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Speaker 2 (01:18):
Well, good evening. Oh then she is, Then she is?
Amen and ain'men? How are you guys? Look at my
trusted and diligent and determined co hosts. I love you all,
and of course our engineer producer of the young lady
that's behind the scenes that you won't see, but we
know that she is there. Amen and ammen. I'm gonna
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say hell hello to everybody. Then we're gonna get into prayer.
Hello everybody, Hello, Okay, thank you all right, let's break.
Father God, I just thank you. I love you so much.
We love you so much. God. Thank you think you
think you think you? Thank you you allowed us to
see another day. They are at least over five entertainers
that we know that we know them by name, that
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have been in our household for years doing what they do,
that did not see today. And we pray for their
families for the loss. And even in the world of entertainment,
who's going to replace them? We don't know, but we
just thank you, Father God, that you're giving us another
You gave us another day to allow you to get
the glory, to allow you to be seen. My God,
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our conversations were of you today and yesterday and the
day before. We just thank you, Lord, We thank you
for this opportunity. I love Rebel. I love Rebel. I
know we all love Rebel, but I love Rebel. She's
just been on my heart this week then through the weekend,
and I just thank you, Father God. I thank you
for our audience. I thank you for our faithful few
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that follow us. But because of what you've done, you've
put us in a great standing numerically numbers why and
you didn't have to do it. So may God bless y'all. Please.
Now we're gonna get behind the cross. It's about God
tonight and forever. I wait patiently to hear what he
has to say to us tonight. We love you so much.
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All this we give you glory, honor and praise in
Jesus name. Amen and Amen, who thank you Jesus God.
It's awesome, awesome, awesome, awesome. So how's your weeks, Ben,
Pastor Miguel. You're getting into the thick of things now,
you're getting into your rotations, your routines. She says, you
don't have made it back here.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I get us.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Oh, okay, but we can't let you go out of
town too much, you know, because when you go out
of town, you go out of town. Man.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
So I was ready to come on the show the
day that we got back from the trip. Unfortunately, there
was a gremlin playing around with your electricity, so that
kind of affected that. And then we had Memorial Days.
So I feel like I'm completely off kilter here.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
No, not you. Yeah, what trade tray from all the
way Virginia? He riant an interesting day, Okay, okay, okay, yeah,
and well it's gonna fit in tonight. And it's so
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it's just amazing how God puts this together. Hell, it's
almost a week ago, week and a half ago. Topics
came in and and and and and posted and and
you know, we sent it in and and and and
we he knew what was gonna happen between that time
and tonight and how things are gonna just fit in
so perfectly. But before we go on, I want to
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give some shout outs. Uh. First of all, this summer, guys,
it's here. It's here. There's no there's nothing we can do.
It's here, So we got to make the best of it.
You've got to stay cool, you got the stay hydrated,
you got to stay safe, you know, because summer's here
and all the anks that go along with it. Some
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things are you know, happy because some families will get
together and all that. Butterum it does have its other
side as well. So it's here. Make sure you go
to your hurricane expos in your respective towns cities. It's
worth it. You will walk away with a grab bag
of stuff and some knowledge. Some of them have little
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workshops and things like that. A lot of your commissioners,
your mayors will show up, you know, your news reporting people,
they'll be there. So you know, ours is coming up
in June, and I will be there. I expect to
be there and I may take one or two of
the kids, so we can, you know, divide and conquer.
But I always get the most of the goodies, even
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though it's in their bag. But you know, but it's
gonna be some good stuff. And I'm just praying, praying, praying.
No energy loss, no, you know, no power outages. Uh, flooding.
We're in a new area. It doesn't it's not a
flood zone. I did check that, but you know, you
just you just never know because a lot of big
trucks ride up and down our street and that's that
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decays the roads. But anyway, I'm not going to go
any further with that. I'm gonna give some shout outs.
Guess what d date is? July seventh, twenty twenty five.
Anybody anybodyday?
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Birthday?
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Birthday, birthday, birthdays agust the state book, the book.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Well, yes, yes, yes, I'm gonna see you some peppermint candy,
see you some yes, ain't ready, I'll take it already
and uh she's already been uh taken over to get
it e printed ebook. It's already in e book format,
so that'll be loaded up on my Amazon page and
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technically got a date. I have an ISBN number you're nothing.
