April 16, 2025 • 34 mins
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If you guys have not checked out our podcast from last week, definitely go listen. Chatting each week helps us stay connected from 5,000 miles away! Talking about our lives, trends, or even the latest gossip! We normally pick different topics and start yapping!
This week’s podcast we talk a little about why girl's act like they do... We hope you guys enjoy, and don’t forget to reach out on social media with feedback!!
Thanks for listening !!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I'm literally on my couch. I had nothing in me
to sit up in a chair today, so I'm here
on my couch.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I'm on the floor today too, so.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Mm hmm perfect. I'm more concerned about being being comfortable today.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
I'm just more concerned about being lazy.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
So yeah, lazy and comfortable. I'm so exhausted. I have
no idea why. Like i could take the fattest nap,
but I'm not going to because I won't sleep at
night if I not. So I'm just here existing.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Love that. Yeah, I'm currently dying. I'm so tired.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
You have the you have like a reason to be tired,
though I have none. I went to bed at probably
nine thirty, woke up at probably eight.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I drove six hours yesterday.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Yeah that drive is awful, like and so I incredibly,
I honestly was fine.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
So I slept for fifteen hours, but like on the
way back, I wasn't tired, and like I just let
were going to sleep. Shit have worked this morning. But
last name, my sleep was just terrible. Like I slept
for maybe like five hours and it was just like
not good sleep.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Yeah that sucks. Yeah, I hate when my sleep shit.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
The lighting in my room is tear while look dead.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
It doesn't help that it's dark out, No, it.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Doesn't help at all. Well, on that note, welcome back
to another pod. I don't even know what number one
got the fall Over Dead. It's been a while, I
(02:10):
as I say, it has to be over ten for sure.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Yeah, I think thirteen, thirteen or fourteen. I don't I
can't remember if the last one I posted was thirteen
or I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I don't really listen to them anymore because I just
hate hearing my own voice.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
So oh, I hate refuted listen. Editing these is like
nails on a chalkboard. I can't do it. It's so awful,
and I have to go back and like listen a
million times and I'm like ready to chop my head
off by the end.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
That's why I feel about posting for like work like
going back and rewatching and editing and going back and
rewatching and editing, and I'm like, oh my freaking gosh,
this is never ending.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Nope.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Yeah, I didn't take any notes, by the way, but like,
I feel like I could give my best impromptu words
on these topics, So that's what I'm going with.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah, I took no notes either, but I need a
pencil on it.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Don't want to get up.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Oh, speaking of I don't think I told you this,
but I'm starting therapy.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Okay, I got the quite so good for you.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Well, I feel like I feel like I could use
it since I speak to no one during my days. No,
it would.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
It's it's good, like I should enjoy it, but honestly, like,
what is there to talk about? There's no reason for
me to go, Like at this point, I'm not even heartbroken,
Like you can't be heartbroken when your soul literally left
your body, Like my soul was like, well looking at me.
If I remember correctly, you said you were going to
(04:04):
be the best version of yourself for your relationship, So
maybe you should just keep going to continue on being
the best version of yourself. I was in say, cause
it didn't get me very far. Yeah no, just kidding,
not actually kidding, but yeah, no, I'm going to continue
(04:26):
to go and do my thing and work through what
I originally was going for and call today I got it.
I think I actually gone Thursday this week.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
M M.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Yeah. Yeah, she's really nice. I really like her. I
have like a whole like I don't know where it
is like separate little journal. Yeah, she told me. If
I do, my feelings and like, I just feel so hateful,
like I'm so hateful. Like on the one page, it
literally is like I am hateful. I hate everything. I
(05:04):
hate you. I hate hate, hate, hate hate dude. And
then I slipped the page and I started brand new over.
I was like, Okay, I feel better.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Listen. I feel like I relate to that so much
for no reason. I feel like I just have no
pity for anything. I think I have like the coldest
heart sometimes when it comes to things. I'll be talking
to my mom about something and I can't even like
think of a topic. But I like, there are times
(05:38):
when I'm just so cold hearted about things and I
have no reason. I think I'm just hateful too.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
No, I'm hateful. I'm like, I don't give a fuck.
You couldn't pay me to give a fuck. I don't care.
I never will care. Like I'm holding the grudge. I'm
not forgiving. I'm not forgetting, like out of sight, out
of mind, any situation ever. Like I genuinely nothing phases
me at this point. Nothing fazes me because when I
don't let it into it just because I don't care, Like,
(06:08):
why am I gonna put effort into something that is
doing nothing positive for me? But at the same time,
I'm so busy I can't even think, Like I can't
even think about this negative ship because yeah, I'm just
so busy doing everything else and I just don't have
to like give a fuck.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
I felt that I just don't have the energy to
care about anything that doesn't interest me. So sorry if
you're not in that category, because chances are I freaking
hate you.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Yeah that, Yeah, so don't care, probably never will. And honestly,
like I wish I could get rid of my I
don't care attitude, but I've accepted it, right, don't.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Get over it, over.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Moving on.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
But that has nothing to do with what we're talking
about today.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Now that Luda has not been to do with anything, Okay,
take it away.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
You know, I'd love for if it's one of me
recording this podcast the way I think it's gonna go.
I would love to send this to E if it
was someone else recording it, but because these are my
own words, I can't. It would be a little targeting
(07:33):
if I sent my own podcast to E about these topics.
But it's a why do girls dot dot dot and
them you know whatever comes after that.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
I really this may go in so many different directions
because I could talk about this for probably ever.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Yeah, and you know I was when I text you
this morning, one like came to mind, and I feel
like I have to like bring it up. I have
to say it because I feel like guys don't truly
understand this. Why do girls get pissed when they see
(08:17):
you liking other girls Instagram posts? Specifically like kind of
bikini picks? But like, honestly, just like if it's a
picture of just them, just them, they're showing themselves off,
we're gonna be pissed. I don't have any and I
(08:38):
don't think it's a I don't think it's an insecure thing.
I really don't. I see it as everyone can see
that you like that, Like people can see that you
liked it, and then you just like the girlfriend looks
like an idiot on the other end because everyone's like
looking at it saying, oh, look, he liked that.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
I actually just like, like why an unpopular opinion on this?
