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Speaker 1 (00:07):
Well, hello everybody, this is your boy Winfred Duffy.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Thank you for.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Joining us for another Real Me podcast. This is a
podcast where we're trying to discover the real person on
the inside of you that's been buried underneath years and
years and loads and loads of situations and stuff. But
we want the real you to emerge, the person that
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God created, and so we're here tonight really just to share.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
And to discover who you are.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
And so hopefully and prayerfully you'll be able to see
your worth and recognize that you are not a mistake,
you're not an accident. You're here by God's divine providence
and there's something great on the inside of you that
the rest of the earth needs to take and partake of.
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So thank you for joining us tonight, Thank you for
giving us these few minutes. We have a special guest
tonight that, oh my goodness, prayerfully, her testimony is going
to transform your life into something that is supposed to be,
not looking at the stuff that has been. But we're
gonna her testimony is just really going to be a
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blessing to you, and prayerfully you're going to receive healing, deliverance,
and freedom from the weight of care that you've been
going through. And her name is Kyle Plumbly. What a
precious friend of mine and a woman of God. A
powerful testimony. We want to welcome you. So, Kyle, what
an honor again again it is to have you listen.
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Would you be able to just help us to get
familiar with who you are and help some of the
listening audiences to be familiar to who you are. I
know you, but share just a little bit.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Okay, Well, I'm a mature woman of God who came
through severe sexual and physical abuse as a child, a
lot of trauma, and uh, it really took away most
of the first forty years of my life. And I
also I was a single mom for twenty years, raising
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three children. And during that time I worked as a
dental hygienist. And I recently just completed three years of
Kari's Bible College, which was one of the highlights of
my life.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
And so that that's Andrew Willmack. Is that Andrew Willmack?
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Okay, yeah, college, Yeah yeah, And it's in Colorado, in
Woodland Park, Colorado. And that was the highlight of my
life for you know, for many reasons. But I just
you know, it was great to take time out, take
three years out and really study the Word and learn
about God. And even though I'd known God for a
long time, it really being at that Bible school really
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changed my life.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
I learned so much more here. I thought I knew
everything and found out that I didn't.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
So but anyway, i have three kids that are happily married,
and I'm soon to accept our sixth grandchild is coming. Yeah,
I'm really excited about that. And really, if I thought
about what accomplishments I've made since a childhood, I would
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really say my greatest accomplishment is just getting to know Jesus.
It's been incredible for me, really life changing, and then
also just my three kids.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
It's just a blessing awesome.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
You know, out of all the testimonies I hear, you know,
the one common thread or the one theme is Jesus
Christ changing my life the best thing that ever happened.
I wish more and more people could could come to
that knowledge, because although we might not be able to
see him in his physical form, his spirit is very
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much alive and he has transforming power that can take
our lives from man from the pit to the palace
if we just learned how to trust him.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
And so I see that very evident in your life. Uh,
and so wow, listen, listen, let's just kind of go
into a little bit of your story. My goodness.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
I mean, you're you're, you're a more mature woman, and
I know that you have a whole lot to share,
but let's let's just hear some of it.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Okay, as a child, you know, being abused or traumatized,
and some of you listening probably have gone through a
similar thing as I did, sexual abuse and physical abuse
for about five years, and there was a lot of
hatred on my part and unforgiveness, you know, for my abusers.
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I really suffered with that for a long time. But
it really left me emotionally drained and not able to
function most days.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
I mean, if you if you come.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Out of something like that, you really are not dealing
with a full zack, to be honest. And so I
lived like in a dark cave. I used to call
it my black cave that I lived in, and in
my mind, really and I had night terrors, I had
anxiety attacks, I had flashbacks from my abuse that made
it even hard for me to function, you know, I
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just it would completely take me out, and lots of fear.
I was terribly afraid of the dark, and all of
these things were like bombarding me at the same time
as I was trying to, you know, do do life.
I want to say that my mother hated me, and
I hated her too for the way that she treated me.
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And to come out of of hatred. If there's anybody
in your life that you're hating, you know, it's just
it's it really impacts your life in a big way,
and you're like, it's like having your put in a trap,
but just to beat me physically, and she handed me
over to the abusers, you know, on a regular basis.
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She was terribly mean to me, neglected me, left me,
you know, in a room for hours at a time,
and uh, you know, without food or water or anything
like that.
Speaker 4 (06:31):
And I never told anybody about this. If if this
is something that you're going.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Through and you're you haven't told anybody, don't be surprised.
Because when I told my mother that, you know, I
wanted to tell my grandmother what was going on, she said, well,
I will make you.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Go live with your abuser.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
And she was mean enough to do that. And she
was actually trying to pull it off at one time.
And so you know, if the abusers they told you
all the time, if they would have they would kill you,
and you believed it because they were so mean to you.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
You know.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Here it was a little girl, you know, and I
believed everything that they said, you know, because they put
me through a lot of brainwashing. And you just can't
trust anything.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
That you believe is going on in your head without
checking with somebody, you know. That's how it really went down.
But anyway, I spent many years in counseling. Because some
people will say, did you go to counseling, you know,
to get help? And I did.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
I spent many years in counseling. Really pretty much started
with a psychiatrist at age twelve. And I'm still in
counseling at this point, but not like what it used
to do. But I went from one therapist to another.
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And if any of you.
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Are in mainstream counseling and you've been severely abused, it
really doesn't.
