July 16, 2025 • 43 mins
Susanne Seymour and Heidi Barr died tragic deaths as children, and Dr Mary Neal drowned. However, they never experienced fear, panic, or the suffering their loved ones imagined they had. They all were rescued and removed from the scene before the suffering began, and instead felt safe and loved in the arms of Jesus. In this video, they share powerful words of comfort and hope for the parents and families grieving the loss of their children and loved ones from the July 4, 2025, Texas Floods.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Well, I'm John Burke, and today my wife Kathy and
I wanted to do a special Imagine Heaven podcast in
response to the tragic flooding that has happened all around
us here in Austin over the last ten days. Here
in Texas, one hundred and thirty two people so far
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have lost their lives as floodwaters rose about twenty five
feet and forty five minutes. There's still about one hundred
and seventy people missing, and so the death toll is
probably around three hundred people.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
And what was the most difficult.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
To hear about were the thirty six children who died
in the floods, including twenty seven little eight nine year
old girls who were in cabins down by the Guadalupe
River at Camp Mystick.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
There's really no words that feel adequate or appropriate to
say with so much to grief. We know that parents
and families and friends of these loved ones are feeling
right now, but we just wanted to do what we
could and this video, we really feel like may give
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a little bit of comfort to you during this devastating time.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Yeah, and so we invited three of our friends, three
women who actually clinically died and had near death experiences,
either as children, teens or in a water accident, and
yet they were resuscitated and spoke not of a horrific
tragedy that others were seen take place, but of something
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that many of them called the greatest day of their lives.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
And so I just want to let.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Them tell you just their their name and profession, and
how old you were, and just the circumstance of when
your near death experience happened.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Okay, Hello, my name is Suzanne Seymour. I'm a registered nurse.
I've worked for many years as a registered nurse and
a nursing educator. I was led to this profession actually
by my end, which I had at twelve years old
in a skiing accident.
Speaker 5 (02:22):
Mary, I'm doctor Mary Neil. I am a now retired
orthletic spinal surgeon, and I died when I drowned kayaking
at the age of forty one in South America.
Speaker 6 (02:40):
I'm Heidi Barr. I died at the age of sixteen
in a horseback riding accident. I'm a retired hospice nurse
because it didn't bother me to work with dying people.
In fact, I felt it to be a great calling,
so thank.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
You well, and just to give a short.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Intro to the accident than I'd like to for you
guys to tell what you actually were experiencing. Suzanne was
twelve years old, as she said, skiing in the Pocono's
with her family when her scarf got wrapped in one
of the old ski toe ropes that takes you up
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the mountain, and the toe rope basically dragged her up
toward a gearbox that no human should survive, and her
parents watched, and her grandparents watched in horror, imagining the worst.
But that's not what you were experiencing, was it.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
No. I had a completely different experience than my parents,
And after returning, when I spoke about it, I remember
my mother saying, you know, why are you so elated?
How could this possibly be that you're so joyful and
so elated and you look happier than I've ever seen anyone.
And I was covered in blood. While my parents were
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experiencing their grief and their fears, I had the most beautiful,
glowing presence walk through these trees that were on the
side of me, and I could see this beautiful light
come towards me, and I thought it might be my dad.
It felt like the most loving presence, and I thought, oh,
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my Dad's here to rescue me. Little did I know
that it is my father and he is my savior.
And he approached in a very gentle way, full of light,
and as he came closer and you know, came right toward,
right next to me, he let me know exactly who
he was, that he was Jesus, and that he was
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It was just an instant communication that he knew everything
about me, and I knew everything about him, and I
felt completely safe with meeting him in a moment, and
I felt an incredible I don't know all the words,
but they were all positive words, just joy. And I
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felt elated and I felt excited, and I felt overwhelmed
with all this love that he was surrounding me with
and I accepted him into my heart all that love
immediately it just filled me and we were connected, and
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I knew this love and this light that was around him,
that felt alive, and that felt knowing, and it felt
so real and it was the realest thing I ever knew.
And with that, when I accepted all that, he bent
down and I'm just still excited to this day to
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think of it all. And he embraced me and he
lifted me up and carried me, and I had no worries,
I had no pain. I never saw or felt hitting
that gearbox and I hit it, but I had not,
ever to this day, any memory or vision of hitting it. So,
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you know, all the my grandfather is a very well
known engineer, and everyone they can't imagine that. I wouldn't
have known that. But you know, Jesus just took all
that away, the pain, the memory, the I don't know
if it's a memory, but he was there before or
however he does it is perfect. I don't know how
to explain how he works. It was perfect. And while
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he was carrying me, I remember, you know, there was
he he had some some he was It was lighthearted,
he felt comfortable, he felt relatable, someone that I could
share like. I was kind of worried about my mom
at the bottom of the hill, and I wasn't worried
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about myself, but I was worried about her because she
didn't I didn't know if she knew him the way
I just met him. So I thought, oh my gosh,
how is she gonna How's she going to handle this,
and and he listened, and he was comforting, and I
just knew that everything would be all right. He took
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me in his arms, and along with there were two angels,
and there was there was some humor in the trip.
One of the angels was larger than the other, and
they were making me smile, and they were making me
laugh and giggle, and I felt held and within his love.
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I didn't feel ripped away from my family or my
loved ones. I felt that their love and all the
love I've ever received was carried within me and carried
within him. So I didn't feel any separation from my
family and how you know, my parents or my brother anyone.
I just felt connected to everyone. And now I'm connected
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to someone who's connected to all of us. So it
just felt complete, and I felt like the circle was complete,
and this knowing at a young age became freeing. I
felt almost free because I let go of all the
things that were negative or that were you know, or
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that we're confusing. Everything was clear and I was very
much alive, and he brought me and I didn't think
I would be alive because I saw the accident happening
and I but once I was with Jesus. I felt
very alive and I knew, Wow, life goes on, and
I'm okay, and I'm going to I'm still connected to everyone.
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So with that, he brought me to a beautiful place.
And even in my home now, I have little mementos
like there were purple like a lavender, yellow and white
flowers in a meadow, and there were green rolling hills.
And I think because my focus was so much better,
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because I let go of so much fear and worry
and I had no fear, and I was brave and
strong and clear, and I am happy here. I'm with
the Great. It was the greatest day. And there there,
I was in a beautiful place and I got to
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sit by him and I got to see nature, and
nature became alive. When I see people going through pain
and loss, to know, pain is very hard here, but
it really there. It let me know that we're going
to see each other again. I knew with that experience
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that I was the daughter of a king. I was
his child, and I knew that everyone that he creates
is as unique and special and purposeful and loving and
all those wonderful things. He is our father, and we
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are his and we're all connected and there's absolutely nothing
to fear, absolutely nothing.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Well, and I know, I know you told me that
you were sitting on Jesus's lap at one point and
felt like he was just like this loving dad and
you were his unique kid.
