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August 25, 2025 • 49 mins
In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince, along with guest Slim Diggins, explore the world of swinging, relationships, and content creation. They discuss their experiences in the swinging lifestyle, the challenges of ghosting, and the importance of communication and respect. The conversation also delves into the creative aspects of producing adult content and the evolving perceptions of swinging in society. With humor and candidness, they share personal anecdotes and insights, making for an engaging and informative discussion.



Takeaways
  • The Hot Wife Podcast focuses on relationships and intimacy.
  • Slim Diggins shares his experiences in the swinging lifestyle.
  • Ghosting is a common issue in the swinging community.
  • Respect and boundaries are crucial in swinging encounters.
  • Clubbing experiences can sometimes be uncomfortable.
  • Content creation in the lifestyle can be both fun and professional.
  • Communication is key in swinging relationships.
  • The evolution of swinging is becoming more accepted in society.
  • Creative themes can enhance adult content.
  • The joy of swinging includes exploring new connections.
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into
discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin,
we want to make it clear that the views expressed
on this podcast are solely those of the host and
guests and should be taken as opinions, not professional or
medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast

(00:26):
is intended for adults over the age of eighteen. Unauthorized
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permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's
heat things up.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
Oh you'll let them get to screamed. It's time to
roughly you wild their streams.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
Im why podcast breaking all the norms, open discussions about
the swing fall.

Speaker 2 (00:58):
Hello everybody, This is Donalin and welcome to my Hot
Wife podcast. Of course, I'm here with my wonderful husband.

Speaker 4 (01:05):
Vince I am.

Speaker 2 (01:07):
I'm here today and wonderful and actually have a very
special friend here tonight.

Speaker 4 (01:14):
Sim first time meetingum.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
First time meeting him. So say hello, everybody. Slim you
got to talk into the microphone guy.

Speaker 5 (01:21):
I was going everybody, I'm Slim Diggins. Oh you can
find me on Twitter at Slim Diggings, Slim Underscore Diggins too.

Speaker 4 (01:28):
Ah, I thought it was Biggins.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
That's what I thought too. There we go. Well you
are a content creator, right, yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:40):
He's also we found each other on.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
The SOS Swinger website.

Speaker 4 (01:44):
So we'll start with the rudimentary stuff. Sure, how long
you've been on the swinger website?

Speaker 5 (01:49):
Uh, for a bit, I guess you could say, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:53):
A bit is like three weeks, two months, try like
ten years, nineteen twenty nineteen twenty years, nineteen twenty years old.

Speaker 4 (02:02):
Oh you're okay since you're that old. Okay, a little.

Speaker 6 (02:06):
Bit older now, but he's not going to give away anything.
I can just tell I'm not in my twenties. Actually,
you look at them, you look at yeah, get yeah.
I have to say, like you're maybe twenty five.

Speaker 4 (02:17):
If I had to guess, yes, yeah, I don't, I
get one hundred and twenty five.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
But yeah, I'm pretty close. Is that myself?

Speaker 4 (02:26):
We've actually been on the Swinger site for about twenty years. Yeah, yeah,
so so we're somewhere close. But you know, compared to
the amount of people that have been on there and
like their conquests and stuff, ours aren't anywhere near that
we have like a ton of of the certificed certifications.

(02:47):
But we used to have photo parties in a bar
and I had at a studio, So everybody who came
to the parties and I would take their pictures and
everything else would give us a reference like, oh my god,
they were great. You know. But you know, but people
are like, man, you must have fucked hundreds of people.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
It's like no, no, you know, to get a certification,
you don't have to actually have sex. Sometimes it's just.

Speaker 4 (03:08):
Never went past dinner. Yeah, and just like, oh they
were a nice couple. Yeah, it was.

Speaker 5 (03:13):
Kind of like just exactly knowing that they're real, like, well,
you could get some flakes.

Speaker 4 (03:20):
Or not not even flakes.

Speaker 5 (03:21):
You could get people that just like, uh are like
you know, maybe an updated picture would definitely help because
now it's kind of like catfish.

Speaker 4 (03:30):
But we've met them. Yeah, yeah, we've met people that
it's like, uh, that's not you. No, I didn't want
people knowing me, so I have another picture. It's like, dude,
that's not cool. I mean, at least do it right though.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
Yeah, exactly, there was we we What we have happened
pretty frequently is the ghosting you know, guys, Vince had
this really cool birthday party. Our birthday gift for me.
It was a guy who supposed to it was just
to be blindfolded and a mystery man to come over
and do whatever he wanted to do, to be fucked

(04:02):
me whatever, you know, and the.

Speaker 4 (04:04):
Guy was all excited.

Speaker 2 (04:05):
I can't believe for me.

Speaker 4 (04:07):
Yeah, they show up, supposed to be here at like
seven thirty one night, never show up, didn't even like
text or like, hey man, I can't make it. You know,
goldfish died whatever. But the next day he texted me
he's like, oh, a good friend of mine died. And
you know, it's like, okay, sorry to hear that, but
you should have reached out, you know, be a fucking adult.

(04:29):
Sometimes sometimes I'm going to cut up.

Speaker 5 (04:31):
Sometimes that stuff is good, is best for you though,
you know what I mean, Like you don't really he
might not be telling you something, you know what I mean,
so his best like he's just chicking shit out. And
it was like, no, I'm not right. Maybe he was
like you know what, I'm gonna just not do it,
but it you know, sometimes that that stuff be like hell, yeah,
thanks for not showing up.

Speaker 2 (04:49):
Yeah, we dodged the bullet.

Speaker 4 (04:51):
But we've also had people like there was another guy
years ago that was going to meet us at a
local bar. You know, we got to the bar, texted him,
hey man, we're in this corner of the bar. You know,
never showed up. Yeah, it's like you know, I mean
that's happened to us a few times. Do things like that.
I don't get it. Why would you spend the money
to join a site, you know, put all the stuff

(05:11):
out there, try to meet people and then not show up.

