Rick Warren - How to Pray and Actually Hear God Back

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
We're now coming to the last message about Daniel, and
in chapter nine we learn how to pray the kind
of prayer that God answers. I mean, if you're going
to pray, you may as well get a prayer that
God's going to answer. You've prayed a lot of prayers
that God did not answer, So how do you pray
the kind of prayer that God answers? In this passage,

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we're actually going to look at how to pray in
a crisis. Now. I hope you're not in a crisis
right now, but you will be someday. So you need
to take notes because someday you're going to where are
those notes of Rick told me how to pray in
a crisis? And you're going to want to come back
to this to do what God tells you to do.
Let's get right into it. There's six steps we see

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modeled in Daniel's life and in the prayer in this
chapter on how to pray a prayer that God answers.
Number one, here's the first step. Let God speak to
me before I speak to him. Let God speak to
me before I speak to him. This is called the
listening step. You listen to the voice of God, how

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do you do that? Well, I'm going to explain it,
but there's a principle you need to understand first, and
it's this. God always makes the first move in your life.
You don't. God is always the initiator of everything in
your life, and you are the responder. God never expects
you to make the first move. He always makes the

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first move. The Bible says that we love him. We
love God because He first loved us. God loved you
a whole long time before you ever loved him. The
Bible says that we serve God because God first served us,
and he knew we had a problem, and he sent
Jesus Christ to die on the cross for us, long

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before we even knew we had a problem. He served
us before we served him. The Bible says we give
to God because God first gave to us. Everything you
have in your life is gift of God. The air
you breathe, your life, your mind, your brain, everything you've
got is a gift from God. God will never ask
you to do something he hasn't already done for you.

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God never asked you to do something that he goes. Now, personally,
I've never done this, but I'm expecting you to do it.
God always initiates, we always respond, and that's even true
with prayer. The reason we pray, the reason we talk
to God, is because God has first talked to us
in this book. In this book, the Bible, written over

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three five hundred plus years, sixty six different authors that
God inspired to write these words down that He wanted
written down. There are literally thousands and thousands of promises
from God to you, to you, and what we do
in prayer is we claim the promises that He has
said to us. He said, God, you said this, so

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I'm asking you to do this. And God, you said that,
so I'm asking you to do that. So the Bible
says that prayer actually starts not with talking, but with listening.
You listen to God. Now, how do you listen to
God by reading this book or if you don't like
to read, listening to the Bible on tape or MP

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three or whatever. Logically, you need to let God talk
to you. Then you're going to know how to pray,
what to pray, where to pray, when to pray, and
all those things. Daniel did this. Now as we start
this chapter nine, Daniel's an old guy now he's eighty
five years old. We started in the very first session
on Daniel. He's fifteen years old, the prisoner of war.

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He's now gone through multiple changes in his life. Test
after test after test after test. He keeps getting promoted,
higher in authority, higher in power. He's now served three
different kings. And we know that the Babylonians defeated the Syrians,
and then the Persians defeated the Babylonians, and so now

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he's got a new boss. He survived every administration and
no matter what the government was going on around him,
he keeps getting promoted, but he wants to go home
before he dies. He's eighty five years old, and he
knows that God had said in the Book of Jeremiah
that you'll be and drew in Babylon for seventy years
and then I'm going to bring my people back to Israel.

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And he knows times up. But he also knows that
the people israel lights have not turned back to God.
Seventy years later. They're still as messed up as they
were before. And he goes, We're not any closer to
God than we were seventy years ago. And I'm afraid
God's just going to leave us here in Babylon and
not bring us back to Israel. So this is his crisis,

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and here's how it starts. Daniel, Chapter nine, verse one.
It was the first year the reign of Darius the Mead,
who was made king of Babylon. The Babylonians vice Cyrus,
who was a Persian. You know, Babylon is Iraq, Persia
is Iran today, And he says, during the first year