You're nothing unless you have your ISBN number, and that's
your Library of Congress number to make you legit. So
she's got her own number and everything else. And she
was about to hit the street. I'm about to get
the prototype soon and it's gonna be interesting. But thank
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you so much. Only God, It's only God.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
And then guess what came in the maud today?
Speaker 2 (07:35):
What good answer, pastor? I would love that.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
I'm prophesying.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
I need it. I need it, okay, because I did
go in there and look what anybody? Have you all
sold any books?
Speaker 5 (07:53):
You know?
Speaker 2 (07:54):
But yeah, well my baby girls prototype handbag?
Speaker 4 (07:59):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Yeah, I'm not gonna show it. Yeah. I had text her.
I said, hey, you're gonna come home from school right away,
right before the show, right my mom? Yeah, I said,
well you can bring him. You can bring the fellow too,
you know, and I could. I was like, oh my god,
I've got a can't tell her. I said no, but
I had to finally tell her. I said, well, the
handbag is here, and I want us both to open it.
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I don't want to open it without you because I
got to see your face. And when she opened it,
we're sitting there even even jazz was all into it, like, oh,
what's that? Because that leather smell came out of that box.
That leather smell came out of the box. Even the
producers Clutch made out of New York. I am giving
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you a shout out because for a group of people
I've never seen, we talked on the phone, we emailed
back and forth all kinds. They sent us all the
hardware and stuff like that for us to make the
choices from every latch, from every zipper, the line, everything
about it. And it is gorgeous if I do say
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so myself. And do you know that bad boy can
sit up congratulation that ah? Yes, So you know because
for us women, we don't put our handbags or our
purses on the floor. I would grab a chair if
I'm at a meeting and put my handbag on the
chair if because if it can't, you know, slide on
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the back, I don't put it in the table in
front of me. It's going to go to my side.
And there are times it was the table was so
tight that I actually just put my feet together and
put my handbag and the strap on my knee. But
you're not hitting the floor and this bad boy can
stand up on it. It stood up on the couch. Wow,
it sits on the couch. So it's nice. And the
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team said, you know what these colors, y'all did it.
This is so nice what you chose. So that's an honor.
You know, when the producers, the makers of this thing,
who've been at this for a minute, it gives a
compliment and says, oh, wow, like it turned out nice,
you know, so to give God the glory. And now
we got to talk some more business about how much
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you know, how much and how many more we're gonna need,
because I'm just gonna do it for dispatch, a limited
edition and that's it, and we're gonna sell you know,
a handful of them and call it a day. I'll
break even, you know, for the well, I haven't done
to produce the production, part reet, but so far, you know,
if we're looking at it right and what God is
giving us, I'll break even because I'm the one invested
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in this, and my daughter's kind enough to say, no, man,
you need to get over fifty percent of it. So
I said, well, I'm just laying laying the groundwork for you.
We still got you know, hardware and all that kind
of stuff. So because she's already saying, well, I could
do this, I could do this, and I could do
all this, and I said, yeah, and actually, we could
put a net on the side and you can put
your umbrella there. Or you could put everybody taking their
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energy drinks and their waters into the stores into the
restaurant and it's water, but they take it in you
getting ready to eat, you're taking your cup in with
you and stuff like that. So we'll make you a
little little netted thing on the side and you can
have a little handle thing there. Or for our dog.
I mean, we've got I'm gonna give a shout out
to Perfection, who's doing the intensive training for Jazz as
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an emotional support and therapy animal. And that's just because
I just want her to have those certifications. Very cool. Congratulations,
Thank you, Mickey, thank you, thank you so much. Thank you.
I mean, and as I said in front of my
daughter's boyfriend, I said, I just wanted my kids to
experience taking using their gifts for God and allowing God
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to show them just what He can do with them.
And if they didn't know anything else, they now know.
Because I even said Belisi is an artist too. She
can draw, and she drew her first sample of handbags,
you know, and then she used her social media, you know,
to make to do the judging. That first round we
just did. The second one is all us. It's just
her and I And I'm telling you, as a handbag
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I can use because it could give a cross body
effect the strap, and I love my cross bodies, you know,
and now all my handbags now are cross bodies. Well,
I just put both of my head and I have access,
and you know, it makes it easier and convenient for me.
So and my new community of amputees and folks would
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have arthritis and hand you know, it's a handy bag.
