July 23, 2024 • 12 mins
José Ordóñez y su esposa Yasmith estuvieron durante algunos meses separados. E; divorcio fue una experiencia dura. Todo debido a las continuas infidelidades de José. Un día decidieron intentar rehacer su matrimonio siendo cristianos. Hoy, luego de 35 años de matrimonio dan testimonio al mundo entero de lo que Jesus ha hecho en sus vidas. Este es solo un pequeño fragmento de las muchas cosas que tienen que contar. COMUNIDAD DIGITAL CRISTIANA 👉 https://joseordonezcristiano.com/comunidad/ Contacto directo con José: jose@joseordonez.net MENSAJES ESCRITOS Y AYUDAS PARA LA FAMILIA: https://joseordonezcristiano.com ▶︎ Grupo exclusivo de amigos de José en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/456812331344962/▶ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoseOrdonezCristiano▶ Twitter: https://twitter.com/joseordonezcris▶ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseordonezcristiano/▶ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JoseOrdoñezCristiano Copyright © José OrdóñezJOJ Medios LLC USA https://joseordonezcristiano.com/podcast/
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(00:04):
Podcast number four hundred and eight.This is the sixth part of the marriage
testimony of those who speak to them, Joseph Ordonez and his wife, Jasmith.
Our testimony specifically focuses on telling theother marriages that, as they go
(00:27):
through the rupture product of infidelities onmy part. One day, Christ came
into our marriage and made it completelynew. In fact, Jasmith, starting
this podcast, makes a brief descriptionof what she feels in unfaithfulness, of
(00:47):
what biblically infidelity is. And theremaybe men and women can identify that terrible
pain the good news. God canheal all that bitterness and can make all
things new. It is the penultimateof podcasts that talk about our marriage testimony
(01:15):
and serves us as before in ourfourth virtual workshop for marriages. Remember that
very well. From the 19th ofAugust to the 23rd we will be working
in a workshop that teaches lessons.He' ll teach you how to have
(01:37):
a proper marriage. It will teachyou to lay the foundations precisely to avoid
those painful episodes of infidelity. Butwe' ll also talk about how to
heal her and we' ll alsotalk about economics and sexuality and the extended
family and what to do when Ihave a stepchild, I' ve married
(02:04):
a second time, how I doto rule my stepdaughter, my stepdaughter.
What should be done about the newmodels of marriages where her children, my
children, our children cohabit. Anyway, I' ve been working tirelessly adding
new lessons to these workshops that havehelped hundreds of marriages around the world.
(02:28):
On 19th August, from seven o' clock in the evening time of Colombia,
we will start the different lessons andthen, in the third hour,
we will enter our counseling rooms andthere I will be providing answers to the
different problems of the families attending.Go right now to José Ordoñez Cristiano com
(02:51):
click on the image of the fourthmarriage workshop and separate your quota because they
are limited. But besides, thereI will find all the topics that we
are going to deal with. Well, for now, take it easy,
because this is the sixth part ofJoseph and Yasmith Ordoñez' s marriage testimony
(03:14):
Welcome. Infidelity breaks, breaks hearts, breaks life, breaks marriage, breaks
the relationship, breaks dreams, breaksthe future, breaks absolutely everything. Infidelity
is very painful. I' dsay traumatic, because it' s lost
(03:38):
to identity. There are many unansweredquestions. Because I thought I knew him,
I thought he was that person Ithought he was and then we walked
supremely overwhelmed. Because infidelity breaks absolutelyeverything. And it is that when we
(04:02):
see why people are unfaithful, whypeople do have a nice home or because
if they have been married for somany years, or it may not be
the perfect home, but they arestill there and they are always in search
of pleasure, of having all thesatisfied desires and they are always that search
(04:24):
no matter what. It' sa huge problem these days. We see
him everywhere, in many homes,in many marriages, in the Church,
in the same church, with peoplewho know the word of God, but
they don' t care. Andthis is because in the heart are evil
thoughts. It says the word ofGod. It is in the heart that
(04:46):
evil thoughts nest. It is inthe heart that all evil desires are wrong.