Speaker 5 (09:04):
Specifically just because I don't care about social media and
I post a lot of like revealing things and like
when people like my shit, I'm not sitting there bragging.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
So I think it is like girl by girl, like
if this girl's gonna take it and run with it.
But I also think if this is the only reason
why I'd be passed, if I'm not allowed to post
it and you're not gonna support me posting what I
want to post, and you don't have to, like just
don't fucking say anything. But if you're gonna get right
about what I post, do not like what I can't post.
(09:37):
I don't like another girl's bikini, Like, don't like another whatever,
Like that's what you're ja because if I can't do it,
don't be hyping up these other girls because that's yeah,
that's true.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
And honestly, I don't even like me personally too. I
don't look through like who likes my pictures and whatever?
But I think I really do think it's like less
of an insecure thing and it's more of trying not
to make yourself look like an idiot by what your
(10:10):
significant others liking. No, I agree, like do yourself do us,
like be respectful to your partner because you're just like
letting everyone see it at that point that you're disrespecting them.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
It honestly bothers me if it's like high school stupid shit,
because as everyone knows, me and Brine do not talk
to anybody from high school, nor do we have anyone
from high school or social media and heaven for years.
But if it's like some weird shit like drama in
high school, like yeah, whatever, out the door, but it
(10:45):
still happened, like if you had, like if you were
involved with them, or if this girl was like known
who of Connorsville and you're out there liking her shit
like I know she's talking about me, Like save yourself,
not even me, save your self the embarrassment, and just
don't do it because some people never and people like
girls eat that up.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Yeah yep, yeah, some girls really take it and run
with it when they see someone's boyfriend or whatever liking
their ship.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Yeah yeah, I really too hard. I'm gonna keep my
mouth shut because nothing that's gonna come out of my
mouth is gonna be nice.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
So no, same, honestly, same.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
My lips are sealed.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
Unless it's like it's like it's like right here, it's
like boiling out of my body right now. For it
to not like come out.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Yeah, the private story, the private story, got the the
private story story. AnyWho, Let's talk about the other side
of it, like why do girls get filler and boob
jobs and all the things, because I personally feel like
(12:02):
I ran into a girl at this concert last night,
and like I had like a low cut top on.
She was super drunk. My boob job come up, and
she was like, why would you do that for a guy?
Like you spent me so much money for Like I
did not spend that much money for a fucking guy.
The thing that bothers me the most about why girls
(12:25):
do what they do is like the opinions on wanting
to do something for yourself is what pisses me off,
especially from like a guide point of view. Yeah, like
if I want to get my lips done, there should
be like no questions asked.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
Well, and I think like, at least for me, if
I'm doing anything for myself at this point, like going
to get my eyelashes done, or like if I went
to get lip filler, or if I went to get
my boob done, I would solely be doing it for
myself and how I feel about myself, how like for
my own self confidence. I'm not doing it for anyone else.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
No, I'm like heavy on the self care and like
everything I do to myself, like tattoos wise, like it's
for like me to look at like I don't give
a fuck, who's look at me? Who I'm dating right say,
with groups like I would have never I would never
do that for a guy like that solely was for me.
(13:26):
The filler was like for fun, but like still for me.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
For me, it's it's your body. You gotta You're the
one that has to be like comfortable living in it,
So do what you gotta do and if it makes
you happy, then screw it.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Literal like, And I don't know why it gets guys
get so insecure and pressed on the fact that like girls,
this is literally like a fucking hate page for a
man right now.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
I just don't understand why they gets so bent out
of shape and so pressed that it's like a tention
seeking But I'm not speaking attention like doing these things
like my lips look natural.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
Like yeah, I literally just want it for myself. I'm
not doing it for anyone else. I'm not doing it
solely for like Instagram posts. I'm not doing Like, yes,
these have like the benefits and like add to my
self confidence for those other things, but it's for me.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
Yeah, Like it's like at the end of the day,
like I have to look at myself in the mirror,
and I want to feel good looking at myself in
the mirror. So like if I want to do something,
then I'm going to do it, and then if I
feel better about myself, like then I'm going to post it.
Like it's I've made it very obvious that I've got
my boobs done on social media. But if you look
back literally before January twenty seventh of this year, you
(14:50):
will not catch me with my boobs out, like not
even close, Like not even close. So like, keep your
fucking comment serious, honestly because I don't care.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Yeah, And like another like to kind of touch on this,
it was kind of funny, like this sparked a memory
the other like a couple of weeks ago. Actually he
text I don't know what. He must have been looking
at my Visco and then felt the need to text
me like when he was looking at it, I'm not sure,
(15:27):
but like he wasn't mad, he wasn't he was just
asking a genuine question. He was like, why do you
post on your Visco because like no one like really
looks at it, Like no, like it's not a very
like used platform, Like why do you do it? And
I was just like, you know what, honestly, it's for myself.
(15:47):
I don't care who looks at my Visco. But it's
for like me to look back at my pictures to
make it look like esthetically pleasing, to post things that
I wouldn't probably post on Instagram. I was just this
is for me.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Yeah, I feel like like rejects that like aren't which
I feel like Instagram's like shifting. I feel like you
can post what everyone on Instagram doesn't have to be
like the perfect picture anymore. Yeah, like all of like
my random shit pictures like outdoors pictures, like all that
stupid shit. I just post my Visco. I try and
keep my Instagram relatively clean just because of work.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Yeah, I'm the same, but I mean my Visco is
like clean too.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
But like if I just want to post something and
I just like want it to look whatever, then like
I'm just gonna post it there.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
Yeah, but I just I don't know. It was like
it's I really don't care who looks at it. It's mine.
It's for me. If I'm posting on it's because I
think it looks good. Yep, I agree, I agree, dude.
This is like I feel like you're not going to
relate on this. I feel like, actually it really just
(16:59):
depends on the person. But for like me, I think
my love language is physical touch.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
Bagging, and.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
Well like, no, listen, it has its limits because obviously
not in public. So like when we're when we're alone.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Like.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Physical touch, but when we're out, it's different. It's way different. No.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
That actually kind of surprises me because I know you
hate like any sort of PDA.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Yes, I'm not for that, but like so it's a
why do girls like to cuddle or want to cuddle?