You don't have to do too much to get inside
of it, and you could put a lot it can hold.
She wanted to make I didn't realize it, but she
wanted to make sure you could put your iPad in
there for students who go to school with their iPads
or their miniature computers. I said, what what did you say?
You know, because yeah, I wanted that. You know, I
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could just put it in there myself, because she's gonna,
you know, be a user up. So I just wanted,
and as the testimony is that you know not. I'm
not trying to say anybody can do this, but the sky.
I don't like sky's the limit. I've got a different
interpretation of that. There's your power, your your the length
of things. You don't know what you cannot do unless
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you try to do it. You don't know what your
end result is. You don't know what the end of
the road is for you unless you keep trying and
you at least put forth an effort. Because she can
look back now and say I did it. I did it,
and now I don't want to do a half bagline anymore.
It's like I don't want to go to NASCAR anymore.
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I experienced it.
Speaker 5 (13:34):
That thank you.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
It was on my vision board. I just want to
see if the people came in it looked really came
intoxicated as they look on TV. And I found out, Yeah,
that's true. It's very true. So I'm good. I don't
ever have to go to NASCAR again, But it would
be up to her if she wanted to continue it.
I want my kids to see we were not born
with the silver spoon in our mouth. They were not
born with the silver spool in their mouth. But they
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have gifts and talents and the reason and another reason
of that is, you know, so they can see why
the devil is chasing them, why the devil is blocking
trying to block them. Send them people in their lives
who don't have goals and dreams and visions and to
know why there's those people are sent to stop you
in your track from doing and and and reaching all
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that you can reach. Amen. Amen, Now she's coming to
my world of volunteerism. She's coming to my world now
business as an entrepreneur, a CEO of her own company,
an entrepreneur. That's how you train them up and the
way they should go on the positive side. But God
gave me revelation. There's there's the there's the negative side
of training them up to boost, to steal, to lie,
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to fight your way out of things. You train them
up that way because you you just say you do that.
You just like that. You got your DNA, you never
stopped that. You got to stop the generational curses. And
we're gonna get right into our title tonight. But what
are you tired of? But you need to teach and
it's never to you laid the course correct. I got
a thirty one year old almost in there. He's never
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too late. He watched I watched his his you know,
because he was the first to start this drawing thing off.
He was the first one, and I said, look at
what we could do. Just put pencil to paper. I said,
I know, it's bringing back memories. He said, yes, ma'am,
because he was the first. Another shout out American signature.
Here a store walked up. My niece needed a bed.
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The Lord had me to text her last night. I
was like, what's going on? She goes, Oh my god,
this sounds all sounds like we're going to be geting
well for the future. Congratulations, Thank you, thank you. I
got a misty. We need to start to notice who
is good for us and who is getting in our way. Misty,
you took it. I can't. I'm almost speechless. You took
it right out of my mouth. If you don't know,
if you and I don't care how nice they are,
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I don't care. Are they blood related, I don't care.
If they are interfering with you, they're slowing you down,
they're delaying you because you like to share the ideas,
and they're like, oh, why are you doing that. Oh
you always doing something right there? No, you out of
my life. I don't care who you are. Most of
my folks who did that to me as a child,
they're dead, and I still had to forgive them because
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the memories would come back. So I had to take
this thing out of it. I'm not gonna be Can
I add one? Go ahead, Trey, just just to add
to what I think it was.
Speaker 6 (16:17):
Missy was staying moving people out of your way, but
also too, sometimes we stand in our own way. I
just want to add that sometimes we can talk ourselves
into talk ourselves out of things. So and I had
that habit of doing that. So so I'm just mending
that and just throwing it out there.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Awesome. Already we walked in this I walked in the
store Don went with many day. My niece was already there,
and there was some things she just didn't know, because
you know, our kids don't realize how much we really
do for them, so she thought, and and I know
she will. She loved it that I'm using her as
an example that you know, she's like, well, I said,
when you went to look at the beds, I said,
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what did the ship be a chest? That should be
a dresser drawer, probably with a mirror on it. There
should be some end table. She could, well, I ain't
see all that. I said, well, where'd you go again?
I even Babcock used to have it set up like that,
so you don't have to walk around and try to
mix and match stuff or whatever. If you wanted to,
you could, but to give you an idea what your
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living room could look like, give you an idea what
your kitchen neck, your kitchen net could look like, what
your bedroom could look like. So we went in there.
