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March 6, 2021 48 mins
Recorded: 9/27/2020
Published: 3/06/2021

In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are tackling the differences between Hot Wife, Cuckold, and Voyeur kinks and fetishes.

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- Rules to Love By
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

- Cuck vs hotwife (and now we can add vs voyeur) a Discord post by Atsila

"To the best of my knowledge.... these are the basic answers...

Cuck tends to be ...

Voyeur...

I am a Voyeur... 

Basically.... we like to watch... some prefer in ...

It’s hard for me sometimes even ...

- Hot Wife Vs Cuckold Vs Voyeur-S03E13
- Hot Wife (https://www.dictionary.com/e/slang/hotwife/)
Definition: A hotwife is a married woman who has sexual relationships outside of her marriage, with the full knowledge and consent of her husband, who himself doesn’t have affairs.

The idea of hotwifing comes from the concept of a husband showing off and sharing his “hot wife.” The non-monogamous arrangement is ...

Typically, the couple gains sexual arousal from the arrangement due to voyeurism, the thrill of doing something taboo, or an infidelity and/or jealousy fetish.

Hotwifing isn’t exactly swinging because ...

In some cases, there really isn’t any extramarital sex taking place in hotwifing. For some, it’s mainly a foreplay exercise to talk through a hypothetical fantasy of infidelity.

- Cuckold
Definition: A man who enjoys the humiliation, degradation, and/or voyeuristic experience of watching or knowing their partner has sex with someone else.
Depending on the couple’s arrangement, the cuck could be made to ...
- Voyeur
Definition: A person who enjoys watching others, usually in a sexual context, without engaging with them.
There is no degradation or humiliation associated with ...

So what’s the difference between them?
Intent. While on the outside these three kinks ...

To put it into roles: the cuck is generally submissive, the partner of the hotwife is generally dominant, and the voyeur could be of any role. 

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