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July 25, 2025 83 mins
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Timestamps
00:00:00 - Whoa Ha Ha
00:01:02 - Welcome Keia & Toya/ How Was Your Week?
00:09:27 - Bills
00:11:52 - Break 1
00:12:17 - Relationshit Part 1 (Husband's 2nd Family)
00:29:48 - Break 2
00:30:14 - Relationshit Part 2 (The Priest Who Spoke)
00:39:50 - Friendshit (Broken Laptop Edition)
00:46:32 - Break 3
00:46:57 - Relationshit Part 3 (Long Distance Surprise)
00:56:12 - Friendshit Part 2 (Hey Jealousy)
01:09:51 - GF & BF BS (Peter Peter Pumpkin Cheater)
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Episode Transcript

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I could hardly believe it. When I heard the news today,
I had to come and get it straight from you.
They said you were leaving. Someone swept your heart away.
But from the look upon your face, I see it's true.
So tell me, tell me about the plans you're making.

(00:22):
Tell me one thing more before I go.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
Tell me.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
How am I supposed to live without you? Now that
I've been loving you so long? How am I supposed
to live without you? How am I supposed to carry
on when all that I've been living? Who is gone?

Speaker 3 (00:50):
Wow? Wow?

Speaker 1 (01:02):
Everybody, welcome question show about nothing is Welcome back to
the Blacker Show About Nothing is jaded X.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
Thank you for that.

Speaker 4 (01:17):
Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful, wonderful words.

Speaker 3 (01:20):
Wonderful words. It was a literation for me. Yeah, the boys,
I love that. And I'm this girl. I know her.
I know this girl. If I'm not mistaken.

Speaker 5 (01:35):
That has got to be the right Reverend Michael Bolton,
is it not?

Speaker 6 (01:40):
Wow?

Speaker 3 (01:42):
I was moved.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
That was some lyrics was white people. They don't have souls,
but they have the lyrics. I didn't even know the song,
this song, but this week is different. I have my
sisters with me Kiya and Toya, if you did not know,
please send Jade your well wishes and thoughts and prayers

(02:07):
as she lost a family member this week, and so
we want to make sure that we send her all
the love and support that we can during her trying time.
For sure, However, even according to Jade and late stage Capitalism,
the show must go.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
Yeah, toy with me.

Speaker 1 (02:34):
So, how was y'all's week? Toya, you start, I mean.

Speaker 4 (02:43):
For for those who don't know, or for those who
don't know me, which is every whye knows people next
to you absolutely don't know me.

Speaker 1 (02:54):
Okay, you're on our game show.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yes way people, Okay.

Speaker 5 (02:59):
That was dada.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
Next, I feel like I thought that was just cue LaToya.

Speaker 4 (03:04):
Okay, anyway, y'all know, I'm in full time care give mode.
So this week has just been a lot of driving
back and forth to his doctor's appointments, loading and unloading
my father in the car, him pissing me off because
he refuses to take pain medication, which is a whole
other thing in itself. Because I'm over here and yelling
at him today, like you know, this is systemic, This

(03:27):
is racism, and this is this has to do with
white people making black people feel like they are drug
addicts because they.

Speaker 3 (03:32):
Ask for pain pills.

Speaker 4 (03:34):
And so now this man don't he got cancer like
stage four cancer, and he just don't want to take
pain meds afraid no, afraid, no, sitting in the doctor's
office and lying talking about no not so much pain.
I said, doctor, I'm sorry. The cancer is in his bones. Okay,
he is in pain period, and he just don't want

(03:56):
to take the pains. So that's pretty much what we've
been going through this week, you know, just me bussing
at him and just you know.

Speaker 3 (04:06):
Trucking along.

Speaker 4 (04:06):
We're still in the fight and staying hopeful and prayerful
that God will turn it around or that whatever it
is that his.

Speaker 3 (04:15):
Will, we will be done. That's it. That's pretty much it.

Speaker 4 (04:20):
No job, no money, no man, none of that.

Speaker 1 (04:25):
That's Those are misnomers that.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
The world is literally a blaze.

Speaker 1 (04:31):
Okay, yeah, what's going on in your world?

Speaker 3 (04:37):
I mean, we're just blessed to be here.

Speaker 5 (04:39):
We're very grateful because things could be so worse, even
though it feels like everything is falling apart.

Speaker 3 (04:45):
But listen, we're safe. We have what we need.

Speaker 5 (04:50):
Honestly, you know, feeling a little heavy this week. The
loss came in high hearing about not only Jade's grandmother
but also my come Jamaal warners passing.

Speaker 3 (05:02):
It's a little bit of a trigger for me.

Speaker 5 (05:05):
But I'm trying to give myself space and grace to
sort of, like you know, let myself feel what I
need to feel and let that be okay.

Speaker 4 (05:13):
Uh.

Speaker 5 (05:13):
And like you said, like you know, we move like
you know, we're just moving through. I'm grateful to be
off work this week. We praise good for PTO and yes,
and we're hopefully getting on a plane later this week
to escape our troubles with some daily dallying. That's looking
forward to that.

Speaker 3 (05:36):
I'm sorry, but where are you going that I don't
know about?

Speaker 5 (05:38):
You do know about this, you just don't remember that.
Let's use the words appropriate.

Speaker 3 (05:44):
Oh, I know where you're going. I know where you're going. Yes,
thank you so much, thank you.

Speaker 4 (05:47):
I forgot because I was like, wait a minute, that
doesn't check yourself.

Speaker 5 (05:50):
What it's not a secret, guys, I'm going to I'm
going on vacation. We're going to Paris with Bobby and
Crystal Jean.

Speaker 3 (06:00):
Without me, and they're going without me this time.

Speaker 5 (06:02):
It's just servislation, just just this one time, because you know,
we're just I mean, the whole squad, you know, take
can't make it. You know, we're just sort of pushing through.
We're going to try to escape the tragedies of America.

Speaker 4 (06:18):
And without me though, you understand, like especially for you
Bobby and Chrystal, like y'all.

Speaker 3 (06:24):
Are really going to miss me the most.

Speaker 5 (06:28):
That's probably the pronunciation of the words and reading the most.

Speaker 3 (06:34):
Listen, You've not not.

Speaker 5 (06:36):
Yet lived or traveled until you have witnessed LaToya speak
another language or attempt to speak a language that is
not English. That is something that you all should imagined,
because I mean, we we had to invite ourselves. The
last time we went to Paris. It wasn't supposed to

(06:57):
be everybody going. It was just supposed to be me Antoya.
But the thought of me Antoya trying to navigate Paris alone,
he was.

Speaker 4 (07:07):
She was like, so Crystal and Bobby said that they
want to go to Paris to se Beyonce too.

Speaker 5 (07:12):
I was like, I said, we are going with them.
Crystal speaks French, but Bobby speaks better French than me,
and so sad that they were going.

Speaker 3 (07:24):
I said, we are we are going with them.

Speaker 4 (07:26):
It was no answer, but about it because she was like,
I don't get what you thought we're going.

Speaker 5 (07:31):
I'm like, amost been going? Imagine toya agreement into the
Google Translate to the you know, because that's what I'll
be doing.

Speaker 4 (07:40):
No shop, my pay shot, my pal say LaToya we.

Speaker 1 (07:50):
Legend fe Yes, that's French they're speaking.

Speaker 6 (07:52):
I know.

Speaker 3 (07:52):
These children aren't French.

Speaker 1 (07:54):
They're American and they've acquired their amazing new language skills
from Muzzy, the remarkable new video language program for children
developed by the British Broadcasting Corporation.

Speaker 2 (08:04):
Jesus.

Speaker 3 (08:05):
No, yeah, it's the time. It's a time.

Speaker 5 (08:09):
So we are definitely going to miss that, for sure.
That is not that's actual. We're absolutely going to miss that.

Speaker 1 (08:18):
Yes, well I look forward to hearing the stories about
when you three come back.

Speaker 3 (08:22):
Yes, and the shopping.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
I'll sit here shopping, yes, I'll be sitting here stewing
and you know, envy. But it's okay. Listen, we're going
to original.

Speaker 5 (08:33):
We're going to original recipe racism everyone and manager expectations.

Speaker 4 (08:39):
Yes, however better it's better over there, and it is
over here, child.

Speaker 3 (08:45):
I mean at this point.

Speaker 1 (08:48):
Is all.

Speaker 3 (08:48):
I feel like it depends you want original extraction.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
You know.

Speaker 5 (08:55):
So we're just gonna see, we're going, we're gonna pray
that the Lord be with us and were just.

Speaker 3 (08:59):
Going to try to make it back here unscathed. But yes,
we're looking forward to it.

Speaker 1 (09:08):
My week was cool. I didn't really have anything. Nothing
really happened to me like this week. Who has just
been Like I had last week off and I did nothing.
I just know I worked still but on something else.
But I don't really do anything, you know. I I'm
trying to stay indoors as much, just going to the gym,

(09:28):
you know, trying to stay out of Dodge because it
is crazy. But let's pay some bills because we have
a hell of a show today. I'll tell you all
what it is when we come back from the break.
But before we go on, thank you all for listening
each and every week till the friend, tell a friend

(09:50):
till the friend that we are here every Friday by
hook or crook.

