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Speaker 1 (00:00):
In Old Hollywood, the question of who was gay and
who was not was one of the industry's most tightly
held secrets. It was a time when image meant everything
and the pressure to conform was intense. For many of
the biggest stars, revealing their true selves wasn't an option.
While some bravely came out later in life, others continued
(00:20):
to live in secrecy, with whispers and speculation around them
growing over the years. But today we are going to
reveal some of your favorite stars who were closet cases
and brilliantly kept the secret throughout their lives. Clint Eastwood.
When it comes to discussing Clint Eastwood's secret life or
the role it may have played in his career, it's
(00:42):
totally ambiguous. Clint Eastwood has consistently been linked with relationships
with women throughout his life, while he undeniably had a
striking appeal that captivated Hollywood, an industry known for its
hidden relationships and complex dynamics. However, Old Hollywood was indeed
a play where the lines between personal relationships and career
(01:03):
advancement could blur. There were unspoken understandings and rumors that
circulated around certain stars and directors, sometimes leading to speculation.
With Clint, the connection to Arthur Lubin sparked particular interest,
especially given that Luben directed Clint in several movies and
was a somewhat private figure who never married. This led
(01:24):
some to wonder if there was more to their dynamic,
especially as Hollywood was a place where careers could be
influenced by friendships or mentorships with powerful figures. Still, Clint
Eastwood's career trajectory, especially after the late nineteen sixties, largely
spoke for itself. As he took on increasingly serious roles
(01:44):
and transitioned into directing, he developed a signature style that
emphasized his strong, silent appeal and further established his identity
as a rugged leading man. By then, any whispers about
his personal relationships or early career booths were overshadowed by
his on screen presence and his contributions to film Richard Pryor.
(02:07):
Pryor's widow, Jennifer Lee Pryor, shared some surprising details in
twenty eighteen, revealing that Richard had a relationship with the
one and only Marlon Brando. According to Lee, Pryor was
upfront with his close friends about his bisexuality, especially during
the free spirited days of the nineteen seventies. Jennifer was
(02:27):
famously quoted saying it was the seventies. Drugs were still good.
If you did enough cocaine, you'd mess around with a
radiator and send it flowers in the morning. This humor
sounds just like something Richard would have said himself. But
that's not all. In his autobiography Prior Convictions, Richard described
a two week relationship with Matrasha, a trans woman, calling
(02:51):
it two weeks of being gay. This was a time
when exploring sexuality was more taboo, but Pryor didn't let
societal norms stop him from living life on his terms.
His courage to embrace his experiences is part of what
made him so real and relatable to his audience. Interestingly,
Richard even addressed his experiences on stage in his first special,
(03:12):
Live and Smoke, and he joked about performing explicit acts
and even said I have sucked a censored making the
audience laugh but also adding another layer to his raw honesty.
In nineteen seventy seven, he performed at a gay rights
show at the Hollywood Bowl, which was a bold move
back then and showed that prior wasn't just open about
(03:33):
his past, he was an ally Not everyone accepted this
part of Richard's life, though his daughter Rain Pryor has
publicly disputed the claims about her father's bisexuality. However, Jennifer
Lee stated that Rain might just be in denial while
his family's perspective differs. Pryor's legacy as a groundbreaking comedian
(03:53):
and a man unafraid to be himself remains. George Take,
star trek legend and a proud advocate for equality and
human rights, But for much of his life, Take felt
he had to keep a part of himself hidden. Let's
explore what led him to make that choice in the
journey that ultimately empowered him to embrace who he truly is.
(04:13):
Known around the world as Lieutenant Sulu. Takay shared in
a BBC Hard Talk interview why he chose to keep
this part of his life private for so long. Growing
up in a time when being open about oneself was
not widely accepted, especially in Hollywood, Takay realized that revealing
his truth could mean the end of his acting career.
(04:33):
It was an industry where anything but what society expected
could limit or even end opportunities. Takay's personal journey held
additional challenges. As a young boy during World War Two,
he spent part of his childhood in a Japanese American
internment camp, facing prejudice and confinement. Reflecting on those early years,
(04:54):
he spoke about how as an adult, he built an
invisible barbed wire fence around himself, a barrier created by
the need to keep part of his life private, but
eventually take decided to step out from behind that barrier.
In two thousand and five, he publicly shared his truth
and went on to become a leading voice for LGPQ
plus rights. Then, in two thousand and eight, he married
(05:16):
his partner, Brad Altman, who had been by his side
for many years. Takay's openness has inspired countless others, especially
within the LGBTQ plus community, where he's recognized not just
as Sulu, but as a champion for equality and understanding.
Laurence Olivier. While Olivier's professional life was well documented, his
(05:38):
personal life has been the subject of much speculation and debate.