I said, okay, let's do a tutorial. So here comes
the salesperson and he wanted to just get things going.
I said, okay, now you okay, Greg, good guy, great name.
I need you to slow up just a minute. This
is a teaching moment. He said, yes, ma'am. And I said,
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now you see this, that's the end table. See those
they're suggesting that you can get those lamps over there
and then you go. Now, this whole suite is gonna
cost something now if you get it all together. But
you came in here for a bet. Now you see
that the mattress is not on the floor right because
somebody was telling her, oh, you don't need a bed
a box spring, you don't need I said, I don't
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ever want to meet them. I don't let me meet
those people because they're not too sound. Because you got
to have a box spring. You're not gonna put the mattress,
you know. I meant to tell her, we're not in
you know, some of the Asian countries that sleep like that,
we're not doing that. You got to keep a box spring.
And she'sai, Oh my god, auntie, And I said, see,
don't all of this match. He said yeah, oh okay.
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So it was a teaching moment. So anyway, the salesperson
kept saying, God, I like you. I said, yeah, okay,
I'm teaching here along the way because I'm teaching my
thirty one year old. Also because he's got to go
out there one day get his own place, and he's
got to come in here and decide what he really needs.
Long story short, Now, when I walked in the door,
I couldn't help. But notice twenty percent off side couldn't
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help let us out. I said, I got to keep
that in my mind. I wonder if they do an
employee employee discounts here? See, you have not because you
don't ask. So I was already got Okay, at least
I need at least about three discounts in here today.
Didn't know there was still doing the Memorial Day holiday
sale which ended today, which will end tonight. When they close.
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There is a twenty percent, but if you spend over
a certain amount, there's a thirty percent, and then you
get a free pillow. And then I gotta buy one,
get one the mattress because Donald happen to need a mattress.
I wasn't gonna buy it. But guess what we got
it for free. We got a whole mattress, brand new
for free, Buy one, get one. Now did y'all know
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that the mattresses don't come with the box spring and
the headboard Back in my day from Babcock, it did.
I didn't go in there and I say, I just
want a mattress. I went in there to get the
whole bed set, including the headboard. Well, the young man
told me today, he said, no, we don't. He said
in his country, it's it's the whole three piece and
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that's the that's the set, that's the I said, well,
here in the United States, we used to have it
where you go in and you get a bed, a mattress,
and a our spring and the head board. Now, of
course you know, the end tables are separate. All the dressers,
the lamps, the foot thingy foot chest, that's all separate.
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But at least you walked out with three pieces. I said. Now,
I don't know who in their right mind put this
into law to allow these furniture companies to do this.
I said, but that's nothing but pure breed. That's nothing,
because your mattress is going to cost you at least
sixteen hundred dollars. But we walked out with what three
major discounts. And then we got to Miss Fran and
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she was already rolling her eyes. She was already. I said, oh,
I know what I'm dealing with. I said, let me
tell you about friends, y'all. I said it right in
front of her. Let me tell you about friends. Now,
they look mean, my niece was I said, they look mean,
but they're really nice people underneath. But they'll never let
you see it because you keep stepping into their That
lady started laughing. She said, oh my god, she know me.
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I said, so don't mess with Fran now, don't do
that by the time we left it, the manager came
and Frand told me, now you're not gonna be able
to out talk him. I said, Fran, what you say?
She said, no, ma'am m mmm, because every story you're
gonna have, he's gonna have one. I said, oh, well,
let's see. Let's see. So here comes the manager because
they had to go and do some things. And here
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he comes, and I said, let me tell you about
a friend that I used to work with. She was
a secretary. So I told him the story of Fran,
who I thought was pregnant because she walked. She had
the back of a pregnant person, you know, the back,
the back is kind of sunk in, and they walked
real straight and you look, got your little pouch there.
Speaker 5 (21:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:32):
Well, I made the fatal mistake. And I've never done
this again in my life. Even if you were sticking
out and you can wearing maternity clothes, I would never
say it. But I say, you know, Fred was real quiet. Now,
they start off quiet, so miss Fran was laughing. I said,
they start off quiet until she they get they get
a feel of things and feel for you. And I said,
I asked, miss, I said, Frid so when you do.
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She said, Oh, Alicia, you're so funny, I said. She said,
I'm not pregnant. I have adult kids, and I'm like, hmm.
