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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey everyone, Leo Weston here and welcome back to Impulse Detos.
You know that feeling when your brain feels like a
pinball machine, bouncing between thoughts and anxieties. Ever, feel like
you're just reacting to life instead of living it. Yeah,
we've all been there. That's why today's episode is all
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about becoming the observer, not the reactor. Think of it
this way. Imagine your mind as a bustling city. There
are thoughts zipping around like cars, emotions flaring up like
traffic lights, and worries clogging up the streets. Being a
reactor is like driving through that city at breakneck speed,
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hitting every red light, getting caught in every jam. You're stressed,
you're exhausted, and you're barely staying on course. But being
an observer, that's like stepping onto a rooftop and looking
down at the whole city. You can see everything happening,
but you're not directly involved in the chaos. You have
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a clearer perspective, you can make more thoughtful decisions, and
you have control over your reactions instead of the other
way around. So how do we actually become observers instead
of reactors? First up, awareness is key, It's about paying
attention to your thoughts and feelings without judgment. Just notice them,
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acknowledge them, and let them pass like clouds in the sky.
Ever heard that saying you can't manage what you don't measure.
It applies here too. When you start noticing your reactions,
you become more aware of your triggers and patterns. Next,
practice mindful breathing. Seriously, it's a game changer. When you
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feel yourself getting overwhelmed, take a few deep breaths inhales
slowly through your nose, hold for account of four, and
exhale slowly through your mouth. This simple act can calm
your nervous system and give you a moment to collect
your thoughts before reacting impulsively. Think of it like hitting
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the pause button on that runaway city traffic. Third, challenge
your automatic thoughts. You know, those negative or irrational thoughts
that pop up without us even realizing. I'm not good enough.
This is going to be a disaster. Everyone hates me.
Those are classic examples of automatic reactions. But here's the thing.
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You have the power to challenge them. Ask yourself, is
this thought really true? What evidence do I have to
support it? Often, those negative thoughts are just distorted perceptions
or exaggerated fears. Fourth, cultivate a sense of detachment. This
doesn't mean being emotionally numb. It means recognizing that your
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thoughts and feelings aren't the whole story. Just because you
have a thought or feeling doesn't mean it has to
control your actions. You can choose to observe it without
getting swept away by it. Think of it like watching
a movie. You can feel the emotions of the characters,
but you don't have to live through them yourself. Finally,
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practice gratitude. It sounds simple, but shifting your focus towards
the good things in your life can have a profound
impact on your overall well being and how you react
to challenges. Take a moment each day to appreciate the
small things, a warm cup of coffee, a beautiful sunset,
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a kind gesture from a stranger. Now, let me tell
you about Sarah. She's a good friend of mine and
she used to be an absolute reactor. Stressful situations would
send her spiraling into anxiety and panic attacks. But after
incorporating these techniques mindfulness, conscious breathing, challenging negative thoughts, she's
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become much more grounded and composed. Now, when things get tough,
she can observe the situation with clarity and make thoughtful
decisions instead of letting her emotions take over. Remember, becoming
an observer isn't about suppressing your feelings. It's about gaining
control over them. It's about stepping back from the chaos
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and seeing the bigger picture. So go out there today
and be the observer, not the reactor. Notice your thoughts,
breathe deeply, challenge those automatic reactions, detach yourself from the drama,
and cultivate gratitude. You got this, and don't forget to
share this episode with someone who could benefit from a
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little impulse detox. See you tomorrow for another dose of
focus and clarity. This podcast is created with the help
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just for you.