Biographer Donald Spoto once claimed that Olivier was openly curious
and had relationships with both men and women. According to
Spoto Olivier had a few romantic connections with men, including
a brief relationship with actor Henry Ainley in his younger years,
but others who knew him tell a different story. One
(06:01):
of Olivier's biographers, Terry Coleman, challenges Spoto's claims, arguing that
while Olivier may have had one or two close relationships
with men, it was part of his younger years rather
than a lasting lifestyle, and another biographer, Philip Ziegler, went
even further, suggesting that the idea of Olivier's bisexuality has
(06:22):
been exaggerated over time and that he was primarily interested
in women. But if there was one person who captured
Olivier's heart, it was Vivian Lee. The couple married in
nineteen forty, and their romance was as intense as it
was public. They exchanged heartfelt letters, with Olivier famously calling
Lee his jewelkin and professing his deep affection for her.
(06:45):
Their love affair was one for the ages, and despite
their later separation, it's clear that Vivian held a special
place in his heart. Chuck Connors. Many historians write Chuck
was not gay, but on the same time, many rights
he was is simple. His professional life was well documented,
but his personal life was largely private, leading to rumors
(07:07):
about his relationships. Although he had close friendships with several men,
a normal part of life for many people, some have
speculated that these connections might suggest something more, but the
facts tell a different story. Throughout his life, Connors was
married three times, each marriage ending for various personal reasons.
His first wife, Elizabeth Ruddell, a Canadian, was his partner
(07:29):
from nineteen forty eight until nineteen sixty two. After their divorce,
he married Kamala Devi, an Indian actress with whom he
starred in Geronimo. Their marriage lasted from nineteen sixty three
to nineteen seventy two. Connors's third marriage, to Faith Quabius,
also an actress, lasted from nineteen seventy seven to nineteen eighty.
(07:51):
Each of these relationships suggests a romantic interest in women,
countering the rumors about their sexuality. In fact, many of
the rumors about Connor's sexualis appear to be based on
simple misunderstandings about his friendships and social life rather than
any credible evidence. So what do you think was he gay?
Tyrone power? Tyrone power was a Hollywood heart throb whose
(08:14):
talent and looks made him one of the most iconic
leading men of his time. But beneath his dashing on
screen persona lies a story full of intrigue, mystery, and rumor.
One of the most talked about sources on Power's private
life is the book The Secret Life of Tyrone Power
by Hector Ours. Ours claim that Power was indeed romantically
(08:35):
involved with some of Hollywood's leading ladies, including Lanna Turner,
Judy Garland, and Linda Christian, but he also hinted at
a more secretive side of Power's love life, suggesting he
had hidden relationships with men. Some, however, have said the
book's title might suggest more drama than it delivers, leaving
readers with more questions than answers. And then there's Scottie Bowers,
(08:57):
Hollywood's fixer of sorts, who, in his memoir Full Service
claimed he arranged discreet encounters for many famous actors of
the time, including Tyrone Power. Bowers painted a picture of
old Hollywood where stars relied on secrecy to protect their
careers and reputations. According to Bowers, he helped Power and
many others keep their personal lives under wraps, a fact
(09:19):
that only adds to the mystery around Power's relationships. Power's
story isn't unique, though he's often mentioned alongside other famous
names like Errol Flynn, Montgomery Clift, Salmoneo, and Charles Lawton,
all of whom were rumored to have led private lives
that differed from their on screen images. In the years
after Power's passing, multiple books explored these rumors, with some
(09:42):
claiming he was gay or bisexual, Yet without solid confirmation,
Power's true story remains elusive, hidden within Hollywood's layers of
glamour and secrecy. Jim Nabors the man who brought Gomer
Pile to life with his classic country humor and warm
baritone singing voice. To fans of the Andy Griffith Show.
(10:04):
In Gomer Pyle USMC, he was the lovable, goofy character
with a big heart and a memorable golly. But behind
the scenes, Neighbors lived a quieter, more private life that
only a few close friends and colleagues truly knew about.
Neighbour's sexuality was an open secret among those who worked
with him in the nineteen sixties and nineteen seventies. He
(10:26):
knew from a young age that he was different, but
in a conservative industry and era, he chose to keep
this part of his life private For Neighbors, Maintaining a
separation between his public and private life allowed him to
keep working and protect his personal relationships. Despite the pressures
to remain quiet, Neighbors found love and companionship that lasted
(10:47):
for nearly four decades. In twenty thirteen, he married his
partner Stan Cadwalader in Seattle, Washington, just after same sex
marriage was legalized in the state. Reflecting on his life,
Mbers once shared with Hawaii News Now that he felt
truly blessed to have found someone to share his life
with for so long. Charles Lawton Charles Lawton was a
(11:10):
true powerhouse of classic Hollywood, with a legacy marked by
his unforgettable roles in compelling personal life. Known for his
versatility on screen, Lawton made his mark in films like
The Private Life of Henry the Eighth, Mutiny on the Bounty,
and Witness for the Prosecution. Lawton began a relationship with
(11:32):
fellow actress Elsa Lanchester in nineteen twenty seven, and the
two were married two years later. Their partnership was one
of Hollywood's enduring unions, lasting until Lawton's death. They appeared
together on screen in several films, including Rembrandt and Witness
for the Prosecution, where both received Academy Award nominations. But
(11:53):
behind their long lasting marriage was a nuanced dynamic that
blended professional respect with a complicated personal relationship. Lawton's private
life was complex. Although married, he was widely known among
Hollywood insiders to have been attracted to both men and women.
