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December 19, 2025 77 mins
This week, we recall what lives rent free in our minds.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Chestnuts roasting one in open, five.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Jack frost nipping at your nose, yule tied carols being
sung by a choir, and folks are dressed up like eskimos.

Speaker 1 (00:20):
We're not supposed to say that everybody knows a turkey
and some mistletoe help to make the season. Bride.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
Tiny tots with their eyes all aglow will find it
hard to sleep tonight.

Speaker 1 (00:42):
Creepy whoa whoa ha haha.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
Whoa ha ha ha whoa ohoa ha ha ha ha
ha oh haha or ha or ha ha oh ha ha.

Speaker 4 (01:09):
And so I I'm offering this simple phrase oh ha
ha ha to kids from one to ninety two, although
it's been said many times, many ways.

Speaker 1 (01:29):
Or how wh whoa festivis to you? And folks dressed
up like eskimo escimo. Everybody knows what's happy holidays. Everybody
is jada XD piano break bing bong bing boom.

Speaker 4 (01:53):
You know, holiday seasons, a lot of bells, a lot
of bells and stuff.

Speaker 2 (01:57):
It's a lot of bells. It's really like, it's not
to you want to hear something real quick? Sure, yeah,
I'll play something for you. You know, Halloween music and
Christmas music really there's there's an intersection and a fine
line and so two bitch, oh, I know what we're

(02:19):
singing for next week. I played this for Dustin the Nutcracker, Yes,

(02:45):
and the Nutcracker is very you know, it could also
be a Halloween song if you think about it.

Speaker 4 (02:52):
Yeah, I mean that's what this is. Halloween is based off.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
Of this is.

Speaker 4 (03:00):
You're being threw up at the dead of night. Yeah,
I love that. Yeah, I love dark. We're a week
before Christmas. We're in the thick of Hanukkah.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
We are in.

Speaker 4 (03:18):
Uh about to get up to Festivius and and kwantica
or quanta excuse me, because Quantica is everything Christma.

Speaker 1 (03:30):
What happened to what happened? What happened to holiday branding?

Speaker 2 (03:36):
You know, niggas such as myself became too aware?

Speaker 4 (03:42):
Yeah, well no, I mean even the white people, you know,
they operate off of Wednesday.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
You know, thing seems like they've given up too.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
Everybody's tired. Yeah, we're sick of each other, you know
what I mean. Or they're like so driven on hate
that they don't even have time to.

Speaker 1 (03:58):
Be festive like they used to be hateful, infestive.

Speaker 4 (04:01):
Yeah, not age public but still going down to the
best decorating ship.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
Right, They're like, I'm heared about reep. How you doing, sweetie?
And you didn't know that they hate your whole existence,
but you know now they're just like they're determined.

Speaker 1 (04:16):
They're determined, determined.

Speaker 5 (04:19):
How was.

Speaker 1 (04:22):
Your week your stemana, Oh gosh, it was.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
It was a week we're wrapping up, you know, uh,
getting ready for the holidays and trying to sit down somewhere.
You know, that end of the year senior writers is nasty.

Speaker 1 (04:39):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
It's nasty, especially at the end of a cruddy year.
But I am grateful to be here. Yeah, yes, yes,
Noah's been sick so she actually ended up missing I
had to. I missed my last visit with my kids
for the year at the detention center. And no one

(05:02):
missed her Nutcracker performance because she got sick. So it's
just been a lot of It's just I'm like, it's
crud physically, it's crudby emotionally it's crud.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
It's cruddy. Is creuddit is crud. But but we here,
we're still standing. We're still strong. Yeah, we uh stressful.

Speaker 4 (05:23):
You know a lot of m fs oh us money
you know, and uh yeah, no, it's thwarting plans for
the holidays. So yeah, no, but uh we pressed on.
We still, you know, as long as we got each
other uh here laughing laughter.

Speaker 1 (05:48):
The what was that? Say that again? What theme song?

Speaker 6 (05:52):
That?

Speaker 1 (05:52):
Long as we got each other step?

Speaker 2 (06:00):
No, that's not stuff all the time or full house. No,
I wouldn't that would.

Speaker 1 (06:05):
You got each other? Share a laughter and love, share
a laughter? We got each other themes?

Speaker 2 (06:13):
You got somebody screaming it right now into their phones.

Speaker 1 (06:21):
What TV show is that? It's gotta be something from
the nineties, eighties, nineties? Yeah, I see this right here.

Speaker 2 (06:29):
Hold on, As long as we got to each other
with Dusty Springfield.

Speaker 1 (06:35):
Growing paints, there we go.

Speaker 7 (06:38):
Oh damn, god, damn, I don't know.

Speaker 5 (06:50):
We don't know.

Speaker 1 (06:57):
Fucking growing pains. Oh my god, Alan, damn, I.

Speaker 2 (07:02):
Haven't watched Growing Pains in a lot. Oh man, I
haven't watched Growing Pains in a long same.

Speaker 1 (07:08):
I don't know where the fuck that came out of
my brain.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
This is why this is because stuff lives rent free
in your brain.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
Yeah. Why were we watching THEA the other day?

Speaker 2 (07:18):
And I you all will see soon if you're a Patriot,
but I remember the theme song as soon as we
start watching it.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
I was like, nigga, I haven't watched the thirty years?

Speaker 2 (07:29):
Yeah, yeah, how the hell do I remember this?

Speaker 1 (07:34):
Right?

Speaker 4 (07:35):
But other than that, because I think because of in
the year burnout, my brain can only my short term memory.
Is it already is like almost like dory, but like
now I can only recall things from nineteen ninety two,
and that's it, you know what I mean? Like I do,

(07:56):
I don't have any I can't process thing.

Speaker 1 (07:59):
Bump your head. That's like so specific.

Speaker 4 (08:05):
This is where my brain decided to say, you know what,
we're going to stop here.

Speaker 1 (08:10):
Huh oh, I can't talk shit.

Speaker 5 (08:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (08:15):
Like even like music choices, sometimes like my brain will
be like, you should only listen to music from this
year only. Maybe it's a touch of the you know,
you know what I mean. Yeah, I don't know what
it is. But sometimes I just be like I just
need to stay in this space and to be honest
is safe and cozy in there. Gotta be honest with you.

(08:38):
But AnyWho, what else happened to me? Did anything happen? No,
I've just been balls deep in work, you know.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
Yeah, that's that's really what we've been, that's all. Yeah,
so grateful, so grateful. We love what we do.

Speaker 1 (08:53):
But I'm not complaining about the work.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
It's just I've been leaping balls deep to entertain you all,
you know, and with that being set less pace and
bills that get to the gitten AnyWho. Thanks for tuning
in each and every week. Tell a friend, Tell a friend,
We're everywhere. Hit us up on the Patreon and that's

(09:18):
where true, true life and love live from Jaya nextd
if you know.

Speaker 5 (09:24):
What I mean.

Speaker 4 (09:26):
We watch things, we laugh, we ki ki, we cackle,
all for the small price of nine ninety nine or
twelve ninety nine, whichever you choose. This holiday season, it
will not be dormant. There is plenty and what I
mean plenty of holiday programming for you all man No, yeah, yeah,

(09:50):
big Lee, including if you're unable to support us, hopefully
all of you do this even if you're on Patreon,
but subscribe to us on YouTube because we will. I'll
also be having YouTube content over the brick as.

Speaker 1 (10:03):
Well, so.

Speaker 5 (10:05):
You know.

Speaker 1 (10:07):
We got you covered.

Speaker 4 (10:09):
You know, we know holidays are hard for folks and
sometimes you need to escape. I know, I even need
a brief moment away from my family and sneak around
to the bathroom and you know, watch a quick video,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (10:23):
So we got you covered well. I mean, you know
I'm not talking about that type of no shame you. No.

