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Speaker 1 (00:17):
Welcome to Radiant Spirits Rising with your host, Heather Lena.
Heather explores how natural healing can support your physical, emotional,
and spiritual wellbeing. She guides you on how to harness
your inner power to overcome challenges, improve overall health, and
strengthen your connection to your true self. Through grounding techniques,
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holistic remedies, and the transformative practice of energy balance. Heather
offers practical insights to help you create harmony in mind,
body and spirit. So now please welcome the host of
Radiant Spirits Rising, Heather Lina.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Hey, everybody, it's Heather Lena. How are you doing today.
I'm excited to be here. We are covering a topic
that is near and dear to my heart because it
is something that I have been working on since I
started my healing journey, and that is the power of words.
So last week we talked a little bit about Messages
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from Across the Bell. If you missed that episode, go
watch it. It's a great episode where you get messages
from across the Bell, messages that I feel like there
were multiple people that needed and so this message now
continues on with that because the team, my team and
some of the other spirits that have come up during
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the week are actually wanting us to address self worth
in the way that we talk to ourselves. So we
have a tendency. We have a tendency to be nice
and kind and talk to people and hold back negative
things that we say to other people, but we don't
hold back saying negative things about ourselves. And one of
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the first steps in healing and transforming is to address
our behavior that is causing us harm. So this is
going to be an exciting topic for me today because
I still work on this and I'm going to tell
you I'm going to cover some stuff that I'm still
struggling with. But before we start. Last week in my podcast,
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I started a intention setting before we actually get into
the topic, and I want to continue that today. So
I am going to walk you guys through a quick
intention setting. I have already done this for myself, so
you'll just see me walking through it because I've already
done it for myself. So I want everybody to close
their eyes, take a deep breath in, deep breath out,
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a deep breath in, and a deep breath out, one
more deep breath in, one more deep breath out, and
then I want you to focus again on the heart space,
your heart space. Look at your heart area, and I
want you to picture it lighting up. Most of the
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time it's pink, but I'm hearing I'm hearing that there
may be other colors that people see, or you may
not see color at all. It may just look brighter.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Right.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Not everybody sees in color. I can see in color.
Most mine is black and white. But when I get flashes,
I actually do see color. So look at that heart space,
get it glowing. And while that heart space is glowing,
I'm going to download everyone who is accepting with a knowledge,
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feeling and knowing of what it's like to speak kindly
to yourself, to speak positively to yourself, to have gratitude
for yourself, and to be open to learning new ways
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to treat yourself kindly and with love. And I'm going
to download that in to you, guys. And then while
you're continuing to look at that heart space, I want
you to focus that energy and have it go into
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your spinal area and go up through the upper chakras
and down through the lower chakras and feel that energy
and that download to go into those chakras, feel that
energy opening them up opening up those chakras. The open
talkers are good. That's what we need. And then once
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you have gotten them through all of your chakras, take
another deep breath in and now, and then when you're ready,
go ahead and open up your eyes. Alrighty, give it
just a minute now. As we start this, I was
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going through because you know, I'm on Bold Brave TV,
and so I get notifications from Bold Brave TV on
Facebook about shows that they're having. And there is another
host that was talking about the same type of thing
this week, which was positive words and positive speaking. Now,
while I didn't watch their show, that just told me
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that this is obviously a message full body chills that
is needing to be brought out. Right. Is the first
step in being kind and having unconditional love for others
is really having love and unconditional love for ourselves. If
we are able to love ourselves and have unconditional love
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and treat ourselves nicely, then it's going to be a
struggle to treat others nicely. And that is a message
that I just heard. So we're going to go with that. Now,
this isn't just about positive thinking spelling. It's called spelling
because words have power. It's amazing how much power a
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word can have. Right, the word love is a huge
and powerful world word. On the positive side, hate, which
is a word we're going to cover a little later on,
is a hugely powerful word for hurting people. And so
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words have power. Now, diferent words have different power, and
words can have multiple powers because based on how it
is used by the person towards themselves or the other,
or a person that they're talking to. Right, But words
will bring into your life what you are putting out.
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So every word that you speak carries energy. If you
picture taking a word as a rock and you're standing
by a river and you skim that rock into the river, which,
by the way, I love to do, it sends as
it skips if you can skip it right, or even
if you can't skip it right, and even if it
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just falls in, it's going to send ripples where it fell.
Words do the same thing. Every time you say a word,
a word falls and it sends out a ripple. It
sends a ripple into the universe. It sends a ripple
into this matrix that we're in. And because that the
power of that word is felt by people that are
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all around but what happens is really, as you're saying
these words, they're going out, rippling into the universe, and
then they're coming back to you. So the words that
you put out are the words that you're going to
get back. And people don't think about it that way,
but really, if your life is not going the way
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you want it to go, then stop and look at
what it is you're saying. What is it that you
are literally telling the universe, Because what you're sending out
there is what you're getting back. And if you're sending
out hurtful or derogatory things for yourself, you're going to
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get hurtful and derogatory things back because the universe is literal.
The universe doesn't understand jokes. The universe is absolutely literal.
So if you say nothing good ever happens to me,
clear council, delete that, and you're gonna hear me say
clear counsel, delete a lot while I'm talking, and then
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at the end of this, I'm going to tell you
why I'm doing that. But if you say that, the
universe is going to take that as oh okay, look
at that. They don't want anything good to happen to them,
and the universe is going to send that energy back.
If you say I am unlucky, clear canceli lead that
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the universe is going to send that energy back to you,
and you're not going to be lucky. If you send
out into the universe I am abundant, the universe is
going to send that back. You will be abundant because
that is your mind shift. That is what the way
you look at life. You are looking at the fact
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that you are abundant, that you are eligible, that you
are worthy, that you are deserving, that you know that
you are eligible, worthy, and deserving of that abundance, so
that it'll come back to you. So how is it exactly?
What is it exactly that you are putting out into
the universe? For me, I struggle with money, and this
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is actually a belief system that we have been digging
on for me and working through. Because my belief systems
and your belief systems can actually affect how you view things,
how you view yourself, and how you send words out
into the universe. Your actions also mimic words, right, So
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if you are actioning positivity, you're gonna get positivity back.
If you are actioning negativity, you're getting negativity back. Subconsciously,
my belief system was that money is death. And that
is because in past lives I have been killed over money.
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So for me, money is death. So what did that mean?
That means I have to hide it, That means I
have to spend it right away. That means I every
time I have money, I need to watch my back.
And these are all things that subconsciously, words that I
was sending out or feelings of words that I was
sending out into the universe that was causing me to
not get stuff back. So it's important that we really
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really really look at what is it we're sending out.
What is the energy that we are sending out. What
are the words that we're sending out. Let's say you
say to somebody, you know, I have the worst luck
in the world. Clear council to lead that you're going
to have the worst luck in the world, because the
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universe hears that and it just is going to send
that back to you. So stop and think for a minute.
What is a phrase or something that you say that
could be affecting you and the universe. Think about it.
If you're on send me a comment. If you're on
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where you can send me a comment, Send me a comment.
Tell me what is a phrase that you use or
that you view other you've seen other people use that
could be sending out negative vibes and having it comeback.
Really think about that, because as we dig deep down
into us and we start looking at our shadow side, right,
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we have to start looking at all of this and
taking it back out, taking it back out. And I
cannot tell you ever since I've shifted from using certain words,
it has totally changed my energy and my outcome. And
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when I really stop thinking negatively, because the universe picks
up your negative words as well, right, whether they're spoken
or unspoken. Remember, it doesn't have to be spoken for
the universe to pick it up. It can pick it
up just by vibration. So when you're thinking negatively, it's
going to lower your vibration. When you are talking negatively,
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it's going to lower your vibration. Right, every word that
you speak has energy. It doesn't God source creator, Universe
does not distinguish positive or negative. So how many times
do we get on Facebook or we get on social
media and we are like, hmm, that's a funny joke
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and that fits me. I'm going to post that or
I make a joke about myself. Right. People, When I
was growing up, I was extremely thin, I mean extremely thin, right,
and I would have people tell me all the time,
you're so skinny. If you stuck out your tongue and
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turned sideways, you would look like a zipper. And while
those words were extremely hurtful to me, right, they affected
my self esteem, they affected my self worth, but they
also set the message into the universe that skinny is
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not good for me, that being skinny or being thin
was a problem, which it's not a problem, right. My
weight at the time was not a problem. But because
I didn't fit the norm, and because I was so skinny,
everybody figured that they could just take make jokes at
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me and that I had to accept it. And number one,
the joke man never made any sense to me at all,
because literally, I'm like, even if I turned sideways and
stuck out my tongue, I wouldn't look like a zipper, right,
because I don't have that. But it was so hurtful
for me that I started believing that, So they're words
actually affected me and my self esteem and my self worth.
