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Episode Transcript

(00:05):
Time come that week. Sorry,I started to record and I forgot to
start it at the beginning. Ohthey don't get what we would just talk
about that. No, it's lifeon YouTube. They see us. But
my part the part that because Idon't like to download it from YouTube,

(00:26):
I like to have it already recorded. So my part I didn't restart.
We live, they can see us. So what we what we used to
do, like once a year,we would we probably would take more than
one trip a year, but wefor sure set us that text time to
put some money to take the wholefamily where we go. Like we didn't
use like have people be like it'stext time and we like and I don't

(00:49):
like to talk about text because peoplegot their own perception. My thing is
every drug dealer that got something tosay about people making getting their tax money.
You hustle for pros. Those areextras, you deserve them, whatever
the fuck. But we used todo. We would spend the money on
the kids and or even do atrip for everybody. You know what I'm

(01:10):
saying. But that was just stuffthat we did as we grew and we
were getting into our bread breaking becauseit wasn't fifty fifty as we were breaking
bread together. We always made something. It was always something to be done,
and Okay, if this was atight year, we're gonna use this
to get ahead. This is gonnabe the cushion. Let's don't touch this
at all. But it was alwaysagreed upon. It was never no,

(01:33):
well, I think we need todo this, and this is what we're
doing. It never was that.If if it's not teamwork, it's probably
we just didn't make it on othersituations. But you know, I'm big
on camaraderie and teamwork because I knowI'm gonna play my part, so I
definitely need my partner to play thepart. And if we can't be on
the same team, I don't wantto be with you. Well, you

(01:55):
know. So here's my thing.I feel like anybody if you're in a
relationship, it's okay for a woman, you know, to put some money
to the side. Just to putsome money to the side. That's fine,
there's nothing wrong with that. ButI would take my situation. You
know, Byron works two jobs.I work one job minus twenty hours a

(02:15):
week. I empty my check offfirst, even though he comes he give
me money. You know what I'msaying, but I contribute my check first
and then take his and put whateveryou know, whoo whoo wherever I need
to go, But I put mine. It is it fifty fifty? No,
But I still give all that Ihave, you see what I'm saying.

(02:38):
And then I'm doing stuff on theother end. So it's like,
I don't feel the need to goback and forth with nobody about that ship
because it's my household. I feelwhat I'm saying, and that's what works
for us. And he's working hisbutt off and I'm not gonna be sitting
up here talking about, oh,this is all my check and I can't
spend nothing on the bills. That'sfucking ridiculous. Like I mean, in

(03:00):
my opinion, though, you knowwhat I'm saying. So I think people
just really need to learn what worksfor them and we This is how we
get to a utopian society is understandingthat everybody is different, everybody doesn't operate
the same. What works for medoesn't work for you, and respect our
differences and move forward accordingly. Andpeople just can't do that. They feel

(03:23):
like, you got to do whatthe fuck I do, and if you're
not doing what the fuck I do, it is a problem. And that's
crazy, right, but that's like, but it's like, but one kid
is always about the household. Likemy uncle Bubba. He did not rescue
uh Jimmy old dude because of JimmyThomas. You know he worked there for

(03:45):
it. My at little still didn'twork. But Uncle Bubba used to come
home and give her give any stillhis whole check should give him what he
needs. The mother fucking you knowget through the week of their life.
But she always think with money,like she know how to manage that shit
and how to make it straight.They had a big ass house in Rosedale
Park. They had always had abig ass R and v U le Bubba

(04:10):
cap with new truck. Knowing thatand you still had a been all that
shit like that. But like that'show they household work. She didn't work.
He came home, he gave herthe check. Con this is what
board gave me this week. Shegave him done, you take this,
this, this is you're gonna havefor the week to do what you're gonna
do. And she made everything upthat was that was there words of fifty
fifty though that's still her contributed.You know what I'm saying, to the

(04:32):
house. And that was back inthem good old days, like my grandma
and her boyfriend. I used towatch the same shit. She didn't have
a job, but she bought thathouse. We moved on Joy Road,
though, and she was stacking hermoney doing what she was doing because everybody
stayed and she was. She waslike daycare before we knew what daycare was.

(04:53):
You know what I'm saying. Buthe put the checks. He put
the checks in her hand, likewe saw that like, and that was
how that went back then. BecauseI actually, to be honest, I
actually just learned how to pay DTand all that shit. I know it
might sound crazy, but I neverhad to do it. I just gave
the bread and you know this,go do this what we gotta do with

(05:15):
this. But like since I've beenon my own the last seven eight year
half er many years, I knowall that shit hooked up. It's just
a button of pressing pay now andall. You know what I'm saying.
But I had to learn that shit, and it it made me mad that
I had to learn it, becauselike, what the fuck? This ain't
what I signed up folk, Youknow what I'm saying, But you you
have to live and learn, andwhen it's time to adjust and adapt,

(05:38):
you do it. Oh for O, for sure, I paid the bills
because I'm good at it, soI do it. And it's I mean,
it's all online. It's not rocketscience. You know what I'm saying.
How I do it is I gota calendar. I have a planner
which has calendars. I write thebills out on h day that is due
on my calendar. Every week,I covered the bills within that week or

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up to the next pay day,you know what I'm saying, And I
highlight them off as I go,And that's how I stay organized. Yeah.
You know one thing I still camethrough. I don't know how a
grocery shop. I don't know howto go on the grocery store and shop
for the hollar I got going thatI know what I want to make today,
and I buy a bunch of bullshitand be to spent sixty seven dollars

(06:23):
to get to the rest and belike, what the fuck do I got?
I don't even got shit in there. And I got enough to make
one meal, and I spent seventygoddamned dollars. And you know what's crazy
about that g I learned that fromgoing on like what it used to be,
like grocery shopping dates, Like wemake a list. As we're making
a list, we because we ifwe bang an Orange card or whatever,

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we make the list, we're addingup what we're doing it. It was
like a whole method that I learnedthat I didn't make this ship up.
I learned it, you know whatI'm saying. And it worked well.
Girl, we did. I wasa girl. We we made listen all
this. But if that shit neverit didn't equate to me when I got
to be singled though different And Iactually instill that in the girls because I

(07:10):
remember when I broke my leg.They I couldn't leave out the how I
couldn't even put pressure on it.They end up learning how to grocery shop.
I could send my two during myeighteen and my sixteen year old to
the grocer shop right now without alist, and they gonna get everything they
know the house need because they knowwhat we get and what we what we
eat. That dope though, butit's just it's it's none of this shit

(07:33):
has no guy book or nothing.You just learning you you it muscle memory
shit, you know how to doit. You just rather not. Yeah,
it really is. You put it. You get your note pad up
on your phone, right out,type out your list and stick to a
matter of fact, Microsoft got thatone note and they actually allow you to

(07:56):
have like little boxes where you cancheck off the item, you know.
So that's another way, and it'sin your phone, you know what I'm
saying. I mean, it's it'sways to do it. It just we
get we get in that grocery storeand our eyes get to doing our eyes
and our gluttony gets to do inthe shop. And that's really what it
is, you know what I'm saying. That's really what it is. And

(08:16):
when you're trying to get if youwant to get some after you after you
knock your lists off, then youcan get some extras. But before that
you stick to the script. Andand so the reason we used to have
to add it up because we youdon't want to go over on who's ever
as cards you bought, so we'lladd it up as we're going and taking

(08:37):
it off to make sure we didn'tgo over, you know what I'm saying.
But then it got doney, youwant to you want to be righting
around by one nine. Yeah right, you can. You can grab the
snickers or something while you up atthe But I just I just learned,

(08:58):
though, I just learned, likeit's people that just don't care. Because
if you go up, say youbought two hundred, and they go to
two uh five, you can tella person at the register, just take
two hundred off of this. AndI paid the rest of the cash.
But I didn't know that at first. We wouldn't have had You really don't
have to do all that extra workas long as you know what your cutoff

(09:18):
number is. Yeah. Well,let's move to our next topic. Let's
talk about masculine women. So Igot another clip that I found one ticktop
and I'm a player. We're gonnatalk about it. Let's see, yo.

