Oliver Ruiz Conferencia Capacitación Venciendo la Perdida

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What? Such a very good afternoon, how welcome you are to all who
are seeing us, we thank youfor joining us in this special edition of
this Conference, which comes thanks toInselec, a proud Mexican brand of international
stature. And thanks to this brandis possible this conference that comes free for
all of you, where you areat home, with your family or in

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another country. We thank you forseeing and accompanying us at this conference.
And well Incelec, it' sVictor, Victor who' s welcome here.
Thank you very much for your participationand support so that this conference could
be delivered free of charge to allwho are seeing us. Yes, good
afternoon to everyone, well welcome,Victor, tell us about incelect so that

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people know you, because, becausemany people say good that it' s
denselect and say there the logo thatis engineering in special facilities. But in
order for people to know about thecompany that is sponsoring this conference, for
all of you talk to us instellentis a company that is dedicated to what
is electrical installations and audio video toconnect from a home theater to an oral

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cinema and we even do everything thatis bosidates. So, now too,
what we' re doing. Weare having an alliance with a company that
dedicates everything that is sustainable energy.Then too very soon we will also be
attacking that excellent area, victor andgood plate us. How many years ago

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the company' s history emerged,how did you arrive at the head of
this Mexican company details international, becausewe started well, rather I started for
like four years ago. Let's just say I started working on my
own. And this is what Iwanted to do, because it is already

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giving an appointment to a company thatis the one that represented. And from
there I started for about four yearsand from there we still stand excellent.
So, four years ago, itwas that you believe in select and good
about the services that you' redoing people. That' s where we
were promoting him that they could maybecheck that, because there are people who

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have the very high consumption, nottheir light and that right now. I
think they got more expensive. ThenI know that you can do it to
people or how you can help them, because many times they have failures since
the installation they do. People whodon' t know, make bad connections,
leave something wrong with them and wantto earn a few cents or a

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few pesos fast, because they're never going to put the same effort
as a person who dedicates a hundredpercent to this job, so there'
s a lot, a lot ofpeople who leave their jobs wrong. We,
then, try to do the bestwe can at 100%. So,
if any of those who are seeingus need to see that maybe they

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haven' t done a bad installation, which is what' s giving him
an electricity leak, maybe by callingit that, because good maybe and it
' s not right the term andthat is, you already have a gas
leak from and lore of light,because who knows if that too is not
the right term, not, ifit' s right, from energy,
there are also leaks. Then,as you were told, bad connection closure,

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because there may be power leak.Uh- huh So this one over
there is where they' re alsothrowing out the weights. And Commission,
then, at the end of theday, has to collect what you are
consuming and what you are wasting alsoexcellent. So, if any of the
people you' re seeing are interestedin contacting you, we' re going

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to cut them short at the endof the video broadcast and this special conf.
Victor' s contact details in casethey want any advice, they need
a setup, an installation or putup their theater at home and cinema,
right up to home. There's Victor to support you. And well,
Victor also speaks to us, becausehe is also a company already honorable,

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certified, already with an impact atinternational level even and that, moreover,
is socially responsible, honorable and thatalso supports the whole question of social
responsibility and projects. No, yes, that' s right. Thank you,
ever since I gave you good.Thank God, since we became friends
last year, that mens we gofor a year of friendship interruptedly, then

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you invited me to this crossover forsaying so or I don' t know
how to say it, because anadventure of friendship and work didn' t
exactly then one thing led to another. Like being your sponsor. That'
s right, and that' swhere you invited me to be with Giannis
Maronitis. Yes, in acting innational ent is correct. I present to

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you now the other side of Victor, because Victor is the director of INSELET
Mexico of installations, but also asa company the support to the projects and
because he is a sponsor of me. Thanks to him it is that I
can offer lectures like this and reachmany hearts of people. And in this
connection, which has been a matterof friendship, of work, of camera,

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because we have lived several unforgettable hairsAnd one of them, because it
marked our lives, was when IoannisMaronitis came, to which we send a
very special greeting. Our affection andaffection, president and founder of Action International
and president of the club Furunesco PirausaNisland in Greece, and since he founded
this agency Action International, of whichhis servant is made President, and I

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invite Victor to be the operating director. So everything that' s going on,
check people, logistics agendas, theprojects that come, the events that
are already in the door. Thattime he supported me. He was shoulder
to shoulder with me. We wentto the pyramids, to the Museum of
Anthropology and Art and incredible experiences.That' s why we were talking about

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adventures with Joannis Maronitis. Victor wasthere with me and also at the Zaragoza
Theatre, which was amazing to uslast year. This is exactly the case
and this year, because two verylarge presentations were outstanding, one in one
stadium the other in another place,also from Atizapan, and we hope that
passing on to the covid the surething is that it will be rescheduled for
the next year. It is thefirst international event of Culture and Art,

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where we will invite the more thanthirty presidents already of the organization with all
their team. But we also alreadyhave an invitation to Greece and another to
India and also to Spain, andwe also send a very warm greeting to
Manuel work that he is the Vice- Presenter of Magic Peoples of Spain,
and we also invite him to theagency. He is already joining us as

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liaison director in Mexico Spain, andso there is a very talented person to
whom, because they are joining theorganization. We are now an average of
twelve fifteen people. Others will bejoining shortly and if you want to participate
with us in events, you arewelcome and have some talent, something to
contribute to society. They like art, values, training. Come with us,

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we invite you. The organism isglobal and can grow as much as
they are added. And Victor,well, something very important that you'
re not going to say, butI' m going to say it.
I, Joannis Maronitis, gave himhis honorary medal. So, that,
then, is a very father thing, because Victor has an honorary medal and
they talked about the company and whatwe' re doing and I Annis told

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them you have to be. Sowe' re talking, but the point
was that I was going to bezone director, operating director, that is,
we' re going because he wasthere a broco man with me supporting
me and thanks to Victor, thanksto his company. It is that we
have been able to do great thingsfor all of you, like this conference,
which I hope you exactly like,and we have also reached other points

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where we keep knocking on doors tosupport us with the question of having events
to show everything that has the goodof Mexico, if the best of Mexico
for the world and the world forMexico and events come, then, if
you are an artist, painter,creative musician, we invite you to participate
in our events, since the eventsare in a non- profit way,

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that is, they promote culture toart and, on the contrary, we
give them the spaces to be ableto have a global, international and national
projection. Also because of the magnitudeof the events we perform. Be very
careful, because right now, becausethe publicity of those events was not launched
by the covid but they will berescheduled already for the following year. The
dates are from 27 to 30 Novemberof the following year. Then it is

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the international action Mexico, recovering Mexicowith culture art values. Then come the
Presidents, who are already more thanthirty here to Mexico and are also invited
to the embassies, to the Senate, to the Chamber of Deputies, to
governors, to municipal representatives. Andwhat we want is for it to be
a venue and a platform to bringtogether all the best of Mexico' s

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culture and art. For the worldand that everyone can participate and can integrate,
then by the magnitude of the event, because, Ahorita, you can
not by the covid However, weare going to hold this conference that,
thanks to Victor, arrives for you. Of course, Victor, some greetings
or something you want to add,because greetings to all who see us.
And so the website for you todecidew in commx INTELEMMX. So check it

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out and you need counseling, installation, quotes, or that can help you
see if you have any electrical leaks. Contact Victor, he' s there
to serve you and he' salso on Instagram, right, of course.
So what' s your Inslam inInstaglak is there, too. Let
' s stop contacting them. Inthe end, Video and all those who

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are watching and listening, we willsend greetings. I' m going to
reconnect, finishing the conference, toread your comments about the conference. Tell
me what you liked, I'm going to reconnect to read those comments
and send you a greeting at theend of the conference. As right now,
there are the cmaras busy, soI can' t see who'

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s leaving me, but gladly,in the end I' m going to
do it. So, Victor,who follows because the conference difference is called
overcoming the loss. Then let's beat the loss all together. And
thank you, Victor, for thisparticipation of being here with us and I
don' t know if you wantto send a greeting to your family or
to the people who are seeing ussome message that you want to share with

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res in general. Not because,because my family is both important and all
people, not hoping that, then, because of the situation in which we
are going through at this moment,because we are all well and try,
therefore, to do everything possible,to take care of ourselves so that we
do not end badly for what happened. That' s right, well,

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let' s go to Victor's conference and friends who are seeing us.
Thanks, Victor, because he's here until then, here Victor
is going to give as an audience, he' s going to play VT
And for the issue of hygiene andall this not good, well, friends,
because we' re already going tostart with this conference called overcoming the

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loss And overcoming the loss arises whenin Mexico there was a very strong tremor
a few years ago where people losttheir lives, lost their home, lost
their jobs. And then, becausethis conference arose out of the intention to
motivate and give a word of encouragementto those people who had a loss.
So, maybe you' ve losteconomic, moral, family, personal.