Speaker 2 (09:57):
You know.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
Also we're on Patreon, that's where the true US lives.
Twelve ninety nine. For the Building Fund, we do a
whole bunch of watches down.

Speaker 2 (10:07):
To the.

Speaker 1 (10:09):
Yes, Yes, Yes, we are. We are a community, dott.

Speaker 6 (10:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (10:15):
Got to.

Speaker 1 (10:17):
Speaking of which I know one of our Last week
we had a quick fundraiser for something on Patreon and
to let you all know that we reached our goal,
and so we promised that our average is we will
donate to a black trans organization. So once we figure
out which that is, we will sit. You know, we
will be transparent and on the way, shout out to

(10:42):
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Speaker 3 (10:46):
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Own community and they have a new channel there where
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time down there. Subscribe to our YouTube channel is Freer
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Jada XD for free. I do know that in some
countries it is blocked. Wow, I'm sorry, I can't help you.

Speaker 2 (11:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (11:11):
Yeah, they don't like either the copyright content or they
don't like what we have to say about certain countries
that are committing genocides.

Speaker 3 (11:22):
Yes, I understood me.

Speaker 1 (11:28):
Yeah, well I purposely don't do the arsist feet over there.

Speaker 3 (11:33):
Because for that reason. Amen.

Speaker 1 (11:38):
But any who, thank you all for sporting and we'll
be back after these messages.

Speaker 4 (11:44):
Hit it, claude, hit it claude, Damn after these messages,
will be right back.

Speaker 2 (11:54):
Susie Parfman had no idea that her husband was living
on double light for fifteen years. Now, that's betrayal. Listen
to their story. Listen to their story.

Speaker 1 (12:18):
And we're black today it's going to be a fun one.
Today's it's relationship stories. So these stories are from Reddit.
They range from am I the Asshole? Am I the
Devil off my Chest? These are stories that are specifically

(12:40):
compiled that deal with relationships. It could be other friendships, spouses,
you know, other types of dynamics. Okay, alrighty, okay, let's
start with the spicy one.

Speaker 3 (12:58):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (13:01):
The title is my husband has a second family.

Speaker 3 (13:06):
In Jamaica.

Speaker 1 (13:12):
The ultimate cliche has happened in my life and I'm
absolutely broken. My husband, my rock, has been having an
affair for over seventeen years. We've been married for more
than twenty.

Speaker 3 (13:26):
Five Okay, so he's definitely Jamaican.

Speaker 1 (13:31):
We have three beautiful children, two in college and one
still living at home. But it turns out he's had
another entire family this whole time. My husband is an
insurance broker. He manages multiple branches across the country and
spends one week traveling, one week at home, and turns
out on his off weeks. He's been with his other

(13:54):
family in albert Cookie, where one of his branches is located.
Oh Jezus, he has there and they have two children,
both in their early twenties early teens. Excuse me, I
love to say, yeah, okay. I found out by accident.
I was creating a new Facebook account, and when I
searched his first name, another profile popped up with a

(14:16):
different last name, but it was clearly him. From that profile,
I found links to his fiances and their other children's
Facebook pages.

Speaker 3 (14:25):
On the socials if you will, I got big.

Speaker 1 (14:28):
Notes he's currently with them, and I know it's him
because his most recent post is a photo of him
and this other family having dinner. Among the photos are
ones of him kissing this woman and being fatherly with
kids who look exactly like him. I'm absolutely devastated. A

(14:50):
part of me wants to scream in his face and
destroy everything, but another part of me wants to just pretend.
I don't know, because of our at least on the surface,
is peaceful. He's a good dad, he's loving, he's our
primary provider. But he's all those things to another family too.

(15:10):
If I expose this, I won't just be blowing up
my family, I'll be detonating theirs too good. My heart
is in shambles. I've never cried so much in my life.
My youngest is away on a graduation trip, and I'm
completely alone until my lying, cheating husband, bastard husband comes home.
I can't believe this is my life. I feel like

(15:33):
a movie plot. Part of me still hopes this is
just some huge misunderstandings about but I don't know what
to do. I'm tempted to pack a bag and just leave.
I can't stand this house where we raised our children,
celebrated every Christmas, where I spent so many lonely New
Year's Ease while he was quote unquote working his ass off. Okay,

(15:55):
I want to leave a note to hurt him like
he's hurt me, but I don't think that's even possible.
I don't know how I'll ever look him in the
face to.

Speaker 6 (16:03):
Get Leslie was married fourteen years to a pilot before
finding out about his double life with a flight attendant
living in the same town, so this was very familiar
to you.

Speaker 3 (16:17):
You're taking notes. Yeah, I mean copious notes, I mean
writing down.

Speaker 5 (16:24):
Yikes, I mean, can we just go all the way
back to the beginning because I knew it was the
bullshit when she still refers to this niggasa.

Speaker 3 (16:33):
Rock my husband, my rock. Okay, wait, like you know.

Speaker 1 (16:45):
I feel that for seventeen years out of your twenty
five year marriage, for what is that percentage that's over
eighty percent?

Speaker 3 (16:55):
Well over, let me do that's like the relationship.

Speaker 1 (16:59):
Yeah, the time relationship you have been creeping like that
is the whole relationship that is a family.

Speaker 5 (17:06):
That is sixty eight percent of the marriage, which he
probably she probably knew her before he got married and
who knows.

Speaker 1 (17:15):
Had to.

Speaker 5 (17:17):
I mean, he didn't marry the other lady. They're just
engaged and have two children. See, this is the this
is the thing for me.

Speaker 4 (17:27):
She's doing so much typing on Reddit and there would
be so like all my typeing would be in that
woman's cell phone, you know what I'm saying, Like it
would be.

Speaker 3 (17:35):
We need to have a.

Speaker 4 (17:36):
Face to face because clearly he's not going to tell
me the truth. I need you to tell me the
truth type thing because I am not I'm opposed I mean,
I'm not opposed to women approaching the other woman if
they want to get answers, as long as she's not coming.
I mean, we don't know if the girl know about
her or not. She might, but does she know that
he's fully on, full on married. I don't know, but

(17:58):
I would This is something where I would condone her
calling the other woman because I would need all sorts
of answers. I would need to try to wrap my
head around the fact that he has grown ass kids
with this woman and I'm just.

Speaker 3 (18:14):
Finding out about it.

Speaker 4 (18:15):
Yes, So I would need to be having to sit
down with her because clearly he is a psychotic sociopath
who will not tell her the truth. So I know
that she's not going to get the truth if she
approaches him regardless, Right, So I would definitely be getting
my ass off Threddit and into that lady's phone and

(18:37):
talking about so where we're gonna meet? So you want
to meet halfway? Like what do you want to meet?

Speaker 2 (18:42):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (18:42):
I wouldn't do this over the phone.

Speaker 4 (18:46):
Yeah, right, Like what do you want to meet? Because
this guy, I gotta try to understand this. I would
be blowing up his whole spot if she didn't know already,
And we're gonna have to have this conversation because the
next conversation is going to be with me, you and him.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
Yes, we having a full tribal council like we are
having We are having discourse because there are so many questions,
Like there are so many questions that I need answers
to you, and a hope an of questions I don't
want to answer, yeah, right, because you I would question
every moment, Yeah, where you went off to work, where

(19:22):
you went to the master, and when you went to.

Speaker 2 (19:26):
And that.

Speaker 5 (19:27):
I mean, I hear y'all on wanted answers. But and
this is probably the very traumatized, unhealed part of me speaking,
But I just feel like I would document all of
this for legal reasons only, like I would gather my receipts,
I would lawyer up, and he would never see me

(19:48):
again until we are in court.

Speaker 4 (19:51):
But that's why I got to go talk to the girl,
because you got to get all the information because you're
not going to get everything from not going to get
nothing from him. So now I got to get all
this information so that yes we can lloy to fuck
up and get him for every single god did going
down that he has and I hear her, I mean,

(20:13):
uh to the part where she was saying he's the provider,
the bread winner, all this and that, and it's just like,
gro not only do you need to to not type
into Reddit, I need you to get down to the
LinkedIn and get you a job.

Speaker 3 (20:30):
You're gonna have to get you a job because.

Speaker 7 (20:33):
Because it's giving you ageing like I went, I found
my husband in college and that and when I said,
I do that meantime.

Speaker 3 (20:44):
Yeah, that's it.

Speaker 1 (20:45):
Like those people who just actively just look for a
husband or spouse in college and don't do anything.

Speaker 5 (20:52):
Else, and they sent you their entire lives around this
one relationship. And I mean, you know, I get it
from the perspective of being parents and raising children.

Speaker 3 (21:06):
But I don't know.

Speaker 5 (21:07):
That's when I was just like, oh girl, I mean
to hear her considering like not saying anything and just
riding it out was where it was like, oh, yeah.

Speaker 4 (21:19):
That's and that's why I was saying, is giving guilded
age because you know that that that lady I forget.
You know, I don't be doing well with the names
on guilded Age, but I know the one who's been
an eggiled to Newport because her correct and because of
just face value. She was looking at her husband like, no,
you don't get to go, Like yeah, you can do
whatever you want, but you don't get to go, and
he was like, oh no, I'm going, and in that

(21:40):
age he was yeah, like you can't do this to
me because they are going to exile me, not you.

Speaker 3 (21:46):
And it sounds like single people.

