What women really want from men - Dating Tips

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Episode Transcript

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Welcome to the Pleasure Lit Podcast, the podcast that will
inspire and empower you on your pleasure journey.
How can I become a better lover?How can I help her to ease into

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the experience, open herself up,surrender and fully receive?
I get those questions quite a lot from men reaching out for my
support. So I thought I'm going to give
you a few tips. And if that's been one of your
question as well, well, you are luck because I'm going to give

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you a few tips to tell you what women really want and how you
can become the lover she will bethinking about for a very, very
long time or basically she will never forget.
And here's what's really important.
Number one is they are actually craving to feel safe in your

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presence. You are required to provide a
safe container for them. Without safety, without them
feeling safe in your presence, they won't surrender.
They won't let go, they won't trust you.
They want to trust you. They want to feel safe in your
presence so they can actually really surrender to the

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experience. How do you create that safety
and that trust? Which leads me to my second
point. Women desire to feel seen and
hurt. So giving them attention, asking
the right questions, asking questions about their life,
really being vulnerable with each other, sharing something

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vulnerable about each other so they can start building that
trust with you. Giving them compliments.
And I'm not speaking about you've got beautiful eyes or you
look amazing today, but something that goes beyond the
body appearance. Compliment them on something
that makes them really truly seen and heard.

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Something that's unique and special about them because
they've got beautiful eyes or you look amazing in this dress
today. That could be something that you
could tell to anyone, but what is it that really stands out
from them? What's uniquely about them?
Maybe they are, maybe they've got a certain skill they can
bake really well, so a compliment them on their bakery

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skills, whatever that is. So something that's really
specific and unique to them thatmakes them feel hurt and seen.
Wow, he's seeing me. He knows what I'm doing when I'm
I'm passionate about and he's highlighting that.
He's complimenting me on that. Wow, that feels special.
Which then also leads me to tip #3 when you want to create a

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safe container, they want to feel hurt and seen.
They want to feel connected. So building the connection,
meaning eye gazing, the intentional touch when it's
safer to go that step, but really looking into each other's
eyes and providing that deeper connection through sharing

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something vulnerable to complementing, to providing a
safe container. It all builds up on each other,
providing this really beautiful space for her to really
surrender to the experiencing, opening herself up.
And then those are all portals to pleasure.

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You can go into much more depth and show how what an amazing
pleasure lit lover you are. I am pleasure lit Patricia.
Pleasure lit is your inner flamewhere embodied self love, erotic
play and conscious connections awaken your most magnetic,

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confident pleasure self. With over 20 certifications and
over 350 pleasure tools and practices explored, I guide you
on the pleasure LED way, blending real experiences with
deep education and embodied transformation.

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