August 9, 2024 • 42 mins
In this episode, we dive into the power of humor and honesty, exploring how they intertwine in our personal lives and broader societal movements. Our guest shares their journey through comedy, revealing the ways laughter can break down barriers and uncover deep truths. We also discuss recent global events, including the ongoing fight for freedom and justice, highlighting the resilience and courage of individuals standing up for what they believe in. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation that blends light-hearted moments with profound insights.
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Speaker 1 (00:05):
I've been talking for a lifetime and paid for it
for almost a lifetime. Certainly different platform, mostly stand up comedy,
and this, you know, this journey is obviously there's no
way I can't not be funny a little bit here
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and there. I just see things that way. I try
to use the alchemy of laughter in everything that I do,
and some things will turn out funny and some things
some teams. Sometimes people are just gonna They're gonna do
what they do. And one of the things that's very
important to me in stand up in any creation, is
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I can't think about what people's reactions are, especially if
they're projections, if there're things that they haven't worked out
and they're projecting it on. I've had it happen a
number of times. I even wrote a book, and some
people criticize the fact that I came out with certain
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things that made them uncomfortable. I did a one person
show as well when I talked about being kidnapped, and that,
along with many things that I share, has to do with,
first of all, my own pathway to recovery and freedom,
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soul freedom, and it has to do with also helping others,
including the children that I have and I want to
send messages to those children to not hide, to not
live in secrecy. And if I'm saying that about their mom,
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it's just the truth. And some people are offended by
the truth that goes on in politics all the time.
People don't want to hear something in therefore they vilify
and attack. If that's you, then move on to something else.
If you're here to judge and say you shouldn't say
that in front of your children, I believe that the
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other things that aren't said to the children should not
be done. I think that's the harm. I'm watching the tears,
I watch their sorrow, I watch their pain, I watch
them go inward, missing school, sick more often. My son
was number one in his classes. Two teachers told him that,
and he went on to missing a lot of school
and getting not good grades. That's the manifestation of the
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damage that's done from this cult leader taking their mom away.
She took her in a vulnerable state. People say talk
about menopause, it say that's sexist. Now it's not. You
have to say what it is. It's a menopause. It
could be a number of things. It could be trauma
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that wasn't dealt with. She had two brothers that committed
suicide within three weeks and one another. That's how we
met because she was there to deal with it in
a spiritual way at the spiritual center we attended separately.
That's where we met. We were just friends for years
because we were there to work out something because I
was having difficulties in my marriage at the time, and
I really wanted to not blame and make sure that
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I'm accountable, make sure that this is about me doing
everything that I can do to make that marriage work.
And I did, but it wasn't meant to be. That
was not a fit. This one I really thought was
a fit. I remember when we first got together, I said,
this is the secret to a great relationship, and I've
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passed this on to you and I still believe this.
By the way, the secret to a great relationship is
I see you for who you truly are, not what
I dictate you to be through projection or my past
or my wounds. And you see me for who I
truly am, not through any other filter. And that's how
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we began our relationship, and that was what really brought
us to some great years together. It was just I
would I would do things that would normally be punished
by my former wife before us, which was anything really anger.
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Stuff that came at me was absurd and made up
and truly like vengeful and just accusations out of nowhere
that are just so unfounded. That was really rough. And
here was this past wife. I don't know how to
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I have the X files going on here. So and
if you lose respect for me because I've been married
number of times, then also move on. I don't think
it's about analyzing it. I think this is about maybe
search for something inside of yourself that you might get
from this, because this is a discovery that I'm having daily,
working with people, working with guides, working on myself on
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spiritual development. I do my laughter lunges and my serenity squats,
and I'm gonna get in tip top shape spiritually, emotionally.
So if you don't want to hang with that, then
go to the next podcast. I could do a silly podcast.
I could do one that's me being a comedian and
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hanging out with the boys and the girls in comedy
and going back and forth and telling road stories. That's great,
it's great. That's not what this is. I'm in the
midst of something that's very, very profound. It's bigger than me,
and is I'm compelled to do this. I don't have
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a lot of other choices, and we're going to get
to that as well. There aren't a lot of choices
because of the judgment, because of laws. You know, there's
a law that if you make more money than you
pay the other person. So therefore, she did whatever she
wanted to do, spend money on anything that she wanted
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to spend on, including the scams, and there were several
of them. Mommy minutes ares Raven neured a millionaire just
with a coaching program from this Robin woman. I knew
nothing about it. I was like out earning money, but
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didn't have the decency to be honest and transparent with
her husband. And that's just a fact. You can say, oh,
he's bitter or whatever it is. I don't care. I'm
letting you know these facts because you might be going
through somebody who's an alcoholic, somebody who's joined some other
kind of a cult, even a religion or politics, or
they're all fixated. I noticed politics people in this mob mentality.
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I'm so happy I stepped out doing no good. I
just saw a guy post on Facebook. How do you
feel now, Komy? As If Komy is reading his Facebook post,
he's just trying to virtue signal and look like, Hey,
I'm on the right side here of politics. I'm out.
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I'm out on all of it because they're both corrupt,
and so is my ex wife. Corrupt. And you might
not want to hear it about your politician, your religious leader,
or your spouse or whoever it is. That's just the
case here. Corrupt. And there's a lot of stuff, a
lot of stuff, or I wouldn't be doing this. It's
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a lot of stuff to lead to me being highly
concerned for even the safety of the children. I'm not
using hyperbole or trying to exagger or whatever it is.
I watched a documentary about this cult with this woman,
Lorie Valo. She killed her two children, and I was
frightened because she lost her way. She had a happy
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marriage to children, same as I did. Killed those children,
got with this leader, this cult type of leader, killed
her husband, killed her brother. It's a big story. Actually,
it's a Netflix special. I'm looking at it. It's my
friend's sister and I've been on his podcast a few times.
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And let me tell you, one of the reasons I
do this is I'm hoping that someone says, hey, I
have an answer here, whether it's legal, whether it's an
intervention on her, whether it's a friend of her, as
a family member of hers that says, hey, lotus which
we call her here, you really have to examine yourself.
You can't take these kids down this path with you
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debauchery groups. There's another documentary called Orgasm inc. And that's
another thing, is this leader takes women through orgasms programs
and come on, get your freedom that way. I remember
we were married. I'm going, where are you getting the orgasms?
Where was she getting those orgasms? There was so much secrecy.
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This isn't a bitter guy talking about being cheated on.
I have no idea about cheating. I'm only going to
tell you what I do know. The things that were
found out, there's things that weren't found down. And I
mentioned and I was going to talk about one of
the worst times in my life, and I've had quite
a few bad times related to first ex wife taking
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us down that road. Of these accusations that were just
that's a tag that's tough to leave. That's a tough one.
Could have gone to prison for that if I wasn't
strong and resilient and faced. I'm not going to leave
these kids and a lot of moms and some dads.
That's what they do. They poison and the children. And
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it's called parentalienation. It was at its worst. All sorts
of people are involved in that one family members. It
fractures everyone, that's what it does. I'm imploring all of you,
do not take that road, no matter how mad you
are at your ex, at your ex spouse, no matter
how do not take people through the road of false
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allegations and accusations. And everything I say here is with
concern for her, not false allegations, things that really take
place and still do and have taken place. These are stories.
These are real stories. It come from just my memory
and my gut. I don't have anything written. I have
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one thing written. I saw this meme. I didn't want
to bring this up, believe it or not, it popped up.
