November 17, 2023 • 48 mins
Picture this scenario: you're out on a romantic dinner date with your partner, and every time you're about to enjoy a candlelit moment, they fart.Listen to the panel as we breakdown the crazy situation on Real Talk With Cathy and Shania.
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Hello everyone, and we'll come toreal talk with Kathy and Shanier. And
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it for journey. And you knowyou have a very hot topic today.
So so I'm going to start offlike this. So you said you're ready.
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Okay, here's today's topic, perfectstorm. Picture this scenario. Okay,
you are in a romantic relationship,right, and you're you, You
and your partner go of a romanticdate, and every time you're about to
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enjoy your like enjoy your candlelight moment, they start fourteen. How would you
feel? I'd be upset and Iwould I would also think that they prefer
to work rather than be with me. Yeah, if my boyfriend does something
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like that, Like, I'd beso upset, especially maybe if you're out
having dinner enjoying the moment, Likewhy unless maybe it's something that they have
maybe but bad stomacht or something.I can't understand that. But if they're
just feeling like letting it out andthey do it like in front of me
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when they can excuse themselves. Butit's an literal occurrence, how are you
going to like avoid that it justcame out. Yeah, it's unnatural,
like it's something natural, but it'ssomething you can control. So why don't
you rush to the toilet first?If we if you're out with people,
please just go to the toilet.What is it or what is in the
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middle of like runn into the toilet? Just came out? Would they rather
like sit down and okay? Thatwould be funny, But it also depends
like it would be funny, butit also depends on the tape of relationship
I have with someone, Like ifI don't know you like that, please
don't do that in front of me. Have you ever done that in front
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of your friend or you know,someone close to you. Yeah, I've
done that before, but it's notsomething that I do all the time.
Like maybe I was not aware.How did they really just they were just
like oops, yeah, it's becauseit was weird. But yeah, so
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yeah it's embarrassing, but you havedone it. Okay, jeorgh Okay,
quick up date on you, Josh. We have our today is perfect store.
Okay. So here's the scenario.Are you out with your partner on
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a romantic date and every time you'reabout to enjoy your your good moment,
your partner that like fart out ofnowhere. So the question is how would
you feel? That's the like today'sscenario. So let me go to your
freetz. How would you feel ina romantic date and my partner my girlfriend
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started farting. I would not atfirst if that would be the first date,
and the fact maybe I will turna blind eye or turn a blind
ear on that but of course it'sperfectly normal, and I would not let
a single part ruin something special withwith with with someone specialists, she said
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constantin. Maybe she's having a orsomething. And besides, we're on a
romantic date, so I assume thatwe will be in a good facility or
it will have a good comfort room. So it's much better for her to
be in that situation than somewhere else. Okay, what if the let's say
you on that table, the resolutionis cute and everything, then you'll wait
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to account in this man, thisall of us. No, definitely not
because it's it's it's it's gonna behard to cover. But no, you
know I'm not gonna be able tocover the smell or whatever. But what
I can cover is save her fromfurther embarrassment. So if I can do
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anything or something to get her outof that situation, that will be my
role to do so and not toadd or you know, left leave her
at that moment where I think sheneeds me the most with their diarrhea.
Have you ever been in that situation? No, I have not, but
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but I know what it feels.So okay, you know you will need
a savior at that time, andI'll be that savior just in case it's
embarrassing. Okay, what about you, mass, How would you feel about
the whole scenario? First of all, I will feel embarrassed, and I
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will kind of like shocked, whyare you keeping farting? And probably ask
the reason why. Maybe the personis nervous. No, I have friends
like that. If they're nervous,they have diarrhea. So probably we can
talk about it and ask her toprobably take a medicine or something or like
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a pill to prevent that from happyand we'll have a enjoyable night together.
Okay, have you ever been inthat situation? I have not in my
life. I I feel like allof you are lying. It's nothing to
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be afraid of. It's not Yeah, they're lying. Yeah, I just
noticed that because you just don't.I'm not even asking if if you frightened
in one of your partner, likein front of your crew, like friends
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or family, something someone's close toyou even not, yes I did,
but it's not constant. Are yousure it's not on a date. It's
not on a date. Hopefully itdoesn't happen on a date. It's just
one time, not always Okay,let's go to Josh. What do you
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think? How would you really feel? Does that? Well, it depends
if there's a it's just a soundor there's some smell into it. What
kind of part we're talking about,fart with the meat, fart with the
meat, the one with sound orbest mate. So I'm just asking,
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like something general, how would youfeel does that whether it's it's had produces
sound or I don't know, wouldyou what would you do at that moment?
Yeah, that would be well Iwould be smiling, of course,
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and I wonder why, you know, with some humor. Yeah, I'll
approach it with humor, I guess. Okay, you know, if you
smiled, you're going to make itlike honey. But also if you love,
if you laugh at that moment,your partner will feel like, no,
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this is embarrassing. They will notlaugh with you. It's just going
to like, know, what didyou do? So you say you're just
going to lave. I'm not reallygonna laugh in a way that would embarrass
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her. But you know, Ithink that would be a moment, you
know, too, to catch andmaybe save her from like maybe I would
start to wrap, you know,I would or complain in the restaurant,
why is that? What's that?What's the smell? And a restaurant is
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this? But I don't agree ina restaurant you should not fat, especially
like when people are eating, maybewhen your guys are like in a closed
room and you're used to an another. That's why I said, it depends
with the person, like if likewe don't know each other like that,
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Yeah, I cannot do that toyou, and I expect the same thing.
Don't fat in front of me.But in a restaurant eating food,
then someone fats and then it's medleyand you're eating, I sure you'd puke.
So yeah, what will you doif you're in that situation? Then
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would you walk out? If let'ssay I'm in a date with someone and
they're constantly fating while we're having anice meal, Like first I ask like,
are you okay? Find out ifthey have an issue, But if
they're just doing it because they feellike letting it out, then I just
take my bag and walk out,Like that's would be embarrassing, you know,
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people would just stay at our tablelike like okay that couple, Like
I don't want such embarrassment, soI just leave if it's not like sickness
or something diarrheal. Yeah, yourfavorite your favorite meal on the table and
just work out because someone f itOkay, no second, oh no,
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constantly fighting, I'd leave. Butif it's one thing, one time thing,
it's okay. Like someone who's constantconstantly fighting, like you can't eat,
you won't enjoy your meal, Likethey'll ruin the meal for you,
So you just have to leave,especially if it's on a date. Yeah,
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like if I had diarrhea and likeI'm planning on going on a date,
ad cancel because I don't want toembarrass myself and I don't want like
to picture that like bad email ageof me or something. So yeah,
i'd expect there we I'm dazing todo the same thing, because that's it's
not cool at all. Okay,if they do it once one time,
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are you going to give them likea side die? Then they do it
twice aside die? How many timesare you going to ignore? Like they
do it first, you ignore secondthat how many times? How many chances
will you give them to stop?How many chances? Okay, since they
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want to put me in an uncomfortablesituation, I'm also going to put them
in an uncomfortable situation. I'll askthem if they're okay, and why are
you doing that? Like the peoplearound are you okay? Yeah? And
I'd ask him to stop, andif he continues, then I know that
this person is not interested in havinga nice meal with me. Okay,
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are you going to be like yo, what's up your stomach? Or you
just go just go to the path, yeah something? Are you okay?