Speaker 5 (21:49):
Do not have a place in society exactly.

Speaker 3 (21:52):
So it looks like failure on her, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (21:55):
Yeah, the lady who was writing it to the reddit
down to the reddit, it sounds like she's more so too,
also trying to save face and her ego about it.
It's like I can't you know what I'm saying, Like
I don't want to lose the money, and I also
don't want to lose the the reputation that I have
or whatever they put on for their community.

Speaker 3 (22:15):
So that to me, I don't even care.

Speaker 5 (22:18):
Someplace else, Yeah, I mean, it makes me think of
a meme I saw earlier this morning that was like,
why are women so secretive about who they love? Like
most women I know these days don't love out loud,
And this girl reposted it and her reply was, loving
a man is a humiliation ritual.

Speaker 4 (22:41):
No, no, no, seriously, because the minute to say to
save the numbers.

Speaker 5 (22:47):
I felt the scene in that moment, because if it's
one thing these niggas going to do is going it's
embarrassed iris you.

Speaker 3 (22:58):
She said, loving a man is is a humiliation ritual.

Speaker 5 (23:03):
Yeah, wow wow, And I agree.

Speaker 4 (23:08):
And I'm telling you that's why I just be on
some and I'm not superstitious, but I'm telling you, like
I said, it's like the minute you saved their name,
it's true something cute, it all hell.

Speaker 5 (23:20):
Breaks literally, that's like you ain't saved my number. No, No,
I know it's you.

Speaker 3 (23:26):
But I'm just not there. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (23:28):
And now the guys that I that still be in
my phone, they got certain names in their phone, Like
one's name is lia Liah pants on fire.

Speaker 3 (23:35):
That's the number. That's the name that comes up here
every time.

Speaker 4 (23:40):
He will tell you because I'd be screenshots conversations we'd
be having and she'd be like the liar liar pants
on fighters.

Speaker 3 (23:47):
Yeah, because his name is longer than the messages. It's crazy.

Speaker 4 (23:51):
Oh oh yeah yeah, because they will embarrass you.

Speaker 1 (23:56):
Embarrassing we have an update. Okay, so she says, first
of all, thank you.

Speaker 3 (24:07):
Your advicement the world to me.

Speaker 1 (24:09):
I'm not well versed in legal matters, so all of
your legal input has been incredibly helpful. I've spoken to
an attorney. We're discussing next steps, and he's advised me
to gather as much evidence as I can. Photos, messages,
flight records. I've created a folder with everything and will
present it when the time comes for divorce proceedings. I'm

(24:30):
still here on the legal specifics, but it's a start.
I also contacted the other one I claimed the entire situation.
She was just as shocked and heartbroken as I was.
From what I've learned, she's financially independent from him and
they don't share property, so her separation from him should
be more straightforward. My husband now knows I'm aware of everything.

(24:55):
He's staying in a hotel. What he doesn't know is
that his fiance knows too. When he walked through the door,
I confronted him, he started crying and begging. It was
honestly pathetic. I cry too, but I've made a choice
to see him for what he really is, a pathetic coward.
We both legally own the house, so I can't force

(25:16):
him out, but he's staying away for my sake quote unquote.
All I could think is, if he cares so much
about my well being, maybe being faithful for my sake
should have crossed his mind. He's now in a downtown hotel,
calling every few hours to quote unquote check in on girl.
I'm not sad anymore. I mean I am, but mostly

(25:36):
I'm furious. My children still don't know. My youngest thinks
his dad is working more in Albuquerque because of a
quote unquote business problem. I don't know how to tell
them they have two half siblings and a father with
a backup family. I've been feeling so deeply unwanted and
unappreciated lately, but your kind words have helped more than
you know.

Speaker 3 (25:55):
Thank you truly.

Speaker 1 (25:57):
Mmm.

Speaker 5 (25:58):
You got to tell them kids they got brothers and
sisters somewhere else.

Speaker 3 (26:01):
Okay, that's that's got to be a priority.

Speaker 1 (26:04):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, because you never know, you know, you
know what, I'm way too many stories many white people dating.
It's too many each other's siblings in.

Speaker 3 (26:17):
The same town or like they're not in the same town.

Speaker 5 (26:19):
Though, right, But you know, the internet is you know,
everybody's as close as they are to their phone.

Speaker 3 (26:28):
Yeah, they've got to know, they have to know to know. Well,
I'm glad she's blowing it up.

Speaker 4 (26:32):
I'm glad she's I hope she don't break down because
you know, they like the child at the at the
at the last minute of the fourth quarter, like the
come in their knees about I'm talking about they talked
to the lady and how they got saved and how
they Holy go spell and they trying to do things right,
and so like, I really hope that she stays true

(26:54):
to who she is and where she is right now
in her life and kicks that nigga to the curve.

Speaker 3 (26:58):
I really really hope.

Speaker 5 (26:59):
So there's a threshold that you crossed though, when she
said that she'd moved past sadness and into anger and
when she can.

Speaker 3 (27:07):
Now see how raggedy and useless he is.

Speaker 5 (27:11):
You know, when we when we get to the place
where we're no longer attracting to right. So when we
get to a place, you know, it's really hard to
sustain an attraction to somebody that you don't respect.

Speaker 3 (27:22):
Amen.

Speaker 5 (27:24):
So so I'm hopeful that she is past turned the
corner and that no amount of jagged edge begging would
allow her to have him back into her personal space
or her bank account.

Speaker 3 (27:39):
Ever again it's not fine.

Speaker 4 (27:58):
Well, I feel like she's gonna be able to get
his money because he's the breadwinner.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
That's like, I don't like this idea of like quote
unquote checking in or no, and like you know, bread crubbing, right,
Like that's manipulation because he knows. It's just like you're
talking about here, like she's about to take everything.

Speaker 4 (28:20):
Seriously and it's not even going to be about love.
It's going to be about control. He can't have her
get all the control. He can't lose everything. It's not
even going to be about her, you know what I mean.
And that's the saying that they'll make you think that
they're coming back, and they are so humble about this
and how wrong they were, and then grand scheme of things.

(28:40):
This whole the whole thing was about them and saving face.
Because truth of the matter is a lot of these men,
most of them who do this type of shit, is
narcissistic and it's always about face value hodder, and so
you know, they're always going to be worried about what
they look like on an outer and so that is
why they start. Yeah, that's why he's gonna start bradcroming her.

(29:02):
That's why I was like, I hope she just stays
strong because and then he's gonna turn it into what
you was ugly anyway.

Speaker 3 (29:08):
Yeah, what I'm saying, like it just flits.

Speaker 4 (29:10):
It comes back, and it's gonna be her fault. Yeah,
it's gonna be her fault.

Speaker 3 (29:16):
She was ugly.

Speaker 4 (29:16):
You ain't to do this, so it's gonna try to
like play on all these The devil knows how to
sleeep right on in there and say the things to
make you break. So I just hope she has stayed
strong through all of that, because the manipulation train is
not stopped yet.

Speaker 1 (29:33):
No, let's take a break and we'll be back with
another story headed Claude Claude band. Damn.

Speaker 2 (29:51):
The soccer Man's Confession is kind of a big deal
for me. Not only was it the place where I
first encountered the Lord Jesus in a in a powerful
way that like changed my life literally, uh gave my
life a horizon said it in the decisive direction in
the words of Hope Benedictimy I just I love you know,
as a priest.

Speaker 1 (30:14):
And we're black. This next one, yes, this we're doing
relationship stories here with Kia and LaToya.

Speaker 6 (30:26):
I have.

Speaker 3 (30:26):
The next one.

Speaker 1 (30:29):
Is religious kind of dear, and it's also based in Maryland.
And this is also a flip side of what we
just talked about. Uh A priest broke the seal of

(30:51):
confession and told my husband I cheated.

Speaker 3 (30:54):
They can so let me get my notes.

Speaker 1 (31:00):
Okay. As soon as I read the title in my head,
I was like one of them goes say, oh yeah,
because yeah, so three years ago, this is a woman.
Three years ago, I cheated on my husband during a
work trip. It was a one night stand. We didn't

(31:20):
exchange numbers and haven't been in contact since. I don't
even remember his last name. At the time, I didn't
care much. My marriage was rocky and I felt completely unappreciated.
But during the pandemic, my husband and I reconnected and
I started to feel incredibly guilty. Last month, I decided
to go to confession. I told my parish priests everything.

(31:43):
He told me that as part of my penance, I
needed to tell my husband. I didn't know how to
do that, so I sat on it. Last weekend, I
came home to my husband throwing all my things out
of the bedroom. He was livid and told me he
knew everything. Apparently the priest followed up with my husband.

(32:07):
When my husband didn't know what he was talking about,
the priest told him everything. I'm messed now my world
is falling apart. I thought confession was supposed to be private.
Isn't that the whole point? Does the priest have any
liability for breaking confidentiality? I'm in Maryland, so this was
an am I the devil, and also legal advice.

Speaker 3 (32:29):
Move on first? Do you want to go first? No,
I'm just asking love, so listen.

Speaker 5 (32:38):
I will disclaim this by saying I don't know anything
about how the Catholics Catholic and what the rules are,
but I'm pretty sure, especially after going to Catholic school
for a couple of years.

Speaker 3 (32:50):
That the priest not supposed to tell no, you're not.