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And there are two types of losses, among others, that I' m
going to address right now. Butnot only is the loss tangible, or
it is of something material, butthere is also emotional, sentimental, affective
loss, which is in the heartof us. And because the absence of
the material in automatic creates a lossthat cannot be seen or touched, but
that is present in your heart,in your mind and in your thoughts,

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and the intention is that you canget a tool to overcome the loss.
They will be given a recognition,like the previous ones that have been other
conferences. Nothing more. You haveto leave me your comment and you want
your recognition, special with curricular valuefrom what you have learned. I recommend
that you have a place to writedown, because maybe there are things.

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You know that in my mass conferences, because what I do brings presentation,
I bring screens, videos, Imake reflections, I do many things,
but right now for the covid becausewe are riding this in a most professional
way for all of you with quality. Then I won' t have much
interaction with the screen so you canfocus and listen to me. Share this

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conference with your relatives, your lovedones. We are already about to enter
the conference, so you can stillinvite more friends so that you can watch
the broadcast completely free thanks to Instelecwho has already been here with us,
Victor, who is the director ofthis honorable company. So, well,
the question to start with with thislecture would be and you' ve lost

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what you' ve lost. Andwe' ve all lost something and because
of the covid situation right now youmay have lost faith, hope, dreams,
work, economy, opportunities, travel, projects. And this loss is

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affecting you emotionally, psychologically, sentimentally, mentally, emotionally, and mentally.
And you have to realize that themoment you can beat the loss? You
will be able, quoted, mental, spiritual and strengthened to be able to
face the situation that is affecting youright now, and this conference will raise

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awareness, prevent you, motivate youand help you. It is a special
training in human development and values sothat you who are seeing me can overcome
the loss. There are losses thathave passed many years, which are already
things that, perhaps, belong toa past. But those things still occupy

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a place in your heart in thepresent and may still make you lose opportunities
that you have not even realized thatloss. Maybe he stole your smile,
your love, your dream, youropportunity, your desire, and you haven
' t noticed how a lost thingthat already belongs to the past has affected
you, but that' s makingyou lose in the present. That'

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s why it' s important thatyou can detect and identify what you'
ve lost and what that also is. Consequently, it has made you lose
more things without realizing it, sothat, from that moment on, you
can put a stop to loss,be able to learn it, drive it,
overcome it and be able to makea decision so that you no longer

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lose, but start winning instead oflosing. So let' s go into
this thing that I' m commentingon here and I want to share the
following. What is the meaning ofthe word loss. Let' s first
start there the loss, the meaningof the word loss. It is this
action and result of losing or losingthat is, not only do you lose

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something material, you may also missyourself. There are people who, for
a loss of something, of arelationship, of a working couple, of
a bad business, already want tolose their life, that is, to
commit suicide for that loss. Theymake the decision to get lost and begin
to get lost in alcohol, drugs, vices, mental, spiritual and economic

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poverty. So this is very important, because it' s a chain right
now. I' ll explain.Then losing is the result of getting lost.
That' s the definition of loss. Another definition of something or amount
lost that has been lost, amountingto several million equal to a decrease.

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A decrease is when, for example, we speak in a business language,
when there are things that didn't go well and suddenly a loss,
that is, for example, ofthe production of a product. There was
a decrease, that is, somethingthat did not meet quality standards, that
is not functional, that, perhaps, was not prepared in the right way
and that, then, is alreadyspoiled. Then there are decreases in your

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life and in your heart speaking emotionally. Loss is also deprivation of what was
possessed. It' s something youhad, you don' t have it
anymore, and maybe you won't have it again or you won'
t get it back. Perhaps thedecline is also a loss. All that
remains you, all that is less, is what generates a loss. Here

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I want to share a few phrasesthat may not be able to read,
but from every slide that I amgoing to share with you brings a thought
to motivate you and it is thisthought that can be called loss to something
that was stopped having or possessing,be it physical, emotional, tangible and

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intangible material. So what does thismean? Loss begins when you cease to
possess, have and have control,even physical, emotional, tangible and intangible
material. I mean, these aresome aspects of loss. You lost the
money, the job, the car, physically, maybe an arm, a

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hand, a finger, a tangiblefoot, maybe your cell phone and you
lost your keys. So, that' s what' s tangible and intangible.
It' s the part of theemotions, it' s the feelings,
it' s what' s inyour heart, that that' s

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also when you lose the material inautomatic, it also comes a feeling to
the mind and it' s thesignal that the brain emits to warn your
feelings and your nervous system that somethingis not right. When an automatic material
loss is generated, an emotional lossis also generated, which is reflected in
a disease, i e, psychosomatically. You can realize that the losses you

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' ve had have perhaps led todiabetes, cancer, disease, or cerebral
palsy, or a situation resulting froman overly high impression that was perhaps caused
by the truth. And that's what' s now affecting your health.
Then the loss also begins to doin the body, starts to be

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in health due to an economic lossor a material loss affect your emotions and
your body stops working properly. Ifyou don' t know how to handle
your emotions, your thoughts, makedecisions and learn how to get rid of
the material and that doesn' taffect you emotionally and be able to give

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things the right value. It's how you can acquire emotional, spiritual
strength. But if then there comesa situation that automatically is generating that loss
automatically hooks you up and it's a chain that' s going on,
then I want to leave you thissentence, which I want to constantly

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put into your mind and heart.Now that you' re listening to me,
it' s losing you also winright now, you' re not
going to understand, but I assureyou that by the end of this lecture,
you' re going to realize thateverything you' ve lost has made
you win and you' re goingto say no how you think that.
I don' t understand, that' s not possible. I' m
going to loosen up better, I' m going to watch videos of something
else. Give me a chance toget to the end and I assure you

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that you' re going to findout that you' ve won, too.
So let' s go to whatfollows and well, the question is
that you' ve lost. Hereare some examples so you can relate it
to what I' m talking about. Maybe you' ve wasted time,
money, people, family, friends, employment, home, car, wife,

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husband, security, stability to thegroom or the bride, your economic
position, your moral position or yourwork position, opportunities, faith, courage,
love, health, integrity, respect, your work, your dreams,
abilities, credibility and even a petI don' t know about. Whatever

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your case is at this time andhere are losses that are from a past,
from a present and perhaps from afuture. You too may lose some
of the ones I mentioned, andperhaps you have never reflected or thought about
what you have lost, what inlife has gone out of your hands,
that you have stopped having the opportunity, contact, control, communication, friendships,

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people, that you have lost andwhy you have lost them. That
answer only you know it and itis important that you realize that attitudes can
make you lose without realizing it andthat attitude has led to failure. Maybe

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your attitude, your feeling, yourway of being is what' s making
you lose, that you need torealize and analyze whether you' re winning
or losing. Everything that' snegative and less is loss. Everything that
adds up to you, it's abundance, it' s prosperity.
Multiplication is gain, but everything thatremains, I mean I had this right

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now I don' t have thisin automatic. That' s a loss
and knowing how to identify the leakof the loss, you' re going
to be able to stop it,just as we were talking about INSELEC,
which is a company we were talkingabout, which detects what the electrical leak
is so that people don' tpay more money and pay the fair.
Then knowing where he' s doingthe short or where the problem was or

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what made you lose. That's what you have to start recovering and
I' m going to tell youhow a little bit later because here I
share this with you. Bad experienceshave made you lose the best of yourself.
I want to repeat, bad experienceshave made you lose the best of

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yourself. Your essence, your courage, your self- esteem, your dreams
are gone by loss. You've stopped smiling and it' s you.
Here' s the first factor.You can briefly analyze the experiences you
have had. If the experiences youhave had at this time have made you
lose or you are winning, thatis, when you have a bad experience

