August 20, 2025 • 28 mins
Katy recently experienced a wild dating scenario when a man requested to take a shower at her place before their date! The twist in this tale is that they are already acquainted and have been intimate in the past. Did she act impulsively by blocking him immediately? Or did she follow her instincts and make the right choice? We delve into this topic with you, right here.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Jerry, Katy and Josh Mix one hundred.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Katie, what went on with this latest dude that was
trying to get free hive story? Like she there's all
these clowns that come out of the woodwork.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Yeah, I mean online dating is, it's a process, let
me tell you that. And there's a lot of just
unenviable things that happened to me.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
I guess.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
But the latest is, so I was talking to this guy, right,
and I just want to point out that I knew
this guy already, So we had hung out years ago,
and that's where the story gets a little tricky, but
I still feel like I am in the right.
Speaker 4 (00:38):
So here's what happened.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
I matched with this guy who, again we had hung
out before, and just without getting too crazy intimate into it,
like we have done our taxes together before, you had,
so we have years ago, a passionate already hung out
with the guy. All right, it's all right, it's okay.
(01:05):
But anyway, so we match again, right like years ago,
we hang out and then it ended, and then we
match again. And I actually asked him, I'm like, do
you remember me? And he's like, oh, yeah, you're you know.
Katie on the radio like I totally remember you, blah blah,
and I was like, Okay, well then maybe this can work.
I was completely honest about my intentions, as I always am.
(01:27):
I'm like, you know what, just so you know, I'm
not looking for a hookup. I'm not looking for that
stage of my life, like I am looking for a relationship.
I am actively dating, looking for my person right now.
So I just want you to know that first and foremost.
And he's like, oh, that's great. I'm also in the
same camp. And here's the thing. When we dated, I
feel like the reason a big reason it didn't work
(01:48):
out is because I had roommates, Like, I didn't live
by myself. I wasn't really in the place to like
bring somebody back to my.
Speaker 5 (01:55):
Place, did you guys like you?
Speaker 4 (02:00):
And we went on a few dates.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
You want a boyfriend and girlfriend?
Speaker 4 (02:04):
No, no, no, we want a.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Boyfriend and girlfriends multiple dates. I hung out with this
man for like a month. So we hung out for
like a month, and you know, hung out multiple times
and whatnot. So anyway, fast forward to we are gonna
hang out again, right, We decide that we're gonna meet
on this day, and it's like, okay, we're gonna hang
(02:25):
out on let's say Friday, right, We're gonna hang out
Friday night. All week long, he doesn't really text me
like how's your day, how's this? It is just we're
gonna meet this day and that's it. So Friday I
hit him up and I'm like, Hey, what, what's the
plan for tonight?
Speaker 4 (02:40):
What do you want to do?
Speaker 3 (02:41):
I mean, we're talking crickets the whole day. I messaged
him early in the morning, as you know, uh so
crickets the whole day. And then he finally messages me
later that night and he was like, hey, I'd still
love to see you. I had to help my friend
Trey change his alternator, so I'm all dirty and I
don't want to drive all the way back to Boulder
(03:02):
just to shower. And I was just like, wait a minute,
this is this man asking me to come shower at
my house? Like is he asking to come use my shower?
And like the message totally made it seem that way,
Like his next question was going to be can I
come shower at your house and then we'll go on
to our date.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 4 (03:21):
I don't like that, Jeremy, Like you want to get
naked in my house.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
He just needed a shower.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
He's been working on a car, seen each other in years.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
You're not in the shower with him. There's a door.
I've been to your apartment.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Actually we've showered together, but there's a door in your bathroom.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
He would just be in their shower and getting ready.
Then you go out.
Speaker 6 (03:42):
No.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
I felt like this was his way of being like,
I'm going to get naked in your apartment and you
know what happens next.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
You feel like he'd walk out like oops, I dropped my.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
Like I feel like this was going to end up
into another just random hook up. I don't feel like
he was had the same intentions as I did.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Like I am really looking for a relationship.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
I am, and I think you're over thinking a little bit,
like I'm usually on your side.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
And I was.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Talking to my friends about it and they were like,
this man has had so many red flags, like and
the fact that you are just now flags.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
So when we did, I don't even want to do
posters on the wall.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
And here's the thing is, so when we called it quits, right,
he actually hit me up a few months later and
he's like, I'm hoping this is the Katie from and
he named a fast food restaurant. Now I know that
that's probably pretty accurate when you're thinking, of course it's you,
of course it's Katie from blah blah. No, he meant
I worked there. He's like, I hope this is Katie
(04:41):
from you worked at this.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
Fast guys, a different Katie.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
He totally hit me up thinking it was a different Katie,
and I went back. It was years ago, but still like,
that's why this this man is just like, there's so
many things. And so when he asked to use my
shaf before our first date, I was like, oh no, no, no, no,
no no, and I blocked him. I unmatched just and
he hasn't hit me back since.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
Oh he can't. Oh wait, did you try to find
out so overthinking?
Speaker 4 (05:10):
No, they didn't.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
I didn't because people told me like, don't waste your
time on this man he asked to use it.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
I would have tried to find out first.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
God, I hate to go into this other topic now,
because this one is really good.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
I'm serious.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
You want to say, okay, well do we want to
save it?
Speaker 2 (05:24):
I think you're overthinking of Katie. He was with a
friend working on his cars, wanted to meet up with you,
and he's like, I'm gonna just shower your place, get ready,
and we can bounce.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
No, I don't think that that was you are so
you are such a guy in that regard, Like.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
It's exactly what I would do.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
He wants to get naked in my apartment, you would do.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Something like that. He's been naked in your apartment. That's
the big.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Deal, I know. He like that's the thing is like
this is years ago.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
No, but Jeremy, is this something you would actually do?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I was working on a car all day, wanted to
meet up with somebody, and like, hey, it's way closer.
Just can I just quickly shower at your house and
then we can go out.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
I would never do that.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
I hated it and immediately unmatched.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
Us because of that reason.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Immediately, And not only that, but it got me thinking,
like I got all like philosophical in my head. I'm like,
there's a reason the windshields bigger than the rear view window.
I need to be looking forward and not my pass
like right, Like that's where my mind went immediately.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
But I don't think there's anything wrong with going back
if you want to. If you want to try out
that old car again?
Speaker 5 (06:33):
You see if you should.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
We push the no, push this other topic back to tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
We got to argue this out, Jared. If you want to.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Call and sound off about this, was Katie completely overthinking it.
We will take your calls and comments when we come
back from the break. If nobody is sounding off about this,
we will. We will dive into what was on your walls,
your bedroom walls growing up? Picture of a shower? Probably no,
seriously on Angela's Texas and.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
Jeremy, you're wrong, thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
The guy was sweaty and dirty from working on his car.
He just needed a shower. Hi, Kendra, good morning, Good morning?
Speaker 5 (07:13):
All right? So is she overreacting about this guy?
Speaker 7 (07:16):
Not at all?
Speaker 4 (07:17):
Thank you?
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Why come on? Come on?
Speaker 8 (07:20):
If he wasn't just trying to get in their sheets,
he would take a shower at his friend pow.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Thank you. Yeah, places can shower.
Speaker 8 (07:27):
Go watch your stank ass at your frank friend? Howse?