According to Full Service Scotty Bowers's memoir about Old Hollywood,
(12:15):
Lawton reportedly had a deep affection for tyrone power and
is said to have lived much of his private life
through discreete relationships with men. While rumors circulated about the
reasons for Lawton and Lanchester not having children, their friend
Maurene O'Hara suggested it was due to a health issue
related to Lanchester. Lanchester herself later admitted she chose not
(12:35):
to have children, adding another layer to their story. Paul Winfield,
no doubt. Paul Winfield was a gifted actor, celebrated for
his unforgettable roles in Sounder, The Terminator and countless other classics.
While his talent on screen spoke for itself, Winfield's personal
life was a more private journey. Winfield was in a loving,
(12:57):
long term relationship with architect and set to design Charles
Gillen Jr. For thirty years up until Gillan's passing in
two thousand and two. Their bond was deep and lasting,
and the two are buried together in Los Angeles. In
an era when Hollywood wasn't particularly welcoming to LGBTQ plus actors, Winfield,
like many others, felt compelled to keep his private life hidden.
(13:20):
His friend, actor producer Jack Larson, once shared that while
Winfield was openly gay among friends, he remained discreet with
the public. The fear of losing work was very real,
especially for an actor of his generation who had to
navigate the pressures and prejudices of time before coming out.
Winfield was even romantically linked with his Sounder co star
(13:44):
Cecily Tyson. The two reportedly pretended to be a couple
a way to help Winfield keep his private life under
wraps while avoiding unwonted questions about his personal life. This
relationship allowed him to protect both his career and his
authentic self. Walter Pigeon Walter Pigeon was one of Hollywood's
most dignified leading men. He was celebrated for his roles
(14:06):
in Missus Miniver, A, Forbidden Planet, and many other classic films.
With his refined presence and deep commanding voice, Pigeon became
a staple of the Golden Age of cinema. But like
many stars of his era, there's more to his story
than what we saw on the screen. Born in Canada,
Pigeon initially pursued a career in law before discovering his
(14:27):
passion for acting. He moved to Hollywood, where he quickly
made a name for himself in the nineteen thirties and
nineteen forties, especially with his roles alongside leading ladies like
Greer Garson. The two were a beloved on screen pair,
and their performances together, particularly in Missus miniver earned them
both Acclaim and Academy Award nominations. Despite his success, Pigeon
(14:50):
kept his personal life relatively private. Known as a gentleman
among his peers, he avoided Hollywood's party scene and focused
on his craft. Although he was married twice, his life
off screen was notably quiet. Even as he became one
of MGM's go to leading men, there were whispers here
and there about his personal relationships, but Pigeon always maintained
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a dignified and reserved image in the public eye. Joe
Flynn Joe Flynn was a name that might not immediately
ring a bell, but his face and voice are unmistakable
to fans of classic television and film. Best known for
his role as Captain Wallace Binghamton in the nineteen sixties
sitcom McHale's Navy, Flynn's career was marked by his distinctive
(15:34):
comedic style and memorable performances. Born on November eighth, nineteen
twenty four, in Youngstown, Ohio, Flynn's early life was a
blend of academia and entertainment. He attended Northwestern University, where
he studied drama and political science. His initial foray into
entertainment was as a ventriloquist and radio performer, showcasing his
(15:56):
versatility from the start. During World War Two, Flynn served
in the Army's Special Services Branch, entertaining troops stateside. After
the war, he moved to Hollywood, making his film debut
in The Big Chase nineteen fifty four. Flynn's big break
came with McHale's Navy, where his portrayal of the bumbling
(16:17):
yet endearing Captain Binghamton endeared him to audiences. His comedic
timing and unique voice made the character unforgettable. Beyond this,
Roll Flynn became a staple in Disney films during the
nineteen sixties and nineteen seventies, appearing in classics like The
Lovebug and The Computer War. Tennis Shoes. Michael Kerns. Michael
(16:38):
Kerns found himself reflecting on the life and choices of
Rock Hudson, one of the industry's most beloved yet hidden figures.
In his one man show, Rock, Kerns explores the path
he could have taken, a path Hudson walked, where fame
meant concealing one's true self. Kerns describes a deep parallel
with Hudson. Both came from the Midwest, both had classic
(17:01):
leading man looks, and both arrived in Hollywood with dreams
of stardom. But while Hudson lived in a time when
being an outgay man meant risking everything, Kerns took a
different approach. He chose to live openly, embracing his identity,
even if it meant fewer roles or less fame. Looking back,
he realizes that he could have let someone mold me
(17:22):
into the Hollywood image Hudson had to play, but he's
grateful he chose otherwise. In Rock, Kerns unpacks Hudson's hidden
life from the pressures to appear straight to his heartbreaking
end as one of the first public figures to die
from AIDS related complications in nineteen eighty five. Kerns even
recalls a brief encounter with Hudson at a bathhouse in
(17:43):
nineteen eighty three, a moment that made Hudson's life feel
all the more real and relatable to him. Kerns realized
that while Hudson's fame was impressive, it came at a
steep personal cost, a sacrifice of peace and authenticity. Danny
Kay Kay married Sylvia Fine in nineteen forty, and this
partnership was not just romantic, but it was also professional.