Speaker 5 (05:15):
They're uh, you know, nulators, they scammers that and there
they're they're just collecting the pictures. Are it's a lot
of dudes that are like.

Speaker 4 (05:27):
Acting like they're like a couple.

Speaker 5 (05:29):
Or they're they're just they just want to like just
just like come on, let's not do that.

Speaker 4 (05:35):
Like just as a single man. Do you get that
a lot?

Speaker 2 (05:38):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (05:39):
You run across it, like.

Speaker 5 (05:42):
I never went anywhere and it was like, yo, come on,
never like that, but like.

Speaker 4 (05:51):
Are like I might get it.

Speaker 5 (05:53):
I might have gotten it on like uh through like messaging,
like all right, I know your dude playing come on
sight I just I just block it. But like talking
about even just like how you say some people don't
show up. People are shocked that I show up. They're like,
you showed up, and I'm.

Speaker 4 (06:10):
Like, yeah, like, wasn't that what we're planning on? Exactly
like what I thought, that's what you said. And they're like,
all right, come on in. It is amazing.

Speaker 2 (06:22):
I don't understand when you go through all the rigmar
role and all the exert all that energy to be
on this site and do the texting and the back
and forth and the you know, the teasing and all that,
just to not show up. I mean, I don't understand that.

Speaker 4 (06:39):
I think they get off on that.

Speaker 2 (06:40):
You think so.

Speaker 4 (06:41):
I think they think that that's a turn onto them
being they're getting attention, or they think, right, I think
they're deceiving somebody. They're not deceiving anyone.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
It's like, it's not like you're interrupting our evening, you
know what I'm saying, because we're just we went to
that bar, we had a couple of drinks. The dude
didn't show up. Fucking We went home and had our
own fun and we.

Speaker 4 (07:00):
Had I can't verify that I remember having a few drinks.

Speaker 2 (07:05):
I can't either not definitively.

Speaker 4 (07:08):
You know, if so, I'm going to put that in
the column. The one you gotta start flashing early, are we?

Speaker 2 (07:17):
Oh no, sure late.

Speaker 4 (07:19):
I think it's a late now, okay, the bag.

Speaker 2 (07:25):
The kitty is definitely out of the bag and shaped, yes, absolutely,
But yeah, that's there's probably the worst. One of the
worst experiences we've had.

Speaker 4 (07:35):
We've had been loud and obnoxious, but the worst experiences
or was one that club we went to and everybody
was trying to pall you, and then I almost got
in a fight with people. Yeah I would have won.

Speaker 2 (07:47):
I mean, yeah, you know what I was wearing, slam
this is I was wearing this, which is like my skin.

Speaker 4 (07:56):
I was painted wearing LATEXT paint.

Speaker 2 (07:58):
I was wearing late text paint.

Speaker 4 (08:00):
Yeah. It was a Halloween party and everybody kept coming
over and trying to peel it off of it. Yes,
and you know I kept pushing me away so they
could get in there. So I just grabbed a handful,
threw them back against the bar, and told him next one,
it touches her los. You know, it's pretty simple.

Speaker 2 (08:17):
Well, the thing was is, like I've said, I told
this there a thousand times, so bear with me, guys.
That if you've heard this a thousand times. I wore
I had made this Celtic cloaks at his big hood,
and you know, I wore that so you couldn't see
me because we had to walk through a vanilla bar
to get to the back room where the swinger party
was going on. So that was a little uncomfortable right there.

Speaker 4 (08:38):
That's that's different.

Speaker 2 (08:40):
Well, yeah, it was an interesting It was interesting.

Speaker 4 (08:44):
Clubs and stuff. Clubs, No, no, we just we just
do this kind of thing, like when we meet with
somebody or a couple. That's it. We don't go out
to clubs.

Speaker 2 (08:53):
It's just been not a good experience. Well, then we
just finish this story. Because when I took the cloak
golf and I, like said, I was only wearing the paint, okay,
paint all over my body, a little Demi bron, a
tiny little song and red boots, and of course I
had to have horns and my.

Speaker 4 (09:08):
Contact so I was the devil and devil wings.

Speaker 2 (09:10):
And devil wings which I had to put on when
I got into the club. And as soon as I
took the cloak off, it was a proverbial, you know,
needle on the record stopped and they looked at me,
and I was like.

Speaker 4 (09:23):
Oh, the club was full of heavy set women, which
I don't have a problem with, but they all thought
they all came as a Catholic schoolgirl.

Speaker 2 (09:32):
There had to be twenty it's overweight, got.

Speaker 4 (09:34):
The standard costume everybody wears. I was like, oh, my right,
just like it.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
So I was since my boobs were hanging out, people
were going up to me like this, yeah, and like no,
they didn't have arthritis in their hands. They were like
trying to grab my boobs. It was. It was really uncomfortable.
It was really uncomfortable.

Speaker 4 (09:56):
There was no respect.

Speaker 5 (09:57):
Yeah, I wonder how to Usually is like you know,
like I watch from a distance, like I'm not the
type that I really like launching, Like I'm kind of shot.
Like when I go to parties and stuff like that,
I'm kind of shy and I just chill in the
back or whatever and watch. But I will go like
if I see somebody that I that I like it,
that I want, I will go after them. But I'm

(10:20):
not too aggressive and things like that because you never know,
like with certain women, they like you to take them,
and then some women are like, you know, just like chill, like.

Speaker 4 (10:29):
Today's man that doesn't ye know, yeah, yeah for sure
for your trouble man, for sure. For sure off being
just like your respectful yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

Speaker 5 (10:38):
I usually keep that in mind that it is just crazy,
you know, even with this and just like making content
and things like that, I'm usually like, like I tell
the women, like not tell them, but like if there's
something or anything like that, let me know. I usually
don't have any issues or anything like that, but like
even just on Twitter and social media and things like that,
if there's some back, like if there's any type of anything.

Speaker 4 (10:58):
I'm just I let it all out, like, look, this
is what it is.

