February 19, 2025 • 31 mins
We are back for another week!!
If you guys have not checked out our podcast from last week, definitely go listen. Chatting each week helps us stay connected from 5,000 miles away! Talking about our lives, trends, or even the latest gossip! We normally pick 3 different topics and start yapping!
This week’s podcast we talk a little about our thoughts one the Super Bowl this year, snapchat vs. Imessage, and could do much sex be a problem.... A few other topics got brought up this week, it was definitely a fun chat, not to mention we had our first guest star appear quickly!! We hope you guys enjoy, and don’t forget to reach out on social media with feedback!!
Thanks for listening !!
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If you guys have not checked out our podcast from last week, definitely go listen. Chatting each week helps us stay connected from 5,000 miles away! Talking about our lives, trends, or even the latest gossip! We normally pick 3 different topics and start yapping!
This week’s podcast we talk a little about our thoughts one the Super Bowl this year, snapchat vs. Imessage, and could do much sex be a problem.... A few other topics got brought up this week, it was definitely a fun chat, not to mention we had our first guest star appear quickly!! We hope you guys enjoy, and don’t forget to reach out on social media with feedback!!
Thanks for listening !!
TikTok: RingHerUP Instagram: Ringherup_
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I need to keep lotioning my hands because I think
I pick at them because they're like my hands aren't dry.
But like around my fingernails.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Is you need like cuticle oil?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Yeah, I need something. I don't know, So I've just
been using lotion for now and just hoping for the best.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
This is This is from the Scrauch. I mean it's
a cute place. I went with Alison yesterday. So good
I had to go today. Yeah, but I got a
vanilla latte yesterday and it was good in the nicetid lavender,
and I'm obsessed with the lavender that Starbucks has. I
was like, I need, I need that.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
You'll have to make a trip up the mountain to
try my cousins small coffee.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
That's actually such a good idea. The next time anyone
comes home from college, Alison or Jackie.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Sparks in the valley, we'll go. I had their brown
sugar coffee because I'm a whore for brown sugar and
it was so good.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Super Bowl Sunday, woo all right before before someone comes
at my neck. I don't watch football. I don't even
know positions of football. But I will say for as
much as Patrick mahomes is like loved, he fucking sucked.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
I have no good words for Patrick mahomes I, And
this is just my opinion. This is just my opinion,
but I think he is so ugly. His voice, for one,
like it irks me to another level. I can't even
listen to him talk his hair, get his hair.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
He needs a haircut. I'm sorry it'd be cute, like
faded up, but this the way he had his like bandon,
they needed trimmed. Why are you going to Super Bowl
fifty nine with a fuck ass haircut?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
He needs something, truly, and honestly, I'm so glad that
he got humbled because I think his ego was just
too high, way too high. So I'm glad that's done with.
I'm glad Taylor Swift can take the l. She can
eat that big l that I'm just like shoving in
her face. Screw her.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Did you see the video of the crowd booing her
when it mad over her?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Dude, that was the best thing that I think might
ever happen in twenty twenty five.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Oh yeah, I agree, I definitely agree.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
I saw Chiefs fans even booing her. People were booing her,
which is amazing.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I like like a select few songs of hers, but
I hate how last year she was the center of
the Super Bowl and I don't watch football, but that's
also really annoying. No one gives a fuck who you
are on an NFL sports like. She just made like
women look dumb last year. But that was my whole
TikTok is how fucking stupid women are because of her.
You know who the biggest fan of her? Do you
(03:08):
know him? Okay, I'm sure you could guess who her
biggest fan is. Wait what it's Tony. Tony is her
biggest fan? Tony and Joey?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
All right? That actually just sealed the deal of I
cannot be friends with Tony. I'm sorry, he's one my
biggest hater. And two, I can't be friends with anyone
that loves Taylor Swift.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
So yeah, they're definitely Swifties. They see you never yeah kidding.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
I do like her old music, but I just like
hate who she's become. Yeah yeah, And I also think
Travis Kelsey's ego is way too high as well.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
I felt obligated to at least I turned on like
the second half I watched this halftime show and then
turned on the second half and I would.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Say, well, you missed the good part. Well not the
good part, but the first two quarters they were like
dog shit.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
I was shocked when I turned the TV on and
saw the Eagles winning. I mean, hey, a win is
a win. I'll take it. I really wanted the Eagles win.
I really wanted Taylor Swift to eat the L. I
wanted everyone on the Chiefs to eat the L. And
you know, the Eagles won, so that means more. Zach
Bryan music coming very soon, as he said, quote for quote.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
I love that. And he better never ever let Sexy
read back on that stage because we'll have beef next. Yeah.
Bruno Mars the nice nice gosh.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
I love Bruno war so much, and that was just
like setting.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I'm not opposed. I really love my rap music, Okay,
like I love it. I really draw the line at
like glow Rilla or Cardi b or I really the
old rap music. But like I mean, Eminem's new album
was so good, undeniedly good.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah, I will say Eminem is the only, the one
and only rapper I will listen to.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
He is amazing. But I will say I really do
like Kendrick Lamar and when he was beefing with Drake.
I love Drake, okay, but Kendrick Lamar's distract to Drake
was blew him out of the fucking water. I don't
care what anyone says. Drake's distract to him was not good.
I don't know who wrote that song. It was not good.
(05:37):
Did it deserve five Grammys? No? Was it good? Yeah?
Good enough for the super Bowl? Absolutely not? Well, he
only sang that song to get it Drake, because I
don't know if you saw the video, he literally looked
right at the camera was like yo, Drake. But then
he also had ex girlfriends there like Sizza Scissa dated Drake.
Serena Williams was down there dancing like when he was
(05:59):
singing that part. So I think it was literally a
blow at Drake. Was his halftime performance.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Well, he could have did a little bit better at it.