AI is unbelievable, I'll say him. My hair is thinning. Boo,
go to Turkey. There's an ad for that. I mean,
apparently they must think I have a hard time with
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erections too, because I'm getting ed advice warning signs of
a cult. So here you go for your education in
case you have somebody that's going down this road. They're
never going to call it a cult. There's no way
she calls it that. I've asked her many times. Can
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you at least be examined? Can you at least go
to a professional. Can you at least get a diagnosis?
And this will tell you the level that we're talking about. No, no, no,
no no. It's a person that says, oh, I don't
have any difficulties in the meantime, broke leaves the family,
steals lies, cheats, I don't have a problem. At least
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see iva, Maybe you have, maybe you do have menopause,
maybe you have a midlife crisis or whatever it is.
Or maybe you haven't dealt with trauma from your past
like your brothers and so on. Maybe why not research
It's something not to do. A bypass on is when
you have brothers who would commit suicide, there's something, really,
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there's something there. You might take care of it, just
can't ignore it. That's what I'm saying to everyone here.
I'm not ignoring my stuff what I do bring into
but I'm not going to stand by, not going to
stand by and allow these children to be affected, like
my first two were. I did my best on that
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one and backfired because I was so strong in my
agenda as this is not going to happen. But that's
you know, moms are more powerful than dad's. Let's face it.
It's not a sexist thing to say. It's just, of
course I'm generalizing. It's pretty much true, especially with boys.
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The mom gives the boy kind of what they want,
probably not what they need. And there's a difference warning
signs of a cult here. It is number one. The
leader is always right. I've confronted this woman broke. We're
calling her broke and buy another vow and put it
somewhere if you like. And I've watched her deal with
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other people who they come at her and they'll say,
this is awful to do your children. Bragging about cheating
on her husband and bragging about her sexual escapades as
a middle aged woman and getting her I mean, it's
just all this just brage, don't you. Why do you
have to tell other people try to encourage them to
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leave their husbands. That's what she did. Criticism of the
leader or questioning the leader is considered persecution. Yeah, my
ex wife could never criticize this woman. I've asked her
so many times. I'm I'm sorry. The evidence, the actual
proof of this woman as a con artist. Look at
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the results, Look at the bank accounts, look at all
these things that you said. Although, oh, they got me
another cryptocurrency thing that was a ripof she lied to
me and didn't tell me that broke was involved in that,
and it was at the top of the funnel. However,
that works with the multi level marketing. That woman's at
the top every single time and uses my ex wife.
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It just uses her by appealing your ego. You're the greatest,
You're so sweet, you're awesome. Let's have a listening party,
let's listen to you. Yeah, a listening party where you
just talk and nobody feeds back to you with truth
and honesty and reflection. So therefore we can go to
a listening party and lie your ass off. If she
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can lie to me direct to my face so many times,
of course she's gonna lie to everyone else because it's
what it looks like. It's the ego number three. Anything
the leader does is justify no matter how harmful. It
may be, Oh yeah, justify coming after me and threatening
to take my children from me justifies it all the way.
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It's because you said some things, you were threatening. I
didn't do these threats that they were talking about. They
never heard from me, and they justified their actions. And
still to this day they have not taken that off
the table. And either as my ex wife, I have
text messages. I have enough on you to take you down.
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I've contacted my lawyers. You will stop this right now.
This from a guy who beat her kid to the
point child services would call. So so my ex wife,
she looks as the leaders can do no wrong. I
had my kids. They confronted her. Is that is it
true that he was taking Oh there's some excuse, Oh
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he was yelling loud or something like the neighbors called
or something like that. Some lie. The leader is the
only source of the truth. Everybody else is lying. Well
there you go. These are warning signs of occult number five.
Followers must be blindly devoted to the leader and never
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question him or her. My ex is not questioned why
there's no money coming in, why she's not wealth building
for other mamas. She's used the term mamas all the time.
It's this thing that appeals to women who probably have
the difficult time at home. Yeah, maybe maybe they feel
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dominated by the man. Maybe my ex felt dominated by me.
True perception wise, reality wise, I am there in support,
backing up or going to therapy or whatever it takes.
That's who this guy is. I can't speak for other guys.
And I understand the history of the world. Men are
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dominant creatures. But what's weird is every one it's a
woman who creates every penis. That's a fact. But there's
this underlying resentment that is historical and it's built up
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and I get it big time feminist my whole life,
give me no serve me, no good purpose. And I'm
still very compassionate and empathetic towards women one percent. I
shouldn't say one hundred percent, because there's so much a
part of me that has to have compassion and empathy
for me and for men. And this perpendulum has swung
so far. Me too, movement, bad date gets included, so
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now we get that label affixed to us and there's
no getting out of it. So I'm the abuser, bully,
bad guy, all of that, and who are they going
to believe this big, successful, six to twenty pounds man
with a big mouth followers? Where you gonna believe the
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meek one, the quiet one, the one who puts out
love messages, the one who dances on camera, the one
who puts filters on the camera, and make sure that
she has this beautiful light around her, the flowers, naming
herself Lotus, all of that stuff. Who are you going
to believe? That's obvious? And the con artists know that.
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The last one is the members won't recognize they are
in a cult. Oh well, there you go. I've said
it numerous times to Lotus is a cult? Can't tell
me otherwise. You can't tell me that this is You
are following this woman and left our family and your
own children tell you all the time that that's what
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you did doesn't mean anything, because the cult is that powerful,
and that's that it's more important than the family. She
took the interest of this woman, using Lotus to be
on the down line and all that kind of stuff,
in promoting her and promoting her orgasm programs and BDSM.
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She poses with a writing crop. And there's all of
that that I have to worry about. That message in
getting to my children. The dominance I'm going to read
coming up in the next episode, I'm going to read
the post that this woman has done, the leader has done.
So it's not like people, so you'd be suon. I
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can't be sued if all of this is fact. It's
just fact. I will read it to you, and it's
up to you. From there, maybe you might say, I
want to join if you want to join her with
their sovereign freedom and get out of your golden cage,
all this other terminology that hits vulnerable people. That's how
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cult leaders work. My dad was a cult leader. I
know you're laughing. Oh boy, this guy. Yeah, my life
is a weird one. It's also I really dig the
fulfilling parts of getting better, of the wellness, of the healing,
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of the processes that take place. Did not just that's
my lot in life. Oh it happened again. Yeah, look
at that repeat. Now the two ex wives accuse me
of this. You both do it in different ways, but
it's still the basic same thing. Luckily, these children were
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old enough have enough experience with me, as opposed to
the other ones were young and influenced, and police stations
and lawyers and miners, counselors. That was their life. They
have PTSD to this day. I feel really bad for them.
Nothing I can do, though, see that rescue boy. I
can't do anything about it. I can ask that other
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people might maybe if they're listening and if they know them,
they might say to them, hey, just meet with your
dad or meet with a neutral party. I always offer
that to everyone because I have nothing to hide. And
as far as these things go, unfortunately, these children have
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witnessed it, and they're very clear by the way. They
are very very clear on the things that have taken place.
