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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, there are awesome humans. Brooklyn Weston, here your daily
dose of modern wisdom and life hacks, all wrapped up
in a neat little package called modern stoicism. You know
that feeling when you look in the mirror and uugh.
Sometimes you just don't feel it he compare yourself to others,
obsess over imperfections, and basically beat yourself up for not
being some idealized version of while you ever feel like
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life is one big highlight reel where everyone else is
slaying it except you. Well, guess what, you not alone.
We all have those days, or weeks or maybe even months.
But what if I told you there is a philosophy,
an ancient school of thought that can actually help you
navigate these feelings and develop a deeper sense of self acceptance.
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Buckle up, because today we're diving into stoicism and how
it can be your secret weapon for embracing who you
truly are. First things first, let's talk about the power
of perspective. Stoics believe that our emotions are heavily influenced
by our judgments and interpretations of events. When we perceive
something as a threat or failure, we trigger feelings of negativity,
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and self criticism. But here is a whist. Those perceptions
aren't always accurate. Sometimes we create these negative narratives in
our minds based on fear, insecurity or societal pressures. Stoicism
encourages us to challenge these thoughts, to ask ourselves if
they are truly reflecting reality or just to our own
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internal biases. Think of it like this, He wouldn't believe
everything a gossip magazine says about celebrities, right, so I
believe everything your in a critic tells you about yourself. Second,
understanding that life is a journey, not a destination. We
tend to get caught up in the pursuit of some
idealized future, thin it richer, more successful, and forget to
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appreciate the present moment. But stoics emphasize living virtuously in
the here and now. They believe that true happiness comes
from focusing on what we can control our thoughts, actions,
and reactions. I cull tovating inner peace and contentment, we
lessen the need for external validation and self comparison. It's
like that saying, be happy with who you are because
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life is a journey, not a destination. Their practicing gratitude seriously,
this one is huge. Stokes believe that acknowledging the good
things in our lives, big or small, helps us shift
our focus from what was lacking to what we already have.
Think about it. A warm bed on a cold night,
a delicious cup of coffee, a genuine laugh with a friend.
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These are all simple joys that often go unnoticed when
we're preoccupied with our own perceived shortcomings. Worth remember that
you're not alone. We all struggle with self acceptance at
some point. It's human nature to compare ourselves to others
and feel inadequate. But stoicism reminds us that everyone has
their own unique path, strengths and weaknesses. Embrace your imperfections.
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They make you who you are. Lastly, don't be afraid
to seek support. If you're feeling overwhelmed or stuck in
a psych call of self criticism. Reach out to a
trusted friend, family member, therapist, or even join a stoic community.
Sharing your experiences and connecting with others can provide valuable
insights and encouragement. Now, let me tell you about a
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real life example that I think really highlights this idea
of self acceptance. Imagine this, you're at a networking event,
surrounded by people who seem to have it all figured out,
successful careers, impressive connections, effortlessly colled demeanor. You start comparing yourself,
feeling like an impostor in your own skin. But instead
of letting those negative thoughts spiral, remember the stoic principle
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of focusing on what you can control. You can choose
to engage in meaningful conversations, share your unique perspectives, and
be genuinely present with the people around you. Even if
you don't lie on a dream job or make a
ton of connections, you can still walk away feeling proud
of yourself for shuring up authentically. Because true success isn't
about comparing yourself to others. It's about striving to be
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the best version of yourself. Sir. Remember, self acceptance is
not about being perfect. It's about embracing your imperfections and
recognizing your inherent worth. It's a journey, not a destination,
and every step you take towards greater self love is
a victory. Ready to put this into action, stop by
practicing gratitude for three things in your life right now,
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big or small. Challenge those negative thoughts that pop up
throughout the day and ask yourself is this thought really true?
And lastly, remember that you are amazing just as you are.
Join me tomorrow for another dose of modern stoicism, where
we'll explore how to cultivate resilience in the face of adversity.
Don't forget to share your thoughts and experiences on social media.
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I love hearing from you. Until then, keep striving for gritness,
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