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Hey. What' s up?Good morning, folks, I hope you
like this recording of this conference calledThe Boxer. Oliver Ruiz, the boxer.
The boxer is the person who chosethis profession through sport, in which
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he is based on taking blows andhitting, But many times what he does
not know it is by climbing thering that he can lose his life in
the attempt he can win or loseoy achieve success or reach broken. However,
he must be prepared mentally, spiritually, physically, psychologically and emotionally,
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as success is based on the principleof faith. If the fighter does not
believe in his convictions, he isnot decisive, he is not responsible,
he is not constant, he willnot achieve success, nor the taste of
triumph, let alone victory. Ifthe boxer, as he climbs the Ring,
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looks at his opponent and sees howgreat his stature is that he begins
to question and think that perhaps hewill not have the ability to beat him.
From that moment it is predestined todefeat, since the fundamental key to
achieving all success in life is calledfaith. The boxer has to believe,
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he has to trust, he hasto be sure of what he wants to
achieve, because if he hesitates beforeclimbing the Ring, he will lose.
And it is very important that Ibe aware that every struggle, every battle,
without sacrifice, without fight, thereis no success, there is no
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result that is expected, there isno longing for my dream to be achieved.
The fighter has to have determination inhis convictions and perhaps many, before
facing his opponent, analyze his opponentand he may begin to see that he
is stronger than perhaps with whom heis going to face. He has more
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skills, he has more experience andall these factors influence that from before the
first hit is done. You mayalready be ready for defeat. And maybe
you sometimes realize everything you face inlife and think they' re bigger than
you. Maybe you don' thave that preparation, you don' t
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have the experience, you' renot the right person. Maybe they told
you you' re a loser,you' re a fool. You'
re not gonna make it. That' s not for you and maybe in
trying to get what you want,they discourage you and maybe the boxer gets
booed and maybe the boxer gets defamedand maybe they talk bad about him.
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They make him a bad name,bad publicity, because they want to attack
him emotionally, because if they manageto destroy his dreams by tearing him down
through words critical thoughts, it's what they do that maybe the person
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mentalizes before trying for failure. Beinga boxer isn' t easy. It
' s a constant effort every morning, it' s a training, it
' s a responsibility. The boxermust be prepared so much to receive blows
and protect himself and get up ifhe is knocked down or endure the right
moment to throw the blow. Ineed to know that it can lead to
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success in life. Many times youcan be that boxer who climbs the rink
without knowing that he can go home. He may be the one who leaves
the house hoping to earn his breadhonestly in an attempt to leave the house.
You may lose your life and maybe afraid not to know if you
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return home with your family or lovedones. Many times you are like that
fighter who confronts and gives his lifefor those he loves, because what is
at stake to win that battle,to overthrow that opponent, are your dreams,
are your longings, are your hopes, are your goals. That'
s why day by day you getup to face every morning conquering that dream.
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The ring is the battlefield. Thering is the field in which you
face to achieve that goal. Thering is where you go for your dreams.
The ring is the place where youare going to face all those limiting
oppositions, gossip, critical defamation,where you look around and listen to the
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audience, the screams, the booing, because maybe they want to see you
win or they want to see youlose. But if you take into account
all these comments will destroy or influenceyou to motivate yourself to achieve your dreams,
do not see your opponent, donot see the size of the problem,
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do not see the difficulty, situationor circumstance. Don' t see
and don' t think it's impossible, because it' s not
about this one being strong or beingprepared or what others say. Sometimes we
think that problems are bigger than ourability, than our experience and our abilities.
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And that' s a big mistake. And you might get in the
ring and see that your problems arebigger n n n n ns than you
' re not gonna make it andmentally, you' re giving up before
you try. The loser, he' s the one who gives up before
he tries, and you' reno loser. You are a capable person,
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You are a strong person, Youare a brave person, You are
a person who can accomplish beyond whathe has not seen and what he has
not believed, He has abilities,gifts qualities, virtues, which is a
unique and special being. But themistake is that you haven' t believed
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in yourself and maybe you wonder likethe boxer when he gets hit again and
he gets hit again and he getspulled and touches his face on the floor
At that point, maybe you thinkit' s not worth trying anymore.