Speaker 4 (10:42):
And I mean I was never uncomfortable for a second.
Even though he was the most powerful, glorious, enormous, more
than I could ever understand, he was able to relate
to me at twelve, you know, a young Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
So I think I think your story brings hope that
God is good and he knows his children and they're
is and he's not. He rescues them and even when
we're grown.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
You know, Mary, doctor Mary Neil.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Was actually kayaking with her husband in Chile when her
kayak went over a fifteen foot drop and the nose
got pinned stuck between two boulders and she was trapped
underwater and dead for thirty minutes and then miraculously resuscitated.
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And Mary told me her greatest fear was actually drowning,
but when it actually happened, it wasn't quite what you feared,
right Mary.
Speaker 5 (11:57):
Right, Yeah, listen, let me just start by saying thank
you very much for doing this this segment of your podcast.
Loss is really really difficult. So I appreciate your doing
this and trying to help those who have suffered this loss.
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And I could talk about many things, but what I
really want to focus on is what people assume happens,
because I get it. When my old son was hit
and killed by a car. You know, my husband and
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many people and my other kids really struggled with continuing
again and again and again to imagine those final moments.
Speaker 7 (12:50):
And it's haunting.
Speaker 5 (12:51):
And I've talked to so many people who are just
haunted by what they imagine those last moments to be.
And so I really want to talk about that because
that's a haunting that is so deep and so profound,
it's so difficult to move beyond. But I have to
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tell you it isn't like that. I'm absolutely convinced that
our soul, our spirit, our being is pulled out of
our body before we experience anything that you might imagine
your child experience. When I drown and I went over
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this waterfall, was pinned underneath eight to ten feet of water,
and for maybe a nanosecond, I felt confusion, but that
was the extent of it. I have spent my entire
life in the water, on the water, surrounded by water.
I am a water person. I swam competitively. I love
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the wa But as John already.
Speaker 7 (14:02):
Said, I had.
Speaker 5 (14:05):
The only fear I have of any kind is I
never wanted to drown. I never had a problem. I
don't know what the origin is, but I knew that
I always thought that drowning would be the most horrific,
terrible way to die. And I am pretty sure that
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many of you who are listening to this podcast have
that same assumption, or perhaps that same fear. And so
I'm a very analytical person. I'm very concrete thinking, and
the irony.
Speaker 7 (14:42):
Was not lost on me. When I was underwater and drowning,
I thought, wow, Okay, well, isn't this a fine way
to go?
Speaker 5 (14:52):
But the reality is this, I never felt a moment
of fear.
Speaker 7 (15:01):
I never felt a moment of panic.
Speaker 5 (15:04):
I never felt a moment of ear, hunger, I never
felt a moment of pain. When the current eventually sucked
my body out of the boat, my legs broke, and
I mean there was a lot of trauma involved. I
even was consciously thinking about the fact that, wow, I
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should be feeling pain. I should be screaming and pain,
but I wasn't. The fact is, after that first truly
a nanosecond or less of confusion, I was immediately overcome
by a very physical sensation of being health and comforted
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and reassured by Jesus that everything was fine. I would
be fine, My husband would be fine, my four little
kids would be fine, regardless of whether I lived died.
And I knew it was Jesus on an absolute knowledge,
and I knew that Jesus would be there holding any
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person who allowed it.
Speaker 7 (16:13):
And I felt like the only analogy.
Speaker 5 (16:19):
I've ever been able to come up with is when
you hold a brand new baby and you're so in
love with that baby, and you're pouring all of your
hopes and dreams and love, and you're very being into
that baby. And I was the baby, and Jesus knew me,
and as Suzanne said, love me purely completely, was very
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fond of me. And I knew that that would be
true of every person. I agree, we are all God's favorite.
We are so unique and so special and so completely
and really loved beyond anything that we can conceive of
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here on earth. And I was still aware of my
physical situation I could feel the pressure of the water,
I could feel the current, I could feel all.
Speaker 7 (17:16):
Of those things. But I was free. I felt so.
Speaker 4 (17:27):
Glorious.
Speaker 5 (17:29):
I never had the experience of feeling alive and then dead.
I didn't feel conscious and then unconscious. I had the
experience of feeling alive and then more alive, conscious, and
then even more conscious, and eventually, I will tell you,
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my legs broken the whole thing. And one would imagine
seeing my broken body that I had suffered, but I
did not. I did not suffer for a moment, and
my spirit was released to what I'm going to call heaven,
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but to God's world. And I was immediately greaded and
welcomed by people who had known me and loved me
as long as I have existed, and they were overjoyed
to see me. And it's a funny thing because I
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believe that being here on earth and experiencing life is
this great journey and a great opportunity, and it's beautiful.
And I am not someone who supports the idea of,
oh gosh, there's a better place. Earth is a grand adventure.
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But what I discovered is that Heaven is home, and everyone,
no matter whether you had a crummy home life when
you grew up, or a beautiful life. It doesn't matter.
We all can imagine what home, what the concept of
home is where you are so accepted and valued and
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love and healthy and whole and welcome and known and
all of those things. And that is what heaven is,
That is what life after death is. That is the reality.
We go home. We all go home. So when I
was there, I have to say, I mean I had
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a great life. I had a great job. I loved
my husband. I love my children more than anything I
can imagine loving on earth, except my grandchild now. But
despite that, this overwhelming sense of being home and knowing,
as Suzanne said earlier, it's not that we are lost.
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You know, we talk about lost, but we're not lost.
We are connected in a different way. All of the
love that is God's that flows through us and flows
to each other is still there. I knew, despite the
fact that I was home, I wasn't disconnected. I was
still very aware of what was happening at the river bank.
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For example, I could see my body being pulled ashore.
I could see them start CPR, and I still felt
this incredible compassion for them and empathy because I wasn't
coming back. I had no intention, despite having this great light,
because again I'd been reassured that my husband and children
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would be fine. And there are a lot of things
that happened after that, but eventually I was told that
I had to go back, and I was sort of
given a to do list of kind of mandates and
the reasons for coming back, and there is a lot
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to talk about, but again, I really want to focus
on the dichotomy between what you might think your child
or your loved ones experience and what they experienced, because
when I came back, I was on the river bank
of a very remote river. It's a long story, but
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it took a couple of hours of trying to carry
my body up the hillside. And during that time, the
people who were there that I was kayaking with so
that I kept letting out these sort of ear piercing
and they called them other worldly moans and grounds, and
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I mean they thought I was in misery, and indeed,
I mean my legs are broken and my body was
crumpled and I was a mess. So they they thought
it was horrible. And you know, my husband was beside himself.