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in automatic, that leads to adepression, a sadness, a hatred,
a grudge, feeling, pain,courage, a disease. And if you
maybe went and consoled yourself with alcohol, you spent the money on alcohol.
Or if you went to take outa bar or, you went out partying
or like you spent your money ona situation you lost automatically. That'

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s what you' re getting lostand people don' t realize that instead
of winning they lose and lose andlose more. So that' s very
important, because if you learn notto lose anymore, that' s going
to happen, that' s thereverse of the gain loss, then,
instead of losing, you' regoing to win. But when you lose,

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you learn to value what you've lost. And that' s
already starting to help you win,because you' re already gaining intelligence,
awareness, wisdom to make better decisionsthat, instead of losing, make you
win. Then the bad experiences havemade you lose the best of yourself an
example, because here we talk aboutthe tests of time, money, employment,

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house bride, person example, whenone, maybe passes a sentimental situation
and you lose that relationship in automatic, you lose the desire to want to
do something, to live together,to leave, to work, to concentrate.
If we talk about a loss,perhaps a physical loss, of a
person who has died a loved one, what happens, because it is hard

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for people to understand that that personis no longer going to be, it
has been how he had to go. So, when you lose a loved
one, you' re hardly goingto smile you' re going to want
to dream, you' re hardlygoing to want to do anything else.
But then you have to be prepared, because loss is part of our life

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and thanks to a loss, welearn to value, to be grateful,
to be able to understand things ina better way. But when there'
s no value to things, justlosing them. When we learn to value
is when we realize the decisions wemake. Then your self- esteem,

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your dreams have been lost and youhave stopped smiling and being a divorce,
an affected relationship, a stagnant economyor, perhaps, at school. If
you didn' t get your degree, your career, or a dream or
a project. And when you maybespent too much time and didn' t

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get what you expected, it's an automatic that makes you lose your
mood. That' s why youmust quickly identify sinere under any circumstances,
if you' re losing or winning, I hope I won' t bore
you. With what I am tellingyou and thanks to everyone who is leaving
me comments and seeing at this timeand types of loss already to understand them
we will classify them. I putit as material. This is the first

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one. The material is equal toan economic loss, to lose money and
automatically acquire debts and this becomes acrisis and this brings you a state of
bankruptcy. You can lose material examples, a house, a car, work
goods, resources, infrastructure and equipmenttalking about a company and here I share

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the reflection that leaves you in theend. The chain of loss is equal,
the loss the most loses the totalloss in all aspects and senses in
which it is only a matter oftime to lose and continue to lose.
You lose one thing that makes youlose another thing and then you go to
another. And when you realize you' re a total failure, both economic,
moral, spiritual, sentimental, affective, then you' re completely lost.

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And if that adds drugs and alcohol, because lost in drugs and alcohol,
then one thing is causing you more. Then the chain of the perda
that I call it is a lossthat occurred and immediately. You have to
identify that that doesn' t haveto lose anymore and try to be the

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most stable, the strongest, themost emotionally positive, so that you don
' t keep losing other things.And you have to resist and endure when
there is a loss, in orderto overcome it and understand the next kind

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of loss is emotional. Number two. Emotion generates the following, emotions that
often make you think things that arenot and that this causes you losses,
when you don' t even knowwhat would happen and not happen is called
your position. There are people whoare already losing since before something happens.

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Some people are already thinking about theworst when they might have thought about the
best and since before something good happenedto them. They' re already predisposed
by an assumption. An assumption isan emotional loss, it is a mental
loss and it is a loss thatlimits you to being able to dream,

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grow and achieve some kind of success. Also the lack of peace. When
you have no peace, when youare not calm your thoughts, you cannot
sleep. There is anguish, emotionsgenerate tension, then faith and security are
lost and affected. And then theemotional automatic makes you sick and it'

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s a loss of health and insuffering there starts to be pains, feelings
affected. Your self- esteem isstarting to drop. There is no concentration
and this makes you lose your performanceand you no longer have the same advantage.
When emotions increase, feelings are damagedand disease begins, leading to an

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existential crisis that will slowly lead youto a lack of values. When you
' re not happy, because youdon' t love, you don'
t thank, you don' trecognize, you don' t want.
When you don' t respect it, then there' s violence, problems,
conflicts come and this generates other kindsof losses, emotional ruptures. So,

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the third type of loss of health. When health is lost this is
equal to diseases that are generated likethe following. Your pressure is high or
low. There are low defenses,you are more prone, to get sick,
colitis, nervousness, headache, tobrainless anger, himppertension, the heart
is affected, there is a baddiet because you don' t feel like

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eating, because you feel depressed,you feel sad, there starts to be
insomnia, you can' t sleep, a cancer can develop, there starts
to be pains of the body.Some people come with disorders such as bipolarity,
a heart attack, diabetes, heartproblems. Then, when you lose
your health, these loss zones aregenerated. And here I say the following

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reflection. When health is affected,complications begin to work and generate resources,
because being sick, performance is notthe same physically, psychologically and mentally.
Then you realize how we' regoing little by little with the worst.

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More losses are being generated. So, when you lose your health automatically,
there' s beginning to be complications, you don' t feel like working,
you don' t give up,you don' t generate resources,
so the next kind of loss issentimental. These cannot be seen in touching,
but they are present in your emotions, in your heart and in your
mind and are part of your essence, your being and your living. So,

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when there are sentimental losses, they' re the following. There is
beginning to be depression, loneliness,desires, courage, bitterness, sadness,
fear, rupture, stability, character, violence, anxiety. The mood is
lost because there is uncertainty, thepassion and the desire also start to pay

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and you become vulnerable and there isa void that you can not fill with
anything. Then, when feelings areaffected, emotions are caused and this lowers
defenses, when disease then comes.If you realize how everything is connecting.
And this is not to make youdepressed or sad at all, but to

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make you aware of the kind ofpests. Here comes the job loss.
When in the workplace this is affectedin automatic will be affected now the order
may be as I am saying,It may be different, but I will
give you a more comforting example soyou can understand it. The job losses.

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When there are labor farts it isfor the following, responsibility, vision,
resources, optimization of resources, lifeLabourly, when someone loses his life
it is an entire work accident,it is a loss of an element for
a company, but also a lossof a life commitment. When there is

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no compromise, there is no direction, there are losses and there is no
commitment, no direction, no vision, no adequate resources, and there is
no automatic accountability for those things thatmay not be producing money for you.
The responsibility is not to say thatit costs a thousand pesos, two thousand
or one year but the responsibility generatesresources in the long and short term.

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When a person is responsible, hemakes profits, although they are not reflected.
You can' t buy ten kilosof responsibility, but what you can
do is that this generates this kindof stuff that I' m mentioning to
you, this generates profits and notlosses. If you turn to someone who
generates responsibility, who has vision,who knows how to manage his resources,

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who optimizes what he has to takecare of his life, he will not
have losses. And many of theprey that you may be going through and
having on this day has been becauseof the lack of your values, It
has been because of the lack ofconsciousness. It' s been for not
thinking if you' re losing,if you' re winning and how you
can do not to lose anymore andwhat you have to get rid of,

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which makes you lose. So,since there is no commitment of management,
suppliers, there is disorganization, thereis no adequate staff, there is no
care of the position, there isno interest, there is no care of
the clients of the team, youdo not invest and there is no concentration
and payments. That' s whatcauses a loss to lead to a company,
to bankruptcy. That' s thereality. So why do I tell

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you all that, not to makeyou feel bad, but to make you
react that you can' t keeplosing, you can' t keep allowing
that mental, that emotional, thatsentimental, that with your life you continue
to lose. You are not designedfor loss, you are designed to win,
to grow, to produce, togo from triumph to victory, victory

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from glory to glory and that thebest that is happening is an opportunity not
to lose, but to win.I know this covid thing is complicated because
it' s generating a very strongloss in every respect, but every loss
is temporary, it' s noteternal, and when there' s a
loss, it generates a great opportunity. But it depends on the vision of

