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February 9, 2025 62 mins
Hey, ParaTruthers! Justin & Erik welcome back Tim Rayborn to discuss his book "The Scary Book of Valentine's Day Lore."

## Podcast Introduction
Welcome to **Paratruth: Reborn**, where we delve into the mysterious, the unexplained, and the often overlooked aspects of history and culture. Join your hosts, Justin and his co-host, as they explore intriguing topics with expert guests, uncovering the darker sides of familiar traditions and stories. In this episode, we welcome historian and author **Tim Rayborn**, who shares his insights on the eerie and fascinating lore surrounding Valentine's Day.
## Episode Summary
In this episode, Tim Rayborn discusses the origins and darker aspects of Valentine's Day, exploring its historical significance and the bizarre traditions that have emerged over the centuries. 
### Main Topics Discussed:
- **Origins of St. Valentine**:
  - Multiple Valentines were canonized by the Catholic Church.
  - The original St. Valentine was a martyr, possibly a Roman official.
- **Chaucer and the Romanticization of Valentine's Day**:
  - Geoffrey Chaucer's poem linked Valentine's Day to the mating season of birds.
  - Early celebrations included elaborate messages, possibly the first Valentine's Day cards.
- **Vinegar Valentines**:
  - A trend in the 1800s where humorous and often cruel cards were sent.
  - Public backlash against these cards due to their vulgarity.
- **The St. Valentine's Day Massacre**:
  - A notorious gangland murder in Chicago in 1929, unrelated to love.
  - Al Capone's ruthless tactics in the mob wars of the 1920s.
- **Eros in Greek Mythology**:
  - Eros as a complex figure representing chaotic love and desire.
  - The duality of love as both beautiful and destructive.
- **Scottish Wedding Traditions**:
  - The bizarre custom of throwing garbage at betrothed couples.
  - The communal aspect of the tradition and its unexpected nature.
- **Ghost Weddings**:
  - The ancient practice of marrying the deceased, particularly in Chinese culture.
  - Recent controversies surrounding grave robbing and illegal corpse sales for ghost weddings.
### Key Takeaways:
- Valentine's Day has a rich and complex history that goes beyond romantic love.
- The celebration has evolved over centuries, influenced by literature, societal norms, and darker traditions.
- Understanding the origins of these customs can provide insight into contemporary practices and beliefs about love and relationships.
### Guest Information:
- **Tim Rayborn**: Historian and author with expertise in cultural traditions and folklore. His works explore the intersections of history, myth, and societal practices.
## Conclusion
Join us next week on **Paratruth: Reborn** as we shift our focus to UFOs, diving into the mysteries of the skies and the stories that surround them. Thank you for tuning in, and we hope you enjoyed this exploration of Valentine's lore with Tim Rayborn. Until next time, stay curious!


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