitely make it. Well, how about you.
We'll go down to the pool right now.
Speaker 3 (32:45):
I'll get in the water.
Speaker 2 (32:49):
Such an ass I think the water is like seventy degrees.
Speaker 3 (32:52):
We would be able to have intercourse because you're so
tight and you're as I have a cold piece of
coal in them and get diamonds inside a half.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
Hour, and you know what, my lips would be so
coold or I wrapped around your dick go inside.
Speaker 3 (33:07):
All right, Well that was just a little thing we
want to kick around. It's like, what's you know, what's
the ideal number of the amount of times you should
have sex in a week with your partner?
Speaker 2 (33:20):
With your partner? Well, I think everyone has to come
up with their own sweet spot, you know, on their
own and what works for them with you know.
Speaker 3 (33:28):
And that's the magic number.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
Yeah, well there is no magic.
Speaker 3 (33:31):
Number, partner to determine.
Speaker 2 (33:33):
What works for you. I agree, I agree.
Speaker 3 (33:38):
Uh, you know, so it's a communication. Oh they got that.
Speaker 2 (33:41):
Deer, Oh did they?
Speaker 3 (33:43):
Right before we did the podcast? We're on the phone.
As we've said before, our house is on a big
hill and we have a lot of woods, and you
need to say, have a lot of deer on the property.
And our neighbor as a tree stand in our backyard.
Speaker 2 (33:59):
And see him. But he's there.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
They while we were on the phone, is big deer
jumped and running across And I texted him right before
the show and actually talked to on the phone. Then
were you guys back there hunting? That's a big deer
jump and he goes, matter of fact, we did, and
we're tracking it now.
Speaker 2 (34:16):
So I'm there.
Speaker 3 (34:17):
It's hung up now he's waiting out.
Speaker 2 (34:20):
So they're not going to save us the backstraps we.
Speaker 3 (34:23):
Have ring blowney, we don't get backstraps.
Speaker 2 (34:26):
Bring Blowney's good. I'll take it.
Speaker 3 (34:27):
Yeah, whatever didn't cost us anything? Yeah, one unless do
you have a chance of getting hit by true?
Speaker 2 (34:35):
And one less they'd be eating my damn hostas I'll
be eating it.
Speaker 3 (34:42):
Okay, how we I think we're done.
Speaker 2 (34:44):
I think we're done with this one is topic.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
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(35:05):
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Speaker 2 (35:09):
Okay, that sounds good.
Speaker 3 (35:11):
So go check out Donna and what Donna's doing doing.
Speaker 2 (35:16):
That Hot Wife doonaland dot com. I definitely need to
do some posting. Sorry, work has gotten in the way, guys.
Sorry about that. It's been a little hectic around here.
But I think, well, we can do it. We can
do this.
Speaker 3 (35:27):
Do you want to reach out to us info at
hotwavepodcast dot com. I love hearing from you guys all
and uh, you know all the things people are doing
while they listen to the podcast. I mean, this one
wasn't a sexy podcast, sorry, but fed was a worthwhile topic. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:43):
I think it's helpful, you know. I mean, it helps
boost your sexual relationship or relationship with your significant other.
It's all. It's all valid.
Speaker 3 (35:52):
So so in the next few weeks, I think we
have some pretty sexy work coming up. I have some
people coming and stuff.
Speaker 2 (35:59):
I oh, we have people coming, Okay, I have people
showing up.
Speaker 3 (36:06):
Anyway, So again with that. Thank everyone for listening. Please
you enjoy the show, which I see a lot of
people do, share it with your friends and you know,
stay horny.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
Oh wait, I have a great nine. Everybody
Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into
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(00:27):
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heat things.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Up, Hill, let them get to SCRAMed. It sounds too
roughly you wild air streams.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
I'm my podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Breaking all the norms, open discussions about the swing a fall.
Hello everybody, This is Donald Linn and welcome to a
Hot White podcast. And of course I'm here with Vince
as usual, as usual as usual. I'm hearing some humming.
(01:11):
What is going on with our system again?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
I don't know, I have to.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I don't hear it until I start watching things.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
I'm going to actually take this mixing board and reset
it on and go back from scratch or things.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
So yeah, I'm just hopefully not too.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Many things, and I don't didn't untoy a couple of things,
I think, But anyway.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Stop playing with the switches. You're like a child. Stop it.