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the focus on desire and faith thatyou have. Your worst loss can be
your greatest success, the worst thingyou' ve lost can be the best
thing that ever happened to you.And if you hadn' t lost that,
you would have missed it. Butmany times you don' t get
to see and right now I'm going to explain how I can understand
this I' m telling you.Emotional, emotional, economic, personal losses

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affect people and therefore do not yieldin their work, and that causes distraction
to labor and produce, which cangenerate significant losses for the company, regardless
of the area that may be causedby the company' s bankruptcy or its
own dismissal for causing the company tolose. You' re turning yourself on

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and it' s a bad resourcemanagement and you lose everything. So what
happens when you lose your emotions,the material, the familiar that' s
the same. It destabilizes you emotionallyand in your work, no, no,
you don' t give up,you' re not focused and making

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a mistake at work can cost youyour job, a bad investment, a
late payment, an unpaid bill,an unserved client, an operation or resolved.
It can cause short- or long-, medium- or immediate-
term losses, because if you're not focused on what happened to you,
what happened to you, what you' re living at home, at
work, that' s making youlose very valuable moments that you could enjoy

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to the fullest at this time.But then how to do it. Right
now, I' m telling youanother kind of personal loss. Personals are
involved in feeling and are matters ofa private nature. In parentheses example,
you can lose the family, thepast, the will, loyalty, attitude,

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attention, the couple, a concentrationfigure, disorganization, value, closes,
debts, self- esteem, passionand investment, disposition. There'
s no change. All of thisis personal. When you' re wrong.
In this, people close and loseopportunities for the past that affects their

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present. Even if it is nothappening, the person is bringing it in
mentally and preventing it from succeeding inits present and better things coming. By
being closed and anchored to the past, you are losing by continuing to relive
your present, then the past inthe present. Personal problems are usually always

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mixed up with work. When thereis a personal problem, that' s
what distracts you at work or atschool with the job because of the state
of emotional loss that a person suffers, resulting in low self- esteem and
performance, which causes job losses whenyou don' t know how to handle
emotions. Separate the personal from thework, separate the people from the family,

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separate the personal, from the environmentof new friendships, new relationships.
When you keep bringing all that kindof stuff, they make you lose what
might be coming or what didn't come anymore. So the other kind
of perga is the spiritual. Whenthere is a loss in the spiritual of

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each person in automatic, there isa deficit in other areas of people'
s performance, that is, whenyou lose your spirituality, the most important
thing you lose is faith. Whenyou lose faith, the purpose is lost,
the direction is lost, the directionbegins to be lonely. There is
no strength, there is no answer, there is no mission, there is

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a hope, there is no support, a security, a comfort When you
lose the spiritual, you lose themotivation, the shelter, the wisdom,
the revelation, the vision, thedirection. There' s a vacuum in
the momentum that keeps you going.When you cling to faith in a situation,
it opens a window of possibilities andhope to overcome what seems impossible.

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When you begin to have faith,it is when you begin to see changes,
you lose answers and opportunities and Iwould call blessings in the areas of
your life where you have no faith, it is where success has not been
achieved, that is, where thereis no faith in your life, where
there has been failure and where therehave been failures where you need to believe,

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increase faith, make decisions and fightwith all your heart and with all
your strength. Again, that's the most important thing. Yeah,
so here I go to the nextthing. I' m gonna give you
feedback on this from what I've told you. To overcome the loss,
you have to identify the losses,realize if you are losing in the

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emotional and in the economic, inthe moral, and you have to stop
a leak. When there is aleak of electricity water, it is immediately
necessary to cut the current or immediatelyto somehow close the leak. And closing
it is completely. That' sgonna keep it from happening. So,
when you have a situation, youhave to interrupt it immediately and not allow

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that to continue to affect you immediatelytell you where the escape is, where
the problem is, what is makingme lose, what is stealing my peace?
What' s making me feel vulnerable, sad, just what' s
causing me to get my mood,instead of being happy, I' m
sad, I' m angry,I' m worried, or I'
m upset. I have to identifythat in the area of my emotional,

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economic, moral, sentimental, work, educational or professional life, or where
the loss is and knowing what itis that makes me lose. I will
be able to win in that situationand change the situation from negative positive to
negative. But first I have toidentify what my truth is and how I

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do it, classifying myself to seeemotionally what I am losing and what is
making me lose to see my friendshipsadd me up or subtract me from the
relationship I have, affects me orhelps me the situation of my work.
I' m losing or I'm winning what I' m neglecting that
' s making me lose. WhereI have to invest time, where I
have to devote my attention so thatthen that gives me emotional stability and in

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the other areas of my life Ican advance successfully, change, improve and
produce and convert from someone from failureto the success of poverty, wealth and
a difficult situation that will shape mycharacter, learn to not have losses in
my life why, Because nobody likesto lose and when you lose is a
feeling of emptiness desolation, something thatcannot be understood, but that feels.

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And the intention is that you haveto leave the state of the perda excited,
because that' s what' smaking you bitter. That' s
what' s hurting you, that' s what' s keeping you from
believing again, that' s whatpaid for your strength, your form,
your attitude, your life. That' s what' s stealing your will
to live, to smile again andto believe again. And the fear that

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exists to keep losing is what limitsthat you can win, because you'
re afraid that it will happen again, that you will fail again, that
things won' t work out again. And that' s what keeps you
losing. So, even if you' ve lost, even if you'
ve suffered, even if they've lost you, even if what'

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s happened has happened, you haveto rise up to believe and propose once
again that you' re not goingto lose any more and that you'
re not going to let go.Economy family, friends, jobs people and
in the face of the situation weare living, it' s the moment
you have to realize what' sreally worth what you don' t and
even if you' re missing opportunitiesright now, it' s not the

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end of your life. But ifyou give him an approach of failure,
poverty and defeat, that' swhat you' re living through. And
despite the defeat and the failure andthe adverse situation and what you' re
living there you' re going torealize what you' re done. You
' re always going to lose,but you can also win And learning to

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lose, you learn to win Andit' s things that might cost you
a lot to understand, but sometimesa loss is the best thing that can
happen to you in life seeing itfrom a positive perspective and a positive approach
to a negative one or a negativeone. You' ll always find something
good inside everything bad. You canlose your job, but you can have

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a better one. You may havelost a relationship, but that can give
you a chance for something better.And if you hadn' t embittered and
ruined your life, maybe you couldhave lost the business, the work,
the resources. But maybe it's time if you hadn' t gone
through that loss today you wouldn't have a better business, or you

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wouldn' t have a better business, or you wouldn' t have better
chances. Whenever you lose you willgain, experience, wisdom, intelligence,
you never lose, you always win, but if you always see that everything
you lose, then you have tochange your mentality so you don' t

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lose the loss. Take a goodlook. By identifying the losses, you
sort them out, you' llbe able to know where you' re
losing, you' ll be ableto attack it and stop it, and
how to start recovering emotionally. Thekey words are as follows. Acceptance,
tolerance, understanding, forgiving, forgiving, understanding, letting go in the aspect

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of not holding back the negative feeling, getting rid of all the negative emotional,
material, economic, everything that makesyou lose throw it away and then
you' re going to start torecover emotionally. OK if you were wrong,
but you' re not perfect.We all make mistakes, but as
long as you want to change andbe a better person, don' t

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repeat the same mistake again and thatmistake prompts you not to make more mistakes
and to do things better is toapply it with a positive approach. Everything
negative from minus to plus and fromnegative to positive. There are losses that
are no longer renewable, which areworked by accepting, absorbing and valuing.
If we talk about a family lossand maybe you lost a loved one.