Speaker 3 (11:01):
Like.

Speaker 4 (11:01):
No, no, we're not doing any of that. You know.
You know you were commenting on my photography you saw
on the site and all that. I've shot over a
thousand models over the years. You know, when I was
doing photography and one model can ever tell you I
did something that I shouldn't have done. I didn't. I
didn't touch models during the shoot. No, it was just
very respectful. It's like, okay, let's get the work, let's

(11:23):
get the photos and stuff done, you know. And then
there was times like after the photo shooting, the models
would approach me. I would approach them.

Speaker 2 (11:31):
Yeah, and you were you were like molested at one time,
poor little thing. I'm still in therapy.

Speaker 4 (11:39):
I photographed two women and you know, they were doing pictures.
You know, I shot them in a hotel style and
uh so I started packing up my equipment. Where are
you going? So going home? They're like, no, you threw
me down on the bed. They both raped me. Not
the R word.

Speaker 7 (11:58):
We just talked about this will rate okay, Yeah, they
took advantage of. It was all about that.

Speaker 4 (12:10):
There you go. That's the words. That's the word about that.
Poor innocent lamb Oh how I suffer from. It's going
to be a lot of therapy, Like you said, yea therapist.
My god, can you imagine.

Speaker 5 (12:27):
I'm pretty sure a lot of people, a lot of
guys would be like hell yeah, hell, hell yeah. I've
told I've told this story.

Speaker 4 (12:36):
If you tell shirt coming there. I used to work
part time at this one cigar shop and my boss
was a it was on the lifestyle page to his
wife wasn't, but he was. I'll just leave it at that.
He would see like after the parties we had, like
he could see different profiles would show up with like

(12:56):
he could tell it was my photography. And he sit
there and go did you shoot her?

Speaker 2 (13:00):
Said?

Speaker 4 (13:00):
Yeah, did you have sex with her? Maybe? Then so
one day he goes, how many times have you had
two women at once? I don't know, eight times maybe,
and he's like parties. I said, I said, how many
times have you had wait? Wait wait wait wait, go back?
What did he say? He first he goes, fuck you,

(13:23):
and then he goes, I said, well, how many women?
How many times have you had two women at once?
He goes eight times? Less than you get the funk
out of my office. Yeah, that's funny the way you
said it the first time, like.

Speaker 5 (13:36):
Fuck you, that's not because that was that was so
like I felt it, like, yeah, he was totally pissed,
like this guy.

Speaker 4 (13:42):
Yeah, well he's looking at me, not that he's being
in shape, but yeah, they always like you fat ugly bastard.
You know where they see me with her, not you.
How the fun did you get that? Exactly? Like, yeah,
my lens is that long?

Speaker 2 (14:04):
Oh my god? Yeah. So we've had some interesting uh yeah.

Speaker 4 (14:10):
They started the podcast just to share the experiences, yeah,
and and talk to other people like what your experiences
and stuff. So but uh, you know's.

Speaker 5 (14:19):
There's definitely something cool like giving a different introspect on it,
just because like some people have different views, you know,
they have the views about everything. That's just like from
period in general. You have your view about this and
that whatever, and of course this thing is kind of
like I guess you could say, not frowned.

Speaker 4 (14:37):
Upon, but frowned upon like even more accepted though. Yeah,
yeah that's what. But that's what I was going to
get into.

Speaker 5 (14:41):
So like it used to be like something like, oh
my god, like you're just having sex multiple sex partners
and d D whatever.

Speaker 4 (14:50):
That way, but it's not. Yeah, it's not always like that.

Speaker 5 (14:52):
Sometimes people are just together doing stuff like this, and
it's just like the understanding and things like that that you.

Speaker 2 (15:00):
Like minded people.

Speaker 4 (15:01):
Yeah, yeah, yeah exactly.

Speaker 2 (15:02):
People on the lifestyle.

Speaker 4 (15:04):
Dirty jokes to normal people.

Speaker 2 (15:05):
They can offended, show you your photography and there'd be
a nude in there. Oh this is pornography. Now it's not.
She's she's a nude. Did you ever yeah, the Sistine Trap?
Did you ever look at the ceiling all these little
naked cherubs and stuff? Was that pornography too? Oh?

Speaker 5 (15:22):
Okay, like this right here, like look, I don't know
why she's wearing that dress at all, but like I'm
totally just.

Speaker 2 (15:30):
Like you know, just like, oh, you're wearing slim is A.

Speaker 4 (15:36):
Took a shower before when he got here, got a
show so nice and clean? Yeah clean? How do you
know that? For a fact?

Speaker 2 (15:43):
I do. I had to make sure that his his
penis was clean, so I had to taste it. I'm
saving it. I only did a little bit.

Speaker 4 (15:56):
Because did you get away? She said that, m m m, Well,
are you looking to finish your inspection or I what then?

Speaker 2 (16:08):
Do you want me to finish my inspection? Or do
we have another topic to go to we're.

Speaker 4 (16:12):
Just talking about. I have one question. I have one
question for I'm not gonna name where he lives, but
he lives in the resource area. Safe to say, uh,
area we live, I'm not or anything else? No, No,
but let's say let's say he lives. He lives in

(16:34):
an area. Are do you find people that come to
your area and lifestyle will look you up?

Speaker 8 (16:41):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (16:42):
Like on the Springer site that looked me up.

Speaker 2 (16:45):
Uh.

Speaker 5 (16:46):
I wouldn't say no, no, just because like on the
site there's like you know, there's certifications and things like
that I don't have any certain people don't give out that.

Speaker 4 (16:55):
I don't really care. You don't have one, you have one,
you have one than tomorrow.

Speaker 5 (17:00):
But I had I had like a previous account, and
that one had certain things like that, and then I
kind of like I took a break from being in
the lifestyle and like you know, and then so I
deleted that account, but then I came back. So, but
people don't give a certain anymore, I guess so, and
I don't really and I don't really like press for him,

(17:21):
Like I'm not like, hey, can you guys certain me.