He was having to at one point carry me on
his back, and I mean, it was here, but from
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my perspective, I was so happy. Mostly I couldn't believe.
I was in disbelief that I had to come back.
But I felt no pain. I felt this. I mean,
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I don't have the right words, but I felt this effervescence,
this beautiful love that expanded into all the world. And
joy doesn't even begin to describe what I was feeling.
I was feeling like I was still sort of here
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and in God's world, you know, there was no differentiation.
And so despite the fact that outwardly people would have
thought I was in pain, I was miserable, I was terrified,
I was all kinds of words that they would ascribe
to something just horrific.
Speaker 7 (23:27):
I felt great.
Speaker 5 (23:29):
It was wonderful and beautiful, and truly it was the
greatest gift I personally have ever been given. And so
I just want to reassure you that you could let
go of your imaginations of what your child or what
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your loved one may have felt, because they didn't.
Speaker 7 (23:56):
God was there.
Speaker 5 (23:57):
It is promised to us that God will be with
us every day of our lives, and it is true
your loved one did not suffer. I don't again, I
don't know how it works either, but our spirits, our souls,
our beings are pulled out before we suffer. So that's
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the first thing I want to reassure you of. The
second thing is they'll be the ones waiting for you
when your own time, your own adventure here on earth
is done, when your work is They'll be the ones
there welcome you with open arms. And well, it may
seem like a long time for you, I mean, who knows,
It could be twenty years, fifty years, I mean who
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one never knows. But there is no time after death.
Time doesn't exist, and so really it's just a blank
of time and between now and then.
Speaker 7 (24:57):
They're not gone.
Speaker 5 (24:59):
They may be gone for sight, but they are not
gone for their heart. They are not gone from your existence,
from the world, from your life. And so it really
is a lost It's terrible grief, is well, it's just
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it stinks. It's a long, lonely road when you've lost
a child. But they're definitely is hope because they are
still part of your life and they are taken care
of and you will see them again.
Speaker 3 (25:39):
Wow. I was just thinking after Suzanne and then Mary,
you really are are sure to tell these grieving families
that their little girls, their loved ones, really were removed
from the earthly suffering. You you really believed that because
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that's what you experience, that's what Susanne experienced. It's like
from your testimonies here just now, I was picturing that
joy and love of God was just immediately comforting you,
even before any suffering, and that just I just feel
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like that that provides so much comfort for families and
and even Mary, you having been through losing a child too,
you under understand what they're they're feeling right now, and
it's beautiful that you can speak to that as well
as reassure them that that perhaps there, I mean, their
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child immediately was brought into the most amazing experience of
their lives and still feel their parents' presence because the
time is different there action, and that's just that's well.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
And I think too about those those little girls in
that cabin, they were probably reunited altogether with Jesus, and they.
Speaker 3 (27:12):
Were together when they went into his presence.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
Well, and Heidi, you know your story, I think just
reiterates it in such a beautiful way because Heidi actually
grew up in a Jewish family. Her dad was an
atheist who every night told her your life is worthless.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
There is no God.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
Jesus Christ is the biggest hoax ever perpetrated on mankind.
Her mom was agnostic, but Heidi always believed in God
as a little girl, prayed to God every night. And
when she was sixteen, she was in a horse riding
accident where a horse reared up, stepped back off a cliff,
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and then fell on her. And her sisters watched in
horror as the horse crushed her like a rag doll.
And yet that's not what you were experiencing either.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
Was it.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
No?
Speaker 6 (28:11):
And I do want to thank you Kathy and Juhnn
for doing this. And I want to say I don't
know why some of us come back and some of
us don't. Sorry, And I'm really sorry for your loss,
but if it makes you feel anty better. I knew
with absolute clarity as I saw the horse's back coming
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towards my chest that I was about to die. And
in that moment, I left my body, so I did
not experience my death, but I watched it from up above.
I watched my sisters scream and watched saw the horror
on their faces, and my only thought was I wish
my sisters didn't have to see me die because I
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was fine. I didn't care about myself. I felt no pain,
I felt absolutely no fear. And the person with me
was Jesus. We had a wonderful experience. We had a
marvelous encounter, and he took me to God the Father.
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I sat on God the Father's lap. He showed me Heaven,
and I can tell you with absolute certainty while I
was sitting on his lap that every child who died
was sitting on his lap. He held them in his arms.
And I knew that. What Jesus told me before he
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sent me back after a really huge argument because I
did not want to come back, was he told me
my life is in good hands. And I knew everyone's
life is in good hands, in his hands. And I
knew with absolute certainty that God loves children. And there
lifted straight into his arms. They don't suffer, and there
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was no fear. There was only love. Sorry, I don't
mean to cry, but this is a very emotional thing.
We're all moms grandma too, so we get it.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
Well.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
And you know there's I know all of your stories
very well, and there's you know.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
There's there's so much. There's so much there.
Speaker 1 (30:36):
You know, because Suzanne was sitting on Jesus' lap. I
have every little kid that I've interviewed or studied the
story of we're sitting on jesus lap.
Speaker 2 (30:49):
You were sitting on the lap of God the Father
and had.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
This experience that that that's what he does somehow for
every every child, and that every child is unique and his,
and that our love for them will be made purer,
made stronger when we are all reunited together with them,
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and there is no loss, nothing is lost.
Speaker 6 (31:16):
Nothing is lost. Our love doesn't die. Our love stays
with them, and their love stays, Their love for you
stays with them. You'll see them again. It's just hard
because you don't get to see them here. But as
everyone else said, there's no time after you die. Time
doesn't work the same. So for your loved ones, they
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are not experiencing this years of time. It's all the
same time. I cannot explain. I cannot express the joy
that I felt being with Jesus and being with God
the Father. I can't express. I can't just even begin
to describe the beauty of heaven. But the beauty of
heaven paled in comparison to the beauty of Jesus, beauty
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of God, the love radiating from his eyes. Just keeps
that in your heart, in your thoughts because it's absolutely
overwhelming and it is irrevocable. It's beautiful. So I do
know that because I was conscious as the horse was
falling on me, I do know that I knew I
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was going to die, and I didn't feel any pain.
I didn't feel any suffering. I was pulled out of
my body before the actual moment of my death, and
I and even as I watched it, it didn't bother me.
I knew that this body, this life is temporary, that
our real life is with God.
Speaker 3 (32:45):
So you know, oh, I wanted just to make sure
hot Doi. I know your story. And I think when
I think about especially the little girls that camp mist it,
they're adventurous. That's one reason why they loved the camp.