They witnessed violence numerous times, they were kidnapped twice. They
witnessed snapping out by their mom tantrums, witnessed complete disassociation,
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walking out of rooms in the middle of conversations, just
so mean. You stand there going hey, can you please
not go? Right? No, it doesn't matter how I couch it,
She's gonna go. She can cut off. I used to
call it the face. She put this face on. Who
was the She went from the most beautiful woman in
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the world to the ugliest woman in the world, completely
cut off, and it felt like demonic possession. And listen
it happens. That's the ego and some of us like,
you don't think it can happen to you. Of course
it can happen. My ego told me it couldn't happen,
especially with her. Was I fooled? I don't know. So
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one time. This is when some you know, this was
when things got really rough and they started to get
out of denial about how powerful. The first coult was like,
I said this, Broke took her to this year at
a millionaire and I saw a scam right away. I
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told her that, but I endorsed it. You pay ten
thousand dollars twenty thousand dollars and you give into a
mansion with this raven who Raven coaches you and teaches
you how to be a millionaire. One month you move
in with her. And one thing about my ex wife,
she's so dedicated when she gets into something. She got
into it. She was like listening to this woman buying
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her food and feeding her turned into this whole crazy
control thing, of which Broke was like the co sponsor
of this. She was her husband was directing this thing,
and it sounded conceptually it was kind of cool. It's
gonna be reality showing how to be a millionaire. Conceptually,
it sounded good. That's what things about. That's the thing
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about con artists. They sound good. It's a nice little
program that they present. It's a pitch. They're pitching all
the time, and they're bragging and you when you uncover it,
which I have friends who are like lawyers, they'll always uncover,
whereas I'm naive, and I was naive with that to
when in my of course, my lotus was really naive.
Dove in and there was no mansion here. I was
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trying to fix that too, trying to find a mansion
for them. Gets in there and then people start dropping
and this woman's really abusive and humiliates people. That's the
other thing is the cult. What they do is they
they shame you if somebody's about to leave and you
have to have they make deals where you have to
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sign a contract and you're going to break the contract. Yeah,
it's all manipulation. I'm warning you. These are the telltale
signs when they manipulate people's minds into believing in this
mob mentality and it becomes a mob mentality, and this
is how things like the Holocaust happen. This is how
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it happens, how innocent people are sucked into this. And
understand if I ever come up with any comparisons, it's
not like, oh my god, he's comparison to the whole caust.
It's just off the top of my head. It's just
something that maybe you can understand that this is what
happens to people. It might not be as severe as
the Holocaust. In a knock of the door, yes, yeah,
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thank you, Jordan told me coming at twenty five minutes
and say, are you being heavy handed? Because he was
warning me about being heavy handed on these things. I said,
that's his thought on it, because the young guy hasn't
been through these things, and so I can understand. It's
almost like feedback. Here's feedback coming from one person. Is
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probably not the audience for this. So broke one by one.
People leave the year at a millionaire. You know it.
There's my ex all the way to the end. I
had brought an interventionist in my friend Ted, who's the
head of multi level marketing. He said, I've never heard
of this woman who's saying that she was at the
top of the heap and all this motus believed her.
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Who did it cost? It cost me a fortune. And please,
that's not sexist. It's just the fact I paid for
all of this hard work. I come from nothing, built
this up, handed this money over. There's no golden cage,
there's no abuse, there's no control. Here you go, here
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you go. Can you check that out? Please? No. She
went all the way. Then she finally got out. And
my son, he was really little at the time, he
called it. I'd say, where's mommy boo group. He's very
low key the way he talks. He's like he's like
seventy five years old, this old soul case. Such a
sweet kid. Where's mommy Boom group? So we called it
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Boom Group. So one day he goes, Mommy's getting out
of boo group. I go really and I had him
go crawled next to her as she's on her skype
at the time their skype call she getting out. He
crawls back to me, goes, she's still staying in boo group?
To call the alien, and she did. She stayed until
the very end, and even then they humiliated her. Broke
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did too. She went down to San Diego to honor
her contract in her word that I'm going to go
down to the San Diego to this event with another
multi level marketing thing, and she shows and they shamed her,
and then that broke up. Raven sues us because all
those twelve twenty people all came against her and said
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she ripped us off for five hundred thousand dollars and
it all reversed. That's the way that society works sometimes
makes no sense to me. The people with integrity, the honesty,
the people, the hard working people, you get ripped off.
And then those people, because they know how to manipulate
the law, they know how to use the law, they
know how to use people. We think she slept with
the lawyer that would take on a case like this.
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There I was in depositions. I was in the lawsuit too,
because I said something on Twitter about her. You damn right,
I did, you damn right. I'm gonna warn people don't
go down this path. So I'm in there and I
saw her in the parking lot. She didn't know it
was me because I wasn't part of the group. She's
talking to me, she's flirting with me. She realized who
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I was, an old Philly boy. I got in that
conference room. I stared her down, like look, at me
in the eye. I always say that about people who lie.
Look at me. Go ahead, I dare you look into
this person that you are hurting. Look into this person
you are causing pain to his family, of which he's
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the patriarch. Look at this hard working man who sacrifices,
and you took stole money to pay your credit card bills.
She got away with it and broke, stayed with her
to the very end, then broke forms her own leadership
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role ego maniacal mommy minutes. Suddenly they're doing these mommy
minutes and Brooks pontificating about mama's and telling mamas how
to raise their children and hears how to do it
and home school them, and all of these theories and
theories and theories, powerful, powerful theories that has so much passion.
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Narcissists have so much passion you believe them. And sure
enough Lotus did went right along with it. It was
like her her co captain I can't even say captain,
because she was always lower and wanted to be her.
Then another multi level, but then their red soap. Then
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there AREX or some other thing they were in crypto negus.
I forget what that. I forgot. I can't even remember
the names of all these things. Then they go on
to medicine journey. She comes back from the medicine journey
that this woman brought her to, that comes up with
the medicine journey, says it takes nine thousand dollars and
spends it. That woman was the medicine journey. The shaman
suddenly as a coaching program that Lotus joins that too.
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She's going to be a coach. Now she's in the marriage,
she's out of the marriage. One time she came back,
I kind of liked that, you're my king. I was,
I can go with this, for my egos were kind
of cool, and I said, you're my queen and only
lasted three weeks. That's right back to cut off, cut off,
and cut right into Brooks listening parties. Hundreds of hours
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with this woman being programmed, brainwashed, and that became the
new boot group. And my son is really aware of this.
That's what I can't believe. We brought these two children,
Oh my god, it's so beautiful, so beautiful children that
bring them into the world and then just go I'm done.
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I'm done because I'm going to follow this fraud. I'm
not going to follow this these great times, in these
games we play and all this fun that we have,
this incredible life that she actually texts me all the
time and says, oh, you're so generous and all this.
We have an unbelievable, extraordinary life. We see the world,
we go around the country. Why do all these vacations,
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we do all of these things, That's what she says.
Now I'm gonna I'm gonna stop all of that, not
process my own stuff. I'm not gonna heal myself. I'm
gonna put my healing. I'm gonna deify somebody. This leader.
I'm not gonna call a leader. She's just my friend.
That's what she would say. It's a lie. That's what
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people like this do. They lie. So then she started
getting secretive. I found money that she moved over into
an account, twenty thousand dollars she did to nine thousand.
I mean, there was so much of this going on.
This is this woman who we founded ourselves in integrity.
That was our thing. Integrity and God and consciousness and spirituality.
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That was what is founded. And I will tell you
one mistake that I made is I didn't stay that
path with her, went off of my own path as well,
and she went on hers, and she ended up deifying,
canonizing this woman who just kept taking her down one
multi level after and the next. Freedompreneurs, all these catchy
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words and all this BS went away to Australia with her,
and then I'm reading about I said she cheated on
her husband. She's saying it right, you're not so, Oh,
it's okay, it was meant to be. Oh every time,
I'm ohh boy, when you're endorsing that with a woman
who's talking about integrity in her businesses, yeah, you got
a little problem. Now. I love saying this too, because
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I'm just out in the truth and I'm going to
read you the next time. I'm going to read you
what this woman wrote herself. And she's pontificating all the time.