Yeah? Excuse yourself, bro leave. Yeah, that's embarrassing. That's embarrassing
because if you tell them in frontof the people, that will be since
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they embarrassed themselves first, So areyou going to add you're going to do
it? I wouldn't shout at twiceor twice like, I wouldn't speak loudly,
just whisper like in the years,because I don't also want to embarrass
myself because if your daty is likemaking the whole restaurants like uncomfortable, people
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are going to stay like at yourtable, like what's wrong? And even
the way I may come and justask like you guys need to leave,
and then you'd find yourself in Twitteror something. And the way now these
people put everything on social media,I don't see my name somewhere, you
will go viral my face, Yeah, yes, viral, viral. Yeah,
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that's the good thing to go viral. But okay, the situation is
a bit embarrassing. But but youdon't want your name to be everywhere right
on your most embarrassing situation. Yeah, but it's natural. Okay, Okay,
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I have a first question. Okay, I'm going to you Fastion here.
How do you think constant fighting mightaffect a relationship? First of all,
you're going to give your significant othernumerous stomachics if you constantly fat in
their presence. And I also thinkthat it may ruin relationships, Like if
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you have a problem, go checkit out. Doing it once in a
while. I don't think it's anissue if you okay, it's something normal,
like okay, I don't know ifI should say it. But if
let's say my boyfriend, someone whoI really really know, like fat in
front of me, like one timething, I'd be like you, babe,
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like then it would just be over. But if you constantly fat,
especially at nights when someone is sleeping, they always fating, like I think
it would drain your relationship. Sleepingyou cannot control. Really you're sleeping,
you cannot like holdly sleeping. Ican, okay, personally I can control
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unless I have the rear. Soyeah, it's something that you feel before
you lets it, lets it out. Yeah, I'm not a heavy sleeper,
so I feel everything. I feeleverything, So I don't know if
you keep us just going to releaseit and call it a day. Okay,
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that's a good thing if you sleep. So what about you, almus
do you then't like farting can affectrelationship? Yeah, definitely, just like
Shaniah said, when you're outside withyour partner and he keeps on farting,
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and you will be the center ofattention, so you can't really focus on
having a deep conversation if that's thecase. So probably you have to help
him, like ask what is happening? Is he nervous? Did he ate
something bad? And you know,help him recover that that situation, like
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drink some pill, go to thedoctor so that he can solve that altogether
and end it there right there andthen must are you a heavy sleeper?
Now I'm not I'm saying are youa heavy sleeper? Like Genia said,
she's not a heavy sleeper. Sowould you feel it when something else when
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coming up and if I'm sleeping,like if I can feel it, yeah,
definitely, But it doesn't happen forme. Yeah, it doesn't happen.
It just comes out when I'm awake. But if I'm if I'm sleeping,
no, everything holds off like mylike my pee, my poop,
everything, So it doesn't happen tome. I don't know with other people.
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I think you only there had likea camera or something with microphone in
your room so that you can listenin the morning if you did that when
you feel you are asleep or something. Okay, what about you, freez,
do you think like constant fatting affectsrelationship? Anything effects relationship and especially
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farting. Not only that, itwill affect your conversations. You won't be
able to or you'll have a hardtime to have deep conversations. But the
good side is you'll be laughing allthe time, so that's also a good
side of it. But if itgets serious, you have to really,
you know, get help. Andif you're if your boyfriend or girlfriend is
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really having a hard time farting andcan't control it whenever wherever, So definitely
should seek medical help and and haveit fixed right away. But you have
a good laugh. No, ifit's a one time thing, I would.
But if it's constantly, now youknow, it'd be making me uncomfortable,
like I'd be having stomach cakes,like I'd feel like puking I lodged.
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Yeah, like my stomach is goingto become bloated. Like yeah,
if it's constantly, so no,please don't do that. If does that,
I guess you'd have to book anappointment. We're going to get that
fixed immediately. So if if youif you're dating, your partner has to
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have to sign and a is ita contract your form where they say I'm
not going to fat When I'm ascleep, I'm not going to fat.
When would you do that, Chania, because it sounding like you would,
really you will do you would dothat something like that? No, like
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you guys are not cassicly, Isaid, like it's okay to fat,
it's normal, but just try toavoid like if you have the rere,
lock yourself in a room, youstay there, like, just be away
from people till you're okay, becauseyou're going to make them sick as well.
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That's what I'm look from like Ican't manage bad, like my body's
going to react. So if it'ssomething smelly like some imagine like being like
in a room filled with which justthinks like you're going to puke, Like
your body is going to react likeyeah, so no, like it's okay,
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too fat, too bad. I'mcoming to you, Josh, what
do you think? But like,does fatting affair like cand of affect your
relationship, Well, definitely it woulda relationship. But you know, if
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I'm concerned about the person, Iwould see it as an opportunity to help
her. Maybe we could have adate in the hospital, you know,
something like that in an other wayyou get to know each other. No,
you can. You can take itas a cons like you would laugh
at him. It would be fine, you know if she would reciprocate with
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also left because she doesn't know what'shappening, but she would definitely feel like
if I'm on that situation, Iwill make her feel I am concerned and
yeah and get her the necessary help. Yeah, maybe I would. I
would propose to her like yeah,well well just it would It would bring
me a smile, but you know, I'll be really concerned where where that
fart is coming from? You know, you know what I think? Maybe,
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Yeah, she needs a medical help. Yeah, speaking, you gotta
get to the root of where thiswhere you're from. Yeah, and if
I'm really interested, Yeah, Iwill not let go easily, but I
would help. I will make herfeel that I'm with her in her quest
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to know. Okay, you gotto well, uh, well, what
do you call it? I haveanother question for you, but I'm coming
to you first. Is passing asa red flag or is it just a
natural part of being human? Wouldyou consider it a red flag to you?
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I don't think it's a red flag. It's biologically, it's normally if
you can't fasten, you know,you have a problem, you have to
go to the doctor. Like yeah, if you're not passing out gas,
it means your body is not okay. But it is a red flag when
it constantly like yeah, and Ithink they should bring back shame. Some
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people have no shame, They justdo it in fun. Yeah, some
people have no shame, they justdo You can't do it. It also
depends to the type of relationship withsomeone. Imagine that I'm sitting next my
cities right now. Okay, wemay know each other, like you don't
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know me that well, then startfighting near you? That is just not
okay, my eyes will roll atyou. Yeah, exactly. So people
like people should have shame. Wegot you. You said people should said
people should have shame when it comesto fighting. Just don't know where.
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Okay, what about you, Joe? What do you hear from you?
Is it a red flag to you? Is it red flag if the person
keeps fighting? Is that a question? Yeah? Is it? It's a
question. It's a question. Imean, is that really a red slag
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for me? Like I would beeven more curious, Like if I'm attracted
the person and then she fighted,I'll be taking that's like approach it with
curiosity. But oh okay, it'snot already flag to you. Okay,
well you said that, what wouldyou mind? No, it's not.