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Help you that much. I mean, I don't want to cut.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
Them down totally, but because I did get some good
coping skills that I pulled out of counseling. That kind
of helped me a little bit, but as far as
the trauma, the flashbacks, anxiety, you know, all the stuff
that was going through my head, they didn't help me
at all, and I still suffered.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
It didn't matter. I just would try another one. I
was searching. I was searching for something, so I would
try another one and then go to another one.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
And it was all like almost like a Ratinamze is
how I used to describe it. But don't give up
if you're searching, because it's a really good thing to
be searching. And I didn't know I was searching for God,
you know, but that's that really is what it brought
me to. But my entire childhood was awful, and I
can't really stress that enough. I really don't know how
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I passed school, Like how did they.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Let me go?
Speaker 3 (08:45):
I don't know how they did that because I was
really checked out. And as a teen, I left home
at fifteen to live on my own, and I was
just desperate to get away, I really, you know, I
you know, just I had to get out of there.
And as soon as I was capable of getting out
of there, I did. And then unfortunately, as a as
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a teenager and into my twenties, I became very promiscuous,
mostly because I was trying to find love in all
the wrong places. This nurse song this has said, but
it all, all the relationships ended badly. I did not
know how to have a relationship. I really didn't and
and I should have. I should have been able to
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figure that out earlier than I did. But somehow I
got married in my early thirties, and I was in
a loveless relationship with a man who really didn't have
a know how to have a relationship either. And this
man did not care about me. It was it was
very obvious that he didn't care about me. And so
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once again counseling, which didn't help. Drama, a lot of
drama going on with his affairs and anxiety attacks with me,
and now falls a suicide entered, and I really, I
really wanted to take myself out. I had no drugs,
I had no gun, and I just really wanted to
be done with it. And so they you know, I
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was really under the guise of depression. That's what they said.
I had depression, and they treated me with pills, which
I took because I really didn't know what to do,
you know, But I was struggling.
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I had, you know, the flashbacks on top of it.
I had.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
It was just every day was really a struggle. But
the final thing I can think that, you know, the
straw that broke the camel's back, was you know, one
more affair that I just I couldn't take it anymore.
And I had three babies and diapers, and I said,
you gotta go, you gotta, you gotta get out of.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
Here, and it was he was, he was gone.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
And then he said I'm coming back on the weekend
and I'm going to take the kids. And I was like,
oh my gosh, I couldn't. I couldn't believe that that
was going to happen, because you know, here I thought
did everything right.
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I was a good mother.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
I was taking care of my kids and trying to
keep them away from, you know, all the stuff that
he was doing and that he has the right. And
he said, you know, I can come in and just
take the kids for the weekend. And I just really
hit the floor after that happened. I really it was
October seventeenth, nineteen ninety eight, and I hit the floor
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and I was crying, and the thoughts of suicide were
really bombarding my head.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
So you had that happen to you, you know, And
all I.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Knew it was to say some Hail Mary's and call
out to Jesus, and that's what I did.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Wow, Kyle, really I didn't know the depth of that,
you know when you shared some of those things with me.
But I want to speak to our listening audience and
to you, Kyle. I want you to know that that
you are not an accident. God meant for you to
be here in this earth, and guess what, He already.
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Fore knew you, and he knew what you would face.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
You know in this world, it wasn't It's not his will,
first of all, for you to have to deal with
all that, to go through all of that.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
However, His grace is sufficient to bring you through all
of it.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
And I want to share with the listening audience. Listen,
some of you may be going through this and possibly
even worse. I want you to know that you are
not an accident. God has a plan and a purpose
for your life. Don't take your life because you're going
to forfeit God's plan and his purpose for your life.
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Let me encourage you if there's any encouragement whatsoever to
turn to him, turn to the Lord. He's the manufacturer,
He's the one that put you here in the earth,
and he knows exactly why he needs you to be
here for such a time as this. Right at the moment,
it's twenty twenty five, and you're special, You're precious, and
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the real me is on the inside of you.
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The real you is there.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
And it's buried underneath all of that trauma, all of
all of that junk. But I want you to know
that God is here and he's with you through that
whole thing. He sees and knows every single thing that
you're dealing with. And listen, we're gonna we're gonna be
taking a just a break for a moment, and we're
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gonna come back.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Kyle has so much more to share.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
Wow, powerful, impactful, and I believe that God has a
message for you. We're gonna go into a time of
healing and restoration and then at the end we're gonna
have Kyle to pray specifically for you. She made it
through and guess what, I know you can do it too.
So just be encouraged, Listen, stay tuned, hang with us
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until we come back. We'll see you in a few moments.
Speaker 6 (13:54):
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Speaker 1 (13:57):
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Thank you for joining us.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Man, let me tell you what a powerful.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Testimony we have in this young lady, Kyle Plumbley. And
really it's the testimony of God's grace and God's restoration,
God's healing.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
And there's still a few more things to share.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
So we're just gonna jump right back in and prayerfully
you'll be blessed.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Kyle.
Speaker 4 (14:56):
Yeah, go for it, Okay.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
On October seventeenth, nineteen ninety eight, I was on the
floor crying and wanted to kill myself, but didn't have
any drugs, so a friend of mine told me to
get in the shower, which I did, and I was
on the shower floor and it seemed like things were
getting very white in the room.
Speaker 4 (15:17):
The steam.
Speaker 3 (15:18):
At first I thought it was a steam, but it
was like everything was white around me.
Speaker 4 (15:22):
And then I heard a voice.
