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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey everyone, Leo Weston here and welcome back to rewire
my cravings. Please. You know that feeling when you walk
into a crowded shopping mall in December, every store blasting
holiday tunes, people frantically grabbing gifts, and your inner grench
starts whispering Yeah, me too. But listen up, because today
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we're tackling something super important, managing emotions during the holidays.
Don't get me wrong, I love a good eggnoglatte as
much as the next person. But let's be real, this
time of year can be a roller coaster of feelings.
You've got family gatherings, financial pressure, expectations to be merry
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and bright, and maybe even some lingering grief or loneliness.
It's enough to make anyone want to hide under a
blanket of twinkling lights and pretend it's March already. But
here's the good news. You can absolutely navigate this season
with grace and joy without feeling like a holiday elf
on overload. So buckle up because we're diving into five
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key takeaways that will help you manage those emotions and
reclaim your holiday cheer. First things first, acknowledge it all.
Don't try to bury those complicated feelings under a mountain
of wrapping paper. It's okay to feel stressed, overwhelmed, or
even a little bit melancholic during the holidays. Recognizing these
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emotions is the first step to dealing with them constructively.
Ever felt like you have to put on this happy,
go lucky mask for everyone else. You know that feeling
when you're cracking smiles, but inside your thinking please and
coffee and chocolate. Yeah, let's ditch the facade and embrace authenticity. Second,
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set realistic expectations. The holidays are often portrayed as this
picture perfect time filled with laughter, joy and endless feasts.
Let me tell you that's not always reality. It's okay
to have some days where things feel a little chaotic
or even stressful. Remember it's about celebrating the season, not
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stressing over creating an instagram worthy experience. Third, prioritize self care.
This is non negotiable. Folks. Amidst all the holiday hustle
and bustle, remember to carve out time for yourself. It
could be a hot bath, reading a good book, taking
a walk in nature, or anything else that helps you
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recharge and destress. Remember, if you're not looking after yourself,
you won't have the energy to fully enjoy the festivities. Fourth,
practice gratitude. It's so easy to get caught up in
what we lack during the holidays, but taking a moment
to appreciate what we have can make a world of difference.
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Think about your loved ones, your health, and all the
good things in your life. Gratitude is like a magic
potion that shifts our perspective and helps us find joy
even amidst challenges. Finally, don't be afraid to say no.
You are not obligated to attend every holiday party or
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bake every single cookie. It's okay to set boundaries and
prioritize your well being. Remember, saying no to some things
allows you to say yes to the things that truly matter.
Think about that awkward family reunion from last year. Remember
how you felt a little overwhelmed with all those distant
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relatives and their endless questions. Maybe there were some heated
debates over politics or even just awkward silences. Well, guess
what you can learn from that experience this year. Set
some boundaries. Maybe you politely decline attending certain events, or
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have a plan to excuse yourself early if things start
getting too heated. Remember it's about protecting your energy and
ensuring you enjoy the holidays, not dread them. So there
you have it. Five powerful takeaways to help you navigate
those holiday emotions like a pro. Remember this season is
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about connection, joy, and creating meaningful memories. By acknowledging your feelings,
setting realistic expectations, prioritizing self care, practicing gratitude, and saying
no when needed, you can absolutely make this holiday season
a truly wonderful one. And hey, if you find yourself struggling,
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remember that you're not alone. Reach out to a friend,
family member, or even a therapist. Talking about your feelings
can be incredibly liberating and empowering. Now, go out there
and rock those holidays, and don't forget to share this
episode with someone who might need it. You could be
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