(09:43):
And to be quite honest with you, I don't care why you masculine.
I don't care what happened to you. As I'm a forty year old
man. My point is this.My point is this. You all wouldn't
care if a man came to youfeminine and said my dad was and in
my life, my mom didn't teachme this. You say, bro,
you're thirty eight years old. Idon't want to deal with a feminine man

(10:07):
that hasn't addressed his issues. Sofor me dealing with the woman that way,
I'm gonna tell you the same thing. I understand you had issues or
whatever growing up and you had tobe a certain way, but I'm not
going to put up with it asfar as trying to be in a relationship
with you because you don't know howto be a feminine woman. No,
what's a feminine woman? What's yourdefinition? The woman that that basking her
femininity? She knows how to besubmissive to a man. She knows how

(10:31):
to speak life and to a man. She knows how to nurture, she
knows how to take care of ahome and take care of kids. She
knows how to be accountable, sheknows how to be reasonable, she knows
how to be understanding, and she'sdealing with the kids and so, oh
wow, I don't know so whaty'all feel about that? I mean,
all the stuff that he said aboutthe woman that should know how to do

(10:52):
this, know how to do that. Shouldn't a man know how to talk
to the woman too? I know? So does that make the man of
feminine man? If he know howto do all that that he just said
she should know how to do becausesome of that shit go both ways.
A lot of that stuff he justnamed, I want to. I want
to. I want a mutual respect. I don't. You don't have to
submit to me and do what Iwant you to do. We need to

(11:16):
respect each other as equals individuals toall the rest of that ship doesn't matter.
I don't want you to submit himout of maybe I took it the
wrong. Well, you don't gottascrub the walls and do what I say
and have my videos. I mightcook. I'm a cook too. You
ain't gotta be the only one cooking. Or I don't like to wash the

(11:37):
clothes, or you might just takethat over. But I wash some dishes
too. We could play Jeopardy forwho got a cook? If we both
don't feel like cooking. Loser.I'm listen talking. I'm like all the
stuff a feminine woman because of allthe stuff he was just saying, like,

(12:00):
I just didn't agree dogs, alot of stuff, a lot OF's
going to be coming in that.That's what I don't get because a lot
of stuff that he was talking aboutme and then women should give that same
respect to both of them. ButI don't I'm not. I'm not a
fan of that. A woman needsto submit to me now, you don't

(12:22):
have to. You don't have totalk to me and try to come at
me like you're about to just punchme, like you know, grown ass
man. But ain't no grown assman about to talk to me like that
either, Like it doesn't matter whothe person is. Respect is respect,
like boundaries are boundaries. Just don'tdisrespect me, and I won't disrespect you.
You have to you have to givegive me there is that the same

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amount of respect that you won't receive, that's sure for sure. I think
I think would make a h Ithink would make a woman is just being
a woman a woman, like don'ttry to don't don't cross over it too
how a man would ask you awoman? You know what I'm saying,

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that's just that's just my old thing, like like don't get all of my
face, like you want to whoopmy ass and all that type of shit
like that, Like just be awoman, you know what I'm saying.
But it a woman. A femininewoman could be a mechanic. Shit,
yes, my mother could drop anengine for your ass, right, now
and still be a my fucking womanthought hard beemate to just carry yourself as

(13:33):
a woman. That's all right,But no, I think that in this
instance they're tying gender roles to femininityand masculinity, you know, And that's
that's a mindset. When I thinkfemininity, I think of a woman being
more dainty. Mm not. Youknow, women more today are more They

(14:03):
carry that Megan the Stallion energy alot of women, and they call that
woman too masculine. But I thinkit's important to note that a lot of
women operate that way out of hurt, out of failure, and then programming
too. It's some women that ain'tnever been through ship, but because of

(14:24):
what they see on social media,they adopt this ideology. So you have
different categories of women. You havewomen that have been hurt, their defenses
up, maybe they didn't have afather in their life. Maybe there are
male interactions aren't as positive, whichis unfortunate because that does that does not

(14:45):
discount all the great men that actuallyexist that they haven't met yet. Or
you got these people that are justprogramming. They fall into the ship that's
given to them online, which again, if you are basing your reality off
of social media. You're already lost. What were you gonna say? Black

(15:05):
miss? Thank you? Like?What was you gonna say? Y'all sounded
like robots? You're breaking up brobad? I was, Oh my god,

(15:37):
you know everything. I don't knowwhat that nigga you said? You're
just hung him up a car back. So I got a question, and
I just I mean, it's opinionbased. Do y'all think that all men
have some amount of I don't.And when we use the word feminine feminine
in them. The reason I'm askingthat because a lot of me in that

(15:58):
respect and honored their mothers and listento their mothers. They have some of
their mothers ways. And you knowwhat I'm saying, Oh go ahead,
I'm sorry, I'm so sorry.Go ahead, go ahead. That's the
question I think maturity. As yougrow older, you will realize that every

(16:18):
up being on the planet, everyhuman being, or what we acknowledge to
be human right, is both masculineand feminine. They have both energies.
It's just that women are more leaningtowards the feminine and males are leaning more
towards the masculine. But we bothoccupied both energies, so we both identified

(16:44):
with both of us. Yes,yes, so yeah, And I mean,
there's nothing wrong with that you have. It's kind of hard to understand
how some guys like be beaten andshooting and killing, like some of these
guys have been raised by some dopeass women, you know what I'm saying,
Like, how do you how doyou turn around and do what you

(17:07):
do to this woman? That Imean, but that's a whole other topic.
So it just made me think whenyou said the feminist. So I
won't go off into the nine gooff left field, but that was the
question. I mean, but Ithink every every man gotta have a certain
level of feminine femininity too. That'llmake you hating like that. I mean,

(17:29):
I think it can't just be athug twenty four seven, right,
and you're raising girls, you knowwhat I'm saying, right, chew that
too, Yes, I mean,because listen, when you're so masculine or
trying to live up to what masculineis and you can't even relate to your

(17:52):
daughters, that's a problem too.Well, you know, when your daughter
can't come to you and talk toyou, you and you just that that's
a problem. Yeah, And that'san issue, believe it or not,
and I have to. Yeah,that is and I had it took me
a while because like I had thisstereotype. I guess I'm over masculine.

(18:15):
I guess because Mike. Certain peoplesay that I could be mean, but
I'm like, I ain't mean.I just stand on what I stand on.
But like they all know they cancome to me. Even a nine
year old know that they can kickit with me. I got one boy,
five girls. They all don't theygonna bring it to me. But
what they don't know is I've conditionedmyself after the first girl and the older

(18:38):
the boy. You know what I'msaying, I'm conditioned to even if I
don't like this shit, I'm notabout to blow up because I know that
once I blow up, you're gonnastop telling me shit, stop getting my
If it might be something you reallyneed to ask me to get some advice
from. We don't want you toget in to get to the get listening
to the rang motherfucker. So Imean, you know you and you and

(19:00):
James Uh had a you know whatI'm saying, And I, yeah,
I might not like that you saidthat, but I can't be mad because
you have to. You have tolive your own life and have your own
life lessons and experiences too. Butas long as it's not life threatening or
whatever, we have to let peoplebump that. You can't bump your head

(19:22):
for persons. You know what I'msaying. I can't bump my head to
save yours. You have to knowwhere they feel like to bump your head
so you don't hit that motherfucker again. Oh so it's something like it their
heads. I ain't got to thatpoint yet with my daughter, so you
know what I'm saying. My baby'sstill young. So I got I got
boys. I'm ready. You know, I'm a little bit of something wrong.

(19:44):
Now what's it? I might tryto knock the niggas head between the
washing and dry and then trying torun anybody. But what you want to
do? You want to sound wasit something? You know what I'm saying?
What was I'm back now back conmention? What was? What was?
What was going on? You wastalking and your stuff told I know

(20:07):
what I'm saying, y'all talking aboutbabies and daughters and stuff. So I'm
trying to see what was the question. What was the topic. Oh,
we were we're still talking about themasculine and feminine energy following that video.
We're still on Yeah, we werejust saying, we were just saying that
sometimes as a man, and yougotta have a certain like a certain bit
of femininity about You're not making youhay, nothing like that, but you

(20:30):
gotta have a softer side to you, you know what I'm saying, to
deal with life. And someone wassaying, like, especially believe it's like
who raising girls and stuff like that. You know what I'm saying, Yeah,
I feel that you gotta kind ofbe a little softer, a little
softer with with your girls and yourboys and the what's the word I'm looking

(20:56):
forward. I don't want to say. No, I mean it's not really
femininity, but like you got realize, like you was like you was raised
by your grandmother. You was raisedby a good woman, and I'm pretty
sure it's some traits that you pickedup from her and in you to day
that don't make you know less ofa man, don't because you bother your

(21:18):
grandmother gave you. Yeah, yeah, absolutely right, Yeah, I mean
I don't, I don't know.I think I've been told that I have
more masculine traits, but I don'tknow. I spent a lot of time

