Infamous Minds - Ep 48 - Obsession, Jealousy & Murder

These two emotions are killer combination. Let's find out why.

Episode Transcript

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And I'm proud to say that I am an advocate
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and gentlemen that now I see many of our illnesses

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are not actually starting just from the basically physical part
of it, because most of that is coming because of
the psyche. But today we're going to talk about something
that many of you watching movies, watching documentaries here on podcasts,
and that would be obsession, love, jealousy and murder. Please

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You know, I'm hoping Gary, Texas, Brandy Christy, all of
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don't be shy to ask. I do have my notes
as usual, you guys know, I never come unprepared. So
today I'm gonna talk about something and that's crime of passion.
So they Donnie, try to guess, and I will let

(06:47):
you know if you're closed. Welcome, Donnie, Welcome aboard. So basically,
lots of times we do hear about something that many
people don't know, and those are the crimes of passion,
crimes of jealousy, crimes of uncontrolled You are far away
from it. I'm actually much further from that number. So

(07:12):
basically I will type for you. There we go. You
have now my answer. So Texas from Port gave you
the answer, Donnie, so exactly, I'm glad that people are

(07:33):
really happy about basically their agent, who they are and
what they are that should be. The age is just
a number, So let's go with basically the show on
So as I was studying many times, and I was
approaching some of the cases that I was dealing with,

(07:53):
and I still do. I do see that lots of times,
and there's crimes obsessions and the jealousy that happens between
the family members and that can actually end up to
the murder and many people think, oh, jealousy is just
something that you know, we should all do. It's okay,
he's just jealous at me, and you know he loves

(08:14):
me or she loves me. You're not gonna be here.
Very stereotypes, because stereotyping is very something in old age.
We know that crime happens on a both type of
the boards, like on the sex as when we coming
for the male and for the female. So basically, I'm

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gonna tell you ladies and gentlemen, you know many of
us think that you know, obsession is okay, and you know,
if the jealousy exists in a relationship, this is something
that you know the person is showing us love. This
is far away from it. Obsessive love can cause person
to fix it on loved ones and thought they're an

(08:57):
object or possession can be to the various reasons running
to the mental health issues to delusions and disorders. So
neither is your brother, your sister, you know, your cousin,
I'm sorry to say it, your nearest loved one very
jealous of you or think you know they can control you.
This is not sign of love or a sibling love.

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This is a sign of a possession and a control
that at the end can end up into something very
dangerous where men and the woman in the uniform have
to intervene to control this. Health professionals widely recognize obsessive
love or obsessive love disorder, that it's coming as a
health condition. Many people don't know, but this is basically

(09:43):
what is happening. You know. There are numerous studies published
around that point to high risk suicidal thoughts and behaviors
in people with ol CD. So when you have somebody
in your family, ladies and gentlemen that is she to
effective schizophrenic, monic, bipolar, paranoid, they will do everything to

(10:06):
control somebody or to control the entire family unit. What
does happen with many crime victims, you know, and if
they're experiencing self hiring is crucial to see professional herbs
and from there they usually go to animals, younger siblings
and et cetera. So it can be it can be
very dangerous. I don't know if any of you guys

(10:28):
did experience something like that. Please you know, UH, don't
be shy. You can basically uh have some comments and
I will be uh there. Go texta hi to Gary
and have fun. Hello. Hello, I'm so happy that you

(10:48):
guys you know, are enjoying basically this show. It's a
little bit different. So crime of passion also known as
a voluntary manslaughter, So listen to this. It's a voluntary
manslaughter or a heat of passion crime is a type
of a murder that occurs when someone acts unimpulsive after

(11:09):
being emotionally charged. So when somebody is emotionally charged and
they want to hurt another person because they're not getting
what they want, can be very dangerous and can be
very scary. You know, the sentence for crime of passion
it's a jail time. Usually I can be fine, like
if it's just over the phone and whatever, or it

(11:31):
can be federal punishment that can end up to fifteen
years of prison if there's no basically murder involved. So
I'm going to share it's been five years. He's still
putting nothing past anybody. So this is another thing when

(11:52):
people don't want to get let go of the past,
that's when it's the scary thing. So you know, you
can love somebody. Uh if we're talking about the you know,
basically relationship between men and a woman, you know, men
and men, women and women. But let's steer your type now,
and let's say it's a man and a woman. But
if you're actually going towards to obsessing and you know,