Speaker 2 (07:31):
And what if what if they were like a mechanic
shop or something working on this car?
Speaker 5 (07:38):
There's no shower there, so what's he to do if.
Speaker 8 (07:41):
He's working with his friends. I'm sure he has friends
around there's no way that she is the only shower available.
Go to the gym, take a shower.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
So go truck stops.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
To go to a truck stop, or go get a
gym membership and then come see.
Speaker 8 (07:55):
She's already he's already experienced it. But if Katie's aging
like fine wine, why why no no, no, all right,
I'm gonna put.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
You in camp.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
No no, no, I'm gonna put you in camp.
Speaker 5 (08:12):
Never shower at Katie's house, all right, Kindra.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
Thank you mean, or don't come at all, and thank you.
Speaker 5 (08:20):
For working in stink ass.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
Your favorite.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
Have a great day, Kindra.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Bye bye, Hi Mariah, Hi, Hey, so it was Katie overreacting.
This dude just wanted to come over, take a shower,
and then they're going to go out on a date.
Speaker 9 (08:38):
You know what, Personally, I would have just let him
shower at my place, see if he still looks good,
and then send him on his way.
Speaker 10 (08:45):
He's at your house. If you don't like, if you
don't like what you see, kick him out.
Speaker 11 (08:51):
If not, you know you washed it, you know, washed
up good, Get some.
Speaker 9 (08:55):
Free food and be on your way. Don't over react.
Speaker 4 (08:59):
You don't know what you already know. What the goods are.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
He might be totally jack now and you might be like,
never mind.
Speaker 9 (09:06):
He was working on a car. He looks all dirty.
Now you get to see him all clean. I mean,
you get the best of both sides. Girl, just out
way too fast.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
I should have stayed, should have made this hand.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Oh and Mariah, should we mention the katies in a
twenty month dry spell right now?
Speaker 4 (09:22):
I don't know why you have.
Speaker 5 (09:23):
Almost two years.
Speaker 9 (09:25):
You should have gotten him dirty and clean. My god, no,
you missed.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
Out, Mariah. I'm blushing.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
I'm blushing and now I'm kicking myself in the pants.
Speaker 6 (09:38):
Like girl, I'm I kind of wish I was not
a serial killer.
Speaker 9 (09:43):
You know that for sure. You could have just gotten
in and out and then got with me.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
Girl, Riah, I think this is Riya.
Speaker 5 (09:50):
This is we don't even need to take any more.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
I kind of wish I was single right now so
I can hook up with Mariah.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
Mariah sounds fun.
Speaker 9 (10:00):
This would be very upset.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
Don't bring him into.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
This, Mariah.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
Hey, I appreciate your phone call today. So you're on team.
Let the man shower and check out the goods.
Speaker 9 (10:12):
It's funny if you if it isn't the first time
eating whim shower at your place? Isn't the first time?
Hopefully it's not the last.
Speaker 5 (10:21):
I know, it's so stupid. I did react very Mariah.
Thank you for your call. You have a great day,
you too, got bye. I like her.
Speaker 4 (10:31):
She was fun.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
But see, here's the thing, is like, Yes, that's the
good approach to take if you're just looking to hook up.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Right, But oh, Katie, stop trying to sound all noble.
You would have done it if it was presented to you,
you would have done it.
Speaker 5 (10:46):
Kristen, Yes, yes.
Speaker 12 (10:50):
Sorry, fun.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
I can just want I can tell. I can tell Katie.
Speaker 13 (10:57):
Needs to trust her instincts and go with listening to
all those other callers, go with what she's ultimately looking for.
I think it's weird. I thought of the friend thing
while I was on hold. I'm glad Kender brought that up.
Charch Dan friend's house.
Speaker 4 (11:11):
Yes, JN.
Speaker 13 (11:14):
And we don't know if he's not a creeper. I
don't care where she I don't care if she's been
with him in the past. People are people, and they're
dynamic and fluid, and that's just putting her in an
uncomfortable position and I commend her for following her instincts.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Do you know if he reached out to you, like, well,
was he driving he had already left his friend's place.
Speaker 4 (11:34):
I don't know. He said he worked on the car.
Speaker 5 (11:37):
So maybe he had already left. He's gone, he's in
his car.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
He's like, let me swing in, Yeah, get cleaned up,
and I'll take you out for chicken tinders.
Speaker 12 (11:44):
I know.
Speaker 13 (11:45):
Oh, do you know he's even gonna pay these don't
care if it was ten years fifteen years ago. Like
he just sounds like, go with your instincts. I think
you are being a guy in this respect.
Speaker 8 (11:57):
You can't give everyone the benefit of the doubt.
Speaker 4 (12:00):
You can't.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
And I'd like what you said, Kristin about just trusting
my gut, because the minute I read the message, I
felt uneasy and I was like, I don't like this,
you know.
Speaker 14 (12:10):
Don't you.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
I feel like in the past you've kind of said
you have a thing for mechanics and dirty fingers and
the smell of oil and that gross's.
Speaker 5 (12:22):
People. People change, Kristen.
Speaker 4 (12:26):
No, I definitely like that, you.
Speaker 5 (12:28):
Know, exact point, because she likes that Kristen. She likes
so he would have been smelling like that at the house,
and I.
Speaker 4 (12:35):
Tell you what I don't like.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
It's almost like he assumed that I was going to
say yes, Like his message was, so.
Speaker 4 (12:42):
I know, but I didn't like it, Like you're getting.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Guys, you house behind closed doors like that her private
sanctuary place, Like that's all we have is our home,
whatever it is, even if it's a tiny home, that's all.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
It's all, but it's mine.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
Kristin.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
We appreciate you calling in today. Thanks for voicing your opinion.
Speaker 5 (13:09):
You're great, have a good day, all right, see you later.
She was team go with your instincts. Yeah, yes, all right. Scottie, Hi, scott, Hey,
how you guys doing well?
Speaker 2 (13:23):
We're super dupes. Katie apparently hates men and showers clean men.
Speaker 7 (13:29):
Well, it would be a little different if you didn't
know the guy, and say, if you did your texes with.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
The guys many times.
Speaker 7 (13:39):
If it was some perfect stranger. Okay maybe, but I
think that for a guy's point of view, that I
think we need to see about like the exes, like
have a day of critiquing and see what the issues are,
because it goes both ways and and you know, to
(14:00):
just find out what uh you know what they say
about maybe your dating experience with them.
Speaker 4 (14:07):
Find out what they thought about me.
Speaker 7 (14:10):
Yeah, I mean, because I mean and it's good to
get feedback, whether it's bad or good. And you know,
because everybody has quirks, you know, maybe some people talk
too much or you know, say this about themselves and
never you know, let anybody else, you know, chime in.
Speaker 5 (14:24):
Maybe he was giving me a chance.
Speaker 7 (14:28):
I'm not saying that that could be the point, but
you never know.
Speaker 5 (14:34):
I feel like you just called in to say, Katie
is the problem.
Speaker 7 (14:37):
Yeah, but you know, yeah, my fell you could be
you know, in line, you know, ready to be the
crazy cat lady and start collecting.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
I think, Scott, I will say, I don't think she's
been thinking clearly in some instances, correct, because you're so
backed up.
Speaker 4 (14:53):
Katie, Oh, Scot, that's not it. I am actually thinking
very clearly, are you.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
I'm thinking of how this is going to make me
feel in the long run and not just in the now,
you know.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
And I think that's a big but that's a big.