The manager fell out laugh, Fryan fell out laugh, Gray
fell out laugh. My niece was like, oh my god,
and my son was like laughing. I was like, yeah,
I've had some embarrassing moments in my life, but my
gift of humor gets me out every time. It's nothing
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but the grace of God. Frand was just I loved
her the death through the years did she worked with
us and everything else, and she always till she left, LiTi,
you are just the funniest person I know. And I'm like, boy,
what you know, I'm sweating bullets here because I like
to call this lady that she about fifty years old.
She prayed it, she walked like it. I said, now
this friend here, she she gonna look at you and
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she gives you the look. So that's what friends. You
got to look at the look. They need to look
and you don't cross that boundary. So I said, you
got the lady.
Speaker 5 (22:46):
She laughs so much.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
Even the salesperson like, I've never seen her laugh. And
the manager had nothing to say. He said, I'm so
glad you came in here today. That has made my day. Yeah,
that's made my day. He said, thank you so much.
I said, no, thank you. I said, And these two
people great sales, great employees. I want to see them
the next time I come in here. He said, yes, ma'am,
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got free delivery, got all kinds of But it was
a teaching lesson for my niece. It was a teaching lesson.
So let's get to tonight's topic. What are you tired of?
I'm not gonna talk for a minute. I've got my
I got my sixteen minutes of whatever, not fame, But
what are you tired of? What are you tired of
hearing all the time? What is it? And that you
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can share because it's a safe place here. But I'm curious,
what are you so tired of? I am so tired
of and you feel in the blank. I'm gonna mute
myself for a minute.
Speaker 4 (23:41):
I'll let ladies go first. I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm
gonna exercise my suvalry right now.
Speaker 6 (23:49):
Whoo oh my gosh, what I'm trying to think of?
Where to begin with my tiredness? Let's see I am
tired of the ghosting that goes on these days.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
Okay, ghosting?
Speaker 6 (24:03):
And are you talking about people disappearing or not? I
don't know what you can you a a little bit more?
Speaker 4 (24:12):
I would probably say lack of commitments?
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Yeah, okay, in the stage us at it? So crickets?
Do we have crickets? Yeah? Yeah, that's what I was
kind of I didn't have the word for.
Speaker 6 (24:27):
But when I say ghosting, probably you know, no follow up,
no follow through, no responding. But I think i'm I'm
I'm tired of seeing people treat others disrespectfully with no
I won't say in human. Well, some stuff is in humane,
but whatever happened to kindness and manners? And you know,
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and I know everyone is it wasn't always like that,
but it just seems like it's more. Yes, that was
what I meant.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Okay, great, I'm gonna say evil.
Speaker 6 (25:05):
I'm just gonna say evil. Hatred, not listening, not willing
to communicate, and will communicators to these two things, listening
and speaking. It's not always speaking, it's listening, and listening
does not mean hearing. Listening means active listening, like understanding
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and taking time to understand whatever is going on. I
think I'm just tired of what I'm seeing not godly,
you know, ungodly things.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
I'm so tired of not knowing how the truth. Yeah,
and unfortunately, mister, you're gonna have more of that because
this is a sign of the time. There's scriptures that
speak to that that there will be people who are false,
there will be people who will come in my name
and they're not of me. And there's scriptures of mainly
in the New Testament, of that God warns of it
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in an Old Testament as well, but Jesus had talked
about that a lot in the New Testament.
Speaker 6 (26:01):
So okay, okay, God showing little regard, well, you showing
little to no regard to people's feelings, and yeah, yes,
thank you, that's it.
Speaker 4 (26:18):
Well, I asked, we're all in a similar page in
regards to.
Speaker 7 (26:26):
What we're touching on, and and I want to touch
on the comment that was that was said that I'm
tired of people not knowing how.
Speaker 5 (26:36):
To speak the truth.
Speaker 4 (26:39):
That that's been something that truly comes from the pit
of hell. And the way that it all stems is
when everybody wants to preface what they're saying, I'm telling
the truth, and they're prefacing it through their opinions and
not having substance to support what they're saying. People are
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not doing their research, and people are just going by
what someone else says, because that's where many people get misled.
You can have the media. Oh okay, Charles, you know,
Charles want you know. My wife and I had that
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conversation this morning actually of not getting any place no
matter how hard you try to do the right thing.
