March 14, 2025 • 60 mins
Forget the fairy tales. In 'Exploring Soulmates,' we delve into the authentic and sacred bonds that illuminate our spiritual path. We explore how these connections, far beyond the realm of romance, serve as powerful catalysts for personal evolution and spiritual awakening. Tune in to awaken your inner knowing, learn to recognize the subtle language of soulmate relationships, and nurture connections that align with your soul's deepest calling.
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Speaker 1 (00:27):
Welcome to Journey with Joan, a podcast hosted by Joan Widen,
a medium, waki master, and mind body spirit coach. Joined
Joan on a transformative journey as she empowers listeners to
embrace their future, let go of the past, and create
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Speaker 2 (01:04):
Good evening, and welcome to Journey with Joan. Tonight, we're
going to be talking about the depths of spirituality, self discovery,
and the connections that shape our lives. And in today's episodes,
we are embarking on a fascinating journey to explore the
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concept of soulmates. What does it mean to find your soulmate?
Are they exclusively romantic partners or can they come in
many form? Let's unravel the mysteries of soul connections and
the profound impact they can have on our spiritual journeys.
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All right, so again you're watching Journey with Joan, only
on the Bold Brave TV network. All right, let's get
into this. So soulmates, what are Soulmatesmates typically refer to
a person with whom one has deep intrinsic connection that
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transcends the ordinary. This connection is often characterized by a
profound sense of understanding, acceptance, and emotional resonance. So by
deep connection meaning the bond is very unique. It feels
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like it was that you've been there before, that you've
known this person forever. Now some people still have that
with some people they meet, but it's not necessarily a soulmate.
Some it might be a karmic relationship. So there is
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different things with the connection. But the connection between the
soulmates is is really undescribable, like there is knowing that
person and then there's a deeper knowing of that person.
Sometimes you can it's almost like telepathy. You can speak
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to each other like you know what the other person's thinking. Right.
So again it's like that deep bond that's very unique.
It's very comfortable even when you meet for the first time.
Now again sometimes that happens because yeah, you were together
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in a past life. And many soulmates they do they
do meet up like it's been this intertwining dance of
the soulmates where they go in each lifetime and they
have what they need to learn with each other and
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then they end up connecting. Now, with that, there's a
lot of you know, there's a lot of healing when
it comes to soulmates. People think it's all just about
you know, Disney like Prince Charming comes in, or the
Princess come, the fair maiden comes and saves the guy,
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whichever way you want to call it. It is not
all rainbows and sunshines when we come across our soulmates. Again,
we have a lot of healing and growing to be
able to meet. So unless we've worked on ourselves and
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really dived into that, it can. Really we could have
met our soulmate, but then it wasn't the right time
or place, and then it never we didn't connect because again,
soulmates have to be ready in order for them to
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be able to step up or you need to step
up to be into their lives. So that's one part
right Again, more with soulmates, there's a spiritual and emotional
like resonance here. It's very strong, it's very everything is aligned.
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It's almost like the stars aligned just to have it
have them come your way. Now, people are like, but
this person seems like they would be my soulmate. Now again,
when you're looking for a romantic soulmate. It's not it's
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not necessarily easy, and it can be a little bit
rough because even though there's that deep inner knowing and
that connection that goes far beyond earth and this realm
and this dimension, it's really hard to explain that even
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though there's a lot of work to be done by
the both of you, you still it doesn't matter. You
will make things work. And now by making things work,
it doesn't necessarily mean that you let that person roll
over you and they let them abuse you. That's not
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what a soulmate is. Now, could a soulmate have those issues?
Could they be quote unquote an abuser? They might, And
the reason being is that might be a lesson that
they are having to deal with this lifetime. So they
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are learning how to deal with their emotions and their anger,
trying to release all the emotions and the anger that
they harbor within their bodies in order to find and
feel the love and that unconditional love for themselves. Now,
does that mean you stay in that relationship? No, Again, soulmates,
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you can come across them and if they haven't done
their work, it will not feel like even though there's
a couple things here and there where you're going. Yeah,
they feel like my soulmate, but you know what, the
person's a jerk. The person doesn't treat me. Well, that's fine,
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but does that mean you stay with them? No? And again,
if you feel like you need to fix that person,
then that is not your soulmate, because soulmates will fix
themselves just like you. Everyone has a role in a
relationship and we are here to help ourselves. Open up
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our heart, spread unconditional love, give unconditional love. Now does
that mean we expect it in return? No? When you're
really in that space you're going to be, does it matter?
Because what was it? Life? Just you feel the love
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and you can be sitting side by side and it
won't matter because the love emanating between the two of
you and the energy exchange between the two of you
is actually enough there it's not how can we say,
it's not necessarily hot and heavy all the time. Right. So, Yeah,
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as soulmates come together, the energy exchange between the two
are profound and it is like no other. And the
energy when you have your intimate moments are again out
of this world, and you don't you get lost in
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the energy because it's not about what they did or
what you did in those moments, because it's not about
what he did. Che did all those things, right, it's
it's more reciprocal without even expecting it. Okay, So there's
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there's that. It's also help you grow and transform. Right,
they push you because again they know you, and the
comfort level between the two again it's it's just there.
It's again, there's no real I don't like how they
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do certain things. Sometimes it it is, but that's because
they're pushing you to grow spiritually, to get out of
your comfort zone. They want to They encourage you to
evolve and grow and like so that they can lead
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us down a spiritual path which opens up ourselves even
more so spiritual like so soulmates. They it's like a
give and take without expecting it or knowing it. And
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the pushing to grow is more of a energetic thing.
It's almost a Again, I don't there's an innate feeling
where it just is. They just do it and it's
not harsh. It doesn't come across harsh. It doesn't it
come across like they're pushing you because they want you
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to do it. They want you to be here and
you're here does that make sense? So it's not like
there's they're going, well, you need to keep up to me.
So I'm gonna push you, push you, push you. So
if you're in a relationship and you're checking to see
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you know, I feel like they're my soulmate. But he
has no or she has no gumption to climb the
ladder or to travel or to do hiking, or to
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up their career in any way. And if that's the case, again,
that's not indicative of a soulmate, because a soulmate won't matter.
It won't matter if they like clean the floors or
if they're a billionaire. It won't matter because they are
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enough and you are enough for them. And if someone's
position in their career is lower than the other, it
won't matter because the other one doesn't. There's no shaming.
It's it's really they just go about their lives. They're happy.
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They like to push each other out of their like
out of your comfort zone, so you can grow and
you can see. And again, when you're present and you
have an open heart and you lead with your heart
in a lot of things, it doesn't matter what goes
on because when you do that, everything just falls into place,
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doors are open for you, and it doesn't even matter.
Life can be Actually life is just as life like.
