August 6, 2025 • 18 mins
Red Flags
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
With single friends, ople friends that are in relationships.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
And more are married.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Freeings.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
To me, that is a red flag.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
And the reason why I call it a red flag
is because it's made rent for some matters. It it
really does, it really make But.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
You're gonna go with tenens science and numbers. Uh, there
are more. The single blood females.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Almost spend any other race that are raising their kids,
their sons and daughters, and it's.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Extremely strong, ultimately with and.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
Unconditionabilities, painful relationships.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Stead they're stayed in the test of.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Time, decades, those decades of being together, whether in the
storm and.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Not stepping down in your mate. That is almost none
that the blood come in. It's the only what it is.
So but when you know you have those people and
you're you have the opportunity to be around those people.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
When you want to force that type of nurse, make
peed your relationship with what you see versus kicking it
with those The the the single lady is that most
of the time they're single.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
It's not like the choice. It's because they can't keep
a man, and that's who you choose to hang around with.
To me, that is if this and that now the
destination of FEI and that will.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Be all always a reflection if you have single home
girls and.
Speaker 5 (01:36):
You have marriage home cause you think we can have
single hongers if they're married four times.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Let's see your your time of with between the two
you're wingering.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Or you're you're seeing way more time with.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Your single friends. That's the reason why I say that,
it is because an old older young an older gentleman
always told me single people do what they want.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Yeah, it's true, relationship have to do exactly. But one
(02:27):
of the things was already married, like for a time.
We need to go deep into that because you know,
you got people that are single now, but the been
through the marriage state and they don't want to be
married anymore because of the fellow marriages.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
That's different.
Speaker 6 (02:41):
So he's saying is like, let's just take it.
Speaker 7 (02:44):
Let's call it ducka duck because wife, his wife.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Has some married friends.
Speaker 6 (02:48):
Single friend want to hang out her single.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Friends or younger and she hanged with him club out
of town.
Speaker 6 (02:57):
You want to be single, Yeah, you know what single?
Speaker 2 (02:59):
She is basically seen that was sick.
Speaker 7 (03:01):
I understand that because when I was in a relationship
with Victor, we s we hung with other married couples.
We watched Black Love in different angles so that we
can learn.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Like he said, it's hard if a man steps out,
it's really hard. But he's basically said cause he's never
stepped out of his wife one day.
Speaker 6 (03:20):
But she feels like he has had because she has.
So the thing is and then one thing about our
brother don't.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
So the thing is would be like for instance, say
for I, you know, oh, I would love to put
him on the podcast.
Speaker 6 (03:34):
So this you know me, I'm my mind. My thing
would be okay, understandable. But that's what the the crop
and the pickings is limited because remember you said the decision.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Since here we go, cause.
Speaker 6 (03:52):
I got friends.
Speaker 7 (03:56):
Because Mary Cray.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
So I have a balance of single friends. My closest
friend is not married.
Speaker 7 (04:05):
Yes that she gave yes or one you love he passed,
so that names her single and.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I not the friend of ours.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
And we're very close there and.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
There she's married.
Speaker 7 (04:20):
Now do we both want to have that type of
relationship where we are married.
Speaker 4 (14:06):
It's gonna gifically attach you. That's money, where is time Insperienially,
it's gonna hurt you.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
It's gonna in spiritually, it's gonna opect your health because
you're gonna be sitting out trying to figure out why
this person doesn't see it's not about that, don't see
they don't want to see.
Speaker 6 (14:27):
Bam, there you go.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
She mean someone that they can't recognize their fault. And
then and the person that refuses to get meet that
there's a fault to the getting. You can't even have
aunt conversation.
Speaker 6 (14:38):
That going both ways. For me is I can't see
it in no accountability we had.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
It's gonna follow with you. It's a word. He's gonna say,
it's a word. Is sick?
Speaker 6 (14:53):
He said, what criticism? If you're then accept criticism for me.
But you can accept criticism from your job.
Speaker 7 (15:01):
Oh but I had to kill him on their lives
or hear it down cause it killed me because it
made me think.
Speaker 6 (15:06):
About how ron do the Yeah, I always got something
to say, But I'm not trying to criticize, ye meaning
you criticizing.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
I wanna pet you on that criticism if it's constructive.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
I think any woman or any woman can deal with
a constructive criticism, especially if there if it's something that's.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
Causing you guys to have away right.
Speaker 7 (15:28):
And I mean I'm the same most men when they.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
Want, but there are water that get extremely defensive.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Extra I mean, I would say that I've gotten defensive
on a couple of things, and i'm'a i'm'na give you
another little example. I choose to do a lot of things,
and when it comes to me, I prefer home first
before outside.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
I'm not going outside. I don't care what's going on now.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
I have lately decided and I'm not gonna say lay
within within the year. So I decided, hey, things, I'm
gonna make sure this get done no matter what. I'm
not gonna put this to the side. And because I
did this because I want to transure everything taking care
of this at the play in a relationship
With single friends, ople friends that are in relationships.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
And more are married.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Freeings.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
To me, that is a red flag.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
And the reason why I call it a red flag
is because it's made rent for some matters. It it
really does, it really make But.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
You're gonna go with tenens science and numbers. Uh, there
are more. The single blood females.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Almost spend any other race that are raising their kids,
their sons and daughters, and it's.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Extremely strong, ultimately with and.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
Unconditionabilities, painful relationships.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Stead they're stayed in the test of.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Time, decades, those decades of being together, whether in the
storm and.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Not stepping down in your mate. That is almost none
that the blood come in. It's the only what it is.
