Oliver Ruiz Debate Union Libre o Matrimonio

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How about friends, because I amalready here inviting my friends to start with
this discussion of marriage or free union, and I welcome my friend Fernanda cdes
regidor de Nicolás Romero. Thank youfor seeing me right now and now,
let' s start with this debateso that we can motivate each other to
share experiences, thoughts, experiences andthings they want to share. This is

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your space. Remember that my wallis a wall and because of you it
is making this possible And this,then, goes for the international news portal
next week there is a special articleabout this topic, so that it comes
more dysfunctional to detailed. Thanks toall those who participated in the previous debate,

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of friendship or interest. I receivedvery, very good comments from many
people, which, for me,is very satisfying that we were able to
share that debate together last time.There were also people who participated by giving
their opinions, also one that anotherCouncil and I think it was very pleasant

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to live together on that occasion.And, well, here I want to
say hello to those who are alreadyintegrating is, to this debate and this
broadcast with his friend Oliver Ruiz.Thank you, Carlos Ramirez, for seeing
us. Fernando Aceves Regidor, alreadysalutes him, but again I reiterate the
greeting and to those who are connectingat this moment to this transmission to share

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with his savidor for a while and, therefore, to spend a pleasant moment
sharing about this situation that I amdoing for the international news portal that I
have, which are articles of interest. Every week there' s going to
be a different theme. This Fridaythere' s another one called I can

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change. There are a lot ofpeople who say they can' t change,
they can' t change or theycan' t change what they'
ve missed. But it can change, and it is to share with people
how they have done it to change, why it can change, why it
is necessary to change. And I' d like to ask those who are
watching me if they hear me wellthat they could write me here in the
chat to see if the volume isokay. I can raise you more.

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And so, to start with thisdebate, then you are connecting more friends
and in another moment we will startwith this and the issue that I want
to discuss with you about Free Unionor Marriage, what do you think?
I would like those who are alreadyconnected here to believe that free union is

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better than marriage, or why getmarried? Or what do you think?
Those who are already connected here,I will read live their comments and send
their opinions. Or if you haveany experience that you want to share with
all pleasure, remember that my wallis your space and this space is with

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you. For you to be hereand in what you write, I will
add to more friendships so that youare here interacting with us and sharing your
experiences with us. Or what doyou think about marriage or free union,
what do you think, what doyou think about it? They have some
experience, why free union is betterthan marriage and vice versa. Share with

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me to share your thoughts and experienceswith people. Or what you want to
share right now here I' mgoing to read with everyone and I'
d like to hear their opinions.You believe in marriage or more in free
union, what do you think andwhy if marriage or why free union?

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I' d like you to shareyour views with me. I send greetings
to those who are connected here andI am waiting for them to tell me
about their opinions that yes or ina free or marriage, what do they
recommend most what those who are herewith me connected think share with me,

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tell me to read their comments.Please, you guys, what do you
think, so another normal friendship hasalready been connected out there. I send
a welcome greeting to this special broadcastthat we are doing at the time and
the issue we are addressing. Ifyou can share your experience or your opinion,
what do you think about free unionor marriage, what do you think?

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What' s better? It's good free union, it'
s bad, it' s bettermarriage. Or if we are first in
Free Union and then we get married, what do you think friends are connecting
for this broadcast, leave me yourcomments here to read them and share with

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those who are seeing me right now. So the issue we' re dealing
with is free union or marriage,what do you think, what do you
think? Who did well with themarriage or who didn' t do well
or maybe. If they' rein there, they can' t talk.
It' s understandable, but theycan share something positive. What do

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you think about free union or marriage, what is your experience, what is
your experience? Plate me so Ican greet you I send greetings to my
friend Jesus, who has just connected. Welcome, Jesus. We are sharing

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on the issue of whether free unionor marriage, whether free union is better
or marriage is better and vice versa. What do you think, Jesus,
If you leave me here your commentsI will gladly share them or if you
have any experience that you want toshare opinion on this topic that we are

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talking about. I would like tohear your comments Jesús Morales User, Thank
you for watching the broadcast. Whatdo you think, friend I send you
a greeting, neither a book ormarriage or neither, or first free union
after marriage, and why they thinkmarriage is bad or free union is better.

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What do you think, Jesus?Give me your comments, Jesús Morales
Osorio, to read them live here, just like Norma Martínez, if you
could also share your point of viewto read them live with those who are
here connecting and with whom we arehere sharing this topic of this debate,

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which is a special article that isgoing to come out on my news portal.
And if you want to know myopinion, too, because now I
' m talking to you, I' m telling you. So you guys
tell me what you think? Freeunion or marriage is the issue we are

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addressing right now. If you wantto share your opinion with all pleasure,
remember that my wall is your spaceand I read your comments, your greetings,
your opinions towards the people you arejoining and also the video, because
you are going to stay here thenI would like to know, then,

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what are your opinions not about FreeMarriage, what do you recommend if you
have had a bad experience, iffirst we live together and then we marry
you, what do you think.That' s where I welcome Jenny,
who' s already connected, Jennysde Hidalgo, from Manda, a very
very greeting, and I' mglad you' re here, Jenny,

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tell us what do you think Unionbook marriage? Why marriage? Or if
it is worth the free Union,here I read your comments. They want
to say hello. Some of youare here with pleasure. I would like
to listen to them and read themand share a pleasant moment, because the
situation that is being experienced by thecovid because right now, everything is online.

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And because it is happening to meto make these articles and these lives,
this lives, because it is goingto be embedded in the next article
of a marriage book, which isa topic of interest, in which I
share some advice, in which Icomment my point of view with the people
and where those who today have sharedtheir opinion with me, because already this

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one here is going to be recordedfor more people, also the testimonies of
the people that others hear, becauseit is very good. Then I send
you a greeting. I welcome allthose who are seeing us and here is
the first to give us their opiniontoday. Thank you, Norma, for
watching that transmission. It says NormaMartinez. Whether it went well or not,
I think it' s best tolive in marriage. Yeah, sure,

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sure why, why do you thinkit' s best to live normal
marriage to share it here with thosewatching the broadcast, regardless of the experience
you' ve been good or bad, because you think it' s marriage.
There are people who believe that thefree Union is better and if they
get together, they know each other, they still love each other, they

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continue to find common tastes, becausethey already decide to marry. But there
are also some religious groups who saythat being in Free Union is sin and
others also think that marriage is notbetter. So there' s like that
controversy and that' s why Ithought I' d do this live with
you to hear the public' sopinion. Then I' ll tell you

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what if you' re interested inwhat I think about this sometimes controversial subject,
because I' m not promoting either. Of course, what I want
is to be able to understand people' s opinions and to break it up
with everyone. Not because many timesthere are people who are not happy and
who would have preferred lived a freeone. And yes, then things go

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well. So if we get marriedor then there are couple situations that are
looking for a new opportunity or treatingsomeone and in a couple relationship, because
there are many aspects that sometimes ifwe don' t know the person properly,
because there are those who, honestly, although they don' t say
it, don' t talk aboutit, don' t share it,

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because they endure because neither way they' ve already married, there' s
no other way They made an oath, a covenant or a legal, moral,
spiritual agreement or any other way,and then that generates possible divorces.
So, of the lectures I gaveyour server, in schools, in companies,
with governments, etc, there arestatistics that tell me that currently the

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divorce rate is very, very,very large. Eva Rodriguez de Reino,
I mean, how are you?Look, thank you for being here,
thank you for your greetings. Whatdo you recommend to avoid talking to us
Free union or marriage I mean tothose who just connected that I was saying
a moment ago that sometimes there arepeople who say first we will live together

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and so, we get together youendure my defects. He who wets the
cup or what I know or whoblows my foot, then we get married.
Not good, it' s notmy case, but it' s
an example to do a little bitunless you don' t create those details
are reasons that become habits that youdidn' t know the person was doing.

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Then you don' t want thatanymore or you don' t allow
it. There are no things thatare permissible, tolerant and others that are
simply no longer tolerated, cannot beendured. Then I welcome all those who
are connected here as well. Marianne, how are you, friend, I
saw your message, I' llanswer it in detail on my wall.
Thank you, Mariane, what doyou think of a more demonic book,

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what do you think? It's bad, you guys, you'
re connected here. It' sbad. Free Union is good, then,
then and go get married You,what do you think, share your
comments with me and I read themfor us to have a pleasant time about
that subject of interest that is FreeUnion or marriage, or you would say

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until death does not offend us.Lorena Fernández, welcome, thank you for
joining this broadcast. We' retalking about free union or marriage. Your
opinions, I share them with allof you and I will also tell you
what I think about both situations thatwe are putting forward in this debate.
You, what do you think,share with me, I read your comments

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and we are going to spend thepleasant and if you can share the broadcast
with more friends or with people whointerest you also forward. My wall is
your space and I read it withpleasure. Thank you for your likes that
are appearing there. On this side, I' ll see if on the
screen allows you. I want tothank Grineo Picas for his greetings, friend,
for being here. Ton and Talatoo. Thank you, Mariane Sigue

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and Eva Rodríguez, Lorena Fernández manyRodríguez, thank you for being here with
me and sharing this broadcast. Andwelcome, everyone. Leave me your comments.
Norman told us a few moments agothat she says that independently of whether
it went well or not, shethinks it' s better to live the
marriage, because that' s thequestion. Why they think it' s

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better to live in marriage. Iwanted in Free Union, those who are
here what they think. I wouldtell you my opinion, but first I
want to give the space to thosewho are connected here and if not right
now, I tell you about thestandard comment that I believe this is not

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religious. Of course, it isa discussion forum where all opinions are accepted.
It does not go with any religiousyou, but with a tendency of
values and unity and to share youropinions and also to learn each other and
say good. I am not promotingfree union. Neither is marriage anticipated.
I just think it would be veryimportant to be able to know the person.

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I think there are details that inan open relationship, without taboos,
without religiosism and without precepts or lawsin an aspect of healthy coexistence. I
think sometimes we need to meet,we need to know beyond the person.