Speaker 3 (15:10):
Reason with this where I was like, I don't know
if I'm will because this seems.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
Like he's just in it for the hookup.
Speaker 5 (15:15):
You could let him shower.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
You could have let him shower, You could have left
your house, you could have gone for a walk.
Speaker 12 (15:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (15:21):
I think sometimes you might have to lower some standards
a little bit until you get comfortable with somebody for
a long period of time. You know, you can't slam
a door like, you know, a sap like nope, nope.
Speaker 5 (15:35):
You know it's over and it's probably a shower door
you're slamming.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
I know.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Scott, I thank you for your call.
Speaker 5 (15:43):
I think I don't know. Thank you for your call.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
Thank you for calling.
Speaker 7 (15:47):
I think we need a guy's calling perspective, that's what
we need.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
I wish we could get this dirty guy on the
phone and be like, dude, did you just want to
shower or are.
Speaker 5 (15:54):
You trying to get some.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
We'll never know, We'll never know. There you go, Scotty,
we have full phone lines.
Speaker 5 (16:02):
Have a great day, buddy.
Speaker 9 (16:03):
YouTube.
Speaker 5 (16:03):
All right, but Chris, hi, Chris.
Speaker 6 (16:05):
How's it going? Can you hear me?
Speaker 5 (16:07):
Yeah, we can hear you a loud and clear Chris,
You're perfect.
Speaker 6 (16:11):
Hey, So all right, And I want to preface this
with I suck at planning, right, but when I was dating, right,
and when I was getting serious, I made you know
that my priority. So I'm not sure whether you know
guy was just being stupid and had piss poor planning
(16:32):
or whether he's being a creeper, But either way, I
think Katie's better off without.
Speaker 5 (16:36):
Thank you. II. This is so fascinating to me.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
If it truly is a guy that was like, hey,
it's forty five minutes to my house, it's fifteen to yours.
Speaker 5 (16:46):
I'm a mess.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Can I can I quickly shower and then we'll go out.
Speaker 5 (16:51):
It is fascinate you and everybody's freaking out.
Speaker 6 (16:53):
I'm an idiot when it comes to planning, but you know,
ultimately it's up to her. And if she the guy
that's you know all right?
Speaker 5 (17:06):
He was just starting to make sense to everybody.
Speaker 4 (17:12):
Did we get fired up about this right?
Speaker 5 (17:14):
Yet? Here is Jane?
Speaker 15 (17:17):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (17:17):
Jane, Hi, Hey, don't cuss?
Speaker 12 (17:21):
Okay, no, my voice is gone a little. But I
had to call in and say, Katie, trust your instincts.
You did the right thing this time, and you did
the right thing the last time. You didn't continue with
that guy, thank you, because he knew he's he had
known you had a date a whole week crickets, crickets,
(17:41):
So what's up with that? Yeah, No, you did the
right thing, block him, double blocking double what.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
I wish Jane was living with you so she could
just stand at the door.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
Leave no leave Now, Katie has no time for you.
Speaker 4 (17:59):
Hire you.
Speaker 5 (18:00):
You need a little bodyguard. I think it's Jane.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
He'd be my muscle at the door.
Speaker 5 (18:06):
Like no.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
I like that a lot. You're right, though, he gave
me the red flags already before he even asked me
to use his shower. Right, he didn't message me all week.
Speaker 5 (18:18):
And because he's busy with a broken down car.
Speaker 4 (18:20):
I guess apparently that's his excuse.
Speaker 5 (18:22):
But great point, Jane, Jane, thanks for calling.
Speaker 12 (18:25):
Thank you guys.
Speaker 5 (18:26):
Bye, Mary, Hi, Mary.
Speaker 10 (18:30):
Hi, good morning.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Tell me somebody's gonna say that Katie's overreacting just a
little bit.
Speaker 5 (18:34):
Come on.
Speaker 10 (18:36):
I kind of think just because of the brief history,
whys the path together, it's a slight overreaction. If it
truly was just a shower, and if he had additional intentions,
you can determine what happens at that point, you know.
Speaker 4 (18:49):
Okay, So I should have let it gone a little farther.
Speaker 5 (18:52):
I should have You might have missed out on the shower.
Speaker 10 (18:55):
He's trying to be respectful, clean up a little before
you go. Maybe his friend was in a bad place
and he was being helpful and it just was bad timing.
But he did the right thing helping his friend. And
now he's stinky. However, a minor, small flip of the
coin that nobody has brought up yet, Like, so he
is going to shower at your house and then has
(19:15):
no clean clothes to put on afterwards, So he's going
to get clean just to put on dirty clothes.
Speaker 5 (19:20):
Well, we don't know. He might have a bag full
of clothes from his previous girlfriends.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
Did he bring a.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
Bag of clean clothes? Like he planned to shower at
my house? Like, that's where my mind went, is like
the same thing it went down that road.
Speaker 5 (19:33):
Maybe he does have a change of clothes.
Speaker 4 (19:35):
Maybe and then did he.
Speaker 10 (19:36):
Play Maybe he felt comfortable enough with you because of
the history that he did just want to take a
quick shower and he didn't want to push off the
dates so much. If he lived that far away, you.
Speaker 5 (19:45):
Might have missed out on a banger of a date.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
A date.
Speaker 3 (19:49):
I still again, no messaging all week long, and I
don't know, I just I really felt like it was
not a good idea to let him in my house.
Speaker 5 (19:59):
So Mary, thank you for your thoughts. Have a great day.
Speaker 6 (20:04):
Bye bye bye.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
Oh what time is it? We can do a couple more.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
We'll do last call here if anyone wants to sound
off about this? Did Katie overreact over the dude wanting
to come shower at her house? Three oh three six
nine one, sixteen forty nine.
Speaker 5 (20:19):
Here's Justin. Hi, Justin.
Speaker 15 (20:21):
Hey, guys, how you doing?
Speaker 5 (20:23):
Super dupes? Buddy? So do you want to go shower
at Katie's house?
Speaker 15 (20:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (20:30):
Yeah, yeah, you used. She's got the best shampoo.
Speaker 15 (20:35):
A car all day She's got you know, when.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
I was over there showering, she had the best body wash. God,
the razor. Oh but used?
Speaker 2 (20:49):
Yeah, the the Lufa created such a rich, creamy lather.
All right, just stop it. I'll bowl dump you. I
will hit the dumb button on you. You Hi, Justin,
What do you think does she ever react?
Speaker 15 (21:04):
I think maybe a little bit, But given I mean,
especially listening to the last few callers, now, I'm kind
of second guessing my own opinions. So I think if
you guys had some sort of rapport years ago, right, Yes, yes,
(21:27):
I think I don't know, and maybe he does have
a bag of clothes in his car.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
But bottom line and justin, we gotta we gotta get
this done by tomorrow.
Speaker 15 (21:38):
Line, bottom line, by tomorrow, bottom line. Trust your instinct.
I'm glad you went with your gut. Maybe blocking him
was a little aggressive. Maybe give him another chance, you know,
strike strike two, strike three type thing.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
Let's strike two.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
Yeah, why didn't you just say to him, can you
shower somewhere else and let's still meet up?
Speaker 5 (22:00):
Why did you completely shut this guy down?
