October 27, 2025 • 22 mins
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(00:00):
Welcome to Pleasure magic. Before we begin, let's take a
deep breath together in throw our nose and out throw our mouth
and feel your body relaxing, letting go of what doesn't serve
(00:24):
you in this very moment, and open yourself up to the magic
that's going to come your way. Pleasure magic.
My intention for this episode isfor you to be inspired,
(00:44):
empowered to explore your deepest desires with pleasure.
With pleasure for pleasure. Yeah, that's to get an insight
into the magic of pleasure, because I truly believe pleasure
is magic. It is the energy that opens you
(01:09):
up to so much more, to more love, more wealth, more
abundance in all its form. And pleasure is is an energy.
Money is an energy. You know, love is an energy.
They're all energies and I believe the way you receive
(01:30):
pleasure and you are with pleasure, the relationship you
have with pleasure is also the way you receive love, wealth,
money and all of these other things.
And This is why I also always say once you unlock and open a
portal to pleasure, you start tounlock more portals to pleasure.
You're just going to need to start somewhere.
(01:52):
And then it opens up another portal to pleasure.
And before you know there's pleasure all around you because
you embody pleasure, because youhave unlocked, awakened your
pleasure potential, because pleasure is already within us.
It's about awakening it and bringing it back, being
remembered. And then we can deepen it and we
(02:13):
can widen and expand it. The pleasure lit way.
This is exactly what the pleasure Lit way is about.
It's a, it's a path to really embody your pleasure lit energy
so you can attract and fully receive pleasure, love, wealth,
(02:34):
and the life that you truly desire.
And pleasure magic is a practice, a ritual that can
support you in, you know, reaching your desires to make
them come true. And it's the form of
manifestation. You might have also heard the
phrase sex magic or the old method.
(02:58):
I think that's going around on social media so we can talk more
poorly about it. I've recently come across that
as well. And manifestation is a huge part
currently that I am exploring aswell through quantum leaping and
nervous system regulation. And it's so easy to throw out,
manifest, just, you know, say out your desires.
(03:21):
I want to become a millionaire. And then if you just say it out,
it's going to happen. If you just keep going saying
it, there's so much more needed and required to actually get
yourself from A to B to make that quantum leap, to make that
(03:41):
jam, to make your desires come true.
And pleasure magic is one part of the whole process as well,
because there's a lot more that is needed around the actual
pleasure magic practice or ritual 1.
I have learned over the years and I was the same.
(04:01):
I thought, OK, if I just say that, then I desire that.
Or if I just practice pleasure magic, the actual practice, it
will happen and will come true. But what you actually need to do
are a few other steps before youactually get to the pleasure
magic ritual. And that was very interesting.
(04:22):
As soon as I explored that and learned that and applied that
and realized, wow, OK, here we go.
There's a magic. And what I mean by that is I'm
going to run you through that because it's a very important
ritual practice. I am, I love pleasure magic.
(04:44):
It's one of my favorite, favorite rituals.
And if you've read my book, The Pleasure that way, you will know
there is a part in there about pleasure magic.
And I've just talked about pleasure magic again within my
weekly voice notes that I share on Sub stack pleasure Lit and
also within the pleasure lit circle with all the women in the
(05:07):
circle. And I talk about pleasure magic
a lot. And that is because, you know,
there's new moon or today, it's like the 10s of the 10s, which
is a portal day or the 11th of the 11th, or is there's this day
or not that day and it's a portal day.
You can use plethora magic to really harness even more like
(05:30):
the energetics from the universeas well.
And like the 10s of the 10s, forexample, today is a beautiful
manifestation portal as well. There's one and the two and then
the double 10 beautiful and especially this week, which we
just had a super full moon threedays prior to this, which
(05:51):
correlates to what I'm going to talk about the process with the
pleasure magic. With the full moon, you can
release things what is no longerserving you.
And then like the 10th of the 10th, today is a port a day
where you can manifest. So what I am saying here is you
can only manifest your desires when you actually release and
(06:18):
let go of what no longer serves you.