And now this is going to sound like some people think, oh,
well that's just rainbows and sunshine, but it's not. It's
you know, you go out and if like it's snowing
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right here, and you look at the snow and you go, wow,
it's really pretty. And most people, well, when you're not here,
you're not present, it would be like, oh, it's snowing.
This really recks my day. Why does it wreck your day?
It really you have no control over it. It is what
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it is. It's cold, it's whatever, but you know what,
it's pretty. And in my mind when it comes on,
it's in the spring because things, you know, melt, it
kind of gets kind of mucky, and whichever, I look
at the snow as something like fresh, something new, and
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it brings more life, right, and it's nourishment for the trees,
and then you can start to see a little bit
more of the trees growing and all those things. So again,
it's about evolving and growing and allowing that person to
evolve and grow without dragging them along or or forcing
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feel like you need to be a part of their life.
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Welcome back. You're watching Jennie majone only on the Bold
Brave TV Network. I'm your host, John Widen and before
the break So our topic today is exploring soulmates. Before
the break, I was talking about different ways you know
about if they are your soulmate, and we you know,
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touched on the deep connection, the spiritual and emotional resonance,
the growth and transformation. All right, so next comes with soulmates.
Are there are a variety of forms of soulmates. So
the one that everyone loves to hear about and everyone
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is wanting to be in is and asked me, it's
one of the number one questions I get is when
am I going to meet my soulmate? Okay, So a soulmate, yes,
can be a romantic partner, can also be your friends,
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some family. So there's like a plutonic type, you know,
so they could be a best friend. Sometimes it's the
opposite sex or you know, same sex, if same thing, like,
but it's strictly platonic, but you have this deep, intense,
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immense connection with them. You can tell. It's almost how
I how I like to say it, like you know
how people like to say, that's that twin knowing. So
if you're a twin and you know when the other
person's not feeling well or they're hurt, that sits deep
as a soulmate gets as well, so you will know
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whether or not you know, you can tell. It's almost
like the psychic phone pops up and says you need
to call so and so. And it might not be
that you're working on your intuition or you practice spirituality
in the psychic form or clairvoyance form, but you just
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know when something is up and so you reach out. Right.
So again, they can be friends, family members, and even
some mentors, right, but again it's not necessarily a romantic kind. Yeah,
there are some also soulmates that are linked to each
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other by karmaic ties. Now these karma connections like it's
linked through past lives. But I'm gonna tell you most
times soulmates are they do this dance every lifetime. Now,
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do you only have one? No, there are multiple. And
what I've seen is that you there are like three
at any given moment, and it's up to you and
them to be able to step up do the work.
And again that chance meeting for you guys to get together.
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Now if you're not working on yourself and you like
some people have met their soulmates, but one wasn't ready
and then the other one was. Or you both weren't
ready and you were off put by each other, and
then then it's gone. Is that bad? No? That just
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means we need to work on ourselves more. And is
that wrong.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
No?
Speaker 2 (21:18):
Again, there are points in our lives where soulmates come
in and if it's meant to be, and it's the
right timing for you and them. Again, we can't control
the other person. So we may want the other person
to do X and Y and z. And if they
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don't do that, because you know, we're adamant that they
need to show me respect, they need to open doors
for me. They need to you know, you name name
the list right because I've heard it. I've heard them
all you need to do. They need to do X,
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Y and Z. And if they don't do that, they're
definitely not my soulmate. So when I'm looking at that,
and when people have told me that, I go to
that and go, well, you're pointing the finger at someone else,
and so really, are you doing that for you? Are
you doing that for others? But really it's not really
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about others. It's about are you respecting you? Are you
doing all those things that you want your soulmate to
do for you? And If you are not, then you
need to work on that. You need to hone in
on those things and fix that for you. You need
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to heal that wound within your heart so that you
can emanate that energy for others to feel. And when
you emanate that, you will see it generates a whole
new world. Without sounding really cheesy, but it really does.
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And people will start to treat you differently. People will
notice you more. Maybe you get more like looks or winks,
or people come up to you a little bit more
things like that, And it's really working on yourself in
order for you to build this energy to bring out
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to the world because when you emanate it, when you
emanate what you want and what you're willing to live
and live that way, it all comes back to you. Okay,
So those are some of those things how you can
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telleople are soulmates now. Also, some people have asked me,
was how can you tell what are some of the
signs that I've met my soulmates? Okay, So, one, you've
got an instant connection, the connection you know you've familiar again.
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I spoke about that a little bit early, that deep connection,
that comfort upon meeting them, and it's again, it feels
like you've gone along ways and you can tell what
makes them feel good and what doesn't, even without really
discussing any of these things. You just know, right, and
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then there's a deep understanding, the deep understanding of each other,
the deep intellectual and even emotional understanding of how these
the other one feels and looks and thinks, and your
communication it kind of rolls off your tongue easily. And
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a lot of us have a hard time with communication
when it comes to hard stuff. We don't necessarily want
to talk to our significant others or you know, sometimes
I'm not saying we all don't have those issues, and
there are some people that just talk and they're able
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to do it. But at the same time, if you
think of that, if you overshare because that's who you are,
and you talk miles a minute and blah blah blah
blah blah blah, just telling everyone everything that's not necessarily
that you have that you know, connection with someone, that
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just means that you would like to be an open book.
And so you're showing that. We have to look at
the togetherness of it of where if they're like sharing
the same as you, or they're keeping you at an
arm's length and going no, no, thank you, you know,
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thank you for sharing that with me. And I've had
some people where they share everything, but then when they're
in a relationship, what they've shared shared ends up getting
thrown back into their face. So again, see it's a
different connection whereas someone is using that and can use
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that against you, which is not typical and not wouldn't
be of a soulmate. And if a soulmate does do that,
it like their instances where it could happen, but again
it comes back and they they will apologize without you
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screaming at them or cutting them off verbally and like
cutting off communication all of those things. It they just
come back to you to say I'm sorry and that
I shouldn't have done this. Like there's so many different
intricate things now Again, so one can say, well, Joan,
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a narcissist does that. They'll go and they'll belittle you
and they'll do this, this, this, and then they'll come
back and they'll say I'm sorry. Right. The difference between
a narcissist and your soulmate that's doing it is the
soulmate will learn from it that one time and they
won't continue to do that. They will have a discussion
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with you in an open, honest way to say, hey,
I noticed X, this is how I'm feeling. There's a
communication piece here that really happens versus. A narcissist will
tell you what they want to hear, what you want
to hear from them, and then the moment you say
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I'm sorry, are it's okay, it's all good, they turn
around and almost instantly do something to make you feel uncomfortable. Okay,
So again, I am I'm going to put this out there.
I am not you know, a medical doctor, I am
not a psychologist. However, pay attention to these things, right,
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these are my experiences that I've seen. This is what
I have experienced with some clients as well. So again,
make sure you take care of you. If you need
mental health professional, then go seek it out, all right.
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So and then again, soulmates also have shared values and goals.