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I think it' s good tobe able to really know people as they
are, and sometimes in a courtshipyou can' t get to know the
person or his habits, or hiscustoms, or his family. I mean,
there are things that stay very shallow. I think that in courtship all

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we do is give our best appearance, our best face, the best of
us, because we want to causea good intention, so that the person
falls in love with us can enjoyvice versa. Sara and González, welcome
what you think, marriage or freeunion, what is better or if one

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is good, the other is bador what are their experiences. They wanted
to share equally those who are seeingme I was telling you that I think
the best is as much as youcan know the person. From my point
of view, respecting creeds, religions, thoughts, experiences of others, I
personally believe that as much as youcan know the person, because, then,

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there are things that, perhaps,as I said to them a moment
ago, are not permissible and arenot so tolerable. Or there are things
that, maybe, you didn't know the person and that, already,
when thinking about it more heritage iswhere they already share absolutely all the
problems, the intimacy, the coexistence, the children, the expenses, I

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mean you don' t know whereit goes, what it does in parentheses,
like there is a stronger unity,but it' s not like before
that maybe you when the timing ofthe conversation with someone you say I'
m going to go here, I' m going to go there and this,
because who knows if you were ordidn' t go no longer when

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you' re at home is supposedto already be like a closer relationship where
you can' t say that youdid one thing and didn' t do
it, or that you did somethingelse and ended up doing another, that
is, in the dating. Sometimesyou don' t really know if there
' s no trust, there's no communication, there' s no

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values, there' s no love, you don' t really know what
people tell you what they do.And it' s precisely where you give
that confidence to the person who ifhe tells you he' s working,
he' s working. If hetells you he went to the office,
it' s because he' sat the office. But if at the
office inter on his return home,he met with friends and didn' t
tell you anything, because you don' t know the same thing is also

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going to happen in a marriage relationship. But there is so much communication and
sincerity in relationships. But many timesthere are also strong things, as there
are no children right now, andwith great respect I want to address this
issue with wisdom with you. Sometimesthere are things I' m going to
do to them. Honest, Ihaven' t married and I' ve

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been about to, or I've wanted to get married and it hasn
' t happened. But precisely byanalyzing and thinking about that situation, I
was given the intention of wanting toknow people who might have experience and that
is why this debate is and,among other things, what their opinion is.
And on earth they say hello,good night, hello, Jenny,

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good night, how are you,why do you think marriage is free union.
Here' s a comment. Ifthere are comments, I' ll
share them. Right now, I' m still sharing with you. Mariane
says hello, all right. Thankyou. I think marriage is better,
but the most important thing is thatit' s me and it' s
not clear respect as if you don' t love and respect someone, because

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you' re not going to marrythat person and that' s where I
' m going later. I'm going to tell you a whole investigation,
my feelings, my belief about thatsubject. Tony Tala says I'
m going to be twenty- fiveyears married and I think it' s
better in marriage, because it's a commitment and you' re going
to fight for both of us andthen for the kids, and sometimes there

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' s going to be differences,but I think if it' s for
love lasts your whole life, Iagree with Tony Tala. Thank you for
sharing this with everyone else here whothinks about Toni Kla' s comment and
congratulations for those twenty- five yearsthat she' s going to be early
and because someone with experience is sharingthis with us here. Bet Sanchez says

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hello another night or tonight, andsee welcome. Book union. Marriage is
good. Free union is bad,it is sin is wrong. What do
you think? Johnny Gutierrez says Ithink marriage, but why do you think
marriage, I want to know whyyou think marriage is better than free union
and I know the answer and I' m going to share it with you

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later, but I want to knowyours and also learn from you to love
you. Thanks for being here.Welcome, thank you for listening to us
what you think. The theme we' re sharing is free union or marriage.
Now I' m going to tellyou something. Most of those who
are already married are likely to defendmarriage. People who have had a bad

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marriage experience, who may be separatedor what it is are living in Free
Union or are treating someone. Perhapsthey will say that the free one already
seems to agree with that opinion theygive them and the people as their servant
who may have been about to getmarried, who has not come to marriage,

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but that if he has had someexperiences that have given me the opportunity
or people that have shared me orthat I have seen, I assure you
that, perhaps some prefer the FreeUnion, because in Free Union there is
like to see there it goes tothem if they agree with this process,
because it is first to know theperson. You go out a couple of

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times with her, you like herway of thinking, you tie maybe with
her family, with her with yoursvice versa. They have things in common,
dreams in common, projects in common. Perhaps or not so much,
even if they are for the opposites, because they fight the moment and feel
at ease with a person. Afeeling starts to grow, there' s

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empathy, there' s sharing things, there' s trust, there'
s that respect, and then theystart a relationship. I' m talking
to you about a case of thegirl talking to many people and vice versa.
I' m gonna talk the sameto both of you. I mean,
there are many men who talk tomany, many women who fall with
many and already with the closest ones, then with those with whom they start

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a relationship or for interests or whatI know I don' t love we
' re going to let him donot talking bad about anything, but we
do have some examples. Then,but since you know each other, since
there is that empathy, that thereis that good vibe, that there is
love, that there are feelings andthat everything is moving forward, then the
courtship begins. Before and after,it' s not a guarantee. There

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are people who already have stronger,intimate experiences before or after or during courtship.
Few people are waiting for you untilmarriage, because many are of the
idea that, if they do notknow their partner. In that regard too,
there is no satisfaction or they donot share an intimacy, because then
they do not expect to marry becausethey want to meet the couple before to

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see how compatible. There are alsomany taboos there, there are many questions,
also in the relationship that sometimes happensthat already, because they marry,
but maybe we will never think thatthere was never intimacy in them and then,
because they do not take care ofeach other it costs work, but

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suddenly, on the first occasion,because the children already came and then this
because the person is not satisfied sexuallyspeaking and it is part of many things
of research that I have done onthe occasion of divorce, that the couple
is not satisfied because the person nolonger gets fixed, because the per person

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there does not attract because they fallentinearities, that is, everything becomes very
everyday, there begins to be lies, there begins to be infidelity, deceptions
and situations. And then, then, that' s how I' m
not comfortable with what I have,because I' m looking for a way

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to find something outside and someone whodoes understand you, someone who if it
makes you feel good, someone whocomplements you that fills you. And that
' s when the divorce comes.Those are some of the divorce factors.
Most divorce factors are by reality,and infidelity is due to lack of communication,
for not sharing things as they arewith the person, because they come

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into a matter of being bored.That' s what I' ve looked
into. Then why are they notat ease simply because the person has no
values, has no real love forthe person, because the person does not
say what he likes, what hewants. It' s hard to communicate,

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too, because sometimes people don't love each other enough. Nor
does he have a conviction of abelief that makes him a responsible and honest
person not to fail as to hisprinciples or beliefs to God of the covenant
that they made, whether it hasbeen a choice or a covenant now,
if he does not want to seeit by religious action, by the personal

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part, by the part of thecouple, to go to marry, to
a record, for it is theperson that you are recognizing. It'
s not a contract, it's a common agreement that they want to
share a relationship with society. Thereis a commitment that they are husband and
wife, not couples, they area marriage then. The detail is that

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when people may not experience, theydo not know the person before, as
they begin to know him already duringmarriage. And there they start to get
into habits, they start to comeout customs, they start really coming out
who the person is. Maybe thisone you see you physically know the person

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and when you live with a person, because you know how it is.
Not then. That' s whyI told them that if Union book or
marriage is the issue we' readdressing, people who prefer marriage. It
' s a very broad topic andI' m going to go for several
things, but it hasn' tbeen repeated and bored. And this sharing

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of yours, too, and Iwon' t be there. Blah-
blah- blah- blah- blah- blah- blah- blah- blah
- blah- blah- blah-blah- blah- blah- blah-
blah- blah- blah- blah- blah. Bla. Bla. Here
come some opinions. I thank everyoneand Betty says nice night we already welcomed
her. Jenny told us. JennyGutierrez has said that marriage takes place.
Rodríguez de Reynosa says it' sa very good question. It says very
difficult, because I imagine it madeit very difficult. Yes, but not
impossible. E. Rodriguez says sometimesit lasts longer in Free Union and you

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get married, then you get divorced. Interesting comment many Rodriguez says. For
my part, it' s betterto be married. If there' s
knowledge, you can support by puttingyour bit of sand together. And it
is also the way that legitimate childrencan know honesty and righteousness. Of course,
there is something good, very importantthat would be the other question.

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Why people marry, because they livein marriage and there are rights that,
even if you are not married tothe person for living with the person,
they also have the same right bylaw in the legal matter. But let
' s understand this people because thathouse people because they want to live in

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Free Union. And what I wastelling you is very, very likely that
people who have not lived in theFree Union believe in marriage or prefer marriage.
People who have already gone through aseparation, a divorce or already lived
in Free Union, perhaps some willalso prefer I would have married him.

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And you have to understand this.Society today has changed a lot. Situations
are no longer between Parisians as before, even if you are married or live
in marriage always and I don't want to be uncool or take me
as a negative person or those whoare married or who are listening well to

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me right now. But there's always going to be a risk that
they' ll fail you. Thatis, marriage is not a guarantee that
there will be no infidelity. Marriageis not a guarantee that you will be
happy all your life, nor ismarriage a guarantee that the person in parentheses
will respect you. Free Union alsocarries the same risks, and even in

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the same courtship situations are also presentedhere. The point is that when two
people, seeing it on the positiveside, when, two people, they
love each other, they love eachother, they respect each other, they
complement each other, they are happyto each other. It' s not
going to fail you with anyone unlessthe person in parentheses didn' t justify

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it cost him work. The aspectof being faithful has cost him work,
or he has had an experience,he has made a bad decision. But
if the person asks forgiveness, repents, changes, honors, demonstrates it,
commits himself, for it was,as he says, a slip, But
it already depends on the person towhom they failed. Yes, accept that

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situation, forgive it, give ita chance or come back or everything is
ruined. But here the question isthat we' re talking about that without
marriage free union, maybe those whoare here, they' re married,
they' re not going to putfree union because they' re married and
they' re going to be leftthe video is going to come out that
you' re not happy then.I don' t want to cause a
problem in their homes. What Iwant is for everyone to be able to

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share at the end of the day, who decides what his life wants.
It is you who are seeing mealready, whether you are a man or
a woman, I believe that ifyou marry someone it is because you are
convinced that it is the person youwill love, that you will respect,
that you will care, that youwill provide with that you want to share

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an intimacy, a family, establishand take root and be able to form
a home. I believe that whena person talks about marriages, that he
wants that and wants that, thenit is also the recognition that gives him
that place through the marriage certificate,where it is proven that this is my
wife and then it is going toprove that these are my children, that

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this is my house and already tothe agreements that we had reached, in
case I die or deceive, thatI divorce or in case that does not
happen, because these are the agreements, the inheritance or the rights. But,
after all, if we talk aboutmarriage, positively marriage is the best

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thing that can happen to a manor a woman. Why, because it
is having been able to find thatperson you love, that you love,
that you need, that person whosupports you, that accepts you, that
he has already seen all your defects, he has already known you the most
intimate mole you can have. Healready enjoyed your being, your essence,

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your company. She enjoyed you alreadyknows everything, already knows the worst version
and the best, your character attitudes, your way of thinking, of being,
of feeling, of believing, Andthat, that is precisely what it
involves to say. I want thiswoman or this person, this man to
be my husband, because you're convinced that that person is the one

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you want, that he' sthe father of your children, and that
he' s the mother and yourchildren. That' s why you got
married, but also sometimes in societyit happens in every case and it'
s but with respect it doesn't affect what I tell you, you
feel it with an offense. Butalso many marriages are consolidated into a marriage
because they didn' t abort it, they couldn' t avoid it or

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it' s simply the product ofthat love and there' s a child,
so we get married because what peopleare going to say. We'
re in sin. These are someof the comments and things that many have
experienced for their children. Sometimes theymarried against marriage, but they didn'
t know the person in detail,they weren' t really convinced 100 of

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wanting to form a family. Therewas a risk in every decision that there
might have been such children, thatthere might be such a situation. But
people are supposed to be aware ofhaving an intimacy with the person by allowing
themselves to love or share that time, and then there is risk of children.