(12:16):
and trying to hurt that person or control them, then
that's also very dangerous. If you are doing that, please
go and seek the help because it's never too late
before you go into the path. If you know somebody
that is doing that, then you know you may be
of a very serious crime. And basically they don't care

(12:41):
around here sell defense or not. And that's that's also
very very sad, you know when you look at it. Unfortunately,
many times when you look at crimes that are being punished,
they will like that corporal punishment exists for certain things.
You will like that. You know, basically, our authorities, our
judges make a different law and hopefully with these things,

(13:05):
like with the podcasts, with the shows that we do,
they do also hear the voices of the people and
they see that, you know, we will like some changes
and improvement when it's coming to basically defense of ourself
or defense of our loved ones. So the neis I
love your comment. You can love someone, but if you're

(13:27):
trying to change them, it will never work exactly. This
is what I want to address to the men and
to the woman, especially to the ladies, because I'm gonna
be honest. Out of the one hundred percent, crime of
passion usually does happen with the females, and it's seventy
eight percent. It's the females that you know will accept

(13:47):
this basically criminal act that distovers to them. Oh, he's
following me everywhere because he's so jealous he loves me.
Or he doesn't let me go to work because he's
scared that somebody will take me. You know, I cannot
drive the car because this man, you know, he loves
me so much, he's gonna drive me everywhere. This is
a signs of manipulation. So when you see the person

(14:11):
will actually manipulate you into assulating you. As they're assulates you,
there'll be papable of controlling you and your children. And
in the future this usually doesn't end up into anything
else but domestic violence, abuse, and many other mental issues
and disorders, including yourself. You're gonna carry so much trauma
and your children that at the end they may not

(14:34):
go to the relationship. They may be scared to give
a birth of children. They may also be scared of,
you know, going to work somewhere, because it depends how
the level of this obsession will go. And I love
the Nisio comment. I respect what you're saying when you're
actually having somebody that has a mental issue. So when

(14:55):
there are issues with jealousy obsessive disorders, you know we
cannot change them. That's a one thing. The first thing
that anybody should do is say, thank you for loving me,
but you don't love me. You have an issue, you
have an obsession. There's a I'm not going to mention

(15:15):
the name. There is a show that it's in Europe,
and there is this very young in her thirties, a
beautiful young woman and basically she's obsessed with this boy
we can say a young man, and she will go
anywhere and anywhere after Zola. That's the name of the guy.
But people don't understand that her mother is not against

(15:38):
the love. No, her mother is actually saying she's sick.
I can see that because I understand what her mother
is trying to say. But her people are saying, oh,
she's a bad person, she's a bad mother. No, she's not.
She is understanding that her daughter has an obsession. It's
not a love. This is an illness when you cannot

(16:00):
turn the page and go forward. Hello, point Zorge, Hello,
Hello Wendy, Hello everybody. Donnie is saying something. I changed
two women in five years. It work. There we go,
and that's how it should be, and this is what
it is. Love can be painful, you guys. It doesn't

(16:25):
mean that I was never hurt. Of course I was hurt.
Of course I felt pain. But as you get older,
also you know I am you know, over fourty now
I'm pretty happy. I'm stable. I know what I want
in my life. So you won't play me as you
will play some girl that is maybe eighteen or twenty.
Because I know exactly who I am and what I want.

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I maybe express my love to you and my concerns,
but as I see that this is not going anywhere,
I block myself and move away. So that's how it
should be. And a lot of times, you know, when
we are allowing these people to use us, following our heart,
it's not always the best thing, because you will allow
these monsters to use you an abuse you, including your children,

(17:09):
and hurting your family on don't think that your family
is not hurt as they're seeing you that you're down
the hill and being hurt by somebody who's supposed to
be your partner. Pont Sortie saying, my mom always called
me the green eyed monster, lol. And it's always nice

(17:31):
to see you guys that you guys are now good
about laughing and joking because it is a very heavy subject,
you know. I love that. I love what Patty is saying.
I'm too old and set my ways for someone to
try to change me. I like me the way I am.