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So I've had to go back in and work through
that and be like what I look like, my body,
my weight, my avatar, whatever you want to call it,
it's mine. As long as I'm comfortable with it, It's
nobody else's business. But the universe would pick up on
the fact that I was uncomfortable about that and would
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send it back to me because I internalized it, and
I would send it back to me. So take a
moment again and think about what is something that people
say to you that is being sent out into the
universe and is being accepted as the universe and sent
back to you. Is it hurtful? If it's hurtful, and
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if you've accepted that as being hurtful, and then we
need to work on that, then that is that that
is something we need to work on. We need to
work on the belief system that you have to accept
other people's opinions of you as fact, right, because you don't.
But this is a trauma. So words carry trauma. Who
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I just heard that in my head, So I'm going
to throw that out. Words carry trauma with them, especially
negative words. So when you say negative words towards yourself
or towards other you're creating trauma. Interesting that was not
on my notes but guess what words create traumas. So
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if you have trauma, come see me. Let's work through that,
all right. So, because the universe does not accept jokes,
we have to be cognizant of what we are saying,
of what we are doing, and how our actions are.
Are our actions actually speaking the same words that we're
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not saying, because it'll pick up on that as well.
So think about it. We're going to take a quick break,
but think about it. If you're online and can send
me a comment, send me a comment, or call in.
Call in and tell me about a word or a
statement or something that has been hurtful or traumatic to
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you that so that we can discuss it and we'll
be back in just a minute.
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Speaker 2 (19:28):
Welcome back to Heatherleina Radiant Spirits Rising. Today we're talking
about the power of words, and so before the break
we were talking about how the universe is literal and
does not realize jokes, but there are I want to
go before we go any further, I want to talk
about a couple of words that we really need to
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stay away from. Okay, the first one is sorry. That
word is absolutely misused all the time. And I'm What
I mean by misused is number one. When you tell
someone you're sorry, you are cutting your energy in half.
Every time you say I'm sorry to someone, you are
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cutting your energy in half. Now, there are other words
that can be used in place of I'm sorry. So
if someone has had a loved one pass away, instead
of saying I'm sorry for your loss. You can say
I am sad for your loss, condolences on your loss, right,
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but you don't have to tell them that you are sorry.
Another way we use sorry is i'm sorry you've had
a bad experience. I apologize that you've had a bad experience.
If you actually caused that, did you actually cause them
to have a bad experience, if you weren't even involved
in it, then there's no reason for you to apologize
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for anything. So I'm going to give you an example
of that. I'm following on social media one day and
there is a person who posts on Facebook about how
upset they are about a concert that they attended and
how bad the concert was because it got canceled right
at the last minute. And as I sat there and
watched all of these comments, right every one of them
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was like, I'm sorry you had such a bad time.
I'm sorry that this person caused you to have such
a bad day. And I sat back and I thought,
why are they sorry because they didn't do it, they're
not even involved in this. Right, they can say to them, hey,
I'm sad you had such a horrible time, and thanks
for the heads up to know that I probably don't
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want to pay to go see this person knowing what
they did to you. Right, Hey, I appreciate your feedback.
You know, it's too bad that that happened to you.
You know, karma is whatever. But all of these people,
I am so sorry that happened to you. And all
these people are doing is cutting their enner. You just
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cut your energy when you tell people you're sorry. So
the first step in talking nice to yourself and building
your self worth and self love is to stop telling
people you're sorry, especially for things that you haven't even
done or been involved in. You know, word like apologize,
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go for it. Change your phraseology. That's what this is
going to be about today, is changing your phraseology. But
get away from using the word sorry. It is beat up,
It is misused, and it just takes your energy. Right.
Another word I stay away from is fine. How many
times are we not fine? But we use that word
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as a way to tell to pretend that we are viewing. Now.
My getting away from the word fine came when I
watched the movie The Italian Job, And in that movie,
there's a key for an to keep her The old
man Sutherland whatever his name is, Mark Wahlberg they're getting
ready to do a heist, and the old man walks
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up to him and goes, are you how are you doing?
And the kid goes, I'm fine, and the guy goes,
you know what that stands for? Right? And the kid goes, yeah,
freaked out, insecure, neurotic, and emotional. So think about that
when you use the word fine, are you normally freaked out? Insecure, neurotic,
or emotional? I know I am because when I say
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I'm fine, I'm really not fine. I'm just trying to
act like it's not bothering me. So how do I switch?
So I switch from I'm fine to yeah, I'm good,
I'm okay, I'm hanging in there, it's all peachy, life
is good. Anything to get away from that word fine,
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because really, again, I just feel like fine cuts your energy.
The person that you're talking to just takes half your
energy and walks away with it when you use that word,
because really you're not good. But because you're saying you're
using that word, people will just go Yep, she's okay,
whatever and move on with their lives. Stop using that word. Never,
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Never say never, because the universe is going to show
you that it will happen again. So you can say
I don't ever, I'm not ever what however you want,
but do not use the word never. Every time you
use that word never, it's going to come back, I guarantee, right,
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So think about that, Think about those kinds of words.
Think about a word that you could that you use
a lot that you think, yeah, I probably should get
away from that used and try that word and try
something different. So think about that. Now, words can create agreements. Now,
and you may say to yourself they can't, they can't
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form agreements, but they can and they do. So let's
look at if we if we we were having somebody
help us with something, right, and you look at them
and you say to them, I am indebted to you
forever for this clear council delete that you have just
verbally made a contract with them. Do you think you're
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making a contract with them? Probably not. Does the universe
believe that you're creating a contract with them? Probably?
Speaker 1 (25:25):
So.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
Remember the universe is literal, So you don't want it
documented in the Acaciak records that you are internally indebted
to this person, because this is how the generational oasfouse commitments, contracts, curses,
that I work with clients and clear this is how
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a lot of them occur is something is stated in
a life that is documented in the ACACIAK records and
becomes fact. So because of that, I work with a
lot of clients that have this, and I would guarantee
at least ninety nine percent of people that are going
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to watch this, or even ninety nine percent of the
people that aren't currently watching this, have some kind of
oth foul commitment, contract, cursing that was either created by
them verbally or by a past ancestor verbally that has
carried through. So know that it is so important to
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watch your words and what you say. If you tell
somebody I will never forgive you, first of all, you've
used the never word, which I said, don't ever say never.
But you are literally, literally literally writing that down in stone.
And even if you go back and you move forward,
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that that could connect. Those words can create an energy
connection that will stay with you both. It create, it
can create a psychic cook. I heard it creates psychic cooks.
And what a psychic cook is is something that is
said just like that, I'll never forgive you, and it
just hooks into the other person and becomes an energy cord,
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and that becomes an agreement both vowul commitment contract chord
that has to be worked through energetically with healing. Come
to me. I will help you with it, but be
cognizant of that. Do you really want to be connected
to this person forever? No? Right? A lot of times
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this happens in relationships like you know, man, wife, significant other, partner,
one time best friends, whatever it is. But really, what
you want to do is you don't want to create
that connection. You don't want to put that psychic cook in.
What you want to do is you want to cut
those cords and just move forward on. But if you're
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saying these words and it's hooking them in, then you're
going to have you're going to have a problem. So
it's important that you realize what you're saying and think
about it. And if you aren't able to disconnect it
from yourself, if you're not able to work through the
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grief or the anger or the frustration or whatever is
causing that feeling, then come see me. Let's do some work.