So but when you know you have those people and
you're you have the opportunity to be around those people.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
When you want to force that type of nurse, make
peed your relationship with what you see versus kicking it
with those The the the single lady is that most
of the time they're single.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
It's not like the choice. It's because they can't keep
a man, and that's who you choose to hang around with.
To me, that is if this and that now the
destination of FEI and that will.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Be all always a reflection if you have single home
girls and.
Speaker 5 (01:36):
You have marriage home cause you think we can have
single hongers if they're married four times.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Let's see your your time of with between the two
you're wingering.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Or you're you're seeing way more time with.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Your single friends. That's the reason why I say that,
it is because an old older young an older gentleman
always told me single people do what they want.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Yeah, it's true, relationship have to do exactly. But one
(02:27):
of the things was already married, like for a time.
We need to go deep into that because you know,
you got people that are single now, but the been
through the marriage state and they don't want to be
married anymore because of the fellow marriages.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
That's different.
Speaker 6 (02:41):
So he's saying is like, let's just take it.
Speaker 7 (02:44):
Let's call it ducka duck because wife, his wife.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Has some married friends.
Speaker 6 (02:48):
Single friend want to hang out her single.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Friends or younger and she hanged with him club out
of town.
Speaker 6 (02:57):
You want to be single, Yeah, you know what single?
Speaker 2 (02:59):
She is basically seen that was sick.
Speaker 7 (03:01):
I understand that because when I was in a relationship
with Victor, we s we hung with other married couples.
We watched Black Love in different angles so that we
can learn.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Like he said, it's hard if a man steps out,
it's really hard. But he's basically said cause he's never
stepped out of his wife one day.
Speaker 6 (03:20):
But she feels like he has had because she has.
So the thing is and then one thing about our
brother don't.
Speaker 5 (03:28):
So the thing is would be like for instance, say
for I, you know, oh, I would love to put
him on the podcast.
Speaker 6 (03:34):
So this you know me, I'm my mind. My thing
would be okay, understandable. But that's what the the crop
and the pickings is limited because remember you said the decision.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Since here we go, cause.
Speaker 6 (03:52):
I got friends.
Speaker 7 (03:56):
Because Mary Cray.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
So I have a balance of single friends. My closest
friend is not married.
Speaker 7 (04:05):
Yes that she gave yes or one you love he passed,
so that names her single and.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I not the friend of ours.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
And we're very close there and.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
There she's married.
Speaker 7 (04:20):
Now do we both want to have that type of
relationship where we are married.
Speaker 4 (14:06):
It's gonna gifically attach you. That's money, where is time Insperienially,
it's gonna hurt you.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
It's gonna in spiritually, it's gonna opect your health because
you're gonna be sitting out trying to figure out why
this person doesn't see it's not about that, don't see
they don't want to see.
Speaker 6 (14:27):
Bam, there you go.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
She mean someone that they can't recognize their fault. And
then and the person that refuses to get meet that
there's a fault to the getting. You can't even have
aunt conversation.
Speaker 6 (14:38):
That going both ways. For me is I can't see
it in no accountability we had.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
It's gonna follow with you. It's a word. He's gonna say,
it's a word. Is sick?
Speaker 6 (14:53):
He said, what criticism? If you're then accept criticism for me.
But you can accept criticism from your job.
Speaker 7 (15:01):
Oh but I had to kill him on their lives
or hear it down cause it killed me because it
made me think.
Speaker 6 (15:06):
About how ron do the Yeah, I always got something
to say, But I'm not trying to criticize, ye meaning
you criticizing.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
I wanna pet you on that criticism if it's constructive.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
I think any woman or any woman can deal with
a constructive criticism, especially if there if it's something that's.
Speaker 4 (15:23):
Causing you guys to have away right.
Speaker 7 (15:28):
And I mean I'm the same most men when they.
Speaker 2 (15:31):
Want, but there are water that get extremely defensive.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Extra I mean, I would say that I've gotten defensive
on a couple of things, and i'm'a i'm'na give you
another little example. I choose to do a lot of things,
and when it comes to me, I prefer home first
before outside.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
I'm not going outside. I don't care what's going on now.
Speaker 3 (15:55):
I have lately decided and I'm not gonna say lay
within within the year. So I decided, hey, things, I'm
gonna make sure this get done no matter what. I'm
not gonna put this to the side. And because I
did this because I want to transure everything taking care
of this at the play in a relationship
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