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And this is another thing I want you to understand.
We all sometimes can adapt to our partners, but you
cannot change constantly. If you change constantly, you will be
lost inside of the relationship. So let's say, for example, Lila, Patty,
you like to cook, you like the hair certain way,

(18:12):
you like your clothes, whatever you like, and you start
slowly changing your character to adapt to this relationship, to
adapt him basically, to love you, just because you're trying
to please him. You're not gonna go to work anymore.
You're not gonna go buy the clothes, buy the makeup,
and meet with your friends at the bar. Gentlemen, see

(18:34):
watch that sport game that's not a love that's a
controlling issue. When somebody has a controlling issue, that's when
the point comes that domestic violence in the future will
be involved. No problem, Wendy, I'm so nice to see you, Yes, Diva,
I love that. Oh Smurphy is here. Hello s Murphy.

(18:55):
So this is not always the case. But also advise
quotion with dating someone much my younger or an an
only child. Smurphy, this is a very wonderful point that
you make. People don't understand when you're dating somebody that
is much much younger than you, you must understand that.
You know, the gap over a ten years can be

(19:17):
a big issue. Ten years still can be managerble, but
if you're going fifteen, twenty thirty years, this can be horrible.
The reason why usually the older person may try to
change that person and manipulate them, or the younger person
will do everything to control the older person because I'm young,

(19:38):
I'm beautiful. Look at me. Now. You know. There's even
people that would kill or attack other family members because
this beautiful young male or this beautiful young female is
now beside him. So the quocky ego and egoism, it's
a huge issue. Families will fall apart. It's also proven

(19:59):
by ps ecology. When the distance is over ten or
less more than twelve years, it's called abnormal connections. And
the reason why this is because they say that this
is not normal understanding between the partners. So Smurphy, what
are you saying? It's very very important to know the

(20:19):
easy Shane. I was manipulated for seventeen years. Never again.
My heart down to your girlfriend better ever than never.
I always say to every man and a woman, when
they stop the abuse and manipulation, it doesn't matter if
it's after ten years, ten days, thirty days, you stopped it.
You're allowed to be free. So I love that and

(20:43):
I'm very very proud. So it's God bless you for that.
It's not easy you guys, and people lots of times
start accusing the people why they're not stepping out out
of those relationships. It's not because they don't want to,
is because they don't know how and because of manipulation.
Like the niece is saying, it takes the time to

(21:05):
understand that you are not alone. It takes the time
to say I'm actually not at fault here. I'm allowed
to breed to feel free as every human being. So
I'm proud of you, the niece. Even after seventeen years,
you are free never again. God bless you for us
smoking out and wonder. Welcome aboard, Welcome, my friend. So

(21:29):
it's very very nice to see that you guys are joining.
This is a very important topic that you can share
video loved ones, and you can also learn from or
we can address somebody that maybe right now it's crying
in a corner and asking for help, but they don't
know how. Another thing that people don't understand that if

(21:50):
we go back to Homoka, and I'm sure many of
you guys know who Homoka is. She was here in Canada.
She killed her own sister because of the jealousy. How
you can drag and rape your own sister with your
husband and see, I'm happy about that, and she admitted

(22:11):
it's because of the jealousy. What kind of human being
would do something like that. You're supposed to love your sister. Ah,
sisters fight sister. You know me and my younger sister.
You know we have some years distanced apart. When we
were younger, I'm a military person, I like everything in
a corner and she was a younger girl. She liked

(22:32):
to put the stuff, and I'm like, oh my god,
why A You're messing the room. But now I understand
and I start laughing. I know the things that they
were playing as a kids, But I respect her now
because you know, she's thirty seven year old woman, you know,
with her own relationship, with her own choices. I may
not agree with everything, but I'm still there to support

(22:53):
her because I understand. We're all different. So there's a
difference between siblings fights as they mature, you know, and
there's some gap you know, age or one is teenager,
one is you know, maybe in junior high, one in
high school. But when you actually go the love is different.

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As you become older, that years basically you know, disappear.
So but when you see in a case of Homolka
that was disgusting to drog your own sister and raper,
and she admitted in front of the court it's because
of jealousy. While she's a married, grown woman, she goes
after a teenager because her sister was a teenager when

(23:38):
she was sexually assaulted by her husband and then killed.
So these are very dangerous things, Lila Patty, I agree
a Denise, I refuse to be a victim again. Yes,
I love you. You know, ladies and gentlemen, when you're
feeling free, here to share basically what you went through,

(24:00):
because that's not easy. But we are going to this
basically world now when people, if you are going to
the Mars. Why we cannot be free as a man
and woman far away from manupulators and abusers. Unfortunately we
cannot clean the world out then, but we can do
something about it. And I love what don'nally is saying, Wow,

(24:26):
no man is worth at all. Yes, and exactly there
is no man and a woman that is a worthed
or destroying your soul, your body, your mind. And I
will also say hello to my good friend Pierre who's
following down the Instagram and I'm happy hello to Quebec.

