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Speaker 1 (00:18):
Welcome to Journey with Joan, a podcast hosted by Joan Widen,
a medium, reiki master, and mind body spirit coach. Joined
Joan on a transformative journey as she empowers listeners to
embrace their future, let go of the past, and create
a fulfilling life. Are you ready to embark on your

(00:40):
own journey of self discovery? Please welcome the host of
Journey with Joan, Joan Widen.

Speaker 2 (00:55):
Welcome and good evening. You're watching Journey with Joan, and
I'm Joan Widen, the host only on the Bold Brave
TV network. Thank you for joining me. I'm being grateful
for you to be here. Welcome. Okay, So signs, signs
everywhere there's a sign blocking out the scenery, messing up

(01:15):
my mind? Do this? Do that? Can't you read the signs?
Can anyone guess what song that is? Anyways, it's it
pertains to what we're talking about tonight. We're gonna be
talking about signs. So signs from spirit, from our higher sells,

(01:36):
our guides, you name it, all right, So that's what
we're talking about. And check out that song. It's a
good song. It's was in this another seventies song. I'm
aging myself anyways. So seriously, signs are all around us.
People always ask me, well, what do you mean there's

(01:57):
signs everywhere? Well, literally, you know, unfigurately, there are actual
signs everywhere. We just have to be present and open
up our minds to be able to see them. Right. So,
for example, like that movie Elliott right Pete's dragon right

(02:19):
the forest Ranger. She says, well, I've been walking these
woods for five years and I've never seen a dragon
in those woods ever, right, and I think it was
Robert Redford. He says, well, that's because you weren't really looking,
because they are always in plain sight. Right. So again

(02:41):
that's saying unless we're in tune and we're listening and
being completely present, we're not going to see the signs
that are presented to us right in front of our face,
if that makes sense, all right. So whenever our loved ones,

(03:01):
angels guides, they try to give us signs whenever we
need to write. So sometimes we ask and we say, hey,
I don't understand this. I need help. I need right,
whether it's in prayer, whether it's in the moments like
I have an interview and you know, I just need
to get through this because I really would love this job,

(03:24):
or I need to find a job, or you know,
this is my dream job. Right, So we asked for guidance, right,
And so our guides and the divine always are there
to try and help us out to be able to do,
give us things, to encourage us to be great, to

(03:46):
be us to be the best that we can be. Right,
And so we just need to be able to sit
there and be present. Right. And most of the times
it's always in our dire need is when we ask
for these signs. But when we ask for the signs,
we have to be open and ready to receive them.

(04:12):
When we're unable to receive them, they just kind of
get lost and muddled. And really most of the time
why we can't see them is because we get in
our own way. Right. So a we say, well, no,
that can't be it. That was way too easy. How

(04:33):
can that be it? There's no way right. Well, actually,
you know, we are divine people of the divine, and
we have our intuitiveness, we have that gut feeling. Right,
It's as simple as that. Like when I said last

(04:53):
week when we were doing the meditation, don't overthink this,
just allow it. Just imagine it. And if you have
a hard time with visualization or anything, maybe or a
feeler a sensor, so then you just allow and just
feel the energy come through. And if you're not quite

(05:15):
sure what that is, it doesn't matter. Don't put it
in a category that it needs to be a certain way,
because everyone is different. We all have different types body types, right,
skin color, everything like that. We're you know height, I'm short,

(05:38):
most people are tall, right, So there's so many different
types of humans, right, And we just have to know
that I am a seer. I get to see a
lot of things. I get shown films and flicks and pictures,
and also they tell me things as if they're actually

(06:00):
standing right here whispering into my ear right. But does
everyone have that to a sense, And to a degree
everyone does. Everyone has intuition. And some people will argue
with me and say no, no, absolutely not, And I
am going to tell you, yes, you are. We just

(06:25):
have to get you to a point where you're listening
to your body so that your body can actually tell
you whether it's through your gut, right, or through a
smell or anything like that, or even see a picture. Right.
Some people will be amazed at what they can do

(06:49):
when they stop and just listen, right, stop dropping and roll,
you stop, you drop what you're doing, You drop all
the stress, you drop all the drama, the anxiety of
the day. And I know this is easier said than done.