It was extremely beautiful nature their adventures there. I know
your story. And when Jesus took you out of the
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suffering before you suffered and the horse crushed your body,
he took you on an adventure, right he did.
Speaker 6 (33:18):
He took me flying, He took me. Actually, one of
the reasons John and I get along so well is
and I've never surfed. John's a surfer. Jesus took me
surfing through the universe. He took me surfing all the
way to the Father. We surfed on a wave of light,
just like a wave of water, ocean water rolling under
our feet. We body surfed and it was the most
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amazing experience of my life. It was the most fun.
I wasn't worried about everything that was happening back on
Earth or back with my family, because I knew it
was going to be okay. That's what I knew that
in the end, everything is okay. But Jesus, and I especially,
I think he relates to He meets you where you're at.
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He said to me, this is so cool. I was
a teenager, of course, he said, this is so cool. Yeah,
this is totally cool.
Speaker 4 (34:11):
He is.
Speaker 6 (34:12):
He relates to you exactly as you are. He knows
you extremely well. And we laughed and chatted and talked
NonStop all the way to God the Father. So there's
no way to explain all of this, no logical, scientific
way to explain all of this. But all I knew
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was joy. All I knew was joy and safety and
security and love. Yeah, and that's what your kids.
Speaker 2 (34:44):
Know too well.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
I think people don't realize that God is the creator
of everything we love. And you know, Jesus said when
he was on earth, let the little children come to me.
They wanted to come and jump and play. And he said,
the kingdom of Heaven belongs to such as these, and
that in the life to come, there is their children play,
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they have games, they meet friends. I've interviewed thousands of
people who have had near death experiences, you know, and
showing how the commonalities tie to the scriptures and what
God has told us all along. And it will be life.
It will be life. But yes, without the sorrow and
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the pain and the death. Is there one word of
hope that maybe you would want to give to those
grieving As we wrap up.
Speaker 6 (35:39):
Me each of you, the love doesn't die. Love never dies.
The love you feel for them last forever, the love
they feel for you last forever. And all of that
love is contained in God, all of it.
Speaker 4 (35:59):
He is Love.
Speaker 6 (36:01):
So you'll get to read. I know it's hard, believe me,
I know it's hard, but you'll get to re experience
you'll get to see them again. You'll you'll you'll know
that they're okay. And if you if you can feel
it in your heart now to know that they're okay.
I mean, if there's one thing I can tell you,
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it's hope in the Lord. They're with him, They're fine.
You're you're the one who's suffering. They're fine. Just take
that comfort if you can.
Speaker 4 (36:36):
M Suzanne, Well, that was very well said, Heidi. I
would I would say in one word, that's interesting, John,
one word. I'll try to I'll try to give you
one word. How about mm eternity? There is an eternity
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and that's hard for a lot of us to believe,
even though we know it. I feel lucky that I
saw it. So I'm here to share that. And it's
not all for nothing. We don't we're not born alone,
we don't die alone. We don't live alone. We have
a choice to be loved. We have a choice choice
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to share love. He created it. We're born through a mother.
So you have this guide into the world and and
I and I can promise you that you have a
guide when you're when you're removed, a loving, amazing guide.
So the process is very hard here. I mean, I'm
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a mom and a grandma, and I have I haven't
had an easy road just because I had a near
death experience. I've also had my share of you know,
things with family and illness and crisis. But but I
do know when it happens that before I go into
any kind of a panic, I draw it closer and
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closer and closer as possible to Jesus. I talk to him.
And even if it's through sobbing tears, even if it's
even if it's you know, an ugly cry, even if
it's in anger or frustration or doubt, you know, you
can be doubtful and he'll hear you and he'll help you.
Just ask him to help you through your doubt, through
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your fear. Just just ask him to help you. Don't
try to be perfect, don't try to feel like you
aren't good enough or he doesn't love you enough. None
of that's true. The truth is you are worthy. He
loves you, and he will hear your prayers.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
Well you guys, you guys. Stories I know will will
encourage people. Mary, what would you like to say?
Speaker 5 (38:54):
As a I second everything that has been said. But ever,
the pragmatists I will be very clear about the process,
and the process is horrible. Losing a child is a
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it's a very very long and painful and lonely road.
And if you've lost someone in the flood, that's what
you're looking at. It's it doesn't change overnight, and you
shouldn't expect it to. That journey is filled with so
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many different emotions depending on what the relationship was with
that child.
Speaker 7 (39:50):
And so.
Speaker 5 (39:52):
Part of the problem is that when you turn to
your family members, the people who normally can lift you
up when you're having problems, you know they're just as
empty as you are.
Speaker 7 (40:05):
And so it's a.
Speaker 5 (40:05):
Very very lonely, lonely road. And I would very much
encourage you.
Speaker 7 (40:12):
It's just.
Speaker 5 (40:16):
Claw your way out of the deep dark pit because
you are here, like is a grand adventure. Your child
will be waiting for you when your work here is done,
and color will come back into your world.
Speaker 7 (40:35):
It just takes a while.
Speaker 1 (40:38):
Yeah, Well, and you know because you've been through losing
a child.
Speaker 2 (40:43):
And that's why I.
Speaker 1 (40:45):
Think you know we can't We knew we can't take
away the pain. We can't take away the loss of
the grief.
Speaker 2 (40:52):
But I think.
Speaker 1 (40:55):
Remembering you guys stories maybe can help ease the any
torment of thinking about the suffering, because as you guys
have said, God is good and he is the one
who brings them home with him, and that's probably not
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what they were experiencing at all. Let's let me close
us just by praying for those who have lost children
or lost loved ones in this flood, and.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
We'll just close that way.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
God, we we grieve, we mourn with those who mourn.
You told us to rejoice with those who rejoice, and
mourn with those who mourn, and it does so many
here in all across Texas I know have just felt
an intense mourning thinking of the loss that these parents
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and families have suffered.
Speaker 2 (41:59):
And so God, we asked that you.
Speaker 1 (42:01):
Would bring comfort and hope and peace that you know
we can't give, our words can't give, but you can give.
And like Mary said, that you would take them through
the valleys and eventually up the other side to see
from the mountaintop beauty in the future. And I pray
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that you would just give them a sense of hope
that this is this is not the end of the story,
and that one day in your kingdom, Lord, we will all.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
Be able to rejoice. We will all be.
Speaker 1 (42:35):
Joined again in this incredible celebration that all that was
lost here on earth has been restored, and everything broken
has been repaired, and everything has been redeemed in You.
Speaker 2 (42:50):
And so we pray that for these families in Jesus' name. Amen.
Thank you guys so much, thank you.
Speaker 7 (42:58):
Thank you again for doing it.