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And I want to share something really important that Pierre
shared with me, he said, Danielle. When the men and
women get married, have a beautiful flower and they enter
the marriage or the relationship with that flower. If that
flower disappears, like you know, a plant without the water,

(25:12):
is because they are not giving love, support and encouragement
to this relationship and they get lost forever. So please
learn something from there, because this is something what you
know it needs to be Kimber. Hello, Hello, so many
of you guys are joining. I'm really happy to see that.

(25:35):
So if you're talking about the crime of passion, we
must understand crime of passion is not just between men
and a woman. It could be, you know, between men
and a man, woman and a woman. We must understand
those relationships do exist, or between siblings, and that's quite crazy.
So when you think about it, welcome Kimber. Is so

(25:57):
nice to see you, my dear, so if it's quite amazing.
And another thing, for example, I don't know if you
guys did see this happened in California in Fresno court.
So Yanelli Soliro Rivera was eighteen and her three weeks
infant daughter was killed on September twenty four, twenty twenty two,

(26:20):
by her own sister and her sister's husband. So the
young mother with a baby that it wasn't even a
month old, was killed by her own sister and her
own basically uncle or you see the uncle of a baby,
the sister's husband, and she took nine millimeters pistol in

(26:42):
her hand and a jealousy rage shot Soliro Rivera into
the heart and then basically she went into the basically
where's the little basket when the baby was sleeping, and
she shot the baby and the husband is the one
who gave a gun. When they ask why she did this,
she said it is because baby was getting too much

(27:06):
attention than she does. That tells you how sick this
woman was. So trivi or baby was killed because of
the jealousy of a grown This is sick, and you know,

(27:26):
it's quite quite crazy when you see. So police said
that I really Soliro Rivera and Martin Arroyo Morales that
she was twenty two and he was twenty six. They
actually shot the mother while she was sleeping, and then
they showed the child out of the jealousy. And she

(27:50):
actually disclosed this to the police in Fresno, California, that
she didn't because she was jealous and baby was getting
too much attention. Like I agree the niece. How could
you shoot a baby? That tells you how sick and
twisted this person is. I'm sorry, you know, and again

(28:13):
great comment. How you can be jealous over a baby?
That tells you how sick and twisted this woman is.
And we must understand that jealousy didn't come over the night.
If we take this family for example, and you take
psychologically and put them apart, and you're doing the puzzle spectrum,
you will understand that the older sister was always younger

(28:36):
jealous at the younger sister. So even if she was
married prior to her she had a house, she was
going to work, that wasn't enough because in her twisted mind,
this woman was better than she is, and at the
end I think she was, but unfortunately she plays with
the life. You know, it's very sad. It's it's very serious, automotive.

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Thank you so much for the comment and for the joining.
You know, I love when people join a comment. Yes,
pure evil, sick of itch. She needs to walk with
the black agger. So it's just is just absolutely, very
very sick. And if you look the pictures, I mustn't.

(29:24):
I was looking at the pictures, you know, you guys
know I'm very close with my mother. She's my best friend.
And as I was preparing the show, I show her
the picture and my mother being a grandma. You know,
she's over sixty, she's a lovely lady. She goes like,
this is sick. How you can kill an innocent baby?
They also said that Yareli Sorilo Rivera and Martin Arroyo Morales,

(29:50):
they were actually following the sister for quite a long time,
that they were also taking the pictures of her and
were waiting for the time when she's gonna be alone.
They pre planned the entire killing of this beautiful young
woman and the infant, and it's quite disgusting, just like

(30:13):
home Oloka did. So it's telling you that this can
happen anywhere. So it's quite crazy, you know, and I
agree with you know, there's no excuses for that. It's
an innocent baby. I totally agree. But for her, my dear,
this is an object that it's stopping her happiness. You

(30:35):
must understand when people see these people that are jealousone,
they have obsession and basically they don't see them as
a person anymore. They see them as an object that
needs to be removed, harmed or basically ridiculous all the time.
So it's quite quite crazy. I'm going to show something