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of his reign, I Daniel was studying the scriptures, and
I learned from the word of the Lord, as recorded
by Jeremiah the Prophet, that Jerusalem must lie desolate for
seventy years. It was destroyed, and they said it won't
be rebuilt until after seventy years. You guys get to
go back home. Now. I want you to circle, if

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you're taking notes, circle the phrase studying the scripture, and
circle the phrase learned from the word, study the scriptures,
learn from the Word. You will never pray effectively until
you study the scriptures and you learn from the Word,
until you get into this book every single day. Now,

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the more you know this book, the Bible, the more
prayers you're going to have answered. If you're ignorant of
this book. You don't know how to pray, You don't
know what to pray, you don't know when to pray.
You don't know the promises that God has made to you.
And so you got to read a little bit of
this book every single day of your life so you
can learn those promises that God has made to you.

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Let me show you this. Here's what Jesus said up
here on the screen. In John chapter fifteen. Jesus said,
if you stay connected to me and my words remain
in your heart. What's he talking about? The Bible? He says,
these words remain in your heart. He says, if you
follow those two conditions, you may ask any request you

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want in prayer and it will be given to you.
Jesus Christ, Whoh, that's pretty much a blank check right there.
You can ask whatever you want in prayer and it'll
be given to you. Now, he says, notice this verse.
If I'm praying and I'm not getting an answer, the
first thing I need to check is am I meeting

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these two conditions? Am I staying connected to God God?
Is there anything between me and you that's out a whack?
Is there any fellowship broken? Is there something in my
life that I know is wrong, and you know it's wrong,
and you said for me to get right, and I
haven't got it right yet. That is a break in
the connection with God. But he said, if you stay
connected to me, you're in harmony with me. And he says,

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my words, this book is in your mind, it's in
your heart. You ask anything you want in prayer and
it will be done. So if I'm not getting the answer,
that's one of the two problems. That's one of the
two conditions that need to be met. So Daniel is saying,
I'm going to study the word. I'm going to have
it in me. The more you fill your mind with

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this book, the more you memorize some like Bible verses,
the more answers you're going to have in your life. Now,
this is so important to your life that I want
to help you. I want to help you develop the
habit of you never go to bed any day of
your life without us spending at least a little bit
of time, even if it's a minute or two minutes,

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reading a little bit of the Bible and then talking
to God for a minute or two or whatever. Now,
last week we saw that Daniel did this three times
a day. He had the habit, And I said, you
think your life would be any different if you had
a conversation with God three times a day your entire life,
which he did for over seventy years. Well, no wonder

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he missed a lot of problems. No wonder he knew
how to be wise. No wonder he get kept, gotten promoted.
He's talking to God every day. I do this all
the time as I go through my day. I don't
talk to God once a day. I talk to God
all the time. And as I'm getting ready to go
into meeting, I go, Okay, God, I'm going to need
your guidance in here. I don't know what you want

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to say to these people. I don't know what they
want to say to me. I don't know what the
problem is. Help me to know the right thing. I'm
depending on you to give me the wisdom, the guidance
and the power to do what it is. And I
got out of that meeting a little The next thing,
and the whole day. One of my prayers is often
two words, what's next? What's the next? Lord? What do
you want to do? And I'm always seeking God, checking

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in with him. Now I want to teach you this
habit of having a little bit of daily reading the
Bible and praying, talking to God two or three times
a day, at least three times a day, because it
will revolutionize your life. Men, it'll make you a strong man.

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It'll make you more confident. It'll make you less fearful.
Same thing. Women, It'll make you a stronger woman. It'll
make you more confident, it will make you less fearful.
If you will develop a habit of multiple times a
day you have a conversation with God, you let him
talk to you, and you talk to him, you will
handle your stress better. It will improve every single area

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of your life. I guarantee it. I've done a lot
of hard things in my life. I've taken a lot
of risks. I've fought a lot of battles. I faced
a lot of critics. I've done a lot of difficulties.
I've been in situations you would not want to be
in and have to handle with other people's lives. I've
handled a lot of problems and men in a lot

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of battles. But the most difficult battle I face as
a man is the battle to consistently have a conversation
with God. And read His word every day of my life.
No battle comes close. Weak men don't do this, Weak
women don't do this. It's only it's a test of

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your character. Do you have the character and the stamina
to do this? Spend time? A little bit of time
every day with God, not a lot of time. Now,
why is it so difficult? Because Satan knows that if
he wins this battle, he's won every other one in
your life. This is the lynchpin. This is it. If
you win in this area, you're going to win in all.