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And that took your life with him, you lost your dreams, with him
or with her. You' renot going to see him again, you
' re not going to touch himanymore, pet a shot or read,
enjoy, talk, you already lostthat. If that hurt you, then
what would you have to do.Start valuing the opportunities you have right now

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if you know that no one hasthe time limit of life. No one
knows how long you' re goingto live, nor can you control whether
other people live forever or stop livingor die tomorrow or a situation that God
doesn' t want happens to them. But, unfortunately, what do you
have today, right now and thismoment and this moment, because tomorrow,

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maybe what you have today, tomorrowyou can lose it or eventually. So
if you value to the fullest,enjoy and love with all your heart,
say what you feel, express whatyou want and learn to enjoy every moment
of life. There won' tbe any losses, because when he'
s lost, that' s whatyou' re going to say. I
hugged him, I told him,I expressed him, I showed him,

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I did this. I stay withthe spiritual and mental and emotional peace that
I gave the best of myself andthat I valued the moments that life gave
me and if I have already lostpeople, then what I have to do
to value those that I have totake care of them, that I have

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to learn to be grateful to sayin life, to ask forgiveness if you
were wrong to love and do thingsbetter, because you don' t know
when it' s going to bethe moment when you lose or lose them.
But if you value all that,you' re gonna live happily and
you' re not gonna lose anymoreand there' s gonna be no remorse
and if you didn' t dowhat I told you, it' s

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not for you to feel guilty.That teaches you to value and to be
better. But it depends on youthe results of success in your life,
it is depending on your perspective,your faith, your values, your convictions,
your dreams, your essence and whatyou are. If you want to
be what is important is there willbe losses that will no longer be renewed.

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But if you are aware that thisis no longer going to happen,
of which that is no longer goingto happen, you have nothing to lose
and accept, assimilate, value,forgive and forgive. It' s how
you realize you can live in emotionalfreedom and you gain peace. Loss is
an evil that generates an emotional stagnationthat limits opportunities by fear of continuing to

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lose. The loss is assimilated.So, so you start to beat yourself
by always finding the positive of thenegative, which is generated with each opportunity.
Losing, then losing also wins.And here I want to give you

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some examples. The loss formula isa formula that I realized is loss plus
loss equal to loss. There's no more d i mean, you
don' t lose you' regoing to win on the issue of something
tangible, but this chain of lossI want to focus on. You lost
a job, so you lost money. When you lose money, you start

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to have debts, then you havelost your economic stability and when you lose
your economics, there are family problemsand when you discuss with your family,
then there is a loss of peacein the home and when you have problems
with them, you have lost thegood relationship, the good communication, when
you lose that environment, you don' t feel well, you feel sad
decayed and then you start to loseyour health, your emotion, you start

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spending the little you stay and thenyou start sinking a total loss towards that
I' m focusing it. So, you lost this. What you have
to do is find a solution,how you can get it back, how
you can have something better. Whichyou lost how to fix that. Making
decisions no longer allow for further losses. You have to cut this chain.
You lost your job, but youdidn' t lose your life. You

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lost your best. I don't know, you got divorced, but
that doesn' t mean your life' s over now, maybe. But
you gave a family being. Butif you have faith and hope and believe
in life, eternal you will seethem again and all, unfortunately, we
will die when who knows. Butthen what are you going to do that

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if today you have those alive,you' re going to love them,
you' re going to respect them, you' re going to take care
of them, you' re goingto tell them, you' re going
to do the best you can.So, like you, you don'
t want to lose them. Ifyou start generating this kind of opportunity,
then you' re not going tolose them. If you had a problem,
talk, forgive, apologize, acknowledge, change, do something better,

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prove, and if you do that, you' re gonna keep it from
getting lost. Many of the rationsare lost because of the lack of communication,
of respect, of speaking, ofdialogue, of creativity, of really
saying what you feel, what youwant, what you expect and what you
need, because the other person hasno idea what you want, because you
are the one who brings conflict inthe heart, at work. If you

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don' t talk and don't innovate and don' t propose,
if you don' t relate butopen, if you don' t dare
and don' t design projects,that' s what you haven' t
generated today. It' s whatdidn' t make you a profit and
it' s losses that even thoughyou haven' t done anything, because
it' s predicting everything. So, to overcome the loss, first step

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is to identify where you are losingmore and begin to value, adding from
negative positive, more value to thegood than to the negative of life.
That way it is a way inwhich the loss is overcome. What is
done when you lose and how youfeel and what you turn to. You

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have to think. This is thenext thing that happens when you already lost
something, what you do, howyou start to feel, what you start
thinking about and what you turn to, because that' s the key to
keep losing more or not losing anymore. So, having the answers to this
I' m telling you already.You will not lose common examples of family

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loss, sentimental, emotional, work, economic, only spiritual, equal to
loss. Some losses are caused bynot measuring the consequences of our actions and
the decisions involving the lack of values, giving rise to social problems. Other
losses are circumstantial. You can't do anything, it' s going

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to be your turn to lose,even if you don' t want them
to be avoided, because they're life processes. Naturally, these are
things that are going to happen.Even if you always want to win,
you won' t be able towin, but when you win, you
have to enjoy it to the fullest, because that' s the chance you

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' re having to win to learnand grow. And the perda also makes
you think and make you a betterperson. It' s not bad to
lose personal testimony of family loss,feelings look. I can tell you why
I' m talking about this,because I' ve had emotional, financial,
emotional, family losses. An exampleI' m going to cite perhaps

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a sentimental question of mine. Iloved a particular person. It' s
an example I' m setting tomake you understand what' s going on
and the opportunity I realized to bringabout a change in your life. I
want to open my heart to you. Example. I was going to see
this person. She worked far away, not near where I was. Then

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that generated an expense, an expensethat didn' t hurt me. Transporting
me and spending it to see hersmile or to live with this person.
I was then running my schedule soI could focus on it and then I
was going to see her until now, until her work. I was trying
to take her to eat a goodplace, give her good attentions, details,

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etcetera. So what really happens tothis person, for his work,
for his way of life, forhis family and for many situations. Maybe
he didn' t give me thetime and attention like I gave him.
So I was spending money, Iwas wasting my time, I was stopping

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producing, and I was focusing almost100% on that person. So,
far away from winning, I waslosing. Yes, then I realized that
really, if I wanted a futurewith that person, there had to be
like a balance and a and agreementsand work on it so that everything would
work and both make an effort.If you really wanted the relationship. When

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you screw up that relationship, thisis what I learned. I had invested
resources, had dreams, had manythings I wanted to do with that person.
Then what' s up? IfI had kept up with that relationship,
I would have kept going in parentheses, wasting time, money, my
mood and everything, when the relationshipgoes wrong, I start coming down.

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So I didn' t feel likeworking, I didn' t feel like
doing anything, I started losing sponsors, resources, and I started to get
depressed. And later, because hecan no longer be with that person,
no longer see her again and thefeelings that that generates you. And then,
then, because he was emotionally,economically, physically, mentally, spiritually,

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and also, because he no longerhad contact with that person. And
that, then, affects you justlike I do. I' m sure
there have been people who have comeup with much stronger and worse things,
and that also teaches you to realizethat you' re not that worse or
that bad. But what happened isa minimal example that I want to share,

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very absurd, perhaps that already belongsto a past. But when I
realized that, far from winning,I was losing. It was when I
realized that it was the best thingthat could have happened if there had been
a son, if there had beenother things, a relationship that might have
ended a voice and then it couldhave been a divorce other kind of situations.

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It was when I began to realizethat when I lost this person it
was the best thing that could havehappened to me. First I release the
space for the right person good orclosest to what I need. I hope
and wish then, if this personhad remained with me, it limits the
opportunity to know the true love ofmy life and is giving me the opportunity

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because it left someone to occupy areal place, someone who values or appreciates
what I am. On the otherhand, then, since this person was
no longer there, I already hadtime for my projects, for my work,
to generate ideas, to concentrate,to thrive, to grow, to
focus. I no longer had stability, doubt, sad snows that insecurity,

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provoked jealousy or situations that were emotionallyaffecting me. There was no longer that,
there was peace, there was peace, there was already an opportunity,
there was another thought. And besides, I was spending money, because that
money I wasn' t spending anymore. So, if it' s no
longer spending, it' s nolonger loss, it' s saving,

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or it' s already a resourcethat, instead of constantly spending that money,
that money, instead of spending itthere, I could invest it in
other things from my job or otherthings. Then that resource was already a
gain, it was no longer aloss. And even though I spent it
heartily at the time, I realizedthat maybe with all the money I invested
in that relationship with him, Icould have done many other things. That

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' s why I said I don' t lose anymore, I don'
t spend anymore And I don't go like this anymore, And I
started to change, to appreciate andunderstand what was the best thing that could
have happened to me that relationship wouldend. But a lot of people had
a relationship and went straight to suicide. Many people end up directly related to
drugs, alcohol, prostitution, diseasesand other situations. Many people grab a

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hatred and resentment against God, askinghim and questioning him why, when many
times your consequences are, they areyour actions, they are your bad decisions,
and that' s what you didn' t realize. I' m
giving you this minimum silly example soyou can relate it in your working life.