Speaker 3 (15:25):
And remember I was on the floor crying because my
life was in such shambles. And when I heard his voice,
he said, you were love because you were loved by Jesus.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
Now you say it. And so when I.
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Said it, it was like a force. I don't know
if it was the water or now I know, you know,
it was God himself pulled me up off the floor.
And you if you would imagine a droopy flower, you know,
that was just drooping that all of a sudden Blosso
that's how I was.
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I just I felt so good inside.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
And he went on to tell me a few other
things about my life and how I could learn about him,
and he put you know, he told me where to
go to church, and you know.
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It was just amazing.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
But the most important thing about him talking to me
and telling me those things is it totally transformed my life.
I was just so afraid getting into the shower and
you know, ready to kill myself really and I came
out in this peaceful I had peace in my heart
like I've never had before. I never had before, and
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he did. He put a church family around me and
people to teach me how to be a mother because
I didn't know how to be a mother, and he took.
Speaker 4 (16:46):
Care of everything. I mean, it was just it was
an incredible transformation.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
Now I had a wicked past, you know, and so
I still had some trauma, but I did go on
to experience some deliverance and and more counseling. But that
day in that shower October seventeenth, nineteen ninety eight, at
one pm totally changed my life. I have never I've
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looked back at it many times and it has totally
changed my life. So, you know, I'm just going to
tell the people out there, if you're in a desperate situation.
Speaker 4 (17:21):
Just call in the name of Jesus.
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Call in the name of Jesus, and he will be there,
because he shows up.
Speaker 4 (17:30):
You know.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
And as I interject here, you know, really you've you've
pretty much already answered these two questions that I had
because I was going to ask you, you know, how
did you receive your healing and your restoration, and then
of course how did you come to know Jesus? And
certainly you know, look, Jesus met you in the shower, right,
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not that he was trying to show, he wasn't trying.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
To be nosy, but he knows you, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
But he met you in the shower and basically he
talked to you audibly and let you know his presence
and that he's with you all the time, all the
time and in every situation. And so, you know, for
you to be able to share that, you know, just
lets people know the reality of who he is.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
And he's not just a myth. He's not just some.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
You know, invisible jerker that we talk about, some good
guy you know who you know who did this and that,
And he's not just somebody that we just write about.
But it's he's somebody that we can presently have a
relationship with. Uh And he's very much alive in our hearts,
and he's very aware of every single thing that we're
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going through. And many would ask this question, Lord, why
are you letting me go through this? Why are you
allowing this to happen to me? And you know, and
here's here's the one of the answers. I believe the
Lord is saying, my grace is sufficient for you.
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I've given you the power, I've given.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
You the the.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
Wherewithal to endure this.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
It's making you in such such a way to where
it's gonna make you great. The greatness in you is
actually gonna come forth. It's just like squeezing a fruit,
squeezing a lemon, or squeezing an orange, or squeezing a grape.
The juice on the inside is coming forth because you're
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being squeezed, You're being crushed, and the greatness on the
inside of you is gonna reveal itself. You are here
for a reason. God is turning everything around for your good.
And just know that it's not You're not gonna stay
in that situation for the rest of your life. God
is a deliverer, He's a heal and he's a shepherd
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who restores your soul. He didn't put you on this
earth so that you can just suffer from birth to death. No,
he wants you to enjoy his creation. And the testimony
that's building on you on the inside of you, is
so that you can share and help somebody else, because
somebody else needs to hear your testimony.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
And your deliverance. So, Kyle, thank you so much for
sharing all of that.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
I know that there's a million more things that you
can share, but let's kind of accelerate to this.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
What is your ministry and what do you believe the
Lord is leading you to do? Now?
Speaker 3 (20:40):
Okay, well, I should say that I ran a ministry
for women for seven years. Women in recovery that I
that came out of prison. They came out of rehab,
and my job was to teach from about God and
a lot of them had most of them really had
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sexual abuse or physical abuse underneath all the drug activity
or the prostitution or whatever they went through.
Speaker 4 (21:08):
So I still work.
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With some of those women that came out of that program,
and when I was in Bible College, recently God talked
to me about opening another ministry.
Speaker 4 (21:22):
I don't know what the timing is. I just know
what it is.
Speaker 3 (21:26):
I don't think I'm really ready to say it yet,
but it's going to be ministering to women again on
a little bit different level. I'm not going to be
going to prison or to rehab to find them. But
there's a lot of women out there that are my
age that you know, still need some help. You know,
they're hurting, and that's really my ministry. My ministry is
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to hurting women, to teach them that, yes, there is
a God.
Speaker 4 (21:50):
And he's not a respector of persons.
Speaker 3 (21:52):
He's not going to just pull me out of that
the mud and the dirt that I was in and
not do it for them. You know. I want to
say too, in reference to what you were saying, Duffy,
that you know, we live in a fallen world, you
know that, Like everybody says, well, why you know you
can you can spend a lot of time thinking why
did this happen to me?
Speaker 4 (22:10):
You know, and I did.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
I did it one time, but I don't anymore because
it's a fallen world and there's a lot of evil people,
and there's a lot of evil in the world, and
so you know, what he can do, like you said,
is the grace of God, which comes after the trauma
or after the bad episodes. You know that, Like now
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that you know, I'm totally removed from it. Matter of fact,
when I talk about it a lot of times, it
kind of reminds me of somebody else's past, not even
my own anymore, you know, because constantly.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
Can I inject right here?