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But many times it happens in societythat when there are children, then
no, because it already impregnates me, now you fulfill me, now we
get married. But even if youalso marry and have children, it is
not a guarantee that the person willstay with you forever. This is often
discovered by living with people in timesof need, crisis, tribulation, trial,

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problem, etcetera. It' swhen you meet people and that'
s when you realize, if youdecided correctly and you bet that person that
' s there and that' swhen love is known, but marriage from
the point of view and I wantto read their comments, I don'

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t want to bore them. RosarioGutierrez is watching us. Greetings, my
friend, what do you think ofmarriage or free union? Kelli and Velázquez
Rousseau are seeing us and I willalso mention everyone thanks for being here.
We are accompanied by Marian Norva MartínezRodríguez, Toni Tala and En Gutiérrez and
bed Ruth Sandoval. Greetings to RosaSandoval and Mane Rodríguez. The theme we

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' re sharing. If you wantme to read your comments and identify with
what I say or want to saysomething, my space is your space.
He' s sharing us here.And Bet Sanchez, her experience, says
I had a legal marriage for fifteenyears and despite her infidelity, I never
regretted having done it, but nowI thank God for meeting a brave and

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hard- working man in two months. Pray to him what father, in
two months of meeting us, proposedto me and believe me under God'
s command. It is a wonderfulexperience and I blessed her here clear sign,
therefore, many congratulations that father witness, what good experience and here Beth

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shares this with us. Thank you, Ibeth, for the confidence of sharing
this and sharing it with others,and may God bless your marriage every day
and that Father. There' swhat I always say. When you want
it, you can and sometimes thesituation is that when it' s serious,
it goes with everything, and soyou' ve been, you'
ve been divorced or you' vebeen through another experience. You can find

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someone who loves you to accept youwith past children, with some of those
children they make and with those comingfather and bet here I saw go.
Well, well, she focuses iton God' s order. I am
not addressing the issue in a religiousway. I know what the word of
God says, I know what theBible says, I know what religions say,

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but everyone who decides on the aspectmay be here people who may not
share that experience and perhaps do notunderstand the order of God. But what
I' m telling you is thatGod' s order is that God is
supposed to be instituted. Well,God' s supposed to be instituted.
Marriage, says the Bible. Thosewho believe, be they Catholics, Christians,
or believe in God is a wayof obeying, pleasing, and doing

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God' s will, because Godcreated the man of woman and told them
that a man of one woman wasnot given to wine, an honest profit,
etcetera. And the marriage was God' s, the church and all
this stuff. But there are twotypes of marriage, the religious or the
spiritual, and the legal, beforethe anti- notary society, before a

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court with judges, and all thendepending on what people believe or are going
to do for the church or theyare going to do for the law.
But everyone decides. But when peoplewho have a faith or a religion focus
it on the part of God,then, for here is this blessing and

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effective for those who believe in God, there is that blessing of a marriage.
When things are done like this andothers, even if they have done
so in another religion. There arealso blessings that I am sure you can
share with me. Mariane says Ithink we never finished meeting people and I
have noticed that many people who getmarried and or divorce are by third parties,

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that is, the social slab influencessociety too much. Yes, and
they wouldn' t just add up. Also the songs. I haven'
t listened to every song he says, every single thing you' re serious
about and they dance, they listento it, they laugh, they make
memes and they live it good.Norma. Martínez says I believe that marriage

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is not a tradition, but totake responsibility in the union of two people,
with the willingness to share thoughts,feelings and times with the one I
moved this with the responsibility I stayedis that he wrote quite rule that father,
norm that you share with us.All this with a use leo goes
again standard Martinez says I believe thatmarriage is not a tradition, but to

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assume responsibility in the union of twopeople, with the willingness to share thoughts,
feelings and times, with the responsibilityto care for these areas respecting the
same ones in both, since ifthere is love and maturity and even bad
experiences, we will be able tocorrect many mistakes. And not to believe

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that because of a failure in marriage, to be afraid of marriage, because
the problem is not marriage, butpeople. When we do not have the
maturity of responsibility, love, maturityand values to recognize the importance of sharing
in unity, seeking the well-being of both, without selfishness, without
pride, but appreciating the virtues ofmasters, unfortunately, of parents. We

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don' t have this education.It is after a failure in marriage that
we learn to take care of whatwe would really like to live in marriage.
And the worst thing is to getmarried for obligation or convenience. Wow.
Unbelievable what he shares with us.Norma Martinez, you guys, what

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do you think of le like.There you can put the like to the
comments. It fascinated me, butnormal, because who is not talking about
experiences, then here. Kelly Sandoval, Russian Sandoval you say they' re
watching. Liz Sanchez sends, greetings, greetings also Charlotten has just added welcome.
We' re dealing with the issueof free union or marriage. You
guys, what do you think ofmy space in your space? I also

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read your comments against my point ofview. René Perdón Manney Rodríguez also says
that being married lives well if youseek the good knowledge to say the family
remember. If there is no knowledge, you live badly, you are married
or not. I support the marriagewell for him. Hannah Maria g is

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seeing you welcome, says blessings.If not this protection you what do you
think marriage or year off. Andthat' s what people who have had
one told you I loved what theysaid and what father you share with that
trust and write a lot of things. I read them. I commit myself
to that and here we have severalopinions. That' s what I was

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telling them. I think marriage isthe best thing that can happen to you
when you find that person who,as the norm said, didn' t
marry you for interest, didn't marry for children out of wedlock and
didn' t marry for because heliked it, because there are people like
that. There aren' t evenmany movies where they met and ended up

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married that same day. No,I mean, and that happens in reality.
I think Hannah Maria Ge says welcomehere. Thank you, support the
marriage. Now what I' mtelling you is not if you support it,
or if you' re found infavor. What I' m asking
you is what you think of amarriage book. So here and then those
who sign up for marriage I alsoagree with them. Carla portillo is seeing

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us welcome. Carla, what doyou think about free union or marriage?
If you want to share experiences,thoughts, opinions. I read them because
my space is their space and weall learn from everyone. And it is
this I believe that to get marriedthere must be the conviction that you want
to love that being, that youaccept it just as it is virtues defects,

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positive things and that you want toshare that life and that you only
want to enjoy with that being,that is, intimacy, tacos, experiences,
having children, living in a house, but under a marriage order,
that is, with documents and forreligion. I don' t believe that

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everyone wants and both agree and sharethat with their loved ones, friends and
family. I think the question ofthis issue would really be or would lead
us to that is whether you're not convinced or convinced of that,
because that' s why people don' t get married. Now there is

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a diversity of opinions and respect inwhich many believe in the free Union,
because the person will be with youas long as he wants to be not.
But I think that already when thereis a mutual commitment and many people
dream of that act of marriage,not of being able to form a marriage,

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but I think it goes a lotin the hand of belief, conviction,
values, principles, teachings. AsNorma said, Mom and Dad is
also very important. Norma. Herehe shares us once again. Thanks Normal
to all the joints that you putwith all use the leo. Norma says
it' s very important to knowthat if we do it just by thinking
about personal desires, we' llbe personally hurting each other and we'

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ll pass. We' re goingto affect third people. What strikes me
is from your comments that there havebeen people who have already gone through the
marriage that did not go well.Others who do, although they have a
bad experience, remarried in the caseof Ibet, who shared with us his
testimony and these beautiful things that Ishare with them, and I think that
encourages others to believe that, althoughno matter how divorced, you have gone
wrong with the last marriage. Youcan still find someone and remarry. And

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with what Anorma says, add thatyou can already know what you want from
a marriage, with what you've seen in the past. And bet
Sanchez says no ma matinez correct.I think the same is true, that
is, and Bete agrees with whatNorman shared with us and already says that
Martinez rule is correct. I thinkthe same is true of us, as

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parents, to inculcate our children aboutwhat they want for their lives and respect
for a commitment that involves a marriage. Thank you for seeing us and listening
to us at that time What doyou think about marriage or free union?
Hannah Mary I have said I agreewith marriage because it is a way to

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have God' s blessings and alsoabout insurance, for the protection of the
family in question is to leave thefamily protected or protected. That' s
very true. When the person lovesyou he loves you, he will not
only think of you, as hiswife, of her husband, but also
of his children. And sometimes,even if the dad or mom dies or

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is no longer there sometimes if theydidn' t do the insurance thing,
there' s nothing. And itis only what they have that is left
to them that is shared by someoneelse who wants to share. I read
their comments with all pleasure and whatI was telling them is that I believe
that for a marriage it has tosee an absolute conviction that that body,
that person, that being everything thatrepresents you want even old people and if

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you believe in eternity, to eternityand if they grow in the blessings of
God, then do things according tohis word, according to his teachings or
the religion that you practice, thatgoes hand in hand to God, for
it is a conviction where it isan agreement. Marriage. I believe that
it is not only the legal thingand insurance is a pact between two beings

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who love each other publicly, religiouslyor socially, glove the court or civil
registration or the Act. It's just that you both agree to want
to love each other, to respecteach other and to try to do your
best to each other until the lastday of your life and that you'

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re going to love that person withall your heart, with all your strength,
that you' re going to givehim the best of you. And
it' s also accepting the responsibilityand commitment to honor that being every day
and to love it every day,even if it gets fatter, even if
it neglects, even if whatever itis with whom you wanted it so,

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it' s what you chose,this is what you want and it'
s who you' re going tobe with. Hanna tells us I agree
with marriage, because it' sa way to have the blessings I'
ve already read it. If thereis more new comment to Connie Ortiz says
Hello, with Ne and you whatdo you think marriage or free union.
Most are in favor of marriage orthink marriage is better. And there have

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also been experiences of people who haveshared us and had the confidence to write
here and say that there was abad experience of a past marriage, but
that now there is a beautiful blessingand something good with a new marriage.
And there are also those who didn' t go through a new marriage,
but they know what they want andeven to go through that, they want

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to keep getting married. With Ortissays ah well the people who are watching
Connin already greets us Conni and greetsall those who are connected comic Hanna and
Bet Sánchez, María Norva Martínez,lis Sánchez, Esto, Jenny Iris Arriola
also welcome Iris and those who arehere putting their comments, what they think

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Free union or marriage. We staytogether and if we' re comfortable,
we get married or directly don't live together and we get married and
so we experience living together. Youguys, what do you think this Hanna
is putting up a lot of heartsand likes. Thanks for sharing. I

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hope you' re having a goodtime. This issue is not to enter
into controversy. It' s foreveryone' s comments to help others.
Hearing that someone has done well givesus hope, gives us faith, motivates
us. I share what you give, I share some experiences. I share
what I think too, but atthe end of the day, everyone can
decide what they want and how theywant to be happy depends on you.