(18:07):
Fine was instrumental in shaping Kay's career, writing songs and
routines that showcased his talents. However, their marriage faced challenges
and the couples separated in nineteen forty seven. Although they
remained close collaborators throughout his career, their separation, combined with
Kay's own enigmatic nature, added fuel to long standing rumors
(18:29):
about his personal life and relationships outside the marriage. Over
the years, multiple biographies and Hollywood insiders have hinted that
Kay may have been romantically involved with both men and women.
This speculation was particularly intriguing given the societal expectations of
the time, as Kay was known for his unique sensitivity
(18:49):
and theatrical flare, traits that some in Hollywood coded as
too soft or too theatrical, terms often used to subtly
suggest a different kind of mask illity. But it's not
just his demeanor that kept tongues wagging. Kay's close friendships
impersonal connections with high profile figures in Hollywood kept the
rumors alive. Perhaps the most surprising story involves Kay's friendship
(19:14):
with Laurence Olivier. A recent biography of Vivian Lee, Olivier's wife,
suggested that their marriage may have been strained not only
by Lee's mental health struggles, but also because of a
possible romantic connection between Olivier and Kay. Although there's no
concrete evidence to confirm this, the notion adds a fascinating
(19:34):
twist to Kay's legacy. Olivier and Kay were known to
be close, and some accounts even described them as having
an intense bond. Sir John Gilguod. Gilgood never hit his sexuality,
but he was a product of a time when being
openly gay could bring harsh consequences, especially in the public eye.
(19:54):
Despite this, he found a way to live authentically, choosing
not to discuss his personal life o In nineteen eighty eight, however,
he made a significant acknowledgment publicly recognizing his relationship with
his longtime partner Martin Hensler. This quiet revelation spoke volumes
about the strength of their bond, even if Gielgud never
(20:16):
felt the need to speak about it further. For Gelgood,
it wasn't about hiding. It was about maintaining a dignified privacy,
something he held dear in a time when many actors
had to keep their relationships hidden entirely, Gelgood's approach to
his personal life was one of quiet bravery. His decision
to acknowledge Hensler was a meaningful choice, especially considering the
(20:39):
era's often unforgiving attitudes toward LGBT people's individuals. Gilgud's relationship
with Hensler, like his career, was marked by dedication and integrity.
When Gelgud passed away in two thousand at the age
of ninety six. He left behind not only an unmatched
legacy in theater and film, but also a quiet example
of a life lived with authenticity. His legacy endures as
(21:03):
a reminder that greatness on stage is often accompanied by
grace and dignity behind the scenes. Divine Divine, also known
as Harris Glenn Milsted, was a true icon of the
LGBTQ plus community and a trailblazer for queer visibility in entertainment.
With his outrageous style, fearless performances, and unforgettable characters, Divine
(21:27):
left an indelible mark on pop culture that still resonates today.
Growing up in the nineteen fifties, Baltimore, Millsted's childhood wasn't easy.
He was bullied for being overweight and different, and experienced
that many LGBTQ plus individuals could relate to at the time.
But at age sixteen, he found a friend and ally
in filmmaker John Waters, who would become his lifelong collaborator.
(21:52):
Waters saw Milsted's potential, accepted him as he was, and
together they would push boundaries and create a genre all
their own. Under the stage name Divine Milstead became known
as the Queen of Filth and carved out a space
for himself as a drag queen, musical performer, and cult
film star. Divine starred in Waters's infamous films like Pink, Flamingos,
(22:15):
Female Trouble in Polyester, bringing outrageous humor and unforgettable characters
to life. His performances were both shocking and hilarious, redefining
what it meant to be a drag queen and creating
an image that went beyond the mainstream's expectations. But Divine's
talents didn't stop it acting. He also ventured into music,
(22:36):
recording rock and disco tracks that became hits in the
gay club scene, and in nineteen eighty eight, he took
on the iconic role of Edna Turnblad in waters film Hairspray,
a performance that introduced him to an even wider audience
and remains one of his most beloved roles, Earl Holloman.
The question of Earl Holloman's sexuality has been a topic
(22:57):
of discussion among fans and media for decades. Given the
era in which he rose to fame, societal pressures regarding
sexuality were vastly different from today. In the world of
Hollywood legends, few names resonate quite like Earl Holloman. Known
for his captivating performances and undeniable charm, Holliman has left
a lasting mark on film and television. Yet beyond his
(23:19):
successful career, questions have swirled for years about his personal life,
specifically his romantic relationships and the rumors surrounding his secret
closet case. Despite his fame, Holloman has always kept his
personal life out of the public eye, fueling curiosity. While
he was never directly linked to a serious public relationship,
(23:40):
speculation about his romantic life persisted. Hollywood in the mid
twentieth century was not exactly a safe place for LGBTQ
plus individuals, and for many, keeping a low profile was
crucial for their careers. Though Holloman himself has never publicly
identified his sexuality, his choice to keep his private life
private has aw only added to the intrigue. During that time,
(24:02):
many actors faced significant pressure to appear straight, especially those
with leading man looks. Rumors circulated about several high profile stars,
and Hollomann was no exception. Yet it's important to view
these rumors within the context of Hollywood's often restrictive environment,
where privacy was fiercely guarded and speculation often filled the gaps.