Maybe you think about what for.Maybe you think it gets up and you
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' re gonna get hit again.Maybe you think you' re lying there
without strength because you' ve beenbeaten, you' ve been beaten,
you' ve been humiliated, you' ve been betrayed and you' ve
been through so many negative things thatmaybe you' re wondering, it'
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s worth following or maybe you don' t have another. And you have
to get up once again, onceagain it' s what' s in
your thinking, in your mind andin your heart, and maybe you start
listening to offenses in the public,maybe in the people that you love start
to discourage you or maybe others comeand start lifting you up, they start
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pushing you. But in itself onlyyou know within yourself there is a hope,
there is a dream and maybe thatdream and that hope can be your
loved ones, they can be thepeople you love, you can be what
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you' ve loved so much Andmaybe you think it' s impossible to
get up and face you once again, because there' s the fear of
failure, that they might give youa bad blow and end your life completely,
or maybe they hurt you and you' ll be affected for a lifetime.
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And this resembles your life, forevery one that you climb up into
the realm of hope, of love, of work, of family, of
money, of all that you longfor. You have to face a battle
and the battle is on the fieldas you leave your house. And when
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you face it all starts with themere fact of believing if you don'
t believe in what you want andyou' re not determining, you'
re not constant, you' renot committed, you' re not responsible
and you don' t fight everyday and every morning. You don'
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t know if you could succeed orfail. But as long as your heart
beats there will be hope and aslong as you have life, you will
have the opportunity to accomplish all thatyou long for. Maybe he' s
been beaten by life, maybe sobetrayed, robbed, wounded, defamed,
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stabbed, deceived, but no matterwhat you' ve faced. Maybe you
wonder how much more and now whatand why. And I' m not
gonna make it. You think wrong, I' m not gonna get over
it, I' m not gonnaget through this. This is too big
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for me, this seems impossible.But right in that moment when you think
that everything is lost, that justmoment to get up, to try once
more, to believe and to givethe best of itself, because that boxer
receives that blow and another and anotherand at the moment he has to learn
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to protect himself, he has tolearn to take care of himself, he
has to learn to evade has toanalyze, reflect, think, breathe and,
in fractions of second, respond accuratelyand assertively. You must remember at
the moment, as the boxer,that from the moment you got into the
ring, you didn' t getup to lose. The difference of the
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people who achieve success is that theyfight until they have fulfilled their dreams,
that they fight no matter what theylose in life, is that they fight
because they believe with all their heart, no matter whether their opponents are of
greater stature or condision. They fromthe moment the bell rings, they fight
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to win and you' re notdesigned for failure. You, though you
may think that you don' thave the resources, skills, or support
from your family or people who areimportant to you or who may find yourself
alone without hope, knocked down andwithout dreams. At that moment. It
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' s the right time you haveto listen to this voice that tells you
get up, try hard, bebrave, don' t give up get
up one more time. Once again, you have to try. Once again,
you have to take strength, believeeven if you are dying and fight
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for your life, fight for whatyou love, for what you long for
or what you want. Again,it is worth trying, because perhaps in
the attempt you can give the justblow of success, of victory, of
happiness. No matter how many battlesyou' re facing, no matter how
much you' ve suffered, nomatter what you' ve faced, no
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matter how much you' ve lostyour strength. You have to get up
no matter how many hits you've received. Because maybe the next hit
is you and having resisted all thosetrials and all those circumstances, all that
injustice, that' s part ofthe experience that' s going to give
you life. To learn what mattersis that you don' t give up
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and that you keep trying, thatyou keep going up the runk, that
you keep believing, trying to bedetermined. It' s how you'
ll succeed. Don' t giveup, don' t give up,
and don' t let negative thoughts, bad experiences, get any more in
your mind. Maybe the first timeyou didn' t make it. Maybe
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s o n o r uera belland you feel like you' re on
the bench, maybe you' relooking around and you' re sorry or
the bad decisions you didn' tmake. Perhaps you regret that you have
not done the right thing, thatyou have not heard the Council' s
indication, or because you simply thoughtthat was the best thing ever to doubt
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you, because thanks to those experiencesyou can rise once again and achieve.
Trust again, fight again, believeagain and, above all, do not
have in s because perhaps in theattempt, if you fight with all your
strength, with all your heart andwith all your love, you will achieve
the success dedicated to IT that dayby day you struggle to achieve your dreams.
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Don' t be afraid, Withoutfear everything is possible oliver ruiz the
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boxer or s