First, you actually need to do arelease ritual before you can do
the manifestation ritual, and the pleasure magic ritual is a
manifestation ritual. What you need to do before that
is the release ritual. And what I'm saying with that is
(06:40):
you need to explore. Maybe you actually start with
journaling first. Journal about to become aware,
self-awareness. What is it actually that you
truly desire? Can you actually write this down
in specific details? What is it what you truly
desire? What is stopping you from
(07:03):
getting there? What's holding you back?
Because this then determines what do you actually need to
release or let go of certain behaviors, certain patterns,
certain beliefs. What's holding you back?
And once you know that, you can start first on the releasing
ritual. You need to let go of that
(07:28):
version of you that is no longerserving you.
If that's all behaviors. If that is a certain pattern, if
that's an old belief, I'm not worthy of it or the fear of
rejection or the the fear of notworthy of being loved.
So if you want to call in, let'ssay, let's get an example.
We want to call in our, our nextpartnership, our the love of our
(07:53):
life. And you have been single for
let's say 10 years and you're going to call in the love of
your life. So you're, you need to explore
what has been stopping you? Why have you been single for the
last 10 years? What's holding you back?
Is it because you put your wallsup because you have the fear of
(08:13):
rejection or the fear of not feeling worthy of love?
You need to then actually let goof that fear first because you
can't call in your love if you're still holding on to that
fear and that belief that you are not worthy of it.
So you need to let go of that first.
Do a releasing ritual. Once you've released that, you
(08:37):
can then work on your manifestation ritual.
And this is what is so beautifulabout this week and why it was
so present. And This is why I also want to
talk about it. First of all, I get so many
questions about pleasure magic all the time, and I usually
refer to it within my Tantra online course.
And I also share a lot more about this within the voice
notes in the circle. And I thought it's also a great
(09:00):
idea to actually get a little bit more of the process within
this episode so I can refer to this episode.
And then if you want to go deeper, you can explore that
within my Tantra Online course. So this is what was so beautiful
this week, the full moon. I did the releasing practice of
releasing my old beliefs, old versions, old patterns were.
(09:24):
Now today, for example, the 10thof the 10th, a couple days
later, he can then do the manifestation ritual, which is
the pleasure magic ritual and pleasure magic ritual.
So manifestation works in different ways as well.
So you can obviously do your vision boards, you can write it
down exactly what you desire andyou can just speak it out loud.
(09:46):
There are also different releasing rituals that you can
do. You can write the fears down and
burn them safely. You can do breath work,
meditation practices. There are different tools on
releasing and they're different tools on manifestation.
And pleasure on magic is 1 ritual that you can do on how to
manifest. And it's one of my favorite
(10:09):
because we're using pleasure, pleasure energy, the pleasure
lit energy while we manifest. And I'm telling you it is so,
so, so, so powerful for a certain reason.
So when you manifest, whichever way you manifest, if that's
through writing vision boards, creating mantras, telling,
speaking them out loud in the mornings and the evenings, you
(10:33):
know, over the day, which is also really great, claiming it,
speaking it out loud, commentingnow here under this episode,
which let's do that. If you have a desire, if you
have a desire, comment down below what it is.
(10:53):
Claim it. Because if you're actually
writing it down, if you're commenting right now, and if you
also then speak it out loud, you're already claiming it.
You're already telling the universe, I'm ready for that.
This is what I desire. This is what I what I want.
So you're claiming it by commenting it.
(11:14):
And your nervous system, your, your brain doesn't know what's
reality and what isn't. And there is the fun part with
that because you can create a different reality and do it so
amazing that everything else hasto start to align with the
reality that you're creating. And yeah, speaking out loud,
(11:37):
writing it down, like commentingdown below, it's already one way
of claiming it, of already working towards it.
But what's also really important, which I love pleasure
magic with, is you can say it asoften as you want, like I am
like a let's go back to that example.
I am desiring the love of my life and I've released the
(11:59):
fears. But now when I think about the
love of my life, so when I now try to manifest it and speak it
out loud and I'm like, I desire the love of my life.