Speaker 5 (32:56):
And yeah, it's a code of silence or something that
that that something that is that is a very that
is a serious offense. And so I do feel like
there is some sort of you ought to be able
to whether it's the archdiocese or whomever, like you ought
to be somebody you need to call and to entel

(33:17):
that this has happened.

Speaker 3 (33:21):
And I feel what I do too.

Speaker 5 (33:23):
But the thing that strikes me, and this is not
me caping for this woman cheating. I do feel like
she was sorry and was just you know, willing to
be held accountable in terms of you know, she felt guilty.
So I know that she's not a terrible like you know,
I know she's not a sayist or whatever. And I

(33:46):
think you do sometimes, you know, you have to be
ready to you know, sort of come clean about something
like this. So I do feel like it is not
up to this priest. I feel like this is a
complete abuse use of power and religious authority, if you will.

(34:06):
And I feel like that's that's messed up. That's messed up.
It is not a reflective of God or God's character
or anything like that. It's wrong on all accounts, and
it is just as much a sin as the adultery itself.

Speaker 4 (34:25):
In my book, I agree. Now this is what my
notes say. Oh, so the priests want to do the bending?
Also he doing I just want to do the bending.
That can't get Yeah, okay, I'm getting at reading in
between the lines First of all, why is the priest

(34:46):
and the husband such a How do they have a
relationship where he could go back and tell the husband
what the wife did? Because what So then we also
have to think about how the lady was not feeling
fulfilled in her marriage and she started cheating.

Speaker 3 (35:01):
And I'm not saying that cheating.

Speaker 4 (35:03):
Is right, but what I'm saying is it does take
to to cheat, right, it doesn't always mean this person
is being being unfaithful. So this person is unfaithful, it
could be he's not he's not paying attention to her,
or he's been he's withdrawn from her in the home.
So now she's, you know, searching for something else. So

(35:24):
I'm reading between those lines, and I'm also reading between
y'all needed a pandemic to come together like that means
it's not together because you cannot believe. I just don't
believe in a lot of these connections that happen during
the pandemic, and we're going to see a lot of
them crash and burn like right now. So some of them, yes,
but others no, especially when it comes to people who

(35:44):
we used to be married.

Speaker 3 (35:45):
So That's what I'm getting from it. So what I take.

Speaker 4 (35:48):
My take is the priest want to do to bending,
so he sat that.

Speaker 3 (35:54):
Whole thing of so that you can get with his baby.

Speaker 5 (35:59):
Okay, remember that video I sent you from the consecrator
in DC. What's his name, pretty boy Comedy. He said,
the messiest person you know is a man, a straight man.
Remember he said they were than the gays. He called
them dragons. Dragon yeah, dragon, yeah, because you know they
love the mess, they carry the mess. They're usually the

(36:20):
one that harry and propagates the mess. Man a straggon.
I smell as dragged down to the confessionalness.

Speaker 1 (36:32):
I yeah, I don't disagree because a like, because I
have to play the scenario in my head. I'm sure
like the husband was just you know, doing a charity basketball.

Speaker 3 (36:47):
Of it, you know, volunteer.

Speaker 1 (36:49):
Yes, the walls, he was doing, you know what, the soup,
and the priests like your come father Abraham and was
like tell you something, you know, you know, like that's
like that's so messy. Yeah, And I don't disagree, and
like what are you what are you gaining by telling

(37:11):
the secrets from this covenant?

Speaker 3 (37:13):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (37:15):
And honestly I feel like, yeah, don't I think there
is like a code of silence or something like that,
especially if if she did it in how they be
doing it in the movies. Do they still do that
when you go forgive me Father poy sending them darker rooms?
Because how That's another thing is like if he would
have known, if he knew that was her and he went,
I could see that that's him breaking the law.

Speaker 3 (37:35):
And then if he did it under the guise of.

Speaker 4 (37:38):
Counseling where it's separate counseling, not marriage counseling, but even
marriage counseling, I feel like they're still up, Yeah, like
code of silence or something like that that they have.
So I would feel like she could go to whatever
they do, down to the Catholic church and go to
his upper management and shut that whole thing down, because

(38:01):
I guarantee you there's pictures of Stebo in his in
his phone that they've been doing the bending together.

Speaker 5 (38:09):
It says that that there is the penitent privilege and
that in most cases confessions are protected by law. Yeah
privilege that means, under certain circumstances, the information ship in
the confession cannot.

Speaker 3 (38:25):
Be compelled or disclosed in court or other legal proceedings.

Speaker 1 (38:30):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (38:33):
Suit the archdiocese and get millions, probably because he's potentially
ended or suit him or that's still but still suit
the whatever, the church at diocese, because I would go
after them. I would go after them because y'all hire him.
And he just ruined my entire marriage. I don't care
if I was out here. I'm slepting my my bus,

(38:54):
my box out every night.

Speaker 3 (38:55):
I don't care. I could have been a prostitute on
Hunts point. I do not care. He ruined my marriage.
And I want eighteen thousand million dollars right now, and
I want my money now. I want my money now. Yeah,
there's confidentiality. Yeah, that's a thing. That's so I think

(39:16):
pressed lawyer up and press the charges and get your bag.

Speaker 4 (39:20):
Actually, to be honest, I've never ever doubted the priests
that I confessed to.

Speaker 3 (39:26):
Like, I never thought, oh what if he tells someone.

Speaker 1 (39:33):
Yeah, let's move on to the next story. Real see, Yeah,
they are, they are, they are, especially you can especially
the next one I'm about to tell. Oh, lord, we're
switching gage here, so we're moving more towards friendship.

Speaker 3 (39:54):
Okay, you two have been friends for a very long.

Speaker 1 (39:58):
Time since Adam, you know this, This probably This may
not have come up between you two, but you may
have come up in your friendship circles.

Speaker 6 (40:10):
Right.

Speaker 1 (40:13):
I accidentally broke my friend's MacBook, offered to pay, and
now she wants more because she was upgrading anyway, or
she'll sue me.

Speaker 3 (40:23):
Okay, let's get into it.

Speaker 1 (40:28):
I had a few friends over at my place and
one of them invited another friend I didn't know very well.
She left her MacBook on my couch and when I
sat down, I accidentally broke it. It was completely my fault,
so I took full responsibility and told her i'd pay
for it. She said she bought it three years ago
for twenty two hundred dollars, and I agreed to wire

(40:50):
her the money within a week. Fast forward a few days,
she emails me saying that she's expecting twenty seven hundred dollars.
As our conversation quote unquote, I was confused because we.

Speaker 3 (41:04):
Never agreed on that amount.

Speaker 1 (41:07):
I got her number from my friend and gave her
a call to clear things up. On the phone, she
says she's expecting me to cover the cost of a
brand new, upgraded MacBook because she was quote unquote planning
to upgrade anyway. She told me if I don't pay
the twenty seven hundred dollars, she'll take me to small
claims court.

Speaker 3 (41:28):
So now I'm stuck.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
Should I just send her the original twenty two hundred
dollars for the cost of the one I broke? Or
tell or tell her to go ahead and sue me.

Speaker 4 (41:40):
Kick only seven hundred dollars is crazy town nuts?

Speaker 3 (41:48):
Because what is she an OSCO? Will win a film
editors like what's what is on the what is down today?

Speaker 1 (41:53):
Asking like she is this is a Lucasfilms as computer.

Speaker 3 (41:58):
Let me say what.

Speaker 5 (42:00):
I would send that girl to twenty two hundred dollars,
and I would tell her to try me.

Speaker 3 (42:04):
Like, listen, if you gotta go, if you gotta if.

Speaker 5 (42:06):
You want to take me to small cake claim score, bitch,
that's where we're going, all right? Well, And I'm like, girl,
let's go see what your trading value is on this thing,
and I will pay the difference like.

Speaker 4 (42:19):
You're not coming up on me. Like you're not coming
up on me. So what I'm gonna do is, since
it's broken, you don't need it, give it to me.
I'll trade it in and I will pay the different
sport and upgraded laptop. You should be happy with that.
Suing me for an additional whatever, five hundred dollars is wild,
that's wild because and so that just tells me we

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was never friends to begin with.

Speaker 3 (42:41):
That's number one and two is what.

Speaker 4 (42:43):
The hell was that girl doing to break the girl's laptop?

Speaker 6 (42:46):
Like how may?

Speaker 3 (42:48):
I mean she must have flagged her body down on
that couch.

Speaker 4 (42:51):
But either way, I mean, we just don't be around
each other's electronics like that.

Speaker 3 (42:57):
I mean, I mean, this is just wow. I don't
feel like this is anything.

Speaker 5 (43:02):
I don't know, I feel I feel bad this I
would be in either case if I broke toy's laptop
or she broke mine, I don't feel like places would.

Speaker 3 (43:12):
Be tight, Like it would be nothing but tightness, Like yeah,
I mean, like what do you do? I don't understand
because I'd be like wait, so, so like how did
this happen? You know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (43:30):
So, once we got past the initial shock of it,
it would be first of all, I wouldn't have to
ask to kid no, if she broke mine, I wouldn't
have to ask her to replace it. If I broke her,
she would not have to ask me to replace it
it would be like girl, I listen, don't even girls.

Speaker 3 (43:49):
She would be of me apologizing. It would be dumb.