She's so arrogant. That's what a cult leader is. They're arrogant.
They don't think about the consequences. I have two children
that that hate this woman, but they don't have the
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word I. She couldn't use word hate. They don't have
any hate in their hearts. They're so beautiful, they just
don't have it. But they know what destroyed their mom.
Mom's unrecognizable. To the point where I was working in Phoenix.
I work my ass off, even during COVID. I'm performing,
I'm doing a comedy show, and I got COVID. I
finally got I got it out dead meet and greeks.
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I'm so codepending. I didn't want to disappoint people. I
knew I was gonna get it, and I got it.
I flew home a day early, surprised her. Next day,
I'm in bed, I'm coughing, and she says, I'm going
to the library. And I'm an instinctual guy. I really am.
I'm psychic. I actually even see clients for psychic I'm
very intuitive. It's makes me a good comic and writer.
And so forth said, she's not at the library. I
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got up, got in the car. She was not at
the library. I start texting her. And this is how
people gaslight. Just so you know when you're dealing with
the NARCISSI since how they guessed, like they reverse it,
like you're the problem because you're now texting harassing. So
my emails and my text messages through all these years,
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that's what's been going on. Let's received like the same
with the other exes. Oh, here he goes with his
emails again. I wouldn't send a single email. If you
answered a question, or if you were honest, or if
you were transparent, the wouldn't be a single email. Because
I'm longing for an answer for the children, to raise children,
for just decency, for kindness, for the love of family,
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for the love that we allegedly have when we make
vows with one another. Yes, that's to be expected in
sickness and in health. Yes, if you're sick, let's share it. Okay,
let's find a solution, whatever it is. And where are you.
I said I wouldn't tell me. She came back home
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and wouldn't tell me. I said, you're lying again. She says,
it's not lying. I'm just not telling you. She avoided
and she can do. She'll scratch her ears even though
I'm saying no, and I become intense. I'm giving her
exactly what she needs. You know. Oh, now it's justified.
Look at him. I don't go to the point of
rage like she does. I'm too big for that. Anyway.
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I've hurt people, and I Finally, five hours later, at nighttime,
the kids are in bed, that's how long this lasts.
I said, tell me where you are. Just imagine that.
I'd like you to have some compassion and some empathy
for the people who judge, and they do judge, and
the man is judging. I'm going to tell you how
the man was judged in this case. Intensely. Yes, I said,
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tell me where you were? Refused answer. This woman's good
cutting off. She's become an out, an expert at cutting
off and disassociating with no feeling at all. The person
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who I took these vows in Hawaii with looked in
her eyes, and this is the most incredible person I've
ever met in my life, has become this disconnected, disrespectful, hurtful, mean,
cruel human being. That's mean to do to somebody. It's
mean and cruel. And then to gaslight the top it
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all off an act like I'm the problem for asking.
Then I was the problem for the way I asked.
I took her phone, held it up in here, I said,
I'll give this back. I was so desperate. I will
give this phone back to you if you just tell
me where you were today. When you lied to me
and told me you were at the library, you really
werend well. Instead of telling me, she started to walk
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away to her things. She's all going to walk out
into the night. She's done it before she turns around
and charges me. It's a strong woman. She was once
an electrician on movie sets. This is a strong woman,
and especially strong with her rage, which she's never dealt
with in her life. She came at me, tearing at
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my clothes, scratching me, punching me, clawing at me, crawling
for that phone that she wanted so bad, probably frightened
of what I would see on the phone, which I
have seen things before, by the way, which we'll get
to now. My people might say, well, she was just
having an affair. I don't know. I don't know what
she was doing. I have a feeling it was the cult.
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She was always trying to protect the cult protect. This
woman broke because she knew that I was onto her.
So we're on the floor, still keeping it away from her.
She's crawing, and I pushed her off of me. She
ran off into the night, and sure enough, knock at
the door. It's the cops. Step outside, kids are there,
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handcuffed me. This is what are you doing? I said, Well,
look I've got I've I've got scratches, I've got Yeah.
They didn't care. The man kept repeating me. This cop.
I was pleading with him. Please, my hands were behind
my back. The back of this car in the middle
of my neighborhood was so embarrassing, humiliating. Please listen to me.
Please look at the scratches. He's kept saying. You can
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think ojay. Now we all know the responses with oj
and all that we all know about abuse and what
it led to. People were in denial that it did lead.
I'm not one of them, but that's not who I am.
But I got that label because I'm a man. If
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I really did hit her, let's use some common sense.
A big man, very strong one hit she'd beat out,
she'd have Marx whatever. I remember one time she had
marks from her clawing at me. She hurt herself trying
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to get her bag away for me, and she hurt
her finger. So then she runs to her friends and
looks how abusive he is. This is what women do.
You understand? This is what women do. Some women do. Okay,
don't be mad men, not all women. Some women do this.
They use this society to their advantage and that's what
she did. She got these police. I was arrested and
I spent the night with COVID on a slab with
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no out, no one to call, am I, what's going on?
What's going on? And finally she kidnapped the kids, took
them to an undisclosed location, wouldn't let them speak to me,
a father that loves them and they love me. They're going,
what are you doing, mommy? They have no idea what
she's doing. It's insanity and me, I'm trying to make
some sanity out of it and trying to say, no, no,
this is the direction to go. But no, that didn't
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matter to her. Restraining or I'm getting pounds on my door.
I had to run away to my friend Caroline's house
and stay in at her guest house. This is the
stuff that happened that I didn't know how to deal with.
An honest, truthful guidance is saying, hey, can we get
the truth, Can we go to therapy, can we do
something to get you out of snap you out of
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this brainwashing that I'm that guy. It would be arrested
and you'd restrain your children from me. It's on my
record for the rest of my life. Can't get it
A sponged from nothing. It's not the first, it's not
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the last time she kidnapped the kids. They don't deserve it,
and I don't deserve it, and she doesn't deserve to
be doing this to herself. I have more along these lines.
Time is up. I hope that this connects with some
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people to the point where you understand that somebody's behaving
alcoholically addicted, could be anything, raging, whatever it is. I
hope that connects with you. If somebody's following and deifying someone,
and I look, I'm gonna talk straight politics here. You
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all know I don't have to hide it that people
believe that there are Trumpers and mega and all that
kind of stuff. I'm not going to say either way.
I will tell you that everything is mob mentality. Whenever
you're defying politicians or any leaders, you're just deified. It's
not going to work ourselves. Our own consciousness will win. Love,
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commitment to that commitment to family, and that's where I'm committed.
Maybe I should be committed for doing this. Yeah, it's
the wrong world to go. It probably is. I have
no idea. No lawyer would say to do this. I
guarantee you that. And I don't like the terms that
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they come up with either. I have not enjoyed the
legal process. It is a nightmare. And it is not
favorite towards man. I will guarantee you that it's not
favored towards the people that make more money. It's I
guarantee you that's just a fact. I'm gonna tell you
when we come back. Another huge thing that happened. There
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was another one. You just go you gotta be kidding me, really, so,
oh adios. I never know how to say goodbye my father.
Whether used to say your father doesn't know how to
say goodbye. Goodbye.
