March 21, 2024 • 14 mins
OLIVER RUÍZ – OLIVER RAÚL RUÍZ PRECIADO.
PRESIDENTE DE RECUPERANDO A MÉXICO A.C. e Inter ACTION ART MÉXICO,DIRECTOR DE ASUNTOS INTERNACIONALES Y MIEMBRO HONORABLE CERTIFICADO DEL CLUB FOR UNESCO OF PIRAEUS & ISLANDS GRECIA.
CONFERENCISTA INTERNACIONAL,
ESPECIALISTA EN CAPACITACIÓN Y DESARROLLO HUMANO.
FUNDADOR DEL CLUB INTERNACIONAL DE VINCULACIONES ESPECIALES SIN FINES DE LUCRO,PORTAL DE NOTICIAS INTERNACIONALES, CENTROS DE CAPACITACIÓN,FESTIVAL INTERNACIONAL LO MEJOR DE MÉXICO Y EL MUNDO.
CREADOR DE CONTENIDO: “ENTREVISTAS, CÁPSULAS, ARTICULOS, REPORTAJES, REFLEXIONES, POEMAS, FRASES, PENSAMIENTOS Y MUCHO MÁS”.
oliverruiz@oliverruiz.com.mx / relaciones.publicas@oliverruiz.com.mx / oliverruizgiradelmiedo@hotmail.com
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PRESIDENTE DE RECUPERANDO A MÉXICO A.C. e Inter ACTION ART MÉXICO,DIRECTOR DE ASUNTOS INTERNACIONALES Y MIEMBRO HONORABLE CERTIFICADO DEL CLUB FOR UNESCO OF PIRAEUS & ISLANDS GRECIA.
CONFERENCISTA INTERNACIONAL,
ESPECIALISTA EN CAPACITACIÓN Y DESARROLLO HUMANO.
FUNDADOR DEL CLUB INTERNACIONAL DE VINCULACIONES ESPECIALES SIN FINES DE LUCRO,PORTAL DE NOTICIAS INTERNACIONALES, CENTROS DE CAPACITACIÓN,FESTIVAL INTERNACIONAL LO MEJOR DE MÉXICO Y EL MUNDO.
CREADOR DE CONTENIDO: “ENTREVISTAS, CÁPSULAS, ARTICULOS, REPORTAJES, REFLEXIONES, POEMAS, FRASES, PENSAMIENTOS Y MUCHO MÁS”.
oliverruiz@oliverruiz.com.mx / relaciones.publicas@oliverruiz.com.mx / oliverruizgiradelmiedo@hotmail.com
TikTok
YouTube
Sitio Web Oficial Oliver Ruiz
Conviértete en un seguidor de este podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/oliver-ruiz-de-todo-un-poco--5771056/support.
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(00:00):
Article. Friendship or interest? Friendshipor interest in oliver ruiz Friendship or interest?
That is the question at times,when the heart is confused, you
begin to perceive that something is notright, feeling strange or strange when you
(00:21):
don' t really know if thatsincere and true friendship or deep, pretended
interest in exchange for something. Itis a topic that often happens day by
day when you live together and meetdifferent people, whether they are work,
family, relationships, etc. However, we sometimes confuse real interest with true
(00:41):
friendship. Most friendships begin with aninterest that was born from a common theme,
cohabitation, special moment or need inwhich the empathy of two or more
people who shared a point of view, feeling, perception, and taste that
gives rise to friendship or even soa relationship was born. Focusing on a
(01:10):
sentimental aspect. There are people whoanalyze very well your person to whom you
are engaged, if you have selfmoney, what your possessions are, where
you live and what you can offeror give them in return to be accepted
(01:30):
or accepted, that is, whatthey can get from IT or why it
suits them, be their friend orfriend or something else, and even a
possible marriage, or be partners andinvestors in business and business. They approach
(01:51):
YOU looking like a deep interest inwhat you do. However, they go
with a great deal of intent tomark and prepare for some benefit from your
person, pretending friendship, they willpretend until they get what they set out
to do. When they realize theydidn' t get what they expected.
(02:13):
From you, they' ll throwyou away and stop talking to you.