Everyone wants to go in the same direction, but not
necessarily the exact same thing. It's you have goals and
are they similar, Yes, but they're not. They're not identical, right,
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And you push each other in order to make that
happen for each other to allow it to grow and
allow you to grow and be you with unconditional love
and not there's no shame, there's no blame. There's everything
is yes, do you, I love you? Just do you?
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And it's not like again where I love you. You
make me feel complete because you should feel complete by yourself. Now,
if you need someone else to complete you, I'm going
to tell you with that information. As soon as you
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feel completed by them. All it takes is one instant
where they've made you angry or they've done something that
really felt unkind. Then all of a sudden, you're not
complete because the person wouldn't have done that if they
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were truly your soulmate. Does that make sense? But you
wouldn't feel complete with the other person. You really need
to feel complete on your own and them coming into
your space and into your life is the added bonus.
It is where your souls condense and they meet and
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the energies intertwine. And it doesn't really matter what they're
doing at the time. You don't have these thoughts and
feelings stuff. Are they cheating on me? Are they're out
with their friends? Are they really out with my friends
or their friends? Are they what are they doing. There's
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no paranoia. If you will it's it doesn't matter. Everything
just is right now. Some people might say, well, that's
just being oblivious, but I mean telling you the soul
make connection is that deep where you can feel their
pain or a pang of what they're going through. Wherever
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they are, you can you can feel like if they
don't feel comfortable, if they put in been in a
situation that they were thrown into, you could feel that.
And again when they come back and they come home,
they would tell you, hey, I had fun with my friends. However,
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you know I kind of felt kind of felt a
bit cringe or cringe, right, I didn't like it. I
don't necessarily like, you know, I'm disappointed in that friend.
Blah blah blah, right, all that stuff. But they would
come back and tell you it's not about guessing. It's
not about you know, the paranoia. What are they doing?
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Are they actually thinking about me? Do they actually loved me? Again?
Some of those things, that's a you issue. That's an issue,
not an ish them. Right. So again, if you're feeling
all those insecurities, I'm gonna tell you that's a big
thing that you need to work on. For you, because again,
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a true soulmate, they they are there, their eyes are
for you, They're everything is intertwined with you. And I'm
gonna tell you, even your friends, like when a soulmate,
that's a friend, they're gonna have your back, They're gonna
do whatever it takes to make you feel good about you. Okay,
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Welcome Back. You're watching Journey with Joan only on the
Bull Brave TV Network. Welcome back, all right, shout out you, Mario, Mario,
he just said, Hi, I'm here. Why are you? I'm
here in Canada? All right? So again more common things
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with soulmates now, soulmates again, us with friends again. It's
when you have a bestie and you just know their
ins and outs, you know when something hurt them, and
you just want to be there for them. Everyone's like,
but how can your friend be a soulmate? Well, the
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soulmate part of it is that deep connection. It's being
part of your soul family, if you will, and they
are intertwined again with you through the many lifetimes that
you have. Now people ask me, well, so you can
have more than one soulmate? Yes, Well, what's the difference
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between a soulmate and a twin soul? A twin flame,
I guess if you will. So, a twin flame is
one that is where your soul it's a it's another
soul that really mirrors your own. So it's almost like
your soul was split in half. But it's not right.
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So you don't need your twin flame to feel whole.
Your twin flame, so when your twin flame comes to you,
it's not necessarily again, fun, because your twin flames, since
they mirror you, they will push your buttons. They will
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kind of in a sense, force you to look at
all the things that you haven't healed yet. Right, So
you push each other to help each other grow, and
it can be quite multuous, It can be quite It
can be explosive as well because twin flames they're gonna
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push you so so much. And it's not necessarily fun
because it's really about growing and connecting and being more
spiritual and having your growth because you've come here together
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in order to learn and heal those aspects of what
you chose before you came here to learn. Okay, So
twin flames, that's a totally different story. It goes it's
it's kind of more like that. Like again, if you
think about flames, what are they? They crack, They explosive,
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They like bits and pieces the embers start flying off places. Again,
so twin flames can be explosive. It's like fire, you
know it. If you're not ready for it, it can
be a lot. Okay. So again there's the unconditional acceptance
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with soulmates. They just accept you for who you are,
and it doesn't really matter it. They'll help you grow. Yes,
they can push you, but at the same time they
know how to push you without it being belittling or
shaming those kind of things. The emotions are really intense
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when you know with them soulmates, even with friends, like
when we have best friends, you know we can we
you know you have good fights, and but it's with
it's not without why we think that. What's it called
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that we're right and they're wrong. It would be out
of love for the other person. Now sometimes could it
be yeah, I'm right, you're wrong. Yes, absolutely. We are
human and we are earthlinks and we are here and
you know we do have jealous tendencies. We have things
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of missing out and that or that we're not enough.
But those things aside, when you work on those doesn't
really matter. When you're in your friendship and you're in
this relationship with your soulmate, you realize and you can
recognize it when it comes up for you, okay, And
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when it does, then you try and fix it, You
try and heal it, you work through it, and you
discuss it again. Communication wide open communication with your partner
and you discuss it and then they help you get
through it without pressing those buttons to make you feel
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or make you explode or implode. Okay again, so you know,
it says here on my notes that it says feeling complete.
But for me, what I've noticed is you need to
feel complete on your own, you really do. If you
can't feel complete on your own as soulmate's if they
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make you complete, if you will the moment or any
second that they disappoint you, they are no longer good
to you. They are no longer that complete feeling with you.
And if you need them to complete to you, then
you are coming from a place of lack. You are
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not being honest with yourself because now you're in this
relationship because you need them, You need them to feel
so you can feel complete. And if they were to
leave or go away on a trip again, you're scrambling
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by yourself wherever you are going, what are they doing,
who are they talking to? Are they with the people?
They said again that completeness becomes a paranoia, And so
again there's all those different things where it really is
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knowing that you're complete because and also sorry, if you
are with someone and you feel they're they're your soulmate
but they aren't ready to be in a relationship with you.
You let them go. Right again, If you love them,
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you let them go. If they're gonna step up, they're
gonna step up. If they're not, they're not. Again, It's
not up to you to fix them. It's up to
you to fix yourself. It's up to you to heal
your own heart, to heal all the trauma that you've
been through and your past experiences that were auchy or
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hurt you, or people did wrong to you. That's up
to you to fix for you, not for your soulmate
to make you feel complete, because they're shielding you from that,
because your soulmate would challenge you in a way for
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you to help grow and heal those emotions. Okay, again,
you can laugh at each other. You can call them
like a dork you. It's quite interesting because you can
laugh at them and it doesn't and it's not a
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shaming laugh, even though at the time you know if
looking from the outside in, it could look like you
are making fun of them, but at the same time
you're not. Because the two of you are so aligned
that it doesn't feel like there's a shaming. It doesn't
feel like they're belittling you. It's more in fun and.