In Old Hollywood, the question of who was gay and
who was not was one of the industry's most tightly
held secrets. It was a time when image meant everything
and the pressure to conform was intense. For many of
the biggest stars, revealing their true selves wasn't an option.
While some bravely came out later in life, others continued
(00:20):
to live in secrecy, with whispers and speculation around them
growing over the years. But today we are going to
reveal some of your favorite stars who were closet cases
and brilliantly kept the secret throughout their lives. Clint Eastwood.
When it comes to discussing Clint Eastwood's secret life or
the role it may have played in his career, it's
(00:42):
totally ambiguous. Clint Eastwood has consistently been linked with relationships
with women throughout his life, while he undeniably had a
striking appeal that captivated Hollywood, an industry known for its
hidden relationships and complex dynamics. However, Old Hollywood was indeed
a play where the lines between personal relationships and career
(01:03):
advancement could blur. There were unspoken understandings and rumors that
circulated around certain stars and directors, sometimes leading to speculation.
With Clint, the connection to Arthur Lubin sparked particular interest,
especially given that Luben directed Clint in several movies and
was a somewhat private figure who never married. This led
(01:24):
some to wonder if there was more to their dynamic,
especially as Hollywood was a place where careers could be
influenced by friendships or mentorships with powerful figures. Still, Clint
Eastwood's career trajectory, especially after the late nineteen sixties, largely
spoke for itself. As he took on increasingly serious roles
(01:44):
and transitioned into directing, he developed a signature style that
emphasized his strong, silent appeal and further established his identity
as a rugged leading man. By then, any whispers about
his personal relationships or early career booths were overshadowed by
his on screen presence and his contributions to film Richard Pryor.
(02:07):
Pryor's widow, Jennifer Lee Pryor, shared some surprising details in
twenty eighteen, revealing that Richard had a relationship with the
one and only Marlon Brando. According to Lee, Pryor was
upfront with his close friends about his bisexuality, especially during
the free spirited days of the nineteen seventies. Jennifer was
(02:27):
famously quoted saying it was the seventies. Drugs were still good.
If you did enough cocaine, you'd mess around with a
radiator and send it flowers in the morning. This humor
sounds just like something Richard would have said himself. But
that's not all. In his autobiography Prior Convictions, Richard described
a two week relationship with Matrasha, a trans woman, calling
(02:51):
it two weeks of being gay. This was a time
when exploring sexuality was more taboo, but Pryor didn't let
societal norms stop him from living life on his terms.
His courage to embrace his experiences is part of what
made him so real and relatable to his audience. Interestingly,
Richard even addressed his experiences on stage in his first special,
(03:12):
Live and Smoke, and he joked about performing explicit acts
and even said I have sucked a censored making the
audience laugh but also adding another layer to his raw honesty.
In nineteen seventy seven, he performed at a gay rights
show at the Hollywood Bowl, which was a bold move
back then and showed that prior wasn't just open about
(03:33):
his past, he was an ally Not everyone accepted this
part of Richard's life, though his daughter Rain Pryor has
publicly disputed the claims about her father's bisexuality. However, Jennifer
Lee stated that Rain might just be in denial while
his family's perspective differs. Pryor's legacy as a groundbreaking comedian
(03:53):
and a man unafraid to be himself remains. George Take,
star trek legend and a proud advocate for equality and
human rights, But for much of his life, Take felt
he had to keep a part of himself hidden. Let's
explore what led him to make that choice in the
journey that ultimately empowered him to embrace who he truly is.
(04:13):
Known around the world as Lieutenant Sulu. Takay shared in
a BBC Hard Talk interview why he chose to keep
this part of his life private for so long. Growing
up in a time when being open about oneself was
not widely accepted, especially in Hollywood, Takay realized that revealing
his truth could mean the end of his acting career.
(04:33):
It was an industry where anything but what society expected
could limit or even end opportunities. Takay's personal journey held
additional challenges. As a young boy during World War Two,
he spent part of his childhood in a Japanese American
internment camp, facing prejudice and confinement. Reflecting on those early years,
(04:54):
he spoke about how as an adult, he built an
invisible barbed wire fence around himself, a barrier created by
the need to keep part of his life private, but
eventually take decided to step out from behind that barrier.
In two thousand and five, he publicly shared his truth
and went on to become a leading voice for LGPQ
plus rights. Then, in two thousand and eight, he married
(05:16):
his partner, Brad Altman, who had been by his side
for many years. Takay's openness has inspired countless others, especially
within the LGBTQ plus community, where he's recognized not just
as Sulu, but as a champion for equality and understanding.
Laurence Olivier. While Olivier's professional life was well documented, his
(05:38):
personal life has been the subject of much speculation and debate.