Speaker 2 (10:55):
The other areas of your life.

Speaker 1 (11:08):
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as part of your regular Bible study, and so I
want to share some exciting news. We've put three hundred
and sixty five of the best devotionals into a brand
new book that we're calling the Daily Hope Devotional, Purpose, Peace,
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you stay focused on God throughout the day as he
provides you with real purpose, lasting peace, and his unfailing promises.
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Speaker 3 (11:58):
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Speaker 1 (12:09):
In chapter one, Daniel is worried about the crisis in
his life, and so he starts reading this book by Jeremiah.
Now here's the thing. Daniel and Jeremiah are contemporaries. They
lived at the same time when Babylon crushed Israel. Daniel's
taking a captive for prisoner a ward at Babylon. Jeremiah

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is left behind in a defeated, broken city called Jerusalem.
And in Jeremiah's book, God tells him those guys are
going to be there for seventy years. And Daniel reads
this and he starts getting hope. Here's what you want
to know what Daniel read. It's the next verse Jeremiah
chapter twenty nine, when he said I was studying the scripture.
Here's what he was studying. God says this to you.

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You will be kept in Babylon for seventy years, but
then I'll keep my graatious promise to bring you back
to your home again. For I know the plans I
have for you, says the Lord. I have good plans
for you, not plans for your disaster. My plans will

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give you hope and a future. And in those days
when you pray, I will listen. Now. If you've been
around church for an length time, you know that verse.
In fact, we even got a song about it. I
know the plans I have for you, says the Lord,
plans to prosper for you, not to harm you. God says,
I have a plan for your life. It's a plan
for your success. It's not a plan for your defeat.

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It's a good plan. It'll give you hope, it'll give
you a future. God says this to you. We know
that verse, but we often leave off the last phrase,
which says, in those days when you pray, I will listen.

Speaker 3 (13:50):
Now.

Speaker 1 (13:50):
I want you to listen very carefully. God says this
to you this weekend. I made you for a purpose.
I have a plan for your life. But it's not all.
You can miss it. You can miss my plan and
purpose for your life. In fact, most people miss God's plan
and purpose for their life. He said, there are two factors.
I've promised to rescue you. I'm going to bring you

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back home. I'm going to do the things you need
done in your life. But he says, there are two
factors involved in you fulfilling your purpose in life. Write
these down. God's timing and my praying. God's timing and
my praying, and both of these have an important role
in what God wants to do in your life. God's

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timing when he's going to do it, and you're praying
when you ask him to do it. Both of these
are extremely important. So let me explain what that verse
just said. In Jeremiah, God says this, I got a
plan for you your life. I didn't make you without
a purpose. I created you for a purpose and plan.
And my plan for you is good. But it has

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a time table. And he says to these guys specifically,
he says, I'm not going to cut short my plan.
You're going to be in Babylon for seventy years, he said,
But and I'm not going to cut it short one
day short. You're not coming home one day sooner. You're
going to be there for seventy years. So that's my plan,
and that's my attention, but don't worry. It's a good plan.

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But he says, when the time is right for me
to fulfill your plan, you're all going to go back home.
Then you're going to have to do something. You're going
to have to pray, and he says, and when you pray,
I will listen. Now, I want you to notice this.
This is a very important verse in the Bible. Here
we see God's sovereignty. He's in control and your responsibility.

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You got something to do. God determines the timing of
his plan and purpose for your life. But when the
timing is right, you're still going to have to play
it pray, because He's not going to do it until
you ask. He's not going to force his plan on you. Ever,
you have to ask. Notice this verse on the screen, James,
Chapter four, Verse two. You do not have what you

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need because you do not ask God for it. So
you're telling me that God has some things he wants
to do in my life that are cool and good
and great, but they're going to happen unless I ask
for it. That's exactly what I'm telling you. God has timing,
but you have praying, and some things have not happened.
In your life because you've never asked God for them.