Speaker 4 (10:34):
No, I was on I was on Blue Sky and
there was somebody posting a picture from their their work
bathroom in the male stall, and they had a sign
and two of the like lines were crossed out and
it was like no flushing things or no paper towels

(10:55):
or whatever. But then like what was crossed out at
the top was like no masturbation.

Speaker 1 (11:01):
So someone like damn you had a hard line with that.

Speaker 7 (11:05):
You said, no, I will, I will masturbate at work.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
Excuse me, it's my American ride. The second protect the first. No,
that's dangerously horty if you can't hold off at work.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
Yeah, and I no kinky Shami's you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (11:25):
I'm not mad at a lunch quickie.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
I'm not mad, but to have to just like I've
got to abandon desk right now and hit this stall
because I got one in the chamber, like I just
I don't. Yeah, I got a less of kids off
at the pool in a different way like I.

Speaker 4 (11:44):
Yeah, you can't hold off until you get off work,
until you get home, where you can just moan in
the privacy of your own a boat, where there's lotions
and various looper kins and other achment whatever you're into.
But no, you had to get away from your extension
rub you said no more, excelsior, I have.

Speaker 2 (12:05):
This power point has got a nigga horny.

Speaker 4 (12:18):
But anyway, supporters on YouTube a freer than you and I.
But join the discord. It's a good time. And yeah,
that's it.

Speaker 2 (12:34):
Yeah, make sure you continue to stay aware of what's
going on in the news.

Speaker 1 (12:38):
Did I tell you?

Speaker 2 (12:40):
Did I tell them? I told you about about Ice?

Speaker 4 (12:46):
You told me. I don't know if that's wise. You
should figure out a way to tell that story.

Speaker 2 (12:53):
Ice was in my building a little too close to home.
You know what I'm saying, shouldn't be anywhere. Let's be
very clear here, a little too close to home, to
the point where I had to interact for the first time.
And I will tell you all, my fearless black grandmother

(13:16):
came out.

Speaker 1 (13:16):
I'm not even a grandmother, I.

Speaker 2 (13:17):
May never be one, but the spirit of one came
out because I once I realized where they were and
what they I was like, where are you all supposed
to be? And they're getting buck with me and I'm
getting buck back with them because it's on some like
very invasive type shit. Eventually did run them off the

(13:38):
floor and out of the building because I started screaming
like a wild hyena in the hallway that they were present.
And I haven't seen them come back since. But I
say all this to say, stay very aware, stay present,
make sure you let your neighbors know what's going on,

(14:00):
you know what I'm saying, If they're in your area,
I pray that we could come together in the ways
that we need to to get them out, you know
what I mean, because they just shouldn't be and I'm
not advocating for anybody to do.

Speaker 1 (14:09):
Anything that keeps them unsafe.

Speaker 2 (14:14):
But also, like I don't you know, you know that
I can't stand a motherfucking bully. Like I can't stand
a bully, I can't stand a pussy ass bully because
bullies are pussy. There's vigilantes and then there's bully, and
y'all are bullies and that's synonymous with pussy. So yeah,

(14:34):
I just I just wanted to share that because this
is where we're.

Speaker 1 (14:39):
At right now.

Speaker 2 (14:39):
And again, just because we're not doing news here every week,
that doesn't mean that we stop paying attention to what's
going on here.

Speaker 1 (14:50):
Because this is ever present.

Speaker 2 (14:52):
I know many other people who are supporting families who
are dealing with dealing with a wrongful de quotation, kidnapping people,
nappings and unlawful uh yeah, unlawful just taking of folks.
You know what I'm saying, this shit is, This is

(15:12):
like unhinged behaviors what this is at this point. So
make sure you're staying aware of what's going on around.
Make sure you're we're banning together as communities. Make sure
you're staying aware of what's happening again across the globe.

Speaker 1 (15:24):
Like just because.

Speaker 2 (15:27):
Just because the genocides or we are not here, you know,
it's not ever present all the time in our faces, uh,
for whatever reasons, doesn't mean that it's not still happening
and there are not still atrocities happening.

Speaker 1 (15:41):
So just make sure we're just staying aware.

Speaker 2 (15:43):
I don't want us to become apathetic just because I
may not be here with the date, you know what
I mean.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
Right, and and I forgot to mention that too.

Speaker 4 (15:52):
So a couple of you have emailed us mentioning that
there is a certain ad that runs on Yes, Yes,
and it runs it typically runs on podcasts that mention
the genocide. And I've noticed because it's not just us,
it runs on a whole bunch of other folks shall

(16:14):
listen to. That's proof positive that I feel like we're
being you know, shadow band and things like that. So
you know, you gotta do your due diligence to like
go to our socials and clicking things and share stuff
because it's clear that they are not only burying and

(16:35):
also utilizing that as a platform.

Speaker 1 (16:39):
Yeah, which is really.

Speaker 5 (16:41):
Right.

Speaker 4 (16:42):
But I folks have been emailed even.

Speaker 1 (16:49):
Like shop talk.

Speaker 4 (16:52):
There's a little checkbox when when you have ads, when
you get ads and podcasts, it asks you what type
of ads you want. And I very very very adamant
about saying no political ads.

Speaker 1 (17:05):
The only the only quote.

Speaker 4 (17:07):
Unquote sensitive ads. I add our pregnancy and sexuality.

Speaker 1 (17:12):
Because because that's going to come, we need to talk
about these things.

Speaker 4 (17:17):
Yes, but other than that, so you know, if it
shows up, let us know. Also you can email iHeart Yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:27):
Please do because what is this is some bullshit?

Speaker 2 (17:30):
Because we definitely, we definitely once you all let us
know what's happening, we definitely report that ship, like get
that ship out of here when it started with the
motherfucking yeah, you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (17:44):
Yeah, we it's gone through years, We've gone years if
this has happened, and so when. And I also know
that it's locale based too, So like I know there
was during the campaign or during the election, there was
a lot of red ads for us, but I realized
I was not getting them because of where I live,

(18:04):
you know. But a lot of our friends that live
in the Red States and the Red counties and stuff.
Of course they're gonna get these ads.

Speaker 1 (18:13):
You know, absolutely. But you know where we stay, you
know where we be. We ain't sold out, No, that's
what I'll tell you.

Speaker 2 (18:22):
We're like, can you go to our YouTube and subscribe?

Speaker 1 (18:29):
If we would have sold out, y'all would have y'all.

Speaker 2 (18:36):
Speaking of sold out, I don't remember if I mentioned it,
if it was here or getting grown.

Speaker 1 (18:40):
It was supposed to be both.

Speaker 2 (18:41):
But yes, there is a shelter in Brownsville that I
spoke about on one of these shows, and I asked
for you all to support the drive because it's a
toy drive for the children specifically. I am happy to
report back that everything has been brought up. The whole
list is sold out and all those children will get
the things that they want. So shout out to you all.

(19:03):
I don't know which platform, but the community is big,
wide and the same. So I just wanted to say
thank you for that. And and with that being said,
I think we should just mosey on.

Speaker 1 (19:15):
Huh.

Speaker 4 (19:16):
Yeah, let's take a break, hit it claude after these.

Speaker 1 (19:21):
Messages will be right back.

Speaker 8 (19:26):
So basically, basically, you get into the zones. You get
into the zone right and you know the Billboard Awards,
you took a jump leap yeah, fully into fully in
the zone, fully in the zone. Yeah, Like it didn't
come off as you desired, but the show went on
to understand and like how.