Speaker 3 (22:03):
Because I felt like it's like my friends even were saying,
like this guy's just like giving you a whole bouquet
of red flags at this point, like you need to
just cut it off, Like don't even friends are yeah, my.
Speaker 5 (22:13):
Friends, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (22:16):
That's usually happens, you know.
Speaker 5 (22:18):
Justin thank you for the call.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
We will do three more Jackie, Bonnie and Kay and
then we will put.
Speaker 5 (22:24):
This to bed in the Jackie here. Hey there, all right,
So what are your thoughts for Katie?
Speaker 16 (22:32):
Yeah, so I think you totally made the right call.
I think my issue isn't so much the hookup factor
as the fact that he clearly didn't make you a priority,
Like you didn't hear from him all week, and then
he clearly knew that you were supposed to have plans
that night, and he didn't, you know, make it a
point to to time things properly, to get home and
(22:55):
everything in time.
Speaker 7 (22:55):
For your date.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Yeah, Katie's also said a billion times she hates when
people faster, so maybe he's heard that.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
And he was making it a priority because he was
gonna come over, shower and immediately go out.
Speaker 5 (23:06):
So you were the priority, But.
Speaker 3 (23:07):
No, where you were talking all week long like usually yeah,
usually there's a house, your day going or you know,
I'm excited about Friday, Like there's something in there with that.
Speaker 5 (23:18):
No, why didn't you do it?
Speaker 3 (23:19):
But I was the one who reached out to him
on Friday because like the whole show went by in
a couple hours and I was like, is this man
not even going to set up plans for tonight? I
had to reach out to him and that's when he said,
I've been working on my friend's car all day, So like,
I just I don't even feel like he did put
me as a priority.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
And when he remembered our date, he's like, maybe I
can get it in real quick.
Speaker 5 (23:42):
You know that was my thought.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
Yeah, like, all right, so you're thinking she's in the
right Jackie.
Speaker 16 (23:49):
Yeah, for sure. It made it seem like it was
like her date was just an afterthought.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
Yeah, one of many. Maybe maybe I wasn't even the
only one.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
That weekend, Jackie. We appreciate you, thank you for calling in.
Let's do Bonnie and kay, here's Bonnie.
Speaker 5 (24:04):
Hi, Bonnie, Well, good morning, good morning to you. Are
you team Katie or team shower?
Speaker 14 (24:11):
I most definitely team Katie.
Speaker 4 (24:14):
Nice?
Speaker 5 (24:15):
Yeah, all right, Bonnie hates clean men too.
Speaker 14 (24:21):
No, I like clean men, but hey, dirty dog Bonnie.
Speaker 3 (24:26):
Bonnie, we don't know that, and don't you also said
that you are doing the online dating, so you.
Speaker 9 (24:32):
Know what this is like I do.
Speaker 14 (24:35):
I would have walked him to It's just like.
Speaker 16 (24:38):
You weren't a priority.
Speaker 14 (24:40):
And if things came up and if Brent had like
a major emergency in his car broke down, he could
have communicated that ye rescheduled for a different day and.
Speaker 16 (24:49):
Patten ducks in a row.
Speaker 14 (24:51):
And yeah, no, he was. He was totally wrong and
and just being assumptive that, oh, just because we were
together before, this is gonna be great. Well, make an effort.
It didn't work out the last time. Still make an
effort this time.
Speaker 5 (25:03):
Yeah, Mike drop moment from Bond.
Speaker 2 (25:06):
Thank you, Bonnie drop the Mike walk away, Bonnie.
Speaker 6 (25:09):
Yeah, thank you very much.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Thank you very much. That was a good call. All right,
k kkk you get the final word.
Speaker 11 (25:17):
On this good morning? Yes, I want the final word.
I can't believe no one has mentioned this. That's why
I'm calling in. I'm one hundred percent percent team Katie.
First of all, dang, oh my god, So it feels
totally slimy. What this his move he pulled? It feels
like a slinball move. So beyond that, I'm waiting and
(25:38):
waiting for somebody to meet someone to mention this. Wait, Okay,
he's going to shower at her house, and then what
does he have clothes? Is he going to put the
same greasy clothes on, the same Dirney underwear?
Speaker 5 (25:48):
Yeah? A couple of people have mentioned that.
Speaker 2 (25:50):
We're thinking that maybe he had a bag of clothes
in his car, or he was prepared in one way
or another.
Speaker 11 (25:55):
It doesn't sound like it, but who knows that Just
the whole thing sounds sleazy. Assign me to me, and
not a way to start.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
As they've had a relationship, they've been there, done that,
and now they're kind of on a friend level.
Speaker 5 (26:06):
I think.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
So it's just to me, it's just like hey, a
friend saying, hey can I shower at your place?
Speaker 5 (26:10):
And then we'll be No, there's no friend level. I
feel like there's a friend level.
Speaker 4 (26:13):
There's no friend.
Speaker 3 (26:14):
Level because we were intimate before and then he tried
to bring that back at no point where we just
friends ever like this is. It's been a romantic relationship,
and so.
Speaker 11 (26:25):
I feel like I needed a bag of clothes, yes,
to feel better about the whole request.
Speaker 9 (26:31):
That says so weird to shower and not have that.
Speaker 11 (26:35):
It sounded like a last minute move. Hey can I
come over and shower so I don't have to drive home?
Speaker 2 (26:39):
So yeah, we're and then he'll pretend to fall in
the shower and be like Katie, help me.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
I know I fall, exactly what I thought was gonna happen.
Speaker 5 (26:50):
Come on, Kay, Thank you for the call. Thank you
to everybody who called in today.
Speaker 2 (26:55):
To texted, texted, I mean overwhelmingly on the text line,
as you did the right thing, trust your gut, and
I agree.
Speaker 5 (27:04):
I think that was crazy. I did. I uh, I
was just goofing for the radio. Oh yeah, it was
I think you did the right thing.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
That's kind of weird thing to do. Yeah, does he
have extra clothes? Super shady? And once you got a
guy in your house, like people said, you you have
the last word.
Speaker 5 (27:23):
But sometimes you can't get him out of your house,
you know.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
And not only that, but because of the fact that
this had happened before with this individual, like we had
a history before, I was already hesitant. I was already
second guessing myself, like, do you want to go back
into your past and try something you already did? Like
me trying to justify that already.
Speaker 5 (27:43):
Yeah, was hard.
Speaker 4 (27:44):
So then when he asked a shower at my ass,
do the right thing?
Speaker 6 (27:47):
Oh me?
Speaker 4 (27:48):
Never mind?
Speaker 5 (27:49):
Two things.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
I absolutely love all your dating stories because man, I
just have no idea. I haven't been out in the
dating world in twenty four years, So thank you.
Speaker 4 (27:58):
You don't want to be out here.
Speaker 5 (28:00):
Thank you for all the success pool.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Juicy stories, and please keep sharing them on the air.
Speaker 5 (28:06):
I'm going to the second thing. Does this mean I
can't share it at your house anymore?
Speaker 4 (28:11):
I mean, no, stop asking that.
Speaker 5 (28:15):
Oh man, Katie, I fall in.
Speaker 4 (28:21):
Please come help me, Chare grab your own towel.
