Love in love there is no room for comparison

This episode talks about the idea of comparing relationships

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
And love and love, there is no room for comparison.
It seems more and more people seem to compare the
relationship with those they see around them, whether friends, people
they see in social media, or even celebrities. The idea
of creating any comparison between the relationship you have with

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your partner and any other couple, whether you know them
or not, is a recipe for disaster. Some people wrongfully
believe that celebrities are happy just because you see them
smiling and showing public affection and saying nice things about
each other. But are they and should this be how

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we measure our sense or what a relationship should be.
Some people go as far as comparing other couples and
give opinions as to whether they are compatible in looks
and if one is just not attractive and therefore not
a match match according to who the relationship judge. Some

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people think that this is where the problem is. The
idea of comparing one's relationship to anyone else's is like
not living your life but someone else's and not being
present in your relationship that the relationship is that they
are about the working together, being present for each other,

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trying to understand what not only makes you happy? But
what makes the other person happy? Perhaps if more of
us took the time to look at our relationships, we
would be happier, or at least know what would make
us happy in a relationship. Well, for now, remember that
although life may bring you many storms, love always wins.

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Till next time, stay well,