(21:41):
with my dad, but I dowhat I need to do. So all
okay, when you okay, Sowhat do you mean by more mascular traits?
Like because you know how to domore things that society say that a
man should do, or you knowwhat I'm saying, Like I know,
I get on my hands means andwatching God damn made boil with a rack.
That don't make me know less ofa man. I know how to

(22:02):
clean the fucking out though. Ifyou know how to go out there and
change your tired rock, that'll makeyou know less of a woman because you've
been changing got them? That justme if I need to be changed,
that damn I changed. The motherfucker'sno it be it really be like the
way that like I communicate, youknow what I'm saying, The way I
communicate, do you know, Italk shit or whatever? And just I

(22:26):
can be very aggressive at times,but that's provoked though, that's like,
that's that's that crazy, you knowit just don't be there, like you
gotta keep really messing over Huh.That's the assholding, that's all. That's
all. Yeah, that ain't nomasculated. That's that side, that little

(22:47):
ass. That's okay. So y'alldon't be looking at y'all't be looking like
she being too aggressive. Never feltlike that like that, that's rock being
rocked. So y'all think I'm crazy? How many much? Yeah, you've

(23:10):
got a fruit screws in there,stupid man. You know when we say,
you know, we all interact becausebut when we talked to our thirst
about we ain't talking about nobody.But you know who else got that?
Got that in them too? AndI don't pay that crazy has no attention.
They get to going. Let's seeus who career wife, Let's see

(23:37):
us Ye, let's crazy stuff.She funny, she funny, black back.
Remember the night she kicked up Lotoff the house? Yeah, he
kicked up out of outside. Wewasn't even in the house. We was
in the garage. Oh my gosh, she kicked y'all. What's y'all?
Oh my god? She's funny asfun. She's crazy and I love it.

(24:11):
She's crazy. But yeah, butyou know what, y'all probably feel
like Whitney. She might be consideredmore masculine, you know what I'm saying,
But she like she really good atus Whitney Black three a black too,
Black too. I gotta tell herto come on here, Nick,

(24:36):
Yeah I didn't see. Yeah,I'm gonna have to tell her to come
on here. But you know I'mseeing a rock observing them too. Her
another lay together like he's more ofthe he's more of the stand back,
this type of dude. You knowwhat I'm saying. I'm pretty sure what
it's time for him to be aman hiss his ways though. I mean,
I'm pretty sure he's a man that'sthis way. But he kind of

(24:57):
left with hea control, you knowwhat I'm saying, the wrong show.
But in the background here now whenthe hot party going, hop party not
to go. You know what I'msaying. Yeah, he let her be
her. You know what I'm saying, Yeah, but that the relationship though.
You know what I'm saying, sowell on the outside looking in,
because you know, we would neverknow, but it looked like he might

(25:22):
be a dog knocking her head throughthe washing drive that girl, It's crazy.
I love it. Yeah, we'regonna get her in. I just
I just shot her a text himabout you gotta jump on this show one
day her because her and Black beon one. They ridiculous. They're ridiculous.

(25:45):
Man. So anybody else got somethingto say about masculine women talking?
It's never it never showed nothing abouta masculine woman, Like I'm pretty sure,
don't nobody want no masculine woman?Like what's masculine? But well it's

(26:08):
some whim it's from from the clip. I'm saying from the clip. He
never You know what I'm saying,Well, he just wanted a feminine,
a more feminine women. Shoot,I'm wondering if he feminine he is his
idea of a masculine woman, awoman that has an attitude, does that

(26:32):
make her masculine? Like you knowwhat? He do? Carry that energy?
Don't do? He probably just wordwrong? And you know what I'm
saying, there's definitely something else.You know, everybody want to sit up
and just you know, talk likethey you know what I'm saying. You
have people that want to converse tomake themselves sound more intellectual than the intellectuality

(26:55):
is. So you know what I'msaying. Well, you know niggas think
they put on a fedora hat andsay a couple of big girls and the
prolific. You know what I'm saying, nigga, be like I got that
hat. Shut yours up, sir. He don't want his woman to have
an opinion about nothing here, giveit to her. That's my type of

(27:22):
nigga. No, I'm just playingso okay, that's been in to another
thing. So what is the issueabout women having an opinion that makes certain
men so mad? I can't reflecta woman that don't have an opinion.
If you don't have an opinion,and we're dealing with each other. My
my ideology is and it's from mypast experiences in life. I used to

(27:47):
be a guy that used to bein the streets, like I used to
hustle, So at any given timeI might can trick myself off the street,
I might, I might have topay a consequence. I don't need
a yes woman to keep shit going. And when I say keeps shit going,
not meaning like sale drugs while I'min jail. But life has to
go on. These kids gotta stillbe taken care of. Shit has to

(28:10):
be done. So I want awoman that know how to Okay, dog,
ain't here, I gotta do this. Yeah you're gonna be hurt that
I'm not here, And yeah you'regonna cut me, your motherfucker to left
me out here for this. ButI need a woman that I know that
if if need be, if iflike we don't have no expiration date,
if I'm gone, can she holdshit down? You got women that some

(28:33):
women that will crumble. I don'twant that kind of woman, right,
Yeah, I want a motherfucker tobe like Nigga, I don't need you
and really mean it, but don'tsay that shit no more. You only
get one a year. You onlyget one that I don't need you a
year. That gotta you gotta saythat for the good argument. You gotta

(28:56):
use that wisely. Oh yeah,I don't you know. I think it's
important to note that women don't necessarilywant to run the show. I think
there's a misconception that men think thatwomen want to lead, they want to

(29:18):
be in charge. I think thatif you're not in charge and running the
ship, then I gotta run theship. You know what I'm saying,
Like, women are gonna naturally sitback if you're taking lead. If if
if she over there trying to bullthose us, because you're probably either doing
a bunch of stupid stuff or you'renot leading when you're supposed to or you

(29:41):
only lead when it comes to stupidstuff. Yeah, me to figure it
the fuck out, you know whatI'm saying. Shit like that, And
see I don't and what I meanby what I said, you don't have
to even you laugh that skill,but to know that you have the skill.
I mean, that's like saying everybodyout here right now, I don't

(30:03):
know, but I'm we're gonna go. Just go with my theory. Everybody
out here know how to use ashbra, but it wouldn't when the fuck do
we use it? You know whatI'm saying. At last, we got
to help the kid with their homework, you know what I'm saying, So
she don't have to have to justtake the lead, but just to know
how to step up if need bewould be enough for me. Yeah I
don't, I don't, I don'tneed you. We're gonna lead each other

(30:26):
in a direction because whether whether theman takes the lead and the woman follows,
she gives us ideas too, likewe might and possibly think I'm saying
with nobody this, that and thethird be like damn, you're right,
you know what I'm saying, teamwork, go all it all goes back to
teamwork and mutual respect. If Irespectful enough to hear you out, then

(30:47):
if it makes sense on either end, we should be willing to listen.
You know what I'm saying right right? What would you about to say?
G H, I don't even remembernigga after edible? No you getting you

(31:10):
getting ready for June teenth already?Don't mean work for me? That fucked
up man. The Big three don'tcare nothing about black people. Now let
me not say that you know whatthese times, but you know what real
and this is not for black love, but this is worth talking about.

(31:33):
We we we are on problem though, because we allow these companies to get
with it, and then we scaryas hell because I remember when I worked
for a bone mine. I waslike, I mean, y'all complaining about
these vaccines we gotta get all ofa sudden. But if everybody quit this
boy and one day and didn't cometo work, what they gonna have to

(31:53):
act? We as they talking about, they would fire us? Are you
how they hell? Would they firedthe whole high spittle re hired paying for
training. They will go out ofbusiness. It's a business. But see,
we're so scary about shit you knowwhat I'm saying, we're so damn
scary that we can't sacrifice a day. You know, you can get a
lot done, strike for seventy twohours on a business. See, don't

(32:16):
you get all your demands met?But for people don't want to do it
cause they're scary, and a standfull of people do it because they're gonna
be the ones that get fired.That ain't gonna be effective. And it's
that that don't got nothing to dowith me factor. Oh yeah, a
lot of that don't got nothing todo with me. It don't got nothing
to do with you until it do. Now you now you, now you

(32:39):
all distraught and all that sets upup. It didn't have nothing to do
with you exactly, and you don'talways It don't always have to affect you
for you to unite and realize it'sfor the greater good. We're not asking
you to strike on no dumb shit. You know what I'm saying. We're
not asking you to strike because theyshook our old pop machine, they got

(33:00):
rid of pepsi and put coke inthis bitch. No, we're asking you
to strike for stuff that makes sense, right, you know? So yeah,
man, I don't know. Man, we gotta learn everything. I
think that, and you know,I think that's one thing across the board
when it comes to just humans ingeneral, let alone us the unwillingness to

(33:22):
sacrifice. You gotta sacrifice to gain. You got a sacrifice in a relationship
to gain. People think sacrifice,they automatically put sacrifice with loss taking the
all being stupid and all this otherstuff. No, your sacrifices can be
reasonable. It doesn't mean, youknow, take away all the pleasures of

(33:43):
life. What it means is prioritizingthe things that that makes sense, to
prioritize, to move ahead, andthen we can come back and get that
other shit. That's what that means. You gotta stay down to come up.
God damn it. Yeah, youdo. Well. We want everything
right away. We want our relationshipsto be perfect off a jump. We

(34:06):
want everything to come ready made.Maybe this all started with the microwave.
We the microwave society, and that'swhy we're miserable, right, No patience,
none at all, none at all. So let's talk about dress code.