What sensation do you feel in your body when you say that,
when you claim it? Are you like, are these like,
yeah, this is going to happen, this is all good, it's fine.
(12:21):
Or are you like, clenching? Are you like, getting tense?
Are you feeling a certain sensation in your body?
Because that is your body, your nervous system telling you?
I don't think so. What do you mean?
I don't think so? This is amazing.
This is what we want. We don't want the old vision
like this is hurting us. We want that.
It's just your body trying to protect you because this is all
(12:45):
it's known the last 10 years. So now calling in the love of
your life, it's like, oh, I don't know.
We would like, you know, make compromises here.
This would change that change. I like the way it is like just
you can't get hurt. Like it's just your body trying
to protect you even though it does no longer serve you that
(13:08):
way. So when your nervous system and
your body does not feel safe to call it in, well, let's say it's
$1,000,000. You know, I want to become a
millionaire because you've always been broke.
If you've always lived from a state of this is not going to
happen for me because I've always had broke parents.
You know, I've never earned enough, I've never had much
(13:30):
money savings, etcetera. And now you're like, I don't
know what actually I want to manifest $1,000,000 You will
probably have old beliefs of like not feeling worthy of
money, of wealth. You probably have old patterns
and behaviors that make you still keeping stuck in that
identity of, you know, I'm broke.
(13:50):
So you're going to have to release all of that.
But then also, if you're then saying I'm going to become a
millionaire, what does it how does it feel in your body?
Maybe your body's like or actually that that would change
so much like maybe more responsibility.
Does it also mean we are more successful in our business?
We're going to be seeing more, we're going to get more maybe
negative comments that we're going to have to handle.
Maybe this is, I don't think so like let's just keep it the way
(14:15):
it is. That is your body just trying to
protect you, as I said. But we want to train our nervous
system that it feels at ease andsafe to actually receive what we
are calling in and that we also can hold it, calling it.
Maybe you can call in the love of your life or the money, but
(14:35):
then you can't actually hold it because your body doesn't
actually feel safe of like, whoa, now I've got it, but I
actually don't know what to do with it.
So let's quickly spend it or let's quickly get rid of him.
Like I can't actually like love now.
That's actually too much. Like I can't like, you know,
just the start of the relationship.
Sorry, I'm going to have to break it up because you can't
hold it. And that is something where
(14:57):
you're going to have to work on regulating a nervous system.
And there are different tools aswell.
So you can do it like breath work, meditation, automatic
practices to regulate your nervous system every time you do
it, manifest, visualize, embody your desires.
What works beautiful with pleasure magic is if you don't
(15:19):
know pleasure magic or psychosexmagic, the old method is you are
manifesting while you are in pleasure.
So preferably you might want to reach an orgasm, but it doesn't
necessarily have to. You can just bring yourself up
to a peak pleasure where you know, whoa, this is like peak
(15:40):
pleasure for me right now. It doesn't have to like you
don't have to force yourself putpressure on yourself to perform
to get to an orgasm, but just toget to that peak pleasure.
Oh yeah, this is the highest I'mgoing to get today.
So this is my peak pleasure today.
While you are riding those wavesof pleasure, you're starting to
manifest to through visualization.
(16:04):
That's number one, visualizing what will I desire You visualize
it as it is like the way it would have come true already.
Like you, you're there. You have it.
Like if it's $1,000,000, you are, I don't know, in the
kitchen looking on your laptop, seeing on your online bank
account over $1,000,000 in your bank account.
(16:25):
You visualize it, but not just visualize it, you also want to
embody it. And that is really important
also then to show our body how it is safe.
And it makes it just so much more intense and it's creating
that reality, that new reality which your body doesn't know
what's really real and what isn't.
(16:46):
You want to create that new reality as if it's already
happened. It's done.
Like you've just commented, you claimed that you know you want
to be specific there, so you want to use your five senses.
What can you in that moment whenyou are in that kitchen looking
on this laptop on your bank account with $1,000,000 in
there? What can you smell?