Speaker 5 (43:52):
It would be like it would be years later and
it would be like child, you remember when I broke
that laptop?

Speaker 3 (44:00):
What is wrong with me? Like if we would be
talking about it happened. Oh, I just don't understand what
got into me?

Speaker 4 (44:10):
Right, Yeah, So that's why I was just like, that
wasn't a friendship to begin with. You know what I'm saying, like,
that's not a friendship to begin with. If you can
even a way to sue book.

Speaker 5 (44:21):
Yeah, if I went to your house and broke anything
in there, I would feel awful. I mean, I don't
care if it was if it was a MacBook, I
don't care if it was a strap on your shoe.
I'd have felt like shit, Like damn, I'm so sorry
the fact that you would, And I feel like this
girl is remorseful and willing to take responsibility. Then to
be met with somebody trying to take advantage of that,

(44:45):
That's what I'm saying, Like you're trying to take advantage
of that.

Speaker 3 (44:47):
So that's grounds to get drug. I'm not gonna hold
you like.

Speaker 5 (44:52):
We we would have to, I would I would probably
not have any dealings with this person ever again because
this this, uh, it shows that you have the lack
of character and I can't have people like that around me.

Speaker 4 (45:06):
And I actually would tell her, you know what, go
ahead and waste your time to do small claims, because
I truly believe Judge Judy and them whoever's gonna because
I've had to go to small claims here in New York.
They do not they do not got time for nonsense.
They will get you out of there quick.

Speaker 3 (45:20):
Broken property. Let's go the broken property. I have a
picture of the laptop and show it was your laptop. Yes, ma'am.
May I see the photograph and then you'll tell me
how it got broken.

Speaker 4 (45:32):
And so I strongly believe that if she came in
there and the friend comes in and saying that I
was willing to take the laptop and trade it in
and pay the difference, but she's telling me she won
an additional five hundred, I guarantee you any judge, you'd
be like, oh, is that what was happening? Case dismissed?
Now you have nothing. So I would be like, let's
just go. I'm like, let's just do what do Yeah,

(45:55):
let's just go to court, go down to other people's
Let's go down the people's court and let me tell
you something. Don't speak to me because anytime I see you,
it's on site and I'm going to mean it.

Speaker 3 (46:07):
Yeah, it's just I'm gonna mean it. Mm hmmm. I
will take every out your head.

Speaker 1 (46:15):
Because let's take a break. Let's take a break and
we'll be back more. Jada XD with Kea LaToya hit
A Claude.

Speaker 3 (46:25):
Jaden. After these messages will be right back.

Speaker 2 (46:34):
Now.

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Speaker 1 (46:58):
And we're back. We're doing relationship stories. Just when you
thought it couldn't get worse, Oh god.

Speaker 6 (47:07):
They do.

Speaker 1 (47:08):
Oh we're gonna go back to relationship dynamics, not just friendship.
But you know romanticals, spousal romanticals. Right, my fiance secretly
applied for a job in another country and expected me
to just follow him.

Speaker 3 (47:33):
We've been engaged for about a year. We were wedding.

Speaker 1 (47:36):
Planning, house hunting, and even casually talking about kids. I
really thought we were building a future together and we're
on the same page. Then one night, I was on
our shared laptop and an email popped up. It was
a job offer congratulating him on a new position in Switzerland. Oh,

(47:59):
I had no idea he even applied for anything, let
alone something abroad. I confronted him immediately. He tried to
play it off like it was a surprise girl. He
said he thought I'd be excited and would just come
with him, as if quitting my job, leaving my friends
and family, and uprooting my entire life was just assumed.

(48:20):
What's worse is that this isn't or this wasn't a
sudden thing. He'd been going through the application process for months, interviews, negotiations,
even relocation discussions. Not once did he mintion it to me.
I wasn't even included in the decision. I was just
supposed to go along with it. Right now, we're on

(48:41):
a break trying to figure things out, But deep down
I can't shake the feeling that I was never really
a part of the plan.

Speaker 2 (48:47):
Is this a deal?

Speaker 1 (48:48):
Breaker. I love to hear other people's thoughts.

Speaker 4 (48:51):
Oh girl, girl, let me tell you some of this
what I wrote, he was building. He was building a
future for himself and exit plan for her.

Speaker 3 (49:04):
He was building. He wanted it out mm hmm. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (49:10):
And so it's easier to do this because it's like,
there's no way she's coming with me to Switzerland, and
he could have probably been it could have been subconsciously,
you know what I'm saying, like or just realizing like
I don't have time to be making plans with this girl.
This this career and this opportunity matters to me most.
So it's like, if she comes, she comes. If she don't,

(49:32):
she don't, nine times out attention, she ain't gonna come.
I feel like guys do definitely think like that, and
I do believe in I do believe guys will like
pick fights or or accept things up and not just guys.
Let me not say that, because girls do it too,
like position and manipulate situations to get somebody to make
a decision. So it's actually then they make it seem
like they think they make this decision, but it was

(49:55):
actually them.

Speaker 3 (49:55):
Who manipulated the whole situation.

Speaker 4 (49:58):
So That's why it sounded like he was just you know,
preparing her exit plan too as well, exit out of
the relationship.

Speaker 1 (50:04):
Girl.

Speaker 2 (50:06):
Yeah, I agree. I think that he.

Speaker 1 (50:10):
He created a backdoor form you know, in these plans,
because it's it's so outrageous, right, like, uh, in considerate
and rude to because this isn't just getting a new
apartment you know, across town.

Speaker 4 (50:25):
This is you know, citizenship, And but that means that
means there was a lot of lying that was going
on because like where was he telling he was at
when he's interviewing or doing all his work, Like, yeah,
he's a.

Speaker 3 (50:38):
Liar too, So.

Speaker 5 (50:41):
Yeah, I would never I would struggle to trust, Like
this is a massive thing to keep from someone that
you're in relationship with, So I would struggle to believe
anything that he said. Ever again, you know, in terms
of whether or not this is a deal breaker, Like,
I just don't know that you know, you can come
back from from this level of compromised trust, Like.

Speaker 3 (51:05):
For me, yeah, I do also feel like.

Speaker 5 (51:11):
I got questions and I mean, I don't know if
this makes me a trad wife or whatever, but I'm
just like, what kind of job was it?

Speaker 1 (51:18):
Like, did you.

Speaker 3 (51:19):
Expect me to just go over there and be a
kept woman or uh yeah, that's my question too.

Speaker 1 (51:25):
I'm like, because now it's the financial all the financial
responsibility goes on this man, exactly, and therefore I'm completely
dependent exactly.

Speaker 4 (51:34):
That's what makes me think she was never a part
of a plan, you know what I mean? Like even
that she just never you know what I'm saying, like
because I feel like if she'd have been like, Okay,
I'm gonna go, then it would have been like, I
don't know if this is you.

Speaker 3 (51:45):
Know what I mean, Like I wonder, Yeah, it's framed
as a surprise.

Speaker 5 (51:49):
Yeah, to frame it as a surprise as gaslighting in
its purest form, to make it seem like this is
something that you should be excited about. Uh is is
just the kind of just toxic manipulation that is That's
the red flag for me. That's the biggest deal breaker

(52:09):
is that if we're moving forward in a relationship in
this way and we can't talk about something this massive,
I would need to apply for citizenship. You can't just
spring that on me. You can't just spring you know,
me moving and leaving my family and life.

Speaker 3 (52:24):
You can't just spring that on me like a surprise
wedding or something.

Speaker 4 (52:28):
And like like go to hell, like absolutely, because I
guarantee you he was probably still sleeping with her, And
that's to be getting me. It's like you already know
you don't want this.

Speaker 3 (52:37):
You already know you.

Speaker 4 (52:38):
You've already you already ready to have a relationship with
you ready, you're already thinking about is great and drink
and drink bodka. You already you already planning that. But
he was still probably still sleeping with her, still going,
you know, doing all kind of stud at all that lion.

(53:00):
And it's unfortunate. And I have seen way too many
times and I have also been in it. But I
was young where you put yourself in these relationships or
these situations and then it's just like really hard for
you to get out of so you manipulate the fuck
out of that situation to get out of it. Like
for me personally, I was with somebody. I could not
be with that person no more. I stopped paying the

(53:20):
rent bro And I told her I.

Speaker 3 (53:22):
Ain't have no job. I have one. I just lie
and said I didn't you still live there in September? Yes,
your honor, did you pay rent?

Speaker 7 (53:35):
No, your honor.

Speaker 3 (53:36):
Did you live there in October? Yes, your honor. Did
you pay rent? No, your honor, and I stopped paying
the rent. You understand. So that's why I be nowhere
because I've been trash.

Speaker 4 (53:50):
I have been trash, but also bad relationship was trash,
and I was It was so hard for me to
get out of it because it was just very obsessive.

Speaker 5 (53:59):
So and they say she said they had a She said, sorry,
she said he had they had a shared laptop.

Speaker 3 (54:06):
So it's like, you knew that I was going to
see this. You set this up for me to see
this in this way.

Speaker 5 (54:12):
You didn't even have the bass to have a conversation
about the fact that you got a job offer and
you want to go, whether I go with you or not,
you to.

Speaker 3 (54:20):
Talk about don't want to have that She don't have
her own laptop? Why don't you have your own laptop?

Speaker 2 (54:25):
Why are you?