I've been talking for a lifetime and paid for it
for almost a lifetime. Certainly different platform, mostly stand up comedy,
and this, you know, this journey is obviously there's no
way I can't not be funny a little bit here
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and there. I just see things that way. I try
to use the alchemy of laughter in everything that I do,
and some things will turn out funny and some things
some teams. Sometimes people are just gonna They're gonna do
what they do. And one of the things that's very
important to me in stand up in any creation, is
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I can't think about what people's reactions are, especially if
they're projections, if there're things that they haven't worked out
and they're projecting it on. I've had it happen a
number of times. I even wrote a book, and some
people criticize the fact that I came out with certain
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things that made them uncomfortable. I did a one person
show as well when I talked about being kidnapped, and that,
along with many things that I share, has to do with,
first of all, my own pathway to recovery and freedom,
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soul freedom, and it has to do with also helping others,
including the children that I have and I want to
send messages to those children to not hide, to not
live in secrecy. And if I'm saying that about their mom,
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it's just the truth. And some people are offended by
the truth that goes on in politics all the time.
People don't want to hear something in therefore they vilify
and attack. If that's you, then move on to something else.
If you're here to judge and say you shouldn't say
that in front of your children, I believe that the
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other things that aren't said to the children should not
be done. I think that's the harm. I'm watching the tears,
I watch their sorrow, I watch their pain, I watch
them go inward, missing school, sick more often. My son
was number one in his classes. Two teachers told him that,
and he went on to missing a lot of school
and getting not good grades. That's the manifestation of the
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damage that's done from this cult leader taking their mom away.
She took her in a vulnerable state. People say talk
about menopause, it say that's sexist. Now it's not. You
have to say what it is. It's a menopause. It
could be a number of things. It could be trauma
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that wasn't dealt with. She had two brothers that committed
suicide within three weeks and one another. That's how we
met because she was there to deal with it in
a spiritual way at the spiritual center we attended separately.
That's where we met. We were just friends for years
because we were there to work out something because I
was having difficulties in my marriage at the time, and
I really wanted to not blame and make sure that
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I'm accountable, make sure that this is about me doing
everything that I can do to make that marriage work.
And I did, but it wasn't meant to be. That
was not a fit. This one I really thought was
a fit. I remember when we first got together, I said,
this is the secret to a great relationship, and I've
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passed this on to you and I still believe this.
By the way, the secret to a great relationship is
I see you for who you truly are, not what
I dictate you to be through projection or my past
or my wounds. And you see me for who I
truly am, not through any other filter. And that's how
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we began our relationship, and that was what really brought
us to some great years together. It was just I
would I would do things that would normally be punished
by my former wife before us, which was anything really anger.
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Stuff that came at me was absurd and made up
and truly like vengeful and just accusations out of nowhere
that are just so unfounded. That was really rough. And
here was this past wife. I don't know how to
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I have the X files going on here. So and
if you lose respect for me because I've been married
number of times, then also move on. I don't think
it's about analyzing it. I think this is about maybe
search for something inside of yourself that you might get
from this, because this is a discovery that I'm having daily,
working with people, working with guides, working on myself on
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spiritual development. I do my laughter lunges and my serenity squats,
and I'm gonna get in tip top shape spiritually, emotionally.
So if you don't want to hang with that, then
go to the next podcast. I could do a silly podcast.
I could do one that's me being a comedian and
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hanging out with the boys and the girls in comedy
and going back and forth and telling road stories. That's great,
it's great. That's not what this is. I'm in the
midst of something that's very, very profound. It's bigger than me,
and is I'm compelled to do this. I don't have
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a lot of other choices, and we're going to get
to that as well. There aren't a lot of choices
because of the judgment, because of laws. You know, there's
a law that if you make more money than you
pay the other person. So therefore, she did whatever she
wanted to do, spend money on anything that she wanted
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to spend on, including the scams, and there were several
of them. Mommy minutes ares Raven neured a millionaire just
with a coaching program from this Robin woman. I knew
nothing about it. I was like out earning money, but
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didn't have the decency to be honest and transparent with
her husband. And that's just a fact. You can say, oh,
he's bitter or whatever it is. I don't care. I'm
letting you know these facts because you might be going
through somebody who's an alcoholic, somebody who's joined some other
kind of a cult, even a religion or politics, or
they're all fixated. I noticed politics people in this mob mentality.
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I'm so happy I stepped out doing no good. I
just saw a guy post on Facebook. How do you
feel now, Komy? As If Komy is reading his Facebook post,
he's just trying to virtue signal and look like, Hey,
I'm on the right side here of politics. I'm out.
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I'm out on all of it because they're both corrupt,
and so is my ex wife. Corrupt. And you might
not want to hear it about your politician, your religious leader,
or your spouse or whoever it is. That's just the
case here. Corrupt. And there's a lot of stuff, a
lot of stuff, or I wouldn't be doing this. It's
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a lot of stuff to lead to me being highly
concerned for even the safety of the children. I'm not
using hyperbole or trying to exagger or whatever it is.
I watched a documentary about this cult with this woman,
Lorie Valo. She killed her two children, and I was
frightened because she lost her way. She had a happy
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marriage to children, same as I did. Killed those children,
got with this leader, this cult type of leader, killed
her husband, killed her brother. It's a big story. Actually,
it's a Netflix special. I'm looking at it. It's my
friend's sister and I've been on his podcast a few times.
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And let me tell you, one of the reasons I
do this is I'm hoping that someone says, hey, I
have an answer here, whether it's legal, whether it's an
intervention on her, whether it's a friend of her, as
a family member of hers that says, hey, lotus which
we call her here, you really have to examine yourself.
You can't take these kids down this path with you
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debauchery groups. There's another documentary called Orgasm inc. And that's
another thing, is this leader takes women through orgasms programs
and come on, get your freedom that way. I remember
we were married. I'm going, where are you getting the orgasms?
Where was she getting those orgasms? There was so much secrecy.
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This isn't a bitter guy talking about being cheated on.
I have no idea about cheating. I'm only going to
tell you what I do know. The things that were
found out, there's things that weren't found down. And I
mentioned and I was going to talk about one of
the worst times in my life, and I've had quite
a few bad times related to first ex wife taking
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us down that road. Of these accusations that were just
that's a tag that's tough to leave. That's a tough one.
Could have gone to prison for that if I wasn't
strong and resilient and faced. I'm not going to leave
these kids and a lot of moms and some dads.
That's what they do. They poison and the children. And
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it's called parentalienation. It was at its worst. All sorts
of people are involved in that one family members. It
fractures everyone, that's what it does. I'm imploring all of you,
do not take that road, no matter how mad you
are at your ex, at your ex spouse, no matter
how do not take people through the road of false
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allegations and accusations. And everything I say here is with
concern for her, not false allegations, things that really take
place and still do and have taken place. These are stories.
These are real stories. It come from just my memory
and my gut. I don't have anything written. I have
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one thing written. I saw this meme. I didn't want
to bring this up, believe it or not, it popped up.
AI is unbelievable, I'll say him. My hair is thinning. Boo,
go to Turkey. There's an ad for that. I mean,
apparently they must think I have a hard time with
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erections too, because I'm getting ed advice warning signs of
a cult. So here you go for your education in
case you have somebody that's going down this road. They're
never going to call it a cult. There's no way
she calls it that. I've asked her many times. Can
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you at least be examined? Can you at least go
to a professional. Can you at least get a diagnosis?
