August 6, 2024 • 8 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Mastering Dating, broadcasting to eighty five countries worldwide.
With a wealth of experience as a seasoned dating coach,
your host at Mastering Dating has empowered clients globally and
now she's here to share valuable insights with you. So
sit back, relax, and get ready to dive into today's episode.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Welcome to Mastering Dating. I'm Velaska, so great to have
you guys back for another episode today. In today's episode,
I'll be sharing with you how to tell whether or
not someone is cheating on you. So, if you suspect
that your partner is cheating on you, listen to this
episode and look out for any of the signs that
I am about to share with you. So, one of
(00:50):
the biggest indicators that someone is cheating on you is
changes in communication. If you notice that your partner is
no longer communicating with you in the same way, that
is often an indication that they do have someone on
the side, or they're not as interested in you. So
(01:10):
some of the things that you want to look out
for are they're not telling you I love you anymore,
they're not telling you about their day anymore, they don't
want to answer questions, they come up with reasons as
to why they can't talk with you. They storm off
without a reason, without saying anything. They start arguments just
(01:34):
for the hell of it. They refuse to discuss uncomfortable topics.
They ignore what you say. They accuse you of things
rather than talk about whatever the problem is. They use
this missive body language like rolling their eyes or closing
their eyes, or putting their arms against their chest. Maybe
(01:56):
they stall or procrastinate, to procrastinate to avoid certain topics
or certain conversations because they suspect that you know something.
So these are all things that you can look out
for when it comes to changes in communication. Another thing
to watch out for is changes in their appearance. If
(02:17):
they suddenly start taking better care of themselves, whether it's
suddenly picking up exercise more exercising, or changing their wardrobe
completely or totally changing the way that they look, and
this is not normal for them, then that could be
an indicator. Wearing clothes you've never seen, wearing a different
style of clothing, dressing better than usual. I mean, we
(02:41):
all go through times where we want an updated look,
especially women. We do that quite often. I change my
hairstyle constantly. I like to change my clothes the style
constantly too, so that's a pretty common occurrence. But if
I always do it, and I always do these things
from the moment that you meet me, then that's normal
for me, right, I always do it. But if you're
(03:03):
with a partner who never does these things and then suddenly,
out of nowhere, starts doing this all the time, that
is an indicator that they are cheating or that they
are interested in someone different. Another very big thing to
look out for is that they want to spend more
time away from you. Suddenly they don't really want to
be with you anymore. They have new hobbies that they've
picked up, they are secretive or vague about what they
(03:26):
are doing, they show no interest in any of your hobbies,
and they don't invite you to take part in their
new hobbies. Or maybe they're even working a longer time
or longer hours at work. These are all indicators that
they could possibly be cheating on you. Another thing to
look out for is attitude changes. Maybe they're changing their
(03:51):
attitude by being rude or by starting arguments with you,
or by being more negative than unusual or critical of you.
Maybe they pick fights with you really often. These are
all things to look out for. Someone who is cheating
is usually very defensive. If you mention anything about them
(04:12):
possibly cheating, so they suddenly get defensive. That is a
very big sign and they may be cheating on you.
Another thing, of course, is lying. If you can see
that they are really not telling you the truth about something,
that they're being this honest about something that they clearly
are not telling the truth about something, then you have
to ask why are they lying. If they are doing
(04:35):
this and you see some of the other signs that
I've shared with you so far, then that's a pretty
big indicator that they are cheating on you. Another thing
to look out for is that maybe they are avoiding you.
They're avoidant, they don't really want to talk about things
with you, they don't want to hang out with you.
(04:56):
They suddenly abandon whatever religious believes you both share. These
are all different things that you can also look out for.
Or maybe they're checking people out all the time. Maybe
they even accuse you of cheating. They turn it around
and accuse you instead to take attention off of them. Okay,
that's another thing to look out for. Changes in your
(05:18):
private intimate life. That's another thing. If they love being
intimate with you before, and now suddenly they don't want
to be intimate with you, they don't want to spend
any sexy time with you. That's a big indication that
they have someone on the side. If you see them
always texting or sneaking off to take phone calls, or
changing their passwords to accounts that you mutually shared, or
(05:43):
suddenly you can't reach them during certain times of the
day when before you could always reach them. Any of
these things could also be signs that they are cheating.
Or if they stop using shared devices with you, or
if they turn off the phone when you're around, all
of these things that can be seen as odd behavior.