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Okay, So what was it? So again you feel safe
and then you feel secure. I'm going to share this
little bit tidbit with you guys. So my husband, now,
I met him in college, but at the time I
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was not ready to be with him. Do I feel
like he is my soulmate? Yes, I'm going to say
that him and I even though you know, there's things
it's been sometimes it's been up and down, but you know,
we challenge each other, we we honor each other. We
just are there for each other. And again I look
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at him and sometimes I just laugh and he's like,
what's so funny, and I'm like nothing, But you know,
I just love you and it is just so. But
when we embrace, when we hug, the energy of it
all is like it just swirls around us. But that
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energy has never gone away. So it's one of those
things where when I first met him and he held
my hand for the first time there it felt really
scary at the first time because I was I wasn't
sure what to make of it because the energy was
so the emotion and the connection was super strong, and
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it's like whoa, what's this? Why is this like this? Again?
So I wasn't ready for that to step up, and
so we didn't get together until later when we were
both ready. And now you know, things are better. Things.
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We understand each other, The love, the connection there is amazing.
Now again, is it perfect? It isn't. There has been
some up and downs, but that's normal because again I'm
going to tell you, I got in my own way
and some things that I had buried within my heart
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had bubbled up. And yeah that those things that have
come up were a mee thing, right, It was a
thing for me that I had to clear on my
own and own it. And could I easily have pointed
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the finger and said, well you did this and blah
blah blah. I could have, Yes, I really could have.
But when you grow spiritually, you start to do the
work inner like the inner work and go, okay, that
was my insecurities. Those were my things that I had
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trauma from when I was younger. So again we gotta
you really have to work on yourselves in order to
really step up and be the best soul made for yourself.
And once you do that, it starts to fall into
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Welcome back. You're watching Journey with Joan only on the
Bold Brave TV Network and I'm your host, John Wynen.
Today we are talking about exploring soulmates, where the souls
intertwine in twine again. Before the break, I was telling
a story, my personal story about with my husband, who
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I believe is also my soulmate. And again everything is
based on timing. You can so again when a soul
when one soul is coming to task and then you're
meeting your soulmate. Again, it's highly important that you work
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on yourself because timing is everything. If that other person
or if you have not healed the wounds that you
need to for you guys to come together again, it
could be more like I can't deal with that person,
that person feels pompous to me, this blah blah blah,
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et cetera, et cetera. Then your meeting and your being
together with your soulmate has left. It's gone. It's like
that moment and when that moment passes, right, there's that
moment and you know what it is. But if you're
not in that space, you're totally oblivious to that moment
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and that moment just passes by. Okay. So again there's
timing in it all. There's all these things and sometimes
the karma tize of the soulmate is again I always
I feel like there's you have more than one soulmate
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And if you think about it, if you think there's
only one homemade in this entire world for you, think
about how hard that would be to find them. Okay,
So again there's multiple They can step up. If they
do and you end up being together, great, But you
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know I'm going to tell you sometimes, soulmates, you're not
meant to be with your soulmate this lifetime. Why because
the two of you are working hard at your own
crap in order to grow spiritually, because that's what you
have chosen to do this lifetime. Again, it's all about
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those things. It's not necessarily that you're going to be
with a soulmate this lifetime. Does it mean you're going
to be alone and by yourself? Absolutely not. Again, we've
got to work on ourselves. There's differences, there's even sometimes
there's cultural differences with with soulmates and right, so with me,
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I'm Filipino, my husband is Canadian, and again there's cultural
differences there. There's I'm gonna throw my mom under the
bus here. So my mom, you know, she was adamant
that I not date a Filipino man. She's like, no,
(54:32):
you can't date that. I don't want you to date
Filipino man. Blah blah blah blah blah blah. Her thing. Right,
that's okay because for me that wasn't I was not
ever interested in that. Did I date one or two, Yes,
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I did, but again that it just wasn't my cup
of tea. If you will. So again, there's like so
many like cultural differences, and in each culture there is
spiritual differences. So being Filipino, growing up Filipino I was,
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I grew up a strict Catholic. Now my husband he
grew up in a I'm gonna say Baptist. I don't
know exactly, but they did have a religion, but it
wasn't it wasn't Catholicism, right, And growing up in the
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eighties nineties, if you weren't Catholic, a lot of people
like so my aunties, which you know are Filipino friends, moms, right,
the anties, they would say, well are they Catholic? Oh
they're not. Why why you choose someone that's not Catholic? Right?
So all these things can come into play. There's so
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many things where you know we've been bought and sold
where you know that's not good. You can't do that.
And again, it's about learning who you are, understanding you,
understanding that you know unconditional love. It doesn't matter what
you know, spiritual belief that you want to believe in.
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If that works for you, great, But again, a soulmate,
it doesn't matter because you will be there together. You
will share yours with the other person, and if the
other person doesn't necessarily believe in that, that's okay too,
because again there's no judging. It's everything is unconditional. Everything
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is about okay, you do you, that's fine. But typically
I'm going to say a soulmate has like you would
never necessarily have someone that believes in religion or God
and then the other one be a complete atheist for
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a soulmate like that would be kind of hard for
that to go because again, with your challenges and with
your growth with your soulmate, you guys grow together, you
challenge each other, so maybe you could. Again I have
not seen that. And does that mean it can't be
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like that? No, so it could, but again there's a
whole bunch of differences, right, And does it matter between
the two of you, No, it doesn't. All that matters
is that you're there for each other, that you completely
believe in each other. You want each other to grow
and excel, and it's not about being better than the other. Like,
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can you have a healthy competition, Yeah you can, right,
but I'm going to say that it's it's not a
competition and they just want the best for you and
you want the best for them, and you're totally happy
and complete being by yourself and being with you. Okay,
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So again, be here, be there for you, be completely present.
Understand what your your scars, your traumas that you hold
deep within your heart. Understand that, and when they bubble
up and they come to the surface, honor it and
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say thank you, because that is no longer you. That
is a version of you that was that's in the past.
And so so if you can honor it and say
thank you and then just let it go, that's one
that's one thing. So each day you should, we all
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should be working on letting go of our scars are traumas.
Why because once we let those, our days are for that.
Because once we do that, it allows us to grow
and evolve spiritually. It gets us to the closer to
the space of unconditional love for us. And when we
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can do that for us, it's golden because it doesn't
matter everything you see the beauty and everything and you
feel worthy. You have unconditional love for yourself and for others,
doesn't matter what conditions there are. There's unconditional love, all right.
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Goodnight, This has been Journey with Joan with your host
Joan Widen, Tune in each week and start creating the
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Welcome to Journey with Joan, a podcast hosted by Joan Widen,
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Speaker 2 (01:04):
Good evening, and welcome to Journey with Joan. Tonight, we're
going to be talking about the depths of spirituality, self discovery,
and the connections that shape our lives. And in today's episodes,
we are embarking on a fascinating journey to explore the
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concept of soulmates. What does it mean to find your soulmate?