But those who believe they have theright to fulfill that evil desire are
those who cross the line. They' re the ones who don' t
care, they don' t careabout everything that comes forward. He simply
abrogated the right to do so,the right to fulfill my need, my
(05:11):
desire no matter what, and thatbreaks. It wasn' t easy for
me to forgive him. I couldn' t because I didn' t believe
in him. It was supremely difficult. He tried over and over again to
approach me in a thousand ways,tried to get me to forgive him,
but I couldn' t do it. I couldn' t do it because
(05:35):
I had lost something very big calledtrust. Maybe you can forgive, but
it' s very hard to trustagain. Forgiveness is one of the hardest
things to do. That is whyGod loves people who have a willing heart,
because those who forgive have a willingheart. And it' s an
(05:56):
act of nobility, but it's also a supernatural act, because people
don' t want to do it. Nobody wants to forgive our feelings and
emotions They yell at us not todo it, not to do it.
But forgiveness is a decision. Justthe fact that I want to do it.
God gives us the opportunity to wantto do so, to power and
(06:16):
to achieve it. The biggest workin restoration has to do it. The
person who failed, the one whomade the affront is the one who has
to work the most. And Ithank God that that happened, because it
' s not just that I dideverything here. Not God' s grace
(06:38):
and mercy reached us, but itgave us the opportunity for a new hope,
that that hope is in him,that hope is in Christ, the
hope of a true transformation, ofgenuine repentance. And those who fail must
genuinely repent. If there is nogenuine repentance, he will not make a
(07:00):
cycle that will continue and his lifeand family will pass so many years and
continue in the same year. Athousand nine hundred and ninety- seven.
José Ordonez goes that way for thefive or six world records. He'
s got a joke show that makeshim laugh. However, when lights and
(07:24):
cameras go out, you have togo face your reality. When the fans
are gone, when the autographs aregone, you close the door to your
house, your room, wherever youare and there you are waiting for the
reality of what you are doing.My reality was this I hated what my
(07:47):
father did to me. I sawmy sisters depressed for many years because they
were abandoned by a man when theywere eight years old, Thirteen years old,
you know what that means The heroof their lives went away to never
come back. I saw my momcry for what my dad was doing.
(08:11):
I witnessed how my mother had towork a whole night stuck to a knitting
machine to go out and answer forthe children a man had left. I
saw how a family is destroyed,how foolish in life and how stupid in
life it is for you to bethe victim of the bad behavior of adults,
so that you become the victim ofyour own children. Same thing my
(08:37):
dad did when I was 16.I did it to my daughter when I
was seven years old and to myone- and- a- half-
year- old son. You cansay what was the worst version of the
ordoñez. My grandfather, who hadfive different wives, my father, who
had five different wives and with thosefive he had a son in each marriage,
(08:58):
which was the worst version. Itwasn' t them the worst version
was me, because my grandfather didn' t have the power I had.
My grandfather was not famous, myfather did not have the money that I
had, and I was there ninety- seven years, entrusted in money,
in fame. You think someone cameup to me to tell me, hey,
(09:22):
you' re living badly. Noteveryone applauded me. I thought what
I had was what covets all people, because the person without Christ will run
after the money, behind the successbehind the fortune, I have bad news
for you. If you believe ifthis is your line of thought, I
have bad news for you when youset up the company you work so hard
(09:46):
for, you will realize that itwill not give you happiness, when you
sleep with the strange woman that youso long for and desire, you will
realize the death that this implies.When you run after the man who doesn
' t belong to you and playthe future of your son, of your
sons, of your daughters, ofyour marriage, you' re going to
(10:09):
realize here you' re only goingto find death, because that' s
what God' s word says.Death awaits the unbelievers. That' s
the bad news. The good onesare the following. If you were to
return your way, if you believedthat God could restore any marriage. You
(10:31):
' d be in the right lineof faith. You would honor him who
went up to the stake of Calvaryand gave his life for you, for
me and for our children, forour marriage. He said consummate. It
' s you know what consummate means. It' s your sin It doesn
' t take me by surprise.I know what you' ve done.
I know what nests inside your mindand heart. I know the course you
(10:54):
copied from your dad and grandfather.I know what nests every time you look
at a woman with a desire tocovet them. I know what has nested
in your heart when you look ata man to desire him. I know
what you' ve done so far, maybe your wife, your husband doesn
' t know the product is thechildren who come from that kind of relationship.