If they are not. They weren't doing these things before
(06:05):
when you first met, and they just suddenly start doing
any of these things out of the blue, then those
are all indicators of them cheating. Remember that it is
not so much what someone is doing, it's the change
and behavior that you want to look for. A lot
of the things that I mentioned today are things that
people always do because that's their norm. So you have
(06:29):
to think about it this way. Did my partner do
these things before? If so, then they actually haven't changed
anything about themselves. If the answer is no, then there's
behavioral change and you have to look at that and
you have to ask, why is this happening, Why did
they change? Why is this different? Okay, So look at
these signs that I shared with you and look for
(06:50):
those to see if your partner is doing any of
these things. But remember that it's important to look at
the change. What is different now that wasn't there before,
or what was there before that is not here now.
That's what you're looking for. Okay. And I wanted to
update you guys before I end today's episode. I wanted
to let you know that I changed my Instagram handle.
(07:10):
It was mastering Dating for a long time, and I've
changed it to Veleska dot g dot Latour and I
will provide the link in the show notes if you
want to follow me, but I have changed it for
Mastering Dating. If you guys do follow me on Mastering
Dating on Instagram and you're wondering where I disappeared to,
(07:32):
I haven't disappeared. I'm still there and I'm still going
to be providing you with coaching tips for dating and relationships.
But I've changed it to Veleska dot g dot latour
because Uh, the algorithm didn't seem to like the mastering dating.
It was hiding me from a lot of accounts and
I wasn't getting seen by people, and I'm still having
(07:53):
trouble with that. But i just changed the usernames, so
I'm hoping that that's going to help out with the algorithm,
as well as the the fact that I like to
share a lot of other things too on my page.
I like to share my travels with my followers, and
I like to share other coaching tips too, because I'm
also a life coach and an empowerment coach, not just
(08:14):
a dating coach, so I'd like to share different types
of content, and I believe that the new username will
be more appropriate. So just in case you follow me
on Instagram, there has been that change. Okay, I love
you guys. Thank you for being supportive of my podcast
and coming back for another episode. If you're new, hit
the subscribe button follow me. I'll be happy to have
(08:34):
you here. Take care,
Welcome to Mastering Dating, broadcasting to eighty five countries worldwide.
With a wealth of experience as a seasoned dating coach,
your host at Mastering Dating has empowered clients globally and
now she's here to share valuable insights with you. So
sit back, relax, and get ready to dive into today's episode.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Welcome to Mastering Dating. I'm Velaska, so great to have
you guys back for another episode today. In today's episode,
I'll be sharing with you how to tell whether or
not someone is cheating on you. So, if you suspect
that your partner is cheating on you, listen to this
episode and look out for any of the signs that
I am about to share with you. So, one of
(00:50):
the biggest indicators that someone is cheating on you is
changes in communication. If you notice that your partner is
no longer communicating with you in the same way, that
is often an indication that they do have someone on
the side, or they're not as interested in you. So
(01:10):
some of the things that you want to look out
for are they're not telling you I love you anymore,
they're not telling you about their day anymore, they don't
want to answer questions, they come up with reasons as
to why they can't talk with you. They storm off
without a reason, without saying anything. They start arguments just
(01:34):
for the hell of it. They refuse to discuss uncomfortable topics.
They ignore what you say. They accuse you of things
rather than talk about whatever the problem is. They use
this missive body language like rolling their eyes or closing
their eyes, or putting their arms against their chest. Maybe
(01:56):
they stall or procrastinate, to procrastinate to avoid certain topics
or certain conversations because they suspect that you know something.
So these are all things that you can look out
for when it comes to changes in communication. Another thing
to watch out for is changes in their appearance. If
(02:17):
they suddenly start taking better care of themselves, whether it's
suddenly picking up exercise more exercising, or changing their wardrobe
completely or totally changing the way that they look, and
this is not normal for them, then that could be
an indicator. Wearing clothes you've never seen, wearing a different
style of clothing, dressing better than usual. I mean, we
(02:41):
all go through times where we want an updated look,
especially women. We do that quite often. I change my
hairstyle constantly. I like to change my clothes the style
constantly too, so that's a pretty common occurrence. But if
I always do it, and I always do these things
from the moment that you meet me, then that's normal
for me, right, I always do it. But if you're
(03:03):
with a partner who never does these things and then suddenly,
out of nowhere, starts doing this all the time, that
is an indicator that they are cheating or that they
are interested in someone different. Another very big thing to
look out for is that they want to spend more
time away from you. Suddenly they don't really want to
be with you anymore. They have new hobbies that they've
picked up, they are secretive or vague about what they
(03:26):
are doing, they show no interest in any of your hobbies,
and they don't invite you to take part in their
new hobbies. Or maybe they're even working a longer time
or longer hours at work. These are all indicators that
they could possibly be cheating on you. Another thing to
look out for is attitude changes. Maybe they're changing their
(03:51):
attitude by being rude or by starting arguments with you,
or by being more negative than unusual or critical of you.