It hurts to accept reality and realizethat it was never a true friendship,
but to pretend to be your friendor friend. While they benefited from IT,
they need you and are looking foryou for your contacts, friends,
business, information, money, learningsomething from you or having relationships with someone
(02:38):
you know, who is interested inthem and who have no access, resources,
and the media. That' swhy they care and need you.
They' ll flatter you, inviteyou to drink or eat, maybe even
give you something while they' reclosing in on their targets. They'
ll tell you a famous phrase thatserves as a sign ay amigo. There
(03:00):
are other people who make you feela fraternal affection that friendship offers to engage
you more by calling you brother,when they are not even of your blood.
This method or trickery cannot be perceived. It is presented in a very
(03:22):
subtle way pretending to make you feelcloser, closer and special to create a
trust and connection deeper than a friendship. In this way they commit you morally
as if they had been in themost difficult and important moments of your life
(03:43):
or knew you from childhood. I' m sure it happened to you.
The detail is that you sometimes don' t really realize what people' s
real intent is by wanting to beyour friend or something else. There are
other people who, according to you, will help you unselfishly by presenting yourself
(04:09):
as if it were their trophy bypresenting you with all their acquaintances and as
soon as you see yourself benefited bythe friendships that they presented to you,
then they will more than charge thefavor and there you will realize their true
intentions and interests. The religious Icall them, are those who use their
(04:30):
religion as a pretext to manipulate eventhe holy scriptures and, in the name
of God, dispossess your possessions inexchange for a miracle favor or help.
Also these kinds of people fall intoa fanaticism of talk to confuse you by
(04:51):
using God to convince you. Thereare those who are able to exchange something,
not even caring for prostitution to geta promotion resource or material goods in
exchange for their body. It isdifficult to differentiate whether they are really known
(05:15):
friends companions or whether they will onlybe temporary friendships in which, once they
get from You, they will usewhat they intend to do. They'
ll get away from you Get ready. They will speak ill of You not
yet accomplishing or not accomplishing their purposeswith their supposed friendship and, furthermore,
they will not thank you. Theywill begin to speak ill of You,
(05:36):
lie, slander, invent things,rumors, gossip behind your back. They
give a movie version of the worstof IT, when they actually used you,
betrayed and deceived you. They'll never talk about how good you
did or the benefit they got fromyou. It will hurt when you realize
(05:57):
that really the people you thought wereyour friends are not and that it was
just a friendship out of interest.It' s worse even when there'
s a betrayal of abandonment and theydidn' t do it. Agreed or
promised. Also suddenly people appear outof nowhere who I call opportunists for some
reason. They learned that you achievedsomething transcendent with highly important and renowned people
(06:28):
with whom it may be impossible tospeak, but you have that good relationship
that cost you work, effort,result, sinversion, time, etcetera.
To get someone here, as wellas to ask you to introduce them to
their project or business. If youdon' t even consider yourself, explain
(06:53):
to you, etcetera. Worse yet, if you didn' t help them,
they' re looking for that personusing your life man, saying that
they' re almost even your relativesand great friends or that, as they
helped you by arguing to give themthe opportunity, when you' re not
(07:15):
even aware or recommended you should beprepared. When they may be denied what
they were interested in, that canimmediately trigger hatred, resentment, blackmail and
starting to speak very but very badly. From you some examples of interested people
who think and say in silence intheir mind soul heart so that you can
(07:40):
identify them are the following. I' m his friend because it' s
good for me to talk to himbecause he' s famous. Invite him
because he pays the bill and hasan interest in getting along with me.
We' d like to invite himto lunch. He pays is that he
knows such a person, we shouldinvite him into business. He' s
(08:05):
got good contacts and relationships with thisguy. If I go out because I
drive, he buys me everything Iwant and goes through me. You have
to be friends with the brain topass on the test questions. If you
' re my friend or friend,meet my brother or sister if you do
me this favor. You have nohome, no car, no money.