Speaker 1 (22:47):
That's a great point because because what came to my
mind as.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
You were talking was forgiveness.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
How do you forgive somebody and even like even like
your mother as you were sharing, you know, you know
who knows where that came from. Who knows where her
childhood was.
Speaker 2 (23:11):
You know, who knows what.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
Kind of abuse she went through. And unfortunately she didn't
know how to love you like you needed to be loved,
you know, and you know, and so but do we blame.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
Her or do we blame the devil?
Speaker 1 (23:26):
You know who, the devil who hates her and the
devil who hates you, and he hates all of us
because he's really out to steal, kill and destroy every
one of us because he knows that he's falling from
the position that he had. And we are the sons
of God now and so so you know, so we
forgive you know, the person our perpetrators, Jesus somehow when
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he came from heaven, he said, love your enemies, He said,
do good to them that despitefully used you, bless them
that curse you. I'm like, what kind of talk is that?
How in the world can we do that? Because We're
so used to retaliating. We're so used to retaliating and
holding stuff in our hearts, and you know, but how
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can we love our enemies and forgive our abusers? You know?
Speaker 6 (24:20):
So?
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Man, that's really it's the love of God, the agpy
love of God. It's the unfailing, unchanging, unconditional love of
God that allows us to do that, and so he
wants to fill our hearts with that same type of love. Now, Kyle,
we have just a few minutes left, but would you
be able to maybe just just talk to the audience
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rather than talking to me, Minister to them and pray
for them and those who have gone through like tragedies
and atrocities such as you, and just share with them
the love of God.
Speaker 6 (24:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
I also I want to say, in reference to the
forgiveness piece, that you know, not forgiving somebody because they
hurt you. Because I know I wanted to kill my abuser,
I wanted to kill my mother, you know. I mean
I really went through all those emotions and their natural
emotions when somebody hurts you like that. But the thing
is is that you know, it's like taking poison or
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giving poison thinking you're giving it to somebody else, but
you're taking it yourself because the unforgiveness will trap you.
It will cause a boatload of illness to come upon
you and lots of bad things. And it's just so important.
I know, I know when you're being traumatized, you're being beat,
or you're getting hurt or you know, just you know,
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whatever it is you're going through that that you don't
you're not ready to forgive somebody.
Speaker 4 (25:48):
And a lot of people tell me that, oh I'm
not ready.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
But if you want to get totally free in your life,
that's the only way you can is to forgive. And
like you know, he said, you know, forgive others because
and then I will forgive you. If you don't forgive others,
I won't forgive you, you know. So I just you know,
I just pray. I want to, you know, close up
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here with a prayer. I just pray for the people
that are listening, the hearers, Father, that the hearers would
understand how important it is to lay down whatever it
is that happened to them, to lay it down at
your feet and give it to you, and then you
set us free, and then we'll be free.
Speaker 4 (26:31):
Indeed, but the longer you hold on.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
The longer you hold on, the more pain you're going
to be in. And it's not really until I laid
it down at his feet. And even if they're re
injuring you, even if you're still being beat today and
you know, and it happened a while ago, but there's
still occurring, if you're a bad relationship, if you lay
down and give it all to Jesus, he will set
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your free. It says, cast your cares upon me, for
I cares for you, and he will care for you.
Trust me, because like I said, he's not a respector
of persons, and he does it for me, and he
cares for me each and every day. I'd give him
all the glory for taking me out of that Mirie
clay and that dirt and everything I lived in and
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set me on that rock. Like it says in some forty,
I give him all the glory and I continue to
and you will too one day.
Speaker 4 (27:27):
So I just pray for the hearer's father. I pray
that they can.
Speaker 3 (27:31):
Lay down the pain, they can lay down the hurt
and put it at your feet so that you can
set them free.
Speaker 4 (27:38):
And I just I wish you the best in that.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Amen, Wow. Amen, I felt the heat.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
I felt heat on that, Kyle, and I believe that
the fire of God is going out and just touching
lives all over the world, you know, because of the
testimony that you shared, and really and it's because of
because of the love of God and you know, his
will for his will and.
Speaker 2 (28:05):
His plan for their lives.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Thank you so much for joining us in this Real
Meat podcast. Before we leave, Kyle, is there some kind
of information that people can call or contact you or
you know, so that you can maybe possibly minister to
them as well.
Speaker 3 (28:25):
So he's going to put the email on the screen.
That's probably the best way to contact.
Speaker 4 (28:29):
Me right now.
Speaker 3 (28:31):
Okay, but I'd really like to hear from you all,
especially if you're struggling. I can recommend some books, I
can recommend some verses to help you out.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Amen.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
Well, one thing for sure, So she's telling you that
there is help for you, there is healing for you,
there's restoration for you. And guess why, there's greatness on
the inside of you. And the Lord wants that to
come out because you've been created in his image and
in his likeness and as.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
He is, so are you.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
You have the greatness of God, the life of God
in your veins right now. And so the real me,
the real you, is just waiting and chopping at the bit,
trying to burst forth into the earth to show the
glory of God.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
And so thank you for joining us once again. Listen.
We're looking forward to hearing from.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
You, and and we we would like for you to
stay tuned for the next Real Meat podcast because God's
got some great things for you.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
Be real, have a great day. We love you in
Jesus' name.