Are they exclusively romantic partners or can they come in
many form? Let's unravel the mysteries of soul connections and
the profound impact they can have on our spiritual journeys.
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All right, so again you're watching Journey with Joan, only
on the Bold Brave TV network. All right, let's get
into this. So soulmates, what are Soulmatesmates typically refer to
a person with whom one has deep intrinsic connection that
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transcends the ordinary. This connection is often characterized by a
profound sense of understanding, acceptance, and emotional resonance. So by
deep connection meaning the bond is very unique. It feels
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like it was that you've been there before, that you've
known this person forever. Now some people still have that
with some people they meet, but it's not necessarily a soulmate.
Some it might be a karmic relationship. So there is
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different things with the connection. But the connection between the
soulmates is is really undescribable, like there is knowing that
person and then there's a deeper knowing of that person.
Sometimes you can it's almost like telepathy. You can speak
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to each other like you know what the other person's thinking. Right.
So again it's like that deep bond that's very unique.
It's very comfortable even when you meet for the first time.
Now again sometimes that happens because yeah, you were together
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in a past life. And many soulmates they do they
do meet up like it's been this intertwining dance of
the soulmates where they go in each lifetime and they
have what they need to learn with each other and
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then they end up connecting. Now, with that, there's a
lot of you know, there's a lot of healing when
it comes to soulmates. People think it's all just about
you know, Disney like Prince Charming comes in, or the
Princess come, the fair maiden comes and saves the guy,
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whichever way you want to call it. It is not
all rainbows and sunshines when we come across our soulmates. Again,
we have a lot of healing and growing to be
able to meet. So unless we've worked on ourselves and
(04:51):
really dived into that, it can. Really we could have
met our soulmate, but then it wasn't the right time
or place, and then it never we didn't connect because again,
soulmates have to be ready in order for them to
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be able to step up or you need to step
up to be into their lives. So that's one part
right Again, more with soulmates, there's a spiritual and emotional
like resonance here. It's very strong, it's very everything is aligned.
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It's almost like the stars aligned just to have it
have them come your way. Now, people are like, but
this person seems like they would be my soulmate. Now again,
when you're looking for a romantic soulmate. It's not it's
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not necessarily easy, and it can be a little bit
rough because even though there's that deep inner knowing and
that connection that goes far beyond earth and this realm
and this dimension, it's really hard to explain that even
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though there's a lot of work to be done by
the both of you, you still it doesn't matter. You
will make things work. And now by making things work,
it doesn't necessarily mean that you let that person roll
over you and they let them abuse you. That's not
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what a soulmate is. Now, could a soulmate have those issues?
Could they be quote unquote an abuser? They might, And
the reason being is that might be a lesson that
they are having to deal with this lifetime. So they
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are learning how to deal with their emotions and their anger,
trying to release all the emotions and the anger that
they harbor within their bodies in order to find and
feel the love and that unconditional love for themselves. Now,
does that mean you stay in that relationship? No, Again, soulmates,
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you can come across them and if they haven't done
their work, it will not feel like even though there's
a couple things here and there where you're going. Yeah,
they feel like my soulmate, but you know what, the
person's a jerk. The person doesn't treat me. Well, that's fine,
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but does that mean you stay with them? No? And again,
if you feel like you need to fix that person,
then that is not your soulmate, because soulmates will fix
themselves just like you. Everyone has a role in a
relationship and we are here to help ourselves. Open up
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our heart, spread unconditional love, give unconditional love. Now does
that mean we expect it in return? No? When you're
really in that space you're going to be, does it matter?
Because what was it? Life? Just you feel the love
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and you can be sitting side by side and it
won't matter because the love emanating between the two of
you and the energy exchange between the two of you
is actually enough there it's not how can we say,
it's not necessarily hot and heavy all the time. Right. So, Yeah,
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as soulmates come together, the energy exchange between the two
are profound and it is like no other. And the
energy when you have your intimate moments are again out
of this world, and you don't you get lost in
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the energy because it's not about what they did or
what you did in those moments, because it's not about
what he did. Che did all those things, right, it's
it's more reciprocal without even expecting it. Okay, So there's
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there's that. It's also help you grow and transform. Right,
they push you because again they know you, and the
comfort level between the two again it's it's just there.
It's again, there's no real I don't like how they
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do certain things. Sometimes it it is, but that's because
they're pushing you to grow spiritually, to get out of
your comfort zone. They want to They encourage you to
evolve and grow and like so that they can lead
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us down a spiritual path which opens up ourselves even
more so spiritual like so soulmates. They it's like a
give and take without expecting it or knowing it. And
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the pushing to grow is more of a energetic thing.
It's almost a Again, I don't there's an innate feeling
where it just is. They just do it and it's
not harsh. It doesn't come across harsh. It doesn't it
come across like they're pushing you because they want you
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to do it. They want you to be here and
you're here does that make sense? So it's not like
there's they're going, well, you need to keep up to me.
So I'm gonna push you, push you, push you. So
if you're in a relationship and you're checking to see
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you know, I feel like they're my soulmate. But he
has no or she has no gumption to climb the
ladder or to travel or to do hiking, or to
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up their career in any way. And if that's the case, again,
that's not indicative of a soulmate, because a soulmate won't matter.
It won't matter if they like clean the floors or
if they're a billionaire. It won't matter because they are
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enough and you are enough for them. And if someone's
position in their career is lower than the other, it
won't matter because the other one doesn't. There's no shaming.
It's it's really they just go about their lives. They're happy.
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They like to push each other out of their like
out of your comfort zone, so you can grow and
you can see. And again, when you're present and you
have an open heart and you lead with your heart
in a lot of things, it doesn't matter what goes
on because when you do that, everything just falls into place,
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doors are open for you, and it doesn't even matter.
Life can be Actually life is just as life like.
And now this is going to sound like some people think, oh,
well that's just rainbows and sunshine, but it's not. It's
you know, you go out and if like it's snowing
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right here, and you look at the snow and you go, wow,
it's really pretty. And most people, well, when you're not here,
you're not present, it would be like, oh, it's snowing.
This really recks my day. Why does it wreck your day?
It really you have no control over it. It is what
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it is. It's cold, it's whatever, but you know what,
it's pretty. And in my mind when it comes on,
it's in the spring because things, you know, melt, it
kind of gets kind of mucky, and whichever, I look
at the snow as something like fresh, something new, and
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it brings more life, right, and it's nourishment for the trees,
and then you can start to see a little bit
more of the trees growing and all those things. So again,
it's about evolving and growing and allowing that person to
evolve and grow without dragging them along or or forcing
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yourself to go and do what they like because you
feel like you need to be a part of their life.