Keep your and keep your hands back.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
I don't masturbate my whatever knobs I can get my
hand on.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I was just gonna say, stop playing with your dick
so much.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
But that's why I can't. I'm having a hard time
seeing them. My mom was right, go blind.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Gold blind. I'm masturbated ways too much.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Memories, memories. Hey, we had an interesting conversation prior to
coming in here.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Yeah, I wish we could have gotten them on like
right now.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Yeah, I wish he was available to show right up. Well,
there's could be hopefully hopefully not guys when the guy
wants a girl. But we uh met via phone call
a gentleman that is in the lifestyle. Is he sent
us pictures his very gorgeous girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
And he's really hot too, very you know, in shape
and fit.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
And I didn't notice that.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Yeah right, I kept saying, look at these arms, look
at these halves. He's like, no, no, no, I don't see anything. Yeah,
you just.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Ignore you're that good looking. Problems. But he is in
the process of making a new swinger site.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Yeah, that could be pretty exciting.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
And his gorgeous girlfriend. Did I mention she was gorgeous?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
No, he didn't. Do you want to mention she's gorgeous.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
She's also a content creator. Yes, so we have a
lot of things to talk about. You know, we're going
to be getting him in here. It's still beta testing
his site, and but he's going to be releasing a
new uh swinger site.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Yeah. One, that's I'm hoping that it works out well
because he's on the right track. When you can, it's
easier for people to meet, there be groups, you can,
you know, it's it's I just feel like.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
It's going to be doing some things that others don't do.
I guess right, right, you know he's wording it. It's
going to be kind of a swinger's Facebook.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Yeah, yeah, so we'll see. He also compared it kind
of the fet life. I mean, I know how to
that combination. Yeah, combination.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
It's exciting. We'll have him in here more. He could
talk about it. I don't want to talk out of
turn because.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
We don't know that much about it yet. So it
sounds exciting though, I mean.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
He's exciting, very passionate about it.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, that's for sure.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
So, and that's wou'd be kind of cool. And he
has a very experienced past in the life in the lifestyle.
So he said he's been seeing our profile for twenty years.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
And I looked at him. I'm like, he doesn't look
like he's much older than twenty, but he is.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
He's forty four forty four. I was like, she looked
at him and goes, you know what, he looks like
one of the next guys I'm going to fuck.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Did I say that out loud?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yeah? Yeah, you don't have any inner monologue.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Oh no, I don't. That's true.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
You know I can see where you want too.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Yeah, and he's really hot. His girlfriend is really hot too.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
It's like, hmmm, I told him cards right, you could
have me.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
I know, she'd have to really play her cards right
then you are very very difficult to.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Take some drama, mean throwing up of it anyway. So
tonight's topic.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Is how frequently should couples have sex.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
This isn't just about couples in the lifestyle. This is
just like couples couples. So even if you're in the lifestyle,
it's we're not talking about how often should you play
with other people? Right, we're talking about just.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
In your relationship, in your relationship, And we are not authorities,
not even a little bit, don't even don't even pretend
to be. We're just going by with what we have
seen in our relationship because a lot of people do
reach out to us. In fact, we just had a
couple reach out that are going through a divorce and
they're like, you guys sound like you're happy. You know,
(05:17):
I don't know if they ask like, what's the put
it on? We do. We're really full of crab here.
But but yeah, there's there's things in a relationship, and
sex is definitely part of a relationship. I know you
and I have talked about this, you know, at nauseum
really you know. But but sex is just one small facet.
(05:38):
There's so many other things in your life that makes
up that relationship. So tonight's topic is how often should
you know a couple have sex? What's the ideal for them?
What's you know?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
This is just talk.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Oh yeah, we're just brainstorming.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
People are like, well it should be three times a
day everything, you know, and if you have a schedule
and a partner that is all about that, sure, right, right,
you know we're just going to share our thoughts on it.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Sure, absolutely, that's all this is.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
I mean one of the first I think talking points
to that is it all going to hamper on age
and how busy you're schedule it.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Well, that's as you get older, that's true. I mean,
for sure, there's there's so many things in your lifestyle
and you know, and you know, work or kids or
this or that, and aging involved and you know, maybe
physical limitations as you age and all these other fun
things to look forward to. So, I mean when I
was younger, it was, you know, you fuck like a rabbit.
