Ep. 8 - Talking missing children and more with Jessica Sottile

Child case expert Jessica Sottile joins the show to talk about the mysterious cases of missing children in Cleveland, adults overstepping their boundaries and more.

Episode Transcript

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This is the FCB podcast Network.This is pillow Talk with Alie Michelle,
the FCBING podcast at work. Hey, yuh, it's Alie Michelle and you

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are listening to Pillow Talk with AlieMichelle. Today, I have a very
special guest. Her name is Jessicaso Tilly. She is an incredible woman.
She is full of knowledge. Sheis literally a walking encyclopedia. Today
I had the honor of picking herbrain just a little bit, and I
hope from what we talk about itmoves you in a way to not necessarily
believe everything that you see on socialmedia and not to believe every single news

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outlet. I just want you tohear a real woman who is in the
field, getting knowing and feeling andexperiencing everything that goes on behind closed doors.
And with that we are rolling intothe show all Jesse. Hello,
Okay, if you want to telleverybody who you are and what is it

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that you do. My name isJessicasatility and I specialize in de escalation and
mental health. So I work alot of cases that are considered extreme and
nature and essentially I work on deescalating the situation, de escalating my client,

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and then I'm also advocating for theirwell being at the same time,
making sure that they're getting the carethat they need and also that they're being
placed in safe environments and then continuingwith their healing process. So basically,
when people go through really traumatizing situations, there's people like me that essentially work

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with those people hands on to kindof help them cope through, you know,
pretty life changing in extremely traumatizing situations, and basically our goal is just
to make sure that they can livea pretty normal life. When you experienced

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trauma on such like a large scale, it tends to kind of disrupt your
brains chemistry, so we kind ofwork on rewiring brains. So it's just
a little bit of my background andkind of what I do. And you
said, you have a doctorates inmetaphysics, so it's kind of like the

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study of everything essentially, So Ijust have like little knowledge of just anything
that you could possibly think of.And this kind of allows me to have
like a pretty big scale of empathyand understanding for people, even in situations
that I might not have been inmyself. I'm able to comprehend the situation

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and essentially I could feel what they'refeeling. So it really helps me in
gauging the best type of treatment forthem as far as like the healing process
after experiencing trauma. That's super cool. So you're like a real life person
encyclopedia a little bit like knowledge abouthow things work essentially, So yeah,

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that would be a pretty good AndI love it. I love it,
and I absolutely adore you. AndI've never met you, but yeah,
I followed you for a long timeand I just I'm so intrigued by everything
that you do, by your vibesand your positivity, and you know,
I've read all your status is.But I want to ask what made you
want to go into that feeld essentially? Um, probably just my own trauma.

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UM. I kind of really grewup feeling like I was misunderstood a
lot. I just went through likea lot of things that I guess most
people my age probably wouldn't experience.And so instead of letting the trauma kind
of defined who I was as aperson, M, you know, I

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met somebody who just like really changedmy life and my views, and M
kind of got me into doing yoga. So I am a yoga teacher.
I don't teach as much anymore.Um, I kind of focus more on
m kind of what I do nowde escalation. But I did teach for

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a pretty long time, and Iactually did yoga mostly for like children,
um, that have been sexually abused. That was a great treatment method that
we had utilized, and I didthat for a while. But things just
changed and I kind of just shifted, you know, my area of focus.

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But kind of you know, whenI started that, and the healing
that I did within myself was justlike wow, Like I literally, you
know, completely changed my whole entirelife just by making this decision to heal.
And so I was like, man, if I can just teach people
how to do this, then youknow, so many more people could be

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living a more fulfilling life because alot of times people will experience traumatic events
and they're like, okay, thisis it. Like I'm just gonna be
this, you know, damaged goodsfor the rest of my life. You
know that to be the case.And so I guess that's where I kind
of was like, Yeah, wherecan I help people and get back on

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track? You know? That's amazing, UM, really really inspiring. I'm
like I feel like this big I'mlike, you know, um, no,
I think what you do is extremelyimportant. I think mental health is
a huge, UM misunderstanding in thiscountry. I don't think it's enough attention.
I don't think it's not anything.So I think people like you are

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really, really, really important.So you said you were talking you get
you handle like children and stuff.So the cases that have been coming out
in Cleveland recently with all the missingchildren, do you like tackle that as
well? I do work some casesin Ohio, but they're on contract basis,

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so if they're very extreme cases,more than likely UM. You know,
I probably assisted in those UM,but basically, since I'm contracted by
the state, essentially it's whatever casethat they deem UM, extremely traumatic,
UM, all across the board.So it really just depends. Sometimes UM.