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Roman wrestling at one hundred and fourteen pounds. Mike blind
six birth, was born in Hartford, Connecticut. He was a
six time national placer, including two seconds, two thirds, and
two fourths. He also won the Veterans Folk Style Wrestling
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twice at one hundred and fifty two pounds. In all
these tournaments, he was the only blind competitor. Nancy Zorich
a creative spirit whose talents have taken her to the
stage and into galleries and exhibitions in several states. Her father,
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Welcome back. You're watching Jennie majone only on the Bold
Brave TV Network. I'm your host, John Widen and before
the break So our topic today is exploring soulmates. Before
the break, I was talking about different ways you know
about if they are your soulmate, and we you know,
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touched on the deep connection, the spiritual and emotional resonance,
the growth and transformation. All right, so next comes with soulmates.
Are there are a variety of forms of soulmates. So
the one that everyone loves to hear about and everyone
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is wanting to be in is and asked me, it's
one of the number one questions I get is when
am I going to meet my soulmate? Okay, So a soulmate, yes,
can be a romantic partner, can also be your friends,
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some family. So there's like a plutonic type, you know,
so they could be a best friend. Sometimes it's the
opposite sex or you know, same sex, if same thing, like,
but it's strictly platonic, but you have this deep, intense,
(18:55):
immense connection with them. You can tell. It's almost how
I how I like to say it, like you know
how people like to say, that's that twin knowing. So
if you're a twin and you know when the other
person's not feeling well or they're hurt, that sits deep
as a soulmate gets as well, so you will know
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whether or not you know, you can tell. It's almost
like the psychic phone pops up and says you need
to call so and so. And it might not be
that you're working on your intuition or you practice spirituality
in the psychic form or clairvoyance form, but you just
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know when something is up and so you reach out. Right.
So again, they can be friends, family members, and even
some mentors, right, but again it's not necessarily a romantic kind. Yeah,
there are some also soulmates that are linked to each
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other by karmaic ties. Now these karma connections like it's
linked through past lives. But I'm gonna tell you most
times soulmates are they do this dance every lifetime. Now,
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do you only have one? No, there are multiple. And
what I've seen is that you there are like three
at any given moment, and it's up to you and
them to be able to step up do the work.
And again that chance meeting for you guys to get together.
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Now if you're not working on yourself and you like
some people have met their soulmates, but one wasn't ready
and then the other one was. Or you both weren't
ready and you were off put by each other, and
then then it's gone. Is that bad? No? That just
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means we need to work on ourselves more. And is
that wrong.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
No?
Speaker 2 (21:18):
Again, there are points in our lives where soulmates come
in and if it's meant to be, and it's the
right timing for you and them. Again, we can't control
the other person. So we may want the other person
to do X and Y and z. And if they
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don't do that, because you know, we're adamant that they
need to show me respect, they need to open doors
for me. They need to you know, you name name
the list right because I've heard it. I've heard them
all you need to do. They need to do X,
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Y and Z. And if they don't do that, they're
definitely not my soulmate. So when I'm looking at that,
and when people have told me that, I go to
that and go, well, you're pointing the finger at someone else,
and so really, are you doing that for you? Are
you doing that for others? But really it's not really
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about others. It's about are you respecting you? Are you
doing all those things that you want your soulmate to
do for you? And If you are not, then you
need to work on that. You need to hone in
on those things and fix that for you. You need
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to heal that wound within your heart so that you
can emanate that energy for others to feel. And when
you emanate that, you will see it generates a whole
new world. Without sounding really cheesy, but it really does.
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And people will start to treat you differently. People will
notice you more. Maybe you get more like looks or winks,
or people come up to you a little bit more
things like that, And it's really working on yourself in
order for you to build this energy to bring out
(23:38):
to the world because when you emanate it, when you
emanate what you want and what you're willing to live
and live that way, it all comes back to you. Okay,
So those are some of those things how you can
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telleople are soulmates now. Also, some people have asked me,
was how can you tell what are some of the
signs that I've met my soulmates? Okay, So, one, you've
got an instant connection, the connection you know you've familiar again.
(24:20):
I spoke about that a little bit early, that deep connection,
that comfort upon meeting them, and it's again, it feels
like you've gone along ways and you can tell what
makes them feel good and what doesn't, even without really
discussing any of these things. You just know, right, and
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then there's a deep understanding, the deep understanding of each other,
the deep intellectual and even emotional understanding of how these
the other one feels and looks and thinks, and your
communication it kind of rolls off your tongue easily. And
(25:07):
a lot of us have a hard time with communication
when it comes to hard stuff. We don't necessarily want
to talk to our significant others or you know, sometimes
I'm not saying we all don't have those issues, and
there are some people that just talk and they're able
(25:30):
to do it. But at the same time, if you
think of that, if you overshare because that's who you are,
and you talk miles a minute and blah blah blah
blah blah blah, just telling everyone everything that's not necessarily
that you have that you know, connection with someone, that
(25:51):
just means that you would like to be an open book.
And so you're showing that. We have to look at
the togetherness of it of where if they're like sharing
the same as you, or they're keeping you at an
arm's length and going no, no, thank you, you know,
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thank you for sharing that with me. And I've had
some people where they share everything, but then when they're
in a relationship, what they've shared shared ends up getting
thrown back into their face. So again, see it's a
different connection whereas someone is using that and can use
(26:36):
that against you, which is not typical and not wouldn't
be of a soulmate. And if a soulmate does do that,
it like their instances where it could happen, but again
it comes back and they they will apologize without you
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screaming at them or cutting them off verbally and like
cutting off communication all of those things. It they just
come back to you to say I'm sorry and that
I shouldn't have done this. Like there's so many different
intricate things now Again, so one can say, well, Joan,
(27:22):
a narcissist does that. They'll go and they'll belittle you
and they'll do this, this, this, and then they'll come
back and they'll say I'm sorry. Right. The difference between
a narcissist and your soulmate that's doing it is the
soulmate will learn from it that one time and they
won't continue to do that. They will have a discussion
(27:46):
with you in an open, honest way to say, hey,
I noticed X, this is how I'm feeling. There's a
communication piece here that really happens versus. A narcissist will
tell you what they want to hear, what you want
to hear from them, and then the moment you say
(28:10):
I'm sorry, are it's okay, it's all good, they turn
around and almost instantly do something to make you feel uncomfortable. Okay,
So again, I am I'm going to put this out there.
I am not you know, a medical doctor, I am
not a psychologist. However, pay attention to these things, right,
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these are my experiences that I've seen. This is what
I have experienced with some clients as well. So again,
make sure you take care of you. If you need
mental health professional, then go seek it out, all right.
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So and then again, soulmates also have shared values and goals.
Everyone wants to go in the same direction, but not
necessarily the exact same thing. It's you have goals and
are they similar, Yes, but they're not. They're not identical, right,
(29:17):
And you push each other in order to make that
happen for each other to allow it to grow and
allow you to grow and be you with unconditional love
and not there's no shame, there's no blame. There's everything
is yes, do you, I love you? Just do you?