(34:29):
I'm good. I know about thewomen, and I just thought about
something for the men. So whenit comes to dress code, women that
dress more scannily clad or what peoplewill say more it's like stripperware. You've
got scannily clad, You've got stripperware, you've got all the time whatever that's
showing skin. Do you think thosewomen are non marriage material? All right?

(34:59):
We are. Oh you're gonna oh, I'm gonna say, I don't.
I don't. I'm no, thatdon't make it non marriagement material.
I'm trying to get the shoot.Oh, that don't make it non marriagement
material. It's just if I'm amarry you. You know what I'm saying,

(35:24):
I'm gonna need if I'm gonna marryyou. If do that makes sense?
I hear you say, black startmoving in this you know the phone
because I'm walking in the house.I'm sorry. I said, I don't

(35:49):
necessarily not make you marriage material,the wifey material. But I said,
if I was gonna marry you,then I'm gonna beat me. I need
I don't need everybody seeing what youYou know what I'm saying, what you're
working with? Okay, see that'sthe thing for me, right, But
that's the thing that would that wouldprobably make that person not marriage material for

(36:13):
you, because if they're comfortable withdress and had a dress. It's gonna
be a hard chance of you changingthem on dress and had a dress.
So that person wouldn't be a fitfor you. Yeah, that person wasn't
be fit for me. That's real. Okay, So what do y'all see
somebody else? I mean, personallynot marriage material for me. I've told

(36:36):
I've told people in relationships that I'vebeen in. Those are the type of
people I can't do nothing but fuck. And that's I'm sorry that but that's
the best way I could put it. I don't want to be in a
relat because that says. What thatsays to me is attention. You know
that you got, you gotta beout here in the world, and if
you displaying it in a certain manner, you're gonna have people approach you in

(36:58):
trying to talk to you and allthat, and it actually puts you in
a in a in a messed upsituation if you're not looking for that type
of attention, because to turn downthese me and these days they be tripping.
So don't don't dress like this,and and then when I try to
talk to you, flirt with you, you show me your attitude because why

(37:20):
the fuck else would I not beyou thirst trapping at this point, like,
well, why the fuck what doI want to talk to you?
If I could see your nipper ringssticking through your your fucking sun dress,
and I can see that you ain'tgot no pennies on that ass jiggling,
like damn, I do want toknow what I want? What's the more
to that? I want to knowwhat else is to that you want?
I don't want to know. Idon't want to know nothing about the man.

(37:43):
I just I want to know aboutthe physical. You want to know
what's to it. She's a whore, a skeezer, and that's not even
And that's the thing, like,and I'm sure everybody could agree with this.
That don't even necessarily mean that she'sa whore. That just means she's
free with who We got things calledpeople called nudis, people that just want
to be free and just dress howthey want to dress. But overall that

(38:07):
sun dress, no pennies get melike, I ain't knock you. I
love to look at it, butI just I don't want to marry you.
But there's ways to do it.You don't have to not wear you
know, put your little though andput your I mean dressed, how you
dressed to your best, your comfortability. Don't dress to appease me, but

(38:30):
dressed to respect me. If we'rein a situation. Betty Wright said,
it's the best. It's all rightto be a little sweet, but you
ain't got to show your teeth.And every guy you meet, dang,
she was a rapper back then.You know what she's saying, your teeth.
She's just talking about thirty two inyour mom she's talking about you.

(38:52):
Something to the imagination. What isit's just muting next right, Yeah,
give it to her, some medicine. So his cat suits, you know,
I call him, I call himthe UH, the beauty supply outfits.
So these these are spandex cat suitsor you know, swank the UH

(39:15):
selling shit like this and all that. How do y'all feel about women wearing
stuff like that or these? Up? Many certain I'm tight many dresses and
stuff like that. Is that's stilltoo much? I'm not opposed to it.
I mean the cat suit, Idon't I don't think I'll pay no
attentions lever, just on a regularday, just in the cat suit,

(39:39):
just walking around. Yeah, Idon't. I don't mean so I don't
know if I want to talk tothat person, not because not because how
the outfit fits their curves, butbecause I'm I'm like, so this might
sound shallow, but I'm a I'mI'm I'm a bit of a label for

(40:00):
and that means you didn't put nothought into And it's different when women could
dress and dressed and looked very nice. Not to say that they got to
just spend all this money, butyou just went and grab something, like
you said, from motherfucking the beautySupply Rainbow real quick just to get out
here, just so your ask ajiggle to see how many. Now I'm
looking at her nails to make sureher nails clean and shit, because she

(40:22):
might be one of them dirt ball, because it just made me think about
remember when we was at Starters.I'm like, bro, her nails was
dirty as fuck, Like I mean, she had on a whole castle and
she had a nice ass body,but dirty her nails was dirty. Yes,
dirty, like I'm telling him,like because I like I pay attentions.

(40:45):
It made me mad because I'm like, oh see, but I mean
you know it, and you knoweverybody don't wear nails and stuff. But
her nails was dirty. It wasdirty, and I don't know if I
don't know if he had just restedher hair, her ass. I don't
know which the scratched, but itwas something. But if you just if

(41:07):
you just out here in the streetsand in the cats suit and regular regular
stuff, like you said, theynow you just seeking attention. Now you
you you walked this attention. Butthen when it comes, yeah, way,
you probably gonna like it. Likeme being in the football world,
I just seen ladies show up toliterally football games and the Cats shooting heels
like you didn't know you were gonnawatch the little boys play football? Like

(41:29):
right, that's crazy. They waslooking for the little boys coach, yeah,
and daddy's and shit. But thenI, like you said, once
you get that attention from somebody thatthat you don't want it from, now
it's a nigga. Now nice,it's gonna be a problem, right because
a lot of these niggas, no, dad, it's crazy and they ain't

(41:50):
just planning taking it like that exactly. And so that's the thing we're not.
I'm not about to just walk aroundwith money hanging out my pocket and
not expect the wolves to think theycan try to eat. You have to
put yourself in situations to minimize thethreat to yourself. So if you're out

(42:15):
here as I'm not knocking nobody,the question was, it was opinionated,
and I would meet. But forthe women that just do it and just
feel like they're about to curve meand all day, it's not what you
say, is how you're saying.Some niggas don't give a fuck as longer.
Just the fact that you said no, it's gonna make them react a

(42:36):
certain way. Niggas be percked upand they be tripping. So y'all have
to know what y'all. You knowwhat I'm saying with y'all putting y'allselves into
or if y'all were looking for therich nigga that all this nigga, this
nigga don't look like he got nomoney. Why don't you wear that shit
in the areas where you know it'ssome niggas just get some money, that's
gonna you know what I'm saying,You just walking around on motherfucking in it.

(43:00):
I don't know. I don't knowwhat to say, but just be
careful out here because you're gonna everybodydon't like these niggas are bitch, fuck
you and all that nigga's trip.And then as soon as they call you
a bitch, now you gotta react. Now day up and good niggas is
shooting women. They are it's crazytaking them up body here. But I

(43:21):
think also it's important to know,right because we all I was thinking this
as as we drive, even downto the people being shot on south Field
Freeway. Now you know it's thestuff that's keep happening on south Field Freeway
is very ridiculous. We only getpartial of the story. For me to
think that this stuff is random allthe time, that's asinine. That's asinine

(43:45):
thinking we don't know the background.And I'm not justifying violence in no way,
but I am saying it'd be aseries of things that lead up to
it, and we never get thatstory. You know, we have to
be careful how we're moving. Andthen and eventually, very soon we're about

(44:07):
to get into the sukiyana shit,because you know, before we get into
that, let me say this,can you can Is it okay for women
to play the field, you know, live their best life? High girl
summer and then around the age oftwenty eight, they're ready to settle down.