Speaker 4 (19:49):
And we're black, so uh today we're talking about things
that live rentree in our heads. You know, things that
we you know every so often and you know, you
just like a York pepper maint patty, like you know
what I mean?

Speaker 1 (20:06):
Would you like to begin or would you like for
me to begin? Yeah? I can begin? What year was that.

Speaker 2 (20:16):
Actually I don't remember what year it was, but we
were watching the news as a family, and the news
ran a clip because the current president of the United
States at the time, who was not a bright individual,
and yet compared to what we are dealing with right now,

(20:37):
it comes across and I was maybe a remnant of
it's better than what we're dealing with, but also just
as horrible, a war criminal and everything along the lines.
And this is why this particular thing lives ripped free
in my head. They'd had enough of the bullshit. And
there was a man who took his shoes off and
threw them at George Bush Jr.

Speaker 1 (20:56):
While he was doing one of the George W. Greatest
gifts ever it was, And I watched that clip over
and over and over and over again.

Speaker 2 (21:08):
This is before things were viral and all of that,
and it was a fantastic time. And every every so
often I would just be doing something and I will
get the visual of that man throwing one shoe at
a time at George W.

Speaker 1 (21:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (21:29):
No, I do have a I have a George W.
Moment on here too, but now that you mentioned it,
this is an official moment. But I thought about because
seem Punk posted it recently as being as a being
shady to the other promotion he used to work for.
Remember when we when the mission accomplished an press conference,

(21:54):
but it was like miss It was like weapons the
best instruction.

Speaker 5 (21:57):
God.

Speaker 1 (21:57):
Everybody was like, well what this shit like what what weapons?
This is what? What?

Speaker 2 (22:06):
Everybody was confused And this is why. And I wanted
to make sure I pulled this man's name up. Iraqi
journalist Mounta Dahar al Zaidi. Okay, speak his name because
he took them.

Speaker 9 (22:20):
Shoes office and I've had enough of your bullshit.

Speaker 1 (22:23):
And he and he eat it and it was fantastic.

Speaker 6 (22:28):
It was a shoe throw that was seen around the world.
Back dad two thousand and eight, Iraqi journalists Monte al
Zaidi flings his shoes and then US President George W.
Bush during a farewell press conference.

Speaker 1 (22:40):
Ha ha, it lives forever. One of my.

Speaker 4 (22:49):
Things that I will that lives rent free in my head.
And of course there are some obvious ones here.

Speaker 1 (22:56):
You know that I talk offen.

Speaker 4 (22:57):
Him there, there's why and that it's a personal story.
I wanted I believe that you were there. I want
to say Takiya was there. But it was a time
where a certain family had retail store called Dash in

(23:18):
New York. If you didn't know the Kardashians, this is
how long they've been on. They've been off air for
twenty years. They used to have a retail store called Dash.
It was like an intermix kind of situation. And the
early days of the show was surrounded by the shop.

Speaker 1 (23:39):
And that's when.

Speaker 4 (23:40):
Courtney was like, you know, I'm the only one of
the real job, which was true. And so they opened
a store in New York. And we were all walking
one day, you know, the crew, and we had just
left Popeyes and they had just opened Dash in Soho
and Young Fury had a box of chicken m hm,

(24:07):
and he threw out the door.

Speaker 10 (24:12):
The Dash Boutique is a clothing store chain owned by
the Kardashian sisters Kim, Chloe, and Courtney, stars of the
E reality series Keeping Up with the Kardashians. The three
sisters opened the original Dash store in Calabasas, California, in
two thousand and six. Since then, the Kardashians have also
opened US.

Speaker 2 (24:29):
I love how chicken is used in violence in so
many like I love how we have Yeah, couple instances
of chicken.

Speaker 4 (24:35):
Because that brought up, it brought up the whole idea.
I was like, chicken, chicken is an agent of violence,
and kao.

Speaker 1 (24:44):
You know what I mean, Yes, it really is.

Speaker 2 (24:47):
And I don't think I don't think we put two
and two together of that.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
We tried to villainize it.

Speaker 4 (24:53):
No, it's not villainizing used as a chicken can't be
used what it is? Well, No, like you know in
the Boondogs where you throw the chair, Yeah, that's exactly
what it is. Like the piece of chicken could be
like a throwing of a chair, you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (25:13):
Yes, which is another moment that lives rent fucking free
in my mind. I have said it on here multiple times,
but I will say it again. When Mike Jones brought
his high ass on stage after he got snuffed at
the Ozone Awards and I was present for all of it.

(25:34):
I'll never ever forget that day.

Speaker 1 (25:39):
Strong.

Speaker 11 (25:42):
First off, man, I gotta apologize to everybody in the building.

Speaker 1 (25:46):
We don't get out like the time we playing boy.
You know that. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (25:52):
I'll never forget that day. It was full blooded chaos.
It was full blooded chaos. Niggas was Wilin and he
came out on stage high drunk and snuffed and so yeah,
I will always And then DJ Khaled the worst Palestinian
to ever exist in history.

Speaker 1 (26:14):
May his people shame him to it. May we all shame.

Speaker 2 (26:18):
Him into motherfucking oblivion. Like I just he's he's really
like Mogizzle. He's very much like I'm just gonna pretend
this thing doesn't exist anyway. Yes, that lives a room
free in my mind, that owes on awards.

Speaker 4 (26:33):
Yeah, okay, what's next summer list?

Speaker 1 (26:40):
Oh I okay, all we all have like club stories
and things and all that.

Speaker 4 (26:48):
But the thing that rents and everybody had and I'm
gonna ask you a question.

Speaker 1 (26:54):
I'm going to go into my story.

Speaker 4 (26:55):
Okay, but everybody has a story, But like, do you
remember the first time you were offered?

Speaker 1 (27:00):
Oh? Oh?

Speaker 4 (27:05):
It's always like a oh yeah, But I have a
story where the first time I was offered cocaine.

Speaker 1 (27:12):
That's a good question.

Speaker 2 (27:13):
Let me think about that while you tell your story.

Speaker 4 (27:16):
I was offered cocaine at the Lab in Brooklyn. So
I was eighteen years old. I was now I was
little older than that, and I was at the Lab
used to be a gay club in Brooklyn over on.

Speaker 1 (27:37):
Atlantic and so.

Speaker 2 (27:39):
Pause, did it have another name for a period of
time like Dante's or wait.

Speaker 1 (27:47):
No, actually sorry, it was on Fulton. I think about it.

Speaker 4 (27:53):
It was on Fulton. When you get on I want
to say, what is it now? Is it like Tompkins
and you make it? It was like Tompkins that folded.
It was like right there, folded or was it?

Speaker 6 (28:05):
No?

Speaker 1 (28:06):
It was right there, but.

Speaker 12 (28:09):
No, that's Brooklyn right there, like yeah, yeah, yeah, like
you have passed, yes over there, maybe a little further down.

Speaker 1 (28:20):
But any who.

Speaker 4 (28:22):
At the time, the Lab was known for like really
crazy like Butch Queen's doing stunts off of ship right,
So like these gays and this was the era of
dutty wine.

Speaker 1 (28:34):
Kids.

Speaker 4 (28:34):
If you don't know what a dutty wine is, google
reggae two thousand and four.

Speaker 1 (28:40):
W y Vikers.

Speaker 11 (28:42):
Let's Wyers win Vikers.

Speaker 4 (28:53):
So like people were actually getting injured and breaking their
necks and like and like having slip discs and shit.
But the gays, you know, gays operate off of different
they're quite athletic people, so like they so this big
so this so this big girl and by girl, you know,

(29:17):
be cute. She was like Queenadie dance Hall and she
was like, I forget, I forget their name. But they
would crawl up on the rafters and dutchy wine into
a split like it was that type of spectacle. However,
what was interesting about that era at the time of
the club is that the gays used to bring luggage

(29:37):
to the club. So it was like the bigger the bash,
the more you know, obviously luxury or whatever whatever.