Speaker 3 (54:25):
Why are you sharing?

Speaker 2 (54:27):
Is it yours?

Speaker 3 (54:29):
This is entanglement, So I don't like it.

Speaker 5 (54:32):
I don't like that kind of entanglement where we lose
our independence or any agency when we partner with people.
And I'm not saying you can't share things with your partners,
but like a laptop.

Speaker 3 (54:46):
I mean, and it's like it's not enough ram for you,
and I like I do a lot of I do
a lot of edit in I to all this, like
you know what I'm saying, Like there's just not enough
ram on here for us. I can't imagine sharing a laptop.

Speaker 5 (54:59):
But because I just can't imagine it, be like I'm
gonna just wait till you finished to send an email.
Absolutely not get to muzzle up with the laptop and
watch Netflix at night in the dark.

Speaker 3 (55:10):
Who gets to do that?

Speaker 5 (55:12):
Or if I'm laptop is yeah, like if I'm going
to see my mama or if I'm going away for
the weekend, I get the laptop or I have to
go without it, Like hell, immediately today, immediately.

Speaker 3 (55:25):
You need to be in a relationship until both of
y'all can afford.

Speaker 4 (55:28):
Hello, say I don't feel like they need this. I
was gonna say, I don't even feel like they need
to be in a relationship. They got to use a
ship laptop. She gotta do some soul searching, She needs
to talk to a yallave. She got to be able
to have her own laptop.

Speaker 3 (55:43):
That's my lady, Like, that is my lady.

Speaker 4 (55:46):
Like that's not lady like, she got to have her
own and she's like, that's like for me and kid
when I come to your house, and I'll be like, girl,
you always got to have a bottle of Pinos in
your refrigerator Solawan.

Speaker 3 (56:06):
Yeah, like you got to have a laptop on your own, sister.

Speaker 1 (56:09):
No, yeah, we have two more. I'll leave that one
because that one's a spicy one, but they're both very spicy.
This one is, uh, well, I'm interested to hear your

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thoughts on this one. How do I tell my friend,
a twenty seven year old female, that she is being
used by a guy, a twenty six year old man
to make me jealous?

Speaker 3 (56:42):
Okay, hold on.

Speaker 1 (56:47):
There's this guy, let's call him Mike, who I know
through a mutual friend. He occasionally hangs out with our
friend group, which is typically five of us six with
Mike joins. He moved to our state about six months
ago and immediately took a liking to me. But he's
not my type. I've never even given him my number,
and I've let him know we're not capatible. To be fair,

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he's not creepy about it. When I brush him off,
he backs off and does his own thing. He'll still
sometimes buy me a drink or some food throughout the night,
but it's nothing aggressive. Fast forward to last night. My
friend let's call her Mariah joined us. She usually hangs
with another circle of friends, but wanted to come out

(57:32):
with us this time. The night started out the same
as usual. Mike asked if I finally give him my number.
I said no, thanks. He laughed it off and moved on.
That is until he met Mariah for the first time
out of nowhere. He was chatting her up and they
were laughing and vibing. They even did a karaoke do

(57:53):
wet together. Mike was awkward and couldn't dance or sing,
but Mariah killed it. Later she told me how much
she liked that Mike was just himself. I didn't try
to act cool. Here's the thing. I suspect Mike was
only paying attention to Mariah to make me jealous. It
didn't work, because again I don't like him, But it

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doesn't feel fair to Mariah. She texted me to say
she gave him her number and they're going out on
a date Saturday. How do I tell her that Mike
is just using her without hurting her feelings.

Speaker 3 (58:28):
She doesn't know.

Speaker 1 (58:29):
He has a crush on me.

Speaker 3 (58:30):
Girl, girls too much. She's giving her.

Speaker 4 (58:38):
Much because I'm over here just writing and I'm just like,
you know what, let me stop writing, because they sound
like love Island.

Speaker 3 (58:44):
She is giving herself. Yeah much.

Speaker 4 (58:47):
Wow, So let me tell you something. Mariah must be
a babbage, must be Mariah is sick. Yeah, Mariah is
a babbage. And not only is that she about, but
she came up in there dancing like Shakira clearly.

Speaker 5 (59:03):
And men and naturally, Mike and Mariah had instant chemistry.
They were both instantly very comfortable around each other in
a way that old girl never felt. You know, she
never allowed that. She didn't see it, and you know
how she didn't start seeing it from Mike until Mariah
did Hello. That's very clear. And it's like, girl, you're

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still making it about you.

Speaker 3 (59:28):
And Mike has moved on.

Speaker 1 (59:29):
Hello.

Speaker 3 (59:30):
He said yeah, he said, he asked, you denied him, and.

Speaker 5 (59:34):
He's moved forward. So I just feel like you this
this sounds like some hateration in the dancery.

Speaker 4 (59:41):
No, seriously, And also like men are so simple, so
it's like, oh, so you know they like to catch
they liked to I mean sorry, they like to chase, you.

Speaker 1 (59:50):
Know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (59:51):
And it was nice, but you keep telling me no.

Speaker 4 (59:54):
And so now your friend comes to a brown and
we're vibing, and she's also letting me know that you
can get this whenever you on it. So absolutely I'm
not turning this down. Ain't nobody trying to make you jealous?

Speaker 3 (01:00:04):
You are jealous. You're jealous, jealous You're a man.

Speaker 4 (01:00:12):
No, no, because everybody wants to be desired and wants
to be liked, do you understand? And so it's like
now that attention ships, because see he was buying her
drinks and feeding her every time she was out, you understand.

Speaker 3 (01:00:24):
So now the whole dynamic is gonna be out. That's
gonna ship.

Speaker 4 (01:00:27):
She's gonna get a drink, you know what I'm saying,
because he seemed like that kind of guy, like you know,
if I'm out with the girls, they all gonna get drinks.

Speaker 3 (01:00:33):
But she's not gonna get, you know, the full meal.
She's not getting the attention of eye contract that Mabiah
is now getting.

Speaker 4 (01:00:40):
And also too, it's like I wonder what her conversation
was with Mariah, Like, oh, this guy I don't like him,
but if you like him, you know what I'm saying, Like,
I wonder if there was conversation there, Like I've had
that growing up in my specially in my twenties, Like
I don't like him, girl, but if you into him, like,
have at it, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:01:00):
So it could have been that conversation.

Speaker 4 (01:01:01):
And if that was the conversation, she's definitely jealous because
what do you mean he's using How do I tell
her he's using her?

Speaker 3 (01:01:09):
So you want to try to tell homegirl that she
can't pull men? You embrass.

Speaker 4 (01:01:17):
With everybody trying to make you jealous, So you're not
really attracted to her.

Speaker 3 (01:01:22):
You're trying to tell she's not really attractive?

Speaker 2 (01:01:24):
Is that what you.

Speaker 3 (01:01:27):
Are you saying that?

Speaker 5 (01:01:28):
You yeah, like like like you're more attractive than me,
Like is that what you're saying? Like you're saying that like, oh,
he don't really like you, he likes me? Like, girl,
you're giving yourself way too.

Speaker 3 (01:01:39):
Much, too much between the lot and she said, she said,
Mariah killed it.

Speaker 4 (01:01:44):
She said, one thing the green eye Monster can't do
is deny, deny the greatness. You can't the green Eye
Monster can never deny the greatness. So she said Mariah
killed it.

Speaker 5 (01:01:55):
So she was sitting over there steam it because her
she probably got knock me and she probably can't. You understand,
is probably so she would be like, wow, ma, Riah
killed it.

Speaker 3 (01:02:14):
Yeah she wasn't. Yeah, go ahead be sorry.

Speaker 2 (01:02:19):
Yeah she.

Speaker 1 (01:02:22):
Original poster. Uh, there's an update. So she realizes that
she was the asshole.

Speaker 3 (01:02:29):
Okay, good, very good to go.

Speaker 1 (01:02:32):
She went with Mariah to go help her pick out something.

Speaker 2 (01:02:34):
But like, I wouldn't.

Speaker 1 (01:02:38):
As a Mariah, Yeah, I'd be like, girl, sister, this
is not your friend.

Speaker 3 (01:02:42):
It's not your friend.

Speaker 1 (01:02:43):
Like there are people in your circle that I prayed
against you and the op is one of them.

Speaker 3 (01:02:48):
Yeah, it's going to happen.

Speaker 4 (01:02:50):
He's now going to be all of a sudden, is
so attractive to her. You understand, he is going to
be inappropriate conversation having.

Speaker 3 (01:02:58):
You can't trust her now.

Speaker 4 (01:03:01):
Yeah, if Mariah knows how she was really thinking to me,
I'll be looking at her a little strange now.

Speaker 3 (01:03:06):
Like, oh so now you're a friend. Oh that be
now you know you know what I'm saying, Like, yes,
it's a little too. You better believe she's.

Speaker 5 (01:03:13):
Gonna be calling Mike to go out. You want to
get a drink, Let's go get a drink. Let's go
to the spot. And she's not gonna call Maria because
this is the kind of mess.

Speaker 3 (01:03:23):
You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:03:24):
She's gonna try to get Mike in a situation and
then she gonna turn the table.

Speaker 3 (01:03:28):
You got to watch. We like brother and sister. See,
that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:03:32):
That's why I didn't trust you're gonna help Mariah pick
something to wear.