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I do get subpoena for opinions UMbased on certain cases what I would
deem UM. I guess you couldsay satanic in nature. UM worked on
cases like that in Ohio, whichI can't. I just there's UM a

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lot of open things with what's goingon in Ohio right now that UM certain
things that have happened within Cleveland UMhave kind of stirred up UM. I
don't know the right word too.Yeah, I don't know what to do.

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I don't know because I would Iwould try to say one, but
I don't know necessarily, were like, what's what Ali, we're going down?
I would say. Most I cansay is there's going to be a
pretty huge bust um happening in Um. That just gave me goose bumps.
Yes, yeah, that's something thatI do know that is going to happen.

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I'm not sure when they um aregoing to be making those major indictments.
They've made a couple so far,but there's bigger names on that list.
Um Dad, I'm sure that's whyit's taking so long for it to
come out. Um. Yeah,I feel they like cover as much like

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that happens um, as far aslike child trafficking rings, they kind of
like, you know, leave itto like the small They don't talk about
it, like saying the big onesjust don't pick it up. But it
works out that way. But soI'm okay, go ahead, go ahead.

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There has been um a lot ofbus being made mostly smaller people,
um, but the big ones I'mhoping that they kind of come out pretty
soon because it is it should beeye opening for a lot of people.
Yeah. Yeah, And you know, I've recorded a few shows regarding the

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sex Rings, and and I don'tthink people understand the severity of it and
how deep it actually goes when youtalk about it your college conspiracy theorists and
whatever. But it's the little storiesshould start telling people like, well,
they have to come from somewhere.It's not just a coincidence that's you know,

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a school here, or a principlehere, or you know, it's
it's I'm getting goose bumps because it'sstuff like really gets me going um because
it's kids. Kids don't deserve togo through it. Nobody deserves to go
through that amount of bull crap thatthese predators. I just can't. It
makes me so mad. I justwant to start shaking about it. But

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I think that's really instant, likeinside of that you said that, Yeah,
I am so excited for that tohappen. Not that it's like good
news, but it's like finally likewe're finally getting the answers that these kids
deserve, the justice that these kidsdeserve, because I've just heard actually before
we got on here that in Mayalone, thirty missing kids are like thirty

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kids missing in Cleveland alone in themonth of May. So, um,
I haven't seen the statistic for Junior, but that is and then you know
the lawmaker are the one of thepolice officers. I wrote it down.
I was like, he said,it's one of the most extraordinary numbers that
you know, he's witnessed in hiscareer. So I'm like, I just,

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oh, I just can'tnot wait.M right. I know a lot
of times, like when you likehear stuff like that, like it like
like he said, like it willliterally just wait to you're freaking blood boil.
But like the day, like alot of people, I've just come

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to realize, like unless you've likesat there and listened to like those cases,
you don't really think it happens likein your neighborhood, like you know
your friends kids like it literally LikeI mean, just this week a flown
I've worked, I just did.It was multiple cases because it was multiple

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children within a daycare. Oh ohmy gosh. I just imagine like taking
dropping your kids off to taycare,not even at school, just kids and
you know, all of a suddenthey're coming home and you know, saying
somebody was like touching them and likedoing this an approch with them, and

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I mean it literally happens everywhere inthe places where as a parent you expect
you're going to trust that your kidsare going to be safe there. And
I think a lot of people havejust been so accustomed to having blow the
like you know, the childs havetrack rings off, and then as well

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as like people coming into these placesof where kids supposed to be protected and
you know, they're hiring people thatwant to abuse children, and it's I
don't think that's on purpose. Doyou think they're hiring these people on purpose?
Yeah, I think, you know, to be more inclusive to trans

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rights and you know, all ofthat stuff, which is great, you
know, nothing against being trans.But however, you know there are people
that do abuse that and they door their advantage and it's it's at the
you know, loss of kids innocence. And that's just on the unfortunate side

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effect of you know, normalizing stufflike that. And it sounds able to
say, but it's just the realityof what's happening, you know, cause
and effect, the image you know, eventually they'll take from mind exactly and
that's what you know, that's myhuge argument when people are like, you
know, message me and like howcan you I'm like, it's not the

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community itself. Like people who aretransitioning I personally know they do. They're
very private. They don't want anybodyto necessarily know you would you walk into
bathroom you don't know. You know, normal transgenders don't make it a big
deal. They've never had they neveryou know what I'm saying. It's those
that it's it's those that are whowant to pray and the innocent. You

