Season 1 Episode 7: Narcissistic Abuse in Relationships: Analyzing Texts and Manipulations from My Ex -

Season 1 Episode 7

In this episode I talk about my Ex’s extreme patterns of manipulation and gaslighting
I point out the different photos my EX sent out as “proof of the damage” in the apartment that he claims to have found when he went back “the other day”
The photos that show ZERO damage are the photos that have not been edited and were taken on April 6, 2024
The photos that show actual damage - including our ripped up marriage certificate my EX can be seen holding up with both of his hands in the photo - were edited on April 12, 2024 - right before he sent the images to my friend -
In my EX’s other text messages to my friend
my EX claimed that I was “up there” wreaking havoc around all the SMALL TOWNS in the MIDWEST
My EX sent the text messages and images to the friend with whom I had been staying with, for almost a week, by that time.
A FACT that clearly made my EX LOOK VERY BAD and further confirmed My EX WAS LYING IN REAL TIME

I talk about returning to the “old apartment” with my EX in early November 2023.
I talk about the text message I sent to my EXBFF - where I poured my heart out and apologized to her profusely - and she COMPLETELY IGNORED IT - like all great therapists do…….right??

I talk a bit about being shaped by my Mom’s response, or lack there of, when I was sick and injured as a child in the 80’s
And I go on a small diatribe about GenX - the Forgotten Generation - and why we take offense to being called Boomers

I wonder what happened to my 3 rescue dogs that My EX STOLE and forbade me to see - despite me being their main caretaker for 9 years -
I share a little about how I volunteered with a rescue organization and how, now, I’m much too traumatized by my EX’s theft of my dogs to even begin to think about volunteering or rescuing again, anytime soon

Once my Ex and I return to our apartment to pack up - my EX immediately begins to tell stories of the conversations he’s having with the neighbors, who all seem to say the same thing……kind of like they’re reciting a script or something
We get to the 9th and final wedding anniversary I will ever celebrate with my abusive EX Husband and tell about his extreme gaslighting behavior - in ALL OF HIS TEXT MESSAGES to me after he abandoned me in March, 2024

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The story as told in the Podcast and Website is based on my understanding and perspective, it should not be interpreted as factual claims about any individual or entity without further verification. The names and places have been changed or left cryptic to protect the accused. My name has also been changed to protect myself from my ex as he continues to drag out the divorce process - a divorce he filed for - in court




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