(08:28):
You don' t want to marryor go out with him. If you
buy the house, he' sgot a car. If I let you
marry him, he' s handsome. He' s got muscles, money,
tattoos and a great car. Whateveryou want with me, I'
ll give it to you It's a good example, but these are
(08:50):
some of the most common. Alsothe pretended friendship of interest is accompanied by
something very marked that perhaps you donot realize and I assure you. You
are interested in learning to identify withno more or less infallible signs, flattery
and exaggeration of fake comments to feedyour ego and make you feel good,
(09:16):
so that somehow they can compromise forwhat they have told you automatically. Shortly
after making you feel good, therecomes the conditioning and the light will come
out its true intention. Example,hear my love. I love being with
you. You remember how well wehad it last time. I' d
(09:37):
like to be like this with youagain. Tell me if you' d
like to, but before we gowhere you know, we buy some stuff
I need and take since you're there. You pay for another sign
that will help you realize, identifywhen they already used you and don'
t care about you anymore. Theyare pretexts, justifications, deceptions, half
(10:05):
- truths are very busy, distancing, denials, etcetera. Total incongruity.
How is it possible that, whensomething matters to them, if you have
time attention details call you right away. When they have a need again,
they want to know how you are. By compromise, they' re forced
(10:28):
to ask you how you are.But they don' t really care about
you. When they' re ina hurry for you to fulfill some whim
or need, they don' teven ask how you are. As soon
as they get what they want.They throw you out if you' d
(10:50):
like to learn more about this topic. Contact me and I will gladly help
you by providing counseling and specialized training. I share a couple of tips to
help you realize whether it' sa real friendship or an interest. They
' re not real friends. Theyare for what you can offer and benefit
them. They' re with youbecause it suits them when they don'
(11:18):
t get anything from you, theypretend to be your friend or friend,
They seek comfort or a cloth oftears to solve their problems. They'
re looking for you when they needsomething. Some characteristics of a true friendship
are sincere. They accept you asyou are and are with you for love
(11:39):
and friendship. They seek nothing inreturn, they give everything of heart to
see you, happy and grow.They know you the way you are.
They' re with you in thegood and the bad. They support you,
they seek your well- being,they seek you without needing anything,
(12:01):
they are interested in you and theysee how to support you and be in
touch. Despite the distance and occupations, remember that we all need everyone and
it can also happen that a truefriendship can also start out of interest.
However, the important thing is toknow how to identify what kind of friendships
(12:24):
and whether it is worth maintaining thatrelationship and what are the basics to be
able to call someone a friend orfriend the interest It' s not bad,
because it' s what caught yourattention to get close to a person
(12:45):
and start a relationship that can endup in something very nice or unpleasant.
Only you know what the real interestis, what you have with the people
you call friends, as well asinterested in you. The important thing is
not to get disappointed or disappointed,hurt or hurt, but with this you
(13:09):
just read or heard, you canavoid suffering before calling someone friend or friend
or where you hook up. Affectively, with people, not everyone who calls
you a friend is your friend orfriend. You decide how far you allow
(13:31):
friends to get involved in your heart, family, business, friendships, etc.
Take care of true friendships and valuewhen worthwhile people come into your life,
not because of what they own orcan get from them, but because
they build you up, they contributeto your life, dreams, work without
(13:56):
conditions, but out of appreciation,affection, affection and friendship. There are
different types of friendship that remain onlyfor a time purpose and then leave.
There are friendships that come to stayfor a lifetime. Few friends, but
true at all times. Love thefriend and is like a brother in time
(14:20):
of distress proverbs seventeen, seventeen,olive ruiz friendship or interest, share subscribe
and follow me, social networks
Article. Friendship or interest? Friendshipor interest in oliver ruiz Friendship or interest?