Speaker 4 (43:00):
El
Well, I'm John Burke, and today my wife Kathy and
I wanted to do a special Imagine Heaven podcast in
response to the tragic flooding that has happened all around
us here in Austin over the last ten days. Here
in Texas, one hundred and thirty two people so far
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have lost their lives as floodwaters rose about twenty five
feet and forty five minutes. There's still about one hundred
and seventy people missing, and so the death toll is
probably around three hundred people.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
And what was the most difficult.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
To hear about were the thirty six children who died
in the floods, including twenty seven little eight nine year
old girls who were in cabins down by the Guadalupe
River at Camp Mystick.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
There's really no words that feel adequate or appropriate to
say with so much to grief. We know that parents
and families and friends of these loved ones are feeling
right now, but we just wanted to do what we
could and this video, we really feel like may give
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a little bit of comfort to you during this devastating time.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Yeah, and so we invited three of our friends, three
women who actually clinically died and had near death experiences,
either as children, teens or in a water accident, and
yet they were resuscitated and spoke not of a horrific
tragedy that others were seen take place, but of something
(01:44):
that many of them called the greatest day of their lives.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
And so I just want to let.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Them tell you just their their name and profession, and
how old you were, and just the circumstance of when
your near death experience happened.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Okay, Hello, my name is Suzanne Seymour. I'm a registered nurse.
I've worked for many years as a registered nurse and
a nursing educator. I was led to this profession actually
by my end, which I had at twelve years old
in a skiing accident.
Speaker 5 (02:22):
Mary, I'm doctor Mary Neil. I am a now retired
orthletic spinal surgeon, and I died when I drowned kayaking
at the age of forty one in South America.
Speaker 6 (02:40):
I'm Heidi Barr. I died at the age of sixteen
in a horseback riding accident. I'm a retired hospice nurse
because it didn't bother me to work with dying people.
In fact, I felt it to be a great calling,
so thank.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
You well, and just to give a short.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Intro to the accident than I'd like to for you
guys to tell what you actually were experiencing. Suzanne was
twelve years old, as she said, skiing in the Pocono's
with her family when her scarf got wrapped in one
of the old ski toe ropes that takes you up
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the mountain, and the toe rope basically dragged her up
toward a gearbox that no human should survive, and her
parents watched, and her grandparents watched in horror, imagining the worst.
But that's not what you were experiencing, was it.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
No. I had a completely different experience than my parents,
And after returning, when I spoke about it, I remember
my mother saying, you know, why are you so elated?
How could this possibly be that you're so joyful and
so elated and you look happier than I've ever seen anyone.
And I was covered in blood. While my parents were
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experiencing their grief and their fears, I had the most beautiful,
glowing presence walk through these trees that were on the
side of me, and I could see this beautiful light
come towards me, and I thought it might be my dad.
It felt like the most loving presence, and I thought, oh,
(04:26):
my Dad's here to rescue me. Little did I know
that it is my father and he is my savior.
And he approached in a very gentle way, full of light,
and as he came closer and you know, came right toward,
right next to me, he let me know exactly who
he was, that he was Jesus, and that he was
(04:47):
It was just an instant communication that he knew everything
about me, and I knew everything about him, and I
felt completely safe with meeting him in a moment, and
I felt an incredible I don't know all the words,
but they were all positive words, just joy. And I
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felt elated and I felt excited, and I felt overwhelmed
with all this love that he was surrounding me with
and I accepted him into my heart all that love
immediately it just filled me and we were connected, and
(05:30):
I knew this love and this light that was around him,
that felt alive, and that felt knowing, and it felt
so real and it was the realest thing I ever knew.
And with that, when I accepted all that, he bent
down and I'm just still excited to this day to
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think of it all. And he embraced me and he
lifted me up and carried me, and I had no worries,
I had no pain. I never saw or felt hitting
that gearbox and I hit it, but I had not,
ever to this day, any memory or vision of hitting it. So,
(06:13):
you know, all the my grandfather is a very well
known engineer, and everyone they can't imagine that. I wouldn't
have known that. But you know, Jesus just took all
that away, the pain, the memory, the I don't know
if it's a memory, but he was there before or
however he does it is perfect. I don't know how
to explain how he works. It was perfect. And while
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he was carrying me, I remember, you know, there was
he he had some some he was It was lighthearted,
he felt comfortable, he felt relatable, someone that I could
share like. I was kind of worried about my mom
at the bottom of the hill, and I wasn't worried
(06:59):
about myself, but I was worried about her because she
didn't I didn't know if she knew him the way
I just met him. So I thought, oh my gosh,
how is she gonna How's she going to handle this,
and and he listened, and he was comforting, and I
just knew that everything would be all right. He took
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me in his arms, and along with there were two angels,
and there was there was some humor in the trip.
One of the angels was larger than the other, and
they were making me smile, and they were making me
laugh and giggle, and I felt held and within his love.
(07:40):
I didn't feel ripped away from my family or my
loved ones. I felt that their love and all the
love I've ever received was carried within me and carried
within him. So I didn't feel any separation from my
family and how you know, my parents or my brother anyone.
I just felt connected to everyone. And now I'm connected
(08:04):
to someone who's connected to all of us. So it
just felt complete, and I felt like the circle was complete,
and this knowing at a young age became freeing. I
felt almost free because I let go of all the
things that were negative or that were you know, or
(08:32):
that we're confusing. Everything was clear and I was very
much alive, and he brought me and I didn't think
I would be alive because I saw the accident happening
and I but once I was with Jesus. I felt
very alive and I knew, Wow, life goes on, and
I'm okay, and I'm going to I'm still connected to everyone.
(08:56):
So with that, he brought me to a beautiful place.
And even in my home now, I have little mementos
like there were purple like a lavender, yellow and white
flowers in a meadow, and there were green rolling hills.
And I think because my focus was so much better,
(09:17):
because I let go of so much fear and worry
and I had no fear, and I was brave and
strong and clear, and I am happy here. I'm with
the Great. It was the greatest day. And there there,
I was in a beautiful place and I got to
(09:37):
sit by him and I got to see nature, and
nature became alive. When I see people going through pain
and loss, to know, pain is very hard here, but
it really there. It let me know that we're going
to see each other again. I knew with that experience
(09:58):
that I was the daughter of a king. I was
his child, and I knew that everyone that he creates
is as unique and special and purposeful and loving and
all those wonderful things. He is our father, and we
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are his and we're all connected and there's absolutely nothing
to fear, absolutely nothing.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Well, and I know, I know you told me that
you were sitting on Jesus's lap at one point and
felt like he was just like this loving dad and
you were his unique kid.