What's in the air? What can you smell?
(17:07):
What can you taste? What can you feel and touch?
What do you see? You know, what can you hear?
You want to really get really, really detailed?
Embody it as clear and as specific as you can because the
more specific you can be in thatmoment, the more you are
actually in that moment. And while you're writing those
waves of pleasure, meaning, let's say you want to do it as a
(17:29):
solo practice, self loving practice.
So you create a self loving practice and you're writing
those wives of pleasure or you're having a partnered
pleasure practice and you both want to manifest at the same
time, which can also be very beautiful.
As I said, I've got that in my Tantra course.
And then while you're writing those rifles, pleasure, you
start to manifest, you start to visualize, you start to embody
(17:51):
man and you're like creating this new reality while you're in
pleasure. And when you've reached peak
pleasure, you want to be there, like you want to be in it.
So you've done all the details, gone through all of it, and then
you just want to be in that moment and just stay in that
moment. Just stay in that reality while
you're in that peak pleasure. So while you're in paid
(18:13):
pleasure, you are in that reality and you're enjoying
yourself experiencing pure pleasure, bliss, bliss in this
moment as if it's already come true.
You're in that reality. And why that is so powerful is
(18:34):
because your body, your nervous system learns in this moment
that that desire that you want to try to manifest is
pleasurable. Because you combine 2 powerful
things, the pleasure LED energy,the pleasure energy, the
manifestation, the visualization, the body men.
(18:54):
You combine that telling your nervous system, this is what we
want, this is our reality and itfeels good.
It feels pleasurable. This is why pleasure magic is so
powerful, oh so good. So you are telling your nervous
system. So there's one tool on how you
can show your nervous system. This is safe to receive and this
(19:16):
is safe to hold because we are in pure bliss in this moment.
And when you do this again and again and again and again, your
nervous system, your body, your reality will be combined.
This is pleasurable. This is what we want.
This is good for us and This is why pleasure magic can be so, so
powerful. But again, this only works if
(19:38):
you also do the release practiceat the start and then obviously
you can create all the other manifestation practices and
rituals around it as well. I love to include even more than
that. So it becomes this whole
beautiful bliss of really embodying our pleasure lit
energy so we can attract becausewe become radiant to all these.
(20:02):
Beautiful opportunities to pleasure, to more love, to
wealth. This is exactly what the
Pleasure Lit way is all about. That path of really becoming
radiant and magnetic to more love, more pleasure, more wealth
and the life that we truly desire working with our Pleasure
(20:24):
lit energy. Oh, just like speaking it all
through with you just was raising my energetics here.
And I think it is time for some pleasure magic here for the 10s
of the 10s because I have done really well with my releasing
rituals and I've done all the other rituals as well and
(20:45):
heading over into the pleasure magic.
And I thought I'm going to jump on and just share this with you
because I think it's so super powerful.
And I really hope this has inspired and empowered you to
explore this as one way of manifestation.
You know what, this actually inspired me so much and knowing
that you were so interested in pleasure magic and I would love
(21:09):
for you to experience the magic that is connected with our
pleasure energy, the Pleasurely energy magic.
I will be offering it separatelyto the Tantra online course.
So if you're just interested in the pleasure magic, it will now
(21:30):
be available for you as well so you can experience the magic of
pleasure. Comment down below what you are
claiming we can also witness here because there's also
something really, really powerful in being witnessed on
our journey. So sharing something, claiming,
saying it out loud, and then obviously there's also another
(21:52):
part in manifestation than action in it.
So you're going to have to release it.
You're going to have to feel safe in your body.
You're going to have to actuallyaction it.
And you know, knowing what you want, what to release and all of
that. I hope this was very inspiring,
empowering, and I would also love to hear from you.
What resonates about this pleasure magic with you?
(22:15):
And I look forward to connectingwith you even further, either
through my voice notes and episodes and freebies on Sub
Stack Pleasure Lit or within thePleasure Lit Circle, which is a
private sacred group for women only, or within one of my
Pleasure Lit online courses, programs and other offerings
(22:39):
that I have available, all at pleasurelit.com.