I don't.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
I'm not that girl. So see I am.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
And he's the complete freaking opposite. He's always hot, he's
always like he just can't do it, and I'm we
have a constant battle of what happens. And I feel like,
I know, like.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
My standpoint on that is I just hate being touched,
to be honest, and now like it just like like
actually irritates me to like be touched, and like anytime
I've had a boyfriend, like it always has to be,
like it irritates a fuck out of me at first,
and so I like genuinely like like you, and I'm
(18:15):
like okay with you, like being this close to my face.
I hate my face being touched, Like, don't touch my face.
That's fucking disgusting. But I think it's now because I
do hair all day long and I touch people whole
day long that as soon as I'm like done touching people,
I just physically cannot be touched anymore. I could see that,
(18:41):
like I'm like touched out, not me.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
The second he gets home, I'm like laying on top
of him, like quite literally, like I won't leave him alone.
I just I don't know. And he's like he's always
like okay, just for a couple of minutes because I'm
gonna get hot, Like.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
What he said, that's so funny.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
What I don't waiting all day for this? I don't really.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
I don't really know what my love language is.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
I've come to this is why I think this. I
think love. I think physical touches my first love language.
When we're in our house because when like he tells
me he doesn't want to because he's hot, or he's
like ready to go to bed, because when he's going
to bed, he cannot be cuddling. He needs like his
(19:32):
face whatever. And honestly, I'm the same way, but I'd
like to play with you a little bit before you
go to bed. But whenever he tells me no, like
not like my feelings are truly hurt, I think I
take it as a stab to the heart, like what
you hate me? You hate me, so you can hate me.
And that's why I think I've come like to think
(19:53):
that's my number one love language because some nights I
really do take it really personal, or other nights I don't.
It just depends on how I'm feeling.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
But I mean at night like okay, but like if
I'm going to sleep, like I need to like be
on like my side of bed, Like.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Yeah, I do agree. I like having my own space.
I like being spread out, and sometimes I will accidentally
fall asleep depending on how tired I am like on him,
but it's like never really on purpose, because I do
like to have my own space and so does he,
so it's like really not for sleeping. But if I'm
just like laying there, let me freaking lay with you.
(20:35):
Please please, I'm begging. I'm begging.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Yeah, yeah, I don't, I don't know. I think like
another thing that kind of goes hand in hand with
this topic is like why do girls get so mad
when you tell them no? Like it could be my dad,
It doesn't even have to be a boyfriend. Like when
someone tells me no, I'm genuinely so heartbroken and I'm
(21:03):
like very like bold and like I'm gonna call you
an asshole. I'm gonna call you out like I'm gonna
tell you no, like I'm just like giving dishing it
how it is. But for someone does that to me,
when someone, god forbid someone does that to me, and
I'm like, it's life altering, like my world's ending, oh
saying like you just called me an asshole, even just
like joking, like I'm my feelings hurt, Like don't even
(21:27):
try and call me ugly, like my feelings are hurt, Like,
don't tell me I'm annoying, because now my feelings are
really hurt.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
No. I think I think the number one reason I
get so but hurt being told no is because I
don't ask for much, and when I ask for something,
it's never like fly me to freaking to the Bahamas
and let's stay for a whole month. And you know,
like I'm never asking for like you to bend over
(21:59):
backwards like it could be let's go get like ice cream. Yeah,
and you're gonna tell me no for what? What is
this hurt?
Speaker 2 (22:07):
What actually pisses me off about that more is like
I don't want it, but like I'll get you it,
Like I'm not gonna sit there and eat it by myself.
That's crazy, dude, It's crazy.
Speaker 1 (22:16):
That's so funny because I think he's finally catching on
to this, finally yeah, and I'll like I'll say like, oh,
let's go do something. He'll be like, yeah, you could,
Like I'll go with you, you can do it, but I
don't want I don't want to. I'm like, okay, then no,
it's fine. And then he's like all right, let's go,
and there we go.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
Automatically, if someone tells me, you know, they don't want
to do something, I'm like, no, I don't either. I'm
not especially.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
Eating, especially eating. Like if if I'm like, let's go
get ice cream, He's like, yeah, I'll go get you
ice cream, but I'm not gonna get anything, all right,
I'm freaking big backed. I guess I don't need it.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
No, yeah, like I'm good, but I don't want to eat.
I don't want to drink, Like I don't want to
walk into the gas station by myself. Oh my gosh.
You know what irritates me on this topic too. If
I'm sitting in the car, okay and I don't want
to go into Walmart, I'm expecting you to go in
there by yourself. But if it's me and I'm like,
come in with me, and you're giving me the biggest
(23:13):
fucking fit, like I don't want to go in, Like
can't you just run in by yourself? Like yeah, yeah,
why do girls? I feel like honestly, I feel like
girls like crash out, like we like go fucking insane.
(23:38):
But the second that I stop caring is when, like
I you'll see no response and I'm just like, well.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
Yeah, no, I agree. And I truly do blame like this,
like your cycle for crash outs one ten percent, yeah,
because I don't. I didn't tell you, but you know,
when I was crashing out the other day, Yeah, got
my period yesterday, so like yeah, not to say, not
(24:08):
to say like I was like I was definitely upset,
but I was like hardcore crashing out. Oh I knew,
I knew, like that wasn't me. But I thought it
was too earlier for my too early for my cycle
to be coming, like my period. So I was like,
what is happening. I'm losing it. I'm like straight out
(24:29):
crashing out, And now it all makes sense.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
No, I get like that too, And then I'm because
I never cry. I don't cry. Yeah, I don't get upset.
I don't actually like throw a fit melt down. But
when I do, it's always like a couple of days
before my period. And I'm like, oh, ok actually.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Well and then you're a couple of days into your
period and then you're almost not You're back to being
numb like I don't you're in the I don't give
a fuck attitude stage whatever, and it's just blah.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Yeah, it's just like, okay, now we're back to original
business here, Like I feel like myself, Yeah I fell
that onto my core.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
No, but when a girl crashes out, I'm telling you,
in their head, it's the world is ending.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
The world's ending. It's over. I'm losing sleep over it.
I'm crying, sobbing, probably throwing up.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
It's over, yeah, like stick to their stomach, ready to
kill someone.
Speaker 2 (25:31):
Like if you've see like text text text tech text
run like if it's a big paragraph, like, you're probably good.