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It's absolutely normal for our body tohave that kind of gas. So,
but everything in excess is bad.So it is a red flag if it's
excessive, and it may be anindication of a serious health issue. So
yeah, go get help. I'mjust going to tell them, you know,
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you have to live and go tosee and go see a doctor.
Yeah, I would if I reallylike the person, yeah, I would
offer my health list going to accompanythem when they are still fighting. At
first, you're discussed by the fact. Are you still going to like follow
them to the doctor when they arestill doing it? Oh? Are you
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just going to go on your separatelyand tell them Let meature the doctors,
let meature the hospital. Just goyour separate ways. We will meet to
our destination. Okay, yeah,yeah, sure I will. If I
really like the person, I canprobably take advantage of that situation. Like
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we will put on masks and thenwe will keep on laughing. Well,
he keeps on farthing, so yeah, probably it's a nice experience. Yeah,
so that would be fun if Ireally like him. Yeah, that's
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yeah, you're taking advantage situation.Lab So it's other people problems. It's
other it's the other people now inour you know, in the room.
That's their problem now. So weboth keep on laughing our hearts out.
If that's the case, if Iwill accompany them, okay, you're a
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good buzz on. Then what alittle bit your free Is it that a
flag? Do you? No?Definitely it's not a red flag. Maybe
for me it would take a lotof fart a lot of farting for for
it for it to be a redflag, because like what they said,
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it's it's perfectly normal. And evenif you fart a lot, that could
also be normal because you know,some some people are just gassy and not
able to you know, function well, or maybe there's really a problem that's
uh, that's why they fart alot. So even if they do it
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intentionally, because I do have afriend who farts a lot. He's a
guy, and we studied together andand we're who, no, he's not
he he We actually studied in thesame in the same school. So there's
there's a staircase going up to herclassroom, so he always he always go
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ahead of me and then he justpoints and then farts on my face.
So you know, there there's there'sreally a lot of reason or meaning why
why a person part It could bebiologically naturally, it could be intentionally,
but uh, you know, ithappens in in it it's a natural part
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of life. And I would Iwould not turn my back on someone who
experiences that, So especially someone Ilike, I really like, and someone
who who I really I'm attracted to, So not that not a red flag.
Wow, Okay, you're saying it'snot a red flag. Go with
that then? So, uh thatwas Joan Shaniyah. Is it fair to
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expect you? Also? I wasjust going to mention something like from what
Trees said and Josh, like,most boys don't expect girls to fat.
So, like, when I listento your like how you're thinking, it's
kind of interesting because I know mostmost of the people, like most of
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the people I know, like theybelieve girls don't like poop, don't fat.
I think they just know, butthey just don't want to believe it
because they find it disgusting and it'ssomething natural. So like they're just hearing
like you guys opinions and the waylike you're laughing about it. It's pretty
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interesting from what I've heard other boysor guys say. So yeah, some
people will be like you, whatare you doing? Yeah? But natural
thing? Okay, Shaney, Ihave this question. Do you think it's
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fair to expect your partner to controltheir guess during romantical things? Here we're
not talking about them having like athey eat something bad or diarrhea or something.
Do you expect them to like holdit until your dinner is over.
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Yeah, yeah, okay, ifthey're really really pressed and it's only okay,
it's not advisable because you made fastand it's maine out to be dirheal,
so guess what, Like, soit's advisable just to hold it in
because sometimes fat can be disguised asdiarrhea. So imagine soiling your pants when
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you're like in a restaurant, havingto be embarrassed. Yeah, like it's
not something that m Yeah, itwould be embarrassing. Yeah, it's it's
it's disgusting. I think, well, well what about picture this? Okay,
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you're out of your partner, right, and that's your moment he wants
to propose. He's on his kneesdown holding the ring. Then he fats,
are you going to say it notto the proposal or just going to
take the ring? And then laughI'd laugh like it's I said earlier,
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like firsting is not something that's bad. It's just bad when it's constantly.
But it would be fun. ImagineI'd be crying and then he's proposing,
then he's fighting, like are yousure about that? In front of his
friends maybe family. It was likea small occasion, would you would you
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really like no, ignore that?Okay? For us, I guess it
would be funny for us, andfor the others, I don't know,
so like it's our moments, sothat's their problem. I'm getting engaged,
okay, getting engaged with for it? Okay, Okay, what about you?
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Free it? Is it fair?Do you do you expect your partner
to hold it until you your romanticdate or it's over. For me,
it doesn't matter if if she wasable to hold it or not. I
kinda said, it's it's something,it's inevitable. I would say, even
for me, because if that wouldhappen to me, then definitely, definitely
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it's embarrassing. But you know,if you do have that good chemistry with
your partner and you do know thatit happens normally and it's it's not like
a big deal to you, thendefinitely, if I would not reprimand someone
that you should have holded longer,or you should have you should have you
know, released it before we wentout of the house or something like that.
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So you know, it depends onit depends on the situation, but
definitely, definitely it's a it's agood time to laugh and and mind this,
mind this, you have a bettermemory of that moment than anything else
if if that happens to you andyour partner, So I think that would
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be a good memory to look backon some day or memory memory. What
with what if they have like astyle of doing it, maybe they leave
the leg up or they just sitsin a sudden position and they really the
funt but just then't be like long? Is that normal? Like should they
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hold their legs and not like legit can come out? Because sometimes they
make it in a satin position?Whoa, Okay, is that normal?
Would you still like expect them ifthey have like a science they have to
and that's and that's like my partner, then I would I would imitate her.
If she's farting and she's lifting herleg up to fart, then I'll
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do the same. Oh my god, that is weird. Like okay,
boys, you guys are weird.Like guys just weird. I don't think
any girl would do something like that. Maybe a guy would, but a
girl just tell me, are yougonna word right now? Okay? Okay,
so let's why are you going tofind yours? That's nasty If you're
just going like to raise your legbecause they did that. So the both
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of you are looking like you willbe funny doing it, in both of
you doing it, it's it willbe a funny moment, you know,
a funny moment for us, butfor others. I don't. I don't
care. Yeah, yeah, theothers will be disgusting, you know,
But that's that's it. That's interestingthing to say. We'll just have our
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Well did you hear what he said? He said, we say it would
be okay if someone raises one ofthe legs. That's disgusting, like you
would laugh. Whoa, that's nice, Like guys, Oh my god,
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that's not disgusting. That's a relaxingway for you to release it. Oh
no, it's not. You getout of your pants faster. Are you
hearing your logic right now? Canyou hear your just? How were I
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just with your post time? Hisn't that a better way? So this
brings me to this, So doyou do that? Because like you're talking,
it's like you're talking from experience.So something you do that? Right?
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No, I don't. It's justa fun way. Maybe sooner or
later he will do it. Ifit's a fun way, then you should
nod is raising her leg It's definitely. I'll imitate her to you know,
for us, for us to dothe same thing. That's a fun way
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to do. Farting together with herlegs up. Tell me something sweeter than
that, guys pooping together. I'dnever come to a place. Oh my
god, I'd imagine like your house, would be thinking if that's what you
guys do, like imitating each other, like fighting. So she'd be like,
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okay, can you do this?Then you do the same thing he
does that. Yeah, I thinkyou do that. So you asked,
would you would you raise like likehis dad? Yeah, if that's the
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way to her heart, make somethingof it, enjoying her. Hey,
this is interesting. You know Iwould actually make something out of that.