Share this episode along so we can spread more pleasure into
this world and give it a five star rating while you're at it.
Sending you lots of love and pleasure.
Welcome to Pleasure magic. Before we begin, let's take a
deep breath together in throw our nose and out throw our mouth
and feel your body relaxing, letting go of what doesn't serve
(00:24):
you in this very moment, and open yourself up to the magic
that's going to come your way. Pleasure magic.
My intention for this episode isfor you to be inspired,
(00:44):
empowered to explore your deepest desires with pleasure.
With pleasure for pleasure. Yeah, that's to get an insight
into the magic of pleasure, because I truly believe pleasure
is magic. It is the energy that opens you
(01:09):
up to so much more, to more love, more wealth, more
abundance in all its form. And pleasure is is an energy.
Money is an energy. You know, love is an energy.
They're all energies and I believe the way you receive
(01:30):
pleasure and you are with pleasure, the relationship you
have with pleasure is also the way you receive love, wealth,
money and all of these other things.
And This is why I also always say once you unlock and open a
portal to pleasure, you start tounlock more portals to pleasure.
You're just going to need to start somewhere.
(01:52):
And then it opens up another portal to pleasure.
And before you know there's pleasure all around you because
you embody pleasure, because youhave unlocked, awakened your
pleasure potential, because pleasure is already within us.
It's about awakening it and bringing it back, being
remembered. And then we can deepen it and we
(02:13):
can widen and expand it. The pleasure lit way.
This is exactly what the pleasure Lit way is about.
It's a, it's a path to really embody your pleasure lit energy
so you can attract and fully receive pleasure, love, wealth,
(02:34):
and the life that you truly desire.
And pleasure magic is a practice, a ritual that can
support you in, you know, reaching your desires to make
them come true. And it's the form of
manifestation. You might have also heard the
phrase sex magic or the old method.
(02:58):
I think that's going around on social media so we can talk more
poorly about it. I've recently come across that
as well. And manifestation is a huge part
currently that I am exploring aswell through quantum leaping and
nervous system regulation. And it's so easy to throw out,
manifest, just, you know, say out your desires.
(03:21):
I want to become a millionaire. And then if you just say it out,
it's going to happen. If you just keep going saying
it, there's so much more needed and required to actually get
yourself from A to B to make that quantum leap, to make that
(03:41):
jam, to make your desires come true.
And pleasure magic is one part of the whole process as well,
because there's a lot more that is needed around the actual
pleasure magic practice or ritual 1.
I have learned over the years and I was the same.
(04:01):
I thought, OK, if I just say that, then I desire that.
Or if I just practice pleasure magic, the actual practice, it
will happen and will come true. But what you actually need to do
are a few other steps before youactually get to the pleasure
magic ritual. And that was very interesting.
(04:22):
As soon as I explored that and learned that and applied that
and realized, wow, OK, here we go.
There's a magic. And what I mean by that is I'm
going to run you through that because it's a very important
ritual practice. I am, I love pleasure magic.
(04:44):
It's one of my favorite, favorite rituals.
And if you've read my book, The Pleasure that way, you will know
there is a part in there about pleasure magic.
And I've just talked about pleasure magic again within my
weekly voice notes that I share on Sub stack pleasure Lit and
also within the pleasure lit circle with all the women in the
(05:07):
circle. And I talk about pleasure magic
a lot. And that is because, you know,
there's new moon or today, it's like the 10s of the 10s, which
is a portal day or the 11th of the 11th, or is there's this day
or not that day and it's a portal day.
You can use plethora magic to really harness even more like
(05:30):
the energetics from the universeas well.
And like the 10s of the 10s, forexample, today is a beautiful
manifestation portal as well. There's one and the two and then
the double 10 beautiful and especially this week, which we
just had a super full moon threedays prior to this, which
(05:51):
correlates to what I'm going to talk about the process with the
pleasure magic. With the full moon, you can
release things what is no longerserving you.