And this will tell you the level that we're talking about. No, no, no,
no no. It's a person that says, oh, I don't
have any difficulties in the meantime, broke leaves the family,
steals lies, cheats, I don't have a problem. At least
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see iva, Maybe you have, maybe you do have menopause,
maybe you have a midlife crisis or whatever it is.
Or maybe you haven't dealt with trauma from your past
like your brothers and so on. Maybe why not research
It's something not to do. A bypass on is when
you have brothers who would commit suicide, there's something, really,
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there's something there. You might take care of it, just
can't ignore it. That's what I'm saying to everyone here.
I'm not ignoring my stuff what I do bring into
but I'm not going to stand by, not going to
stand by and allow these children to be affected, like
my first two were. I did my best on that
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one and backfired because I was so strong in my
agenda as this is not going to happen. But that's
you know, moms are more powerful than dad's. Let's face it.
It's not a sexist thing to say. It's just, of
course I'm generalizing. It's pretty much true, especially with boys.
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The mom gives the boy kind of what they want,
probably not what they need. And there's a difference warning
signs of a cult here. It is number one. The
leader is always right. I've confronted this woman broke. We're
calling her broke and buy another vow and put it
somewhere if you like. And I've watched her deal with
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other people who they come at her and they'll say,
this is awful to do your children. Bragging about cheating
on her husband and bragging about her sexual escapades as
a middle aged woman and getting her I mean, it's
just all this just brage, don't you. Why do you
have to tell other people try to encourage them to
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leave their husbands. That's what she did. Criticism of the
leader or questioning the leader is considered persecution. Yeah, my
ex wife could never criticize this woman. I've asked her
so many times. I'm I'm sorry. The evidence, the actual
proof of this woman as a con artist. Look at
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the results, Look at the bank accounts, look at all
these things that you said. Although, oh, they got me
another cryptocurrency thing that was a ripof she lied to
me and didn't tell me that broke was involved in that,
and it was at the top of the funnel. However,
that works with the multi level marketing. That woman's at
the top every single time and uses my ex wife.
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It just uses her by appealing your ego. You're the greatest,
You're so sweet, you're awesome. Let's have a listening party,
let's listen to you. Yeah, a listening party where you
just talk and nobody feeds back to you with truth
and honesty and reflection. So therefore we can go to
a listening party and lie your ass off. If she
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can lie to me direct to my face so many times,
of course she's gonna lie to everyone else because it's
what it looks like. It's the ego number three. Anything
the leader does is justify no matter how harmful. It
may be, Oh yeah, justify coming after me and threatening
to take my children from me justifies it all the way.
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It's because you said some things, you were threatening. I
didn't do these threats that they were talking about. They
never heard from me, and they justified their actions. And
still to this day they have not taken that off
the table. And either as my ex wife, I have
text messages. I have enough on you to take you down.
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I've contacted my lawyers. You will stop this right now.
This from a guy who beat her kid to the
point child services would call. So so my ex wife,
she looks as the leaders can do no wrong. I
had my kids. They confronted her. Is that is it
true that he was taking Oh there's some excuse, Oh
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he was yelling loud or something like the neighbors called
or something like that. Some lie. The leader is the
only source of the truth. Everybody else is lying. Well
there you go. These are warning signs of occult number five.
Followers must be blindly devoted to the leader and never
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question him or her. My ex is not questioned why
there's no money coming in, why she's not wealth building
for other mamas. She's used the term mamas all the time.
It's this thing that appeals to women who probably have
the difficult time at home. Yeah, maybe maybe they feel
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dominated by the man. Maybe my ex felt dominated by me.
True perception wise, reality wise, I am there in support,
backing up or going to therapy or whatever it takes.
That's who this guy is. I can't speak for other guys.
And I understand the history of the world. Men are
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dominant creatures. But what's weird is every one it's a
woman who creates every penis. That's a fact. But there's
this underlying resentment that is historical and it's built up
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and I get it big time feminist my whole life,
give me no serve me, no good purpose. And I'm
still very compassionate and empathetic towards women one percent. I
shouldn't say one hundred percent, because there's so much a
part of me that has to have compassion and empathy
for me and for men. And this perpendulum has swung
so far. Me too, movement, bad date gets included, so
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now we get that label affixed to us and there's
no getting out of it. So I'm the abuser, bully,
bad guy, all of that, and who are they going
to believe this big, successful, six to twenty pounds man
with a big mouth followers? Where you gonna believe the
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meek one, the quiet one, the one who puts out
love messages, the one who dances on camera, the one
who puts filters on the camera, and make sure that
she has this beautiful light around her, the flowers, naming
herself Lotus, all of that stuff. Who are you going
to believe? That's obvious? And the con artists know that.
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The last one is the members won't recognize they are
in a cult. Oh well, there you go. I've said
it numerous times to Lotus is a cult? Can't tell
me otherwise. You can't tell me that this is You
are following this woman and left our family and your
own children tell you all the time that that's what
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you did doesn't mean anything, because the cult is that powerful,
and that's that it's more important than the family. She
took the interest of this woman, using Lotus to be
on the down line and all that kind of stuff,
in promoting her and promoting her orgasm programs and BDSM.
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She poses with a writing crop. And there's all of
that that I have to worry about. That message in
getting to my children. The dominance I'm going to read
coming up in the next episode, I'm going to read
the post that this woman has done, the leader has done.
So it's not like people, so you'd be suon. I
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can't be sued if all of this is fact. It's
just fact. I will read it to you, and it's
up to you. From there, maybe you might say, I
want to join if you want to join her with
their sovereign freedom and get out of your golden cage,
all this other terminology that hits vulnerable people. That's how
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cult leaders work. My dad was a cult leader. I
know you're laughing. Oh boy, this guy. Yeah, my life
is a weird one. It's also I really dig the
fulfilling parts of getting better, of the wellness, of the healing,
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of the processes that take place. Did not just that's
my lot in life. Oh it happened again. Yeah, look
at that repeat. Now the two ex wives accuse me
of this. You both do it in different ways, but
it's still the basic same thing. Luckily, these children were
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old enough have enough experience with me, as opposed to
the other ones were young and influenced, and police stations
and lawyers and miners, counselors. That was their life. They
have PTSD to this day. I feel really bad for them.
Nothing I can do, though, see that rescue boy. I
can't do anything about it. I can ask that other
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people might maybe if they're listening and if they know them,
they might say to them, hey, just meet with your
dad or meet with a neutral party. I always offer
that to everyone because I have nothing to hide. And
as far as these things go, unfortunately, these children have
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witnessed it, and they're very clear by the way. They
are very very clear on the things that have taken place.
They witnessed violence numerous times, they were kidnapped twice. They
witnessed snapping out by their mom tantrums, witnessed complete disassociation,
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walking out of rooms in the middle of conversations, just
so mean. You stand there going hey, can you please
not go? Right? No, it doesn't matter how I couch it,
She's gonna go. She can cut off. I used to
call it the face. She put this face on. Who
was the She went from the most beautiful woman in
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the world to the ugliest woman in the world, completely
cut off, and it felt like demonic possession. And listen
it happens. That's the ego and some of us like,
you don't think it can happen to you. Of course
it can happen. My ego told me it couldn't happen,
especially with her. Was I fooled? I don't know. So
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one time. This is when some you know, this was
when things got really rough and they started to get
out of denial about how powerful. The first coult was like,
I said this, Broke took her to this year at
a millionaire and I saw a scam right away. I
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told her that, but I endorsed it. You pay ten
thousand dollars twenty thousand dollars and you give into a
mansion with this raven who Raven coaches you and teaches
you how to be a millionaire. One month you move
in with her. And one thing about my ex wife,
she's so dedicated when she gets into something. She got
into it. She was like listening to this woman buying
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her food and feeding her turned into this whole crazy
control thing, of which Broke was like the co sponsor
of this. She was her husband was directing this thing,
and it sounded conceptually it was kind of cool. It's
gonna be reality showing how to be a millionaire. Conceptually,
it sounded good. That's what things about. That's the thing
(23:43):
about con artists. They sound good. It's a nice little
program that they present. It's a pitch. They're pitching all
the time, and they're bragging and you when you uncover it,
which I have friends who are like lawyers, they'll always uncover,
whereas I'm naive, and I was naive with that to
when in my of course, my lotus was really naive.