Biographer Donald Spoto once claimed that Olivier was openly curious
and had relationships with both men and women. According to
Spoto Olivier had a few romantic connections with men, including
a brief relationship with actor Henry Ainley in his younger years,
but others who knew him tell a different story. One
(06:01):
of Olivier's biographers, Terry Coleman, challenges Spoto's claims, arguing that
while Olivier may have had one or two close relationships
with men, it was part of his younger years rather
than a lasting lifestyle, and another biographer, Philip Ziegler, went
even further, suggesting that the idea of Olivier's bisexuality has
(06:22):
been exaggerated over time and that he was primarily interested
in women. But if there was one person who captured
Olivier's heart, it was Vivian Lee. The couple married in
nineteen forty, and their romance was as intense as it
was public. They exchanged heartfelt letters, with Olivier famously calling
Lee his jewelkin and professing his deep affection for her.
(06:45):
Their love affair was one for the ages, and despite
their later separation, it's clear that Vivian held a special
place in his heart. Chuck Connors. Many historians write Chuck
was not gay, but on the same time, many rights
he was is simple. His professional life was well documented,
but his personal life was largely private, leading to rumors
(07:07):
about his relationships. Although he had close friendships with several men,
a normal part of life for many people, some have
speculated that these connections might suggest something more, but the
facts tell a different story. Throughout his life, Connors was
married three times, each marriage ending for various personal reasons.
His first wife, Elizabeth Ruddell, a Canadian, was his partner
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from nineteen forty eight until nineteen sixty two. After their divorce,
he married Kamala Devi, an Indian actress with whom he
starred in Geronimo. Their marriage lasted from nineteen sixty three
to nineteen seventy two. Connors's third marriage, to Faith Quabius,
also an actress, lasted from nineteen seventy seven to nineteen eighty.
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Each of these relationships suggests a romantic interest in women,
countering the rumors about their sexuality. In fact, many of
the rumors about Connor's sexualis appear to be based on
simple misunderstandings about his friendships and social life rather than
any credible evidence. So what do you think was he gay?
Tyrone power? Tyrone power was a Hollywood heart throb whose
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talent and looks made him one of the most iconic
leading men of his time. But beneath his dashing on
screen persona lies a story full of intrigue, mystery, and rumor.
One of the most talked about sources on Power's private
life is the book The Secret Life of Tyrone Power
by Hector Ours. Ours claim that Power was indeed romantically
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involved with some of Hollywood's leading ladies, including Lanna Turner,
Judy Garland, and Linda Christian, but he also hinted at
a more secretive side of Power's love life, suggesting he
had hidden relationships with men. Some, however, have said the
book's title might suggest more drama than it delivers, leaving
readers with more questions than answers. And then there's Scottie Bowers,
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Hollywood's fixer of sorts, who, in his memoir Full Service
claimed he arranged discreet encounters for many famous actors of
the time, including Tyrone Power. Bowers painted a picture of
old Hollywood where stars relied on secrecy to protect their
careers and reputations. According to Bowers, he helped Power and
many others keep their personal lives under wraps, a fact
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that only adds to the mystery around Power's relationships. Power's
story isn't unique, though he's often mentioned alongside other famous
names like Errol Flynn, Montgomery Clift, Salmoneo, and Charles Lawton,
all of whom were rumored to have led private lives
that differed from their on screen images. In the years
after Power's passing, multiple books explored these rumors, with some
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claiming he was gay or bisexual, Yet without solid confirmation,
Power's true story remains elusive, hidden within Hollywood's layers of
glamour and secrecy. Jim Nabors the man who brought Gomer
Pile to life with his classic country humor and warm
baritone singing voice. To fans of the Andy Griffith Show.
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In Gomer Pyle USMC, he was the lovable, goofy character
with a big heart and a memorable golly. But behind
the scenes, Neighbors lived a quieter, more private life that
only a few close friends and colleagues truly knew about.
Neighbour's sexuality was an open secret among those who worked
with him in the nineteen sixties and nineteen seventies. He
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knew from a young age that he was different, but
in a conservative industry and era, he chose to keep
this part of his life private For Neighbors, Maintaining a
separation between his public and private life allowed him to
keep working and protect his personal relationships. Despite the pressures
to remain quiet, Neighbors found love and companionship that lasted
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for nearly four decades. In twenty thirteen, he married his
partner Stan Cadwalader in Seattle, Washington, just after same sex
marriage was legalized in the state. Reflecting on his life,
Mbers once shared with Hawaii News Now that he felt
truly blessed to have found someone to share his life
with for so long. Charles Lawton Charles Lawton was a
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true powerhouse of classic Hollywood, with a legacy marked by
his unforgettable roles in compelling personal life. Known for his
versatility on screen, Lawton made his mark in films like
The Private Life of Henry the Eighth, Mutiny on the Bounty,
and Witness for the Prosecution. Lawton began a relationship with
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fellow actress Elsa Lanchester in nineteen twenty seven, and the
two were married two years later. Their partnership was one
of Hollywood's enduring unions, lasting until Lawton's death. They appeared
together on screen in several films, including Rembrandt and Witness
for the Prosecution, where both received Academy Award nominations. But
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behind their long lasting marriage was a nuanced dynamic that
blended professional respect with a complicated personal relationship. Lawton's private
life was complex. Although married, he was widely known among
Hollywood insiders to have been attracted to both men and women.