Speaker 4 (10:42):
And I mean I was never uncomfortable for a second.
Even though he was the most powerful, glorious, enormous, more
than I could ever understand, he was able to relate
to me at twelve, you know, a young Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
So I think I think your story brings hope that
God is good and he knows his children and they're
is and he's not. He rescues them and even when
we're grown.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
You know, Mary, doctor Mary Neil.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Was actually kayaking with her husband in Chile when her
kayak went over a fifteen foot drop and the nose
got pinned stuck between two boulders and she was trapped
underwater and dead for thirty minutes and then miraculously resuscitated.
(11:46):
And Mary told me her greatest fear was actually drowning,
but when it actually happened, it wasn't quite what you feared,
right Mary.
Speaker 5 (11:57):
Right, Yeah, listen, let me just start by saying thank
you very much for doing this this segment of your podcast.
Loss is really really difficult. So I appreciate your doing
this and trying to help those who have suffered this loss.
(12:19):
And I could talk about many things, but what I
really want to focus on is what people assume happens,
because I get it. When my old son was hit
and killed by a car. You know, my husband and
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many people and my other kids really struggled with continuing
again and again and again to imagine those final moments.
Speaker 7 (12:50):
And it's haunting.
Speaker 5 (12:51):
And I've talked to so many people who are just
haunted by what they imagine those last moments to be.
And so I really want to talk about that because
that's a haunting that is so deep and so profound,
it's so difficult to move beyond. But I have to
(13:15):
tell you it isn't like that. I'm absolutely convinced that
our soul, our spirit, our being is pulled out of
our body before we experience anything that you might imagine
your child experience. When I drown and I went over
(13:36):
this waterfall, was pinned underneath eight to ten feet of water,
and for maybe a nanosecond, I felt confusion, but that
was the extent of it. I have spent my entire
life in the water, on the water, surrounded by water.
I am a water person. I swam competitively. I love
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the wa But as John already.
Speaker 7 (14:02):
Said, I had.
Speaker 5 (14:05):
The only fear I have of any kind is I
never wanted to drown. I never had a problem. I
don't know what the origin is, but I knew that
I always thought that drowning would be the most horrific,
terrible way to die. And I am pretty sure that
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many of you who are listening to this podcast have
that same assumption, or perhaps that same fear. And so
I'm a very analytical person. I'm very concrete thinking, and
the irony.
Speaker 7 (14:42):
Was not lost on me. When I was underwater and drowning,
I thought, wow, Okay, well, isn't this a fine way
to go?
Speaker 5 (14:52):
But the reality is this, I never felt a moment
of fear.
Speaker 7 (15:01):
I never felt a moment of panic.
Speaker 5 (15:04):
I never felt a moment of ear, hunger, I never
felt a moment of pain. When the current eventually sucked
my body out of the boat, my legs broke, and
I mean there was a lot of trauma involved. I
even was consciously thinking about the fact that, wow, I
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should be feeling pain. I should be screaming and pain,
but I wasn't. The fact is, after that first truly
a nanosecond or less of confusion, I was immediately overcome
by a very physical sensation of being health and comforted
(15:48):
and reassured by Jesus that everything was fine. I would
be fine, My husband would be fine, my four little
kids would be fine, regardless of whether I lived died.
And I knew it was Jesus on an absolute knowledge,
and I knew that Jesus would be there holding any
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person who allowed it.
Speaker 7 (16:13):
And I felt like the only analogy.
Speaker 5 (16:19):
I've ever been able to come up with is when
you hold a brand new baby and you're so in
love with that baby, and you're pouring all of your
hopes and dreams and love, and you're very being into
that baby. And I was the baby, and Jesus knew me,
and as Suzanne said, love me purely completely, was very
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fond of me. And I knew that that would be
true of every person. I agree, we are all God's favorite.
We are so unique and so special and so completely
and really loved beyond anything that we can conceive of
(17:07):
here on earth. And I was still aware of my
physical situation I could feel the pressure of the water,
I could feel the current, I could feel all.
Speaker 7 (17:16):
Of those things. But I was free. I felt so.
Speaker 4 (17:27):
Glorious.
Speaker 5 (17:29):
I never had the experience of feeling alive and then dead.
I didn't feel conscious and then unconscious. I had the
experience of feeling alive and then more alive, conscious, and
then even more conscious, and eventually, I will tell you,
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my legs broken the whole thing. And one would imagine
seeing my broken body that I had suffered, but I
did not. I did not suffer for a moment, and
my spirit was released to what I'm going to call heaven,
(18:16):
but to God's world. And I was immediately greaded and
welcomed by people who had known me and loved me
as long as I have existed, and they were overjoyed
to see me. And it's a funny thing because I
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believe that being here on earth and experiencing life is
this great journey and a great opportunity, and it's beautiful.
And I am not someone who supports the idea of,
oh gosh, there's a better place. Earth is a grand adventure.
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But what I discovered is that Heaven is home, and everyone,
no matter whether you had a crummy home life when
you grew up, or a beautiful life. It doesn't matter.
We all can imagine what home, what the concept of
home is where you are so accepted and valued and
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love and healthy and whole and welcome and known and
all of those things. And that is what heaven is,
That is what life after death is. That is the reality.
We go home. We all go home. So when I
was there, I have to say, I mean I had
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a great life. I had a great job. I loved
my husband. I love my children more than anything I
can imagine loving on earth, except my grandchild now. But
despite that, this overwhelming sense of being home and knowing,
as Suzanne said earlier, it's not that we are lost.
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You know, we talk about lost, but we're not lost.
We are connected in a different way. All of the
love that is God's that flows through us and flows
to each other is still there. I knew, despite the
fact that I was home, I wasn't disconnected. I was
still very aware of what was happening at the river bank.
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For example, I could see my body being pulled ashore.
I could see them start CPR, and I still felt
this incredible compassion for them and empathy because I wasn't
coming back. I had no intention, despite having this great light,
because again I'd been reassured that my husband and children
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would be fine. And there are a lot of things
that happened after that, but eventually I was told that
I had to go back, and I was sort of
given a to do list of kind of mandates and
the reasons for coming back, and there is a lot
(21:13):
to talk about, but again, I really want to focus
on the dichotomy between what you might think your child
or your loved ones experience and what they experienced, because
when I came back, I was on the river bank
of a very remote river. It's a long story, but
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it took a couple of hours of trying to carry
my body up the hillside. And during that time, the
people who were there that I was kayaking with so
that I kept letting out these sort of ear piercing
and they called them other worldly moans and grounds, and
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I mean they thought I was in misery, and indeed,
I mean my legs are broken and my body was
crumpled and I was a mess. So they they thought
it was horrible. And you know, my husband was beside himself.