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If you hadn' t lost thatjob, maybe today, you wouldn
' t be an entrepreneur. Ifyou hadn' t made that decision about
something you sacrificed that you lost today, you wouldn' t be doing what
you' re doing. If youhadn' t invested that which you might
have called loss today, you wouldn' t have other unexpected opportunities that you
didn' t even imagine are happeningto you in your life. If you

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hadn' t gotten rid of it, it sounds ugly about bad friendships today,
you wouldn' t have the friendshipsyou have. If you hadn'
t made the choice of s sor kept up with that relationship, you
' d be sick, full ofresentment, hate, sadness, resentment with
cancer, your worth of life,your way of thinking. You wouldn'
t be the person you are today. All loss is a key to the

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success of something great in your futureand in your life. The worst frustrations
and failures of others are the treasures, wonderful and great of wisdom the great
situations and problems and obstacles. Itis where you acquire great strength, strength

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determination, where the best, theworst comes out of you Thanks to that
pain, that loss, you learnto value, love, care, protect,
want and move on. Because maybesomeone left your life that, far
from helping you, was making youlose. Now you' re winning,
because you' re not losing anymore. They are no longer taking away your

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peace, your security, your integrity, your person, in your time,
everything you value represents you deserve andyou are thanks to losses. These are
the great life experiences that you canshare with others and that you can prevent
others, raise awareness and help othersnot lose where you have lost. It
' s a great council that's worth more than the money you can

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own, because thanks to that situation, you' ve learned and you can
save lives and help others so theydon' t get lost. But sometimes
that' s not valued and youdon' t see it. Then great
benefits or virtues are obtained when personallosses are assimilated, they help human development,
personal, labor, social, becomingareas of opportunity, by the acquired

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strength to share with others, beinglife expectancy and value for others. If
the X relationship you had, thatyou thought was the best thing, that
hurt you because it got lost,it' s over and you thought that
was the best thing, you haveto prepare yourself because something much better will

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come out than you had. There' s always better things coming when you
miss others. I don' tknow why, but you lost a good
job, a better job, comesa better chance, you lost a relationship.
It comes to someone who will loveyou that if he will love you,
that he will accept you, thathe will want to be with you,
but if you remain anchored to theloss of the past, you will
miss that opportunity to say. Youlost years or whatever, for being in

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a bad relationship talking sentimentally. Andtoday it comes to someone who loves you,
who loves you, who respects you, who is willing to play it
for you and who accepts you,who wants a present, who wants to
build a future with you, butyou are still mentally crying for the bitch,
keeping a mourning when it' snot even a situation like that,

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or absurdly blocking you with attitudes thatare making you lose you are losing that
opportunity that is coming from life.And focus on the work, the family,
what you know in your school,where what you do always realize that
many times life has great treasures andthings for you. But you for not
wanting to shut you down, foryour attitude, for your thought, for

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your bitterness, for your hatred,for your resentment for your way of being,
you prevent good things from happening toyou. If I came right now
to someone who wanted to support meor sponsor me and I' m depressed
and angry. And whatever it is, he won' t want to support
me. If someone likes me andsees that I am not congruent with what
I say with what I do,then you won' t believe me if

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I keep anchored to all the painI' ve had from my father,
from money, from jobs, fromfamily situations, from work, from bad,
from decisions and everything. I wouldn' t be talking about this,
but I' ve learned with tears, pain, mistakes and successes. And
thanks to those things, then I' m not missing out on things like

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I might have lost before, butit' s up to you. So
here I want to make an analogy, which is something I want to share
with you. They' re shoes. I want to ask you a question.
We all have in a closet somestinky hole shoes that we don'
t throw, and I' msure they exist. We all have a

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shoe like that, and the questionis why, why do you have an
old shoe with a hole with hate, with this one maybe, with a
bad smell, but I don't know if I' m going to
your closet I assure you that Ifind an old shoe and that shoe is
occupying a place, in that closetor, in that place where you'
re having it. But why keepsomething in parentheses. Maybe it' s

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no good anymore. Maybe that shoewas something you lived with that reminds you
of. Maybe that shoe, maybeit gave it to someone, it was
a savings, it was something special, or it was something that you inherited
what I know and you have anaffection. That' s why you didn
' t throw it away. Andmaybe every time you look at that shoe
with holes or that tennis and yousee it remembers something nice and such it

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is. That' s why youhave him there and you don' t
see. But that shoe is makingyou an ecosystem there. Maybe there'
s mold, there' s worms, there' s particles, there'
s a lot of stuff and thatshoe being stuck to a new one.
What do you think will happen,because even if nothing else is by his
side, at least the smell isscattered. It' s not like when

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you leave a meal in the refrigeratorstored and then you don' t eat
it and the years pass and suddenlyyou start to go and you already have
mosquitoes and an entire ecosystem and thatstarts to mess up, and the same
Lor starts to throw out, tostink what' s around and start going
into a fucking faction state that I' m going with this, why I
tell you this about old shoes.It' s an analogy and I want

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to read this to you. Thereare things and memories that occupy a place
in the heart that is making themsick and limiting that the new generates life
and occupies a small place with somethingbigger notice something with this I wrote and
that' s why I read itto you about those shoes. He thinks
they' re there for some reason, no, but you really need them

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if they have, not me,if they' re dirty, if they
' re stinking, then they don' t. And if you took those
shoes off, you' d getthem out of that place, if you
' ve talked so much about throwingthem away before, just take your shoes
off. Hence there is a spaceto place something and many times this is

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what happens. Those shoes. Putthe name of the pear you want is
in your heart. There' sthat loss in there occupying a place,
ruining everything else. Emotionally, it' s killing you, it' s
getting you dirty, and it's stealing a space opportunity for you to

(01:06:05):
do something better and maybe even bigger. I mean, you have to get
rid of everything old, everything thatis no longer giving you the use you
need, the satisfaction you require orwhat you expected. You have to realize
that a lot of things you're keeping are no longer useful and that

(01:06:30):
' s spoiling and keeping something newfrom taking a place. There is then.
If you take those old shoes outof hate, sadness, from the
name of the person who leaves youa good memory, but bitter and leaves
a bad feeling, you don't even get it out that there'
s room for something new and you' re going to put something new in.

(01:06:50):
You' re not gonna put somethingold in that place. If you
get rid of the old, there' s a place for the new and
it can be bigger and better thanyou had. That is, to renew
yourself This is to restore yourself,this is to reinvent yourself, this is
to create, to innovate, isto open up a space for something better.

(01:07:11):
So, in your life and inyour heart there are things that are
occupying, a place that is makingyou lose and that, when you get
rid of that, you' regoing to win and you' re going
to have something better. Old thingshave already passed away, behold, they
are all made new. It isa Bible verse that fascinates me. In
second Corinthians, five, seventeen saysthe old things already happened and here all

(01:07:34):
that new fact. So this tellsyou that you have to believe the old
stuff. It was, as Joséwould say, the past. I don
' t care I forgot Let's go I don' t live in
yesterday. So, when I getall the old stuff, I' m
gonna have new stuff for better stuff. But I have to make that decision.