Let's do some work on you and start moving your
transition forward. Right, because hanging on into all that, all
of that negativity is going to do nothing but drag
down your vibration, drag down your self worth, drag down
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your self esteem. And you don't need it. You don't
need it. You need to be able to bring in
positive positivity all the time. So let's think about that
for a minute. What words, what phrases or what things
have you said or could you say or do you say?
That could be creating agreements with other people or creating
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contracts with other people. Think about it. What kind of
areas do we need to work on and clear? I
bet you can think of at least one or two, right, Yeah,
I think so too. All right, so let's shift your
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inner dialogue. How do you talk to yourself? Do you
make jokes about yourself? I used to go around and
tell people I was a bibblehead Clark can't delete that.
I don't do that anymore because the universe takes me
literally when I say that, and so do I. And
I'm not a bobblehead. I'm actually very smart. I'm actually
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very talented. I am sitting on this podcast talking to
you guys, and I'm not a bobblehead. But I had
believed in so long that every time I made a mistake,
that I would joke about being a bobblehead to cover
up why I would make a mistake. But I'm not
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so what kind of things do you say to yourself
that could be causing the universe to send it back
negative to you? Things like, ug, I look terrible today?
You know, look terrible today? There can't simpleet that, right.
You may get up and think my hair's a little
rough today, but I'm still looking good, right?
Speaker 1 (30:41):
And what that is?
Speaker 2 (30:42):
What are you doing when you do that? You're actually
sending out to the universe that you love yourself, that
you're beautiful, and you're getting that sent back, and you're
going to be sent out people to come to you
who see you in that light, that positive light, right,
not the people that don't match you. If I as
you raise this, because as you start loving yourself and
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stop using these words of power that are lowering your
vibration and you start raising your vibration, well you're going
to find that there are a lot more people around
you that are appreciative of you, that like you, and
that really honestly are there to help support you and
help move you forward. But you have to get out
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of the mindset of being negative and being negative towards yourself.
Do you feel like you have bad luck? And we
talked about this a little bit, do you feel like
you have bad luck? We'll change that around, change it
around to be I do not have bad luck, or
I have bad luck no, because that's the way universe
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will pick it up, is I have bad luck no.
And when you do that, what you're telling the universe
is that you're open to receiving and open to believing
that you are are a great person, that you're a happy,
vibrant person, and that you deserve and want to have
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a happy life. Yeah, it's so important, guys. I can't
tell you. My shift of how I speak over the
last year has made all the difference in the world
in my life, all the difference in the world for me.
And we are headed into a commercial break, so when
we come back, we're going to continue this discussion. We'll
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Welcome back to Radiance Spirits Rising with Heatherlena. I just
got a funny text from somebody on break that I read,
So I'm kind of giggling a little bit right now,
which is good because we all need humor in our life,
right which, let's talk about laughter. So it's great to
have fun, and it's great to have laughter, but let's
but remember, don't have that laughter based on words that
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were said to others in a joke or whatever, Okay,
because we don't want to take other people down with
our words, just like we don't want to take ourselves
down with words. So if you have it, if you
just climbed on, we are talking about the power of
words today. Don't forget you can call in or you
can send me a comment. I'd be wonderful. It would
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be wonderful to hear from you and let me know
what kind of statements do you say that you think
to yourself after we've talked about this today and gone,
you know, I probably shouldn't say that. Yeah, yeah, I
probably shouldn't say that. And look at how you start
shifting how you look at things. So we're going to
go back to your inner dialogue. So if you say
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to yourself, I have no purpose, clear council, believe that
the universe is going to send you back with no purpose.
Each of us have a purpose in our life. Each
of us have divine timing things that we wanted to
come down and do, or that we came down to
do while we were here. We each have. You can
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call it a goal, you can call it a job,
you can call it a calling. However you view it right.
So don't look at yourself as you have no worth,
no purpose. You do, but we just need to figure
out what that is. And you book a session with me.
We will come figure out what your purpose is. We
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can do a divine timing reading and we can move
you forward. So don't be negative about where you are
at in your growth process. Do not beat yourself up
or use words to beat yourself up about where you
are at in your life. You are where you you
are where you are to move forward. And that literally
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is a message that just came to me, So I'm
putting it out there. Somebody needs that. Somebody needs that message.
Things like I'll never get the job that I want
Clere counsel, delete that right. You can have any job
you want. It is your birthright to have what you want,
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but you have to be willing to change your perspective
and view it, dream it, bring it in with your vibration,
allowing your words to bring it in. So how do
you positively bring you whatever it is that you want.
We're going to cover that in a minute. Watch out
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start your day with gratitude so the best way or
end your day with gratitude because that's what I do.
So if you follow me on my Facebook page at
Heather Lina, it's at Facebook at Healing with Heather Lina,
Healing with Heather Lena. Yeah, that's right, you will see that.
I go in every night and I talk about my
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positive of the day, something positive that happened during the day.
Whether I have to create it, whether I have multiple
things to pick from. No matter what it is, I
always end the day on a positive note. If you
are struggling with talking and being speaking nicely to yourself,
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then start the day with a positive affirmation. Start your
day with something you're grateful for, and by doing that,
you are setting the tone for your entire day. And
if during the day you hit a struggle and you're
starting to feel like you're saying negative words, stop and
once again think of something positive or something to be
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grateful for and put that out. I am grateful that
I am here in this place right now. I am
grateful there is a dairy queen right here and I
can go get ice cream, you know, because ice cream
is one of my favorite things to do when I'm
having a really bad day. That or a cheeseburger. But
you can be grateful that they are there and that
you are accessible to them. And when you do that,
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what you're gonna find is it's gonna shift your energy,
and it's gonna shift your mind mindset, and you're going
to be able to start sending positivity out into the
world again instead of negativity. So always, always, always find
positive in your life. Let's talk about words. We talked
a little bit about words to avoid, and I talked
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about sorry. But let me tell you, I cannot impress
upon you enough the importance of stopping to you, of
stopping the words sorry in your life. I will tell
people I am so sad for you, my heart hurts
for you. That's when I use a lot. Okay, So
if somebody has lost a loved one, I do not
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tell them I'm sorry for their loss. I will tell
them condolences, or I will tell them my heart hurts
for you, because my heart does hurt for them, because
I know what it's like to lose a loved one. Right.
But it's it's setting out a whole different message. It's
a whole different message. I'm not stealing their energy. What
I'm doing is I'm saying to them, I have you
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know what. I'm here for you, I feel for you.
I'm that's my empathic side, without actually giving them my energy.
So you know, people say things like I'm sorry, i'm late,
I'm sorry, i'm asking this question, I'm sorry, I'm annoying you,
I'm sorry for existing. Stop don't be sorry. And if
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you say to me I'm sorry. I'm going to say
to you you have nothing to be sorry for because
you don't. Even if you're late to an appointment, you
have nothing to be sorry for. You can apologize and
be like, you know, hey, I'm really sad that I
was late. It's okay, don't worry about it. There are
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different ways to phrase things where it's not stealing your energy,
so keep that in mind. My ice itching. Don't say
things self insults, I'm so dumb, I'm ugly, I'm fat.
Don't say those things. You wouldn't say them to other people.
Don't say them to yourself because the universe is going
to send that back to you. You can say things
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like I am beautiful, I am unique, I am special.
Things like that. They're positive and as then the more
you say them to yourselves, the better off you're going
to feel, and the more comfortable it becomes. We are
so uncomfortable at giving ourselves kudos and positive vibes because
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we are we are conditioned to not do that. We
are conditioned by society that we have to be nice
to everybody else at the expense of ourselves, and we
have been conditioned to not look at ourselves as unique
and special, and it is so important that we start
putting out into the universe and allowing the universe to
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know that we are good with the way we are,
that we are who we are, and we love how
we are because we're not we're not. We were conditioned
to not do that right because it would be selfish,
and it would be I'm thinking of I'm thinking of
a word. It'll come to me in a minute. But
it's like, it's okay to be selfish. It's okay to
look at yourself in a great light and know that
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you are special and unique and you do not need
to change for anybody except for yourself as you grow
and progress. And that I feel as like a message.
That's a message for me because I still struggle with
that too. But don't be afraid to tell people that
you are good just the way you are. Don't be
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afraid to do that manifestation language. So if you are
trying to manifest something, words you want to stay away from.