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Hannah, she asks me, Hannah, Mary, what do you think Union
marriage book was telling them. Ithink before you plugged in that I don
' t have a problem. I' m an open book. No,
and then I was about to getmarried. However, I have not been
given because, unfortunately, in dealingwith the relationship in Bridezgo, because I

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have had very unpleasant experiences. Hetruly commented on them with his heart and
with that confidence. I have beenfaithful, I have been honest, I
have given the best of myself andprecisely because I said if the person I
love and I love her, wemarried them, then it was all the
intention that in my plans. However, in that context, things do not

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happen I have not had a goodtime. Some of them knew on Facebook
a while ago that I shared them, others did not, but I think
that in my case, I mean, I would also be in favor of
marriage, because marriage is really theconviction of wanting, respecting, loving and

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that you are happy with that person, that that person satisfies you, that
that person respects you, that personloves you. You find in that person
what you may not have found inothers, because that person has shown you
fidelity, respect, affection, love, empathy, tolerance. When you love
the person, you are convinced that' s what you want and with whom

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you want to share your life,have children, adopt, have more.
Or whatever, at the end ofthe day, is when marriage comes,
when there is the conviction that youwant to share a life with that person
and that you want to give himthe benefits of the legal issue or as
far as they agree or as theydo. But I think marriage will be

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the most beautiful thing. I haven' t managed to marry a dream with
that. I hope one day therewill be a wedding. It doesn'
t cost three pesos. Sometimes alsowhen you want to get married and maybe
there are no resources. It maybe a limitation, but it also depends
on the type of wedding and thatthe other person also agrees in certain situations.

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And I believe that when there islove, I involve God. God
prospers God, provides, God givesor if I see him in a normal
everyday work aspect, because you willsimply work very hard, you will save
and tell him to have and todo from very possible, because you will
give the best of yourself. ButI also think I' ve sometimes seen

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statistics, my lectures, what I' ve heard, what I see around
society. I also see that whenpeople get married with very high expectations about
marriage and situations happen, for example, there are many examples I can give,
but they didn' t know theperson enough. During courtship or cohabitation

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they encounter things that I insist,are not tolerable, are not permissible or
do not like. Then what happenswhen you live in the Free Union.
It' s a one, this, this, this document them a long
time ago, before long, beforeI became independent from working 100% for

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myself for my account, I workedin several companies and one of them there
I do very well with the DirectorGeneral and with the Director and I had
a good position, because I hada good position. Not what everyone else
knows, but they left something markedon me, the two of them.
The director told me at the timethat I didn' t even think about

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marriage at all. I' mtalking to him when I was about nineteen,
eighteen, nineteen, around there,but that was very marked. This
director told me that if one dayI married or wanted a family, that
he suggested to me and recommended thatI travel with the person I was interested
in marrying that because on a tripyou can get to know the person a

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little. That' s very muchon my mind. I don' t
know what you think about it.The boss also that there were many women
there because it was a nutrition companyand there were nutritionists, there were psychologists,
it was a whole team of a. That company was one of the
best jobs I think I could havehad the time I was there and there
I learned a lot of nutrition stuff, mainly, but the director also knows

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why. It was like a topicof debate like this that was discussed.
I think someone' s gonna remember, get married then. That was the
opinion the director gave, and thedirector said yes, that she was already
completely in agreement with that, thatit was very good to travel with a
person you wanted to marry because then, during the trip you were going to

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be able to know habits, thingsyou could see that, maybe a little
closer to marriage. I will readyour comments, because there are more comments
here. Iris Arriola says marriage coincides. Marriage is an extremely important decision that
arises when you find that person youwant to share your life with. It

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arises out of love, because youwant to grow, learn to walk with
that person in both want to fulfillyour personal projects and have projects in common.
Abasan together. It feeds on trust, tenderness, understanding, empathy and
I think much more and agree withthat too. Hannah asks me what I
think, Hanna, Maria gea nowshares us. Says I got married and

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had a beautiful family. Now,right now I' d love to have
someone, but in marriage love theboy and respect him and care for him
I long to have a husband again. And Hanna, I don' t
know if you got in the wayof time, but there' s a
beautiful testimony she shared with us andyou see she' s still connected around
here. And Bette Sanchez mentioned earliershe had a bad experience, married,

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found someone who married her shortly aftermeeting her. And I think it goes
very well with the comment you putand I think it does. I think
it doesn' t matter if you' re divorced or had a bad experience
or life changed. What do Iknow or didn' t give things the
way you wanted, or what doI know? I think that as long

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as you' re a person whoknows how to respect that values and you
' re going to accept the personand you' re going to love him,
you' re going to love himwith his past, you' re
going to accept his past, you' re going to fight for a present
and for a future with that being. But I think what you can connect
that is trust and values really andthat people are, whatever they say to

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you, what they want in whattheir interests are, what their dreams are,
what their thoughts are, their goals, and how they are tied up.
No, because many times, maybeI haven' t seen it.
Not that if you don' thave a car home, then you don

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' t marry me, you don' t mean you get materialism so you
can have a relationship with someone.Now, in Free Union, we'
re talking about marriage. A whileago, not why marriage would be good,
because marriage is good, because marriageis best. But I think that
to go to marriage there must bethat mutual conviction of wanting to share life

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talented dreams, what Iris said,what he mentioned earlier, what the others
said that set of opinions and Ithank everyone who is sharing their opinion.
I really like it. I readit with even a lot I read it
as a rule if you want tokeep adding more things ahead normal We have
shared a lot and I like thatinteraction of you. Not because we all

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learn from everyone and encourage us.It encourages me, for example, not
my case. But yes, asthe testimony and Beat and what Norma said
are people who have experience and sharewith you and that you have the confidence
to open up here with me andwith those who see us and with those
who then go to watch this videois great. Thank you very much.
What I was telling you was thatI think I was asking Hanney in my

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experience, Hanny, Hannah Sorry,Hanna Maria Fia says I' m a
widow, well, I think that' s why, unfortunately, this one
because she has this experience. ButI think, Jamie, now we'
re really kicking you out. Iinclude Norma and Beth and everything here and
in a particular way, what youcan find has been, people who accept

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other people with children and even ifthey are widowed. I believe that as
long as we live, we havethe right and the opportunity to be happy.
The important thing is to know howto identify the right person and how
the person will finally be your dreamsand, likewise, you too. And

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yes, as long as we live, I don' t know how many
millions of human beings around the worldand life is made of opportunities And if
you believe in God, God willcross those destinies and unite those people.
And I repeat and repeat, Andit' s something much that I always
say, when you want, youcan and for the one that I believe

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is possible. Then, at theend of the day, and if you
don' t, because you haveto fight, you have to strive,
you have to learn to identify.And I believe that from bad experiences one
acquires wisdom, knowledge and can bebetter. Not then, I do not
know what you think, but Ibelieve that the free Union, because there

(57:38):
is not as much support, perhapsseriousness. No, I mean, it
' s like for people who wantto try to see if it works and
then they get married. But Ithink marriage is already when there is a
slightly stronger commitment and a common convictionof wanting to be and form something.

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Not in the Free Union maybe it' s like a pre- test on
how marriage would work. That's the opinion I have on Free Union.
In the Union, you may beable to realize details and things and
situations living with the person and,perhaps, if the people who have experienced

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that, then, if they arecomfortable with it, then the next step
is to do it right, thatis, to fix the situation, that
is to make the marriage and getmarried. I do not think that in
the Free Union you can see thingsthat you might see until a marriage and
that there are things that, perhapsnot, For example, I once heard

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and something incredible that, for example, there was a marriage of a wife
who could not stand that her husband, with all due respect, did not
beat the cup and that it wouldburst her, that left the pasta,
was crushed and that the succinct clothesdid not deposit it the boat and things

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that this gentleman did a lot constantlyand that he was already tired of those
little things plus others, and thatwas the cause of a divorce, a
separation for something like that. That' s why I told them that there
are things that may not be tolerable, are not permissible or go with your
way of being and living. Thereare people who snore and I don'
t even tell them where. Thereare people who make noises at night,

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there are no people who smell theirfeet and those things are seen in marriage
and that' s where I thinkthat' s where you really see love,
that is, that you' regoing to accept maybe those situations or
you' re going to have theconfidence to talk to your spouse, with
the couple. There are also thingsabout women that men, perhaps, do
not like, vice versa. AndI think that' s the true love

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to respect, to accept, tounderstand, to understand, to help,
to talk and many other things toconsolidate the relationship and that' s precisely
you' re going to live withthat person, that the person, because
he' s going to age,is not going to be the ultimate model

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body of all life, but peoplechange as well. So sometimes people think
they' re going after the physicaland they' re beginning to change.
You see someone younger or what Iknow, and then there' s infidelity
in marriages. But I believe thatwhen there is a love, there are
those values, to those principles,there is a faith, there is a

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conviction, there is love for thesame person, because you love yourself,
you will love. If you don' t love yourself enough, then you
won' t love. But Ithink that the important thing is a relationship
is either in Free Union or inmarriage, it' s to be happy.
I believe that from the main objectiveto be happy with the person and

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that it will last as long asboth want it, both allow it,
both work it, both fight forthat permanence, because neither in Free Union
nor marriage guarantees that the person willnot fail you or will not deceive you.
But even doing the worst if herepented, changed and shows it to
you then go ahead. But there' s no such trust anymore. And

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all because people already make decisions.But I think it depends a lot on
being able to achieve that empathy withthe person, that connection and being able
to talk. I believe that thesuccess of a relationship is trust, communication,
values and as a little plant,fill it every day with love of
tenderness as if it were omen.I don' t know what you think.

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Here are more opinions about the welcometo my cousin, Humberto Ruiz,
cousin you think free or marriage.Hannah Mari says amen if I don'
t yearn for it. I likeloneliness and it also depends a lot,
Hanna, on the frequent places orplaces that you get in order to find
that person? So, my advice, Anna, if you accept that public

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opinion, it' s that you' re not going to take it out
of a bar, out of aden or out of a party. If
you want a person who really goodparty in quotes, you can go to
a wedding, it can be asocial event and suddenly they went in there
with someone and who knows. No, I mean, desidences cause purposes and

(01:02:28):
who knows are so strange that whoknows where it' s going to come
out or that person, but thatit exists and what you' re going
to find it from. I thinkso, you have to have faith.
Ask God for your best effort.This one I don' t know my
Council would be, I mean,sometimes it' s not so much to
look for. I think people comemany with a purpose. I was saying

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that in the last article of friendshipof interest. I think people. We
all say with a proposal from thosewho come to be created, who are
for a while. But what Ido think, Hanna, is that you
don' t lose faith, don' t lose faith. Get well abused
and with past experiences, I thinkyou' ll be able to find someone

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better or better, not better,but rather, someone at last and someone
with whom you can grow old andspend your beautiful life and conquer more dreams,
more things. I don' tknow. If anyone wants to tell
anyone to Anna go ahead, I' ve already read the comments around here.
Hanna says marriage is loving your husbandas yourself. I think so.

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Indeed, I believe that is thatbad person as yourself and you will love
all defects, errors, virtues.I think you' re gonna help him,
too, to be better. Ithink you' re going to give
him a hand, too, you' re going to teach yourself, and
a lot of people are going tolearn. But when you want, you
can. When there is love,there are no impossible ones, and love

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I think he can do everything andwell, I don' t know how
the connected ones are happening to him. Thank you for watching that transmission of
marriage or interest. The article's coming out next week. This live
is going to embed in the articlethe articles that I am making another in
text for people who, maybe theydon' t like to read or who
are driving or who, maybe theylike to listen to the article. Everything

(01:04:23):
I wrote is going to be recorded, so you can hear it. The
whole article narrating for your servant andwill also bring this life where people will
be able to see these opinions,will be able to share in time afterwards,
and because I share that good andsome saw it thanks to God.