Speaker 4 (17:23):
I'm just like, you know whatever. We don't ask for them,
we get them. But I try to give him with
everyone because it gives you credibility that shows you're real.

Speaker 2 (17:33):
You're not you know, yeah you were, you showed up
on time.

Speaker 4 (17:38):
We don't share what we do know. See that gentleman,
you know, if you look at that, a single gentleman
to your rotation, you should really check him out. He's
a great guy, you know.

Speaker 2 (17:48):
These kind of things.

Speaker 5 (17:49):
Yea, yeah, that's usually the the CERTs are there like
something like that, or some people do going through DT.

Speaker 4 (17:56):
Some people like it's another business. What we did or
didn't do?

Speaker 2 (18:00):
What if we just went out to dinner. You know,
there's still a real person just because you didn't play this.

Speaker 4 (18:04):
And she she's the way she eats dinner.

Speaker 2 (18:06):
You just see how she eats that sauce.

Speaker 4 (18:13):
She put the whole bread sticking. How she can take
on a banana. She didn't.

Speaker 5 (18:19):
I didn't see her chow, not one tongue.

Speaker 4 (18:27):
You have her name.

Speaker 2 (18:30):
She took that whole hot dog and just slid it
right in her mouth, the whole thing.

Speaker 4 (18:36):
And turned her around, came out the other way. The
idea girls who can do that?

Speaker 2 (18:44):
I don't wounds.

Speaker 4 (18:45):
It's like the sword swallowing tricks.

Speaker 2 (18:48):
I can't relax that much, is it you?

Speaker 4 (18:54):
She knows some things she had She has a nursing degree.
She's a wealth of useless information mostly used. Wait wait
wait wait, definitely not useless. That is health. What are
you talking about? You and I would just say, loosened
up their throat. Yeah, I got shot for that.

Speaker 2 (19:15):
He always does that. Theer is a little flapping flakes.

Speaker 4 (19:20):
Glasses point to, point to, point to, breaking up. That's
what I'm saying. Look with the grease.

Speaker 2 (19:36):
Great. Thanks. You guys are just all heart, you're all heart.

Speaker 4 (19:40):
Give you a quick flashback. You've got to put you
in the suit you're going to put.

Speaker 2 (19:46):
That probably would have been one of the little Yeah,
we used to do spooks when we were first creating content.
There was one. Of course, you always see the whole
you know, sex therapist and patient.

Speaker 4 (19:57):
That was you.

Speaker 2 (19:57):
They were corny with they were fun.

Speaker 4 (19:59):
There are a lot of fun people are so interested that.

Speaker 2 (20:01):
Oh yeah, the most fun one. There was a guy
he really got into his role. Remember I was a
senator and he created Vince created digitally, like all the
microphones in front of me and you know, and my plane.

Speaker 4 (20:14):
And had the capital behind. She was caught fucking one
of the senators. So she was like giving a press conference,
and what it did is the video of her fucking guy.
It was like a picture and a picture. Yeah, so
here's the picture. She it's a picture of her like
fucking this guy who was supposedly the senator. But she's
for of these microphones, all dressed in a business suit. No,

(20:36):
I did not have sex with this guy.

Speaker 2 (20:38):
And then she's like it's.

Speaker 4 (20:41):
On the monitory. Yeah, yeah I did fuck them.

Speaker 2 (20:45):
I was like, you know what, I like sex?

Speaker 3 (20:50):
He was.

Speaker 4 (20:52):
Well. We actually when we started out, we had our
concept was confessions. That was our thing. So I actually
built a church confessional and I had like a glory
adult door into this. You guys built were just out
of that. She folded up, doesn't matter what build.

Speaker 2 (21:13):
Out a folding thing. It was on the whole screen
and so you.

Speaker 4 (21:17):
Could see, yeah, see her a little bit, but like
that she'd be confessing and we would like again, picture
and picture of her fucking somebody and talking about, oh
I I fooled around with my brother in law. But
then sometimes it would happen, is like all of a sudden,
like the priests like also, a little door would open,
the cock would come through. So she went up blowing there.

Speaker 2 (21:41):
Oh yeah, we're going to hell for sure.

Speaker 4 (21:42):
That is creative.

Speaker 2 (21:43):
It is fun. That was a lot of fun.

Speaker 4 (21:46):
Wow, I have to check that out.

Speaker 2 (21:48):
I don't think Confession of the Flesh I.

Speaker 4 (21:50):
Have it out. No, I have some some moll files somewhere.
My god, that had to be was ten eighty. Back
then it was like yeah, it was like seven twenty.
It was.

Speaker 2 (22:00):
It was pretty awful quality. It was pretty awful, but
it was fun and we had we had a pew
that we found on the side of the road.

Speaker 4 (22:08):
We remember somebody was throwing away a church people ten
feet long, it was huge. Cut it in half and yeah,
it was just like there, it.

Speaker 2 (22:14):
Was right there in the trash. We got to have
that pew. That's that's blasphemy. We gotta do that. We
formed this digital background and it was like me and
some guy in the back of the church. We played
like some guy some.

Speaker 4 (22:28):
Monk music.

Speaker 2 (22:29):
Well yeah that and we had we had a guy
given a sermon and it's me and my playmate in
the back of this quote church fucking and that that
was pretty Yeah, we're going hell totally put that out.

Speaker 5 (22:42):
That is something that people would totally be like, yeah,
I'm buying it.

Speaker 4 (22:46):
You know what I mean? Like that is that is
good quality. We had a content. I had a studio
back then, so we don't have that. I had thirty
two under scare even.

Speaker 5 (22:53):
Like you still you still have the content like the
video or you think you have it somewhere.

Speaker 4 (22:57):
Yeah, people are still.

Speaker 2 (22:59):
It's terrible quality.

Speaker 5 (23:01):
People will compare it to because okay, when you watch
when you watch porn, because everybody watches porn, right, when
when you watch porn most of the time you're skipping
past that stuff.