Speaker 1 (29:46):
So like people used to.

Speaker 4 (29:47):
Come to the club because Dennis, Dennis used to walk
around My old best friend, Dennis used to walk around
with a weekender.

Speaker 1 (29:57):
Yes, sonn this was Elisabeth.

Speaker 4 (30:05):
But like these gays were like, I'll no no lie
hand to Oprah. Like these gays would roll in with
like luggage, like like to me luggage And I say
to me specifically because this.

Speaker 1 (30:26):
Gay came in. They these gays.

Speaker 4 (30:29):
They were yes, you know standard but queen you know,
also saggy wife.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
Pleaser shirts mm hmm, that type of behavior.

Speaker 4 (30:44):
And so I was I went to I was sitting
down because even in my young age, I like to
have a seat and so but also it was too crazy.
It was sirked to so Gay and ship over there.
So I was like I needed to do and these
gays sat at the little thing table with us and
they pulled out the baggie and they were cutting it

(31:08):
on the luggage.

Speaker 1 (31:13):
And they were like, oh, bitch, you want something. It's
like their own personal rolling tray rolling. And I said,
I will never forget that.

Speaker 4 (31:23):
I was like, y'all not on the table or anything,
but y'all chose to do it on dout tass luggage.
But it's because it was to being at the time
that was expensive to them. So that's what it was.
Almost like the equivalent of snorting it through one hundred.

Speaker 1 (31:38):
Dollars bell, which is also filthy.

Speaker 2 (31:41):
And I would have to say it's probably still cleaner
than putting your motherfucking suitcase on the bed while you're
packing it.

Speaker 1 (31:49):
Stop they stopped to stop. Stop.

Speaker 2 (31:53):
It drives me crazy every time I see it.

Speaker 1 (31:56):
It makes me.

Speaker 2 (31:58):
You know, it's funny you mentioned the the So first
of all, the club was Linkston's.

Speaker 1 (32:02):
You remember Linkston's. Yes, Yes, that was.

Speaker 4 (32:06):
Yes, that's that's the club that's off Atlantic where you
used to live on Atlantic.

Speaker 1 (32:11):
Yes, exactly, so Langston's.

Speaker 2 (32:14):
As you're talking about as you're talking about how you
all athleticism.

Speaker 4 (32:20):
Did you hear about how it remind me? Tell you
how it closed because they ended with hunger strike.

Speaker 1 (32:25):
Wait what I have the fact that stop laughing. I
love how we both talked to ourselves. Well we know
we've gone too far, too far.

Speaker 2 (32:41):
I have multiple experiences around Linkston's, which is I.

Speaker 1 (32:46):
Don't know, glad you survived them? Is no safe over there?

Speaker 2 (32:50):
Well you know I'm a lady of a particular.

Speaker 1 (32:54):
But just because your particularly stop, I know, no it doesn't.
But I dodge those.

Speaker 2 (33:05):
Because I fall asleep in the car outside of Lanston's.

Speaker 1 (33:08):
I remember going inside Lakestice in front of Lakes So
it's which.

Speaker 9 (33:15):
Is fitting because it was because Atlantic is so fucking industrial,
like they're trying to make fetch happen now, they keep
building ship and they're always trying to do something.

Speaker 1 (33:25):
And notice how it never sticks, No, it never sticks.

Speaker 4 (33:31):
Atlantic Atlantic Avenue supposed to be an elephant graveyard for trains.

Speaker 1 (33:34):
That's why Barclays is cursed.

Speaker 2 (33:36):
What happened in Milk River? Yeah, Barclays is cursed for
many reasons. What happened in Milk River in Brooklyn? What
happened to that. But anyway, you all are a very
athletic people. And so I remember going in the club
and they all like it would be niggas dancing, and
I remember Lil Wayne, Lil Wayne's I'm Going In was

(33:59):
playing and these it was dutty whining, it was dry fucking,
it was spinning, twirling, cartwheeling, uh ribbons.

Speaker 1 (34:15):
Uh see kids, back then, we didn't have dark rooms.
You had to go. This was happening in fucking cars.
But like you're supposed to be like American, they went
to because most niggas didn't have vehicles.

Speaker 4 (34:31):
So now if you go to the club now, every
gay party has got a dark room.

Speaker 1 (34:36):
It's like a a dark room. It's like, oh that's
that's nice. Yeah, it's a safe space.

Speaker 5 (34:48):
You know that.

Speaker 4 (34:49):
I can't wait till next week's episode because I don't
like that, because I because you know, suffering Bill's character quote.

Speaker 1 (35:11):
People have it easy, easy. I told the trade, shoot me, okay.
I paved the way.

Speaker 4 (35:20):
For y'all to have freely and just fucking the club
all willy nilly with condoms and things provided for you.
I remember when you had to like go in and
do it on the low and can't tell nobody with
somebody's pastor. Now it's like, you know the pastor already.

Speaker 1 (35:43):
Back to redfree, back to.

Speaker 2 (35:45):
Oh into your question earlier. I think technically I've never
been offered coke. It's just the niggas who use it.

Speaker 1 (35:59):
I'm not I'm just saying, you know, I think what
I'm saying like, hm hmm.

Speaker 2 (36:05):
The few you know people I know who who partay,
they just would do it. They wouldn't really you know,
they wouldn't really be like you want to, they.

Speaker 1 (36:15):
Just would do that's too expensive. I'm not sure.

Speaker 2 (36:18):
Also, and I realized that I was like, I don't
want to share my blood.

Speaker 13 (36:22):
Like I definitely would want to share.

Speaker 1 (36:24):
That little baggy.

Speaker 2 (36:25):
So yeah, so people just know, just whip it out.
But I think technically I haven't been offered.

Speaker 1 (36:34):
Yeah, just get offered a lot.

Speaker 4 (36:37):
I've never done that, but I've I've offered it was
it's always like oh, no, judges like that's cool. Yeah,
but it's just always like a oh, I remember this.

Speaker 14 (36:46):
Now.

Speaker 1 (36:47):
Do you remember the first time you ever had to
run from trade? Yes? Oh, actually run?

Speaker 5 (36:55):
No?

Speaker 1 (36:55):
Oh, well I've had to.

Speaker 4 (37:02):
I've had to escape scenarios yes, or I've had them
escorted out.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
We lived some real dangerous lives for a period of time,
doing some real stupid stuff.

Speaker 4 (37:14):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I can't tell that.

Speaker 1 (37:19):
Yeah, no, what you Who's turn is it? It's yours?
Where do I want to go? Do I want to
go with something light?

Speaker 2 (37:28):
Or this is more recent actually, but it's one of
those things that once I saw it, I can't stop
seeing it. Have you seen that video of omar On
floating around? He's by the pool, he's got those big
shoes on, and he's dancing to Frankie Beverly in maze
and like wiggling his little hips.

Speaker 4 (38:03):
No, you don't have to show it to me. Oh damn, No,
it's okay. I don't need to. I don't need to
experience doing adyo that.

Speaker 2 (38:12):
And I'm I'm I'm upset that I ever came across
this because now I will sometimes be cleaning my house
and I'll stop, I'll be like.

Speaker 1 (38:24):
And then wiggle with.

Speaker 2 (38:24):
My little hips like O Marion, And it really irritates
me that that is what sticks in my mind.

Speaker 1 (38:30):
I hate that for you.

Speaker 4 (38:36):
You know, my last the last person I saw leaving
New York City was Rasbee he was sitting out in
front of our hotel when we were leaving, smoking a cigarette.