Maybe they pick fights with you really often. These are
all things to look out for. Someone who is cheating
is usually very defensive. If you mention anything about them
(04:12):
possibly cheating, so they suddenly get defensive. That is a
very big sign and they may be cheating on you.
Another thing, of course, is lying. If you can see
that they are really not telling you the truth about something,
that they're being this honest about something that they clearly
are not telling the truth about something, then you have
to ask why are they lying. If they are doing
(04:35):
this and you see some of the other signs that
I've shared with you so far, then that's a pretty
big indicator that they are cheating on you. Another thing
to look out for is that maybe they are avoiding you.
They're avoidant, they don't really want to talk about things
with you, they don't want to hang out with you.
(04:56):
They suddenly abandon whatever religious believes you both share. These
are all different things that you can also look out for.
Or maybe they're checking people out all the time. Maybe
they even accuse you of cheating. They turn it around
and accuse you instead to take attention off of them. Okay,
that's another thing to look out for. Changes in your
(05:18):
private intimate life. That's another thing. If they love being
intimate with you before, and now suddenly they don't want
to be intimate with you, they don't want to spend
any sexy time with you. That's a big indication that
they have someone on the side. If you see them
always texting or sneaking off to take phone calls, or
changing their passwords to accounts that you mutually shared, or
(05:43):
suddenly you can't reach them during certain times of the
day when before you could always reach them. Any of
these things could also be signs that they are cheating.
Or if they stop using shared devices with you, or
if they turn off the phone when you're around, all
of these things that can be seen as odd behavior.
If they are not. They weren't doing these things before
(06:05):
when you first met, and they just suddenly start doing
any of these things out of the blue, then those
are all indicators of them cheating. Remember that it is
not so much what someone is doing, it's the change
and behavior that you want to look for. A lot
of the things that I mentioned today are things that
people always do because that's their norm. So you have
(06:29):
to think about it this way. Did my partner do
these things before? If so, then they actually haven't changed
anything about themselves. If the answer is no, then there's
behavioral change and you have to look at that and
you have to ask, why is this happening, Why did
they change? Why is this different? Okay, So look at
these signs that I shared with you and look for
(06:50):
those to see if your partner is doing any of
these things. But remember that it's important to look at
the change. What is different now that wasn't there before,
or what was there before that is not here now.
That's what you're looking for. Okay. And I wanted to
update you guys before I end today's episode. I wanted
to let you know that I changed my Instagram handle.
(07:10):
It was mastering Dating for a long time, and I've
changed it to Veleska dot g dot Latour and I
will provide the link in the show notes if you
want to follow me, but I have changed it for
Mastering Dating. If you guys do follow me on Mastering
Dating on Instagram and you're wondering where I disappeared to,
(07:32):
I haven't disappeared. I'm still there and I'm still going
to be providing you with coaching tips for dating and relationships.
But I've changed it to Veleska dot g dot latour
because Uh, the algorithm didn't seem to like the mastering dating.
It was hiding me from a lot of accounts and
I wasn't getting seen by people, and I'm still having
(07:53):
trouble with that. But i just changed the usernames, so
I'm hoping that that's going to help out with the algorithm,
as well as the the fact that I like to
share a lot of other things too on my page.
I like to share my travels with my followers, and
I like to share other coaching tips too, because I'm
also a life coach and an empowerment coach, not just
(08:14):
a dating coach, so I'd like to share different types
of content, and I believe that the new username will
be more appropriate. So just in case you follow me
on Instagram, there has been that change. Okay, I love
you guys. Thank you for being supportive of my podcast
and coming back for another episode. If you're new, hit
the subscribe button follow me. I'll be happy to have
(08:34):
you here. Take care,
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