(07:11):
So what we do is we take a few deep breaths,
concentrate on it in and out right, so it can
relax us and it lets go of these little monkeys
going up here, like the unconscious sub conscious mind here
right to allow us to have a breather and relax

(07:32):
because we're not in danger, so we can allow the messages,
the signs to come through. All right. What else? Again,
everyone is psychic and anyone can learn it to the

(07:53):
same degree as what I have. I don't know, you know,
I haven't. I've had this of my whole life, so
I can't relate to that and that of the not knowing.
Sometimes it's I guess in my twenties when I was
kind of like, no partying is fun not to wasn't

(08:16):
really thinking about that. But at the same time, it
wouldn't matter because it would still come through no matter what.
There was no way I was able to look it
out completely, all right, Okay, what else. All right, I

(08:36):
let's take this time to do a quick meditation because
I feel like we it's Friday. It was kind of
a chaotic week, right, the CLIPS is coming up on Monday,
and it was a short week for some people, and
sometimes short weeks for people equals super chaotic. Who knows why. Right,

(09:00):
we didn't go to school, We didn't go to school
work for one day, and it just feels like we're
always chasing, right, We're chasing trying to get things done.
So let's take a deep breath. Let's go into a
quick meditation so we can calm ourselves, get connected to

(09:24):
the source, God, divine Buddha, right, whoever you're choosing, All right,
let's take three deep breaths in through your nose and
out through your mouth. When more, two more times? Sorry?

(09:54):
All right, and now I'm going to help you and
you guys, So if you're listening and you're driving, don't
worry again. There's no time or space and it just transcends.
So whenever you listen to this, it will be the
same as if you were listening to it live. Right,
So we're gonna cleanse our aura. We're gonna pull everything
out that's no longer serving us. Right, We're gonna just

(10:18):
allow breathe feel. If you can't feel, that's okay. Just
be open, be open to any possibility that is there, right, okay.

(10:53):
So now we're gonna radiate the lights from above, from
the divine and let it shine down into us like shower, right,
Just allow it to penetrate through us through our ethoric field,
our energy field, our soul. All right. And now as

(11:17):
it's coming down showering all the way through to our feet, right,
the energy from the ground, from Mother Earth is coming
up and it's also gonna it's a reverse shower. So
I guess like a fountain right where it's bubbling up,
let's say, like good old Faithful, Right, it's just gonna

(11:41):
come up, and it's gonna come up super strong. It's
gonna meet the energy from above, all right. So now
that because I just felt like that big whoosh from
like the old faithful in the ground, all right. So
now we're gonna really radiate that energy out right, and
it's gonna go all the way around us, so above, below, behind,

(12:05):
in front of us. It's gonna be like a cocoon,
but instead of it being super close to us. We're
going to radiate it out. It's gonna be bigger than
the room that you're in, right, and now we're gonna
take a deep breath because some of you aren't used
to having it that big. And it's gonna be as
big as the city you're in, right, and now it's

(12:27):
going to be as big as the state or province
you're in, you know, as big as the country that
you're in. Now we're gonna wrap it around the whole globe,
and now we're going to push it out through the
entire universe. All right. So now that we have this,

(12:52):
we're gonna give blessings to the earth and so that
everyone can be safe and everyone can be like some
of the earth can feel love. Right. There's so many
things going on in the news today, so many things
in New York area, Tri State, I believe had an

(13:14):
earthquake and Type Hai had an earthquake. I can't remember,
like within the last week. So we're going to send
blessings of love and calm, right so that everyone can
feel like they belong and they can embrace and just

(13:40):
good old love to the earth. And I know this
sounds really hokey and Kumbai ai Ish. But they've actually
done a study on this where people when they actually
do meditation and they have sorry, the abundance of the
love it gets and you push it out and you

(14:02):
bless everyone with it, it actually cuts down crime in
areas and just the rumblings of chaoticness, it all just
sorts kind of just calms right down, all right. So
we're gonna take a few breaths and through the commercial,

(14:26):
we're going to just take in all of this energy,
breathe in and out, try and relax and be open
and ready, and we'll talk about signs as soon as
we get back. We're gonna show some love to our
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Speaker 2 (16:55):
Welcome back to your watching journey with Joan and I'm
John Wynon only on the Bold Brave TV Network. Thank
you for joining me. Anyways, Okay, we're back. How is
the meditation? I hope that was good? You were, you know,
just breathing and you're starting to relax. Perfect, all right?

