#JustSaying Episode 35: What's the Word? w/ Special guest BklnTyeNYC

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
All right, what's dale? She your boy ringo man Dingo,
And we have a very special special episode of Hashtag
just Saying Podcasts. I'm here with the one and.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Only Brooklyn tie whatever.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
Tie setting records. DOUBLEG isn't here, y'all. Unfortunately he had
some family emergencies to handle, but you know we're gonna
be back and like we never left in a sec
but right now I'm here the news co host, the
first woman on hashtag just saying already. So me and

(00:38):
Brooklyn Taban talking about this for like he is at
this point, like you hit me up about your podcast,
then you got it up and running off the ground
and you was one of the first supporters of this podcast,
literally reposted and her stories is mad famous. If you
don't follow on Instagram, let them know where they can

(00:59):
follow you.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
You could look me up at Brooklyn to NYC and
that's bk l y n tye NYC.

Speaker 3 (01:10):
What's the Word podcast.

Speaker 2 (01:11):
What's the Word?

Speaker 1 (01:12):
And a blog and a whole blog, right, So she
used to post us in the stories and we started
gaining hell of followers, and I was like, yo, what's
going on? So I started watching this you know how
like you follow somebody for mad years. But I'm like,
I don't be looking at nobody. Shit, So I started
looking at the stories and now I'm like, oh no,
I feel like I got to go home in New York,
making me homesick. So we here today, man. So I

(01:36):
know I've been a little hiatus. Normally I beg for
forgiveness from the audience because you know, we put out
an episode like one every three years, and.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
Shit right now, and I've really been waiting because for.

Speaker 1 (01:46):
Real, there's been so many stuff that's passed that we
missed out on. But we got to be getting back
in the saddle man, life and life and life has been.

Speaker 2 (01:56):
Like and now we're about to start August of twenty
twenty four, new brand new starting today, actually.

Speaker 1 (02:02):
New Beginnings, New Beginnings, New Beginnings.

Speaker 2 (02:05):
Chapter all that good ship, because uh yeah, we're about
to We're about to take over separately yet together.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
So y'all already know, yeah, because she's going to be
doing it on her end, I'm doing it on my end,
and I'm certain we're gonna collapse several more times going down. Yes,
but you already know the goal for this podcast is
a safe space for men. Then sixty seven percent of
our audience ended up being women, so.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
Today is about to be ninety percent women. I'll give
them in the ten percent, but I'm here today.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
The first female on the show. Let it be yes,
So we about to go up, and I guess at
this point we might as well go ahead and start
the show with the year is your boy Ringo Mandingo.

Speaker 3 (02:53):
And it's Brooklyn, Tie and YC.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
And this is good because this is your hashtag, just
saying I cast back again.

Speaker 2 (03:02):
Final leave, no ca, no lie right there, because I'm
a drag, the final leave because I've been we've been
trying to make this clab happen. I've just been like yo,
like everybody else with when the next episode, in the.

Speaker 1 (03:14):
Next episode my dms. And you know what though, somebody
is still out there downloading episodes brand new. I can't
even hate. I'm like, bro, we ain't putting that out.
It's been a year. It's been a year now, so
you know whoever that is, that's love. You know what
I'm saying. Everybody who's been in my DMS hounding me
telling me they want to hear about the Kendrick Drake

(03:36):
and all these different topics.

Speaker 3 (03:37):
Everything I had to bring him out. I had to
bring him out be.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Back, y'all. Let him know that y'll not like us.
Big Time got us out here, man. So I was like, yeah,
we got and I tell you not for nothing, just
for the listeners, the like honorable listeners to this podcast.
I've been trying to work on getting this done just
for them to get done, period. But now I'm here
and I had to take over because you know, us

(04:01):
black women got the whole stuff down. Sometimes sometimes when
it makes sense. With that said, I ain't gonna lie,
I'm gonna let you lead the show. I'm gonna let
you do what you do. I mean, I'm here for
you at this point. All right, So recently this will
really this was this is what brought up to Like, yo,
y'all are missing all of these like relationship topics and

(04:23):
conversations out there. When Michael Eaty picked up Megan Good
recently spun her around in front of majors, right in
front of her, right in front and just like you know,
like the disrespect on some on it's a few things.

(04:43):
On one hand, it's disrespect, but is it really disrespect?
Like that's their friends, They've worked a lot of years
a lot of movies together.

Speaker 3 (04:52):
So then is it like brother sister?

Speaker 2 (04:55):
I don't know, but that to me personally, me being
a female, like first of all, my Michael ee, oh,
we're gonna talk about how my son was on tour
on the New Jack City tour with him, But you know, anyway,
that's neither him nor there.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
He could pick me up anytime.

Speaker 2 (05:08):
However, with all that Megan Good has been going through
with Majors and all his law bull crap, and then
like you know, you know, media is everywhere, and you
won't let another iconic actor as handsome and as.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
Like spin like it wasn't it was a glide spin.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
See, So if he picked you up, I feel like
it w'd be disrespectful just the way you're reacting off
of who he is, because I feel like you would
have wrapped some legs around she was.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
She was better than me. Now, I don't know what
what kind of spinning would have been would have been
if if I knew him, like you know, like how
she knows him, but.

Speaker 1 (05:51):
Yeah, a fan me, it would have been up.

Speaker 3 (05:56):
I'm not they they peeling me off of.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
Him, got you.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
But at the same time, I like to look at
things from different perspectives. So because like, to the heart
of me, I'm a I'm a tomboy, I'm just a
sexy ass tomboy.

Speaker 3 (06:09):
But technically Major.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
Should have buck another nigga.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
See yeah, yeah, yeah he cats up here.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
Another would have been like, nah, I ain't flying.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
But see, did you see the whole video or did
you see the edited one.

Speaker 2 (06:30):
I'm sure it was the editor because I didn't. I know,
like after it was like he did, they did dap
each other up, and that I didn't see.

Speaker 1 (06:36):
Actually when he walked up in the real video, he
walks up, he gave Majors a hug first, and he
said they said something to each other. They was on
some old positive black man affirmations.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
Type job a picchio bedchup and spend this viture and
I dare you just say something?

Speaker 1 (06:52):
And if that it was said, then he that pick
it works. Then he moved over to Meghan. Then they
did what they did, and then he dapped up the
rest of them niggas. That was they addressed like the
first slaves that was freed.

Speaker 3 (07:02):
Ever, now okay, so comma pause.

Speaker 2 (07:07):
Now, if they were if they had a friendship, because
I know a lot of celebrities hang out together, and
somebody if they was like, you know, they kick it
all the time as couples and groups and stuff like that. Fine,
but we very really like Michael eagerly don't be outside. Yeah,
like that a lot of like awards and like, trust me,

(07:27):
I kind of stalk him so especially you know, again
he was on tour with my son, so yeah, that's
another like brag.

Speaker 3 (07:34):
But knowing that you don't really see.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
Him outside outside that that was crazy.

Speaker 1 (07:40):
So this is my thing. So all right, so everybody
keep talking about to pick up in the spin. You
know what I'm more concerned about was the squeal, Like
if I it's so excited to see another motherfucker that
she makes us squealing noise, That's what I'm concerned.

Speaker 3 (08:00):
Me tell you what that squeal was.

Speaker 2 (08:01):
That squill was, Oh my god, I remember when he
did that to me, Like.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
That's what you did? You took it over Whether.

Speaker 2 (08:06):
No it was I can assure you, and y'all can
quote me. I can assure you that was either whether
it was a movie scene, so you have to go
back to the different movies that they've been in together
as a female straight female.

Speaker 1 (08:22):
That was that that wasn't me.

Speaker 3 (08:24):
I remember when he did that thing.

Speaker 1 (08:27):
Because she was hella excited to see this nigga. Like
she looked up and was like.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
Michael Eale knew what was was gonna happen, because that's
why if he did that majors up beforehand, that's why
he did like I'm about to disrespect you completely like
one now, but let me tap you up, get it out.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
It's like a coon, So it's okay.

Speaker 3 (08:48):
That squill.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
That squil was insane. That's that was my concern. Everybody
kept talking about the pick up and like niggas will
pick a girl lot. I'm tall. Females know the squeal
six three. I picked sure these up just because sometimes
that wasn't.

Speaker 2 (09:02):
That wasn't that wasn't a plan, squire, That wasn't like
you know that it came out of nowhere. Oh my god,
I remember that time when he did that to me,
and then that whole spin for her was slow motion.
And that's why that Let me let me tell you men,

(09:22):
let me tell you something. Our female brains as quick
and witty, and you know we be on we we
be holding, we be on point with everything. Our brain
mentally works in slow motion in a certain instances, and
when an instant like that happened, it was the pickup.
They all have to look at it now. I need
y'all to go back to the video. Just not even
a full thing, just the thing of the spin. Slow

(09:44):
it down and just imagine the spin white when it starts.
When he lifts on her feet, came off like it
was gra for her. It was gravitation, right. She don't
even know she's spinning. She just like, oh my god,
I just remember that thing, and that's what that squeal was.
And then when she touched the floor again is when
she snapped out of it and was like, oh ship,

(10:04):
I'm with this nigga, but you I don't really want
to be with because she ain't gonna be with him long.

Speaker 3 (10:10):
But you know you can quote me on that.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
To give the shoot making some bail and give her
some props, she held it down after she got back
down off the ground. When she got on the ground
and she was out of the euphoria stage and Niggas
was about to take the picture, she grabbed her man
and made sure that you just said the picture. I
think that's in the contract for them though. You just
said because I don't think their relationship is real.

Speaker 3 (10:33):
You just said.

Speaker 2 (10:34):
Right before the picture, when her feet touched the ground,
she remembered where the fuck she was at and was like, oh,
ship cameras, I'm with this nigga. I'm not with this
whole ship.

Speaker 1 (10:46):
But she pulled them over, and that nigga was struggling
to put them fucking glasses.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
And he looked so awkward.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
She ain't know what he looking left, he looking around
like he was mad as fuck.

Speaker 3 (10:57):
What would you do if you was with you with
your girl?

Speaker 2 (11:00):
You you now okay, okay, because like you said, I
don't think this relationship is going to last that long
because she was with to do a religious pastor for
ten years. Ten years even that was acting to me
because who she was before that, even though we didn't
really know too much about her, but she she wasn't.

Speaker 3 (11:23):
She didn't come from like a religious religious.

Speaker 2 (11:25):
I don't believe she didn't.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
She didn't come back around with.

Speaker 3 (11:30):
Right, but those be the secret ones.

Speaker 1 (11:32):
I know, that's the best ones, right, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (11:36):
I think now she's like, okay, I don't have people
in the church looking at me like she has a
whole different life now, she's like forty five want to love,
I love me some, Megan Good. I won't hold you.
I do.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
Really, She's been in my top five for like forever.
She's even when new Shorty's come along, like it really
don't move Megan around.

Speaker 2 (11:58):
Her natural beauty is she like, she's still on there exactly.

Speaker 1 (12:02):
But I give her props for holding her man down,
like even though all of that ship popped off and
then the disrespect the pie in the face happened when
she landed though, let me get this nigg in the picture.
Let me make sure and fulfilling the obligations of my contracts,
make sure this nigga is seen together and make this
nigga smile because.

Speaker 2 (12:20):
I don't make him look good. That's her purpose. That's
why she's there. She's got the Lori Harvey package.

Speaker 1 (12:26):
Lord Harvey Mad Niggas is hiring her.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
Yeah, I don't know. So they interesting on with your
female listeners are gonna like how they feel about it.

Speaker 1 (12:40):
Because like we'll find out. We're gonna tell them to comment,
and sh'll let us know now in life that I
think that whole situation was a life lesson in life
as a man, you're either gonna be Jonathan Major's or
you're gonna be Michael eally right, And it happens sometimes
like shit just switch. Sometimes it's you'll turn to be
Jonathan and you got to take that l right. Other

(13:02):
times it's your turn to be Michael and you got
to take that w You know what I'm saying, I've
been there, I've been in both spots.

Speaker 2 (13:10):
So you you you being the Major and.

Speaker 3 (13:16):
How would you handle that situation?

Speaker 1 (13:18):
Because for me, I'm never making a scene nowhere because
I don't like to be embarrassed. I don't like to
be embarrassing. That's literally one of my rules for dating.
Like when I start dating the shorty, seriously, we have
a conversation about embarrassment and I'll let you know real
quick wherever the fuck you take it to. If we
in public, I'm doubling that ship because you're not gonna

(13:41):
play me like I can't do that. But so I'm
the type like we could be beefing and nobody will
know it and by the time we get to the car,
it's up.

Speaker 2 (13:50):
It's up.