(01:04:45):
I' m already on digital platforms. Then also this goes to all platforms
to broadcast it. And also thatthe comments, like those of normal owe
them what we are talking about,because they can serve other people that is
a bit interactive article, where thearticle brings an opinion, brings a narrative,
brings an investigation, brings a statistic, mentions several aspects to go to
people and is a topic of interestwhere people who want to know without marriage

(01:05:08):
or free union, will help you. This was shared by this standard that
has been discussed. Thank you forsharing with us once again what a father
and your participation. I' mreally glad that you encourage yourself to write
and share how good that you tookthis thing seriously that my space is your
space memore, it' s yourwall and this is for everyone. No,

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not Martinez, he says I don' t know if he exists in
a perfect marriage. I think thereshould be discussions, but upbuilding and from
courtship you should live good and badexperiences, without harming or harming you,
but learn from those situations to knowif we will really be willing to deal

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positively for both of us. AndI think that when a person truly loves
you, it drives you to realizeyour dreams, it doesn' t criticize
you, it doesn' t destroyyou, but it accepts you as you
are. Highlight your virtues, recognizeyour successes. He' d be happy

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with you, but if there arefailures in what you undertake, he'
ll help you get up, withoutjudging or blaming you, he' ll
always be careful not to hurt you. Excellent standard comment. I think Hanna
said what she said here, thatshe shares you and those who are seeing
I think this is a beautiful thing. You' re welcome back. What
do you think, marriage or freeunion or the comments that others are sharing?

(01:06:36):
With pleasure, we welcome you.If anyone wants to say it,
they' re connected here. Thanksto everyone who' s connected. And
well, I completely agree with thenorm. I believe that only by living
with the person during the engagement ora deep friendship will you discover if he

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or she is the person you wantto marry, start that life and establish
a marriage. I think courtship isthe process of knowing the person as much
as you can to be able toend up in a marriage. But I
think there' s going to begood and bad things in the courtship,

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as normal as he' s saying. And that' s when you'
re really going to realize one ifit' s love, because if the
courtship isn' t strong enough,it' s not going to be strong
enough for a marriage. So Ithink it' s the pieces that make
a marriage solid, it' sthe rules, the agreements, the communication,

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the trust, the values, thedialogue and the demonstration with actions that
you really and with facts love thatperson, you love that person and that
' s why you want to marryor maybe you want to live a time
to get married later or already,depending on the thought and what the person
wants. But I think if heloves you, he' s gonna go

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with everything. I do not knowwhether the free Union is good or bad,
not from a religious point of view, of course, but is a
common social aspect. I believe that, in a particular way and thinking,
the best thing that can happen isthat you know the person as much as
you can so that there is nosuch thing as what to repent of and

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that there are very solid convictions tobe able to say I marry this person.
And also that during the courtship theyboth show if they want to get
to that, not if it's inside that feeling, that love,
those dreams, those projects and illusions, those dreams, those plans of both

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of us wanting to get to that, no. Sometimes I think there will
be situations that, as I wasasked my opinions, I wanted to get
married. However, I have notfound the right or right person. Or
it didn' t happen and duringthe courtship, because you' ve already

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discovered things that I' ve hadbad experiences from which I' ve learned.
There have been things that have beenpainful, ugly, disappointing, sad
that sometimes, honestly, I don' t know if I want to and
I want to and I hope forit and I ask God and whatever it
is and I do what is rightfor me, I don' t know

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if it really is going to happen, because my work for activities is not
pretexts, but I just don't know if I expect a lot or
give a lot or I don't know, but I just think I
sum it up a word. Theright thing to do or what I would
like to do with that person hasnot arrived in order to reach a marriage.

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I' ve loved him, I' ve tried, I' ve
wanted him, I' ve givenhim the best of me, I'
ve kicked him out because they haven' t matched me. I accept my
responsibilities. I don' t speakbadly either, but I just don'
t get it, or if Ibelieve in marriage if I would like to

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get to that free union thing,because I think it' s a way
of getting to know the person.And because everything has a solution, that
is if you are living in abook and everything, and you want to
be religiously well with God, becauseyou have to correct that situation, or
you want to be convinced you alreadylived with the person you know details bad

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good things if you want to getto matrimol with that person, because you
can make it atrivir a year freeor at best, since I have seen
the person already depends on the twopeople, because also maybe one can and
the other can say no. SoI think those decisions are taken together.
Hannah Mary says, thank you,Iris, she shares her opinion and remembers
that God' s times are perfect, of course and I have seen it,

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I have lived it and I knowhow to identify with God' s
time and I think it' snot God' s time, maybe for
me, for others, maybe andor who knows, I don' t
close and I' m open towhat God wants Conio Ortiz says I'
d like to say so many thingssun but the truth will be another time

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ay and then compare us, evenif it' s one you who thinks
at least, this is your space. Look, there' s the standard
example for you to cheer up for. See all the parent stuff Norman'
s told us. They' reall here for a while, an opinion.
I' m sharing with you.If there' s something they might
not like about me, for theydidn' t listen to me and what
they did, because go ahead andcheer up with this is your space,

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it' s your wall in whateveryou want. No one judges you,
at least I' m not goingto. I don' t think the
people who are here either. Ithink most of them are right now.
I see one of them young peopleout there, but we' re grown
- ups. Then no one isperfect and we all learn from everyone and
Beth tells time to free time thatit is not yet time. God’

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s times are perfect and when hegets to the right person, you will
know why it was worth it.That' s true, too, and
I thank Iris and YOU for tellingme that God' s time is definitely
perfect. And there' s alsosomething not good while that time comes,
because what I' ve done iswork a lot and get ready and try

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to be a better person, learnto change no, and here' s
something that was really worth it.I completely agree with that and the truth
I thank God for a situation.If the pleasant situations that I lived and
that I learned a lot had nothappened and if they had ended, I

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would not have done what I couldtoday thank God for all the good things
that have happened to me lately yearsago. Either he says nothing has been
consolidated or nothing has happened and I' m still single. And it'
s because of something that I don' t blame God, neither do I
complain, nor am I looking.If I don' t leave it to
his will, I do what's right with me. That is responsible

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for what I believe, but Ithink it is, which is precisely that
last comment. Right now, Iread it again the one who says here
that you will know because it's worth waiting for Ibet to tell me.
Yeah, I think if I'm definitely convinced, because I think

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when that time comes or it's that time, I hope to be
a good person or better for thatperson. I don' t think it
exists, because I exist. Idon' t know where he is.
I used to joke about it withmy mom, because if she lives in
another country, she won' tgo if maybe we go donkey. And
in reverse, because I didn't get on that donkey if the subway

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goes either, because I didn't get on that subway station if maybe
he lives near my house, becauseI didn' t go out in my
house. If it is from anothermunicipality, I have not arrived if I
already know it and have not treatedit enough, for who knows. But
at the end of the day,it' s gonna happen. I know.
I do not lose the hope offaith. Only what I do hope

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is to know that he is theright person and that, if I get
married, he really is for life. I wouldn' t want the word
divorce, separation and the time Godallows, because you also get married thinking
that maybe a person will be withyou all his life. I can leave
before you can hear it before,or who knows not here says to see

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the comments. Thank you all foryour opinion. My life was the last.
Here. Janna Marije says what youexpect from an ollywood woman. Not
that I was the perfect woman,because I know that I am not perfect,
no, but I would summarize itthree things, fidelity, respect and

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trust, because it is very broad. I have a lecture out there that
' s called sound for the otherand I have another one that' s
loving without fear that that' sgoing to premiere as soon as the goy
passes in a big way. Physically, it' s not that I'
m a clown, but I haveto like it because I' ve seen

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people who have very good feelings,a heart that has, has what I
mentioned, but I think that ifyou don' t like the person enough
and it' s not that I' m looking for the model, because
with all due respect I' vealready had very beautiful girlfriends and very bitter
experiences. I mean, he's got to have something special. Neither

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do I want to get into areligious scroll, but I know there are
things about God in particular that Ihope very much I don' t mean,
at least I don' t know. I mean, it' s
a long topic. What I'm looking for isn' t like I
don' t want to sound likean elitist clown, but at the conference

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I' m talking about it isprecisely a conference that if you want to
give them to them we can putthem together and I can do them online.
There' s Ahorita, too.I have news for you, but
now, Ahorita, I tell you, because what I told you more something
that I like to make me happybut beyond the physical, certain traits of

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emotional issues, complement in some thingsand really be faithful, be honest,
be whole in that aspect. WhatI call a helper and a complement,
I mean, understand what I do, why I do it, why I
do it. I offer what I' m willing to give, I mean,

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it' s what I might expectnot, I mean, the same
thing I' m asking for.I give, I give fidelity to the
respect of trust. Although I dealwith a lot of people, I know
how to behave wherever I go.I have never been unfaithful, never in
the life of being unfaithful and becauseI don' t know or be someone

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suitable who has what I might likeand who is a complement to but those
three aspects of trust, that issincere, that I speak to you with
the truth that I tell you reallywhat his interests are not and that he
also commits himself to that question ofhonesty and that he gives himself respect to
people. Not also or be faithfulabove all, trust communication. It'

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s something I' d like verymuch. Marianne doesn' t see anymore.
Thank you, Hanna, she saysyou offer that woman. Ah well,
I answered, I believe this belgonzález says well, offers him,
because I cannot offer the millions oftwo thousand, because I do not have
them. No, but I knowwhat I can give, I know what

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I' m worth too, andI know what I' m willing to
do for a Bel González person.What do you think Free Union, a
marriage. Thank you for seeing usand the people here I don' t
know if they want to ask anything, share something. I read it,
I don' t know what it' s like, but if they'
re already bored, then we're leaving and if we don' t
see each other in the next article. If you want to ask another question,

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share something, add something. Ialready shared some things with them and
I think that ah good of thatconference that told them there I make them
think that it is nothing more thephysical, nothing more is the things in
common, but also in this conferenceit teaches to think to people, to
analyze and that during the engagement friendshipthey ask people. Very simple example,

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it is not important, but manypeople are given by the physical, but
in the spiritual aspect they do notimpact an example. She is or he
towards her, He is alluded toholy death and the other person neither believe
God i e is a yu isequal spiritually speaking. There are people who
might have their career, their profession. For example, one is a doctor,

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spends his whole life in an operatingroom and the other person is a
singer or an artist, because itis going to be a little complicated.
Maybe a person has a different professionthan his. All the opposites are drawn
to themselves, but they do lookfor both as much as possible to tie.
That' s where we talk,for example, maybe the person likes
to dance, and the other persondoesn' t even dance or like that

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other person' s music. Thus, one person can be an artist and
the other in the painting aspect.The other person doesn' t like that.
Those scribbles. I mean. Thepoint is that at that conference they
look to them as the most akin, the most suitable and that they see
from the emotional question, family valuesfeelings also that important. You can love

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the person, but their parents canhate you, they don' t want
you, or they demand things fromyou to make a creditor of their daughter
or their son. No, orit' s family. The person is
very connected to his family and maybehe won' t have the time for
you or between families doesn' tfall. Or they are situations that I

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think many have happened that sometimes thatalso influences in some way and it is
also important values, principles, whatit is dedicated to, what it does
what it is. So these areissues that I think if we like to
address in the following articles and weshare equally more opinions and good I want
to give you some important announcements.Next Saturday, June 20th, which is

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this one that comes next. Ithink it' s five o' clock
in the afternoon. I' mreleasing an official video clip. I have
a conference called The Boxer. Thenwith a friend named David. David Sandoval,
I tell them the testimony and wentto give lectures to Leonardo Bravo.