(17:17):
Now again, if you have any questions and you want
to ask me stuff, give me a shout. You can
call me one eight sixty six four five one one
four five one, or alternatively, you can leave me a
comment on x Facebook on the Bold Brave Network somewhere.

(17:44):
I'm not quite sure exactly, but if you send them
a question and you say it's for me, I will
I'm sure I will get it and I will answer
it on the next live all right. And also when
you do that, I'm running a test. If you do
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(18:08):
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And the premise around it is it is blessed. I
will bless it with whatever I get from spirit that
you need at the moment. Plus it's abundance and luck
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Speaker 3 (18:26):
All right.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
Anyways, let's get back to so remember send me your questions,
all right, So what again? I touched on why we
asked for signs, right, We asked for signs because our
loved ones have passed and we want to know if
they're hanging around us and if they've heard us. Right.

(18:51):
Sometimes it's because a life the event is happening, like
a milestone. Someone's getting married, or someone's graduating. There's a
big birthday coming up, right, or someone is giving birth
to a child. Right. So a lot of times people

(19:15):
like to go, I want to know did they know? Right?
Are they there? Did they see all of this? Did
they witness it? Am I like I really? Or they
just really really just miss them? Right? And they just
want to feel. You want to feel your loved ones

(19:35):
with you, right, So in those instances we can you know,
they say, like coins, right, coins, if you find coins,
that's a gift from your loved ones, or if you
find feathers right on the ground. These are kind of big.

(19:59):
Here's another one, right, so you know, they don't have
to be that big. Sometimes they're like little minuscule I'm
just showing them so it was easier to see. But yes,
I did find I found this one, and I believe
this one is a raven feather, okay, and this one

(20:24):
was given to me and it is a goose feather,
the good old Canada goose all right. But so in
order to receive things like that, you got to be
open to it. Right. Sometimes you'll see a big feather.
And the one time I saw a big feather and
I was like, oh, I should And I was on

(20:44):
my way into a store and I'm like, I don't
really feel like, I'm like, do I pick it up?
It will be there when I get back. Of course,
it's never there when you get back. But see, this
is what I mean, Like, you get in your way
to receive the sign. Right. Some people have told me like,
don't pick up feathers. They've got like, you know, feathered

(21:08):
mites in them and all this stuff. Right, So again
you have all those little things, and it's this the
chatter in the head that goes, no, that's not cool,
don't touch it, you know, Oh no, that's kind of dirty.
That can't be right. Another sign. For example, I was

(21:30):
driving into the city because I live out in the country,
I saw a big rack of antlers just sitting on
the side of the road. Well, if I hadn't been
in a hurry, I actually might have pulled over. I
was thinking about it, and I almost did to go
get it, but I honestly wasn't sure if it would

(21:52):
fit in my suv. Right, So antlers, because they you
fall off animals, right, they just they shake and then
they just come up right. And it's also a testament
to what I was talking about last week is spring
has sprung, right, it's time for new growth, it's time
for all these different things. So and the reason why

(22:16):
I would have picked up the antlers is because I
have dogs and you can bake them and you can
give them to them because they're great toe joy as well.
Honor it first and then do that. But those are
different things that right, Like again it's like, oh, what
would people think if I stopped and grab these antlers

(22:38):
or what would you know? My sometimes my kids go, bomb,
don't pick that up, that's gross, right, So I can't
you know, I get chained from my kids and you go,
well no, no, no, it's okay. But so again, right,
if we want it and we'll see it. Do you

(23:00):
always have to pick up the feather or the dimes
or the nickels or the pennies or anything like that. No,
you don't, right, but if you want it, yes, for sure. Right.
I've also known people where they've just cleaned their car
and they have custom like mud floor, like those mud