Like if I crash out in a large paragraph, like
I'll get it.
Speaker 1 (25:43):
If it's all my thoughts just flowing at once, not
in the same message, just going yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
Because once I crash out like that, I'm embarrassed. I'm
embarrassed with my actions and I probably won't ever speak.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
To you again.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Not embarrassed like the way that you made me feel
for me to like boom boom, but you like all
this ship like that, Like I'm embarrassed, and that's.
Speaker 1 (26:08):
Of me right now because I have a hold. Let
me show you my chain of messages right now.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
No, because you if you saw my chain of messages
the last time I crashed out, you would.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
Here's my chain, Yeah, and it keeps going down of
me just sending my random text messages hooping he'll see
them one day. Well, the day after he left, I
had probably five messages that day.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
This sounds like a breakup. He's just doing military. You're
not broke up.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
No, but I have like five messages and they're so
embarrassing that the next day I went back and on
sent them, yeah, because I was crashing the fuck out,
and like the next day I was like, okay, wait, pause.
Speaker 2 (26:57):
You know, it really takes a certain situation because I
have never ever have crashed out the way I did
a couple of weeks ago, Like, no one has ever
bothered me like that badly, and I will never let
anyone bother me that badly again, because I like blacked out,
(27:19):
Like I don't even know what I was thinking, Like
half the should I say, I didn't even mean half
the should I meant? I didn't even say yeah, And
I couldn't even on SND it. So it was in
real lifetime and he was fucking reading them. So yeah,
I don't I don't know. That was the largest crash
out of my life of history. Like I just like,
(27:47):
they're bound to happen, but it's just the fact that
you have to think about them later on in life
after they happen and you're saying there cringing to yourself,
oh that really just happened. Yeah, Like I've never been
that down bad. So I mean, I guess that was
my learning lesson to just walk away and not crash
(28:12):
dycho mania path.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
No, seriously same.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
But hey, some guys like crazy girls.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
So why do girls say they are fine when they
definitely are not fine.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
That's a really good one. Personally, it's because I know
you don't care, because typically you try and tell them
how you feel.
Speaker 1 (28:47):
And then they're like, yeah, they either don't hear you
or don't completely understand what you're saying. And I'm not
explaining myself multiple times, I'm not doing it.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
No, so then they're like whatever, and then it's like
the awkward silence, and then they're like, what's wrong, what's wrong?
And at that point, like you you literally are fine,
Like at that point, like probably a half hour's gonna past.
It wasn't that real. It's never that real, and you're fine,
and now they're like working down your throat and it's like,
now you're gonna piss me off again because I just
told you I'm fine, and like you not fine.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
Like right, and now I don't want to talk about it.
I'm over it. Don't bring it up again.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
Never bring it up again, because it's not that real.
Like I'm just speaking static and I just wanted you
to care and you don't like, just shut the fuck up, right.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
That, Or it's like something you don't know how, like
where they would stand on the topic, so you're not
sure if you should bring it up to them because
you don't know how it would end. So you just
got to be like, no, it's fine. Yeah, I've been
my fair share of those.
Speaker 2 (29:59):
Yeah, honestly that this lick kind of goes with that too.
But it's like, why do girls ask for guys opinions
and then do like the exact opposite. I do that
all the time. I'm like, which sad you wear today?
Speaker 1 (30:13):
The truth is we already had the end result in mind.
You just picked the wrong one.
Speaker 2 (30:20):
Yeah, Like when I ask you what I should do
with my hair and they're like, oh, grow it out,
Like I'm I already have a scheduled with Kim for
her to cut it tomorrow, right. I just wanted to
hear you say cut it yeah, Like I just wanted
you to like side with me and then like that,
or I just wanted you to be like, ugh, like whatever,
like do whatever you want and then I get it done.
(30:40):
I'm doing what I'm doing, whatever the situation is. And
then you're like, oh my God, Like this is the
greatest thing, Like, yeah, you are wrong, Like I just
love when people are wrong.
Speaker 1 (30:52):
Yeah, same, And you were right all along.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
I was right all the whole time. Dude. The blister
on the back my foot, it's like a bullet hole.
And anyone that is a watcher not a listener, I'm
about to show you.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
Wait, hold on, mmmm, I think I told you this,
Like after the ball I had blisters in the same
exact spots, and I probably like they were there forever. Yeah,
but I don't think they went. They lasted for months.
Speaker 2 (31:28):
This one's going to the other Side's not too bad. This.
I showered and I had my legs crossed. My heel
was like ben and it dried like that, and I
like it like ripped back open when I like flex
my foot. Yeah. Yeah, that was traumatic. That was crazy.
(31:49):
So I'm letting it air out now.
Speaker 1 (31:53):
Look at my uh step of a braid. You probably
already saw it.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
Is it? Did you cut your hair?
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (32:02):
I was gonna say your hair looks short, but then
I was like, well, it's pulled back to.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Yeah you cut it. It's probably so messed up, but
I really do not care. It's cut. It's healthier than
it was before. On the healthier side, I'll fix it
for you.
Speaker 2 (32:20):
You co ho.
Speaker 1 (32:22):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
Not feeling like myself with these boring ass nows, that's
for sure.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
My little boy hands.
Speaker 2 (32:32):
It's got them done today. They're pink and sparkily. I
namely worrying. Why are they boring? Yeah, because I normally
get hot pink. But we're doing photos for work and
I'm assuming him one psycho natural looking nail, so that
says it.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
That's fair.
Speaker 2 (32:53):
Then I'm getting my my birthday picture is done the
week after.
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Oh, that'll be fun. My birthdays in t minus eight days.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
I have your cards sitting up there somewhere. Woo woo woo.
Speaker 1 (33:16):
I'll probably be sitting in my house sipping on Bacardi.
Speaker 2 (33:23):
Are you not alcohol on bass?
Speaker 3 (33:26):
Mm hm oh okay, yeah.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
I feel like delusional. I feel I'm so like tired.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
Same. You'd think I'd got hit by a mac truck
or something and I didn't. All right, Well, I hope
you guys enjoyed. This was a lot of ranting today. Yeah,
it went in a million different directions.
Speaker 2 (33:59):
I'm just gonna bans. We just can't talk about one thing.