I could have that, I should have that, I might
have that. You want to talk as if you have
already received it, because when you talk like that, what
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you're telling the universe is that you've already received it,
and that you're open to receiving it. So if you say,
well I might do that someday, the universe is going
to be like, Okay, they want to do that at
some point, but not right now. Or I will do
that at some point. Will is In other words, you
don't want to use the universe is like okay, well
they don't want it right now, eventually they'll want it.
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You're going to want to use where it's like, I
have I have received this abundance. I am worthy. I
am I am worthy enough to have that job. That's
not the message that I'm receiving, but that's the only
way I can transcribe it at the moment. I have
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received this job. I am capable of this, I am
worthy of this. So you want to talk as if
you have already received whatever it is. I have a
loving relationship, I have a soulmate, I have this, I
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am this. These are the words that you want to use.
I am abundant, I have everything I need. Those are
the words you want to use. Flip the what ifs?
So how many times do we go? Man, what if
I could have a million dollars? But that's not never
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that's just not going to happen. Clear, council, delete that.
Instead of saying, what am I going to do when
I have that million dollars? So I have switched the
what if from what if I possibly maybe might receive
it to I have received it, and what am I
going to do with it? What if everything works better
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than I expect it? Because what happens is I get
this job. What if I don't like it? What if?
What if? What if? What if? Instead of saying, what
if I get there and it is so great, I'm
going to want to stay there for the rest of
my working career. Do you see the shift? Do you
see the difference? Right? It goes from worry to positivity
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and security. And really that's what we want to do.
We want to shift our speaking, shift our power of
our words. Words like hate, hate can create karma. So
I actually google this because you know, if you want
to know something, you just google it. But hate actually
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can the word hate can actually create trauma and it
can actually create karma. Okay, I am a firm believer
in not using the word hate. I very much dislike
I am not a fan of I do not eat seafood.
That is a fact, I do not eat seafood. I
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do not like seafood, Okay, But I really stay away
from words like hate, words that have such a negative
connotation to them that it can create a hook that
I talked about earlier, that can hook into somebody and
then you stay connected to them or they stay connected
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to you. These kinds of words you really have to
stay away from, really work on not using them. Find
a different avenue or a different way for you to
express your feelings. You may really really really dislike something
like I really really really dislike seafood, because I really do.
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I really don't like it at all, and I won't
eat it. But I mean, and it borders on that
h word, right, it borders on that age word. But really,
there are a lot of there are people that I
really really really really really dislike, but I really try
not to use the word hate. And I would I
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would challenge you guys to do the same thing. Find
a different word, find a different word to use, Find
different words to use that are not as harsh and
can create karma or oaths, vous commitments, contracts, curses that
would need to be cleared later. So when we come back,
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we're going to finalize and finish up our talk today
about the power words see you right back.
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Speaker 2 (49:26):
Welcome back to Radian Spirits Rising with Heatherlina. We are
talking about the power of words today and I am
so excited about this topic. This is a topic that
has helped me over the last year really grow and
increase in my healing just based off of watching the
words that I say and the power that they have
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behind them. So if you've been watching this from the beginning,
or if you go back and rewatch it during this,
you're gonna hear me say things, and then you're gonna
hear me say clear, canceled, delete, And we have seven
seconds from the t time that someone says something to
clear it, cancel it, and delete it and get it
out of the universe before it becomes record. All of
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us have an acacic record that is kept on us,
every single one of us in the universe, and so
things that we say, things that we do, become permanent
record in these ACACA files. And so what happens is
if we say, sayin I'm going to go back to
the I'm indebted to you forever. Right, So if we
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tell someone I am indebted to you forever and we
do not clean, clear, and clear, if we don't clear, cancel,
delete that within seven seconds and I'm going to stamp
that done, it becomes permanent records, which is how old files, commitments, contracts,
curses are formed, how they are created. So and this
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can be done whether it's you saying it, or whether
it's somebody else that has said it. So in the
case of me, when somebody would turn to me and say,
you know, if if you're so skinny, if you turn
sideways and stuck at your tongue, you would look like
a zipper. If I'd have said, you know, clear, cancel,
delete that and watched it be deleted, the universe would
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not accept it. I would not accept it, and it
would not be documented in my files. So people will
say things to me all the time that are negative
towards themselves, and I will literally sit there and go clear, counsel,
delete that, and I watch it be deleted, and then
I tell them that is not true. You are not dumb,
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you are not fat, you are not whatever. Right. But
I can go in and I will actually go in
and clear it for them. I will actually clear, cancel,
delete that, and you'll hear me. If you're around me
at all, you'll hear me do it all the time,
because you don't want to send that negativity out into
the universe. But get in the habit of if you
think you're saying, if you say something, you think and
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you think to yourself, yeah, I probably shouldn't have said
that close your eyes and say clear, canceled, delete, and
then say it again. And I always picture a red stamp,
so as I do it, I see a red stamp,
go tunk like this and it goes away. And by
doing that, what happens is you're you're canceling all that
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negativity out. So get in the habit of doing that,
get in the habit of talking nicely or clearing out
what you said. Well, we're all human, so we all
say things in the heat of the moment that we
shouldn't say. Right, if you've said something and it's now
record and you're like, man, I shouldn't have said that,
and that's affecting me, Come see me. We'll clear it.
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That's what energy work is about. That's what healing is about.
Is clearing out quote unquote mistakes which are not mistakes,
but there's lessons and moving forward. It's exciting. We have
the ability to clear all of this out. We have
the ability to remove belief systems that you have that
are causing you to speak negatively to yourself, replacing them
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with positive and positive experiences, positive words, so that you
can move forward. So are you ready to start your
healing process? Let's talk about it. Can I get the
PowerPoint power Point please?
Speaker 1 (53:21):
So.
Speaker 2 (53:22):
Our affirmation card of the week is Today, I Choose
to allow my heart to attract love and kindness. And
I love this card for this because as we are
allowing ourselves to attract love and kindness, it's actually allowing
us to attract it and then put it back out
into the universe in the form of the power of
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the words that we speak.
Speaker 1 (53:46):
Now.
Speaker 2 (53:47):
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these card decks were created for was to bring positivity
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this service is about. This service is about clearing out
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I've got guests coming in and I'm all excited, so
we'll see you next week, same time. Bye.
Speaker 1 (58:34):
This has been Radian Spirits Rising with your host, Heatherlina.
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holistic remedies, and the transformative practice of energy balance. Heather
offers practical insights to help you create harmony in mind,
body and spirit. So now please welcome the host of
Radiant Spirits Rising, Heather Lina.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Hey, everybody, it's Heather Lena. How are you doing today.
I'm excited to be here. We are covering a topic
that is near and dear to my heart because it
is something that I have been working on since I
started my healing journey, and that is the power of words.
So last week we talked a little bit about Messages
(01:31):
from Across the Bell. If you missed that episode, go
watch it. It's a great episode where you get messages
from across the Bell, messages that I feel like there
were multiple people that needed and so this message now
continues on with that because the team, my team and
some of the other spirits that have come up during
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the week are actually wanting us to address self worth
in the way that we talk to ourselves. So we
have a tendency. We have a tendency to be nice
and kind and talk to people and hold back negative
things that we say to other people, but we don't
hold back saying negative things about ourselves. And one of
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the first steps in healing and transforming is to address
our behavior that is causing us harm. So this is
going to be an exciting topic for me today because
I still work on this and I'm going to tell
you I'm going to cover some stuff that I'm still
struggling with. But before we start. Last week in my podcast,
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I started a intention setting before we actually get into
the topic, and I want to continue that today. So
I am going to walk you guys through a quick
intention setting. I have already done this for myself, so
you'll just see me walking through it because I've already
done it for myself. So I want everybody to close
their eyes, take a deep breath in, deep breath out,
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a deep breath in, and a deep breath out, one
more deep breath in, one more deep breath out, and
then I want you to focus again on the heart space,
your heart space. Look at your heart area, and I
want you to picture it lighting up. Most of the
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time it's pink, but I'm hearing I'm hearing that there
may be other colors that people see, or you may
not see color at all. It may just look brighter.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Right.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Not everybody sees in color. I can see in color.