He was having to at one point carry me on
his back, and I mean, it was here, but from
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my perspective, I was so happy. Mostly I couldn't believe.
I was in disbelief that I had to come back.
But I felt no pain. I felt this. I mean,
(22:43):
I don't have the right words, but I felt this effervescence,
this beautiful love that expanded into all the world. And
joy doesn't even begin to describe what I was feeling.
I was feeling like I was still sort of here
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and in God's world, you know, there was no differentiation.
And so despite the fact that outwardly people would have
thought I was in pain, I was miserable, I was terrified,
I was all kinds of words that they would ascribe
to something just horrific.
Speaker 7 (23:27):
I felt great.
Speaker 5 (23:29):
It was wonderful and beautiful, and truly it was the
greatest gift I personally have ever been given. And so
I just want to reassure you that you could let
go of your imaginations of what your child or what
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your loved one may have felt, because they didn't.
Speaker 7 (23:56):
God was there.
Speaker 5 (23:57):
It is promised to us that God will be with
us every day of our lives, and it is true
your loved one did not suffer. I don't again, I
don't know how it works either, but our spirits, our souls,
our beings are pulled out before we suffer. So that's
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the first thing I want to reassure you of. The
second thing is they'll be the ones waiting for you
when your own time, your own adventure here on earth
is done, when your work is They'll be the ones
there welcome you with open arms. And well, it may
seem like a long time for you, I mean, who knows,
It could be twenty years, fifty years, I mean who
(24:44):
one never knows. But there is no time after death.
Time doesn't exist, and so really it's just a blank
of time and between now and then.
Speaker 7 (24:57):
They're not gone.
Speaker 5 (24:59):
They may be gone for sight, but they are not
gone for their heart. They are not gone from your existence,
from the world, from your life. And so it really
is a lost It's terrible grief, is well, it's just
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it stinks. It's a long, lonely road when you've lost
a child. But they're definitely is hope because they are
still part of your life and they are taken care
of and you will see them again.
Speaker 3 (25:39):
Wow. I was just thinking after Suzanne and then Mary,
you really are are sure to tell these grieving families
that their little girls, their loved ones, really were removed
from the earthly suffering. You you really believed that because
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that's what you experience, that's what Susanne experienced. It's like
from your testimonies here just now, I was picturing that
joy and love of God was just immediately comforting you,
even before any suffering, and that just I just feel
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like that that provides so much comfort for families and
and even Mary, you having been through losing a child too,
you under understand what they're they're feeling right now, and
it's beautiful that you can speak to that as well
as reassure them that that perhaps there, I mean, their
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child immediately was brought into the most amazing experience of
their lives and still feel their parents' presence because the
time is different there action, and that's just that's well.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
And I think too about those those little girls in
that cabin, they were probably reunited altogether with Jesus, and they.
Speaker 3 (27:12):
Were together when they went into his presence.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
Well, and Heidi, you know your story, I think just
reiterates it in such a beautiful way because Heidi actually
grew up in a Jewish family. Her dad was an
atheist who every night told her your life is worthless.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
There is no God.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
Jesus Christ is the biggest hoax ever perpetrated on mankind.
Her mom was agnostic, but Heidi always believed in God
as a little girl, prayed to God every night. And
when she was sixteen, she was in a horse riding
accident where a horse reared up, stepped back off a cliff,
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and then fell on her. And her sisters watched in
horror as the horse crushed her like a rag doll.
And yet that's not what you were experiencing either.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
Was it.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
No?
Speaker 6 (28:11):
And I do want to thank you Kathy and Juhnn
for doing this. And I want to say I don't
know why some of us come back and some of
us don't. Sorry, And I'm really sorry for your loss,
but if it makes you feel anty better. I knew
with absolute clarity as I saw the horse's back coming
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towards my chest that I was about to die. And
in that moment, I left my body, so I did
not experience my death, but I watched it from up above.
I watched my sisters scream and watched saw the horror
on their faces, and my only thought was I wish
my sisters didn't have to see me die because I
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was fine. I didn't care about myself. I felt no pain,
I felt absolutely no fear. And the person with me
was Jesus. We had a wonderful experience. We had a
marvelous encounter, and he took me to God the Father.
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I sat on God the Father's lap. He showed me Heaven,
and I can tell you with absolute certainty while I
was sitting on his lap that every child who died
was sitting on his lap. He held them in his arms.
And I knew that. What Jesus told me before he
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sent me back after a really huge argument because I
did not want to come back, was he told me
my life is in good hands. And I knew everyone's
life is in good hands, in his hands. And I
knew with absolute certainty that God loves children. And there
lifted straight into his arms. They don't suffer, and there
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was no fear. There was only love. Sorry, I don't
mean to cry, but this is a very emotional thing.
We're all moms grandma too, so we get it.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
Well.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
And you know there's I know all of your stories
very well, and there's you know.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
There's there's so much. There's so much there.
Speaker 1 (30:36):
You know, because Suzanne was sitting on Jesus' lap. I
have every little kid that I've interviewed or studied the
story of we're sitting on jesus lap.
Speaker 2 (30:49):
You were sitting on the lap of God the Father
and had.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
This experience that that that's what he does somehow for
every every child, and that every child is unique and his,
and that our love for them will be made purer,
made stronger when we are all reunited together with them,
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and there is no loss, nothing is lost.
Speaker 6 (31:16):
Nothing is lost. Our love doesn't die. Our love stays
with them, and their love stays, Their love for you
stays with them. You'll see them again. It's just hard
because you don't get to see them here. But as
everyone else said, there's no time after you die. Time
doesn't work the same. So for your loved ones, they
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are not experiencing this years of time. It's all the
same time. I cannot explain. I cannot express the joy
that I felt being with Jesus and being with God
the Father. I can't express. I can't just even begin
to describe the beauty of heaven. But the beauty of
heaven paled in comparison to the beauty of Jesus, beauty
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of God, the love radiating from his eyes. Just keeps
that in your heart, in your thoughts because it's absolutely
overwhelming and it is irrevocable. It's beautiful. So I do
know that because I was conscious as the horse was
falling on me, I do know that I knew I
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was going to die, and I didn't feel any pain.
I didn't feel any suffering. I was pulled out of
my body before the actual moment of my death, and
I and even as I watched it, it didn't bother me.
I knew that this body, this life is temporary, that
our real life is with God.
Speaker 3 (32:45):
So you know, oh, I wanted just to make sure
hot Doi. I know your story. And I think when
I think about especially the little girls that camp mist it,
they're adventurous. That's one reason why they loved the camp.
It was extremely beautiful nature their adventures there. I know
your story. And when Jesus took you out of the
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suffering before you suffered and the horse crushed your body,
he took you on an adventure, right he did.