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know, we're in a bathroom,that's what you're vulnerable in there. Yeah,
but we're going to go to breakso we will touch back on this
because this this has me going it'sthe same FBI under JA that tried to
blamail Martin Luther King Junior to commitsuicide that is now targeting its other political
opponents. And so this isn't apartisan point. I just think it's important

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to see that. But I thinkthat part of my view is bureaucracy itself
is part of the problem. Soat the local level, you've got local
police and you've got local prosecutors.You don't have a giant investigative bureaucracy sitting
in between. At the federal level, you have US Marshals, which,
as best I can tell, hasnot been at all politicized agency. They
just carry out their responsibilities. Andthen you've got a Department of Justice,

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which I think has some problems ofits own, but that's the prosecutor.
You don't need this giant bureaucracy sittingin between. And you know what the
irony is, It's still the jEdgar Hoover Building of the FBI. It's
literally the name of the building thatpeople report into every day. Check out
our interview with Republican presidential candidate ofVEC Ramaswami, episode three fifty eight of
The Outlaws Radio show Find us whereveryou get your podcast. That's out Laws,

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The Outlaws Radio Show, NFCB podcast. This part of the show,
I just wanted to touch base onlocal news that has been happening in my
town and the greater Cleveland area.It's insane, it's crazy. It needs
to be talked about and needs tobe screamed from the rooftops. And with
that, let's roll into it.Okay, we are back with Jesse and

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we were just talking about the transgenderand the whole thing about children trafficking and
whatnot. But during break we weretalking about all sorts of things and censorship
came up. So I wanted tojust kind of touch base with that.
You have been censored by the bigtech mafia as well, so wanting your
voice to be out here, Iwant people to know who and what you

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do and the incredible things that youhave done in your life so far so
far, because you gotta be more. So yeah, it banned on Instagram.
I had posted about so, umthere's a guy like not that one

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ago. I can't remember his nameoff the top of my head, um,
but he was actually caught wandering moneyfor the election and basically lobbying for
Biden essentially, and he had likethis like startup, like tech company or
something like that. Maybe it waslike sales, I can't remember. I

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think, yeah, yeah, forhis name is like Freedman or something.
Um, but he actually was likeessentially taking over for Jeffrey Epstein. And
so I as soon as I talkedabout that, UM, I had actually
like posted on TikTok like my videoexplaining it, and it got taken down,

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and then I posted it to Instagram, um, and you know,
talking about how they took my videodown immediately and then they just instantly locked
me out of my Instagram and basicallya band I can't make any other Instagram
basically it told me they'll delete it. Essentially, that is insane. That

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is that if that's not telling theworld something, I don't know what else
is. Because they won't let youhave an account period, They probably are
like, look do you have Ohno, she's not getting out. Nope,
she knows too uh I girl,that is crazy. I think like

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thirty two thousand followers, Like thatwas pretty up there. Yeah. Yeah,
Like the more that you have,like the more likely they are to
ban your account, um, justbecause they know that you'll probably as soon
as you make a new one,get the people the audience back and the
less people that hear you the better. So okay, so they were like,

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we're not getting her out, youknow, the censorship know she knows
too much. She knows too much. That is just that's extraordinary, you
know. And you said you hadthirty two thousand followers and then um yeah,
they essentially, like I think likeonce you get to you know,
a certain threshold with like followers andaudience, they're like more likely to just

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completely ban you from the platform.But if you have like a lower following,
I feel like they tend to belike a little more lenient because they're
like, you know, like who'sgoing to see your stuff? You know,
it's like a large following. They'relike, oh, okay, like
people might share this, this canreach more people as a potential, So
let's just cut them off completely beforepeople start listening to them, right,

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start offing you essentially? Yeah,uh yeah, exactly. And I mean
I don't have as much knowledge asyou do into in the fields that you
have knowledge, and but I dosay some things and they get mad.
I haven't got completely banned yet,knock on wood, um. But you

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know, it's it's just a weirdtime we live. And we live in
such a weird time where we're tryingto figure out like the laws of the
internet. I saw a meme itwas like I'm sick of living through all
these life experiences or something and onlybeing thirty or something like that, you
know, and because we have livedthrough so much stuff and we're in the

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for the generation that grew up onyou know, internet and cell phones and
what it means and I you know, is it do you in your opinion,
in your your do you think it'son purpose all this control or do
you think it's you know, they'rejust no. No, I think they

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know exactly what they're doing. Iliterally think we're essentially and like the tournament
show, Um, I think thatthey could certain things for us to view,
and you know, based off ofthat reaction, UM, I think
that they monitored that pretty closely.And um, you know, based off

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of that reaction that they get,they kind of like push the envelope more
and more. So it's like funnythat you said, like you know,
people are like like what the heckis like happening? Like I feel like
I'm experiencing like all these mess upthings. But like that's like, you
know, essentially syops, you knowwhere they create these scenarios. Basically they
create problems and then provide the solutionand basically we're all just like guinea pigs.