Dove in and there was no mansion here. I was
(24:08):
trying to fix that too, trying to find a mansion
for them. Gets in there and then people start dropping
and this woman's really abusive and humiliates people. That's the
other thing is the cult. What they do is they
they shame you if somebody's about to leave and you
have to have they make deals where you have to
(24:30):
sign a contract and you're going to break the contract. Yeah,
it's all manipulation. I'm warning you. These are the telltale
signs when they manipulate people's minds into believing in this
mob mentality and it becomes a mob mentality, and this
is how things like the Holocaust happen. This is how
(24:50):
it happens, how innocent people are sucked into this. And
understand if I ever come up with any comparisons, it's
not like, oh my god, he's comparison to the whole caust.
It's just off the top of my head. It's just
something that maybe you can understand that this is what
happens to people. It might not be as severe as
the Holocaust. In a knock of the door, yes, yeah,
(25:12):
thank you, Jordan told me coming at twenty five minutes
and say, are you being heavy handed? Because he was
warning me about being heavy handed on these things. I said,
that's his thought on it, because the young guy hasn't
been through these things, and so I can understand. It's
almost like feedback. Here's feedback coming from one person. Is
(25:35):
probably not the audience for this. So broke one by one.
People leave the year at a millionaire. You know it.
There's my ex all the way to the end. I
had brought an interventionist in my friend Ted, who's the
head of multi level marketing. He said, I've never heard
of this woman who's saying that she was at the
top of the heap and all this motus believed her.
(26:00):
Who did it cost? It cost me a fortune. And please,
that's not sexist. It's just the fact I paid for
all of this hard work. I come from nothing, built
this up, handed this money over. There's no golden cage,
there's no abuse, there's no control. Here you go, here
(26:21):
you go. Can you check that out? Please? No. She
went all the way. Then she finally got out. And
my son, he was really little at the time, he
called it. I'd say, where's mommy boo group. He's very
low key the way he talks. He's like he's like
seventy five years old, this old soul case. Such a
sweet kid. Where's mommy Boom group? So we called it
(26:44):
Boom Group. So one day he goes, Mommy's getting out
of boo group. I go really and I had him
go crawled next to her as she's on her skype
at the time their skype call she getting out. He
crawls back to me, goes, she's still staying in boo group?
To call the alien, and she did. She stayed until
the very end, and even then they humiliated her. Broke
(27:08):
did too. She went down to San Diego to honor
her contract in her word that I'm going to go
down to the San Diego to this event with another
multi level marketing thing, and she shows and they shamed her,
and then that broke up. Raven sues us because all
those twelve twenty people all came against her and said
(27:29):
she ripped us off for five hundred thousand dollars and
it all reversed. That's the way that society works sometimes
makes no sense to me. The people with integrity, the honesty,
the people, the hard working people, you get ripped off.
And then those people, because they know how to manipulate
the law, they know how to use the law, they
know how to use people. We think she slept with
the lawyer that would take on a case like this.
(27:53):
There I was in depositions. I was in the lawsuit too,
because I said something on Twitter about her. You damn right,
I did, you damn right. I'm gonna warn people don't
go down this path. So I'm in there and I
saw her in the parking lot. She didn't know it
was me because I wasn't part of the group. She's
talking to me, she's flirting with me. She realized who
(28:14):
I was, an old Philly boy. I got in that
conference room. I stared her down, like look, at me
in the eye. I always say that about people who lie.
Look at me. Go ahead, I dare you look into
this person that you are hurting. Look into this person
you are causing pain to his family, of which he's
(28:36):
the patriarch. Look at this hard working man who sacrifices,
and you took stole money to pay your credit card bills.
She got away with it and broke, stayed with her
to the very end, then broke forms her own leadership
(28:59):
role ego maniacal mommy minutes. Suddenly they're doing these mommy
minutes and Brooks pontificating about mama's and telling mamas how
to raise their children and hears how to do it
and home school them, and all of these theories and
theories and theories, powerful, powerful theories that has so much passion.
(29:23):
Narcissists have so much passion you believe them. And sure
enough Lotus did went right along with it. It was
like her her co captain I can't even say captain,
because she was always lower and wanted to be her.
Then another multi level, but then their red soap. Then
(29:43):
there AREX or some other thing they were in crypto negus.
I forget what that. I forgot. I can't even remember
the names of all these things. Then they go on
to medicine journey. She comes back from the medicine journey
that this woman brought her to, that comes up with
the medicine journey, says it takes nine thousand dollars and
spends it. That woman was the medicine journey. The shaman
suddenly as a coaching program that Lotus joins that too.
(30:06):
She's going to be a coach. Now she's in the marriage,
she's out of the marriage. One time she came back,
I kind of liked that, you're my king. I was,
I can go with this, for my egos were kind
of cool, and I said, you're my queen and only
lasted three weeks. That's right back to cut off, cut off,
and cut right into Brooks listening parties. Hundreds of hours
(30:31):
with this woman being programmed, brainwashed, and that became the
new boot group. And my son is really aware of this.
That's what I can't believe. We brought these two children,
Oh my god, it's so beautiful, so beautiful children that
bring them into the world and then just go I'm done.
(30:54):
I'm done because I'm going to follow this fraud. I'm
not going to follow this these great times, in these
games we play and all this fun that we have,
this incredible life that she actually texts me all the
time and says, oh, you're so generous and all this.
We have an unbelievable, extraordinary life. We see the world,
we go around the country. Why do all these vacations,
(31:15):
we do all of these things, That's what she says.
Now I'm gonna I'm gonna stop all of that, not
process my own stuff. I'm not gonna heal myself. I'm
gonna put my healing. I'm gonna deify somebody. This leader.
I'm not gonna call a leader. She's just my friend.
That's what she would say. It's a lie. That's what
(31:36):
people like this do. They lie. So then she started
getting secretive. I found money that she moved over into
an account, twenty thousand dollars she did to nine thousand.
I mean, there was so much of this going on.
This is this woman who we founded ourselves in integrity.
That was our thing. Integrity and God and consciousness and spirituality.
(31:57):
That was what is founded. And I will tell you
one mistake that I made is I didn't stay that
path with her, went off of my own path as well,
and she went on hers, and she ended up deifying,
canonizing this woman who just kept taking her down one
multi level after and the next. Freedompreneurs, all these catchy
(32:20):
words and all this BS went away to Australia with her,
and then I'm reading about I said she cheated on
her husband. She's saying it right, you're not so, Oh,
it's okay, it was meant to be. Oh every time,
I'm ohh boy, when you're endorsing that with a woman
who's talking about integrity in her businesses, yeah, you got
a little problem. Now. I love saying this too, because
(32:40):
I'm just out in the truth and I'm going to
read you the next time. I'm going to read you
what this woman wrote herself. And she's pontificating all the time.