According to Full Service Scotty Bowers's memoir about Old Hollywood,
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Lawton reportedly had a deep affection for tyrone power and
is said to have lived much of his private life
through discreete relationships with men. While rumors circulated about the
reasons for Lawton and Lanchester not having children, their friend
Maurene O'Hara suggested it was due to a health issue
related to Lanchester. Lanchester herself later admitted she chose not
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to have children, adding another layer to their story. Paul Winfield,
no doubt. Paul Winfield was a gifted actor, celebrated for
his unforgettable roles in Sounder, The Terminator and countless other classics.
While his talent on screen spoke for itself, Winfield's personal
life was a more private journey. Winfield was in a loving,
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long term relationship with architect and set to design Charles
Gillen Jr. For thirty years up until Gillan's passing in
two thousand and two. Their bond was deep and lasting,
and the two are buried together in Los Angeles. In
an era when Hollywood wasn't particularly welcoming to LGBTQ plus actors, Winfield,
like many others, felt compelled to keep his private life hidden.
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His friend, actor producer Jack Larson, once shared that while
Winfield was openly gay among friends, he remained discreet with
the public. The fear of losing work was very real,
especially for an actor of his generation who had to
navigate the pressures and prejudices of time before coming out.
Winfield was even romantically linked with his Sounder co star
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Cecily Tyson. The two reportedly pretended to be a couple
a way to help Winfield keep his private life under
wraps while avoiding unwonted questions about his personal life. This
relationship allowed him to protect both his career and his
authentic self. Walter Pigeon Walter Pigeon was one of Hollywood's
most dignified leading men. He was celebrated for his roles
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in Missus Miniver, A, Forbidden Planet, and many other classic films.
With his refined presence and deep commanding voice, Pigeon became
a staple of the Golden Age of cinema. But like
many stars of his era, there's more to his story
than what we saw on the screen. Born in Canada,
Pigeon initially pursued a career in law before discovering his
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passion for acting. He moved to Hollywood, where he quickly
made a name for himself in the nineteen thirties and
nineteen forties, especially with his roles alongside leading ladies like
Greer Garson. The two were a beloved on screen pair,
and their performances together, particularly in Missus miniver earned them
both Acclaim and Academy Award nominations. Despite his success, Pigeon
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kept his personal life relatively private. Known as a gentleman
among his peers, he avoided Hollywood's party scene and focused
on his craft. Although he was married twice, his life
off screen was notably quiet. Even as he became one
of MGM's go to leading men, there were whispers here
and there about his personal relationships, but Pigeon always maintained
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a dignified and reserved image in the public eye. Joe
Flynn Joe Flynn was a name that might not immediately
ring a bell, but his face and voice are unmistakable
to fans of classic television and film. Best known for
his role as Captain Wallace Binghamton in the nineteen sixties
sitcom McHale's Navy, Flynn's career was marked by his distinctive
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comedic style and memorable performances. Born on November eighth, nineteen
twenty four, in Youngstown, Ohio, Flynn's early life was a
blend of academia and entertainment. He attended Northwestern University, where
he studied drama and political science. His initial foray into
entertainment was as a ventriloquist and radio performer, showcasing his
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versatility from the start. During World War Two, Flynn served
in the Army's Special Services Branch, entertaining troops stateside. After
the war, he moved to Hollywood, making his film debut
in The Big Chase nineteen fifty four. Flynn's big break
came with McHale's Navy, where his portrayal of the bumbling
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yet endearing Captain Binghamton endeared him to audiences. His comedic
timing and unique voice made the character unforgettable. Beyond this,
Roll Flynn became a staple in Disney films during the
nineteen sixties and nineteen seventies, appearing in classics like The
Lovebug and The Computer War. Tennis Shoes. Michael Kerns. Michael
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Kerns found himself reflecting on the life and choices of
Rock Hudson, one of the industry's most beloved yet hidden figures.
In his one man show, Rock, Kerns explores the path
he could have taken, a path Hudson walked, where fame
meant concealing one's true self. Kerns describes a deep parallel
with Hudson. Both came from the Midwest, both had classic
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leading man looks, and both arrived in Hollywood with dreams
of stardom. But while Hudson lived in a time when
being an outgay man meant risking everything, Kerns took a
different approach. He chose to live openly, embracing his identity,
even if it meant fewer roles or less fame. Looking back,
he realizes that he could have let someone mold me
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into the Hollywood image Hudson had to play, but he's
grateful he chose otherwise. In Rock, Kerns unpacks Hudson's hidden
life from the pressures to appear straight to his heartbreaking
end as one of the first public figures to die
from AIDS related complications in nineteen eighty five. Kerns even
recalls a brief encounter with Hudson at a bathhouse in
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nineteen eighty three, a moment that made Hudson's life feel
all the more real and relatable to him. Kerns realized
that while Hudson's fame was impressive, it came at a
steep personal cost, a sacrifice of peace and authenticity. Danny
Kay Kay married Sylvia Fine in nineteen forty, and this
partnership was not just romantic, but it was also professional.