Speaker 2 (38:52):
Deserve you deserve, you deserve more. No, they they deserve,
they deserve better. They endured some things. Yes, yes, yes, predators.

Speaker 1 (39:09):
Yes, I forgot about that.

Speaker 2 (39:11):
Yes, yes, And what what did in what way did
you think I was? I'm just so curious you thought
I was like saying, like, be too, they're on tour.

Speaker 1 (39:23):
Well, oh, we'll see that they got it together. Then
let me tell you.

Speaker 2 (39:27):
When I was at the at the Brandy Monica, they
played this ad in between you know, the sets, and
it was a big face that came up in the
screen like the Whiz and it was Tank and Tang

(39:49):
was promoting the Wait.

Speaker 1 (39:51):
There was an ad in between in between like sets.

Speaker 2 (39:56):
Because remember it was Mooney long and then you know,
then she leaves the stage and they got to reset
the stage so they have a DJ set and then
they played this ad and it was Tank promoting the
B two K and who are they on tour with
B two K Tour B two.

Speaker 1 (40:13):
K and and low Bow Wow and so it's the
Scream Tour but not yes, and what would you call it?

Speaker 2 (40:22):
Well, we're older now, Well, they're.

Speaker 1 (40:25):
The Holler Tour.

Speaker 2 (40:26):
It's B two K bow Wow Waka not quite there yet,
They're not quite there.

Speaker 1 (40:32):
That will be us. These are a couple of years
below Waka Flaka. And oh another person who's on my list.

Speaker 14 (40:40):
I just realized, JERMI, ah, I know.

Speaker 1 (40:47):
Uh so there was a I'll just go next again
just because we're here boy saying that.

Speaker 2 (41:08):
Anyway, Yes, that was Tank selling the B two K
bow Wow Jeremiah walka Flaka.

Speaker 1 (41:17):
Tour.

Speaker 2 (41:18):
I don't know why Tank was promoting it, but he
was that no, and that also lives rep free in
my mind. I literally just when I when I saw
his name, I.

Speaker 1 (41:29):
Was like, shitty draws.

Speaker 2 (41:31):
But yes, I don't know why Tank was promoting this,
but okay, so you know, the pandemic was such a time,
and I know we don't remember a lot from it
because it was a weird muddle of stuff. Etly, however,

(41:52):
there was you know, there was a couple of things
that stood out, and one of those was the Verzeus.

Speaker 1 (41:59):
Right. There were so many of.

Speaker 2 (42:01):
Them, and some were more climactic than others, one being
unexpectedly with Ray J Jeremiah, Bobby Valentino, Mario.

Speaker 1 (42:15):
And Omarion and Sammy. I don't remember who all was
on that thing. It was a lot of.

Speaker 2 (42:22):
Mid two thousands crooners, and Jeremiah was singing his song
and Mario was on some He was on seven that
night and said he was clowning him in the microphone
whilst he was singing the.

Speaker 1 (42:41):
Song, and he was like, Oh, this nigga sounds crazy.
It's so I will.

Speaker 2 (42:49):
I will walk around my house and be like, oh,
this nigga sounds crazy because it was such an amazing
movie and O Marion is offering ad libs, don't talk
and ships in Jeremiah and Jeremy looks so annoyed, but
he sounded so horrible.

Speaker 1 (43:10):
He deserved it all and I can't get that. I
can't get that out of my head. Differs not.

Speaker 4 (43:24):
If we.

Speaker 1 (43:26):
Try, Dad, we couldn't know.

Speaker 2 (43:31):
Somewhere it's saved in my phone.

Speaker 1 (43:36):
That whole versus was. It was so much and oh
that hell even Mary Mary got it on verses like.

Speaker 2 (43:50):
Bbn cc oh, I guess that that would that tracks right?

Speaker 12 (43:55):
Mm hm?

Speaker 1 (43:56):
Who would Ymanda go against?

Speaker 5 (44:02):
All? Right?

Speaker 2 (44:02):
What's your next one?

Speaker 1 (44:08):
Where do I want to go?

Speaker 4 (44:09):
Do I want to go with a real story from
my personal life or do I want to go with?

Speaker 1 (44:17):
Okay, you know, A Sante and I have been friends
for a long time. I'm out of the whole crew.
It was me and a Sante first, and.

Speaker 4 (44:33):
A Sante and I used to do like lives every
now and even before like Instagram before Instagram, and there
used to be like stickcam and so we would have
like cameras are on and like folks would come in
just like how would do lives for us?

Speaker 1 (44:48):
Or a twitch or whatever. So one time.

Speaker 4 (44:53):
These other gays started doing lives as well, and so
it became like a big thing. Blog talk radio became
a thing which we used to be on.

Speaker 1 (45:03):
Yes she did. Damn I forgot about that.

Speaker 4 (45:07):
And there's a platform where you could essentially podcast, but
you could do it.

Speaker 1 (45:13):
All through the phone.

Speaker 4 (45:15):
So one day Asante was like, come in this blog
talk radio.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
Thing with me. I'm like, what the fuck?

Speaker 4 (45:22):
Okay, So it was these gays arguing like Bigo, or
at least who I thought it was all gays.

Speaker 1 (45:33):
It was Gaze and a gay's mama.

Speaker 4 (45:38):
Oh so like these gays were arguing and this game
brought his mama into it, and his mama got on
the phone and started arguing. And the thing that lives
writ free in my head is her cursing out this
young vady and her line as she bagged it on

(45:58):
the phone was I'm gonna pray for you.

Speaker 1 (46:01):
Ho cl.

Speaker 5 (46:05):
You know.

Speaker 4 (46:08):
I love how Atlanta uses hoe as a punctuation.

Speaker 1 (46:11):
Yeah, I do too. It's nice.

Speaker 4 (46:13):
You know, you know how people love the New Orleanians
being the kind of thing I enjoy.

Speaker 1 (46:19):
Who you know what I mean, that's my favorite thing.

Speaker 2 (46:23):
Yeah, Sharielle is one of my favorite people to listen
to speak.

Speaker 4 (46:27):
Mm hmmm yeah, because she also assumes how is the
period is a punctuation?

Speaker 2 (46:33):
One of the most Atlanta niggas you'll ever meet in
your life.

Speaker 1 (46:36):
So she's in a positive way.

Speaker 2 (46:39):
Derogatory first of all, Yes, you know what, Yes, that's necessary.
You can end up with a cross like so many thoughts.
Just I was like, you know what, He's correct.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
Non derogatory.

Speaker 2 (46:56):
That's our home because she's a real she's a real
at Alien, She's a real, true homegrown Atlanta girl. So lady,
So that's AnyWho shall we take a break.

Speaker 4 (47:14):
Yes, let's take a break and we'll be back after
these messages hit it Claude after.

Speaker 1 (47:20):
These messages will be right back.

Speaker 5 (47:26):
Okay, glandor Bush? Pretty darn upbeat about this is you
can see more than half of the vote has been
counted so far, and at the moment, according to this
George W. Bush has a five point lead.

Speaker 1 (47:48):
And we're back.

Speaker 4 (47:50):
We're talking about things delivering free in our minds and
heads over the two hundred and forty years we've been
on this planet.

Speaker 1 (47:58):
Yeah, both of us? Uh in twenty forty?

Speaker 5 (48:05):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (48:06):
Yeah? Is it you go next? Hmmm? Do I want
to go personal or do I want.

Speaker 11 (48:13):
To go.

Speaker 1 (48:16):
Public? Mm? Hmmmm hm hm hm m hm. I remember
the very first time I ever saw a white woman's boobs.