(06:38):
I mean, you know, the wind blew and you're like,
I'm horny and you know what I'm saying. So there's
a there's a whole quality versus quantity type of things.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
So it also depends how new your relationship.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Yeah, when it's new, all the time you were like
masturbating to them and thinking about them, and you know
all that was.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Shut I'm just checking.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Yeah, I mean, you know, when you're it's new, it's
you know, it's.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
There's a heightened passion, excitement, excitement.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
For sure.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
It's not exciting when you've been with him for you know,
it's like the time, I don't dress sex anymore. You
wear baseball hats, grandma's shorts, hypothetical situation, shoulder braces, just things,
throwing things out there, just you know, spitball.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
This just happens, you know, asshole.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
You're wearing trifocals. You know sometimes.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
When you get your glasses, you know, young.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
Stud, I could find my walker, So I mean, now
paratransit gets here. It takes me to the eye doctor.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
I'm true. I know that feeling. I know that feeling. Well,
I think now it's like, uh, I like a quality
fuck rather than just quantity. I want something I can
really enjoy, you know, or that didn't even have to
be fucking necessarily. The orgasm is what I'm going for.
(08:20):
And I want a quality orgasm. Why would I I
don't want a half asked orgasm, no, but some are
definitely bad. Yeah, and I want a high quality one.
Why would I have like, or maybe not even achieve
an orgasm. You go through all this, you know, rigamarole,
and you get nothing.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
So that would and sex be satisfying without an orgasm?
Mmm mmm, different topic, but.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
That's a good question. I. When I was younger, it
was okay to have sex without an orgasm because I
was just so happy just to have a dick inside me.
A dick insider, that hard sider. But yes, I think
now that I'm older, I'm a little more particular. It's like, no,
(09:05):
I just if I can't have a really good orgasm,
I'm not going to bop or just going through the
U the rigmar role of having sex for nothing.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Okay, is it important to have a higher quality orgasm
or just to have an orgasm because you've played with
guys as an example, he said, yeah, I had an orgasms.
They weren't like it weren't too rattling.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
We weren't earth showering. I'd rather have the earth showering dithers,
you know, I mean, come on, I.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Have a you know twenty twenty six uh Ferrari or
you know that you have to have a Honda. You
know I can give you a yeah in nineteen seventy
eight Civic.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
You know, they both get you to where you want
to go, but one gets you there in a lot
better style, a little more exciting as were that way.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
But you know, it's like, no, if.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
I have my ditherers. I'd rather have the you know,
over the top of all that goes. That's kind of obvious.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Yeah, if you just get an orgasm.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
With oh, I'm that's fine, that's nice. You know, that's good.
That's fine, that's good. But if I have the earth
shadowing on, that's what I'm be talking about for quite
a while. Like the run a mill orgasm was like,
but those ones like where you see colors and you're like,
you know, you extra project your body to the next
(10:27):
waiting for that one. I guess. Oh, there have been
times that your your toes curled. Well, no, you said
you felt it in the toes you were missing. That's
how strong the orgasm was. So that's a pretty strong orgasm.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
And they haven't found that woman yet.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
What did you do to I don't I don't even
remember who that was. I don't even think that was
you think that was me? I don't know. I remember
having a couple. We call them toe curlers.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
But yeah, I'm I mean, okay, so back to a couple.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Okay, the average couple, average.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Couple, Okay, and not you know, not necessarily in the lifestyle. Okay, yeah,
it's you know, I'd like to think it's quality. You're
not going through motions.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Yes, please don't. Just don't take one for the team,
or you know, just put out for me keep you know,
to strutch your husband up, or either pussy just to
shut your wife up. It's you know, I hope, hope
it's more than that. Oh, shut up.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
No, but I mean there are people in relationships that
one of them might not necessarily be into the other
one anymore.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
Oh that's harsh.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
Oh it happens.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
I'm trying to tell me something, honey.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
You know, I have a billboard sign at the bottom
of the drive.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Well, because the other the other talking point for for
this whole thing is communication. So maybe you should communicate
that to me. Honey, you're just don't turn me on. Well,
you were communicating. I guess I wasn't picking it up.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
But no, I mean, you know, that's a whole other issue. Though.