Speaker 1 (13:51):
Now we're talking about this ship, you know what I'm saying.
So that's how I would have did it, I would
have been probably just as awkward as that nigga was
trying to put my fucking glasses down and ship and
I would have took the pic. I would have went
to the event, did all of this ship and kissing
babies and smiling, and as soon as we got in
the car, you lost your motherfucking mind.

Speaker 3 (14:10):
And I'm me.

Speaker 1 (14:11):
Lost your fucking mind, bro, Like that's how it would
have been.

Speaker 2 (14:14):
Like. So no for me, And I can only tell
you'all from a female's perspective. If I was a guy,
if I was Major the Tyree, you know, because my
real name is Tyree the Tyree me as Major. Yeah,
oh it's we're going viral for a beatdown like we're fighting.

Speaker 3 (14:38):
Yeah, no, we that's because at the end of the day,
this is like a.

Speaker 2 (14:42):
Social media world where everything is gonna get chopped up
and like and I know when when they left out
to go out there already no cameras, media, everybody's gonna
be out there, so like anything that I'm already on,
I'm I'm right, I'm like, my head is on swift.
I'm making sure who like looking, who like everything? So

(15:05):
the the Tyree Jonathan Major, Yeah, No, we're fighting because
I got the I got to make it look because
I'm already being dragged in the meeting.

Speaker 1 (15:16):
You just Will Smith and this ship again. But see
about the Will.

Speaker 2 (15:19):
Smith because because right now I'm Jonathan Major with everything
that that he has going on and nail somebody. He can't,
but I would have to just to show like I'm
not that punk ass nigga that y'all think. God man,
and y'all got me dressing, yeah, they would have had it. Oh,
y'all could play me and drag me. But when it

(15:39):
come to my woman, I don't know. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (15:43):
It's just I don't know what I would do.

Speaker 1 (15:45):
So here's my question that you. There's my question for you.
So that's the male perspective. Now you the woman, this
your man, right come across a young lady. The young
lady sees young man and squeals like Meghan did your man?
It's like, oh ship.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
They he don't pick her up. He ain't picking up
anybody messing with me.

Speaker 1 (16:10):
No, you fist pump bitch, damn something about to say?
When the fuck is the fist going into the situation.

Speaker 2 (16:20):
Man, First of all, I ain't have a relationship in
a long time. But this is why I'm single because
a lot of ship I don't put up with. So
like if if if now that asks if now the
female me being being Meghan? No, no, being Okay, I'm you,

(16:41):
I mean I'm me.

Speaker 1 (16:42):
You you and your man runs into a Meghan and
she squeals. He picks her up, spins her around, puts
her back down, then tries to introduce.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
Y'all because none of that is happening. Because, for one,
if I'm dating somebody I know all of his exes
out on I know, I know why y'all broke up.

Speaker 3 (17:02):
I know, like I have to know these things in
a relationship.

Speaker 1 (17:05):
Got you.

Speaker 2 (17:06):
Then if we're out in public anywhere, then we're really
in a committed relationship because I'm not just going out.

Speaker 1 (17:13):
Don't be seen with me me I'm good? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I wish you are.

Speaker 2 (17:16):
I have standards, Okay. So that's another thing at the
end of the day. On top of that, if she
squeals because she sees him, yeah, with no physical content
or excitement first, and he made me squeal, then I
understand the squillation going on. But a guy that's going

(17:37):
to be with me is going to respect. I don't
care unless she's your mother, your sister, or your first cousin.

Speaker 1 (17:42):
Yeah, family, it ain't.

Speaker 3 (17:44):
No hugging, embrace for too long.

Speaker 2 (17:46):
It might be adapt it might be a pound like
because that's the only relationship. You said you should not
be dating me and having contact with your ex if
you see your axes like you ud not ship if
that depending on what the situation.

Speaker 1 (18:00):
People.

Speaker 2 (18:01):
Yeah, when you're an extra and X for a reason
and I can't see you just embracing or no, I
take that back or not even take it back. But
if you have kids together, that's a different situation scenario
no kids involved.

Speaker 1 (18:15):
Yeah, m.

Speaker 2 (18:18):
You're saying hello, Hi, how you doing? And if you
were in a long term relationship where you know, you
know the mother to fathering so and so, Okay, but
keep keep it pushing.

Speaker 1 (18:29):
That's it.

Speaker 2 (18:30):
We're not doing that.

Speaker 3 (18:31):
I'm real selfish again. This is why I am single.

Speaker 2 (18:34):
I am not wanting to be single for the listeners
out there with.

Speaker 1 (18:38):
Jobs rolling and ready to mingle with.

Speaker 2 (18:44):
Your job like you have to.

Speaker 3 (18:46):
Like, I'm just I'm at that age and I hate
that I say that now.

Speaker 2 (18:51):
I'm like, I'm not gonna if you yeah, like I'm
I'm at that, like I don't have kids, like our
kids are grown, like they're out of the way. Yeah,
I'm trying to me. I'm trying to try. I'm trying
to be outside, I'm trying to have fun, trying to
wow ship, but they can't have that.

Speaker 1 (19:08):
Okay, So similar scenario, but this time, right this time,
you're Megan. So you're with your man and the nigga
that makes you squeal surprises you, taps you on the shoulder.
You turn around, what do you do, Oh.

Speaker 2 (19:25):
I'm squealing? But my ex already knows that that nigga
made me squeal because I'm told my ex again, I
mean boyfriend, so with me in a relationship in order
for me to be like, oh yeah, that like if
I'm naming you like you're my man, you're You're not
like just somebody i'm dating.

Speaker 3 (19:44):
I'm just dealing with as they say.

Speaker 1 (19:45):
Like if you're my man, Like yeah, am man, he
matter of fact, he already knows what posed engaged.

Speaker 2 (19:53):
You already know who my ex is while I'm not
with him. Just to make sure that he don't suck
up and do the same bullshit we have people with
a blueprint as well. And at the same time, I'm
gonna be respectful.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
Okay, but you squealed, so the disrespect has already happened.

Speaker 2 (20:09):
But he already know that. So his job as my man,
who already knows the niggas that made me squeal and
will make me squealed if.

Speaker 3 (20:17):
I ever see them again.

Speaker 2 (20:18):
And that's regular people's celebrities, even a few females. Okay,
he already, don't He gonna his head's gonna have to
be on swivel because hes gonna have to see them
before me to get me out of the contact of
the x that made me squeal, because he knows when
I see them. And then now we got to go home,
and we're gonna have to try to read do the
squill again to make me like it's a whole bunch

(20:39):
of me. I'm a lot it is. So it's a
double standard. It is a double stack. Oh, I'm sorry.
I should have said that it is a double standard
and a lot of things, and that I say because
you know, if we're being real, this is why the
world is the way it is now. Yeah, And I
do have four human beings that I've raised and I'm

(20:59):
read properly so that they will not be drag out,
dead ass, dumb ass baby mamas, because none of my
kids are baby mamas. My daughter actually is pregnant and
has a baby and is a wife. Fact, my other
daughter doesn't want kids because she knows that this world
is crappy and she just doesn't want too crazy. And
my son is like, I've been raised with females and

(21:24):
I just want to perform and travel. Yo.

Speaker 1 (21:27):
Yes, son, let's shout out to your son, man, because
shout out too much, shout out to give their own.

Speaker 2 (21:33):
So my son is Antonio artists even though he says
artists because he is. But he's a Performing Arts college
graduate bf A degree. He's been on tour with Jacarius
for New Jack City. He had a few parts. He's

(21:55):
been acting and doing his thing. He's working on the
one man stage play. He's met Whoopee Goldberg and like
a lot of Broadway people. So I've been actually training.
So the way my training of kids goes is he
came out reading like I always read to him, always
had him in front of like movies, sing song kind

(22:15):
of things because I like singing and dancing and all
that shit.

Speaker 3 (22:18):
So he was bound to be a performer.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
So with him being a black male in today's world,
I don't have to worry about him impregnating or females,
i should say, or women. And I actually I'm proud
to pat myself on the back because he is not his.

Speaker 1 (22:40):
Father, that's real. But he like, I don't follow women's kids,
you know what I'm saying, like unless you like involved
with them. But like when I saw him do like that,
he was doing like a monologue by hisself, and I said,
oh damn, he killing this shit, right, So then I
checked that out. Then I went to his page and
I saw other stuff and I said, oh, he's.

Speaker 2 (23:01):
Fire, He's I got to hit the file.

Speaker 1 (23:04):
And I don't follow people like I'm the type of
nigga like I can watch your YouTube channel for five years, right,
and I've never been a subscriber, and then one day
I'll be like, you know what, damn, let me just go.
And this nigga been begging for five years followed it.
But I just follow him instantly because I'm like, I
just want to watch the growth, right because I got
based off of what he's already doing, Like the New
Jack City Ship was fire and that's what ship. So

(23:26):
I was, he'd be singing, my son, is he crazy everything?

Speaker 2 (23:30):
Right now?

Speaker 3 (23:31):
He is my daughter.

Speaker 2 (23:33):
My youngest just graduated high school, fashion high school, shout out.
She's about to go to college, my last of four kids.
All I have three college graduates. By the way, I'm
far from a baby mama. My ex husband knows that
I'm the truth because now he's been trying to get back,
trying to twenty years. Yeah, you're not spending spending the
block on me when I don't raise your kids. And

(23:54):
now you're coming back after they gun.

Speaker 1 (23:56):
Out the way you see those print outs about to
be coming. He wanted to be in there.

Speaker 2 (24:01):
Sorry, but yeah, no, I appreciate people like you know,
friends like you that have supported and and like you said,
like the growth because now when and I don't really
be on Facebook, but I like the memories when they're like,
oh he's you know, I remember when twenty sixteen, I'm like,
oh my god. So like he really stepped into his purpose.
And it was one of his teachers in junior high

(24:22):
school that came to me and was like, yo, yes, sir,
he's asked him to write something right quick, and he
was just so like vibrant with it. That got him
to doing a little audition kind of competition thing in
high school where they selected like, out of seven hundred
students in New York, New York State, New York City

(24:44):
high schools. He was chosen to perform in front of
Lynn Miranda, who is the creative. Hamilton got to perform
news everything. So he's outside, he's everywhere, he's making money,
and he's going to be the one that he's the
only man I need.

Speaker 3 (25:00):
He get a wife whoever he loves. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
But see I loved that though, because I talked to
all Right. So in life, I've dated a lot of
single women and single mothers, right, and I don't have
no kids myself, So I noticed that they would always
ask my opinion for stuff like if I was involved
enough to be close to the kids, and then I
would give them advice literally based off of what the
children are telling me. You know, sometimes the kids might

(25:25):
share something with another adult that they might not share
with the parents. You know what I'm saying. So the
kids is letting me know something, I'm like, oh shit,
I wonder if she noticed let me like assist, and
so I'll give a little thing. Like you said, he
came out reading and all of that, and then you
saw his talent, so you honed it and tacked into
it and honed it. But I'd be seeing a lot

(25:45):
of short he's not do that. The kid can draw
like he had. The little nigga drew on the fucking wall,
and you want to beat his ass, but look at
what he did. That's a mural. That shit is fire.

Speaker 2 (25:54):
Go buy him some crayons, Marketers.

Speaker 3 (25:58):
Let me tell you something right quick. I'm not going
to hold you.

Speaker 2 (26:01):
My youngest daughter, who just graduated in my second oldest.
They both went to Fashion High School in New York
City because early on, so I'll even go, I wouldn't
even say with my youngest, my second oldest, because my
oldest daughter, she's like my you know, like the test dummy.

(26:21):
Not that she's a dummy because she's swine and all
that stuff, but she's the first child, like the first pancake,
the first pancake that don't really you know, you're gonna
eat it, you're gonna love it because you like, but
it ain't what you want. I'm joking. I'm joking.

Speaker 3 (26:39):
I'm joking.

Speaker 2 (26:40):
No, but she knows. She's my roadie. She's the one
that has been through the trials and triculations, like she
helped me through a lot of ship. But my second
oldest I started wearing glasses and she would take like
the cloth from the you know, the thing to wipe
the glasses, and I'll know this holes and I'm like,

(27:01):
what the hell this whole it would be? It would
be holes.

Speaker 3 (27:03):
It'd be like four holes and.

Speaker 2 (27:05):
Like a like a strip cut off, but it would
just be laying around and I'm.

Speaker 3 (27:09):
Picking up scraps and what the fuck is this?

Speaker 2 (27:12):
Then I went one day this when I realized what
the hell was going on. She had like a like
a Duffel bag that would have like all her stuff
stuffing it or whatever. And I'm looking for a pillowcase
because you know they come in a set. And I'm like,
what the fuck? Because it was only only me at
the time, because I wasn't I was already done with
with with my husband and let other ship.