Speaker 6 (33:18):
He took me flying, He took me. Actually, one of
the reasons John and I get along so well is
and I've never surfed. John's a surfer. Jesus took me
surfing through the universe. He took me surfing all the
way to the Father. We surfed on a wave of light,
just like a wave of water, ocean water rolling under
our feet. We body surfed and it was the most
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amazing experience of my life. It was the most fun.
I wasn't worried about everything that was happening back on
Earth or back with my family, because I knew it
was going to be okay. That's what I knew that
in the end, everything is okay. But Jesus, and I especially,
I think he relates to He meets you where you're at.
(34:02):
He said to me, this is so cool. I was
a teenager, of course, he said, this is so cool. Yeah,
this is totally cool.
Speaker 4 (34:11):
He is.
Speaker 6 (34:12):
He relates to you exactly as you are. He knows
you extremely well. And we laughed and chatted and talked
NonStop all the way to God the Father. So there's
no way to explain all of this, no logical, scientific
way to explain all of this. But all I knew
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was joy. All I knew was joy and safety and
security and love. Yeah, and that's what your kids.
Speaker 2 (34:44):
Know too well.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
I think people don't realize that God is the creator
of everything we love. And you know, Jesus said when
he was on earth, let the little children come to me.
They wanted to come and jump and play. And he said,
the kingdom of Heaven belongs to such as these, and
that in the life to come, there is their children play,
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they have games, they meet friends. I've interviewed thousands of
people who have had near death experiences, you know, and
showing how the commonalities tie to the scriptures and what
God has told us all along. And it will be life.
It will be life. But yes, without the sorrow and
(35:28):
the pain and the death. Is there one word of
hope that maybe you would want to give to those
grieving As we wrap up.
Speaker 6 (35:39):
Me each of you, the love doesn't die. Love never dies.
The love you feel for them last forever, the love
they feel for you last forever. And all of that
love is contained in God, all of it.
Speaker 4 (35:59):
He is Love.
Speaker 6 (36:01):
So you'll get to read. I know it's hard, believe me,
I know it's hard, but you'll get to re experience
you'll get to see them again. You'll you'll you'll know
that they're okay. And if you if you can feel
it in your heart now to know that they're okay.
I mean, if there's one thing I can tell you,
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it's hope in the Lord. They're with him, They're fine.
You're you're the one who's suffering. They're fine. Just take
that comfort if you can.
Speaker 4 (36:36):
M Suzanne, Well, that was very well said, Heidi. I
would I would say in one word, that's interesting, John,
one word. I'll try to I'll try to give you
one word. How about mm eternity? There is an eternity
(36:59):
and that's hard for a lot of us to believe,
even though we know it. I feel lucky that I
saw it. So I'm here to share that. And it's
not all for nothing. We don't we're not born alone,
we don't die alone. We don't live alone. We have
a choice to be loved. We have a choice choice
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to share love. He created it. We're born through a mother.
So you have this guide into the world and and
I and I can promise you that you have a
guide when you're when you're removed, a loving, amazing guide.
So the process is very hard here. I mean, I'm
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a mom and a grandma, and I have I haven't
had an easy road just because I had a near
death experience. I've also had my share of you know,
things with family and illness and crisis. But but I
do know when it happens that before I go into
any kind of a panic, I draw it closer and
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closer and closer as possible to Jesus. I talk to him.
And even if it's through sobbing tears, even if it's
even if it's you know, an ugly cry, even if
it's in anger or frustration or doubt, you know, you
can be doubtful and he'll hear you and he'll help you.
Just ask him to help you through your doubt, through
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your fear. Just just ask him to help you. Don't
try to be perfect, don't try to feel like you
aren't good enough or he doesn't love you enough. None
of that's true. The truth is you are worthy. He
loves you, and he will hear your prayers.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
Well you guys, you guys. Stories I know will will
encourage people. Mary, what would you like to say?
Speaker 5 (38:54):
As a I second everything that has been said. But ever,
the pragmatists I will be very clear about the process,
and the process is horrible. Losing a child is a
(39:18):
it's a very very long and painful and lonely road.
And if you've lost someone in the flood, that's what
you're looking at. It's it doesn't change overnight, and you
shouldn't expect it to. That journey is filled with so
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many different emotions depending on what the relationship was with
that child.
Speaker 7 (39:50):
And so.
Speaker 5 (39:52):
Part of the problem is that when you turn to
your family members, the people who normally can lift you
up when you're having problems, you know they're just as
empty as you are.
Speaker 7 (40:05):
And so it's a.
Speaker 5 (40:05):
Very very lonely, lonely road. And I would very much
encourage you.
Speaker 7 (40:12):
It's just.
Speaker 5 (40:16):
Claw your way out of the deep dark pit because
you are here, like is a grand adventure. Your child
will be waiting for you when your work here is done,
and color will come back into your world.
Speaker 7 (40:35):
It just takes a while.
Speaker 1 (40:38):
Yeah, Well, and you know because you've been through losing
a child.
Speaker 2 (40:43):
And that's why I.
Speaker 1 (40:45):
Think you know we can't We knew we can't take
away the pain. We can't take away the loss of
the grief.
Speaker 2 (40:52):
But I think.
Speaker 1 (40:55):
Remembering you guys stories maybe can help ease the any
torment of thinking about the suffering, because as you guys
have said, God is good and he is the one
who brings them home with him, and that's probably not
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what they were experiencing at all. Let's let me close
us just by praying for those who have lost children
or lost loved ones in this flood, and.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
We'll just close that way.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
God, we we grieve, we mourn with those who mourn.
You told us to rejoice with those who rejoice, and
mourn with those who mourn, and it does so many
here in all across Texas I know have just felt
an intense mourning thinking of the loss that these parents
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and families have suffered.
Speaker 2 (41:59):
And so God, we asked that you.
Speaker 1 (42:01):
Would bring comfort and hope and peace that you know
we can't give, our words can't give, but you can give.
And like Mary said, that you would take them through
the valleys and eventually up the other side to see
from the mountaintop beauty in the future. And I pray
(42:23):
that you would just give them a sense of hope
that this is this is not the end of the story,
and that one day in your kingdom, Lord, we will all.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
Be able to rejoice. We will all be.
Speaker 1 (42:35):
Joined again in this incredible celebration that all that was
lost here on earth has been restored, and everything broken
has been repaired, and everything has been redeemed in You.
Speaker 2 (42:50):
And so we pray that for these families in Jesus' name. Amen.
Thank you guys so much, thank you.
Speaker 7 (42:58):
Thank you again for doing it.
Speaker 4 (43:00):
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