If one of the couple for some reason has lost
sexual interest, either in sex or sex with.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
Their mate, Oh, that's that's that's that's a that's a
long hard road. I don't I don't know.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
If the guy not getting sexy, it will be hard.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Yeah, it would be difficult. Yeah, that's I mean. But again,
to get back to that communication, why are you disinterested?
Is it me? Is it the partner? Is it? You
know that whoever it is is going through life changes
or stress or work or kids or you know, communication,
talk about it, talk about it.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Well some people Okay, yeah, some people I mean do
I'll say, well out of love of sorts. But they
might love them, but they're not.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Passionately in love with them anymore like you were when
you were first met.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
Yeah, but I mean or the aspect of just well.
The one thing that could happen too is one of
the people in the relationship might not be happy with
their appearance. They've gained weight or whatever.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
Yeah, I got it.
Speaker 3 (13:14):
You know, their ass doesn't look like it did when
they first.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Got My ass only slides down half the back of
my thighs. It's not all the way back through. I
don't care what you say.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
You can't run anymore back your knees.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
I do hate you so much.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
No, I mean, but no, but I mean that happens.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
It does happen.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
You know, people get uncomfortable with the way they feel
they appear, even though their mate might sit there and
go I'd love.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
You the way you are, yeah, regardless.
Speaker 3 (13:44):
Of you know, so that's an aspect too.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Yeah. Yeah, until you until you have like a positive
self image, you're not going to care what anybody else says.
So they could, you know, fly, how were you with
all kinds of lavish compliments and you know, throw pedals
at your feet. But if you feel like you're not
deserving or you don't like how you looking, yourself image
(14:11):
is negative. It doesn't matter what people say, because that's external.
My first wife, you know, lovely woman.
Speaker 3 (14:21):
You never met her. That's not my first wife. I'm
trying to be a dragon lady. Okay, but anyway.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
You lost your track the train of thought.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
I have no sex drive now.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
Sorry.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
If I was ever gonna be impotent, it's right now,
right now. But but you know she was uncomfortable, especially
after the kids, right you know, she put on the
baby weight and you know the Danish weight and the cookie.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Baby waited, they the cookie weight, all the weights weight.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
She would not have sex when the sun was up
or during dayly eight hours and there's no light at all.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
You know what she did? You know what she did
all these years she had she had a stunt double
coming and.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Fucking why would you go get another woman as fat
as she was?
Speaker 2 (15:31):
That's well, maybe in the dark you couldn't tell the difference,
but she she was like, quick, jump in, we won't
be a stump up stunt double if they looked totally different.
The stunt double has to kind of look like the actor.
Speaker 3 (15:44):
Right, it's in the dark.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
How would you know she has blindfolded?
Speaker 3 (15:50):
Wow, you're you're quit like an eight inch cop.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
I don't remember this, yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
Honey, I don't remember having walls. Fuck.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Okay, so she didn't do a good job of getting.
Speaker 3 (16:06):
Like a man's chest. Now when did you get hair?
Speaker 2 (16:11):
Okay, she didn't get a very good stunt double.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
She wasn't smart. Okay, but no, and that happens.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Yeah, I got it.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
But you know, well, and there's people that the other
partner might not necessarily make them feel comfortable either.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Well, that's true too. Okay. You have to communicate. If
you're if your significant others, you know, calling you a
lard ass, you might want to say, hey, that's not
very nice. I don't like him. You call me that?
Speaker 3 (16:41):
Will?
Speaker 2 (16:46):
Is that free? Will?
Speaker 3 (16:47):
He?
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Or I was wondering where you're going with that?
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Slightly obscure, very obscure. But yeah, so I mean again,
the the average they say that a couple should have
sex a week, right, they say, really for healthy raceship
is at least once a week rain.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
That's that's doable for most people, you know, not a month.