(11:20):
I know the good news if youjust regret it, if you confess
my name, if you receive mein your heart, if you give me
a chance, I will rescue yourmarriage and the best news. Your marriage
will never be the same again.I have excellent news for you on the
(11:43):
day Jesus is the center of yourmarriage. Your marriage will be better than
before. Better than always. Inthe following podcast we will be concluding this,
that you have a small sample ofour marriage experience. Finally, don
(12:05):
' t forget. Fourth workshop formarriages from the 19th to the 23rd of
August we will broadcast it through Zoom, so anywhere on the planet where you
are you can participate in our virtualworkshop. Remember that you can find all
the information in José Ordoñez Cristiano.Eat for now I wish you a nice
(12:31):
day and always have the wisdom ofbeing able to cultivate a marriage that never
goes through the painful experience of infidelitythat God blesses you
Podcast number four hundred and eight.This is the sixth part of the marriage
testimony of those who speak to them, Joseph Ordonez and his wife, Jasmith.
Our testimony specifically focuses on telling theother marriages that, as they go
(00:27):
through the rupture product of infidelities onmy part. One day, Christ came
into our marriage and made it completelynew. In fact, Jasmith, starting
this podcast, makes a brief descriptionof what she feels in unfaithfulness, of
(00:47):
what biblically infidelity is. And theremaybe men and women can identify that terrible
pain the good news. God canheal all that bitterness and can make all
things new. It is the penultimateof podcasts that talk about our marriage testimony
(01:15):
and serves us as before in ourfourth virtual workshop for marriages. Remember that
very well. From the 19th ofAugust to the 23rd we will be working
in a workshop that teaches lessons.He' ll teach you how to have
(01:37):
a proper marriage. It will teachyou to lay the foundations precisely to avoid
those painful episodes of infidelity. Butwe' ll also talk about how to
heal her and we' ll alsotalk about economics and sexuality and the extended
family and what to do when Ihave a stepchild, I' ve married
(02:04):
a second time, how I doto rule my stepdaughter, my stepdaughter.
What should be done about the newmodels of marriages where her children, my
children, our children cohabit. Anyway, I' ve been working tirelessly adding
new lessons to these workshops that havehelped hundreds of marriages around the world.
(02:28):
On 19th August, from seven o' clock in the evening time of Colombia,
we will start the different lessons andthen, in the third hour,
we will enter our counseling rooms andthere I will be providing answers to the
different problems of the families attending.Go right now to José Ordoñez Cristiano com
(02:51):
click on the image of the fourthmarriage workshop and separate your quota because they
are limited. But besides, thereI will find all the topics that we
are going to deal with. Well, for now, take it easy,
because this is the sixth part ofJoseph and Yasmith Ordoñez' s marriage testimony
(03:14):
Welcome. Infidelity breaks, breaks hearts, breaks life, breaks marriage, breaks
the relationship, breaks dreams, breaksthe future, breaks absolutely everything. Infidelity
is very painful. I' dsay traumatic, because it' s lost
(03:38):
to identity. There are many unansweredquestions. Because I thought I knew him,
I thought he was that person Ithought he was and then we walked
supremely overwhelmed. Because infidelity breaks absolutelyeverything. And it is that when we
(04:02):
see why people are unfaithful, whypeople do have a nice home or because
if they have been married for somany years, or it may not be
the perfect home, but they arestill there and they are always in search
of pleasure, of having all thesatisfied desires and they are always that search
(04:24):
no matter what. It' sa huge problem these days. We see
him everywhere, in many homes,in many marriages, in the Church,
in the same church, with peoplewho know the word of God, but
they don' t care. Andthis is because in the heart are evil
thoughts. It says the word ofGod. It is in the heart that
(04:46):
evil thoughts nest. It is inthe heart that all evil desires are wrong.
But those who believe they have theright to fulfill that evil desire are
those who cross the line. They' re the ones who don' t
care, they don' t careabout everything that comes forward. He simply
abrogated the right to do so,the right to fulfill my need, my
(05:11):
desire no matter what, and thatbreaks. It wasn' t easy for
me to forgive him. I couldn' t because I didn' t believe
in him. It was supremely difficult. He tried over and over again to
approach me in a thousand ways,tried to get me to forgive him,
but I couldn' t do it. I couldn' t do it because
(05:35):
I had lost something very big calledtrust. Maybe you can forgive, but
it' s very hard to trustagain. Forgiveness is one of the hardest
things to do. That is whyGod loves people who have a willing heart,
because those who forgive have a willingheart. And it' s an
(05:56):
act of nobility, but it's also a supernatural act, because people
don' t want to do it. Nobody wants to forgive our feelings and
emotions They yell at us not todo it, not to do it.