(01:07:57):
And even though it hurts to getrid of my filthy shoes or with
a hole I have to leave itbecause I need that space for something new
or for something better. Then youhave to get rid of everything you'
re missing. Maybe you' venoticed, but your attitude, your way
of being, your way of thinking, your way of feeling, of proceeding,
of driving is what you' regetting lost. If you are a

(01:08:21):
bitter, angry person who no longersmiles because he lost something, which took
away his desire to live again,you have to get rid of that,
that old memory so that you smileagain you have to make your essence back.
You have to leave everything that's far from making you lose.
You' re not making yourself win, you have to get rid of bad

(01:08:45):
attitudes, bad thoughts from the past. You' re gonna have to make
decisions not to keep having those friendshipsanymore, or frequent those places, or
spend that money on those things thatare making you lose. You have to
invest to all two what drives you, that makes you grow, that motivates
you, that makes you a betterperson every day, that generates more resources

(01:09:05):
and that, when you have thoseresources are to share with those who have
neither to help others and to generatebetter living conditions for a better social environment.
Now that you' re losing,you' re gonna maybe tell me
how you might tell me that ifyou' re not in my shoes.
That' s why I' mgoing to tell you if the covid has

(01:09:28):
lost you right now get ready towin and give thanks that maybe you haven
' t lost your health. Thereare people who complain about work, that
because there is no money, thatbecause there is no this, but he
is healthy. There are people whoare sleeping at home and who, perhaps,
despair because they have nothing to do. But you' re alive,
you' ve got your arms,you' ve got your eyes, you

(01:09:53):
' ve got your head, you' ve got your heart, you have
dreams and expectations that when the covidpasses, things are going to come that
maybe he doesn' t even imaginebetter. But there are people who are
regretting that, when there are otherpeople who are burying their family, who
are saying goodbye to them that theycould not even say goodbye or that because
of some situation, because of whatthey are living, they are already losing

(01:10:15):
and you are not valuing what othersare losing, because until you lose it,
you will not value it, northank, nor recognize it. And
that' s what makes you understandothers, that' s putting others in
place. That' s empathy.So, if it doesn' t happen
to you, thank God you're alive today, if maybe you didn
' t eat at the restaurant youlove and you don' t even have

(01:10:38):
enough for that, but you havesomething to eat. At least you have
that, that there are other peoplewho don' t even have that,
and we don' t value that. Then you say you already lost when
you haven' t lost everything.Others say they' ve lost everything,
when they still have something and withthat something they can have more than others

(01:11:00):
now. They started new business,they' re doing super well. Other
people in this crisis learned other thingsand are being prospered. They' re
doing well. There are others who, perhaps, are struggling, are suffering,
are losing what you are not valuingor caring for. So, that

(01:11:20):
' s why I share this withyou and we need the following to overcome
the loss. To overcome loss,you have to have faith, you have
to believe again, you have tovalue, you have to make a determination,
you have to surrender, you haveto get passionate, you have to
love with all your strength what youare going to do, what you are

(01:11:41):
going to love and what you donot want to lose. You have to
tell those you love that they arethe best in your life and that you
don' t want to lose them, so that the wife doesn' t
go away, so that you don' t leave the child, so that
you don' t go to thecouple, so that you don' t
go to the loved one, youhave to make them feel that it'
s important to you and that youdon' t want to lose it.
But if your attitudes are rude,if you are a person who offends,
who does not value, who doesnot recognize, who does not appreciate and

(01:12:04):
who seeks nothing else, but foranything to discuss. So when you lose
what you had today that is aproduct of conflict and trouble, then you
' re going to regret it becauseyou' d give anything because that person
was there. Then or because ofthat job. You complain about your bosses
when you have a job, whenothers don' t have a job,

(01:12:25):
because they lost it, and you' re about to lose that job,
acceptance to beat it. But youneed faith, courage, determination, dedication,
passion, acceptance, recognition, disposition, that is, to be open
to open change, perhaps, notto the worst, to make decisions,

(01:12:46):
to retain all the good of thepast and to cast away everything that hurts
you and does not edify you.Remember your past successes, Remember everything you
' ve accomplished, because greater thingsyou' re going to do when you
create and start working. If youhad a car and you lost it,
then what do you think you willhave a better car than you had and

(01:13:08):
what you lost if you had atoxic relationship, not good, not positive,
because what do you think there willbe someone who will love you,
who will love you, who willrespect you and who will be best for
you, because what do you thinkif you had, maybe a business that
was not so prosperous and even thoughyou loved it and invested it to the
last weight, because maybe you willmeet someone with vision, with another perspective,
who will invite you because of theexperience you have and maybe you will

(01:13:30):
find a good business and job opportunity. If you made a bad decision as
long as you live, you havea chance to make a better decision.
You have to have values to overcomeloss, execute what you have learned,
but for the positive, be gratefulto identify the positive and the teaching of
what you have experienced, learn tovalue, resignation, tolerance, openness,

(01:13:56):
change and enjoy every moment to thefullest. That way, you won'
t have anything because you enjoyed it, loved it, and were grateful.
So with this, this way theloss is overcome and a moment of reflection
is entering. Yeah. In conclusion, and what I' d like to
ask you with this is that allI' ve told you is if you

(01:14:16):
wanted to keep losing. And theanswer is more than obvious clear that you
don' t want to lose.But with the example I told you,
when you lose something that' smaking you lose, you start winning,
then losing, you also win.If you lose negative attitudes, you lose

(01:14:38):
the worst of yourself, you losewhat makes you lose, then you'
re ready to win. And sinceyou lost this, you' re already
winning. That' s why Iused to call you losing, you win,
too. Then you haven' tlost, because everything you' ve
lost has left you an experience.That has helped form your judgment, your

(01:15:00):
person, your integrity, your essence. That' s what I' ve
made you have convictions that you've lost. It' s made you
more human, more sensitive. Hehas taught you to value, appreciate,
to be grateful, to love,to respect, to care, to protect.
What you have lost has made youbetter, more character, more wisdom,
more intelligence. So, if youhadn' t lost that today,

(01:15:26):
you wouldn' t be who youare. Then you' ve never lost.
And whenever you lose something is becausesomething better you' re gonna have
than what you' ve lost,which you apparently thought was the best thing
that could have happened to you,it' s not true. There'
s more, but you have tolearn to identify, to be able to
realize that, if it' sworth it, which is something that makes

(01:15:48):
you lose, it' s verysimple. He always thinks this makes me
lose, or this makes me win. And it' s not like you
want to have an advantage or anambition. But at any time, situation
or circumstance that comes before you,think I lose or gain what I will
lose, what I can gain,what I can get, what can benefit

(01:16:11):
me. It' s good forme, for my development, for my
growth, or that' s gonnamake me lose. A very simple example.
Someone invites you to take it,but you pay the bill. I
mean, then you' re notwinning there, not if someone invites you
to eat and heartily does, becauseyou' re having a benefit. But

(01:16:33):
I don' t mean that youbecome interested or materialistic or that you seek
to take advantage, but that yourealize that if you are going to go,
for example, with friends that willinduce you and that, far from
making you feel good, they makeyou lose, because then you know what
if you have to take, ifyou prefer to be doing other things instead

(01:16:55):
of spending time on study, training, preparation, then that' s what
if you' re doing, winningor losing, but you decide then.
That' s why I want tothink with you. I want you to
think right now, about all thelosses you' ve had. I want
you to bring your mind to yourheart, right now, if you want
to close your eyes where you are, if you want to index your head

(01:17:20):
or want to hold hands with theperson next to you watching this lecture or
whatever you want, I want youto have a moment in this space to
reflect on what you have lost.Think of everything you' ve lost.
Time, money, work, dreams, people, opportunities, health. What

(01:17:48):
you' ve lost to this dayand now I want us to go from
missing to more. You lost aperson, but it' s not the
end. You may have lost yourhealth, but you' re still alive.
There' s always going to besomething you can value within the negative.
There will always be something positive andit could have been worse or worse.

(01:18:12):
And that' s when you realizeyou haven' t completely lost.
As long as your life is notlost, don' t miss your dreams
and as long as you' rehere there' s hope. The covid
has stopped many things, has alreadycaused global losses and we are all struggling

(01:18:33):
with very difficult situations, but wehave health, there is hope, there
are opportunities, there are projects,there are dreams, there are things that
can happen at the least expected time. And that' s where you'
re going to see the miracle,because along with the test, comes the
exit, with the need, theprovision, with which you don' t

(01:18:56):
have what will come to you.But it' s a time when you
have to start believing in everything thathasn' t happened to do what'
s right for you to do yourbest and wait for what you can'
t do. It happens for yourself, for attraction, for sowing, for
work, for attitude, for whatyou have done, it will come.
But if you' re seeing allthe loss, and then you fall into

(01:19:17):
that vicious circle that I don't have this anymore? And this is
what happened? And you' vealready complicated this? And you start sticking
yourself into all that emotionally, insteadof saying ok, if this didn'
t happen, it' s okay, it' s gonna get a little
better. Okay, this didn't happen, but it' s gonna
get better. Okay, this thingI was hoping was already frustrated. But
I can do this. You haveto look for opportunities and solutions and alternatives.