(23:23):
maps or whatever, like the carpets in their car. They
it covers it. I can't remember what it's called. Sorry. Anyways,
they had just cleaned their car, everything was good, and
then they decided to move those like things. I don't

(23:44):
know why. I'm having brain feart. I can't figure out
what that is, but they start to they move it
into place right because it wasn't quite in And then
they look and there just happens to be a dime
or a penny. And I'm gonna tell you, if you
find a penny in candidate, it's pretty rare because they
are not in circulation anymore here, right. So again, some people,

(24:09):
well that was just coincidence, Well was it really? You
just cleaned it out and there was no change in
your car, but yet it's still there. So again, here's
another example of us being in the way of ourselves. Right, spirit.
It takes a lot for spirit to be able to
show you right and give you a sign, only for

(24:33):
us to go no, that's not that can't be. That's
way too much. Right And as I moved my hair,
I just thought, like a little feather just flew in
front of my face. Right, So again, right was that?
What was that? I don't have any down comforters or

(24:53):
jackets or anything like that in my office. How did
it go there? I don't know, right for me or
sometimes for me, I get somethings start like fall off
my bookshelf, or I can't remember what. I was discussing
something with my engineer last week, like during the break

(25:18):
and then all of a sudden something felt and was
a big bang right to me. That was like just
a confirmation of whatever we were talking about was true. Right,
So again, there are so many different things that we
could call a sign. And it doesn't have to be
the big neon sign right stop or go, or a

(25:44):
post it note or anything like that. I'm just trying
to think if I have any signs to my office
here to show you right, like there's like it doesn't
have to be like like on neon lights going wah,
wah wah, right, like do you see now? What about now? Right?
Like can't you see me? Right? Like? Spirit does things

(26:06):
and if we're not open and ready to receive them,
it gets lost, right. And it's not that they won't
do it for you anymore, It just they have to
come up with different creative ways to help us and
let us feel it to see it. Does that make sense?

(26:27):
Because sometimes when we're in the way of it, it's
because we have skepticism or we're like, no, that just
can't like too many quinciss no, that it just doesn't
sit right, And that's fair, that's okay, right, But I'm
just saying that most times the sign is right in

(26:50):
front of your face and we dismiss it and going no,
that's way too fucking easy. There's no way that was
a sign. Right. For example, you're watching say you're watching
TV and you're like, you know, Mom, I really miss you.
Could you just show me? And this is really stupid

(27:10):
and really random. Can you show me a pink elephant? Right?
And then you go, Okay, you're watching TV and all
of a sudden there's a commercial and a pink what
happens to go across the screen? A pink elephant and
you go, no, no, that can't be. Or if you
have children, they come down with a pink stuffed elephant toy, right.

(27:36):
Or they're on YouTube and then they show you what
they're watching and there happens to be a pink elephant. Right. Again,
those are different things, and they're trying to get you
to see it. But unless we accept it as it,
then you know we can't. Right. So why do we
ask first signs again? Because we are feeling like we

(28:00):
need support, we're missing the person because of milestones or
you know, a birth happening, all those things, or we
need direction. Right, So that comes to a thing for me,
is the direction? Right? Everyone's like, well, can I ask

(28:21):
my guides and like my mom and my dad, like
the ones that have passed in my case it would
be my grandma grandpa, right, that have passed. Can I
ask them for advice? Absolutely, you can ask them for advice,
But the one thing I know is don't ask them

(28:44):
for advice that they wouldn't have known in this world. Right. So,
if they were alive today, would you ask them about
a computer issue? Right? Probably not, Like they won't know
because one my grandparents weren't. Well, my grandma wasn't to

(29:09):
lie when computers were existing, like personal computers were existent, right,
my grandpa a little bit right, But would he know anything?
Absolutely not right. So if you're gonna ask for a sign,
or you're gonna ask for guidance from someone, ask someone
that's past, you don't need to know who they are,

(29:30):
like have met them? I mean, of course you need
to know who they are because you're asking. Right, You
can channel Albert Einstein if you want. If you're like going, hey,
I need help with math? Right, I don't know why
math is not working for me? Can I need help?
Who can I ask for direction? I challenge you go
ask Albert Einstein. He's passed, he's you know he why not? Right? Computers?

