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June 4, 2025 22 mins
We grow up hearing that life isn’t about winning or losing—but too often, we live like it is. In this episode of Lessons Unlocked, we explore how the scoreboard mentality drains our energy, damages our relationships, and breaks down our professional consistency—especially in the high-stakes world of corrections.

From dropped charges and grievance battles to personal arguments that leave us feeling empty even when we “win,” this episode dives deep into the emotional cost of always needing to come out on top. We’ll also break down how pride, ego, and fear keep us stuck—and what it really means to lead with clarity, connection, and calm.

If you’re ready to trade victory for value and start measuring success by progress—not dominance—this episode is for you.

Topics Covered:
•Why chasing outcomes will burn you out
•The emotional hangover that follows a hollow “win”
•How constant competition breaks down correctional teams and families
•Replacing ego with progress in both professional and personal life
•Leading without needing to “win”

Let go of the need to win. Reclaim the power to lead.
Lesson unlocked.
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