Real Love Scenario

Real Love Scenario

In this entertaining advice-based show, listeners write in their real-life love scenarios, and Dre & Rhonda give their expert advice, offering a man and woman's perspective and how to solve real-life love problems.

Episodes

July 3, 2025 65 mins
In this special episode of Real Love Scenario, Rhonda and Dre hit pause on the usual format to have a heartfelt conversation about where relationships stand in 2025. As they prepare to take a short break from the show, they reflect on the cultural shifts, challenges, and recurring patterns they’ve seen in love, dating, and commitment this year. From the impact of social media to evolving gender roles and emotional intelligence in r...
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What would you do if the love of your life from college reached out a decade later with a handwritten letter? In this emotional episode, a listener shares how her old flame—now a father and no longer engaged—came back into her life in the most unexpected way. After ten years of silence, she’s asking: Is it ever too late for love? Dre and Rhonda weigh in on whether this is a risky backslide… or a rare shot at real, grown-up love.

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In this week’s Real Love Scenario, we’re unpacking a deeply emotional and complex situation—how do you support a friend who’s living in denial? Our listener shares the story of a close friend who’s been pretending to be married to her ex for years. From wearing a ring to using his last name and even planning to speak publicly about relationships, she’s built an entire life around a lie. But with the ex now in a serious relationship...
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In this Real Love Scenario, we dive into a relationship dilemma that’s all about boundaries—or maybe double standards. Her boyfriend has a rule: no new friends after the relationship starts. The catch? He already had close female friends, but she didn’t have many friends at the time… and now she’s expected to just accept that. Is this a fair boundary or a one-sided control tactic? How do you get your partner to understand when some...
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In this episode of Real Love Scenario, we unpack a heartbreaking story from a listener who gave everything — emotionally, financially, and mentally — to someone who couldn’t give the same in return. After a long-distance relationship turned live-in, she discovered he was still entertaining his ex and other women. Despite her love and support, he chose to leave without a word and claimed he preferred relationships that required “les...
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In this insightful episode of Real Love Scenarios, our co-host Rhonda is joined by special guest Mac Stanley Cazeau, a licensed mental health counselor with a focus on couples therapy, communication skills, and infidelity recovery. As they navigate a listener's heartfelt dilemma involving a possible separation and the future of their 7-year-old son, Mac provides expert advice on prioritizing the child's well-being. They delve into ...
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In this episode of Real Love Scenario, we tackle a tough question from a listener who’s dealing with a boyfriend who has a serious issue with her wardrobe. He claims her style disrespects their relationship — but is this about love and boundaries… or control and insecurity? Rhonda and Dre dive deep into the difference between expressing preferences in a relationship and crossing the line into controlling behavior. Is it ever okay t...
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In this raw and emotional episode, we dive deep into the realities of toxic love and the cost of carrying more than you should in a relationship. A 22-year-old woman wrote to us, sharing her heartbreaking story of emotional trauma, financial burden, and ongoing betrayal.

We talk candidly about:
• Why staying in toxic relationships keeps us stuck
• The mental toll of financial stress in love
• The danger of taking on too much, too soon
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In this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda unpack the emotional fallout of a listener’s 30-day relationship that started with intense passion and ended without warning. What happens when you move fast, believe it’s real, and get left holding the emotional weight alone? They explore the dangers of rushing connection, the importance of emotional sobriety, and how to protect yourself from manipulation masked as love. They a...
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In this raw and deeply personal episode, we explore the story of a man caught between ambition and intimacy. As he navigates the pressures of a demanding master’s program, a casual relationship has unexpectedly turned into something much more complicated. When your time, energy, and emotional bandwidth are maxed out, how do you decide between what you need and what someone else wants? Dre and Rhonda unpack the reality of modern rel...
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In this powerful episode, Dre and Rhonda dive deep into the complexities of intimacy in relationships. They tackle a listener’s dilemma about not enjoying oral sex from her otherwise perfect boyfriend, emphasizing the importance of honest communication in the bedroom. Dre breaks down the 80/20 rule in relationships and why non-sexual intimacy is just as crucial as physical connection. The hosts share practical tips on how to talk a...
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In this deeply emotional episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda tackle a listener’s heartbreaking dilemma—her best friend’s husband has been unfaithful and now wants to start a family with his mistress, while she struggles with infertility.

Joined by Dr. Lara and Memi from Marriage Pinnacle, they unpack:
🔹 The emotional and psychological toll of infidelity
🔹 Cultural and societal pressures around marriage & fertility
🔹 Ho...
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In this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Ronda tackle a deeply relatable relationship dilemma: How do you support a mentally exhausted partner when resources are tight? Ronda opens up about feeling sleep-deprived, while Dre shares his own struggles with needing space after a long day. Together, they unpack a listener’s story about a man struggling to help his stay-at-home partner who is feeling overwhelmed—while also dealing ...
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💰 How important is financial stability in a relationship?
💔 How do you support a grieving partner while also prioritizing your own needs?
🗣 When is it time for a serious conversation—or even professional help?
💍 Does the approach change in a marriage versus a dating relationship?

Join the discussion as we unpack the complexities of love, support, and personal fulfillment in relationships. Drop your thoughts in the comments—what wou...
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Navigating Love After Incarceration: Real Love Scenario Goes Live!

Join Dre and Rhonda in the inaugural live episode of Real Love Scenario as they dive into a listener's heartfelt query about dating a partner with a significant past. They discuss the complexities of emotional regulation, compatibility versus chemistry, and the unique challenges faced by those reentering society after long-term incarceration. Engage with the lively c...
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In this virtual edition of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda tackle a listener’s shocking dilemma—after eight months of dating, she finds out her partner is still legally married for green card purposes!

😳💔 💬 How do you handle discovering such a major secret?
🔥 Is this a red flag or just a complicated situation?
🙏 Can love survive when trust is broken?

We’re breaking down the importance of integrity, the dangers of “convenient li...
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After a heartbreaking end to a five-year relationship, I found myself in a whirlwind of emotions and complicated connections. From dating someone going through a divorce to working alongside my ex while navigating lingering feelings, life became a rollercoaster of rekindled intimacy and unresolved emotions. In this video, I share my journey of love, loss, and self-discovery, along with the practical advice I’m seeking to finally mo...
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In this episode, Dre and Ronnie dive into the complexities of starting fresh in the new year, discussing whether resolutions still hold value, and the importance of personal goals. The conversation shifts to a listener's dilemma involving an ex who demands financial help despite being unwilling to commit. Using personal experiences, Dre and Ronnie offer heartfelt advice on the necessity of setting boundaries and prioritizing one's ...
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Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation!

💬 Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more HERE!

🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario?
Submit it HERE!

📲 Connect with us:

Dre on IG: @itsdresmith
Rhonda on IG: @rhonicakes
Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and l...
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Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation!

💬 Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more HERE!

🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario?
Submit it HERE!

📲 Connect with us:

Dre on IG: @itsdresmith
Rhonda on IG: @rhonicakes
Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and l...
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