(29:41):
And it's not like again where I love you. You
make me feel complete because you should feel complete by yourself. Now,
if you need someone else to complete you, I'm going
to tell you with that information. As soon as you
(30:03):
feel completed by them. All it takes is one instant
where they've made you angry or they've done something that
really felt unkind. Then all of a sudden, you're not
complete because the person wouldn't have done that if they
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were truly your soulmate. Does that make sense? But you
wouldn't feel complete with the other person. You really need
to feel complete on your own and them coming into
your space and into your life is the added bonus.
It is where your souls condense and they meet and
(30:48):
the energies intertwine. And it doesn't really matter what they're
doing at the time. You don't have these thoughts and
feelings stuff. Are they cheating on me? Are they're out
with their friends? Are they really out with my friends
or their friends? Are they what are they doing. There's
(31:11):
no paranoia. If you will it's it doesn't matter. Everything
just is right now. Some people might say, well, that's
just being oblivious, but I mean telling you the soul
make connection is that deep where you can feel their
pain or a pang of what they're going through. Wherever
(31:34):
they are, you can you can feel like if they
don't feel comfortable, if they put in been in a
situation that they were thrown into, you could feel that.
And again when they come back and they come home,
they would tell you, hey, I had fun with my friends. However,
(31:57):
you know I kind of felt kind of felt a
bit cringe or cringe, right, I didn't like it. I
don't necessarily like, you know, I'm disappointed in that friend.
Blah blah blah, right, all that stuff. But they would
come back and tell you it's not about guessing. It's
not about you know, the paranoia. What are they doing?
(32:18):
Are they actually thinking about me? Do they actually loved me? Again?
Some of those things, that's a you issue. That's an issue,
not an ish them. Right. So again, if you're feeling
all those insecurities, I'm gonna tell you that's a big
thing that you need to work on. For you, because again,
(32:40):
a true soulmate, they they are there, their eyes are
for you, They're everything is intertwined with you. And I'm
gonna tell you, even your friends, like when a soulmate,
that's a friend, they're gonna have your back, They're gonna
do whatever it takes to make you feel good about you. Okay,
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Welcome Back. You're watching Journey with Joan only on the
Bull Brave TV Network. Welcome back, all right, shout out you, Mario, Mario,
he just said, Hi, I'm here. Why are you? I'm
here in Canada? All right? So again more common things
(36:13):
with soulmates now, soulmates again, us with friends again. It's
when you have a bestie and you just know their
ins and outs, you know when something hurt them, and
you just want to be there for them. Everyone's like,
but how can your friend be a soulmate? Well, the
(36:36):
soulmate part of it is that deep connection. It's being
part of your soul family, if you will, and they
are intertwined again with you through the many lifetimes that
you have. Now people ask me, well, so you can
have more than one soulmate? Yes, Well, what's the difference
(36:59):
between a soulmate and a twin soul? A twin flame,
I guess if you will. So, a twin flame is
one that is where your soul it's a it's another
soul that really mirrors your own. So it's almost like
your soul was split in half. But it's not right.
(37:20):
So you don't need your twin flame to feel whole.
Your twin flame, so when your twin flame comes to you,
it's not necessarily again, fun, because your twin flames, since
they mirror you, they will push your buttons. They will
(37:45):
kind of in a sense, force you to look at
all the things that you haven't healed yet. Right, So
you push each other to help each other grow, and
it can be quite multuous, It can be quite It
can be explosive as well because twin flames they're gonna
(38:08):
push you so so much. And it's not necessarily fun
because it's really about growing and connecting and being more
spiritual and having your growth because you've come here together
(38:28):
in order to learn and heal those aspects of what
you chose before you came here to learn. Okay, So
twin flames, that's a totally different story. It goes it's
it's kind of more like that. Like again, if you
think about flames, what are they? They crack, They explosive,
(38:50):
They like bits and pieces the embers start flying off places. Again,
so twin flames can be explosive. It's like fire, you
know it. If you're not ready for it, it can
be a lot. Okay. So again there's the unconditional acceptance
(39:12):
with soulmates. They just accept you for who you are,
and it doesn't really matter it. They'll help you grow. Yes,
they can push you, but at the same time they
know how to push you without it being belittling or
shaming those kind of things. The emotions are really intense
(39:35):
when you know with them soulmates, even with friends, like
when we have best friends, you know we can we
you know you have good fights, and but it's with
it's not without why we think that. What's it called
(39:57):
that we're right and they're wrong. It would be out
of love for the other person. Now sometimes could it
be yeah, I'm right, you're wrong. Yes, absolutely. We are
human and we are earthlinks and we are here and
you know we do have jealous tendencies. We have things
(40:20):
of missing out and that or that we're not enough.
But those things aside, when you work on those doesn't
really matter. When you're in your friendship and you're in
this relationship with your soulmate, you realize and you can
recognize it when it comes up for you, okay, And
(40:43):
when it does, then you try and fix it, You
try and heal it, you work through it, and you
discuss it again. Communication wide open communication with your partner
and you discuss it and then they help you get
through it without pressing those buttons to make you feel
(41:06):
or make you explode or implode. Okay again, so you know,
it says here on my notes that it says feeling complete.
But for me, what I've noticed is you need to
feel complete on your own, you really do. If you
can't feel complete on your own as soulmate's if they
(41:33):
make you complete, if you will the moment or any
second that they disappoint you, they are no longer good
to you. They are no longer that complete feeling with you.
And if you need them to complete to you, then
you are coming from a place of lack. You are
(41:55):
not being honest with yourself because now you're in this
relationship because you need them, You need them to feel
so you can feel complete. And if they were to
leave or go away on a trip again, you're scrambling
(42:18):
by yourself wherever you are going, what are they doing,
who are they talking to? Are they with the people?
They said again that completeness becomes a paranoia, And so
again there's all those different things where it really is
(42:40):
knowing that you're complete because and also sorry, if you
are with someone and you feel they're they're your soulmate
but they aren't ready to be in a relationship with you.
You let them go. Right again, If you love them,
(43:02):
you let them go. If they're gonna step up, they're
gonna step up. If they're not, they're not. Again, It's
not up to you to fix them. It's up to
you to fix yourself. It's up to you to heal
your own heart, to heal all the trauma that you've
been through and your past experiences that were auchy or
(43:24):
hurt you, or people did wrong to you. That's up
to you to fix for you, not for your soulmate
to make you feel complete, because they're shielding you from that,
because your soulmate would challenge you in a way for
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you to help grow and heal those emotions. Okay, again,
you can laugh at each other. You can call them
like a dork you. It's quite interesting because you can
laugh at them and it doesn't and it's not a
(44:08):
shaming laugh, even though at the time you know if
looking from the outside in, it could look like you
are making fun of them, but at the same time
you're not. Because the two of you are so aligned
that it doesn't feel like there's a shaming. It doesn't
feel like they're belittling you. It's more in fun and.