Speaker 2 (48:27):
It was my aunt and I don't remember what we were.
She was a my mom was a massage therapist. My
aunt was a massage therapist, and maybe my mom was
massaging her because they were they would that was.

Speaker 1 (48:44):
Sorry.

Speaker 14 (48:44):
I just paused myself, grow up, Jade, grow up, like
Ben's your forty Like.

Speaker 1 (49:00):
What is.

Speaker 2 (49:06):
Because I was about to I said, because they massage
tempers and they would do each other.

Speaker 1 (49:13):
And I said it in my head and.

Speaker 2 (49:17):
Anyway, Oh, my mom be so disgusted with me right now,
but they would massage one another and maybe that's maybe
that's why I saw her titties, But it was the
I was a kid and I saw her titties and I.

Speaker 1 (49:31):
Was like, why are they red? I was like, they're pink.

Speaker 2 (49:36):
I was like, my mom's right, here is brown. Why
are yours pink? And it's stuck in my head forever.
And I thought all white women, no matter what. She
was a redhead, but I thought all white women had
just these.

Speaker 4 (49:52):
I thought they had a very specific like boob shape,
like you know, like the bell type.

Speaker 1 (49:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (49:59):
Yeah, because the women I would see in like Porky's
or whatever, you know, ship that my cousins where they
would have white woman and then I'd be like, because
I used to refer to breast as lot, I thought
they were lungs as a child, so it was like
that's what I'm almost like, Oh, I don't need to

(50:20):
dress in front of you anymore.

Speaker 1 (50:25):
But but yeah, that was it, and that lives real free.

Speaker 5 (50:29):
I was.

Speaker 1 (50:29):
That was the first time that I ever saw white
woman cities.

Speaker 8 (50:35):
Where we are delightfully tacky yet unrefined, stopping the Hooters
for great specials every day of the week.

Speaker 13 (50:41):
More than a mouthful mondays can, a cheeseburger, plattery fries
for the six Monday.

Speaker 1 (50:44):
Night Tuesdays is all you can eat traditional wings.

Speaker 9 (50:49):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (50:51):
Mine is.

Speaker 4 (50:55):
I think about Jim a lot the cartoon and yeah,
but let's root through in my mind is that Jim
has a wild ass story. And I feel like I've
talked about it as much as I do Glitter. But
if I haven't, then I'm And I've brought it up
on the Internet today because I was like, she had

(51:15):
a wild ass story, so like we should watch it.

Speaker 1 (51:20):
Because I any white girl named Jerika, Yeah, yeah, you're
gonna go on a journey, you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (51:26):
Because it's like because your parents said, you want set
you up for set you up. I don't know for
success or failure, but they set you up for something
or you don't have Yeah, just like her, Like what's
crazy if you don't know the story of Jim. Jim
is on cartoon from the eighties, and like basically she

(51:48):
was a singer and she had a whole bunch of
homies and.

Speaker 1 (51:53):
That she sang with, but she.

Speaker 4 (51:56):
Also had a secret like side of her that was
a holm Gram version of her, but her real her

(52:23):
real name is Jerica. Her daddy passed away and he
was ahead of Starlight Records, which you can call for
this all cases and purposes, we'll call it La Face Records.
Because her daddy dies somehow I think he was oft
and this man named Eric a k A.

Speaker 1 (52:46):
Pebbles takes over, because always a bitch name Pebbles.

Speaker 4 (52:52):
Eric takes over and Jericha is like, no, this is
my daddy's company. He's like, no, bitch, this is mine
and this is my new girl group called the Misfits.
The assaults were better, but Jeriica was like, oh, hell no,
this is my daddy's company. This is the way he built,
you know, everything off of and he left this to
me and he was like, I don't know what the
fuck you're talking about. He also left Jericha a foster home,

(53:18):
so like her daddy hold a foster home and he
was funding it, bankrolling it through Starlight Record again cartoon.

Speaker 1 (53:26):
So then so then.

Speaker 4 (53:30):
Right so that Eric was like, well, I'm gonna cut
this bitch off and off her. So he decides to
commit arson with the Misfits and hires somebody to burn
down the fort the foster home that she's trying to
work hard to say.

Speaker 2 (53:48):
Mm hm.

Speaker 4 (53:49):
And so the whole show was her trying to like
battle Eric. I even know Eric's trying to kill her.
He had all this stuff because he don't want to
get up off the money. She also has the ineffect
a man named Rio who can't tell the difference between
Jericho or Jim. But then she ends up meeting another
nigga named Riot, who she should have stayed with, but
he only knows her as Jim.

Speaker 1 (54:10):
It's a long thing, but yes, you know, because there's
because your cover always knows you you love. Yeah, like
what are we doing? We playing? It says you see,
I feel like there's some real dots ship. Her name Jericha,

(54:31):
Like who who?

Speaker 5 (54:32):
What was this.

Speaker 1 (54:34):
Exactly? That is?

Speaker 4 (54:38):
They wanted her to be Negress because she was because
because all the girls had relatively ethnic names.

Speaker 1 (54:45):
Who created this? Motherfucking Okay?

Speaker 2 (54:47):
Well, first of all, her mother died in a plane
crash when when she was twelve, and her father died
from an unspecified terminal illness, but he might have been
I'll be short.

Speaker 1 (55:02):
Let's see. Yeah there was Jerica kimber Azah.

Speaker 4 (55:08):
Yeah a, Shana was the only with the black girl
that she had the whitest name, Shana, don't.

Speaker 2 (55:16):
I don't know any white Shana's, so I can't speak
to that. Okay, I don't know any white Shadas.

Speaker 1 (55:25):
Everybody. Actually a couple of them are Indians. I can
see that.

Speaker 2 (55:31):
I can see that, but I don't know that meither.
I just know black Shana's. Yeah, yours, you know what
lives room free in my mind.

Speaker 1 (55:42):
Oh, go ahead.

Speaker 2 (55:45):
When that nigga went in the bucket hat came to
my door, yea, I will never forget watching him. I
was thirty eight fucking hot and threatened him with a
thirty eight fucking hot Yeah. He had a bucket hat
on and ran down my steps like Paddington Bear and

(56:10):
I was and it wasn't even his fault. I wish
I would have got his ankle or something, but it's okay.
It still lives referee in my mind. And sometimes I
just drive by my old landlord's house hoping that I'll
catch that nigga outside.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
That's it. That's brief. My next one very brief. When
Miguel hit the Hogan leg drop on that girl at
that award show, I thought about that. Watering my plants
the other day.

Speaker 2 (57:05):
Oh, because I had watched, Uh, I had watched the
interview of him where they do those street interviews and
they do the songs.

Speaker 1 (57:13):
Yeah, and I think I think his he got a
new album. Oh okay, that makes sense. And he was
talking about my neck in my back. Uh huh.

Speaker 5 (57:24):
Oh.

Speaker 2 (57:24):
That's another thing that lives free in my mind. When
Noah called Kaya a shark spider when she was remember
when she was like four. Uh but uh yeah, he
was talking about my neck in my back and I
don't And I watched that interview and the first thing
that came to my mind was him in that fucking
wrestle move.

Speaker 5 (57:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (57:42):
Yeah, I wonder how that lady's doing. I hopefully well
paid and healed. How's the lady Miguel kicked?

Speaker 12 (57:54):
Mm hmmm.

Speaker 1 (57:59):
Kati Shah marry her? He like he's the marrying type.
He likes to marry people.

Speaker 2 (58:10):
She was initially reported to have suffered cognitive difficulties potential
brain damage, but she never filed a lawsuit. Stupid Cindy
SI to Cindy Say, who was also injured, to Miguel
and the MGM Grand Hotel for negligence two years later
to cover her medical bills and lost wages queen.