(30:56):
that let me just see. Forgive me. So my ex
was jealous over our babies. It's because I paid more
attention to them. That's part of the reason he's an
ex And that's another thing. When the men or woman
comes to you and they tell you now that baby
is getting more you know, basically attention than me. Pay

(31:20):
a really good attention. What can happen next? It's a
narcsistic egoistic Usually she's you effectic paranoid disorder with obsession
hiding behind there. Thank you a little party for sharing that,
because this is a quite quite a very very heavy

(31:41):
topic and I'm glad that you guys feel very respectful
sharing your stories. Kimber is saying, that's absolute narcissm. Of course,
somebody who is a narcistic it's gonna show all the
levels about themselves. I'm the most grandiose, I have the
best cooling, I have the best to work. I'm the

(32:01):
most handsome of the most beautiful. You know everybody about me,
I personally know the one lady from one family. When
she came to Canada, I was quite shocked, and you
know she comes from our community. The obsession with her being.
She was beautiful, don't get me wrong, a beautiful young woman,

(32:23):
but obsession made her to destroy her family and relationship
with her family because she taught in her narcistic egoistic
ideas that everybody needs to bow to her until police
didn't intervene. So this can draw you to a totally
wrong side. Oh Barry is here. Welcome, Welcome. Very Nazism

(32:45):
and sadism go hand in hand. Of course, I love
very what you're saying, because people don't know. But people
that are usally narcisistic are also very sadistic egoistic, and
they like to beat up somebody who is much weaker
than them, and that's how they gain their power. So
it's overcome and manipulation is a huge issue. So you're

(33:09):
going to do what I tell you or if you
don't do what I tell you, there's consequences for this
and that, and they may play for that for quite
a long time. We have another comment. Narcisstic comes off
as a really independent and strong, but their egos are
extremely fragile. Wonderful point. People that are narcissistic are very fragile,

(33:30):
and they're usually not that independent. They need somebody always
to help them out to go through the life obstacles
and to go through the certain life changes. They don't
know how to make a corrective life decision. So let's
say they need a new job, of course you'll get
strong worried, but no, I need approval from my mom

(33:53):
and dad to get a new job because I'm really
not sure. You know another thing. They are not sure
in their relationship, so being overpowering the person in a
relationship is the only way they feed themselves. And they
feel their ego so that they feel much stronger. And
it's true they're very insecure, and that's also very good one.

(34:18):
Cartels and gags vicious, narcistic, very much and statistic and abusive,
and many of them are serial killers too, so very
very important something here. I'm gonna just I love when
you guys are participating. I'm just gonna scroll just one
down because I want to share this comment very much. Okay,

(34:42):
their goal seems like attention could be shared and spread
onto the baby's attention is the same as you as
a mother father. Ever, imagine a spirit between them too.
This is very important that sometimes people don't understand that
mother or a father And I saw in my own

(35:02):
case files that I work with when mother or a
father becomes a jealous of a baby or a child
because that child is maybe smart, that child is maybe beautiful,
that child is getting more attention than they should, so
their ego is becoming very lower. Instead of praising the child,

(35:25):
they will hurt the child, or you know, they may
cause the troubles in the relationship because this child is
overpowering them, so they don't like to be overshadowed. Great,
great comment, Thank you very much. I love that you
guys are sharing the comment. Wendy is saying something I
live in naciss I learn her to not argue instead

(35:48):
I ignore him mostly, Wendy, that's a great point. People
don't understand. But people that are narcissistic, she's your affective,
paranoid and monic depressive. They're usually either nine percent obsessives
in the relationship and arcistic, like you're saying, when you
ignore them, you're not feeding their energy and you're not
giving a basically fuel to go further into their fights.

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So very very good point. And then the congratulations to
you also for leaving that kind of relationship and being
free now, you know, and this is what makes me
very happy of you guys that you are feeling comfortable
sharing something basically between here. Just like we were talking

(36:38):
about the young you know, mother that was killed in Fresno,
a real Baldwin, and basically it was a young boy
shot his sister and another brother at a Christmas because
he didn't get enough presents and they said they get

(37:00):
more present than I did. So Abrielle Balden and a
fourteen year old both suffered single gun shot wounds. Officially
said both were transported to a local hospital, where Baldwin
was declared deceased. The fourteen year old is now in
stable condition, according to Sheriff Bob Guiltier. So this was
a basically a story where you know, a young brother