And then like the 10th of the 10th, today is a port a day
where you can manifest. So what I am saying here is you
can only manifest your desires when you actually release and
(06:18):
let go of what no longer serves you.
First, you actually need to do arelease ritual before you can do
the manifestation ritual, and the pleasure magic ritual is a
manifestation ritual. What you need to do before that
is the release ritual. And what I'm saying with that is
(06:40):
you need to explore. Maybe you actually start with
journaling first. Journal about to become aware,
self-awareness. What is it actually that you
truly desire? Can you actually write this down
in specific details? What is it what you truly
desire? What is stopping you from
(07:03):
getting there? What's holding you back?
Because this then determines what do you actually need to
release or let go of certain behaviors, certain patterns,
certain beliefs. What's holding you back?
And once you know that, you can start first on the releasing
ritual. You need to let go of that
(07:28):
version of you that is no longerserving you.
If that's all behaviors. If that is a certain pattern, if
that's an old belief, I'm not worthy of it or the fear of
rejection or the the fear of notworthy of being loved.
So if you want to call in, let'ssay, let's get an example.
We want to call in our, our nextpartnership, our the love of our
(07:53):
life. And you have been single for
let's say 10 years and you're going to call in the love of
your life. So you're, you need to explore
what has been stopping you? Why have you been single for the
last 10 years? What's holding you back?
Is it because you put your wallsup because you have the fear of
(08:13):
rejection or the fear of not feeling worthy of love?
You need to then actually let goof that fear first because you
can't call in your love if you're still holding on to that
fear and that belief that you are not worthy of it.
So you need to let go of that first.
Do a releasing ritual. Once you've released that, you
(08:37):
can then work on your manifestation ritual.
And this is what is so beautifulabout this week and why it was
so present. And This is why I also want to
talk about it. First of all, I get so many
questions about pleasure magic all the time, and I usually
refer to it within my Tantra online course.
And I also share a lot more about this within the voice
notes in the circle. And I thought it's also a great
(09:00):
idea to actually get a little bit more of the process within
this episode so I can refer to this episode.
And then if you want to go deeper, you can explore that
within my Tantra Online course. So this is what was so beautiful
this week, the full moon. I did the releasing practice of
releasing my old beliefs, old versions, old patterns were.
(09:24):
Now today, for example, the 10thof the 10th, a couple days
later, he can then do the manifestation ritual, which is
the pleasure magic ritual and pleasure magic ritual.
So manifestation works in different ways as well.
So you can obviously do your vision boards, you can write it
down exactly what you desire andyou can just speak it out loud.
(09:46):
There are also different releasing rituals that you can
do. You can write the fears down and
burn them safely. You can do breath work,
meditation practices. There are different tools on
releasing and they're different tools on manifestation.
And pleasure on magic is 1 ritual that you can do on how to
manifest. And it's one of my favorite
(10:09):
because we're using pleasure, pleasure energy, the pleasure
lit energy while we manifest. And I'm telling you it is so,
so, so, so powerful for a certain reason.
So when you manifest, whichever way you manifest, if that's
through writing vision boards, creating mantras, telling,
speaking them out loud in the mornings and the evenings, you
(10:33):
know, over the day, which is also really great, claiming it,
speaking it out loud, commentingnow here under this episode,
which let's do that. If you have a desire, if you
have a desire, comment down below what it is.
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Claim it. Because if you're actually
writing it down, if you're commenting right now, and if you
also then speak it out loud, you're already claiming it.
You're already telling the universe, I'm ready for that.
This is what I desire. This is what I what I want.
So you're claiming it by commenting it.
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And your nervous system, your, your brain doesn't know what's
reality and what isn't. And there is the fun part with
that because you can create a different reality and do it so
amazing that everything else hasto start to align with the
reality that you're creating. And yeah, speaking out loud,
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writing it down, like commentingdown below, it's already one way
of claiming it, of already working towards it.
But what's also really important, which I love pleasure
magic with, is you can say it asoften as you want, like I am
like a let's go back to that example.