But forgiveness is a decision. Justthe fact that I want to do it.
God gives us the opportunity to wantto do so, to power and
(06:16):
to achieve it. The biggest workin restoration has to do it. The
person who failed, the one whomade the affront is the one who has
to work the most. And Ithank God that that happened, because it
' s not just that I dideverything here. Not God' s grace
(06:38):
and mercy reached us, but itgave us the opportunity for a new hope,
that that hope is in him,that hope is in Christ, the
hope of a true transformation, ofgenuine repentance. And those who fail must
genuinely repent. If there is nogenuine repentance, he will not make a
(07:00):
cycle that will continue and his lifeand family will pass so many years and
continue in the same year. Athousand nine hundred and ninety- seven.
José Ordonez goes that way for thefive or six world records. He'
s got a joke show that makeshim laugh. However, when lights and
(07:24):
cameras go out, you have togo face your reality. When the fans
are gone, when the autographs aregone, you close the door to your
house, your room, wherever youare and there you are waiting for the
reality of what you are doing.My reality was this I hated what my
(07:47):
father did to me. I sawmy sisters depressed for many years because they
were abandoned by a man when theywere eight years old, Thirteen years old,
you know what that means The heroof their lives went away to never
come back. I saw my momcry for what my dad was doing.
(08:11):
I witnessed how my mother had towork a whole night stuck to a knitting
machine to go out and answer forthe children a man had left. I
saw how a family is destroyed,how foolish in life and how stupid in
life it is for you to bethe victim of the bad behavior of adults,
so that you become the victim ofyour own children. Same thing my
(08:37):
dad did when I was 16.I did it to my daughter when I
was seven years old and to myone- and- a- half-
year- old son. You cansay what was the worst version of the
ordoñez. My grandfather, who hadfive different wives, my father, who
had five different wives and with thosefive he had a son in each marriage,
(08:58):
which was the worst version. Itwasn' t them the worst version
was me, because my grandfather didn' t have the power I had.
My grandfather was not famous, myfather did not have the money that I
had, and I was there ninety- seven years, entrusted in money,
in fame. You think someone cameup to me to tell me, hey,
(09:22):
you' re living badly. Noteveryone applauded me. I thought what
I had was what covets all people, because the person without Christ will run
after the money, behind the successbehind the fortune, I have bad news
for you. If you believe ifthis is your line of thought, I
have bad news for you when youset up the company you work so hard
(09:46):
for, you will realize that itwill not give you happiness, when you
sleep with the strange woman that youso long for and desire, you will
realize the death that this implies.When you run after the man who doesn
' t belong to you and playthe future of your son, of your
sons, of your daughters, ofyour marriage, you' re going to
(10:09):
realize here you' re only goingto find death, because that' s
what God' s word says.Death awaits the unbelievers. That' s
the bad news. The good onesare the following. If you were to
return your way, if you believedthat God could restore any marriage. You
(10:31):
' d be in the right lineof faith. You would honor him who
went up to the stake of Calvaryand gave his life for you, for
me and for our children, forour marriage. He said consummate. It
' s you know what consummate means. It' s your sin It doesn
' t take me by surprise.I know what you' ve done.
I know what nests inside your mindand heart. I know the course you
(10:54):
copied from your dad and grandfather.I know what nests every time you look
at a woman with a desire tocovet them. I know what has nested
in your heart when you look ata man to desire him. I know
what you' ve done so far, maybe your wife, your husband doesn
' t know the product is thechildren who come from that kind of relationship.
(11:20):
I know the good news if youjust regret it, if you confess
my name, if you receive mein your heart, if you give me
a chance, I will rescue yourmarriage and the best news. Your marriage
will never be the same again.I have excellent news for you on the
(11:43):
day Jesus is the center of yourmarriage. Your marriage will be better than
before. Better than always. Inthe following podcast we will be concluding this,
that you have a small sample ofour marriage experience. Finally, don
(12:05):
' t forget. Fourth workshop formarriages from the 19th to the 23rd of
August we will broadcast it through Zoom, so anywhere on the planet where you
are you can participate in our virtualworkshop. Remember that you can find all
the information in José Ordoñez Cristiano.Eat for now I wish you a nice
(12:31):
day and always have the wisdom ofbeing able to cultivate a marriage that never
goes through the painful experience of infidelitythat God blesses you
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