Most mine is black and white. But when I get flashes,
I actually do see color. So look at that heart space,
get it glowing. And while that heart space is glowing,
I'm going to download everyone who is accepting with a knowledge,
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feeling and knowing of what it's like to speak kindly
to yourself, to speak positively to yourself, to have gratitude
for yourself, and to be open to learning new ways
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to treat yourself kindly and with love. And I'm going
to download that in to you, guys. And then while
you're continuing to look at that heart space, I want
you to focus that energy and have it go into
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your spinal area and go up through the upper chakras
and down through the lower chakras and feel that energy
and that download to go into those chakras, feel that
energy opening them up opening up those chakras. The open
talkers are good. That's what we need. And then once
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you have gotten them through all of your chakras, take
another deep breath in and now, and then when you're ready,
go ahead and open up your eyes. Alrighty, give it
just a minute now. As we start this, I was
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going through because you know, I'm on Bold Brave TV,
and so I get notifications from Bold Brave TV on
Facebook about shows that they're having. And there is another
host that was talking about the same type of thing
this week, which was positive words and positive speaking. Now,
while I didn't watch their show, that just told me
(05:50):
that this is obviously a message full body chills that
is needing to be brought out. Right. Is the first
step in being kind and having unconditional love for others
is really having love and unconditional love for ourselves. If
we are able to love ourselves and have unconditional love
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and treat ourselves nicely, then it's going to be a
struggle to treat others nicely. And that is a message
that I just heard. So we're going to go with that. Now,
this isn't just about positive thinking spelling. It's called spelling
because words have power. It's amazing how much power a
(06:34):
word can have. Right, the word love is a huge
and powerful world word. On the positive side, hate, which
is a word we're going to cover a little later on,
is a hugely powerful word for hurting people. And so
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words have power. Now, diferent words have different power, and
words can have multiple powers because based on how it
is used by the person towards themselves or the other,
or a person that they're talking to. Right, But words
will bring into your life what you are putting out.
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So every word that you speak carries energy. If you
picture taking a word as a rock and you're standing
by a river and you skim that rock into the river, which,
by the way, I love to do, it sends as
it skips if you can skip it right, or even
if you can't skip it right, and even if it
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just falls in, it's going to send ripples where it fell.
Words do the same thing. Every time you say a word,
a word falls and it sends out a ripple. It
sends a ripple into the universe. It sends a ripple
into this matrix that we're in. And because that the
power of that word is felt by people that are
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all around but what happens is really, as you're saying
these words, they're going out, rippling into the universe, and
then they're coming back to you. So the words that
you put out are the words that you're going to
get back. And people don't think about it that way,
but really, if your life is not going the way
(08:27):
you want it to go, then stop and look at
what it is you're saying. What is it that you
are literally telling the universe, Because what you're sending out
there is what you're getting back. And if you're sending
out hurtful or derogatory things for yourself, you're going to
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get hurtful and derogatory things back because the universe is literal.
The universe doesn't understand jokes. The universe is absolutely literal.
So if you say nothing good ever happens to me,
clear council, delete that, and you're gonna hear me say
clear counsel, delete a lot while I'm talking, and then
(09:12):
at the end of this, I'm going to tell you
why I'm doing that. But if you say that, the
universe is going to take that as oh okay, look
at that. They don't want anything good to happen to them,
and the universe is going to send that energy back.
If you say I am unlucky, clear canceli lead that
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the universe is going to send that energy back to you,
and you're not going to be lucky. If you send
out into the universe I am abundant, the universe is
going to send that back. You will be abundant because
that is your mind shift. That is what the way
you look at life. You are looking at the fact
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that you are abundant, that you are eligible, that you
are worthy, that you are deserving, that you know that
you are eligible, worthy, and deserving of that abundance, so
that it'll come back to you. So how is it exactly?
What is it exactly that you are putting out into
the universe? For me, I struggle with money, and this
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is actually a belief system that we have been digging
on for me and working through. Because my belief systems
and your belief systems can actually affect how you view things,
how you view yourself, and how you send words out
into the universe. Your actions also mimic words, right, So
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if you are actioning positivity, you're gonna get positivity back.
If you are actioning negativity, you're getting negativity back. Subconsciously,
my belief system was that money is death. And that
is because in past lives I have been killed over money.
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So for me, money is death. So what did that mean?
That means I have to hide it, That means I
have to spend it right away. That means I every
time I have money, I need to watch my back.
And these are all things that subconsciously, words that I
was sending out or feelings of words that I was
sending out into the universe that was causing me to
not get stuff back. So it's important that we really
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really really look at what is it we're sending out.
What is the energy that we are sending out. What
are the words that we're sending out. Let's say you
say to somebody, you know, I have the worst luck
in the world. Clear council to lead that you're going
to have the worst luck in the world, because the
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universe hears that and it just is going to send
that back to you. So stop and think for a minute.
What is a phrase or something that you say that
could be affecting you and the universe. Think about it.
If you're on send me a comment. If you're on
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where you can send me a comment, Send me a comment.
Tell me what is a phrase that you use or
that you view other you've seen other people use that
could be sending out negative vibes and having it comeback.
Really think about that, because as we dig deep down
into us and we start looking at our shadow side, right,
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we have to start looking at all of this and
taking it back out, taking it back out. And I
cannot tell you ever since I've shifted from using certain words,
it has totally changed my energy and my outcome. And
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when I really stop thinking negatively, because the universe picks
up your negative words as well, right, whether they're spoken
or unspoken. Remember, it doesn't have to be spoken for
the universe to pick it up. It can pick it
up just by vibration. So when you're thinking negatively, it's
going to lower your vibration. When you are talking negatively,
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it's going to lower your vibration. Right, every word that
you speak has energy. It doesn't God source creator, Universe
does not distinguish positive or negative. So how many times
do we get on Facebook or we get on social
media and we are like, hmm, that's a funny joke
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and that fits me. I'm going to post that or
I make a joke about myself. Right. People, When I
was growing up, I was extremely thin, I mean extremely thin, right,
and I would have people tell me all the time,
you're so skinny. If you stuck out your tongue and
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turned sideways, you would look like a zipper. And while
those words were extremely hurtful to me, right, they affected
my self esteem, they affected my self worth, but they
also set the message into the universe that skinny is
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not good for me, that being skinny or being thin
was a problem, which it's not a problem, right. My
weight at the time was not a problem. But because
I didn't fit the norm, and because I was so skinny,
everybody figured that they could just take make jokes at
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me and that I had to accept it. And number one,
the joke man never made any sense to me at all,
because literally, I'm like, even if I turned sideways and
stuck out my tongue, I wouldn't look like a zipper, right,
because I don't have that. But it was so hurtful
for me that I started believing that, So they're words
actually affected me and my self esteem and my self worth.
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So I've had to go back in and work through
that and be like what I look like, my body,
my weight, my avatar, whatever you want to call it,
it's mine. As long as I'm comfortable with it, It's
nobody else's business. But the universe would pick up on
the fact that I was uncomfortable about that and would
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send it back to me because I internalized it, and
I would send it back to me. So take a
moment again and think about what is something that people
say to you that is being sent out into the
universe and is being accepted as the universe and sent
back to you. Is it hurtful? If it's hurtful, and
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if you've accepted that as being hurtful, and then we
need to work on that, then that is that that
is something we need to work on. We need to
work on the belief system that you have to accept
other people's opinions of you as fact, right, because you don't.
But this is a trauma. So words carry trauma. Who
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I just heard that in my head, So I'm going
to throw that out. Words carry trauma with them, especially
negative words. So when you say negative words towards yourself
or towards other you're creating trauma. Interesting that was not
on my notes but guess what words create traumas. So
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if you have trauma, come see me. Let's work through that,
all right. So, because the universe does not accept jokes,
we have to be cognizant of what we are saying,
of what we are doing, and how our actions are.
Are our actions actually speaking the same words that we're
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not saying, because it'll pick up on that as well.
So think about it. We're going to take a quick break,
but think about it. If you're online and can send
me a comment, send me a comment, or call in.