(30:01):
Steve Jobs, Right, there's all these different and so many's right.
So in my case, for someone, if I wanted to
know more spiritual stuff, I would ask Dolores Kennon because
she's on the other side already. Wayne Dyer same thing,

(30:22):
he's on the other side. Right, would they help me?
Why wouldn't they? Right? It's all like time, there's no time,
no space, It just everything just transcends, right, And it's
no skin off them to ask right now, I'm not
going to bombard them and say, hey, I need you

(30:42):
to stay beside me all the time so you can
teach me. You can tell me everything you know. Of course,
I wouldn't do that. We wouldn't do that for our
own like flesh and blood that we're here that have
now crossed. We just wouldn't do those things. Right. So again,

(31:04):
think of when you're asking for advice and when you're
asking for help, who should you ask? You should ask
someone that's you know, that's their expertise, expertise, that's their wheelhouse,
because why not, right, Spirit is here to help us.
Spirit wants us to be completely successful in everything that

(31:27):
we do. They want us to be the best spiritually
in this body and in this earth that we can
be right, because that is our goal. That is everything here.
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Speaker 2 (34:01):
Welcome back. You're watching Journey with Joan and I'm Johan
Waden only on the Bold Braid TV network. All right,
So we were talking about asking for signs, right, asking
for help? How do we do it? All? Right? So
now how do the signs come in? Right? The signs

(34:22):
come in either through a dream. That's how a lot
of loved ones come to you. Right. They're like, Oh,
I just I just saw them in a dream the
other day, and I'm like, that's their sign. Like you
asked them to visit you, right, Yes, that they actually
came to visit with you. What did they do? They

(34:45):
were just smiling and they were just so happy, right
because that's what you asked for, and you ask and
you shall receive as long as again that saying is asking,
now shall receive when you ask. You just let it go, right,
and you just know that it's coming. There's no attachment

(35:06):
of when is it coming? It needs to come now.
I need it by this time, because you know what,
It's always about divine timing, and you will get it
when you get it, and it will be at the
exact moment and the exact time that you need it. Right.
So when you set out that intention, you let it go,

(35:26):
you ask, and just know you're going to receive it
and it will just be there, all right. So in
a dream, sometimes we hear our names like I hear
my names. Sometimes they just go out and I'm like,
what there's like I live in the forest, right, like
I almost can't talk. Well, maybe they can't. I haven't

(35:50):
came across one yet, and if I let, if I do,
I'll let you know, right it might be hogwarts out here,
who knows, right? Sometimes we have smell right. When my
grandma passed away, her favorite flowers were roses, and I

(36:12):
can't remember this other one. It's a vine and they
bloom at night and it's really pungenty strong smell flower.
When she passed away, we would go and my parents
never bought fresh flowers ever, and so when we walked in,
I could smell it and it was like a huge,

(36:34):
wafting smell of roses. So for me when I was
a child, I was like, Grandma's here, and I got
super excited. Right, my parents are like what, and I'm like,
can't you smell that? And they would be like, yeah,
well maybe the neighbors have you know, maybe someone cut

(36:54):
their roses and so you can smell it again right
in your own way. No, that was a sign for
like for me from my grandma that she was here.
She came to visit, right. So there's even random thoughts.
You'll be sitting there typing, you're working away, right, and

(37:17):
all of a sudden it with just a thought will
come into your mind about the person that just passed right,
and you'd be like, hmm, that's odd. That was a sign, right,
just it could again, it's a minor and you wouldn't
think of it, but that is an actual sign. Right.