Speaker 1 (34:02):
No, it's never gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
Mm hmm never never. Well, we'll see you guys next
week and then the week after will be me uh
huh so excited.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
Whoo.
Speaker 2 (34:20):
All right, okay, see y'all later. Bye bye, mh devoding
I'm literally on my couch. I had nothing in me
to sit up in a chair today, so I'm here
on my couch.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I'm on the floor today too, so.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Mm hmm perfect. I'm more concerned about being being comfortable today.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
I'm just more concerned about being lazy.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
So yeah, lazy and comfortable. I'm so exhausted. I have
no idea why. Like i could take the fattest nap,
but I'm not going to because I won't sleep at
night if I not. So I'm just here existing.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Love that. Yeah, I'm currently dying. I'm so tired.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
You have the you have like a reason to be tired,
though I have none. I went to bed at probably
nine thirty, woke up at probably eight.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I drove six hours yesterday.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Yeah that drive is awful, like and so I incredibly,
I honestly was fine.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
So I slept for fifteen hours, but like on the
way back, I wasn't tired, and like I just let
were going to sleep. Shit have worked this morning. But
last name, my sleep was just terrible. Like I slept
for maybe like five hours and it was just like
not good sleep.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Yeah that sucks. Yeah, I hate when my sleep shit.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
The lighting in my room is tear while look dead.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
It doesn't help that it's dark out, No, it.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Doesn't help at all. Well, on that note, welcome back
to another pod. I don't even know what number one
got the fall Over Dead. It's been a while, I
(02:10):
as I say, it has to be over ten for sure.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Yeah, I think thirteen, thirteen or fourteen. I don't I
can't remember if the last one I posted was thirteen
or I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I don't really listen to them anymore because I just
hate hearing my own voice.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
So oh, I hate refuted listen. Editing these is like
nails on a chalkboard. I can't do it. It's so awful,
and I have to go back and like listen a
million times and I'm like ready to chop my head
off by the end.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
That's why I feel about posting for like work like
going back and rewatching and editing and going back and
rewatching and editing, and I'm like, oh my freaking gosh,
this is never ending.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Nope.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Yeah, I didn't take any notes, by the way, but like,
I feel like I could give my best impromptu words
on these topics, So that's what I'm going with.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah, I took no notes either, but I need a
pencil on it.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Don't want to get up.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Oh, speaking of I don't think I told you this,
but I'm starting therapy.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Okay, I got the quite so good for you.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Well, I feel like I feel like I could use
it since I speak to no one during my days. No,
it would.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
It's it's good, like I should enjoy it, but honestly, like,
what is there to talk about? There's no reason for
me to go, Like at this point, I'm not even heartbroken,
Like you can't be heartbroken when your soul literally left
your body, Like my soul was like, well looking at me.
If I remember correctly, you said you were going to
(04:04):
be the best version of yourself for your relationship, So
maybe you should just keep going to continue on being
the best version of yourself. I was in say, cause
it didn't get me very far. Yeah no, just kidding,
not actually kidding, but yeah, no, I'm going to continue
(04:26):
to go and do my thing and work through what
I originally was going for and call today I got it.
I think I actually gone Thursday this week.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
M M.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Yeah. Yeah, she's really nice. I really like her. I
have like a whole like I don't know where it
is like separate little journal. Yeah, she told me. If
I do, my feelings and like, I just feel so hateful,
like I'm so hateful. Like on the one page, it
literally is like I am hateful. I hate everything. I
(05:04):
hate you. I hate hate, hate, hate hate dude. And
then I slipped the page and I started brand new over.
I was like, Okay, I feel better.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
Listen. I feel like I relate to that so much
for no reason. I feel like I just have no
pity for anything. I think I have like the coldest
heart sometimes when it comes to things. I'll be talking
to my mom about something and I can't even like
think of a topic. But I like, there are times
(05:38):
when I'm just so cold hearted about things and I
have no reason. I think I'm just hateful too.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
No, I'm hateful. I'm like, I don't give a fuck.
You couldn't pay me to give a fuck. I don't care.
I never will care. Like I'm holding the grudge. I'm
not forgiving. I'm not forgetting, like out of sight, out
of mind, any situation ever. Like I genuinely nothing phases
me at this point. Nothing fazes me because when I
don't let it into it just because I don't care, Like,
(06:08):
why am I gonna put effort into something that is
doing nothing positive for me? But at the same time,
I'm so busy I can't even think, Like I can't
even think about this negative ship because yeah, I'm just
so busy doing everything else and I just don't have
to like give a fuck.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
I felt that I just don't have the energy to
care about anything that doesn't interest me. So sorry if
you're not in that category, because chances are I freaking
hate you.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Yeah that, Yeah, so don't care, probably never will. And honestly,
like I wish I could get rid of my I
don't care attitude, but I've accepted it, right, don't.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Get over it, over.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Moving on.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
But that has nothing to do with what we're talking
about today.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Now that Luda has not been to do with anything, Okay,
take it away.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
You know, I'd love for if it's one of me
recording this podcast the way I think it's gonna go.
I would love to send this to E if it
was someone else recording it, but because these are my
own words, I can't. It would be a little targeting
(07:33):
if I sent my own podcast to E about these topics.
But it's a why do girls dot dot dot and
them you know whatever comes after that.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
I really this may go in so many different directions
because I could talk about this for probably ever.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Yeah, and you know I was when I text you
this morning, one like came to mind, and I feel
like I have to like bring it up. I have
to say it because I feel like guys don't truly
understand this. Why do girls get pissed when they see
(08:17):
you liking other girls Instagram posts? Specifically like kind of
bikini picks? But like, honestly, just like if it's a
picture of just them, just them, they're showing themselves off,
we're gonna be pissed. I don't have any and I
(08:38):
don't think it's a I don't think it's an insecure thing.
I really don't. I see it as everyone can see
that you like that, Like people can see that you
liked it, and then you just like the girlfriend looks
like an idiot on the other end because everyone's like
looking at it saying, oh, look, he liked that.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
I actually just like, like why an unpopular opinion on this?
Speaker 5 (09:04):
Specifically just because I don't care about social media and
I post a lot of like revealing things and like
when people like my shit, I'm not sitting there bragging.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
So I think it is like girl by girl, like
if this girl's gonna take it and run with it.