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I had years that I didn't introduce myself and urges the Bravo.
Then it was the first school whenI tore off my tour several years ago
and when I casually returned Ibacu mymom near the school. We went to
the Chedraui that was out there andI met the school principal. He hugged
me, liked me, and toldme that when I came back, I

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told him that I had a projectto open up the training centers. And
it turns out that, because heinvites me to give a lecture, I
told him about UNESCO, about actions, etcetera. And all that we open
there a training center is, oneof the venues of which I train and
give total lectures that when I givea company, there I gave the one

(01:22:00):
of the tour of fear for anew generation. And there I hear David
Sandoval, David is a student thereAnd then, because he expressed to me
what the conference benefited him, theaversion of your fears. And then he
told me listen look, I'm a boxer and your words and all
the stuff I said don' ttell me, I have a lecture and

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I want to record a video thatI have no idea how I' m
going to do, but I wantto do something for the boxers and it
' s also a different total projectthat we talk about. He loved the
idea and we recorded the video,and the video is the complementary reflection of
the boxer' s conference. So, this clip is a tribute to the

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boxer who may not have been recognized. And, also, find the similarity
that you and I are boxers,that when we go out of the house,
we go out in search of ourdreams and you get blows, betrayal,
humiliation, different situations, and thatthe ring is the life where we

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go up to fight for those dreamsand that in life you have to learn
to dodge blows, to defend yourself, to protect you, to observe,
to prepare you, etcetera. So, that' s an analogy I made
that we' re like the boxerin honor of the boxer and we fight

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for our dreams for survival and forlife. So the video clip I think
is very father and during the scenesthe reflection that I wrote goes ringing,
that I did and the idea isthat when the boxer' s conference appears
on the screens that video and thatthat motivational reflection drives, helps people and

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they feel identified that once again youmust get up even if you have received
the blows, because the next timeyou see that hit can be the blow
of sentimental, emotional, work,professional, personal, family success. You
have to fight one more time andfight one more time and get up one

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more time, no matter if you' re breathy beaten up having a hard
time. You have to get upbecause what' s at stake is your
dreams is your life you' reto. So you and I are a
boxer bus. Something like that Ihope I didn' t have this one,
because it' s keeping some surprise. But that' s what'

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s coming. The official launch onsocial networks, on digital platforms and on
all sides of the boxer is goingto be on Saturday, June 20 at
five o' clock in the afternoon. The video is going to be placed
on my Facebook. There is agroup that believes to invite people to participate
in the event. The event wasmade and it will be broadcast everywhere and
internationally it will also be shared thereand then it will be the dubbing.

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But it comes out first in Spanishspeaking, as next Saturday, June 20
at five are pending. The videois going to be posted on social media.
The other announcement I want to sharewith you is that this coming Friday
at eight o' clock, thearticle I' m going to share with
you and that you' re goingto make a living like today' s

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one is called I can change.There are people who are married to the
idea that they will never change,that they will never do anything and that
they are already like that and thatthey will die and so they will be.
Or people who are in drugs,in alcohol, in situations that they
think will never change. So thatissue or people who have negative attitudes or
things like that, or people whowant to change and don' t know

(01:25:51):
how to do it. This topicof the article we' re going to
share just as a live is goingto do this Friday next to 8:
00 p m I can change,so I hope you' re still there
with me. And the other announcementis that for Saturday 27 June, thanks
to INSELEC, which is an internationalMexican company. The director of this company

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is Victor Hernández, who is agreat friend who is part of the organizations
where his server is and who isalso a sponsor of the tour of fear.
Victor worried about the people and talkingto him, I said listen Mira,
I have a very father conference thatI would like to be able to

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share with people about the situation ofcovid what we are living, but specializing
in a topic that many believe arehaving a very bad time and have lost,
and that they believe the conference thatI have is called overcoming the loss.
So I give you the slogan thatis losing is also won? And

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when you win, you lose andyou' re never gonna lose? If
you heard right, even if itsounds crazy, it' s a reality
and in that conference you' regoing to live it and understand why you
' re never going to lose andwhy losing is also won? Don'
t miss it. Next Saturday,June 27th, at five o' clock

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in the afternoon, as well astransmitting the covid' s, the loss
will be transmitted thanks to Inselect,who is a company concerned about society,
about values. He wanted to supportthis conference to be given to people.
Then they are looking forward to overcomingthe loss and in overcoming the loss it

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will help them to overcome an economic, moral, emotional, spiritual, family
loss in any area they have hada loss. This conference will help you.
When I did this conference it wasafter the earthquake that happened in Mexico
City, in and in large partof Onda, the country that was affected.
Many people lost their relatives, theirloved ones, money, work,

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car, etcetera. So I didthis conference to motivate all those people who
had lost something. So, now, because of covid many people are losing
relatives, health, work and istrained an emotional aspect that is costing him
work outweighs loss. So for them, for all, for us and for

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the future, I want to helpyou strengthen your emotional mood. Honest conference,
overcoming the loss that she, thanksto inselect a socially responsible company,
concerned all values society, which alsobrings a special benefit. How many of
you put up the receipt of thelight and don' t know why.

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Well, this in Select company isgoing to help you reduce consumption or see
if you have an energy leak.So, if you' re interested in
being trusted to go home and checkif you have any power leaks, which
may be causing a cut in thesehigh consumptions. This company is here to

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help you and is supporting this conferenceso that it can be done for all
of you. Then that too ifyou want it, for that benefit.
There it is for you. Okay. Here I will continue to read opinions
to hope not to bore them withso much blah blah, blah. Marianne
keeps seeing some bells, too,and Marianne Hannah Mary says why you think

(01:29:45):
jealousy exists. They' d likeus to address that issue. It'
s interesting, not good, becauseI think jealousy is, from my point
of view, insecurity. But thereare two things that cause it to give
n n nens of sight. Thereare people who love the person so much
that they do not understand, respect, understand, do not allow or close

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that person to have a life,to live with more people. And jealousy
is because it' s like somekind of control, domination, manipulation,
blackmail, things that connect with jealousy. But I think there' s no
jealousy for two reasons. One maynot have justified it entirely by the great
love that has you to the personwho does not want other people to take

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your time or live with that personor who, perhaps, that person can
stop loving him or that person,to respect him or that person, and
seeing other people' s attitudes,cause him or her insecurity because, for
example, let' s assume thatyou have a partner, a husband,

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a girlfriend whatever it is and you, as a man, suddenly see that
you are a man, you knowhow men think, how men are,
what men are looking for. Andeven though the woman sometimes doesn' t
realize it, they allow it occasionsand the famous friend who feels something more
than who knows whether or not heexpressed it, is an example. Then

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she embraces her and you as thecouple, the groom you see with what
intention she embraces her and she letsherself hug in a way or allows it.
That awakens someone' s jealousy Idon' t know. If I
understood then jealousy there are two guys. One is the natural one and the
other is the one that is provoked, and the other is a problem already

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of insecurity, that even if theperson gives himself respect, behaves, the
other person has a insecurity and aproblem of self- esteem, that he
does not accept, does not recognize, has not worked it, does not
speak it and is angry because hebelieves that everyone will disrespect him or that
everyone wants with the person he loves. Then you can try, overcome,

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help, change, etcetera. ButI think jealousy does exist. For those
three reasons, I don' tknow if I answered correctly. Hanna,
Mary heat your answer no. No. Martinez, you say exactly. The
woman who comes into your life musthave something that you don' t have
and that you already need a complementto your life. Definitely and even if
he might not have, if he' s willing to learn, I can

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learn from it, too. Orwhat I know. I Hannah marye says
what do you think of a manI love you. It' s told
to anyone or someone special. I' d like to ask those who are
here what they think of this.If anyone wants to give Hannah the answer
ahead, I read it and ifit goes for me, then I think

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I love you MM. A lovefor you is rare from my normal logical
point of view. A love youis for someone special and that I love
you is when you already lived somedeep things or some important or transcendental things,

(01:33:15):
or you were born and you feelit and he loves you what it
includes is a I need you ayou the best you are important. It
' s a feeling that I feelvery strong for you that I tell you
and that' s how a wowI mean, it' s like a

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word that wraps so much in sofew letters. But I think he loves
you I' ve met people whotell everyone that he loves his friends,
his family, his best friend,he loves them even his own female friends.
He loves them. I don't say it' s right,

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right or wrong. But I thinkif people don' t understand the focus,
the emphasis, and it' sif that word, what it'
s going to lead to and whyyou' re saying it. Well,
you love everyone, not then whenI eat as a difference who you really
love who you love, who youlove no more or feel a friendship or
something beautiful, and who I loveyou I feel is very deep That'

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s what I think. Conni Ortizsays I' ve been married for nineteen
years and really two years ago,God brought to light many things my tradition.
I guess I meant my marriage wasvery nice and in the blink of
an eye, everything collapsed, Iwent into depression and I' ll tell

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you more let me here squeeze thescreen. Okay, I' m going
to read it in full, becauseI' m already breaking up. Everything
says Conño Ortiz, I' vebeen married for nineteen years and really two
years ago I brought up a lotof things my marriage was very nice and
once I opened my eyes everything collapsed, going into depression and I' ll
tell you. I don' tknow why all this happened in my life.