You're going to do it? Yeah, you guys are honesty. Yeah,
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if she does, or just standup and like bend a little then released
the girls. Do you do that? You and free? I think you.
I guess you do that a lote. Oh you'll be You'll be disgusted,
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it will be she'll be disgusted ifwe do that. But we do
that for the sake of our partners. Imagine you farting with your legs up
and then your boyfriend who loves youimitates you for that. Is that a
lot? Okay? If your girldoes that, trust me, she's very
comfortable around you. People are talkingand saying, if you're a girl fat
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in front of you, she isreally comfortable in that relationship. Do you
agree with that if she does thatin front of you? Yeah, I
think because like if I have aboyfriend or something, I wouldn't try like
to fat, like in front ofthem, like during our first date,
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because I believe it would be weird. Like for girls, it's weird,
like we're not trying to create somekind of impression, like a nasty one
like so I wouldn't do that.But maybe after a long period of time,
like when I'm very comfortable with you, ad let maybe one out.
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Yeah. So you should be happyif your girlfriend fats in front of you.
Okay, get you, Okay,okay, what about you? Yeah,
I agree with that. If she'scomfortable in your relationship, she doesn't
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hold back who she really is.So if she if she's feeling like she's
farting, then she can go doit. Okay, Okay, okay,
guys to okay, this is likea postumal question you have like astiety,
you do make free safety. Hewould raise his egg up? Would you
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do? Would you raise you youlike that and just really pet you.
I'm asking mass No, no,no, I won't do that. It's
just not me. I will fightwhatever I'm doing. I will fight whatever
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position I'm in. There's no requirementfor acrobatics or something like that. That's
nasty freads in Josh, that's nasty. Your side of fighting. They will
do everything in love nasty. There'sno acrobatics seed it. There's no probatics
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needed. But there's a meta.There's a meta the most effective way to
do it. That's that's raising yourleg. Yeah, and it's called disgusting.
So oh yeah, okay, hesaid it's call disgusting. Wait about
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that? Uh okay, shannye okay, Shania, I'm coming to you first.
I think were at the time.It's running out. Okay, but
what do you call it? Isthere a difference between and the accidental fats
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and versus intentional farting? Do youthink there's a different accidental and intentional?
Yeah, you just say this accidentallyand intentionally. Hey, when it's accidental,
like it's okay, but intentional,Yeah, unless you're comfortable and you
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don't mind doing it, Like ifyou're a Fred's girlfriend or Josh's girlfriend,
Like I don't think that be aproblem because they think it's funny. So
yeah, that's them. But I'mvery sure if someone else, you know,
someone else, we disagree with themand say, no, that's not
funny. I'm saying, like someoneelse will say that it's not funny to
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them. But Fred and Jeelsh it'sfunny, and that's kind of interesting.
I'm going to give you my coldpoints. You know, sometimes maybe you
might be talking to you partner,maybe you're trying to like have this conversation
and you're telling them in a niceway. Actually you're telling them, you
know, the way you I don'tlike the way you fat and something,
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and she's start like yelling it youdon't love me or something. What what
like do you think like couples canlike communicate about fighting without it becoming like
without attention or something. I'm goingto us your first if couples can can
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you repeat your question, like,if couples can like communicate about fighting without
it becoming a source of tension,like without them fighting or something. Yeah,
like any couple, because others wouldbe like, oh, you don't
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love me, start trying any couplewho like disagree, like having issues about
fat that I think okay when it'san intentional like like we said earlier,
If it's something like mad call,like, it's okay, like you can
go like to the doctor and makesure maybe your your girlfriend or your wife
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is treated properly. But if it'ssomething like someone is just enjoying doing that
would like be an issue, likein your relationship. So yeah, I
think it would be an issue ifyour girlfriend says she does not like that,
or if your wife or husband saysthey don't like that, then I
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don't think you should do that becausemaybe it's affecting them in one way or
another. How would you approachestation?Would you like that? Sit them down
and tell them, babe, thisis not I'm not okay with this,
I'm not okay with this. Howwould you go about that? Like,
I wouldn't be petty about it becausefat is something normal, But if they're
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just doing this to annoying me,then I'd I'd give them one or a
piece of my mind, like youhave to stop doing this. But I
don't think we should break up oversomething as stupid like that. Yeah,
why it's wild from Genia? Whatabout hu Mus? What do you think?
No, they won't if it's intentional. It's like if they're doing that
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on purpose. If they're doing thaton purpose, and probably they don't want
me to be around or probably theywant to embarrass me, so they don't
want me enough to have like havetheir best foot forward towards me. So
I guess I will take it asindication that they don't want me that much
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if they're doing that intentionally. Butif it's accidental, then I'm all for
it. I'm good with it.Yeah, that's amazing. What about to
Jazz, What do you think aboutthat? Yeah, I would approach it
in a similar way. Way.I would bring it up to the person
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in a caring and you know,yeah, so a moment, you know,
to build together and really make herfeel I am with her. Okay,
how are you going to approach tothem? Yeah, just ask ask
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her about love. No, no, no, of course, with the
with the with the concerned posture andsay, you know, I really care
about you and I will be withyou in the process of getting to the
heart of anything. You know,we're discovering from I know it's coming from
your Gassic stuff. But you know, medically, you know, doctors would
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know, I'll be with you inthis assure them. Yeah, that's what
you call leat physically. That's interesting. So we lead emotionally, you also
lead physically leadership in relationship, youknow. Okay, okay, got you?
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What about you, Freez? Howwould you go about that? Here's
what I'm gonna say. Okay,honey, as much as I would like
you to fart every time, I'mtrading that, I have to trade that,
oh for your health. I'm concerned. I want you to be better,
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but I'm gonna miss your fart.But the most important thing is that
you'd be well. So it's notit's not something like that, that's like
something a big deal or something youright, But it went to it's just
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coming from your heart. It's comingfrom my heart of course, because I
want her to be well, asI just got like going to coming.
It's coming from my heart because Iwant her. I want her to be
well. Yeah, yes, yes, because that's how you also get good
memories or memories. Okay, Ithink you have a very nice you'll be
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having a nice way to calm themdown and tell them. Okay, yeah,
it should be a running out oftime. Any last words for waiting
coup holds who are planning to dothat but pan or something, any last
words anyone? You just want toshout out my girlfriend right now? Okay,
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I'll also give a shout out tomy family and friends. Also shout
out to my family and friends andto everyone who's watching this fart fact Storm
episode. Yeah, shout out toall my friends who are farting their way
to a better relationship. Glorious brother, glorious wait for the race, that's
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nasty. Okay, what about yourfriends? In last words? Yeah,
shout out to my girlfriend was watchingright now and snis to be here.
Okay. Well that's a rap upfor today's episode, and thank you for
being part of Real Talk with Caddyand Chany and we can tweet to have
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you back to the next episode.Until then, Bye,
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it for journey. And you knowyou have a very hot topic today.
So so I'm going to start offlike this. So you said you're ready.