But I also think if this is the only reason
why I'd be passed, if I'm not allowed to post
it and you're not gonna support me posting what I
want to post, and you don't have to, like just
don't fucking say anything. But if you're gonna get right
about what I post, do not like what I can't post.
(09:37):
I don't like another girl's bikini, Like, don't like another whatever,
Like that's what you're ja because if I can't do it,
don't be hyping up these other girls because that's yeah,
that's true.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
And honestly, I don't even like me personally too. I
don't look through like who likes my pictures and whatever?
But I think I really do think it's like less
of an insecure thing and it's more of trying not
to make yourself look like an idiot by what your
(10:10):
significant others liking. No, I agree, like do yourself do us,
like be respectful to your partner because you're just like
letting everyone see it at that point that you're disrespecting them.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
It honestly bothers me if it's like high school stupid shit,
because as everyone knows, me and Brine do not talk
to anybody from high school, nor do we have anyone
from high school or social media and heaven for years.
But if it's like some weird shit like drama in
high school, like yeah, whatever, out the door, but it
(10:45):
still happened, like if you had, like if you were
involved with them, or if this girl was like known
who of Connorsville and you're out there liking her shit
like I know she's talking about me, Like save yourself,
not even me, save your self the embarrassment, and just
don't do it because some people never and people like
girls eat that up.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Yeah yep, yeah, some girls really take it and run
with it when they see someone's boyfriend or whatever liking
their ship.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Yeah yeah, I really too hard. I'm gonna keep my
mouth shut because nothing that's gonna come out of my
mouth is gonna be nice.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
So no, same, honestly, same.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
My lips are sealed.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
Unless it's like it's like it's like right here, it's
like boiling out of my body right now. For it
to not like come out.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Yeah, the private story, the private story, got the the
private story story. AnyWho, Let's talk about the other side
of it, like why do girls get filler and boob
jobs and all the things, because I personally feel like
(12:02):
I ran into a girl at this concert last night,
and like I had like a low cut top on.
She was super drunk. My boob job come up, and
she was like, why would you do that for a guy?
Like you spent me so much money for Like I
did not spend that much money for a fucking guy.
The thing that bothers me the most about why girls
(12:25):
do what they do is like the opinions on wanting
to do something for yourself is what pisses me off,
especially from like a guide point of view. Yeah, like
if I want to get my lips done, there should
be like no questions asked.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
Well, and I think like, at least for me, if
I'm doing anything for myself at this point, like going
to get my eyelashes done, or like if I went
to get lip filler, or if I went to get
my boob done, I would solely be doing it for
myself and how I feel about myself, how like for
my own self confidence. I'm not doing it for anyone else.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
No, I'm like heavy on the self care and like
everything I do to myself, like tattoos wise, like it's
for like me to look at like I don't give
a fuck, who's look at me? Who I'm dating right say,
with groups like I would have never I would never
do that for a guy like that solely was for me.
(13:26):
The filler was like for fun, but like still for me.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
For me, it's it's your body. You gotta You're the
one that has to be like comfortable living in it,
So do what you gotta do and if it makes
you happy, then screw it.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Literal like, And I don't know why it gets guys
get so insecure and pressed on the fact that like girls,
this is literally like a fucking hate page for a
man right now.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
I just don't understand why they gets so bent out
of shape and so pressed that it's like a tention
seeking But I'm not speaking attention like doing these things
like my lips look natural.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
Like yeah, I literally just want it for myself. I'm
not doing it for anyone else. I'm not doing it
solely for like Instagram posts. I'm not doing Like, yes,
these have like the benefits and like add to my
self confidence for those other things, but it's for me.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
Yeah, Like it's like at the end of the day,
like I have to look at myself in the mirror,
and I want to feel good looking at myself in
the mirror. So like if I want to do something,
then I'm going to do it, and then if I
feel better about myself, like then I'm going to post it.
Like it's I've made it very obvious that I've got
my boobs done on social media. But if you look
back literally before January twenty seventh of this year, you
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will not catch me with my boobs out, like not
even close, Like not even close. So like, keep your
fucking comment serious, honestly because I don't care.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Yeah, And like another like to kind of touch on this,
it was kind of funny, like this sparked a memory
the other like a couple of weeks ago. Actually he
text I don't know what. He must have been looking
at my Visco and then felt the need to text
me like when he was looking at it, I'm not sure,
(15:27):
but like he wasn't mad, he wasn't he was just
asking a genuine question. He was like, why do you
post on your Visco because like no one like really
looks at it, Like no, like it's not a very
like used platform, Like why do you do it? And
I was just like, you know what, honestly, it's for myself.
(15:47):
I don't care who looks at my Visco. But it's
for like me to look back at my pictures to
make it look like esthetically pleasing, to post things that
I wouldn't probably post on Instagram. I was just this
is for me.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
Yeah, I feel like like rejects that like aren't which
I feel like Instagram's like shifting. I feel like you
can post what everyone on Instagram doesn't have to be
like the perfect picture anymore. Yeah, like all of like
my random shit pictures like outdoors pictures, like all that
stupid shit. I just post my Visco. I try and
keep my Instagram relatively clean just because of work.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Yeah, I'm the same, but I mean my Visco is
like clean too.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
But like if I just want to post something and
I just like want it to look whatever, then like
I'm just gonna post it there.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
Yeah, but I just I don't know. It was like
it's I really don't care who looks at it. It's mine.
It's for me. If I'm posting on it's because I
think it looks good. Yep, I agree, I agree, dude.
This is like I feel like you're not going to
relate on this. I feel like, actually it really just
(16:59):
depends on the person. But for like me, I think
my love language is physical touch.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
Bagging, and.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
Well like, no, listen, it has its limits because obviously
not in public. So like when we're when we're alone.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Like.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Physical touch, but when we're out, it's different. It's way different. No.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
That actually kind of surprises me because I know you
hate like any sort of PDA.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Yes, I'm not for that, but like so it's a
why do girls like to cuddle or want to cuddle?
I don't.
Speaker 2 (17:38):
I'm not that girl. So see I am.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
And he's the complete freaking opposite. He's always hot, he's
always like he just can't do it, and I'm we
have a constant battle of what happens. And I feel like,
I know, like.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
My standpoint on that is I just hate being touched,
to be honest, and now like it just like like
actually irritates me to like be touched, and like anytime
I've had a boyfriend, like it always has to be,
like it irritates a fuck out of me at first,
and so I like genuinely like like you, and I'm
(18:15):
like okay with you, like being this close to my face.