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And you know, they want tosee who's gonna you know, trust
in them and yeah, you knowrebel. Yeah, yeah, that's like
you know, that's what I sayabout them. The vaccine mandates, it
was you know, you know,it was people were coming. I mean,
like Ali, like should I getit, absolutely not, but again

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at such your personal opinion, butlike it was an experiment too to see
who was following and who wasn't.And you know, and that's why I'm
getting so like weird about the umthe you know, labeling of you know
who she they or you know whatI'm saying, like you're putting yourself in
boxes. They can easily pick thatbox. Pick Oh we want this group,

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you know, it's it's so it'sso scary. Um, I want
to just touch based on one morething and then we're gonna call it a
day. But so you um,the indoctumation of kids in school, UM,
that's something I'm really you know,passionate about. And I've talked to
several other women on this um theirpro homeschooling and whatnot. But with the

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with how it's leaning towards now youknow, it being Pride month and you
know, um, but they're pushingit on our kids. How do you
how do you feel that? Um? Friends of all, why I don't
even consider it Prade month. Imean, technically it's my birthday month,
but happy birthday that I talked about, I mean, but like you know,

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I mean, I don't care whatpeople do with their life, like
live your best life. You know, I'm all for that. However,
you know, as far as likechildren go in that, I think that
none of that should be a topicof discussion with children. I mean,
your frontal love doesn't even fully developto you're twenty five years old. And

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that's coming from somebody that literally studiestrauma and brains. I mean, you
can't even fully grasp what is happeningto you. You don't even know what
an orgasm is. You don't evenknow like a type of feeling that you're
experiencing. You don't you can evengrasp. Your brain can't even understand what
is happening to you. And like, I kind of go, why would

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we have this conversation with kids whenlike they literally can't even grasp why to
post the equal two and why itis supposed to equal four and then when
you add two and four together thatactually makes six. They can't even comprehend
that, So how would they?And oh, I'm a boy, even
though I totally agree, you knowgirl parts, Like, I mean,

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yeah, that's just persuading their parentsare like, hey, you know what
you want to wear a dress?Guess what we're gonna call you Sally Sue
now, and you know you havebabies and have a period. It's like
right right, I'm oh, itmakes me so mad and like I don't
I'm like a So I'm really weirdwhen it comes to like health class in

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school. I personally me personally alma. I don't think the school system should
be teaching our kids about their privatesin any sort of way. And I
understand that some parents don't have thatconversation but have it with your doctor,
but don't depend on the school.And so many parents are becoming so comfortable
with the school having so much powerover their kids. Yeah. My friend's

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school handbook it said when kids arein school, we act as parents.
Like that is wrong. And I'vesigned it without reading it this year and
I read it like after I signed, and I was like, I should
not have signed that, you know, because that gives them all, you
know, it gives them the groundsto discipline in the way that they feel.
And I've had conversations with them,and the school system is so weird.

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Now. I think it's always beenweird. I just think people are
awake to it. Yeah, Andif you are, you sharing that that
knowledge with your frontal lobe and sheknows what she's talking about now. So
I really appreciate you coming on andyou're you're such a an intelligent woman and

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so empowering and so inspiring to somany women. I hope, you know,
people start listening to you. Andand you're only on Facebook now right,
Yeah, I mean, I fuck, but I have like this band
where it says like it's like awarning thing, so like if I post
anything, it doesn't you know,Yeah, maybe we'll have you on again.

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You can tell us more. Iwant people to know yeah, the
human encyclopedia. I just want themto know you. I want, um,
you know, I want you toempower so many more people. And
I think it's so unfair that youare being shut out in the way you
are. Um, it's just it'sit's insane. So thank you for coming

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on and sharing your light with me. I'm super fan girling still like I
girl like you because I like soI'm like, heck, yeah, I
will definitely be on there. That'slike, well, I mean so much.
Thank you. Thank you for listeningto Pillow Talk with Ellie Michelle.

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hope she moved you in the waythat she moves me every day. She's
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