Call in and tell me about a word or a
statement or something that has been hurtful or traumatic to
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you that so that we can discuss it and we'll
be back in just a minute.
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Speaker 2 (19:28):
Welcome back to Heatherleina Radiant Spirits Rising. Today we're talking
about the power of words, and so before the break
we were talking about how the universe is literal and
does not realize jokes, but there are I want to
go before we go any further, I want to talk
about a couple of words that we really need to
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stay away from. Okay, the first one is sorry. That
word is absolutely misused all the time. And I'm What
I mean by misused is number one. When you tell
someone you're sorry, you are cutting your energy in half.
Every time you say I'm sorry to someone, you are
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cutting your energy in half. Now, there are other words
that can be used in place of I'm sorry. So
if someone has had a loved one pass away, instead
of saying I'm sorry for your loss. You can say
I am sad for your loss, condolences on your loss, right,
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but you don't have to tell them that you are sorry.
Another way we use sorry is i'm sorry you've had
a bad experience. I apologize that you've had a bad experience.
If you actually caused that, did you actually cause them
to have a bad experience, if you weren't even involved
in it, then there's no reason for you to apologize
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for anything. So I'm going to give you an example
of that. I'm following on social media one day and
there is a person who posts on Facebook about how
upset they are about a concert that they attended and
how bad the concert was because it got canceled right
at the last minute. And as I sat there and
watched all of these comments, right every one of them
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was like, I'm sorry you had such a bad time.
I'm sorry that this person caused you to have such
a bad day. And I sat back and I thought,
why are they sorry because they didn't do it, they're
not even involved in this. Right, they can say to them, hey,
I'm sad you had such a horrible time, and thanks
for the heads up to know that I probably don't
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want to pay to go see this person knowing what
they did to you. Right, Hey, I appreciate your feedback.
You know, it's too bad that that happened to you.
You know, karma is whatever. But all of these people,
I am so sorry that happened to you. And all
these people are doing is cutting their enner. You just
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cut your energy when you tell people you're sorry. So
the first step in talking nice to yourself and building
your self worth and self love is to stop telling
people you're sorry, especially for things that you haven't even
done or been involved in. You know, word like apologize,
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go for it. Change your phraseology. That's what this is
going to be about today, is changing your phraseology. But
get away from using the word sorry. It is beat up,
It is misused, and it just takes your energy. Right.
Another word I stay away from is fine. How many
times are we not fine? But we use that word
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as a way to tell to pretend that we are viewing. Now.
My getting away from the word fine came when I
watched the movie The Italian Job, And in that movie,
there's a key for an to keep her The old
man Sutherland whatever his name is, Mark Wahlberg they're getting
ready to do a heist, and the old man walks
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up to him and goes, are you how are you doing?
And the kid goes, I'm fine, and the guy goes,
you know what that stands for? Right? And the kid goes, yeah,
freaked out, insecure, neurotic, and emotional. So think about that
when you use the word fine, are you normally freaked out? Insecure, neurotic,
or emotional? I know I am because when I say
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I'm fine, I'm really not fine. I'm just trying to
act like it's not bothering me. So how do I switch?
So I switch from I'm fine to yeah, I'm good,
I'm okay, I'm hanging in there, it's all peachy, life
is good. Anything to get away from that word fine,
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because really, again, I just feel like fine cuts your energy.
The person that you're talking to just takes half your
energy and walks away with it when you use that word,
because really you're not good. But because you're saying you're
using that word, people will just go Yep, she's okay,
whatever and move on with their lives. Stop using that word. Never,
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Never say never, because the universe is going to show
you that it will happen again. So you can say
I don't ever, I'm not ever what however you want,
but do not use the word never. Every time you
use that word never, it's going to come back, I guarantee, right,
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So think about that, Think about those kinds of words.
Think about a word that you could that you use
a lot that you think, yeah, I probably should get
away from that used and try that word and try
something different. So think about that. Now, words can create agreements. Now,
and you may say to yourself they can't, they can't
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form agreements, but they can and they do. So let's
look at if we if we we were having somebody
help us with something, right, and you look at them
and you say to them, I am indebted to you
forever for this clear council delete that you have just
verbally made a contract with them. Do you think you're
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making a contract with them? Probably not. Does the universe
believe that you're creating a contract with them? Probably?
Speaker 1 (25:25):
So.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
Remember the universe is literal, So you don't want it
documented in the Acaciak records that you are internally indebted
to this person, because this is how the generational oasfouse commitments, contracts, curses,
that I work with clients and clear this is how
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a lot of them occur is something is stated in
a life that is documented in the ACACIAK records and
becomes fact. So because of that, I work with a
lot of clients that have this, and I would guarantee
at least ninety nine percent of people that are going
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to watch this, or even ninety nine percent of the
people that aren't currently watching this, have some kind of
oth foul commitment, contract, cursing that was either created by
them verbally or by a past ancestor verbally that has
carried through. So know that it is so important to
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watch your words and what you say. If you tell
somebody I will never forgive you, first of all, you've
used the never word, which I said, don't ever say never.
But you are literally, literally literally writing that down in stone.
And even if you go back and you move forward,
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that that could connect. Those words can create an energy
connection that will stay with you both. It create, it
can create a psychic cook. I heard it creates psychic cooks.
And what a psychic cook is is something that is
said just like that, I'll never forgive you, and it
just hooks into the other person and becomes an energy cord,
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and that becomes an agreement both vowul commitment contract chord
that has to be worked through energetically with healing. Come
to me. I will help you with it, but be
cognizant of that. Do you really want to be connected
to this person forever? No? Right? A lot of times
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this happens in relationships like you know, man, wife, significant other, partner,
one time best friends, whatever it is. But really, what
you want to do is you don't want to create
that connection. You don't want to put that psychic cook in.
What you want to do is you want to cut
those cords and just move forward on. But if you're
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saying these words and it's hooking them in, then you're
going to have you're going to have a problem. So
it's important that you realize what you're saying and think
about it. And if you aren't able to disconnect it
from yourself, if you're not able to work through the
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grief or the anger or the frustration or whatever is
causing that feeling, then come see me. Let's do some work.
Let's do some work on you and start moving your
transition forward. Right, because hanging on into all that, all
of that negativity is going to do nothing but drag
down your vibration, drag down your self worth, drag down
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your self esteem. And you don't need it. You don't
need it. You need to be able to bring in
positive positivity all the time. So let's think about that
for a minute. What words, what phrases or what things
have you said or could you say or do you say?
That could be creating agreements with other people or creating
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contracts with other people. Think about it. What kind of
areas do we need to work on and clear? I
bet you can think of at least one or two, right, Yeah,
I think so too. All right, so let's shift your
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inner dialogue. How do you talk to yourself? Do you
make jokes about yourself? I used to go around and
tell people I was a bibblehead Clark can't delete that.
I don't do that anymore because the universe takes me
literally when I say that, and so do I. And
I'm not a bobblehead. I'm actually very smart. I'm actually
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very talented. I am sitting on this podcast talking to
you guys, and I'm not a bobblehead. But I had
believed in so long that every time I made a mistake,
that I would joke about being a bobblehead to cover
up why I would make a mistake. But I'm not
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so what kind of things do you say to yourself
that could be causing the universe to send it back
negative to you? Things like, ug, I look terrible today?
You know, look terrible today? There can't simpleet that, right.
You may get up and think my hair's a little
rough today, but I'm still looking good, right?
Speaker 1 (30:41):
And what that is?
Speaker 2 (30:42):
What are you doing when you do that? You're actually
sending out to the universe that you love yourself, that
you're beautiful, and you're getting that sent back, and you're
going to be sent out people to come to you
who see you in that light, that positive light, right,
not the people that don't match you. If I as
you raise this, because as you start loving yourself and
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stop using these words of power that are lowering your
vibration and you start raising your vibration, well you're going
to find that there are a lot more people around
you that are appreciative of you, that like you, and
that really honestly are there to help support you and
help move you forward. But you have to get out
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of the mindset of being negative and being negative towards yourself.
Do you feel like you have bad luck? And we
talked about this a little bit, do you feel like
you have bad luck? We'll change that around, change it
around to be I do not have bad luck, or
I have bad luck no, because that's the way universe
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will pick it up, is I have bad luck no.