Speaker 4 (58:30):
Mm hmmm, I'm go ahead and mm hmmm, losing nobody's
brain capacity or activity.

Speaker 1 (58:37):
I'm going to get you settling, like you settling, you're wrong,
it's on.

Speaker 4 (58:41):
Yeah, I didn't tell you to leap from hither to
thither on my neck like you know what I mean,
Like no one told you to do that.

Speaker 1 (58:55):
We'll tell you no, no, no, don't lie on cocaine.
And no I'm blaming cocaine. Mm hmmm.

Speaker 4 (59:02):
That is the person's reaction to the cocaine. The cocaine
is just in a little baggy, just minding its own business.
Is the When does personal responsibility become a factor?

Speaker 1 (59:16):
That's equation had a point, but I've been watching it.

Speaker 2 (59:21):
No, cocaine is a hell of a drug. Okay, it's
a hell of motherfucking drunk. And yes, people, yes, you're right.

Speaker 4 (59:29):
Yes, Not everybody acts like Joscelyn when they take it,
like you know what I mean, just like those who
drink right, like not everybody's not everybody's an angry drunk,
Not everybody's a happy drunk.

Speaker 1 (59:47):
Not everybody is the same type of.

Speaker 4 (59:49):
Drunk every time, even you know, but alcohol is always
the same poison.

Speaker 1 (01:00:00):
We'll see.

Speaker 5 (01:00:02):
It is it is?

Speaker 1 (01:00:02):
It is technically it's technically poison.

Speaker 4 (01:00:06):
Hm.

Speaker 5 (01:00:06):
But what is it?

Speaker 1 (01:00:07):
And I'm allergic to it? And I still you turn road? No,
I get stuffy. Oh m hmm, I don't really you
get stuffy? You know, trust what's next on your list?

Speaker 12 (01:00:26):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (01:00:28):
Next on my list? Oh we have we can wrap
this up today. This is my last one. I have
so many too. Oh we could go longer. It's fine, more, Okay,
I'll do my second to last one. What lives been
free in my head is the fact that I learned

(01:00:49):
and I will never let this go is the fact
that open concepts are anti feminist.

Speaker 5 (01:00:59):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:01:00):
And it is because it is.

Speaker 4 (01:01:04):
It was a ho article in the Atlantic and they
talked about how it is. The way they're designed is
so that women can keep up their roles and by
eliminating this wall allows women to do double the duty
so she can rear the children as well as continue
to cook. Yeah, it's root in sexism. And honestly, if

(01:01:30):
you ever watch like home Buying shows, a lot of
women tend to say, oh, I can watch my family
here and I could be in the kitchen here.

Speaker 5 (01:01:45):
M m.

Speaker 1 (01:01:49):
M m hm you also hate open floor fans.

Speaker 4 (01:01:58):
Yes, but now I can be justified in my hate
for them. Now I can be you know what I mean, Like, no,
it's anti woman, you know, you know what I mean.
I'm on the right side of right this time, I.

Speaker 1 (01:02:14):
Don't hate them. I didn't really realize this and that
makes sense, which because when I read that, I was like,
this sounds a little far fetched.

Speaker 4 (01:02:24):
But when as I began to think about it, I
was like, why does it always like I need to
do this and that at the same time.

Speaker 2 (01:02:31):
Because we want to stop multitasking. That's how your brains
are getting fried. And you motherfuckers can't drive, Like that's
the problem out here right now because you're trying to
do too many things at one time.

Speaker 1 (01:02:41):
One thing at a time. Mm hmmm, one thing at
a time. Yeah, and why can't that nigga? Watch those kids? Hello?

Speaker 2 (01:02:51):
I don't mind them because I like the communal aspect
of like, you know, let's eat together and we can
all kind of exist together while doing our things. You know.

Speaker 1 (01:03:03):
I like a countertop that people can sit at.

Speaker 2 (01:03:06):
I think it's communal, but you're right, I don't mind
it if it's its own separate room.

Speaker 1 (01:03:13):
As well.

Speaker 2 (01:03:13):
Either it doesn't have to flow into the next one. Yeah,
I don't hate open concepts. I think I actually really
wanted one for a period of time. Now I actually
don't mind. The kitchen is my space. So maybe I
actually don't want you all watching me in there, you know,
from another room, But I don't mind you watching me
if you're in that room.

Speaker 1 (01:03:30):
It just needs to have enough space.

Speaker 4 (01:03:33):
Yes, yes, yeah, Like I believe kitchens should have a
counter space and stuff like just think of what people
would have an open concept would be the rest of
the living room.

Speaker 1 (01:03:43):
Now, your kitchen should be that.

Speaker 4 (01:03:44):
I do think kitchen or have some separate communal space,
maybe a table or a nook of some sort. But
having rebuilding homes to have parlors. And I was watching
this mini doc on YouTube called why don't we use
this room Anymore?

Speaker 1 (01:04:01):
And it's called the It was literally the formal room.
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah no.

Speaker 4 (01:04:06):
And having you know, when I think about like old
school parties, a lot of them were like movement. They
weren't in the same space the whole time. You know,
a lot of entertaining is a movement kind of situation.
You start have drinks here, you move into this space
here for dinner, and then you can go back here
while this is being set up for coffee and cigarettes
or whatever the fuck you.

Speaker 1 (01:04:27):
M But I do now.

Speaker 2 (01:04:29):
I hate a formal dining room. I have no rhyme
or reason, really, I just hate them. I think they
are a motherfucking waste of space, not a table, not
a sit down and listen. This could be the New
York like, this.

Speaker 13 (01:04:46):
Could very well be like, why the fuck would you
waste a room on a table? This is be all
I'm like, utilize have space for something more productive.

Speaker 1 (01:04:57):
But I do. I personally hate a fucking dining room.
That's fair, that's fair. What do you have?

Speaker 5 (01:05:10):
You know?

Speaker 1 (01:05:10):
It lives room free in my mind.

Speaker 2 (01:05:14):
I was at a friend's book release party some years ago,
and it was very very excited for this friend. They
worked really hard. I've had so many friends release books,
and I was really excited for this one. And I
heard one of their friends, like me and Tristan are chilling,

(01:05:38):
and I hear one of their friends complaining to somebody
else at this party, at this book release party, when
is it going to be my turn? When am I
going to have my moment?

Speaker 1 (01:05:53):
And I and I remember turning to Tristan being like, yo,
that's peak fucking hating that.

Speaker 13 (01:05:59):
I just that we just experienced in real time, Like
you can't even how.

Speaker 1 (01:06:06):
Miserable are you?

Speaker 11 (01:06:08):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:06:08):
And I have a PhD in hate, But that's misery.
That's misery. That's different. That is different.

Speaker 2 (01:06:24):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:06:27):
I don't know why you tell us, and I know.

Speaker 2 (01:06:32):
I will never forget watching You know, we've watched hate
in different ways, but but to watch it in real time,
it was such a fascinating concept to watch a grown
person also like have a tantrum. It was so many
things at one time, and I was like, huh, that

(01:06:52):
was something, and that that lives in my brain and
anytime I see that person, you know, I'm always respectful
to you as a human, but I never can get it.

Speaker 1 (01:07:03):
Out of my mind. I'm like, man, you're kind of
a bitch, and I'll never forget it. Yeah, So it's
a real dear Redda and my the asshole you know
what I mean?

Speaker 2 (01:07:16):
Like, yes you are and I and I only will
deal with that person with a long handled spoon at
this point because I literally witnessed them.

Speaker 1 (01:07:25):
Just mucking all over somebody else's wind, and I just.