Speaker 5 (28:28):
Hey, thanks agetting everybody that called in and texted in.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
This show is definitely powered by our feisty feisty listeners,
so thank you again.
Jerry, Katy and Josh Mix one hundred.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Katie, what went on with this latest dude that was
trying to get free hive story? Like she there's all
these clowns that come out of the woodwork.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Yeah, I mean online dating is, it's a process, let
me tell you that. And there's a lot of just
unenviable things that happened to me.
Speaker 4 (00:24):
I guess.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
But the latest is, so I was talking to this guy, right,
and I just want to point out that I knew
this guy already, So we had hung out years ago,
and that's where the story gets a little tricky, but
I still feel like I am in the right.
Speaker 4 (00:38):
So here's what happened.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
I matched with this guy who, again we had hung
out before, and just without getting too crazy intimate into it,
like we have done our taxes together before, you had,
so we have years ago, a passionate already hung out
with the guy. All right, it's all right, it's okay.
(01:05):
But anyway, so we match again, right like years ago,
we hang out and then it ended, and then we
match again. And I actually asked him, I'm like, do
you remember me? And he's like, oh, yeah, you're you know.
Katie on the radio like I totally remember you, blah blah,
and I was like, Okay, well then maybe this can work.
I was completely honest about my intentions, as I always am.
(01:27):
I'm like, you know what, just so you know, I'm
not looking for a hookup. I'm not looking for that
stage of my life, like I am looking for a relationship.
I am actively dating, looking for my person right now.
So I just want you to know that first and foremost.
And he's like, oh, that's great. I'm also in the
same camp. And here's the thing. When we dated, I
feel like the reason a big reason it didn't work
(01:48):
out is because I had roommates, Like, I didn't live
by myself. I wasn't really in the place to like
bring somebody back to my.
Speaker 5 (01:55):
Place, did you guys like you?
Speaker 4 (02:00):
And we went on a few dates.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
You want a boyfriend and girlfriend?
Speaker 4 (02:04):
No, no, no, we want a.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Boyfriend and girlfriends multiple dates. I hung out with this
man for like a month. So we hung out for
like a month, and you know, hung out multiple times
and whatnot. So anyway, fast forward to we are gonna
hang out again, right, We decide that we're gonna meet
on this day, and it's like, okay, we're gonna hang
(02:25):
out on let's say Friday, right, We're gonna hang out
Friday night. All week long, he doesn't really text me
like how's your day, how's this? It is just we're
gonna meet this day and that's it. So Friday I
hit him up and I'm like, Hey, what, what's the
plan for tonight?
Speaker 4 (02:40):
What do you want to do?
Speaker 3 (02:41):
I mean, we're talking crickets the whole day. I messaged
him early in the morning, as you know, uh so
crickets the whole day. And then he finally messages me
later that night and he was like, hey, I'd still
love to see you. I had to help my friend
Trey change his alternator, so I'm all dirty and I
don't want to drive all the way back to Boulder
(03:02):
just to shower. And I was just like, wait a minute,
this is this man asking me to come shower at
my house? Like is he asking to come use my shower?
And like the message totally made it seem that way,
Like his next question was going to be can I
come shower at your house and then we'll go on
to our date.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 4 (03:21):
I don't like that, Jeremy, Like you want to get
naked in my house.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
He just needed a shower.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
He's been working on a car, seen each other in years.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
You're not in the shower with him. There's a door.
I've been to your apartment.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Actually we've showered together, but there's a door in your bathroom.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
He would just be in their shower and getting ready.
Then you go out.
Speaker 6 (03:42):
No.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
I felt like this was his way of being like,
I'm going to get naked in your apartment and you
know what happens next.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
You feel like he'd walk out like oops, I dropped my.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
Like I feel like this was going to end up
into another just random hook up. I don't feel like
he was had the same intentions as I did.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Like I am really looking for a relationship.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
I am, and I think you're over thinking a little bit,
like I'm usually on your side.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
And I was.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Talking to my friends about it and they were like,
this man has had so many red flags, like and
the fact that you are just now flags.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
So when we did, I don't even want to do
posters on the wall.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
And here's the thing is, so when we called it quits, right,
he actually hit me up a few months later and
he's like, I'm hoping this is the Katie from and
he named a fast food restaurant. Now I know that
that's probably pretty accurate when you're thinking, of course it's you,
of course it's Katie from blah blah. No, he meant
I worked there. He's like, I hope this is Katie
(04:41):
from you worked at this.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
Fast guys, a different Katie.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
He totally hit me up thinking it was a different Katie,
and I went back. It was years ago, but still like,
that's why this this man is just like, there's so
many things. And so when he asked to use my
shaf before our first date, I was like, oh no, no, no, no,
no no, and I blocked him. I unmatched just and
he hasn't hit me back since.
Speaker 5 (05:07):
Oh he can't. Oh wait, did you try to find
out so overthinking?
Speaker 4 (05:10):
No, they didn't.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
I didn't because people told me like, don't waste your
time on this man he asked to use it.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
I would have tried to find out first.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
God, I hate to go into this other topic now,
because this one is really good.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
I'm serious.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
You want to say, okay, well do we want to
save it?
Speaker 2 (05:24):
I think you're overthinking of Katie. He was with a
friend working on his cars, wanted to meet up with you,
and he's like, I'm gonna just shower your place, get ready,
and we can bounce.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
No, I don't think that that was you are so
you are such a guy in that regard, Like.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
It's exactly what I would do.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
He wants to get naked in my apartment, you would do.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Something like that. He's been naked in your apartment. That's
the big.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Deal, I know. He like that's the thing is like
this is years ago.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
No, but Jeremy, is this something you would actually do?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I was working on a car all day, wanted to
meet up with somebody, and like, hey, it's way closer.
Just can I just quickly shower at your house and
then we can go out.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
I would never do that.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
I hated it and immediately unmatched.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
Us because of that reason.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Immediately, And not only that, but it got me thinking,
like I got all like philosophical in my head. I'm like,
there's a reason the windshields bigger than the rear view window.
I need to be looking forward and not my pass
like right, Like that's where my mind went immediately.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
But I don't think there's anything wrong with going back
if you want to. If you want to try out
that old car again?
Speaker 5 (06:33):
You see if you should.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
We push the no, push this other topic back to tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
We got to argue this out, Jared. If you want to.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Call and sound off about this, was Katie completely overthinking it.
We will take your calls and comments when we come
back from the break. If nobody is sounding off about this,
we will. We will dive into what was on your walls,
your bedroom walls growing up? Picture of a shower? Probably no,
seriously on Angela's Texas and.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
Jeremy, you're wrong, thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
The guy was sweaty and dirty from working on his car.
He just needed a shower. Hi, Kendra, good morning, Good morning?
Speaker 5 (07:13):
All right? So is she overreacting about this guy?
Speaker 7 (07:16):
Not at all?
Speaker 4 (07:17):
Thank you?
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Why come on? Come on?
Speaker 8 (07:20):
If he wasn't just trying to get in their sheets,
he would take a shower at his friend pow.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Thank you. Yeah, places can shower.
Speaker 8 (07:27):
Go watch your stank ass at your frank friend? Howse?
Speaker 2 (07:31):
And what if what if they were like a mechanic
shop or something working on this car?
Speaker 5 (07:38):
There's no shower there, so what's he to do if.