You need to pop off when you're you know, taking
taking blows like that, and he did not pop off.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
So no, no, I feel like there was a time
and place for that, which would have been the Grammys,
Like that's even enough for you? But yeah, he I.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Don't know, he could have made it great, I think,
and he just chose not to. Honestly knew it was
gonna be trash. I didn't have high expectations for it
at all, so.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
I honestly kind of did because I liked him.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
But yeah, I guess just pray next year will be better,
I hope, because it's about to be me at this point. Yeah. No, seriously,
I could have done better.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Come on, we could have done better for real.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Yeah, and maybe Pittsburgh will be at it. That's not
gonna happen because we're absolutely trash.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
But hey, let me literally look at my note. I'm
free bawling today.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
I have no notes.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Save us literally about it, no notes.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Well, I'm actually just looking at the text message you
sent me. Yeah, moving on to where's our conversation here?
It is nap chat?
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Oh is that what we're doing next? Snap person?
Speaker 1 (07:18):
I message? Yeah. I get a lot of hate for
this one.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Me too. I prefer I message, don't even say it.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
I never use I message me and E never ever,
ever ever text And the only time we are using
I message is if we're playing like pool, like eight ball.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
See my problem with that, And it's really just me.
I just I have my notifications turned off for like everything,
So I like, if I'm like sitting on my phone,
like I'm like, there's no drop down notification, yeah them,
so I have to swipe down. So at that point
it's like, well, you might as well just text me,
because that's the only notification I have on see.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
I do that, But I keep Snapchat on, like I
don't have any drop down notifications. I keep eye message
because if someone like really needs me, they're gonna text me.
But I also keep Snapchat on because that's how me
and e like talk.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Yeah, that's how me and Tony talked. But I just
think it's more convenient for us at least or just
for me, because I don't like if I'm checking my
phone and I'm at work, it's like a look, I
can't like get on Snapchat and like half spaces to
see what the fuck you all want.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Yeah that's true. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
I just think it's more convenient.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Yeah, and I do agree with that, But I love
this is like seriously, gonna sound so childish. I like
seeing Eve's face during the day and like, I don't know,
I love everything about Snapchat. I love my memories. I
love that I can send you pictures. I don't know.
I just I don't do I message. It's I just
(09:06):
feel like it's not as fun. It's just still blat
And with Snapchat, I can really express my full emotions
by making like a face and then texting. Whereas I message,
I could say something and I feel like a lot
of miscommunication could happen there.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
I don't know. I wish i'd like Snapchat, but unfortunately
I just don't. I mean like I do, but I
don't know. I'd like it to keep in touch because
if I didn't have it, I wouldn't really talk to
everyone every day. But just today, like do you have
Bonna sends me like voice memos on I Message, and
(09:45):
I sent one to Jackie this morning. I was like,
oh wait. I was like, I feel like this is
like the adult version of like listening to the still living.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
In my fifteen year old brain because I just I
can't get over it. I can't. I don't think it.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
I'm so over it. If I didn't have every single
picture I've ever taken on sam Chat in my memories,
I would definitely delete it. Yeah, but it's also nice,
like I don't have any friends on samchat either to
like actually bother me.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
I mean I don't either, and I think that's like
another thing, Like it's kind of just like my friends
and like who I'm close with at this point on there,
so like I can post whatever I want, I can
send it like whatever. I love taking pictures, and I
think that's why I love snapchat so much, is because
I take pictures of everything. My memories are fuelled. And
he says that all the time. He's like, you have
(10:37):
so many pictures, and mine it's I have five in mine. Well,
I enjoy taking pictures. I take pictures of everything, so
it's just most convenient.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
No, I do too, but now with work, I take
everything on my actual camera and I honestly like doing
that more now unless I'm like posting it on like
my story, like I typically just take it on my
camera roll.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
I don't think ever, I don't want to be the
fifty year old person that's snapchatting, but I think I
truly might be. It's really looking that way that when
I'm fifty years old, I'll still be snapchatting my husband.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
So I mean, if that like works for you, like
then it just works. Well. Yeah, And I text you.
I pretty much only text you now because we talk
a lot about the pod and it's just easier to
keep everything in track, right, Like on I message, essentially
I guess.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
No, yeah, and like you can go back and yeah,
you can save like snapchat messages, but it's just so
much easier back and look at I message.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Well, that in too, like if I were like, I mean,
you can like search now, like if you like know
what you said, you can just like look it up.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Yeah, that is nice. On fact, my mom a couple
years ago sent me in text my social security number. Yeah,
probably wasn't the best idea, but regardless, I needed it
for something, so she just said it real quick. So
anytime I need it now, I only remember the middle number,
(12:01):
so I put in like I searched the middle number
on text message anytime I need my social security because
it's still sitting in our messages.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Oh my gosh, I have my social memorized. You know the.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
Amount of times I've used it in the past year.
You'd think I would at this point, but I don't.
That's the only benefit I get from I message is
me and my mom's conversation that one time.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
Love that.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Yeah, one thing My biggest pet peeve with Snapchat right
now is that I love flashback memory, but they are
becoming a little too excessive. Yeah, like the randoms, like
all of that stuff. It just needs to go. And
it also needs to disappear after a day, because when
there's so much stuff up there, I can't do it
(12:50):
like get rid of it, have the flashback come back
for that day, and then the next day get rid
of it. I don't need like a million things up
at the top.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
You know. I actually never realized. I thought that doesn't
bother me. It's only the AI shit. And like the
filters that they put on them, I'm like, I don't
fucking care.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
To see this.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
Get good of it. Yeah, I don't care to see
any of that. All right, this is where it gets
This is where it gets good. So if you're still
listening everybody.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
Today, yeah, this was a suggested topic. This is our
first first suggestion.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
So Tony just better feel important his topic. He said, well,
this is like honestly in miscommunication. I was like, no,
we're not talking about that, and I was like, wait,
this is kind of like a good idea. But he
we were having the conversation earlier. If too much sex
is bad for your relationship or just like bad in general. Yeah,
is this helpful? Sound there? I did Google. I did
(13:52):
do a percentage of research. It's really only unhealthy like
mentally and like emotionally, not like really like physically. I
guess unless you like get into like the STD side,
like if you're having sex with like multiple people, like
then it's unhealthy. But if like you have like long
term boyfriend whatever or like by sports like girlfriend, it's not.