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Okay, here's today's topic, perfectstorm. Picture this scenario. Okay,
you are in a romantic relationship,right, and you're you, You
and your partner go of a romanticdate, and every time you're about to
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enjoy your like enjoy your candlelight moment, they start fourteen. How would you
feel? I'd be upset and Iwould I would also think that they prefer
to work rather than be with me. Yeah, if my boyfriend does something
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like that, Like, I'd beso upset, especially maybe if you're out
having dinner enjoying the moment, Likewhy unless maybe it's something that they have
maybe but bad stomacht or something.I can't understand that. But if they're
just feeling like letting it out andthey do it like in front of me
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when they can excuse themselves. Butit's an literal occurrence, how are you
going to like avoid that it justcame out. Yeah, it's unnatural,
like it's something natural, but it'ssomething you can control. So why don't
you rush to the toilet first?If we if you're out with people,
please just go to the toilet.What is it or what is in the
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middle of like runn into the toilet? Just came out? Would they rather
like sit down and okay? Thatwould be funny, But it also depends
like it would be funny, butit also depends on the tape of relationship
I have with someone, Like ifI don't know you like that, please
don't do that in front of me. Have you ever done that in front
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of your friend or you know,someone close to you. Yeah, I've
done that before, but it's notsomething that I do all the time.
Like maybe I was not aware.How did they really just they were just
like oops, yeah, it's becauseit was weird. But yeah, so
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yeah it's embarrassing, but you havedone it. Okay, jeorgh Okay,
quick up date on you, Josh. We have our today is perfect store.
Okay. So here's the scenario.Are you out with your partner on
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a romantic date and every time you'reabout to enjoy your your good moment,
your partner that like fart out ofnowhere. So the question is how would
you feel? That's the like today'sscenario. So let me go to your
freetz. How would you feel ina romantic date and my partner my girlfriend
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started farting. I would not atfirst if that would be the first date,
and the fact maybe I will turna blind eye or turn a blind
ear on that but of course it'sperfectly normal, and I would not let
a single part ruin something special withwith with with someone specialists, she said
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constantin. Maybe she's having a orsomething. And besides, we're on a
romantic date, so I assume thatwe will be in a good facility or
it will have a good comfort room. So it's much better for her to
be in that situation than somewhere else. Okay, what if the let's say
you on that table, the resolutionis cute and everything, then you'll wait
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to account in this man, thisall of us. No, definitely not
because it's it's it's it's gonna behard to cover. But no, you
know I'm not gonna be able tocover the smell or whatever. But what
I can cover is save her fromfurther embarrassment. So if I can do
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anything or something to get her outof that situation, that will be my
role to do so and not toadd or you know, left leave her
at that moment where I think sheneeds me the most with their diarrhea.
Have you ever been in that situation? No, I have not, but
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but I know what it feels.So okay, you know you will need
a savior at that time, andI'll be that savior just in case it's
embarrassing. Okay, what about you, mass, How would you feel about
the whole scenario? First of all, I will feel embarrassed, and I
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will kind of like shocked, whyare you keeping farting? And probably ask
the reason why. Maybe the personis nervous. No, I have friends
like that. If they're nervous,they have diarrhea. So probably we can
talk about it and ask her toprobably take a medicine or something or like
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a pill to prevent that from happyand we'll have a enjoyable night together.
Okay, have you ever been inthat situation? I have not in my
life. I I feel like allof you are lying. It's nothing to
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be afraid of. It's not Yeah, they're lying. Yeah, I just
noticed that because you just don't.I'm not even asking if if you frightened
in one of your partner, likein front of your crew, like friends
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or family, something someone's close toyou even not, yes I did,
but it's not constant. Are yousure it's not on a date. It's
not on a date. Hopefully itdoesn't happen on a date. It's just
one time, not always Okay,let's go to Josh. What do you
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think? How would you really feel? Does that? Well, it depends
if there's a it's just a soundor there's some smell into it. What
kind of part we're talking about,fart with the meat, fart with the
meat, the one with sound orbest mate. So I'm just asking,
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like something general, how would youfeel does that whether it's it's had produces
sound or I don't know, wouldyou what would you do at that moment?
Yeah, that would be well Iwould be smiling, of course,
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and I wonder why, you know, with some humor. Yeah, I'll
approach it with humor, I guess. Okay, you know, if you
smiled, you're going to make itlike honey. But also if you love,
if you laugh at that moment,your partner will feel like, no,
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this is embarrassing. They will notlaugh with you. It's just going
to like, know, what didyou do? So you say you're just
going to lave. I'm not reallygonna laugh in a way that would embarrass
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her. But you know, Ithink that would be a moment, you
know, too, to catch andmaybe save her from like maybe I would
start to wrap, you know,I would or complain in the restaurant,
why is that? What's that?What's the smell? And a restaurant is
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this? But I don't agree ina restaurant you should not fat, especially
like when people are eating, maybewhen your guys are like in a closed
room and you're used to an another. That's why I said, it depends
with the person, like if likewe don't know each other like that,
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Yeah, I cannot do that toyou, and I expect the same thing.
Don't fat in front of me.But in a restaurant eating food,
then someone fats and then it's medleyand you're eating, I sure you'd puke.
So yeah, what will you doif you're in that situation? Then
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would you walk out? If let'ssay I'm in a date with someone and
they're constantly fating while we're having anice meal, Like first I ask like,
are you okay? Find out ifthey have an issue, But if
they're just doing it because they feellike letting it out, then I just
take my bag and walk out,Like that's would be embarrassing, you know,
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people would just stay at our tablelike like okay that couple, Like
I don't want such embarrassment, soI just leave if it's not like sickness
or something diarrheal. Yeah, yourfavorite your favorite meal on the table and
just work out because someone f itOkay, no second, oh no,
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constantly fighting, I'd leave. Butif it's one thing, one time thing,
it's okay. Like someone who's constantconstantly fighting, like you can't eat,
you won't enjoy your meal, Likethey'll ruin the meal for you,
So you just have to leave,especially if it's on a date. Yeah,
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like if I had diarrhea and likeI'm planning on going on a date,
ad cancel because I don't want toembarrass myself and I don't want like
to picture that like bad email ageof me or something. So yeah,
i'd expect there we I'm dazing todo the same thing, because that's it's
not cool at all. Okay,if they do it once one time,
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are you going to give them likea side die? Then they do it
twice aside die? How many timesare you going to ignore? Like they
do it first, you ignore secondthat how many times? How many chances
will you give them to stop?How many chances? Okay, since they
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want to put me in an uncomfortablesituation, I'm also going to put them
in an uncomfortable situation. I'll askthem if they're okay, and why are
you doing that? Like the peoplearound are you okay? Yeah? And
I'd ask him to stop, andif he continues, then I know that
this person is not interested in havinga nice meal with me. Okay,
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are you going to be like yo, what's up your stomach? Or you
just go just go to the path, yeah something? Are you okay?