Speaker 4 (23:12):
But it sounds like you're mixing.

Speaker 5 (23:14):
It in nicely to where like oh yeah, and it's
not something that you're just like all right, fast forward come,
but there we go, there we go. All right, it
sounds like you guys are mashing it right. Speaking of potatoes.
Sounds like you're mashing it right. And that's that's good
quality content that I think people will.

Speaker 4 (23:34):
Well, actually, we're supposed to meet a couple today that
wants to start generating content and uh, they couldn't make
it today because he had nasal surgery and had some issues.
But whatever. And he was talking to me the other
day on the phone, like because they do webcams, but
they haven't done content, so they're just they're getting ready

(23:54):
to explore content. And he's like, well, what kind of
themes do we do? I said, the days of themes
are over? Yeah, you just funck now, because that's people
don't just fast forward the theme now. It's a matter
of if you just come up with a good title. Yea,
the title is your theme, you know something that it's
something like if you and Donna do a video, you know,

(24:15):
it would be like, oh, you know, having fun with
a guy half my age kind of a thing or whatever.
You know those things well yea, yeah, I can't think offhand.

Speaker 5 (24:25):
I usually come up with some good ones, like like
I had one, uh, let me think here, let me think.

Speaker 4 (24:29):
I'm trying to think of one of the one of
the titles for minds. All right, I am drolling blink right,
But like you know, I know, but if you basically
put the uh scenario in the title, oh, like hold,
I got.

Speaker 5 (24:46):
Now clicks, they're gonna look at me and they're gonna
know why exactly I just had their brain for it,
you guys know. Okay, But like I had one called
Slim Gets Lucky, and it was basically like the concept,
like a quickly concept was like something that you will
think of like most which is crazy. R You're like, okay,
we don't we fast forward those those scenes. But that

(25:08):
is what when you when you see a woman or
or whatever you're into, a man or whatever you're into,
when you see that in that moment, like say at
the grocery store you're checking that, you're like, damn that
mom is hot.

Speaker 4 (25:20):
That's a hot hour of yeah, yeah, yeah, you know.

Speaker 5 (25:22):
Things like that are incidents like that, but we fast
forward them in the scene. I think you're not being
filmed right or they're not being presented right, because there
was one I did, like Slim gets Lucky, and it's
kind of like she the co star. She's walking to
her room, to the hotel room, and I'm kind of
like the guy just like exactly like just checking her out.

(25:43):
And I'm thinking, like, you know, in that moment, you're
thinking in your head like what if she turns around,
it just says, come here, yeah, like I see you
checking me out, Like come here, like let me see
what you could do.

Speaker 4 (25:54):
And that's what she does in the thing. So Slim
gets Lucky.

Speaker 5 (25:57):
So she's walking and I'm also walking to my room
and I see her like damn hell yeah. So I'm
just like checking her out, and every time she turns around,
I like like I'm not checking her out, like just
like cool.

Speaker 4 (26:10):
Yeah, if that was my porn movie, if I was
in it, right, she goes, I'm gonna see what you
can do. I go back to her room. She goes,
can you paint that wall the drain in the in
the bathroom? And let me tell you something.

Speaker 5 (26:25):
I had a moment like that, but it wasn't so
much like it was. It was that was what the
plan was, was to have sex, you.

Speaker 4 (26:33):
Know what I mean, like in the moment.

Speaker 5 (26:34):
But I went to go see this girl and she
was just like, you know, like she we had been
flirting or whatever or whatever on the and thenet and
then I get to her, get to her, and she's
just like, can you help me put this painting up?
And I'm just like looking around, like you have roommates,
Like what the fuck?

Speaker 4 (26:49):
No? Like I want to say no, like you know,
because like I'm looking, you are tall, you are tall.

Speaker 5 (26:56):
But then I don't wear her and I'm just like
she did ask all righty fuck it, I'll do it,
Like but you have roommates, what did you.

Speaker 4 (27:02):
Okay, now the painting is up, I'm gonna paint you.
Yeah yeah yeah.

Speaker 5 (27:07):
Her no, no, just hung up the paint and we
kicked it smoked and she was like.

Speaker 2 (27:14):
Yeah, maybe over to my place. Yeah yeah, artwork just
like this, and then you come in there like, oh,
don't you do this? You put the top on? Can
you put that painting up there?

Speaker 5 (27:26):
The funny thing about it is that she's a painter, right,
so it was her it was her. She's a painter,
and she her painting like her. Her profile picture is
a picture like a self portrait like of her. So
I used to always ask her like is that the real thing?

Speaker 4 (27:41):
Like is that?

Speaker 5 (27:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (27:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (27:43):
She's always be like stop like joking, like stop, you know,
and then eventually she was like, just come on over,
not like not like that, like actually actually she she
we we had met somewhere else. We had met somewhere else,
and it kind of just like whatever, and then fast
forward out in like I was in New York. I
was in New York and then I just hit her

(28:03):
up like yo, I'm in your city, was up and
then she's all right, come come buy whatever.

Speaker 4 (28:08):
So I came by.

Speaker 5 (28:08):
But like this is like one of those moments where
we talked about where like the woman sometimes wants you
to take her, but.

Speaker 4 (28:16):
I'm just like, like you said, times are different. No no, no,
no no no, I'm throwing hits. So what's your bed?
Do you want to show me something? If this format
what you want to do? Okay, here's oral. You can
check oral. If you want to give a receiver bro

(28:37):
with you.

Speaker 2 (28:38):
Here, check that check.

Speaker 4 (28:39):
Okay, we're going, We're going to have intercourse. Do you
want to do doggy missionary? Ready? What you know? Please
sign this? And can you invite someone over to witness
drop some blood if you want me to do you
have a note from your mom.

Speaker 5 (28:57):
And that's kind of why I like with the women,
Like it's no like nobody has time for like trying
to figure out what is actually going on. Like even
when young like girls my age are like younger girls
come into like the swing parties and things like that,
it's like you have to really fill them out.