Speaker 3 (01:03:35):
I don't like it. I don't like that. I don't
I don't like that neither.

Speaker 4 (01:03:38):
Mari don't need help because remember she came in on
her own. Sh she came in on her home. Great, Yes,
she don't need no help. Yes, when you're picking out stuff,
Mariah gotta run, bro.

Speaker 3 (01:04:03):
I want my riot to be gone away from this because.

Speaker 4 (01:04:09):
Anybody who thinks that way is they can't know. That's
not a quote unquote girls girl. You know they like
to throw that one around, but that's not a girl's girl.

Speaker 3 (01:04:18):
I'm a girl's girl. You know, I'm a girl's girl.

Speaker 1 (01:04:21):
Yeah, but this definitely gave like Love Island. Yes, Oh
this is for us.

Speaker 3 (01:04:29):
I did this for us. Hood has said, has said,
I was.

Speaker 8 (01:04:33):
I was.

Speaker 3 (01:04:33):
I was in my bikini. I was looking that good.
And I walked past Chris and he didn't even look
at me. He was talking to Shelley like, I'm like,
I'm looking so good. When we did the when we
did Black Toash Big Brother, we were talking about this.

Speaker 5 (01:04:51):
But always stinks time in my mind is when Chris
like checked Hood on something like held her accountable for
VNMS and her response to him was, would it be
different if.

Speaker 3 (01:05:02):
I was ugly? And I said this this woman.

Speaker 1 (01:05:05):
Here, this girl that's that girl and the girl in
this red story.

Speaker 5 (01:05:08):
Girl here, you know, needs to call the lady immediately.
Something is terribly wrong.

Speaker 3 (01:05:13):
No mind you.

Speaker 4 (01:05:15):
She done got a nose job and she's got lyft
filling everything. She was a funny looking girl, and she's
still she's like a fat girl.

Speaker 3 (01:05:22):
She's like a fat.

Speaker 4 (01:05:23):
Girl who got skinny, who still got fat girl mentality.
I think players still got funny looking girl mentality, and
so she's still just very she's very insecure.

Speaker 3 (01:05:32):
Or go ahead, I was.

Speaker 5 (01:05:34):
Gonna say, remember when her sisters came mm hmm, do
you remember what she used to look like?

Speaker 3 (01:05:40):
Her younger sister. Yes, yes, yes, yes, it's some funny
looking girls. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:05:47):
It's okay, you got a nose job and you got
lyft fuller and you got eighteen pounds of lashes.

Speaker 3 (01:05:52):
Now, so of course you know what I'm saying, You're
gonna look different.

Speaker 6 (01:05:55):
And those.

Speaker 4 (01:05:58):
Like the freckles like not, they're yeah, they're chatted so
and that you know, and Clockett Alandria or Shelley said
it on Kiki today. Somebody was like, oh no, Alandia,
my girl, Ola said, well, Nigga said, I was under
I was unattracted, but then my damn is flooded and
my shit, natural.

Speaker 3 (01:06:20):
Here not natural?

Speaker 5 (01:06:21):
Good morning, the girls don't want to talk about She said,
nothing over here is not natural. Everything is, everything is nice.
And that's how we know because when Laundria's mother came
in through there, I mean, I said, hello, mama, got it?

Speaker 3 (01:06:35):
Do you understand? Okay? Yes, come here listen.

Speaker 4 (01:06:39):
And the features, the cheap bones, the lips, everything natural
her and Shelley and so I feel like I could
have had to work so hard to get to this
mediocre spot that she's in right now, and that pisses
her off. Because these two girls came in here, even
with opposition that they're getting right now now, they still

(01:07:01):
they still winning.

Speaker 5 (01:07:03):
Because they were they liked themselves. And that's the difference
between them and Hood. Hood is never fundamentally liked Hood.
And that show that is very is demonstrative in her
behavior is in how she thinks other people see her,
Like she got to call the lady, she got a
lot of workship.

Speaker 3 (01:07:22):
I'm not judging her because.

Speaker 4 (01:07:24):
This is you know, the scariest girls to me. Those
type of girls are lit talking to Mariah and those
kind of girls are the scariest girls to me. And
I have fallen victim to girls like that. I had
a very close close friend like that. Elisha was was
like that with me, and I always looked at Elisha
as the girl who was like she had all this fashion.

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She came into college engage like she was just very advanced,
but younger than me. She was like, you're younger than me,
but she was always top tier to me. And come
to find out, she must have looked at me in
that way because she started to the things.

Speaker 3 (01:08:00):
That I had.

Speaker 4 (01:08:02):
Even my man, you know what I'm saying under my
nose and sabotine stuff, you know what I'm saying, And
it's just it's it was very messy and it's like
that jealousy is just get away from me with that
get away in security.

Speaker 5 (01:08:17):
Insecurity is really the thing, you know what I'm saying,
Like I think we don't talk about that enough, but
but that's the danger. We talk about narcissism all the time,
but at the root, it's often like people not liking
themselves exactly, yes, and people don't see themselves the way
other people see them because you know, I know I
knew Elisha too or at Leasha had a very natural

(01:08:39):
sort of it girl quality, but it didn't matter if
we saw it and she didn't, That's what I'm saying.
So because she didn't, she moved a very particular way
and was very threatened and obviously threatened by people who.

Speaker 4 (01:08:55):
You know, like to honestly, was honestly the the vibe
that I give. Like people be saying, like, you know,
like Carti, people love Cardi B. But she's from the
Bronx and we're I feel like a lot of us
are the same in that sense, even like Amaya, she's
from the Bronx too, Like we're just authentically ridiculous people.

(01:09:17):
But just you know what I'm saying, like we don't care,
and we're very open, very honest and very loving and
just you know say and that has always been my vibe.
I was definitely that girl in college. So it was
beyond me that somebody like her would be jealous and
do things and do things like that and be like, yo,
I think he's just talking to you to make you jealous,
make me jealous.

Speaker 3 (01:09:37):
She would have said some stuff like that to me.

Speaker 4 (01:09:39):
You know what I'm saying, like real and girls aren't
those kind of girls are so scary and they're not
your friend.

Speaker 1 (01:09:47):
Toxic, That's what Brittany said. Oh my goodness, are you
ready for the last story?

Speaker 5 (01:09:56):
Yes, Oh my goodness, let me get some water. Go ahead, yes,
hold on, And you know that I'm toxic, all right?

Speaker 3 (01:10:15):
That little girl friend like that. We talked about that later.

Speaker 1 (01:10:21):
Last All right, last story? Am I the asshole for
kicking my boyfriend's girl best friend out of my Halloween
party because of her costume? So this is this boy
woman is writing her boyfriend has a girl bestie, and

(01:10:44):
she's asking if she's the asshole for kicking this girl
out because of her costume.

Speaker 2 (01:10:50):
We don't know what it is yet.

Speaker 1 (01:10:52):
Okay, okay, hi everyone, I'll cut to the chase. I,
nineteen year old woman hosts Halloween party this weekend. I
invited my friend, my boyfriend twenty one, and a bunch
of friends, including his girl. Best friend we'll call her Agatha.

Speaker 3 (01:11:12):
Oh.

Speaker 1 (01:11:13):
My boyfriend and I planned a joint costume Peter Peter
Pumpkin Eater. If you haven't seen it, it's a guy.
It's if you haven't seen it. The guy wears a
shirt that says Peter Peter and the girl dresses as
a pumpkin because well, you get it. I thought it
was funny and cute. The night before the party, Agatha

(01:11:35):
texts me asking what my costume would be. I explained
the couple's costume my boyfriend and I plan, and she
said she'd probably would just come as a sexy cat.
Fast forward to the party. Everything was going great until
Agatha walked in dressed as a pumpkin.

Speaker 3 (01:11:54):
I knew it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:56):
She walked over and hugged my boyfriend. I swear the
room silent. I was pissed. I pulled her aside and
asked why she chose that costume. After I told her
about our matching one. She brushed it off and said
she thought it'd be a better group costume. I told

(01:12:16):
her I didn't think it was funny and asked her
to change. I even offered her a spare witch costume.
She turned red and started yelling that I couldn't control
what she wore. I told her it felt disrespectful to
my relationship because it made it seem like she and
my boyfriend were the couple. She kept yelling that I
needed to lighten up, so I asked her to leave.

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She stormed out. The vibe of the party shifted, and
it felt kind of ruined. After that, my boyfriend agrees
she crossed the line and is planning to cut her off.
But now after a few but now a few of
our friends are saying I'm being dramatic and should have
just let her stay. So am I the asshole?

Speaker 3 (01:12:57):
Nope?

Speaker 1 (01:12:59):
Not for me, not no.

Speaker 3 (01:13:00):
And she's she's a teenager.

Speaker 4 (01:13:02):
I think you know, the older you get, the more
you you tolerant you are. But at that age, I
think I'd afford.

Speaker 5 (01:13:09):
Her personally nineteen, it wouldn't been we would have been
scrapping that It wouldn't have much like a pumpkin pie.

Speaker 3 (01:13:17):
By the time I was done with her, it wouldn't
have been too much conversation.

