Love and perception

This episode is about how we perceive love and how love can change as we change over time

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Love and perception. They say love is relative to what
one person perceives they are receiving verses to what the
other person is giving them. Is this true? How can
this be? How can people who claim to love each
other one sees the relationship one way and the other
person in the same relationship sees things in a different ways.

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At times, it can be said is a matter of
communication styles, and other times it is just that both
people are no longer or are never on the same page.
Sometimes such different views can be reconciled and life can
go on and each person in the relationship becomes wiser
for the experience. But truth be told, there are times

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there is no fix and will return to what used
to work. As we go through life, we grow and change.
Sometimes change works well both, and sometimes it just doesn't
work anymore. The truth is that love can often be
looked through rose color glass is for a long time,
all kinds of love. We want to believe our families
are great and supportive, and we want to overlook many

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of their faults. We want partnerships that work, if not forever,
for a very long time. The truth can sometimes be
much darker. As much as we may want to retain
that feeling of everything else is okay and it's going
to be okay. We come to realize that everything is
not okay, and maybe it has not been okay for
a very long time. It is often fear having maybe

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given control to the idea of what we want things
to be like, rather than understanding them for what they are.
The idea, then, is that we let fear dictate our emotions.
And are we really then feeling loved for anyone? This
is just a thought. In a changing world, we are
constantly forced into changes, more often than not necessary changes

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as we change. Are we the same person? And how
does this affects how we see and love others? Of course, this,
this is this goes both ways, so well for now,
remember that although life may bring you many storms, love
always winds. Till next time, stay well,