(44:34):
Do you think, what do youthink about that? Women that feel
like that, like I'm gonna livemy life out here, I'm gonna mess
up with this one and that oneor whatever I think they should, because
I don't really see if you can'tsettle down with somebody, if you didn't
have that that wild part of yourlife, at some point, you're gonna
like you miss something, you knowwhat I'm saying. I rather you get
it out of your sister now beforeyou come to a man and thinking like

(44:57):
you're ready to settle down, Gonnaget that gone that while it's like you
saw your work Royal Oaks. Andthen like you say, if she run
around and then twenty eighth she justhad to set down, that's damn good.
She's steal in her twenties. Yougot some women out here, they
got a hell of a path andand be trying to pull a wool over
the nigga cover over his face atthirty five and she didn't see them.

(45:20):
Fuck everybody here, y'all, don'tit Every time you turn around, she's
shaking a hug as somebody hey andnaked Drake say, I can tell about
the way they hug. That's youknow what I'm saying. You know when
you know she didn't pop off,y'all can't walk down a downtown up woodword

(45:42):
on the day eating the ice creambecause every time you turn around, it's
a nigga blowing the horn like whatup? Though? Like damn, she
must have had and you know whatshe's skilled with you because you know,
you know what. She did ither fortieth birthday too, and she didn't
been around. God damn. Ilook, but you're thinking it back your
mind. You know what got youwalking down wool eat ice cream last night?

(46:06):
You got a whole ice cream call? You just walking around linking on
this goddamn ice cream call. Youknow what got you? Twil mother y'all
on TikTok, that's can hear us? Watch us on YouTube live so you
can be putting your stuff in thechat. Get on YouTube through via the

(46:27):
link in my bio. Click thelink in my bio, exit out of
here. Catch us on Rocky RoadTV YouTube channel and get in the chat.
Make sure you're liking it and commenting. Please, I see you mister
ranting? Uh you said these daysdoing it and speaking out loud and bragging
about it out loud is the realproblem when it comes to these females.
Yes, So my questions is this, does part do you guys ask your

(46:52):
women that you start dating? Howmany men have you been with? Do
you ask for these type of thingsthat ain't none of your business? Okay?
Because do you really want to answerto that? Okay? Would you
speak preach? I'm just saying,like, h you've got to worry about
you know, with your term youworked about what you My thing is if

(47:19):
I'm if I'm dating a person andwe have a bunch of mutual people,
that can y'all hear me, Ihear and we have a bunch of mutual
people, I'll put it on thefloor of the mutuals that I've hit,
so you know, and I expectvice versus now just a random number.
No, but don't have nobody shakingmy hand and laughing, smiling all that

(47:40):
like that. That's I do that, But everybody don't get that same shit
in return that if you didn't poppedoff five of my homeboys and you ain't
letting me know, that's the issue. It might be. It's the issue
if you haven't PopEd off five mywith you let me know, well,

(48:01):
yeah, but you gotta you gottagive me the chance to know, like
maybe maybe maybe the six times abut look, just give me the chance
to know, like I'm giving you. You know what I'm saying. All
my people that know me know Ireally do that, like if I if

(48:22):
I didn't knocked off somebody, andI know that y'all being the same,
y'all don't have to be friends,but y'all be around. And you know,
women, some women like the Haygirl, Oh, y'all look so
cute and laughing now she's not laughingat you now because you already hit like
bitch, you don't get the fu, you know what I'm saying, Because
women get penny like. But niggasit's the same week ass weight. Niggas

(48:46):
do the same shit, and itwouldn't it wouldn't be good for nigga to
do that shit to me because Ifuck around knock as mama, not as
mama dog mama. Some nice mamma'sout here with some old age. You
know what I'm saying. All theywant was a little young love. You
know, I don't nobody want nothingoh, but money, so you know,

(49:08):
the older people want, the youngerpeople, the young people want.
You know what I'm saying, No, just don't have no, but just
don't have no niggas thinking he gotone up on me. Even even if
he don't. You know what I'msaying, the nigga might still be believing
had a nigga out here thinking hewon up on me. But to know
your count, no, because Ialways I've always been honest about my account.

(49:31):
I've only had I'm i'll be fortyone. I've only been with ten
women, and I'm happy about thatnumber because it's very low, myuse and
you know what I'm saying, Andthat's how I that's my bragging, right,
I brag different Excuse me? Uhhuh what you just say that nigga

(49:52):
do an algebra? Nigga, I'veonly been with ten women? Nigga bae
ago? Oh my god, doy'all have I mean, can y'all really

(50:19):
tell uh if a woman because becauseI don't know, you know, I
don't have a penis, I ain'tout here banging women, so I hear
it sometimes these women be blew out? Is that how y'all gauge it like,
as long as she ain't blew outyou good. No, I don't
mean not neither shit. I'm withour base, would I get what I'll

(50:42):
give a bad pussy report on this. Smell, uh, lubrication, and
experience. Those are three things nowif her, I mean, you know
a lot of people pop babies out, these motherfuckers, so I mean sometimes
they don't all pop back in thethe you know the last you know how
you got the one paio I don'thave nohing, but you know how back

(51:07):
in the day people have a favoriteunderwear and a little elastic gone, but
they just won't get rid of themoff. Like maybe maybe that's then just
quite snap with that, nigga?Say what Mike Els say that snap that
pussy back? What do you saythe little cup of vinegar in their motherucker?

(51:30):
That? I mean in participation,crowd participation with with with this this,
Those are the things I judged offof. You have to participate.
You have to smell good or Idon't like I don't like eating food that
don't smell good. So I fordamn southing about to be eating no hat
that don't smell good. And youhave me and in the world that like.

(51:53):
Let me tell y'all, y'all don'thave to me and in the world
that's looking to and going to giveyou here, women, you don't have
to ask or try to beat aroundthe bush for him do it. If
he liked doing that shit, he'sgonna he's doing it for him. He's
not even really doing it for you. It's turn him on to do it.
Yep, you know what I'm saying. But you got some guys like

(52:16):
me. From one I'm gonna speakfor the other. Tell here, we're
not eating everybody's cat because we don'twant our fucking mims all looking all.
Some of y'all don't deserve to gethere. So some of y'all shouldn't even
be asking for a nigga to godown into the sardine factory, right.

(52:37):
M A definitely can't go around,can't go around putting your mother phone every
motherfucker woman that you meet. Comeon, that's just ridiculous. Hey man,
I was doing this for you,no silly girl. For me.

(52:58):
It's just a plus. And youlike this too. Let me let me
okay, I know for a factyou already came twice. Now I got
the the it's pound time, it'sthe fuck. You know. I think

(53:19):
hygiene is very very important. Ithink, I mean, if we talked
about that every session, it wouldn'tbe too much because it just doesn't make
any sense. Your breath should notbe banging, and your ass shouldn't either.
You should be you know what I'msaying. You need to have that
breath fresh and that ass clean.Period. I question if I meet a

(53:40):
female and then she gots if herbreaths, like, if you ain't took
care of yo opening up top,I know you ain't doing nothing for the
one at the bottom. I don'twant to get to know you. No,
I don't even want to know you. I'm gonna tell y'all something.
There's a lot of people out herethat smoke a lot of weed. And
I'm not not nobody smoking, doyou, But a lot of y'all need

(54:02):
to keep like them Listerine strips andship And it's it's not even the fact
that their breaths, think, butthe older that constantly, the constantly smoking
of the blunts and all that shit, it give off a smell and the
smell is not pleasant. And youknow, like offer when you smell smell,
Okay, they this a blunt smokingcigarette hitting motherfucker, you know what

(54:25):
I'm saying. But that's gonna comefrom the too. Though. At some
point, well, I don't know, man, they need to get some
pineapple reps. They need to getpineapple flavor blunts or something. I don't
know if the usual I mean,but you know, brushing your tea,

(54:49):
I mean brushing your teeth. Somepeople can get away with doing it twice
a day, and some people mightdo need to do it three times a
day. You know, you mightneed to hit hit that mouth morning afternoon
and before you go to bed.And also, I'm gonna tell y'all something,
I'm gonna get hip. Get yousome of that peroxide. Spray Spray
that tongue, Spray that mouth downfor you, brush your teeth. Let

(55:14):
us sit for a minute, thenscrub the tongue and scrub them teeth down
and go see go see fitness thattoo, and you can find yeah,
yeah, and because you use somelistering too, you know, rinse them
gums down, get that bacteria outof your mouth. That's where the funk

(55:37):
is coming from. Yeah, becleaning. And I had to take me
some of that shit hurt it likea motherfucker, But it's worth it.
But that hygien go both ways,though niggas. Niggas we run out these
bitch water girls. They know theybossed, been busted all god damn day,
Oh my god. I'm not gonnaembarrass myself. That's why I don't

(55:59):
understand women liked she did she knowher pussy smelling like that? Or you
know what I'm saying, because likeI know, if I've been out all
day and I don't even want togive you the chance to ask me,
am I taking a shower or no, bitch, because I didn't. You
know what I'm saying, like,no, you my bass is clean.