(37:38):
Sometimes electronics go haywire. Right right before I came on tonight,
my camera was doing all this weird pixely stuff, and
I was like, oh no, oh my goodness. I'm like,
please work. I don't know why you're not working. We're
talking about signs tonight. Please make you work. And you know,

(38:05):
I rebooted it didn't want to work, and I'm like,
you know what, fuck it, We're gonna just log in
and we're gonna see and lo and behold it works. Right.
So again it's a sign because sometimes for me especially,
I get into this sign of needing things to be

(38:26):
perfect right and excuse me, and how I use my
voice right, and I want things to be perfect. And
I would say that this was a sign to me
is relax, you have your stuff, you haven't ready. It's

(38:49):
gonna work, right. It doesn't have to be completely perfect, right,
Like I know you were ready and you were ready
to go, and then minutes before, all of a sudden,
things aren't working right. So again some of those things, now,
had I been chaotic and flipped out, maybe it wouldn't

(39:11):
have worked, right, because that's less that's a lesson for
me from spirit to show like just calm, be calm
and receive it. Everything will be okay. Right. So a
lot of times when people come to me and they're
asking me, I need a sign, I need a sign

(39:33):
from this loved one. Right. Sometimes they come specifically asking
me for signs, right, and I go, Okay, who are
we talking about? Okay, So I had a client they
came to me, and I've actually never had this before

(39:55):
where they wanted to speak to their father. And when
his father came in, it actually wasn't quite loving, right,
And when I think about it, in the end, it
was a loving message, right. But he just wanted to

(40:18):
know is my dad with me? Is he proud of me?
Does he do this? Does he do that? Right? And
the first thing I got was I was an asshole.
It's like, what this is interesting? People don't necessarily air there,

(40:41):
you know, dirty stuff. But okay, Well, so I said
your father wasn't very nice, right, He's like yes. I'm like,
I'm like, your grandfather was equally, if not worse, right,
And he's like yes, I'm like okay, I'm like okay.
So he's telling me he's not sorry, and I said,

(41:02):
and honestly, this is kind I'm not gonna say anymore
because I don't like how he's talking, and it's not
very you know, conducive for you, right, And so I
got was he was doing the best that he could

(41:24):
and that he was shown right. So he was shown
to be an asshole of a father by his father,
who was happened to be also an asshole. Right, So
he knew that was the best of his ability to
parent that way because he was taught that's how you

(41:45):
teach your that's how you talk to your kids. You
are an asshole to them. You don't tell them anything
good because you know, we got to make them tough
and strong, you know, like got to be like a man,
got to be strong, and you know, forget about all
these feeling shit, just you know, pummel through life and
get there. Now. I'm not sure why I had to

(42:08):
tell this story today, but you know, someone out there
might need to hear it. So what Spirit told me
after that was to ask him why he was still
living in the past. Right. And I've spoke about this
in the previous podcasts about living here, being completely present,

(42:30):
right here, right now, right the past is gone. We
can never get it back, and tomorrow never comes, right.
We should not chase the future. We cannot chase tomorrow
because tomorrow literally never comes. It's always about today, right,

(42:51):
and today we have to be here, sit there now?
Am I saying I'm fucking perfect? I am not right?
Like some days it's like I'm exhausted. I don't know why, right,
And do I procrastinate sometimes I do? Right, It's maybe
it's a human thing. I don't know, right, But again,

(43:11):
it's about being present, knowing what you know, what you
want to do for today, and you know what, sometimes
if you need a break for today, that's okay, right,
acknowledge it and allow it, because if you beat yourself
up about it, you can't go back an hour ago
and redo it. Right. All you've got is what's in

(43:32):
front of you, right here, right now, right. So the
message to that person, my client, was why are you
stuck in the past? He clearly is not remorseful, and
you know, why would you spend crying crying in the

(43:53):
present and not living your life? And I looked at
him and I said, you have a beautify here. I
don't know if you have children, but it didn't feel
like he did, right. So I'm just like, you have
a beautiful wife here, and each day you spend being

(44:14):
upset with yourself because you're trying to find new ways
on how to appease your dead father, right, and in
no shape, way, shape or form, was he the spirit
on the other side saying that he was going to
want to do that right now. I said to him,
I said, I understand that maybe you wanted me to

(44:36):
say he loved you and he was proud of you.
And I said, but at the same time I heard
if I said that, you would have went full of shit, John,
because that's not what he was. He was not a
nice man. Grandpa wasn't a nice man. Right. So the
message together, altogether, I would say, was stop living in