Oh yeah, I mean it's not a quarter. Oh not
not every equinox.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
Yeah yeah, on February twenty ninth.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Yeah, I mean that that's a very doable. It's not.
It's not like, oh, you know, three times a day.
It's like, oh my god, if I did that, I
wouldn't get anything done. You know, I'm saying I won't
be able to hold out a job.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
Stay awake.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
So that's kind of like.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
I don't know if I have three orgasms in me
a week?
Speaker 2 (17:51):
Oh you try, Yeah, you can definitely do that.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
Prove me wrong.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
Oh is that what this is? They're baiting me? Okay,
oh no, hanh not.
Speaker 3 (17:59):
You can't do that all grocial kind that's Sunday. You
only got two, so we got to start all because
it's you know, Monday starts a new week.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
No, Sunday starts the new week, depends on county. That's true.
I'm old fashioned. I like the week they start on
Sunday and on Saturday because it is a week and
it makes sense to me.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
But whatever, would Sunday be the week end? It's the
Sunday would be the week beginning?
Speaker 2 (18:26):
Oh God to pay, I asked, Yes, you're right. Technically
Sunday would be the week beginning and Saturday will be
the week.
Speaker 3 (18:33):
The week end is Saturday and Sunday Monday would be all.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
Right, whatever you whatever.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
County could be a whole different podcast anyway, But so.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
What so once a week is what they're saying is
pretty normal.
Speaker 3 (18:50):
Well, it's what you should aim for as a minimum. Yeah,
that's definitely scheduling, and I agree. You know, people have
children and stuff like that, and know it's a busy world,
kids and everything else. We've talked about that where you know,
some men aren't privy to how much a woman does.
(19:11):
You know, she might have a full time job, she
goes home, does a laundry, has to take make meals
for everybody, take care of the kids, help with homework,
you know with the husbands puts his feet up, watch
his TV. You know not they don't.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
They don't all do that.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Hm. You know, dishes have to be done and all this,
you know nobody, but you know, come ten o'clock at night. Yeah,
it's like, okay, I gotta take a shower and then
try to please you. I'm just repeating your words.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
Oh my words, not yours. Is that what you're trying to.
Speaker 3 (19:46):
Say by what you tell me?
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Yeah, that's it. Okay, but.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
No, it's understandable that you know. But you know again,
if you're in a situation like that where you're a
sick significant other, because I can't say which way, it's
not prone to just one.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
One sex or yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
So if your partner is tired all the time, help
them out.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
Yeah. If two people do the dishes, one washes, one drives,
you put them in a dishwasher, whatever your thing is,
if you both do it, you can get done quicker,
like in half the time. I mean realistically speaking, I
mean yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (20:29):
While someone's doing the dishes, someone helped the kids with
homework whatever.
Speaker 2 (20:32):
Yeah, So divide and conquer and then you can reward
each other, you know, because there are so many benefits
that come from an orgasm, all the emotional benefits.
Speaker 3 (20:44):
I mean, oh, it's stress reliever, stress reliever, It brings
you closer.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
Yes, I agree. I when we have gone through stretches
where we have and had sex. You know, I do
feel like our team approach is kind of way meaning
a little bit like there's some praying in the fabric.
You know, there's some holes in it. Yeah, I know
you have.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
I know, not just about us, but right exactly in
general that you said men are simple creatures. An organism
for a man buys a lot.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
I know. I got you to bring up pellets and
do this and do that'ry to suck your dick.
Speaker 3 (21:25):
It's great, but you didn't do that last night.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
I did so last night. You lineck a ship. I
sucked your dick last night.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
Not to completion. Oh well your arm was hurting.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
Oh made me come though.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
Well OK, but no, I've said before, you know men
kind of in general. I can't say everyone. You know,
when it gets to be a longer spance span span
and longer distance.
Speaker 2 (21:58):
Between worksts, use a different word.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
Let me correct that.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Hey, how do you like that peanut butter stout? Anyway,
I know it's very right. I had one sip. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
The you know, if you're a week out or weeks
out or weeks out and you know, I've said it before.
Your wife goes, honey, can you take the trash out?