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It was like a hurricane and Isplit up for two years, just
walking around like those of reconciliation.But this has to be from the heart,
because it is not worth remembering thepast and it really costs a lot
to conne sad face, really andme, I really gave a thousand in

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marriage and from now on, Godsurprises me with my husband, because I
never divorced And that only God knowswhy And you know I put my side
to make this work. And thennot that this works, and because one
day I tell you well, Ithink that marriage is much better one hundred

(01:35:53):
percent or what conni, because thankyou for sharing your feelings. I tried
to read as best I could whatI wrote. There are words there that
I did not understand very well,but that I try to explain them.
And thank you this coni that fatheryou have the confidence to share this.
You' ve also heard some otherpeople' s experiences with a case similar

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to yours and I wish you well. My opinion would be before your comment
that, for when the meaning ofthe word is forgiven, forgive, forgive,
and forget, you have done.The worst thing that' s ever
been when you forgive is never againhappened and it' s having the power
to see the person in the eyesand not to feel resentment I hate a

(01:36:39):
grudge over something that has failed youor done in the past. So that
' s my opinion. If you' re going to forgive, forgive me,
if you think you can rescue somethingand fight fight, even if you
haven' t divorced. Talk settlesand love covers a multitude of faults and
mistakes, but also if you don' t think he' s right anymore,
because you need to first know whatyou want and where you want and

(01:37:01):
how far you want it and youwant to go and you' re willing
to keep trying or enduring or whatever. Hanna, mary says thank you,
Mariane, she tells who she reallymakes you feel. Okay, and here,
Line Wiltrum. Welcome, well,I don' t know my heart,
but we were here for a whilesharing this special article of marriage or

(01:37:28):
free union. What do you think? I don' t know if you
want to leave me any more commentsfor if you want us to meet or
follow you. I hope this subjecthas been to your liking the following week.
A special article comes out and Ithank all those who are still connected
here watching that transmission and also thosewho were connected and already left that they

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left us their comments and even thosewho did not think so, but they
were here thanks for joining this Lifethat I did today for the purpose of
sharing so close to free union ormarriage. Thanks to each and every one
of you who contributed, shared,left your comment, dared to see your

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heart and share with your servant andthose who were part of this transmission of
marriage or free union. Most insynthesis and in sum, support marriage.
They believe more in marriage and eventhough there have been marriages that no longer

(01:38:30):
continued and they divorced or whatever itwas and remarried, they themselves recommend that.
And so thanks to everyone says BetSanchez, forgive and forget. Yeah,
I think so, Hannah, Maryhedy was traded on your talk.
No, thanks to You, Hanna, how nice of you to come in
and share you opened up, youasked and I hope I have given the

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best answers for all of you andthat this has been good. I mean,
and if they liked it, shareyour eye. Even though I'
m late, I read other commentsand respond and even though you didn'
t see the broadcast at the start, the video is going to stay here,
it' s going to download,it' s going to upload to

(01:39:14):
my YouTube channel, it' sgoing to share on digital platforms and next
week a special article is going tocome out where in text I share more
information. Things I didn' tsay here, things that were talked about
here, things that reaffirm what Ihad written in that article about marriage or
free union. The idea is thatpeople, with their comments, with what

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we discuss and with what is written, can find an article of interest on
a topic that can help them getadvice, guidance or a perspective on this
topic to help them. That isthe aim of my portal, international news,
as well as that I also coverinternational events both by covid Obviously,

(01:39:58):
this interview your artist. If youhave something you want me to interview you
or something, then there' sgoing to be special articles for everything.
I cover everything. So, inthis article I have the part where I
put my experiences, I share myfeelings, what I hear, what I
see, what I live, whatI believe what I have learned from others

(01:40:19):
I narrate through these special articles andthe life that is this one we did
today is added to all that tobe a parent complement, something different,
innovative for all people and remember thatmy space is their space and we all
share and Achilin Wilktron says thank youvery much. I arrived late I greeted

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your infinite blessings. Well, Ithink you' re listening to what I
said. If he' s notgonna stay there, I wish you could
make it. The intention is thatI' ll make a living every week
while I' m allowed to andif not, I' ll be warning
you. I don' t havea fixed day because, for the same
reason, I don' t knowwhat to present to us activities and things.

(01:41:02):
But I think that while the covidis there, it' s going
to be every Monday from eight toten. I think it' s taking
me two hours or an hour anda half. Or that I know or
time is free, no problem.Then I think every Monday from eight to
ten. For this occasion I madetwo in this week or I' m
going to do two more today,Monday at eight o' clock we deal

(01:41:26):
with the subject of interest or forgiveness. That' s not true. This
theme was that of marriage or freeunion. Also if you want, the
one of interest or friendship. Andthere' s the article on my website
from. But then Lio Ruiz countedas tomx in articles. There' s
news on the portal. There's the article- hap coming. Here
comes the subject we' re dealingwith. It' s still on the

(01:41:48):
Internet, there' s the videoon the Internet, it' s on
YouTube too and there' s thestory written. Then you can find him.
I received very good comments and thanksto all those who participated in the
first live of that topic. That' s the second marriage or free union
I hope you liked. And thisFriday, about eight o' clock at

(01:42:08):
night, we' re gonna havetime for Mexico to change. This is
so that people who cannot change canreceive something father. If you know someone
who doesn' t want to change, who has a very horrible character,
then send him the link tell himlook. They' re going to deal
with this, and maybe there arepeople who want to change and don'

(01:42:29):
t know how. Here we aregoing to address this article where, with
the support of all of you fellows, we enrich knowledge and wisdom in order
to create better lives, so don' t miss out. This Saturday at

8 (01:42:42):
00 p m. I can trade here for Facebook, like my
wall, wall, my space,your space and space for everyone, so
I thank you all. If someonewants to leave me one last comment to
say goodbye and see you on Fridayand be on the lookout, I repeat
to you June 20th, five inthe afternoon the release of my video clip

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of reflexive values, the boxer onsocial networks and everywhere, this Friday at
eight we will have the change.And on Saturday 27 June, overcoming the
loss conference sponsored by Inselette Mexico,socially responsible company of international detail concerned for

(01:43:29):
all of you. Thanks to themthis conference is going to be made without
any cost live transmission by my facebook, which will reach you, so don
' t miss out on the advertisingsasar in a couple of days for all
of you overcoming the loss. Ifyou' ve lost emotional economic, moral,

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emotional, work, that conference willhelp you. Or if there'
s a feeling that you haven't been able to overcome, that caused
you a loss, you' regoing to beat it and not lose it
by overcoming the loss. On the27th Saturday of June, five in the
afternoon on my wall. Free thanksto in Select for all of you.

(01:44:10):
So, if anyone wants to leaveme their comments to say goodbye, I
will gladly read them. Thank youall again to those who participated. Thank
you very much. Those who connectedwere left comments back and they' re
still here a thousand thousand. Thankyou all, this was not possible for
God to bless you all and Iwill read your comments. If you want
to leave me something, I'll leave you a couple more minutes to

(01:44:31):
read your comments. Greetings. Ifyou want to contribute something, say something,
I' ll read it here ina few minutes. I' m
still going on. Okay. Hesays that Janne Mary g thank you,
not thanks to You, Marianne,who really makes you feel it, I
imagine it' s giving love,he loves you, he loves you.
I get it Look, Mari.Mariane said that when you really feel someone

(01:44:56):
it' s good to tell themthat you love him or her and Bet
Sanchez says, but he doesn't forget. Hanna, Mari says I
enjoyed your talk whenever you want towelcome this is your space, as Lin
Boultrón says thank you very much.I' m late. I greeted your
blessings, finite blessings also for TiJackelin and Bet Sanchez. The great one
says so, thank you very much. And Bet Sanchez wrote again. Now

(01:45:17):
you understand why you haven' tmarried and you have a lot to share
yet. Yeah, not that.I dropped the 20 when I had the
last relationship that broke up and Iunderstood that all the others also because they
didn' t happen. I droppedthe twenty. It was something that did
not involve God. But yes,because I don' t want to sound

(01:45:38):
religious to you, but yes,in that intimacy I was asking God what
' s going on and there wasa very special feeling that I understood that
the reasons failed because I wasn't the right person that what I had
for me was something big, muchbetter than what I had chosen humanly,

(01:46:00):
that I was preparing to be betterfor that person than to keep learning,
fighting and that in his time,in his time, it will appear and
it will be worth it and itwill be really the right thing. Something
that' s gonna make me smilenot cry and something that I hope,
that is, for my whole life. That' s what I felt and
that not the others if it hadbeen given, I wouldn' t have
done what I' m doing andwhat I' m going to do,
that I still don' t knowwhat' s going to happen, but

(01:46:21):
that I do see that where itgoes and what' s going to happen
until now I couldn' t havedone it already having a relationship. But,
well, maybe if I don't know and Berttice Great, thank
you and Steris is watching. Thankyou, Iris, for still seeing Hannah
Mary Hedy I' d like tohear a divorce issue. Of course I
have, although I have not divorced, I have a conference called Winning Divorce,

(01:46:46):
and that conference I did with myteam of specialists and psychologists, with
an eleven- year trajectory, beingin prisons, addiction centers, schools,
platinum government, with a thousand peopleand with a method of my own that
I designed to help people support themin their human, personal, educational,

(01:47:08):
professional and work development and helping manypeople and listening to a lot of people.
And I designed that whole conference.Of course I can, I can
do a divorce special, and Ialready have one. It' s called
overcoming the divorce. Then this lecturetalks about what divorce is, why it
was presented How to avoid it,how to change it, how to improve

(01:47:30):
it, How to improve the situationwhen that experience was seen. It is
a subject that I have also basedwith many people who have shared their experiences
and statistics and research analysis of whatoriginates it, why it is given,
how to edit it and everything Ihave, then it is also standard out
there. She has a very fatherconference that is called yes marriage is for

(01:47:54):
life and she shares some experiences,so this one also with her I can
link you to help you and goodhere and that in Witton says super interesting
about the issues. Thank you forsharing so much endless love, because I
' m happy to be with peopleand for people and that' s where
I put it on my facebook whereverthere' s a willing heart. I

(01:48:16):
' ll be there, regardless ofreligion, sex political issue. There I
will be and Connio Ortiz and saythank you, sun God, you bless
will be the slope. I thinkthat this subject is coming is for me
welcome forward. And now Dis Gonzálezsays he' s seeing us. Greetings,
already dis Sánchez for being here.Ya Di Sánchez González, Thank you

(01:48:40):
for seeing us Petti Gomes. Andyou' re late. I' m
late. It doesn' t matter. The video stays. You can see
it if you write I answer you, even if it' s out of
time and the video remember that itis a special live complementary to the special
articles. This topic is already indetail. It comes out next week with
this NS link inserting this too,so don' t miss it next Saturday

(01:49:06):
June 20th, the launch of theboxer, your server' s official reflexive
videoclip and June 27th, overcoming theloss and this what else. And this
Friday we meet at eight on thesubject I can change. Hannah, Mary,

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I' ve said another thing.You' ve asked your children if
you' ve hurt him with youractions towards your partner. There' s
one for the guys that' scalled Create your mind Improve your life And
there' s some stuff on boardthat beats your fears. You don'
t talk directly, too, butI make it possible for children to understand

(01:49:49):
which are mine, their parents,the parents of their children, and I
make a reconciliation when the conference isfor parents and there they understand the mistakes
of dad and mom. Then Idon' t have one as such,
but now I could do that.I think here would be something like I

(01:50:09):
don' t know, I'm going to make a new one called
reborn. That' s very cannony. Thanks to a friend who lived in
Hell covid chatting with him, hemotivated and inspired in friendship that I have
with him, I will make himreborn. That' s a very good
conference. I think I' mgoing to release that one for the next

(01:50:30):
month and Anna, because of yourcomments and your need, I can design
that one I' m going tothink about. Yeah, I know it
' s what' s hurting ason, but I need him to be
a man who doesn' t hurt, because if I put something like that
on him I don' t know, that is, parents, you get
violent, something sounds. I needto look for the word and the message

(01:50:53):
where maybe it can be a tool, where parents can understand, wake up,
understand, avoid and give them toolsso that parents realize how they hurt
their children, what needs they have, you have to know what Janna Yes,
I have parents who leave a markon that conference. I' m

(01:51:16):
talking about that, I think there' s the Internet transmission. When I
gave it at the Zaragoza theater,when it was the act, it was
the conference that parents who leave theirmark. That' s where I mention
it. I' ve got iton tape. If you want it,
I can send it by digital download. I send you a link and download
it to your portable computer or device. What you need is enough storage capacity.