Speaker 4 (29:12):
And you're like, I came here to have sex.

Speaker 5 (29:17):
I don't have time not not not not that I
you know what I mean, Like I don't have time
to really be like you know, because that that woman
over there might really be eyeing me. She wants to
you know, she wants me there, and you are still
shy and breaking.

Speaker 4 (29:32):
In, which is understandable.

Speaker 5 (29:33):
It's cool, you know like that, But like most time
guys are coming here, you know why they're coming here.

Speaker 4 (29:39):
You're not a swinger because you like to play checkers, Yeah, exactly,
like you know, just just cheers. So you want you
could go on Facebook, right, like Facebook, and guys can
like just hang out on like but not. It's not
that it has to always be sex, but it's just
like that's a different speed. But don't get in someone's
way that wants to have sex. Yeah, that's kind of

(30:01):
like they're just going to meet friends. There's nothing wrong
with that, but get the funk out of my way.
I'm trying to go. I got some sperm to get
rid of.

Speaker 5 (30:09):
But usually, and the thing is, it's usually like, Okay,
I'm a younger dude, so like I'm I have a
lot of energy.

Speaker 4 (30:16):
I'm just like, let's like, let's go. I'll take I'll
take you.

Speaker 9 (30:20):
All on everybody, you know, Like yeah, I'm like.

Speaker 2 (30:28):
Yeah that and you know, vitamin B twelve.

Speaker 4 (30:31):
Yeah, there's some there's some tricks where I think they're
starting to figure.

Speaker 2 (30:34):
It out though, I mean like with the parties though,
I mean the parties, we've always gone to their I mean,
of course, no means now, of course that does make sense.
But usually everybody there is on the same page, and
there always are couples there. They just want to play
with themselves, you know, they just want to check everything out,

(30:54):
and then they're new they're just trying to see if.

Speaker 4 (30:58):
It's even somebody even someone like the Vets'. They're kind
of like just like couples, only they might not yea, no, honestly,
might not see somebody that trips a trigger man guy
will play together, you know, or hey, the wife might
see someone she's interested in, but they might have the
rule like, well, lets a husband find somebody we knew,
we don't do it. That's respectable. It's different.

Speaker 2 (31:18):
Everybody has their own rules, that's for sure, exactly.

Speaker 5 (31:21):
That's what makes it interesting. And like like we were saying,
like I was saying earlier, even it's not always just sex,
like you still got to talk and engage with the
people and things like that.

Speaker 4 (31:30):
It's not like just like.

Speaker 5 (31:32):
Yo, hey sometimes like that, but sometimes like it's good
to talk and get acquainted at least, you know what
I mean, Like get familiar and have a little bit
of like a feel.

Speaker 2 (31:42):
Like you have to have some kind of dynamic going
on between you know.

Speaker 4 (31:47):
People, you don't really generate to fund someone that discussed
you or man, I did that for seven years.

Speaker 10 (31:55):
My first going to go there gonna say with me,
Oh yeah, I'll talk about that on the Hot Husband podcast.

Speaker 5 (32:10):
You're gonna you're gonna have a lot of like husbands
that are like definitely tuned in for that.

Speaker 4 (32:13):
Like abute, let me call in because I got to
give some ship off Chester.

Speaker 2 (32:19):
Yeah, he has a hot husband. He has a trophy
husband T shirt. The trophy I did not get it
for him. Actually another woman got it for him.

Speaker 4 (32:28):
Oh yeah, that is I know, I know, that's like
two awards.

Speaker 2 (32:35):
It is like two awards.

Speaker 4 (32:37):
Well then because one of her playmates had seen that
I had that shirt, that he went out and bought
her a trophy wife one.

Speaker 2 (32:45):
Okay, okay, really is that why he did that?

Speaker 4 (32:49):
Yeah, he came here one time, was hanging out with us,
and I was wearing a shirt this mosquito. Uh. And
then so next time he stopped by.

Speaker 2 (32:59):
Actually I got to different style T shirts as a
that's a trophy wife trophied up.

Speaker 4 (33:08):
Yeah a little bit.

Speaker 2 (33:13):
But anyway, so I have a question, Slim, So I understand.
I mean, for us, the progression into swinging and creating
content was pretty seamless. I mean it just seemed to
make sense. We've always videotaped stuff from day one, so
did still it's still sure, but we've always documented the

(33:33):
playtime because there's always a rotic to us and going
back and reminiscing and looking over the video that kind
of stuff. So just taking the next step and putting
it on a platform to monetize it just seemed to
be the natural progression. But how did you get into it?

Speaker 4 (33:49):
Uh?

Speaker 5 (33:51):
I kind of just said fuck it. I don't know, yeah,
like I kind of just fucking like I said, I'm shy,
so like and then I like I think a lot,
so like just my brain wanders. So I'll be like,
I'm pretty sure it happens with everybody, Like you don't
want to actually you don't want to be seen. You're like,
I don't care, but at the time, I don't want
to be seen. That's what you hear a lot from

(34:11):
like some.

Speaker 2 (34:11):
People somebody might recognize me, yeah.

Speaker 5 (34:14):
Or like work or like family and things like that,
and you're just like, no, that's just like chill and
like still have our fun type thing. So like recording, Yeah,
I think I just said fuck it. Like at some point,
because I was recording, I had recorded with somebody like
a female bodybuilder. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, she's kind of

(34:39):
she has.

Speaker 2 (34:40):
Oh yeah, I don't have I don't have those muscles anymore.

Speaker 5 (34:46):
You're still in good shape and things like that.

Speaker 4 (34:50):
So you still.

Speaker 2 (34:53):
Look he says, I'm still in good shape, not like you.
He makes fun of my body. He was your bug.

Speaker 4 (34:59):
Used to be dude. She had girl, she's had a
black girl. But you could set your beer on around.
Yeah you're sucking her from behind. You put your beer
on there.