(14:18):
They just say it's really only gets unhealthy when like
one person doesn't want to do it or like you're
doing it like make up sex like explain it.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
But see, I think it can get to a point
to where too much sex is not bad. Yeah, but
I think, like I believe it's supposed to be like
special almost in a way, And if you do it
too much, I think you'll not like lose the spark.
(14:49):
But like, yeah, it just like won't mean as much
if you just like do it too much. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Yeah, no, I definitely I definitely agree with you. It
depends on the person too, because some people like will
not lose their virginity until they're married and like keep
it sacred. And like some people just like don't have
a whole phase like some people do. Yeah, Like I
think it just like depends really on the person and
(15:16):
the relationship. And that's really what Google told me. Googles
like it really just depends on like you, and.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Well that makes sense. It makes sense.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
I don't really think like one way or the other.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
I think it has to be yeah, like you said,
I think it has to be a mutual thing for
it to become unhealthy.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
And like.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
I don't think it's not a make or break, but
I think it's definitely something you and your partner have
to talk about or it could end bad.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
I feel like you're like need to be on the
same page. Like if if like there's a guy out
there and they want to have like sex all the
time their girlfriend, and their girlfriend's like no, like obviously
that's going to leave like tension, right and you'll have
to work now. Yeah, But I do think at that
point then it's like, okay, well should you even be together?
Like if you're not even on the same page about that,
(16:11):
it's like what else kind of problem is in the relationship?
Speaker 1 (16:14):
No, I agree, Like that's what I mean, Like, it
won't make or break some things, but like I think
it potentially could, and I don't think someone's sex drive
is just gonna change over night, so you're not going
You really do need to talk about those things, and
if you guys are on completely different levels, I think
it could end very bad.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
You. No, I agree, I definitely agree, especially like at
this age, like hormones are fucking cooking cooking. But I
mean I just think like if both if both parties
would have sex twenty four to seven and it works,
then like great, and like if both don't they only
(16:55):
want to have it on like special occasions, Like I
think that's great too, right, But it's like when you
try and like mix those things, it's like you almost
like resent that person. It's like, Okay, is that's all
you want me for? Like can we go do something
else or like spend like actual quality time together? Because
I do think that could be like on occasion like
quality time, I guess, but there's also so many other
(17:16):
things that you could be doing together that like keeps
the spark there and not just having sex and like
party ways. Yeah, yeah, no, I agree. I mean if
you're just like if you're just like I don't know,
I just think it's like a touchy.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
It is touchy, And I think if you're the person
with the higher sex drive, you have to be the
most understanding in the relationship because.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
You have to be okay being told no that.
Speaker 1 (17:43):
And like it's not like it's just gonna be more
enjoyable for both of you if you both want to
do it. So like if them telling you no is
really gonna put your panties in a freaking twist, like,
get over yourself.
Speaker 2 (17:57):
It's like only benefiting you and at that you care
about here.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Very self centered if it's only been that.
Speaker 2 (18:04):
Yeah, it's like, are you just like here to get
the job done? Because I'm not that person, right, Like yeah, yeah,
I really don't ever hear Like, I don't know. I
feel like you get the vibe real quick when you
start dating somebody of like how like what they're like, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
I feel like, you know, I feel like you really
don't have to have a conversation. Yeah, it'd be great
to have a conversation. That's probably the best thing to
do is talking it out. But without the talking, you
can kind of put the pieces together.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
Yeah, especially knowing them in general or just how you
you know, yourself. Yeah, you know what you're looking for.
So if that's like what you're out there looking for,
they like come to you and that sense.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
Yeah, the way to make things rated R.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
Tony, thank you. He's always talking some rated R ship,
like Allison says. Allison's like Alicia, have someone to match
the freak every time she says that, the only I
can think about is that stupid fucking song that was
on TikTok fuck case.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Hold on. He can be a guest real quick and
then first one. All right, all right, well you're gonna
say hi real quick and then I'm gonna hang up
and then I'll call you back.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
Okay, uh oh, what's up?
Speaker 1 (19:43):
You're guest storry.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
Ye, I'm guest starring.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
You're first guest. Oh very right now great, all right,
I'll call you back. All right, bye For any one
that was wondering, that was my little brother FaceTime me
for who knows what. So yeah, first guest star.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
Right, Yeah, I remember when we used to drive him
to sheets with us. We like Loki made him be
our friend for a long.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Time, like we I think believe my only friend at
one point. No, same, he wouldn't be who he was
today if it wasn't for us, so oh, I had
a thousand percent agree.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
He would just sit in the back and just like
love life driving down to the mountains. He got sheets with.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
Us, yeah, and make fun of us recording and all
of the tiktoks yeah and all three thousand of my
mental breakdowns.
Speaker 2 (20:50):
Yeah. Yeah, William's the real one. He really is. He
really is. He's definitely my favorite sheer brother. Ooh shay
you and husband throw.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
I'm so weak.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
I mean I don't like hete your other brother. I
just think, like, I know you can keep this.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Like, I mean, Case isn't closer in age, but he
was always home. No, we're all two years apart, Okay.
I was like wait, yeah, no, I mean yeah, but
like he's always home. He's never had a girlfriend, right,
Case is kind of just yeah, one of the girls
(21:36):
all the time.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Yeah he was. Yeah, I mean I do think and
like I just feel like Cole was just more like
go go go, like party and we just like sat
in your bedroom. Yeah, in Case would like come join us, yeah,
or swim or like we were just doing something around
(22:01):
the house.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
In Case was always there.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
So yeah, I think Coole was never there. When I
would come to your house.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Like like like a big part of it, I think,
when you were always there.
Speaker 2 (22:10):
He was at college, yeah, oh yeah, I mean he
was at college and then I mean even before that,
he was dating Heather, so he was never home. So
I mean if I did see him, we'd literally walk
past each other and I'd be like, oh hey, and
he'd be like leaving as I'm like coming through the door. Right,
So yeah, I don't know. Live blah, love please, love, happiness.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
It's it was I'm not even kidding.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
Probably eighty five degrees at.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
Nine o'clock this morning. I could not even function. I
was walking into the gym this morning, and no, it
had to have been eight. I go to the gym
at eight and I was like adding, just sitting in
my car waiting to go in. It was so hot.