Speaker 3 (27:31):
But what the fuck is this?

Speaker 2 (27:33):
She done took a pillowcase and like cut up ship
and then I'm like, with the hell's on? And I'll
see the duffel bag has things that she made from
the damn pillowcase. Yes, okay, so I'm like, wait, what
the fuck? So then I'm like, now, now I had
the chance, I could have to ask because how the
hell you cutting up? But instead I said, oh, okay,

(27:56):
so we're going to get you a needle and thread, right,
So you know, I went to the cookie, that cookie
that Grandma's. Yeah, we all got one because we get
one every Christmas. Went in and I don't know how
to sofa ship, but I always keep Yeah, I had
this stuff, and I was like, this is how you
do this before YouTube? This before you could google shit

(28:17):
and be like how do you how do you do?

Speaker 3 (28:20):
I was doing it.

Speaker 2 (28:20):
So she graduated from fashion high school. She didn't want
to do fashion after that, but she I Basically my
point is I invested. When you invest in your kids,
you can't look at them and always think that what
they did was bad. It's a reason for why they
did whatever. That's what that was the reason. Sure these
that I noticed.

Speaker 1 (28:40):
Then go down and figure out, Okay, why is this
nigga drawing on the wall or why is he sitting
in the corner by hisself quiet? Like you know what
I'm saying with the little laptop of a little iPad
or getting a book or whatever like and when you
see what's going on, you gotta start digging, like dealing
with it right then.

Speaker 2 (28:58):
I did.

Speaker 1 (28:59):
One of my exes, her son was into like everything
anything that niggas said he wanted to do. She made
sure she let him do it, and like he would
quit shit all the time. So she had to fucking
look cross equipment, football equipment, hockey equipment, and it's money,
mad money, and it was all sitting in there and
she was like, anytime this nigga wanted to do something,
I would do it. And I gave her mad props

(29:21):
on that because she was like the first shorty that
I was dealing with that I saw did that with
their kids, you know. So that's that's why I just
wanted to give you props on some mom shit.

Speaker 3 (29:29):
I appreciate that.

Speaker 1 (29:30):
Kids making moves. I remember you had posted it one time.
I raised superstars.

Speaker 2 (29:34):
Oh you know that's my thing. I birth Stars. That's
my slogan. It's gonna be a T shirt one day,
but it's gonna for those who do birth stars, because
I'm for real, this is why we're dealing with these
gings and gen x'es and whatever the hell they'd out.

Speaker 3 (29:48):
I don't know COVID babies.

Speaker 2 (29:49):
I don't know what they're calling these days. But our generation,
which you figure like seventies, late seventies, mid seventies, we
have to do better with our if you have kids,
because not everyone has kids at this age, but if
you do, you have to start instealing.

Speaker 3 (30:08):
I started instealing my kids.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
Like, first of all, my family is large, so you know, yeah,
you know, like, and this is my mother's side and
my father's side, and it's just the fact that you
have to instill into kids take your time with them.
So many parents be like these thinkers just came out,
and I need my son to have them because they

(30:30):
know not because the kids wanted like my kids, right,
because you want it don't mean that they want, I
promise you or any kids who I all the kids
that know me, anyone who has kids who like really
walk with anything that they are into. Like I have

(30:51):
a kid now at my job that comes in her
mother does instacart. He like coloring on like the little
I don't like the little tablet things for kids for real,
but he comes in with some like coloring thing I
bought him coloring.

Speaker 3 (31:07):
Book and grayds. He wanted a fire truck. I got him.

Speaker 2 (31:11):
Because who knows he might be the next firefight. Like,
you gotta start getting like embracing what it is that
you see that they're doing, and you won't have all
of these niggas locked up for dumb shit or domestic
violence or having all these trauma. Kids have trauma. We
have trauma. We have been traumatized, and instead of doing better,

(31:32):
we've just been doing what we've been taught and that ricochets.
Now you're passing that down to your kids, and now
they're passing it down to this and we got to
stop that. We got to break that generational curse. I
tried to do that with my oldest because I was
a teen mother. She got a little further than me.
I had at fifteen, she had her first at seventeen,

(31:54):
but that was just like I said, she's the first babies,
first child. You know, they have these hiccups. But my
other kid, it's not a two there into like what
it is they're trying to do for themselves, right, And
you know, I have friends that don't have kids, females
that don't have kids, and they get a lot of heat,
and it's like, why don't you have kids?

Speaker 1 (32:13):
And it's like, yo, yeah, get out of their business.

Speaker 2 (32:15):
Why And I think it's really because.

Speaker 3 (32:18):
We were raised.

Speaker 2 (32:19):
Yeah, that's what you're supposed to.

Speaker 3 (32:21):
Pro create, you supposed to And I.

Speaker 1 (32:23):
Think that's on my only purpose on this planning, to
be honest. Everything else we just made up jobs and
ship like I don't think God was fucking with all
of that, but we're supposed to get together, clap them
cheeks and make some more.

Speaker 2 (32:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (32:37):
But then it's like, what happened after that?

Speaker 1 (32:39):
And so you got you got to do better with.

Speaker 3 (32:41):
Got people having kids with the wrong person.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
And see, And that was all part of the advice
I was giving. I'm like, your kids is here, Like
I was digging no person that had four kids and
she had this weird thing where she was treating all
of them the same, And I say, your kids is
a different individual. Yes, and you might do some overall
universal love and parents and type shit, but you have
to deal with these individual human beings separately. And that's

(33:08):
what I did when I was you know, when I
was with her, I'm like, oh, this boy is like this,
this boy is like that, this girl is like this,
and this girl is like that, and I had built
bonds with all of them separately, you know what I'm saying.
And at one point I felt like I was closer
to them than they was and they didn't even know.
And after we broke up, they was in contact with
me for a long time and then you know, after

(33:29):
some time faded.

Speaker 2 (33:30):
It was like, you know, but that's that's what it is.
It's like you have to and I'm not. I don't
say I'm not like a degree, especially so raising kids,
parenting and shit, but like lifely, I do this shit.

Speaker 3 (33:47):
I raised kids.

Speaker 2 (33:48):
I raised some good anybody. You can ask anybody who
I've been in their child's life. They're doing something. I
have a godson who just just joined the Coast Guard.
Like they're kids that I've been involved with because I'm
real big on investing in what it is they want
to do. We come from a world or upbringing where

(34:13):
we had to do what we was told. We don't
ask questions because you don't question an adult. And I
was just the one that's like, I'm so vibrant and
I need to.

Speaker 3 (34:25):
I have a need to know things. So it's like
I have.

Speaker 2 (34:32):
You know, I have kids in my life per se,
not my kids, but they'll call me when they can't
talk to their mother or their father. They'll call me
when they need something because they don't want to ask,
and depending on who they are, I will. But we
have to as parents, especially mothers, stop giving kids things
they don't earn.

Speaker 1 (34:53):
Oh my god, that's like I think that's the best issue.

Speaker 2 (34:56):
But wait time out to backtrack when you were saying
the individual because I come from a very huge family,
Like my grandmother had thirteen kids. Both of my grandmothers
had thirteen fourteen kids, and it's like a black thing,
I guess where it's like. You know, you come from
a big family. You know you're gonna have a crackhead,
you're gonna have a debbe, you're gonna have it. But

(35:17):
it don't have to be like that. Like my family
didn't have all of the things. We had a few things,
but not all of the things. And what I learned
what my grandmother and my grandfather's didn't do. I have
four kids, Yes, I raised them in the same household.
You could raise kids in the same household, the same
upbringing and everything, and you still have the differences of

(35:39):
a crackhead.

Speaker 3 (35:40):
Of a teacher.

Speaker 2 (35:43):
As well. And it's because from my point of view,
you have to get to know your kids individually, like
there's been times and I learned this early on when
my kids were small. So I have you figured my
daughter was five when I had my second, and then
I had the Jackie. They have the same birthday, my

(36:03):
second and my third child, and then seven years later
I had my last. They're in different generations kind of
sort of, and then they all like different things. Yes,
I raised them the structure, but my son likes to
write and sing, My daughter likes anime.

Speaker 3 (36:18):
My other daughter likes to like do outdoor.

Speaker 2 (36:20):
Rainey type shit. She likes to be honest. So you
have to individually have dates with your kids individuals because as.

Speaker 3 (36:28):
A family, yeah, we like going to the movies to see.

Speaker 2 (36:31):
The same thing. But then they also from their point
of view, they want their own mommy time with you,
so they want to do things with you that they
just want to do with just you. So but I
learned that because I come from a structure of a
very good family, Like I think one of my uncles
out of like I think I have on my mother's side,
like six uncles one has been in jail and that

(36:53):
was just some dumb shit, some shit that's legal now weed,
but you know, nothing but nothing.

Speaker 1 (37:05):
On hard body.

Speaker 2 (37:07):
Yeah, so it's just a maunt of how you raise
your kids, and like you know, to those who are
always coming down or questioning, like why don't you have
kids and why, like we got to stop that.

Speaker 1 (37:19):
I ain't gonna hold you. There was definitely a shift
right where like, look, you you dating. You're dating, whether
it's online, in person or whatever. And at one point
at my age, I was like, well, I'm just gonna
have to accept a woman and her children because everybody
got kids, right. And then I'm gonna say it was
about two and a half years ago. It was like

(37:40):
a movement and all the shorties that was out there,
the aunties, you know what I'm saying, that didn't have
no kids. They all joined the websites at the same
time because that's something it would literally be me clicking through,
swiping through, and it would be mad shorties with zero kids.
You know, well even mad kids, you know what I'm saying,
which is not a problem, but it would it's like

(38:00):
we already know the extras that come with that. You
always got to deal with the BDS, you gotta deal
with blended and so like, and then you got to
deal with the lack of appreciation. So I'm coming in,
I'm playing step daddy and all that. And then I
used to always feel like Surety would be like, these
my kids, you know what I'm saying. And it wasn't

(38:22):
even I didn't give a fuck about authority, because I'll
go tell on them, nigga. I'll be in there. I'm
gonna tell your mother. Can you keep on that. I'm
gonna go in there and tell your mother that was me,
and I ain't care a fuck Like I was cool
with that, So it wasn't the authority thing. But it's
like when you see me doing shit, like your kid
know how to draw, I know how to draw. So
I started showing them ship. Now this nigga's nice at drawing.

(38:42):
Your daughter was fucking up in math. I come through
two to her in math. She's getting aids Now. None
of that was appreciated until after the relationship ended, yep,
and then I'm like, so, what the fuck was I
even doing it?

Speaker 3 (38:53):
You don't know what you got to Liz Gun you feel.

Speaker 1 (38:55):
Me, and now you can't turtle a block because I'm
Aquarius and like it was me first, right, So that's
why I was so at one point, I said, you
know what, I'm good. I'm gonna fall back from the
shorties with the kids. But there was no women out
there without. And then all of a sudden, it was
a shift and all I see is women without. I'm
talking about from thirty two all the way up to

(39:17):
like fifty and I'm like, damn.

Speaker 2 (39:19):
What the fuck was y'all that like two years ago?

Speaker 1 (39:22):
But they out there now, everybody looking for something, And
I don't never question that shit. It's none of my
business one because you know that, you know, people might
have some reproductive issues, you know what I'm saying. Right,
Some people really was holding it down and was like, nigga,
I don't if life is this hard, I can't even
imagine with kids too.

Speaker 2 (39:41):
You can you can always know.

Speaker 3 (39:44):
To me, I don't know. Maybe it's just a female thing,
but I think it's kind of.

Speaker 2 (39:49):
Easy to know why a female when you meet them
without having that why don't you have kids? Yeah? Yeah,
conversate with her, get to know her a little bit,
and you'll you automatically, no, she might even come out and.

Speaker 3 (40:01):
Say nah, fuck kids, fucking kids.

Speaker 2 (40:04):
Or she might say like, oh I had you know
growing up when such and such a like she might
have traumas that may have happened.

Speaker 3 (40:11):
She may have like my son.

Speaker 2 (40:15):
I think this is why my son and my second
oldest too don't want no kids. They've seen my last
child come out. I think that, like I mean full throttle.

Speaker 1 (40:23):
They watched the watch the time.

Speaker 2 (40:27):
Watch.

Speaker 1 (40:27):
My ex for your daughter was like, oh hell nah.

Speaker 3 (40:30):
My daughter was like she she almost passed out.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
My son he literally stepped away, sat at the table,
put his head down. We thought he died, but he
went to sleep because he said he said his brain
in there because it was a family room. Like if
I wanted them to scare tactic some females, if you
don't want to see this ship again or go through

(40:54):
this last one? Yeah, my daughter tell you, oh no,
I never then why did that? And why did and
then then they came in and they had to push
on that was.