(37:26):
was jealous of his other brother and his sister and
was a Christmas time they were sharing the presence and
he always felt that, you know, he's not getting enough.
The jealousy and the rage was growing into him. He
grabbed anard the gun and shot both of his siblings
in front of their own mother. Again, that is telling

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you how sick and twisted even this fourteen year old
child is. He never get enough attention, He never got
anything that should be given to him. And that is
that sometimes we need to see if we're having a child,
God Forbid with narcisistic She's the effective money depressive disorder.
It's compulsive obsessed that we need to address today, that

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with psychiatrists, with a counselor behavioral specialist, nurse, even you know,
the priests wherever you go. But if we leave that
untreated and we say, oh, they're just born that way,
they're not just born that way. They have a problem
and the problem needs to be solved before they enter
relationship or they go older. I love another another common here, diva.

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I bet an artist could not be alone by themselves
for a long time, drive them more natty than they
already are. That's true. So the truth. But when you
leave narcisstic person alone or you break a relations for them,
many of them end up in institutions and the reason why,
or you know, using addictive behaviors of harm. Self harm

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is another way, ladies and gentlemen, that you can phone
the authorities or the you know, capital health here will
be in Canada and you guys will be a different
states where you are mental phone number for suicide and
harm intervention. The reason why when I come and tell
you I'm gonna kill myself if you're gonna leave me,

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that's manipulation. It takes a long time for all of
us to grab that cord, hang ourselves, kill ourself whatever.
That's just that manipulation for another life. Please don't buy
it and just go you know what, call the number
whatever is the suicide intervention line in the United States, here,

(39:44):
in Canada, German, Italy, Croatia, because even is in Croatia.
You know wherever you are and you know, just turn
on that number. Take that seriously, but give them the
professional help. Don't try for yourself to enter the vice
coat and be a doctor, because you won't be able
to solve it. You'll just go deeper into the trouble

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and that can be costed for you and your entire family.
So I love that Deniece is saying. And people who
have never received unconditional love may be more susceptible to
this exactly. So the people that are coming from a
broken family is domestic violence abuse, they will be looking
for a love and as they enter the love or

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you know they were raised and really harsh, not loving families,
they think, Okay, he she loves me, this is not here,
or she loves me this is here, or she is
abusing me. So it is because they don't know what
real love is. So I love that you guys, are
many of you are sharing a wonderful stories and the

(40:52):
comments in here. We are family and this is our
family therapy. Glad that you guys fear as a family
here with me and when Texas is here. And the
reason why if this is giving you a therapy and help,
that's why we are here Texas from porch. You know
all of our shores are here to help and give

(41:15):
a guidance sometimes entertainment fund to each and every one
of you. So thank you for a beautiful comment that
makes me really happy. So the needst to showing here
is saying I was manipulated mentally and physically. Then I
fought back and I left. It took me a while
to get over it. Mentally. This is another thing ladies

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and gentlemen, I want you to pay attention when you're
an abusive relationship, jealousy, obsession that can lead to the
harm physically or mentally. You must understand that mental health
is much harder than the physical health. If I broke
you a hand, we'll put a cast and you will heal.

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But then if I break you mentally, it will take
you a long long time to turn the page and
go further. People don't understand. We are a little bit
better now because we are in twenty first century, so
we're understanding some things that mental wounds are much higher
and deeper than the physical wounds. So that's why they

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have now that something is called genetical trauma. So let's
say the child is raised inside of the abusive relationship,
that job will carry the trauma on to their life.
As they give a birth of another child, some of
the genes may mutate and the job will be affected.
So some people don't understand. But right now, working with

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trauma for over twenty years, I can tell you we
do have something that is also called genetical trauma, just
like we have with Ooriginal people here in Canada because
of all the abuse and everything that was happening with them.
There is a genetic com mutation now that new generations
are being affected by it. So unfortunately, there's many things

(43:03):
that people don't understand. As you are mentally broken that
physically you will be capable of healing faster than the mentally.
So I'm very oh, this is a great comment, you know,
so you read it one more time that you guys
can basically under understand this is a great comment. Thank you,

(43:29):
s Murphy. I met my wife when she was twenty
three and I was thirty, after we had killed. She
exhibited plenty of narissistic traits, but I think it was
because of the age gap and lack of life experience.
Thank you so much for being open here and feeling
comfortable to share the respect that people don't understand that