I hate my face being touched, Like, don't touch my face.
That's fucking disgusting. But I think it's now because I
do hair all day long and I touch people whole
day long that as soon as I'm like done touching people,
I just physically cannot be touched anymore. I could see that,
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like I'm like touched out, not me.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
The second he gets home, I'm like laying on top
of him, like quite literally, like I won't leave him alone.
I just I don't know. And he's like he's always
like okay, just for a couple of minutes because I'm
gonna get hot, Like.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
What he said, that's so funny.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
What I don't waiting all day for this? I don't really.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
I don't really know what my love language is.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
I've come to this is why I think this. I
think love. I think physical touches my first love language.
When we're in our house because when like he tells
me he doesn't want to because he's hot, or he's
like ready to go to bed, because when he's going
to bed, he cannot be cuddling. He needs like his
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face whatever. And honestly, I'm the same way, but I'd
like to play with you a little bit before you
go to bed. But whenever he tells me no, like
not like my feelings are truly hurt, I think I
take it as a stab to the heart, like what
you hate me? You hate me, so you can hate me.
And that's why I think I've come like to think
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that's my number one love language because some nights I
really do take it really personal, or other nights I don't.
It just depends on how I'm feeling.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
But I mean at night like okay, but like if
I'm going to sleep, like I need to like be
on like my side of bed, Like.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
Yeah, I do agree. I like having my own space.
I like being spread out, and sometimes I will accidentally
fall asleep depending on how tired I am like on him,
but it's like never really on purpose, because I do
like to have my own space and so does he,
so it's like really not for sleeping. But if I'm
just like laying there, let me freaking lay with you.
(20:35):
Please please, I'm begging. I'm begging.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Yeah, yeah, I don't, I don't know. I think like
another thing that kind of goes hand in hand with
this topic is like why do girls get so mad
when you tell them no? Like it could be my dad,
It doesn't even have to be a boyfriend. Like when
someone tells me no, I'm genuinely so heartbroken and I'm
(21:03):
like very like bold and like I'm gonna call you
an asshole. I'm gonna call you out like I'm gonna
tell you no, like I'm just like giving dishing it
how it is. But for someone does that to me,
when someone, god forbid someone does that to me, and
I'm like, it's life altering, like my world's ending, oh
saying like you just called me an asshole, even just
like joking, like I'm my feelings hurt, Like don't even
(21:27):
try and call me ugly, like my feelings are hurt, Like,
don't tell me I'm annoying, because now my feelings are
really hurt.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
No. I think I think the number one reason I
get so but hurt being told no is because I
don't ask for much, and when I ask for something,
it's never like fly me to freaking to the Bahamas
and let's stay for a whole month. And you know,
like I'm never asking for like you to bend over
(21:59):
backwards like it could be let's go get like ice cream. Yeah,
and you're gonna tell me no for what? What is
this hurt?
Speaker 2 (22:07):
What actually pisses me off about that more is like
I don't want it, but like I'll get you it,
Like I'm not gonna sit there and eat it by myself.
That's crazy, dude, It's crazy.
Speaker 1 (22:16):
That's so funny because I think he's finally catching on
to this, finally yeah, and I'll like I'll say like, oh,
let's go do something. He'll be like, yeah, you could,
Like I'll go with you, you can do it, but I
don't want I don't want to. I'm like, okay, then no,
it's fine. And then he's like all right, let's go,
and there we go.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
Automatically, if someone tells me, you know, they don't want
to do something, I'm like, no, I don't either. I'm
not especially.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
Eating, especially eating. Like if if I'm like, let's go
get ice cream, He's like, yeah, I'll go get you
ice cream, but I'm not gonna get anything, all right,
I'm freaking big backed. I guess I don't need it.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
No, yeah, like I'm good, but I don't want to eat.
I don't want to drink, Like I don't want to
walk into the gas station by myself. Oh my gosh.
You know what irritates me on this topic too. If
I'm sitting in the car, okay and I don't want
to go into Walmart, I'm expecting you to go in
there by yourself. But if it's me and I'm like,
come in with me, and you're giving me the biggest
(23:13):
fucking fit, like I don't want to go in, Like
can't you just run in by yourself? Like yeah, yeah,
why do girls? I feel like honestly, I feel like
girls like crash out, like we like go fucking insane.
(23:38):
But the second that I stop caring is when, like
I you'll see no response and I'm just like, well.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
Yeah, no, I agree. And I truly do blame like this,
like your cycle for crash outs one ten percent, yeah,
because I don't. I didn't tell you, but you know,
when I was crashing out the other day, Yeah, got
my period yesterday, so like yeah, not to say, not
(24:08):
to say like I was like I was definitely upset,
but I was like hardcore crashing out. Oh I knew,
I knew, like that wasn't me. But I thought it
was too earlier for my too early for my cycle
to be coming, like my period. So I was like,
what is happening. I'm losing it. I'm like straight out
(24:29):
crashing out, And now it all makes sense.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
No, I get like that too, And then I'm because
I never cry. I don't cry. Yeah, I don't get upset.
I don't actually like throw a fit melt down. But
when I do, it's always like a couple of days
before my period. And I'm like, oh, ok actually.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Well and then you're a couple of days into your
period and then you're almost not You're back to being
numb like I don't you're in the I don't give
a fuck attitude stage whatever, and it's just blah.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Yeah, it's just like, okay, now we're back to original
business here, Like I feel like myself, Yeah I fell
that onto my core.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
No, but when a girl crashes out, I'm telling you,
in their head, it's the world is ending.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
The world's ending. It's over. I'm losing sleep over it.
I'm crying, sobbing, probably throwing up.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
It's over, yeah, like stick to their stomach, ready to
kill someone.
Speaker 2 (25:31):
Like if you've see like text text text tech text
run like if it's a big paragraph, like, you're probably good.
Like if I crash out in a large paragraph, like
I'll get it.