(44:56):
the past, live for today. Forget about like honor it right,
Like honor your feelings that it was shitty and you
had like did he treat you crappy? Yes, that's okay, right,
and you can honor that in you do. You need
to forgive that those actions no right, but you need

(45:17):
to forgive yourself for allowing it to fester and diminish
your light for being you, right, because that's not that's
not what he meant to do. What he meant for
you to do was to go be strong and go

(45:38):
out there and be the best that you can be. Right,
because in the end, that's what would make him proud,
was not talking about feelings, not showing or expressing, because
that wasn't part of the game, right, That wasn't his
generation on how they did things right. Okay, So then

(45:59):
there's and then you have another lady that came to me,
same thing. She's she looked like she had a disability, right,
And as soon as she sat down, the first thing
I heard was Okay, you want to talk to your dad? Yes,
And I'm like, okay, Now he's telling me that you've

(46:22):
just seen X amount of people before me. And I said,
I don't know, maybe five or six people before you've
sat down and saw me because I was at a fair.
I was at a Body, Soul, Spirit expo, right, and
I had a booth. And so she came and she
sat down, talked to me, and same thing. He's just

(46:44):
like she's seen like five six other people before you.
I don't know what she wants anymore, right, Like I've
told her all these messages again. See they're saying, right,
I'm giving her the message. She doesn't want to hear it.
So my job, unfortunately at that time, was like great, thanks,

(47:08):
I get to do this, I get to tell her,
like smart enough, like what the fuck are you doing? Right?
So he goes, okay, we'll do it this way, right.
So I said, all right, you're supposed to pinky swear
to me, right. So we pinky swear and she goes,
what do you mean pinky swear? And I'm like, you

(47:30):
need to pinky swear. And as soon as I start talking,
you're gonna have to say yes, I pinky swear. She's
like what and then she just started crying and I'm
like what and she goes, that's what my dad would say.
And I said, oh, that's why he made me do
it right, because I actually had to. He's like, no, John,
you have to like put your pinky out and make

(47:50):
her luck pinkies with you to pinky swear that she
will not see another psychic or a medium for for
a long time because what's important in her life and
that she's not paying attention to right here, right now
in this moment, is her daughter. Her daughter is growing.

(48:12):
She's you know, like he again. So I don't know
if there's a mentality of luck or whatever, but it
was she's spending time going to see psychics and mediums.
When you know she has been given all the messages
about how to you know, like go about her way right,

(48:37):
what's coming right, But yet she's missing the most important
thing in her life, which happened to be her daughter.
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Back You're watching Journey with Joan only on the Bold
Brave TV network. And I don't know why I'm your host,
all right, So before that we went and we were
before the break, we were talking about you know, people
coming to me asking me for signs from their loved ones, right,

(51:21):
what they're looking for, right? And in that case the lady.
She just again, it always comes down to being present
right here, right now, and you know, seeing what your
life is, sitting with it. It may not feel pretty
at the moment, but that's okay as long as you

(51:41):
honor it and you believe in you because we are
the channel of change, right. Only we can get up
and change the channel in our life to make it positive, right,
or we can stay down the like walk the straight
line and day on that right, like stay in the lines.

(52:02):
Don't come color over right, don't be creative. I haven't
forbid you'd be creative because you know that could be dangerous, right,
But no, live a little right, live a little bit,
sit and be here in the present and love life
right because we only got one and we don't know

(52:22):
when we get to leave here, right, So again, be present,
fully commit to your life here right now, all right.
So some of the other signs are repeating numbers, right,
So sometimes a lot of people. This one's a big
one for people. People see one one one one one

(52:45):
one one, right, and they see it either they look
at their watch right and it happens to be eleven
to eleven, or it happens to be one one one right,
and for me one one one or one one one one,
same thing. What that means is, in my opinion, is spirit,

(53:12):
the divine is listening, right. They are hearing what you're
talking about and what's going on in here, right, So
they are listening and your thoughts are about to be manifested. Right.
So now, if you've had this itty bitty shitty club
going on here talking about how nasty things are and

(53:32):
how horrible you are and how you're not good at
things and blah blah blah blah blah blah. Right, like,
if we have that, that one one one or one
one one one is showing you, hey, wake up because
you're about to manifest shit, right, And do you want that? No?