Speaker 3 (41:03):
An after birth baby that she don't want to go
do that.

Speaker 2 (41:07):
But like it's a lot going on. I'm glad. I'm
a man.

Speaker 1 (41:10):
I ain't gonna hold you every time I shp.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
Like today's world one day, y'all men gonna be having
babies now. But for real, though, if you talk to
a female long enough she will you won't know without
having to act unless some people just share.

Speaker 3 (41:25):
It, like now, because sometime they want to know you
got kids?

Speaker 2 (41:27):
How many?

Speaker 3 (41:28):
That's the first date ten Top ten questions? Yeah, kids, Okay?

Speaker 2 (41:33):
How old is because you're looking.

Speaker 1 (41:35):
For them to be after a certain age after like
if you said, what's your.

Speaker 2 (41:40):
Age as far as like a woman having kids, what's
the youngest cut off? Like the kid? If the kids three?

Speaker 1 (41:48):
Yeah, yeah, no, I don't want no babies, like baby
babies because so now on the flip side, I don't
have no kids. So if it's a baby baby, you
could really kind of step in and be that. However,
but the real dad is always in the background, in
the shadows, trying.

Speaker 3 (42:05):
To be in till he could pop up whenever the
unless he.

Speaker 1 (42:08):
Passed away, right, And I've seen too many stories with
his stepdad raised the kid from one to like grown,
then the kid accomplished some major ship and that nigga
like Kim and like I don't even want to go
through that, right, So, like if you got like younger younger, kids,
I ain't gonna hold you like that's like a because

(42:32):
you know my thing was, I'm selfish. You ain't gonna
have no time for me. Your priority is the babies
and father most of the time. I ain't gonna lie
to you. Niggas always assume.

Speaker 3 (42:43):
That man, Hello, this is Brooklyn time.

Speaker 2 (42:46):
And y see, if the child is three and under
and you're dealing with a female, if that nigga's not
dead on in jail, she's still fucking him, damn guaranteed, garantee.
And it's gonna be for different reasons. It might be
because she like he did some funk shit and they
just broke up and she was like, oh fucky, I'm

(43:07):
gonna show you and she left him and now you know,
goofy is hell right, and it's like, you know, I
still need to do it because this nigga, I know,
he ain't gona show up and do shit. So you're
zach or or she just knows.

Speaker 3 (43:23):
She always got access.

Speaker 1 (43:25):
Yeah to that because even when that move on, she
still want to see if she could get her cheese clapped.

Speaker 2 (43:30):
I won't hold you my daughter thirty about to be
thirty one, well basically my kids father I could still
hit that if I wanted to be married two kids in,
he'll cheat.

Speaker 3 (43:43):
He ain't got no choice.

Speaker 2 (43:44):
Because I always tell him, and I tell her as well,
Hey missus artist, probably too much information, but I'm always
gonna be I'm always gonna be wifey. Your name, you
have the last name, but my name still is his
last name because I did that on purpose out of Spike.

Speaker 1 (44:01):
Damn. I'm gonna wonder, like, after divorce, why Shorty's keep
the name.

Speaker 3 (44:05):
It's out of Spike. Ain't no real reason. I ain't
getting no money off this, and he ain't got no money.

Speaker 2 (44:10):
I even said, like, now, if I ever get married again,
which I probably won't, but if I was to get
married again, i'll drop it.

Speaker 1 (44:16):
Okay, Yeah, that's another thing. And you would take the
nigga whole name.

Speaker 2 (44:20):
I don't know if i'll take his name respect I'll
drop my ex husband's not you.

Speaker 1 (44:26):
I'm just seen like a lot at the workplace, all
these fucking hyphenated names, bro, And I get mad because
I'm a supervisor. I'm up here with I'm like, why
the fuck am I dealing with all these? And I
asked the shortage, I'm like, well, what name is this,
but that's my maiden name and this one is my
husband's name. And I'm like, well, why do you take
your husband the whole situation? They like well, and I'm like, man,

(44:47):
and why was the nigga good with that?

Speaker 2 (44:49):
So I don't know, so like me personally, with my
name being hyphenated, not even my name, my kid's name.
I made sure that except for my son, he just
has their fault my husband's last name because he's a junior.
He had a legacy thing, right, But that's why I
do it too, as a legacy, Like my last name
is going to follow me like and then I appreciate

(45:10):
it now even more because ancestry all that ship came
after my kids were born, so like they'll always be
able to find their last name. It's some sort of
history in that in our last name. Yeah, and then
they also had their father's last name. But like, so
I raised the birth these mom holders. They my my
last name is most important. Although my oldest just.

Speaker 1 (45:33):
Dropped Oh but she got married.

Speaker 2 (45:35):
I don't care.

Speaker 3 (45:37):
I respect it.

Speaker 1 (45:38):
I respect it.

Speaker 2 (45:40):
She's still could have had a long girl name, but
you know she dropped it.

Speaker 1 (45:43):
So yeah, about to be double standard time that.

Speaker 3 (45:49):
I'm truthful to keep it though I do, I'm not
gonna sugarcoat.

Speaker 1 (45:53):
The delusional ship like that and don't act like they
like that.

Speaker 2 (45:57):
Females will try the song and there like, we don't
do nothing wrong because he was a piece of ship.

Speaker 3 (46:04):
No, but you was the piece of ship.

Speaker 1 (46:07):
Yo. Every short he stands with the reality stone accountability.

Speaker 2 (46:11):
They don't want to we be doing something we be
doing and so what it is, what it is. Sorry, sorry, ladies,
I got the.

Speaker 1 (46:20):
Platform. This is a woman saying I just gotta let
it be know.

Speaker 2 (46:24):
But we half of the ship we do. We just
be on our bullshit and because we know we can
do ship.

Speaker 1 (46:29):
That we do and nothing's gonna happen to y'all for real,
for real, and if.

Speaker 2 (46:32):
It does, we have a way out of it.

Speaker 3 (46:35):
Females are the most sneakiest.

Speaker 2 (46:37):
This is why niggas can't. This is why niggas get caught,
because we are already we don't ulate wrong with you
and you like, yo, I'm going out with the boys,
and mind you, I already know who your boys are
and all of that good ship. Like, I'm not gonna
hold you my ex husband when we got married he
could no longer hang out and do too many things

(46:57):
with his non with his non married That makes sense
because y'all, just like me, I couldn't go to my mother,
certain people, I couldn't go to asks marylto or give
them my situations in the marriage.

Speaker 3 (47:09):
And bitch, you ain't ever been married before, no shit, true,
you can't.

Speaker 2 (47:13):
Tell me shit. So same thing like me, I can't
tell nobody how to have a successful relationship because bitch,
I'm single and I do dumb shit sometimes and I know,
like I'm like, I'm rated e because I'm not for
everyone and I know, but but me knowing, this is
why I choose to be.

Speaker 3 (47:29):
Single or.

Speaker 2 (47:32):
I kind of maneuver with who I'm with and who
I'm not with because I know how I am. But
females be like we we we could lie, and that's that's.

Speaker 1 (47:41):
All niggas can ask for. And that's on both sides.
I ain't gonna hold you, that's on both sides. Like
if you want to be on your bullshit at any age,
it don't matter, no judgment, just be single. You could
do what the fuck you want to do. You're not
obligated to nobody, right but to get committed. And we've
talked about this on this podcast before, me and the
Double G Like, but to be committed and then get

(48:03):
the cheating, especially like the ultimate commitment of marriage, You're
weird to me, bro, like, you just wasted everybody time.
You don't bull all these people out. You've got your family,
your friends, and God at this goddamn church or wherever
you at, you know what I mean. And then you're
gonna go through the fun ship after that.

Speaker 2 (48:19):
That's dumb. You're investing in your time and someone like
you you already know what comes with a relationship. Yeah,
So like if you want to be out running the
streets sleep with different just do that.

Speaker 1 (48:31):
Just be single and do that ship.

Speaker 2 (48:33):
I respect the man more if he like, Yo, this
is what I mean, This is what it is.

Speaker 3 (48:39):
This is how I am. This is I just watched
this movie.

Speaker 2 (48:43):
On to Be.

Speaker 3 (48:44):
I'm a too Be fan.

Speaker 2 (48:45):
Shout out to to Be.

Speaker 3 (48:47):
They need to sponsor this show. But that's another thing.

Speaker 2 (48:52):
The wife they was married, they was having like little
marital issues after like four or five years something like that,
and she gave him a marriage like a like a
marriage pass where he could be single for one they
can both be single for one day. They just couldn't
come back and say who and that didn't work out.
But it's a black joint all the two b ships.

(49:14):
I watched his black because but I say that, I
bring that up to say, like she gave him a
pass and he still didn't do that ship right? Why
he can't, Like, don't commit to something that you do.
Not want to go full throat. If you're with a
female and you know she got kids, you already know

(49:35):
you dealing with baby daddy, because first thing I want, like,
if I'm dealing with a man now, first of all,
I'm not dealing with a man that has a child
six and under.

Speaker 1 (49:45):
You don't want to breastfeed.

Speaker 3 (49:50):
Really more so, really really more so, because like I said.

Speaker 2 (49:55):
She already she could hit that at you. She already hit.

Speaker 1 (50:01):
It got you. That's facts.

Speaker 2 (50:03):
Okay, the longer they've been apart then and no longer
they've been raising this child together, she might be.

Speaker 3 (50:12):
Well it depends.

Speaker 2 (50:13):
So like if he's a good now it's like I'm
in trouble. I really have to leave him alone until
the child is eighteen. But then again, depending on who
she is, I will have to know what she did
or why the relationship didn't work, so that I can
then choose my battles. Do I want to stay? And
this is what it is we need as women. We

(50:35):
need to ask everything. Put it on the table. The
holds ball the first the first day. Try to let
a nigga know from the meeting how you doing. Listen,
I ain't gonna hold you what you will because instead
of niggas don't even be like, hey, can I get
your number?

Speaker 3 (50:54):
They got to be like, so where your man?

Speaker 2 (50:56):
Nigga?

Speaker 3 (50:58):
You already know what man?

Speaker 2 (51:00):
You already know I don't. It don't matter to you
at this moment if I have a man or not,
because if I say.

Speaker 3 (51:05):
Yeah, I got a.

Speaker 2 (51:05):
Man, I'm mad. None of the niggas I meet showed
me like you said, you ain't never meet them single
women that no kids, no life.

Speaker 3 (51:14):
I ain't never meet a nigga.

Speaker 2 (51:16):
It might be it might be in my environment, but
it's just in the design of a man. Like they
don't care because they y'all think, y'all, I'm not a nigga.
I don't care who you are.

Speaker 1 (51:26):
You ain't never taking short of your way though I
don't get off.

Speaker 2 (51:29):
Will not taking I'm listen, in order for me to
be with somebody with kids, if you're still on child support,
I should even say, which is like till twenty three?

Speaker 3 (51:39):
If the month ago, who is in college?

Speaker 2 (51:41):
Which I would want them to be in college because
I'm a college based, yeah type of parent. I can't.
I can't deal. But then if you don't have kids,
then it's like, why don't you have kids? My nigga? Guys,
it's a concern. I do get asked that a lot though,
because it's a reason why. Yeah, Now, it could be
because you just don't want none, or you came from
a very large family and you're selfish now because I

(52:04):
had the ship, so one.

Speaker 3 (52:06):
Like, okay, I get it, but there's a reason as
to why.

Speaker 1 (52:09):
What if the nigga just ultra safe and just be
holding it down clapping cheeks but safely.

Speaker 3 (52:14):
Right, But I'm still going to know that from the jump.

Speaker 2 (52:16):
I'm not not to mention I got a little like
lead because I'm I'm background checking niggas to these days.
Oh facts us my sisters. I told you, I told
you what my sisters do. So I'm like, yo, I'm
at this dude, what's up with them? Check the running

(52:40):
that ship down, going to that database like j'all are
using for social media and put his put his i
G name and then tell me come back to me.
But I actually have a good sense of judgment as well.

Speaker 1 (52:52):
So yeah, that's my thing I got. I feel like
I got good discernmented with people. At one point, I
didn't trust myself because every shorty I was meeting was
on bullshit. But then I just got I just switched
it up and I just took different approaches. So one
of the things on this podcast that we like that
is we try to bridge the.

Speaker 3 (53:11):
Gatherine Yes, the black Man.