Yeah? Excuse yourself, bro leave. Yeah, that's embarrassing. That's embarrassing
because if you tell them in frontof the people, that will be since
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they embarrassed themselves first, So areyou going to add you're going to do
it? I wouldn't shout at twiceor twice like, I wouldn't speak loudly,
just whisper like in the years,because I don't also want to embarrass
myself because if your daty is likemaking the whole restaurants like uncomfortable, people
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are going to stay like at yourtable, like what's wrong? And even
the way I may come and justask like you guys need to leave,
and then you'd find yourself in Twitteror something. And the way now these
people put everything on social media,I don't see my name somewhere, you
will go viral my face, Yeah, yes, viral, viral. Yeah,
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that's the good thing to go viral. But okay, the situation is
a bit embarrassing. But but youdon't want your name to be everywhere right
on your most embarrassing situation. Yeah, but it's natural. Okay, Okay,
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I have a first question. Okay, I'm going to you Fastion here.
How do you think constant fighting mightaffect a relationship? First of all,
you're going to give your significant othernumerous stomachics if you constantly fat in
their presence. And I also thinkthat it may ruin relationships, Like if
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you have a problem, go checkit out. Doing it once in a
while. I don't think it's anissue if you okay, it's something normal,
like okay, I don't know ifI should say it. But if
let's say my boyfriend, someone whoI really really know, like fat in
front of me, like one timething, I'd be like you, babe,
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like then it would just be over. But if you constantly fat,
especially at nights when someone is sleeping, they always fating, like I think
it would drain your relationship. Sleepingyou cannot control. Really you're sleeping,
you cannot like holdly sleeping. Ican, okay, personally I can control
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unless I have the rear. Soyeah, it's something that you feel before
you lets it, lets it out. Yeah, I'm not a heavy sleeper,
so I feel everything. I feeleverything, So I don't know if
you keep us just going to releaseit and call it a day. Okay,
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that's a good thing if you sleep. So what about you, almus
do you then't like farting can affectrelationship? Yeah, definitely, just like
Shaniah said, when you're outside withyour partner and he keeps on farting,
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and you will be the center ofattention, so you can't really focus on
having a deep conversation if that's thecase. So probably you have to help
him, like ask what is happening? Is he nervous? Did he ate
something bad? And you know,help him recover that that situation, like
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drink some pill, go to thedoctor so that he can solve that altogether
and end it there right there andthen must are you a heavy sleeper?
Now I'm not I'm saying are youa heavy sleeper? Like Genia said,
she's not a heavy sleeper. Sowould you feel it when something else when
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coming up and if I'm sleeping,like if I can feel it, yeah,
definitely, But it doesn't happen forme. Yeah, it doesn't happen.
It just comes out when I'm awake. But if I'm if I'm sleeping,
no, everything holds off like mylike my pee, my poop,
everything, So it doesn't happen tome. I don't know with other people.
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I think you only there had likea camera or something with microphone in
your room so that you can listenin the morning if you did that when
you feel you are asleep or something. Okay, what about you, freez,
do you think like constant fatting affectsrelationship? Anything effects relationship and especially
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farting. Not only that, itwill affect your conversations. You won't be
able to or you'll have a hardtime to have deep conversations. But the
good side is you'll be laughing allthe time, so that's also a good
side of it. But if itgets serious, you have to really,
you know, get help. Andif you're if your boyfriend or girlfriend is
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really having a hard time farting andcan't control it whenever wherever, So definitely
should seek medical help and and haveit fixed right away. But you have
a good laugh. No, ifit's a one time thing, I would.
But if it's constantly, now youknow, it'd be making me uncomfortable,
like I'd be having stomach cakes,like I'd feel like puking I lodged.
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Yeah, like my stomach is goingto become bloated. Like yeah,
if it's constantly, so no,please don't do that. If does that,
I guess you'd have to book anappointment. We're going to get that
fixed immediately. So if if youif you're dating, your partner has to
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have to sign and a is ita contract your form where they say I'm
not going to fat When I'm ascleep, I'm not going to fat.
When would you do that, Chania, because it sounding like you would,
really you will do you would dothat something like that? No, like
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you guys are not cassicly, Isaid, like it's okay to fat,
it's normal, but just try toavoid like if you have the rere,
lock yourself in a room, youstay there, like, just be away
from people till you're okay, becauseyou're going to make them sick as well.
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That's what I'm look from like Ican't manage bad, like my body's
going to react. So if it'ssomething smelly like some imagine like being like
in a room filled with which justthinks like you're going to puke, Like
your body is going to react likeyeah, so no, like it's okay,
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too fat, too bad. I'mcoming to you, Josh, what
do you think? But like,does fatting affair like cand of affect your
relationship, Well, definitely it woulda relationship. But you know, if
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I'm concerned about the person, Iwould see it as an opportunity to help
her. Maybe we could have adate in the hospital, you know,
something like that in an other wayyou get to know each other. No,
you can. You can take itas a cons like you would laugh
at him. It would be fine, you know if she would reciprocate with
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also left because she doesn't know what'shappening, but she would definitely feel like
if I'm on that situation, Iwill make her feel I am concerned and
yeah and get her the necessary help. Yeah, maybe I would. I
would propose to her like yeah,well well just it would It would bring
me a smile, but you know, I'll be really concerned where where that
fart is coming from? You know, you know what I think? Maybe,
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Yeah, she needs a medical help. Yeah, speaking, you gotta
get to the root of where thiswhere you're from. Yeah, and if
I'm really interested, Yeah, Iwill not let go easily, but I
would help. I will make herfeel that I'm with her in her quest
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to know. Okay, you gotto well, uh, well, what
do you call it? I haveanother question for you, but I'm coming
to you first. Is passing asa red flag or is it just a
natural part of being human? Wouldyou consider it a red flag to you?
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I don't think it's a red flag. It's biologically, it's normally if
you can't fasten, you know,you have a problem, you have to
go to the doctor. Like yeah, if you're not passing out gas,
it means your body is not okay. But it is a red flag when
it constantly like yeah, and Ithink they should bring back shame. Some
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people have no shame, They justdo it in fun. Yeah, some
people have no shame, they justdo You can't do it. It also
depends to the type of relationship withsomeone. Imagine that I'm sitting next my
cities right now. Okay, wemay know each other, like you don't
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know me that well, then startfighting near you? That is just not
okay, my eyes will roll atyou. Yeah, exactly. So people
like people should have shame. Wegot you. You said people should said
people should have shame when it comesto fighting. Just don't know where.
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Okay, what about you, Joe? What do you hear from you?
Is it a red flag to you? Is it red flag if the person
keeps fighting? Is that a question? Yeah? Is it? It's a
question. It's a question. Imean, is that really a red slag
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for me? Like I would beeven more curious, Like if I'm attracted
the person and then she fighted,I'll be taking that's like approach it with
curiosity. But oh okay, it'snot already flag to you. Okay,
well you said that, what wouldyou mind? No, it's not.
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It's absolutely normal for our body tohave that kind of gas. So,
but everything in excess is bad.So it is a red flag if it's
excessive, and it may be anindication of a serious health issue. So
yeah, go get help. I'mjust going to tell them, you know,
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you have to live and go tosee and go see a doctor.