(01:51:41):
If I have it, I leftthe other way, and parents who
leave prints. That' s preciselywhere the acts that leave a mark on
your children are. And at thatconference there' s a beautiful reconciliation between
parents and children and I' mvery surprised it wasn' t. We
did a lot, a lot,a lot of publicity and I gave it

(01:52:01):
in the Zaragoza Theatre the one ofparents who leave a mark. There I
address precisely that and give them strategiesto improve the relationship between parents and children
and vice versa, that the fathercan understand the child, the son to
the father and both can change.So it' s parents who leave a
mark and that conference I gave tomy mom, because my mom came out

(01:52:24):
parents who leave a mark. Mariansays thank you Oliver, God bless you,
take care of yourself. I hopewe' ll soon see each other
clearly, my friend, I loveyou very much. I' m writing
to you, too. I giveyou the answer to your message. Don
' t think so. What happensis that my co- worker and everyone
will be answered shortly by the commentsthat have been left to me and I
remember yours very well. They're very beautiful words. This Mariane,

(01:52:45):
may God bless you, your family, your children, your husband, your
parents, Marianne today very interesting.Yeah, I' m interested, well,
then we' re even in touchand I' m sending you the
download of that conference. It wasrecorded live at the Zaragoza Theatre and it
was a bust because my mom thereI gave her a surprise, I gave
my mom a recognition and it wasvery nice. And that conference helps a

(01:53:11):
lot to improve the relationship between parentsand children and that parents can tell how
they make a positive negative impression ontheir children and what their children need.
When I started talking about it,I forgot and I remembered that' s
the one that I have parents thatleave a mark. Then I can bring
her to ana with all pleasure andin what she can serve, as well.

(01:53:33):
And, well, friends, sharethis video after it' s published.
If it was to your liking,the subject we are addressing today was
marriage or free union with your servantand with all of you, because without
telling you that I will bless you, I am waiting for you, because
if someone wants to leave me onemore comment, read it before I leave,

(01:53:57):
then I thank you very much.Stay tuned and you can already hear
me on Spotify and other digital platforms. There are lectures, reflections and a
lot of content for you and alsoon YouTube, my official website or Lio
Ruiz Comx on Facebook I also sharesome things. If you liked this theme,
share it subscribe to it I loveit, I care about the like

(01:54:20):
whatever it is. Leave me yourcomments. For me they are important and
thank you for sharing this time withyou, time to covid of unity and
to do something different to help people. Well, I think I' m
leaving. I' m waiting alittle while to read your last comments and

(01:54:42):
say goodbye and have a nice eveningalways lecture or whatever. I tell you
something nice and good to conclude,in what I write there to say goodbye
to the conclusion and feedback of thistopic. Marriage is for all those who
are sure and convinced that they wantto spend their lives with a person,

(01:55:11):
share all intimacy, problems, situationsand that they are the person who goes
wrong, that you will respect forall old life until they grow old and
if they have faith in eternal life, even eternal life is with whom you
want to share everything. With thatbeing and for those who want to maybe
experience and know are not very sure. Free union can be an option to

(01:55:34):
share time and meet the person.And if that is later, then,
they will get married if they wanta marriage and for the comments of the
people I add that those who readhave experienced a relationship that ended in divorce,
in separation or did not reach theconclusion of a marriage. As long

(01:55:54):
as you want and you can,there' s going to be someone else
who' s going to love you, they' re going to want you
to accept with your past, withyour children, with your family, as
you are, and they' regoing to want to forge a family and
they' re going to want tomarry you, if their means allow them,

(01:56:15):
and here there were several testimonies ofthem and marriage or free union.
Most of those who shared this themeopt for marriage. And this one'
s good. That' s likeregulation. And to read the latest comments
they leave me, Hannah mary Headsays how you feel about long- distance
love if you are married and livefar away or if you love the other

(01:56:36):
person is away from you or livesin another state, in another country or
like this majan to give you agood answer. I believe that love has
so that there can be love,there must be coexistence. But today the
media brings us closer to people andI think that as long as there is

(01:57:02):
trust and that communication, because Ithink there is no problem with love at
a distance. But if you're talking about wanting to make a child,
wanting to marry or wanting to liveor wanting to be with the person
already or making a life together,then break the distance somehow, whether you
go there, come here and gotogether or start something because they say a

(01:57:26):
rude thing. I' m notgoing to tell her about you, that
love from afar. You will knowwhat you have heard, but I can
tell you that if you met someonefrom another country, another state, another
city, you fell in love ifyou wanted to. And so, they
' re going to look for away to be together, despite the distance.

(01:57:46):
And I repeat again when you want, you can do that for everything,
it' s like a motto.For me, then there can be
love at distances definitely yes, becauseit is a feeling that you feel for
the person and even if there maybe no caresses, touch or closeness,
if you talk a lot to someoneand have confidence, feel something nice,

(01:58:08):
you can feel love for someone evenif you are not touching it, seeing
or having an intimacy. I thinkthat' s possible. But if the
situation is already serious, they're both going to have to make an
effort to be together and the distancemay be maybe for a while, but
already if the person loves you,he wants you, then to look to

(01:58:28):
be close to you. I believethat love is to live together and the
way love is nourished is with time, with details, with attentions, with
surprises, with affection, bodily,physical, etcetera. Not then, you
can' t tell someone you lovehim when maybe you don' t even

(01:58:49):
know him. I mean, whenyou haven' t lived with the person,
when you don' t know whatit smells like, you haven'
t felt, you haven' ttouched, you haven' t seen,
you haven' t heard, Idon' t know if I answered well.
Your question to Anna Connie Ortiz saysto iol and you end up with
beautiful words that came to heart.That was my prospect of marriage. Unfortunately,

(01:59:13):
it wasn' t, but Coni, I don' t know if
you read Beth Libet Sanchez' scomments and standard. They had some experiences
very similar to yours and now theyfound someone and they already married this one
against person and are happy and sharedthat testimony here. And I think Coni
that if you can fix your marriage, fight and try to fix it.

(01:59:39):
If it' s worth it,only you know your heart. Ask God
to make the best decision what givesyou peace if you flat out or your
marriage. You think there' sno way out anymore, because I'
d say something very personal to you, too. From my point of view,
don' t start a relationship untilyour heart has healed from the past

(02:00:00):
situation and you identify very well whatyou want so that you don' t
hook up immediately with another person andget hurt or hurt by the situations of
the past, because there has tobe healing. You can' t be
a new relationship with someone very fastafter a separation, a breakup, because
without wanting there will be resentments,there will be feelings there present that can

(02:00:25):
harm the new person. The newperson can have an attitude with you and
you, because of what you wentthrough, maybe you can hurt or offend
or there may be something there oryou won' t give him your 100
%. Then. My recommendation isthat when you go through a break-
up, a breakup,don' t do another nail thing,
so your claude, has a timefor you. Healthy, grow, restore,

(02:00:46):
forgive, you, love, you, forgive forget, change, what
evolves and when you are in thatfullness well with yourself. You can give
the best to the other person.If you bring things from the past that
haven' t let go, it' s hard to have a new relationship
with someone. So that' smy opinion. I hope it helps Hannahdy

(02:01:08):
live in another country. Well,I don' t know if it'
s any good to ask, butif you' ve already traveled or been
with him or already lived with him. The problem is that many times we
get excited and when love doesn't create a virtual relationship, whether it

(02:01:34):
' s text, video, voiceor online. Now I' m telling
you something that occurred to me.I can think of this as a nonsense,
but it is more like I stepthrough my mind not to make one
as between lectures reflection. I don' t know yet, but it'

(02:01:55):
s going to be called covid lovefor situations as well as imagine how many
people in love can' t beclose to their people, then dedicated to
those people, like I thought I' d do something like that. I
' m watching. If I do, not take out other earrings. I
think that' s what I'm saying. Then Cántaros Copassi Hello.
Thank you for adding me recently.I remember a lot of you and the

(02:02:16):
experience that I spent with you rosemarynicolas thank you for your friendship. I
send a greeting to Cantaros Copas andhe is seeing us that we are almost
finishing this live. Well, ifshe lives in another country, Hannah,
then you' re going to haveto see how to go there or bring
her here or see how to livetogether more, because I wouldn' t

(02:02:42):
want to break your expectations, yoursolutions, or tell you something that doesn
' t or that can hurt you. But my point of view is a
love you and a love you gohand in hand with a cohabitation. But
now, as everything is online andeven if you don' t see yourself,
the only thing that you deprive yourselfof is the touch and the smell
and the closeness. But then,for that love to be consolidated to have

(02:03:09):
I can tell you that I don' t know. I have friends from
other countries who feel an appreciation andaffection, but I can tell you that
I love them. I appreciate youfriends, too. But already speaking in
one aspect of a relationship with someonewho is from another country, you have

(02:03:32):
to be aware of the following.Culture, ideologies, way of life,
customs are very different from those ofus as Mexicans. It' s not
impossible because I have Mexican friends whoare married to Colombians or other people from

(02:03:53):
another country and have done super well. And that' s father, because
one learns the customs of the otherand vicevers But the detail is that if
one doesn' t get the relationshipconsolidated by distance, there are people who
suffer. Then this love is nourishedwith love and when it is already a

(02:04:17):
love more as real, it needsto be face- to- face,
it needs coexistence, itneeds to spend time with the person.
Then or one of two of yourbags if you go there, or also
come here, so that that lovecan be consolidated and grow more. And
from a love you can arise alove I need you no longer can feel

(02:04:41):
marry me. No or something.My opinion for your questions, which I
hope will be good for you ifsomeone else. It doesn' t leave
me one last comment, because I' d be leaving because I' m
seeing on the other watch that it' s already ten and a quarter to
twenty since eight or seven. Ithink I or I connected up to now

(02:05:02):
more than two hours talking to you, reading your comments, sharing opinions and
this special live free union or marriagethat I thank all those who participated.
And so now, because I almostsaid goodbye without first telling them the following
of heart, that God bless them, that all their dreams goals longings happen,

(02:05:29):
become reality and that if you wentthrough a difficult situation, either in
a marriage or in a relationship orwhatever, you are simply a relationship and
it was not what you expected toprepare yourself because surely something better will come
and with the past experience, youwill be able to build and have better
experiences, and not because your marriage, your relationship has been seen, affected,

(02:05:56):
destroyed or ended. You must alwaysbe well to the possibility that,
as long as your heart beats,there can be a love in your life.
As long as you want it,you allow it and it happens then
you are not designed for failure andyou must not live in the past either,

(02:06:16):
but you must give yourself the opportunityto know, experience, feel.
It' s valid to make mistakes, but as long as you live,
you can be a better person andlearn your mistakes so that your future is
better, building it at every step. In your present. Be very careful
that God bless you Haney Mary saysblessings sun and beautiful night. Thank you
for this talk. Thanks to youand because we are still in contact and

(02:06:41):
this Friday we meet with me Ican change too. This was the life
of marriage or free union, soI say goodbye to you and thank you
so much for listening to me.We remain in touch, that God,
the Bendiga do not lose more contentevery week. Let' s be in
touch together. If you liked it, share it with your loved ones and

(02:07:02):
make it a good thing and atool to improve and change everyone' s
lives. Take good care of yourselvesSee you later.

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