Speaker 8 (07:41):
He's working with his friends. I'm sure he has friends
around there's no way that she is the only shower available.
Go to the gym, take a shower.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
So go truck stops.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
To go to a truck stop, or go get a
gym membership and then come see.
Speaker 8 (07:55):
She's already he's already experienced it. But if Katie's aging
like fine wine, why why no no, no, all right,
I'm gonna put.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
You in camp.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
No no, no, I'm gonna put you in camp.
Speaker 5 (08:12):
Never shower at Katie's house, all right, Kindra.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
Thank you mean, or don't come at all, and thank you.
Speaker 5 (08:20):
For working in stink ass.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
Your favorite.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
Have a great day, Kindra.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Bye bye, Hi Mariah, Hi, Hey, so it was Katie overreacting.
This dude just wanted to come over, take a shower,
and then they're going to go out on a date.
Speaker 9 (08:38):
You know what, Personally, I would have just let him
shower at my place, see if he still looks good,
and then send him on his way.
Speaker 10 (08:45):
He's at your house. If you don't like, if you
don't like what you see, kick him out.
Speaker 11 (08:51):
If not, you know you washed it, you know, washed
up good, Get some.
Speaker 9 (08:55):
Free food and be on your way. Don't over react.
Speaker 4 (08:59):
You don't know what you already know. What the goods are.
Speaker 5 (09:03):
He might be totally jack now and you might be like,
never mind.
Speaker 9 (09:06):
He was working on a car. He looks all dirty.
Now you get to see him all clean. I mean,
you get the best of both sides. Girl, just out
way too fast.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
I should have stayed, should have made this hand.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Oh and Mariah, should we mention the katies in a
twenty month dry spell right now?
Speaker 4 (09:22):
I don't know why you have.
Speaker 5 (09:23):
Almost two years.
Speaker 9 (09:25):
You should have gotten him dirty and clean. My god, no,
you missed.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
Out, Mariah. I'm blushing.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
I'm blushing and now I'm kicking myself in the pants.
Speaker 6 (09:38):
Like girl, I'm I kind of wish I was not
a serial killer.
Speaker 9 (09:43):
You know that for sure. You could have just gotten
in and out and then got with me.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
Girl, Riah, I think this is Riya.
Speaker 5 (09:50):
This is we don't even need to take any more.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
I kind of wish I was single right now so
I can hook up with Mariah.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
Mariah sounds fun.
Speaker 9 (10:00):
This would be very upset.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
Don't bring him into.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
This, Mariah.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
Hey, I appreciate your phone call today. So you're on team.
Let the man shower and check out the goods.
Speaker 9 (10:12):
It's funny if you if it isn't the first time
eating whim shower at your place? Isn't the first time?
Hopefully it's not the last.
Speaker 5 (10:21):
I know, it's so stupid. I did react very Mariah.
Thank you for your call. You have a great day,
you too, got bye. I like her.
Speaker 4 (10:31):
She was fun.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
But see, here's the thing, is like, Yes, that's the
good approach to take if you're just looking to hook up.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
Right, But oh, Katie, stop trying to sound all noble.
You would have done it if it was presented to you,
you would have done it.
Speaker 5 (10:46):
Kristen, Yes, yes.
Speaker 12 (10:50):
Sorry, fun.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
I can just want I can tell. I can tell Katie.
Speaker 13 (10:57):
Needs to trust her instincts and go with listening to
all those other callers, go with what she's ultimately looking for.
I think it's weird. I thought of the friend thing
while I was on hold. I'm glad Kender brought that up.
Charch Dan friend's house.
Speaker 4 (11:11):
Yes, JN.
Speaker 13 (11:14):
And we don't know if he's not a creeper. I
don't care where she I don't care if she's been
with him in the past. People are people, and they're
dynamic and fluid, and that's just putting her in an
uncomfortable position and I commend her for following her instincts.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Do you know if he reached out to you, like, well,
was he driving he had already left his friend's place.
Speaker 4 (11:34):
I don't know. He said he worked on the car.
Speaker 5 (11:37):
So maybe he had already left. He's gone, he's in
his car.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
He's like, let me swing in, Yeah, get cleaned up,
and I'll take you out for chicken tinders.
Speaker 12 (11:44):
I know.
Speaker 13 (11:45):
Oh, do you know he's even gonna pay these don't
care if it was ten years fifteen years ago. Like
he just sounds like, go with your instincts. I think
you are being a guy in this respect.
Speaker 8 (11:57):
You can't give everyone the benefit of the doubt.
Speaker 4 (12:00):
You can't.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
And I'd like what you said, Kristin about just trusting
my gut, because the minute I read the message, I
felt uneasy and I was like, I don't like this,
you know.
Speaker 14 (12:10):
Don't you.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
I feel like in the past you've kind of said
you have a thing for mechanics and dirty fingers and
the smell of oil and that gross's.
Speaker 5 (12:22):
People. People change, Kristen.
Speaker 4 (12:26):
No, I definitely like that, you.
Speaker 5 (12:28):
Know, exact point, because she likes that Kristen. She likes
so he would have been smelling like that at the house,
and I.
Speaker 4 (12:35):
Tell you what I don't like.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
It's almost like he assumed that I was going to
say yes, Like his message was, so.
Speaker 4 (12:42):
I know, but I didn't like it, Like you're getting.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Guys, you house behind closed doors like that her private
sanctuary place, Like that's all we have is our home,
whatever it is, even if it's a tiny home, that's all.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
It's all, but it's mine.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
Kristin.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
We appreciate you calling in today. Thanks for voicing your opinion.
Speaker 5 (13:09):
You're great, have a good day, all right, see you later.
She was team go with your instincts. Yeah, yes, all right. Scottie, Hi, scott, Hey,
how you guys doing well?
Speaker 2 (13:23):
We're super dupes. Katie apparently hates men and showers clean men.
Speaker 7 (13:29):
Well, it would be a little different if you didn't
know the guy, and say, if you did your texes with.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
The guys many times.
Speaker 7 (13:39):
If it was some perfect stranger. Okay maybe, but I
think that for a guy's point of view, that I
think we need to see about like the exes, like
have a day of critiquing and see what the issues are,
because it goes both ways and and you know, to
(14:00):
just find out what uh you know what they say
about maybe your dating experience with them.
Speaker 4 (14:07):
Find out what they thought about me.
Speaker 7 (14:10):
Yeah, I mean, because I mean and it's good to
get feedback, whether it's bad or good. And you know,
because everybody has quirks, you know, maybe some people talk
too much or you know, say this about themselves and
never you know, let anybody else, you know, chime in.
Speaker 5 (14:24):
Maybe he was giving me a chance.
Speaker 7 (14:28):
I'm not saying that that could be the point, but
you never know.
Speaker 5 (14:34):
I feel like you just called in to say, Katie
is the problem.
Speaker 7 (14:37):
Yeah, but you know, yeah, my fell you could be
you know, in line, you know, ready to be the
crazy cat lady and start collecting.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
I think, Scott, I will say, I don't think she's
been thinking clearly in some instances, correct, because you're so
backed up.
Speaker 4 (14:53):
Katie, Oh, Scot, that's not it. I am actually thinking
very clearly, are you.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
I'm thinking of how this is going to make me
feel in the long run and not just in the now,
you know.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
And I think that's a big but that's a big.