Speaker 1 (53:14):
Right, because I honestly feel like with the way ship
is going, the wedge is getting deeper, the divide is
getting further and further apart, and we got people trying
to help. We had Kevin Samuels. Ye I hated that Nigga.
We got the Tonight's conversations people. You know what I'm
saying to my nigga, Trip Fontaine, that Nigga's a beast

(53:35):
like that Nigga hasn't missed yet, that Nigga hasn't put
a clip out that I didn't the light.

Speaker 2 (53:41):
I have not downloaded the app yet, but I did
be watching the little clips. But but I'm about I'm
almost to the point where I could afford that. But no,
them cute. What is a crew crew season?

Speaker 1 (53:55):
They need to My only thing with those the male podcast,
that's what they bring shorties on. They gotta get shorty's
like you up here. We was talking because I respect
your intelligence. You know what I'm saying. We don't want
to know why the fuck would I have somebody up
here goofy And I'm saying, shit, she not understanding what

(54:15):
I'm saying, and I'm making her look dumb. Oh you
mean like flip, Like how do we shots fire? Just
in case niggas don't know, we're talking about Queen's flip
from the Joe Button podcast.

Speaker 2 (54:30):
Tell them my said, And I ain't.

Speaker 1 (54:31):
Scared, but yeah, like I just don't understand the purpose
of that. So in the vein of trying to bridge
the gap, you know what I'm saying, how can we
help the people out here? And they dating careers right now,
like just really fine genuine connections and true love versus
whatever the fuck is going on out here right now

(54:53):
because the world is in peril. I've been saying it
for a minute.

Speaker 2 (54:56):
All right, So this is what I think could help
I don't know, it's not it might not be for everybody,
but this is what I think could help you, both single,
both single, I have kids. I've been through a lot
of relationship.

Speaker 1 (55:14):
That ship.

Speaker 2 (55:14):
I ain't even been with a lot of niggas because
I don't let niggas jump in my ship because my
ship is good and I don't need soul like take
like you. It's a lot when you have sex with
people and like they're snatching your soul like it's it's
a it's on a whole different that's a whole different podcast.
But no, it's true. So like today, like you know,

(55:35):
you have to have like so today is Sunday. I
don't know if I can say that, but today's Sunday.
I do self self care. You gotta you gotta know yourself,
because you can't tell nobody what you want if you
don't know what you want. A lot of females say
what they want, but they don't really believe that ship.
They just seen it because it sounds good, or they
just seen an instant story, or they just seen one

(55:56):
of the celebrities one of the reality to be specific,
one of the reality celebrities post some shit and they're like,
oh no, because I want that, and they don't be
tee to themselves. Like you have to know who you
are and what it is that you want for yourself. Yeah,
then when you can do a list, because I'm.

Speaker 1 (56:17):
A pen and pad, write it down, make.

Speaker 2 (56:20):
It, write it down, write everything that you want. And
then you have to write out like no, actually, I
take that back. You have to write like everything, Like
you have to know who you are, who am I?
Because I don't know if you ever see when they
be like, what would you tell the younger you, like
the seven year old you today?

Speaker 3 (56:38):
Like we we can't go back.

Speaker 2 (56:40):
So you have to know yourself and then you could
write a list of like the type of person that
you're looking for and what you want.

Speaker 3 (56:46):
Then you compare the two.

Speaker 2 (56:47):
Lists, because like I said, sometimes people be like, oh
I want this, this and it then it's like, but
does this lifestyle actually.

Speaker 1 (56:54):
Match with my ship? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (56:57):
So like you have to you have to know you
and then we can go from there. And then from
there we have to stop pro creating with these half
bass females and men. And I'm just like from a
female and male for an inspective. We have to stop
pro creating. Have now find now mind you so many women.

(57:19):
I can't even speak on the ones today because it's
not a lot of like twenty thirty year olds having
kids like we were having like you just fucking five
baby dadd is six possible like space space hand and
shit right, and and then that became a trend.

Speaker 3 (57:35):
Then it was like like, yeah, we gotta stop.

Speaker 2 (57:37):
We have to stop procreating with men or females and
not looking at the history.

Speaker 3 (57:44):
So like if you data do he already got three kids.

Speaker 2 (57:48):
Let's say, yeah, how many baby mamas?

Speaker 3 (57:51):
You got to do the breakdown?

Speaker 2 (57:52):
He got three kids? How many baby mamas? Okay, he
got two baby mamas? Okay?

Speaker 3 (57:58):
Then why did they break up?

Speaker 2 (57:59):
What was it? Relate ship? Like you got niggas out
here just like every household just everywhere, just like like
and it's not cool. So then you have kids who
are growing up angry or got these kids and they
he did this and that for them, didn't do the
ship for me.

Speaker 1 (58:18):
All the time.

Speaker 2 (58:19):
We have to get so knowing our age and how
you know, we can't go back. We have to start
helping the youth, whether they out, I'll take here. Everybody
I don't give, not take care of monetarily. But if
I'm on the bus and if I'm at work, no
matter if kids are acting up, I'm not checking that
might be on the subway in New York that might

(58:40):
get smack because she stepped.

Speaker 3 (58:41):
Into some business that wasn't us.

Speaker 2 (58:43):
But if you're doing some dumb ship trying to fix it,
I'm gonna say some shit.

Speaker 1 (58:47):
But shout out to those people though, because got me
to where I am. Me too. Thig of me and
my fucking friends was jumping the third rail in the
fucking subway and some dude was like, Hey, what the
fuck are you kids doing? Get for I'm down there,
And then of course we was like, man, fuck you.
When we got out of there. We got it from
what we wasn't playing on that third rail no more.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (59:07):
I come from a big family who I will be
out and about and by the time I get home,
everybody business because because this one that I didn't know,
knew my mother, knew my uncle that knew my mother,
like it was just some ship.

Speaker 1 (59:21):
That's what I think. That what's missing though, we don't
got the community.

Speaker 2 (59:24):
No more.

Speaker 1 (59:24):
We have fucking social media, but we don't got the community.

Speaker 2 (59:28):
Say something, see something, say something, and people are noting.
But you can't. Today.

Speaker 3 (59:32):
Look at the teachers that are getting rocked in the head.

Speaker 2 (59:34):
Of a cell phone because you disrespecting my class by
being on the phone for whatever reason.

Speaker 3 (59:40):
Right, and you say, now you're gonna fight me, beat
me up, smacking.

Speaker 2 (59:43):
That would be a teacher. I ain't gonna hold you them.

Speaker 1 (59:47):
For somebody else's kids.

Speaker 2 (59:48):
And my daughter teaches, and I've already been up to
let them know this. My daughter, we ain't doing. That's crazy.

Speaker 1 (59:56):
And teachers sucking the kids now they've been fucking kids.
They was none of my fucking finance teachers coming.

Speaker 2 (01:00:03):
No, no, we didn't have fine. Oh okay again, So
because I started my daughter by the time I had her,
I was sixteen by the time she got to like
first second grade. Yeah, I'm a little older, so I'm
her teachers are my fucking.

Speaker 1 (01:00:18):
Peers, gotcha? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:00:19):
Yeah, yeah. And I used to be like, I ain't
had this bitch usual just the wad in with me
at the c last night.

Speaker 3 (01:00:26):
Damn this bitch teaching my chip my kid.

Speaker 2 (01:00:28):
Yeah, it's a different. Yeah, we have different fart teachers
that are like dead and now the teachers are coming
in twenty three, twenty four.

Speaker 1 (01:00:39):
Yeah, junior high school. For me, that's when that new
wave of like sexy teachers happened, like they still have bodies.
They was. They was energetic because they was excited about
this shit exactly. And I'm sitting there, dick hardest fucking
science class like ooh, I will fuck this ship out.

Speaker 3 (01:00:54):
Let me drop the talk right.

Speaker 1 (01:00:56):
Quick and see the molesters then they were there. I
ain't sho wasn't reporting it.

Speaker 2 (01:01:05):
Look at the people our age who now And I
don't know about you, but for me, like when I'm
looking at sh on social media now that everything can
come out now, yeah, yeah, you got people that was
like being touched on like me, Like me personally, my mother.
I sat on my uncle's lap one like I don't
even remember touching his lap. I just know the motion

(01:01:28):
of me going to sit the way my mother picked
me up by my colleague across the room. And I
never understood because it was like an innocent thing until
maybe like three or four years later I heard her
talking about it again.

Speaker 3 (01:01:43):
Because by three or four, late four years.

Speaker 2 (01:01:45):
Later, I'm like ten eleven years old, I still don't
think I did nothing wrong. And then when I got
a parent, it's like.

Speaker 1 (01:01:51):
Yo, you don't know, trying to make sure it wasn't no.

Speaker 2 (01:01:54):
Ease it was or no no even even like crazy,
I don't even want to look and think or soon
so my kids too, and I'm and that was one
big thing with my ex husband, like I let him know,
like certain certain touchy things like you can't do and
I don't not to say that you're gonna do something,
but just because like I don't put nothing past. This

(01:02:16):
is why even when I work for housing and just
so people that live in housing or just like how
living works when you're like renting in places when you
have a boy and girls, they don't put the boys
and girls in the same room for a reason, yeah,
of course, and.

Speaker 3 (01:02:32):
That's just like that's by law, like you can't do that.

Speaker 2 (01:02:36):
So it's the same thing like I don't care if
it's your father uncle, because I don't care male, like don't.
My daughters will never sit on a man's lap as
a child, just because because you don't even know what
the child gonna do until they sit on your lap.
And what if the ship gets hard.

Speaker 1 (01:02:51):
Like like no, it's too crazy, though I ain't gonna
hold you as a man like many things like my mind,
none of that be on that type of time. What's
going on, Like let's say I'm fucking with my girl
and my dick was hard. Soon as some kids come
in the room and going to the balls, like we
out of here, nigga, Like you know what I'm saying,

(01:03:12):
like babies and ship, so niggas that like, of course,
if you turned on by the sight of a child,
that's just weird. Weirdest ain't nothing around that ship, Ain't
nothing you could do.

Speaker 3 (01:03:24):
It's really weird people out here.

Speaker 1 (01:03:26):
And that's that's the fact. But I think that's something
real talk like what you said with some excellent advice.
And I'm glad that you said it because that ship
that I've been saying and thinking for years, but because
you know, I'm man. Nobody trying to hear that ship,
you know what I'm saying, especially women, they like, nigga,
shut up, you don't know what the fuck. That ship
just came from a woman, the same thing, you know

(01:03:49):
what I'm saying. So I'm glad that it's see I
know I'm not going crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:03:52):
I know it's not it's it's it's it's we have
to especially when it comes to males too. Yeah, males, now,
they don't got to be a you know, so I remember,
you know, growing up, if a boy cried or he
fell or you know, they're told or y'all are told,
like you know, you don't cry, man, like nah, let

(01:04:14):
let these boys cry to some extent, not on some
every time they fall, every time, you know, but they
have they have emotion. Just like what kills me is
that people are like like white people black, you know,
they racist and all this ship we're all one, we're
the same same ship. I mean, like you know, you

(01:04:34):
have the male, you have the female, but emotional wise different.
We all need to express our feelings that we have
to feel the fields. Because if you cannot feel the fields,
how do you expect your man your husband.

Speaker 1 (01:04:48):
Later as an adult.

Speaker 2 (01:04:53):
And it's like yeah, because I was not to and
y'all don't want to be a punk nine Sometimes you
gotta and not for nothing. Females really appreciate when a
niggas shed a tear now, not on some bullshit, like
don't be watching some bridgeton and something. You are crying,

(01:05:14):
that's a little bit excessive. However, if you see some
ship like and it really touched you, and you like,
you may not cry hysterical, but you if you choke
up a little bit, that is human. And we have
to stop telling these boys that would be like, you
can't cry, don't cry crying it's for punks, for sissy's

(01:05:35):
and all this other ship.

Speaker 1 (01:05:36):
You got to appreciate that. Dude. I know you've seen
him before. It's a I can't I wish I knew
his name, but he's this black guy. He runs like
a dojo and he'd be teaching like little black boys
like martial arts and ship and they be talking crying
and they be trying to suck it up. He's like, don't, don't,
don't stop. Go ahead, cry, you get it out, he said,
but let's wipe it after you finished. Let's wipe the tears,

(01:05:57):
and we're gonna get right back to it this board.
And then they do it and they be like yeah,
and I'm like, yo, I don't know who this man is,
but he's doing God's work right because he's making a
generation of men right there.

Speaker 2 (01:06:10):
You know what I'm saying just not to cut you off,
just like to do probably should have better, have been
better with notes and names and right, But it don't
even matter because this is should just be the quality
of teaching.

Speaker 1 (01:06:25):
The teacher that everybody should be doing this.