Yeah, I would if I reallylike the person, yeah, I would
offer my health list going to accompanythem when they are still fighting. At
first, you're discussed by the fact. Are you still going to like follow
them to the doctor when they arestill doing it? Oh? Are you
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just going to go on your separatelyand tell them Let meature the doctors,
let meature the hospital. Just goyour separate ways. We will meet to
our destination. Okay, yeah,yeah, sure I will. If I
really like the person, I canprobably take advantage of that situation. Like
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we will put on masks and thenwe will keep on laughing. Well,
he keeps on farthing, so yeah, probably it's a nice experience. Yeah,
so that would be fun if Ireally like him. Yeah, that's
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yeah, you're taking advantage situation.Lab So it's other people problems. It's
other it's the other people now inour you know, in the room.
That's their problem now. So weboth keep on laughing our hearts out.
If that's the case, if Iwill accompany them, okay, you're a
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good buzz on. Then what alittle bit your free Is it that a
flag? Do you? No?Definitely it's not a red flag. Maybe
for me it would take a lotof fart a lot of farting for for
it for it to be a redflag, because like what they said,
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it's it's perfectly normal. And evenif you fart a lot, that could
also be normal because you know,some some people are just gassy and not
able to you know, function well, or maybe there's really a problem that's
uh, that's why they fart alot. So even if they do it
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intentionally, because I do have afriend who farts a lot. He's a
guy, and we studied together andand we're who, no, he's not
he he We actually studied in thesame in the same school. So there's
there's a staircase going up to herclassroom, so he always he always go
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ahead of me and then he justpoints and then farts on my face.
So you know, there there's there'sreally a lot of reason or meaning why
why a person part It could bebiologically naturally, it could be intentionally,
but uh, you know, ithappens in in it it's a natural part
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of life. And I would Iwould not turn my back on someone who
experiences that, So especially someone Ilike, I really like, and someone
who who I really I'm attracted to, So not that not a red flag.
Wow, Okay, you're saying it'snot a red flag. Go with
that then? So, uh thatwas Joan Shaniyah. Is it fair to
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expect you? Also? I wasjust going to mention something like from what
Trees said and Josh, like,most boys don't expect girls to fat.
So, like, when I listento your like how you're thinking, it's
kind of interesting because I know mostmost of the people, like most of
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the people I know, like theybelieve girls don't like poop, don't fat.
I think they just know, butthey just don't want to believe it
because they find it disgusting and it'ssomething natural. So like they're just hearing
like you guys opinions and the waylike you're laughing about it. It's pretty
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interesting from what I've heard other boysor guys say. So yeah, some
people will be like you, whatare you doing? Yeah? But natural
thing? Okay, Shaney, Ihave this question. Do you think it's
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fair to expect your partner to controltheir guess during romantical things? Here we're
not talking about them having like athey eat something bad or diarrhea or something.
Do you expect them to like holdit until your dinner is over.
(29:33):
Yeah, yeah, okay, ifthey're really really pressed and it's only okay,
it's not advisable because you made fastand it's maine out to be dirheal,
so guess what, Like, soit's advisable just to hold it in
because sometimes fat can be disguised asdiarrhea. So imagine soiling your pants when
(29:53):
you're like in a restaurant, havingto be embarrassed. Yeah, like it's
not something that m Yeah, itwould be embarrassing. Yeah, it's it's
it's disgusting. I think, well, well what about picture this? Okay,
(30:19):
you're out of your partner, right, and that's your moment he wants
to propose. He's on his kneesdown holding the ring. Then he fats,
are you going to say it notto the proposal or just going to
take the ring? And then laughI'd laugh like it's I said earlier,
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like firsting is not something that's bad. It's just bad when it's constantly.
But it would be fun. ImagineI'd be crying and then he's proposing,
then he's fighting, like are yousure about that? In front of his
friends maybe family. It was likea small occasion, would you would you
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really like no, ignore that?Okay? For us, I guess it
would be funny for us, andfor the others, I don't know,
so like it's our moments, sothat's their problem. I'm getting engaged,
okay, getting engaged with for it? Okay, Okay, what about you?
(31:32):
Free it? Is it fair?Do you do you expect your partner
to hold it until you your romanticdate or it's over. For me,
it doesn't matter if if she wasable to hold it or not. I
kinda said, it's it's something,it's inevitable. I would say, even
for me, because if that wouldhappen to me, then definitely, definitely
(31:56):
it's embarrassing. But you know,if you do have that good chemistry with
your partner and you do know thatit happens normally and it's it's not like
a big deal to you, thendefinitely, if I would not reprimand someone
that you should have holded longer,or you should have you should have you
know, released it before we wentout of the house or something like that.
(32:19):
So you know, it depends onit depends on the situation, but
definitely, definitely it's a it's agood time to laugh and and mind this,
mind this, you have a bettermemory of that moment than anything else
if if that happens to you andyour partner, So I think that would
(32:40):
be a good memory to look backon some day or memory memory. What
with what if they have like astyle of doing it, maybe they leave
the leg up or they just sitsin a sudden position and they really the
funt but just then't be like long? Is that normal? Like should they
(33:05):
hold their legs and not like legit can come out? Because sometimes they
make it in a satin position?Whoa, Okay, is that normal?
Would you still like expect them ifthey have like a science they have to
and that's and that's like my partner, then I would I would imitate her.
If she's farting and she's lifting herleg up to fart, then I'll
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do the same. Oh my god, that is weird. Like okay,
boys, you guys are weird.Like guys just weird. I don't think
any girl would do something like that. Maybe a guy would, but a
girl just tell me, are yougonna word right now? Okay? Okay,
so let's why are you going tofind yours? That's nasty If you're
just going like to raise your legbecause they did that. So the both
(33:52):
of you are looking like you willbe funny doing it, in both of
you doing it, it's it willbe a funny moment, you know,
a funny moment for us, butfor others. I don't. I don't
care. Yeah, yeah, theothers will be disgusting, you know,
But that's that's it. That's interestingthing to say. We'll just have our
(34:17):
Well did you hear what he said? He said, we say it would
be okay if someone raises one ofthe legs. That's disgusting, like you
would laugh. Whoa, that's nice, Like guys, Oh my god,
(34:37):
that's not disgusting. That's a relaxingway for you to release it. Oh
no, it's not. You getout of your pants faster. Are you
hearing your logic right now? Canyou hear your just? How were I
(34:59):
just with your post time? Hisn't that a better way? So this
brings me to this, So doyou do that? Because like you're talking,
it's like you're talking from experience.So something you do that? Right?
(35:23):
No, I don't. It's justa fun way. Maybe sooner or
later he will do it. Ifit's a fun way, then you should
nod is raising her leg It's definitely. I'll imitate her to you know,
for us, for us to dothe same thing. That's a fun way
(35:45):
to do. Farting together with herlegs up. Tell me something sweeter than
that, guys pooping together. I'dnever come to a place. Oh my
god, I'd imagine like your house, would be thinking if that's what you
guys do, like imitating each other, like fighting. So she'd be like,
(36:09):
okay, can you do this?Then you do the same thing he
does that. Yeah, I thinkyou do that. So you asked,
would you would you raise like likehis dad? Yeah, if that's the
(36:30):
way to her heart, make somethingof it, enjoying her. Hey,
this is interesting. You know Iwould actually make something out of that.