Speaker 1 (25:43):
If it's all my thoughts just flowing at once, not
in the same message, just going yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
Because once I crash out like that, I'm embarrassed. I'm
embarrassed with my actions and I probably won't ever speak.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
To you again.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Not embarrassed like the way that you made me feel
for me to like boom boom, but you like all
this ship like that, Like I'm embarrassed, and that's.
Speaker 1 (26:08):
Of me right now because I have a hold. Let
me show you my chain of messages right now.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
No, because you if you saw my chain of messages
the last time I crashed out, you would.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
Here's my chain, Yeah, and it keeps going down of
me just sending my random text messages hooping he'll see
them one day. Well, the day after he left, I
had probably five messages that day.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
This sounds like a breakup. He's just doing military. You're
not broke up.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
No, but I have like five messages and they're so
embarrassing that the next day I went back and on
sent them, yeah, because I was crashing the fuck out,
and like the next day I was like, okay, wait, pause.
Speaker 2 (26:57):
You know, it really takes a certain situation because I
have never ever have crashed out the way I did
a couple of weeks ago, Like, no one has ever
bothered me like that badly, and I will never let
anyone bother me that badly again, because I like blacked out,
(27:19):
Like I don't even know what I was thinking, Like
half the should I say, I didn't even mean half
the should I meant? I didn't even say yeah, And
I couldn't even on SND it. So it was in
real lifetime and he was fucking reading them. So yeah,
I don't I don't know. That was the largest crash
out of my life of history. Like I just like,
(27:47):
they're bound to happen, but it's just the fact that
you have to think about them later on in life
after they happen and you're saying there cringing to yourself,
oh that really just happened. Yeah, Like I've never been
that down bad. So I mean, I guess that was
my learning lesson to just walk away and not crash
(28:12):
dycho mania path.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
No, seriously same.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
But hey, some guys like crazy girls.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
So why do girls say they are fine when they
definitely are not fine.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
That's a really good one. Personally, it's because I know
you don't care, because typically you try and tell them
how you feel.
Speaker 1 (28:47):
And then they're like, yeah, they either don't hear you
or don't completely understand what you're saying. And I'm not
explaining myself multiple times, I'm not doing it.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
No, so then they're like whatever, and then it's like
the awkward silence, and then they're like, what's wrong, what's wrong?
And at that point, like you you literally are fine,
Like at that point, like probably a half hour's gonna past.
It wasn't that real. It's never that real, and you're fine,
and now they're like working down your throat and it's like,
now you're gonna piss me off again because I just
told you I'm fine, and like you not fine.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
Like right, and now I don't want to talk about it.
I'm over it. Don't bring it up again.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
Never bring it up again, because it's not that real.
Like I'm just speaking static and I just wanted you
to care and you don't like, just shut the fuck up, right.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
That, Or it's like something you don't know how, like
where they would stand on the topic, so you're not
sure if you should bring it up to them because
you don't know how it would end. So you just
got to be like, no, it's fine. Yeah, I've been
my fair share of those.
Speaker 2 (29:59):
Yeah, honestly that this lick kind of goes with that too.
But it's like, why do girls ask for guys opinions
and then do like the exact opposite. I do that
all the time. I'm like, which sad you wear today?
Speaker 1 (30:13):
The truth is we already had the end result in mind.
You just picked the wrong one.
Speaker 2 (30:20):
Yeah, Like when I ask you what I should do
with my hair and they're like, oh, grow it out,
Like I'm I already have a scheduled with Kim for
her to cut it tomorrow, right. I just wanted to
hear you say cut it yeah, Like I just wanted
you to like side with me and then like that,
or I just wanted you to be like, ugh, like whatever,
like do whatever you want and then I get it done.
(30:40):
I'm doing what I'm doing, whatever the situation is. And
then you're like, oh my God, Like this is the
greatest thing, Like, yeah, you are wrong, Like I just
love when people are wrong.
Speaker 1 (30:52):
Yeah, same, And you were right all along.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
I was right all the whole time. Dude. The blister
on the back my foot, it's like a bullet hole.
And anyone that is a watcher not a listener, I'm
about to show you.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
Wait, hold on, mmmm, I think I told you this,
Like after the ball I had blisters in the same
exact spots, and I probably like they were there forever. Yeah,
but I don't think they went. They lasted for months.
Speaker 2 (31:28):
This one's going to the other Side's not too bad. This.
I showered and I had my legs crossed. My heel
was like ben and it dried like that, and I
like it like ripped back open when I like flex
my foot. Yeah. Yeah, that was traumatic. That was crazy.
(31:49):
So I'm letting it air out now.
Speaker 1 (31:53):
Look at my uh step of a braid. You probably
already saw it.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
Is it? Did you cut your hair?
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (32:02):
I was gonna say your hair looks short, but then
I was like, well, it's pulled back to.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Yeah you cut it. It's probably so messed up, but
I really do not care. It's cut. It's healthier than
it was before. On the healthier side, I'll fix it
for you.
Speaker 2 (32:20):
You co ho.
Speaker 1 (32:22):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
Not feeling like myself with these boring ass nows, that's
for sure.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
My little boy hands.
Speaker 2 (32:32):
It's got them done today. They're pink and sparkily. I
namely worrying. Why are they boring? Yeah, because I normally
get hot pink. But we're doing photos for work and
I'm assuming him one psycho natural looking nail, so that
says it.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
That's fair.
Speaker 2 (32:53):
Then I'm getting my my birthday picture is done the
week after.
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Oh, that'll be fun. My birthdays in t minus eight days.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
I have your cards sitting up there somewhere. Woo woo woo.
Speaker 1 (33:16):
I'll probably be sitting in my house sipping on Bacardi.
Speaker 2 (33:23):
Are you not alcohol on bass?
Speaker 3 (33:26):
Mm hm oh okay, yeah.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
I feel like delusional. I feel I'm so like tired.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
Same. You'd think I'd got hit by a mac truck
or something and I didn't. All right, Well, I hope
you guys enjoyed. This was a lot of ranting today. Yeah,
it went in a million different directions.
Speaker 2 (33:59):
I'm just gonna bans. We just can't talk about one thing.
Speaker 1 (34:02):
No, it's never gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
Mm hmm never never. Well, we'll see you guys next
week and then the week after will be me uh
huh so excited.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
Whoo.
Speaker 2 (34:20):
All right, okay, see y'all later. Bye bye, mh devoding
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