Speaker 4 (01:13:21):
Ye been ready for she would have been ready for Thanksgiving.
It would have been even pumpkin pie, you understand. So
at nineteen, I definitely would have fought her because I
also have been like, why would make her feel so comfortable? Boyfriend?
Are y'all doing something? Because then my whole mind would
be going a whole lot of places like what makes
some feel like this is funny?

Speaker 3 (01:13:41):
Is funny?

Speaker 2 (01:13:43):
Right?

Speaker 3 (01:13:45):
I would have beat that girl easily at that age.

Speaker 4 (01:13:48):
I'm saying, like, no one wanted my mentality. At nineteen,
she'd have been done for.

Speaker 3 (01:13:55):
And here's my thing. I think it is very.

Speaker 1 (01:14:03):
I'm about to sound some say something quite problematic, but
I don't mean it to be that way. But like,
as soon as I hear girl bestie of the opposite sex,
like my eyebrow does.

Speaker 3 (01:14:17):
The rock, right, you know what I mean? Come on?

Speaker 1 (01:14:20):
Yeah, yeah, like, And I'm not disillusioned. Yes, I do
think men and women can have platonic friendships and should.

Speaker 3 (01:14:29):
Just regular female friends. Do you awesible? Do you think
it's possible? For a man to just be friends with
thee I think it's too more answer to that, I think,
yes it is. However, I just don't know that at
that age too.

Speaker 2 (01:14:44):
I think.

Speaker 4 (01:14:51):
Everybody he did he did say that she crossed the line,
cut off and off. Yeah, I doubt he will tell
her all because men, yeah, don't like that type of confrontation.

Speaker 3 (01:15:06):
But to me, it's like that girl is given. She
likes him very much.

Speaker 5 (01:15:11):
And I think and I have questions also for the
quote unquote friends who are saying that she overreacted, because
if I feel like in this situation, let's say it.

Speaker 3 (01:15:22):
Was me and my boyfriend and.

Speaker 5 (01:15:26):
My boyfriend's girl best friend did something like that, it
wouldn't just be me fighting, so it would be fighting too.

Speaker 3 (01:15:31):
You see what I'm saying, Like the furniture would be
I feel like it's a ray.

Speaker 1 (01:15:38):
In that house furniture.

Speaker 5 (01:15:40):
It would have been a different situation, and I would
say the same thing for Jay. I can't see a
world where someone would do that and Jay would be like, no,
kil well no, it would allo We're ready we have
a conversation.

Speaker 3 (01:15:53):
Especially at nineteen age.

Speaker 4 (01:15:54):
I want to say that that's what I keeps saying
at that age is that I'm just downing nine one one.
But at that age, you understand I would have been
really fighting, like I would have really been on some night.

Speaker 3 (01:16:06):
This is crazy. So what I'm gonna do with I
would have just started taking off my pumpkin a talking.

Speaker 1 (01:16:13):
Talking Because now, because she already she offered old girl
an out right, she was like, all right, girl, you
you fucked up, but I have an extra costume here,
change into this which costume and all this forget. But
no she wanted to be honre and was like, well, yeah,

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your costume idea.

Speaker 3 (01:16:34):
I think.

Speaker 4 (01:16:36):
She asked her for a reason because it's almost like
it was premeditated, like she was asking her what.

Speaker 3 (01:16:43):
Exactly she did it on purpose. That's what I'm saying.
That's you.

Speaker 5 (01:16:47):
We had a conversation about this, and I told you
what it was, and you did that so that you
could do this. So when I came like this girl
is extending an extreme amount of grace by even proposing
her on approaching her on some innefit of the doubt shit,
because at nineteen I wouldn't be like you asked me that,
like you plan to do this? This is giving premeditation,

(01:17:08):
and so what embarrass me? So exactly, We're not doing that.

Speaker 3 (01:17:13):
We're not doing that. So now what I'm gonna do is.

Speaker 1 (01:17:16):
The whole party. Yeah, she took the air of the
whole party and just ruined it, ruined it for.

Speaker 3 (01:17:22):
Everybody, and then we just embarrassed.

Speaker 5 (01:17:25):
Hug strip that pumpkin up, have her titties, also showing dragon.

Speaker 3 (01:17:29):
Hug across that dragging pumpkin a dragon. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:17:35):
Yeah, we have an update, all right.

Speaker 3 (01:17:40):
I like the updates.

Speaker 1 (01:17:40):
This is our final update of the final story today.
Me too, So uh okay, right, well, I have an update.
I meant to post one a few months ago, but
I really needed time to process the events that occurred
after this whole ordeal. I'm glad I waited, though, because
you all need to hear this one. Many people pointed

(01:18:04):
out that my boyfriend must be sleeping with Agatha, since
she went absolutely bonkers for seemingly no reason. I thought,
since he immediately took my side and blocked her on everything.

Speaker 3 (01:18:14):
That you were wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:18:16):
Well it was me who was wrong. It turns out
that Agatha and my boyfriend had been sleeping together for
months and they were just really good at hiding it
until she decided that she didn't want to be his.

Speaker 3 (01:18:30):
Quote unquote mistress anymore. Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:18:33):
I found this out when I was at his house
and hanging out in his room. He was showering after
a workout and I heard this vibrating noise. He had
taken his phone and mine was right next to me,
so I couldn't figure out what it was. I opened
his bedside table drawer and found a second phone. My
gut told me that something wasn't right. Why would he

(01:18:56):
have a second phone. It didn't take me long to
guess his passwords, and my fears were confirmed.

Speaker 3 (01:19:02):
Dang, And we always can guess their passwords. Niggas not simple,
but we always can crack the code. It's never that hot.

Speaker 1 (01:19:12):
As she posts the code in here, the code was
one two three, mighty god.

Speaker 3 (01:19:16):
I was going to say zero one in three, but
my ex his was five five five five, and I
was like, you know what, smart? Sorry, So.

Speaker 1 (01:19:32):
There was a miscall from Agatha. I looked through the
messages and found out the truth. Not only had they
been sleeping together, she recently found out that she was pregnant.
Nice she was trying to force his hand. Oh this
was the reason she pulled the stone on Halloween. He
was trying to force his hand. I also saw that

(01:19:53):
he was messaging other girls as well. Of course, I
was completely devastated. After his shower, he found me grab
all of my belongings and putting them in a bag.
He asked why I was leaving, and I told him
because we were finished. I threw his phone on the
bed and he looked like he was going to vomit.
He started pleading to hear him out, but I didn't
want to hear it. He could have all those other girls.

(01:20:14):
I didn't want him anymore. He followed me out of
the house, shaking and crying. He even followed me all
the way out to my car, trying to block my
path I went. I went over the grass around him
and didn't look back. He sent me a long message
about how he never wanted to hurt me and that
he wanted me back, and how he was using his
work phone to text all those women so I wouldn't

(01:20:36):
find out. That was really helpful.

Speaker 3 (01:20:39):
Okay, he's a psycho.

Speaker 1 (01:20:40):
I sent his boss a nice little message about how
company property was being misused, and I saw on LinkedIn
he no longer works for that company anymore. He is
blocked on everything now and I hope him and Agatha
have a magical life with their baby. Oh I heard
through the grapevine that he got another woman pregnant. I'm

(01:21:00):
glad I dodged that book.

Speaker 3 (01:21:01):
Amens for me, that's for me.

Speaker 1 (01:21:05):
I'm currently in therapy, working on my trust issues and
learning how to love myself again after this situation. Yes, girl,
I've been putting myself out there again and have cut
contact with anyone who knew what was happening behind.

Speaker 3 (01:21:15):
My There you go.

Speaker 4 (01:21:17):
I love what even bring her in as the best friend?
Why not just keep her a secret? See, that's what
I'll understand.

Speaker 3 (01:21:23):
People be going. You give people an inch, they take
a yard. Now, why would he even bring her.

Speaker 4 (01:21:28):
In as the best friend if you already knew you
was sleeping with her? That is what's crazy to me.
It's like, so you really intentionally want to hurt me,
Like you're really trying to play this game with me.

Speaker 3 (01:21:39):
What I'm always blown away by the wave of emotion
that comes upon getting caught in the mess.

Speaker 5 (01:21:48):
As if you were not aware and curating, like because
they surgery, they don't want to lose he saw the
l and looked like he wanted to vomit. Wow, that's
so fascinating because all the things in the phone are
things that he put there.

Speaker 3 (01:22:07):
So what makes me want to vomit? You exactly like yo,
And they don't want to lose. They never want to lose,
and they're gonna do whatever they can not to lose.
That's he guys.

Speaker 5 (01:22:23):
You women pregnant still begging her to stay like for what, Yeah,
to control and lose.

Speaker 4 (01:22:31):
And not lose that that's crazy. I mean, well, then
that's why she should She really should have beat that
girl up.

Speaker 3 (01:22:38):
I mean, and the baby. Both of the neighbor would
have called the stray. The baby is like, no, how
did I get in it? You see how they put
me in it?

Speaker 1 (01:22:54):
Oh my goodness, thank you for coming on today out
with me. You can find both of these ladies with
me every Thursday for Black Swash Big Brother. They have
individual projects and things that you could find in the
description box wherever you're listening and watching.

Speaker 3 (01:23:13):
I don't have anything, not yet, whenever you tell me,
that's right, But.

Speaker 1 (01:23:22):
Until next time, friends, audios, child

Speaker 3 (01:23:27):
Very Yes, we're moving on
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