Speaker 4 (01:07:28):
Thought it was so disgusting and that's so wild, Like
you didn't even have to show up, Like you could
have said you saved yours salts, time and energy, well home,
or you could have went down to Woolsworth and got
you a soda.

Speaker 2 (01:07:43):
To okay, you could have gone to Philine's basement and
brought you a pair of isotonas, Like there were so
many things to be doing.

Speaker 4 (01:07:50):
One of the things you could have done instead of spewing.
You know, this level of hate, and you know bride's
made never the bride.

Speaker 2 (01:07:58):
Yes, yeah, And I never got to witness that with
a wedding because that that would be fascinating to see.

Speaker 1 (01:08:06):
Actually, I'm lying, what's.

Speaker 2 (01:08:09):
Crazy how memories come up?

Speaker 1 (01:08:11):
I do?

Speaker 2 (01:08:12):
I do remember always the bridesmaid, never the bride moment
at a loved one's wedding from their maid of honor.
Actually it was their maid of honor. And it was
also nasty work, huh.

Speaker 1 (01:08:30):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:08:32):
The girl lettings bring out the best and worst in people,
you know, because everybody's projecting and and also realizing the
rink they are in someone else's life. Because that's something

(01:08:53):
that you know a lot of people don't talk about right,
Like when folks think that they're more important in somebody's
life or they once were or they you know, the ones,
and things have grown apart, like say, for example, you
and your bestie blah blah blah, and then you get
a man and you get married and stuff, and the
bestie is still single and thinking, you know this, I'm

(01:09:15):
still the number one person in their life, and it's
just like, no, nigga, I got a husband, I got
a kid, I got in laws, you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:09:23):
And then some people feel slided.

Speaker 4 (01:09:25):
By that type of stuff and they project onto the
spouse and just because I hear somebody read its stories
that happen this way and.

Speaker 1 (01:09:37):
It sucks. Yeah, yeah, yeah it does. But get a
hold of yourselves.

Speaker 2 (01:09:43):
Yeah, because it's ugly to watch, and when somebody comes
across it, they'll talk about.

Speaker 1 (01:09:48):
You forever because you deserve it what you got.

Speaker 4 (01:09:53):
So my last one is a chilling one. Gerson and
I talked about this often, but you know we uh wait,
I was supposed to tell you something.

Speaker 1 (01:10:09):
Hold on what happened? Jiminica came over again. What happened?
We had chocolate?

Speaker 2 (01:10:21):
Chocolate she brought her big giant Dick Blunt. Excuse me, Vape, No.

Speaker 4 (01:10:26):
You told me about okay, because it was something else
that happened with the with the Jurassic Park. But something
else happened. I meant to tell you today. But AnyWho,
my last story, the last thing that rents.

Speaker 1 (01:10:39):
Free, rent free. In my head, I talk about it.

Speaker 4 (01:10:42):
We talked about here at home and how it really
is historical and changed the course of humanity.

Speaker 1 (01:10:50):
And I'm not even being facetious. It really did. The
hanging Chad.

Speaker 4 (01:10:57):
Now, if you don't remember, there was a little election
called the two thousand vote between George W. Bush and
Vice President Al Gore. And it was such a hot
race that it came down.

Speaker 1 (01:11:15):
Bushes and it was the first time.

Speaker 2 (01:11:19):
Who was who was running with Gore because I remember
the bumper stickers and the signs Gore.

Speaker 4 (01:11:28):
Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (01:11:31):
Anyway, continue so AnyWho?

Speaker 4 (01:11:37):
Uh, yes, So the race was so like contentious, like
it was so hot, like every vote had counted and
we got down to everything was going well and smooth.
We had to recount and stuff until we got to
a little state called Florida, and Florida the way they

(01:12:00):
do did voting at the time it was like they
had to poke a hole through it, like a whole punch,
and a lot of the whole punches didn't punch the
whole all the way through. So there was legal challenges
saying that the chad at the chad little thing was hanging,

(01:12:22):
that it didn't count.

Speaker 1 (01:12:23):
Lieberman, Sorry, continue, Joe Liberman. Yeah, there you go.

Speaker 15 (01:12:28):
Ah, stay with us, We're about to take you on
and exciting and bumpy rod all eyes on Florida at
this hour, Tim. Both campaigns made an enormous investment there
for Jack, an important win for Vice President Al Gore.

Speaker 1 (01:12:44):
NBC News punchet, but I know they.

Speaker 4 (01:12:50):
So yes, the Republican Party sued and one in the
election was turned over to the GOP, and George W.
Bush became, uh, the forty second president. I was, uh
or forty third Excuse me, I think he was, because yeah,

(01:13:12):
he's forty Yeah, he's forty third.

Speaker 5 (01:13:16):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:13:18):
So I'll never forget that because it was such a
huge thing, like having to recall the whole president presidential
or re rea call, not in the sense of like
redo it, but like having to do a runoff and
really examining each and every ballot was crazy. We didn't

(01:13:39):
find out who won until months later. That's why it
takes so long now, And just that's not the precedent of,
you know, finding out how long it takes because remember
back in the day, you would find out before you know,
you went to bed. Yeah, it was, it was a
little fun.

Speaker 1 (01:13:54):
Now it's like, yeah, sometimes we find out before we go.

Speaker 2 (01:13:58):
But sometimes now, like you said, because of all of
the gerrymandering.

Speaker 4 (01:14:02):
And yeah, you know, and activity exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:14:10):
What do I want to make my last.

Speaker 2 (01:14:18):
I'm just gonna make a pop culture moment. We reference
it often, and we reference it often because I think
about it at least three times a week. And it's
Donna and that Gang Green tattoo. I have never seen
somebody put like dialysis scars on somebody via needle. Yeah, yeah,

(01:14:44):
And we watched that in real time. That lady gang
It was a diabetic leg. All of a sudden, she
was in dialysis. All of a sudden, she was two
seconds away from an amputation. This lady tattooed Gang Green
onto the woman's leg.

Speaker 1 (01:15:00):
A lot of factors working against me. It's like, I'm
a girl, I'm a cute girl. I'm a cute groat
of the tattoos.

Speaker 2 (01:15:06):
I'm a young cute girl to the tattoos, and I'm
in New York and I have to play on.

Speaker 1 (01:15:11):
TV show Donna struggle is fake as you come somewhere,
and I think about it more than I really care to.

Speaker 2 (01:15:19):
Yeah, and there's nothing Donna could ever argue me on
if she ever heard this message. Me, girl, you tattooed
that gang grin onto that lady's leg and called it
an elephant.

Speaker 4 (01:15:30):
Bey, I offer an honorary mention please, it's in regards
to Donna mm hm. And I quote I never argue
with the deaf person before use your inside hands.

Speaker 2 (01:15:41):
And with that being said, thank you all so much
for another episode of jad XTD. Feel free to leave
us a voicemail and let us know the thing.

Speaker 1 (01:15:51):
Oh yes, the voice a voice are back.

Speaker 2 (01:15:55):
Okay, we have grievances for days, so make sure you
stay too. There will be a new episode next week
Christmas week, and you may hear yourself. Will put a
you know so that we don't you don't get in
any trouble or anything. But we're grateful for all of
you who have sent your Festivus grievances to us. Make

(01:16:18):
sure you send the voicemail, So let us know what
lives rip free in your mind, whether it be a
personal story or a pop culture moment. You can call
us at nine one seven seven two five zero six
two six. That's nine one seven seven two five zero

(01:16:41):
six six.

Speaker 5 (01:16:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:16:44):
With that being said, we'll see you all next week.
Happy Holidays five, Happy Festivus. Yeah, moving on

Speaker 5 (01:17:00):
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