It has not been this hot in the morning and
quite some time.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
This is a really dumb question, but does Hawaii get
like a winter, Like does it get cool there?
Speaker 1 (23:04):
Yeah, we're in our winter season right now.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
Eighty five degrees.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Yeah, well no, it gets down to like seventy Yeah,
that's like winter here. It gets down to seventy in
like the evening it's also very rainy here in the
winter season. But yeah, so it's like cool in the
morning's very cool in the evenings and rainy. But today
it's like freaking summer here. Not playing around.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
I hope Tony gets smooth there. I just like love
being hot and warm and like literally sweating just sitting
there like that is my ideal day. Like, move me
to the fucking desert for all I care. I don't
give a fuck, Like, put me somewhere hot.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
Please, Devil's crotch.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
No, I would so enjoy it there. I so enjoy
it there. I just want to be like, I'm just
always so cold. I'm so cold. I'm so cold sitting.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Here, dude. I constantly it's a daily thought thinking that
you could end up here, Like seriously, imagine our days
just doing nothing, rotting in our living rooms together.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
That would bring me back to twenty twenty Spanish class
COVID at home rotting.
Speaker 1 (24:19):
Yeah, it would be great.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
It would be so great. Honest to God, if he
doesn't get if he honestly, my Lucky's gonna be sent
to fucking Alaska. Yeah, I honestly think anywhere will be
like fun. And I think it'll be fine. But I
would actually drop over dead if we lived in Hawaii together,
because I never ever ever imagine E going to the
(24:46):
military ever. Like that was the biggest punch in the face.
And I don't even date him. That was wild.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
Yeah, it was. And I remember I literally remember clear
as day, sitting in my bed. He was in Texas
for school. It was like a week before finding out
where his first duty station was going to be. I
remember texting you and like everyone, I was like, dude,
I'm going to lose my shit. I'm losing it. I
need to know where we're going, and if it's Hawaii,
(25:13):
could you even imagine living in Hawaii? Like I was like,
this is crazy.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
Oh no, it was so crazy because you had a
dream that he was going to Texas. He went to Texas,
You had a dream about going to Hawaii. You're in Hawaii?
Like that was crazy.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
I think I had a dream he was going to Japan.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Oh did you?
Speaker 1 (25:29):
I did? And I was like literally so scared because like,
I'd love to see Japan, but like for a first
duty station.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
Who everyone says it's amazing there.
Speaker 1 (25:38):
Yeah, I've heard really great things about Japan. But but
then Rena. I don't know if you knew this. The
day he texted me and was like, we're going to Hawaii.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
That night, Rena had a dream that he was going
to Hawaii. Okay, wait, maybe that's what I was thinking of. Okay, yeah,
so I would. I would fall over because when I
heard that, I was like, oh my god, Like I
never in a thousand years would have guessed. Like when
he was texting me about what kind of ring you wanted,
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I was like, this is so sober, like this is
fucking crazy, Like this is so crazy, and then you
guys left, like leaving you at the airport was like
be sad as day, Like I felt like he died.
Like we were together like every other day for like years,
like it was weird and now it's like normal. But
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I think that if that happened to me, I mean,
I mean it's going to happen, like he's leaving and August,
and I think it's going to be like a bigger
punch in the face and way I am anticipating and
I'm scared just because I mean I'm always fine, like
I don't depend on anybody, but like Anthony, I are
(26:49):
so connected on like such a different level. Like I've
never felt like this about anyone before. I do think
it's gonna be really hard, and I'm just like, definitely hard,
but it's or but yeah, well I'm I mean, I
feel like, I mean, Allison's my emotional support, Like already
out of all people, Alison, dude.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
Just please come stay here for the thirteen weeks that
he's gone in all his training. You definitely need to
find some hobbies, some emotional support.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
Yeah, it's so funny here you cussed because I sear
hear you never cuss like I mean, at least maybe
not as much as me.
Speaker 1 (27:29):
This is okay, this is gonna sound like I'm whipped
to a core, but I swear I'm not.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
He actually blink twice if you need help. No, I'm kidding.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
He actually like when I do cuss, he's like a language.
And I'm just like, I think cussing like I'm seeing
it as like it's a kind of immature type thing.
You look, you are more professional when you're not cussing.
So even with him saying that, like I'm not even
doing it just because he like, well not yell at me,
but he like does say and so I'm trying not
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to as much, but every once in a while there
will be a moment when I need to and I'll
text him.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
I'll be like, excuse my language, but if.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
This, if that, like, I'm like losing it. It's so funny.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
I honestly feel like that's good. But I mean, you
know my mom and she cussed every other word. Every
other word was like fuck, bitch, cut Like, I'm like, who,
so I get do I cuss around my dad? I
don't cuss around my dad. I do not cuss at work. Yeah,
I really just like cuss around my friends. But I
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really just think it's funny. I'll say something like jank
as fuck or.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
Like some of the things I say.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
I'm like, this makes no sense. I really want to
try and cut back, but I mean it doesn't bother Tony, So.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
I honestly don't think it bothers me. But he just,
for whatever reason, he's on a kick with dude. Yeah,
and it's just funny.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
So I mean, I really do think it's unnecessary. Like
I definitely way could cut back because I cuss a lot.
But at the same time, I just I just at
this point, it's just me.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
Yeah, I'm trying. I'm trying to find words that I
can use and replace of my cuss words. I'm trying
really hard.
Speaker 2 (29:18):
Maybe that'll be my new thing to work on it
cuss less. This one's long.
Speaker 1 (29:25):
And cut long, bitch. We I'm gonna edit this, drink
my coffee, and watch The Amazing World of Gumball because
makes me feel like he's there in space. No, no,
it's gravity Falls.
Speaker 2 (29:39):
I'm gonna go watch Gravity Falls. Okay. I was like,
I don't think I've ever watched either of those. But yeah,
I'm gonna clean my room because it's it's Monday, so
it's Monday, it's now, or these clothes get washed for
a fourth time and it's next Monday. Mm hmm was
her Autra song I forget.