(53:53):
No one wants that shit right. Everyone wants to be
happy and free. Right now, if you're thinking positive and
you're in the moment and you're going yeah, and you
see that it's saying yes, it's about to be manifested,
and you're right on track. We hear you, great, this

(54:13):
is awesome. Right, So now you know there's all the
other repeating numbers again, there's like two to two, three,
three three right, four four four, like it goes on
right and you can google all those and everything. Right,
So two to two right, for example, we could say

(54:35):
what it is is. I did a little bit digging,
and what it is is it's balance, right, body of mind, soul, right,
like you are in complete balance, you're in harmony with yourself. Right.
So it's giving us encouragement to say, Okay, you're starting
to cultivate some new things, right, new things are going
to start to happen for you, new things, Like it's

(54:57):
usually two to two and to to to two is
associated with good fortune, right, and it luck is about
to change, right, And so when we trust and we
can believe and we can do, you know, and if
you do the positive changes, you'll start to see in

(55:19):
your life that the positive changes are going to start
to come. Okay. So three three three, So I said
the mind, body spirit thing in the two to two,
but it's not it's actually for three three three, because
if you think about three, three is like the divine right,
like the Father Son and the Holy ghost. If you

(55:40):
for the Christians right, and or you go, it's really
about spirit. Three is the spiritual number. And so again
it's positive energy. Believe in yourself three three three and
three three three three are about fully trusting you and

(56:00):
believing you. And when you see three three three or
three three three three, your guides, angels, spirit, divine spirit,
they are telling you that they are here, they are
right with you. They are cheering you on. They're going, yes,
you're you're right there. You know what, you just need

(56:21):
to just believe it, believe in you because we do
right and we're cheering you and we're showing you that's
what you know you deserve and it's great, keep going right. So,
other kind of signs are say birds, say eagles, right,

(56:42):
so I live in the prairies. Is there a river
near me? Not really there is, kind of but not really.
So eagles Why would I see an eagle here? But
I do? Right, So eagles are like symbolized divine spirit,
right because they soar super high. They are messengers from

(57:05):
the heavens. Right, So they're just showing you to fly
high and discover who your inner child is and just
you know, just feel that inner knowing and again it's
it's trusted right and no, and they're they're showing you
the way, right because if you think of an egle
also and look at how high they like, we say, oh,

(57:28):
it's an eagle's eye view, right, So look at everything
in front of you, everything that's presented for you, and
the egle will show you right right the way. Again.
So now in the Prairies, why would I see a hawk?
Sometimes you know, if you live near the ocean, also

(57:50):
we might see it an egle. But Alaska, like Juno,
where there's hundreds of them on the beach, you know,
it's sometimes a rare sight. Right. Then there's like I
have to say this one. It's the fox. So I

(58:12):
don't know again why I picked a fox. And the
fox is a monogamous creature. They only have one mate,
and I was told to say that, right, they're very
monogamous and they only have one mate, and I don't
know why. But they are very true to their spouse, right.

(58:37):
And the fox symbolizes like being slick, right, they're magical.
They're able to slink in and out right, just like
if we think about Dora right swiper, no swiping, right,
because he always seems to manage to get there and
then grab things. Right. So again with the fox, what

(58:59):
they're saying, you see a fox is practice being invisible, right,
blending into your environment. So you can see and hear
things that you normally would not. So I don't know
if that means that, you know, maybe you're talking too
much or you're not that you know, being seen as

(59:19):
a bad thing. But sometimes we need to take that
step back so we can observe right, so that we
can go on our way to be the best for
us right and we could. Maybe that means that maybe
it's a growth in a job where you sit and

(59:41):
you like, you step back and you observe and you go, oh,
this is how it works. Now I can climb that
ladder right and on that. Now, I'm going to leave
off on that. We are out of time until next time.
Embrace what feels the soul. Have a good night. I'm
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