She's so arrogant. That's what a cult leader is. They're arrogant.
They don't think about the consequences. I have two children
that that hate this woman, but they don't have the
(33:01):
word I. She couldn't use word hate. They don't have
any hate in their hearts. They're so beautiful, they just
don't have it. But they know what destroyed their mom.
Mom's unrecognizable. To the point where I was working in Phoenix.
I work my ass off, even during COVID. I'm performing,
I'm doing a comedy show, and I got COVID. I
finally got I got it out dead meet and greeks.
(33:22):
I'm so codepending. I didn't want to disappoint people. I
knew I was gonna get it, and I got it.
I flew home a day early, surprised her. Next day,
I'm in bed, I'm coughing, and she says, I'm going
to the library. And I'm an instinctual guy. I really am.
I'm psychic. I actually even see clients for psychic I'm
very intuitive. It's makes me a good comic and writer.
And so forth said, she's not at the library. I
(33:48):
got up, got in the car. She was not at
the library. I start texting her. And this is how
people gaslight. Just so you know when you're dealing with
the NARCISSI since how they guessed, like they reverse it,
like you're the problem because you're now texting harassing. So
my emails and my text messages through all these years,
(34:10):
that's what's been going on. Let's received like the same
with the other exes. Oh, here he goes with his
emails again. I wouldn't send a single email. If you
answered a question, or if you were honest, or if
you were transparent, the wouldn't be a single email. Because
I'm longing for an answer for the children, to raise children,
for just decency, for kindness, for the love of family,
(34:32):
for the love that we allegedly have when we make
vows with one another. Yes, that's to be expected in
sickness and in health. Yes, if you're sick, let's share it. Okay,
let's find a solution, whatever it is. And where are you.
I said I wouldn't tell me. She came back home
(34:53):
and wouldn't tell me. I said, you're lying again. She says,
it's not lying. I'm just not telling you. She avoided
and she can do. She'll scratch her ears even though
I'm saying no, and I become intense. I'm giving her
exactly what she needs. You know. Oh, now it's justified.
Look at him. I don't go to the point of
rage like she does. I'm too big for that. Anyway.
(35:16):
I've hurt people, and I Finally, five hours later, at nighttime,
the kids are in bed, that's how long this lasts.
I said, tell me where you are. Just imagine that.
I'd like you to have some compassion and some empathy
for the people who judge, and they do judge, and
the man is judging. I'm going to tell you how
the man was judged in this case. Intensely. Yes, I said,
(35:40):
tell me where you were? Refused answer. This woman's good
cutting off. She's become an out, an expert at cutting
off and disassociating with no feeling at all. The person
(36:04):
who I took these vows in Hawaii with looked in
her eyes, and this is the most incredible person I've
ever met in my life, has become this disconnected, disrespectful, hurtful, mean,
cruel human being. That's mean to do to somebody. It's
mean and cruel. And then to gaslight the top it
(36:26):
all off an act like I'm the problem for asking.
Then I was the problem for the way I asked.
I took her phone, held it up in here, I said,
I'll give this back. I was so desperate. I will
give this phone back to you if you just tell
me where you were today. When you lied to me
and told me you were at the library, you really
werend well. Instead of telling me, she started to walk
(36:47):
away to her things. She's all going to walk out
into the night. She's done it before she turns around
and charges me. It's a strong woman. She was once
an electrician on movie sets. This is a strong woman,
and especially strong with her rage, which she's never dealt
with in her life. She came at me, tearing at
(37:10):
my clothes, scratching me, punching me, clawing at me, crawling
for that phone that she wanted so bad, probably frightened
of what I would see on the phone, which I
have seen things before, by the way, which we'll get
to now. My people might say, well, she was just
having an affair. I don't know. I don't know what
she was doing. I have a feeling it was the cult.
(37:30):
She was always trying to protect the cult protect. This
woman broke because she knew that I was onto her.
So we're on the floor, still keeping it away from her.
She's crawing, and I pushed her off of me. She
ran off into the night, and sure enough, knock at
the door. It's the cops. Step outside, kids are there,
(37:55):
handcuffed me. This is what are you doing? I said, Well,
look I've got I've I've got scratches, I've got Yeah.
They didn't care. The man kept repeating me. This cop.
I was pleading with him. Please, my hands were behind
my back. The back of this car in the middle
of my neighborhood was so embarrassing, humiliating. Please listen to me.
Please look at the scratches. He's kept saying. You can
(38:17):
think ojay. Now we all know the responses with oj
and all that we all know about abuse and what
it led to. People were in denial that it did lead.
I'm not one of them, but that's not who I am.
But I got that label because I'm a man. If
(38:38):
I really did hit her, let's use some common sense.
A big man, very strong one hit she'd beat out,
she'd have Marx whatever. I remember one time she had
marks from her clawing at me. She hurt herself trying
(38:58):
to get her bag away for me, and she hurt
her finger. So then she runs to her friends and
looks how abusive he is. This is what women do.
You understand? This is what women do. Some women do. Okay,
don't be mad men, not all women. Some women do this.
They use this society to their advantage and that's what
she did. She got these police. I was arrested and
I spent the night with COVID on a slab with
(39:20):
no out, no one to call, am I, what's going on?
What's going on? And finally she kidnapped the kids, took
them to an undisclosed location, wouldn't let them speak to me,
a father that loves them and they love me. They're going,
what are you doing, mommy? They have no idea what
she's doing. It's insanity and me, I'm trying to make
some sanity out of it and trying to say, no, no,
this is the direction to go. But no, that didn't
(39:42):
matter to her. Restraining or I'm getting pounds on my door.
I had to run away to my friend Caroline's house
and stay in at her guest house. This is the
stuff that happened that I didn't know how to deal with.
An honest, truthful guidance is saying, hey, can we get
the truth, Can we go to therapy, can we do
something to get you out of snap you out of
(40:05):
this brainwashing that I'm that guy. It would be arrested
and you'd restrain your children from me. It's on my
record for the rest of my life. Can't get it
A sponged from nothing. It's not the first, it's not
(40:26):
the last time she kidnapped the kids. They don't deserve it,
and I don't deserve it, and she doesn't deserve to
be doing this to herself. I have more along these lines.
Time is up. I hope that this connects with some
(40:47):
people to the point where you understand that somebody's behaving
alcoholically addicted, could be anything, raging, whatever it is. I
hope that connects with you. If somebody's following and deifying someone,
and I look, I'm gonna talk straight politics here. You
(41:07):
all know I don't have to hide it that people
believe that there are Trumpers and mega and all that
kind of stuff. I'm not going to say either way.
I will tell you that everything is mob mentality. Whenever
you're defying politicians or any leaders, you're just deified. It's
not going to work ourselves. Our own consciousness will win. Love,
(41:31):
commitment to that commitment to family, and that's where I'm committed.
Maybe I should be committed for doing this. Yeah, it's
the wrong world to go. It probably is. I have
no idea. No lawyer would say to do this. I
guarantee you that. And I don't like the terms that
(41:51):
they come up with either. I have not enjoyed the
legal process. It is a nightmare. And it is not
favorite towards man. I will guarantee you that it's not
favored towards the people that make more money. It's I
guarantee you that's just a fact. I'm gonna tell you
when we come back. Another huge thing that happened. There
(42:13):
was another one. You just go you gotta be kidding me, really, so,
oh adios. I never know how to say goodbye my father.
Whether used to say your father doesn't know how to
say goodbye. Goodbye.
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