Speaker 5 (29:39):
Bye bye
Speaker 6 (30:00):
To
Well, hello everybody, this is your boy Winfred Duffy.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Thank you for.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Joining us for another Real Me podcast. This is a
podcast where we're trying to discover the real person on
the inside of you that's been buried underneath years and
years and loads and loads of situations and stuff. But
we want the real you to emerge, the person that
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God created, and so we're here tonight really just to share.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
And to discover who you are.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
And so hopefully and prayerfully you'll be able to see
your worth and recognize that you are not a mistake,
you're not an accident. You're here by God's divine providence
and there's something great on the inside of you that
the rest of the earth needs to take and partake of.
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So thank you for joining us tonight, Thank you for
giving us these few minutes. We have a special guest
tonight that, oh my goodness, prayerfully, her testimony is going
to transform your life into something that is supposed to be,
not looking at the stuff that has been. But we're
gonna her testimony is just really going to be a
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blessing to you, and prayerfully you're going to receive healing, deliverance,
and freedom from the weight of care that you've been
going through. And her name is Kyle Plumbly. What a
precious friend of mine and a woman of God. A
powerful testimony. We want to welcome you. So, Kyle, what
an honor again again it is to have you listen.
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Would you be able to just help us to get
familiar with who you are and help some of the
listening audiences to be familiar to who you are. I
know you, but share just a little bit.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Okay, Well, I'm a mature woman of God who came
through severe sexual and physical abuse as a child, a
lot of trauma, and uh, it really took away most
of the first forty years of my life. And I
also I was a single mom for twenty years, raising
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three children. And during that time I worked as a
dental hygienist. And I recently just completed three years of
Kari's Bible College, which was one of the highlights of
my life.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
And so that that's Andrew Willmack. Is that Andrew Willmack?
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Okay, yeah, college, Yeah yeah, And it's in Colorado, in
Woodland Park, Colorado. And that was the highlight of my
life for you know, for many reasons. But I just
you know, it was great to take time out, take
three years out and really study the Word and learn
about God. And even though I'd known God for a
long time, it really being at that Bible school really
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changed my life.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
I learned so much more here. I thought I knew
everything and found out that I didn't.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
So but anyway, i have three kids that are happily married,
and I'm soon to accept our sixth grandchild is coming. Yeah,
I'm really excited about that. And really, if I thought
about what accomplishments I've made since a childhood, I would
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really say my greatest accomplishment is just getting to know Jesus.
It's been incredible for me, really life changing, and then
also just my three kids.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
It's just a blessing awesome.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
You know, out of all the testimonies I hear, you know,
the one common thread or the one theme is Jesus
Christ changing my life the best thing that ever happened.
I wish more and more people could could come to
that knowledge, because although we might not be able to
see him in his physical form, his spirit is very
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much alive and he has transforming power that can take
our lives from man from the pit to the palace
if we just learned how to trust him.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
And so I see that very evident in your life. Uh,
and so wow, listen, listen, let's just kind of go
into a little bit of your story. My goodness.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
I mean, you're you're, you're a more mature woman, and
I know that you have a whole lot to share,
but let's let's just hear some of it.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Okay, as a child, you know, being abused or traumatized,
and some of you listening probably have gone through a
similar thing as I did, sexual abuse and physical abuse
for about five years, and there was a lot of
hatred on my part and unforgiveness, you know, for my abusers.
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I really suffered with that for a long time. But
it really left me emotionally drained and not able to
function most days.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
I mean, if you if you come.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Out of something like that, you really are not dealing
with a full zack, to be honest. And so I
lived like in a dark cave. I used to call
it my black cave that I lived in, and in
my mind, really and I had night terrors, I had
anxiety attacks, I had flashbacks from my abuse that made
it even hard for me to function, you know, I
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just it would completely take me out, and lots of fear.
I was terribly afraid of the dark, and all of
these things were like bombarding me at the same time
as I was trying to, you know, do do life.
I want to say that my mother hated me, and
I hated her too for the way that she treated me.
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And to come out of of hatred. If there's anybody
in your life that you're hating, you know, it's just
it's it really impacts your life in a big way,
and you're like, it's like having your put in a trap,
but just to beat me physically, and she handed me
over to the abusers, you know, on a regular basis.
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She was terribly mean to me, neglected me, left me,
you know, in a room for hours at a time,
and uh, you know, without food or water or anything
like that.
Speaker 4 (06:31):
And I never told anybody about this. If if this
is something that you're going.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Through and you're you haven't told anybody, don't be surprised.
Because when I told my mother that, you know, I
wanted to tell my grandmother what was going on, she said, well,
I will make you.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Go live with your abuser.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
And she was mean enough to do that. And she
was actually trying to pull it off at one time.
And so you know, if the abusers they told you
all the time, if they would have they would kill you,
and you believed it because they were so mean to you.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
You know.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Here it was a little girl, you know, and I
believed everything that they said, you know, because they put
me through a lot of brainwashing. And you just can't
trust anything.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
That you believe is going on in your head without
checking with somebody, you know. That's how it really went down.
But anyway, I spent many years in counseling. Because some
people will say, did you go to counseling, you know,
to get help? And I did.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
I spent many years in counseling. Really pretty much started
with a psychiatrist at age twelve. And I'm still in
counseling at this point, but not like what it used
to do. But I went from one therapist to another.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
And if any of you.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Are in mainstream counseling and you've been severely abused, it
really doesn't.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Help you that much. I mean, I don't want to cut.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
Them down totally, but because I did get some good
coping skills that I pulled out of counseling. That kind
of helped me a little bit, but as far as
the trauma, the flashbacks, anxiety, you know, all the stuff
that was going through my head, they didn't help me
at all, and I still suffered.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
It didn't matter. I just would try another one. I
was searching. I was searching for something, so I would
try another one and then go to another one.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
And it was all like almost like a Ratinamze is
how I used to describe it. But don't give up
if you're searching, because it's a really good thing to
be searching. And I didn't know I was searching for God,
you know, but that's that really is what it brought
me to. But my entire childhood was awful, and I
can't really stress that enough. I really don't know how
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I passed school, Like how did they.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Let me go?