Speaker 3 (15:10):
Reason with this where I was like, I don't know
if I'm will because this seems.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
Like he's just in it for the hookup.
Speaker 5 (15:15):
You could let him shower.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
You could have let him shower, You could have left
your house, you could have gone for a walk.
Speaker 12 (15:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (15:21):
I think sometimes you might have to lower some standards
a little bit until you get comfortable with somebody for
a long period of time. You know, you can't slam
a door like, you know, a sap like nope, nope.
Speaker 5 (15:35):
You know it's over and it's probably a shower door
you're slamming.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
I know.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Scott, I thank you for your call.
Speaker 5 (15:43):
I think I don't know. Thank you for your call.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
Thank you for calling.
Speaker 7 (15:47):
I think we need a guy's calling perspective, that's what
we need.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
I wish we could get this dirty guy on the
phone and be like, dude, did you just want to
shower or are.
Speaker 5 (15:54):
You trying to get some.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
We'll never know, We'll never know. There you go, Scotty,
we have full phone lines.
Speaker 5 (16:02):
Have a great day, buddy.
Speaker 9 (16:03):
YouTube.
Speaker 5 (16:03):
All right, but Chris, hi, Chris.
Speaker 6 (16:05):
How's it going? Can you hear me?
Speaker 5 (16:07):
Yeah, we can hear you a loud and clear Chris,
You're perfect.
Speaker 6 (16:11):
Hey, So all right, And I want to preface this
with I suck at planning, right, but when I was dating, right,
and when I was getting serious, I made you know
that my priority. So I'm not sure whether you know
guy was just being stupid and had piss poor planning
(16:32):
or whether he's being a creeper, But either way, I
think Katie's better off without.
Speaker 5 (16:36):
Thank you. II. This is so fascinating to me.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
If it truly is a guy that was like, hey,
it's forty five minutes to my house, it's fifteen to yours.
Speaker 5 (16:46):
I'm a mess.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Can I can I quickly shower and then we'll go out.
Speaker 5 (16:51):
It is fascinate you and everybody's freaking out.
Speaker 6 (16:53):
I'm an idiot when it comes to planning, but you know,
ultimately it's up to her. And if she the guy
that's you know all right?
Speaker 5 (17:06):
He was just starting to make sense to everybody.
Speaker 4 (17:12):
Did we get fired up about this right?
Speaker 5 (17:14):
Yet? Here is Jane?
Speaker 15 (17:17):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (17:17):
Jane, Hi, Hey, don't cuss?
Speaker 12 (17:21):
Okay, no, my voice is gone a little. But I
had to call in and say, Katie, trust your instincts.
You did the right thing this time, and you did
the right thing the last time. You didn't continue with
that guy, thank you, because he knew he's he had
known you had a date a whole week crickets, crickets,
(17:41):
So what's up with that? Yeah, No, you did the
right thing, block him, double blocking double what.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
I wish Jane was living with you so she could
just stand at the door.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
Leave no leave Now, Katie has no time for you.
Speaker 4 (17:59):
Hire you.
Speaker 5 (18:00):
You need a little bodyguard. I think it's Jane.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
He'd be my muscle at the door.
Speaker 5 (18:06):
Like no.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
I like that a lot. You're right, though, he gave
me the red flags already before he even asked me
to use his shower. Right, he didn't message me all week.
Speaker 5 (18:18):
And because he's busy with a broken down car.
Speaker 4 (18:20):
I guess apparently that's his excuse.
Speaker 5 (18:22):
But great point, Jane, Jane, thanks for calling.
Speaker 12 (18:25):
Thank you guys.
Speaker 5 (18:26):
Bye, Mary, Hi, Mary.
Speaker 10 (18:30):
Hi, good morning.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Tell me somebody's gonna say that Katie's overreacting just a
little bit.
Speaker 5 (18:34):
Come on.
Speaker 10 (18:36):
I kind of think just because of the brief history,
whys the path together, it's a slight overreaction. If it
truly was just a shower, and if he had additional intentions,
you can determine what happens at that point, you know.
Speaker 4 (18:49):
Okay, So I should have let it gone a little farther.
Speaker 5 (18:52):
I should have You might have missed out on the shower.
Speaker 10 (18:55):
He's trying to be respectful, clean up a little before
you go. Maybe his friend was in a bad place
and he was being helpful and it just was bad timing.
But he did the right thing helping his friend. And
now he's stinky. However, a minor, small flip of the
coin that nobody has brought up yet, Like, so he
is going to shower at your house and then has
(19:15):
no clean clothes to put on afterwards, So he's going
to get clean just to put on dirty clothes.
Speaker 5 (19:20):
Well, we don't know. He might have a bag full
of clothes from his previous girlfriends.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
Did he bring a.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
Bag of clean clothes? Like he planned to shower at
my house? Like, that's where my mind went, is like
the same thing it went down that road.
Speaker 5 (19:33):
Maybe he does have a change of clothes.
Speaker 4 (19:35):
Maybe and then did he.
Speaker 10 (19:36):
Play Maybe he felt comfortable enough with you because of
the history that he did just want to take a
quick shower and he didn't want to push off the
dates so much. If he lived that far away, you.
Speaker 5 (19:45):
Might have missed out on a banger of a date.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
A date.
Speaker 3 (19:49):
I still again, no messaging all week long, and I
don't know, I just I really felt like it was
not a good idea to let him in my house.
Speaker 5 (19:59):
So Mary, thank you for your thoughts. Have a great day.
Speaker 6 (20:04):
Bye bye bye.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
Oh what time is it? We can do a couple more.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
We'll do last call here if anyone wants to sound
off about this? Did Katie overreact over the dude wanting
to come shower at her house? Three oh three six
nine one, sixteen forty nine.
Speaker 5 (20:19):
Here's Justin. Hi, Justin.
Speaker 15 (20:21):
Hey, guys, how you doing?
Speaker 5 (20:23):
Super dupes? Buddy? So do you want to go shower
at Katie's house?
Speaker 15 (20:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (20:30):
Yeah, yeah, you used. She's got the best shampoo.
Speaker 15 (20:35):
A car all day She's got you know, when.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
I was over there showering, she had the best body wash. God,
the razor. Oh but used?
Speaker 2 (20:49):
Yeah, the the Lufa created such a rich, creamy lather.
All right, just stop it. I'll bowl dump you. I
will hit the dumb button on you. You Hi, Justin,
What do you think does she ever react?
Speaker 15 (21:04):
I think maybe a little bit, But given I mean,
especially listening to the last few callers, now, I'm kind
of second guessing my own opinions. So I think if
you guys had some sort of rapport years ago, right, Yes, yes,
(21:27):
I think I don't know, and maybe he does have
a bag of clothes in his car.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
But bottom line and justin, we gotta we gotta get
this done by tomorrow.
Speaker 15 (21:38):
Line, bottom line, by tomorrow, bottom line. Trust your instinct.
I'm glad you went with your gut. Maybe blocking him
was a little aggressive. Maybe give him another chance, you know,
strike strike two, strike three type thing.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
Let's strike two.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
Yeah, why didn't you just say to him, can you
shower somewhere else and let's still meet up?
Speaker 5 (22:00):
Why did you completely shut this guy down?