You're going to do it? Yeah, you guys are honesty. Yeah,
(36:55):
if she does, or just standup and like bend a little then released
the girls. Do you do that? You and free? I think you.
I guess you do that a lote. Oh you'll be You'll be disgusted,
(37:20):
it will be she'll be disgusted ifwe do that. But we do
that for the sake of our partners. Imagine you farting with your legs up
and then your boyfriend who loves youimitates you for that. Is that a
lot? Okay? If your girldoes that, trust me, she's very
comfortable around you. People are talkingand saying, if you're a girl fat
(37:44):
in front of you, she isreally comfortable in that relationship. Do you
agree with that if she does thatin front of you? Yeah, I
think because like if I have aboyfriend or something, I wouldn't try like
to fat, like in front ofthem, like during our first date,
(38:04):
because I believe it would be weird. Like for girls, it's weird,
like we're not trying to create somekind of impression, like a nasty one
like so I wouldn't do that.But maybe after a long period of time,
like when I'm very comfortable with you, ad let maybe one out.
(38:27):
Yeah. So you should be happyif your girlfriend fats in front of you.
Okay, get you, Okay,okay, what about you? Yeah,
I agree with that. If she'scomfortable in your relationship, she doesn't
(38:47):
hold back who she really is.So if she if she's feeling like she's
farting, then she can go doit. Okay, Okay, okay,
guys to okay, this is likea postumal question you have like astiety,
you do make free safety. Hewould raise his egg up? Would you
(39:12):
do? Would you raise you youlike that and just really pet you.
I'm asking mass No, no,no, I won't do that. It's
just not me. I will fightwhatever I'm doing. I will fight whatever
(39:34):
position I'm in. There's no requirementfor acrobatics or something like that. That's
nasty freads in Josh, that's nasty. Your side of fighting. They will
do everything in love nasty. There'sno acrobatics seed it. There's no probatics
(40:00):
needed. But there's a meta.There's a meta the most effective way to
do it. That's that's raising yourleg. Yeah, and it's called disgusting.
So oh yeah, okay, hesaid it's call disgusting. Wait about
(40:20):
that? Uh okay, shannye okay, Shania, I'm coming to you first.
I think were at the time.It's running out. Okay, but
what do you call it? Isthere a difference between and the accidental fats
(40:47):
and versus intentional farting? Do youthink there's a different accidental and intentional?
Yeah, you just say this accidentallyand intentionally. Hey, when it's accidental,
like it's okay, but intentional,Yeah, unless you're comfortable and you
(41:10):
don't mind doing it, Like ifyou're a Fred's girlfriend or Josh's girlfriend,
Like I don't think that be aproblem because they think it's funny. So
yeah, that's them. But I'mvery sure if someone else, you know,
someone else, we disagree with themand say, no, that's not
funny. I'm saying, like someoneelse will say that it's not funny to
(41:35):
them. But Fred and Jeelsh it'sfunny, and that's kind of interesting.
I'm going to give you my coldpoints. You know, sometimes maybe you
might be talking to you partner,maybe you're trying to like have this conversation
and you're telling them in a niceway. Actually you're telling them, you
know, the way you I don'tlike the way you fat and something,
(41:58):
and she's start like yelling it youdon't love me or something. What what
like do you think like couples canlike communicate about fighting without it becoming like
without attention or something. I'm goingto us your first if couples can can
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you repeat your question, like,if couples can like communicate about fighting without
it becoming a source of tension,like without them fighting or something. Yeah,
like any couple, because others wouldbe like, oh, you don't
(42:44):
love me, start trying any couplewho like disagree, like having issues about
fat that I think okay when it'san intentional like like we said earlier,
If it's something like mad call,like, it's okay, like you can
go like to the doctor and makesure maybe your your girlfriend or your wife
(43:07):
is treated properly. But if it'ssomething like someone is just enjoying doing that
would like be an issue, likein your relationship. So yeah, I
think it would be an issue ifyour girlfriend says she does not like that,
or if your wife or husband saysthey don't like that, then I
(43:30):
don't think you should do that becausemaybe it's affecting them in one way or
another. How would you approachestation?Would you like that? Sit them down
and tell them, babe, thisis not I'm not okay with this,
I'm not okay with this. Howwould you go about that? Like,
I wouldn't be petty about it becausefat is something normal, But if they're
(43:52):
just doing this to annoying me,then I'd I'd give them one or a
piece of my mind, like youhave to stop doing this. But I
don't think we should break up oversomething as stupid like that. Yeah,
why it's wild from Genia? Whatabout hu Mus? What do you think?
No, they won't if it's intentional. It's like if they're doing that
(44:16):
on purpose. If they're doing thaton purpose, and probably they don't want
me to be around or probably theywant to embarrass me, so they don't
want me enough to have like havetheir best foot forward towards me. So
I guess I will take it asindication that they don't want me that much
(44:40):
if they're doing that intentionally. Butif it's accidental, then I'm all for
it. I'm good with it.Yeah, that's amazing. What about to
Jazz, What do you think aboutthat? Yeah, I would approach it
in a similar way. Way.I would bring it up to the person
(45:05):
in a caring and you know,yeah, so a moment, you know,
to build together and really make herfeel I am with her. Okay,
how are you going to approach tothem? Yeah, just ask ask
(45:25):
her about love. No, no, no, of course, with the
with the with the concerned posture andsay, you know, I really care
about you and I will be withyou in the process of getting to the
heart of anything. You know,we're discovering from I know it's coming from
your Gassic stuff. But you know, medically, you know, doctors would
(45:50):
know, I'll be with you inthis assure them. Yeah, that's what
you call leat physically. That's interesting. So we lead emotionally, you also
lead physically leadership in relationship, youknow. Okay, okay, got you?
(46:17):
What about you, Freez? Howwould you go about that? Here's
what I'm gonna say. Okay,honey, as much as I would like
you to fart every time, I'mtrading that, I have to trade that,
oh for your health. I'm concerned. I want you to be better,
(46:43):
but I'm gonna miss your fart.But the most important thing is that
you'd be well. So it's notit's not something like that, that's like
something a big deal or something youright, But it went to it's just
(47:05):
coming from your heart. It's comingfrom my heart of course, because I
want her to be well, asI just got like going to coming.
It's coming from my heart because Iwant her. I want her to be
well. Yeah, yes, yes, because that's how you also get good
memories or memories. Okay, Ithink you have a very nice you'll be
(47:28):
having a nice way to calm themdown and tell them. Okay, yeah,
it should be a running out oftime. Any last words for waiting
coup holds who are planning to dothat but pan or something, any last
words anyone? You just want toshout out my girlfriend right now? Okay,
(47:50):
I'll also give a shout out tomy family and friends. Also shout
out to my family and friends andto everyone who's watching this fart fact Storm
episode. Yeah, shout out toall my friends who are farting their way
to a better relationship. Glorious brother, glorious wait for the race, that's
(48:15):
nasty. Okay, what about yourfriends? In last words? Yeah,
shout out to my girlfriend was watchingright now and snis to be here.
Okay. Well that's a rap upfor today's episode, and thank you for
being part of Real Talk with Caddyand Chany and we can tweet to have
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you back to the next episode.Until then, Bye,
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