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little bit tidbit with you guys. So my husband, now,
I met him in college, but at the time I
(44:57):
was not ready to be with him. Do I feel
like he is my soulmate? Yes, I'm going to say
that him and I even though you know, there's things
it's been sometimes it's been up and down, but you know,
we challenge each other, we we honor each other. We
just are there for each other. And again I look
(45:19):
at him and sometimes I just laugh and he's like,
what's so funny, and I'm like nothing, But you know,
I just love you and it is just so. But
when we embrace, when we hug, the energy of it
all is like it just swirls around us. But that
(45:41):
energy has never gone away. So it's one of those
things where when I first met him and he held
my hand for the first time there it felt really
scary at the first time because I was I wasn't
sure what to make of it because the energy was
so the emotion and the connection was super strong, and
(46:04):
it's like whoa, what's this? Why is this like this? Again?
So I wasn't ready for that to step up, and
so we didn't get together until later when we were
both ready. And now you know, things are better. Things.
(46:25):
We understand each other, The love, the connection there is amazing.
Now again, is it perfect? It isn't. There has been
some up and downs, but that's normal because again I'm
going to tell you, I got in my own way
and some things that I had buried within my heart
(46:50):
had bubbled up. And yeah that those things that have
come up were a mee thing, right, It was a
thing for me that I had to clear on my
own and own it. And could I easily have pointed
(47:11):
the finger and said, well you did this and blah
blah blah. I could have, Yes, I really could have.
But when you grow spiritually, you start to do the
work inner like the inner work and go, okay, that
was my insecurities. Those were my things that I had
(47:31):
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really step up and be the best soul made for yourself.
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Welcome back. You're watching Journey with Joan only on the
Bold Brave TV Network and I'm your host, John Wynen.
Today we are talking about exploring soulmates, where the souls
intertwine in twine again. Before the break, I was telling
a story, my personal story about with my husband, who
(51:28):
I believe is also my soulmate. And again everything is
based on timing. You can so again when a soul
when one soul is coming to task and then you're
meeting your soulmate. Again, it's highly important that you work
(51:49):
on yourself because timing is everything. If that other person
or if you have not healed the wounds that you
need to for you guys to come together again, it
could be more like I can't deal with that person,
that person feels pompous to me, this blah blah blah,
(52:11):
et cetera, et cetera. Then your meeting and your being
together with your soulmate has left. It's gone. It's like
that moment and when that moment passes, right, there's that
moment and you know what it is. But if you're
not in that space, you're totally oblivious to that moment
(52:37):
and that moment just passes by. Okay. So again there's
timing in it all. There's all these things and sometimes
the karma tize of the soulmate is again I always
I feel like there's you have more than one soulmate
(52:59):
And if you think about it, if you think there's
only one homemade in this entire world for you, think
about how hard that would be to find them. Okay,
So again there's multiple They can step up. If they
do and you end up being together, great, But you
(53:20):
know I'm going to tell you sometimes, soulmates, you're not
meant to be with your soulmate this lifetime. Why because
the two of you are working hard at your own
crap in order to grow spiritually, because that's what you
have chosen to do this lifetime. Again, it's all about
(53:42):
those things. It's not necessarily that you're going to be
with a soulmate this lifetime. Does it mean you're going
to be alone and by yourself? Absolutely not. Again, we've
got to work on ourselves. There's differences, there's even sometimes
there's cultural differences with with soulmates and right, so with me,
(54:08):
I'm Filipino, my husband is Canadian, and again there's cultural
differences there. There's I'm gonna throw my mom under the
bus here. So my mom, you know, she was adamant
that I not date a Filipino man. She's like, no,
(54:32):
you can't date that. I don't want you to date
Filipino man. Blah blah blah blah blah blah. Her thing. Right,
that's okay because for me that wasn't I was not
ever interested in that. Did I date one or two, Yes,
(54:53):
I did, but again that it just wasn't my cup
of tea. If you will. So again, there's like so
many like cultural differences, and in each culture there is
spiritual differences. So being Filipino, growing up Filipino I was,
(55:17):
I grew up a strict Catholic. Now my husband he
grew up in a I'm gonna say Baptist. I don't
know exactly, but they did have a religion, but it
wasn't it wasn't Catholicism, right, And growing up in the
(55:42):
eighties nineties, if you weren't Catholic, a lot of people
like so my aunties, which you know are Filipino friends, moms, right,
the anties, they would say, well are they Catholic? Oh
they're not. Why why you choose someone that's not Catholic? Right?
So all these things can come into play. There's so
(56:05):
many things where you know we've been bought and sold
where you know that's not good. You can't do that.
And again, it's about learning who you are, understanding you,
understanding that you know unconditional love. It doesn't matter what
you know, spiritual belief that you want to believe in.
(56:26):
If that works for you, great, But again, a soulmate,
it doesn't matter because you will be there together. You
will share yours with the other person, and if the
other person doesn't necessarily believe in that, that's okay too,
because again there's no judging. It's everything is unconditional. Everything
(56:51):
is about okay, you do you, that's fine. But typically
I'm going to say a soulmate has like you would
never necessarily have someone that believes in religion or God
and then the other one be a complete atheist for
(57:15):
a soulmate like that would be kind of hard for
that to go because again, with your challenges and with
your growth with your soulmate, you guys grow together, you
challenge each other, so maybe you could. Again I have
not seen that. And does that mean it can't be
(57:37):
like that? No, so it could, but again there's a
whole bunch of differences, right, And does it matter between
the two of you, No, it doesn't. All that matters
is that you're there for each other, that you completely
believe in each other. You want each other to grow
and excel, and it's not about being better than the other. Like,
(58:01):
can you have a healthy competition, Yeah you can, right,
but I'm going to say that it's it's not a
competition and they just want the best for you and
you want the best for them, and you're totally happy
and complete being by yourself and being with you. Okay,
(58:26):
So again, be here, be there for you, be completely present.
Understand what your your scars, your traumas that you hold
deep within your heart. Understand that, and when they bubble
up and they come to the surface, honor it and
(58:49):
say thank you, because that is no longer you. That
is a version of you that was that's in the past.
And so so if you can honor it and say
thank you and then just let it go, that's one
that's one thing. So each day you should, we all
(59:12):
should be working on letting go of our scars are traumas.
Why because once we let those, our days are for that.
Because once we do that, it allows us to grow
and evolve spiritually. It gets us to the closer to
the space of unconditional love for us. And when we
(59:35):
can do that for us, it's golden because it doesn't
matter everything you see the beauty and everything and you
feel worthy. You have unconditional love for yourself and for others,
doesn't matter what conditions there are. There's unconditional love, all right.
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So make sure you love you. I love you, guys.
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