I am desiring the love of my life and I've released the
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fears. But now when I think about the
love of my life, so when I now try to manifest it and speak it
out loud and I'm like, I desire the love of my life.
What sensation do you feel in your body when you say that,
when you claim it? Are you like, are these like,
yeah, this is going to happen, this is all good, it's fine.
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Or are you like, clenching? Are you like, getting tense?
Are you feeling a certain sensation in your body?
Because that is your body, your nervous system telling you?
I don't think so. What do you mean?
I don't think so? This is amazing.
This is what we want. We don't want the old vision
like this is hurting us. We want that.
It's just your body trying to protect you because this is all
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it's known the last 10 years. So now calling in the love of
your life, it's like, oh, I don't know.
We would like, you know, make compromises here.
This would change that change. I like the way it is like just
you can't get hurt. Like it's just your body trying
to protect you even though it does no longer serve you that
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way. So when your nervous system and
your body does not feel safe to call it in, well, let's say it's
$1,000,000. You know, I want to become a
millionaire because you've always been broke.
If you've always lived from a state of this is not going to
happen for me because I've always had broke parents.
You know, I've never earned enough, I've never had much
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money savings, etcetera. And now you're like, I don't
know what actually I want to manifest $1,000,000 You will
probably have old beliefs of like not feeling worthy of
money, of wealth. You probably have old patterns
and behaviors that make you still keeping stuck in that
identity of, you know, I'm broke.
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So you're going to have to release all of that.
But then also, if you're then saying I'm going to become a
millionaire, what does it how does it feel in your body?
Maybe your body's like or actually that that would change
so much like maybe more responsibility.
Does it also mean we are more successful in our business?
We're going to be seeing more, we're going to get more maybe
negative comments that we're going to have to handle.
Maybe this is, I don't think so like let's just keep it the way
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it is. That is your body just trying to
protect you, as I said. But we want to train our nervous
system that it feels at ease andsafe to actually receive what we
are calling in and that we also can hold it, calling it.
Maybe you can call in the love of your life or the money, but
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then you can't actually hold it because your body doesn't
actually feel safe of like, whoa, now I've got it, but I
actually don't know what to do with it.
So let's quickly spend it or let's quickly get rid of him.
Like I can't actually like love now.
That's actually too much. Like I can't like, you know,
just the start of the relationship.
Sorry, I'm going to have to break it up because you can't
hold it. And that is something where
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you're going to have to work on regulating a nervous system.
And there are different tools aswell.
So you can do it like breath work, meditation, automatic
practices to regulate your nervous system every time you do
it, manifest, visualize, embody your desires.
What works beautiful with pleasure magic is if you don't
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know pleasure magic or psychosexmagic, the old method is you are
manifesting while you are in pleasure.
So preferably you might want to reach an orgasm, but it doesn't
necessarily have to. You can just bring yourself up
to a peak pleasure where you know, whoa, this is like peak
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pleasure for me right now. It doesn't have to like you
don't have to force yourself putpressure on yourself to perform
to get to an orgasm, but just toget to that peak pleasure.
Oh yeah, this is the highest I'mgoing to get today.
So this is my peak pleasure today.
While you are riding those wavesof pleasure, you're starting to
manifest to through visualization.
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That's number one, visualizing what will I desire You visualize
it as it is like the way it would have come true already.
Like you, you're there. You have it.
Like if it's $1,000,000, you are, I don't know, in the
kitchen looking on your laptop, seeing on your online bank
account over $1,000,000 in your bank account.
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You visualize it, but not just visualize it, you also want to
embody it. And that is really important
also then to show our body how it is safe.
And it makes it just so much more intense and it's creating
that reality, that new reality which your body doesn't know
what's really real and what isn't.
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You want to create that new reality as if it's already
happened. It's done.
Like you've just commented, you claimed that you know you want
to be specific there, so you want to use your five senses.
What can you in that moment whenyou are in that kitchen looking
on this laptop on your bank account with $1,000,000 in
there? What can you smell?