(43:50):
age gap. It can be a very bad thing. It
can be horrible for the boat partners because they won't
understand each other. They're coming with a different mindsetting, with
different understanding all the world and meeting society. And then
when the children in the world, in your case, the
problem is that Nazism is now going further. You are

(44:13):
actually having children to give a love support. What about me?
So my mother raised me with something that I always remember.
She said, if any man told me my children are
not more worth than he is, she would leave him.
So I always think about that. My son comes at first,

(44:37):
so there's no man in this world that can come,
you know, before him, because this child is the first
in my life, then the rest of the things come.
So thank you so much for sharing that, and I'm
glad that you got out of that bad relationship and
I agree with society is a crabsack. Forgive me for

(44:57):
my language, but that sometimes what can happen, and people
don't understand that. You know, if we think about the obsession,
don't you guys remember the obsession that you know it
can drive you to many things. Obsessive love can be
fixated on loved ones, to their object and possession. Please

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remember remember that you know. And I'm going to mention
something that you guys can all grab a pen and
pencil or share the show after. It's called eritomania. Eritomania
or Latin, it means it's a psychiatric condition, so it's
an illness which person has that delusional obsession with another
person that that person loves them, so when you try

(45:42):
to break away from them, no, no, no, he or
she loves me. Just like remember how the Reagan Ronald
Reagan was attacked. Then they have Sharon Stone and many
of these ones. They're actually attacked because this person had
the delusions and fantasies that this person loves them and
they have grandiose ideas. It's very similar that er tumnia

(46:04):
acts on the killing. John Lennon was killed on the
same way because of this illness. So now you guys
are seeing that obsession, jealousy, manipulation is not all love.
It's far away from it. Ah, you know, basically this

(46:25):
is the think what is Oh? I love this, Smoky
Mountain Wonderers, Diva, you keep these shows going on. It
helps us out here here. Thank you so much. I
try my guess, my best you guys, to give you
the support and understanding what's actually happening when you meet

(46:47):
with somebody out there. How to protect your loved ones,
your family whatever. I know that I would give my
family members, I also give to you. So thank you,
Smoky Mountain Wanderer. It makes me really happy that you're
enjoying it. And then here we have self harm isn't
always physical. Sometimes it's financial. Friendship works out exactly so

(47:12):
people don't understand. I know, the gentleman another case where
he was abusing another family members for the money of
the love of his mistress. So when you say it
can be financial, of course, so the son had to
give the money to pay everything for the mistress and himself,

(47:34):
including the car rides. While basically you know at the
end he ended up being bankrupt because of that. He
didn't have any more money, and the reason why the
son was manipulated, saying, if you say anything your mother,
because she was sick at that time, she wasn't feeling well,
it'll be hopeful. So he was manipulating this young man

(47:56):
to give him the money, control him and harassing to
the the bankrupt to the point of mental breakdown, while
he would have fun with his mistress that at the
end left him. Let's go back to the age gap
that many of you are saying, because basically mistress he
was at that time for the eighth and the mistress

(48:18):
was twenty three ding ding. Mistress is now living in Texas,
she's happy and enjoying marriage, while he ended up with
Alzeheimer's disease, mental issues and stuff like that again with
nobody else, but with the same family that is trying
to pay everything that he did pay and did with them.
So point, George, I told respect what you're saying, financial friendship,

(48:41):
work self exactly, so very very much important point too
many people. Oh this is a great one. So I'm
going to show this one. The last one told me
he was going to kill himself if I left him.
I told him I would get a really sharp for him,
so it would at least be overquick. I love it

(49:03):
that you didn't buy the basically the manipulation, because that's
what they would do. I'm going to kill myself and like,
oh no, I'm not saying that. You know, sometimes you
shouldn't pay attention because those are mental issues and disorders.
But there's lots of times issues with manipulation. There's again
the case where the I know another case where I

(49:27):
have a gentleman in my care that his brother would
abuse it and his brother would beat him up as
soon as you know, he wouldn't receive what he wanted
from this boy, and I would look at him and
I'm like, Holy Christ. And then after beating him up,
if you say this to anybody, you know, I will

(49:47):
kill myself. So that's quite a famous quote to control
the people and manipulate people. So I'm glad. And then
you know another people that people don't understand. It's hello Andrew,
welcome aboard, Oh my god, your full house today. People