You go and do it, but in your head's like,
fuck you bitch, take it out yourself. But you just
had you got fucked or whatever in the last twenty
(22:36):
four to possibly forty eight hours. The wife says, honey,
take tresha. Yes, ma'am. Yeah, I'm gonna keep her happy
because I might get my dick sucked again. She says.
You know, you know, she fucked you really good. And honey,
I need your left arm here, your left arm whatever.
You know me.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
You know, if we'll drag their balls, we get.
Speaker 3 (22:56):
An orgasm, you know what. Men will fucking do anything.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
Yeah, pretty much sometimes really, you know.
Speaker 3 (23:06):
And so I mean that's why I like before sex,
you know, it's a man just be kind of being
man to stand around do it. But like after he
gets an organism, that's when he, you know, wants a
cuddle and spoon and it's like you just you just
pulled all the anger out of the tiger.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
Yeah, that's a good way of putting it. Sure, sure,
I just can't. I know, it's impressive, impressive, Yeah, I mean,
there's so many other things to muse all kinds of
chemical things that happened. You're releasing some you know, and endorphins,
and it's a bonding moment. Yeah, it's a bonding moment.
But there's also the chemical things are being released, which
(23:44):
is a great.
Speaker 3 (23:46):
When I give you a good orgasm, how you just
like roll over and go to sleep. It's like, wow,
she loves.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
I've only done that a couple of times because sometimes
it's just a lot. It's just a lot many.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
Times I want to go to sleep after an organism.
Speaker 2 (24:02):
You can. I don't care. You can. I do not
mind at all. Stop. Well that might be, but I.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
Tell everybody that too, so you get me next time.
I make sure my wife gets her organism. How are
you doing today?
Speaker 2 (24:21):
That's why I like to I like it if if
I don't come first, yeah, I like it. If I don't,
sure because it just wipes me out.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
And wipes me out too. But I got it, and
you don't have to if you're after a few nights
of that ship. Each other's a pillow of my head.
Not that's why I cook to make sure you don't
poison my food. Good idea, but you know, I think
(24:51):
you know once a week is if if everything winds up, sure,
if everyone's feeling.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
Well, exactly okay, right, you know, and.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
You know, I mean there's a lot of factors to it.
Sure or again. And the feeling well thing isn't just
like oh I have a cold. No, it's like like
I have got a bad back right now, you're going
through your other shoulder, you know, stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (25:16):
Yeah, if I'm in like a weird position, it'll it'll start.
Speaker 3 (25:19):
But there's days well, yeah, with my back and neck
being all fucked up, you know again, high humid days.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Oh the humidity does my.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
Brain or human heat or whatever, I'm in a lot
of pain. There's been times you've asked me to have
sex and I'm like, I can't.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
And I wrote all them down, I said, on this date.
Speaker 3 (25:41):
Yeah, I see that list. It'd be three.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Times twenty seven seven you denying.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
Sex, and you hold that against me.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
No, I would never.
Speaker 3 (25:52):
I kept a list of all the time. Put me
thicker than the Bible, Old time Testament, Today's Testament, last
year's testent.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Oh my god, thanks you throwing me right under the bus.
Thank you so much. I love you too. Right to
hear that, Okay, that's good. Well, this it's we have
to look at like the stages of relationship. Remember when
we first got together first, or we were twenty years younger. Okay,
we so had that, but the relationship is actually we
(26:26):
were twenty two years younger or more.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
But we're going three years now.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Something like that. Yeah, yeah, I think so something like that.
So I mean I remember, do you remember I was
wearing that that sun dress and we're driving somewhere and
you were like finger me as we were driving. We
stopped at a park and I sat and you like
reached it. I just like saying like Indian stores early
early days, and like you reached across you started finger
(26:53):
me in like this park, and I had this skirt
on so we could tell what was going on. But
you know you're doing me like in.
Speaker 3 (26:58):
Public, remember that exactly whatere you're talking about.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Yeah, you know in the time we're in that office
and you picked me up and put me on that fireplace.
Man to my bussy.