And when you do that, what you're telling the universe
is that you're open to receiving and open to believing
that you are are a great person, that you're a happy,
vibrant person, and that you deserve and want to have
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a happy life. Yeah, it's so important, guys. I can't
tell you. My shift of how I speak over the
last year has made all the difference in the world
in my life, all the difference in the world for me.
And we are headed into a commercial break, so when
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Speaker 2 (34:33):
Welcome back to Radiance Spirits Rising with Heatherlena. I just
got a funny text from somebody on break that I read,
So I'm kind of giggling a little bit right now,
which is good because we all need humor in our life,
right which, let's talk about laughter. So it's great to
have fun, and it's great to have laughter, but let's
but remember, don't have that laughter based on words that
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were said to others in a joke or whatever, Okay,
because we don't want to take other people down with
our words, just like we don't want to take ourselves
down with words. So if you have it, if you
just climbed on, we are talking about the power of
words today. Don't forget you can call in or you
can send me a comment. I'd be wonderful. It would
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be wonderful to hear from you and let me know
what kind of statements do you say that you think
to yourself after we've talked about this today and gone,
you know, I probably shouldn't say that. Yeah, yeah, I
probably shouldn't say that. And look at how you start
shifting how you look at things. So we're going to
go back to your inner dialogue. So if you say
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to yourself, I have no purpose, clear council, believe that
the universe is going to send you back with no purpose.
Each of us have a purpose in our life. Each
of us have divine timing things that we wanted to
come down and do, or that we came down to
do while we were here. We each have. You can
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call it a goal, you can call it a job,
you can call it a calling. However you view it right.
So don't look at yourself as you have no worth,
no purpose. You do, but we just need to figure
out what that is. And you book a session with me.
We will come figure out what your purpose is. We
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can do a divine timing reading and we can move
you forward. So don't be negative about where you are
at in your growth process. Do not beat yourself up
or use words to beat yourself up about where you
are at in your life. You are where you you
are where you are to move forward. And that literally
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is a message that just came to me, So I'm
putting it out there. Somebody needs that. Somebody needs that message.
Things like I'll never get the job that I want
Clere counsel, delete that right. You can have any job
you want. It is your birthright to have what you want,
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but you have to be willing to change your perspective
and view it, dream it, bring it in with your vibration,
allowing your words to bring it in. So how do
you positively bring you whatever it is that you want.
We're going to cover that in a minute. Watch out
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start your day with gratitude so the best way or
end your day with gratitude because that's what I do.
So if you follow me on my Facebook page at
Heather Lina, it's at Facebook at Healing with Heather Lina,
Healing with Heather Lena. Yeah, that's right, you will see that.
I go in every night and I talk about my
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positive of the day, something positive that happened during the day.
Whether I have to create it, whether I have multiple
things to pick from. No matter what it is, I
always end the day on a positive note. If you
are struggling with talking and being speaking nicely to yourself,
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then start the day with a positive affirmation. Start your
day with something you're grateful for, and by doing that,
you are setting the tone for your entire day. And
if during the day you hit a struggle and you're
starting to feel like you're saying negative words, stop and
once again think of something positive or something to be
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grateful for and put that out. I am grateful that
I am here in this place right now. I am
grateful there is a dairy queen right here and I
can go get ice cream, you know, because ice cream
is one of my favorite things to do when I'm
having a really bad day. That or a cheeseburger. But
you can be grateful that they are there and that
you are accessible to them. And when you do that,
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what you're gonna find is it's gonna shift your energy,
and it's gonna shift your mind mindset, and you're going
to be able to start sending positivity out into the
world again instead of negativity. So always, always, always find
positive in your life. Let's talk about words. We talked
a little bit about words to avoid, and I talked
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about sorry. But let me tell you, I cannot impress
upon you enough the importance of stopping to you, of
stopping the words sorry in your life. I will tell
people I am so sad for you, my heart hurts
for you. That's when I use a lot. Okay, So
if somebody has lost a loved one, I do not
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tell them I'm sorry for their loss. I will tell
them condolences, or I will tell them my heart hurts
for you, because my heart does hurt for them, because
I know what it's like to lose a loved one. Right.
But it's it's setting out a whole different message. It's
a whole different message. I'm not stealing their energy. What
I'm doing is I'm saying to them, I have you
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know what. I'm here for you, I feel for you.
I'm that's my empathic side, without actually giving them my energy.
So you know, people say things like I'm sorry, i'm late,
I'm sorry, i'm asking this question, I'm sorry, I'm annoying you,
I'm sorry for existing. Stop don't be sorry. And if
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you say to me I'm sorry. I'm going to say
to you you have nothing to be sorry for because
you don't. Even if you're late to an appointment, you
have nothing to be sorry for. You can apologize and
be like, you know, hey, I'm really sad that I
was late. It's okay, don't worry about it. There are
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different ways to phrase things where it's not stealing your energy,
so keep that in mind. My ice itching. Don't say
things self insults, I'm so dumb, I'm ugly, I'm fat.
Don't say those things. You wouldn't say them to other people.
Don't say them to yourself because the universe is going
to send that back to you. You can say things
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like I am beautiful, I am unique, I am special.
Things like that. They're positive and as then the more
you say them to yourselves, the better off you're going
to feel, and the more comfortable it becomes. We are
so uncomfortable at giving ourselves kudos and positive vibes because
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we are we are conditioned to not do that. We
are conditioned by society that we have to be nice
to everybody else at the expense of ourselves, and we
have been conditioned to not look at ourselves as unique
and special, and it is so important that we start
putting out into the universe and allowing the universe to
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know that we are good with the way we are,
that we are who we are, and we love how
we are because we're not we're not. We were conditioned
to not do that right because it would be selfish,
and it would be I'm thinking of I'm thinking of
a word. It'll come to me in a minute. But
it's like, it's okay to be selfish. It's okay to
look at yourself in a great light and know that
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you are special and unique and you do not need
to change for anybody except for yourself as you grow
and progress. And that I feel as like a message.
That's a message for me because I still struggle with
that too. But don't be afraid to tell people that
you are good just the way you are. Don't be
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afraid to do that manifestation language. So if you are
trying to manifest something, words you want to stay away from.
I could have that, I should have that, I might
have that. You want to talk as if you have
already received it, because when you talk like that, what
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you're telling the universe is that you've already received it,
and that you're open to receiving it. So if you say,
well I might do that someday, the universe is going
to be like, Okay, they want to do that at
some point, but not right now. Or I will do
that at some point. Will is In other words, you
don't want to use the universe is like okay, well
they don't want it right now, eventually they'll want it.
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You're going to want to use where it's like, I
have I have received this abundance. I am worthy. I
am I am worthy enough to have that job. That's
not the message that I'm receiving, but that's the only
way I can transcribe it at the moment. I have
(43:38):
received this job. I am capable of this, I am
worthy of this. So you want to talk as if
you have already received whatever it is. I have a
loving relationship, I have a soulmate, I have this, I
(43:59):
am this. These are the words that you want to use.
I am abundant, I have everything I need. Those are
the words you want to use. Flip the what ifs?
So how many times do we go? Man, what if
I could have a million dollars? But that's not never
(44:21):
that's just not going to happen. Clear, council, delete that.
Instead of saying, what am I going to do when
I have that million dollars? So I have switched the
what if from what if I possibly maybe might receive
it to I have received it, and what am I
going to do with it? What if everything works better
(44:45):
than I expect it? Because what happens is I get
this job. What if I don't like it? What if?
What if? What if? What if? Instead of saying, what
if I get there and it is so great, I'm
going to want to stay there for the rest of
my working career. Do you see the shift? Do you
see the difference? Right? It goes from worry to positivity
(45:07):
and security. And really that's what we want to do.
We want to shift our speaking, shift our power of
our words. Words like hate, hate can create karma. So
I actually google this because you know, if you want
to know something, you just google it. But hate actually
(45:28):
can the word hate can actually create trauma and it
can actually create karma. Okay, I am a firm believer
in not using the word hate. I very much dislike
I am not a fan of I do not eat seafood.