Speaker 2 (35:12):
Yeah he didn't once. It was really no respect.

Speaker 4 (35:15):
Was just here in the back back there. Don't you
go to anally back then? She just clamp down, rip
it out by its roots. You tell your she got
he got a funding for you. Just pull But yeah, no, uh,

(35:36):
that's what happened. And I like, hit my face.

Speaker 5 (35:39):
That's what usually happens, you know, like you'll do it
your record or whatever, but you hold your face like.

Speaker 4 (35:46):
Fairness. Most of the time, people don't really care about
the man's face.

Speaker 2 (35:49):
Yeah, they care about what's happening below the belt.

Speaker 5 (35:52):
What the woman is doing with his Yeah, not only
that they like I don't know if people know, but
like also if the guy isn't good, it makes the
scene like this guy sucks.

Speaker 4 (36:07):
Why why isn't he Why didn't he do this? Why
isn't he doing this? Why what new guy? Come on?
So it's like both.

Speaker 11 (36:15):
It has to be yeah, yeah, yeah, you come here bullpen,
that's pretty good.

Speaker 4 (36:26):
Yeah I'm sitting down if I'm standing, are gotten busy?

Speaker 5 (36:30):
Like but yeah, so that's that's pretty much what happened.

Speaker 4 (36:34):
I just was like, it's just your main source income.
Uh no, I just do this for like for fun.
I just like doing it. It's fun. It's fun. You
get the in my in my aspect of it.

Speaker 5 (36:46):
You get to travel, right, you get to travel when
if you if you go to different places, if you
go to like uh events and things like that, you
get to travel. You get to when you travel, you
get to explore, try different things whatever.

Speaker 4 (36:58):
Uh. Women of course, like yeah, that's all you want
to count that. It's a bonus.

Speaker 9 (37:06):
I mean, I mean like, okay, you know your your
balls would definitely be like hell yeah, sided me up.
That guy he's rushing through like he's breaking through the ship,
Like hell yeah, like what.

Speaker 4 (37:17):
He's gotten so fat? He can't tell you if he
has a dick or what. I don't even think he
knows what choo if you choose on.

Speaker 2 (37:25):
The thing was like back in the day, you're like, hey,
you don't want to hook you up with him? He'll
make his whole day.

Speaker 4 (37:29):
I'm like, well, back then he was skinnier.

Speaker 2 (37:31):
Skinnier, skinnier now I think.

Speaker 4 (37:34):
Now it's tied under him during a rain storm. He
suffers from dunlop disease.

Speaker 2 (37:49):
Belly dunlop over his belt yea, or uh well, what's
the other one, dicky do his belly stick out more
than his dicky do.

Speaker 4 (38:00):
I've never heard that.

Speaker 2 (38:06):
Again, we're useless information.

Speaker 4 (38:10):
But yeah, then after that, like just like.

Speaker 5 (38:15):
Selling it, it's fun.

Speaker 4 (38:17):
Like I said, is that is that the money?

Speaker 5 (38:21):
You know, if you it could be a lot more,
you know, if you promote it right, if you go
crazy with it too, you know, and things like that,
if you if you do it right. I'm kind of like, chill,
I haven't got I really haven't broken past that. This
is what I really want to do one hundred percent,
you know what I mean. Like there's some people that

(38:42):
are one hundred percent locked and like, this is what
I'm doing. We're filming all the time, boom back.

Speaker 4 (38:47):
This is you know what I mean? And it is
that it's the main source of income if you're self employed,
if you're on a bakery. You got to live it, man,
you got to work that day you can make money.

Speaker 6 (38:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (38:57):
If you're doing content, you have to work it.

Speaker 3 (38:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (38:59):
Yeah, either if you're looking to depends what you're looking for.
You're looking for, you know, spare money by groceries before
you're looking to live a lavish life, you know what
I mean.

Speaker 5 (39:09):
It's all about different Like you said, it's all about
what was just seeking out of me. I just I'm
really just having fun, just like it's fun, like it's tough,
beautiful women.

Speaker 2 (39:21):
I just I feel so tired. Yeh.

Speaker 4 (39:23):
It checks everything off of me. Like I said, just
like travel explore women, I get paid for a.

Speaker 2 (39:30):
Couple of dollars. I mean, I mean for us, it
was not the same thing.

Speaker 4 (39:34):
We didn't put women in there. I think.

Speaker 2 (39:37):
I think you did right.

Speaker 4 (39:38):
I think I think when he overlooked was women. Don't
forget to put women in there for sure? For sure
somewhere you know, it's it's a small fact. Might be
number ten there.

Speaker 2 (39:52):
Maybe maybe I mean for us to I since I'll
do some of the editing, I always find like, of
course I've said this a thousand times on this podcast.
It's I find it very erotic, you know what I'm
saying slim. It's like, you know, I was. There's one
I particularly like where I'm doing a reverse cowgirl on
a guy and he's a black gentleman with a rather

(40:16):
needy nice cock, and I'm writing him like reverse cowgirl.
I'm like, oh yeah, that was that was nice. Hello,
he's got some long fingers. Oh hold on, oh oh am,

(40:40):
I allowed to suck on him. I just give a
little suck up there. It wasn't a big sucking a slim.
I was just a little suck.

Speaker 4 (40:49):
Well did I have an argument when you told me that?

Speaker 2 (40:51):
No?

Speaker 4 (40:52):
And why I argue?

Speaker 5 (40:53):
Now?

Speaker 4 (40:54):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (40:54):
Good point.

Speaker 4 (40:55):
This is this is a podcast. We are videotapic. But
you know, but the people who are listening to the
podcast until we put the video up, Yeah, you're gonna
have to describe.

Speaker 5 (41:05):
Do some ASMR. You think the mic can pick it up. Well, well,
let me let me let me say this. It is
almost like fellas. That is almost like air. You guys
know that feelings like air. Okay, like she told you
she did a little bit upstairs. When I out, it's
like airs like So you might not hear anything, but

(41:25):
you're definitely going to fill it and you're going to
be like, yes, like a nice breeze is just constantly hit.