Speaker 1 (29:59):
Well what what what?
Speaker 2 (30:02):
Wait? Can we sing it like floor?
Speaker 1 (30:10):
But but that's so funny period?
Speaker 2 (30:23):
Sorry guys for that, but sorry, no one, no one
asked for that.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
Sorry but not sorry. All right, Well, have a blessed week.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
Listen, let's see you're hot and soul.
Speaker 1 (30:36):
Us enjoy your Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, almost to the weekend.
You guys, got it. It's well good, see y'allson, see y'all,
(31:00):
around
I need to keep lotioning my hands because I think
I pick at them because they're like my hands aren't dry.
But like around my fingernails.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Is you need like cuticle oil?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Yeah, I need something. I don't know, So I've just
been using lotion for now and just hoping for the best.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
This is This is from the Scrauch. I mean it's
a cute place. I went with Alison yesterday. So good
I had to go today. Yeah, but I got a
vanilla latte yesterday and it was good in the nicetid lavender,
and I'm obsessed with the lavender that Starbucks has. I
was like, I need, I need that.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
You'll have to make a trip up the mountain to
try my cousins small coffee.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
That's actually such a good idea. The next time anyone
comes home from college, Alison or Jackie.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Sparks in the valley, we'll go. I had their brown
sugar coffee because I'm a whore for brown sugar and
it was so good.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Super Bowl Sunday, woo all right before before someone comes
at my neck. I don't watch football. I don't even
know positions of football. But I will say for as
much as Patrick mahomes is like loved, he fucking sucked.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
I have no good words for Patrick mahomes I, And
this is just my opinion. This is just my opinion,
but I think he is so ugly. His voice, for one,
like it irks me to another level. I can't even
listen to him talk his hair, get his hair.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
He needs a haircut. I'm sorry it'd be cute, like
faded up, but this the way he had his like bandon,
they needed trimmed. Why are you going to Super Bowl
fifty nine with a fuck ass haircut?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
He needs something, truly, and honestly, I'm so glad that
he got humbled because I think his ego was just
too high, way too high. So I'm glad that's done with.
I'm glad Taylor Swift can take the l. She can
eat that big l that I'm just like shoving in
her face. Screw her.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Did you see the video of the crowd booing her
when it mad over her?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Dude, that was the best thing that I think might
ever happen in twenty twenty five.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Oh yeah, I agree, I definitely agree.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
I saw Chiefs fans even booing her. People were booing her,
which is amazing.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I like like a select few songs of hers, but
I hate how last year she was the center of
the Super Bowl and I don't watch football, but that's
also really annoying. No one gives a fuck who you
are on an NFL sports like. She just made like
women look dumb last year. But that was my whole
TikTok is how fucking stupid women are because of her.
You know who the biggest fan of her? Do you
(03:08):
know him? Okay, I'm sure you could guess who her
biggest fan is. Wait what it's Tony. Tony is her
biggest fan? Tony and Joey?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
All right? That actually just sealed the deal of I
cannot be friends with Tony. I'm sorry, he's one my
biggest hater. And two, I can't be friends with anyone
that loves Taylor Swift.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
So yeah, they're definitely Swifties. They see you never yeah kidding.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
I do like her old music, but I just like
hate who she's become. Yeah yeah, And I also think
Travis Kelsey's ego is way too high as well.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
I felt obligated to at least I turned on like
the second half I watched this halftime show and then
turned on the second half and I would.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Say, well, you missed the good part. Well not the
good part, but the first two quarters they were like
dog shit.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
I was shocked when I turned the TV on and
saw the Eagles winning. I mean, hey, a win is
a win. I'll take it. I really wanted the Eagles win.
I really wanted Taylor Swift to eat the L. I
wanted everyone on the Chiefs to eat the L. And
you know, the Eagles won, so that means more. Zach
Bryan music coming very soon, as he said, quote for quote.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
I love that. And he better never ever let Sexy
read back on that stage because we'll have beef next. Yeah.
Bruno Mars the nice nice gosh.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
I love Bruno war so much, and that was just
like setting.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I'm not opposed. I really love my rap music, Okay,
like I love it. I really draw the line at
like glow Rilla or Cardi b or I really the
old rap music. But like I mean, Eminem's new album
was so good, undeniedly good.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah, I will say Eminem is the only, the one
and only rapper I will listen to.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
He is amazing. But I will say I really do
like Kendrick Lamar and when he was beefing with Drake.
I love Drake, okay, but Kendrick Lamar's distract to Drake
was blew him out of the fucking water. I don't
care what anyone says. Drake's distract to him was not good.
I don't know who wrote that song. It was not good.
(05:37):
Did it deserve five Grammys? No? Was it good? Yeah?
Good enough for the super Bowl? Absolutely not? Well, he
only sang that song to get it Drake, because I
don't know if you saw the video, he literally looked
right at the camera was like yo, Drake. But then
he also had ex girlfriends there like Sizza Scissa dated Drake.
Serena Williams was down there dancing like when he was
(05:59):
singing that part. So I think it was literally a
blow at Drake. Was his halftime performance.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Well, he could have did a little bit better at it.
You need to pop off when you're you know, taking
taking blows like that, and he did not pop off.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
So no, no, I feel like there was a time
and place for that, which would have been the Grammys,
Like that's even enough for you? But yeah, he I.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Don't know, he could have made it great, I think,
and he just chose not to. Honestly knew it was
gonna be trash. I didn't have high expectations for it
at all, so.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
I honestly kind of did because I liked him.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
But yeah, I guess just pray next year will be better,
I hope, because it's about to be me at this point. Yeah. No, seriously,
I could have done better.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Come on, we could have done better for real.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Yeah, and maybe Pittsburgh will be at it. That's not
gonna happen because we're absolutely trash.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
But hey, let me literally look at my note. I'm
free bawling today.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
I have no notes.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Save us literally about it, no notes.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Well, I'm actually just looking at the text message you
sent me. Yeah, moving on to where's our conversation here?
It is nap chat?
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Oh is that what we're doing next? Snap person?