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You've never asked God to do them in your life.
He says, I intend to do it when I'm ready.
That's timing, but you've got to pray for it to happen.
You have not because you asked not. Now this leaves
a little quandary in your life. You've gone through this before.
How do I know when I'm waiting on God? And
how do I know when God's waiting on me? Here's
a good question. Okay. He was like, you know, I

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really have this big dream for my life, and I
really think this is what God wants me to do
with my life. But I don't know. It hadn't happened yet.
So am I waiting on God? Or is God waiting
on me? Well? This explains it right here. What it
means is this, if I've asked for God to do
something really great in my life, and I've prayed about

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it and I've asked, and there's nothing between me and
God as far as I know, I'm doing what he
wants me to do. There's no big sin that's over
here in this corner that I'm going. Yeah, I know
God wants me to do this, but I haven't done it.
And if I've asked God, and like Jesus said, I'm
connected to God. We're all copasetic, we're all we're in
harmony me with God, and I'm in the Bible. I'm

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reading the Bible every day, His words in me. If
I pray and I ask and that's all true, and
I haven't had the answer yet, then I'm waiting on God.
It has all to do with his timing. I'm just
waiting for God. God says I'll do it, but I'm
just going to do it in my timing, and I
just need to be patient. On the other hand, if

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I have something really great that I would like for
God to do in my life, and I've always wanted
God to do it, but I've never asked. I've never
asked God to do it, never ask for God's help,
never ask for God's guidance in my dream, then God's
waiting on you. If you haven't prayed about it, God
is waiting on you. You have not because you ask not.

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So let me just start with this first point by
asking a very personal question, what do you really want
in life? What do you really really want in life?
But you've never asked God for it? Did you know
that the Bible says you can ask God for anything?
You can ask God for anything. First step, listen to God.

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I read a little bit as I let God speak
to me. Then I talk to him. Now here's step two.
Step two is focus my attention on God. This is
the second step in the kind of prayer that God
gets answered. So focus my attention on God. And in
Daniel chapter nine, verse three, it says this, so I

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turned my face to the Lord seeking him. All right,
circle the phrase turned my face. I turned my face
to the Lord seeking him. Husbands, let me talk to
you for just a minute. I'm gonna give you a
marriage tip that will pay great dividends in your life
the rest of your life. You're listening to a guy

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who's been married forty one years. Here's a big tip
for every husband. I have noticed, and I've developed this
habit that whenever Kay talks to me, I turn my
face toward her physically, whenever she starts talking, I literally

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turn my face toward her. And you know what I've learned.

Speaker 2 (19:45):
She likes it.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
In fact, she loves it that because when you turn
your face to somebody it's that you have my undivided attention.
I'm totally focused on you. You like this? Yeah, all
the wives are clapping right now. Okay, great, great, yeah, okay, Uh,
everybody likes this. When you talk, you want people to

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turn their focus to you. Pity the poor substitute teacher
who stands up in class and she's trying to teach
and nobody's looking at her, and it's like in the
old Peanuts cartoons, Woa wah wa wah wah whah, and
she's just blathering on. Nobody's tuned in, nobody's listening. Turning

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your face shows attention. When my kids were little, they
used to grab me by their face. Look at me, daddy.
You're not paying attention. Look at me, daddy. They wanted
eye to eye contact. That is the highest gift you
give anybody is your attention. It's more important than chocolate, roses,

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her money, giving your kids, your wife. Your attention is
the highest gift because your attention is your life. Now,
did you know that you can actually do this with God?
You can turn your face to God in prayer, how physically?
Just look up God, I'm here, I'm ready to talk.