That is the question at times,when the heart is confused, you
begin to perceive that something is notright, feeling strange or strange when you
(00:21):
don' t really know if thatsincere and true friendship or deep, pretended
interest in exchange for something. Itis a topic that often happens day by
day when you live together and meetdifferent people, whether they are work,
family, relationships, etc. However, we sometimes confuse real interest with true
(00:41):
friendship. Most friendships begin with aninterest that was born from a common theme,
cohabitation, special moment or need inwhich the empathy of two or more
people who shared a point of view, feeling, perception, and taste that
gives rise to friendship or even soa relationship was born. Focusing on a
(01:10):
sentimental aspect. There are people whoanalyze very well your person to whom you
are engaged, if you have selfmoney, what your possessions are, where
you live and what you can offeror give them in return to be accepted
(01:30):
or accepted, that is, whatthey can get from IT or why it
suits them, be their friend orfriend or something else, and even a
possible marriage, or be partners andinvestors in business and business. They approach
(01:51):
YOU looking like a deep interest inwhat you do. However, they go
with a great deal of intent tomark and prepare for some benefit from your
person, pretending friendship, they willpretend until they get what they set out
to do. When they realize theydidn' t get what they expected.
(02:13):
From you, they' ll throwyou away and stop talking to you.
It hurts to accept reality and realizethat it was never a true friendship,
but to pretend to be your friendor friend. While they benefited from IT,
they need you and are looking foryou for your contacts, friends,
business, information, money, learningsomething from you or having relationships with someone
(02:38):
you know, who is interested inthem and who have no access, resources,
and the media. That' swhy they care and need you.
They' ll flatter you, inviteyou to drink or eat, maybe even
give you something while they' reclosing in on their targets. They'
ll tell you a famous phrase thatserves as a sign ay amigo. There
(03:00):
are other people who make you feela fraternal affection that friendship offers to engage
you more by calling you brother,when they are not even of your blood.
This method or trickery cannot be perceived. It is presented in a very
(03:22):
subtle way pretending to make you feelcloser, closer and special to create a
trust and connection deeper than a friendship. In this way they commit you morally
as if they had been in themost difficult and important moments of your life
(03:43):
or knew you from childhood. I' m sure it happened to you.
The detail is that you sometimes don' t really realize what people' s
real intent is by wanting to beyour friend or something else. There are
other people who, according to you, will help you unselfishly by presenting yourself
(04:09):
as if it were their trophy bypresenting you with all their acquaintances and as
soon as you see yourself benefited bythe friendships that they presented to you,
then they will more than charge thefavor and there you will realize their true
intentions and interests. The religious Icall them, are those who use their
(04:30):
religion as a pretext to manipulate eventhe holy scriptures and, in the name
of God, dispossess your possessions inexchange for a miracle favor or help.
Also these kinds of people fall intoa fanaticism of talk to confuse you by
(04:51):
using God to convince you. Thereare those who are able to exchange something,
not even caring for prostitution to geta promotion resource or material goods in
exchange for their body. It isdifficult to differentiate whether they are really known
(05:15):
friends companions or whether they will onlybe temporary friendships in which, once they
get from You, they will usewhat they intend to do. They'
ll get away from you Get ready. They will speak ill of You not
yet accomplishing or not accomplishing their purposeswith their supposed friendship and, furthermore,
they will not thank you. Theywill begin to speak ill of You,
(05:36):
lie, slander, invent things,rumors, gossip behind your back. They
give a movie version of the worstof IT, when they actually used you,
betrayed and deceived you. They'll never talk about how good you
did or the benefit they got fromyou. It will hurt when you realize
(05:57):
that really the people you thought wereyour friends are not and that it was
just a friendship out of interest.It' s worse even when there'
s a betrayal of abandonment and theydidn' t do it. Agreed or
promised. Also suddenly people appear outof nowhere who I call opportunists for some
reason. They learned that you achievedsomething transcendent with highly important and renowned people
(06:28):
with whom it may be impossible tospeak, but you have that good relationship
that cost you work, effort,result, sinversion, time, etcetera.
To get someone here, as wellas to ask you to introduce them to
their project or business. If youdon' t even consider yourself, explain
(06:53):
to you, etcetera. Worse yet, if you didn' t help them,
they' re looking for that personusing your life man, saying that
they' re almost even your relativesand great friends or that, as they
helped you by arguing to give themthe opportunity, when you' re not
(07:15):
even aware or recommended you should beprepared. When they may be denied what
they were interested in, that canimmediately trigger hatred, resentment, blackmail and
starting to speak very but very badly. From you some examples of interested people
who think and say in silence intheir mind soul heart so that you can
(07:40):
identify them are the following. I' m his friend because it' s
good for me to talk to himbecause he' s famous. Invite him
because he pays the bill and hasan interest in getting along with me.