(56:21):
You know what I'm saying. Ijust want I want to come presentable.
Every nigga that and then been outall there, like you said, been
ripping around. You didn't want togo take that piss and caught that with
your own She's like, damn,I gotta get home, get to the
shower right right. So, andthat same thing for girl. When you
sit down on the toilet at homeor whatever, you can smell your ship

(56:42):
funky dog stop it, you know, But some people think that smell is
an afro DC act. Yeah,well, some people are delusional as all
hell, but not because you gotsome niggas that's still eating that funky monkey.
That's nasty, you know what.No, for real, some woman
told me. It was older womanand she said this man told her like,

(57:07):
I don't even want you to washit. I like that thing funky.
But see now now better. Ihave been in a situation where she's
like, I'm about to go takea shower, but I know her and
I know her hygiene. Like youjust have some people that just be tripping,
like nigga, we're good, likecome on, but she'd be like,

(57:30):
hell no, but I'm like,dah yo, shit still smell good,
it's still got you know what I'msaying. You know some people you
just still don't want to do it. It's like, nah, nig I'm
about to take my showering. Youknow that's cool. But everybody don't think
just because they they hadn't taken ashower. You know what I'm saying,
Because I told a motherfucker like Idon't have to wear the older I just

(57:53):
do because I'm perspired like that,like I can go days without wining.
I mean, of course, showerand all that shit, but you won't
smell me. I don't. Iwon't say I don't perspire under the eyes.
But mother like, nigga, pleaselike, well, that's cool.
I'm not trying to prove no pointto you, and I still wear it.
But what I'm saying is, youknow how some people them school days

(58:15):
and mother like, damn, Iforgot the other I gotta go home.
I'm be fucking by the end ofthe day. I don't have them issues
with it. I mean that's that'sgood because I I don't know, I
had to put on some de ordering. Now I say that I will sweat,
but yeah, I mean I thinkpeople like myself, we might seem
over the top when it comes toclean it. I know Buyer has said,

(58:37):
man, you all don't wash thegood shit away. You know what
I'm saying, because I am clean, so I get what you're saying.
Tone good, but but you knowit's it's you got some people that's over
the top, and then somebody namedKeimnith is coming in. Hopefully it's nothing
crazy, okay, Hello, Yeah, why I say hello? Though we

(59:02):
were on a fall. You gotsome people that's over the tip, and
you got some people that just don'tdo what they supposed to do. You
know, balance Sometimes it's just complicated, it really is, can it?
Ye? Hello, can you hearme? All right? I guess he's

(59:28):
just in here a lot of timesup to a lot, well not a
lot of time, but a lotof that ship you gotta you gotta man
escape ard female skateboarder trim that thatgot damn here. Okay, Well see,
and that's the thing. Okay,So let me ask this because we
know that here is there for areason. So did we just come up

(59:53):
because I've seen, I've smelled,and I've dealt with something that have here
and it don't it don't bring gotolder. But yeah you have to do
a little extra cleaning and maintenance.But yeah, I get it. So
at what point in life did theworld say, you know what, I
want this cat ball than the motherfuckerbecause you usually went back in the seventies,

(01:00:14):
everybody had a good hair, prettypussy. You know what I'm saying,
Loo, Kenneth, welcome to thechat. They what's going on?
Uh, yeah, that's what it'scalled on That's what it's called on the
check. You know, this isactually mister Rampson Kate, Oh follow directions.

(01:00:35):
Okay, well I appreciate, Iappreciate. No, I was talking
shit at first because somebody came inlast week and then they was just sitting
there and then they did some weirdshit and then left out. Yeah,
so don't pay attention to be talkingshit. Oh no, it wasn't.
It didn't happen to do what youwere talking shit. When I heard somebody
else, I said, oh,let me do that, she tell me,

(01:00:57):
So I went on hear and youknow I'm listening that you tell somebody
else. I was like, that'swhy she ain't replending, I say else,
because I don't see nobody else talkinglike yeah, yeah, yeah,
we all YouTube we live. Ifyou want to please watch us on YouTube.
Those that are on TikTok please clickthe link in my bio. Follow

(01:01:19):
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respectful, I bounce your ass abody here. I know I've seen you
talking, and you know I alreadybeen. You know I've been following you.

(01:01:43):
This you put the whole uh awild back. You put the whole
post on TikTok and I I ranit through my my repost and my feed
body year back. Well, thankyou, thank you for want to follow
the heart of bes and they wantto follow. I said, Oh oh,
I said, that's falling right there. Oh okay, that video that

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keep going viral, Yeah, thatshould go viral every year, every year.
It's crazy. It's crazy. Sowhat you gotta say to us,
Kennon and then people still hard head? Oh we can. We can start
right now through what you just saying, because I got something to do with
the whole conversation. Okay, I'vebeen listening. That's why I ran over
here. It's so fay. Ohoh, I got something I'm saying about

(01:02:30):
that. Oh hol on, waita minute. But now the thing is,
man is it's like it don't evenwhat the men. What the men
are trying to tell you. It'sbecause I heard them I was talking about
it really don't matter what you got, like when you was asking them about
their body suits and everything. Itain't even men ain't never worried about like

(01:02:52):
what you're doing by yourself if youain't with nobody more than we worrying about
keep saying you got somebody, butyou're doing certain things and then expect me
to holedge. Do you see oneof those things like what trips me out
about relationships and about people saying whatthe tough thing about relationships is they act

(01:03:15):
like only their relationship or how theydeal with people matter, and they don't
want to get no information or theydon't look at no other relationships. They
act like they got these blinders ontheir head, but they don't look at
no other relationships and be like,oh, that's how I want my ship
to be. Right now, yougot your mom or your auntie, your
uncles around you, you you canchoose and look at them relationships and see

(01:03:39):
how they act in them relationships andbe like I don't want to go through
that ship though, right But now, now that is what people do.
People. We play this simple mindedship that we want to simple mind that
ship that one Women step by stepand I'm just using women as an example

(01:04:00):
separate from me. Women are stepby step. She ain't telling you what
she don't historically went through in relationship. She's telling you what she don't went
through in that particular moment in thatparticular relationship step by step, it'd be
a step by step situation. Itdon't never be like dangn baby, what
you have historically went through? Likewhat you what's your treend baby like because

(01:04:25):
I look at women like this.If I see that every dude, you
don't, David, cause that's whatthis h That's why I hate the pillar.
The pillar talk and talk women.Even if when you say you don't
want to talk to no female aboutwhat she got going on, he gonna
force it on Eve. If hegonna force it on you after you get
through having six or whenever he gonnaforce it on it, she gonna she

(01:04:46):
gonna listen what Donna went down.And this is what we get. This
is what the idiot Paul come in. If I know then I'm seeing him
and she don't talk me about everyone of them dudes. And he got
a tattoo of a right here,he got dread. He walked around with
this. This is good and Iain't doing none of that. What the
hell am I doing with her?What he so basically, I already don't

(01:05:13):
play like this motherfucker women for theshow on me and don't told me in
the past. He's the type ofniggas she won't m so I ain't got
to spenders being over there with herlike that. You see what I'm saying.
Like, but then when we godown like our egos and we can't
hit we can't help it. Ohnow, nah, you know what I'm
saying. She with me? Nowyou know what I'm saying. They ain't

(01:05:35):
gonna be none of that over here. But sometimes people have heart in the
gymder dog. They ain't gotta takeyou what that then it is. And
some people are great actors. Theydon't have to get into Academy Award for
you to know that they're a greatactor. They will play that thing down
to the tea boy. He ButI think it's I think it's important to

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note that too, that you know, we're getting people lives and we want
to act as if Jesus Christ andJesus Christ it wasn't Jesus Christ. You
can't change nobody. We got freewill. You see what I'm saying.
We got free will. And it'sup to you to listen to what people
are telling you and showing you,most importantly showing you, because the motherucker
can tell you anything, show it, watch them believe it and act accordingly.