(01:19:38):
Despite the situation you' re livingin. There will always be a
way out however difficult it may seemand I believe with all my strength and
with all my heart, that Godwill not leave you, will send people,
will open projects, will move hearts. Someone' s gonna deposit you,
somebody' s gonna help you,somebody' s gonna hire you?
The project that takes years to thebest suddenly buried out of nowhere is going

(01:20:00):
to happen and it' s goingto happen or people that you didn'
t expect, it' s goingto look for you and it' s
going to tell you I want todo that with you, or things are
just going to happen. You mustbe prepared for miracles and things beyond,
because when you get your faith toeverything you haven' t seen, that
' s when you' re goingto start seeing. But you have to
believe and be open and let yourselfbless, let things happen, be a

(01:20:23):
bottle, be something where they candeposit positive things and be open and identify
good opportunities and give your time towhat' s really worth it. Maybe
you have a business in your handsor you have something that you haven'
t noticed and that, thanks tothe covid you can awaken that intelligence of
talent and suddenly, that can generatea crisis resource. It is opportunity and

(01:20:48):
the more difficult situations, more strength, more understanding, more intelligence, more
character, more will, more goodthings that you can bring to other people
and to YOU itself more growth.You' re gonna realize what maybe you
thought was impossible. And only throughthe crisis and the perda is it where

(01:21:12):
the best of you wakes up andit' s real. So, right
now that you' re there listeningto me, I want you to make
a commitment to yourself not to letthis keep making you lose that even though
it' s hard, even ifthere are beans, but with a smile

(01:21:34):
with love, because at least youcan eat that and there are others who
can' t eat it. Atleast you' re happy, at least
you have a roof, you havesomething to wear. Maybe you' re
not going to the places you wantedto go. Maybe the trips you had
were no longer made. Maybe alot of things that were there have stopped.
But that country, that person,that job, that project, and

(01:21:55):
what comes is not the end,because as long as you live, there
will always be better opportunities than evenyou thought they were. And sometimes something
weird happens that you don' tunderstand. But time, God is wise
and everything has its time. Ifyou didn' t travel, maybe look.
If you had traveled, you wouldhave died, if you were to

(01:22:15):
leave the house right now, youwould have been run over. Maybe if
you' d done what you wantedto do already, you wouldn' t
be here, you wouldn' tbe seeing me. But that is not
valued, that is not understood.And being at home is also opportunities how
many things you hadn' t done. It is time to innovate, to

(01:22:36):
write and to dream, to plan, to project and to do. This
is like a proof of survival,of how much you endure and of how
much you are made And if youcan with that situation you will be able
to face worse situations so you learnedin this that we are living, then

(01:22:56):
I want to take you to thisreflection. Think about everything you' ve
lost, economic, moral, sentimental, indeed, everything, and I want
you to think about what' smaking you lose and maybe it' s
gonna hurt. But it' sbetter to make the decision so that you
don' t lose any more,because if we talked about the example I
set for you, if that relationship, it' s making you lose your

(01:23:20):
peace, your heart, your stability, your way of being, it'
s taking your time. Maybe it' s better to lose that, because
losing that you' re going toearn a lot more than you had and
besides, you' re going tobe fine, because that' s what
' s making you lose everything elseand it' s a tough decision,
because making the decision to say I' m going to lose this is like

(01:23:40):
sacrificing. But when you deliver thatthing that' s making you lose,
you know it' s not good. For example, the drug, it
makes you lose or it makes youwin. It makes you in a moment,
go into a degree of hallucination andforget your problems, but economically it
makes you lose. Physically it makesyou lose your health. It makes you
lose and besides, you' renot gonna control it later and you'
re gonna get in trouble. Ifyou keep doing that, then when you

(01:24:01):
stop spending that money, you're gonna be fine and not because you
get high. These problems are notgoing to stop. Your problems are going
to end when you face them,when you' re brave, when you
' re looking for solutions, whenyou make the decision, and when you
' re looking for a way todo the right thing, you spend your
time on positive things. That's when your environment will change, when

(01:24:23):
you talk to people, when youdare to express yourself without fear, when
you say what you want, whenyou fight for things until you achieve them.
And despite this, it' sa time like when you play football,
that you' re on the bench, that you already want to play
and enter the game and give thebest of yourself. But it' s
not time yet. But once thecovid passes you' re going out and
you' re going to conquer allthose dreams and you' re going to

(01:24:45):
do everything you couldn' t do. You' re gonna do it as
long as you live, it's just patience and think positively where you
are. If you don' twant to lose anymore, make a purchase
the same thing as identifying first whathas made you lose, then make the

(01:25:08):
decision, accept, recognize and thendecide to lose what makes you lose so
that you don' t keep losingand start having faith, start smiling,
getting up, getting up and fightingand giving more effort so that you don

(01:25:31):
' t lose anymore. I'd do the following for the best.
It' s weird there. Andif you want to do it with an
audible voice. Repeat what I'm going to say, and that'
s going to bring you freedom,the heart, the soul and you'
re going to have peace. Andeven if it sounds crazy, but you
need to say it and it's very simple if you want to do

(01:25:53):
it there with me, repeat thefollowing. Today I decide not to waste
any more time on what is notgoing to go just. Today I lose
my temper, my pride, myresentment, my courage, my pain,
my frustration, my past. TodayI decide to lose everything that has done

(01:26:15):
to me, to lose myself.Today it leaves my mind, my soul
and my heart, all loss ofthe past, the people who made me
lose my business, the people whowere a stone to my life, today
I bless them wherever they want meto be. And besides, I thank
you because that loss that occasion inmy life has made me earn a lot

(01:26:35):
more than I ever imagined, becauseif I hadn' t lost that today
I wouldn' t have what Ihave. That' s where then I
forgive, I bless, I'm going to do my best and I
decide to lose my past, mypain, my sadness, the disease,
everything that has blocked me, thathas affected me emotional sentimental, that has

(01:26:59):
made me lose more my life.I am not designed for loss, for
failure and for negative things. Idon' t want to lose anymore.
Today I promise to fight, towin, to win my family, to
win in my job, to winfor the friendships that are worth it,

(01:27:19):
to win everything that I have notbeen able to have. I promise to
lose to win what I want andwhat I want. No more economic,
moral, family, spiritual, sentimental, educational, professional loss. I don
' t want any more losses inmy life. I promise to do my

(01:27:43):
best, to fight, to work, to believe, to grow, to
give my best, because I wantto win and not lose. But I
' m aware that if I lostit' s for my own good.
Even if I didn' t wantto lose it, I accept it.
I forgive myself for having lost whatI did not value, for having failed
to appreciate what I should have appreciated. But today I promise that as long

(01:28:09):
as I have life value, loveand care and be the best I can
in my environment of the peredas Ilearned I will learn not to lose any
more. If you have said thatwith me, the only thing that has
been repeating things to the House thatyou are there, I hope so and

(01:28:29):
remember that the best is to come. I want to leave a few motivational
phrases and thoughts to overcome the loss. As long as life is not lost,
you have the opportunity not to loseany more and to have new things
at every step that you give anew beginning is acquired. When it'

(01:28:51):
s lost, it' s ablank sheet that has the possibility to write
everything you want from what' salready lost. You can create something new.
No, no, you didn't lose you gained experience, space,
opportunity, time, wisdom, knowledge, maturity, strength, skills,

(01:29:15):
qualities and security. So you didn' t lose win, but you didn
' t realize you lost more thanyou' ve lost on occasion. That
' s losing you more than you' ve lost, because what you thought
was worth not losing, that's what I was making you lose and
what I was losing you always wins. When lost you never lose to win

(01:29:43):
and losing you also win. ThenI end this lecture by waiting for it
to be a balm for your heart, a medicine for your soul and to
motivate you to fight until you losenothing completely. You have a chance to

(01:30:05):
win everything. You can always losesome things, but there are things that
you haven' t lost yet andthat are worth valuing, caring and those
are the ones that will help youwin other things. So, then,
overcoming the loss, thanks to theproud inselech sponsor of its server, of

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