But the Bible says it very clear that as long
as you continue to do what it's right, your reward
is not going to be here. It's going to be
in heaven. So don't don't pursue worldly ways, pursue heavenly ways.
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Pursue what God has in store for you. Don't put
your real life, don't don't trust in mankind because mankind
is in the mean mentality for me. And that's one
of the things that we try to talk to people
about and letting them know. But here's the other thing.
I'm tired of my kids telling me that I don't
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know what I don't what I'm talking about.
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Now.
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I have been on this planet sixty one years. I
have walked, talked, come close to death, have seen good times,
have seen bad times. And if you're going to tell
me that my information, my guidance is not leading you
in the right direction because you think it's the right
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way after I've experienced it, then you're calling me a liar.
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You know.
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Ms Gray touched on something about Asia and my wife
and I have these deep conversations. Do you know in
Asia people take care of the elderly till they die.
I came across the situation on our way back from
from Spain, and I saw an Asian daughter take care
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of her elderly father from helping him eat, helping him,
making sure that he's not getting food on him, and
guided him every way. That's where respect comes from. And
people discount the advice of those who have walked the mile.
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You know, I can say I'm some I've been very
successful in my business, but nobody really knows what I
went through where I was only making seven hundred dollars
a month and I had bills to pay.
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They'll only do for mine. I keep trying to make
a difference for others, but I don't see much of
a difference. And that's because Charles, nobody I think you
all need. I mean, you all have great hearts. Y'all
have great hearts, and I know you want to give
everybody a benefit of the doubt. But after a while,
there's sometimes there comes a time that you have to
step away from everybody and look at them from afar.
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How have you motivated me? How have you motivated me?
How is your presence? How does your presence make a
difference in my life? Especially when you're dealing with that
what you just talked about, Charles, And also that would
pastor just mentioned, because I know the kids seem to
think they really got it, they figured it out, and
they're in a different wave length your gen z's everything
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was yesterday. No, that was weeks ago. No, that was yesterday.
Their timing, their time management is different. I would never
know how to lead a group of people like that.
I wouldn't because I'm old school and my old school
don't match nothing. It doesn't effect, it can'tnot make a difference.
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They're gonna have to walk through it themselves. And guess
what you'll have in my house? You have to walk
along because I don't have a swinging door, don't You
won't learn that way, won't learn. But Charles, I know
you've got a great heart, and I know already you
want the best for everybody. I guess we need to
keep moving forward and keep going. Yeah, you have to
You've got to break You got to break the chain.
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You got to break loose and realize. And yeah, it's
not about hurting. You're not here to hurt people. Don't work.
The Devil's gonna probably put that in mind. Oh you're
hurting that.
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Look what you're doing.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
Don't go there.
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What do I need?
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I need to separate myself from you because you're not
doing anything for me. And it's not about somebody handing
you things and giving you things and you know, embellishing
you and all that. No, I'm talking about just to
be in your presence, Just to sit in your presence.
I have not seen Treye in person for well over
thirty years. Haven't seen her in person at least for
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over thirty years. But I know when I get her
here to Florida, when I get her here to Orlando,
we're gonna be up and just talking about things all
over again as if they just happened yesterday. She's good people,
She motivates me, and she's still humble. She still looks
out for a lot of folk, but she getting there.
You can still love them, but you love them from
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a distance. So I think, Charles, is time for you
to treat yourself and Anastasia. And I know Mickey, I
know you. You can relate to some of this, but
it's time. It's a matter of seeing what you need
to do and doing it well. But that y'all are
all good. Misty, I love you, We love you, but
you got to separate yourself. And that's the hardest thing
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for somebody who just loves everybody, because you really nobody
could do any wrong, you know, and you don't take
it as wrong. You're like, oh, well, they're just having
a bad day. No, they don't like you. Hang on, Trey,
they don't like you. Now what you're gonna do. You're
gonna make them like you. You're gonna take them to
lunch every day. You're gonna ask them, Hey, I can
help you. If you need help, call me. Watch that
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personality of yours. Sometimes you got to go to a
quiet place and really judge yourself. And I would think,
and I'm let Tray say, you know, continue here. I'm
almost positive if I could get y'all down here to Orlando.
If I can have all the all the audience come
to Orlando for a retreat, you you'll leave differently because
you got I think you gotta be in front of us.