(01:06:25):
And that's where we mess up,cause I'm asking. Go, I
always show you. I don't carewho you thinking. What the master's gonna
show you by? Yeah, Isit back now I'm older, now,
I'm forty years old. I saidback. Now, I don't I let
him. I let him, I'lllet him. Hain't they sell even friends?
It don't mauth even if bust down, I let him hang theysel I

(01:06:48):
ain't gonna put in that kind ofwork no more, like we're gonna do
them yourself out. Why are youasking like that? Why you ain't your
time for that? Because you knowfor a fact, real me know if
you don't have a girl a factuatedwith like he like that, When you
don't have a girl like I ain't, No, no, ain't everything you
don't say, you don't show her. Look maybe I ain't interested and she's

(01:07:11):
still coming at you. She stillwon't you that a woman that won't you?
Not you gotta put it in thatkind of work, no more.
If you gotta put it in thatkind of work, no more. But
it ain't like it was in theNiners, where you had to put it
in that work. You had tocome with the game and ask her for
her phone number. Get her number, boon, go to the highs,

(01:07:31):
call her, get on the phonedown night, kick your legs up on
the bed. You over here danglingone o'clock in the morning, ain't like
that. No more, them daysare over with. They're dead. M
They gonna show you. They're gonnashow you because they're gonna put their hands
down them go out. If awoman coming to me and I'm just getting
this one example, and I don'tlet somebody else talk like I'm getting this

(01:07:53):
one example. If a woman cometo me, for example, and be
up there talking about but then alittle better back you better? You know
next who wants to be better?Have this money? Was she ain't interested
in your brother when she run themrules down to you, that means really
ain't interested in your homies. Sheain't real Then she gonna run them rules
down to you. She ain't interestedin Get like that because she don't run

(01:08:15):
them rules down to them balls thatshe interested in you. She don't run
the rules down. You don't hearnone of it. You don't hear none
of it. You don't hear hercompromise. You'll be like, yeah,
hey, my age. You better, girl, better, God, damn't
do this when she with me?Well, you know, I don't really
be doing that. You know,I don't really be doing that like I
said, I do. That's thegirl, really, she's you. She

(01:08:39):
really fussed that other dudes that youdon't walk about this. But she like
you, so she gonna tell youthat you don't tell you that. She
ain't gonna tell the other dude thatthe dude that's into the house ain't got
no job. She gonna take himover. Mama, howse go pick her
son up for him. He don'tget none of that, dum you get
though you be changing the top.I was you, tire. I ain't

(01:09:08):
come from there being a friend,come from all right. So let me
ask this. Can men and womenbe platonic friends? Yeah? Yes,
yeah, yea. I have somefriends. But you know what's crazy people

(01:09:30):
that don't believe it, like myhome girl that we're platonic her fiance,
I think we smashing and like hedon't know, like when they be beefing,
I'll be on his side because she'llmiss the ship. To me,
I'm like, but you're wrong,Like how you speaking him like that?
But don't expect him to react like, but he don't even notice. All

(01:09:54):
he thinks are you and that nigga. Fuck no, nigga, I've been
teeming you like you're even know it. But it's just it ain't that I'm
trying to be your friend or nothing, but right is right nigga. And
when she when she venting it orkicking it with me about y'all situation and
she wrong, I'm gonna tell her, I don't. You can't come to
me and talk to me about someshit and think I'm about to just yes,

(01:10:15):
ma'am. No, ma'am, you'rewrong, motherfucker wrong. Yeah,
real, but I mean it's possible. But you know, I mean when
people when you're dealing with people thatonly think what they dick and they pussy,
then you know they will think thatit's impossible. But you have people
like like you can't even call it. You can't even hit your friend with

(01:10:38):
the assistant bro turn that because nowthey think, oh, y'all being funny,
that bron sister shit just to overplay. No, it's like my sister.
This is like my sister. Now, don't get me wrong. One
of the bros might have popped mysister. And I'm not talking about my
friend now just because they're looking.I'm not talking about her. I'm just
saying in general, you might havea close ass friend and one of your

(01:11:00):
friends, one of your people mighthave that with it, but y'all just
friend. You know what I'm saying. It's not impossible. Oh yeah,
oh yes, but I I heardsomeone say that if y'all just friends,
then you ugly that's a liar.Yeah, I know, I'm a bad
motherfucker, but I just you know, everybody ain't meant to be in a

(01:11:23):
relationship. And you know you havepeople that you have worked with co workers
like, and y'all just cool andy'all vab on the same level and talk
shit together. So y'all just endup building a buying a relationship and that's
your friend. Like, y'all don'thave to be fucking Look, and then
if I, if I genuinely likeyou, I might spare you. You

(01:11:46):
might not you might not be readyfor the type of time that I bring.
So why would I fuck up?Like? Okay, she cool?
Damn if even if I could,like, I'm a spare her, I
like this person. I'm a sparethis person because everybody can't handle the type
of ship, the type of timethat the nigga be home. You know
what I'm saying. That's just realand ad vice versas. You got some

(01:12:10):
You got some women that have snatchedthe stole and the nigga be looking for
it and her in the daytime witha flash like she over there, she
just sold your soul to the nextnigga. Oh God, yeah, Now
you at the offer yer for theLord's forgiveness Jesus, not the Lord's forgiveness.

(01:12:32):
But I say this, I saythis nowadays. I'll trust me.
I'm big. I'm I don't beingon being friends on because I'm I'm see
like I said, I'm for togives all mine. Where where about you
from becoming bro? I'm in Atlanta, do ye we done? I got

(01:12:55):
a lot of families down there,we we? Uh with Oakland City?
You familiar Oakland City? Yeah,that's from my people from Oakland City,
all from that ye yeah yeah,down on the southwest side. Yeah,
it was that own folk, Ithink folk. Yeah yeah, Pray States

(01:13:19):
yeah yeah, yeah, uh huhoh yes, uh that's you know.
Most I'll be on the east sideof majority of the time. That's what
I've been raised, that being atBut you know, if you hear it
in my boy, I'm as praycountry boy. Yeah, I'm pretty dog
to the pine I was born.I was born in South George, but
I've been raised all of it herein the Okay, okay, examples of

(01:13:45):
like what we were just talking abouton this friend thing. See, like
I said, it's like I learnedmy list and as I got older,
like you have to tread softly nowbecause even women but that's all another conversation,
but men for us, men likeyou have to try a something with
the friends stuff now because I hadto. I had to start understanding that

(01:14:09):
when I started, Like I said, Remember I just said earlier, they
will because when a woman up said, she'll tell you she's a woman.
We got a woman in here,she'll let you know when it's hard for
them to hold that, they gotto say something, right, let's just
say they upset with that. Dude, Yes, who gets to hear that?

(01:14:30):
Different? Different all of it.So the thing years is like you
when once you start hanging around themand you start understanding the life. Okay,
I'm gonna made if the girl realreal talk I'm different than It's just
the way I was raised that somepeople do it different. When if I'm
hitting this girl, if I hitthe one time, I leave alone,

(01:14:53):
I don't own her shit, shedon't own me. Ship. Thanks whatever.
That was simple transaction, right,you got that? I got mad
simple transaction. Now if I startedgoing over our house and have like a
schedule going repeat, like damn thatI'm coming over there every Tuesday or something
like that, every test, andit suddenly or something as you tang that

(01:15:16):
typeboy, I look at that caras a man. Brou she's been getting
you that, she's been getting youthat thing. But I look at that
car even if you don't know whatyou're doing. That's what I was raised
on. When you go look atthat car, you like, I can't
go see what going on over him. And now if you can't make it
happen, you send somebody and pointingin the right direction, you bring you

(01:15:38):
help with the solution. Yeah,I got. I've got one more clip
that I want to go over withthis whole Sukhiana hook up. And then
we're gonna get up out of herebecause it's getting late. Everybody gotta go
to work, So let me runthis clip. Let's see. I know
I got it up, let down, Okay, I gotta find her.

(01:16:04):
Okay, there we go. Okay, so y'all know Sukihana your ka o
Cyrus came and was trying to kissher. They were like on a discussion
paddel. It looked like at agame, and he came up to her,
was squeezing her shoulders and went tokiss her. She was kind of

(01:16:26):
caught off guard, and then hedid it again and she was caught off
guard. Now before that, shewas saying, how you know what she
would do to him? And allthis stuff, and she was flirting.
The The whole controversy is her realname is Destiny, right, and it's
it's like, I'm not Sukiana isthe character, but Sukiana is very ratchet.