Speaker 3 (08:45):
I don't know how they did that because I was
really checked out. And as a teen, I left home
at fifteen to live on my own, and I was
just desperate to get away, I really, you know, I
you know, just I had to get out of there.
And as soon as I was capable of getting out
of there, I did. And then unfortunately, as a as
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a teenager and into my twenties, I became very promiscuous,
mostly because I was trying to find love in all
the wrong places. This nurse song this has said, but
it all, all the relationships ended badly. I did not
know how to have a relationship. I really didn't and
and I should have. I should have been able to
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figure that out earlier than I did. But somehow I
got married in my early thirties, and I was in
a loveless relationship with a man who really didn't have
a know how to have a relationship either. And this
man did not care about me. It was it was
very obvious that he didn't care about me. And so
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once again counseling, which didn't help. Drama, a lot of
drama going on with his affairs and anxiety attacks with me,
and now falls a suicide entered, and I really, I
really wanted to take myself out. I had no drugs,
I had no gun, and I just really wanted to
be done with it. And so they you know, I
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was really under the guise of depression. That's what they said.
I had depression, and they treated me with pills, which
I took because I really didn't know what to do,
you know, But I was struggling.
Speaker 4 (10:25):
I had, you know, the flashbacks on top of it.
I had.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
It was just every day was really a struggle. But
the final thing I can think that, you know, the
straw that broke the camel's back, was you know, one
more affair that I just I couldn't take it anymore.
And I had three babies and diapers, and I said,
you gotta go, you gotta, you gotta get out of.
Speaker 4 (10:44):
Here, and it was he was, he was gone.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
And then he said I'm coming back on the weekend
and I'm going to take the kids. And I was like,
oh my gosh, I couldn't. I couldn't believe that that
was going to happen, because you know, here I thought
did everything right.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
I was a good mother.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
I was taking care of my kids and trying to
keep them away from, you know, all the stuff that
he was doing and that he has the right. And
he said, you know, I can come in and just
take the kids for the weekend. And I just really
hit the floor after that happened. I really it was
October seventeenth, nineteen ninety eight, and I hit the floor
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and I was crying, and the thoughts of suicide were
really bombarding my head.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
So you had that happen to you, you know, And
all I.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Knew it was to say some Hail Mary's and call
out to Jesus, and that's what I did.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Wow, Kyle, really I didn't know the depth of that,
you know when you shared some of those things with me.
But I want to speak to our listening audience and
to you, Kyle. I want you to know that that
you are not an accident. God meant for you to
be here in this earth, and guess what, He already.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Fore knew you, and he knew what you would face.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
You know in this world, it wasn't It's not his will,
first of all, for you to have to deal with
all that, to go through all of that.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
However, His grace is sufficient to bring you through all
of it.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
And I want to share with the listening audience. Listen,
some of you may be going through this and possibly
even worse. I want you to know that you are
not an accident. God has a plan and a purpose
for your life. Don't take your life because you're going
to forfeit God's plan and his purpose for your life.
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Let me encourage you if there's any encouragement whatsoever to
turn to him, turn to the Lord. He's the manufacturer,
He's the one that put you here in the earth,
and he knows exactly why he needs you to be
here for such a time as this. Right at the moment,
it's twenty twenty five, and you're special, You're precious, and
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the real me is on the inside of you.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
The real you is there.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
And it's buried underneath all of that trauma, all of
all of that junk. But I want you to know
that God is here and he's with you through that
whole thing. He sees and knows every single thing that
you're dealing with. And listen, we're gonna we're gonna be
taking a just a break for a moment, and we're
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gonna come back.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Kyle has so much more to share.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
Wow, powerful, impactful, and I believe that God has a
message for you. We're gonna go into a time of
healing and restoration and then at the end we're gonna
have Kyle to pray specifically for you. She made it
through and guess what, I know you can do it too.
So just be encouraged, Listen, stay tuned, hang with us
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until we come back. We'll see you in a few moments.
Speaker 6 (13:54):
Hello friends, Duffy here.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
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Speaker 6 (14:09):
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Speaker 1 (14:16):
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bless each and every one of you. Welcome back, everybody,
Thank you for joining us.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Man, let me tell you what a powerful.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Testimony we have in this young lady, Kyle Plumbley. And
really it's the testimony of God's grace and God's restoration,
God's healing.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
And there's still a few more things to share.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
So we're just gonna jump right back in and prayerfully
you'll be blessed.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Kyle.
Speaker 4 (14:56):
Yeah, go for it, Okay.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
On October seventeenth, nineteen ninety eight, I was on the
floor crying and wanted to kill myself, but didn't have
any drugs, so a friend of mine told me to
get in the shower, which I did, and I was
on the shower floor and it seemed like things were
getting very white in the room.
Speaker 4 (15:17):
The steam.
Speaker 3 (15:18):
At first I thought it was a steam, but it
was like everything was white around me.
Speaker 4 (15:22):
And then I heard a voice.