Speaker 3 (27:16):
Now, because of my back, you could I couldn't pick
you up.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
I couldn't have you pick me up because I wouldn't
be able to support myself with my shoulders. So we're
a pair here. You know, it's like.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
Never a time yet took me from my walker and
put me in.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
A Wheelchair's getting to that point. Hey, hey, we can
laugh about it.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
You know, I did shots of jar tog got all crazy.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Hey. If if that's where it takes to have an orgasm,
I will do it. I will do it. I am
not I.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
Am not a shamed you know the important of that
whole scenario if someone is not wanting sex.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
Or not able to have sex. Yeah, communication is huge,
we you know, I think we've said that earlier.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Absolutely it's important. And everyone I talk about all right,
when you're playing with other people and swinging, you know,
you got to communicate. What are our what are our rules?
What do we like, what don't we like?
Speaker 2 (28:14):
I think just in life communication is key, just in
life in general. But I mean as you get older,
you know, it's going to get to the point where
maybe you can't have like actual intercourse. So there's other
things you may have to do, and you have to
think outside the box.
Speaker 3 (28:32):
It's always options.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
Yeah, there's always options, you know, doing oral or toys or.
Speaker 3 (28:36):
Again ran into that young guy who doesn't do or
because out of that Oh my God, well he is
gonna be lonely man.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
Yeah, he's older.
Speaker 3 (28:47):
His saying don't work.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
It's like.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
Because remember in.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
A relationship, he stays, I don't get in a relationship,
you're going to spend more time with somebody outside the
bedroom than you do it. Yeah, we have said that
a millillion times. Yes, that is absolutely true.
Speaker 3 (29:02):
Absolutely, So why you have them in the bedroom, Take
full fucking.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
Advantage, plug every hole whatever.
Speaker 3 (29:09):
It starts to scream, put your dick and no.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
Come on, that's wrong. But I mean you have to
think outside.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
The box, you know, you think about her box.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
Yeah, or you know, bring a toy, you know, do
some kind of massage, you know, bring a buddy in. Sure,
just stunt double, bring.
Speaker 3 (29:29):
All your buddies in, you know. I mean, you know
there's things you could do to mix it up too. Sure,
don't rely on having intercourse every time. Just have oral.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
True you know, leaves you wanting more sometimes.
Speaker 3 (29:50):
Yeah, he made a teaser and then maybe set it
up so maybe the next night, so maybe both you
can get orgasms, have twice in a week or whatever.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
Yeah, that would be kind of cool, because you know,
you're you. I mean, I have a great orgasm orally,
so it's not really quite the issue for me. But yeah,
I mean he leaves you wanting more up. That's what
you use to fire yourself up, you know, and things
like oh, I'm wait till tomorrow. I don't know that
could backfires.
Speaker 3 (30:18):
A really nice date night, get really nice dates. Go
get a hotel room someplace different.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
Yeah. Yeah, it seems like you have sex in the
same place like all the time.
Speaker 3 (30:30):
You know, money is tight. You sit there and now
you're stressing over.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
How much a hotel that's going to ruin it? Okay,
you just grab your blow up mattress and go out
and set up a pup tent. What you know. I
guess we could probably well, we've we've had Yeah, we
could have had sex in this place. We could have
I mean in the studio, it was.
Speaker 3 (30:56):
You've had plenty of sex in here.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
Yeah. I oh my god. We got to do something
about that.
Speaker 3 (31:01):
I'm just told you, like a month ago, we were
in two months ago, we were in the pool.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
Ye.
Speaker 3 (31:06):
And it's like I said, every studio we've had because
you're old, not when other people are there. We had
plenty of time in this you.
Speaker 2 (31:16):
Know, I'm slacking here, folks, I better chick it up
or not.
Speaker 3 (31:21):
I have not had sex down by the pool.
Speaker 2 (31:24):
I did not, I do not. I guess you were
sitting on the side of the pool. Did I not
blow you there? Are you sure? So many dicks a
little time? That is a.
Speaker 3 (31:35):
Problem, Veranda, our decks never had sex?
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Oh my god, I'm really I'm believe.
Speaker 3 (31:41):
Could you tell me the orgasms I give you are
so strong that you just want to go to sleep afterwards.
That's why we don't even have sex in the morning.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
You say, oh, yeah, that that'll be too much. And
I do like lying I have the best orgasms in
our nice comfortable bed, you know, like lying down, just
just being to.