Speaker 1 (07:18):
I message? Yeah. I get a lot of hate for
this one.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Me too. I prefer I message, don't even say it.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
I never use I message me and E never ever,
ever ever text And the only time we are using
I message is if we're playing like pool, like eight ball.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
See my problem with that, And it's really just me.
I just I have my notifications turned off for like everything,
So I like, if I'm like sitting on my phone,
like I'm like, there's no drop down notification, yeah them,
so I have to swipe down. So at that point
it's like, well, you might as well just text me,
because that's the only notification I have on see.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
I do that, But I keep Snapchat on, like I
don't have any drop down notifications. I keep eye message
because if someone like really needs me, they're gonna text me.
But I also keep Snapchat on because that's how me
and e like talk.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Yeah, that's how me and Tony talked. But I just
think it's more convenient for us at least or just
for me, because I don't like if I'm checking my
phone and I'm at work, it's like a look, I
can't like get on Snapchat and like half spaces to
see what the fuck you all want.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Yeah that's true. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
I just think it's more convenient.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Yeah, and I do agree with that, But I love
this is like seriously, gonna sound so childish. I like
seeing Eve's face during the day and like, I don't know,
I love everything about Snapchat. I love my memories. I
love that I can send you pictures. I don't know.
I just I don't do I message. It's I just
(09:06):
feel like it's not as fun. It's just still blat
And with Snapchat, I can really express my full emotions
by making like a face and then texting. Whereas I message,
I could say something and I feel like a lot
of miscommunication could happen there.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
I don't know. I wish i'd like Snapchat, but unfortunately
I just don't. I mean like I do, but I
don't know. I'd like it to keep in touch because
if I didn't have it, I wouldn't really talk to
everyone every day. But just today, like do you have
Bonna sends me like voice memos on I Message, and
(09:45):
I sent one to Jackie this morning. I was like,
oh wait. I was like, I feel like this is
like the adult version of like listening to the still living.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
In my fifteen year old brain because I just I
can't get over it. I can't. I don't think it.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
I'm so over it. If I didn't have every single
picture I've ever taken on sam Chat in my memories,
I would definitely delete it. Yeah, but it's also nice,
like I don't have any friends on samchat either to
like actually bother me.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
I mean I don't either, and I think that's like
another thing, Like it's kind of just like my friends
and like who I'm close with at this point on there,
so like I can post whatever I want, I can
send it like whatever. I love taking pictures, and I
think that's why I love snapchat so much, is because
I take pictures of everything. My memories are fuelled. And
he says that all the time. He's like, you have
(10:37):
so many pictures, and mine it's I have five in mine. Well,
I enjoy taking pictures. I take pictures of everything, so
it's just most convenient.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
No, I do too, but now with work, I take
everything on my actual camera and I honestly like doing
that more now unless I'm like posting it on like
my story, like I typically just take it on my
camera roll.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
I don't think ever, I don't want to be the
fifty year old person that's snapchatting, but I think I
truly might be. It's really looking that way that when
I'm fifty years old, I'll still be snapchatting my husband.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
So I mean, if that like works for you, like
then it just works. Well. Yeah, And I text you.
I pretty much only text you now because we talk
a lot about the pod and it's just easier to
keep everything in track, right, Like on I message, essentially
I guess.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
No, yeah, and like you can go back and yeah,
you can save like snapchat messages, but it's just so
much easier back and look at I message.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Well, that in too, like if I were like, I mean,
you can like search now, like if you like know
what you said, you can just like look it up.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Yeah, that is nice. On fact, my mom a couple
years ago sent me in text my social security number. Yeah,
probably wasn't the best idea, but regardless, I needed it
for something, so she just said it real quick. So
anytime I need it now, I only remember the middle number,
(12:01):
so I put in like I searched the middle number
on text message anytime I need my social security because
it's still sitting in our messages.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Oh my gosh, I have my social memorized. You know the.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
Amount of times I've used it in the past year.
You'd think I would at this point, but I don't.
That's the only benefit I get from I message is
me and my mom's conversation that one time.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
Love that.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Yeah, one thing My biggest pet peeve with Snapchat right
now is that I love flashback memory, but they are
becoming a little too excessive. Yeah, like the randoms, like
all of that stuff. It just needs to go. And
it also needs to disappear after a day, because when
there's so much stuff up there, I can't do it
(12:50):
like get rid of it, have the flashback come back
for that day, and then the next day get rid
of it. I don't need like a million things up
at the top.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
You know. I actually never realized. I thought that doesn't
bother me. It's only the AI shit. And like the
filters that they put on them, I'm like, I don't
fucking care.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
To see this.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
Get good of it. Yeah, I don't care to see
any of that. All right, this is where it gets
This is where it gets good. So if you're still
listening everybody.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
Today, yeah, this was a suggested topic. This is our
first first suggestion.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
So Tony just better feel important his topic. He said, well,
this is like honestly in miscommunication. I was like, no,
we're not talking about that, and I was like, wait,
this is kind of like a good idea. But he
we were having the conversation earlier. If too much sex
is bad for your relationship or just like bad in general. Yeah,
is this helpful? Sound there? I did Google. I did
(13:52):
do a percentage of research. It's really only unhealthy like
mentally and like emotionally, not like really like physically. I
guess unless you like get into like the STD side,
like if you're having sex with like multiple people, like
then it's unhealthy. But if like you have like long
term boyfriend whatever or like by sports like girlfriend, it's not.
(14:18):
They just say it's really only gets unhealthy when like
one person doesn't want to do it or like you're
doing it like make up sex like explain it.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
But see, I think it can get to a point
to where too much sex is not bad. Yeah, but
I think, like I believe it's supposed to be like
special almost in a way, And if you do it
too much, I think you'll not like lose the spark.