(01:16:48):
So it's like, you put thisenergy out here and this is what
it's warrantine. But now it's like, you know, you gotta respect me
type of time, So let meshare the video just so you can know
what type of shit you know shebe on. I like her, by
the way, this is no disto Suki, but I do have my
viewpoint on it. But let's getto this just so y'all could see it.

(01:17:10):
Yeah, right now, this onelass manco the black, long hair,
pretty face with a fat old Westmake him eat my pussy with no
strings attached, channel purse with thepumps to match. I like fucking draw
thills that move that crazy first pettyon my toes. I'm a freaky ass.
Fuck him in the back seat,lead him may back. So I'm

(01:17:30):
a rich getto hole. I donot fly coach first class pussy bitch.
I'm a mindo Lah can't wear afaking see cris with all this couchie I
got on me pussy felling off thebone. But he won't come home because
I'm gonna bright the face till he'ssleep. Rich, I'm creep creep like
TLC. But just asking your mouth'slike a BLT. Got a deep thought.
They need a BBC. Go retardedon the dick. I got a
d d S all right, soy'all get the y'all get the jest of

(01:17:55):
it. Spooky with the good COUCHIyeah, dudes with green like the buzz
down, so y'all see you knowwhat kind of energy that brings. So
the argument on social media is likeit don't matter what her persona is,

(01:18:15):
you cannot go making advances that wasunwarranted. There's also people taking over.
But yeah, they was flirting backand forth, so you know that's the
kind of energy. What's coming withwhat? I mean, what do y'all
think about that? It should?I mean, of course he was out
of line, but what do y'allthink about that? I think I think

(01:18:41):
he moved a little to prematurely andlike she was talking her talk with she
all due to him in all this. But even if even if she meant
it for what she is, ifwe some private people and we move in
and discretion, you know what I'msaying, Like he's sitting it did that
there? If he should have triedto get on her later day and Tamon

(01:19:03):
took her up on that offer,all that sticky a ton of he just
looked a little. I don't know, it made him look crazy, like,
yeah, she was talking it kindof like remember the episode on Martin
with Varnell invited Martine, but helike he asked me round, how many
times if I invited you all here? I didn't invite you on a million

(01:19:24):
times between ever came I don't like, damn, we're talking shit. You
know what I'm saying, Like,if if she was serious, I would
have I once we was off,are we was leaving from there, I
have shot my shot. I wouldn'thave tried to stick my tongue. First
of all, she made a songabout eating nigga ass and you just kidd
what does she just ate the niggaass earlier that day? You know what

(01:19:44):
I'm saying. But I know me, am, I judge you none of
that, because you know, weall deal with a woman that give head
and me and give head to womenall that. But the thing of the
matter is, if you you don'tknow me, I could have just ate
my woman pussy before I came andset on this panel. And now you

(01:20:05):
didn't pissed me in my hot mouth, and you got some of her little
little juicest one. I mean,even though that's nasties. So that's an
example because by all means, Igot this here. So I shampooed this
bit right after I'm done, Ijust cut out, bro, Yeah,
I did right, all right?He said he got the tickler. Mmm,

(01:20:30):
y'awesome, freaky motherfucker's boy, Itell you. So this is my
view take on it, right,so I look at it like this.
Okay, you have Destiny that's herreal name, and you have Sukiana.
Right, of course they are twodifferent entities, right, But and of
course he should not have done whathe did, right, Okay, so

(01:20:51):
we know that. However, mwe're not going to act like the energy
that you put out does not comeback. We cannot. I think we
are getting so delusional, especially women. Women don't want to be held accountable
for a shit. You have tomove in a way for the village idiot

(01:21:16):
because everybody is not separating the two. Everybody doesn't look at life like that.
And I'm not saying he's right,and see that's we have to understand
that two things can be true atthe same time. Okay, he was
wrong for what he did. However, seeing as a lot of people are
not a lot of people are cheaple, there are a lot of people out

(01:21:40):
here that have a village idiot mindset. They're very basic. And that's not
to be degrading or mean, it'sjust it's just a label. You're very
basic in their thinking. They don'tcompartmentalize, they don't separate things, and
you gotta know when you put energyout like that this is the energy.
And this is why I show thevideo for context, to show you the
type of energy that she's putting out. It does come back. It's some

(01:22:04):
people who will look at that andbe like, I want to see what
it be like. There was anotherclip she had an interview with She was
on Candy show, Candy Burrus,and this guy was very ridiculous and the
stuff that he was saying to her. But it's that energy, you know
what I'm saying. And everybody doesn'thave class and sense and they gonna come
at you for what they see,you know, So I think I wish

(01:22:30):
you the best. I like her. I do want to say that I
do like her. I like herpersonality. If you watch her doing interviews
and stuff, she has a verybubbly, right personality, So I really
do. She is a smart girl. She's not eating and her mom is
intelligent. But the persona is whatpeople see and what they hold on to.

(01:22:50):
They're not looking at the other stuff. They're looking at the ratchetness.
They're looking at the ignorance, andthat's what they're gravitating on too. So
I think we have to pay attentionto two things can't be true. I
think that women do have to beresponsible, because yes, I mean if
I walked around, if I wentin in the hood somewhere with no clothes

(01:23:12):
on and I was walking in thealley and somebody attacked me and raped me,
No, they had no right todo so. But I'm inviting that
energy. I'm putting out a certainenergy, you know what I'm saying.
We can't we can't neglect that.And I think people want to just totally
throw stuff away to make a point. No, both is true. Both
things can be true, but inno case, it does not matter.

(01:23:34):
With the law would recognize and everything. He didn't have a right to come
for her without consent. That wasnot appropriate. It was very inappropriate.
As far as how she feels whenit comes to that, people think that
some people think she was cleaning thevictim. You know, it's so hard
with this entertainment shit. You neverknow what's for cloud, for relevancy,

(01:23:58):
and so I try to take stuffwith a grain of salt because it's like,
I feel like, if you're seeingit when it comes to entertainment,
they want you to see it.You know what I'm saying, These things
are pre planned and I'm not victimblaming or none of that. So all
points can be true, but twoof them we know for show was true.
Whether there was a publicity and stuntor not, we cannot prove that,
but we do know you are youhave to be willing to accept the

(01:24:24):
repercussions of the energy that you're puttingout here, and we know that he
was wrong for doing so. Wouldanyone like to elaborate on that before we
get out of here, because we'reabout to get out of here now.
I just wanted to say real fastthat you already kind of knail most of
her down. But I've been watchinga real real quick. I've been watching
them, and I've seen him.I see them not because at first she

(01:24:45):
wasn't doing no she didn't have nomusic and all that stuff and doing no
interviews. She was just she wasjust like no real she was just putting
on the internet being And I promiseyou, I ain't think not one thing
until you just told me then aboutsome interviews. I need that. I
haven't see things about that then whenmate, no dudes say oh, I'm

(01:25:08):
gonna get that. As for meto say, I'm not gonna run to
her and be like hey, howyou doing. Can I take you out?
You know what you look like.You could be a great family woman.
I didn't know who she was untilthe day either. Yeah, like

(01:25:28):
like, ain't nothing she don't showme. And that goes along with what
you're saying, like like, lookwhat happened was all in hour. She
meant somebody that was really about thatlife. That don't mean that life is
good. Bring that life that theyrun. They them boys do that they

(01:25:48):
being in the industry. I don'tbeen around them. I don't bend to
them after parties, that demansion andstuff. And I stopped back because,
for one, I'm a man aboutmine. I ain't got no money,
and they don't know me like thatto be running in them what people like
that, I don't what them games. I'm telling you, they're still human.
They just got a little bit moremoney. They are traumas that they

(01:26:09):
had before the money. They're stillthere right wrong, Hey, ain't no
dude running up there doing it.He wanted did that Angel bass? All
right? He wanted to say,Angelo bass and shows you to be like
a going up there and just gonnahear the canceler in the mine and you

(01:26:29):
might like it. It's the it'sthe energy that you put out if you
come up out of the strip cluband you celebrate that you was in that
strip club. Gets what them dudeis gonna want to do on saw for
sure? For sure before we gottaget out of here. G do you
have anything to say? Nope?All right, y'all. Thank you everybody

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(01:27:14):
not, wait on us because it'sgonna be good fucking regardless. Okay,
Well, I love y'all and seey'all next week. Yet eight o'clock,
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