Speaker 2 (01:06:27):
The black teacher, I don't know what state or anything.
Let me tell you, I'll be scrolling on my damn
phone in the middle of the night. I don't be
looking ship up where they're at and whatever's going on.
But he's been teaching his students how to date. It'd
be small ship like that that you. Let me tell
y'all something y'all have to also instill in your kids.

(01:06:51):
Even the worst bully is bully for a reason. Yeah, man,
they might be it's a crow for help they at
home going through shit. Look at the look at the
people who like used to like pickle on the small
moments because at home they all so they have to.

Speaker 1 (01:07:08):
Come and they take it out on other people.

Speaker 2 (01:07:10):
Right, So you have to look at it like that
when y'all are raising y'all sons and daughters, y'all kings
and queens like our future. Yeah, because if we don't
get down to the bottom of it, now of having
them fill them like now, like you know, once upon
a time we was all getting bullied, but we wasn't
committing suicide.

Speaker 1 (01:07:29):
Nah at all. And that's what So that's what I'm saying,
because the lack of them going through the feeling, I
don't know what to do. So everybody's tapped in now,
which I like the fact that everybody's on their mental
health shit. But you teach everybody the mental health buzz
words and the ways to like get out of shit,
but they're not even they not really going through it right,
it's fake. So like now the kid that don't want

(01:07:50):
to do gym, they say, oh, when I put these
shorts on, I have anxiety, and then the doctor writes
on a note and they get to sit to the
side and they don't got to participate in gym. But
back in they used to put them shorts on for
gym class. Somebody flamed you up, nigga, you roasted they
ass right back. That was it, nigga. Now we're good.
Even if you got into the fight, we will beat
the nigga up or getting it up. Then the next

(01:08:12):
day everybody is fine. You know what I'm saying, Cause
you had to get it out your system. Niggas ain't
even going through that no more. And now they get
to the point where they sitting at the crib by
themself in front of a fucking webcam with pills and
shit killing themself in front of on a live with
mad people watching, Like, Nigga, that's insane to me, Like
what kind of fucking soft, weird ass people are we

(01:08:33):
creating now?

Speaker 3 (01:08:33):
Bro?

Speaker 1 (01:08:34):
And we want them to be the future.

Speaker 2 (01:08:37):
And we in a whole different world, like even what
we're eating, like it's our brain, like it's a whole.

Speaker 1 (01:08:42):
It's it's different, yo, life, life is different. We're trying
to make the motherfuckers come together and date.

Speaker 2 (01:08:50):
How you got to destructive people trying to approchate and
make a fucking volcano? Like what the are y'all doing?
Like y'all, y'all should not be having kids with people
you don't know as well, like you have to know.

Speaker 3 (01:09:03):
The background, family or not, and not for nothing, I'm
not gonna hold you.

Speaker 2 (01:09:06):
This is something that I thought about recently because when
my daughter had her first she.

Speaker 3 (01:09:10):
Was young, I almost killed us.

Speaker 2 (01:09:12):
But this one, this time around, I'm thinking, like, gene Wise,
you gotta know his history and his genes.

Speaker 3 (01:09:19):
Like are they different disabilities?

Speaker 2 (01:09:21):
That are they're just born like they just different stuff.
Now that's you that gonna have to raise a child
and deal with all this stuff. So you have to know,
I want to do I want to deal with this.

Speaker 1 (01:09:33):
Do not just shooting clubs up and keep it.

Speaker 2 (01:09:35):
If you look at a family that have multiple family
members with the same conditions.

Speaker 1 (01:09:42):
With that, then you got to you gotta kind of
make it like you got to do your due diligence.

Speaker 2 (01:09:48):
So we have to so to answer the initial question
we have like bridging the gap for me community and learning.
In order before you can get to the community park,
you have to know who you are and what it
is that you want, so that when you're speaking to
others to kind of let them come on, come hang,
come join with me with the good train of like

(01:10:09):
raising these kids properly, making sure they're polite. Like my son, Yeah,
he used to. It was so cute because he's already cute.
But he would get up three four years old on
the bus to give his seat to a woman and
they were only good. Now, that was his game as
a little kid, pull a game like that. But that

(01:10:32):
was instilling in him at three. Yeah, the offer. You know,
I know she ain't gonna let you stay because you're
a child, But it's the respect, it's the offer, it's
the you know, good morning smiles. It's so many things
that we have to start doing at home because things
are not being done at home, and then they go

(01:10:53):
out in the world and then when they get in
trouble in some ship. Let me tell you. My mother
was a court officer and we would sit in these
courtrooms and some of the white officers will be in
there when the when the child, she would do like
sometimes night court for the juvenile so that they don't
stay on in jail over the weekend.

Speaker 3 (01:11:14):
By the time they parent.

Speaker 2 (01:11:15):
Now these white officer, these white people like drag the
kid like he's probably come and then I look at
the address and he's in the bronx and he's increasing.
And then when you see their parent come in. She certified,
like soup all this ship. She got a good job.
But that's why he fucking up because she at work
because she has to. She got kids to raise, and

(01:11:37):
so that you can't really judge a while, because a
lot of kids that are sucking up have amazing parents
that are being amazing because they have to work and
do what they have to do to keep a roof
and food on the table. But then you have the
kids who are lost. So like, we have to do better.
We have to if the proper way black women is

(01:12:01):
actually the right way of long ago. Have a meet
a man, have a relationship, get to know them. Court
nobody courts anymore. You don't go to the parent you
don't know that is over with, get married, and then
you have a baby.

Speaker 1 (01:12:15):
Right because you kind of locked in Mary. I know,
marriage doesn't guarantee that you stick together, but it definitely
heightens the chances for sure. Yes, yeah, I both invested
in one another. And then you invest in the new
life you.

Speaker 2 (01:12:28):
Create, because when you become parents, you are two different
people all over again. Every chapter of your life you're
someone else. You start to become someone else. Like I
knew nothing about college until my kids went to college.

Speaker 1 (01:12:43):
That's real, that's real, all of the shit.

Speaker 2 (01:12:45):
So now this fourth time around.

Speaker 1 (01:12:46):
Oh I'm a pro, you already know what it is.

Speaker 3 (01:12:48):
I'm gonna hit me up of college advice.

Speaker 2 (01:12:50):
I got all the schemes, all the scholarships, everything I
found a left handed scholarship because my daughters are left handed.
Because it be on some dominat on town. You have
that ship, ye do your research, but yeah, we have
to we have to start with knowing yourself and then
you can be better.

Speaker 3 (01:13:09):
Like the phrase I always say, I forgot who told me.

Speaker 2 (01:13:13):
I think it was one of my good sisters les mastering.
What is mastering your piece? To become a masterpiece?

Speaker 1 (01:13:25):
Oh ship? Oh yeah, that's one of those women affirmations
for sure. Y'all was like, yeah, I'm mastering. That makes
mad sense though, to become a master, to.

Speaker 2 (01:13:37):
Become a master, because you have to work on the
inner What do they say when you when you're on
the plane and ship about to go down, you take
your youth first because you're not good to nobody else
until you're good for yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:13:48):
And no cat. That's that's my advice, and I had
to take it myself to me too. So my thing
was I'm watching people get together. They already both struggling,
So now y'all about to come together and struggle. That's
nobody's fault, right, But my thing is, why would we
struggle together? You know what I'm saying? So in me

(01:14:11):
while like, for me, an example, being single, I said,
let me level myself up. If I ain't meet the
shorty I'm supposed to be with, yet, let me do
the work that I need to do to be the
best version of me that I could be right so
that when I do come across the one, I'm ready.
You know what I'm saying, I'm ready to roll. And
then when we come together, we're gonna vet, we're gonna court,

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We're gonna do all this shit the right way.

Speaker 2 (01:14:35):
And at first I had this big circle.

Speaker 1 (01:14:37):
Drawing around all of the black people. I was like,
I'm saving us, Martin Luther King, I am Malcolm, but
I'm gonna save these niggas. They need my help. Whole time,
I didn't realize you can't do it. You can't do
it by yourself, bro. So I'm like, so I shrunk it.
And this is the advice I got from my ex actually,
because she used to watch me, like watch the videos
and see the fucking fifty to fifty conversations and watch

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all the fun shit. Short He's just doing all the
fun shit niggas is doing, and I would get mad, right,
not mad to the point like it was affecting anything.
But it just would annoy me to see how far
apart we've grown, you know what I'm saying, And he's
to pissed me off, and I'm like, damn, how the
fuck do we fix this ship? Why don't these dummies
see that? They saying the same thing from different places,

(01:15:22):
but they want the same shit like y'all all overall
want the same thing. Why don't we hear it? Why
don't we see it? And I realized that you can't
save everybody. Yoh, that's not your job, niggas. Ain't nobody
superman for real. So all you could do is do
the right thing, save yourself, like you said, So you
focus on yourself, You level up, you meet the person,
y'all do the right thing. Y'all have y'all nice little

(01:15:44):
nuclear family, You got your kids and ship. Now guess what,
y'all an example your inspiration? Right, People looking at y'all
like them, Yeah, and that's and that's the way. So
then somebody emulates y'all, and then somebody emulates he is building.
But we just need that, so we need that.

Speaker 2 (01:16:05):
This is another thing too, thank God. Like my grandmother,
she was My grandmother was the My grandmother was the truth.
She's still here. We five generations right now. She's my
grandmother was a she a og. My grandmother married about
two three times thirteen kids raised or like she.

Speaker 3 (01:16:25):
My grandmother is the goat.

Speaker 2 (01:16:28):
However, I had the opportunity to see her not being
with my grandfathers, but them still being there to where
I didn't even realize what was going on because they
always was there taking care of family all the time.
If you consider if I should be able to walk

(01:16:48):
away from a relationship, I should be at first of all,
I got to be complete and content with myself. Yeah,
without a man enhancing per se.

Speaker 3 (01:17:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:17:00):
Facts.

Speaker 2 (01:17:01):
So it's like I should be able to walk away
from the relationship. However it doesn't work out. It's just
like we just don't mention whatever the case is and
still be okay.

Speaker 3 (01:17:11):
Yeah, facts, and won't have to worry worry.

Speaker 2 (01:17:13):
About That's why people get pre nups and all that.

Speaker 1 (01:17:16):
Yo, I ain't gonna hold you marriage for a man.
It is a terrible investment.

Speaker 2 (01:17:20):
For a women, it sucks too.

Speaker 1 (01:17:22):
But I'll get the half.

Speaker 2 (01:17:25):
Oh we're coming off, get the half looking you need
to do have a baby, have a baby.

Speaker 1 (01:17:30):
That's all, you're gonna get to keep the house, most
of the assets, and you get half, and that nigga
gotta keep paying until you get married again again. You
think a nigga like you think. I see somebody go
through that, and I'm like, oh, yeah, that's what I wanted.
That's so bad, dad.

Speaker 2 (01:17:46):
This is why a lot of marriages don't work out,
and this is why we have a continuation of I'm
blessed to see my aunt and my uncle who have
been married for a long time.

Speaker 3 (01:17:57):
My step grandparents, my granda past.

Speaker 2 (01:18:00):
My step grandfather passed away like two years ago, but
they were together fifty nine years and I was raised
up and you know, yeah, my old fashioned ways of
doing things. But now my aunt and my uncle been
married for a long time, and like separately, they will
be good without each other, but they make each other better.

(01:18:22):
But it's not like, oh, I can't do this because
he had Like my aunt could do everything my uncle
could do. And it's because whatever she didn't know, he
taught her and vice versa, and that's how and.

Speaker 1 (01:18:31):
That's the gin and yang. That's what the fuck. That's
what God wanted the whole time.

Speaker 3 (01:18:35):
If we we just the entire time exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:18:38):
That's what he wants.

Speaker 3 (01:18:39):
We don't have the concept.

Speaker 2 (01:18:40):
I just I think right now everyone should stop having
babies until kids don't get pregnant till twenty twenty six,
so that we can kind of have a gap and
get things back on track.

Speaker 3 (01:18:54):
To gavigate things back on track, you.

Speaker 2 (01:18:56):
Know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:18:59):
Try to let me tell y'all sing song.

Speaker 2 (01:19:01):
Everything, that's funny, everything. But now that I think that's
that's the key right now, because right now we all
hear one of the most.

Speaker 1 (01:19:09):
It is it is, And I just be like, you remember
fucking Daria the cartoon She used to watch the show
on there called six Sad World, And I'm like, Nigga,
that's us. Now we are fucking six Sad World. It
is crazy. I'm gonna ask you this one more thing,
all right? So I saw this video. Sure he was
talking to her granddad. Oh, him and Nick grandma have

(01:19:31):
been married for sixty five years. And she was like, Grandpa,
what was the secret to your marriage last than sixty
five years? And he said so he was talking to men.
He was like, men, treat your wife like a queen
during the day and a porn star at night. So
the bus out laughing. They turned the camera to Grandma

(01:19:53):
and Grandma was looking like she again't lying. So as
a woman, what are your thoughts on that?