Speaker 2 (41:31):
It's just like I didn't want to. I didn't want to,
you know, give away the farm up there. I just
want to give a little tease because I want to
save the meat, you know, the good stuff for for here.
So makes more sense.

Speaker 4 (41:44):
So this is the audition before we actually go shoot
some content.

Speaker 2 (41:47):
Yeah, that's what this is. You're okay with that? Ye me?
If your mic just a scooch, you'll move mine out
like you're just a little bit. I still, I still
want to be able to give up. You're going to stand,
I think, so stands right up here.

Speaker 8 (42:02):
I'll sit so we can still stay on the green
screen in your Oh there, come closer, and I start
can do some slashing. A nice cock, you.

Speaker 4 (42:19):
Hat words never said to me.

Speaker 2 (42:25):
It curves to the left dramatically. That's unusual. Is it
a hard turn? For sure? You know this is really
good if you're like doing a scissor thing, because the
cock kind of goes in this direction.

Speaker 4 (42:40):
Anyway, woman has my dick in her mouth at hand.
The last word I want to hear is scissor. You know, Lorena, Bob,
it comes to mind. It's so good. I'm totally yeah,
I got your cover. Due she goes through something sharp,
I'll take her down.

Speaker 2 (43:01):
Sharp. Mm hmm. What's a nice cock to suck on?
Mm hmm.

Speaker 4 (43:10):
Why don't you share with women what you're experiencing?

Speaker 2 (43:13):
Okay, it fills up my mouth quite a bit.

Speaker 8 (43:19):
Cow hm.

Speaker 2 (43:21):
It's just a right length that I can fit into
my mouth, you know. There it's it doesn't all fit
in because it's a little longer than what my mouth
can handle. But that's okay. Mm hmm.

Speaker 12 (43:33):
You like to try those limits, I can try. Here's
what I like to do. Oh, she's just gonna go
so I usually guide it in. So let's say, mm hmm.
Now you got to swallow?

Speaker 4 (43:53):
Yeah, going down there, you.

Speaker 2 (43:56):
Would pass apt my eyes watering.

Speaker 4 (44:02):
Of bause. Gotta be careful, you're gonna use that kind
of Dirney talk.

Speaker 2 (44:08):
Mm hmmm, mm hmm.

Speaker 4 (44:21):
Careful. You have our dinner all over.

Speaker 2 (44:22):
You that has happened, that has happened before.

Speaker 4 (44:28):
I have that on video too. Yeah I know, but
that was breakfast. Yeah, we went and we had gone
to breakfast before that one. Shoot mm hmm, yeah, mm hmm.
Let me tell you what can everybody hear him that

(44:48):
might crank up. Years ago.

Speaker 13 (44:51):
Dread that he definitely had a nice drink water. It
was not dry mouthing. It's just it feels like you
buy right in here.

Speaker 4 (45:03):
Oh mm hmm oh oh mm hmmm.

Speaker 2 (45:14):
Mm hmm. You have to have a lot of saliva
that like really slides in your mouth and down.

Speaker 4 (45:19):
Your throat a little bit.

Speaker 2 (45:21):
Mm hmmm.

Speaker 4 (45:31):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (45:32):
I can watch out on dinner.

Speaker 4 (45:36):
That ruins a sexy mood.

Speaker 2 (45:46):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 4 (45:48):
Tears in your eyes.

Speaker 2 (45:51):
Some deep throating.

Speaker 4 (45:54):
Will be the first time.

Speaker 2 (46:06):
Mm hm m hm.

Speaker 4 (46:11):
H h.

Speaker 2 (46:24):
M hm hm. I can hear reesla. It's like a lollipop.

Speaker 6 (46:35):
Mmm.

Speaker 4 (46:38):
Would be an all day sucker there.

Speaker 2 (46:39):
That's a definitely an all day sucker. M m hm hm.
Oh yeah, give me that cock mm hmmm mm hm
m hmmm.

Speaker 4 (47:12):
So how what are you getting while you're doing that?

Speaker 2 (47:16):
I'm getting there. I'm concentrating on him, so I'm thinking
about myself.

Speaker 4 (47:21):
You can take the headphones off if you want, okay,
mm hmm, wow, oh yeah, you don't have to always.
We just don't want to have too much dead air,

(47:41):
too much dead air.

Speaker 2 (47:45):
Well, do you want to we just wrap this up,
wrap this up.

Speaker 4 (47:47):
And then all right, so again, everybody check out, uh
you know, obviously wait a.

Speaker 2 (47:53):
Minute, sit down so you can tell everybody Higgins.

Speaker 4 (47:58):
Check out Donna stuff at Hot Wife donald in dot com,
check out our free magazine at fifty Shades of Pleasure
dot com, and swim stuff is.

Speaker 2 (48:07):
Hold on, get your microphone over here, buddy, I'm just
like all in the mode now.

Speaker 5 (48:13):
Figure it is slim underscore diggings too on Twitter, Slim
slim underscore diggings on m VY, and slim underscored diggings.

Speaker 4 (48:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (48:27):
MVY will be many bids, but most of the Times's
underscored slim underscored diggings. You pretty much found me almost
anywhere that you're looking to be naughty, and.

Speaker 2 (48:36):
Then you'll definitely see him on my feet of course.

Speaker 4 (48:39):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely, I feel like what he does
with Donna. You definitely got to go check out his
stuff and see some of these other women that he's
had a pleasure wild.

Speaker 5 (48:49):
Yeah, definitely definitely check it out. Pull up, uh, you know,
right now, right now, pull out your phones right now,
right now, right now, right now, while we're loft just.

Speaker 4 (48:59):
So all right again, so check us out this Thursday
be the next show. We'll come out and hopefully have
a good week, so stay horny.

Speaker 2 (49:08):
Have a great night everybody.

Speaker 4 (49:09):
Good night, nice meeting you.
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I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

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