(14:49):
But like, yeah, it just like won't mean as much
if you just like do it too much. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Yeah, no, I definitely I definitely agree with you. It
depends on the person too, because some people like will
not lose their virginity until they're married and like keep
it sacred. And like some people just like don't have
a whole phase like some people do. Yeah, Like I
think it just like depends really on the person and
(15:16):
the relationship. And that's really what Google told me. Googles
like it really just depends on like you, and.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Well that makes sense. It makes sense.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
I don't really think like one way or the other.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
I think it has to be yeah, like you said,
I think it has to be a mutual thing for
it to become unhealthy.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
And like.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
I don't think it's not a make or break, but
I think it's definitely something you and your partner have
to talk about or it could end bad.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
I feel like you're like need to be on the
same page. Like if if like there's a guy out
there and they want to have like sex all the
time their girlfriend, and their girlfriend's like no, like obviously
that's going to leave like tension, right and you'll have
to work now. Yeah, But I do think at that
point then it's like, okay, well should you even be together?
Like if you're not even on the same page about that,
(16:11):
it's like what else kind of problem is in the relationship?
Speaker 1 (16:14):
No, I agree, Like that's what I mean, Like, it
won't make or break some things, but like I think
it potentially could, and I don't think someone's sex drive
is just gonna change over night, so you're not going
You really do need to talk about those things, and
if you guys are on completely different levels, I think
it could end very bad.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
You. No, I agree, I definitely agree, especially like at
this age, like hormones are fucking cooking cooking. But I
mean I just think like if both if both parties
would have sex twenty four to seven and it works,
then like great, and like if both don't they only
(16:55):
want to have it on like special occasions, Like I
think that's great too, right, But it's like when you
try and like mix those things, it's like you almost
like resent that person. It's like, Okay, is that's all
you want me for? Like can we go do something
else or like spend like actual quality time together? Because
I do think that could be like on occasion like
quality time, I guess, but there's also so many other
(17:16):
things that you could be doing together that like keeps
the spark there and not just having sex and like
party ways. Yeah, yeah, no, I agree. I mean if
you're just like if you're just like I don't know,
I just think it's like a touchy.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
It is touchy, And I think if you're the person
with the higher sex drive, you have to be the
most understanding in the relationship because.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
You have to be okay being told no that.
Speaker 1 (17:43):
And like it's not like it's just gonna be more
enjoyable for both of you if you both want to
do it. So like if them telling you no is
really gonna put your panties in a freaking twist, like,
get over yourself.
Speaker 2 (17:57):
It's like only benefiting you and at that you care
about here.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Very self centered if it's only been that.
Speaker 2 (18:04):
Yeah, it's like, are you just like here to get
the job done? Because I'm not that person, right, Like yeah, yeah,
I really don't ever hear Like, I don't know. I
feel like you get the vibe real quick when you
start dating somebody of like how like what they're like, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:27):
I feel like, you know, I feel like you really
don't have to have a conversation. Yeah, it'd be great
to have a conversation. That's probably the best thing to
do is talking it out. But without the talking, you
can kind of put the pieces together.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
Yeah, especially knowing them in general or just how you
you know, yourself. Yeah, you know what you're looking for.
So if that's like what you're out there looking for,
they like come to you and that sense.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
Yeah, the way to make things rated R.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
Tony, thank you. He's always talking some rated R ship,
like Allison says. Allison's like Alicia, have someone to match
the freak every time she says that, the only I
can think about is that stupid fucking song that was
on TikTok fuck case.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
Hold on. He can be a guest real quick and
then first one. All right, all right, well you're gonna
say hi real quick and then I'm gonna hang up
and then I'll call you back.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
Okay, uh oh, what's up?
Speaker 1 (19:43):
You're guest storry.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
Ye, I'm guest starring.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
You're first guest. Oh very right now great, all right,
I'll call you back. All right, bye For any one
that was wondering, that was my little brother FaceTime me
for who knows what. So yeah, first guest star.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
Right, Yeah, I remember when we used to drive him
to sheets with us. We like Loki made him be
our friend for a long.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Time, like we I think believe my only friend at
one point. No, same, he wouldn't be who he was
today if it wasn't for us, so oh, I had
a thousand percent agree.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
He would just sit in the back and just like
love life driving down to the mountains. He got sheets with.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
Us, yeah, and make fun of us recording and all
of the tiktoks yeah and all three thousand of my
mental breakdowns.
Speaker 2 (20:50):
Yeah. Yeah, William's the real one. He really is. He
really is. He's definitely my favorite sheer brother. Ooh shay
you and husband throw.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
I'm so weak.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
I mean I don't like hete your other brother. I
just think, like, I know you can keep this.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Like, I mean, Case isn't closer in age, but he
was always home. No, we're all two years apart, Okay.
I was like wait, yeah, no, I mean yeah, but
like he's always home. He's never had a girlfriend, right,
Case is kind of just yeah, one of the girls
(21:36):
all the time.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Yeah he was. Yeah, I mean I do think and
like I just feel like Cole was just more like
go go go, like party and we just like sat
in your bedroom. Yeah, in Case would like come join us, yeah,
or swim or like we were just doing something around
(22:01):
the house.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
In Case was always there.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
So yeah, I think Coole was never there. When I
would come to your house.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Like like like a big part of it, I think,
when you were always there.
Speaker 2 (22:10):
He was at college, yeah, oh yeah, I mean he
was at college and then I mean even before that,
he was dating Heather, so he was never home. So
I mean if I did see him, we'd literally walk
past each other and I'd be like, oh hey, and
he'd be like leaving as I'm like coming through the door. Right,
So yeah, I don't know. Live blah, love please, love, happiness.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
It's it was I'm not even kidding.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
Probably eighty five degrees at.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
Nine o'clock this morning. I could not even function. I
was walking into the gym this morning, and no, it
had to have been eight. I go to the gym
at eight and I was like adding, just sitting in
my car waiting to go in. It was so hot.
It has not been this hot in the morning and
quite some time.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
This is a really dumb question, but does Hawaii get
like a winter, Like does it get cool there?