Speaker 3 (15:25):
And remember I was on the floor crying because my
life was in such shambles. And when I heard his voice,
he said, you were love because you were loved by Jesus.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
Now you say it. And so when I.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
Said it, it was like a force. I don't know
if it was the water or now I know, you know,
it was God himself pulled me up off the floor.
And you if you would imagine a droopy flower, you know,
that was just drooping that all of a sudden Blosso
that's how I was.
Speaker 4 (16:02):
I just I felt so good inside.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
And he went on to tell me a few other
things about my life and how I could learn about him,
and he put you know, he told me where to
go to church, and you know.
Speaker 4 (16:14):
It was just amazing.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
But the most important thing about him talking to me
and telling me those things is it totally transformed my life.
I was just so afraid getting into the shower and
you know, ready to kill myself really and I came
out in this peaceful I had peace in my heart
like I've never had before. I never had before, and
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he did. He put a church family around me and
people to teach me how to be a mother because
I didn't know how to be a mother, and he took.
Speaker 4 (16:46):
Care of everything. I mean, it was just it was
an incredible transformation.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
Now I had a wicked past, you know, and so
I still had some trauma, but I did go on
to experience some deliverance and and more counseling. But that
day in that shower October seventeenth, nineteen ninety eight, at
one pm totally changed my life. I have never I've
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looked back at it many times and it has totally
changed my life. So, you know, I'm just going to
tell the people out there, if you're in a desperate situation.
Speaker 4 (17:21):
Just call in the name of Jesus.
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Call in the name of Jesus, and he will be there,
because he shows up.
Speaker 4 (17:30):
You know.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
And as I interject here, you know, really you've you've
pretty much already answered these two questions that I had
because I was going to ask you, you know, how
did you receive your healing and your restoration, and then
of course how did you come to know Jesus? And
certainly you know, look, Jesus met you in the shower, right,
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not that he was trying to show, he wasn't trying.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
To be nosy, but he knows you, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
But he met you in the shower and basically he
talked to you audibly and let you know his presence
and that he's with you all the time, all the
time and in every situation. And so, you know, for
you to be able to share that, you know, just
lets people know the reality of who he is.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
And he's not just a myth. He's not just some.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
You know, invisible jerker that we talk about, some good
guy you know who you know who did this and that,
And he's not just somebody that we just write about.
But it's he's somebody that we can presently have a
relationship with. Uh And he's very much alive in our hearts,
and he's very aware of every single thing that we're
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going through. And many would ask this question, Lord, why
are you letting me go through this? Why are you
allowing this to happen to me? And you know, and
here's here's the one of the answers. I believe the
Lord is saying, my grace is sufficient for you.
Speaker 2 (19:09):
I've given you the power, I've given.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
You the the.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
Wherewithal to endure this.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
It's making you in such such a way to where
it's gonna make you great. The greatness in you is
actually gonna come forth. It's just like squeezing a fruit,
squeezing a lemon, or squeezing an orange, or squeezing a grape.
The juice on the inside is coming forth because you're
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being squeezed, You're being crushed, and the greatness on the
inside of you is gonna reveal itself. You are here
for a reason. God is turning everything around for your good.
And just know that it's not You're not gonna stay
in that situation for the rest of your life. God
is a deliverer, He's a heal and he's a shepherd
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who restores your soul. He didn't put you on this
earth so that you can just suffer from birth to death. No,
he wants you to enjoy his creation. And the testimony
that's building on you on the inside of you, is
so that you can share and help somebody else, because
somebody else needs to hear your testimony.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
And your deliverance. So, Kyle, thank you so much for
sharing all of that.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
I know that there's a million more things that you
can share, but let's kind of accelerate to this.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
What is your ministry and what do you believe the
Lord is leading you to do? Now?
Speaker 3 (20:40):
Okay, well, I should say that I ran a ministry
for women for seven years. Women in recovery that I
that came out of prison. They came out of rehab,
and my job was to teach from about God and
a lot of them had most of them really had
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sexual abuse or physical abuse underneath all the drug activity
or the prostitution or whatever they went through.
Speaker 4 (21:08):
So I still work.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
With some of those women that came out of that program,
and when I was in Bible College, recently God talked
to me about opening another ministry.
Speaker 4 (21:22):
I don't know what the timing is. I just know
what it is.
Speaker 3 (21:26):
I don't think I'm really ready to say it yet,
but it's going to be ministering to women again on
a little bit different level. I'm not going to be
going to prison or to rehab to find them. But
there's a lot of women out there that are my
age that you know, still need some help. You know,
they're hurting, and that's really my ministry. My ministry is
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to hurting women, to teach them that, yes, there is
a God.
Speaker 4 (21:50):
And he's not a respector of persons.
Speaker 3 (21:52):
He's not going to just pull me out of that
the mud and the dirt that I was in and
not do it for them. You know. I want to
say too, in reference to what you were saying, Duffy,
that you know, we live in a fallen world, you
know that, Like everybody says, well, why you know you
can you can spend a lot of time thinking why
did this happen to me?
Speaker 4 (22:10):
You know, and I did.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
I did it one time, but I don't anymore because
it's a fallen world and there's a lot of evil people,
and there's a lot of evil in the world, and
so you know, what he can do, like you said,
is the grace of God, which comes after the trauma
or after the bad episodes. You know that, Like now
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that you know, I'm totally removed from it. Matter of fact,
when I talk about it a lot of times, it
kind of reminds me of somebody else's past, not even
my own anymore, you know, because constantly.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
Can I inject right here?