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I'm checking in for my three times a day conversation.
You go outside and look up at the heavens. You
stare up. You just look up. There's nothing in the
Bible says you have to close your eyes to pray.
Nothing in the Bible says you have to bow your
head to pray. That's one of the ways to pray.
It's a good way. But many times in the Bible
people didn't close their eyes. They actually looked up and

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they talked aloud. I like to pray aloud to God.
When I close my eyes and think I go to sleep.
I don't pray with my eyes closed, and I don't
pray in my mind. When I'm praying, I'm praying aloud
and I'm driving the car, or I'm looking up or whatever.
You could get in your lazy boy chair and lean back,

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look up, God. I'm turning my face to you. Okay.
But it's a physical reminder that I'm refocusing my attention. Okay.
This is what Daniel did. He physically noticed verse three.
In the New American Standard version, it says this, so
I gave my attention to the Lord to seek him

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by prayer circle the word seek. This is the second
step of prayer. The first is listening. The second step
of prayer is seeking. But let me just show you
some of the benefits. If you'll learn how to do this,
it'll change your life. Your whole life's just gonna get
a whole lot better. Let me just show you three
or four or five promises. How about this one up
here on the screen Amos five to four. God says this,

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seek me and you will live. In other words, you're
not going to just exist. You're gonna really you're not
living life to the fullest. Some of you just existing.
He says, seek me and you will live. You're gonna
learn how to really live. Proverbs eight, verse seventeen. God
says this, I love those who love me, and those
who seek me. Will what find me find me? He said,

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I can't find God. You're not seeking. You got to
seek in the right way. Those who seek me will
find me. Let me show you another one. Jeremiah twenty nine,
verse thirteen says this. God says, you will find me
when you seek me what with all your heart. That's serious,
that's emotional seeking. We'll talk about that in a minute.
You're gonna find me when you really want to know me,

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not like, I kind of like to know God in
my spare time between the football game and work. Maybe No,
When you seek Me with all your heart, then you're
going to know me now. Hebrews eleven, verse six says
this God rewards those who earnestly seek him. Would you
like God to reward your business? Seek him? Would you

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like God to reward your finances? Seek him? Would you
like God to reward your marriage? Seek? Would you guys
like God to reward your children? Would you like God
to reward your relationships, your boyfriend, your girlfriend? Would you
like God to reward your future? Wherever you seek God,
God is going to reward. Wherever you don't seek God,
God says, you're on your own. You're on your own.

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Let me show you another verse. This is a very
familiar one. Luke Chapter twelve, Jesus says this, seek. There's
that word again. Seek first God's kingdom before everything else.
God's chame is his priorities, not your priorities, His priorities
before everything else. And all the other things you will
need you need will be given to you. Another one

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of those blanket promises. He says, don't seek wealth, seek God.
He'll take care of what you need. Don't seek fame,
Seek God. He'll take care of what you need. Don't
seek pleasure, don't seek a husband, don't seek to all
these other things you're seeking. He says, seek first me.
And if I'm in first place, he goes, I'm gonna

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take everything else into considerations. You put me first. I
bless the people who put me first. You have probably
never realized this, but of a lot of the pain
you're in right now, the difficulties, the stress, the pressure
you feel, the troubles you're facing, the mess that's all
tangled up in relationships, Almost all of that stuff that

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you're facing right now is the result of you not
seeking God. I know many of you use the Daily
Hope Devotionals as part of your regular Bible study, and

(25:42):
so I want to share some exciting news. We've put
three hundred and sixty five of the best devotionals into
a brand new book that we're calling the Daily Hope
Devotional Purpose, Peace, and Promise for every Day. This devotional
book is designed with clear, practical biblical teaching to help
you make knowing God your number one priority. I believe

(26:05):
it will help you stay focused on God throughout the day.
As he provides you with real purpose, lasting peace, and
his unfailing promises. Imagine starting every day like that. This
book is a great way to share the hope you
have in Jesus with your friends, co workers, and relatives.
I hope you'll get a copy for everyone you know.

Speaker 3 (26:26):
Be sure and request your copy when you partner with
Daily Hope to take the word of God to a
hurting world.