Speaker 1 (23:04):
Yeah, we're in our winter season right now.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
Eighty five degrees.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Yeah, well no, it gets down to like seventy Yeah,
that's like winter here. It gets down to seventy in
like the evening it's also very rainy here in the
winter season. But yeah, so it's like cool in the
morning's very cool in the evenings and rainy. But today
it's like freaking summer here. Not playing around.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
I hope Tony gets smooth there. I just like love
being hot and warm and like literally sweating just sitting
there like that is my ideal day. Like, move me
to the fucking desert for all I care. I don't
give a fuck, Like, put me somewhere hot.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
Please, Devil's crotch.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
No, I would so enjoy it there. I so enjoy
it there. I just want to be like, I'm just
always so cold. I'm so cold. I'm so cold sitting.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Here, dude. I constantly it's a daily thought thinking that
you could end up here, Like seriously, imagine our days
just doing nothing, rotting in our living rooms together.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
That would bring me back to twenty twenty Spanish class
COVID at home rotting.
Speaker 1 (24:19):
Yeah, it would be great.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
It would be so great. Honest to God, if he
doesn't get if he honestly, my Lucky's gonna be sent
to fucking Alaska. Yeah, I honestly think anywhere will be
like fun. And I think it'll be fine. But I
would actually drop over dead if we lived in Hawaii together,
because I never ever ever imagine E going to the
(24:46):
military ever. Like that was the biggest punch in the face.
And I don't even date him. That was wild.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
Yeah, it was. And I remember I literally remember clear
as day, sitting in my bed. He was in Texas
for school. It was like a week before finding out
where his first duty station was going to be. I
remember texting you and like everyone, I was like, dude,
I'm going to lose my shit. I'm losing it. I
need to know where we're going, and if it's Hawaii,
(25:13):
could you even imagine living in Hawaii? Like I was like,
this is crazy.
Speaker 2 (25:18):
Oh no, it was so crazy because you had a
dream that he was going to Texas. He went to Texas,
You had a dream about going to Hawaii. You're in Hawaii?
Like that was crazy.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
I think I had a dream he was going to Japan.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Oh did you?
Speaker 1 (25:29):
I did? And I was like literally so scared because like,
I'd love to see Japan, but like for a first
duty station.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
Who everyone says it's amazing there.
Speaker 1 (25:38):
Yeah, I've heard really great things about Japan. But but
then Rena. I don't know if you knew this. The
day he texted me and was like, we're going to Hawaii.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
That night, Rena had a dream that he was going
to Hawaii. Okay, wait, maybe that's what I was thinking of. Okay, yeah,
so I would. I would fall over because when I
heard that, I was like, oh my god, Like I
never in a thousand years would have guessed. Like when
he was texting me about what kind of ring you wanted,
(26:07):
I was like, this is so sober, like this is
fucking crazy, Like this is so crazy, and then you
guys left, like leaving you at the airport was like
be sad as day, Like I felt like he died.
Like we were together like every other day for like years,
like it was weird and now it's like normal. But
(26:28):
I think that if that happened to me, I mean,
I mean it's going to happen, like he's leaving and August,
and I think it's going to be like a bigger
punch in the face and way I am anticipating and
I'm scared just because I mean I'm always fine, like
I don't depend on anybody, but like Anthony, I are
(26:49):
so connected on like such a different level. Like I've
never felt like this about anyone before. I do think
it's gonna be really hard, and I'm just like, definitely hard,
but it's or but yeah, well I'm I mean, I
feel like, I mean, Allison's my emotional support, Like already
out of all people, Alison, dude.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
Just please come stay here for the thirteen weeks that
he's gone in all his training. You definitely need to
find some hobbies, some emotional support.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
Yeah, it's so funny here you cussed because I sear
hear you never cuss like I mean, at least maybe
not as much as me.
Speaker 1 (27:29):
This is okay, this is gonna sound like I'm whipped
to a core, but I swear I'm not.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
He actually blink twice if you need help. No, I'm kidding.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
He actually like when I do cuss, he's like a language.
And I'm just like, I think cussing like I'm seeing
it as like it's a kind of immature type thing.
You look, you are more professional when you're not cussing.
So even with him saying that, like I'm not even
doing it just because he like, well not yell at me,
but he like does say and so I'm trying not
(28:02):
to as much, but every once in a while there
will be a moment when I need to and I'll
text him.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
I'll be like, excuse my language, but if.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
This, if that, like, I'm like losing it. It's so funny.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
I honestly feel like that's good. But I mean, you
know my mom and she cussed every other word. Every
other word was like fuck, bitch, cut Like, I'm like, who,
so I get do I cuss around my dad? I
don't cuss around my dad. I do not cuss at work. Yeah,
I really just like cuss around my friends. But I
(28:33):
really just think it's funny. I'll say something like jank
as fuck or.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
Like some of the things I say.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
I'm like, this makes no sense. I really want to
try and cut back, but I mean it doesn't bother Tony, So.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
I honestly don't think it bothers me. But he just,
for whatever reason, he's on a kick with dude. Yeah,
and it's just funny.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
So I mean, I really do think it's unnecessary. Like
I definitely way could cut back because I cuss a lot.
But at the same time, I just I just at
this point, it's just me.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
Yeah, I'm trying. I'm trying to find words that I
can use and replace of my cuss words. I'm trying
really hard.
Speaker 2 (29:18):
Maybe that'll be my new thing to work on it
cuss less. This one's long.
Speaker 1 (29:25):
And cut long, bitch. We I'm gonna edit this, drink
my coffee, and watch The Amazing World of Gumball because
makes me feel like he's there in space. No, no,
it's gravity Falls.
Speaker 2 (29:39):
I'm gonna go watch Gravity Falls. Okay. I was like,
I don't think I've ever watched either of those. But yeah,
I'm gonna clean my room because it's it's Monday, so
it's Monday, it's now, or these clothes get washed for
a fourth time and it's next Monday. Mm hmm was
her Autra song I forget.
Speaker 1 (29:59):
Well what what what?
Speaker 2 (30:02):
Wait? Can we sing it like floor?
Speaker 1 (30:10):
But but that's so funny period?
Speaker 2 (30:23):
Sorry guys for that, but sorry, no one, no one
asked for that.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
Sorry but not sorry. All right, Well, have a blessed week.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
Listen, let's see you're hot and soul.
Speaker 1 (30:36):
Us enjoy your Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, almost to the weekend.
You guys, got it. It's well good, see y'allson, see y'all,
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