Speaker 1 (22:47):
That's a great point because because what came to my
mind as.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
You were talking was forgiveness.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
How do you forgive somebody and even like even like
your mother as you were sharing, you know, you know
who knows where that came from. Who knows where her
childhood was.
Speaker 2 (23:11):
You know, who knows what.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
Kind of abuse she went through. And unfortunately she didn't
know how to love you like you needed to be loved,
you know, and you know, and so but do we blame.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
Her or do we blame the devil?
Speaker 1 (23:26):
You know who, the devil who hates her and the
devil who hates you, and he hates all of us
because he's really out to steal, kill and destroy every
one of us because he knows that he's falling from
the position that he had. And we are the sons
of God now and so so you know, so we
forgive you know, the person our perpetrators, Jesus somehow when
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he came from heaven, he said, love your enemies, He said,
do good to them that despitefully used you, bless them
that curse you. I'm like, what kind of talk is that?
How in the world can we do that? Because We're
so used to retaliating. We're so used to retaliating and
holding stuff in our hearts, and you know, but how
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can we love our enemies and forgive our abusers? You know?
Speaker 6 (24:20):
So?
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Man, that's really it's the love of God, the agpy
love of God. It's the unfailing, unchanging, unconditional love of
God that allows us to do that, and so he
wants to fill our hearts with that same type of love. Now, Kyle,
we have just a few minutes left, but would you
be able to maybe just just talk to the audience
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rather than talking to me, Minister to them and pray
for them and those who have gone through like tragedies
and atrocities such as you, and just share with them
the love of God.
Speaker 6 (24:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
I also I want to say, in reference to the
forgiveness piece, that you know, not forgiving somebody because they
hurt you. Because I know I wanted to kill my abuser,
I wanted to kill my mother, you know. I mean
I really went through all those emotions and their natural
emotions when somebody hurts you like that. But the thing
is is that you know, it's like taking poison or
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giving poison thinking you're giving it to somebody else, but
you're taking it yourself because the unforgiveness will trap you.
It will cause a boatload of illness to come upon
you and lots of bad things. And it's just so important.
I know, I know when you're being traumatized, you're being beat,
or you're getting hurt or you know, just you know,
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whatever it is you're going through that that you don't
you're not ready to forgive somebody.
Speaker 4 (25:48):
And a lot of people tell me that, oh I'm
not ready.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
But if you want to get totally free in your life,
that's the only way you can is to forgive. And
like you know, he said, you know, forgive others because
and then I will forgive you. If you don't forgive others,
I won't forgive you, you know. So I just you know,
I just pray. I want to, you know, close up
(26:12):
here with a prayer. I just pray for the people
that are listening, the hearers, Father, that the hearers would
understand how important it is to lay down whatever it
is that happened to them, to lay it down at
your feet and give it to you, and then you
set us free, and then we'll be free.
Speaker 4 (26:31):
Indeed, but the longer you hold on.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
The longer you hold on, the more pain you're going
to be in. And it's not really until I laid
it down at his feet. And even if they're re
injuring you, even if you're still being beat today and
you know, and it happened a while ago, but there's
still occurring, if you're a bad relationship, if you lay
down and give it all to Jesus, he will set
(26:57):
your free. It says, cast your cares upon me, for
I cares for you, and he will care for you.
Trust me, because like I said, he's not a respector
of persons, and he does it for me, and he
cares for me each and every day. I'd give him
all the glory for taking me out of that Mirie
clay and that dirt and everything I lived in and
(27:19):
set me on that rock. Like it says in some forty,
I give him all the glory and I continue to
and you will too one day.
Speaker 4 (27:27):
So I just pray for the hearer's father. I pray
that they can.
Speaker 3 (27:31):
Lay down the pain, they can lay down the hurt
and put it at your feet so that you can
set them free.
Speaker 4 (27:38):
And I just I wish you the best in that.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Amen, Wow. Amen, I felt the heat.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
I felt heat on that, Kyle, and I believe that
the fire of God is going out and just touching
lives all over the world, you know, because of the
testimony that you shared, and really and it's because of
because of the love of God and you know, his
will for his will and.
Speaker 2 (28:05):
His plan for their lives.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Thank you so much for joining us in this Real
Meat podcast. Before we leave, Kyle, is there some kind
of information that people can call or contact you or
you know, so that you can maybe possibly minister to
them as well.
Speaker 3 (28:25):
So he's going to put the email on the screen.
That's probably the best way to contact.
Speaker 4 (28:29):
Me right now.
Speaker 3 (28:31):
Okay, but I'd really like to hear from you all,
especially if you're struggling. I can recommend some books, I
can recommend some verses to help you out.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Amen.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
Well, one thing for sure, So she's telling you that
there is help for you, there is healing for you,
there's restoration for you. And guess why, there's greatness on
the inside of you. And the Lord wants that to
come out because you've been created in his image and
in his likeness and as.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
He is, so are you.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
You have the greatness of God, the life of God
in your veins right now. And so the real me,
the real you, is just waiting and chopping at the bit,
trying to burst forth into the earth to show the
glory of God.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
And so thank you for joining us once again. Listen.
We're looking forward to hearing from.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
You, and and we we would like for you to
stay tuned for the next Real Meat podcast because God's
got some great things for you.
Speaker 2 (29:34):
Be real, have a great day. We love you in
Jesus' name.
Speaker 5 (29:39):
Bye bye
Speaker 6 (30:00):
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