Speaker 3 (31:59):
Wake up in the morning, and you're sure you sit
there that fucking bed. I hate it, but now it's
a comfortable bit.
Speaker 2 (32:04):
I say that way to get out of I'm so
much trouble now there was so much got shitty and
grin on your face. Oh my god, no, I mean, yeah,
I know, I know. It's some of those some of
those places are kind of unusual to have sex. And
I have done it, and it's.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
Done you in the edge of the pool. You didn't
do me.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
I did you. I wouldn't swim.
Speaker 3 (32:31):
I would remember. I'd be like, wow, I actually get
to have sex and places other people that sex with
my wife.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
Okay, I'll have to definitely make it. Well, how about you.
We'll go down to the pool right now.
Speaker 3 (32:45):
I'll get in the water.
Speaker 2 (32:49):
Such an ass I think the water is like seventy degrees.
Speaker 3 (32:52):
We would be able to have intercourse because you're so
tight and you're as I have a cold piece of
coal in them and get diamonds inside a half.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
Hour, and you know what, my lips would be so
coold or I wrapped around your dick go inside.
Speaker 3 (33:07):
All right, Well that was just a little thing we
want to kick around. It's like, what's you know, what's
the ideal number of the amount of times you should
have sex in a week with your partner?
Speaker 2 (33:20):
With your partner? Well, I think everyone has to come
up with their own sweet spot, you know, on their
own and what works for them with you know.
Speaker 3 (33:28):
And that's the magic number.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
Yeah, well there is no magic.
Speaker 3 (33:31):
Number, partner to determine.
Speaker 2 (33:33):
What works for you. I agree, I agree.
Speaker 3 (33:38):
Uh, you know, so it's a communication. Oh they got that.
Speaker 2 (33:41):
Deer, Oh did they?
Speaker 3 (33:43):
Right before we did the podcast? We're on the phone.
As we've said before, our house is on a big
hill and we have a lot of woods, and you
need to say, have a lot of deer on the property.
And our neighbor as a tree stand in our backyard.
Speaker 2 (33:59):
And see him. But he's there.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
They while we were on the phone, is big deer
jumped and running across And I texted him right before
the show and actually talked to on the phone. Then
were you guys back there hunting? That's a big deer
jump and he goes, matter of fact, we did, and
we're tracking it now.
Speaker 2 (34:16):
So I'm there.
Speaker 3 (34:17):
It's hung up now he's waiting out.
Speaker 2 (34:20):
So they're not going to save us the backstraps we.
Speaker 3 (34:23):
Have ring blowney, we don't get backstraps.
Speaker 2 (34:26):
Bring Blowney's good. I'll take it.
Speaker 3 (34:27):
Yeah, whatever didn't cost us anything? Yeah, one unless do
you have a chance of getting hit by true?
Speaker 2 (34:35):
And one less they'd be eating my damn hostas I'll
be eating it.
Speaker 3 (34:42):
Okay, how we I think we're done.
Speaker 2 (34:44):
I think we're done with this one is topic.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
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Okay, that sounds good.
Speaker 3 (35:11):
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Speaker 2 (35:16):
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do some posting. Sorry, work has gotten in the way, guys.
Sorry about that. It's been a little hectic around here.
But I think, well, we can do it. We can
do this.
Speaker 3 (35:27):
Do you want to reach out to us info at
hotwavepodcast dot com. I love hearing from you guys all
and uh, you know all the things people are doing
while they listen to the podcast. I mean, this one
wasn't a sexy podcast, sorry, but fed was a worthwhile topic. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:43):
I think it's helpful, you know. I mean, it helps
boost your sexual relationship or relationship with your significant other.
It's all. It's all valid.
Speaker 3 (35:52):
So so in the next few weeks, I think we
have some pretty sexy work coming up. I have some
people coming and stuff.
Speaker 2 (35:59):
I oh, we have people coming, Okay, I have people
showing up.
Speaker 3 (36:06):
Anyway, So again with that. Thank everyone for listening. Please
you enjoy the show, which I see a lot of
people do, share it with your friends and you know,
stay horny.
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Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.
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The World's Most Dangerous Morning Show, The Breakfast Club, With DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, And Charlamagne Tha God!