Speaker 3 (22:03):
Because I felt like it's like my friends even were saying,
like this guy's just like giving you a whole bouquet
of red flags at this point, like you need to
just cut it off, Like don't even friends are yeah, my.
Speaker 5 (22:13):
Friends, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (22:16):
That's usually happens, you know.
Speaker 5 (22:18):
Justin thank you for the call.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
We will do three more Jackie, Bonnie and Kay and
then we will put.
Speaker 5 (22:24):
This to bed in the Jackie here. Hey there, all right,
So what are your thoughts for Katie?
Speaker 16 (22:32):
Yeah, so I think you totally made the right call.
I think my issue isn't so much the hookup factor
as the fact that he clearly didn't make you a priority,
Like you didn't hear from him all week, and then
he clearly knew that you were supposed to have plans
that night, and he didn't, you know, make it a
point to to time things properly, to get home and
(22:55):
everything in time.
Speaker 7 (22:55):
For your date.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Yeah, Katie's also said a billion times she hates when
people faster, so maybe he's heard that.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
And he was making it a priority because he was
gonna come over, shower and immediately go out.
Speaker 5 (23:06):
So you were the priority, But.
Speaker 3 (23:07):
No, where you were talking all week long like usually yeah,
usually there's a house, your day going or you know,
I'm excited about Friday, Like there's something in there with that.
Speaker 5 (23:18):
No, why didn't you do it?
Speaker 3 (23:19):
But I was the one who reached out to him
on Friday because like the whole show went by in
a couple hours and I was like, is this man
not even going to set up plans for tonight? I
had to reach out to him and that's when he said,
I've been working on my friend's car all day, So like,
I just I don't even feel like he did put
me as a priority.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
And when he remembered our date, he's like, maybe I
can get it in real quick.
Speaker 5 (23:42):
You know that was my thought.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
Yeah, like, all right, so you're thinking she's in the
right Jackie.
Speaker 16 (23:49):
Yeah, for sure. It made it seem like it was
like her date was just an afterthought.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
Yeah, one of many. Maybe maybe I wasn't even the
only one.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
That weekend, Jackie. We appreciate you, thank you for calling in.
Let's do Bonnie and kay, here's Bonnie.
Speaker 5 (24:04):
Hi, Bonnie, Well, good morning, good morning to you. Are
you team Katie or team shower?
Speaker 14 (24:11):
I most definitely team Katie.
Speaker 4 (24:14):
Nice?
Speaker 5 (24:15):
Yeah, all right, Bonnie hates clean men too.
Speaker 14 (24:21):
No, I like clean men, but hey, dirty dog Bonnie.
Speaker 3 (24:26):
Bonnie, we don't know that, and don't you also said
that you are doing the online dating, so you.
Speaker 9 (24:32):
Know what this is like I do.
Speaker 14 (24:35):
I would have walked him to It's just like.
Speaker 16 (24:38):
You weren't a priority.
Speaker 14 (24:40):
And if things came up and if Brent had like
a major emergency in his car broke down, he could
have communicated that ye rescheduled for a different day and.
Speaker 16 (24:49):
Patten ducks in a row.
Speaker 14 (24:51):
And yeah, no, he was. He was totally wrong and
and just being assumptive that, oh, just because we were
together before, this is gonna be great. Well, make an effort.
It didn't work out the last time. Still make an
effort this time.
Speaker 5 (25:03):
Yeah, Mike drop moment from Bond.
Speaker 2 (25:06):
Thank you, Bonnie drop the Mike walk away, Bonnie.
Speaker 6 (25:09):
Yeah, thank you very much.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Thank you very much. That was a good call. All right,
k kkk you get the final word.
Speaker 11 (25:17):
On this good morning? Yes, I want the final word.
I can't believe no one has mentioned this. That's why
I'm calling in. I'm one hundred percent percent team Katie.
First of all, dang, oh my god, So it feels
totally slimy. What this his move he pulled? It feels
like a slinball move. So beyond that, I'm waiting and
(25:38):
waiting for somebody to meet someone to mention this. Wait, Okay,
he's going to shower at her house, and then what
does he have clothes? Is he going to put the
same greasy clothes on, the same Dirney underwear?
Speaker 5 (25:48):
Yeah? A couple of people have mentioned that.
Speaker 2 (25:50):
We're thinking that maybe he had a bag of clothes
in his car, or he was prepared in one way
or another.
Speaker 11 (25:55):
It doesn't sound like it, but who knows that Just
the whole thing sounds sleazy. Assign me to me, and
not a way to start.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
As they've had a relationship, they've been there, done that,
and now they're kind of on a friend level.
Speaker 5 (26:06):
I think.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
So it's just to me, it's just like hey, a
friend saying, hey can I shower at your place?
Speaker 5 (26:10):
And then we'll be No, there's no friend level. I
feel like there's a friend level.
Speaker 4 (26:13):
There's no friend.
Speaker 3 (26:14):
Level because we were intimate before and then he tried
to bring that back at no point where we just
friends ever like this is. It's been a romantic relationship,
and so.
Speaker 11 (26:25):
I feel like I needed a bag of clothes, yes,
to feel better about the whole request.
Speaker 9 (26:31):
That says so weird to shower and not have that.
Speaker 11 (26:35):
It sounded like a last minute move. Hey can I
come over and shower so I don't have to drive home?
Speaker 2 (26:39):
So yeah, we're and then he'll pretend to fall in
the shower and be like Katie, help me.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
I know I fall, exactly what I thought was gonna happen.
Speaker 5 (26:50):
Come on, Kay, Thank you for the call. Thank you
to everybody who called in today.
Speaker 2 (26:55):
To texted, texted, I mean overwhelmingly on the text line,
as you did the right thing, trust your gut, and
I agree.
Speaker 5 (27:04):
I think that was crazy. I did. I uh, I
was just goofing for the radio. Oh yeah, it was
I think you did the right thing.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
That's kind of weird thing to do. Yeah, does he
have extra clothes? Super shady? And once you got a
guy in your house, like people said, you you have
the last word.
Speaker 5 (27:23):
But sometimes you can't get him out of your house,
you know.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
And not only that, but because of the fact that
this had happened before with this individual, like we had
a history before, I was already hesitant. I was already
second guessing myself, like, do you want to go back
into your past and try something you already did? Like
me trying to justify that already.
Speaker 5 (27:43):
Yeah, was hard.
Speaker 4 (27:44):
So then when he asked a shower at my ass,
do the right thing?
Speaker 6 (27:47):
Oh me?
Speaker 4 (27:48):
Never mind?
Speaker 5 (27:49):
Two things.
Speaker 2 (27:50):
I absolutely love all your dating stories because man, I
just have no idea. I haven't been out in the
dating world in twenty four years, So thank you.
Speaker 4 (27:58):
You don't want to be out here.
Speaker 5 (28:00):
Thank you for all the success pool.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
Juicy stories, and please keep sharing them on the air.
Speaker 5 (28:06):
I'm going to the second thing. Does this mean I
can't share it at your house anymore?
Speaker 4 (28:11):
I mean, no, stop asking that.
Speaker 5 (28:15):
Oh man, Katie, I fall in.
Speaker 4 (28:21):
Please come help me, Chare grab your own towel.
Speaker 5 (28:28):
Hey, thanks agetting everybody that called in and texted in.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
This show is definitely powered by our feisty feisty listeners,
so thank you again.
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