Speaker 3 (01:20:02):
So yeah, it's not like so me personally.

Speaker 2 (01:20:06):
So it's like when you when you okay, I have
to only go off of when I was in a
happy relationship. Yeah, didn't want ask loan, but I was
happy at some point. You have to, like you gotta,
you gotta keep in a relationship. For me, you have
to keep it consistently new every time, every day, every week,

(01:20:32):
like something still, don't let it get stale. And there's
so many ways that you can do it. However, at
the same time, like me, sometimes I like to be
the freak out, Like I like my man to know
like this she with me.

Speaker 3 (01:20:45):
Yeah, yeah that's me like I want him.

Speaker 2 (01:20:49):
I want it to be known. But then sometimes depending
on the environment, we're going to like a children's like
you know, something involved in the kids, and but you
want to be like you know, servative and servative and
just like you know, but certain things will let you know.
And we need to hurry up, and time to go
put these kids asleep or leave them at auntie brother house.

(01:21:11):
Somebody and we about to get it.

Speaker 1 (01:21:14):
In in situations where you had your kids, did that
lessen the passion in the relationship because of the.

Speaker 3 (01:21:21):
Children having them or being around, know what you mean?

Speaker 1 (01:21:25):
Yeah, like you got your man and your kids too,
or you with the children's father at the time, did
you did like your sex life diminish because of the
presence of the kids?

Speaker 2 (01:21:35):
They don knows. Goddamn so.

Speaker 3 (01:21:38):
Shit, my son, let me tell you how good shit
was my daughter.

Speaker 2 (01:21:44):
I got pregnant. Okay, first of all, this is why
I was going to tell you earlier a while. I
don't drink tequila. Tequila make me pregnant a fucking day
nineteen ninety eight, Valentine's Day, taking shots with my homegirl.

Speaker 3 (01:21:58):
Woke up at my excess house pregnant, Like just knew.
I just woke up. I think I'm born it because
I just knew something wasn't.

Speaker 2 (01:22:06):
Right, you know, trying to be grown. Following Valentines, done
had the baby or that following Valentines. You don't think
I did the same ship and got pregnant again. My
son is born on my daughter's birthday, the same exact day,

(01:22:27):
and that's that's my ex husband's birthday. So this is
how God work in my life. God don't fuck with me.
God don't play about me. God was like, oh, no,
you want to be an asshole and not be just
in case you try to slip and not do ship
for your kids. I'm a mind you got too that
I'm born on the same day, a boy and a girl.
So as they get older, yeah you can kind of.

(01:22:50):
But yeah, this is relationship. Relationships is just so hard,
and you have to pick your battles and your struggles.
And right now I'm in the point where I'm like,
I'm trying to do me right now. I just raise
kids for them thirty years.

Speaker 1 (01:23:05):
Yeah to you understandable with that. But I think the
other people you'll meet, like a twenty seven year old
who hasn't been through shit and they still live with
their parents right now, and they act like the same thing.
And I'm sitting there like, wait, you ain't even been
through nothing in the field that way, And so everybody
is all about their self, which is not bad, right,
but you have to also, like you said, you gotta

(01:23:27):
be putting in the work.

Speaker 3 (01:23:28):
Relationships is hello work. You can't be selfish and you.

Speaker 1 (01:23:30):
Can't be selfish in the relationship. That's the key. And
I think everybody right now, a lot of the women
out here waiting for some millionaire nigga to come save
them work. And I'm thinking, like, what the fuck is
so special to you that some millionaire niggas gonna do that?
And then on the flip side, you got niggas out
there that's like, I ain't shit like nigga. Ain't nobody

(01:23:51):
like you ain't accomplished nothing, You ain't do nothing for yourself,
You ain't even like good in your hood, but you
want some woman to come through and be this submissive
little wife. And I'm like, bro, you ain't even that.

Speaker 3 (01:24:02):
You ain't even got nothing offer so for me.

Speaker 1 (01:24:05):
So now we got these two and I real talk.
I ain't gonna hold I said this a few pods back.
I think that little generational participation trophy, like you're not
a winner, you know what I'm saying. You was a loser,
but they gave you a trophy anyway for just getting there.
I think that fucked the kids up, yo, or this generation,

(01:24:27):
this last couple of generations up because they think just
because they exist, they.

Speaker 2 (01:24:32):
Entitled, so I should get an award nigga.

Speaker 1 (01:24:36):
When I was little and my team lost, we get
no nigga. We was out there running fucking suicides, did
we Why did you fumble like that? Why did you
turn it over? Why did you miss the shot? You
know what I'm saying. And then when we won, we
got celebrated and it made you. I think that makes
you a different type of person. And these niggas now, man,
fuck we lost in the saucepan so yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:25:00):
But then females with this hot girl summer, they don't
know if they still want hot girl somemer But it's
a lot of it's a lot of women my age,
forty plush that are trying to keep up with these
twenty thirty something year rosies or even their child. I know,

(01:25:23):
I know females my age. I have kids like that
are around the same age as my kids are, like
in they to on mid twenties, who are competing with
your with their kids.

Speaker 3 (01:25:33):
How are you competing with your child?

Speaker 2 (01:25:34):
That's insane. Yeah, that's ridiculous.

Speaker 1 (01:25:37):
I hear about that too. There's a lot of conversation
now about the jealousy that mothers feel toward daughters and
how they raise them, and shit like, and there's a
lot of people with strained relationships. Ain't gonna hold you.
That's one of my talking points on the first day.
I want to know what the fuck you got, Like,
what's good with you and your parents? Because I ain't
gonna lie to you. The shorty that don't know their

(01:25:57):
dad or resents they dad, they usually resent men period,
and I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:26:03):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:26:03):
I'm good And then surely that resents her mom. Oh yeah,
you tapped out. I don't even know what you're about
to be on.

Speaker 3 (01:26:09):
Wait, I was gonna say with that if you.

Speaker 2 (01:26:13):
Even notice, Like this is another thing that I do
when I date and I do my research, or even
if I'm not even date, because I don't really ship.

Speaker 3 (01:26:20):
I work too damn much to be.

Speaker 2 (01:26:23):
By the time I find somewhere to go, and I'm like,
I ain't I gotta find somebody to go out with
me or take me out on my I go by myself.
But I don't forgot the whole point. You said something,
and I was about to say something something some real ship.
I forgot it just it just blew over my head.
I'm sober. I'm never sober, that's what. But that's no

(01:26:48):
what did you say something.

Speaker 1 (01:26:49):
You said, I was talking about the daughters having resentment
for the mom. Mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (01:26:58):
So if you females, if you think about it, men
have a pattern like women, we might have like a
structural pattern of like career wise, like oh you know,
I only like like all of the boyfriends were doctors
or they had a specific type of job or whatever.
Men have this thing where they have a type. So like,

(01:27:22):
if I meet a dude and I don't know, I'm good, like,
I'm my body everything right, But I need to see
what your ex look like, or at least your baby
mama to see it she looks because not gonna hold you.
I have a family member. I ain't gonna say who
because they I'm sure they're gonna listen to this shit.

(01:27:45):
Her son's father, they ain't been together like twelve years. Yeah,
his last two baby mamas, all three of them could
be triplets.

Speaker 1 (01:27:56):
Oh yeah, yeah, I got I got a couple of men.
That's how exact.

Speaker 2 (01:28:00):
I would feel some kind of way, like, so what
is it about me? You like, yeah, because I stand
out regardless something like I don't want to I don't
want to be a look, I don't want I don't
want to remind you of her. I don't want like
none of that ship. I don't buy me no perfume
that you don't bought her that ship.

Speaker 1 (01:28:17):
I want none of that.

Speaker 3 (01:28:18):
No, no, don't. I did that one time. No, I
ain't gonna hold you.

Speaker 2 (01:28:21):
I did buy a come on for like that, you
guys only because when nigga, when you with me, I need.

Speaker 3 (01:28:26):
To smell that ship.

Speaker 2 (01:28:27):
That's funny. That was because it reminded me able to
know the nigga that I couldn't get. But you know
that's neither here nor that we won't see. This is
what I'm saying, females, So we did. We we plot
everything out. That was the other thing I was going
to tell you too, learn when a female sees a man.
I don't care how many times or how many women,
because I heard I've heard women try to deny it.

(01:28:48):
First fifteen twenty seconds of seeing you, we know we
about to fuck.

Speaker 3 (01:28:51):
You or we're not gonna's we're gonna let you fuck up.

Speaker 2 (01:28:54):
We know that from the and this could be the
man at the supermarket. Oh, I'm just it's just what
I wonder, what I like. This is how our brain operate.

Speaker 1 (01:29:04):
We went on my number one pieces of advice for
young men and gentlemen that asked me. They be like, oh,
you seem like i'm first of all, I'm not no
ladies man. All I do is talk to women like
they're fucking with like human beings. You know what I'm saying,
Take them off the fucking goddess pedestal and just talk
to them normal. But the number one piece of advice
I give is the woman makes all the decisions when

(01:29:26):
secially when it comes to sex and ship. They locked in.
They gonna know what you're gonna do. All you gotta
do is shut the fuck up and let it work out.

Speaker 2 (01:29:35):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:29:36):
Mad niggas don't talk theyselves right out of some Kucie
Yes had made the decision her. Kuchie was like, this
is a dick we about.

Speaker 3 (01:29:43):
To sit when she gave you her number, this is.

Speaker 1 (01:29:47):
The dick I'm going to sit on today. And that
nigga said some stupid ship like yeah, you know, voting
for Trump, and then that ship dried right up. Nigga,
delete that ship out out your phone, and I'm good.
You know what I'm saying, Like all random ship like that,
So just shut the fuck up. Listen, learn about what
you told them, and see if you could build from there.

Speaker 2 (01:30:07):
You know what I'm saying, a lot of times, y'all
do that. Y'all like we, like I said, we already young,
hold like what we're gonna do what we already know.

Speaker 3 (01:30:16):
And it'll be just it'll be something small and minor.

Speaker 2 (01:30:19):
Yeah, it'll be a comment, or it might be a
choice of music like Dude like.

Speaker 1 (01:30:28):
Hauling Oats.

Speaker 2 (01:30:29):
Most females think long term when they meet somebody. It's
not like, oh, you know, I'm just stating little bit
because this is this is why females will start seeing
someone and then possibly dating, but then saying, oh no,
we're open. You know, he can see it as soon
as he get into somebody that's not you a little
bit more than or why you took her in? I
said her, you took me here. We already got to

(01:30:52):
ask when the mutual feeling was like just right, but
I wish it would just keep it real though. That
ship right, So this is this is where everything goes.
This way was like we had an agreement and we
just you know, we see each other here and gain
we hit it, hit it. But then when I when

(01:31:13):
when when men become unavailable, no matter what the agreement
and shit is, we get in our feelings. It's just
our it's in our blood. It's not our design. We
just that's just the dumb ship we do.

Speaker 1 (01:31:26):
That's real we do.

Speaker 3 (01:31:28):
And I'm listening. I'm guilty of it again.

Speaker 2 (01:31:31):
This is.

Speaker 1 (01:31:33):
Already eight eight am. I know his alarm with me.

Speaker 2 (01:31:36):
Tell you I get I get mad if if I'm
with somebody or if I'm just like dealing with it,
even some of my godfriends. It's my birthday, it's a holiday,
Mother's day some sort. If I don't get a text
by seven o'clock, nigga, I'm mad because.

Speaker 3 (01:31:51):
You knew I was going to be up at five.

Speaker 2 (01:31:54):
I know you don't get up early, but you're supposed
to set the alarm.

Speaker 3 (01:31:57):
You're supposed to like make the exception for me. But
that's just me.

Speaker 2 (01:32:02):
But you're gonna already know that, which is why people
be like, nah, I'm gonna keep this my this is
my girls mother. We're just gonna keep dapping it up
because too much, that's what.

Speaker 1 (01:32:14):
You yourself.

Speaker 2 (01:32:17):
It took me a while to learn these things about
me because I have sometimes which women don't always do.

Speaker 3 (01:32:22):
We have to sit back and be like, if.

Speaker 2 (01:32:23):
This one and this one and this one and this
one got a problem with you, maybe it's you.

Speaker 3 (01:32:29):
It might be you.

Speaker 2 (01:32:30):
Yeah, I'm one that will call I can. Like I said,
I have a good sense of like feeling out someone.