We' d like to invite himto lunch. He pays is that he
knows such a person, we shouldinvite him into business. He' s
(08:05):
got good contacts and relationships with thisguy. If I go out because I
drive, he buys me everything Iwant and goes through me. You have
to be friends with the brain topass on the test questions. If you
' re my friend or friend,meet my brother or sister if you do
me this favor. You have nohome, no car, no money.
(08:28):
You don' t want to marryor go out with him. If you
buy the house, he' sgot a car. If I let you
marry him, he' s handsome. He' s got muscles, money,
tattoos and a great car. Whateveryou want with me, I'
ll give it to you It's a good example, but these are
(08:50):
some of the most common. Alsothe pretended friendship of interest is accompanied by
something very marked that perhaps you donot realize and I assure you. You
are interested in learning to identify withno more or less infallible signs, flattery
and exaggeration of fake comments to feedyour ego and make you feel good,
(09:16):
so that somehow they can compromise forwhat they have told you automatically. Shortly
after making you feel good, therecomes the conditioning and the light will come
out its true intention. Example,hear my love. I love being with
you. You remember how well wehad it last time. I' d
(09:37):
like to be like this with youagain. Tell me if you' d
like to, but before we gowhere you know, we buy some stuff
I need and take since you're there. You pay for another sign
that will help you realize, identifywhen they already used you and don'
t care about you anymore. Theyare pretexts, justifications, deceptions, half
(10:05):
- truths are very busy, distancing, denials, etcetera. Total incongruity.
How is it possible that, whensomething matters to them, if you have
time attention details call you right away. When they have a need again,
they want to know how you are. By compromise, they' re forced
(10:28):
to ask you how you are.But they don' t really care about
you. When they' re ina hurry for you to fulfill some whim
or need, they don' teven ask how you are. As soon
as they get what they want.They throw you out if you' d
(10:50):
like to learn more about this topic. Contact me and I will gladly help
you by providing counseling and specialized training. I share a couple of tips to
help you realize whether it' sa real friendship or an interest. They
' re not real friends. Theyare for what you can offer and benefit
them. They' re with youbecause it suits them when they don'
(11:18):
t get anything from you, theypretend to be your friend or friend,
They seek comfort or a cloth oftears to solve their problems. They'
re looking for you when they needsomething. Some characteristics of a true friendship
are sincere. They accept you asyou are and are with you for love
(11:39):
and friendship. They seek nothing inreturn, they give everything of heart to
see you, happy and grow.They know you the way you are.
They' re with you in thegood and the bad. They support you,
they seek your well- being,they seek you without needing anything,
(12:01):
they are interested in you and theysee how to support you and be in
touch. Despite the distance and occupations, remember that we all need everyone and
it can also happen that a truefriendship can also start out of interest.
However, the important thing is toknow how to identify what kind of friendships
(12:24):
and whether it is worth maintaining thatrelationship and what are the basics to be
able to call someone a friend orfriend the interest It' s not bad,
because it' s what caught yourattention to get close to a person
(12:45):
and start a relationship that can endup in something very nice or unpleasant.
Only you know what the real interestis, what you have with the people
you call friends, as well asinterested in you. The important thing is
not to get disappointed or disappointed,hurt or hurt, but with this you
(13:09):
just read or heard, you canavoid suffering before calling someone friend or friend
or where you hook up. Affectively, with people, not everyone who calls
you a friend is your friend orfriend. You decide how far you allow
(13:31):
friends to get involved in your heart, family, business, friendships, etc.
Take care of true friendships and valuewhen worthwhile people come into your life,
not because of what they own orcan get from them, but because
they build you up, they contributeto your life, dreams, work without
(13:56):
conditions, but out of appreciation,affection, affection and friendship. There are
different types of friendship that remain onlyfor a time purpose and then leave.
There are friendships that come to stayfor a lifetime. Few friends, but
true at all times. Love thefriend and is like a brother in time
(14:20):
of distress proverbs seventeen, seventeen,olive ruiz friendship or interest, share subscribe
and follow me, social networks
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