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Pastor come on over. He'll stay the weekend.
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You know.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
The pastor Jeter will also And let's get y'all in
the room, and and and if we just call out
as as you see. You know this This is like
I did is friend today and she's like, I don't
know how you know, but you all got to take
this leap of faith because God is the oly way
He got you. He will catch you. You will not
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even see the ground. You won't hit the ground. Just
like a mother eagle and a father eagle, they push
those chicks out eventually, they push the eaglits out eventually
because they start putting stuff in the in the net,
in the nest. So it's getting uneasy. Now we can't
move what we're supposed to do, and all you the
only choice you've got. You got to try to fly.
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And I know the this is hard for most of
you who are on here right now with us, but
you gotta fly. Even God says Jesus even says, you
got to leave them and come follow me. You gotta
let them go and come follow me, and you've got
to break the curses that are over your life. That'll
be another show who was betrayed? You're gonna say something,
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or a pastor, well pastor, okay, who could fly? Anastasia?
You got to fly? You got to try it. And
if they fly, what do the eaglists do? I'm not
seeing them a documentary where they turn around and come back.
These are the babies. They're like, ooh, I can fly.
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This is what this is all about. Oh wow, And
I think they forget sometime the birds can't fly. No, no,
they can fly, some of them do. But my point
of bringing that up was, I've seen it where the baby,
the little eaglist, he's trying to fly, or she's trying
to fly. It's trying to fly, and the mother's watching.
I think the f up in the higher branch and
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he's watching and to see how low it gets to
the ground, because when it does, if it getn't do it,
and it looked like the baby's just not getting it.
They can right up under it, sweeping move. That's what
I've seen in documentary. But go ahead, go ahead, guys,
I'm gonna be quiet. Let me mute myself because you
know me, let me say this real quick.
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The birds see, we're putting human analogy in the birds.
But the birds have the instincts to fly because it's
already been programmed into their head, and and they've got
major feathers that will help them fly.
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So they're going to fly.
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It's just a matter of them understanding. And there was
one There's something that my wife says all the time,
and it's right on point, and she says.
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Love me for what I do, not what I can
give you.
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This is the problem with this with the world today.
It's a matter of oh, he's giving me this, I'm
gonna hang around. But when that person stops, then all
of a sudden, they start ghosting you. Jesus said, Jesus
the world ways, making the world ways is training people
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how to put dependence on them and not on God.
The world is telling you you can do it, but
that's wrong. God does it for you. And then the
last thing I was going to say is Jesus said,
leave your family and follow me, And everybody came up
with excuses. Well, I've got to bury my parents. And
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what did Jesus say right after that? Let the dead
bury the dead? Because Jesus said it. The world is
going to hate you because they hated me first. That's
what the Bible says. And Jesus also said, it's not
going to be easy. You're going to face trials and tribulations.
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So who are you going to be looking at. Are
you going to be looking for your friends who are inconsistent?
Are you going to be looking for family who who
will judge.
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You and say that you you're, you're, you're, you're, you're
doing something wrong, you're the wrong person. Are you going
to go to these self help books that are man
telling you what man is going to do? Why don't
you talk to the maker who knows you, who has
every hair on your head counted, He knows how.
Speaker 5 (37:25):
Many hairs you have in your head.
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He is the one who built you, who is the
only one who can get you out of it?
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So much hate and hurt, it's just a sign of
the times, misty. Since the Old Testament, since the beginning
of mankind, ad Uh you know, the killing him, you know,
between Able and Able and Caine. It started in the beginning.
It's always been that way. The jealousy, the gossip, the
class system, all of this, this is nothing new. It's
just hitting you a different way. And I want to
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go back to what Pastor Miguel said, because I looked
at the version of the Bible, was just studying that
over the weekend. Jesus, the version I was looking at
said let the dead bury they're dead. I just sat
there like, because I've always heard it, let the dead
beary to dead. But when I saw this particular, let
the burry they're dead, I was like, Okay, stick a
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fork of me. I'm done. I'm so glad I'm reviewing
the scriptures the way I'm doing it. We need you
all to trust God, just like you trust and hope
that we will come on this show. We need you
to double that in the in the arena, in the area,
in the atmosphere of God. That's all I'm asking trying.