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Fine was instrumental in shaping Kay's career, writing songs and
routines that showcased his talents. However, their marriage faced challenges
and the couples separated in nineteen forty seven. Although they
remained close collaborators throughout his career, their separation, combined with
Kay's own enigmatic nature, added fuel to long standing rumors
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about his personal life and relationships outside the marriage. Over
the years, multiple biographies and Hollywood insiders have hinted that
Kay may have been romantically involved with both men and women.
This speculation was particularly intriguing given the societal expectations of
the time, as Kay was known for his unique sensitivity
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and theatrical flare, traits that some in Hollywood coded as
too soft or too theatrical, terms often used to subtly
suggest a different kind of mask illity. But it's not
just his demeanor that kept tongues wagging. Kay's close friendships
impersonal connections with high profile figures in Hollywood kept the
rumors alive. Perhaps the most surprising story involves Kay's friendship
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with Laurence Olivier. A recent biography of Vivian Lee, Olivier's wife,
suggested that their marriage may have been strained not only
by Lee's mental health struggles, but also because of a
possible romantic connection between Olivier and Kay. Although there's no
concrete evidence to confirm this, the notion adds a fascinating
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twist to Kay's legacy. Olivier and Kay were known to
be close, and some accounts even described them as having
an intense bond. Sir John Gilguod. Gilgood never hit his sexuality,
but he was a product of a time when being
openly gay could bring harsh consequences, especially in the public eye.
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Despite this, he found a way to live authentically, choosing
not to discuss his personal life o In nineteen eighty eight, however,
he made a significant acknowledgment publicly recognizing his relationship with
his longtime partner Martin Hensler. This quiet revelation spoke volumes
about the strength of their bond, even if Gielgud never
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felt the need to speak about it further. For Gelgood,
it wasn't about hiding. It was about maintaining a dignified privacy,
something he held dear in a time when many actors
had to keep their relationships hidden entirely, Gelgood's approach to
his personal life was one of quiet bravery. His decision
to acknowledge Hensler was a meaningful choice, especially considering the
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era's often unforgiving attitudes toward LGBT people's individuals. Gilgud's relationship
with Hensler, like his career, was marked by dedication and integrity.
When Gelgud passed away in two thousand at the age
of ninety six. He left behind not only an unmatched
legacy in theater and film, but also a quiet example
of a life lived with authenticity. His legacy endures as
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a reminder that greatness on stage is often accompanied by
grace and dignity behind the scenes. Divine Divine, also known
as Harris Glenn Milsted, was a true icon of the
LGBTQ plus community and a trailblazer for queer visibility in entertainment.
With his outrageous style, fearless performances, and unforgettable characters, Divine
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left an indelible mark on pop culture that still resonates today.
Growing up in the nineteen fifties, Baltimore, Millsted's childhood wasn't easy.
He was bullied for being overweight and different, and experienced
that many LGBTQ plus individuals could relate to at the time.
But at age sixteen, he found a friend and ally
in filmmaker John Waters, who would become his lifelong collaborator.
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Waters saw Milsted's potential, accepted him as he was, and
together they would push boundaries and create a genre all
their own. Under the stage name Divine Milstead became known
as the Queen of Filth and carved out a space
for himself as a drag queen, musical performer, and cult
film star. Divine starred in Waters's infamous films like Pink, Flamingos,
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Female Trouble in Polyester, bringing outrageous humor and unforgettable characters
to life. His performances were both shocking and hilarious, redefining
what it meant to be a drag queen and creating
an image that went beyond the mainstream's expectations. But Divine's
talents didn't stop it acting. He also ventured into music,
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recording rock and disco tracks that became hits in the
gay club scene, and in nineteen eighty eight, he took
on the iconic role of Edna Turnblad in waters film Hairspray,
a performance that introduced him to an even wider audience
and remains one of his most beloved roles, Earl Holloman.
The question of Earl Holloman's sexuality has been a topic
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of discussion among fans and media for decades. Given the
era in which he rose to fame, societal pressures regarding
sexuality were vastly different from today. In the world of
Hollywood legends, few names resonate quite like Earl Holloman. Known
for his captivating performances and undeniable charm, Holliman has left
a lasting mark on film and television. Yet beyond his
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successful career, questions have swirled for years about his personal life,
specifically his romantic relationships and the rumors surrounding his secret
closet case. Despite his fame, Holloman has always kept his
personal life out of the public eye, fueling curiosity. While
he was never directly linked to a serious public relationship,
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speculation about his romantic life persisted. Hollywood in the mid
twentieth century was not exactly a safe place for LGBTQ
plus individuals, and for many, keeping a low profile was
crucial for their careers. Though Holloman himself has never publicly
identified his sexuality, his choice to keep his private life
private has aw only added to the intrigue. During that time,
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many actors faced significant pressure to appear straight, especially those
with leading man looks. Rumors circulated about several high profile stars,
and Hollomann was no exception. Yet it's important to view
these rumors within the context of Hollywood's often restrictive environment,
where privacy was fiercely guarded and speculation often filled the gaps.
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