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don't understand that compulsive obsessive disorder ertomania. What is the
basically obsession with the person that killed the famous musician
that we still enjoy his music is still enjoy the
love that he shared with anybody. That's John Lennon, you know,
Ronald Reagan, the famous I must say he was one

(50:31):
of my famous American presidents. I was very little. I
even didn't go to school when he was elected, but
I did admire him, admire his hat and his strength,
how he was ruling. Just like watching it. He impressed me.
I'm not sure the politic was good at all, but
he is. The way he was posing and presenting himself

(50:52):
to me, he was a real person that should be there.
So that he was killed because of obsession some of Madonna,
she was almost attacked Michael Jackson. So these people can
be also obsessed with the movie stars, with people that
you know are on CNN, whatever, and this obsession can

(51:13):
lead them to do a very horrible act. And that's
the murder. So don't forget the murder and jealousy and
obsession are not part of the love. And I'm gonna
tell you something very important again, and that's a circle
of violence. I did learn this here at a very

(51:35):
respected agency and I took their course and get certificate
from them. And it's called abuse in relationship and the
violence and it's called a Circle of Violence. If you
type it, please type it and put red cross Circle
of violence. That's international agency all around the world. I
learned something. So in this circle of violence, there are

(51:56):
particular stages that you should all pay attention to. So
the first stage is that I love you. You are
so beautiful. Oh my god, I'm gonna you know, give
you the world and everything. At the end, I'm gonna
start asulating you. Your friends are not good for you.

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Your mother is against me, your father is against me.
I don't like your sisters or your brothers. Your uncle
is so unknowing. I'm gonna ask, and if you're gonna
allow me, you're not gonna go visit them anymore. So
I'm gonna move you from those family members. I'm gonna
move you from those friends. Or when you go to work,

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I'm alone. I love you so much. Oh, when you
go there, I'm not sure if some men or women
will look at you. You shouldn't go there. I'm gonna
assulate you from there. So a you're losing yourself and
you're becoming a lost Now I'm gonna do something else.
I'm gonna raise my hand at you and make you

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shut up because you're not doing what I told you
now because you fight with all of your family and friends,
you don't have nobody to turn on and to ask
for help. You are a black sheep in the family,
So you continue again. Then when I beat you up,
what I abuse you it as a metrimentally, physically, sexually.

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I'm gonna buy you a present, I'm gonna call you
for a coffee, and we're gonna sit there and say
I'm gonna love you so so much, and that honeymoon
stage is gonna go all again. And that's called circle
of violence and abuse. And unfortunately many of us don't
know how to stop it. And it takes a big

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person to break that circle of violence. It can be
your child, it can be your mother, your father, your
best friend, your priest, the police officer, your neighbor. Don't
hate them, love them because they did stop something that
you deserve to go through. So, ladies and gentlemen, next time,

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when you think about circle of violence, when you think
I'm gonna kill myself, you know I'm so obsessed with you.
I love you so much. Jealousy obsession is not our love.
It's a recipe for a disaster and jealousy and obsession

(54:27):
can lead to murder. Just like a young girl was
just killed in fresh together, not even with a month
old baby, with the infant, because of the jealousy of
her own sister. We all know Wholka what she did.
We can all remember John Lennon. So this was the
Infamous Minds. I hope you did all enjoy it. I'm

(54:49):
really really thankful that you all did share to input
any thoughts regarding some of these very heavy topics that
you actually fear respected here. So what I can say,
point George, before I break up, I'm gonna share something.

(55:10):
Humans are the worst things to ever happen to earth.
I totally agree what we do to each other. There's
no animal that will do to each other. How abusive, jealous, manipulated,
aggressive we are, there's no animal that will do it.
So really respecting your comment, my friend, I hope you

(55:34):
did enjoy this wonderful show with us. I hope you'll
learn something. Please subscribe and share. Today We're gonna have
also a Divas dimension. It's going to be a really
good taped show that because I want to show you
guys some things. But I'm gonna still be behind answering
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(55:55):
If you didn't actually have a time to see, also
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the Duchess and you will see the interview with the
Duke about a wonderful and fantastic big Foot, how to

(56:19):
find them, how to look for them, and etc. Again.
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Thank you from the Texas Front Porch. I hope entire
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forward to see what they're gonna find. Thank you for
your wonderful comments. I love you all. God bless you.
Stay safe and don't forget love doesn't hurt. Good Night,