We've already He's already proven himself since you all been
watching the show, Since y'all been watching and listening and
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doing the homework, doing the events, the assignments, reaching the people,
reaching out, doing you will never step to somebody. Some
of you, you gotta try him. Guys, you gotta try him.
Speaker 4 (38:47):
I just got to give this demonstration.
Speaker 5 (38:50):
This is not my Bible.
Speaker 4 (38:51):
Okay, this is not my Bible. This is the manual
for my car. Oh so, if anybody, if there's something
wrong with my car, who would know better than the manual?
If there's something if there's a piece of equipment that
I don't know how to work, I go to the
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manual and it will tell me what I need to do.
Let me ask a question.
Speaker 5 (39:18):
This is my Bible.
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I believe it contains the word of God. I am
what it says I am. I have what it says
I have, and I will do what it says I
will do. This is this is this is his story.
Speaker 4 (39:34):
This is his story, not ours. This story is written
about Jesus. Everybody in here are just characters of his story,
and they make the mistakes.
Speaker 5 (39:49):
This gives us an opportunity to say, ah, dya even
did that? Let me not do that.
Speaker 4 (39:54):
Oh wait a minute, Baloman did that.
Speaker 5 (39:57):
I don't want to do that.
Speaker 4 (39:58):
Peter put his put in his mouth.
Speaker 2 (40:01):
Let me not do that.
Speaker 4 (40:02):
This is going to give you the guidance to live
a righteous life. It doesn't matter what other people think
about you. It doesn't matter. The only one that matters.
Speaker 5 (40:14):
And here's the.
Speaker 4 (40:14):
Saying that's all over Facebook. I rather stand by God
and let the world judge me instead of me being
in the world and let and God judging me. That's powerful.
That's powerful. And you were put on this earth to
fulfill his story. I'm sorry.
Speaker 5 (40:35):
I didn't mean to get on my my my pulpit range,
but it's it's we.
Speaker 4 (40:46):
We gotta stop making excuses when the answers are there.
We don't need to figure it out. It's already been done.
The work has been completed on the ross. If God
has changed your life, that's your testimony. Nobody can take
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it away from you. That's the one you stick with.
You don't need to know all of the verses. Just
know a couple like Miss Gray has been teaching us,
learn a couple, and then you support what you've experienced
that God has fulfilled his promise. As of right now,
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God has not broken one promise.
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And you know what, he ain't gonna break a promise.
We'll break him. He'll keep them.
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And amen. And another little thing, just just a little caveat.
As the salesperson was calling out, I said, what's what's
what's the damage, And he's calling out the numbers, the
final number, the balance and stuff. I said, ooh, three
new beginnings, Oh great, five, grace, mercy, peace, blood, favor,
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and my name. I said, those those the numbers. God
deals with numbers. So all the numbers were all blessings.
The whole balance, the whole final total, threes, fives, seven, six,
is all God's numbers. So I'm sitting there and Greg's
like and he's like, I like you. I said, well,
thank you, But this is all training. This is yes,
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she needs a bad but this is all training, and
this is where you want to get to. But this
is for me now. Pastors teaching style, pastoring pastoring style
is different from mine, may be different. I don't know.
Mine is different. Trade's going to be different, trades, social work,
case management skills are different from mine. Mine is different
from hers. But we have a lot of similarity. So
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we can flow, all three of us, like you see
us tonight. We can flow. But we made that sacrifice.
I know we got one more minute, just as we
get the going, Lord Jesus. But it's all good. We
don't have any holidays coming up anytime. Well, fourth of July.
That's in July. So y'all stick with us, do the work,
Just do the work, and just idle down. Who is
it that? What part of your personality you don't need anymore?
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That's the next homework. What part of your personality do
you no longer need at your age, right now, where
you are, with a job, where you are, with family,
where you are in the season. What part of your
personality you don't need right now? And we're gonna do that,
even though it's Father's Day next week, we're gonna we're
gonna come back to that. I want everybody to do
their homework. What part of your personality do you no
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longer need in this season? We love you. Stay safe, Charles,
get out of your head. I see you. Get out
of your head because I need to see you. We
need to see you next week. Okay, don't let everybody
hears voices. The difference between us and a client is
we know how to stop the voices, but everybody hears voices.
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Gonna talk about that a little bit more. I need
to see all of y'all front and center. Next week.
We'll be back, same time, same station, Night night. Take
care all right? Right,