What's in the air? What can you smell?
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What can you taste? What can you feel and touch?
What do you see? You know, what can you hear?
You want to really get really, really detailed?
Embody it as clear and as specific as you can because the
more specific you can be in thatmoment, the more you are
actually in that moment. And while you're writing those
waves of pleasure, meaning, let's say you want to do it as a
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solo practice, self loving practice.
So you create a self loving practice and you're writing
those wives of pleasure or you're having a partnered
pleasure practice and you both want to manifest at the same
time, which can also be very beautiful.
As I said, I've got that in my Tantra course.
And then while you're writing those rifles, pleasure, you
start to manifest, you start to visualize, you start to embody
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man and you're like creating this new reality while you're in
pleasure. And when you've reached peak
pleasure, you want to be there, like you want to be in it.
So you've done all the details, gone through all of it, and then
you just want to be in that moment and just stay in that
moment. Just stay in that reality while
you're in that peak pleasure. So while you're in paid
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pleasure, you are in that reality and you're enjoying
yourself experiencing pure pleasure, bliss, bliss in this
moment as if it's already come true.
You're in that reality. And why that is so powerful is
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because your body, your nervous system learns in this moment
that that desire that you want to try to manifest is
pleasurable. Because you combine 2 powerful
things, the pleasure LED energy,the pleasure energy, the
manifestation, the visualization, the body men.
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You combine that telling your nervous system, this is what we
want, this is our reality and itfeels good.
It feels pleasurable. This is why pleasure magic is so
powerful, oh so good. So you are telling your nervous
system. So there's one tool on how you
can show your nervous system. This is safe to receive and this
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is safe to hold because we are in pure bliss in this moment.
And when you do this again and again and again and again, your
nervous system, your body, your reality will be combined.
This is pleasurable. This is what we want.
This is good for us and This is why pleasure magic can be so, so
powerful. But again, this only works if
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you also do the release practiceat the start and then obviously
you can create all the other manifestation practices and
rituals around it as well. I love to include even more than
that. So it becomes this whole
beautiful bliss of really embodying our pleasure lit
energy so we can attract becausewe become radiant to all these.
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Beautiful opportunities to pleasure, to more love, to
wealth. This is exactly what the
Pleasure Lit way is all about. That path of really becoming
radiant and magnetic to more love, more pleasure, more wealth
and the life that we truly desire working with our Pleasure
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lit energy. Oh, just like speaking it all
through with you just was raising my energetics here.
And I think it is time for some pleasure magic here for the 10s
of the 10s because I have done really well with my releasing
rituals and I've done all the other rituals as well and
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heading over into the pleasure magic.
And I thought I'm going to jump on and just share this with you
because I think it's so super powerful.
And I really hope this has inspired and empowered you to
explore this as one way of manifestation.
You know what, this actually inspired me so much and knowing
that you were so interested in pleasure magic and I would love
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for you to experience the magic that is connected with our
pleasure energy, the Pleasurely energy magic.
I will be offering it separatelyto the Tantra online course.
So if you're just interested in the pleasure magic, it will now
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be available for you as well so you can experience the magic of
pleasure. Comment down below what you are
claiming we can also witness here because there's also
something really, really powerful in being witnessed on
our journey. So sharing something, claiming,
saying it out loud, and then obviously there's also another
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part in manifestation than action in it.
So you're going to have to release it.
You're going to have to feel safe in your body.
You're going to have to actuallyaction it.
And you know, knowing what you want, what to release and all of
that. I hope this was very inspiring,
empowering, and I would also love to hear from you.
What resonates about this pleasure magic with you?
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And I look forward to connectingwith you even further, either
through my voice notes and episodes and freebies on Sub
Stack Pleasure Lit or within thePleasure Lit Circle, which is a
private sacred group for women only, or within one of my
Pleasure Lit online courses, programs and other offerings
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that I have available, all at pleasurelit.com.
Share this episode along so we can spread more pleasure into
this world and give it a five star rating while you're at it.
Sending you lots of love and pleasure.
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