That is a fact, I do not eat seafood. I
(45:49):
do not like seafood, Okay, But I really stay away
from words like hate, words that have such a negative
connotation to them that it can create a hook that
I talked about earlier, that can hook into somebody and
then you stay connected to them or they stay connected
(46:12):
to you. These kinds of words you really have to
stay away from, really work on not using them. Find
a different avenue or a different way for you to
express your feelings. You may really really really dislike something
like I really really really dislike seafood, because I really do.
(46:33):
I really don't like it at all, and I won't
eat it. But I mean, and it borders on that
h word, right, it borders on that age word. But really,
there are a lot of there are people that I
really really really really really dislike, but I really try
not to use the word hate. And I would I
(46:54):
would challenge you guys to do the same thing. Find
a different word, find a different word to use, Find
different words to use that are not as harsh and
can create karma or oaths, vous commitments, contracts, curses that
would need to be cleared later. So when we come back,
(47:17):
we're going to finalize and finish up our talk today
about the power words see you right back.
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Speaker 2 (49:26):
Welcome back to Radian Spirits Rising with Heatherlina. We are
talking about the power of words today and I am
so excited about this topic. This is a topic that
has helped me over the last year really grow and
increase in my healing just based off of watching the
words that I say and the power that they have
(49:47):
behind them. So if you've been watching this from the beginning,
or if you go back and rewatch it during this,
you're gonna hear me say things, and then you're gonna
hear me say clear, canceled, delete, And we have seven
seconds from the t time that someone says something to
clear it, cancel it, and delete it and get it
out of the universe before it becomes record. All of
(50:10):
us have an acacic record that is kept on us,
every single one of us in the universe, and so
things that we say, things that we do, become permanent
record in these ACACA files. And so what happens is
if we say, sayin I'm going to go back to
the I'm indebted to you forever. Right, So if we
(50:32):
tell someone I am indebted to you forever and we
do not clean, clear, and clear, if we don't clear, cancel,
delete that within seven seconds and I'm going to stamp
that done, it becomes permanent records, which is how old files, commitments, contracts,
curses are formed, how they are created. So and this
(50:53):
can be done whether it's you saying it, or whether
it's somebody else that has said it. So in the
case of me, when somebody would turn to me and say,
you know, if if you're so skinny, if you turn
sideways and stuck at your tongue, you would look like
a zipper. If I'd have said, you know, clear, cancel,
delete that and watched it be deleted, the universe would
(51:17):
not accept it. I would not accept it, and it
would not be documented in my files. So people will
say things to me all the time that are negative
towards themselves, and I will literally sit there and go clear, counsel,
delete that, and I watch it be deleted, and then
I tell them that is not true. You are not dumb,
(51:41):
you are not fat, you are not whatever. Right. But
I can go in and I will actually go in
and clear it for them. I will actually clear, cancel,
delete that, and you'll hear me. If you're around me
at all, you'll hear me do it all the time,
because you don't want to send that negativity out into
the universe. But get in the habit of if you
think you're saying, if you say something, you think and
(52:01):
you think to yourself, yeah, I probably shouldn't have said
that close your eyes and say clear, canceled, delete, and
then say it again. And I always picture a red stamp,
so as I do it, I see a red stamp,
go tunk like this and it goes away. And by
doing that, what happens is you're you're canceling all that
(52:21):
negativity out. So get in the habit of doing that,
get in the habit of talking nicely or clearing out
what you said. Well, we're all human, so we all
say things in the heat of the moment that we
shouldn't say. Right, if you've said something and it's now
record and you're like, man, I shouldn't have said that,
and that's affecting me, Come see me. We'll clear it.
(52:43):
That's what energy work is about. That's what healing is about.
Is clearing out quote unquote mistakes which are not mistakes,
but there's lessons and moving forward. It's exciting. We have
the ability to clear all of this out. We have
the ability to remove belief systems that you have that
are causing you to speak negatively to yourself, replacing them
(53:06):
with positive and positive experiences, positive words, so that you
can move forward. So are you ready to start your
healing process? Let's talk about it. Can I get the
PowerPoint power Point please?
Speaker 1 (53:21):
So.
Speaker 2 (53:22):
Our affirmation card of the week is Today, I Choose
to allow my heart to attract love and kindness. And
I love this card for this because as we are
allowing ourselves to attract love and kindness, it's actually allowing
us to attract it and then put it back out
into the universe in the form of the power of
(53:45):
the words that we speak.
Speaker 1 (53:46):
Now.
Speaker 2 (53:47):
I talked earlier about having a positive moment in the morning,
or talking and having a positivity moment or an affirmation. Remember,
these decks are available to for sale. You can go
to Heatherlina dot com and get your decks today. I
have the Today I Choose, and I have the Light
and Love edition, And every morning you can pull a
(54:08):
card or two and get your positive affirmations of the day. Remember,
all of the merchandise that you get from me is
set to your energy and your intentions, so it works
for you in the best way possible. These cards are
great if you are like a therapist. These cards are
great if you, guys, are a mentor or you are
(54:28):
working in a field to help people. Again, that's what
these card decks were created for was to bring positivity
and to help people next life. So we're going to
talk about the soul healing session that I offer. These
sessions work on clearing past live issues, karma, curses, a
(54:48):
those fouls and commitments, and releasing negative attachments. These sessions
dive deep into triggers or that's the word I'm looking for,
we'll talk. I'll think of it in a minute, so
we'll call them triggers that allow the client to have
a greater healing. So we can do these sessions in
a half an hour or one hour, and they are
(55:10):
done virtual or in person. And what we talked about
today with the power of the words is specifically what
this service is about. This service is about clearing out
all of these words that we have used or things
that have been created that we no longer need in
order for us to move forward with our healing process.
(55:30):
Now you can go and book your appointments at Heatherlina
dot com next slide and for that service, the coupon
or the special that I'm offering for the week it
starts today and it ends on the tenth, is a
ten percent off a one hour sole Integration session, which
is one of which is the basic mama of the
(55:51):
different sessions that I write. So when you go into
my website, you're going to just go in and book
a sole integration session and when we start the session,
you're going to tell me, hey, I need to work
on you know, we're earlsfous commitments contracts, and we'll be
like okay. So you're going to go in and when
you check out, you're going to enter the code Soul
ten and the appointment must be booked in February or March.
(56:13):
It's the coupon. You can only book during the week
of February fourth to tenth to use the coupon, and
a non refundable deposit is required at the time of booking.
I do require a twenty four hour cancelation, but if
you if you canceled prior to that twenty four then
we will go ahead and move it to a different session.
Next slide, please ope, keep going. So let's talk about
(56:39):
what was my membership program. We are shifting it. It's
becoming a subscription and it's called Heatherlina's Transformational Circle. This
is an elite group to assist you with your transformational
healing journey. It is thirty dollars per month and only
one hundred members are allowed in the group at a time.
As a man, you get two personal card pools per month,
(57:03):
a weekly card Crystal card pool, a weekly Message card pool,
exclusive discounts, priority booking and access to me, and a
very supportive community. So go to patreon dot com to
get in now. I'm telling you guys, we have a
great time in that group and we get some great
readings from those personal card pools. So get choice now.
(57:25):
Next line, don't forget to go to my YouTube channel.
If you've missed a podcast, you can watch it on there.
I download them every week, and please hit that subscribe
button on YouTube and like me on Facebook or actually
follow me on Facebook and Instagram. All of them are
(57:46):
on are at Healing with Heatherlina and YouTube is YouTube
dot com at Healing with Heatherlina. Next line, all right,
so to contact me for the podcast, you would contact
me at Healing with Heatherlina at gmail dot com. Otherwise,
(58:07):
if you want to book services or actually when you
want to book services and purchase merchandise, you go to
Heatherlina dot com which is my website, and contact at
Heatherlina dot com for the email. All right, everybody, that's
our show for today, next week, the next two weeks.
I've got guests coming in and I'm all excited, so
we'll see you next week, same time. Bye.
Speaker 1 (58:34):
This has been Radian Spirits Rising with your host, Heatherlina.
Tune in each week as we step into the world
of natural healing and discover the Radian spirit within you. Tuesdays,
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