Speaker 1 (01:32:37):
And it's like, yeah, that's what I'm saying, that's what
I be doing like I'd like i'd be feeling it.
I'm asking certain questions, I'm keeping your answer, I'm keeping
keeping your mannerism right, And I could tell all right,
this ain't gonna we ain't gonna make it.

Speaker 2 (01:32:50):
This ain't it.

Speaker 1 (01:32:51):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:32:52):
I think first dates need to be in an environment
like an open out of dinner, not nothing like that,
in an environment where you can walk into it. Because
I need to know I am closer to fifty than
I am to thirty, and I'm at that point in
my life. Well, I don't got time to be like
taking my time learning somebody. I need to know now
like I need I need. That's the one thing when

(01:33:14):
they be like, oh, we live we live in a
microwave age everybody, and I need to know it now.

Speaker 3 (01:33:18):
That is my microwave age.

Speaker 2 (01:33:20):
Yes, I need to know certain things and I need
to know now.

Speaker 1 (01:33:23):
I am at it.

Speaker 3 (01:33:23):
Are you crazy? Have you ever been in jail? How
many kids do.

Speaker 2 (01:33:26):
You have who run? Still?

Speaker 1 (01:33:29):
Are you financially responsible? You just got to know job,
just got to know these things, Yo, I ain't at
at that.

Speaker 2 (01:33:36):
How many jobs have you had in the last five years?

Speaker 1 (01:33:38):
Can we normalize like the date being the platform to
get to know one another? That shit was about now, motherfucker? Like,
if you ain't spending three hundreds, right, don't even worry
about it. First of all, keep your fucking ass home.

Speaker 2 (01:33:54):
Then I'm frugal anyway, So I'm not even really trying
to get stuck in feeling obligated to be.

Speaker 1 (01:34:01):
Anything just because you spend that money, Like what the fun?

Speaker 2 (01:34:06):
Because trust me, you're gonna want to spend money on
me at some point, and I'm not even gonna be
like I'm.

Speaker 3 (01:34:11):
Not even all that I on need jury and all
of the but like, if.

Speaker 2 (01:34:15):
It's something that I want, like I really and truly
I need to be in a position in a relationship
so that I don't have to tell you you're already
the first month, I won't even say because you're not
gonna get it. It's like New York. You're not gonna
see everything at one time about me. But I'm gonna
lay down as the need to know ship, and then
you go from there. So then you'll pick up like, oh, yeah,

(01:34:37):
well you know her signature color is purple, so you.

Speaker 1 (01:34:39):
Know you already? Do you know what you what you want? You?

Speaker 2 (01:34:43):
And me too.

Speaker 3 (01:34:44):
I don't know the basic stuff of the things that
you like.

Speaker 2 (01:34:47):
And then I'll start maybe like surprising you with certain
stuff and you do the same thing. But it's a going.

Speaker 3 (01:34:56):
People be doing the whole chasecake factory.

Speaker 2 (01:34:59):
I'm not gone, And oh my god, I don't even
like I said, do you really want to be on
a first day eating? Yeah, well not eating, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:35:14):
But that's real ship though. Yeah, I'm just saying, man,
we just got to get back to normalizing.

Speaker 2 (01:35:18):
We're gonna get it. We're gonna get it back on try.
We have to again. Women, men, please raise these kids
to be a better version of you, because they represent you.
That's the one first and foremost. If you're a good
parent or not even and I won't and again I
won't even say parent. You could be an auntie, uncle.

Speaker 1 (01:35:38):
Cousin influence you are if we are that.

Speaker 2 (01:35:42):
We are a community. We have to raise these kids
because at the end of the day, they're not just raised.
They're not harming their family, They're harming the world, the
whole world. Right, So we had and at the end
of the day, black people we at some way, shape
or form, we all can we have some sort of bloodline.

(01:36:02):
If I list a whole bunch of names going backwards,
people I've come acrosss know each other, Yeah, somebody, right,
So that's each one. Teacher on facts like all the
phrases and ship that we grew up.

Speaker 1 (01:36:17):
But it was just talking yet have to make it
even talking about some simple ship like the cookouts. Me
and my man was talking about the cookouts. They're like, damn,
ain't no cookouts, Like niggas ain't been inviting nowhere. I said, Nigga,
we the forty year olds. Now we the ones got
to host the cookout. Niggas. It's on us to reach
out to the family and let them know we're putting
the stakes on the grill, right, And he was like, damn,

(01:36:38):
I didn't even think about it. I said, yes, nigga,
you can't wait for your your uncle is eighty. Now
the girl good, the one on the grill. Now they
the old dudes, their wives are still bringing them the
plates and ship. You know what I mean, right, shit crazy?

Speaker 2 (01:36:52):
Yeah, So I am.

Speaker 1 (01:36:54):
So glad we finally got collaboration. Me and how we
both identify as black American Mexican Jamaicans because we got
a hell job. Hell hello, I told her like she
inspired me to get a third job because I was
watching how hard she was working on some ship. I said, nigga,
you ain't working hard enough. That the problem is I

(01:37:16):
still got the three jobs and I need my time.
Hell so now I gotta get there. I want to
keep getting to the bag. I'm getting too, but I
just need my time back, you know what I'm saying.
But yeah, I'm so glad we finally got a chance.

Speaker 2 (01:37:28):
To do this. Man like this was this was a.

Speaker 1 (01:37:30):
Long time coming, and I feel like we got some
epic ship up here.

Speaker 2 (01:37:33):
Oh you know, from here we go forward? You do
you continue gonna? I'm telling you. I'm now, I'm like, yo,
when when that next episode? And we just have to
structure And this is like you know, me telling you,
but me telling myself as well, because.

Speaker 3 (01:37:48):
We've both been on our bullshit fact.

Speaker 2 (01:37:50):
But we'll get it back together. And then even if
we reach and touch one person.

Speaker 1 (01:37:56):
That's it.

Speaker 2 (01:37:56):
That's all.

Speaker 1 (01:37:56):
That's mission accomplished that I need when when people hit
me up, Well, like I said, I made this I
made this podcast to be a safeman for men to
talk shit and do whatever, but also to educate and
raise each other up, on each other accountable. But when
we saw that sixty seven percent of our audience was
women and they was just literally tapping in and see

(01:38:17):
who was on the male psyche, like what your nigga's thinking?
When I get the DM that says yo, I listened
to your podcast and I win asked my husband what
he thought and he said the exact same thing you said.
And I've been with this man for fifteen years and
I never knew that nigga. That's a nigga, that's a
w you know what I'm saying. We just helped that

(01:38:38):
lady out, and I'm like, that's what that's what it's
all about. Just trying to bridge that.

Speaker 2 (01:38:43):
Sometimes, Like like we were saying before, like if you've
never been certain places or been through certain things, you
don't know even know what it is and so like
sometimes and this is you know, my last relationship advice.
If you're not, if you're meeting the same fuck boys,
please change your environment the same for them. If men

(01:39:04):
meet in the wrong way, change your environment stop like
go somewhere else. This is why it's so many things
out here, like this is your homework from me from
Brooklyn tie n yc. And that rhyn. I should be
a rapper the whole time. But try to make it

(01:39:25):
your business, because I know to money is hard out
here for a pimp. Make it your business. If you
could do it once a week, amazing, But if you
could do it like once a month, try to do
something different and new, something that you've never done before,
and do it yourself the first time, and then if
you like it, try to bring someone else that you
think will enjoy it as well, or maybe somebody who's

(01:39:46):
just like they'll never do this, but bring them anyway,
because like you didn't know, you never know. We got
to start trying different things, and that's how we'll start
switching up mingling with different type of people. They have
all these like little mingo parties and single already and
sing what you call that dating ship when they sit
at one table. They've tried, We've tried everything. They haven't

(01:40:09):
done it the right way.

Speaker 1 (01:40:10):
Popping that fucking balloon that Yo.

Speaker 2 (01:40:14):
We didn't even get that.

Speaker 1 (01:40:15):
We got I got to come back and we got
to that because that's the whole topic. By on his own,
I hadn't.

Speaker 2 (01:40:22):
I just started like paying more attention because I'm just
been like to me, they were young, like they're not
my demo. I ain't been paying attention. But now I'm
seeing like people our age and I need to pay
attention and women show No I don't, I don't know,
but this was you know, I'm on to be here.

(01:40:44):
I'm like I said, I'm glad we have both found
found each other accountable and made it happen. We're gonna
make it continue to make it happen individually together. Next
time G was double double G. Yeah, we gotta we
gotta keep on helping the youth spread love is the

(01:41:05):
Brooklyn tie Way. That's my that's my lover.

Speaker 1 (01:41:08):
You know I got this sweatshirt. Ye, that's.

Speaker 2 (01:41:12):
One of my biggest supporters.

Speaker 1 (01:41:14):
Yeah no, because soon as I saw everything happening.

Speaker 2 (01:41:18):
And that's what I was going to tell you too.
With my son. I appreciate, so like, this is what
I be telling people, like the journey, like the people
who have been here from seeing him from the beginning
of like not knowing what the hell he was gonna do,
what was going on all through junior high school and
high school and then college and then today, Like I

(01:41:38):
appreciate y'all because when I start getting these tickets for
free shows for the Broadways, and Yo, you're my plus
one because you ain't got a girl until you get
a girl, and she's still gonna be my plus one
because she's gonna have to know about me because you
have already told her from the jump communication that this
is my home girl, and.

Speaker 1 (01:41:57):
This is what it is. When he getting that, e oh,
I definitely be like, Yo, I know his mom's you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:42:04):
Oh yeah, he's he's getting that, and he's he's.

Speaker 1 (01:42:07):
Going to got to meet him now. I got to
meet him, so yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:42:10):
He'll listen, I got to meet him.

Speaker 2 (01:42:14):
I get to New York like, oh yeah, I got it.
It's to the point now he would either have to
go to his show or I have to go to
his job, or I got to link up with him.
Somewhere because he'd be outside getting done training. He's in
the acting school now. But you know, I could go
on and on about my son. You would think my
son was my man. But you know what it is
like gang, We got an actor out here. You know

(01:42:35):
what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:42:36):
Yeah, y'all will see his name in lights A N
T O and why so it's Antonio, but it's with
A Y and I because you know, I got to
be unique.

Speaker 2 (01:42:47):
Shout out to my daughter's miracle having essence and my
granddaughter's serenity. Big fans see the names and you can
check me out. Follow me at Brooklyn tide n y
C and thats b k n y n t y
e n y C on all platforms. My website w
w dot Brooklyn t n y C spelled same dot com.

Speaker 3 (01:43:10):
You can get my podcasts, my.

Speaker 2 (01:43:12):
Blog, all of that.

Speaker 3 (01:43:13):
Follow me Instagram, Twitter, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:43:15):
All that good shot out. You never know where I'm
gonna be at. I'm either gonna be in Virginia on
New York.

Speaker 1 (01:43:22):
Anywhere you see her.

Speaker 2 (01:43:23):
She ain't no more right I move I move around now.
And also, if you ever be like I think I
saw cat, she is she wasn't wearing purple. That It's funny.
Now I gotta go to work and I gotta be
non purple out so that they don't know it's me
before I clock in from the from the for.

Speaker 3 (01:43:47):
The co workers and the workers, I'm like, I.

Speaker 2 (01:43:50):
Don't my shirt on yet, leave me alone. But yeah,
this has been an honor. I really appreciate it, and
I'm glad this now we can check it off that
we got this.

Speaker 1 (01:43:59):
Done, bucket list done, and we got a new episode
the post first one in a full blow year bro
So four. I ain't even saying nothing. I might make
a little announcement. It's just going to drop and they'll
just see what it is.

Speaker 3 (01:44:14):
That's what it is. I'm excited.

Speaker 2 (01:44:16):
I can't wait to hear it, listen to it, do
it again, big facts. I thank you for inviting me,
Thank you for doing this, thank you for making it happen.

Speaker 1 (01:44:24):
Hey man, I wasn't playing around you thought, you see,
because we played around a few years back. But we're
not playing around no more.

Speaker 2 (01:44:31):
We ask we finally got it done and hit them
with this outro.

Speaker 1 (01:44:34):
Man, you already know a person is useless without purpose.
A purpose is useless without a plan. A plan is
useless without execution. Execution is useless without passion. Passion is
wasted without consistency. So go forward and be everything that
you can be. This is your boy Ringo man Dingo
and this.

Speaker 3 (01:44:53):
Is Brooklyn Tie and why see And this has.

Speaker 1 (01:44:56):
Been the hashtag just Saying podcast. We are We appreciate
you joining us. Hashtag Just Saying podcast is produced, recorded
and edited by Ringo Mandingo. Special shout out to the
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